WOMEN’S INC. Back to School
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By Women, For Women, About Women of Central Arkansas
Chata Hickey new CHS ladies softball coach
WOMEN’S INC. Editor Lori Quinn Creative Director Stewart Cole Contributing Writers Rachel Parker Dickerson Angie Howard Dr. Patricia Knott Andrea Lennon Jill McCollum Susan O’Keefe Jennifer Stanley Chief Photographer Brandy Strain Contributing Photographers Sara Black Laura Derden Courtney Spradlin Gerald Washington Lindsey Faith Watson Retail Advertising Sales Manager Rhonda Overbey Advertising Coordinators Jackie Black Leah Brown Advertising Sales Sarah Allen Tara Mallett Jesica Talbert Betsey Willbanks Advertising Artists Jay Prince Tyler Rachel Editorial Advisory Board Nicolle Fletcher Haley Crafton Fowler Beverly Freiley Mary Harlan Becky Harris Nancy Jackson Helen Lockhart Velda Lueders Candace Meeks Misty Morse Carol Patty Lori Ross Mary Margaret Satterfield Traci Kennedy Smith Katherine Thomason Stefanie Holt Vann Jessica Zimmerman Women’s Inc. is published by the Log Cabin Democrat. Questions or Comments? Call (501) 327-6621, e-mail: womensinc@womensinc.net or write to P.O. Box 969, Conway, AR, 72033 www.womensinc.net 4 WOMEN’S INC. / AUGUST 2013
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t is that time of year. Time to rush out and buy new school clothes, make sure you have all the items checked off your school supply list and prepare for all that 8 a.m. school traffic. Faulkner County is fortunate to have such great schools and great teachers; from preschool to college, we have some of the best. Chata Hicky, a Conway native, has recently been selected as Conway High School’s new head coach for the girls’ softball team. She previously served as the assistant coach, under the leadership of former head coach Chad Longing. She credits Coach Longing as being a friend and mentor by helping her learn more about the coaching side of the game. Softball has been a part of Chata’s life since she played on a local team starting at the age of eight. Look out Conway High! Coach Hickey has plans to take this year’s team back to compete for a state title. Another educator, Ms. Jewel E. Moore, who has since retired from the University of Central Arkansas as a biology professor, has left a legacy for future generations. The nature reserve and prairie restoration area on the UCA campus on the corner of Dave Ward Drive and Farris Road has been named in her honor. She taught biology for 32 years and has a passion for traveling. Her travels include various location in Europe and even to the Amazon. Her primary area of expertise was mosses, and she recently donated an extensive collection of mosses, liverworts, wildflowers and insects from around the world to the Department of Biology at UCA. Our downtown feature this month highlights downtown’s newest boutique, The Flirty Chick. Owner Jackie Presley wanted her store to have a country feel with fun and bling for all ages. With everything from jeans, jewelry, shoes, T-shirts, dresses, belts, hats and much more, this little boutique has something for everyone. Paul and Leslie Kostecky recently remodeled their kitchen in their west Conway home. Leslie was able to design the kitchen with attention to every detail. She found ideas from magazines, online home stores and websites. She was able to bring these ideas to life with the help of local builder, Rex Lovelady of Conway Custom Builders. Check out this amazing kitchen remodel complete with “before” pics on page 32. Finally, our events this month include the Conway Area Chamber of Commerce’s Bowling for Business event and the Boys and Girls Club Sip and See at Fletcher Smith’s. And our Community page will give you the 411 on this year’s St. Joseph Bazaar. Until Next Month,
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32 features
6 Cover story Hickey takes the reigns at Conway High
12 In the news 14 Local beauty Jo la Ru a place for all your beauty needs
16 Downtown The Flirty Chick boutique offers style, fun and personal attention
37 Food Back to school party ideas
46 Community St. Joseph Bazaar returns for 101st year
columns 10 Spirituality Are you willing to learn? by Andrea Lennon
21 Clip ’n Save coupons 24 Feature story Jewel Moore has left a lasting impression on area students
26 Back to school
13 Health When spiders bite by Dr. Patricia Knott
How to encourage children to read
45 Book Review “Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend”
27 Back to school
review by Susan O’Keefe
School bus safety tips
29 Homes Buying local
32 Homes Kostecky kitchen remodel
events 42 CONWAY AREA CHAMBER OF COMMERCE Bowling for business 44 boys and girls club sip and see at fletcher smith’s WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 5
COVER STORY
Hickey takes the reigns at Conway High By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain Conway native Chata Hickey embarks on a new journey this fall as the new head coach of the Conway High School girls softball team. A Wampus Cat by birth, Chata is no stranger to the sport, saying, “I have played softball since I was eight years old. At the time I was in high school, softball had not made it into the school system, so I played tournaments and league play with the adults.” She is married to Mike and is mother to Kayla, 17, and Trey, 16. Chata’s route to college was not the traditional one. She earned her degree in Kinesiology and Physical Education with a minor in Health Education from the University of Central Arkansas after her children were born. “When Trey was
“We have the player personnel to again compete for a state title, and I plan to do everything possible to get these ladies to Fayetteville in May of next year!” three, Mike and I were sitting up after putting the kids to bed and he said, ‘Chata, you need to go back to college. You are a teacher and a coach, and you should be doing that.’ He really encouraged me to finish my degree. It wasn’t easy working 30 hours per week and taking a full load of college classes, but it made me appreciate the education much more,” Chata explains. “My family has always been my biggest source of support. Now, they don’t always agree with me, but they always support me.” Upon completing her degree, Chata began coaching seventh grade volleyball, basketball and track for Conway in 2004. After that, she taught ninth grade volleyball and track. However, her heart was always in softball. “I have always loved softball, and I enjoyed coaching Kayla’s teams and really fell in love 6 WOMEN’S INC. / AUGUST 2013
Head girls softball coach, Chata Hickey.
