UNVEILED A BRIDE’S BEST FRIEND
£3.99
www.unveiledmagazine.co.uk
November 2016
Marriage Advice
Life after the Wedding Keeping up with Traditions
15
2016
Celebrity Weddings so far
Tips on how to be the best bridesmaid
Real Weddings Traditional and Modern
90’s trends vs. current trends
Honeymoon Destinations Africa, the Indian Ocean & Europe
WIN!
MALDIVES HONEYMOON WORTH £6,300
visit our website for details
current
trends include
cakes, d d beauty ecor, more..a..nd
25
20
34
Contents
November 2016
11
3
7 14
ON THE COVER
17
Keeping with traditions
28 Celebs who’ve wed this year, so far!
19
The perfect Bridesmaids
38
Life after your Wedding
41
3
38
Honeymoon Destinations
It’s a woman thing
4 7
Meet me at the altar in If the shoe fits
Fairytales & Gatsby Glamour themed wedding
11 Wedding Glam 12 Smooches 13 Get your wedding
30
A fayre to remember
hairstyle
REAL WEDDINGS
PLANNING
15
Narrow down your guestlist
20
Cake showstoppers
21 FASHION
26
BEAUTY
D.I.Y naked cakes
INSPIRATION 23 The tiny details 25 Rustic flower chic
21
Pearly & William’s 1990 wedding
25
Cassandra & Karl’s Wedding
38
Life after the wedding
HONEYMOONS 42 Where will the wind take you
Unveiled | Fashion
It’s A Woman Thing
E
Berta Bridal
Berta Bridal
very woman dreams of her dress being better than every other bride can ever be, seeing her sister getting married in a Vera Wang, she wants her dress to be better and make her the new best bride of the year. If that’s the case for some of you newly engaged brides to be with no clue on what type of dress you want then Berta Bridal is one of the number one bridal websites going at the moment, if you want to keep your dress fashionable and trendy. Berta Bridal have a range of classy and elegant dresses with their new 2017 seasons just come online, these fabulous gowns could be the potential new Vera Wang of the internet. Of course, if Berta seems to be to expensive for your wedding dress budget, online websites have them for reduced prices, some of them are used and still in good condition. All dresses can be found at www.berta.com
Berta Bridal
Or
V
Vera Wang
era Wang is one of the world’s most popular wedding dress designers. Many celebrities have worn her spectacular gowns for their own weddings. She has made many different styles of dresses but one her most famous gowns was the dress shown in the movie ‘Bride Wars’ worn by Kate Hudson. Her dresses can be expensive but there is no one as good as Vera. She also has a range of different colored dresses from pure white to black. Her dresses are available online and in her stores around the globe. As well with Vera Wang you can buy second hand online. Vera’s style of dresses varies, she has big dresses to fitted dresses, lace and ribbons. All dresses can be found at www.verawang.com
Vera Wang
Vera Wang 3
Unveiled | Fashion
A
Groom
s the groom, you should always listen when the wedding preparations are taking place, it doesn’t matter if your bride takes care of more arrangement’s than you do, as long as you have the correct colour scheme for your suit, you will look perfect next to your blushing bride on the big day. It’s common nowadays to find a groom wearing a Navy Blue or Grey suit. Traditionally it would be a block suit standing next to the bride in a white dress. Top hats and waist coast are for the more formal weddings, but what you wear, your best man and groomsman have to wear as well. Bow ties are essential and to keep it classy, you do not want to wear a clip-on tie. Grey suits are more formal wedding suits, most commonly worn with a light pink wait coast and a white tie. A small flower matching the brides bouquet should be showing in your left side pocket. Most commonly it is a white or pink flower depending on the colour theme of the wedding itself. Classy shoes for both Groom and Groomsmen should be the same on the day. Brown shoes generally match with the navy-blue suit and the black shoes with the grey, unless you’re wearing all black, but just remember it’s your wedding day, not a funeral.
4
Meet the Alta Say I
me at ar In ... I Do
E
Bride
very bride has the vision of her ‘dream dress’ whether it’s short, long, strapless or with long lace sleeves. Most wedding’s however will only let you book 1-2 hour slots for looking and trying on dresses that suit you so it’s best to narrow down your options before you step into the bridal store. Your silhouette should be the first part of the dress that is chosen, this will highlight your best assets and also hide your least favourite parts of your body. It’s all about choosing the right dress for you after all. Whether you are petite, busty, or plus size, hourglass, lean or straight, you must have this figured out before the dress is chosen. It’s best to not choose a wedding dress just because you feel it’s fashionable at the moment. You can try on dresses by yourself, you do not need to have an audience with you. As a bride, you must make sure you have a nice bra on when trying on dresses and also on the big day, a white or nude bra usually works. Also accessories can be seen as a major part of your wedding outfit. A good neckline of a dress would usually mean you do not have to wear a necklace. However, a nice pair of bling earrings will always go down well. A veil or floral headpiece has to be an important feature.
