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Bridal Issue 2012

Room For The Groom Tips, Tricks & Tuxes especially for the Groom

Senior Prom

Grace Haven seniors get formal with a Snow Ball PLUS: Community Spotlight with CC Sheriff candidate Ryan Cressman, Lisa Soros at Mackinaw, PLUS: all of your favorite columnists, Gallery Talk and so much more!

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LOCALE WEDDING SHOW CALENDAR Whimsical Occasions Wedding Show • March 25, 2012 Weber's Inn in Ann Arbor, MI. 1pm – 4pm. see website for information.

Wedding Inspirations For The Bride & Groom • March 25, 2012 Horizons Conference Center, 6200 State Street, Saginaw, MI 48603. info 989-799-4122

Brides-To-Be Show • April 1, 2012 Petruzzello's: 6950 Rochester Rd, Troy, MI 48085 (north of Detroit).

12-4pm. features a Fashion Show and Door Prizes. Visit website or call 586-228-2700.

Precious Memories Bridal Show • April 7, 2012 Doubletree Hotel-Dearborn. 5801 Southfield Expressway, Detroit, MI 48228. Info: 734-308-2613.

Elegant Wedding Bridal Show Lansing • April 15, 2012 East Lansing Marriott: Lansing, MI. 12p-5p.

Brides-To-Be Show • April 22, 2012 Imperial House's: 701 Groesbeck Hwy, Clinton Township, MI 48035 (north of Detroit).

Visit website or call 586-228-2700.

Elegant Wedding Spring Grand Finale • May 6, 2012 Ukrainian Cultural Center. 26601 Ryan Rd, Warren, MI (just north of Detroit).

Charitable event. See website for more Info.

Brides-To-Be Show • August 19, 2012 Sheraton Novi: 21111 Haggerty Rd, Novi, MI (north of 8 Mile, west of Detroit).

12-4pm. features a Fashion Show and Door Prizes. visit website or call 586-228-2700.

GR Brides Fall Bridal Show• September 14-15, 2012 Devos Place in downtown Grand Rapids.

Kohler Expos, Inc., Grand Rapids Bridal Shows of West Michigan. Visit website for show information.

Brides-To-Be Show • September 30, 2012 Summit on The Park, Canton: 46000 Summit Parkway, Canton, MI (west of Detroit).

12-4pm. features a Fashion Show and Door Prizes. visit website or call 586-228-2700.

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Say yes to the Groom I don’t normally watch the now infamous

the groom himself. But, the happy ending is

bridal shows on TV, but one idle Sunday

never more than a 30 minutes away. On TV.

afternoon, a marathon of Say Yes To The

This has become a very stressful time for

Dress had me completely mesmerized. All

brides. It’s expensive, and the expectations

those people and all those dresses were

are high. The good news is, while weddings

enough to make anyone spin like a top. I

have become more complicated, it seems

remember trying on my own wedding gown

the groom is playing a much larger role in

with a parade of folks to help; and help they

the event planning. I think this may leave

did. I’ll never forget the tears welling up in

some grooms feeling like they need a brown

the eyes of my Grandma Oakwood when I

paper bag and a glass of uh... beer.

walked out of the dressing room. That’s

This annual issue of Locale is dedicated

when I knew I had found the one. Fast

to the groom - and the bride who needs a

forward to marriage number two. Shopping

giggle. We found great tips, to-do lists and

for the dress wasn’t near as involved. I

even a step-by-step guide on how to tie the

went on my lunch hour alone, about 2

knot - the bow tie knot, that is. Sprinkled with

weeks from the date and asked to buy

a bit of humor, we think you’ll find it festive

the dress off the rack. Thankfully, it was

and fun.

no problem, and Mr. Lett was just as

For the bride, we have a calendar of

complimentary as any entourage could

Bridal Shows and some great ideas if you

be.

decide you want a “destination” wedding

Maybe I am just getting older, but it

right here in the state of Michigan with our

seems to me, more and more, the emotions

top 5 picks for out-of ”locale”venues.

run high, and there always seems to be one

We hope you enjoy this special annual

person that wants to make things difficult for

issue of Locale. Here’s to you, the happy

the bride. Sometimes thats the frustration of

Bride and Groom! Cheers!

