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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2010 VOLUME 2, NUMBER 1

Contents

For news or column submissions, e-mail us at liana@thebillericagreen.com.

Deadlines for submissions are the first week of the month.

Art Director + Illustrator: Tony Luongo Staff Writer: Jenn Gervais Contributing Columnists: Paul Abrego Todd Dellaporta Nora Fiore Dave Gagliardi Sandra Giroux Kathy Lynch Attorney Jennifer O’Brien Brian Panarese Jeff Parenti Colleen Sgroi Pat Zapert Contributing Writers: Carol Woods Joan Parcewski Billerica Cat Care Coalition Frank Hynes Fred Faust Alan Kessler Contributing Photographers: Gail Lucozzi George Lucozzi Kimberly Willmott Advertising Sales: Liana Measmer For our ad rates or to place an ad, call us at 978-808-2361or e-mail us at liana@thebillericagreen.com Deadlines for advertising is the first day of the month.

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Folk Tales on Canvas

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Love Letters from The Heart

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Robert Calabrese Remembered Billerica’s Renaissance Man

Artist Colleen Sgroi paints a story into every work of art, especially in her most recent creation, “Love is All There is.”

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Two couples married 50 years share what works–and what doesn’t– in keeping their marriages strong and vital

Hero, Soulmate, Master, Friend. Although missed, he left a legacy of laughter and generosity behind for which he will never be forgotten

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Moving Hearts Toward Hope

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Tackling the Great Imitator: Lyme Disease

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Christian Singer/Songwriter Julie Kinscheck shares her journey through grace

2009 was a pivotal year in the treatment of this chronic illness • By Jenn Gervais

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In this edition: The Sunny Side of The Street Family Matters Dave Says Court’s In Session Green Handyman Notes from General Sound Voice of the Artist It’s Better Than You Think

Will Achieve Pet Peeves Power from Within Teacher’s Corner The Body Elite Making Cents Out on the Town The Playground Business to Business

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LETTER FROM THE EDITOR DIDN’T WE JUST GET OUR BILLERICA GREEN? Well, actually, a few weeks ago. We have been a third-week-of-the-month publication but we are moving up to a second week. We threw EVERYONE off this month (so don’t feel bad). But that’s how we do things here at The Green. We like to keep people on their toes.

Well, looking back, Family First Night was a big success. I was so excited to drive into Town Hall’s parking lot and NOT be able to find a parking space! The crafts were fun. The hot dogs were yummy. And the Cat in The Hat looked great. Everyone looked like they were having a great time. I know we were.

So, WHY are we talking about Valentine’s Day so early? Well, it will be here before you know it. We decided to theme this edition about-yup, you guessed it: L-O-V-E. Loving your kids. Loving your partner. Loving your spouse. Loving your dog. Loving your self. We talked to two couples who have made it work for more than 50 years. Our columnists shared their tips on how to incorporate love into your daily life. We paid tribute to a BMOC-Big Man on Campus- who left a void for many in June. Dr. Robert J. Calabrese was remembered as generous and thoughtful and is due to be honored at the upcoming Team Trivia Challenge. Read what those closest to him had to say. We previewed some upcoming events you’ll want to mark on your calendar--Team Trivia Challenge, The Sweetheart Dance, The Billerica Spelling Bee. Plus, the Out on The Town section is overflowing this month with lots of other things to do-check it out!

As usual, thanks to our team. Tony had his Art Gallery Opening Reception. It was a roaring success and his art will be at BATV until the end of the month in case you couldn’t make it. Our columnists were still recovering from the holiday and getting back in gear so a few of them are missing this month. But not to worry! They will be back in the groove for the next edition. Media News continues to be helpful which we so appreciate.

Remember to follow us on Facebook. We post good news on a regular basis. Join the Billerica Green group and get the scoop before anyone else.

As usual, please share your feedback with us-good or bad. We want to make The Billerica Green the best it can be. If you want or need news or event coverage, contact us at 978-808-2361 or at liana@thebillericagreen.com. We are still looking for senior writers and kid contributors.

Be well, Billerica...And stay warm!

Your Editor,

Liana Measmer liana@thebillericagreen.com

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FOLK TALES ON CANVAS: SGROI PAINTS A STORY INTO EVERY WORK OF ART

By Liana Measmer It was March 6 at 3:30 pm. Artist Colleen Sgroi of Colleen Sgroi Art Gallery and Classes made the final stroke on her ‘Orchard House’ painting. This painting depicted the historical home of famed author Louisa May Alcott. Alcott was best remembered for her book, ‘Little Women’.

native, has been drawing since she was a child.

As an adolescent, she studied Graphic and Commercial Arts at Shawsheen Vocational Technical High School and graduated with honors. She became a graphic artist until she had her family. Then in 1988, she returned full time to painting professionally, which was around the time she learned about folk art. Sgroi has painted folk art as well as

Sgroi had glanced at her watch, which was very unlike her and noted the time. Being pleased with her work, she put down the brush. Later that evening she was gathering all the information she had downloaded off the web about Alcott when she came across one sheet describing the author’s life. On it was listed Alcott’s day and time of death: March 6 at 3:30 pm.

“I was amazed to find that 113 years later, to the exact time, I had finished this painting of her home,” said Sgroi.

This is only one of the many stories that Sgroi can tie to her art work. Sgroi, a Billerica

taught it in her gallery, which she opened eight years ago.

“I like teaching folk art because it leaves a wide range for people to discover their own style and talent,” said Sgroi.

Another favorite tale happened seven years ago when a Bostonian purchased a piece of her art and had no idea how it would change her child’s life. This woman had an autistic son who refused to eat.

Every day was a struggle and the mother grew more and more concerned. Then one day, she happened to purchase one of Sgroi’s paintings, of a bowl of fruit. She brought it

home and hung it in her kitchen. At the next meal, her son looked at the art work and began to eat. Every meal afterward, he ate with no problem. If the mother took the art work away, he would not eat. It became such an important tool at meal time that the mom began to take the painting with her wherever they went so her son would eat his meals.

She never knew who Sgroi was until Sgroi’s brother, a Boston building inspector, came to the door and noticed the painting. The mother begged him to tell Sgroi how grateful she was for the positive impact her art had on her family.

“We never know as artists how we will touch lives,” said Sgroi.

Although she paints realism too, many of Sgroi’s popular pieces are folk art styled and include town and village scenes or depictions. She did a special piece a few years ago commemorating Billerica’s 350th anniversary which was a popular sell. At the end of 2009, Sgroi completed her newest folk art piece titled “Love is all there is”.

In it, Sgroi hides numerous little hearts in the various scenes of people on a beach or walking over a bridge. There is even a bandstand remarkably similar to the one in our town common.

The inspiration for this piece interestingly came from watching her children open Christmas gifts. Her daughter opened a pair of sunglasses with lenses shaped like hearts.

Sgroi thought it was interesting and made the connection of looking at life through the eyes of love.

“The message in the painting is if we look around us, we’ll see love,” said Sgroi. “We need to decide what we want to see.”

Sgroi’s art has gone all over the world as well as stayed local. Some of her fans include Congressman Martin Meehan, Representative Bill Greene, and Marc LeBlanc from the sitcom, “Friends”. This year, four of her pieces depicting hope and inspiration will be hung in a cancer center in a large Boston hospital. These particular pieces art exhibits hope, peace, and serenity and for Sgroi, she’s thankful, which is a sentiment she is no stranger to.

“Gratitude is the memory of the heart,” wrote Sgroi as she described one of her paintings, Thankful Memories.

In preparation for Valentine’s Day, Sgroi will be holding an art class for making heart felt cards. She is calling it Create Love Day and it will be held on Feb. 4, from 7 - 8:30 pm. For more information, call Sgroi at 978-667-1009 or visit her website at www. colleensgroi.com.

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I am made in the image of God. Therefore, I am a creator like Him. How exciting is that!

As an artist it gives me freedom to create my own style of painting. But, what about how I create love?

One day, my sweetheart, Rob and I were driving around having fun, as we usually do. Throughout the day he almost always opened the door for me ďŹ rst before getting into the car himself. When I told him that I loved that he did that, he smiled and gave me some creative love insights. “Tell a guy what he does that you really love and he will do it moreâ€?. “Guys like to win.â€? I began to tell him the little things he does that I love. I got very speciďŹ c because I ďŹ gured, if this is true, then I want to massively increase my chances that he will continue to do these things I love about him.

I said to Rob: “I like when you open the door for me and then say, ‘after you darling’.

I love how you say what you want to do and then stop and look at me and say - ‘want to?’ I like when we are someplace, anyplace, and you always introduce me. I like that you ask good questions like, ‘What did you enjoy today?’ or, when I’m upset you say: ‘Did I do or say something that lead to that feeling?’ I love when you randomly reach over, without even looking at me and gently and lovingly

touch my cheek with the back of your hand.

I enjoy ďŹ nding little notes you left for me. I smile when I come home to ďŹ nd you have made the bed.â€?

Get the picture? He does! He feels loved and appreciated when I tell him what I like about how he shows me his love. Then he wants to do more of the same and I enjoy more of his love. It’s wonderful!

Do you ever get stuck on what another person is not doing and wonder how love is possible in that moment of frustration?

You may be saying, “He should know what I want!â€? Or, “I tell him what I like and I never get it!â€? This is dierent, however, than seeing something your sweetheart does that you like and telling him how you enjoy it. Do you see the dierence? AďŹƒrm what you DO want, not what you don’t want.

Want to be ready for Valentine’s Day? Make a card with a list of the little things he or she does that you love and you will create love. Come by the gallery and we will make one together on Create Love Day, Thursday, Feb. 4 @ 7 to 8:30 pm (call for more info) Colleen is a teaching artist at Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art Classes on 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA www.ColleenSgroi.com (978) 667-1009 email Colleen@ColleenSgroi.com

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Dave Says •By Dave Ramsey

INSURANCE YES, CREDIT SCORE NO Kinds of insurance Dave recommends?

No credit score, no mortgage?

Dear Dave, I’ve got auto insurance, but can you tell me what other kinds of insurance are good to have?

– Chris

Dear Dave, I’ve never had a credit card or a bank loan, so I really don’t have any established credit.

What should I do when it comes to a cell phone contract or establishing utility service? Also, what will happen if I try to get a mortgage loan at some point?

– Matthew

Dear Chris, The purpose of insurance is to transfer risk. Specifically, I’m talking about risk that you can’t afford to take. Most people can’t afford to have a heart attack and triple bypass surgery. Having to pay for something like that completely out of pocket would bankrupt just about anyone. That’s why health insurance is a vital part of any good financial plan.

It’s also important to have auto and homeowner’s insurance. If you don’t own a home, make sure you have renter’s insurance instead. Don’t forget about life insurance, either. If you’re married or have kids, you should carry eight to 10 times your yearly income in a good, 15- or 20-year level term life insurance policy. This means if you make $40,000, you should have about $400,000 wrapped up in life insurance.

Long-term disability insurance is vital.

The cheapest way to get this is in a group. If you buy it yourself, out on the open market, you’ll find that the rates are based more on your occupation than your age or health. So, if you fly a desk, it’ll be a lot cheaper than if you work with your hands.

And don’t forget long-term care insurance.

You need “nursing home insurance” if you’re 60 or older. It will also take care of you in your own home. The statistical probability of needing it before age 60 is about one percent, so wait until then to buy long-term care insurance. This kind of insurance can make sure you get the kind of care you want in your declining years. Plus, it can keep your nest egg with you and your family and out of the hands of the nursing home!

– Dave

Send us your ‘getting out of debt’ or your ‘debt free’ story and how you did it. Let’s inspire people and help them find financial peace. debtfree@thebillericagreen.com

Dear Matthew, There’s usually no exception on cell phone contracts or utility service. Chances are you’ll have to put up the deposit, and you’ll probably get it back in six months or maybe a year from now. I still run into this kind of thing from time to time. It’s almost like you don’t exist if you don’t have debt and a credit rating.

The mortgage lending rules are changing almost daily at this point. Under the current rules, there are two ways to be in a great position to get a home loan. One is to have credit running out of your ears and a huge FICO score. This is pretty stupid when you think about it, but it will get you a home loan almost instantly. The second is to have no credit whatsoever. So, it’s really the people in the middle who are feeling the pinch.

When you have no credit, the lender has to do the underwriting themselves. It’s something banks used to do, back when they actually had some sense when it came to making loans. They take a look to see if you have a stable job and a decent income. They’ll probably want some kind of proof that you pay your bills on time, and this could be as simple as showing them a few electric bills and other receipts to show that you honor your financial commitments.

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m o r f s r e t t love le the heart

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UTTING THE OTHER PERSON FIRST. BEING THE BEST OF FRIENDS. NEVER GIVING UP TOO QUICKLY. COMMUNICATING, COMMUNICATING, COMMUNICATING. SAVING MONEY. JOINING CAUSES YOU BELIEVE IN TOGETHER. When these couples who have stayed strong meet newlyweds, they are all too happy to share the tricks of the trade for a solid relationship. Married for over 50 years, the Windhams and the Clements never allowed time and distance to tear down the bonded lives they worked so hard to build. How did they do it? By remembering that no matter what, love is always the answer.

a love that’s bigger than us Growing up in Columbus, Mississippi, Nathaniel Windham was an only child. He described himself as a kid who needed to entertain himself and thus, had to learn how to socialize. Little did he know that he would go on to meet the only person on the planet who would be able to get him out of his shell.

Joan (Kennedy) Windham was growing up in Billerica with her four siblings and her mother after her parents divorced, something unheard of in the 1950’s. But this did not phase her since everyone in the home was so close.

“We had each other” said Joan.

When Nathaniel and Joan met, Nathaniel was stationed in Fort Devens, Massachusetts. He was a Marine in a corps that was heading to Europe for a secret mission. One chilly evening over the holidays, Nathaniel was invited by a military instructor to join him, his girlfriend and her best friend to dinner. Nathaniel didn’t argue.

“He told me to just get into the car,” Nathaniel chuckled.

That best friend was Joan. The couple had a nice time and made arrangements to see each other again. Soon after, Nathaniel had to break the news to Joan that he was being sent oversees to Europe.

Although it was hard, they agreed to keep in touch. Many love letters were exchanged over those next two years when Nathaniel was away and their love blossomed. They spoke of getting engaged and someday getting married. They talked about all the things that were going on in their families, especially the fact that Nathaniel’s mother was dying of cancer.

By Liana Measmer The couple’s families each accepted them both lovingly. It was because of this that Joan got the call from Nathaniel’s father letting her know a visit was in order since Nathaniel’s mother probably would not make it past the holiday season that following year. Joan visited, met Nathaniel’s parents and reported back to her future husband what she saw.

It was four months later in April 1959 that his mother’s doctor called overseas and Nathaniel was on a plane home two hours later.

He made it back to Mississippi in record time after meeting a bus driver who knew his mother and whisked him to the hospital. When he saw her, he knew it wasn’t good. He called Joan and asked her to come and marry him, as it was the one wish of his dying mother.

Joan scrambled. The couple had no money and her family helped her. She found a holiday dress to wear and got an airplane ticket. Her mother provided the consent since, although legal age to marry in Massachusetts, she was too young in Mississippi.

