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Longing & Shaw were ‘meant to be’ Reader-submitted wedding photos The Barn at Moores

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CONTENTS 6

M A R C H 2 017 WOM EN ’ S IN C .

Editor Lori Quinn

Contributing Writers Jeanette Anderton Leah Ashby Detra Clark Marisa Hicks Colleen Holt Nancy Jackson Andrea Lennon Jill McCollum Susan O’Keefe Jennifer Stanley Jenny Strange Kelly Sublett

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COVER STORY Longing-Shaw Wedding: ‘We Were Meant to Be’

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Together Forever

Chief Photographer Brandy Strain Advertising Sales Director Betsey Barham

36 THE BIG DAY Reader-Submitted Wedding Photos

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ARTS

Conway Orchestra Teams Up with UCA

52. book review ‘Sisters Weiss’

By Naomi Ragen Susan O’Keefe review

Advertising Artists Jay Prince Lauren Morgenstern

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iMATTER Kelli Collins, Miss UCA 2017

columns

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Advertising Sales Executives Crystal Geraldson Sara Grady Leigh Anne Gray Rusty Hunnicutt

54. spiritual

Moving Beyond Regret

by Andrea Lennon

Editorial Advisory Board Leah Ashby Jenny Cabantac Detra Clark Alyson Fish Nicolle Fletcher Haley Crafton Fowler Sarah Frost Mary Harlan Nancy Jackson Cate Ketcheside Leslie Kostecky Caroline LaVan Velda Lueders Christina Munoz Madsen Candace Meeks Misty Morse Carol Patty Amy Reed Lori Ross Mary Margaret Satterfield Jennifer Stanley Katherine Thomason Stefanie Holt Vann

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LONGING-SHAW WEDDING

‘We were meant to be’

By Jennifer Stanley Lyndsey Sullivan Photography

The wedding of Chip and Allie Shaw was filled with love, family, and friends.

The couple was married at the William J. Clinton Presidential Library in Little Rock on August 27, 2016 at 6:00 p.m., surrounded by loved ones.

Allie is the daughter of Danny and Melissa Longing. She graduated from Conway High School and is also a graduate of the University of Central Arkansas with a degree in interior design. Allie is currently a real estate agent with Coldwell Banker RPM Group of Conway. She is also an independent artist whose work can be seen in various homes and businesses around the city.

Chip is the son of Tim and Jonna Shaw.

He is also a graduate of both Conway High School and the University of Central Arkansas. He went on to graduate from the University of Arkansas School of Law in Fayetteville. He is currently on active duty with the United States Air Force JAG Corps.

The Proposal

Chip nor Allie can pinpoint exactly when they decided to marry. They only knew they would. “We pretty much knew when we knew,” says Chip. “Our relationship evolved, and we just knew we were meant to be,” confirms Allie.

When asked about pre-proposal jitters, Chip says, “I actually did not get too nervous until the day I proposed. I had planned our engagement since November or December the year before. So, most of the details were checked, double checked, and completely ironed out. As most people know, we got engaged in New York because one of Allie’s best friends lives there.” With plane tickets secured as a 6 WOMEN’S INC. / MARCH 2017

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Christmas gift, the duo left for their trip over spring break.

“Everything went perfect until the day of the proposal, when Allie started hinting…. that we might get engaged. She just had a silly grin the whole day and eventually told me she knew it was going to happen on the

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trip because of an insider tip she got from her parents’ housekeeper. We had a phenomenal engagement and, regardless of whether she knew or not, I wouldn’t change a thing.”

The proposal occurred in March 2015, complete with photographers hired by Chip to capture the moment.

The Wedding

“Choosing the wedding venue wasn’t much of a challenge at all. My Mammaw, Shirley Montgomery, is a volunteer at the library and was actively involved in former President Bill Clinton’s election campaigns.

She was a great help, as she had seen many

weddings there,” shares Allie.

The wedding featured all shades of pink. “I didn’t want to be too specific, so all the pinks didn’t have to match exactly. It opened the door for the florist and me to be creative,” says Allie. The groom’s wedding party wore tuxedoes selected by Chip from Bell & Sward Gentlemen’s Clothier of Conway. Allie and her matron of honor, Lauren Hum, chose the bridesmaids dresses from the Bridal Cottage in North Little Rock.

Allie’s attendants included matron of honor Lauren Hum of Conway. Her bridesmaids were Morgan Shaw of Conway; Anna Cherry of New York, New York; and Elizabeth Novick of Washington, DC. Chip’s best man was Jonathan Shaw of Conway. His groomsmen included Tyler Vaughters of Kansas City, MO; John Lewis of Fayetteville; Patrick Hum of Conway; and Ross Durham, also of Conway.

Jamesyn Shaw, Lyric Compton, and Aspen Longing served as flower girls, and JJ Shaw served as ring bearer. Jacob Lively of Little Rock; Chance Meeks of Jessieville; Jaime Beck of Houston, TX; and David James of Springdale were ushers. Ryan Long of Conway officiated the ceremony, while Alyssa Parks kept the guestbook.

Of the wedding day, Allie says, “I loved having all the girls with me in the governor’s suite at the Marriott Downtown. We had a small lingerie shower that day and enjoyed breakfast and lunch together, while reminiscing about high school.” During the ceremony, Allie wore a diamond bracelet gifted to her upon graduating from college.

“My pappy had given it to her, and she passed it down to me. I was so happy the day had finally arrived and was so happy to be marrying Chip.”

Chip remembers seeing Allie for the first time at their wedding: “When I saw her, she looked stunning. I almost want to say I couldn’t believe how beautiful she looked, but I did.

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“When I saw her, she looked stunning. I almost want to say I couldn’t believe how beautiful she looked, but I did. She is, and always has been, so incredibly gorgeous that it takes me aback every time I look at her.”

—Chip Shaw

She is, and always has been, so incredibly gorgeous that it takes me aback every time I look at her. So, obviously, when I saw her in her amazing dress and all the accoutrements, it filled me with a realization that I get to marry this incredible woman who is phenomenally attractive, smart, caring, and has found somewhere in her heart to love me. It may seem weird that all of that went through my head then, but it did. The cool thing is; I get to wake up to her every morning and still feel the same way every time I open my eyes and see her.”

The Reception

Chip and Allie’s reception was held in the great hall. The cuisine featured Italian specialties, which were catered by the library staff, headed by Phillip Mayfield and Taren Robinson. The bride’s and groom’s cakes were from PattiCakes Bakery of Conway. Memphis Soul Revue provided the musical backdrop for the evening.

Allie wanted the wedding, and particularly the reception, to incorporate her love of art. Allie’s own art was on display. In addition, artist Kateri Balogh completed a live painting during the reception and also painted the abstract style tablecloths.

Allie and her father danced the traditional father/daughter dance to “My Girl,” and Chip and his mother took their spin to “You’ve Got a Friend.” Chip and Allie’s first dance was to Leon Bridges’ “Home.”

