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Destination Weddings: Why Marry Away? DonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have a year to plan your wedding? Dreaming of a surfside ceremony? Here are six practical and personal reasons to wed away. (The Knot) In the past, marrying away from home usually meant eloping. The couple would steal away in the night to ď&#x192;&#x;ee family disapproval or expectations and tie the knot on their own terms. Today, the idea has shed its stigma and a growing number of couples are hightailing it away from the traditional formal affair to a casual, intimate occasion in their dream honeymoon spot. These destination weddings involve just the couple; the couple and a select handful of friends and family (often just another couple); or the couple plus enough guests
to constitute a bona ď&#x192;&#x17E;de week-long familyÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;or collegeÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C; reunion. Then, the just-marrieds can take a second week to disappear on their own. The Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;reception,Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? if any, is more like a big party and held when the couple returns home. Why are destination weddings a growing trend? 1. TheyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re Virtually Stress-Free Pop in the classic movie Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Father of the BrideÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? and youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll soon understand why destination weddings are so popular. They are almost guaranteed to be simpler (and faster!) to plan than a traditional wedding and re-
ception for two main reasons: * Honeymoon-happy resorts and cruise lines around the world have made it easier and more appealing to wed on-site. Many have full-time wedding coordinators on staff who are familiar with that countryÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s marriage license requirements and who offer wedding packages that take care of all your ceremony essentials (photographer, cake, minister, etc.). You step off the plane and sign the papers; they take care of the rest. * If youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not getting married at a resort, you can hire a stateside wedding planner
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Wedding Dates to Avoid in 2011 and 2012 (The Knot) Ready to start planning? Before you put down a deposit, check this list of dates you might want to steer clear of when booking your wedding. Holiday Weekends Holiday weekend weddings have pros and cons. You ’ve got an extra day for the festivities (and recovery!); plus, it ’s easier to host a Sunday wedding, which is often less expensive than a Saturday one would be. However, costs of travel and hotels may be higher. Also, having a holi-
day wedding might adversely affect your wedding guest list. Some families have standing holiday weekend plans or traditions that they ’d prefer not to disrupt. Martin Luther King Jr. Day (always a Monday) January 16, 2012 Presidents ’ Day (always a Monday) February 21, 2011 February 20, 2012 Memorial Day (always a Monday) May 30, 2011 May 28, 2012
Independence Day Monday, July 4, 2011 Wednesday, July 4, 2012 Labor Day (always a Monday) September 5, 2011 September 3, 2012 Columbus Day (always a Monday) October 10, 2011 October 8, 2012 Thanksgiving (always a Thursday) November 24, 2011 November 22, 2012 New Year ’s Eve Saturday, December 31,
2011 Monday, December 31, 2012 Religious and Cultural Holidays Be mindful of religious and cultural holidays (your own and those of your guests) when planning your wedding. There may even be restrictions at your house of worship as to whether you ’re allowed to marry at these times. Palm Sunday April 17, 2011 April 1, 2012
Easter Sunday April 24, 2011 April 8, 2012 Passover (begins at sunset the night before) Tuesday, April 19, 2011 Saturday, April 7, 2012 Tisha B ’Av (begins at sunset the night before) Tuesday, August 9, 2011 Sunday, July 29, 2012 Hashanah (begins at sunset the night before) Wednesday, September 28, until nightfall on Friday, September 30, 2011 Monday, September 17,
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How to Plan an Engagement Party (The Knot) Setting the Engagement Party Date An engagement party usually takes place within a couple months of the proposal. That said, if youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning to have a longer engagement, feel free to wait several months. Just make sure that your engagement party takes place closer to the time of your engagement than it does to your wedding date. Compiling the Engagement Party Guest List Anyone invited to your engagement party should ultimately be invited to your wedding, so the size of your engagement party guest list is really dependent upon your actual wedding day guest list. You might have as few as 10 or as many as upward of 100. When the host asks you to come up with a guest list, set it up so your closest family is ď&#x192;&#x17E;rst, followed by your best of friends, then go from there. Engagement Party Invites Your invites can be as simple or formal as you like, and really depend on the style and vibe youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re going for. Word of mouth or an E-vite is
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Easy Ways to Play Up a Spring Wedding Dreaming of peonies, sundresses, and swapping vows in a garden? From the invites to the menu, hereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s how to incorporate a little bit of spring into every wedding day detail. (The Knot) Style and Decor * Have an allover preppy feel to your celebration. Choose a pretty pink gingham fabric, and feature it everywhere. * Combine patterns for a unique look. Go for sophisticated stripes with ď&#x192;&#x;irty polka dots for a playful effect. * Choose a spring color, and use a slightly different shade of fabric on each reception table. Your tables will
look uniď&#x192;&#x17E;ed, but not matchymatch. Invitations * Have a common springtime motif, such as a peony or a bird, printed on the invites. * Choose a casual, yet engaging font to reď&#x192;&#x;ect a fun spring feeling. * Instead of a traditional belly band or wrap, use a wide ribbon in your wedding colors to tie up your invites. Flowers * Have your ď&#x192;&#x;orist pair
your favorite springtime ď&#x192;&#x;ower with fruits (ruby-red raspberries, luscious blackberries, or even strawberries) for a fete that feels as homegrown as a picnic in the park. * Hang ď&#x192;&#x;oral wreaths from the doors into your church or temple, or from a tree at your ceremony. * Bring spring indoors by creating a space awash in tiny spring bloomsÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;from single-bloom bud vases lining the bar to ď&#x192;&#x;oral-adorned bas-
kets in the bathrooms at the reception. Menu * Fill large punch bowls with fresh lemonade, iced tea and white-wine sangria, garnished with fresh lemons and fruit for a colorful drink menu. * Instead of more traditional beef, serve spring lamb with a garden-fresh herb sauce. * Ditch the hot soup idea and present delicate chilled pea soup in shot glasses as hors dÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;oeuvres. Wedding Cake
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Trend Alert! Morning-of Wedding Playlists HereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a list of song ideas to get you started creating your morning-of playlist. (The Knot) Fill up your iPod with a playlist of songs to listen to the morning of your weddingÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;you know, while youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re excitedly getting your hair and makeup done with your bridesmaids. Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Going to the ChapelÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? by The Crystals Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Chapel of LoveÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? by The Beach Boys Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Love and MarriageÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? by Frank Sinatra Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Get Me to the Church on TimeÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? from My Fair Lady Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;White WeddingÂ&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? by Billy
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Top 10 Groom Tips (The Knot) You bought the ring, popped the question and now you get to kick back until your wedding day rolls around, right? Well, that ’s one option, but the best way to keep her happy –and you out of the doghouse –is to get involved. Here are our top tips for being a great groom. 1. Have an Opinion This is your wedding too, so get in on the planning. Pick a few things that interest you (food? the wedding music? photos?). You don ’t have to wax poetic on the difference between lilies and daisies for the bridesmaid bouquets, but give your opinion on the major planning points; it ’ll let your ancé know she ’s not in this alone. And wouldn ’t it be nice to know a little something about your wedding before you attend it? 2. Relish Your Wedding Registry It may seem like a tedious task, but think about it: You get to wander around a store, picking things you want that someone most likely will buy you –you can ’t beat that. Better yet, it ’s now common to shop beyond the kitchen department. Consider home electronics, power tools and camping gear. Can ’t justify shelling out for a plasma screen yourself? Throw it on your wedding registry, and a group of friends might buy it for you! 3. Don ’t Be a Pushover – Really She wants to register for a yellow comforter with little
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Page 12, Bridal Edition • Friday, January 28, 2011 DESTINATION, continued from Page 2 who specializes in destination weddings, contact a wedding planner in the town you plan to wed, or start early and do it yourself. Either way, you won ’t have to plan a reception, and won ’t that be a relief?! 2. No Family Drama The second reason destination weddings rule? No scene-stealing family drama. For Jennifer and Marc Schwartz, the initial family strategy session began to foreshadow a very large gettogether of extended family and business associates. Predictably, each set of parents had their own ideas. One set thought the wedding should be held in New York City because most guests were from