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Chata, Trey, Mike and Kayla Hickey
with the pitching side of the game. In fall 2008, I ran into Coach Chad Longing in Kroger, and we began talking about softball. I told him that if he ever got an opening on his staff, I would love the chance to be a part of it. The following spring, I was brought on board and haven’t left!” Chata cites Coach Longing as being an excellent friend and mentor, providing her with the opportunity to gain a more in-depth knowledge of the game; she served as his assistant coach for five years. When asked why she took the job, she responded, “I wanted to make a difference in my players’ lives. When I was a Wampus Cat, I had two coaches who lead by example, not by talk. Coach J.R. Ross and Mary Ann Schlientz were the ones who laid the foundation for my own coaching philosophy, style, mannerisms and basic way of treating an athlete. They always had time to help me, listen to me, give me advice and mainly let me learn on my own but supported me along the way. It was never, ‘why did you do that?’ They always looked at me and simply asked, ‘how can you fix it?’ I always say I have many extra daughters because I view my athletes as my children. I look forward to being with them each day just like I look forward to being with my own family.” Regarding the sport, Chata most enjoys the speed of softball and the control aspect a pitcher has over the outcome of the game. She also enjoys the options a batter has and the possible outcomes those options can produce. “There is a lot of strategy to playing this game. Deciding what to do for one pitch will affect what happens the next pitch or even the next batter down the line,” she adds.
2012-2013 CHS Girls Softball Team
Chata’s own family is well versed in overcoming unforeseen obstacles. At age eight, Trey was diagnosed with Leukemia; it relapsed at age 13, and he underwent a bone marrow transplant. The radiation and chemo damaged his kidneys and heart. Kayla was his donor; they were a perfect match. “The first transplant was in February, two weeks before the first game of Kayla’s freshman year. She was the starting pitcher and was able to play 10 days after the harvest. We had to take a second harvest in April. She was given daily shots to boost her marrow for five days prior. She was able to pitch by the state tournament,” shares Chata. Two months after the transplant, Trey developed epilepsy as a result of the anti-rejection medication
in addition to kidney insufficiency. “My kids have learned to be fighters from an early age. We are a family of fighters who never ask, ‘why me?’ We just look at life this way: you can’t turn back time; you can’t change things that have happened, so just take what you have and do the best you can with it.” Chata now looks forward and is excited to embrace her new head coaching role. The girls softball team will begin practicing on the first day of school, and the season will begin in February. Says Chata of the incoming team, “Coach Longing has left me with the golden egg, so to speak, with this team. We have the player personnel to again compete for a state title, and I plan to do everything possible to get these ladies to Fayetteville in May of next year!” WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 9
SPIRITUALITY
Are you willing to learn?
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ummer is over. It is time for school to begin. For my family this means a return to a structured schedule. I bristle at the idea of alarm clocks, packing lunches and nightly homework. I know the return to school is necessary. However, I would rather stay up late, enjoy a slow morning at home and go to the pool for an afternoon of fun. Each year as my children return to school, I am reminded that I too have the chance to “return to school” by examining my willingness to learn. I have the chance to evaluate my walk with the Lord by asking a few important questions like, “How am I doing in my personal time with Jesus?” and “How am I applying the truths that I learn to my daily walk?” One passage of scripture that encourages me to ask and answer these important questions is found in Psalm 143:10. “Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good Spirit lead me on level ground.” (New International Version) For just a moment, let’s think about the ways that we learn. Just like in school, we learn in the classroom setting as well as the lab setting. I think of the classroom setting as my daily personal time with Jesus. In these times, I am sitting before the Lord with my Bible open, and I am asking the Holy Spirit to teach me. I may use a Bible study tool or simply read the Bible book-by-book. My desire is for the Holy Spirit to fill my head and my heart with life-changing truths. I think of the lab setting as my day-in-and-day-out walk with the Lord, my experiences inside and outside my home. During these experiences, the Lord teaches me through different encounters with people and circumstances. The lessons may be exciting or painful. They may be expected or take me by surprise. I may respond well to the situation, or I may mess up. No matter the outcome, one thing I can know for sure. My success or failure in the lab is a direct reflection of what I did or did not learn in the classroom. Psalm 143:10 talks about the Spirit of God leading us on level ground. We walk on level ground as we embrace a willingness to learn in the classroom setting and then a desire to live out that learning in the lab setting. A walk on level ground does not shift with the changing tide of the world or even the ever-changing desires in our hearts. Rather, a walk on level ground is a life that is sensitive to the leading and guiding of the Holy Spirit. In fact, do you want to know the key component of walking on level ground? It is an undeniable and unquenchable thirst for the Spirit of God to lead you and guide you every single moment of your day. In John 14:26 we learn that the role of the Holy Spirit in our lives is to teach us (as seen in the classroom setting) and remind us (as seen in the lab setting.) Today, embrace your need for the leading and guiding of the Holy Spirit by demonstrating a willingness to learn. As you do, you will “go back to school” each day, just like our kids. Andrea Lennon lives in Conway, Arkansas, with her husband, Jay, and sons, Jake and Andrew. Andrea ministers to the women of Arkansas through a speaking and writing ministry called True Vine Ministry. To learn more about this ministry, access Andrea’s website at www.andrealennon.net.