Memorably, their nephew, JJ, wanted to join in on the dance. The couple honeymooned at Sandals La Source in St. George’s, Grenada. Their trip was taken two weeks post-wedding to coincide with the bride’s birthday. “Everything was perfectly flawless.”

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By Leah Ashby and Linda Mars

Photos by Emily Simpson

If you are planning a bridal shower or other event and need recipe ideas, look no further.

Stacia Adams and friends recently hosted a bridal shower at her home in Adamsbrooke honoring Whitney Harris, bride-elect of Tanner Smith. Stacia is known for creating a relaxed atmosphere, while serving delicious food surrounded by creative decor. The hostesses served some of their tried and true dishes, but also purchased cake balls from pattiCakes, as well as other treats from local businesses.

Friends and family of the couple gathered for an afternoon of fun, food, and celebration.

Stacia graciously shared some of the featured recipes with Women’s Inc.

Conway residents Leah and Linda are longtime friends who love entertaining family and friends. Leah is a business analyst at Acxiom Corporation, and Linda is a Registered Nurse at Circle of Friends Clinic at Arkansas Children’s Hospital.

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Conway Punch Ingredients • 3 cups sugar • 3 tablespoons almond extract • 1 cup Real lemon juice • 3 quarts water • 1 46-oz. can pineapple juice Instructions 1. Mix all ingredients and freeze overnight.

2. Remove from freezer 1 – 2 hours before serving. Serve slushy.

3. When read to serve, add 1 liter of ginger ale and 1 liter of Sprite.

Cowboy Caviar Ingredients • 1 can pinto beans • 1 can black-eyed peas • 1 can white shoepeg corn • 1 red bell pepper, chopped • 1 green bell pepper, chopped • 3 – 4 green onions, chopped • 2 fresh avocados, chopped • Cilantro, optional • ¼ cup extra virgin olive oil • ¼ cup vinegar • 1/3 cup sugar Instructions 1. Combine first 8 ingredients.

2. Heat olive oil, vinegar and sugar at medium-high heat until sugar is fully dissolved.

3. Pour mixture over combined ingredients and refrigerate.

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Pimento Cheese Bacon Mini-cheeseball Bites

Ingredients For the Pimento Cheese: • 8 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature • 1/4 cup mayonnaise • 1 teaspoon Worcestershire sauce • 1/2 teaspoon Dijon mustard • 1/2 teaspoon garlic salt • 1/4 teaspoon onion powder • 1/4 teaspoon ground cayenne pepper • 8 ounces extra-sharp cheddar cheese, freshly grated • 1 (4-ounce) jar diced pimentos, drained • Salt & freshly ground black pepper, to taste

For the Mini-cheeseball Bites: • 18 ounces bacon, cooked until crisp and finely diced (about 1 1/2 cups diced) • 1 1/2 cups pecans, toasted and finely chopped • 1 to 2 jalapeños, minced (seeds & membranes removed) • Pretzel sticks

Instructions To make Pimento Cheese: 1. In a large bowl, use an electric mixer to beat cream cheese until smooth. Beat in mayonnaise, Worcestershire sauce, Dijon mustard, garlic salt, onion powder, and cayenne. Scrape bowl and mix in grated cheddar and diced pimentos until well combined.

Season with salt and/or black pepper, to taste. Refrigerate for at least 4 hours or until firm.

To make Mini-cheeseball Bites: 1. In a medium bowl, combine diced bacon, chopped pecans, and minced jalapeños. Using a spoon or a small cookie scoop, form heaping tablespoons of pimento cheese into balls. Roll each pimento cheese ball in the mixture of bacon, pecans, and jalapeños, pressing coating into cheese so that it

adheres.

2. Refrigerate cheese balls until firm, and keep them chilled until ready to serve. Just before serving, skewer each cheese ball with a pretzel stick.

Notes: To toast pecans, spread out on a sheet pan and bake in a preheated 350°F oven until lightly toasted and fragrant, 7 to 10 minutes.

Allow pecans to cool before finely chopping them.

As long as you remove the seeds and membranes from the jalapeños and very finely dice them, they shouldn’t be too spicy.

Use as much jalapeño as you wish, however, based on your personal preference.

You can make the cheese balls ahead of time, but don’t insert the pretzels until just before serving or they will become soggy.

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WEDDING GUIDE 2017

Make proposals special and successful A marriage proposals is a couple’s first official step toward the altar. Tradition dictates that men pop the question, with their surprised — and hopefully soon-to-be-fiancées — ultimately deciding if wedding bells will be on the horizon.

Proposing marriage can be nervewracking.

However, if the time seems right and love is in the air, popping the question can be exciting. Regardless of who is proposing marriage, the following strategies can help make proposals memorable and successful.

Turn the tides

An old Irish tradition known as “The Lady’s Privilege” was established in the fifth century by a nun named St. Brigid. She decided to create an opportunity for women to propose marriage. This day fell on every leap year, February 29. Centuries later, women can still use this tradition as the impetus to take the marriage reigns into their own 18 WOMEN’S INC. / MARCH 2017

hands. But women need not wait for the next leap year to propose.

Many women view proposing as an empowering action that is tied to the evolving view of independent women. Couples are negotiating more in the marriage process, and the dissolution of commonly held practices is occurring more often.

Choose a sentimental location

Couples will remember the proposal for the rest of their lives. So choose a proposal location that has sentimental connections.

Think about where the first “I love you” was uttered or where a first date occurred. These can be prime locations to pop the question.

Note her style

Engagement rings play a big role in many couples’ proposals. One person’s style is not necessarily what his partner will like. Bigger isn’t always better. Rather, choose a ring that

reflects your partner’s preferences and personality. Take your partner jewelry shopping and see which types of jewelry he or she is most drawn to. Certain preferences can serve as a jumping off point for ring designs.

Ask for the family’s blessing

Men no longer need to ask their girlfriends’ fathers for “permission” to wed their daughters. However, asking your partner’s family for their blessing is a sign of respect and can add a romantic and heartfelt touch to the proposal.

Capture the moment

Though we live in an age when every moment of people’s lives is documented with videos and photographs posted to social media, proposals still stand out as extra special moments. Hire a professional photographer to discreetly capture the proposal and your partner’s reaction so it can be cherished for years to come.

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WEDDING GUIDE 2017

Weddings and nontraditional families Families come in all shapes and sizes. During special events — particularly those steeped in tradition, such as weddings — blended families may have to employ certain tactics to ensure the events go off without a hitch.

When planning their weddings, couples must give consideration to the needs of their families. Even though a wedding is about the union of two people, oftentimes couples engaged to be married must contend with the politics of divorce or other familial issues. This includes if and how to incorporate stepparents and stepsiblings into the ceremony and celebration.