the area. Another set had a problem with the expense of a big-city wedding. Jennifer says that she and Marc never stopped feeling that the event is, rst and foremost, about the two people getting married. “It ’s great if the two families are in rapport, but if not, who needs all that negative stuff? ” 3. They ’re Cost Effective The affordability of a destination wedding has many couples speeding off to the airport faster than you can say “I do. ” For instance, a couple can y to an all-inclusive resort in Jamaica, get married, and stay for a deluxe week-long honeymoon for a few thousand dollars, in-
cluding lodging, meals, drinks, and airfare. Compare that with your average 150-guest wedding costing about $22,000 –which can easily skyrocket to more than $100,000 in big cities –plus a few extra thousand for a honeymoon. To ease the nancial burden, many couples opt to travel to a place where they can get married, have a honeymoon, and still have some money left over to start their new lives together. 4. You Call The Shots While formal weddings hold meaning for many couples, linking them to the traditions of their ancestors and culture, others want the experience to be unique, with a ceremony and location that
reect their true colors. Perhaps an “Out of Africa ” experience? A snowy mountainpeak ceremony? The world is your altar. 5. They ’re Simply Perfect for Second Marriages Been-there-done-that couples who are getting married for the second or third time choose destination weddings because they ’re simple and private. Either the bride and/ or groom have done the Hollywood-scale production before and want something quieter or less expensive this time around, or they want to be someplace anonymous, without the watchful eyes and whispers of the hometown crowd. (Get married at a kid-friendly, all-inclusive
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Mother of the Bride: Top 8 Wedding Tips for Moms So youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re a Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;mother-of-the...Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;?? Read on for our top 10 tips for helping with your daughterÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s (or sonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s) big day (The Knot) Wedding planning isnÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t just a big deal for the bride and groom Â&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s also a major moment for their moms. HereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the lowdown on some of the biggest issues and mother of the bride duties youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll face during the wedding planning process. 1. Have the Money Talk In the initial excited moments of an engagement, tobe-weds will be thinking the skyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s the limit. WeÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not saying you need to put a damper on their enthusiasm, but you do need to be clear about your limits. (Unless theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve also announced that theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re paying for the wedding themselves, in which case hey, youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re off the hook!) Talk with your partner, then have a sit-down with the bride and groom-to-be to talk about the wedding ď&#x192;&#x17E;nances. Be clear about how much youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re willing to contribute to their wedding budget: Remember, youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re a M-O-M, not an A-T-M. 2. Play Your Part You probably have tons of wedding ideas, from that great wedding ď&#x192;&#x;orist your friendÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s daughter used, to the cake you saw a picture of in a magazine the other week, and thatÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s totally great. That said, donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t immediately assume youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be taking the reins when it comes to planning the wedding. Suss out what your son or daughterÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s expectations are by letting them know that if they need help with anything, youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be there for them. And if thereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s something youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;d
speciď&#x192;&#x17E;cally like to contribute an idea to, speak up when the time comes. But speed-dialing the bride or groom-to-be for every last tidbit of wedding info? LetÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just say there is such a thing as a momzilla. 3. Dress for the Occasion Whether youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re the mother of the bride or the groom, there are some easy rules of thumb to use when choosing your mother of the bride dress. First, follow the formality and style of the weddingÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;if itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s going to be a casual beach affair, youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re going to have to nix that black velvet gown, even if it does look great on you. Second, if youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not sure, ask! Both the mother of the bride and the mother of the groom should get in touch with each other and the bride. The bride can help you by keeping you in the loop about her wedding gown, the wedding colors and so on. And while you donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t need to match each other (or the bridesmaids), itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s usually a good idea for both the moms to have somewhat similar styles. The only major no-no? Skip the white (or any shade thatÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s even close)! That hue is for the bride only. 4. Get On the Guest List Be sure to talk to the bride and groom-to-be about their expectations for the guest list. Yes, they might be envisioning a mega-reception ď&#x192;&#x17E;lled with hundreds of friends and relativesÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;but they could also be thinking of an intimate outdoor affair with just
a few of their nearest and dearest. Find out what their plans are for the guest list and your contribution to it (and remember, the other parents are going to want input, too!). Once you know about how many people you can reasonably invite, you can draw up your own guest list and provide it to the bride and groom. If theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not sure how many people will work, a good idea is to put a star next to the guests you feel absolutely must be invited (donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t forget to factor in any plus-ones). 5. Pick Your Priorities There probably are some things you would really love to see be part of the wedding, whether including your own motherÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s favorite ď&#x192;&#x;ower in the bridal bouquet or getting your great-aunt Gertrude a good seat for the reception. But if you make a big deal out of everything single little detail, all youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll accomplish is driving the bride and groom crazyÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;and chances are, theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll ď&#x192;&#x17E;gure out your M.O. pretty quickly and stop budging on their decisions. And theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re right: ItÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s their wedding, not yours. So hereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a better plan: Choose a few things (say three) that you really, really want to be part of the wedding, and let the bride and groom know about them. Focusing on just a couple of items on the wedding agenda, the ones that really matter to you, allows you to pick your battles wisely rather than ď&#x192;&#x17E;ghting it out nonstop.
6. Meet the Parents If you havenÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t already, once the engagementÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s been announced its key for you to meet up with your son or daughterÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s soon-to-be inlaws. The newly engaged couple will likely initiate this, but if for some reason they donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t, feel free to bring it up. Just say something light like, Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Your dad and I are really excited to meet JaneÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents.Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? If they live hundreds of miles away, thatÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s one thing. But if itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s just nerves about combining the families, be clear with your tone that youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re supportive of
the engagement and marriage, so of course you want to meet the new in-laws. Dinner at a nice, but still casual, restaurant is usually the best option; that way, no one couple has to feel the stress of playing hosts or worrying what fork to use, and everyone can just relax and get to know each other. 7. Be Their Backup Sometimes, wedding guests can be a bit demandingÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;wanting an extra serving See Page 26, MOTHER
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Page 14, Bridal Edition • Friday, January 28, 2011 DATES, continued from Page 3 2012 until nightfall on Tuesday, September 18, 2012 Yom Kippur (begins at sunset the night before) Saturday, October 8, 2011 Wednesday, September 26, 2012 Hanukkah (begins at sunset the night before) Wednesday, December 21, until nightfall on Wednesday, December 28, 2011 Sunday, December 9, 2012 until nightfall on Sunday, December 18, 2012 Christmas Sunday, December 25, 2011 Tuesday, December 25, 2012 Kwanzaa Monday, December 26, 2011, until Sunday, January 1, 2012 Wednesday, December 26, 2012 until nightfall on Tuesday, January 01, 2013 Costly Holidays If you ’re looking to marry around Valentine ’s Day, be wary of your oral bill, especially if you ’ve got your heart set on red roses –they ’re likely to be more costly than at any other time of the year. Likewise, reception sites often charge a higher fee for a New Year ’s Eve wedding. Notable Holidays April Fool ’s Day: If you and your ance are jokesters at heart, this could be the perfect wedding day for you.