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H E A LT H
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When spiders bite
rachnophobia is the fear of spiders. Whereas, my dislike of spiders does not rise to the level of phobia, I do have a healthy respect for them as I do all creepy crawlers. The irony of our fear of spiders is that most spiders are not poisonous to humans and most of them do not have mouth parts strong enough to pierce the human skin. Less than 100 of the 30,000 species of spiders are known to bite. Researchers have found that most of what are thought to be spider bites (up to 80%) could have been due to other causes such as other insect bites (ants, mosquitoes, fleas and ticks), MRSA (Methicillinresistant Staphylococcus aureus) infections, burns or stings, etc. There are two types of spider bites you would do well to have a hefty dose of respect for and they are found mostly in the southern states. The black widow and the brown recluse do bite and their venom is poisonous to humans. As you begin to unpack fall wear when the school year turns cooler, beware of these spiders in closets and attics. They like dark dry and undisturbed places. Look for them in the woodpiles you may stack up for the fireplace. Under the kitchen sink, in sheds and in the basement are other favorite hiding places. The black widow spider is glossy black and has a red hourglass mark on its belly. The brown recluse spider is slightly smaller than the black widow and usually has a violin pattern to its upper back. Most of the bites from non-poisonous spiders have typical reactions you expect from insect bites — redness, swelling, pain and itching. These are usually treated with over-the-counter pain relievers and cool compresses, often resolving in 7-10 days. If bitten by one of these spiders, clean the area with soap and water, apply cool compresses and elevate the extremity if the bite is to an arm or a leg. Tylenol, aspirin and antihistamines can be used for minor symptoms, but use caution in giving aspirin to children or teenagers. Call the doctor if the bite is to a young child or if you think the bite is from a black widow or brown recluse, if the bite reaction worsens or become infected, if a rash or severe illness develops or if symptoms of an allergic reaction occur. If possible, take the spider with you for identification purposes. Tell the doctor the date of your last tetanus booster. Bites from the black widow spider can cause more severe symptoms than those from the brown recluse bite. Rarely does death occur from these spider bites, but when it does, it is usually in children. The very ill and the elderly are at risk of death from the severe symptoms that can be associated with these bites. The black widow’s bite may be felt as a pinprick or not at all. The person may experience a small amount of swelling and red marks. Within a few hours though, the person will have begun to experience intense pain and stiffness throughout his body. Other symptoms may include fever, chills, painful muscle cramps, severe abdominal pain, increased sweating and salivation, increased blood pressure,
headache, nausea, vomiting, numbness, muscle weakness and shortness of breath. Seizures may occur just before death in children. A pregnant female may begin contractions and have premature labor. The brown recluse bite may be felt as a sting or, just like with the black widow, may not be felt at all. Within eight hours the person experiences redness and intense pain. At the site of the bite, a fluid-filled blister forms and eventually sloughs off leaving a deep ulcer that may turn black. The brown recluse bite has been described by some as a “bull’s eye” pattern with a blue or purple area around the site of the bite surrounded by a white ring with an outer red ring. Symptoms may include fever, chills, sweating, nausea, malaise and, rarely, coma, kidney failure, jaundice and seizure and death in children. Unless you catch them in the act, it is difficult to tell for sure if you have a spider bite, but if you are bitten by a black widow or brown recluse you should: • Wash the area with soap and water. • Elevate the arm or leg if this is the area involved in order to slow or prevent spread of the venom. • If the bite is to the arm or leg, tie a bandage snuggly above the area but not tight enough to cut circulation. • Seek emergency treatment. • Retrieve the spider, if possible, to identify the culprit. Treatment for the black widow spider or brown recluse spider may include pain relievers, including possible narcotics, muscle relaxants such as Valium, blood pressure medicines and corticosteroids. Antibiotics may be required if infection has occurred. A tetanus shot may be appropriate for some. Antivenin in severe but rare cases is used for black widow bites. Sometimes the person may require hospitalization. Symptoms from black widow spider bites usually improve within 2-3 days for severe symptoms but may last as long as several weeks for milder symptoms. Death is very rare in normally healthy adults. Death occurs rarely in brown recluse bites and is usually in children when it does occur. A person has a good prognosis if he survives past two days, but the ulcer left behind by the brown recluse may take up to six weeks to heal and leaves behind a scar. These spiders are scary, but the good news is that their bites are not common and death is rare. Use plenty of caution however, when working in their favorite hiding places and seek immediate medical attention if you are bitten. Personally, I would find it quite difficult to retrieve the spider that bit me — and not just because of fear! Patricia Knott is a graduate of LSU Medical School in New Orleans and is board certified in Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation. She serves as the Medical Director for Conway Regional Rehabilitation Hospital.
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LOCAL BEAUT Y SERVICES
Left to right, Jo la Ru’s Dalana Dove, Elysha Woffard, Ashley Blackshire, Shayna Dickson, Debbie Dayer, Brad Heston, Sonya Robertson, Erin Hackler, Sharron Davis, Georgia Stone, Donna VanDalsen, not shown: Tanya Summerville, Jennasyn Beck and Marti Sponer.
Jo la Ru a place for all your beauty needs Jo la Ru Salon and Retail Center has had a complete renovation, and the work continues under owner Brad Heston. He purchased the business in late 2011, after a decade working at State Beauty Supply. He has been trained in product knowledge and performance for every brand Jo la Ru carries. “The staff here makes each person feel individually special,” Heston said. “They take the time to learn what you don’t like about your hair and transform it into what you love. With different styles, you need a wide variety of product array to achieve what your hair will not allow. From straight to curly, we can tame the frizz, we can enhance the curl; we can make it as sleek as you want it to be. From cuts to colors, to manicures and pedicures, we’ve got you covered from head to toe.” Heston does not do hair, but he ensures the stylists take care of customers and listen to their needs, he said. In addition, he is knowledgeable about the science of hair and hair products. “We’re the place where everybody comes to get the product they need for hair care or that individual style that makes you unique,” he said. “The top-rated color-care product on the market is Purology. The product gently lifts the cuticle, cleans the hair without penetrating and without removing color molecules from the cortex of the hair.” He said another top-rated product is Moroccan Oil, a sulfate-free product line. “Sulfates are like detergents in a lot of shampoos. They also cause a lot of color fading,” he said. “The oils penetrate the hair shaft, giving flexibility, shine and an incredible reflection of color.” The salon and retail center is open 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. Tuesday through Saturday, with late appointments available. Walk-ins are welcome, but the staff suggests calling ahead for the most relaxing experience upon arrival. Services offered include cuts, color, waxing, manicures, pedicures, O.P.I. gel lacquer nails, individual color needs and skin care. In addition to a large selection of hair care products and tools, Jo la Ru has every color of O.P.I. nail polish in production, Heston said. He also noted aesthetician Donna VanDalsen recently joined the staff. Heston concluded, “Being in a salon, working with people, creating a form of art for every person you see is the best reward life could ever give you. When a person walks out of here, the smiles you see ... you can just tell their life changes as they are transformed into a whole new person. You can be satisfied with who you are — changing to the new you.” — Rachel Parker Dickerson
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ACCENTS SALON 690 S. Salem, suite 306 Conway, AR 72034 501-327-8191
Our warm and welcoming atmosphere at Accents Salon, will have you feeling satisfied, refreshed, and apart of the family. With 30 years of experience, we specialize in hair care for everyone in your family, and walk-ins are always welcome! Our services include hair care, manicures, pedicures, and massages for an all around relaxing experience, with full satisfaction guaranteed! Call us today, and ask about our special offers!