5
Unveiled | Fashion
If the Shoe Fits t
Classic White Wedding Classic Heels-White classicWedding wedding Heelsclassic and wedding look, pretty is great look, andwedding. is great for apretty Catholic for a Catholic wedding.
Shoes are very important especially when it comes down to choosing a pair for your big day. You can choose from a variety of styles and colours just to add more of a pop when it comes to your dress. Choose from traditional the classic white heel to a black pair to add more colour and make your dress stand out more. Going less traditional when it comes to shoes is now trending as many beach weddings are occurring and going barefoot is becoming popular. Wearing trainers and flats are also becoming more acceptable as many women are wanting to be comfortable and happy walking down the aisle. YOUR DRESS, YOUR SHOES, YOUR CHOICE. Going barefoot- this is a great idea for a beach or nature wedding. Keeps you comfortable and grounded while walking down the beach or in grass and saying your “I do’s”. Boots- if you are a boot lover and want to go for a quirky fun twist on traditional wedding shoes... Try walking down the aisle with long or short boots and make a statement!
Black heels, adds a pop of colour for your wedding and gives you a bit more edge. Makes your dress more bold as well.
Anklet’s- use if you are going barefoot but want a classy and elegant feel.
Converses/ trainers- a comfy alternative to heels and makes your walk down the aisle easy!
7
Unveiled | Planning Significance
Budget
Engagement rings aren’t the only rings that get to sparkle! Wedding rings can dazzle with diamond settings, too. Your man may want some bling too!
Sparkle
It is tradition that the bride pay for the groom’s ring, and the groom pays for the bride’s ring, as a symbolic gesture of that commitment.
The price of your rings depends on design, metal, make etc, but we would say the average wedding ring is around £1,800. I mean, you want it to last a lifetime, don’t you?
How to choose your
Metals Before thinking about shape or design, start by narrowing down your metal options Many brides choose a metal based on their engagement ring. White gold and platinum are popular due their durability for everyday wear and tear
Shape The idea is that your wedding ring and engagement ring will sit side by side, so choosing a ring that fits in with your sparkler is important.
Wedding Rings Unlike many elements of your wedding the cake, the décor, the flowers, your wedding bands will stand the test of time and stay with you beyond the big day. Ring shopping is an exciting and emotional time for any couple. Don’t let yourself get too carried away, as there are several important things for you to remember!
Profile To match or not to match?
Your options will include: court shape, which is rounded on the inside and out; flat profiles, which are completely rectangular; or D-shape, flat on the inside, round on the outside. these subtle changes will mean a lot to you and your man.
It is often said that wedding rings must match up, or look similar, but this isn’t necessarily the case. you’re both going to wear this forever so choose what you like. 9
Unveiled | Beauty
Base Use NYX studio perfect primer as a base to reduce visibility of pores. £10.00 www.boots.com After applying your primer its important to conceal problem areas with coloured conealer. Green reduces redness Orange cancels out dark spots on dark skin tones Pink targets blue-toned spots on fair skin Yellow conceals purple or darker toned shadows on olive and tanned skin
£8.00 at www.marksndspencer.com
Brows
The right shade of foundation is key to apply before contouring try dd cream for light coverage and to avoid heavy looking make up. Alternatively, opt for a tinted moisturiser, anything light with good coverage is ideal for wedding day makeup. If you prefer you could always use a long lasting foundation - use sparingly.
£12.00 - Autograph www.marksandspencer.com
Contour is a must for adding definition back into your face, but be sure not to over do it. Use the chart below as a guide, applying the contour;
Around your hairline In the hollows of your cheekbones Edges of your nose Under your jawline
Use the lighter shade to highlight;
Forehead Under eye area Bridge of nose Chin
Wedding Glam
Contour
Highlight
Contour
Barry M Chisel Cheeks Contour Kit £8.50
Searching for wedding glam that won’t break the bank? Look no further! Follow our top tips to get professional looking make up at home using high street products.