If not, choose another day. Friday, April 1, 2011 Sunday, April 1, 2012 Mother ’s Day (always a Sunday) Make sure your mom is okay with sharing this weekend with your wedding –but it could be the perfect opportunity to honor her. If you do choose it, make a toast to all the mothers in the room at your post-wedding brunch. May 8, 2011 May 13, 2012 Father ’s Day (always a Sunday) Ditto for Dad. June 19, 2011 June 17, 2012 Halloween Avoid it if you ’re terried that someone might actually show up in costume. Monday, October 31, 2011 Wednesday, October 31, 2012 Days of Remembrance Historically signicant days may cause a conict of interest for some guests. September 11, Patriot Day: It falls on a Sunday in 2011 and on a Tuesday in 2012. December 7, Pearl Harbor Remembrance Day: It falls on a Wednesday in 2011 and on a Friday in 2012. Super Bowl Sunday If you don ’t live in the host city and are marrying on the Saturday rather than the
Sunday of Super Bowl weekend, then the big game shouldn ’t affect your wedding too much –unless you and your husband are diehard pigskin fans and can ’t bear to miss the big game instead of leaving on your honeymoon. If in doubt, steer clear of these dates and cities: February 6, 2011, in Arlington, Texas February 5, 2012, in Indianapolis, Ind. Final Four/March Madness Everyone loves the excitement of college b-ball (and betting on it!). Keep your sports fans at bay by avoiding these dates and cities: Saturday, April 2, and Monday, April 4, 2011, in Houston, Texas; Saturday, March 31 and Monday, April 2, 2012 in New Orleans, La Quirky Dates 9/10/11 falls on a Saturday 11/11/11 falls on a Friday 10/11/12 falls on a Thursday 12/12/12/ falls on a Wednesday Other Dates to Avoid College reunions and/or homecomings, big conventions in your city (call your local chamber of commerce), and any annual charity events that involve your family or close friends. – Justine Lorelle Blanchard
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How to Stock the Bar at Your Wedding Reception (The Knot) Weddings are famous for toasts and the raising of glasses –a few drinks of bubbly are essential for most couples and guests. But where does all that liquor come from? Setting up the bar takes planning, and we ’re here to show you your options. Drink Up How much liquor will you need for 100 guests? Talk to your bartender; in the meantime, here are some averages: * Beer: 5 to 6 cases * Whiskey: 1 liter * Bourbon: 1 liter * Gin: 2 to 3 liters * Scotch: 2 liters * Light rum: 1 liter * Vodka: 5 liters * Tequila: 1 liter * Champagne: 1 to 1 1/2 cases * Red wine: 2 cases * White wine: 3 1/2 cases * Dry vermouth: 1 bottle * Sweet vermouth: 1 bottle Knot Note: Ask if your beverage catering service will
take back any unused alcohol. The Open Bar An open bar is the most gracious approach – no guest should pay for anything at the wedding –but it ’s also the most expensive. Guests can order any drink on the planet, and you ’ll have to pick up the hefty tab when the party ’s done. Because there ’s no limit, people may drink like guppies. Know anyone who tends to imbibe too much? Tell the bartender in advance. The Limited Bar You offer a selection of drinks –beer, wine and mixed vodka drinks, for example – and set specic consumption times, such as the cocktail hour, the toasts and an hour after dinner. Consider hiring waiters to pass drinks on trays rather than letting guests go up to the bar. You ’ll have to pay for the waiters, but you ’ll probably save money on alcohol, and fewer
guests will go overboard. If you limit the amount of time the bar is open, make sure the waiters circulate during dinner to rell glasses of water and soda. The Cash Bar Don ’t have a cash bar without a great reason (there really isn ’t one). After all, you don ’t invite people to your house for dinner and then charge them for the butter. Trust us on this one. It ’s not a good cost-cutting solution and is way too controversial. A Dry House If you, your families, and most of your guests don ’t drink alcohol, skip it. Serve sparkling water, soda, and non-alcoholic mixed drinks instead. If you want some bubbly for toasting, go for some token champagne or sparkling cider. Resources: Leslie Lamb, beverage catering director of Gordon ’s Fine Wines & Liquors, Waltham, Mass.
An open bar is the most gracious approach -- no guest should pay for anything at the wedding -- but it ’s also the most expensive.
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tropical colors and a casual outdoor setting. The real trick here is that you donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want to upstage the wedding day. So if youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning to have simple decor at your wedding reception, it would be odd to order over-the-top ď&#x192;&#x;oral centerpieces for the tables. That said, a few small arrangements from your local ď&#x192;&#x;orist will instantly perk up any space. Look beyond ď&#x192;&#x;owers too. Get colorful fabric for the tables and food areas and work with your theme. Engagement Party Timeline ItÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s tradition for the father
of the bride to make the ď&#x192;&#x17E;rst toast of the party, ofď&#x192;&#x17E;cially announcing the engagement. But your mother, your ď&#x192;&#x17E;anceÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s parents, or the host of the party could also step in to do this. After the ď&#x192;&#x17E;rst toast, you and your ď&#x192;&#x17E;ance might want to take a moment to thank everyone before opening up the ď&#x192;&#x;oor to other friends and family who may want to speak. Other than the toasts, youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll want to have a little music. Hire a DJ, a local band, or keep it simple and ask a friend to man your iPod. Â&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;Elizabeth Narins
will handle all the little details that neither you nor your bride will want to deal with, and itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll be a relief to have a professional on hand to ď&#x192;&#x17E;x any little mix-ups. 7. DonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t Add Insult Your ď&#x192;&#x17E;ancĂŠ may complain about her mom whoÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s being a control freak, or about her uncle who wants to bring his new girlfriend, or her cousin who wants to bring all four of her kids. DonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t join in on the family bashing. Hear her out, agree with her, but donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t take this opportunity to tell her the things about her family that annoys you. Her bad mood will pass, but your careless comments may stick. 8. Arrange the Attire Send out detailed e-mails
to all your groomsmen ď&#x192;&#x17E;lling them in on the relevant info for the formal wearÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;let them know when and where to get ď&#x192;&#x17E;tted for their tuxes, and remind them to return the suits the day after the wedding to avoid annoying late fees. Loop your ď&#x192;&#x17E;ancĂŠ in on the emails to prove that youÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve got everything under control. The more info you can share, the better. Got directions to the tux place? Include them. DonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t assume theyÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll know anything about this stuff. Did you before you got engaged? 9. Manage Your Men Know your friend who loses his car keys at least once a week? Probably better not to make him responsible for bringing your ring to the cer-
emony. And your buddy who tends to drink too much? Make sure one of your more reliable (or sober) groomsmen keeps him from ď&#x192;&#x;irting with your ď&#x192;&#x17E;ancĂŠÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s mom at the rehearsal dinner. Your guys donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have to be saints, but they will have responsibilities, and itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s your job to make sure they know what they are. 10. Get Sentimental The day of your wedding, send her a gift, ď&#x192;&#x;owers or a sweet note to read while sheÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s getting ready. Or, at the reception, pull the videographer aside and tape a special message to her. SheÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll see it later and we promise, sheÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ll love you all the more. Â&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C; The Knot
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Fall Weddings: Fall Wedding Flower Trends Rich hues, unique vases and unexpected elements are just a few of the hot trends in fall wedding ď&#x192;&#x;owers. (The Knot) Choosing ď&#x192;&#x;owers for spring and summer weddings is a no-brainer: There are tons of varieties in season, and any sweet pastel or bright and sunny color scheme feels appropriate. But if you want wedding ď&#x192;&#x;owers that reď&#x192;&#x;ect the fall season in a chic and intriguing way, itÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a little more challenging. WeÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve quizzed some of our favorite ď&#x192;&#x;orists and event designers on the latest trends in fall ď&#x192;&#x;owers. The good news: Your options in the fall are as gorgeous and stylish as ever. Think Textured Wedding Flowers The hottest trend in fall wedding ď&#x192;&#x;owers is lush, richly hued arrangements with lots of interesting texture. Instead of using just two or three types of blooms in your centerpieces, try a wide mix of ď&#x192;&#x;owers coordinated with your color scheme. For example, you could start with a base of classic ď&#x192;&#x;owers and mix in feathery crocosmia and velvety coxcomb. Or you could add nonď&#x192;&#x;oral accents such as viburThe hottest trend in fall wedding ď&#x192;&#x;owers is lush, richly hued arrangements with lots of interesting texture. Instead of using just two or three types of blooms in your centerpieces, try a wide mix of ď&#x192;&#x;owers coordinated with your color scheme.