It was at his mother’s bedside, with a Methodist minister officiating, and Nathaniel’s friends Granville Watson and his girlfriend, Anne standing up for them, that the young couple exchanged their wedding vows. Joan was sure they were the only ones in the room but she was pleasantly surprised.

“When I turned around, all the patients and hospital staff were standing behind us,” Joan said teary-eyed.

After the ceremony, the couple had a gathering at Nathaniel’s aunt’s home, where the couple spent the next few days together.

A week later, Nathaniel was shipped back out to finish his line of duty in Europe with his Marine corp unit. Joan returned to Billerica to await her man’s return.

Following an injury, Nathaniel returned to the states one year later, finishing his tenure in the military

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Here’s what THIS generation is saying on Facebook...

“My parents just celebrated their 50th this year. They are not hi-tech as most people are these days. Actually, my Dad can’t go anywhere without my Mom. My sister & brother-inlaw just celebrated their 30th this year as well. My family is very old-fashion and believe in the whole until death due us part” – Steph Jodoin, Burlington, VT “Love is a verb not just a feeling. It takes daily work work and effort. Spending time together. Romantic and plain old just us time” – Andrea Kleiner, Hudson, NH “I think it takes good face to face communication to deal with issues. I find these days with my dating experience that people rely too much on email and texting - it’s a sure fire way to kill a relationship - so much gets taken out of context and messages misconstrued.

That’s my take on how high tech communication tools can be improperly used” – Sharon Dingle, Reading, MA

for good. The couple moved to Mississippi where they started their family. Nathaniel worked in a dairy and Joan stayed home to care for the couple’s three children. Sandra was born in 1961, Regina was born in 1962, and Mark was born in 1964. The couple reminisced that life moved a little slower in the south than here in New England. It wasn’t until 1971 that the couple returned to Billerica to put down their roots.

Even though they were busy with Nathaniel’s work schedule, first in building supplies and then as a crane operator, the couple still managed to take time for their family. They invested in a family camper and would take camping trips to Hampton Beach and Plum Island on the New Hampshire seacoast. Their home was the house all the neighborhood children congregated at. Their church life at St. Theresa’s parish was active for all five of them. Later on, their son Mark went on to the Marine corp and was enlisted in the same unit his father served decades before. Nathaniel clearly bursts at the seams with pride every time he tells this story, knowing he passed on his love of the military to his child. It’s these experiences that have kept this couple madly in love with each other all these years.

“Every time I look at her, that’s my celebration,” said Nathaniel.

always there for each other Living in a small town has its perks as well as its downfalls. For starters, everyone knows everyone. This can be a very good thing.

Bill and Karen Clement found this out growing up in Getzville, New York, a rural suburb of Buffalo.

Three years her senior, Karen knew of Bill when she was in elementary school. They went to a three room school and saw each other daily. As a teen, Karen was in a sorority when she asked Bill to be her date to an annual formal. Bill, having grown up a self described loner and a student of an all-boys vocational high school, was too afraid to respond to the request.

“I did not have a lot of experience with girls,” smiled Bill.

It wasn’t until later during a group date arranged by Bill’s best friend, Ted, that the couple were together, enjoying each other’s company at a drive in movie. Bill was impressed by Karen and they started dating each other.

“We really hit it off,” said Karen.

They dated while finishing school. Bill was in the naval reserves and went into active duty in 1956. He was stationed in Niagara Falls, NY and then went onto naval training in Oklahoma and Tennessee. The couple maintained contact through writing to each other almost daily. Karen remembers letters arriving at least three times a week and happily reports that she has saved every single one all these years.

“It seemed like there were letters all the time,” she said.

It was in 1957, on Christmas Eve, that Bill asked Karen to marry him. She joyfully accepted.

They made no plans to marry initially but two weeks later when Bill got news he would be stationed in New Orleans, he asked Karen to have their ceremony immediately. He did not want to leave without her.

Karen and her family made all the arrangements. She borrowed a pink bridesmaid dress and planned a dinner at a relatives restaurant. On February 22, she walked down the aisle with her dad at St. Paul’s Lutheran

Church in Eg g e r t s v i l l e , NY to exchange vows with Bill. The next day, they took all their belongings p a c k e d into Bill’s 1956 Ford convertible and headed to New Orleans.

The base in Louisiana was new and still under construction. There were no barracks for married couples so Bill and Karen stayed in a motel for a week. After looking at homes and apartments, they opted to purchase a trailer, where they stayed six years and two girls, Christine and Elaine, later.

After eight years in the service, the couple returned to the Buffalo area and purchased a summer cottage which they months winterizing. They were only there for a short time when Bill was laid off and ultimately found work with Honeywell working with computers in Wellesley, MA. He found a home for them in Billerica. Karen joined him in 1965 and their third daughter, Lynda, was born the following year.

When they were apart, they missed each other and made every effort to be together. Creating family traditions were key. They loved to go camping and even made trips back to New Orleans.

Thanksgiving was always spent in Buffalo with extended relatives.

In the 1970’s, Karen got her Master’s degree and become a Certified Public Accountant. Bill decided that computers were not for him and took an apprentice course in boat building. He went on to have a successful boat building and repair business.

The couple attributes the success of their relationship to their first six years together. They were on their own, away from the physical support of their parents and developed their independence.

“Right from the beginning, it was sink or swim,” said Karen.

“We had to do it together.”

sage advice The common theme the Clements and the Windhams shared for marital bliss was mutual respect and unselfishness. They stressed the need to communicate and share everything openly as well as honestly. They pointed out that commitment is hard but couples should hang in there even through the tough times. Going to church and volunteering together has kept them and their families close. It was through their own early lessons about life that these couples went on to build the solid foundations which made their marriages stand the test of time.

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LIFE’S MILESTONES AND YOUR LIFE INSURANCE Maintaining a life insurance policy that meets your coverage goals is a lifelong process.

Before you put that policy in a drawer to gather dust, you must remember that life insurance needs change when you reach life’s various milestones. In order to help ensure your coverage continues to meet your needs and stays current, you must review your policy on a regular basis throughout the years.

The importance of life insurance and the role it can play in protecting the financial security of your loved ones is certainly clear.

And yet, are you reviewing your policy on an annual basis? Doing so becomes particularly important whenever you reach any of life’s milestones. New additions in your life, such as that of a spouse, home, or child, make reviewing your policy a necessary component of planning your financial future. You may need to give your policy extra consideration in the event of any of the following: Marriage. In addition to determining whether or not your coverage amount is still appropriate, you may also consider insurance for your spouse. Updating your beneficiary list to include your new spouse, as well as correcting your policy to reflect a name change, if applicable, are important aspects of your plan.

Birth or Adoption of a Child. With added responsibilities comes the need for additional coverage. Keep in mind that the skills of a child’s primary caretaker are not easily replaced, and childcare can be expensive.

Insurance proceeds can be used to help pay for childcare expenses, however, in the event of the insured’s death. As your family grows, be sure to also update your beneficiary list.

Purchasing a New Home or Refinancing Your Mortgage. Owning your own home is an unbeatable feeling, but extra coverage may be necessary to help ensure mortgage requirements continue to be met. Insurance proceeds can be used to help pay off a mortgage, however, in the event of the insured’s death.

Starting a College/Retirement Savings Plan. A family’s financial goals, such as funding a college education or saving for retirement, may be affected by the death of the insured. Insurance proceeds may be used to help fund these goals. Also, if the policy allows withdrawals, which may be used to help pay for college expenses or fund retirement, these loans and withdrawals will reduce the amount of insurance proceeds if the loan is not paid back before the insured’s death.

Starting Your Own Business. If you leave your old job to start your own business, make sure that you do not sustain a significant loss in coverage when you leave your employer’s

benefit plan. You should again review your policy’s objectives and consider the ways in which life insurance can be a useful business tool. For example, for business continuation purposes, you may now be interested in obtaining coverage for financing a buy-sell agreement. In certain circumstances, you may consider placing business partners on your beneficiary list.

New Job. If you change jobs, pay attention to the benefits offered by your new employer.

Coverage amounts will often vary greatly from employer to employer, and this must be factored into your personal policy.

Perhaps one of the most secure feelings in life is knowing you have covered your bases and are prepared for whatever may happen. Through annual reviews, you can plan for coverage that will provide for your loved ones and help ensure financial goals and obligations will be met in case of your premature death. As you approach each one of life’s many milestones, you will find additional consideration and planning are well worth the effort.

Like most insurance policies, MetLife policies contain exclusions, limitations, reductions of benefits and terms for keeping them in force. Your MetLife representative can provide you with costs and complete details.

Pursuant to IRS Circular 230, MetLife is providing you with the following notification: The information contained in this document is not intended to (and cannot) be used by anyone to avoid IRS penalties. This document supports the promotion and marketing of insurance products. You should seek advice based on your particular circumstances from an independent tax advisor.

MetLife, its agents, and representatives may not give legal or tax advice. Any discussion of taxes herein or related to this document is for general information purposes only and does not purport to be complete or cover every situation. Tax law is subject to interpretation and legislative change. Tax results and the appropriateness of any product for any specific taxpayer may vary depending on the facts and circumstances. You should consult with and rely on your own independent legal and tax advisors regarding your particular set of facts and circumstances.

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L0409032994(exp0510)(All States)(DC) This article appears courtesy of Frank Hynes. Frank is a Registered Representative off ering securities through MetLife Securities, Inc.(MSI)(member FINRA/ SIPC), New York, NY 10166. Insurance and annuities off ered through Metropolitan Life Insurance Company (MLIC), New York, NY 10166. MSI and MLIC are MetLife companies. He focuses on meeting the individual insurance and financial services needs of people in the Billerica area. You can reach Frank at the office at 655 Boston Road U-3B, Billerica, MA 01821 (978)528-6046 fhynes@metlife. com Copyright © 2009 Liberty Publishing, Inc. All Rights Reserved.

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JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE: HARBOR UNIT OFFERS DIGNITY TO RESIDENTS It wasn’t supposed to be like this. For Eileen Ralske, her husband Norman’s advanced Dementia came on too rapidly at a time of their lives when retirement dreams included travel and relaxation. Instead, within a short two year span, Eileen was staying up all night because Norman would not sleep four nights per week, and expended all her energy attempting to keep him safe. Today, he is a resident at Billerica Crossing Harbor Memory Care Unit and Eileen knows he is well cared for.

“I am so pleased,” said Eileen. “I feel that he is going to thrive here.”

Opened in December, Harbor has 12 apartments available with the capability to house up to 16 residents. What the staff at Harbor have found is there tends to be an immediacy to move residents in when families come to tour.

“Sometimes the need happens quickly,” said Linda Durkin, Executive Director of Billerica Crossings.

It may be the assumption of most that Alzheimer’s or Dementia are generally slow and progressive. What can happen is the person deteriorates at an accelerated pace. For Norman Ralske, he had been an accomplished physician who worked until he was 80 years old. Upon examination, his doctors believe that he suffered from mini-strokes over his later life time and this impacted his brain function. At 82, post retirement, Norman lost his sense of direction. He could not finish sentences, or attend to personal hygiene. He even struggled with getting dressed. Eileen spent every waking moment at his side, ensuring his safety and getting him to all his various appointments.

“It was exhausting,” she said.

What drew Eileen to Harbor was the

caring staff. She had met Community Relations Director, Charles Sterling, and was struck by how genuinely concerned he was for Norman’s well being. When Norman was hospitalized prior to moving in, Sterling would call Eileen periodically to check in on Norman’s condition. Eileen felt that if the staff were so concerned for him before he stepped foot in the building, Norman would be well cared for once he arrived.

In addition to a secure, safe space, Harbor offers activities which are aimed at maintaining a sense of routine and normalcy for residents. Harbor Program Director, Jane Guertin, reads through lengthy questionnaires provided by families that help her to determine what were the things the residents did in their everyday life. Then she seeks to replicate those experiences to bring a sense of familiarity to them. If a resident is good with numbers, a cooking class using measurements may be offered. If they enjoyed the outdoors, then they will get the chance to take in some gardening this spring.

“We provide opportunities for them to feel successful,” said Guertin.

One aspect which is new is staffing based on need not just numbers. In the past, there were a set number of aides available but now, based on the acuteness of the residents’ conditions, it will be determined how many staff will be present to care for them. This is reviewed weekly and adjusted as necessary.

“We are now able to fluctuate our number of aides based on need,” said Durkin.

To educate any potential resident or their families about Alzheimer’s, Billerica Crossings will be hosting “The Heart of The Caregiver”. This workshop will be held on Wednesday, Jan. 20 at Billerica Crossings on 20 Chanstaffe Lane and will feature

presenter and author Beverly Moore. Moore is a registered nurse and has written the book, “Matters of the Mind...and Heart “. She also owns “StilMee”, a Alzheimer coaching agency. Refreshments will be served at 5:30 pm and the presentation will commence at 6 pm. Tours of the Harbor Unit will also be available. For more information or to RSVP, contact Billerica Crossings at 978667-0898 or visit their website at www. benchmarkquality.com.

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WORK OUT SAFELY ANYTIME: 24 HOUR GYM OFFERS STATE-OF-THE-ART SECURITY Although not new, the 24 hour gym concept is somewhat of a rarity in Billerica.

Residents have been accustomed to having staff present while working out. Now, they can be lifting weights or running on the treadmill at 3 am, monitored only by someone at the other end of a surveillance camera. Can this be considered safe?

During their ribbon cutting celebration on Jan. 8, Anytime Fitness Owner Wade Winters said yes. Winters has ensured that the most innovative and secure surveillance equipment is installed in his bright, modern facility at 99 Chelmsford Road, right alongside his new equipment. Anytime Fitness, with 1100 gyms nationwide, has been successful doing business this way since 2002.

After hours, when a member wants to use the gym, they enter using their key fob. Once inside, they pass by a tailgate at the front door which records how many people pass.

This lets the staff know if anyone without membership tried to gain entry.

There are eight cameras positioned all around the gym, all monitored by ProVision, a surveillance company with offices nationwide. For the older member, necklaces with panic buttons are available, should they need immediate assistance and a 911 telephone is easily accessible. If there is ever a problem, Pro-Vision calls the local police department immediately.

Every new member, before starting

their fitness program, must complete an orientation. This is another way to keep people safe.

“Each member goes through orientation to review our policies and equipment,” said Winters.

Included in the orientation is a personal training session with trainer Deb Grumbach.

At that time, Grumbach works with the member to map out a fitness program as well as walks them through the proper use of the equipment.

Winters noted that there are no weights heavier than 110 pounds and no Olympic benches. This ensures that members don’t get hurt when they are exercising on their own.

With Star Trac and Max Rack equipment available, members can also maximize their workout in a short amount of time, especially on such machines as the chest, lift, and arm curl.

“They can get a full body workout just from these three machines,” Winters pointed out during a recent tour.

When finished, members can use the individual, private one person locked bathrooms with shower stalls available.

Anytime Fitness opened for business officially on Jan. 10 and has membership packages available. For additional information, visit their web site at www.anytimefitness.com or call 978-667-0300. You can also email your questions to BillericaMA@anytimefitness.com.

