A Celebration of Life 10th Year Anniversary
Dr. Ejiro Michael
DIEJOMAOH december 22, 1970 - december 23, 2009
WE CELEBRATE THE LIFE, SPIRIT, FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE OF OUR DEARLY DEPARTED, DR. EJIRO MICHAEL DIEJOMAOH Dr. Diejomaoh went to be with the Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Wednesday, December 23, 2009 in Corpus Christi, Texas. Dr. Diejomaoh was born in Nigeria and a resident of Corpus Christi for 2 years. He was a Neonatologist with Neonatology Consultants of Corpus Christi. He is survived by his beloved wife, Kitay Diejomaoh; his sons, Michael and Daniel Diejomaoh; his parents, Professor and Mrs. Diejomaoh; siblings, Dr. Vwede Adeyemo, Ena Diejomaoh, Ochuko Diejomaoh; and his beloved in-laws. “A Husband Loved, A Father Dear, A Son Treasured, A Brother Cherished, Our Faithful Friend Ejiro, Is Gone From Our Home, But Not From Our Hearts.”
TRIBUTE BY: Dr. Michael F. E. Diejomaoh and Mrs. Lizzy H. O. Diejomaoh Two months after the marriage ceremony between Dr. Michael F. E. Diejomaoh and Mrs. Lizzy H. O. Diejomaoh there was still no pregnancy. Lizzy was becoming anxious and a bit unhappy and withdrawn. Soon after, in March 1970, Lizzy missed her period and Mike and Lizzy were very happy and grateful to God. That pregnancy resulted in the delivery of a bouncing baby boy on December 22nd, 1970 at UCH, IBADAN, NIGERIA. The obstetrician was Prof. Paul Hendrickse, Professor and Head of Department of the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology where Mike worked as a young resident. That baby boy was named EJIROGHENE [EJIRO for short] and he was destined to bring so much joy to Mike and Lizzy. Ejiro was to have other names later: MICHAEL THE SECOND, EUGENE and CHRISTOPHER.
Mike and Lizzy travelled to London about one year after, November 1971, with our son, Ejiro, to enable Mike to complete his residency and Lizzy to complete her studies. Ejiro was a handsome, lovable, friendly, quiet and charming son who welcomed aunties, uncles and friends very easily and he could be left for others to look after while Mike and Lizzy were busy. Six months after, Mike and Lizzy moved with Ejiro to the USA [New York City]. Ejiro was easily the centre of attraction with his charming smiles and welcoming behaviour in the playground with other children and parents, our neighbours, in the Forest Hills neighbourhood off Queens Boulevard. Mike and Lizzy were blessed with another baby, a lovely charming daughter, Oghenevwede, a New Yorker, in February 1973. On return to London and later, Benin City, Nigeria, Mike and Lizzy were blessed with two other lovely children, both boys, Enaefeme and Ogheneochuko, both delivered at UBTH, Benin City, Nigeria, in February 1975 and May 1977, respectively. Ejiro was GOD’s gift to Mike and Lizzy. He was always a source of wise counsel to the entire family. He had intervened in issues to resolve problems within the family and even outside the family. He was always extremely generous to both family and friends. Discuss any problem with Ejiro and he will provide a solution that will make that individual satisfied. Ejiro resolved a religious problem between Mike and Lizzy, and we both accepted the wise counsel of our primary school son, Ejiro. All through his primary, secondary [HIGH SCHOOL], University [COLLEGE] days, Ejiro acted as
intermediary between his friends and when he asked daddy [MIKE] for any favours for himself, his siblings and friends, such favours were always granted because they were fair and just requests. Ejiro will now take it upon himself to express deep and sincere gratitude to daddy and mummy on behalf of his friends and siblings. THIS WAS WHEN THE FAVOUR WAS NOT BESTOWED ON HIM DIRECTLY. That was the real gift to us of a wonderful son from God. Ejiro was always helpful person who was so generous and ever ready to help anyone who needed his assistance. He was always humble, loving, careful, caring and he had deep faith in God in every aspect of his life. He planned most decisions about his life after discussions and we always supported his decisions. His decision to study Medicine was made by him after due consultation with mummy and daddy, and we supported his decision. He travelled to the UK to commence his postgraduate training and we supported him. EJIRO CLEARED HIS PLAB AND USMLE EXAMS, qualifying exams for post graduate studies in the UK and USA. He travelled to the USA [ New York] and after making contact with Prof. Jackson Omene, a close family friend and colleague, a renowned Professor of Neonatology, who guided him through a tough USA postgraduate matching programme, he decided to move to the USA to commence Pediatric Residency programme, we also supported his decision. HE REMAINED IN THE USA, CLEARED HIS PEDIARTIC BOARDS AND FELLOWSHIP IN NEONATOLOGYAND STAYED IN THE USA IN PRACTICE UNTIL HIS LAST BREATH. Ejiro was married to the love of his life, Kitay, and they were both deeply in love, two inseparable persons. They were blessed with two lovely sons, RIOKE MICHAEL THE THIRD DIEJOMAOH and TEGA DANIEL DIEJOMAOH, both college students at Notre Dame College, South Bend. Ejiro was a son that always talked with us his parents and