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tumn hues or go with more unexpected colors like aubergine, copper and forest green. Lush, elegant dahlias may be the quintessential fall blossom since they come in all the autumnal tones (red, burgundy, orange and plum). Of course, roses will always be popular and are available in any hue you need for your fall color scheme. Also hot for fall weddings: antique hydrangeas in greens and purples, See Page 21, FALL
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Summer Weddings: Catering Ideas for Summer Weddings (The Knot) So many fabulous foods are especially suited for the summer months, so it can be hard to choose the menu for your summer wedding. Just think of all those great memories of savory cookouts and sweet treats at carnivals. WeÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve consulted some top wedding pros to get the trendiest food and drink ideas for your summer wedding. Refreshing Drinks Let guests slake their thirstÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;and get the party startedÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;by offering a fabu-
lous selection of drinks. Nonalcoholic lemonade or iced tea bars are very popular. Displaying different ď&#x192;&#x;avors (and colors!) of lemonade or tea in giant glass jugs along with cut fruit for garnishes makes for a lovely, decorative setup during your cocktail hour or reception. More ideas: When it comes to cocktails, think light and refreshing. Two new favorites: hibiscus iced tea with raspberry liqueur and citron vodka; and spiked cucumbermint lemonade. For the lat-
ter, take vodka and simple syrup pressed with mint (similar to making a mojito), mix with lemonade, and garnish with a slice of cucumber for a fun signature cocktail. Cool Appetizers Icy apps can help hot guests cool down during your cocktail hour or reception. Shrimp cocktail on ice is always refreshing. While ice sculpture raw bars remain popular, if thatÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s not your style, consider serving individual shrimp set on cups of shaved ice.
More ideas: Anything miniature is hugely popular for weddings of all seasons. For a summer wedding, think of seasonally inspired options like shots of gazpacho served in carved-out cucumber cups or mini Caesar salads. Sizzling Entree Selections Summer is the season for barbecuing, so consider serving a grilled entree for instant seasonal style. Rather than going for heavier fare like steak or pulled pork, stick to the lighter side with chicken or ď&#x192;&#x17E;sh. Bringing in fruity ď&#x192;&#x;avors will add even more seasonal ď&#x192;&#x;airÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;think chili-lime rubbed chicken breasts or
grilled tilapia topped with mango salsa. More ideas: Go for upscale picnic-style fare, which is both a low-maintenance and high-style way to go. One example menu we love: coconutfried chicken served with dipping sauces, red bliss potato salad and mandarin orange and mesclun salad with raspberry vinaigrette. The options are endless (and delicious!). Desserts Double as Decor Serving a dessert in addition to the wedding cake is more popular than ever and a See Page 20, SUMMER
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Dos and Don ’ts of Winter Weddings Temperatures are dropping, snow is falling –and for you, wedding bells are ringing! Here are our tips to make your winter wedding fabulous. (The Knot) Weddings aren ’t just spring and summer affairs these days. More and more couples are opting to marry during what used to be the “off season ” for nuptials, and why not? The romantic ambience of a snowy landscape, the relative lack of competition for vendors and
sites –there ’s lots to love about having a winter wedding. Read on for some of our tips on how to make yours memorable. Don ’t: Be Afraid to Experiment With Color You shouldn ’t feel bound to a palette of winter whites, greens and reds that tradi-
tionally surround the holiday season. Why not choose bold, bright colors and create a tropical wonderland of mango oranges, Key lime greens or pineapple yellows? It sounds counterintuitive, but it can actually create a fun, unexpected setting for your guests. Do: Dress Your Brides-
maids in Style... Throw out the old-school rules that say you have to wear certain fabrics depending on the time of year you ’re getting married. It ’s completely okay to choose a strapless dress rather than one with long sleeves, or silk charmeuse rather than
double-faced satin –go with whatever works for your wedding style and your bridesmaids ’ bodies. ...But Don ’t: Leave Them Freezing! See Page 21, WINTER
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great way to season-ize your menu. Give your dessert double impact by choosing a sweet treat that echoes the ambience of your event. Consider serving a mini-scoop trio of sorbet that mimics the colors of your wedding. With so many avors to choose from –melon, lime, raspberry, mango and more –you ’re sure to nd something yummy that suits your style. More ideas: Create “dessert gardens ” by having your caterer attach small pieces of
cheesecake or chocolate to lollipop sticks and displaying them in a fresh bed of wheatgrass. They ’re as cute and chic as they are easy to eat for a late-night snack to polish off a perfect evening. Special thanks to: Miriam Phalen, owner and event planner, Sterling Events LLC, New York, N.Y.; Lori Stephenson, owner and senior event consultant, LOLA Event Productions, Chicago, Ill. – Kate Wood
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and deep crimson calla lilies. Pick a Polished Wedding Bouquet Loosely tied bouquets that look like they were just gathered from an English garden are a natural choice for many brides during the spring and summer, but for fall weddings, bouquets can be more structured. Think densely packed, dome-shaped bouquets in a color scheme such as red, brick and plum. Instead of leaving stems exposed, trendconscious orists wrap them in textured fabric, velvet sashes or ribbons. The groomsmen boutonnieres can be similarly polished –instead of a bare stem, choose boutonnieres wrapped in satin or grosgrain ribbon for your wedding party. Use Plants as Reception Centerpieces Succulents are a hugely popular landscaping trend right now, and stylish brides are working them into their centerpieces too. They ’re seasonless but come in deep, fallappropriate hues like aubergine, cactus green and pomegranate. Since their leaves look like petals, succulents mix easily with owers, and they ’re a natural choice for weddings in the Southwest. Bypass Boring Glass Vases For centerpieces, unique containers are de rigueur.