Keep it simple, shape and style brows using a brow pencil or kit, choose what you can handle. Remember to conceal brows and highlight the brow bone for a natural glow. Visit our website for brow tutorials. Autograph £12.50
Finish with a translucent setting powder such as NYX Make up studio finish powder £8.00 www. boots.com. Apply using a beauty blender and leave on for 20 minutes brushing off excess.
Eyes For your eyes, keep it fairly subtle but most of all keep it true to you - if a dark smoky eye is not for you opt for a light shimmer. An added sparkle to emphasis natural feature. Go to colours should be neutral and browns. Keep the crease darker and the eyelid lighter and finish with a shimmer, highlight the inner corner of the eye.
£18.00 www.cultbeauty.co.uk
Volume Lashes £12
False eyelashes are the perfect way to finish your look whether you’re looking for a soft natural look or full and sultry. Check out Huda beauty lashes in Farah #12 for a softer flirty look. Apply mascara to bind false lashes to real ones and on bottom lashes.
Real Techniques £5.99 - boots.com
When blending contour be sure to wet the sponge first to make it easier to blend for a flawless finish. Apply a small amount of bronzer for a glow, use benefit’s hoola bronzer £23.50 www.boots.com. Highlight cheekbones, cupids bow and the bridge of your nose using Sleek’s Cleopatra’s kiss highlighting palette £9.99 www.boots. com
For tutorials visit our website www.unveiledmagazine.com
11
Unveiled | Beauty
The ‘Nude Lip’: ‘The Purple Lip’: This look is a very classic lip colour for a wedding. Its natural, vibrant and is enough to get attention and allows you to glow as a feminine bride. This lip colour also goes with most make up looks therefore you can be adventurous on your big day with either different colour eyeshadows, a cat eye flick or both. With this classic wedding lip colour the soft pink lining your lips and shine and gloss you get from the peachy lipgloss you will feel fresh and pretty throughout the day. To achieve this ‘nude lip’ on your special day, you will need to get:
This look is very bold and draws instant attention to the bride. It suites mainly bold make up looks such as a smoky dark eyes or a simple cat flick done with eyeliner. With this dark purple bold and daring lip colour any bride would walk down the aisle looking Barry M fierce. Lip Liner To achieve this look Plum 11 £2.99 you need:
MUA Luxe Velvet Lip Lacquer Kooky £3.00
The ‘Red Lip’: This look colour is for the bride who wants to be noticed but also look very elegant and shine. The red lip is pretty classic and can go with any make up looks! With this lip colour you can go big or go home so have fun! To achieve this lip you need:
Collection Lip Liner Pink Heaven 12 £1.99
Makeup Revolution Amazing Lipgloss Natural Pink £1.00
Revlon Matte Lipstick Really Red 6 £7.99
Smooches
Get your Wedding Lip Look!
Gosh Velvet Touch Lip Liner Simply Red £4.99
The ‘Glossy Lip’:
This glossy lip look is for the simple bride. Who wants her make up, hair and dress to do the talking for her. It is subtle but pretty and feminine and works a charm everytime. Pink or glitter based eyeshadow’s would work a dream with the gloss or even a more darker look would be perfect. The pink lip gloss with the clear lipgloss on top would create a great shine to the lips and keep you beautiful the whole day. To achieve this lip you will need:
Where all these lip products can be found! 12
Revlon Super Lustrous Lipgloss Super Natural 215 £6.99 Makeup Revolution Amazing Clear Lipgloss Crystal £1.00
Unveiled | Beauty
Get your Wedding Hairstyle t
Just as you have thought about what make up you’ll be wearing for your wedding, the dress and how you’ll do your lips you most defintly will be thinking how will I style my hair for the special day. Well there are a few top wedding styles that you could go for; some classics and some hairstyles which are a bit for elaborate and make you look exta special on your wedding day. tThe pony tail (see right)- this hairstyle is very simple but can also leave you looking very sophisticated on your special day. If you want to have a hairstyle where hair stays out of your face and you can just enjoy your day this is it. Have a high or low pony but it ultimately depends on how you feel! Leave your bangs out to have a more bridal and elegant look. tThe big messy bun (bottom left)- this hairstyle is for those who love a bun and a messy one at that. You can put all you hair back so it’s out of your face and you’ll still look elegant and classy like every bride should. This hairstyle is for the bride who wants her make-up, lipstick and dress to be the focal point of everyone’s attention although her hair will still look beautiful and bold. tThe vintage curls look (bottom right)- this hairstyle is very classic and for the bride who loves the vintage look. The hairstyle would even work if the bride wants curly hair for her big day. This style is classy and for those who love to look glam and expensive which this look embodies. tPlaited hair (bottom middle)- This hairstyle is very much trending and it makes the bride look so sophistiated and beautiful. It usually makes the bride feel like a modern day princess and keeps her classy and stunning all day long.