In this issue: 6 Room For The Groom This one is for the boys. Get him involved, save some money and tie the knot!

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10 Beautiful Winter Discoveries Lisa Soros takes us to the bridge during winter for some captivating sights.

20 Senior Prom Grace haven holds its first-ever Snow Ball event. Friends, family and staff gather for the dance of life.

28 Habitat For Humanity Clinton County Habitat builds its seventh house.

COVERSHOT

Ye Olde Bride Laurie Oakwood-Bishop Marketing Manager Cammi Robinson Graphic Artist Megan Priess Office Assistant Christina Hammond Photography Jim Oakwood Brian Bishop Guest Photographers Emily Irish-Kendall Lisa Soros Distribution Sam Thelen

Contributors: Sue Carroll Ron Huard Mike Meuhlenbeck Lisa Soros Monica Stump-Thayer

Published by Locale Media Company Bridal 2012 Photography by EMILY IRISH-KENDALL Wedding Day Excitement Our advertisers make this publication possible. We graciously thank them for their continued support. We know our dedicated readers choose Locale as their community support resource. Please tell our advertisers you saw their ad in Locale Magazine so we may continue to bring you the best, beautiful and heart-warming stories of our favorite hometown.

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Reproduction, whole or in part, is strictly prohibited without the written consent of the publisher.

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We all want the perfect wedding, but that doesn’t mean we can’t pinch a penny or two and still pull off an elegant wedding.! No matter if you are paying for your wedding or your parents, you want to make sure they get the best deals possible when it comes to your wedding.! While the average cost of a wedding is around $15,000, this doesn’t mean your wedding has to be this expensive.!By using some affordable wedding planning and consulting, you can save money on your wedding without looking cheap!

How can I pinch some pennies without her pitching many fits?

Have you considered donating blood as a second income? Maybe even an organ or two?

Hold on. All is not lost. There are some ways to cut corners without having to cut out a kidney. But like any surgical procedure, proceed with caution. It’s one thing to not do anything for your wedding. But it’s just another to not do anything and attempt to cheapen the affair.

Plan ahead. While this can go against everything a man stands for, save money by booking things early. Besides avoiding rush charges, you can also avoid any bidding wars over the must have chef/photographer/florist/pick your vendor.

Embrace technology. It’s the Internet Age, so go online to find vendors. You’ll be surprised to find what is getting outsourced these days. Besides getting favors drop shipped direct from just about anywhere, you should take advantage of the tools right under your nose, like laser printers, digital cameras, and e-mail. Websites like Ecards.com and Hallmark.com can get those pre-wedding party or save the date notes out in a flash. Use that digital to get the dollars back into your pocket.

Room Groom For The

This year, Locale felt is was time to give the groom his propers. After all, with the growing number of self-aware men and their desire to be involved, or rather, their brides desire to MAKE them involved, we decided to do a little shake down on the low down for the groom, about the groom, and to the groom. So whether you are the groom, or simply reading this to the groom, we’ve pulled together some simple tips to keep things straight-forward for you and smart for your bride. From economizing to tying the bow-tie, we’ve got your knot.

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Go all-in. Inclusive, that is. Many venues offer package deals that include services you would normally have to secure elsewhere, like catering.

They might also provide day-of wedding planner support to make sure all goes well on your big day.

Start early. Whether it’s earlier in the day, earlier in the week, or earlier in the season, you might save a bundle by avoiding the sought-after Saturday night time slot.

Mix and match. While expensive foods, premium-shelf alcohol, and freaky-fancy pastries might impress your guests, you don’t have to pay top dollar for everything. Pick a few lower-cost appetizers, consider a buffet, serve only wine and beer, limit alcohol to custom cocktails, like, martinis or flavored vodkas and soda.

Call time-outs. Limit the photographer and/or videographer’s schedule. Just make sure the shots you want occur during the actual filming time. Although can anyone really know when a conga line will form?