Classic glass vases may feel right in summer, but for fall, style-conscious couples are using everything from eyecatching copper pots to silver trophy cups and gold-leaf vases, or going earthy with containers made of wood or covered in lichen. Mismatched antique urns or pots from the ea market are also popular. Use a collection of pots in different sizes – as many as ve per table – that your guests can take home at the end of the evening. If you decide on glass vases, you can add a distinctly fall feel by using wheat berries or millet as a base for the owers. Go Green Eco-conscious couples and their orists are focusing on using locally grown organic owers. One eco-friendly wedding tip for your owers: Stick to owers grown near the wedding site, which lessens your environmental impact, rather than ying owers in from another continent. Organically grown blooms spare the earth (and your guests) from exposure to potentially harmful chemicals. It ’s also a great way to support nearby nurseries and celebrate the local region. – The Knot
Just because you choose to have a winter wedding does not mean you have to get married during a snow storm. Guests are more likely to appreciate a winter wonderland...inside. Remember, though, you can ’t be overly picky about what they wear when your bridesmaids are outdoors (which they will be, even if it ’s just to dash from the limo to the church). If you ’ve opted for glitzy heels that would be hazardous in snow (let alone ice), be okay with them toting along sneakers or boots to get from one place to the next. And obviously, coats are a must –in most parts of the country, it ’ll take more than a
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Top 7 Bridesmaid Trends What ’s hot in the world of bridesmaids right now –from choosing shorter bridesmaid dresses to picking a man for a maid. (The Knot) Whether you want a bridal party made up of your 18 nearest and dearest or you ’ve decided to keep it intimate, we ’ve tracked down the latest and greatest bridesmaids trends. Here are our seven favorites. Asking Reinvented Brides are getting more and more creative about how they ask friends to be bridesmaids. Think of a fun
way to honor the moment. Write a poem that ends with your request, place it in a silver frame, and mail it. Send a friend an arrangement of owers with a note that reads, “You ’ve been there for me through everything – please do me the honor of being my bridesmaid! ” Or, if you ’re feeling really creative, send them pieces to a puzzle that, when put to-
gether, spells out your special request. Man of Honor If the person you ’re closest to happens to be your brother (or another guy), there ’s nothing wrong with having him take the place of the traditional maid of honor. This is also a great idea if you don ’t want to choose between your BFFs (best female friends). Hemlines on the Rise
Flying in the face of tradition, many designers are choosing to show a little leg. Tea-length bridesmaid dresses are the new fun, feminine and irty standard. With these dresses, fabric, not length, determines formality. The added benet? These less “bridesmaidy ” dresses can be worn again and again. Color Is Hot Brides are following their fashion instincts and keeping up with trends by choosing bold colors (hot pink, bright aqua and kelly green to name
a few) either as the main dress hue or as hip accents (such as a sash or hemline trim). Coed Parties More and more bridesmaids are planning the bachelorette party on the same night as the bachelor party. In some cases, the parties are combined. Wedding parties are planning individual scavenger hunts for the bride and groom where the nal See Page 23, BRIDESMAID
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ception... There are plenty of ways to make your reception an even more inviting space. With the sun setting early, candles will create a romantic glow right from the start of your party. To add to the ambience, consider bringing in lush, soft textures: Think velvet ribbon tied around each napkin or chenille pillows and throws in a lounge area. ...But Don ’t: Let It Overheat Okay, we know it ’s cold outside, but things may heat up on your dance oor. If it seems like guests are breaking a serious sweat, ask your wedding coordinator or site manager to turn the heat down a notch. Another op-
tion: If there are separate thermostats for different areas of your reception space, set the one for the dance oor area a few degrees lower. Do: Be Gracious to Your Guests... There are tons of winterinspired ways you can thank your guests for joining you at your wedding. Winter- or holiday-themed favors are always favorites, like ornaments with each guest ’s name on them before Christmas or delectable trufes near Valentine ’s Day. Another option is do an extra late-night snack. We love the idea of giving out hot cocoa with shortbread cookies or mulled apple cider with gingerbread.
...But Don ’t: Leave Them Out in the Cold! If you want to have a receiving line, plan ahead of time how it will work so guests aren ’t left freezing outside. If your ceremony space has a large enough entryway or vestibule, you may be able to wait there and have guests greet you after the ceremony. To hold a receiving line at the reception, do it inside rather than greeting guests as they enter. That way, when the line starts to bottleneck, guests in the back aren ’t left waiting (and shivering) to get indoors. – Kate Wood
clue leads them to the same place, or they ’re doing something less secretive, like all meeting at a club at the end of the night. Either way, with all your friends around, both male and female, it ’s sure to be a blast. Kids-only Party The English have been creating all-kid bridal parties for decades, and there ’s no reason you can ’t adopt this trend from across the pond. Instead of casting bridesmaids (i.e., grownups), just include ring bearers, ower girls, usherettes, and junior
bridesmaids. This will lead to adorable pictures, and make you stand out even more walking down the aisle. Now who wouldn ’t want that? Special Guest Stars Find meaningful ways to involve family and friends without asking them to be ofcial members of your bridal party. Invite them to do a reading at the ceremony, hold a post of the huppah, pass out wedding programs, seat guests, or keep you company (and lend a helping hand) while you ’re getting dressed. – The Knot
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Page 26, Bridal Edition • Friday, January 28, 2011 MOTHER, continued from Page 13 at the reception, extensive face-time with the bride, or letting their ‘talented ’ youngster play a solo at the ceremony. You need to help out the bride and groom by being their rst line of defense; or if that fails, being their backup. If guests come to you with complaints, deal with it tactfully by saying something like, “I ’m sure Jane and Joe would love to be able to seat all of your children and their dates at the reception, but they ’re working with a limited budget and need to keep the wedding small. I know your being there really matters to them though, which is why they included you even though they weren ’t able to invite your
whole family. ” A statement like this accomplishes three things: It makes the guest feel better, it lets the bride and groom off the hook without coming off badly, and at the same time, it doesn ’t give in to guests ’ pushy pleas. 8. Tame a Bride(or Groom)-zilla Sometimes, it ’s not just the guests –the bride or groom can get out of line with their requests. If you ’ve got a bridezilla (or a groomzilla!) on your hands, you need to give them a little perspective. While an important role for a mom is being a shoulder to cry on, if they ’re making everyone else miserable, a little tough love might be in order. If they ’re going ballistic over every last detail, lis-
ten to their tale of woe –then remind them that the wedding is just one day. Their love and marriage are the important things, not whether the orist is going to substitute spray roses for the ranunculus. If it ’s more of an attitude issue, remind them –jokingly – that they want the wedding party to be smiling for the wedding photos! Then ask if you there are any tasks – things the bride or groom might have taken on themselves, or things they ’re delegating to their attendants – that you or another relative can help out with to try to relieve some of the stress. – Kate Wood
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Father of the Bride: Top 10 Wedding Tips for Dads Father of the bride... or the groom? Read on for our top 10 tips to help you get involved in their wedding. (The Knot) ThereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s a lot more to being a Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;father of the...Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? than just nodding and handing over your credit card! And weÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;re not just saying that because many couples these days are funding their own nuptials. HereÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s how you can get involved. 1. Make a Money Plan Remember what we said about your credit card? Before that even becomes an issue, powwow with your partner about your plans for