There are no traditional rules regarding how to handle blended families, so brides- and grooms-to-be can customize their decisions based on their own unique situations. Even when families have been happy through the years, the unique circumstances and traditions surrounding the nuptials can dredge up former insecurities, and certain aspects may require extra patience and tact. Here’s how to navigate the process. n Consider stepparents and stepsiblings VIPs. Brides and grooms who are not par22 WOMEN’S INC. / MARCH 2017

ticularly close to their stepfamilies still have to recognize the role they play in the family dynamics. These people are still family, so respect and courtesy should be offered. If there is any lingering animosity, extend the olive branch on this day and try not to let anyone be made to feel as if they are unimportant. A simple announcement of who stepparents are at the wedding reception or inclusion of their names on wedding itineraries can help smooth over any potential bumps. n Put others’ needs before your own. While the wedding may be about you and your future spouse, you must consider the feelings of others. Biological parents and stepparents may act defensively if they feel uncomfortable or hurt, and that can create an air of negativity to the day. Try to avoid this by considering potential areas of conflict. For example, mothers might be hurt if their ex-husbands’ new girlfriends are asked to be in a group family photo.

Instead, select separate times to have everyone included. Remember to give parents and stepparents priority seating as well, and they each should be seated next to someone they love and someone with whom they can converse

comfortably. You may think everyone can play nice, but it’s best not to push the issue just to make a point at the wedding. n Recognize that some families break the mold. Recently, a father made waves on the Internet when a video of him pulling the bride’s stepfather up to assist in walking her down the aisle went viral. This was a wonderful image of families making it work despite their differences or the awkwardness that can result when brides or grooms have parents and stepparents in attendance. Although this scenario might not play out for all, find ways to impart a special touch, especially if you’re close to both your biological parents and your stepparents.

For example, your biological father may walk you down the aisle, while your stepfather may enjoy the first dance. n Order flowers and gifts for all. Purchase flowers and wedding party gifts for all of the special people in your lives, including your stepfamily.

Weddings can be complicated affairs when factoring in blended families. With patience and compassion, such families can enjoy a beautiful and happy day.

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WEDDING GUIDE 2017

Master the wedding save-the-date Many couples’ weddings take more than a year to plan. Couples want all of the special people in their lives to witness their vows, and giving guests advance notice can ensure as many loved ones as possible attend the ceremony.

To be certain that guests have ample notice to clear their schedules, many couples now turn to save-the-date cards, which announce weddings well in advance of the actual wedding day.

Save-the-date cards once were reserved only for weddings that required travel or special circumstances, such as destination weddings. But such cards have now become commonplace for all weddings. That’s because many people plan vacations or business trips anywhere from four to six months in advance.

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particularly when wedding dates fall during popular travel seasons or around the holidays.

Kleinfeld Bridal, a premiere New York bridal boutique, says that save-the-date cards are typically mailed six to eight months prior to the wedding, though some are sent as early as a year before the big day. Once a date and a location is secured, save-the-dates can be ordered and mailed.

Save-the-date cards require couples to assemble their guest lists well in advance of the wedding. The leading bridal resource The Knot notes that everyone who will get a wedding invitation should also receive a save-the-date card. There’s no turning back once cards are sent, so couples will need to be certain everyone they want to attend is getting advanced notice.

It’s acceptable to mail save-the-date cards even if some wedding day details are still up

in the air. Guests really only need to know the date and location of the wedding. Couples also can use the save-the-date card to direct invitees to a wedding website where guests can learn the details of the wedding as they unfold.

RSVP information does not need to be included on the save-the-date card.

Save-the-date cards are much less formal than invitations, so couples can have fun with them. They can showcase couples’ clever personalities or funny quirks. Keep in mind it is in poor taste to mention gifts or registries on save-the-date cards. There will be plenty of time to direct guests to registries later on.

Couples are increasingly turning to savethe-date cards when planning their weddings to make sure busy friends and family will have enough time to make plans to attend their weddings.

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2016 | ANNUAL REPORT 28 WOMEN’S INC. / MARCH 2017

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PRESIDENT’S MESSAGE

CLASSROOM IMPACT GRANTS & TEACHER OF THE YEAR

Helping teachers help students is the mantra of the Conway Public Schools Foundation. When we can see the Foundation’s mission manifested throughout the classrooms of this district, it validates our mission and proves that progress has been made.

The Foundation is committed to inspiring teachers and students through the Classroom Impact Grant initiative. This district-wide teacher and classroom enrichment grant program is designed to inspire the creativity of Conway Public Schools teachers so that they may generate excitement and enable life-long learning for their students.

In 2016, as our annual report shows, our collective efforts toward that mission resulted in the very kind of progress that we can clearly define as success. The Foundation strives each year to provide teachers with meaningful, additional resources to enrich the educational environment. Our hardworking and creative teachers inspire all of us daily, and we want to share that excitement with you.

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As we look back at our recent accomplishments during the past year, we humbly believe that we have much to celebrate. Please read through this report, and strongly consider how you may become involved in furthering our ongoing progress. You can help us make a difference, and achieve our mission.

Thank you for your interest in Conway Public Schools, and most importantly, for your support and advocacy for our teachers and our students.

With Warmest Regards,

Ashley Clark -Ellen Smith Elementary Danielle Creswell - Ellen Smith Elementary Monica Flowers - Courtway Middle School TK Gault - Carl Stuart Middle School Michelle Gould - Theodore Jones Elementary Stacy Hammons -Jim Stone Elementary Randi House - Theodore Jones Elementary Nathan Howse - Theodore Jones Elementary Nicole Loftis - Ida Burns Elementary Shannon Maiden - Ruth Doyle Middle School Tali Nelle-Davis -Florence Mattison Elementary Natalie Shepherd - Theodore Jones Elementary Jessica Smoskly - Conway Junior High Candice Spencer -Theodore Jones Elementary Rebakah Stroth - Woodrow Cummins Elementary

The 2016-17 Conway Corporation Teacher of the Year recipient is Mrs. Anita Cegers-Coleman. She was recognized with a $2,000 grant and award at the annual back-to-school teacher rally. The honor is underwritten by the generous support of Conway Corporation who endowed the award.

Beau Wilcox

BOARD OF DIRECTORS

HALL OF HONOR Beau Wilcox President Aaron Knight Vice President Drew Spurgers Secretary/Treasurer Susan DeBoard Susan McNabb Beth Fahr 30 WOMEN’S INC. / MARCH 2017

William Wofford Nick Lasker Mike Murphy Sharon Rapp Jamille Rogers Heather Zimmerman Carl Barger ex officio, Board of Education

Dr. Greg Murry ex officio, Superintendent Megan Fotioo ex officio, Conway Corporation Teacher of the Year Gloria Cheshier ex officio, Arkansas Community Foundation Arch Jones, Jr. ex officio, Past President

Marking its third class, 2016 saw the induction of three tremendous new members of the Hall of Honor. The Hall of Honor was founded to recognize former students, faculty, administrators and community leaders who have made significant and lasting contributions to Conway Public Schools.

Tab Townsell Distinguished Alumni

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BUILDING THE FOUNDATION

2016 brought to a close the Foundation’s inaugural capital campaign, entitled Building the Foundation.

Thanks to the generosity of hundreds of amazing donors, the Foundation concluded the campaign having raised nearly $740,000 in gifts and pledges.