who always sought their advice and wise counsel, and that communication was very mutually beneficial. He was like a twin brother to daddy: I, Mike talked with Ejiro, very frequently every week and when he travelled or daddy traveled, there was always a phone chat at the end of the trip. All trips were mutually discussed and cancelled if there was acceptable disapproval on either side. Ejiro, as our most senior son, filled multiple shoes on behalf of the entire family. HE STOOD AS THE SENIOR BROTHER FOR HIS SISTER, VWEDE AND HIS BROTHERS, ENA AND OCHUKO, AND HE ALWAYS REPRESENTED THEM WELL AND FOUGHT FOR ALL THEIR RIGHTS. He was most loved and treasured by the entire DIEJOMAOH FAMILY. There was no birthday, no anniversary, no special occasion that was celebrated that did not attract the attention of Ejiro. He always sent such beautiful, lovely, befitting cards with special messages that matched the occasion and were thought appropriate and adequate for HIS PARENTS. Such cards are still in safe keeping with daddy as EVERLASTING MEMORIES. Ejiro, you celebrated your birthday on December 22nd, 2009 and you sent presents to mummy and some friends and family. In a chat with mummy on that day, you told her that‚ IF GOD GIVES YOU TIME -- as if you knew from GOD THAT YOUR TIME WAS UP!!!!! WHAT A MESSAGE SON!!!!! You were just 39 years old. Mummy was devastated and I called you and you smiled and joked about the message which you explained to me. You attended a MOVIE that night, a peculiar and special movie, and on the evening of December 23, 2009, you had slipped away quietly, you were gone for good and LEFT US WITHOUT A GOODBYE!!!!!! We were overwhelmed with grief. On the next day, a lot of peculiar events occurred, and I kept getting peculiar messages from my brother, Gabriel, which I could not decipher!! He was on his way from Lagos to Benin to break the news to me; he had received the news earlier and he did not know how to inform me because HE KNEW THAT EJIRO WAS EQUAL TO LIFE FOR ME. SO MANY FRIENDS called and were all devastated and shocked beyond words. WHY US? WHY HAVE YOU GONE EJIRO SO SUDDENLY????"
I still wake up hoping it didn't happen. I reach across the bed and sigh. I guess it did happen. What do l say to my broken heart? Get up face the day. Let the whispers of love see you through.
I still wake up thinking you are on call and will come home soon. I listen for the garage door to open and sigh. What do l say to my broken heart? Beat again. Let the whispers of love heal you.
I still wake up each morning with tears in my eyes. I reach to my face and sigh. If only tears could bring you back. What do l say to my broken heart? These tears will water your soul with peace. Let the whispers of love cleanse you
I still wake up wishing we had one more day together. I realize we are not guaranteed today and sigh. What do l say to my broken heart? Maybe we will get to spend eternity together in heaven. Let the whispers of love give you hope
KITAY DIEJOMAOH
TRIBUTE BY: Michael Rioke Diejomaoh (Son) "It has been 10 years now and I miss you every day. I still remember how you would take us to McDonalds and get us burgers and nuggets, or when you would watch Daniel and I play video games. I miss the times when I could sit in the study room while you would read your books or when I could go run errands with you. Thank you for always showing me how to treat others and how to be a man. I saw the positive impact that you had on others through your work and that is a major driving force behind my passion to become a doctor. I want to be just like you and make a difference in the community. Whenever things get hard I know I can always look at your photo in my wallet to give me strength." I love you, Michael Rioke Diejomaoh (Son)"
TRIBUTE FROM: Daniel Tega Diejomaoh (Son) I still remember the day vividly. Having just celebrated his birthday the day prior, Michael and I were playing FIFA soccer video game while my dad went out on a run. He said he’d be back soon, so my cousin, Michael and I were just relaxing and having fun till we could all spend time together later that evening. After a knock on our front door, however, everything changed. I walked outside to see my father completely unresponsive with the neighbors trying to revive him. For some reason, at that exact moment where an 8 year old should feel every emotion imaginable, I felt nothing. The word numb does not describe how empty I felt. I talked to many people that night, but there was not a single conversation in which I was present. The suddenness of it made it seem unreal, and I didn’t cry for days because I just couldn’t feel anything. To this day I still wonder how and why it happened that way, and wish I could’ve gotten to say something or be prepared in some way to thank him for all he did for me. As I go through life, I always strive to be the man my father was. Everyone told me that he would light up a room while making every last person feel loved and important. The life he lived is something I aspire for everyday, and as I become a man and shape my own life, I hope to make a mark comparable to his and be a positive figure as he was and is to all the people he touched in his life.