Pool resources. If people you know are getting married around your wedding day, try sharing some costs, recycling decorations, and obtaining volume discounts. Even if you don’t know anyone, see if the reception venue can assist in reusing some supplies.

Do it yourself. Break out the warehouse club card and bring your own alcohol. Apply summer-camp arts-and-crafts skills and make your own party favors. Go to work early and use your company’s printer. (Did we just say that? Don’t tell the boss). And forget it just being DIY. Recruit, draft, and beg your friends for assistance.

Okay, her friends.

Stand firm. Try to negotiate discounts or extra services with your vendors. Also, make sure you review each contract’s fine print to avoid additional charges. And, wherever possible, don’t tell places it’s for a wedding. That little fact might avoid any ”we got you by your shorts” pricing.

Go off the beaten path. You might be able to lower your expenses dramatically by picking an out-of-the-way place for your reception. It might even be worth checking out just the surrounding towns. Be sure to strike the right balance between saving money and costing your guests more to get to the wedding. And if you find a real bargain site, keep telling her it’s rustic, not run-down.

Adopt a less-is-more attitude. When possible, pick the simpler decorations, choose less labor-intensive foods and flowers, minimize the band, and reduce the guest list. Besides saving you money, it’ll probably save you time and anxiety in the long run.

Elope. The granddaddy of cost cutting. And if you play your cards right, you might still get some presents. Especially if you throw a casual post-elopement party for your friends and family.

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ROOM FOR THE GROOM: SUIT UP & PARTY GENTLEMEN, GRAB YOUR TUX AND START YOUR LIST.

THE Groom’s To Do List:

So the dress is the biggest gig for her - but what about the groom? Of course, the tux. Did you think a black tie is as stuffy as it gets? Think

Brides have more to-do lists than most corporate assistants. So why should the groom be left out?

Here’s a quick hit list to get him started.

again. White ties (along with a black tailcoat) define a formal evening wedding. But now the semiformal tuxedo, with its black dinner jacket and tie, is the more popular choice. If you are a stickler for formality and having a day wedding,

Name names Prepare your side of the guest list.

Go for the gold

wear a morning suit. This consists of a gray or black cutaway coat, gray vest, striped trousers, and a four-in-hand tie or ascot. Not that traditional? Wear a black or gray short jacket, called a stroller, instead of the cutaway.

Choose the wedding bands, which can match or just have matching engravings. Some couples have their initials engraved with their wedding date inside the ring. Avoid etching “RIP.�

Keep it real

And if you don’t want the bride to be the only one in white, push for a summer or hot-climate wedding so you can don a white

Call the marriage license bureau to determine the necessary requirements and timing. Arrange for the blood test, if necessary. Schedule the marriage license appointment.

Get from Point A to B

jacket. Just be easy on the lace. And don’t pull up the sleeves like Crockett and Tubbs.

If things get ugly with

Book transportation to and from the ceremony and after the reception.

Speak eloquently Give a toast at the rehearsal dinner in response to the best man’s toast. Mention how lucky you

your fiancÊe, just toss this zinger out there: What’s black and white and red all over?

A bloody groom if his tux

are to marry your bride and thank your parents, in-laws, and guests.

Provide shelter Book a hotel room for your wedding night, unless you are leaving directly to the honeymoon.

doesn’t fit. If she laughs, then you know she’s the one. If she doesn’t, you’re on your own.

Plan getaway Honeymoon getaway, that is. While you’re probably going to pick a place with your bride, you are still responsible for most of the legwork.

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1 Wrap the tie around your neck so that one end is slightly longer and pointed toward

3 Bring under & lift long end through the center of the neck.

2 Cross the long end over the short one.

4 Fold short end over itself so its perpendicular to your body & pointed

Does the thought of tying the perfect bow-tie make you lay on an extra layer of cologne? Never fear. Locale is here to help you with the knot - in your tie.

Tear out this page and duck tape to his side of the mirror for a handydandy hands on step-by-step helper guide for tying the perfect knot.

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5 Finish loop with long end, dropping it over folded short end so that it’s parallel to your body.