Contributions made to the campaign represent a critically important investment in the long-term strength and success of Conway Public Schools, the quality of its teachers and the future of its students.

The success of the campaign wouldn’t have been possible with the tireless efforts of campaign co-chairs Bunny & Carol Adcock and members of the campaign steering committee. We wish to extend our sincerest gratitude for their time and efforts.

THE FUTURE

The Mission of the Conway Public Schools Foundation is to partner with teachers to enrich the learning environment for students by funding innovative programs and resources that stimulate creativity, promote excellence, and enable life-long learning. And the future is bright!

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The success of the Building the Foundation campaign has laid the groundwork for new opportunities to pursue our mission.

But the effort doesn’t stop. As we move into 2017, we ask you continue to follow and support the work of the Foundation, helping us to continue our progress. You can help us to make a difference.

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Sometimes the best wardrobe staples are the least obvious. Whether you want to emphasize a statement piece or keep your overall look simple, neutrals are your best friend. You already know the power of reliable beige, crisp navy and go-to black, but let’s reintroduce ourselves to the most underestimated neutral of them all — olive.

It’s all about incorporating olive add-ons to complement an existing outfit. The best way to introduce this neutral into your wardrobe is through the utilitarian army jacket. Lightweight, timeless and appropriate for all seasons this staple will ward off a chill on your next flight, movie night or dinner date. Add a pair of sunnies and greentinged booties and you’re set to go.

If you already know the olive game, sporting core pieces in this neutral chic color is your standard daily grind. To elevate your solid foundation, contrast the slouch of your olive trousers or flowing tunic with a structured later on top. Pick an edgy leather jacket or beat the heat with a long vest.

There are those of us who are not afraid to sport the color from head to toe. While a cute summer dress is always becoming, opt for a short romper that’s both super comfortable and on-trend. Break up the utilitarian look with feminine details or dainty jewelry. Come nighttime, drive home the point with an eye makeup that stuns and sparkles. Because boring, this neutral is not.

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THE BARN AT MOORES

RUSTIC RETREAT The Barn at Moore’s offers the perfect southern style venue for your next special event. From graduation celebrations, anniversary events, birthday parties, class reunions, family reunions, holiday parties, fall festivals, weddings and receptions, and corporate events this venue is the place for your special event.

Owners Tate and Amy Moore purchased this property about 5 years ago, and they officially opened for business the spring of 2016. When talking about the barn Amy says, “we had no idea that we would one day be able to share it with others by converting

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our family horse barn into a unique venue for weddings and events.”

This venue is centrally located in Faulkner County at 49 Cutter Lane between Greenbrier and Conway, in the Springhill area.

Amy said, “we want to make your event so special with memories that last a lifetime.”

With several weddings, class reunions, and other events under their belt, The Barn at Moore’s is ready to host your next event.

Check out their facebook page to see photos of the beautiful events this venue has hosted over the past year. For more information call 501-730-2845.

Amy Moore with son Talon and Tate Moore with daughter Kaylin.

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Homes Sales Going to the Dogs

When making decisions about buying, selling or renovating their homes, Americans, by and large, take their pets’ needs into account, according to a new report from the National Association of Realtors®. The 2017 Animal House: Remodeling Impact report found that 81 percent of respondents said that animalrelated considerations play a role when deciding on their next living situation.

“In 2016, 61 percent of U.S. households either have a pet or plan to get one in the future, so it is important to understand the unique needs and wants of animal owners when it comes to homeownership “ said NAR President William E. Brown, a Realtor® from Alamo, California and founder of Investment Properties. “Realtors® understand that when someone buys a home, they are buying it with the needs of their whole family in mind; ask pet owners, and they will enthusiastically agree that their animals are part of their family.”

In fact, according to the survey, 99 percent of pet owners said they consider their animal part of the family, and this becomes apparent in the sacrifices pet owners are willing to make when it comes to buying and selling homes. Eighty-nine percent of those surveyed said they would not give up their animal because of housing restrictions or limitations.

Twelve percent of pet owners have moved to accommodate their animal, and 19 percent said that they would consider moving to accommodate their animal in the future.

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one-third of their pet-owning clients often or very often will refuse to make an offer on a home because it is not ideal for their animal.

Realtors® also noted that 61 percent of buyers find it difficult or very difficult to locate a rental property or a homeowners association that accommodates animals.

When it comes to selling, 67 percent of Realtors® say animals have a moderate to major effect on selling a home. Approximately two-thirds of Realtors® say that they advise animal owning sellers to always replace thing in the home damaged by an animal, have the home cleaned to remove any animal scents and to take animals out of the home during an open house or showing.

Nearly half of all survey respondents, 52 percent, indicated that they had completed a home renovation project specifically to

accommodate their animal. Of those who undertook projects, 23 percent built a fence around their yard, 12 percent added a dog door and 10 percent installed laminate flooring. Ninety-four percent of consumers indicated that they were satisfied with their renovation; 58 percent indicated they have a greater desire to be at home and 62 percent enjoy spending more time at home since completing their renovation.

When it comes to the enjoyment homeowners gain from these projects, fencing in a yard and installing laminated floors rated highest, both receiving Joy Scores of 9.4; Joy Scores range between 1 and 10, and higher figures indicate greater joy from the project.

Adding a dog door came in a close second with a Joy Score of 9.2.

A majority of surveyed animal owners, 83 percent, indicated that they own a dog, which helps explain the overwhelming popularity of dog-related renovation projects. Forty-three percent of those surveyed said they own a cat, 9 percent own a bird, reptile, amphibian, arthropod, small mammal, or miniature horse, 8 percent a fish and 5 percent own a farm animal.

NAR members were also surveyed about their relationships with animals, with 80 percent of Realtors® considering themselves animal lovers and 68 percent indicating that they have pets of their own. Twelve percent of Realtors® surveyed volunteer for an organization that helps animals, and 21 percent plan to volunteer in the future.

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How Did You Sleep Last Night?

By David Smith

I’d have to honestly answer that question, “not very well.” In fact, it is a pretty rare night that finds me sleeping soundly all through the night. So as I write this article, I fully realize that I am writing it for myself as much as for my readers.

Our bodies are busy, even during sleep, and the amount of sleep we get each night can influence our mental and physical functions the following day. Other than feeling tired, what are some of the effects of sleep loss and what might be some things you need to do to improve your chances of getting a good night’s sleep? Here are some thoughts from my friends at RxWiki.

Sleep-deprived people often report feeling hungry. Why is that? The body releases several hormones during sleep, some of which help to regulate appetite. When the body doesn’t get enough sleep, the release of the hormones leptin and ghrelin can be affected, causing an increase in the hunger response. This may also increase cravings for high-calorie foods and lead to obesity over time. In fact, one Wisconsin sleep study found that body mass index increased proportionally to decreased sleep when participants got less than 8 hours of sleep. Note to self: Avoid the kitchen in the middle of the night!