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Wedding Budget: Who Pays for What Wedding cost-splitting basics for the couple ’s families. and hosts the rehearsal dinner. * Bride plans and hosts bridesmaids ’ luncheon. * Groom hosts and plans bachelors ’ dinner. * Maid of honor and bridesmaids host shower. * Best man and ushers host bachelor party. * Friends may throw additional engagement parties or showers. Reception * Bride and family pay for all professional services, including food, drink, decora-
Sit down with pencil, paper, and calculator and gure out what you really want and can afford. (The Knot) Forget the archaic rule that says certain people have to pay for certain things. The bride ’s parents need not take out a third mortgage to pay for the wedding, and the groom ’s parents are not off the hook either. Besides, the two of you might even be covering a good chunk of the expenses yourselves. The best way to work it out? Sit down with pencil, paper and calculator and gure out what you really want and can afford. Keep in mind that informal weddings are usually smaller (and therefore cheaper), and formal weddings tend to be larger (and therefore more expensive). Here ’s a list of the tradi-
tional costs for everyone involved –but remember, these “rules ” are made to be broken! Ceremony * Bride and family pay for church or synagogue, sexton, organist, etc. * Groom and family pay for marriage license and ofciant ’s fee. Clothes * Bride and family pay for bride ’s dress, veil, accessories and trousseau. * Groom and family pay for groom ’s outt. * All attendants pay for their own clothing (including shoes). Flowers * Bride and family pay for arrangements for church (in-
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A couple of dance lessons might be in order if you want to be able to surprise the bride with your moves. know dear old dad is on their side. 7. Put Your Best Foot Forward Whether you ’re dancing with your daughter or your wife, there ’s a decent chance
that for at least one song during the reception, all eyes will be on you. Dancing not really your thing? Then you denitely need to get ready for your turn in the spotlight. A couple of dance lessons might
be in order if you want to be able to surprise the bride with your moves. If you ’re not feeling so bold, practicing with your wife at home is an easy (and romantic) solution to your dance dilemma.
8. Say a Few Words Whether at the rehearsal dinner or the wedding (or sometimes both), it ’s customary for the dads to give a little toast to the happy couple. Not sure what to say? Rather than rambling, it ’s always best to stick to the basics. Thank everyone for being there, tell everyone how happy and proud you ’re feeling at that moment, then raise your glass to the bride and groom. See, that wasn ’t too tough, was it? 9. Don ’t Overindulge When you ’re the father of the bride or the groom, everyone wants to congratulate you, shake your hand...and have a drink. We ’re all for the former, but you need to keep tabs on the latter. Maintaining a celebratory mood is ne,
getting completely plastered is not. After all, you want to remember seeing all your old friends again and meeting new ones –not the moment when you grabbed the mic for an impromptu drunken rendition of “My Girl. ” 10. Have Fun! On the wedding day, there ’s lots for you to do. Walk down the aisle. Accept everyone ’s congratulations. Dance with your daughter or your new daughter-in-law – don ’t forget to tell her how beautiful she looks! And of course, take a minute or two to take it all in. It ’s not just a big day for the bride and groom, it ’s a celebration for your entire family. – Kate Wood
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Honeymoon Planning: Finding Your Perfect Destination (The Knot) Too often for couples, honeymoons are an afterthought to wedding planning. Renee Duane of Unforgettable Honeymoons says approaching your getaway in this manner is a mistake. Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;A honeymoon is an investment in memories for the rest of your life,Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? she says. Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;DonÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t take chances with it.Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? Instead, she recommends starting with a conversation. Â&#x201C;â&#x20AC;&#x153;Sit down and talk about the level of luxury and privacy you want, what you want to do every day, and the type of nightlife you desire,Â&#x201D;â&#x20AC;? says Duane. But donÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t despair if you reach an impasse. WeÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve put together several
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Military Weddings: Ceremony and Reception (The Knot) Ceremony Location Many military weddings take place at military chapels or on academy grounds (Army, Navy or Air Force). If you ’d like to use another location, run it by your installation. Most military chapels are like other in-demand ceremony sites –you need to reserve them at least a year ahead of time, often by applying in writing to the chaplain ’s ofce. All service academies have more than one chapel; at the Air Force Academy, for example, there are Protestant, Catholic and Jewish chapels. To marry in a military chapel at a service academy, you must be a graduate or one of the following: a dependent of a graduate; an ofcer or enlisted person assigned to the academy complex, or his or her dependents; or a faculty or staff member, active or retired, or his or her dependents. There will probably be no charge for the use of the chapel, but a donation to the chapel fund will be expected. Rules for decorating military chapels vary across the country, but all owers, candelabra and other decor are arranged by the Chapel Altar Guild and are the same for all weddings. Some chapels and churches do not furnish decorations; the couple plans them themselves. Choosing An Ofciant If you marry in a military chapel, the chaplain will perform your ceremony, and when you reserve the chapel you ’ll arrange a meeting. A few sessions of prewed-
After the ceremony the newlyweds walk through an arch of sabers, which are curved swords with only one edge. Actual swords are used in a Naval wedding ding counseling may also be required. If you ’d like your civilian clergyperson to co-ofciate, talk to both ofciants early about the possibility. Chaplains are commissioned ofcers and are paid by the service they represent; you do not need to pay them a fee (although you should make a donation to the chapel; see above). It ’s customary to offer any assisting civilian clergyman an honorarium. The Arch Of Sabers After the ceremony the newlyweds walk through an arch of sabers, which are curved swords with only one edge. Actual swords are used in a Naval wedding. The arch is not mandatory, but it ’s definitely a memorable part of a military ceremony. On most bases, at least one chapel or an honor guard usually has sabers available for wedding ceremonies. An-
other possible source is the local ROTC unit. The arch is usually formed outside of the church or chapel; traditionally, a sword should never be unsheathed inside a religious sanctuary. Only commissioned ofcers can carry sabers or swords and participate in this ceremony. (The Marine Corps is the exception, with NCOs also authorized to carry them.) Often the military groomsmen participate, but other ofcers (guests, perhaps) may be designated to help create the arch. Usually 6-8 ofcers are included. The head usher usually issues the commands, starting with “Center face, ” the signal to form two facing lines. When the order “Arch sabers ” (or “Draw swords ”) is given, each usher raises his saber, cutting edge up, to form the arch. Ofcers have been
known to detour from tradition, announcing the couple ( “Ladies and gentlemen, may I present Lieutenant and Mrs. Smith ”) or lowering the nal two sabers to block the couple ’s way and demand that they kiss! A Marine Corps tradition, often adopted by the Air
Force, is for the last saber bearer to “tap ” the bride with his saber and say, “Welcome to the Air Force, Ma ’am. ” The Reception Military receptions at academies or bases are often held at ofcers ’ or enlisted clubs on the installation, or you can have a traditional hotel or restaurant reception. Military guests are traditionally shown to their seats in order of rank. You might play at bit of regimental music, including the theme song of the bride ’s and/or groom ’s branch of service. Decorations could include American ags and/or the standards of your unit(s) in addition to owers. The highlight of a military reception comes when the bride and groom cut the cake using a saber or sword, one belonging to the groom if he owns one. The groom presents it to the bride and she cuts a slice of the wedding cake with the groom ’s right hand resting over hers. – Tracy Guth
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6 Easy Vintage Wedding Style Ideas It doesn ’t take a time machine –or a fortune –to get the vintage wedding of your dreams. Here are a few simple ideas to give your big day some old-fashioned air. (The Knot) It doesn ’t take a time machine –or a fortune – to get the vintage wedding of your dreams. Here are a few simple ideas to give your big day some old-fashioned air. Picture This Take a cue from the romance greats by staging engagement photos like iconic movie scenes. Check out “Roman Holiday, ” “Casablanca, ” “Meet Me in St. Louis ” and “Gone With The Wind ” for inspiration, then hire a photographer and start posing like Audrey and Bogie. Use the photos on your save-thedates or set them up at reception tables.