13
Unveiled | Planning
t How to narrow down your guest list... Here are a few tips on how to narrow down your guest list if you were having a few issues with doing so! Either you are having a small wedding or you and your groom collectively have too many people in mind. We are here to help with these simple small suggestions which should help with minimising the list!
tImmediate family first- focus on getting your parents and siblings on the list as soon as possible not forgetting your fiancĂŠs immediate family. People that have played an important part of your life such as aunties, uncles, grandparents and cousins need
tPrioritize your bridesmaids and his groomsmen in your guest list. Keep the important at the top of your list! Especially those that are taking part in your special day and are going to help make the day run smoothly.
tInvite close friends not childhood friends who you haven’t seen in the last year or two. Make sure you choose friends you still talk to and that are important to you.
tHave joint decisions on who to invite. The groom and his family is as important as yours! You aren’t marrying yourself and so listen to who he wants at his big day as well. Be decisive and realistic on how many people can attend your wedding and write your guest list from there. 15
Unveiled | Planning
Keeping up with the Traditions How many can you uphold?
T
here are many different wedding traditions that every wedding can have. A simple one would be the bride’s father giving her away at the alter and the confetti being thrown over the bride and groom as they leave the church. A bride should always have bridesmaids; these are her witnesses. Bridesmaids were originally thought of as a way of protecting the bride from any evil spirits back in the roman times. Wear a veil! This is also another ancient tradition that brides believed would fight off evil spirits. A bride traditionally is meant to wear a white wedding dress; this is so the bride is showing her purity to her groom. A bride who throws her bouquet for her bridesmaids and guests is considered lucky and rumor has it, whoever catches it, is the one next to be married. Something old, this tradition shows the bride leaving her old life behind and family, the bride usually wears something of the mothers or grandmothers such as pearls. Something new symbolizes the new life so the bride will do this by wearing wedding shoes as her something new. Borrowing something would be usually the mother’s bracelet or fathers handkerchief. Something blue is also another sign of purity, this also gives the bride the excuse to lie about how pure she is. Finally, for the bride is the silver sixpence in her shoe. This symbolizes future wealth in your marriage. A best man is always this is for the groom to his brides family. He with the groom to fully defended on out party favors to it’s a small piece of in gold paper or a Party favors is a dates are made to the exact date of
a tradition for the Groom, fight any resistance from also walks up the aisle make sure the bride is her wedding day. Give all your guests, whether chocolate wrapped up little piece of jewelry. must, also save the inform your guests your wedding.
Why wear the your left hand? thought that to wear would it then sit on to the heart . The first for newlyweds, this shows the groom are the guests of own song to symbolize the both Have a teired wedding cake to cut
wedding ring on Traditionally the Greeks the ring on this finger the vein that leads directly dance is always a big moment all your guests that you and honor and you can choose your of you. in front of your guests.
Don’t Be Late... 17
Unveiled | Planning
The Perfect Bridesmaids 15
Top tips on how to be the best bridesmaid Make sure everything is as organized for the happy couple as possible Do not moan about the outfit that you have to wear. It’s her day, don’t say anything. Make sure there is a get ready playlist for the bride on the morning of the wedding with the brides favorites.
Throw her the hen party that she will never forget.
“One bride threw a fit when I bought slightly different shoes to the ones she had picked”
Make sure to wear waterproof mascara on the big day. You don’t want to look like a panda in the photos. Prepare for the worse, SOS kits, and the emergency phone numbers are always the winner.
Make sure your there, not just for the big day but both emotionally and physically throughout.
Collect the gifts for the Bride with your fellow bridesmaids. This will help her out greatly.
It’s best to not get to drunk, of course you can celebrate but don’t get to the point where your to sloppy to stand up.
Do not ask the bride anything on the big day to make her stress, try and be mind reader and figure it out.
Start planning early, you would usually ask to be bridesmaid a year in advance. As soon as you are asked, your brain should start filling up ideas.
It’s usually a good idea to meet up with the groomsman a few days before. Always good to have a partner in crime to help you out.