Town Manager John Curran, Lowell Chamber of Commerce CEO Jeanne Osborn, Selectman Bob Correnti, Selectman Mike Rosa, Community Alliance Executive Director Pat Zapert, and Economic Development Coordinator Stephanie Cronin join Owner Wade Winters and his staff at his ribbon cutting celebration on Jan. 8.

Owner Wade Winters with Town manager John Curran, Selectman Bob Correnti, and Selectman Mike Rosa on Jan. 8 following his ribbon cutting ceremony.

Notes from General Sound •By Todd Dellaporta

L-O-V-E AND MUSIC L is for the way you Look at me…

I looked online for an acceptable list of the top 10 love songs of all time. What I found was the usual vanilla, played to death, classic stuff. Sure, “Wonderful Tonight” and “Always and Forever” have their place in American hearts but as a 20 year veteran DJ, I decided to make my own list.

O is for the Only one I see…

It is difficult for me to be impartial when picking a great love song. Many of my personal favorites are forever connected to special occasions in my past. That’s why music is so awesome. It has a way of creating a soundtrack to our memories whether intentional or not. Putting all that aside, why not check out the following “Top 10” love songs (in random order) provided by yours truly, DJ Todd from General Sound Entertainment. These songs are slightly more obscure ballads that will have you instinctively reaching for your partners hand and asking the DJ, “Who does this song?”

(You can visit the ITunes store and preview them for free).

V is Very very extraordinary…

“My Valentine” by Martina McBride, “I Never saw a Miracle” by Curtis Stigers, “Can I take you out Tonight?” by Luther Vandross, “I Love You” by Climaxx Blues Band, “At Last” by Etta James, “Ribbon in the Sky”

by Stevie Wonder, “Don’t Want to Miss a Thing” by Aerosmith, “I Cross my Heart”

by George Strait, “Colour my World” by Chicago, and “It’s Your Love” by Faith Hill and Tim McGraw.

YOUR NEW PUPPY Give your pup a safe space in his first few days at home A crate gives your puppy a safe, comfy place for resting and chewing on toys.

Introduce your puppy to his new crate by making it a predictor of yummy surprises: •When your pup isn’t watching, place one of his favorite treats (the smellier the better) right inside the crate. Let him discover it on his own. After he eats it, repeat, placing each new treat gradually closer to the back of the crate.

•Sneak occasional treats or bits of kibble into the crate to promote regular puppy inspections.

By Sandra Brigham, Trainer and Behavior Consultant. Sandra is the owner of Train Up That Pup! You can reach her at 978-436-0318.

E is Even more than anyone that you adore…

Some other easy listening this Valentine’s Day can be found on the recent CDs from two songbirds with local ties. “Take Love Easy” is a release from Cathy Nardone. The tracks are smooth and well done representing several different styles of music from the bouncy latin-styled “Long Ago and Far Away” to the soulful title track.

A regular at Joseph’s Winter St. Café in Newburyport, Nardone sang in a show called “Lunch with Lily and the Ladies”, a fundraiser for the Boston women’s shelter Rosie’s Place. Another local artist, Kimberly Keating, whose musical talent centers around the swinging jazz tunes of Frank Sinatra and more contemporary rhythm and blues, has released an album entitled “Overjoyed”.

I love her “jazz voice” and found her interpretations to be a very similar style to that of Cathy Nardone. For a real treat check out her version of the Billy Joel classic, “New York State of Mind”.

Before I go, I’d like to wish my best friend a Happy 22nd Valentines Anniversary and let her know…”You’re all I need my love, my Valentine!”

General Sound Entertainment has been providing clean, upbeat entertainment for the people of Billerica for almost two decades!

To inquire about quality entertainment, Videography or Photography for your next event he can be reached at 508-572-6880, on the web at www.generalsound.com, or by email at info@generalsound,com

RED HAT LADIES HOUSE OF HOPE GIFTS The Bodacious Ladies of Billerica (Red Hat Chapter) ran their 5th annual Christmas party. Several chapters of the Red Hat Society from Billerica, Nashua, Andover, Wakefield, Lexington, Tewksbury and Burlington attended the event. Approx 90 Ladies attended and each brought a gift to be donated to the House of Hope in Lowell. The gifts were delivered to the House of Hope by Virginia McGrath, queen mother of the Bodacious ladies. The Red Hat Society is made up of ladies over 50 who enjoy going out, dressing up, having fun , as well as always ready to donate to charity.

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Households use about a fifth of the total energy consumed in the United States each year and generate 21 percent of the nation’s carbon dioxide emissions, according to the US Department of Energy. With growing concerns about climate change, government subsidies for renovating existing homes to a higher standard are rolling out as never before. Whether homeowners are looking at extra insulation, new heating equipment, or even solar panels, it’s easier -- and more economical -- than ever to lower monthly utility bills by a third or more. Here’s how to get started:

1 GET AUDITED: The first order of business in improving energy efficiency is to set up an energy audit.

This is typically a room-by-room inspection, often with specific tests to assess airtightness and insulation. An audit will “quickly reveal the weakest link in the chain,” says Mark Price, a sustainability specialist with building systems consultants Steven Winter Associates in Maynard. Often, the priority is to stop leaking air. “If there’s air leakage, extra insulation won’t work.”

MassSAVE, a partnership among the state, energy efficiency contractors, and utility companies, offers free basic energy audits for homeowners in one- to four-family structures (masssave.com or 866-527-7283). It will pay up to $2,000 for weatherization and up to $1,000 for efficient gas heating upgrades.

Most state residents already contribute to the MassSAVE program. “Every utility has what’s called a conservation charge of $1.50 or $2 per month per customer,” explains program manager Jerry Hanna. “All of that is thrown into a pot for energy efficiency programs.”

2 DITCH OLD APPLIANCES: When it comes to household appliances that are 10 years old or older, replacing them with today’s more energy-efficient models is money well spent -- and energy saved. (And new appliances add to the resale value of

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the home.) Under a proposal submitted for federal approval by the state Department of Energy Resources, Massachusetts residents could be eligible for $6.2 million in federal stimulus-funded rebates for exchanging inefficient clothes washers, dishwashers, refrigerators, and freezers for new Energy Star versions. If approved, the state rebate program would begin in late February or early March.

Energy Star does not rate clothes dryers, but newer models do come with moisture sensors that shut off the dryer when clothes are dry, saving energy and fabric wear and tear. To really conserve, dry clothes on an old-fashioned wooden rack or clothesline.

A new Energy Star-labeled dishwasher uses less than half as much energy as washing by hand and saves nearly 5,000 gallons of water a year, according to the government’s Energy Star website.

Savings can be had for bigger-ticket items as well. For non-solar water heaters, biomass stoves, and qualified heating and cooling equipment purchased this year or next, the federal government offers tax credits of 30 percent of the cost, up to $1,500 (energystar. gov/taxcredits).

3 CONSIDER SOLAR PANELS: The federal government is now offering a 30 percent tax credit -- without a cap -for solar panels installed by 2016, as well as for other improvements such as solar water heaters and small wind turbines (energystar. gov/taxcredits).

But will solar work in chilly Massachusetts?

The experts say yes. Compared with an average 5.5 or 6 peak hours of sunshine per day in the Southwest, New England averages about 4.5 peak hours per day over the course of a year, says Robb Aldrich of Steven Winter Associates, engineer for the solar village in Greenfield. “It’s not as sunny here, but the sun still shines.”

Source: Aubin Tyler is a freelance writer in Northampton.

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The Body Elite

Family Matters with Ed and Sandy

•By Brian Panarese, B.S. Professional Fitness Trainer

•By Sandra Giroux

FINDING LOVE IN FITNESS

HOME IS YOUR ROCK

Since the topic of this issue is on “LOVE”, I thought I’d show you how to get fit and get hit by Cupid’s arrow. I think there is nothing better in the world then a couple with similar health goals. Staying healthy together is a strong common bond.

Don’t panic if you’re single. I’m not saying you have to grow old and retire with this person. But it’s a great idea to stay healthy and fit while going out on dates whether single or married. Even families can go on active dates!

There are some local groups were singles do meet to go on adventures such as hike, skate and dance. Try looking up a local group in your area. If singles groups are not your thing, then how about scouting your local gym? If you are a regular at a gym, you’ll see the same people in there day after day.

I think it’s sad when people don’t take the time to interact when they have something in common. These people are all in the gym to get in shape so why not try to strike up a conversation. Of course, don’t bother them while they exercising with weights or doing a routine. However, there is nothing better than having a buddy to talk to while you are on the Cardio equipment. Time flies when you’re on a treadmill talking to someone who can carry on an interesting conversation.

This activity stimulates your body and your mind.

After your aerobic workout is finished, ask that person to go on an active date.

By ACTIVE, I mean taking in something other than a movie (just sitting on your

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butt) or hitting the bars (eating snacks and drinks that are taking you away from your healthy goals). Let’s forget those standard dates . . BORING! Why not go ice-skating at the Hallenborg Arena? How about taking in a swim at the Boys and Girls Club? Do you know they open the Burlington Mall early so people can walk around the inside for exercise? There are nature walkways all around the surrounding communities.

Look them up on the web and find the right person to go with. These active dates can be done morning, noon or night.

After you’ve expended some calories and feel good, hit up a local eatery for some healthy food. Following exercise, it’s proper to revitalize your body with nutrients.

A good combination would be a 50-50 protein-carb meal with some veggies and lots of water. Skip the alcoholic beverages. They are just empty calories that will negate the exercise you just performed. A good choice would be a boneless breast of chicken with a cup of rice or small baked potato. A salad with light dressing will fill the void along with a tall mug of ice water with fresh lemon slices. This recipe will work wonders and put a spark under ‘Ole Cupid. I hope you give it a try for 2010 and may all your dates be active ones.

Brian Panarese, B.S. owns The Body Elite Professional Fitness Training Company and has been a Professional Trainer for 33 years.

If you have a fitness related question please e-mail him at Body.Elite@verizon.net

What is the foundation on which you base you life on? What is the cornerstone you can always depend on when you are at your worst or best? The answer for me is simple and can be summed up in one word.

Family.

Life is chaotic. Between kid’s schedule, work and responsibilities, do you ever feel you can’t keep your head above water?

We all feel that way at some point. Don’t be fooled by those who say they never get overwhelmed, they are just fooling themselves.

The impact of stress and burnout on a family can be devastating, causing resentment, anxiety and my favorite- “the short fuse”. When any of these symptoms start to creep into your family life, make time together to step back and re-evaluate your life style and commitment to one another. Your children are watching and imitating your actions.

Use positive reinforcement as to not create more stress for your family. Point out to each other the areas of your relationship that are running smoothly. We have a rule in our house “Never go to bed angry. We can agree to disagree, but at least come to some resolution.” We also have a plaque in our house that reads “A kiss goodnight

is one of the sweetest expressions of love I know in good times or mad.” And, to take it one step further, this doesn’t just apply to your spouse, but can apply to children as well.

The next time you feel everything is overwhelming you, don’t panic or get angry: plan ahead. A long-range relief strategy is to recognize what causes the buildup of pressure. If you see by your calendar that you are in for a few heavy weeks or too many late nights, block out some relief time. This might be a half-day, whole day or extended weekend. Take yourself out of your normal situation. Place yourself in a situation where past experience will show that you can forget what is going on. This may mean a day alone. Or with special ones at the beach or the mountains, or a weekend away with just your spouse. It’s a big help if families discuss their future schedules together to identify where the overloads are going to occur and schedule in down time.

A simple immediate solution is to pause, take a breath and remember: “Families are the compass that guide us. They are the inspiration to reach great heights, and our comfort when we occasionally falter.” ~ Brad Henry Be patient with yourself. Learning new ways to cope and breaking old habits takes time. Remember you are only as strong as your cornerstone, your family. Thomas Jefferson said “The happiest moments of my life have been with the few which I have passes at home in the bosom of my family.”

HEALTH FAIR IS SEEKING VENDORS

BILLERICA FORECLOSURE JEOPARDIZES CATS AND KITTENS

By Joan Parcewski

Billerica Cat Care Coalition

This year’s Health Fair will have a new location, new sponsoring organizations, and some new vendors. The Billerica Lions Club and the Billerica Lodge of Elks are partnering to host the “Billerica Health and Wellness Fair”. By adding “wellness” to the theme, the Lions and Elks are looking to add participation by more alternative groups - i.e. reiki, acupuncture, nutritionists, wellness experts and the like.

The date is Saturday, April 10 from 10am to 2pm at the Billerica Lodge of Elks. The cost is $25 per table space (table and table cover provided) and food will be provided at a nominal cost on site for all vendors.

We will be using both the large and small halls at the Elks.

The smaller hall will be reserved for activities such as Reiki, Acupuncture, and brief seminars (10 - 15 minutes).

If you are a business in the health or wellness field (no insurance companies please) and are interested in participating, please contact Annette Presseau at stitchlady.netti46@yahoo.com or contact us through our new Facebook group “Billerica Health and Wellness Fair”. Joining the group allows for receiving updated new information and the list of vendors as they sign on.

Recently, the Billerica Cat Care Coalition (BCCC) was contacted, via our website, about a situation even our Animal Control Department did not hear about. Upon investigation, BCCC volunteers discovered more than 20 Siamese, Himalayan and other types of cats and kittens, including 3 newborns, inside an attic wall. They were all left behind when their owner was foreclosed on.

The cats were jumping in and out of a basement window and were being fed by some kind neighbors.

None of the cats were spayed or neutered. They were living in filthy conditions. Some were sick but have since received medication to help them get better. One cat even gave birth to 3 kittens after she was trapped. Though BCCC’s main

mission is Trap/Neuter/Return (TNR) of feral (wild) cats, we were able to step in and help rescue the felines, including getting them spayed or neutered and placed in foster care. Had BCCC not stepped in, this growing cat situation would have turned into a more disastrous situation by allowing more kittens to be born into this situation, all of whom would have become feral, leaving them with no place to go.

Thanks to the hard work of BCCC volunteers, our fellow rescue organizations and our donors who help support BCCC’s efforts, all of the cats and kittens’ lives were saved.

They were removed to healthy and loving situations.

If you have a neighbor who is not spaying or neutering their animals, please contact Animal Control or send an e-mail to BCCC’s website.

We can provide information on lowcost spays or neuters for pets, as well as provide services for TNR of feral cats. Spaying or neutering prevents overpopulation issues, such as the situation described above. This helps prevent an animal from facing euthanasia, through no fault of its own.

If you would like to contribute to our Good Samaritan Fund, please visit our website. You can pay via Paypal or by sending a check to: BCCC, P.O. Box 141, North Billerica, MA 01862. If you would like more information about how you can help a feral cat, adopt or volunteer to further BCCC’s no-kill movement, please visit our website at: www.billericacatcarecoalition. org. Many thanks to those of you who help those who cannot speak for themselves. Happy New Year!

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The Sunny Side of the Street •By Dave Gagliardi

V-DAY LOBSTERS OF LOVE It seems that each year, some men are at a loss when it comes to just the right gift to give their respective loved one on Valentines Day. Truth be told, some are at so much of a loss that they keep putting it off until they have completely forgotten about Valentines Day. It’s only that they hear someone at work talking about it that they suddenly realize Valentines Day is TODAY! It’s too late to get to a florist and there aren’t that many candy shops around.