JO LA RU SALON AND RETAIL CENTER 2125 Harkrider Conway, AR 72032 (501) 327-2301
With 12 stylists to fit any and all beauty needs or wants, and the professional haircare for any style, cut or color to be perfect for you, jo la ru salon and retail center takes pride in offering a relaxing atmosphere. Feel like the most important person while being pampered. Everything they do is for you. services include hair care, skin care, nail care, some spa treatments, self tanning products and a retail section. services are offered to men, women and children, and walk-ins are welcome. owned by brad heston, special offers include a $5 lip wax with any chemical service for new clients. You can also receive 50% off your first facial with jennasyn beck when you book two facials. late appointments are available.
K2K SALON 740 S. SALEM RD., suite 103 Conway, AR 72034 (501) 764-1097
At K2K we consistently strive to make our guests feel pam-
pered, nurtured, and beautiful! We are Conway’s only Oribe and Bumble and Bumble Salon, maintaining the industry’s highest standards. While specializing in Women’s Hair Care and Nail Care, we also accept walk-ins. So come visit Kristy Fruits at K2K Salon, today! Women’s Inc. Readers’ Choice Award Winner for Favorite Hair Salon & Stylist!
OASIS MASSAGE THERAPY 7 Medical Lane, Suite A Conway, AR 72034 501-205-1908
Oasis Massage Therapy is neither a spa nor salon. We focus on one thing; specializing in providing the best bodywork possible. We offer a variety of techniques in a professional, relaxing environment with ample parking and flexible hours. The website allows you access to our schedule 24 hours per day, 7 days per week. Simply sign-in, select the service you require, the staff and time. You will receive an immediate confirmation and a reminder the day before. At Oasis our goal is for our clients to leave stress free and with reduced pain. We love what we do. We combine compassion and nurturing touch to help our clients feel lighter in spirit, with increased mobility and an overall sense of wellness.
SHEAR ENVY SALON
STUDIO SKIN
803 HARKRIDER, SUITE 13 Conway, AR (501) 548-9987
1016 OAK STREET Conway, AR 72034 (501) 358-4653
SALON OWNER IS BRANDI BREWER. WE HAVE BEEN IN BUSINESS FOR 4 1/2 YEARS. WE ARE LOCATED NEXT DOOR TO BLACKWOOD’S GRILL & GYROS. WE HAVE FIVE STYLISTS WHO ARE EXPERIENCED AND TALENTED WITH WOMEN’S HAIRCUTS, CHILDREN’S HAIRCUTS, PERMS AND WAXING. WE HAVE ALL WORKED TOGETHER FOR 2+ YEARS AND ARE FAMILY ORIENTED. WE ALL LOVE WHAT WE DO AND ARE VERY FRIENDLY. COME GET YOUR SALON EXPERIENCE WITH US!
Solutions Day Spa 1130 Pats Lane Conway, AR 72033 (501) 329-9000
Our goal at Solutions is to pamper and promote wellness through the benefits of true relaxation. Serving Faulkner county for fifteen years in haircare, manicures, pedicures, massages, facials, body wraps, waxing, cosmetics, electrolysis and cellulite treatments. Solutions also carries jewelry to complement every individual style. Spa Packages make a great gift for a friend or loved one. Solutions invites you to come relax with us in our recently remodeled Day Spa.
Located in Conway’s Historic Downtown. Studio Skin offers corrective skin care treatments, provided by our Aesthetician with 11+ years experience in the medical field supervised by a Board Certified Plastic Surgeon. Studio Skin also offers all injectables: Botox, Restyline, Juvederm, Radiesse and Boletoro. All injectables are provided by a Registered Nurse who has been doing these treatments for 8 years. Our studio also offers hair services with a staff of 5 hair stylists always up to date on the latest styles, color, highlights, and extensions. Other popular services offered at Studio Skin: Full body waxing, shellac manicures and pedicures, personalized airbrush tanning, eyelash tinting/perming, and a boutique full of unique jewelry, handbags, and gift ideas as well as top of the line professional skin and hair care products such as Moroccan Oil, Kevin Murphy, Keratin Complex, Glo Minerals, Skinceuticals, and Theraderm.