Lack of sleep can affect the brain, too. According to a study by the National Academy of Sciences, attention span and short-term memory loss may be linked to sleep depriva-

tion. Researchers found that sleep-deprived participants often had difficulty paying attention during the study, which led to issues with retaining information and with short-term memory. Another study published in Current Opinion in Neurology found that sleep deprivation led to long-term memory problems. Additionally, sleep deprivation may affect cognition, attention, judgment, and complex decision-making. According to a study in The New England Journal of Medicine, medical interns who worked longer hours and were sleep-deprived often had a slower response time and made more medical errors.

Lack of sleep can produce impairments in cognitive and motor performance equal to being intoxicated. According to a study in Occupational and Environmental Medicine, 17 to 19 hours without sleep can reduce the body’s response time and accuracy by up to 50%.

That’s similar to the response time and accuracy of a person with a blood alcohol content of 0.05%. To put that in perspective, the legal limit in Arkansas is 0.08%.

Here’s a big one that is very timely for flu season. When our body is suffering from a cold or the flu it releases various substances (T-cells, B-cells, macrophages, antibodies, etc.) to fight off the infection. While these are vital to make us well, some of them may also cause fatigue, which may be why we want to sleep more than usual when we are sick. If you are sleep-deprived it is harder for you to fight off a virus. That explains why you may seem to catch every bug that’s going around. When you are

stressed or sick, your body’s immune system releases proteins called cytokines. Cytokines promote sleep. Sleep deprivation may decrease the production of these proteins.

Here’s one for you ladies – beauty sleep may not be a myth. Most of us have puffy eyes after a few nights of missed sleep. But did you know that chronic sleep loss might lead to lackluster skin, fine lines, and dark circles? While we are sleeping, the body secretes a growth hormone that helps to build and repair body tissues such as muscle and bone. This process has also been linked to maintaining collagen, which may help the skin to look young. Also, sleep is a natural moisturizer because the body perspires more during sleep, and this extra moisture may smooth out wrinkles.

Establish a sleep routine to help you get a better night’s rest. Avoid drinking caffeine or alcohol and eating late in the day. Make your bedroom sleep-friendly. That means keeping work and devices with bright screens away from sleep areas and keeping the bedroom quiet, dark, cool, and comfortable. If you find you can’t sleep, try reading a little to help to tire out your eyes. Of course there are medications available to help with sleep, but those should only be used as a final option.

David Smith is the owner and chief pharmacist at Smith Family Pharmacy where he works with his wife Shirley and staff. He graduated from the UAMS College of Pharmacy in 1974 and has been a pharmacist in Conway for over 41 years. He loves spending time with family and is NO1POP to 5 wonderful grandchildren.

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real estate

health

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First comes love. Then comes marriage.

Then comes a house, right?

But here’s what you need to know...

By Wendy Ferguson Realtor, Arkansas Property Brokers

So here we are in the season of weddings and everyone is happy and excited about this new journey. You will get all sorts of advice from friends and relatives about the newlywed period and specifically about home ownership. The intent is good, they will tell you “dont throw your money away on rent”, “this is the biggest investment you will ever make”, “interest rates are going up so buy now and get off on the right foot financially”, “build long term wealth” . . I could go on and on. Everything they are telling you is correct and if you are financially ready for home ownership its a smart next move! What they don’t tell you is what NOT to do once you’ve made an offer so I’ve compiled this simple list to keep your road to home ownership as smooth as possible: 1. Don’t change your job before submitting a loan inquiry for a home loan. Along with that, now is not the right time to become selfemployed or quit your job. You want to show lenders stability, which means you’ll be less likely to default on the loan.

2. Don’t change banks. Like your employ-

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ment, you want your banking history to show stability.

3. Don’t buy a car or truck or any other form of transportation that you have to finance. Buying one increases your debt-toincome ratio and that’s something loan officers don’t want to see.

4. Don’t buy furniture on credit before buying your house. Like financing a car, charging big-ticket items increases your debt-to-income

ratio and now is not the time.

5. Don’t be late on your credit card payments or charge excessively or open new credit cards. You need a track record of responsibility and show that you can manage your money.

6. Don’t make large or cash deposits into your bank accounts. Lenders want your down payment money to already be sitting in your account for at least two months - what they call “seasoning” - so that the funds don’t just appear out of the air.

7. Don’t co-sign a loan for anyone. Even if you’re not the one making the payments on that loan, it increases your debt-to-income ratio.

8. Don’t spend your money for closing costs. Part of the price of financing a loan is the closing costs and you likely have some responsibility for paying them. Make sure you have enough for your share of the obligation.

If you stick within these guidelines, along with all the other sage advice that everyone and their brother will give you, you can be confident that you won’t become house-poor and have your home ownership dream turn into a nightmare! And what a great way to start your newlywed days!

P.S. — not everyone waits until marriage to buy a home. Some people buy before the wedding, and some people buy as a single individual. This advice applies to you guys as well, even if you don’t have a big wedding on the horizon.

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The Road to Better Hearing

By Dr. Sam Kelso, Au.D.

There are many ways that patients can improve their hearing and hearing aids are just one piece of a puzzle for improving communication.

Digital hearing aids are marvels of technology.

They are programmed with computers to exactly match individual hearing loss. Many wirelessly connect to cell phones and televisions giving the user greatly enhanced listening ability. They perform millions of calculations per second to determine the source of a sound, whether or not to amplify the sound and by how much. Most have multiple settings that compensate for varying listening situations, similar to how bi-focal glasses work. The possibilities for settings and programming are almost endless. And to top it all off these technological marvels are so comfortable that most patients forget that they have them in their ears. But, regardless of all of the positive characteristics of a device made by man and machine, no device can replace the natural hearing that our creator gave us – no matter what glossy ad you get in your mailbox. So, how can you, the patient get the most out of hearing aids? What should your realistic expectations be? Are there things that you can do to help the hearing aids help you? Yes! • Early intervention is critical. The auditory cortex of your brain must stay stimulated to most effectively separate noise from speech.

Those who start early have much more success than those who procrastinate. Use it or lose it applies to your speech understanding.

• Be evaluated by a competent professional.

Too many seniors are inundated with mail offers and ads from stores promising everything under the sun for free and many ads make unrealistic claims. If it seems high pressure or “Only on sale this month”, walk away. Visit with your family doctor first about which doctor and audiologist they use and recommend for their patients.

• Wear your hearing aids daily. Occasional use is a path to frustration. It’s like taking medication occasionally and wondering why your symptoms aren’t improving.

• Have realistic expectations. I tell patients that they should be able to hear 80% of conver-

sation. (maybe more) but without hearing aids they may only hear half of that, and the brain struggles to fill in the missing gaps or fills in the gaps with the wrong words. Much of our ability to comprehend is based on past experience and memory. If hearing aids can help the patient hear more words then the brain has less work to do in filling in the gaps. To illustrate, compare these two sentences and fill in the blanks, the first example is without hearing aids, the second with: 1. I should _______appointment_________.

2. I’m going to bend over and tie my__________.

It’s much easier to fill in the blank of the second sentence. That’s how hearing aids work.

They help the patient fill in the blanks.