TRIBUTE BY: Vwede Vivian Adeyemo, M.D. Ejiro, it seemed like yesterday you were picking me up from the airport and welcoming me to America. From then onwards you supported me till I could stand on my feet and you remained as a rock by the side for me. I never took my children to the pediatrician unless for routine matters because you took care of them for me. You also were a model husband, father, son and physician who believed in God and I always wondered how you accomplished this. You also had a gift of keeping in touch with all your friends as numerous as they were. I could go on and on. God sees our past, present and future and knows it all and I continue to trust in him because I do not have any answers only questions. I know you are resting in the bosom of the Lord, but we all wished that you were here to see how Rioke and Tega have grown into responsible men. Words fail me my brother, we miss you and Love you but rest assured that God is always in control
TRIBUTE BY: Ishola Adeyemo, M.D. I first met Ejiro shortly before I got married to his sister, my wife. We immediately hit a chemistry. I could never have asked for a better brother-in law. Unlike most brother-in laws that treat their prospective in-laws with suspicion and hostility, Ejiro welcomed me as if we had known each other for a long time. He treated me like a brother. That was a very important positive foundation for me, and that singular attitude gave me so much peace and reassurance that I was going into a great family. When I eventually came to the country to join my wife, Ejiro took time off his very busy clinical duties to pick me up from the airport. I can’t tell you how good and comforting that felt to be welcomed into a strange country by a loving face. Before then, he helped Vivian to move into a new apartment and made sure everything was ready in the apartment. In short, he made my transition to America very smooth and comfortable and I will forever be grateful for that. When I was trying to get into the American medical system, Ejiro spend multiple times encouraging me, advising me on what to do. Many times, when I was down and discouraged, he would encourage me and reassure me I was going to make it. When I finished my residency and started working as an attending, Ejiro was the first person to advise me on retirement contributions, the need to max my contributions. He was also the first person to tell me the importance of getting life insurance and disability insurance. Any important information, be it financial, medical or personal, Ejiro would share it with me freely. He was so unselfish! As a pediatrician/neonatologist, Ejiro was the first person we would call for advice concerning our little infant and growing children. I never saw or heard him complain or grumble-not once! I was one of the few people after his wife that he would share his personal dreams, aspirations and thoughts with. He indeed personified Proverbs 18:24b “But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother”. Ejiro was closer than a brother. Ejiro was a very Godly and spiritual man. His strong belief guided him as father, husband and physician. I remember one of my last conversations with him while I was attending a Men’s fellowship conference. He made me promise to register him for the next conference. Ejiro’s qualities, too numerous to mention can be clearly seen in the lives of his two wonderful sons, who are continuing his legacy. Time and space will not permit me to write more but suffice it to say am honored and privileged to have known Ejiro. I miss him dearly, but I am comforted by this fact. We shall meet on the last day with our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ (I Thessalonians 4:17-18)
TRIBUTE BY: Enaefeme Diejomaoh My Dear Brother, Ejiro You always Guided the Family with your Wealth of Experience through Your Keen Advice...So Much so that You always emphasized the Need to be Close to God and remain Steadfast in Prayer...You were so Prayerful. You were an organiser...You always reached Out to everyone in Love and Peace...You were an Angel in the Family...We are privileged to have known and been with You during your Short life on Earth...I know You are looking down on Us and Praying for Us all the Time...We Love You... As Cool and Gentle as the Breeze you were ,As Bright as the Sun You were, Quiet but Thoughtful, Caring and Inspiring, A Wonderful Brother You were, A Pillar of strength to the Family you were, A supportive Brother U were…You gave me My First Driving Lessons…As You would always Call Me...Efemena...You are not here to Call Me anymore...I Still Hear your Voice in My Sleep...Rest On Brother...Till we meet to Part no More... As I Gaze into the Skies I see Bright Lights and Stars...These help to light up our Paths and Ways...preventing us from stumbling and falling...Just as these Stars are so You were in the Lives of all of Us My Dear Brother, Father, Uncle and Mentor...You helped us all so much in our Lives especially Mine...If I needed to take a Decision You were there Ejiro. If I took a Wrong turn You were there to say no that is the right path...if I Offended someone You would always say how would you feel if that was done to You…You weren't Perfect but You had a Pure Soul…A Soul of Love,..Peace and Smile...You are Greatly Missed and always thought of...I Love You My Brother, Friend and Mentor...Dr Ejiro Michael Diejomaoh... till we meet to Part no more...