7 Tighten knot by adjusting ends of both loops.

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BEAUTIFUL WINTER DISCOVERIES FROM LISA SOROS

As of press time, winter was taking its sweet time finding Michigan.

snow, some of it heaved into massive carvings along the shore. We wandered carefully onto the ice and stood under

But that was not the case last year, when my family and I ventured north for a quiet night in Mackinaw City. If you’ve been to that area in the summer and fall, you know how crowded and bustling it can be.

Such is not the case, however, in the dark and cold months of winter. Have you seen the movie “The Shining?” That would be Mackinaw City in December.

A virtual ghost town, Mackinaw City is asleep for 5 months. You will find unplowed parking lots, hotel signs covered or taken down completely, and nearly every store is closed.

Some even remove their merchandise altogether. The ferries are either wrapped and up on blocks or tucked away in storage barns.

Even a local favorite, Darrow’s Family Restaurant, was shuttered, bearing the sign “Closed for the season. See you in the spring.” And the Welcome Center under the bridge was completely snowed in, preventing even those with four wheel drive from entering. The beach we usually stood on was full of

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the bridge, listening to the traffic overhead. No geese ran from us. No seagulls danced at our feet. No children waded into the water.

Dinner that night was at the Dixie Saloon which is open year round. We took our regular spot on the second floor, where we could look upon the

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eerily empty parking lot of Shepler’s Ferry. Only a handful of locals sat

summer. All was right with the world again.

scattered about the restaurant. At the only open hotel in town, my kids ran

If you have never had the

bother to shush them for who was there

opportunity to visit this area in the winter, it is worth the drive. Don’t expect to do

to bother? That night I lay next to the

any shopping. Watch for snowmobiles

sliding door facing the beach but there

rather than cars and pedestrians. Bundle

were no waves to be heard, and no

up and bring your camera. Mackinaw

ferry horns announcing departures to

can be just as magical in the winter as in

Mackinac Island.

the summer, and you won’t have to

noisily down the halls. I didn’t even

share the area with anyone but locals.

We left early the next morning, and I watched the Mackinac Bridge disappear from view. Six months later my daughter and I would return to find the transformation that occurs each

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A ghost town it may be, but a beautiful one to discover. See more photos by Lisa Soros at stjohnslocale.com

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The exquisite natural surroundings, exotic plants and spectacular sculptures at Frederik Meijer Gardens & Sculpture Park combine form and function for a fabulous setting year round. From relaxed and casual to elegant and formal, Meijer Gardens is perfect for that once-in-a-lifetime celebration.

Castle Farms, Petosky Elegant castle weddings.

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COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT: Native St. Johns man, Ryan Cressman, sets sights on Clinton County Sheriff Post.

Cressman says Clinton County is his home.

His family has been here for generations, he

passionate about!the community.! In addition to serving his family,!he says it's

went to school here, and he and his wife

important to serve in three!areas of his

Sarah are raising their!children here.!

Cressman says he has a vested interested

life:!his place of employment, community, and church.!

in!this community and it's residents, his friends!and family, and the future.! Ryan is

Cressman Says, “I think you'll find me easy to talk to and willing to put service above myself.! I'm a good listener and!will help you solve problems by encouraging people to!be part of the solution.!You should also know that I'll always try to incorporate humor and to share a laugh or two.!Life is way too short to be too serious all the time.“ Working Administration.! Modern leaders can't!sit at a desk.! I would be a "working" administrator.!!He says he’ll be actively administering the agency and frequently!working shoulder to shoulder with the men and women on the street.! After all, they're the ones who hear and see what is

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going on within our neighborhoods.!

"I believe that my entire life has been spent preparing for this opportunity.! It is all about SERVICE:!service to the citizens of the community and to the people who work for the department.!I am making myself available for this service and would commit my life to making Clinton County a better place to live, work, and raise a family."!Cressman is shown above, left, with Dave Hunt at his recent induction into the Kiwanis 707 club of St. Johns.

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We'll seek to stop crime before it happens.!

We will deploy our resources to be Proactive.!!!