So, they hit the grocery store around 5pm. Only then do they realize that all of the Valentines candy is long gone and the only flowers left look as if they were left over from last year. The cards are at a premium too. The ones left have a picture of a duck swimming among the cat-o-nine tails and says something like “Have A Ducky Valentines Day”. Figuring they are in trouble, they stand in the card aisle staring off into space trying to come up with an excuse they think their wives will buy into when suddenly hey hear an announcement suggesting a unique Valentines gift. A lobster! This is when they end up coming to me and I love it.

Now you have to understand that the marketing genius who came up with the idea that a lobster would be an excellent Valentines gift were “guyz”. They never took into consideration that the only ones who

would buy into this notion, other “guyz”, would not understand the follow through necessary when giving a living crustacean as a gift. They never thought that dopey would go home and say “Honey, look what I got you for Valentines Day. Now let me tell you how I want mine cooked.” This man will very shortly welcome death.

Now it just so happened that last year, I had a gentleman who had sense enough to ask if we steamed the lobsters for people. I told him that we did and told him that it would take about 30 minutes. He said that would be too long and asked me why I couldn’t just microwave them. Apparently, he hadn’t graduated Cum Laude from Johnson and Wales. I told him that micro waving was not an option and that it would be like putting a cat in a microwave. I am not sure he understood.

So, before Valentines Day sneaks up on you, consider this. If you are waiting for one particular day to let someone know that you love and appreciate them, you don’t get it. If you have to empty out flower stores, candy shops and card stores just to show what you should be proving every day, you don’t get it.

And, if you are standing in line in front of my case at 5:00 in the evening on February 14th, looking for that something special, you are not going to get “it”!

ALL NIGHT WINTER PARKING BAN RUNS UNTIL MAR. 15 The annual all-night parking ban will be in full force on all Billerica roadways. Vehicles found parked in the roadway longer than two (2) hours between Midnight and 6:00 AM during the above dates will be tagged and subject to a fine. If a vehicle is parked as to interfere with snow removal, a fine will be assessed and will be subject to towing.

Upon declaration of a snow emergency by

the Town Manager, parking on all public ways will be prohibited. Vehicles found parked on public ways will be subject to a $50.00 fine and towing. The Chief of Police requests the cooperation of all residents to comply with this public safety ordinance to insure that snow plowing operations will not be hampered by illegally parked vehicles.

John Curran, Town Manager

WINTER GUIDELINES FOR TRASH CARTS AND RECYCLE BINS Now that there is snow on the ground, residents should take special care to ensure trash carts are accessible to the arm of the automated trash trucks, with 3’ clearance around the cart to all obstacles such as tall snow banks, recycle bins, overflow bags, mailboxes, trees and parked cars.

Please avoid placing trash carts or recycling into the plowed roadway by clearing a small area just off the edge of road for trash and recycle containers. If possible, please continue to place recycling on the opposite side of the driveway or walkway from the trash cart, and be sure it is clearly

visible from the road and not blocked by snow banks.

In the event of an active snowstorm on trash day, please be aware that trash or recycle containers placed too close to the edge of road may be tipped over during plowing, especially with wet heavy snow or slush. Trash collection may be delayed due to inclement weather on trash day, and will continue until complete. In the event that trash collection must be postponed due to weather, such notice will be posted on www.billericadpw. org and BATV with information on when collection will resume.

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Unforgettable Superintendent Robert Calabrese Remembered as Billerica’s Renaissance Man By Liana Measmer

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utstandingly versatile. Well-rounded.

A brilliant performer. Knowledgeable and educated. Dr. Robert J. Calabrese was every bit the definition of the Renaissance Man. The retired superintendent served for 22 years in the Billerica Public Schools.

He retired in 2006, and continued his passion for education as Program Director of Merrimack Education Center (MEC) in Billerica. Bob passed away last June from a heart attack, but his legacy lives on in his accomplishments and the thoughtful way he treated people. Bob was actively involved with the Billerica Scholarship Foundation Team Trivia Challenge, and as the event draws near, it is a fitting time to recall the man behind the beaming smile who touched so many lives.

HERO The definition of a hero is someone who sees what needs to be done and just does it. This was Calabrese’s code as a father. A transplant from Ohio decades ago when he became the Superintendent in Billerica, he soon found himself the single father to two boys, Christopher and Peter. The boys went through the school system while their father attended meetings and functions, juggling fatherhood with demanding work. Today, Peter and Christopher are in their 30s and are residing out of state with their families.

“They’re both gentlemen and very successful,” said Linda Calabrese, Bob’s widow.

SOULMATE Linda Calabrese met Bob more than 20 years ago, while they both worked at the School Department. She is an administrative assistant for finance and remembers how they teamed up during the new Ditson School Building Project. Years later, love blossomed and they grew very close.

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“We loved each other a lot,” said Linda. “We never fought.”

Linda smiled wistfully when she described her May 2008 wedding as a fairy tale. She recalled that all her guests enjoyed themselves. She was tearful when she remembered her husband’s passing, too soon after celebrating their first wedding anniversary. Bob always had the TV on, which Linda called the “noise box.” Now, since the house is so quiet, she makes sure the noise box stays on.

“I miss him so much,” she said.

As Linda looked back, she smiled every time she recounted story after story about Bob’s life. As a public figure, when he walked into a room, he knew everyone.

As a public speaker, Bob was talented and focused. He would take days to re-write his speeches, but had no trouble incorporating conversations into his them.

“He was down to earth and no one disliked him,” said Linda.

Linda described him as just a regular guy who did not need a fancy house or car. One thing he was most proud of was all the home improvements the couple made together.

When he needed to spend money, his favorite thing to do was to purchase gifts for others, especially his four grandchildren and his staff. He made it a point to pick out personalized gifts, since he did his best to be familiar with those around him.

COLLEAGUE Jim McCormick knew Bob for over 20 years. As Deputy Executive Director of MEC, McCormick had the opportunity to work closely with Bob when they sat on boards together and when Bob was handling the professional development for his staff. McCormick remembers Bob’s demeanor with his staff as friendly and gregarious. Bob was always there to greet people with a smile and at the end of the day, his staff never questioned that he cared.

“He always made everyone feel important,” said McCormick.

McCormick and Bob eventually became close friends. McCormick has fond memories of the friendly competitiveness the two men shared, no matter if they were cheering on their favorite baseball teams or swapping cooking ideas. McCormick loved the Red Sox while Bob was sure the Yankees would always prove victorious.

McCormick always preferred his Irish Corned Beef while Bob had a few savory Italian recipes up his sleeve.

After Bob asked for Linda’s hand in marriage, his next stop was McCormick’s office, where he asked his friend to be the Justice of The Peace and officiate his wedding.

McCormick did not hesitate in saying yes.

“I was very proud to do that,” said McCormick.

Upon his passing, the MEC building at 40 Linnell Circle was dedicated in Bob’s name. McCormick recalled

“He was kind and gentle and he thought about people a lot,” said Linda.

The Calabrese’s enjoyed traveling or going to cultural events. They especially liked traveling to Florida. When the couple joined 10 others on a retirement cruise to Bermuda, the result was pure fun.

“It was a blast,” said Linda.

Bob was really into baseball and college basketball. One of the few die-hard Yankees fans in the area, he was steadfast in defending his favorite team when faced with Red Sox Nation in his office and home. He would plan out NCAA travel trips with all his male friends, which were guy-only weekends. Linda always encouraged him to go.

“He was boisterous and upbeat,” said Linda about his excitement in being with his friends.

that the ceremony was moving and there wasn’t a dry eye in the group of faculty, friends and family who were present.

“He left such a lasting impact on all of us,” said McCormick.

MASTER Since the inception of the Team Trivia Challenge 15 years ago, Bob has been the only Trivia Master of Ceremonies. He will be forever remembered for quieting the chatter in the room with his, “Shhhhh!”

He requested the questions the weekend prior to the event so he could plan his attire. Some famous Calabrese fashions included a sleek cowboy hat, a smart tuxedo or a fun kilt.

“He thoroughly enjoyed it,” said Linda.

Initially he wasn’t excited to be placed at the helm but eventually grew to take his role very seriously. Because of his role, crowds flocked to the event to enjoy his humor.

“Because he was well-known, he would be a draw,” said Maureen Sullivan, Scholarship Foundation chairperson.

PREDECESSOR When Bob retired in 2006, he was replaced by Anthony Serio. Serio was no stranger to the position, coming to Billerica with 13 years of superintendent and administrative experience. However, Serio knew he had giant shoes to fill, so he kept Bob’s legacy alive.

“He was a successful superintendent,” said Serio. “I wasn’t going to rush in and make a lot of changes.”

Bob took his job seriously, especially when he handled human resource issues. When he arrived on the scene, Serio picked up teacher contract negotiations where Bob left off.

Serio described his management style as interdependent and delegative while he described Bob’s as more independent, often making decisions on his own. Regardless, Bob was always available to offer counsel and advice to Serio, who relied heavily on him to fill in the history gaps on his projects and decisions.

“He was extremely welcoming,” said Serio LEADER For Alexander “Sandy” Infanger, retired Locke Middle School Principal, and Fran O’Donnell, Bob’s administrative assistant for 14 years, Bob was nothing short of a visionary.

The shining feather in his cap was the construction of the new Ditson School which Bob oversaw until its completion.

Both Infanger and O’Donnell recalled how he shrewdly

managed funds, financing the school within the school budget.

“He was the building block for a modern Billerica,” said Infanger.

In the 1980’s into the mid 1990’s, there was a serious overcrowding problem at the old Ditson School. Bob made it his mission to have a larger, more modern school built. Bob was committed to the success of this project and could often be found in his office working until midnight, ensuring timely completion of all needed documentation.

“He worked on it morning, noon, and night,” said O’Donnell. “He was savvy.”

FRIEND Bob had numerous friends and Selectman Bob Correnti was proud to be one of them. The two men, along with countless others, spent hours having fun. They took in

sporting events, played in golf tournaments, and had lively lunches and dinners. The group, sometimes with as many as 20, shared a lot of laughs and good natured ribbing.

“It was a lot of fun,” said Correnti. “He took it in stride.”

Correnti recalled how Bob regaled in the fact that he was personally and privately generous while publicly and professionally frugal. Correnti found him to be genuine and he always gave solid advice. Correnti often sought out Bob’s opinion and misses his friendship very much.

“I feel fortunate that he counted me as one of his many friends,” said Correnti.

A TRIBUTE The 2010 Team Trivia Anniversary Challenge is scheduled for Friday, Feb. 5, at 7 p.m. at the Billerica Lodge of Elks and will be a celebration honoring all of Bob’s years of service. Teams interested in playing can visit the Billerica Scholarship Foundation web site at www.

BillericaScholarship.org for more information. Registrations must be returned by Jan. 29.

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THE LIBRARY THE COFFEE EMPORIUM TOWN HALL PRO-FITNESS

OUT ON THE TOWN Billerica Spelling Bee

Colleen Sgroi Gallery and Art Classes

Sistacamp at The Bennett Library

www.billericaspellingbee.org

Feb. 4: 7 pm: Create Love Day.Colleen Sgroi Gallery, 12 Andover Road, Billerica, MA

Only -$40 for 2 day session (1 girl) $50 for 2 day session (includes2 sisters) $75 for 2 day session (Includes3 or more sisters) 3 Concord Road Billerica , MA 01821 Just a place to meet up & hang out with your friends for the day.

Email Karla DiChiara at pckelleher@verizon.net for more information or your registration form

Feb. 6: 9:30 am-5:30 pm Buck Auditorium, Town Hall 80 Students from grades 38 will compete. Awards given at conclusion. Tickets allow full day admission. Adults: $5; Students and seniors: $3; Under 5 is free

Sweetheart Dance www.billerica-alliance.org Feb. 11: 4 pm For couples married 50 years or more. it down dinner, music and dancing. Transportation provided if needed.

Sponsored by The Community Alliance 978-667-4174

NEEDED The Knitters Club makes hats for preemies and cancer patients or slippers for soldiers. They need all types of yarn.

Please drop off your contribution at The Council on Aging 25 Concord Road, Billerica Mon. – Fri.: 8:30 am – 4 pm For more information, call 978-671-0916.

Billerica Cat Care Coalition Jan. 16: 11 am to 2 pm: Petco, 51 Middlesex Turnpike, Burlington, MA Feb. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., Chelmsford Mar. 13: 11 am to 2 pm: Meet and Greets at Agway, 24 Maple St., Chelmsford

Greater Lowell Chamber of Commerce Feb. 16: 7:30: BILLERICA TOWN BUSINESS DAY

Council On Aging

Town Hall Auditorium. Free! Open to all businesses, new or established, addressing business issues including State & Municipal (resources, topics, concerns), Financial Options, Procurement & Technical Assistance, Business Counseling & Training

Women in Control

Respite Care Companion Program:

GUEST SPEAKERS

www.waggleforce.com

If you have been thinking about getting help caring for the one you love, don’t fret. Everybody needs a little help sometimes, especially caregivers. The respite companions are available to work morning, noon or night, seven days a week. For more information on the respite companion program, please contact Lauren Gray at: 978-671-0916 ext: 226 or lgray@ town.billerica.ma.us COA Van Service: The Van is helping seniors with transportation to do local errands, visit friends or go to lunch. The cost is now $1.00 each way and a 2-day notice is preferred.

Call 671-0916, ext 229.

NEW! Mah Jongg: Fridays at 12:30 p.m. A tile game that originated in China uses groups of four players who are given a collection of tiles divided into five or six suits.

Strategies are used to make tile matches.

Men’s Group Meeting: Jan. 20 at 1:00 p.m. Sign up at the front desk.

New Bi-Monthly Laughter Yoga Club: Jan. 22 at 10:00 a.m.: What has been happening to laughter? Why is it so important? What does laughter have to tell us about our happiness and well being?

Come join us and Robert Herrick will give you the answers. Sign up at the front desk.

Book Club: Jan. 26 at 12:30 p.m. The January book is Empire Falls by Richard Russo. Sign up at the front desk.

History Lecture: Jan.28 at 10:00 a.m. Paul Hogman presents “Do You Really Know Your State?” Sign up at the front desk.

Ms. Jeanne Osborn, President & CEO GLCC State Senator Kenneth Donnelly State Representative William Greene, Jr. Mr. George E. Noel, MA Director of Labor Mr. John Curran, Billerica Town Manager Ms. Stephanie Cronin, Economic Development Coordinator Ms. Lisa Gonzalez-Welch SBA (US Small Business Administration) Ms. Terry Williams, Assistant Director, Lowell Small Business Assistance Center Mr. John F. Fioriti, SOMWBA Mr. Peter McGarry, SCORE Counselor Ms. Barbara O’Neil, Director, Gr. Lowell Workforce Investment Board Ken Goode, Vice President, MassDevelopment More info 978-459-8154

Pop Warner

If you’re 50 or older, you can be a Red Hatter and wear purple and red. If you’re under fifty, you can be a Pink Hatter and wear lavender and pink. Ladies, there is only one rule in the Red Hat Society:“There are no rules!”