If you know someone who has hearing loss you can help them hear better by: • Rephrasing statements instead of raising your voice. Many listeners with sensory hearing loss suffer from a condition called hyperacusis, which is the inability to tolerate loud sound.

Rephrasing can improve comprehension. Example, you ask, “Did you see Mary’s new car?” they say “Huh”, simply rephrase, “Mary has a new car. Have you seen it?” You have said the same thing but used different words that the listener may understand better.

There is no need to continue with the frustration of hearing loss. Most all hearing can be improved with the right approach, so find an audiologist you trust and feel comfortable with and start hearing better today.

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DELIVER HOPE

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M eet t h e W I N C T eam

Velda Lueders

in the news

Editorial board member Business Name: Coldwell Banker RPM- Conway Job Title: Realtor Description of your job title: I have sold real estate for 21 years. Something I am enjoying is selling homes to second generation buyers. It is so much fun! Many of the buyers remember looking at homes with me and their parents. I am involved with the leadership team of the Faulkner County Board of Realtors and the Arkansas Realtors Association. I serve as treasurer for Faulkner Co. Board and as president elect for The Arkansas Realtors Association. I also serve on numerous committees at the local state level, and serve on the Professional Standard Committee for the National Association of Realtors.

Volunteer work: I currently serve on the Haven board of directors and what an exciting time to serve! Our building campaign is in full swing and Pony Up for Haven event preparations are underway. This year’s event is May 6th. My love for volunteer work was by example.

My parents were very giving people, always willing to help others. My first memorable volunteer work was a candy striper when I was in high school.

Something people would most likely not know: I love southern gospel music and traditional hymns. I sing along and it is a great stress reliever. The music sooths me when nothing else works.

In your free time: If not at a ballgame, we enjoy camping. I also love to bake, read and volunteer. Huge Wampus Cat baseball fan!! I get attached to parents and players, and when their senior year rolls around I am never ready to let them go. I love when a family has multiple players who make the team, because I get to enjoy those families’ extra years! I don’t like to lose, and replay innings in my mind with what if ’s!

Family: Husband- Coach (Barry), Daughters- Elisabeth, Catherine and grandchild Zoe who is our pride and joy!

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Crusin’ 4 Alzheimer’s Care planned for March 11 The upcoming Alzheimer’s Arkansas Conway Walk Event – Cruisin’ 4 Alzheimer’s Care will be March 11 at the Conway Country Club from 6-9 p.m. Tickets for the event are $35 for per ticket, or $60 for 2

tickets. There will be a silent and live auction along with a raffle for a 7 day Caribbean Cruise.

Raffle tickets are 1 for $10 or 3 for $25.

The band Suburban Legend will be performing. A photo booth and great auction items will be available.

You do not have to be present to win the raffle.

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book review

‘Sisters Weiss’

By Naomi Ragen Reviewed by Susan O’Keefe

Men were returning from the war.

Women were being booted from positions they’d held while the men were away. And the country was welcoming an influx of immigrants fleeing post-war Europe. It was the 1950s and quiet, rule-following Rose Weiss is living in Brooklyn with her sister and parents’ ultra-Orthodox teachings. It isn’t that she intended to defy her parents’ beliefs. But love causes people to make dangerous decisions. And the decisions she makes will incur consequences that span a couple of generations.

Rose and her sister Pearl were raised in a loving home with rules and restrictions that simply seem part of the norm. It isn’t until Rose’s unlikely encounter with a French immigrant that she begins to question the almost smothering statutes required of Jewish women. The mikvah is one such example, a ritual bath for orthodox women in order to achieve cleanliness and purity restoration each month at the end of their cycle and prior to their wedding

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susan o’keefe day. In Rose’s home, there is an expectation that girls will marry around the age of 17 to a Jewish boy who has been chosen by the family. The expertise of a matchmaker is utilized, but still the marriage is arranged.

The teenaged woman has no input. To deny this process is an unforgiveable sin in the orthodox Jews’ eyes. And that is just what Rose does.

The first part of the story has an atmosphere of sweetness about it as it chronicles the sisters’ lives growing up together, daily happenings in New York as Jewish girls in the 1950s, and the highs and lows of family life. There is community. There is love. There is laughter. But even then, as a young girl, Rose experiences the burning desire for something else. She doesn’t necessarily want to marry. She certainly doesn’t want a husband chosen for her. And she is interested in photography, studying it to the point that she is lost in its beauty, its truth, its reality, even its harshness. She dreams of a photography career, a forbidden dream for a young orthodox Jew. Adding to the depth of the story is the Yiddish spoken by the parents and grandparents. The words are defined for the non-Yiddish readers. It’s just one of the many ways that author Naomi Ragen subtly sprinkles the story with credibility.

Once older sister Rose is introduced to the young Frenchman, the course of her life is altered drastically. What once seemed black and white is now gray. The guilt is nearly suffocating as Rose begins a secret life taking photographs which eventually shock

and stun her parents. It is not appropriate.

Not proper. Not orthodox.

Although there are half a dozen pivotal moments in the book, there is a distinct acceleration in the story about a hundred pages in when Rose makes her life-changing choice. The setting switches gears and it is 2007. Pearl’s teenaged daughter, Rivka, experiences eerily similar feelings as her outcast Aunt Rose. The past seems to haunt the present and it appears that history will repeat itself.

Pearl is a mother and grandmother by this point. She is dutifully in a marriage arranged by her parents and wife to a man for whom she does not particularly love. The flashbacks to choices made forty years prior provide for an exceptional read. Whose memories represent what really happened?

As a world recognized photographer and mother to Hannah, Rose offers the best type of maternal advice she can give. As a family outcast, she knows all too well the price she has paid for success. But with all choices, there are consequences. And some choices yield long-term results, even severed relationships with those we hold dearly. But is reconciliation a possibility, especially since four decades have passed?

The author has a long list of credible books and this one just adds to her resume.

As a powerful page-turner, The Sisters Weiss earns its place on the list of top reads. It forces readers to ask themselves a host of provocative questions dealing with loyalty, betrayal, love, and the bonds that refuse to be broken no matter the alleged crime.

There is community. There is love. There is laughter. But even then, as a young girl, Rose experiences the burning desire for something else. She doesn’t necessarily want to marry.

She certainly doesn’t want a husband chosen for her.

Susan lives in Augusta, Georgia, where her husband, Jack, is the Augusta University Men’s Golf Coach. Susan originally hails from Kentucky and graduated from the University of Louisville with a major study in Communication and a minor study in Health and Wellness. Susan enjoys the adventures of motherhood as she parents Lucy, John-Freeman, Henry, and Hogan (plus Oxford, the family’s black Labrador).

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spiritual

andrea lennon

MOVING

beyond REGRET

By Andrea Lennon

Think about a moment in your life when you experienced regret. You said something or did something that turned out to be wrong; or maybe you missed an opportunity to do something right. Regret — the longer we live the more likely we are to experience it in our lives.