We will be a lot more visible!in our own neighborhoods and school areas.! All of our townships will begin to see more patrols.! Our support functions like the detective bureau, records management, and!volunteer operations!will become more efficient as well.! As stated before, traditional policing will not!serve us in the future.! A more modern, proactive, and energetic leadership style is what's needed.! Meth labs and home invasions!need to be stopped before they start.!!! !!!!!!!

Education over Enforcement.! Traffic enforcement is important, but it is not the only job of law enforcement.! Education takes priority over Enforcement and revenue generation.! No longer can entire shifts be spent "working traffic", especially when our!homes!and families are more and more vulnerable to crime due to the current poor economic situation.!

Expanded!Communication.! Social media and new!communication technologies will be used more effectively and promoted to the community.! Did you know that we currently!have a Reverse 911 system that more people should register with, but simply don't know about?! We'll use Facebook, Twitter, email, and other!electronic media outlets to communicate with the community about crimes in progress, missing children, and other law enforcement related alerts.!!We'll flatten out the communication process both within the agency and with the public.! It will be a lot easier to communicate directly!with me!and the other members of the department, and it will be a much more open department as far as sharing of information and implementing new ideas.!

The men and women on patrol and working in the!jail cells are the ones with the ideas as they are the ones!that see the problems and solutions to make things better.!

Team Building.! We'll begin to work more closely with the other police agencies in

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SENIOR PROM GRACE HAVEN’S SNOWBALL DANCE IS A FAMILY AFFAIR

The stars were shining and the snow

company” said one resident.

The outpouring of support was

was falling over Grace Haven Assisted Living on Saturday February 18th.

greatly appreciated. St. Vincent de

Residents, families and staff all gathered

Paul, Goodwill Industries, and many

to drive away the chill on a cold winter’s

family members graciously donated the

night. The first annual Snow Ball gave an

use of formal dresses. Volunteers Megan

opportunity to dress up, dance and

Stoddard, Samantha Osborne, Madison

enjoy delicious desserts.

Hutton and Haley Robinson were fantastic! To quote a family

The Scrambled Eggs

member enjoying the

Band provided entertainment for

evening with her

the evening and

FAMILY, FRIENDS & STAFF

kept everyone’s

GATHERED TO DANCE &

toes tapping. “It

CELEBRATE TOGETHER .

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THE SNOWBALL DANCE, IN IT’S INAUGURAL YEAR, IS EXPECTED TO BE AN ANNUAL EVENT AT GRACE HAVEN ASSISTED LIVING.

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Mother, “The staff at Grace Haven goes so far above and beyond, these events create priceless memories for us all!”

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JUST A SMALL TOWN GIRL

THE TRANSFORMATION OF MONICA - By Monica Stump-Thayer

Lessons to be learned. I’m definitely learning things on this journey of mine.

My last weigh-in was rather hard, actually, quite hard on me. I gained 7.6

I’m finding out that I’ve hit a brick wall,

pounds. There are always things to factor

so to speak. As much as I would like to

in as a woman. We have water retention

say that it has been all sunshine and

and other female issues to take in

rainbows, it’s not. It has been almost 3

consideration; but it doesn’t make it any

years I have been losing weight and

easier to hit the scales and see that

gaining some. It has been almost 3 years

number jump up. I have been taking a

of walking,running, and lifting weights.

little break from my running and

My motivation and drive has been going

exercising. I’m finding out I’m one of

non-stop since making the decision to get healthier. So, when I decided to slow

those people that can’t do that. It helps me, not just for losing weight but it gives

down, it hit me like a ton of bricks. I

me clarity and balance.

thought it would be just a little break and I would go back to the task at hand.

I’ve wanted to enjoy the journey and to experience all that it entails but I’m not sure I like the up and down part of it.

It’s hard on me to go in month after month and not hit the goal the Doctor and I set. I get so close and then I have a little bit of a set back and it messes with my head. I’m very proud of what I’ve been able to accomplish but I just wish there was a way to protect myself from the disappointment I feel when it doesn’t go well.

Writing these articles has helped me and I’ve always written from my heart.

So, when it came time to write this article, I was afraid to do just that; to address the negative side of my feelings.

I want to be an inspiration to people but I also want people to see there are brick walls you run into. I want them to see that no matter what you do or what you don’t do, you have the control. There is

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no one to blame but yourself. You control what goes in your mouth. You control your thoughts and actions.