TRIBUTE BY: Mrs Erhire Diejomaoh (Sister in law) "Ejiro, today marks the 10th year anniversary of the day we lost you. The day I lost a wonderful brother in law, friend and confidant. Even though the time knowing you was short, those memories of the first day we met, phone calls and gisting time would forever remain in my heart. For even death cannot steal those wonderful memories. Those we love don't leave our hearts, you are always with us. Always Loved..... Always Missed..... Always Remembered. Till we meet again, Continue to Rest in Peace, my Dearest brother in law." "Ejiro,10 Years ago we lost you. 10 Years ago our lives changed forever, but in all things we stay thankful to God who sees all things and knows all things. 10 Years ago our hearts broke into a million pieces, but yet in all things, we remain thankful to God, The author and finisher of our fate.. You were a true brother, confidant and Friend, always ready with a smile and Gracious with your words and actions... I am forever thankful for the life you lived, the chance to know you and for the great Legacy you left behind .. Continue to Rest in Peace my Dearest brother in law."
TRIBUTE BY: Enaefeme Diejomaoh
Fond Memories...Family at Mummy's 60th Birthday Celebration in Benin...Aug 2006
Fond Memories...at Ena's Wedding in Warri...Aug 2007
TRIBUTE BY: Mr. Oghene-Ochuko Daniel Diejomaoh (Brother) I guess one of the best memories that I still have of my dear senior brother is the one that I came to the US in 2006 to see him at Delaware. I visited US for Christmas and new year, that time and I just finished my BSc Computing at University of Portsmouth and my MSc in E-Commerce at Westminster, London. The other favourite memory that I have was when you all came visiting in the UK and you came to see me at Wolverhampton in 2007/2008 and Obus was born then in July 2007. Finally, the last memory that I have of him is when I called him on his birthday on the 22nd of December in 2009.
TRIBUTE BY: Mrs. Florence Itobore (Mother In Law) “10 years in mind” Just like yesterday, it is 10 years already. It is known that the passing of loved ones leaves hard to fill vacuum in the hearts of family and friends, but when one of the best of men “Ejiro” departed, the vacuum was irreparable. Getting on from day to day has been by the grace of God as each day is dotted with thoughts of Ejiro and his gentle disposition in all things. His time with us though short was filled with priceless gentle love and care for all he came across. He was a very peaceful man who felt no animosity towards anyone. He was an expert in talking one out of difficult and frustrating situations and a very good communicator who reached out to family and friends regularly. Ejiro’s firm believe in Christ Jesus and practice of the catholic faith reassures all that he is in a better place. Our joy is that the family is doing well with the help of God and love of family and friends. Life goes on with unending loving memory of Ejiro. May his soul continue to rest in peace while we hope that we will all spend eternity together in God’s kingdom. Amen
TRIBUTE BY: Odemudiare Paul Itobore Ten years on... Rare jewels are priceless. Ejiro was one in a billion. Like a comet, he came, made a huge impact and left. In such a short time, so many lives were touched positively. Ejiros' memory is indelible. Missed more today than ever, because today's world needs more kind-hearted people like him.
TRIBUTE BY: Itobore Emokiniovo Onoriode Dr. Ejiro Michael Diejomaoh, A Worthy brother-in-law Ejiros's choice for Kitay was divine. I liked Ejiro from day one when I first met him. The usual protection for a sister going into a relationship wasn't there with Ejiro because it was obvious that my only sister was in safe hands. I admired the love Ejiro had for and showed my sister. I actually copied some of his tactics of extraordinary care for laws and relations, but he left rather too soon for me to compare notes to see how I was doing. Ejiro, as typical of the Diejomaohs, was good at following up on issues of concern to everyone.... To me, he was more of a brother than a brother in law. Whenever I remember him, the lines of the Poet - H. W. Longfellow, comes to mind: Lives of great men are like beacon lights. They guide us and inspire us. Many people who had lost all hope and courage have been uplifted by some incidents from the lives of great men. Hence, it is very useful to read biographies and autobiographies of great persons. Lives of great men all remind us We can make our lives sublime. And, departing, leave behind us Footsteps on the sands of time. Footsteps, that, perhaps another, sailing over life’s solemn main, A forlorn and ship-wrecked brother, Seeing, shall take heart again. Definitely, Ejiro was a great man... A worthy husband, loving father and an ideal brother who's love for family was rare. Your loving thoughts will forever be in our hearts... Continue with the Saints triumphant until we meet to part no more.
TRIBUTE BY: Chavbuko itobore "I still remember the dizziness I felt on hearing about the passing of my beloved brother in-law and although words are not enough to fully express myself, I have hung on to the beautiful moments we shared as a family. I remember fondly the wonderful advices, love, care and banter we had about lots of topics including football (telling me about Brazil). A particular incident always makes me smile and that was when Ejiro discovered that I prepared the 'banga' soup that we were eating. The amazement and praise I got for a job well done and the 500naira that accompanied it made me very happy. What about our discussion about tradition and my forfeitment of the customary in-law greeting that I was entitled to being the brother of his lovely wife. I said I wanted to continue greeting him as an elder one to me out of the respect and love I had for him.