Peter dealt with his fair share of regret. He wanted to do the right things and say the rights things. Often he got it wrong. When Jesus offered to wash Peter’s feet the reply was quick and to the point. “No,” said Peter, “you shall never wash my feet.” ( John 13:8, New International Version) Jesus replied,

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“Unless I wash you, you have no part with me.” ( John 13:8) “‘Then, Lord,’ Simon Peter replied, ‘not just my feet but my hands and head as well.’”

After the foot washing experience and prior to the cross, Peter denied knowing Jesus. The denial was clear. Peter communicated, not once, not twice, but three times that he did not know or follow Jesus.

Peter’s response to his denial of Jesus was overwhelming. Scripture states that he wept bitterly. (Matthew 26:74) Certainly, Peter experienced regret because of his actions and missed opportunities.

I am thankful that Peter’s story did not end at the foot washing incident or at the cross for that matter. Jesus did not give up on Peter.

After Jesus’ resurrection from the grave and before His ascension to heaven, Jesus met Peter on the water’s edge and cooked breakfast for him. Jesus asked a tough question. Three times Jesus asked, “Peter, do you truly love me?” Each time, Peter gave an honest reply. “Lord, you know that I love

you.” ( John 21:16) In response, Jesus said, “Feed my sheep.”

I love the message that Jesus conveyed to Peter. It was a message of hope and restoration. Jesus was letting Peter know that He still had a plan for Peter’s life. Jesus wanted Peter to look ahead, not behind. Thankfully, he did.

In the book of Acts, after Jesus went back to heaven, we see a changed Peter who had learned from his mistakes. Peter no longer lived for himself. Most importantly, Peter was empowered by the Holy Spirit. Peter did not get stuck in the past. By God’s grace, Peter moved beyond regret and lived the full, free abundant life God had for him. Check out Act 15 for the rest of the story. We don’t hear a lot about the Jerusalem Council, but it was an important moment in the development of the early church. Who was there leading the way? That is right — Peter.

For all of us who look back and experience regret over a decision that we made or an opportunity that we missed, we can learn from Peter. Jesus was willing and able to

bring beauty out of the ashes of Peter’s life and Jesus is willing and able to do the same for us. He does not toss us to the side when we make a mistake. He graciously shows us that we can move beyond regret and embrace God’s plans for our lives.

No matter what you have done, today can be a new day for you and your family. God’s grace, love, and forgiveness are available.

How about bowing your head, confessing your sinful past, and watching Jesus wash away your regret? One thing is certain, He will replace the regret with an incredible life lesson that will be part of your journey.

Right now, you can move beyond regret and experience the love and grace of God as He reminds you that He still has a plan for your life.

Andrea Lennon lives in Conway, Arkansas, with her husband, Jay, and sons, Jake and Andrew.

Andrea ministers to the women of Arkansas through a speaking and writing ministry called True Vine Ministry. To learn more about this ministry, access Andrea’s website at www. andrealennon.net.

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arts ARTS CALENDAR

Conway Symphony Orchestra presents Planets

March 2017 Events – Please check out the event website for more information and pricing.

March 1: Public recital by UCA Faculty Chamber @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 2-16: Art exhibit on view: Annual Student Art Competitive 2017 - sponsored by the UCA Department of Art @ UCA Baum Gallery; 10:00 am - 5:00 pm March 2, 9, 16, 23: Make Greeting Cards @ the Faulkner County Library; 5:00 p.m. nancy@fcl.org (PG13) March 2, 9, 16, 23: Make Jewelry @ the Faulkner County Library; 6:00 p.m. nancy@fcl.org (PG13) March 2: Public concert by UCA euphonium graduated student Steven Flores@ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 2-4: Endgame by Samuel Beckett Live theatre @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Center Black Box Theatre; Mar 2-3, 7:30 p.m., Mar 4, 2:00 p.m.; www. uca.edu/cfac/ (PG-13) March 3: Pizza and Painting @ Blackbird Academy of Arts; 6:00-8:00 p.m. www.blackbirdacademy. org (Ages 5+) March 4: The DooWop Project @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 p.m. www.uca.edu/reynolds (G) March 5: Public concert by UCA Composers Forum @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 6: Public concert by UCA saxophone guest artist Matt Taylor @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 7: Public concert by Natural Slides @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm www. uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 9: Public performance and lecture by UCA Artist in Residence actor/puppeteer Rick Lyon @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Center Bridges/ Larson Theatre; 3:00 - 4:00 pm www.uca.edu/cfac/ (PG) March 9: Public concert by UCA voice student

By Jennie Strange In a unique partnership with the University of Central Arkansas (UCA) Physics Department, the Conway Symphony Orchestra will be presenting Gustav Holst’s Planets on March 11. Each of the seven movements of the suite are named for a planet in the Solar System and its corresponding astrological character, as defined by Holst. Physics professor Dr. Scott Austin will provide short narration about each planet, accompanied by projected images. In an interesting comparison, Maestro Israel Getzhov (Izzy) will share about the astrological inspiration behind the music.

“For example, the movement Mars is very loud with an angry tone because it is written for Mars, the god of war. The music refers to both the astronomical planet and the astrological reference,” explained symphony General Manager Vicki Crockett. “Izzy’s view is that mythology was the science of the time- it’s how they structured their understanding of the universe then, whereas we use science today.”

Prior to the show, starting at 6:00 p.m., a STEAM fair will be hosted in the lobby of Reynolds. Representatives and interactive informational tables from organizations in the fields of science, technology, engineering, art, and mathematics will be present for all ages to enjoy.

Then, directly following the concert, audience members will be invited to the Conway Corporation Center for Sciences for cookies, punch, and planetarium shows in the new planetarium. Weather permitting, tours of the observatory will also be available.

The idea for the multi-tiered concert and event came from a flyer Crockett received in the mail. “There is a person who provides a show based around the music of the planets. We started looking into it and we realized we had the resources right here in our own community to be able to present a show like that. We talked with the astronomy department at UCA and they were on board. We have people with PhD’s in Astronomy right here – why would we hire an outside person?” Crockett said. “It’s also a wonderful opportunity to highlight the new planetarium and science center.”

Planets is underwritten by First Security Bank, with hospitality support from Julie’s Sweet Shoppe and Nabholz. The Conway Symphony Orchestra is a non-profit organization that hosts 6-7 concerts annually, with an average of 75 professional and pre-professional musicians per concert.

The concert will also include a piece by French Horn player Vivian Chang, the winner of the annual UCA Concerto competition.

The performance will begin at 7:30 p.m. and last approximately an hour and fifteen minutes.

For more information, go to www.conwaysymphony.org . For tickets, contact the Reynolds Box Office at 501-450-3265. Discounts are available for groups, UCA faculty, and staff.