Feb 4: Informational meeting. Structured job clubs helping unemployed and underemployed in Billerica get back to work. Time and place to be announced Updates will be made on our Facebook page: “WIC - Women in Control” as well as through the local media and on Billerica Access Television Community Bulletin Board. More info womenincontrol61@yahoo.com

Billerica Skatepark Committee

YARN

Make a card with a list of the little things your sweetheart does that you love and you will create love. Come by the gallery and we will make one together. Call for more info (978) 667-100. www.

ColleenSgroi.com

Feb. 15-16 only:

www.billericaskatepark.org Jan. 19: 7 pm: Public Meeting, Buck Auditorium Town Hall. Support this committee’s efforts to get a skatepark. Open to the public.

Billerica Recreation Department www.town.billerica.ma.us Feb. 21: Summer Camp Expo. Billerica Lodge of Elks. Webb Brook Road. An free event for parents to begin planning for summer vacation. 978-6710921. Their winter brochure is available online.

A Night of Hope Fund Raiser www.julieksings.com or/and www.hopeww.org HOPE Worldwide Feb. 20: 7pm A Night of HOPE fund raiser. The Bennett Library. $10 suggested donation per person.

Snacks will be provided. Julie Kinscheck will perform.

Other local talents will also perform and the evening will include a presentation about the work HOPE is doing for children, orphans and the needy globally.

Middlesex Canal Museum and Association www.middlesexcanal.org/museum Feb. 18: 10:00 am-12:00 pm The Middlesex Canal Museum, 71 Faulkner Street Educational program for children in grades 2 and 3 $15 enrollment fee includes membership to the MCA Contact Traci Jansen at middlesexcanal4kids@gmail.com

Jan. 31: The Banquet for players/cheerleaders for the A-E Teams is scheduled at the Billerica Elks. Times are as follows: E Teams: 11:00am-1:00pm D&C Teams: 1:30pm to 4:00pm B&A Teams: 4:30pm to 6:30pm 2010 REGISTRATION: Website for details soon.

Red Hat Society Attention ladies! Come join the Red hat Society! The Bodacious Ladies of Billerica would like to invite you and your friends to join our group. We enjoy each others company and have fun, laugher, and parties.

We go on day trips and weekend getaways. Some of us have attended the Red Hat conventions in Boston , Niagara Falls , and Savannah this year. Our Queen Mother Virginia went to the London England with the Red Hats and they were in the London New Year’s parade.

We even donate to charities such as ALS, American Cancer, American Diabetes and the House of Hope for Homeless women and children every year.

So if you’re looking for some fun and lots of laughter and something to get you out of the house and off the couch come join our group.

Call Queen Mother Virginia McGrath @ 978-6677487 or contact her at bluedaddy@comcast.net and

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she’ll send you an application. Dues are only $10 per year.

Safe Kids Behind The Wheel Information for Parents of Driving and Pre-Driving Teens and Their Young Drivers.

Feb. 3: 7 pm: Free Workshop! Limited to the FIRST 70 PEOPLE who sign up! The Bennett Library, 3 Concord Road, Billerica Center.

Co-Sponsored by The Billerica Driving School, MTM Brainerd Insurance, and The Billerica Green. Teens and Pre-teens are talking about getting behind the wheel younger and younger. Driving laws have changed since 2007 and parents are expected to become more involved in their teen’s driver education.

An insurance agent will speak to the additional need for insurance for the younger driver. A traffic officer will speak on how they handle new drivers and what the repercussions of unsafe driving. There will be discussion about safety concerns--alcohol use, cell phone use, and the importance of removing distractions. RSVP REQUIRED! Email liana@ thebillericagreen.com to reserve your space today!

Ye’ Olde Meeting House: Town Hall Meetings Jan. 20: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference Room Jan. 20: 6:30 pm: Board of Appeals, Auditorium Jan. 20: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210 Jan. 25: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway Room Jan. 27: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210 Feb. 1: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway Room Feb. 1: 7:30 pm: Board of Health, Rm. 210 Feb. 3: 7 pm: Scholarship Foundation, Collins Room Feb. 3: 7 pm: Historical Commission, Room A Feb. 3: 7 pm: Republican Town Committee, Rm. 210 Feb. 8: 7 pm: Planning Board, Rm. 210 Feb. 10: 6 pm: Substance Abuse Prevention Committee, BPS Central Services Conference Room Feb. 10: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210 Feb. 17: 7 pm: Republican Town Com., Rm. 210 Feb. 22: 7 pm: Selectmen, Conway Room Feb. 24: 7 pm: Conservation Commission, Rm. 210

School News Calendar Jan. 18: No School - Martin Luther King Jr. Day Jan. 19: No School - Special Election Day Jan. 25: Kindergarten Changeover Feb. 4: Early Release –Elementary Only Feb. 11: Elementary Progress Reports Issued Feb. 15-19: School Vacation Feb. 22: Schools Reopen Billerica Memorial High School: School Skating Programs: Anyone interested in the skating program should contact Mrs.Cathy Jenkins at 978-528-7911. Her office is located at BMHS, Data Processing Suite, Room 3262.

After School Tutoring: Tutors for math, science, and languages available Mondays, Wednesdays, Thursdays in the school library.

Locke Middle School Jan. 20: 7 pm: Adolescent Psychology: The Parent Version

A Evening with Parenting Expert Joani Geltman Learn how to teen-proof your home and relationship, Set appropriate limits, Identify and deal with experimentation with sex, drugs and alcohol, Identify risk factors for depression and anxiety, Identify high expectation vs. unrealistic ones, Identify your teen or tween’s imaginary audience and personal fable.

Tickets $5. To reserve, email lockepto@gmail.com.

For more information, locke.billerica.k12.ma.us Ditson Elementary School: Jan. 16: 1:30 pm: Group Night. Lowell Devils vs.

Portland Pirates. Tsongas Arena, Lowell, MA for those who purchased tickets Feb. 26: Adult Comedy Night at the Billerica Elks.

Doors open at 7:00 pm. Show starts at 8:00 pm Tickets are $15.00 until Feb.15th. $20.00 after that and at the door. Appetizers, cash bar & 50/50 raffle.

John F. Kennedy Elementary School: Jan. 22: 6:30 pm: Ice Cream Social. sponsored by the PTO. Mark your calendars for a night of fun with your friends and family Your teacher may even be your server! We’ll be serving chocolate and vanilla ice cream sundaes with all the toppings and slush. If you are interested in being part of the Ice Cream Social Committee please contact Lori Aquavella.

Jan. 26: 5-8 pm: Kennedy Night at Fuddruckers.

Enjoy a night out with your family and support your school at the same time! Fuddruckers is in Reading (located at Jordans Furniture). Bring your voucher and 20% of of the cost of the meal will go to the Kennedy Elementary PTO. Make copies of the voucher and give them to your family and friends. Everyone who turns in a voucher helps the Kennedy.

Substance Abuse Prevention Committee Jan. 26: 7 pm: Public Forum. Buck Auditorium Town Hall. Free Event. Open to the Public Speaker, Informational handouts and Survey For more information, email rsafier@billerica.k12. ma.us

Billerica Scholarship Foundation www.billericascholarship.org Feb. 5: 7 pm: Team Trivia Challenge 15th Anniversary Celebration. Billerica Lodge of the Elks. $125 for team of 4. Bring your own snacks Dr. Robert J. Calabrese will be honored

Police Athletic League (PAL) Fall Programming www.billericapal.org Floor Hockey Join your friends for an exciting game of floor hockey. Sign ups through the Rec. Department. Coed teams will be formed the first week. Equipment provided. Please note that these are tentative game times. Specific times will be adjusted according to the registrations received. Register early to ensure your place! On-Site Evaluation and Team Assignment will be Saturday, January 9 9:00 AM -12 Noon. Instructor: Artie Roach Location: Old Ditson School (Sheriff’s Training Ctr.) Jan. 9 to March 13 Fee: $59.00 pp, Grade 2 & 3

Session: 33612-A Saturday: 8:30 am Who: Grade 4 & 5 Session: 33612-B Saturday: 9:30 am Who: Grade 6-8 Session: 33612-C Saturday: 10:30 am Who: Grade 9-12 Session 33612-D Saturday: 11:30 am Winter Open Gym Update Old Ditson School / Middlesex Training Department Registration will be held 7-9PM on Wednesday, 1/6/2010. Cost is $20 per child / $30 per family / $0 for Annual Members Annual members can register by emailing info@billericapal.org Boys Open Gyms - Wednesdays 1/13 - 3/3 Grades 3-5: 6:00 - 7:30 Grades 6-8: 7:30 - 9:00 Girls Open Gyms - Thursdays 1/14 - 3/4 Grades 2-8: 6:30 - 8:00 High School Hoops - Fridays 1/15 - 3/5 Grades 9-12 7:00-9:00

BILLERICA CATCARE COALITION Buttercup is very much a “princess” who enjoys quiet time and is not particularly fond of other cats, although she puts up with McGraw, her housemate, because she has to and has even learned to love him. She is a calico and seems to have the temperament of one as she likes to be the boss and rule the roost! She is very affection with her primary caregiver and is great with children but would be best placed in a house that will give her a lot of attention when she wants it and would be the only cat. She has the loudest purr and loves to sit on laps and be petted. She is so soft and beautiful you can’t help but want to pet her! She was born in 2006, is spayed, FIV/FELV negative and up to date on her shots.

McGraw, oh what a sweetie! Everyone loves this cat. He is called the puppy of the house because he loves to roll over on his tummy and will jump up on your lap to be petted. He is VERY social and always wants to know what is going on around him and who is in the house. He is amazing with children and absolutely spectacular to look at.

He is so beautiful with his classic gray tabby stripes. He even smiles at you! McGraw loves to play and be loved and would be great in a family with other cats and children that want to love him tons! He LOVES catnip toys. He was born in 2006, is neutered, FIV/FELV negative and up to date on his shots Please note: All cats and kittens require an on-line adoption application be completed and sent BEFORE consideration for adoption can take place. On-line applications at www. billericacatcarecoalition.org.

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Town employees and elected officials welcomed new Town Manager John Curran at a coffee in Buck Auditorium on Jan. 4 held in his honor.

This was Curran’s first day in the corner office.

US State Senate Election Day Tuesday, Jan. 19 Precinct Polls Open 8 am-8 pm Democrat Attorney General Martha Coakley vs Republican Senator Scott Brown

Mike Moore from The Billerica Spelling Bee will use his award to pay for trophies and medals.

Your Vote Counts!

Get Out and Vote!

Questions?

Call Town Clerk at 978-671-0924

The Boys and Girls Club received $4,000 from Flir which they will use toward educational programs for members.

The Billerica Public Library Presents

One Book One Billerica

Pass it On!

One Book, One Billerica, Pass It On is a community-wide reading program. It centers on one book, encouraging people to come together in the library, coffee shop, dentist office waiting room, schools, homes and offices to read and discuss the same book at the same time.

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Pick up a copy of the book at the library or one of the many distribution points in town (listed below)

Rich Mackay from the Historical Society received funding to continue repairs on the Clara Sexton House chimney and gutters.

FEATURED READING!

Read it, discuss it and then log on to our webpage www.billericalibrary.org and give us your feedback.

Pass it on to a friend, a family member or an acquaintance to enjoy or return it to a distribution spot for someone else to discover.

January 1 - March 31, 2010!

Read it and

Pass it On!

You can pick up a copy of the featured book at the Library, O’Connor Hardware, the Coffee Emporium, Curves, Billerica Chiropractic, Dr. Feuerstein, DMD, Collins Bowladrome, Java’s Brewin’, Colleen Sgroi’s Art Gallery, Billerica Senior Center, Billerica Boys and Girls Club, and the Town Hall.

Wayne Smith from the Community Garden was so happy to receive his award he forgot to take the check from Selectman Mike Rosa.

Business to Business

•By Pat Zapert SWEETHEART DANCE STILL A DRAW FOR SENIORS The Sixth Annual Sweetheart Dinner Dance, sponsored each year by the Billerica Community Alliance, will be held on Thursday, Feb. 11 starting at 4pm at the Billerica Lodge of Elks on Webb Brook Road. This event is intended for Billerica couples who have been married for 50 years or more and is free to those who attend. We continue to look for local couples who would be eligible to attend the event. If you know of a Billerica couple who have been married since 1960 or longer, contact our office for more information.

This is a truly special event which includes a full sit-down dinner, music, dancing, corsages, commemorative photographs and transportation for those who need it. All of this is provided at no cost to those who attend and in 2009, over 55 couples participated.

In addition to the dinner and dancing, couples will be blessed by local clergy and proclamations celebrating the occasion will be read by both the Massachusetts State Representative and the Board of Selectmen.

Couples also sweetly renew their vows as a group during the course of the evening.

The Billerica Community Alliance is still seeking sponsors for this event. Sponsorship options range from sponsoring a single couple to a table for four couples and are very affordable. If your business has a focus on senior life, this may well be an event you wish to sponsor. Recognition will be

given to all sponsors at the event as well as in the programs for the event. If you are interested in being a sponsor, please contact the Community Alliance office at 978-6674174 or via email at info@billerica-alliance. org.

The Alliance is also pleased to announce that we were a recipient of one of the Community Fund Grants for this event which were announced at the Jan. 4 Selectmen’s meeting. This grant, along with the sponsorship support we have received from local businesses, will ensure that we have sufficient funds for this year’s event as well as provide a base for the event going forward. Now in its twelfth year, the funds for the Community Fund Grants program are contributed by local businesses, many of whom are members of the Billerica Community Alliance, including FLIR Systems, Nortel Networks, Bruker Corporation and Parexel.

The Billerica Community Alliance is interested in expanding our membership which includes businesses, local organizations and individuals. If you are interested in joining us, please contact the office via phone at 978-667-4174 or via email at info@billerica-alliance.org.

Pat Zapert is the Executive Director of The Billerica Community Alliance.

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CLOCKTOWER PLACE SEEKING FINAL OFFICE TENANT In the middle of the challenging real estate market, Billerica has a success story at Clocktower Place on Bridge Street. After securing six tenants, just one small office space remains.

“The quality and design issues were easy,” says owner Robert MacCormack. “We knew from day one that since the building would house our business, it would be first-class.”

MacCormack is referring to the offices of MacCormack Plumbing and the mechanical engineering firm operated by his son. “We also used our technical know-how to use energy saving features, which will save money for tenants.”

The quality and appearance of the building drew several technology tenants, consistent with a development trend seen in Billerica.

This includes software, security, staffing and industrial photography tenancies.

MacCormack also secured a long-term professional tenant in Dr. Scott Goldberg of Billerica, who operates Flex Your Smile cosmetic dentistry.

What type of tenant will complete the occupancy at 17 Bridge Street? The remaining

office is fully design and constructed, featuring two offices and a staff area at approximately 900 square feet. According to MacCormack, “We would like to have a professional tenant that complements our building and businesses we’ve drawn to Billerica. I think if they stop in and see the space and see what we’ve done, it will be an easy decision.”

The Edge Group, Inc. of Lowell, which specializes in commercial real estate, is the broker for the Clocktower Place property.

They can be reached at 978-458-8822 or the space can be viewed at www.edgegroupinc. com.