I’ve went from running at one point, 7 days a week on my treadmill to running 5 days a week part treadmill/part outside to running 1-2 times a week. I needed a break from it. It’s hard to keep up the mental stamina that it takes to run and/or exercise. I’m finding out that my drive and determination are still there. It’s a matter of control now. I control whether I want to exercise or not. I control what I put into my mouth. It’s as simple as it was when I first started on this journey.

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So, I have been struggling with this brick wall. I can choose to climb over the brick wall, tunnel underneath it or knock it down.

Sitting in front of it crying will do no good. It still will be there until I make the choice. I choose to knock it down and I have the tools to press forward. I’m slowly getting back to the task at hand. I haven’t given up the fight. And, I know the lesson to be learned is the brick wall is a part of my life now, and always will be. As a person having to deal with weight issues, it never goes away. You just learn how to deal with it! It’s your choice and no one else’s to make.

Follow Monica on her web blog by visiting stjohnslocale.com

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A very clear view of the road ahead.

Cressman Continued

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and all of our volunteer groups are also very important and necessary to our mission.!!We'll work with each of these workgroups to make sure they're functioning to their best ability.! New ideas and!a more aggressive and modern philosophy will accomplish this.! The partnership with the community must be built upon as well.!!We will expand on the good things in place like the!Neighborhood Watch program, DARE, and other community based actions. !!!

Maximum Capacity/Alternative sentences.! Our jail bed space must be used to it's maximum and kept filled and that revenue stream must be kept open.!

I'll look at other avenues to increase this revenue as well.! Local inmates of a first time, non violent status could be given alternative sentences!which would open up even more bed space to lease!out, which would add more to the revenue of the jail, while at the same time, provide ways for our own to get back to their families and work.

Cressman believes our!Sheriff's!Office has done a great job and Ryan is excited about enhancing what is already!in place, building relationships, and strengthening community ties.!He believes law enforcement is all about customer service, building relationships, and team work.!Including, traffic education and enforcement, laws of arrest, and using resources wisely.!Cressman believes that a

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You will find Ryan out and about at many community events and youth sports functions.! He also can be found serving at Pilgrim United Methodist Church on Sunday's and throughout the week.

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Oakview South Elementary: Day in the Life A MAN OF MANY HATS - By Lisa Soros Politics. Zombies. Model trains. Silly hats. And of course, plungers. We could only be talking about one person, Oakview South’s “custodial engineer,” Todd Feldpausch. He is the only person I know who whistles while cleaning bathrooms, laughs off unexpected stomach explosions, reads Time magazine cover to cover, spends hours creating meticulous details on model train sets, and has a collection of crazy hats. And of course, he was recently cast as an extra in the upcoming movie “Detention of the Dead,” in which his fourteen year old son Trevor also appears.

Todd is an expert on all things zombie, specifically AMC’s hit show “The Walking Dead.” He’s also a huge political junkie, has amassed an impressive Star Wars collection, is the father of two children, husband of Kim

Feldpausch (a counselor at the Middle School), and walker of lab/beagle mix Cocoa. I recently cornered Todd and started badgering him.

LS: So what exactly led you to this position?

TF: I don’t think anyone sets out to be a custodian. But for us it was perfect because it allowed me to be a stay-at-home dad with my kids. Working the night shift meant we didn’t have to do the daycare thing. Having the opportunity to be a stay-at-home dad definitely allowed me to experience things that most men don’t get to experience. And taking care of my children was all the training I needed to be a custodian in an elementary school! (Laughter) In all seriousness, necessity brought me here but the strong sense of community with the staff and experiencing the exuberance and innocence of the students keep me here.

LS: Which begs the question: How much housecleaning do you do at home?

TF: Honestly, not a significant amount.

Bathrooms are mine. Go figure! But I am not allowed to touch the laundry.

LS: Tell me about your kids and wife.

TF: Trevor is in the 8th grade, is involved in basketball, cross country, track and the jazz band. Rebecca is in the 6th grade, and is very active in cheerleading, dance and the arts. She plays the flute like her mom.