SALON ELEVEN 1027 Front Street, suite 1 Conway, AR 72032 (501) 205-8624
Be more than a ten! Our stylists are owner Erica Wickliffe, DeShay Poe, Becca Lawson, Kacey Barton and Corey Short. We are always up to date on the latest hairstyles for men and women. All stylists are color specialists and do highlights and extensions too. We also offer facial waxing and shellac and manicures. Call today for an appointment! WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 15
DOWNTOWN
‘Come as you are’ The Flirty Chick boutique offers style, fun and personal attention By Rachel Parker Dickerson Photos by Brandy Strain Opening a western-chic boutique in downtown Conway might sound tricky to the uninitiated, but not to Jackie Presley of The Flirty Chick. She discovered her “western, but not too western” style at big trade shows in Texas where a staggering variety of cowgirl clothing was displayed. She explained her husband’s children live in Texas and participate in FFA. Whenever they traveled to the stock shows, large trade shows were held in conjunction with them, she said. “I’m a country girl,” she said. “I would always buy clothes at the trade shows. I like fun, comfortable, colorful clothing. It was a mix of unique items that gave me my trendy look without being too western.” In November 2012, she decided to start her own business, and it evolved very quickly. She started out attending a few shows and advertising on Facebook. Customers began visiting her at
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home to try on clothing, and then her inventory outgrew her storage space at home. “We found this location and thought it would be reasonable to keep it here. I thought maybe I would do appointments while I’m getting ready for my next show. In three weeks we knew that was going to change, because people were coming in, wanting to buy, wanting to know my hours. There was a demand for my clothing here. Everyone loved my unique mix of western, Barbie cowgirl, rustic boutique. It’s a girly store with a western flare,” she said. Presley is the exclusive dealer in Faulkner County for a couple of lines, including Gypsy Soule. The company makes flip flops handcrafted in Texas with Italian leather, embellished with Swarovski crystals. The shoes come with a one-year warranty, she said. “It’s like the Louis Vuitton of flip flops,” Presley said. “It’s that one special accessory, kind of like buying that Coach bag.” She is also the exclusive dealer in the area for ATX Mafia, a line of T-
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shirts that are flying off the shelves, as are other expressive fun Ts, she said. The store has a selection of feminine, flirty tops and dresses with details such as vintage lace, embroidery, fringe, etc. Plenty of accessories in every style can be found, including a line of unique clay jewelry handmade in Texas and others with rusted iron charms juxtaposed with shiny glass beads. “I carry bling jeans — all boot cut — chevron print, Aztec print — pretty much whatever is trendy and going on,” Presley added. On a personal note, she said her friend, Cathy Kelly, has been working with her since January, and Kelly’s organizational skills have made her a great asset. She summarized, “I want to invite everyone to come in and shop here, from young ladies to older women, everyone from extra small to plus size. I want to offer something to everybody. I wanted to bring to Conway a boutique that’s fun and offers personal attention. It’s an environment of ‘come as you are’ and enjoy yourself.”
F E AT U R E S T O R Y
Influential instructor
Jewel Moore has left a lasting impression on area students By Jennifer Stanley Photos by Brandy Strain You may have noticed the sign marking the Jewel E. Moore Nature Reserve at the prairie restoration area near Dave Ward Drive and Farris on the University of Central Arkansas campus. You may have encountered her during her time as a biology instructor at the university. Though her name is present for all campus visitors to see, the retired biology professor lives near Toad Suck, fittingly surrounded by nature. Jewel, 95,taught biology for 32 years, originally studying at Henderson State University and the University of Tennessee. “I most enjoyed when students got excited about things,” she enthuses. Jewel now resides with her niece, Glenna Haynes, who is a constant friend and companion. “I have run into people who say, ‘Is Jewel your aunt? I had her for biology, and I loved her,’” shares Glenna. Jewel was a hands-on instructor, preferring field study as a learning method. Her former students often recall how much they enjoyed their biology field trips and her classes in general. “I still run into students and hear from them from time-to-time,” says Jewel. In fact, the prairie restoration area bears her name partially for that reason. “The area
is a natural preserve. There are areas for students to walk through, and there are benches. I used to take my students in that area to study,” she shares. She recently gave a speech at the preserve, which includes five acres of tallgrass and 10 acres of woodland. Jewel always enjoyed biology, saying she is a “science and math person.” She is a member of both the Wildflower Society and the Mushroom Society, and her primary area of expertise is mosses. She has traveled extensively from Europe to the Amazon, and she still enjoys taking domestic trips at the age of 95. Jewel recently gave her collection of mosses, liverworts, wildflowers and insects — 32 years’ worth — to the Department of Biology at UCA. “The students study them, and they are on display. They also indicated that, since there was so much, they would be sharing it with other universities,” she says, proudly. In retirement, she says she enjoys “reading and staying out of the cat’s way.” Jewel was also instrumental in starting the Senior Citizens Center in Conway, and their 35-year anniversary was this year. She still visits there every Friday and some Thursdays. In fact, they selected Jewel to speak at the kickoff for their fundraiser to raise money for a new space. She also enjoys the view from her home, which, of course, allows her to observe the abundant plant and animal life.
How to encourage children to read
Reading can have a profound impact on a child’s life in and out of the classroom. Reading can help a young student develop a more extensive vocabulary, and a study from the Federal Interagency Forum on Child and Family Statistics found that reading to young children promotes language acquisition, making it easier for them to learn a foreign language. That’s a significant advantage for children growing up in a world that’s increasingly global. But reading has benefits outside the classroom as well. Reading can provide an escape from the daily grind, which is something even today’s youngsters can appreciate. Reading also is a great way for kids to relax and unwind while simultaneously giving their brains a workout. While many parents recognize the impact reading can have on their children, it’s no secret that getting kids to embrace reading can be difficult. Distractions such as video games, social media and even the great outdoors are all there to draw kids away from reading. But parents who want to instill a love of reading in their children can still take steps to ensure their kids don’t miss out on the benefits of a good book. • Read to your children. Numerous
studies have discovered various benefits of reading to children when they are young. The National Center for Education Statistics notes that children whose parents read to them typically become better readers and perform better in school. Reading to children early on is the first step toward fostering a love of reading kids will develop and continue throughout their lives. Many parents read to their children at night before bedtime, but any time of day will suffice. • Don’t be discouraged if kids are not interested in books. While reading fiction can help develop a youngster’s imagination, parents should not be discouraged if kids don’t want to read books. Reading the newspaper, magazines and even comic books can help kids develop strong reading skills and an extensive vocabulary and, in the case of comic books, inspire their imaginations. Young sports fans might be more inclined to read the sports page than a novel, so let them do so. Kids are more likely to embrace reading if what they’re reading interests them, so encourage kids to read up on those interests, even if that reading does not involve picking up a book. • Get your youngster his or her own library card. Thanks to the popularity
of e-readers, many adults would be hard pressed to locate their local library if asked to do so. But visiting the library is a great way to encourage kids to read, especially if kids have their own library cards. Kids with their own library cards tend to look at visits to the library as shopping trips where they get to make their own choices about what they’re taking home with them. And once kids reach a certain age, they can visit the library on their own. • Share your own reading experiences with children. Kids look up to their parents and often want to mimic their behavior. So parents can set a good example by reading as well. On trips to the library, check out your own book. While you might not want to discuss every book you read with your children, discuss the books they’re reading. Chances are you read many of those same books yourself when you were a child, and discussing books with your child is a great way to improve his or her reading comprehension. Distractions abound for today’s youngsters, who might not embrace reading as readily as they do video games or social networking. But parents can take many steps to instill a love of reading in their kids that will last a lifetime.