Owner and developer, Robert MacCormack, reviews construction progress.

CHAMBER DAY BOOSTS BUSINESSES Whether new or established, business owners alike will be able to address any issues they may have within their companies and businesses on Feb. 16 at Town Hall. The Lowell Chamber of Commerce is hosting their Billerica Town Business Day, which is a free event featuring speakers, networking, and information.

“A lot of businesses don’t know what is out there,” said Karon Bergeron, Vice President of The Lowell Chamber.

The event will run from 7:30 to 9:30 am and guest speakers will include George Noel, the Mass. Director of Labor; Lisa Gonzalez-Welch from the Small Business Administration; and Peter McGarry, a SCORE Counselor. Billerica’s own town manager, John Curran, and Stephanie Cronin, our Economic Development Coordinator will be on hand to answer local questions. State Senator Ken Donnelly and State Representative William Greene are also scheduled to attend, barring any necessary engagements in Boston.

The mission of the Chamber is to provide a vehicle through which the area’s business climate and quality of life van be

improved. The Greater Lowell Chamber of Commerce is a regional organization serving Billerica, Dracut, Lowell, Chelmsford, Tewksbury, Tyngsboro, Westford and other communities.

“We host Town Business Day in the six surrounding towns too,” said Bergeron.

The speakers will be presenting such topics as importing and exporting or helping owners develop business plans. Services like technical assistance and counseling will also be discussed. Brochures and flyers will be available and light refreshments will be served.

In addition to Town Business Day in Billerica, Bergeron also visits Billerica Town Hall every other month and hosts Small Business Day from 9 to 10 am. This time is open to all businesses and is for promoting all the available resources.

“We really want to help grow and promote business in Billerica,” said Bergeron.

For additional information, call The Greater Lowell Chamber of Commerce at 978-459-8154. or visit their web site at www.greaterlowellchamber.org.

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MOVING HEARTS TOWARD HOPE: CHRISTIAN PERFORMER SHARES HER GRACE Julie Kinscheck always loved to sing and planned to make it big some day. She was going to have all those things well known performers have-fame, fortune and prestige. However, her life took her down a different road than she expected and instead, she became a soul transformed who has gone on to bring hope to thousands. Through her voice and drive as a social activist, Kinscheck continues to dream of making it big, but not in the way you might expect.

Born Julie Gibbons in Ithaca, New York, Kinscheck came to creative arts naturally since she was part of a very musical family.

Her father sang in local operas and conducted musicals at Cornell. Her mother wrote poetry.

Her brothers played in a rock and roll band.

“Music was all around me,” said Kinscheck.

At nine, she began singing her own songs for others. Kinscheck wanted to be discovered so walking along the street, she would sing at the top of her lungs, hoping to be heard. One of her earliest influences was her childhood music teacher, John Bailey, who taught her about improvisation. This later became the cornerstone in her song writing and arranging.

Known as “Scat”, it became a talent for Kinscheck and she later donned the title, “Queen of Scat”. Kinscheck still enjoys adding saucy little harmonies to her favorite cover tunes and confidently belting them out.

Kinscheck became a Rotary Exchange student after high school and went onto to study in Munich, Germany for a year, traveling to France, Italy and England. She played her guitar on the streets and loved the reaction of those who heard her.

“It helped me gain my confidence,” said Kinscheck.

Upon returning to the US, she attended Oberland College, where she discovered Jazz music and formed her own group. A band member encouraged her to attend Berklee in Boston, where she obtained a full scholarship and learned all the ins and outs of the music business.

“Berklee was just what I needed to learn how to make a living as a musician,” said Kinscheck.

Instead of returning to New York, Kinscheck remained in Boston and worked hard. She sang at weddings and taught voice students privately. She went onto form a cover band, Centerpiece, and started living the rock

star lifestyle. She performed with her group at restaurants and bars and ultimately ran her self to into the ground. She explained that she became tenacious, never slept and grew to be very bossy. She thought to make it she had to be someone she wasn’t and would strut her stuff seductively on stage because she thought she had to. She had mistaken this for being a tough, independent woman.

“I was proud of that,” shrugged Kinscheck.

What happened next transformed her life and her career forever. She developed ‘nodes’, a condition where callouses form on the vocal chords. Ultimately, she lost her voice and her band fell apart. She found all the friends she surrounded herself with, disappeared. It was at this, her lowest point, where grace stepped in to save her.

Kinscheck had met Jim Peterson, a classmate, in college who was a Christian. He talked about God and Kinscheck listened but was uninterested. However, upon seeing her then fiancée transform under the power of scriptures, Kinscheck wanted to know more.

She began to study the Bible and wrestle with her own demons.

“Reading scripture brings a mirror up to your face,” she said.

Kinscheck made the decision to become a Christian and miraculously her voice healed. She went from little venues and bars to performing in concert halls in front of thousands at Christian conferences. She realized the possibilities were endless.

Kinscheck had met her future husband, Ralph, through school but they never became friends. Eight years after leaving Berklee, through Peterson, they met again in church, new people.

“God had changed us both so much we were now ready to fall in love,” she said.

The couple was married and began making music together. Ralph played keyboards but was also a talented songwriter, engineer, and and producer. He has been an important factor in helping Kinscheck produce her

three Cd’s. In 2006, Kinscheck, produced “Faith in Action Live” which was a gospel jazz arrangement with her A’ Capella group.

The same year, she and her husband, through working in Children’s ministries, put out “The Force”. This was Christian rock for kids, aimed especially at teens.

In 2008, Kinscheck produced her solo

debut album called “Grace with Jazz on Top”.

In it, she had her longings fulfilled as she was able to perform a variety of songs spanning all types of topics. She wrote music which addressed what women today face in this society. Also on the CD, is “Precious”, the song she wrote to her twins, Caleb and Hannah, who she endured eight years of miscarriage and medical intervention to finally have.

“I couldn’t believe how in love I was with them and they were just a speck on the screen,” she smiled.

The performing gene apparently runs strong in this family, because her two children love to sing and now, at five years old, even write their own songs.

It was at this time, that Kinscheck found the organization Hope Worldwide and began to follow their charity. She had been raised in a family who had been active in social causes and through Hope’s events, Kinscheck found a calling. Here she was able to throw her support behind something she believed in and use her talent for the good of others. Hope Worldwide is an international Christian charity that has developed housing for lepers in India, built AIDS clinics in Africa, and staffed hospitals in Cambodia. Kinscheck would perform at benefits for them all over the country to raise awareness and much needed funds.

As a result, Kinscheck will be hosting A Night of HOPE fund raiser at The Bennett Library. It will be on Saturday, Feb 20 at 7pm with a $10 suggested donation per person. Snacks will be provided and Julie will be the feature artist. Other local talents will also perform and the evening will include a presentation about the work HOPE is doing for children, orphans and the needy around the world. For more information about this and her other upcoming performances, visit Kinscheck’s web site at www.julieksings.com.

For more information on Hope Worldwide, visit www.hopeww.org.

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Nourishment for Optimal Health •By Kathy Lynch, CHHC

CREATE YOUR IDEAL, BALANCED LIFE I find the New Year to be a time for resolutions. Each year I sit down and write my New Year’s resolutions. I review my past year’s resolutions and see how I did. Then I write my new resolutions and goals. Do you write New Year’s resolutions too?

As a holistically-oriented nutrition coach, I incorporate a holistic approach that includes not only what a person eats, but also how it fits into the person’s lifestyle.

Many people resolve to eat better in the New Year. If that is what you want, I recommend that eating better be part of your lifestyle along with exercise, work, fun, relationships, spirituality, rest and relaxation, and all the other important parts of life.

Remember that you have the power to make a difference in your life each year. Here are four tips I think you will find helpful for creating a year that is wonderful and balanced: 1. Slow down. Most of us are moving too fast, doing too much, multitasking, and stressing ourselves out! I suggest you make a concerted effort to slow down, calm down, take deep breaths, meditate, and pray. Do what you need to do to slow down.

2. Focus on gratitude. Have you ever noticed a warm fuzzy feeling inside when you feel grateful? It isn’t always easy to focus on gratitude when things are not going well but I find it helps me feel better when I do. I recommend that you make an effort to thank everyone who made/makes a positive difference in your life – spread the warm fuzzy feeling! If you can, try to be grateful for the things in your life that do not go the way you want or expect. Even

those things have meaning and lessons within.

3. Learn to let go. Some things, thoughts, behaviors, and activities in our lives are not worth holding onto. Do you have more things than you need?

Do you notice repetitive, destructive thoughts? Do you get stuck in the same frustrating situations over and over? Consider changing the things, thoughts, behaviors, and activities that sabotage you.

4. Add in what counts. After letting go of what no longer serves us, we then have room for more of what we want. When I let go of some unnecessary, unsavory activity, I feel relieved and happy to be able to add something more fun and meaningful into my life. With extra time, we can fit in healthy activities like making home-cooked meals, exercising, taking a class on a topic we like, and so on.

Working on these four tips is a process.

By slowing down, being grateful, letting go, and adding in what counts in your life, you will be closer to creating your ideal, balanced lifestyle. The New Year is a great time to work on this. You will be setting the groundwork for making your New Year’s resolutions a reality.

Kathy Lynch is founder of WellSkills. com and the WellSkillsTM System, a proven step-by-step program to help busy Moms and their families reach life-long health, energy, and weight. If you want to learn more about local cooking classes, events, and resources, visit www.WellSkills.com. © 2009 Kathy Lynch, WellSkills.

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Tackling The Great Imitator:

Lyme

Disease

By Jenn Gervais, Staff Writer

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ooking back over 2009, it’s been a pivotal year in the fight against chronic Lyme Disease. Chronic Lyme is when the Lyme infection is left unor under-treated, and the infection spreads throughout the entire body. Worst case, the bacteria crosses the blood/brain barrier, and infects the brain.

Lyme Disease is caused by a spirochete called Borrelia burgdorferi, named after the scientist who first identified it in 1982 in Lyme, Connecticut. It’s the number one tick-born disease, has been confirmed in every state in the U.S., and is believed to incur 400,000 new cases of Lyme Disease every year.

Borrelia burgdorferi (Bb for short), lives in the stomachs of deer ticks, and gets transmitted into the blood when the deer tick, in it’s “nymph” phase, bites a human or animal. When in its nymph stage, the deer tick is about the size of the period at the end of this sentence. They’re very difficult to detect, and Lyme patients often don’t recall ever having been bitten.

Bb, the Lyme Disease bacteria, is called a spirochete because its body is spiral shaped. This allows the bacteria to bore its way around the body. Infection begins in the blood, but because of the spiral shape, the bacteria can cross into other parts of the body, including organs, tissue, joints, and even inside cells where it rests, protected from antibiotics.

Since chronic Lyme can occur anywhere in the body, symptoms vary greatly and are often quite numerous. Symptoms seem to trend toward being either primarily neurological or primarily physical, often attacking the legs.

Most chronic Lyme patients have both types of symptoms, with one type more prominent.

A diagnosis of chronic Lyme is difficult to arrive at, and is also surrounded by controversy. Lyme Disease has been referred to as “The Great Imitator”, because it often mimics the symptoms of other diseases. That list is long, but includes diseases such as: Multiple Sclerosis, Depression/Anxiety,Parkinson’s disease, Gout, Carpal Tunnel Syndrome, Ménière’s disease, Hepatitis, TMJ (jaw pain), Fibromyalgia, Rheumatoid Arthritis, Lupus, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, ALS (Lou Gehrig’s disease), Crohn’s disease, ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, Epstein-Barr virus infection, Alzheimer’s disease.

This complicates the diagnosis, since each of those diseases need to be eliminated as the source of the patient’s symptoms before a chronic Lyme diagnosis can be made. There are blood tests for Lyme, of course; however, if

not done early in the infection, these blood tests result are unreliable. Chronic Lyme Disease requires a clinical diagnosis. This means the patient history, symptoms, and elimination of other potential diseases is more reliable than blood test results and clinical diagnosis is what’s used by Lyme savvy doctors, referred to as “Lyme-literate” doctors, or LLMDs. Treatment is also controversial. LLMD’s treat chronic Lyme patients with long-term antibiotics, often cycling between different drugs to ensure the bacteria is completely eradicated. Opponents maintain that a 4-8 week course of antibiotics is sufficient; any lingering symptoms are psychosomatic, or coincidental of some other, non-Lyme disease. Both camps are firmly entrenched in their beliefs, and the debate between them is heated, political, and ongoing.

In 2009, two key Lyme Disease events took place. The first was the release of a documentary called “Under Our Skin”. Directed by Andy Abrahams Wilson, this film has brought insight into the topic of chronic Lyme Disease, along with presenting both sides of the controversy. It takes the viewer through the history of Lyme Disease, fromthe 1970’s to now. It gives staggering statistics which are higher than AIDS and West Nile yet shines the light on the manner in which doctors and insurance companies treat this as a “psychosomatic condition”. It also brings to the surface the issue of resistant microbes and ineffective antibiotics.

Released on June 13, 2009, it has already won numerous awards, including: Best in Infectious Disease, Best in Health and Science, Best Documentary, and Audience Favorite. In December, “Under Our Skin” became a semi-finalist to win the 2009 Tribeca Oscar.

The second key event occurred on July 30, 2009, when the Infectious Disease Society of America (IDSA) assembled a panel in Washington D.C. to hear testimony from doctors and researchers on each side of the debate. The panel was assembled to review whether the current guidelines for Lyme Disease diagnosis and treatment are flawed or were driven by conflicts of interest. The guideline review was mandated under an antitrust settlement initiated by the Connecticut Attorney General. For details of the suit, go to http://www.ct.gov/ AG/.

The outcome of the review could be any of the following: a complete rewrite of the guidelines, modification of the existing guidelines, or keeping them as is.

The settlement called for a final decision to be made by the end of 2009.

As of the writing of this article, that decision is pending. When the decision is announced, The Billerica Green will provide an update to the community.

References 1. Fearn, Douglas W. Lyme Disease and associated diseases - A plain-language introduction to tick-borne diseases, The Basics. The Lyme Disease Association of Southeastern Pennsylvania, Inc. www.

LymePa.org 2. Burrascano Joseph, M.D. Advanced Topics In Lyme Disease - Diagnostic Hints And Treatment Guidelines For Lyme And Other Tick Borne Illnesses Board Member, International Lyme and Associated Diseases Society www.ilads.org 3. Kenneth B Singleton M.D., M.P.H. The Lyme Disease Solution, www.lymedoctor.com 4. “Attorney General Press Release: IDSA Lyme Disease Guidelines Flawed and Driven by Conflicts of Interests”, May 1, 2008. CALDA – California

Lyme Disease Association Web Site, Accessed December 30, 2009, http://www.lymedisease.org/news/ lymepolicywonk/15.html 5. Blumenthal, Richard. “Attorney General’s Investigation Reveals Flawed Lyme Disease Guideline Process, IDSA Agrees To Reassess Guidelines, Install Independent Arbiter”, State of Connecticut Web Site, www.ct.gov; Accessed December 30, 2009. Office of Attorney General Richard Blumenthal’s page: www.ct.gov/AG/cwp/view. asp?a=2795&q=414284 6. “Under Our Skin, There’s No Medicine for Someone Like You: Film Background”, www.underourskin. com/index.html. Accessed December 29, 2009. http://www.underourskin.com/ film_background.html

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REGAINING THE PIPELINE:SKATEBOARDERS COMBAT STEREOTYPES TO EARN SKATEPARK Even in Sports Town USA, there are certain adolescents for whom traditional athletics don’t hold appeal. Skaterboarders.