Ejiro taught me a lot. I said to him that he asks a lot of questions. He smiled and went on to explain to me the importance of questions and the fact that dealing with children requires a lot of questions to be able to get to the bottom of the problem. I still cherish the jacket he left behind and said I could have the last time he visited. Ejiro, continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord until we meet to part no more. These few words are dedicated to the memory of Ejiro A SMILE that radiates love and lifts the room A GENTLENESS that is admired from every corner A PROFESSIONALISM that those in the wards could attest to A KINDNESS that cannot be fully described A BLESSING to those that got the privileged to know you."
TRIBUTE BY: Mr Ejiro Itobore "Ten years may have gone by but the memories of Ejiro will never be forgotten. I could not have asked for a better human being for a brother in-law. He was a great man in every sense of the word. He found time for everyone despite his profoundly busy schedule. He always found time to call and discuss life's issues with me, and with so many others. I wondered how he found time being a married doctor with two kids, and now that I am ten years older with a wife and two kids, I find it even more astonishing and remarkable. Ejiro was always available to help. He took on everyone's problems as though they were his. He personally took on the task of furthering my status and career by investigating school institutions and courses that would yield the biggest benefits. I will never forget how he helped with my college application financially, as well as personally submitting the forms at the visa office. Forever empathetic and optimistic, nothing can compensate for his absence, but God knows best. He is forever missed and loved."
TRIBUTE BY: Eseroghene Adegor "I remember you Ejiro, with such fond memories! You were such a great cousin: warm and caring, with a wonderful sense of humour. Never, never a dull moment with you. Thank you favourite coz (as we fondly called ourselves) Ah Ejiro.....death, where is your sting? Where is your victory? No, you lost!! Ejiro transited, and the family gained another angel in Heaven. Sleep on favourite coz. You ran a good race. You took a bow too soon but then, God calls the finest when he pleases. You are FOREVER IN MY HEART."
TRIBUTE BY: Rev. Fr. Peter Akpoghiran Dr. Ejiro was kind, prayerful, and humble person. He also took good care of his family. His death came as a shock to all of us. May he rest in peace. Amen.
TRIBUTE BY: Jude Aririguzo MD
In memory of my friend Ejiro, who was a smart, unassuming, kind and gentle to family, friends and those he encountered daily. He loved his family and had great dreams for his sons. His legacy will continue. I treasure our friendship and he is dearly missed. May his soul continue to Rest In Peace.
TRIBUTE BY: Enaefeme Diejomaoh
....My Dear Brother Ejiro, always cared for His Family...any opportunity that came along he always showed it...He never stopped encouraging us his Brothers (Enaefeme and Ochuko) to be Prayerful...We Miss Him so Dearly...We love You....
Fond Memories...Family at the Baptism of His Niece,Nike Adeyemo in Benin...Aug 2006
TRIBUTE BY: Dr Rukevwe Ugwumba DR EJIROGHENE MICHAEL DIEJOMAOH (1970 – 2009) Sometimes, the distance between what we think and what we want to say is unbridgeable. And no matter how much we arrange and re-arrange the words they can never convey how we really feel inside. Each person present today knows how affected they have been by Ejiro - both in life and in death. Those impressions are too minute and delicate to be substantiated in language. But with your patience, I shall try to capture some of ways Ejiroghene Michael Diejomaoh affected me in life…in death! It is fair to say that Ejiro whom I met in FGCW in 1981 where he was actually my junior in class by a year had an early life that was very fruitful. As a first child.. a first son, he knew he was born to lead and he always comported himself with such graces befitting of any young prince being groomed to be a king one day! That day was cut short on December 23, 2009! Those who went to school at FGCW knew how special and privileged we were from our nurturing from home to the nurturing at school, where on your initiation night you will be inducted to drop all sheepish and uncultured behaviour, after which you would entertain the audience satisfactorily or you would tank quinine!!!.. a most bitter concoction the ingredients and formula still kept secret till date! We all muddled along nicely in school and we had a most memorable experience there in Warri in the 1980's Fast forward to University of Benin..and I would begin to know Ejiro more intimately as a result of his father here present, Prof FME Diejomaoh who would be our dean of medicine at that time in 1986. My late father Chief A.O. Akpedeye would