School bus safety tips Each day thousands upon thousands of children board school buses to take them to and from school. Parents and caregivers entrust their children’s well-being to the care of school bus drivers and aides. Although parents may worry about school bus accidents, such accidents are few and far between. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration advises that school buses are designed to be safer than passenger vehicles in avoiding crashes and protecting against injury. Buses are arguably the safest mode of transportation for getting kids to and from school. By keeping millions of cars off the roads surrounding schools, school buses contribute to less crowded roadways, which are less conducive to accidents. Danger zone Though parents may feel buses are most likely to be in accidents while in transit, experts advise that children are more likely to get hurt during pickups and drop-offs when they’re in the “danger zone” of the bus. The danger zone is a 10-foot radius around the outside of the bus. Bus drivers and other motorists find kids in the danger zone are more difficult to see, and children can get struck by either the bus or oncoming cars that fail to stop when the bus is picking kids up or dropping them off. Knowing the safety rules While a large part of protecting children is on the shoulders of the school bus driver, it is also vital for passengers to learn the basics of school bus safety. Kindergarteners or children who are riding the bus for the first time should be taught the rules of school bus safety. Some schools offer a school bus tour prior to the new school year. This lets youngsters acclimate themselves with the look and feel of the school bus. This introduction also may include information about bus safety, but parents can also educate their children (and themselves) about using caution in and around the bus by following these guidelines. • Get to the bus stop 5 to 10 minutes prior to the assigned pickup time. Rushing last-minute can lead to injury, especially if you’re chasing down the bus. • Remain on the sidewalk or grass at the bus stop. Do not step off the curb into the street until the bus has arrived and is completely stopped. • When boarding the bus, go directly to a seat and sit down. Buckle up if there are seatbelts on the bus. • Remain seated while the bus is in motion. • Keep voices low so as not to distract the driver. • Keep your head and hands inside of the bus, and never hang out of the window. • Do not throw things on the bus or play rough with friends or classmates. • Keep the aisle clear at all times. • Be careful when getting off the bus. Hold on while going down the stairs. • Only get off at your designated stop unless you have permission to get off elsewhere. • When exiting the bus, walk at least 10 steps past the front of the bus and cross in front where the driver can see you. Do not cross behind the bus. • Wait for the driver to give you a signal that it is safe to cross. Be sure to check that all cars on the road have come to a complete stop. • Get to the sidewalk or off the street as quickly as possible. • If you’ve forgotten something on the bus, do not run back and attempt to retrieve it. The driver might not see you and start the bus. Rather, call the bus company and see if you can pick it up at another time. • Do not get into the cars of strangers waiting around bus stops, even if they offer to take you home. Parents can arrange to meet with bus drivers so that they will recognize their faces. Adults also can encourage schools to host bus safety courses to further ensure their youngsters are safe.
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Fontaine arm chair, $764.99. Bookay hurricane, $229.99. Cheetah table lamp, $374.99. Abstract oil painting (47x59), $1,649. Wood and iron console, $1,664.99. Available at Pazzaz Interiors.
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5x8 Damask ethnic rug, $999.99. Black Nala arm chair with nailhead detail, $719.99. Greige canister jar, $202.99. Grey bloom vase, $59.49. Artichoke votive holder, $49.99. Original oil painting, $1,099.99. Available at Pazzaz Interiors.
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The Kostecky’s worked with local builder Rex Lovelady of Conway Custom Homes to completely remodel and update their kitchen in their Sunderlin Park home.