Perhaps you have seen some. They aren’t hard to miss. Often donning hats and piercings, through their appearance and behavior, negative public opinion has been generated. In Billerica, this population, which is now split, has given many skateboarders in Billerica a bad reputation.

Much of the public judgment at times has been understandable.

There have been complaints that groups of teens on skateboards have harassed shoppers in O’Connor’s Plaza or skated on church property that has been damaged, resulting in a call to the police.

Skateboarder Alex Patterson is frustrated by this. She and her friends, who aren’t into sports, feel “secluded” to town center to skate.

She admits they have been outside Walgreens and KMart, getting spoken to by police. She explained that for many, the worst “crimes” they commit is loitering or looking like “trouble’’ because they are different.

“In a town where the center is the only haven for teenagers who can not drive, where else is there to go but parking lots and side walks?” Patterson asked.

Now a group of more than 20 skating teens, who spoke out at a recent public meeting on Dec. 22, are working closely with town officials, community leaders and organizations to change this.

“Contrary to popular belief, skateboarding is done by some of the friendliest and nicest people you’ll ever meet,” said Joey Salem, Co-Chairperson of the Billerica Skatepark Committee.

The Billerica Skatepark Committee (BSC) wants to dispel preconceived ideas about skateboarders. In the US, 10 million skateboarders fall into the category of street skateboarders which is defined as skating on stair sets, hand rails, ledges, and other obstacles due to lack of anywhere else to go.

The BSC has a pro-active goal in mind. They would like to see a skate park re-installed at the Lampson Recreation Complex following the removal of damaged ramps in 2008. The teens at the meeting explained they were not the vandals.

“We don’t associate with them,” said BSC member Maria Salem.

The issue lies in obtaining community acceptance for this growing sport and support for this project. A 2002 report by American Sports Data found that there were 12.5 million skateboarders in the world, while it is currently the third most popular sport in America. According to www. skatboardinformation.com, there is ongoing

discussion of including skateboarding in the 2012 Olympic Games in London, England.

“Skateboarding is an athletic activity,” said Joey.

The BSC has recently been under the guidance of the Recreation Department Director, Peggy Hannon-Rizza and the Playground Coordinator, Sandy Libby. Officer Dale Sarno, Bernie Hoar, Chairman of the Partners for Education, and Selectman Mike Rosa have also taken an interest in helping the BSC have an approved, safe place to skate. At the meeting held on Dec. 22, the community leaders and the teens in attendance discussed how to make this skate park a reality.

“As of now, there’s no place for kids to go,” said Sarno.

The first thing necessary is fencing for which Sarno and Rosa presented a quote.

With a price tag in the thousands, BSC chair, Joey Salem presented ideas like skateoffs and t-shirt sales as possible fund raisers.

Currently, the town owns four ramps which are in need of repair. Rosa agreed to repair them and place them on the paved area across from the Boys and Girls Club. Upon the close of the meeting, the teens attending began planning how to proceed with the support of the adults in the room behind them.

“Once you get something, enthusiasm goes up,” said Hannon-Rizza.

The BSC has scheduled a second public meeting on Tuesday, Jan. 19 at Buck Auditorium in Town Hall. They plan to further discuss progress and welcome other skaters to attend.

Stage 1 Purchasing Fencing -Estimated Cost:$6,000 -Date of Completion: 2010

Stage 2 Repair, Place Currently Owned Ramps -Estimated Cost: Free -Date of Completion: Shortly after fence is installed -Repair Labor and Ramp Placement being donated by selectman Mike Rosa

Stage 3 Purchase and install New Equipment -Estimated Cost: $25,000+ -Date of Completion: Ongoing -New Street and Park Elements added and chosen by skaters

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TRIVIAL MATTERS: 15TH ANNIVERSARY OF MEMORABILIA AND MINUTIAE Maureen Sullivan and Dale Hoar knew the Team Trivia Challenge would be a big hit in Billerica when they heard about it 15 years ago. They had gone to a workshop on fund raising, representing the Billerica Scholarship Foundation (BSF). These types of events were popular so they decided to give it a try.

Their gut feeling was right.

“It really took off,” said Sullivan, BSF Chairperson.

What started as 25 teams is now more than 50, spanning from families to organizations to corporations. For $125, a team of four can register for this event, which is scheduled this year for Friday, Feb. 5 at 7 pm at the Lodge of The Elks on Webb Brook Road. The funds go toward scholarships which help a Billerica student fulfill their dream of furthering their education after high school.

Bring your own snacks and plan to dress up in costume. Since this is an anniversary celebration, there is not only one theme but all 15 to choose from.

“Part of the fun is coming up with the costumes,” said Sullivan.

Past themes included Disney, sports, wild west, tropical paradise, the Super 70’s, and Space Odyssey. Some of the teams taking home Best Costume honors in past years included teachers from the Locke Middle School and the Library’s “Made for Minutiae”.

This year’s celebration will be bittersweet as Dr. Bob Calabrese will be honored. Calabrese has been the only Master of Ceremonies for Team Trivia since it’s inception and has left big shoes to fill. Calabrese was well known for quieting the crowd with his, “Shhhh!” as well as his costumes. It was always a secret what he would wear and while at the podium, he reveled

in light hearted ‘roasting’ of certain friends and colleagues in the crowd.

“He really enjoyed it,” said Sullivan.

The committee began to consider a likely candidate to take the stage. Initially, one of Calabrese’s sons offered but lived out of state, so it did not work out. The committee then chose Kim Conway, former School Committee Chairperson, who happily accepted the title of Trivia Master. She was chosen because she had expressed an interest in helping the BSF and because of her link to the school community.

“Kim was our local pick,” said Christine Dunleavey, Team Trivia Committee Co-Chair.

“We’re happy to have her.”

To make this a banner year, the committee has decided to try some new ideas. In past years, teams could buy an answer later in the game when they arrived to the advanced play stage.

Now they will have the opportunity to do this within the first three rounds. Something else that’s new is teams can purchase a ‘This or That’.

In doing so, they can put down two answers for one question in the first three rounds as well.

“We’re increasing the chances of winning,” said Dunleavey.

Lastly, the BSF is also looking to draw in the community more so by asking families, schools, local businesses, town departments, and local officials to participate by giving in different ways. They can participate in a team, contribute an item for the raffle, or make a donation toward a scholarship in Calabrese’s name.

“We’re trying to make it more interesting,” said Dunleavey.

To register your team, visit www. billericascholarship.org. You will receive a confirmation letter once your registration is received and all registrations are due by Feb. 1.

Pet Peeves •By Nora Fiore

GIVE A LITTLE BIT As we approach February, people’s minds turn to love. This has left me pondering: how do you explain love exactly? I mean, there are so many different kinds of love.

There’s the love of friends and pets.

Which is different than the love of family.

Although I have friends that I love and consider family. And I have pets that I love (more than some of my family).

So, what is love? Is it a feeling? An action? A chemical response? Maybe it’s a combination of all of these things. It’s a feeling you get when you hold your baby for the first time. Like you would move mountains for this child or throw yourself in front of speeding bus to protect them.

Sometimes love can be inaction like letting your loved ones make their own mistakes so they can learn and grow. I have more than once refrained from choking the life out of an obnoxious loved one.

Especially when they’ve said or done the stupidest thing at the worst time. I think I have shown oh- so- much love to those people in my life at that time.

I did read an article once about how we fall in love with a persons scent. I think there may be some truth to it. However, I’ve met some pretty good smelling jerks in my day so I have my doubts.

With Valentine’s Day soon upon us, some people go berserk looking for the right gift to “prove” their love. If the person receiving the gift doesn’t already know they are loved, one of you is doing something wrong.

Love should be given freely everyday to the people in your life. There are so many different was to show love, it’s mind boggling. Bake cookies, write a little note and stick it in a lunch, give out a hug.

Bring home a flower for no reason other than you love them.

Listen to your children when they talk to you. No, I mean really listen. Put down what you’re doing for five minutes and pay attention. Life comes at us so fast but the little things are important too. Finish a chore for some one that you know they hate.

Touch an arm as you walk by (please only do this one to people that you know or you’ll feel the love of the justice system). Smile at a stranger. They could be having the worst day ever and you could help them ever so slightly with a random act of kindness.

Volunteer at a school, a food pantry, a shelter, or the humane society. No time or inclination to volunteer? Then donate. No money? No problem. Clean out your clutter and donate that. Feed the birds, the stray cats, or adopt a dog. If none of the above works for you, tell a friend about someone in need.

Maybe they can help. We are all connected; one act of love has a ripple effect.

I know this is idealistic but it does work. Showing your love on Valentine’s day is nice but let’s spread it around. Show love to everyone you meet. See how you feel at the end of the day. You’ll be happy at just how much of that love will come back to you.

HEALTHY CHOICES, HEALTHY LIFESTYLES:PUBLIC FORUM SET TO PROMOTE AWARENESS Billerica Substance Abuse Prevention Committee On Tuesday, Jan. 26, The Billerica Substance Abuse Prevention Committee (BSAPC) will host a public forum in the Buck Auditorium at 7 pm in Town Hall. The general public is welcome to attend this free event. Parents are especially encouraged to bring their teens and pre-teens. The evening will feature a speaker recovering from substance abuse as well informational hand outs and a survey.

The BSAPC’s mission is to increase awareness, promote education, and provide resources to the Billerica community in order to reduce substance abuse using proven prevention and intervention approaches.

These community events and projects include: • Town Hall Forums presenting speakers discussing a variety of topics including the physical, psychological, and social effects of substance abuse.

• The Sticker Shock program where students, accompanied by Billerica Police officers, go to a number of package stores in Billerica for the purpose of placing stickers on purchases which exhort buyers not to provide alcohol to underage minors.

• The committee has conducted the Communities That Cares survey of students in the Billerica Public Schools to determine the extent of use of alcohol, marijuana, cigarettes and other drugs

as compared with national norms. This survey also identifies how our community measures in relation to state and national standards.

• The committee participates in Yankee Doodle Weekend and in the Billerica Health Fair each year providing information to the community about substance use and abuse, and where to find help if needed. The committee has also set up tables for information distribution at school events such as Back-to-School Night.

• The committee is seeking to establish a prescription “take back” program where residents can safely dispose of their unused and outdated prescription drugs through a regular, periodic program.

• In the near future, BSAPC hopes to facilitate a coming together of social groups throughout the community for the purpose of coordinating further education for the young people of Billerica about making safe choices and avoiding substance use and abuse.

• Developing a wallet-sized card listing the phone numbers, website addresses, etc. of agencies that can assist individuals and families where substance abuse is a problem. This is referred to as the “Power of Know”.

For more information about the BSAPC or the upcoming forum, email the committee Chairperson, Assistant Superintendent of Curriculum Richard Safier at rsafier@ billerica.k12.ma.us.

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The Power from Within •By Liana Measmer

TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE When I set the theme for this edition as love, I had to take a long hard look. A look at all the places where I love and where I don’t.

It’s not an easy place to venture. The road is rocky and sharp, and if you’re not well protected, you are certain to get cut up. It’s like walking on chards of glass in bare feet.

I guess the first question to ask is “WHO am I? Do you know WHO you are? No. Not WHAT you are. We all know you are moms and wives and husbands and fathers. We all know you are volunteers and teachers and workers and friends. WHO is the stuff inside that eventually shows itself on the outside.

It shows itself in how you treat others and yourself. If your WHO is scared or hurt or invisible or joyful or positively charged, then what the world sees will reflect that.

Sometimes, we are so in touch with our WHO but living in situations outside our control, we will squash our reality and put on a facade for the whole world’s benefit. But we can’t stay that way for long. Oh sure, some people live decades that way. It’s all they know. But eventually, it all comes back tenfold. Either in poor physical health. Or emotional health.

Or mental health. Sometimes, it causes pain so great that people self soothe or medicate.

Alcohol. Food. Drugs. Gambling. Affairs.

Rage. Jealousy. Depression Getting to know WHO you are sets the stage for living well. Are you a helper?

A healer? A listener? A lover? A fighter? Our WHO was determined before we were born,

down in our DNA. We were wired that way.

Our WHO never goes away. It just evolves as we evolve.

Our WHO does not have to own us. You can take hold of your WHO and channel that predetermined energy productively and put it toward the WHAT you were meant to be. Some people never find out WHAT they were meant to be. They walk through life searching or settling. It’s a lonely existence.

The lucky ones find their calling. How do you KNOW you’ve found your calling?

You can’t wait to wake up in the morning and start the day. You have hope. You dare to dream. You believe in the goodness that surrounds you. You see that what you do is helping others. You know that you are good at it. The world is your oyster.

My advice? Get to know your WHO. Become well acquainted and get close.

Be comfortable in WHO you are. Find peace and serenity for they are valuable commodities we take for granted. Love and respect your WHO. Identify those things that knock your WHO down and avoid them. Your WHO can be so strong and can lead to greatness in you. When you realize it, only then can you ever achieve the WHAT that is waiting for you.

Beside being Editor of The Billerica Green, Liana Measmer is a Licensed Social Worker, Billerica resident and Mom to three great kids.

THE LIONS ROAR

By Joan Parcewski United Nations Celebrates Lion’s Club Humanitarianism Each year, Lions Day is celebrated with the United Nations as a reminder of how the Lions leaders helped write the nongovernmental charter of what would become known as the UN today. Since 1945, the Lions have remained affiliated with the UN humanitarian agencies as consultants to its Economic and Social Council.

This year, Vienna Austria is the venue for the 32nd Annual Lions Day which will be held on March 26 at the UN Vienna International Center. For over 30 years, the Vienna Lions have organized an annual event to coincide with the UN event. The Vienna International Center, located north of the Danube River, houses numerous UN offices like the International Atomic Energy Agency and the UN Office on Drug and Crime. There are two UN sites throughout the world: New York and Geneva.

Each year, the Lions International President appoints a member to represent

the Lions at all three UN offices. In 2010, Past President Joseph Wroblewski will be in New York, Past International President and Professor Dr. Giuseppe Grimaldi will be in Geneva, and Past International Director Ernst Musil will be in Vienna.

At exactly 2pm on March 26, event chairperson Wroblewski will officially begin the ceremonies with speakers talking about humanitarian service Lions throughout the world are known for. There will also be a presentation to the grand prize winners of the Lions International Peace Poster contest and the Austrian contest followed by a musical performance.

The relationship between these international organizations truly represents a journey of bringing peace throughout the world. The Billerica Lions Club is proud to have played a part in this journey by annually hosting a contest at the middle school level at the beginning of each school year. The Club eagerly looks forward to the entries in the 2010/2011 contest, themed a “Vision of Peace”, for it is through our youth that peace can truly become a reality.

“Why take the martial arts?”

There are many reasons. I would like to talk about the most basic one.