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Noah Davidson@ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 p.m.; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 9: An Evening with Murphy Visiting Poet Aracelis Girmay @ Hendrix Reves Recital Hall; 7:30 p.m. (A) March 9: Adam Trent, the Illusionist @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 p.m. www.uca.edu/reynolds (G) March 10: Driving the Delta @ Art on the Green; 4:00-6:00 p.m. www.artonthegreen.net (G) March 11: True Alisandre in Concert @ the Faulkner County Library; 2:00 p.m. nancy@fcl.org (G) March 11: Auditions for Barefoot in the Park @ Red Curtain Theatre; 5:00 p.m. www.redcurtaintheatre.com (Ages 20+) March 11: STEAM Fair presented by the Conway Symphony Orchestra @ UCA Reynolds Performance Hall; 6:00 p.m. www.conwaysymphony. org (G) March 11: The Planets presented by the Conway Symphony Orchestra @ UCA Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 p.m. www.conwaysymphony.org (G) March 12: Public concert by UCA trombone graduate student Kody Hartman @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 3:00 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 13: Public concert by UCA voice graduate student Bien Haoxiang @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 14: Public concert by UCA trombone faculty Justin Cook @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 16: Public concert by UCA Wind Ensemble @ UCA Reynolds Performance Hall; 7:30 pm www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 16: Mark Spitzer Author Talk @ the Faulkner County Library; 7:00 p.m. nancy@fcl.org (A) March 17, 18: The Lion, the Witch, and the Wardrobe presented by Blackbird Academy of Arts @ Antioch Baptist Church; Mar 17 @ 7:00 p.m.; Mar

18 @ 2:00 p.m. (G) March 17: Junie B’s Essential Survival Guide to School @ Reynolds Performance Hall; 6:00 p.m. www.uca.edu/reynolds (G) March 17-19; 23-26: How I Learned to Drive @ The Lantern Theatre; www.conwayarts.org (A) March 20-21: Auditions for Mothers and Sons and for Stop Kiss @ The Lantern Theatre; www.conwayarts.org (A) March 26: Public concert by UCA violin student Gustavo Fernandez @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 27: Faculty Piano Recital @ Hendrix Reves Recital Hall; 7:30 p.m. (PG13) March 29: Public concert by UCA oboe faculty Lorraine Duso-Kitts @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 30: Public concert by UCA flute student Mary Hales @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 30: Making the Myth Real: W.H. Auden’s Homer and the ‘Shield of Achilles’ by Catherine Schlegel @ Hendrix Mills C; 7:30 p.m. (A) March 31: Sally Barris in Concert @ the Faulkner County Library; 7:00 p.m. nancy@fcl.org (PG13) March 31: Hendrix Dance Ensemble Spring Concert @ Hendrix Staples Auditorium; 7:30 p.m.

(PG13) March 31: Public concert by UCA percussion student Jared Hackett @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 5:00 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) March 31: Public concert by UCA percussion student Scott Strickland @ UCA Snow Fine Arts Recital Hall; 7:30 pm; www.uca.edu/cfac/ (G) Rating key: G – Suitable for all ages PG-Suggested for ages 7+ PG13- Suggested for ages 13+ A- Suggested for Adults 18+

Jennie Strange is the founder and Executive Director of Blackbird Academy of Arts, a non-profit organization dedicated to providing quality performing and visual arts education. She lives in Conway with her husband, Statler, and a random assortment of dogs, goats, and chickens. To submit your arts calendar events, email Jennie@blackbirdacademy.org

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imatter

Kelli Collins

GENERATION

imatter Young people are often the pulse of a community, as sporting events, school events and activities bring them into the spotlight.

Women’s Inc. wants to showcase these young people in a special feature each month. iMatter will seek to tell the stories of a new generation of community, skill, success and achievement. Do you know a student in Faulkner county who is truly one of a kind?

Send youth’s name, school, parents contact information (if under 18) and a brief explanation of why you think your youth or you would make a iMatter candidate to Winc@thecabin.net

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Miss UCA 2017 humbled, looking forward to year ahead Story & Photos by Hilary Andrews When Kelli Collins was a little girl she became interested in pageants.

“I’ve been competing ever since,” she said.

The now 19-year-old University of Central Arkansas student from Dardanelle was crowned Miss UCA 2017 on Nov. 18 at Reynolds Performance Hall.

“At first it was more of a fun thing to do on the weekends,” she said. “My mom and I just kind of had fun getting me dressed up and letting me walk on stage.”

When she was seven, Collins said she was a princess in the Miss Arkansas program and got to see the backstage side of pageants and how it positively affected the older girls like the scholarship prizes.

“I realized how [much] more serious I needed to get about it,” she said. “Pageants are basically

my whole life now. I put everything I have into it. It’s a much bigger part of my life [now] than when I was 6 years old, that’s for sure.”

Collins said pageants have taught her selfworth and other valuable lessons.

“That’s something that I’ve really learned through the system and I know that so many girls have as well,” she said. “So many young women get confidence and they get the feeling of selfworth. They know that it doesn’t matter what you look like in the dress or the swimsuit, it’s about the girl inside.”

For Collins, Miss UCA has been in the works for a while.

“I have said since the moment I came on campus, and even before then when I knew I was going to UCA, that I wanted to represent my university,” she said.

Last year as a freshman, Collins said she didn’t have the required hours to compete, but now as a

sophomore she was ready.

“I have worked so hard for this,” she said.

“I picked this one specifically because it’s so special. It’s not just another title where you’re only representing a city, which is so great in itself, but you’re representing your entire student body, your peers, the people you work with every single day.”

Collins, sponsored by Sigma Nu Fraternity, was among 11 students who competed for the title.

Miss America 2017 Savvy Shields, Miss Arkansas 2016 Savannah Skidmore and Miss UCA 2016 Ashton Purtle were in attendance, all three of which Collins said she is friends with.

“Having all three of them there to share that moment with me was really special,” she said.

Collins said since being crowned only two weeks ago, she’s already been scheduled for multiple events.

“Things are already in full swing,” she said.

“In the next week and a half I already have 12 appearances I’ll be making.”

For the next year as Miss UCA, Collins said she’s already set several goals including prepping to compete at Miss Arkansas, getting involved around the state and in the community, speaking at high schools and more.

“It’s something I’ve felt so humbled to be a part of,” she said. “It’s been crazy already, but I know it’s probably going to be the most exciting year of my life.”

One of the things Collins said she is looking forward to the most is involving UCA with her platform Make-A-Wish Foundation, a nonprofit organization that arranges experiences and wishes for children with life-threatening medical conditions.

“We haven’t done it yet and it’s one of the things I will soon be talking to the board of trustees about,” she said. “I’m really excited for the people on our campus to actually get the opportunity to see a wish be granted.”

Along with receiving $6,000 in scholarships and $10,000 in cash prizes and matchings, Collins said she also received $850 for winning the talent and interview portions of the competition and other awards.

“That moment when you know you’re not going to have to pay for school next semester … that’s actually the first thing I thought about,” she said. “That was the first blessing that I realized.”

Collins said at this point in her pageant career, she has so many people to thank including her family who has followed her all over the state to watch her compete.

“They put so much on hold for me and they’re always supportive,” she said.

As far as competing in Miss America, Collins said that’s always been a part of the plan.

“That’s the dream and if I had the opportunity to do so … wow,” she said. “That would be the ultimate moment and the ultimate goal to just be there and experience it and represent Arkansas.”