personally hand me over to his care. And I would go to their house on many occasions and be warmly cared for by Aunty Mrs Diejomaoh..be it the good food or the prayers to guide me. It was obvious to everyone that Ejiro who had an uncanny resemblance to his father was very much loved and adored by his parents and that same love was expressed by Ejiro... to everyone..to me!! How Ejiro would make me feel on top of this world every time he spoke to me! He would hail and hail and hail me..can’t remember wanting ever to end the conversations as I would be floating ..my head in the sky as he would usher me more encomiums!! Unfortunately, through no fault of his own, in fact after taking great care of his physique and doing all we prescribe for our patients.. Ejiro left us suddenly to be with The Lord..and left all of us in shock..especially his young beautiful wife Kitay and 2 amazing sons to raise in his absence! What a colossal loss!! How do we comprehend this insanity of a situation where would we start?? I remember just coming from a vacation in Orlando on the 23rd of December 2009 with my husband and 3 kids when my phone rang... and I was confused ..still confused..who will hail me like Ejiro..he called me the QUEEN..Margaret Thatcher..He told me I could do anything.. be anything..and that he admired me so much...nobody hail me pass Ejiro and I believed him..that time no video or Whatsapp internet calls..Na calling card..yet when we called each other we would speak for hours at a time...about anything..our love of good food.. our aspirations..and he will say Ruky Ruky..you get plenty money Sha..I say where è Dey??? He say abeg nor swarve us..see your swag..when I grow up make me be like you ooo..will be one of the last conversations I had with Ejiro..he always praised..always saw the best in people.. ..and today I say how I wish I am more like you Ejiro..make my life more about others as you did..you loved completely without any doubt of conviction..what a good good man you were..totally 100% loyal.. I can only imagine how Kitay feels about you..if I could feel the way you made me feel..every single day.. and you were a faithful husband an incredible loving son... a devoted father..an awesome brother and a most worthy friend!! I remember landing in Houston confused and saw Aunty...Mrs. Diejomaoh at the airport ...and we hugged and cried... she was in a wheel chair... she said Ejiro said I must have my joint replacement so I can dance well on his 40th birthday... so what was the point if he would leave me... truly heartbroken we are... I said, “Mummy…maybe that’s why he insisted you did it
then..as you may not have had the courage to go ahead in his absence for such a big operation..and truly God Who loves him the most needed him hence” ..and the way we don plan Ejiro 40th party ehn..can you imagine how our class that has been celebrating 50's since these last 2 years. Ejiro would have set the trend a long decade ago... Struggling to make sense doesn’t come close to describing our new circumstances with Ejiro gone... yet, here we are today...10 years after the fact... and we have much to be thankful for. Just look at us!! Kitay continues to glow..continues Ejiro's work..she continues her education graduating soon..is it our sons??..Ejiro you would be so proud of Kitay and your boys!! Papa and mama are here and well too as your siblings are..all of us are here and well...some of your classmates have left us…most recently David Nwabunor this year 2019…who used to hail me like you but not you...go call me RUKYDEYE...shouting...and I will feel so cool... Incredibly on my way back to Toronto via London...still in shock at the news of David whom had not been buried...whom I was just with a week prior in SOUTH Africa. I met uncle Prof FME Diejomaoh...he had 'mistakenly' sat on my seat on flight from Abuja to London...and I knew it was no mistake.. you sent him...you were sending me a message to comfort me…because I was heartbroken again and Prof. Daddy made me well that day, counselled me...and I knew you had seen David..a kindhearted man like you...David left behind a wife and brand new son...know you are both laughing together in heaven now…and I thank God for having the privilege of knowing you..remember you?? How can I ever forget you... Ejiro was happiest whenever he was surrounded by his family...his friends and know certainly he is in heaven happy and smiling down on us... Looking back at old photographs It is our family that defines us and the values which Ejiro fought so hard for - values that were instilled in him... are not lost today. Thank you Kitay and all who support..For that we are truly thankful. Ejiro my beloved brother rest on... in perefct peace amen. Yes you have finished your race here on earth but are still working with us from heaven... we here..we will continue ours until we meet again to part no more. Amen!"