Self-Defense.

If we own a home, we have fire insurance.

Very few homes ever burn down. Very few people will ever get into a life and death situation. But homes do burn and people are attacked. If we protect property against a possible loss, shouldn’t we do whatever we can to protect ourselves and those we love from danger?

Think of the martial arts as life insurance that pays off while you’re alive and reduces the chances of injury and death.

Violence or the threat of it is more probable than losing a house to fire. A few years ago, in Maynard, a man put his hand over the mouth of a nine year old girl and tried dragging her into his van.

She was playing outside her home.

I’m sure the house had fire insurance.

The girl yelled, resisted, and got away.

Sometimes a child is not so lucky.

We have an obligation to protect ourselves and our children. The martial arts is not a youth sport. It is an education for children and adults that lasts a lifetime.

I have four children of my own. All black belts. When she was five, my daughter used to hide under the bed so she wouldn’t have to go to karate class. But she persevered, as did my sons. I’m glad they didn’t quit. I can’t always be with them.

We are lucky in Billerica to have excellent martial arts schools. It might be a good way to start off the New Year by checking one out.

All my best, Alan Kessler 7 Marshall Street | Billerica, MA 01821 978-667-7774 508 Groton Road | Westford, MA 01886 978-692-0479

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STONEHAMBANK REDEFINES COMMUNITY

Frank Geary, Helping Our Troops and Rebecca Scott, Billerica Branch Manager.

StonehamBank donates to Billerica Pop Warner

In a town with multiple banks to choose from, StonehamBank shines brightly through their services both inside their branch and out. In 2009 alone, on more than 40 different occasions, StonehamBank gave back to Billerica.

With branches in Stoneham and Billerica, the staff strives to let residents know they care.

They have supported the town both by making monetary contributions as well as volunteering their time. In both branches and throughout surrounding towns, StonehamBank has volunteered over 2000 employee hours and donated $150,000 this year. However, for them, this is the fun part of being on staff.

“Our community participation isn’t work,” said Joshua Mahoney from Stoneham’s Marketing Department.

Stoneham receives requests for donations from the community which they review regularly. It varies as to how the request will be fulfilled. In addition to being sponsors for dinners and fund raising events, StonehamBank takes caring for our senior citizens very seriously. In partnership with the Council on Aging, StonehamBank’s Security Manager, Mike McGrath co-leads workshops with Billerica Police Officer Tara Connors on identity theft and scam recognition. The next identity theft program is scheduled at the

COA for March.

“We tell people if it seems too good to be true, it probably is,” said Mahoney.

In the spring each year, StonehamBank partners with the Shawsheen Vocational High School for Job Shadow Day. About 30 students are bussed to Stoneham from the business tech shop to learn all about bank operations. The staff makes it fun by having give aways and prizes for the students. One year, a female student won Red Sox tickets and went wild calling everyone she knew to tell them the news.

When it comes to helping children, StonehamBank never hesitates to give back.

Between scholarships to the Scholarship Foundation or sponsorship for Pop Warner Football to participating in fund raising volleyball tournaments for Easter Seals, StonehamBank staff and volunteers can be found all over town.

“When it comes to kids, it comes to yes,” said Ed Allan, Vice President of Commercial Lending.

For Billerica Branch Manager Rebecca Scott and Assistant Branch Manager Katie Fudge, seeing their customers outside the branch is a treat. They have greeted customers at Yankee Doodle Homecoming or handed

out donuts and coffee to seniors waiting at the COA Flu Clinic. They’ve even served hot dogs at the Snack Shack at Pop Warner games.

“It’s good to see the smiles on their faces,” said Fudge.

Looking to make a bigger impact, StonehamBank offers educational events that discuss sound money management.

They have supported the Billerica High DECA Program’s financial literacy project where students are educating peers basic budgeting and saving. They host first time buyer seminars, with the next one scheduled in April, where attendees get the opportunity to talk with housing inspectors, appraisers, attorneys, realtors, and loan officers. This year following Tax day on April 17, the general public is invited to participate in Shred-it Day at the Billerica branch. People can bring in all their old documents and have them shredded for security’s sake.

“We’re a community bank,” said Katie Gatcomb, Senior Vice President of Risk Management. “We want to give back to the community.”

For more information on products and services, visit the StonehamBank web site at www.stonehambank.com.

SPELLING PHENOMS HIT THE STAGE: BILLERICA PART OF NATIONAL TRADITION For the first time, Billerica will join the ranks of many US towns across the country when more than 80 students take the stage at the Buck Auditorium to start spelling.

The Billerica Spelling Bee, as part of the Partners for Education, will run it’s town wide competition on Feb. 6 from 9:30 am to 5:30 pm. The list of participants consists of students from third through eighth grade who are now hitting the books and studying their 300 word list for the big day.

“The words are consistent with grade level but are challenging,” said Michael Moore, Spelling Bee Committee Co-Chairperson.

More than 350 students town wide in grades three through eight took the written test to qualify for the Spelling Bee. Each grade will compete in the traditional spelling bee contest to determine the best speller for their grade. A final round of competition will pit the winners from grades five through eight in a championship round to crown the grand champion speller.

“The enthusiasm is there,” said Moore.

The earliest evidence of the phrase spelling bee in print dates back to 1825. The United States National Spelling Bee was started in 1925 by The Courier-Journal, the newspaper of Louisville, Kentucky. In 1941, the Scripps Howard News Service acquired sponsorship of the program, and the name changed to the Scripps Howard National Spelling Bee (later simply “Scripps National Spelling Bee”).

“There’s a lot of tradition in Spelling Bee,” said Moore.

Moore and his wife Denise were watching the Scripps National Spelling Bee in May and were impressed with the students’ determination. They wondered why there wasn’t

a spelling bee event in Billerica since there are programs for performing arts, visual arts, and sports. The couple decided to meet with the Billerica Partners for Education and the Public Schools Department to pitch the idea. The response was positive and all parties approved it.

“The spelling bee reinforces educational principles,” said Moore.

Starting at 9 am on Feb. 6, the contestants will arrive at Town Hall. The event will be recorded for broadcast on BATV. Sponsors have contributed funding as well as in-kind donations to make this event possible. Cash donations were made by Billerica Rotary Club, The Billerica Green, O’Connor’s Hardware, Enterprise Bank, Ma’s Dry Cleaning and Flir Systems through the Community Grants programs.

In-kind donations have been made by Microsoft Corporation (mice), Simon & Schuster (books), Macmillan (books), Kingfisher (books), and St. Martin’s Press (books). Enterprise Bank will also award a $100 savings bond to a student whose name suggestion is accepted for the bee logo.

The committee wants to extend it’s thanks to the sponsors which are making this possible.

“Because of the sponsors, we’re going to be able to offer trophies, medals and prize packs,” said Moore.

Tickets will be sold at the door and grant all day admission. They are $5 for adults, $3 for students and seniors and children under 5 are free. Visit the spelling bee web site for additional information at www.billericaspellingbee.org.

Why walk in the cold and snow if you don’t have to? Jennifer Chubb, owner of Peace of Mind Personalized Pet Care Solutions, stands by her clients no matter what the weather. She is happy to take your best friend out! Her furry friends-- Sedona, Ike, and Stuey donned their coats and romped in the snow right along side her. Stay warm!

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The Green Handyman

Court's In Session

•By Jeffrey R. Parenti, P.E.

•By Attorney Jennifer O'Brien

TAKE CARE OF YOUR ATTIC

SIMPLE HOMESTEAD PROTECTION

For many homeowners, the attic is a place to store clothes that don’t fit, the baby’s crib, Christmas decorations, and stacks of boxes full of stuff long forgotten. However, your attic provides a very important function in your house, and if it does not do its job properly, it could lead to problems.

Your attic serves as a buffer between the warm (or cool) air in your house and the cold (or hot) air outside. The important elements for your attic are insulation and ventilation.

Most people know about good insulation.

The floor of your attic should be completely covered in thick insulation. This will keep most of the heat produced by your HVAC system from escaping upward and away from the building. If you aren’t sure if you have enough insulation, there are multiple web sites that can help you check.

Aside from the attic floor, an area that many homeowners miss is the folding access stairs. This is a huge, uninsulated hole in your attic where the heated air – which you paid for – can easily pass through. To cover this gap, you can build your own box out of flat insulation panels or you can buy one off the shelf at a home center. Just lower it down over the opening before folding up the stairs.

The second component of a good working attic is ventilation. Air must be able to move freely through the attic to exhaust very hot summer air and warm air from the main building in the winter.

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Ideally, your attic in the winter should be very cold – nearly as cold as the outside air.

A warm attic can lead to ice dams. Ice dams can form if warm attic air melts roof snow, which then rolls down and freezes near the gutter line, which is always a cold section of the roof. The dam can trap water, which then has nowhere to drain and can work its way backwards under shingles and inside the house.

No matter how well your attic is insulated, some warm air from the main building will seep into the attic and try to warm the roof.

To keep the entire roof cold enough to prevent melting, cold outside air enters the attic via eave vents. The slightly warmer attic air escapes by way of a ridge vent, which runs along the peak of the roof.

If your attic is not functioning well in the winter, one way to tell is by looking at your roof several days after a snowstorm. If snow is melting faster from yours compared to your neighbors, you may have a problem.

A high number of long icicles or water stains on or near the ceiling of your top-floor room walls might indicate ice dams.

So, when you stow that box full of sweaters for the season, pay extra attention to your attic. Take a flashlight and have a look around. It may need a little maintenance.

Jeff rey R. Parenti, P.E. is a registered professional civil engineer living in Billerica.

HERE’S WHAT WE ARE WORKING FOR NEXT MONTH AT THE BILLERICA GREEN Real Estate Spring Market Is Coming The snow starts to melt and it’s a perfect time to head to open houses. The Real Estate community speaks out on what was 2009 like and what 2010 holds for buyers and sellers.

Billerican Olympic Pride With the Olympics about to begin in Vancouver, it’s a fitting time to recall our local athletes who went onto to athletic greatness and made us proud.

Vacation Destinations School Vacation Week always leaves parents with time on their hands. Take your kids around town and have fun while you save gas and money.

Indian Traditions Through Time Three generations of Indian women share their wedding stories and how they managed to hang onto their culture in modern American society

I was at a party recently and overheard someone saying they put a Homestead on their property. What exactly is a Homestead and should I have one on my property?

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A Declaration of Homestead is something that Massachusetts law allows a homeowner to file in order to protect the equity of their family home. It is a onepage form that upon completing, recording, and paying a $35 fee to the Registry of Deeds, becomes effective immediately. By filing this simple document, a homeowner may exclude up to $500,000 in equity of his personal residence from creditors. While creditors may still go after other assets, such as bank accounts or retirement homes, they will be barred from seizing the first $500,000 of a home owner’s residence. As such, if a home owner’s residence has a value less than $500,000, his entire home will be free from creditors. One important aspect of a Declaration of Homestead, however, is that it only protects from debts that are incurred after it is recorded. If a homeowner incurs a debt in 2005 and records a Homestead in 2010, the home will not be protected from the 2005 debt.

Some people think it is not necessary to file a Homestead because their credit is good and they see no occasion where a creditor would seize their assets. I remind them that they need not be in financial trouble in order to benefit from a Homestead. For example, say “Bill” isn’t paying attention while driving and makes a terrible mistake at the wheel that causes someone to be seriously injured.

Bill’s automobile insurance company informs him that his policy will pay out $50,000 to the injured party. Unfortunately the injured party’s injuries warrant more compensation.

If Bill’s only major asset is his home, but there is no Homestead filed, he could lose his home, as it could be taken to satisfy a judgment against him. With a Homestead, Bill, and others like him, are protected in the event of an unforeseen and catastrophic accident.

Some other things to know about a Homestead are that it only applies to a home owner’s primary residence, rather than his vacation home. Additionally, if two people are married and reside in the same home, only one spouse may file a Homestead but that Homestead still protects the home from the creditors of both parties. Finally, there is additional protection for those 62 or older, as each person is protected for up to $500,000.

Thus if our friend Bill is 63 and is married, both he and his wife can file their own Homesteads thus protecting their primary residence from up to $1,000,000. Of course

if Bill’s house is only worth $400,000 to begin with, the filing of one Homestead is enough. If Bill’s primary residence is worth $650,000, the extra protection is invaluable.

In short, there is really no downside to filing a Homestead since having one does not prevent a homeowner from selling or refinancing. It also does not affect a home owner’s credit or harm his credit report. While most attorneys offer to draft a Homestead at the same time as other estate documents for their clients, a homeowner can certainly record one himself by obtaining the form online at www. lowelldeeds.com or by simply going to the Registry of Deeds personally. Whether a homeowner chooses to retain the assistance of an attorney or record a Homestead by himself, it is certainly worthwhile.

Jennifer H. O’Brien is the owner of O’Brien Law Offices, a general practice located at 630 Boston Road, Billerica, MA 01821.

She can be reached at (978) 262-9880 or at www.obrienlawoffices.org. This information should not be construed as legal advice nor is it intended as a substitute for obtaining legal advice from an attorney. No person should act or rely on any information in this article without seeking the advice of an attorney.

Say the Sweetest

You

My Bobola, My Jujubee, and My Baba, I want you to know how much I love you.

On the day you were born, I looked at you and you took my breath away. All these years later, it still happens. Have a wonderful Valentine’s Day! Love You Lots, Your Mama.

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ant to send your sweetie a message for Valentine’s Day that they will enjoy all month long?

Dear Mom, You have been there for me and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails.

Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!

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For My Darling, We’ve been through a lot and you’ve stuck by my side. We’ve faced struggles and shared many joys. oys.

On this Valentine’s Day ay and every day forward, I know w that I can’t live without you. I Love You! Your Soul Mate.

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Mom, You have been there for me Dear Mom and we’ve had so much fun! You gave me advice and drove me places. You brushed my hair and painted my nails.

Thank You, Mom for giving me your time and your love. I’m so lucky to have you. You’re the best!

Here’s How:

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Send us an email at liana@thebillericagreen.com with your message of 50 words or less. Put RED HEART CLASSIFIEDS in the subject line. We reserve the right to shorten the message for space considerations. No vulgarity please. If we have a question, we will email you back. *We reserve the right to refuse any message or photo.

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Drop a check (made out to The Billerica Green) in the mail to The Billerica Green, P.O. Box 492, Billerica MA 01821. All payments must be received prior to print. Payment deadline is February 4th. We will confirm receipt of payment via email. If payment is received past print, your check will be returned.

That’s it...SIMPLE! Tell Your Sweetheart How Much You Care This Valentine’s Day IN YOUR OWN WORDS!!

Are you a secret admirer? Do you want the whole town to know how much you love your spouse? Your boyfriend or girlfriend? Your kids?

In our next edition-due in mailboxes right before the BIG day, we will run The Billerica Green RED HEART Classifieds. For $15 a message of 50 words or less, we will print your message of love. You can add a photo for an additional $10 or an icon for Choose from 5 different Icons or submit your own photo. an additional $5.

Put in their cutesy 1- Loves Grows nickname only you two know about. Or 2- Rings tell your children how proud you are 3- Hearts all year long. Love your family and 4- Love Birds friends.

5- I Love You