Send a Message Throwback stationery styles, like letterpress printing and tea-stained papers, can instantly enrich your invitations with nostalgic charm. Another idea is to design the invite to look like a telegram or an old Hollywood marquee (check a Web site like Chisholm-Poster.com for inspiration). Complete the look with a wax seal and a stamp of your monogram. Add Accessories Dress up your bridal party in accessories like pillbox hats, birdcage veils and Art Deco jewelry for instant vintage glamour. Small capes or stoles will help them keep
warm at a fall or winter wedding, and pretty parasols make adorable spring and summer accessories. Make It Sparkle Extend the romantic glitz into your decor. Pin vintage brooches to your escort cards. Arrange small hatboxes on tables for a centerpiece. You can even place a few antique trunks around your reception space –throw some cushions on top to create eclectic seating for guests who take a break from the dance oor. Lace It Up Intricate lace can give almost anything a vintage touch. Mimic your dress ’ lace pattern in unexpected placDress up your bridal party in accessories like pillbox hats, birdcage veils, and Art Deco jewelry for instant vintage glamour. Extend the romantic glitz into your decor. Pin vintage brooches to your escort cards. Intricate lace can give almost anything a vintage touch. Mimic your dress ’ lace pattern in unexpected places, like in the fondant icing of your wedding cake or the edging of your invitations.
es, like in the fondant icing of your wedding cake or the edging of your invitations. To avoid ashbacks of your kindergarten valentines, streamline the look by using a piece of lace as a stencil: Simply place an extra strip of lace on the paper, paint over it, and remove the fabric to reveal the pattern on your invites or escort cards. Keep It Simple When it comes to vintage wedding decor, less is more.
Muted colors, scores of candles and greenery, and maybe a glittery chandelier or two are really all you need to create a romantic atmosphere that harkens back to simpler times. If you can ’t resist a little kitsch, arrange antique knickknacks, like salt and pepper shakers or perfume bottles, on tables for a quirkybut-charming touch. – Justine Lorelle Blanchard
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day is actually considered good luck, according to Hindu tradition! 8. For good luck, Egyptian women pinch the bride on her wedding day. Ouch! 9. Middle Eastern brides paint henna on their hands and feet to protect themselves from the evil eye. 10. Peas are thrown at Czech newlyweds instead of rice. 11. A Swedish bride puts a silver coin from her father and a gold coin from her mother in each shoe to ensure that she ’ll never do without. 12. A Finnish bride traditionally went door-to-door collecting gifts in a pillowcase, accompanied by an older married man who represented long marriage. 13. Moroccan women take a milk bath to purify themselves before their wedding ceremony. 14. In Holland, a pine tree is planted outside the newlyweds ’ home as a symbol of fertility and luck. It ’s Got a Ring To It 15. Engagement and wedding rings are worn on the fourth nger of the left hand because it was once thought that a vein in that nger led directly to the heart. 16. About 70 percent of all brides sport the traditional diamond on the fourth nger of their left hand. 17. Priscilla Presley ’s engagement ring was a whopping 3 1/2-carat rock surrounded by a detachable row of smaller diamonds. 18. Diamonds set in gold or silver became popular as be-
trothal rings among wealthy Venetians toward the end of the fteenth century. 19. In the symbolic language of jewels, a sapphire in a wedding ring means marital happiness. 20. A pearl engagement ring is said to be bad luck because its shape echoes that of a tear. 21. One of history ’s earliest engagement rings was given to Princess Mary, daughter of Henry VIII. She was two years old at the time. 22. Seventeen tons of gold are made into wedding rings each year in the United States! 23. Snake rings dotted with ruby eyes were popular wedding bands in Victorian England –the coils winding into a circle symbolized eternity. 24. Aquamarine represents marital harmony and is said to ensure a long, happy marriage. Fashionable Lore 25. Queen Victoria started the Western world ’s white wedding dress trend in 1840 – before then, brides simply wore their best dress. 26. In Asia, wearing robes with embroidered cranes symbolizes delity for the length of a marriage. 27. Ancient Greeks and Romans thought the veil protected the bride from evil spirits. Brides have worn veils ever since. 28. On her wedding day, Grace Kelly wore a dress with a bodice made from beautiful 125-year-old lace. 29. Of course, Jackie Ken-
nedy ’s bridesmaids were far from frumpy. She chose pink silk faille and red satin gowns created by black designer Ann Lowe (also the creator of Jackie ’s dress). 30. In Japan, white was always the color of choice for bridal ensembles –long before Queen Victoria popularized it in the Western world. 31. Most expensive wedding ever? The marriage of Sheik Rashid Bin Saeed Al Maktoum ’s son to Princess Salama in Dubai in May 1981. The price tag? $44 million. 32. In Korea, brides don bright hues of red and yellow to take their vows. 33. Brides carry or wear “something old ” on their wedding day to symbolize continuity with the past. 34. In Denmark, brides and grooms traditionally cross-dressed to confuse evil spirits! 35. The “something blue ” in a bridal ensemble symbolizes purity, delity and love. Food and Family 36. In Egypt, the bride ’s family traditionally does all the cooking for a week after the wedding, so the couple can …relax. 37. In South Africa, the parents of both bride and groom traditionally carried re from their hearths to light a new re in the newlyweds ’ hearth. 38. The tradition of a wedding cake comes from ancient Rome, where revelers broke a loaf of bread over a bride ’s head for fertility ’s sake. 39. The custom of tiered
cakes emerged from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over an ever-higher cake without knocking it over. 40. Queen Victoria ’s wedding cake weighed a whopping 300 pounds. 41. Legend says single women will dream of their future husbands if they sleep with a slice of groom ’s cake under their pillows. 42. An old wives ’ tale: If the younger of two sisters marries rst, the older sister must dance barefoot at the wedding or risk never landing a husband. Show Off at a Cocktail Party 43. In many cultures around the world –including Celtic, Hindu and Egyptian weddings –the hands of a bride and groom are literally tied together to demonstrate the couple ’s commitment to each other and their new bond as a married couple (giving us the popular phrase “tying the knot ”). 44. The Roman goddess Juno rules over marriage, the
hearth and childbirth, hence the popularity of June weddings. 45. Princess Victoria established the tradition of playing Wagner ’s “Bridal Chorus ” during her wedding processional in 1858. 46. The bride stands to the groom ’s left during a Christian ceremony, because in bygone days the groom needed his right hand free to ght off other suitors. 47. On average, 7,000 couples marry each day in the United States. 48. Valentine ’s Day and New Year ’s Eve are the two busiest “marriage ” days in Las Vegas –elopement central! 49. The Catholic tradition of “posting the banns ” to announce a marriage originated as a way to ensure the bride and groom were not related. 50. Stag parties were rst held by ancient Spartan soldiers, who kissed their bachelor days goodbye with a raucous party. – The Knot