TRIBUTE BY: Professor Ambrose O. Isah TRIBUTE TO EJIRO MICHAEL DIEJOMAOH 22nd December 1970 - December 23rd, 2009 EJIRO! EJIRO! EJIRO! Ten years have gone by since you took a glorious exit from our planet earth into the open arms of our LORD GOD ALMIGHTY after a sojourn of just thirty-nine years. We were all shocked by the suddenness of this most unexpected event. The news was difficult to announce and deafening when announced. Yet it was true. GOD’S time and calendar is definitely not in tandem with Man’s. It seems like yesterday, but a 10-year volume of water has flown under that bridge. A vacuum has been created which cannot be filled. Ejiro we miss you. It is said that those whom GOD love most die young. Rather we would have wished you lived longer to attain the glorious heights and realize the potentials we saw in you. I see the picture of you in the 1980s at 500 Level Theatre attending mass on a Sunday with daddy and mummy playing around and looking forward to a great future. I see you as the schoolboy, the university medical school undergraduate and then the Doctor of your dreams. It all went so fast! The humility you exuded despite your parentage was exemplary. I see that characteristic near constant charming disarming smile. There was a hue of shyness beneath which lied a rock of confidence. You attracted friends from all spectra of life and was always welcomed in their circles. Now and then you confided in me with a discourse that reinforced determination and optimism. BUT WHY? Can we question GOD who giveth and taketh at HIS own time and choosing? We are consoled by the believe that like Elijah the Prophet you have flown in the divine chariot into
your eternal home and now rests in the bosom of the LORD GOD ALMIGHTY. HE will continue in HIS mercy to grant the entire family: Dad, Mum, Kitay, and children and indeed all siblings and friends the fortitude to bear the loss. The legacy you have left in the children will blossom and the memories remain indelible as a great husband and father to your loving wife and children. Adieu? No not yet! Good night may be my dear one - brother, friend, clinician until we see mane on the resurrection morning. May your soul rest in perfect peace IN JESUS NAME. AMEN
TRIBUTE BY: Leo Ovadje "It’s hard to believe it’s already 10 years since Ejiro went to meet the Lord. He was a wonderful friend. We were young men coming up in the professional world while trying to be the best husbands and Fathers we could be. I would call Ejiro on my way back to the hospital after some after school activity with my kids and he would be at the boys’ soccer or basketball game with plans to go back to finish up after the game. We shared our struggles and we felt better, we were not alone. The interesting thing is that Ejiro was not only my confidante, my support as we strived to fulfill all our roles to perfection. He was the same for a number of our friends and classmates. I especially miss his humor. I miss his smile - or the hint of a smile he would allow after saying something that would “crack everyone up”. I lost a friend, but we gained an Angel. Rest In Peace Ejiro till we meet again, Amen"
TRIBUTE BY: Dr. Oteri Oteri and Dr. Efe Oteri Our Dear Ejiro, It is hard to believe that it is 10 years since you left us. Ten years to reflect on all that you have brought to our lives. You were a kindhearted person who was always reliable. You brought joy and happiness to our lives. For our wedding you were the obvious choice for best man. You remained a vital part of our family. You are greatly missed but you will always remain in our hearts"
TRIBUTE BY: REV. FR. DR. JUDE J. OBIUNU I met Dr Ejiro sometime in 1999, though I have heard of him earlier. We were mutually attracted to each other on that occasion. We remained good friends who turned brothers until his unexpected and shocking demise. Whenever we had the opportunity, we spoke about a wide range of issues covering politics in Nigeria, church affairs, family, my teaching career, his own career, his plans for the future, etc. Kitay the ever loving and caring wife and friend will tell us jokingly that we should include her in those plans, if not they won’t work. We would laugh over her remarks. Of course, those plans we spoke about did not come to reality, because of the reason we celebrate his memories today. I used to tease him with his inability to speak his mother tongue, the Urhobo language fluently. We had traditional nicknames we call each other when excited. His was "Otota", (which means, spokesman). When I call him "Otota", he will answer "Me rhire" (which means, I have come). Mine was "ebo riroro" (which means, sack of thoughts). When he calls me that name I would usually answer "obe 'kron" (which means, it is difficult to tie together). It was a privilege to have known him and shared in his life. He inspired and left a lasting impression on me that cannot be wiped away. I miss him so much. I will always be close to and be part of the family he left behind. He was and is my brother from another family that I have become a part of by association and integration. Ejiro had the following qualities which have impacted greatly on me. (1) He was a good Christian. He desired to live a holy life. (2) He was honest and prudent in dealing with issues. (3) He loved family and friends and would put them first before him. (4) He was patient and kind. (5) He was hard working and committed to task and
responsibilities. (6) He was welcoming and open to all who came his way without discrimination or prejudice. (7) Above all, he was a gentle man. The memories of these qualities which have inspired me in several ways continue to endear me to his family even after his death. I will forever cherish these good memories as I continue to pray for the eternal repose of his soul. I want to encourage Kitay and the good amazing and wonderful boys that my brother Ejiro is proud of you and praying for you. I want you to know that you are leaving and fulfilling the dreams he had for you. Kitay, Rioke and Tega, keep the flag flying. The grace of God is your strength. Be assured of our continuous prayers always. May the soul of Ejiro, and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace. Amen.