BEFORE REMODEL
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KOSTECKY KITCHEN
A Custom kitchen remodel
‘HEART OF THE HOME’ COMES WITH MAXIMUM STORAGE, SURPRISES By Rachel Parker Dickerson Photos by Courtney Spradlin When Leslie and Paul Kostecky remodeled the kitchen in their home in Sunderlin Park, they knew exactly what they wanted. Custom cabinets, dreamy appliances and an updated aesthetic gave the heart of this home a new beat. The family has lived nine years at their Conway residence, and while the kitchen was not bad, Leslie said, she knew exactly what would make it better. “I wanted to maximize my storage as much as I could,” she said. “I wanted stuff accessible, and I wanted it organized.” Grant’s Cabinets and Millwork of Greenbrier installed the new custom cabinets, which are sleek in a dark stain with straightforward stainless steel bar pulls. There are plenty of surprises on the inside however, including drawers within drawers for maximized storage, a drawer built around the sink for small item storage, storage under the bar especially for Leslie’s large collection of serving platters, and a custom refrigerator cabinet panel with more storage on the side. For her glassware and china cabinets, she chose seeded glass panes for a contemporary look with lighting by Keeling Electric in Conway. “I wanted everything simple, not too modern-looking. I wanted to keep it warm and to flow with the rest of the house,” Leslie said. “The cabinets are simple. I don’t have all the fancy millwork. To me, it would get too busy.” Rex Lovelady of Conway Custom Builders did the remodel and was responsible for locating many of the items Leslie saw online and wanted for her kitchen. One example is the striking white Austin stone, which forms an arch over the stove top. Glass and complementary tumbled stone WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 33
tiles form a backsplash, creating a focal point for the room. The visual draws the eye to the Wolf gas range, a real treat for a serious cook. It has a dual-heated stainless cook top in the middle of the four burners that works like a hibachi grill, she said. It also has a trap below the cook top where crumbs can be scraped off the grill top and easily disposed off. The new kitchen also includes a larger-size refrigerator, hidden away nicely behind the custom cabinetry. Leslie chose solid black granite for her countertops. She chose black rather than a more marbled pattern in keeping with her desire for a clean look. “I knew I wanted granite because some of the new recycled materials aren’t (heat tolerant) against a hot pot,” she added. She chose mercury glass pendant lights from Hambuchen Lighting for over the bar. Also interesting is the sink and
faucet. A single-basin, zero-radius stainless steel sink allows room to fit her platter collection in the sink, she said. The LED thermal kitchen faucet lights up with different colors to tell you whether the water is cold (blue), warm (green), hot (red) or scalding (flashing red). Leslie concluded, “I tried to do things that are timeless and not too trendy. “When you live in a home you realize what you’re missing and how it could work better. I always knew when we redid it; this was how I wanted it laid out. “I love to cook. With young children, we just like to eat at home as a family versus going out a lot, and we entertain a lot. Our neighborhood gets together so much. The kitchen is the heart of the home. Everyone congregates in the kitchen. It doesn’t matter the size of the home, that’s where everyone wants to be.”
Custom cabinets and built-ins were used throughout this kitchen remodel.
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Leslie designed these long narrow shelves to allow for easy access to her many serving trays and platters.
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White Austin stone has been used to form an archway over the stove top.
The LED thermal kitchen faucet lights up with different colors: cold (blue), warm (green), hot (red), and scalding (flashing red).
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FOOD
Pita Nachos Whole Wheat Pita Bread Grated Cheddar Cheese Salsa Diced Green Onions Split a whole-wheat pita into 2 rounds, then cut into wedges. Broil until golden, then sprinkle with grated cheddar and salsa and broil until cheese melts. Top with sliced green onions, serve with Sour Cream.
Back to school party ideas By Chef Jill McCollum, CC Photos by Lindsey Faith Watson Nobody wants to see summer vacation come to an end, but with a back to school party, heading off to school will be a lot more exciting! • School Book Balance: Make a “balance beam” by sticking duck tape to the floor. Have the kiddos walk to the end of the tape and back, while balancing a textbook or a stack of storybooks on their head. Offer prizes if they make it back without dropping
the books. • Create Yearbooks: Stack pieces of construction paper on top of each other and fold in half to create a “book,” making sure that you have enough pages in your book to match the number of kids at your party. Punch holes in the spine of your book and tie yarn through the holes to secure your book together. Prior to you party, photocopy a picture of each party guest enough times to be included in every yearbook that you’ll be making. Provide glue sticks, crayons, markers, stickers, glitter, etc., and have the kids decorate
the front of their yearbooks and glue a picture of each friend inside their books. Then the kids can pass the books around and leave special messages or drawings for their friends. Makes a great party favor! Chef Jill McCollum, CC is the Caterer and Food Service Director for Central Baptist College. Jill is the owner of Jill McCollum Catering in Conway. She can be reached at jmccollum@cbc.edu or (501) 730-4422
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Strawberry Oatmeal Bars 1 ¾ sticks salted butter, cut into pieces, plus more for greasing pan 1 ½ cups all-purpose flour 1 ½ cup oats 1 cup packaged brown sugar 1 teaspoon baking powder ½ teaspoon salt One 10 to 12 ounce jar strawberry preserves Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Butter a 9x13 inch rectangular pan. Mix together butter, flour, oats, brown sugar, baking powder and salt. Press half the oat mixture into the prepared pan. Spread with the strawberry preserves. Sprinkle the other half of the oat mixture over the top and pat lightly. Bake until light brown, 30 to 40 minutes. Let cool completely, and then cut into squares.
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BOOK REVIEW
‘Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend’
Reviewed by Susan O’Keefe
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arrived at book club with a sour spirit. I nearly dreaded the discussion since the book only earned a few points on my grading scale. I couldn’t pinpoint exactly what I disliked. It just wasn’t a fabulous read for me. Then, however, the other readers began chatting. “Wasn’t it neat how the author wrote in such elementary terms?” “I enjoyed the fact that the imaginary friend’s voice was the one who told the story.” “The imaginary friend had morals. Now that was interesting.” As the discussion ebbed and flowed, I found a new perspective on our club’s pick. “Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend” had strong points I never considered. That’s another reason to join a book club. It’s invigorating and enlightening to hear other people’s comments and opinions. Author Matthew Dicks is an elementary school teacher in Connecticut. This is his third novel. My fellow readers thought the fact that Dicks taught school granted him a keen ability to write like a kid. Max and Budo are the book’s main characters. Max Delaney is an 8-year-old boy. He’s antisocial, enjoys toy soldiers, Rambo and video games. The book avoids labeling Max as a child with Asperger’s syndrome or as being on the autistic spectrum. But all signs point in that direction. Budo is Max’s imaginary friend. He came into existence simply because Max imagined him. Throughout the story, Budo consistently stays close to Max for several reasons. As long as Max thinks about Budo or talks with him, Budo will continue to take up space. If Budo is forgotten, however, his very existence could be terminated. In the world in which this story takes place, imaginary friends are plentiful. They’re the norm. Several of the teachers at Max’s school are characters based on faculty members at the author’s school. Mrs. Gosk, in particular, is a crowd favorite. The kids call her a real teacher and commend her quirky ways. On the other hand, Mrs. Patterson isn’t quite to be trusted. She fakes her teaching skills. Kids are experts at seeing straight through the fluff. The story is told from Budo’s voice. He is an invisible being, conjured up by his buddy, Max. Readers learn that whatever traits a real person envisions for their imaginary friend, that’s exactly who is delivered.