Academically, both of my kids excel and are 4.0 students. My wife Kim and I have been married for almost 18 years. She is a mother first and foremost. Before she became a counselor, she taught high school, and found that she enjoyed counseling the students so much she chose to obtain her Master’s from MSU.

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For more information about Oakview South Elementary as well as photos, check out their Facebook page!

LS: How do they feel about zombies?

TF: It’s a 50/50 split. Boys yay, girls nay.

LS: So no Walking Dead family viewing nights?

TF: No, no, no! The wife likes it but she can’t watch it.

(Chuckles) LS: The producers of The Walking Dead call you.

They’ve seen you in “Detention of the Dead” and they need a new zombie for the show. Your reaction?

TF: When do you need me on set!

LS: Who do you admire?

TF: My wife, definitely.

LS: You and I have worked together for several years, and we have learned that laughter is the best way to get through the day. Do you have any funny moments that you can share?

TF: Where does one start? Everything is kind of surreal to me. I suppose the call to clean up the “snake” on the playground would make the list. It turned out to be “petrified dog poop.” (We both laugh) LS: Tell us your absolute dream job.

TF: I would love to be a movie producer.

LS: When can we expect to see “Detention of the Dead” in theaters?

TF: Sometime in 2012. Check the website http:// www.detentionofthedead.com.

See more from Lisa Soros at stjohnsLocale.com

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Highlights: Habitat For Humanity Seventh house to be built in St. Johns On Wednesday, February 22, the City of St. Johns sold their first vacant lot to Habitat for Humanity of Clinton County

that we represent. We felt it was the right time for this project.”

The lot, located on Lansing Street just

for the purpose of constructing a new

south of Townsend Road, is an ideal

home this summer for a low income

location for a family because of its close

family in need of adequate shelter.

proximity to local churches, merchants and all the St. Johns schools.

“We are so pleased to be building in St. Johns for the first time, “said Sue Carroll, Executive Director. “We have

“The St. Johns City Commission and City staff is excited about Habitat for Humanity’s acquisition of city land for its next residential home build,” said Dennis LaForest, City Manager. “We hope this is just the first in many Habitat homes to be built in our community. New construction and adding a new family with children attending local schools is the kind of growth that keeps our city healthy. We definitely consider this a ‘win-win’ moment for St. Johns.”

Habitat Accepting Homeowner Pre-

built homes for families in Maple Rapids, Laingsburg, Wacousta and Ovid, but never before in the heart of the county

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applications through March 31, 2012.

Pre-applications are being accepted for additional homes to be built in 2012 and 2013. To qualify, applicants must

currently have a need for adequate housing. They must be a resident of Clinton County and be willing to partner with Habitat by working on their house and other projects. Applicants must be considered low income, meet minimum and maximum income criteria and have a satisfactory credit history.

To learn more about this great opportunity, informational meetings will be held at the Habitat office located in the ReStore, 2352 N. US 27, St. Johns, on Wednesday, March 21 at 7 pm and Saturday, March 24 at 10 am. Please contact Sue Carroll at 989-227-1771 or director@habitatclinton.org for more information.

Left: Pictured from l-r are Dan Redman, Roger Wells, Theresa Fedewa-Wells and Sue Carroll representing Habitat, and Dana Beaman, Mayor, Mindy Seavey, City Clerk, and John Salemi, City Attorney, representing the City of St. Johns at the

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Open for Business: Event & Catering Venue The Dell Event Center and Get Catered combined make for great events.

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You might recognize the face of The Dell Event Center & Get Catered, LLC from one of our favorite restaurants. Norm Nethaway has been

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serving customers for 7 years at The Wheel Inn in St. Johns. Norm is now the owner of The Dell Event Centered and Get Catered, LLC. A 1992 graduate of Ovid-Elsie, Norm’s family has been in the community for generations. Norm and his

with excellent customer service in outdoor or indoor events. Get Catered, LLC can help make your dreams happen! Call or email today at 989.834.5100 getcateredllc@hotmail.com. The Dell Event Center is located at 5556 E. M-21, St.

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