TRIBUTE BY: Kelvin Elum "When I relocated to the United States from Nigeria in 2001 to pursue a Master's degree in Electrical Engineering at New York Institute of Technology, little did I know that the campus I would stay was just a twenty minutes walking distance from Ejiro's house. Two years before then and in 1999, I was denied a visa by the same USA Embassy to start a Master's degree in Computer Science at the University of Tulsa in Oklahoma. Although, I knew Diejomaoh's family back in St. Albert Catholic Parish, Ugbowo Campus in Benin City, Nigeria I never spoke with Ejiro until God's Perfect Design that we come to know each other when I started graduate studies in New York, and a Catholic Priest Rev. Fr. Jude Obiunu informed him to meet with me. That was the beginning of friendship and brotherhood. I later came to learn that his dearest wife Kitay hails from same place as my Mum. I would not be able to express in full how and by how much Ejiro positively impacted my life right from the very moment he met with me sometime in August 2001. I may not have called him an Angel while he was still with us on Earth, but I came to realize and conclude that Dr. Ejiro Michael Diejomaoh (II) is an Angel, who from the onset knew he had a limited time on Earth. I have had reasons to reflect on so many things and will continue to be inspired by true life and personal stories he shared with me, candid advice he always offered, his constant kindness, the humility he always displayed, his fear of God, and Love for all that knew him. Much as I would not be to put in writing everything about the person of Ejiro, I would not hesitate to share few things. During my Graduate Studies and as an International Student at New York Institute of Technology in New York, he saved me from falling out of student's visa status and which could have resulted in severe immigration consequences when he credited the school's account with a payment for my semester's tuition, fees, and other expenses. This he did without hesitation and understanding that he will be refunded once I receive fund from my Dad in Nigeria. Ejiro trusted me from the day he knew me till he departed this world. I will forever cherish it. Even when my effort to reimburse Ejiro was a delayed as a result of inexplicable Nigeria monetary policies and other unanticipated challenges, never a time did he regret helping me at the time of my need and difficulties. Rather, he was very understanding with me and continued with his usual acts of kindness, as his house was home to me. No doubt, Ejiro was an instrument of God to my education success in the USA. Also, when my younger sister first came to the United States to pursue undergraduate studies, and while I was still a student in Graduate School without a rental home and vehicle, Ejiro could take a day off his work just for the purpose to pick my younger sister from the airport on the day of her arrival, and provided her accommodation in his home until she had to travel to her begin her studies which was in a different state. He made huge sacrifices for all that came his way. Ejiro loved his family, friends, and humanity as a whole. He will always check on his friends and relatives in different places. He never discriminated against anyone, but always showed respect and care for everyone. He was a faithful husband to his wife, and a loving father to his two sons. I saw firsthand how he always called his wife no other name but "Honey". I remember vividly how in one of my outings with Ejiro and his family, we were at a particular departmental
store in Long Island, New York and he kept saying "Honey" while trying to get his wife's attention, I noticed this couple standing some distant away turned to look at Ejiro, and beamed a smile. They could tell the loving affection in the way he called his wife even in the public. I saw him play with his two sons at every occasion. Ejiro was very God fearing and kept his faith till the day he departed this physical world. Much as I continue to miss the physical presence of my adopted brother Ejiro, I am equally consoled by the fact the many virtues I witnessed in him continue to propel me in this physical world. It is my humble prayer that Ejiro continue to rest in God’s Perfect Peace until that resurrection morning when I will reunite with him, again.”
TRIBUTE BY: Akpos Wodi Ejiro, my search for a big brother ended when I met you. You were always there to lend a kind word, a listening ear, and could always make me laugh. I was so excited when you and Kitay agreed to be Nubi's godparents. I thank God every day that our paths crossed. We miss you every day! Continue to rest peacefully with our Lord until we meet to part no more.
TRIBUTE BY: Elohor Aiboni "Ejiro you were not just a friend but a Brother. Everyone that encountered you had one word to describe you - CARING. Sam and I miss having you around, but we take solace in the fact that you are in a far better place. Uncle Nihi and Aunty Mary still talk so fondly of you and surely miss you My Family members you took as your family also. We all wish you are still here. Kitay and the Boys we will Ever hold Dear to Our Hearts.
TRIBUTE BY: Omotefowe Lawal My Dearest Cousin It's been a minute since you've been gone, still very loving memories of you and who you were to me remain fondly in my heart. I still miss you.... every time I remember you I miss you...so much...but I know you're in heaven smiling down on us. Continue to rest in God's peace until we meet again. Love you always.
TRIBUTE BY: Jumoke Adeyemi-Taiwo I can’t believe it’s 10 years that you left this earth so suddenly. It only seemed like yesterday talking to you over the phone listening to your encouraging words and our laughter. Thank God for his faithfulness to Kitay, Rioke, Tega, your parents and siblings. Your generosity of spirit, mind and your material possessions will always be remembered by me. They have inspired me to reach out to others. Your sense of responsibility and integrity was rare... Even though your stay here was short you made such a huge impact. You were a big brother, encourager, adviser and friend. You will always be missed but we look upwards to God Almighty with thanksgiving for the privilege of knowing you. Ejiro continue to rest in the bossom of Our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
On behalf of The Diejomaoh Family
Thank You!
In Loving Memory
Dr. Ejiro Michael
DIEJOMAOH "Together we'll celebrate the life, spirit, friendship, and love of our departed brother."
december 22, 1970 - december 23, 2009