For example, Budo can pass through doors. Many of his friends cannot. Some imaginary friends have eyes and ears. Others do not. There’s a great deal of creativity used by the mind as one imagines a friend into existence. Our group had fun reminiscing about our own childhood friends. One reader remarked about her daughter’s imaginary friend who was given food, a plate and utensils at the dinner table! This friend remained for several months. With an easy rhythm of prose, the author invites readers into Max’s world. The gatekeeper is Budo. With Budo nearby, Max is safe. It’s very important that Max feels safe. When he feels threatened or in harm’s way, he might “get stuck.” According to Budo, being stuck is a very scary place for Max. He begins to shut down. He won’t speak to anyone else. He hugs his body into a ball. He hums to comfort himself. Being stuck could last anywhere from 10 minutes to two hours.
“I thought he nailed autistic tendencies. It gave me insight and compassion into a world about which I know very little,” offered one enthusiastic reader. Budo worries about Max’s parents. They argue. Max’s father holds fast to his belief that his son is a late bloomer. Max’s mother disagrees. Something isn’t quite right. Should Max enroll in a special school? Why doesn’t he enjoy playing with his peers? These are the late night conversations (or arguments) after Max is asleep. Budo stays with Max until he drifts off to dreamland. After that, Max is free to roam. And roam he does. From the corner convenience store to the hospital, Budo encounters a cast of interesting characters. This crew is indispensable when Max finds himself in a life or death situation. For all the elementary ideas and scenarios, the story takes a mature and terrifying turn when Max is suddenly abducted. Yet it seems he walked right out of his school building. Why would Max do such a thing? Everyone knows he thrives in routine and detests changes. Thus, the story kicks into high gear. Readers find Max in a secret place. Adult themes begin to play into the story. What kind of sacrifice will friends make for each other, regardless if those friends are touchable or untouchable. There is a quest for loyalty and truth as Budo encourages his friend Max, and coaches him through the struggle of a lifetime. At the heart of the matter is Max’s survival. But if Budo missteps, he could be relinquishing his own existence. The author’s clever storytelling keeps readers bound to the book as the Rambo-esque hero charges for home, a place of comfort and safety. And above all else, Max likes safety. As I processed the evening’s discussion, I realized “Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend” deserves a few more points toward an A. The simplicity of an imaginary friend’s support interwoven with complicated realistic matters really makes for a beautiful story. Perhaps it’s a matter of make-believe. Perhaps it’s a matter of believing in general. Perhaps it’s a matter to be discussed after reading the book. Susan O’Keefe is a wife to Jack, mother to four children, and eager to face the crazy, awesome, fun things God delivers daily. She and her family recently moved to Oxford, Mississippi, where Susan will continue to read and review, instruct fitness classes, and embark on this next adventure in life. WWW.WOMENSINC.NET 45
COMMUNITY
St. Joseph Bazaar returns for 101st year By Rachel Parker Dickerson The 101st annual St. Joseph School Bazaar will be Aug. 1-3, bringing with it the old-fashioned midway, the ever-popular auctions and plenty of food. Nicole Rappold, development director for St. Joseph Catholic School, described the activities scheduled for the school’s biggest fundraiser. “The bazaar started as a craft sale, which turned into the flea market, which is now open year round,” she said. “They will have special hours during the bazaar — 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. Thursday and Friday, and 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Saturday.” She continued, “We’re in our second century of the bazaar, because this is the 101st year, and the auction is becoming a staple. It’s here to stay because it’s a lot of fun. It’s going to be more casual and laid back than the auction has been in the past. We’re calling it the Wild Wild Auction … Highest bidder wanted.” Many people are attracted to the games and food on the midway, which will be Thursday and Friday, she said. Hamburgers, hot dogs, nachos, popcorn, lemonade and snow cones will be available. “Some of the favorite games are ham and bacon, sausage and cheese, country store and the cake stand,” Rappold said. “Some of the kids’ activities are the fish pond, animal fair, duck pond, petting 46 WOMEN’S INC. / AUGUST 2013
zoo and a bounce house.” A spaghetti dinner and box lunches available to the community will be Friday night. To order a box lunch, call 329-3865. New this year will be an annual report to the community from the development advisory board. The report will highlight accomplishments of the school, Rappold said. “We’ve never done an annual report before. We want to let people look at it and see what we did accomplish, because this is the reason we’re having the bazaar,” she said. The silent and live auction on Saturday night is a 21 and older event. Heavy hors d’oeuvres and beverages will be served. Rappold explained several changes to the auction this year. “On several items there will be a ‘buy it now’ auction, meaning it will have a price tag and you can pay that price and buy it rather than going through the bidding process,” she said. Many items that fall into similar categories have
been grouped into packages, allowing for more seating, she noted. For example, several spa services have been grouped together into a spa package rather than auctioned separately. Auction items include a very wide range of goods and services, from food and entertainment to health and fitness and much more, she said. Rappold said some of the most exciting items up for bid at the live auction will be a Michelangelo’s rooftop party for up to 70 people; a Big Cedar Lodge package that includes a one-night stay, a four-hour boat rental and a gift certificate; and a ring and earring set from designer Raymond Hak donated by Fletcher Smith’s Jewelers. A reverse drawing raffle will be held for the ultimate deer stand. Only 100 tickets will be sold at $50 apiece, and the last name in is the winner, she said. Various surprise raffles will be held at the auction. At the end of the evening, the winner of a 2013 Dodge Challenger will be announced. Rappold said, “Most of the items are coming from businesses in our community. Without them, the auction could not be a success. We’re really thankful to the community for their support over the past 101 years. In return, St. Joseph School is committed to continuing to produce Christian leaders of tomorrow.”