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friendships while swimming with dolphins. Those who prefer their own place in the sun should head to an island retreat with private whitesand beaches: You can unwind to the soft sound of lapping waves, arrange a romantic picnic on a remote beach, or get certied in scuba diving and explore tropical coral reefs with your sweetie. Survivors, Honeymoon Style If khaki is the predominant color in your wardrobe, if you considered forgoing the veil for a pith helmet at your wedding, or if the words “Me, Tarzan, you, Jane ” sound like sweet nothings to your ears, a honeymoon on the wild side might be in order. If the rumble of the jungle makes you roar, choose an eco-adventure in the wilds of a rain forest to bring out the animal in you. Canoe down the Amazon and spot toucans, lemurs and spider monkeys in the trees. Get down and dirty on an archaeological dig in Egypt (don ’t forget to explore the pyramids and the Sphinx). Or search out wildebeest on a Serengeti safari, and share a kiss overlooking Africa ’s Victoria Falls. Fast-Lane Fanatics If you must start the day with your favorite coffee and The Wall Street Journal; if
you live on the cutting edge and don ’t want to miss a beat; or if you thirst for the knowledge found within museums, enjoy live theater, and prefer dining at ve-star restaurants, a honeymoon in a city should t the bill. Cities teeming with culture can be found in the U.S. and abroad. Bone up on a city ’s history by staying in accommodations such as a castle or a popular spot on the National Register of Historic Places. Savor the city ’s architecture and landscape, discover local artists, check out the latest fashion trends with some upscale shopping, scout out intimate boutiques, and linger over a renowned chef ’s cuisine accompanied by wine from a nearby vineyard. Nightlife in a bustling metropolis is also not to be missed. Whether you prefer a techno-funk club or a trip to the opera, the city awaits you. Fit to Be Pampered If pleasurable pursuits are close to your heart, and you think a pedicure followed by a parafn wax should be a national mandate; if you ’re health conscious and like working out the kinks with a Reebok Core Training class followed by a Shirodhara massage; or if you ’d like to work off those last lingering ve pounds before returning to civilization, a spa honey-
moon should be on your menu. Begin your days hiking through local mountains and getting focused in a yoga class. Wind down by being pummeled into putty and dining on fresh organic cuisine. Starting a new health regime as you embark on your life together is a recommended prescription for even the most incurable romantics. Day Trippers Admirers of Lewis and Clark don ’t need a map to nd a good time. If you like diversity in your day and immersing yourselves in new territories, explore this country or another by road or by rail. A honeymoon by train can give you romance aplenty in a luxurious suite with a moving view. Stops are often scheduled along the way, and you can linger and explore, then catch a later train. If delving into local stories of small towns and greasy spoons appeals to you, take your time as you traverse through destinations such as the Louisiana bayous, Grand Canyon, Redwood Forest, or Alaskan tundra. Pitch a tent or bunk at a bed-and-breakfast; accommodations are secondary to savoring local avor. When it comes to honeymooning on the road, love knows no direc-
tion. Shipboard Romantics If crashing waves, the wind in your hair, and salt in the air appeal to your free spirits, setting sail on a cruise ship and exploring new worlds might be your ticket to paradise. Cruise ships are no longer just oating buffets with some gambling and Vegas-style entertainment thrown in. Of course, there ’s plenty of time to lounge on the lido deck and sip piña coladas, but it ’s hard not to be enticed by what cruises have to offer. These mobile luxury hoteland-spas can transport you to such exotic locations as Sri Lanka, the Galapagos or Antarctica. As with ports of call, onboard activities are boundless. Partake in workouts from yoga to tai chi. The more adventurous can challenge rock-climbing walls, parasail or kayak. If your inner swash-
buckler still isn ’t satised, consider stowing your gear on a clipper ship that allows guests to take on crew duties. Love Nesters A mere “Do Not Disturb ” sign just doesn ’t cut it, and getting snowbound in a mountain cabin with no phone, fax machine or television sounds like bliss. For you, nding tranquility means privacy –particularly since you feel the need to get reacquainted after the chaos of planning a wedding. Escape the madding crowds and spend some one-on-one time in romantic seclusion. Whether it ’s a trip to the Poconos, an escape to your parents ’ beach house, or a stack of videos with popcorn and champagne in your own home, your favorite kind of getaway is laid-back and low-key. After all, as they say, home is where the heart is. – Bekah Wright
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Wedding Budget: 30 Ways to Save Money on Your Wedding We get it: Weddings are expensive. But you can cut costs without anyone missing, well, whatÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s missing. (The Knot) Reception 1. Cut the guest list. This will slash your catering costs and save on invitations and even the number of centerpieces. 2. Think off-peak season and save thousands! 3. Hold your ceremony and reception in one spotÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;it will cut travel time for vendors you pay by the hour. 4. Skip the Saturday wedding. 5. Have bigger tables so you need fewer centerpieces and tablecloths.
6. Shop the off-season for extra decorÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;get modern black vases on sale after Halloween and pretty pink ones after ValentineÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Day. Flowers 7. Use more greenery than ď&#x192;&#x;owers. 8. Swap out costly ď&#x192;&#x;owersÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C;did you know peonies can be ď&#x192;&#x17E;ve times more expensive than roses? 9. Stick to just one or two kinds of ď&#x192;&#x;owers. 10. Buy ď&#x192;&#x;owers that are in season. 11. Include non-ď&#x192;&#x;orals, like lanterns.
Food & Drink 12. Serve entree duets. 13. Skip the main courseÂ&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C; apps and drinks are ď&#x192;&#x17E;ne too. 14. Offer beer, wine,and a signature cocktail instead of a full bar. 15. Serve comfort foods like barbecue chicken, mac and cheese and corn. ItÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;s fun and often cheaper. 16. Skip the champagne toast. Cakes 17. Order a small one or two-tiered cake and then supplement cake with a larger
sheet cake (hidden back in the kitchen). 18. Keep the add-ons simple. 19. Use fresh ď&#x192;&#x;owers, not sugar ones. 20. Reuse ceremony ď&#x192;&#x;owers for the cake table. 21. Skip exotic ď&#x192;&#x17E;llings like guava and mango. Stationery & Favors 22. Get single-page invites to save on postage. 23. Give out one favor per couple. 24. Make your cake the favors. 25. Have favors double as
escort cards. 26. E-mail your save-thedates. 27. Make your own menu cards, escort cards and wedding favor packaging. Photo, Video & Music 28. Have a photographer you love but canÂ&#x2019;â&#x20AC;&#x2122;t afford the prices? Ask them if they have an associate shooter who will do your wedding for less. 29. Opt for a smaller band. 30. Hire a band or DJ who can do both the ceremony and the reception. Â&#x2013;â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Meredith Bodgas
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