Save money, you should know that parties are expensive, the bachelorette party will be twice as expensive.
At the end of the night, you should be the last woman standing. It’s your number one duty.
If you feel you can’t handle the pressure of being a bridesmaid, it’s ok to say no.
19
Unveiled |Planning
1
Cake Showstoppers Rosette Cakes
This romantic design effortlessly catches your guests eye. Textural sugar-made roses or buttercream rosette piping all over the cake creates a fun dimension that is different and unique but the look is still elegant and beautiful. Customise colour to suit your wedding theme, keep it simple and avoid too many colour or alternatively opt for an ombre effect to tie colours together.
5
Naked Cakes
2
Lace Cakes
Recreate your favourite wedding gown details on your cake, using ivory and white fondant lace to wrap around each tier. The key to pulling it off is in the colour. Lace is so much more than just a wedding gown, it a d d s beautiful, delicate detail to the smallest aspect of your wedding, so why not start with your cake? This trend works best with light hues and little contrast.
Rosette piping or a Naked cake? With so many beautiful cakes it can be difficult to choose which ones right for you. The wedding cake has to be one of the more enjoyable parts of wedding planning, but that doesn’t mean that choosing the perfect design for your big day can’t become stressful! We’ve narrowed down the top 5 hottest wedding cake trends for 2017 with metallic colours and detailed piping which will you choose?
The exposed look is proving increasingly popular with couples due to its versatility. This deconstructed trend allows you to show off the inside. Using berries helps complete the look especially when dusted in sugar to give a frosted finish. Customise your fruits to your wedding season and add layers of fruit within the cake. A l t e r n a t i v e l y decorate with seasonal flowers.
4
Ruffled Cakes
If you thought ruffles were exclusive for your wedding gown, then think again! For an elegant look all-over sugar ruffles are what you need. Beautiful layers delicately wrapped around the cake will certainly be a showstopper. The look is light and visually stunning, needing minimal detail. Finish it off with fresh flowers in between each tier or a few sugar flowers on top.
Metallic Cakes
Draw attention to your cake and brighten up your day with metallics. Shimmering details add that touch of sparkle. Experiment with metallic, they can adapt to any style; delicate gold feels opulent, or keep modern with geometric shapes. If an entire tier is too much consider adding some sparkle all over, use fine edible glitter to create a pretty dusting without overpowering the whole design. It’s a twist on tradition but is still just as elegant for your big day. 20
3
D.I.Y...
Naked Cakes Looking to save a few extra pounds in your wallet but not your waistline? Follow this simple recipe to create a showstopper cake, and leave your guests in awe...
Ingredients* For the Cake:
◆ Medium Eggs weighed in shells The weight of the eggs in ◆ Self-Raising Flour ◆ Unsalted Butter, softened ◆ Caster Sugar ◆ 1/2 teaspoon Vanilla Extract
For the Filling:
Method
1 2
Weigh the eggs and then set aside. Weigh out the same amount of butter and caster sugar and place in a bowl. Weigh the flour too, and set aside.
3
In the bowl, beat the butter until pale and fluffy. Add the eggs one at a time, along with a tablespoon of the weighed-out flour, mixing well after each addition. Once all the eggs have been added mix until well incorporated, add the remaining flour and mix just until combined. Add vanilla extract.
4
Scrape the mixture into the prepared tin and bake top layer for 30-35 minutes, middle layer 40-45 minutes and bottom layer 55-60 minutes, until the sponger springs back to touch and skewer inserted into the centre comes out clean. Allow to cool for about 20 minutes before removing from the tin to a wire rack and cool completely.
5
Use a serrated bread knife to split the sponge through the middle. Start by placing the knife in the middle of the cake and slowly turn the cake gradually cutting deeper.
6
Spread Jam on one of the cakes discs and place a dollop of whipped cream in the middle spreading towards the edge with a palette knife.
7
Place a small amount of cream between the tiers. To secure the layers place a wooden dowel through the middle and cover the top with flowers/ fruit.
8
To decorate dip the berries in sugar to give a frosted look and stick to the cake using the butter cream. Dust the whole cake with icing sugar.
◆ 400g Strawberry Jam ◆ 800g Cream
To Decorate:
◆ Selection of berries to decorate ◆ Icing sugar
* Top Tier (18cm tin)- 3 eggs weighed Middle Tier(20 cm tin)- 4 eggs weighed Bottom Tier (22cm tin) - 5 eggs weighed For a chocolate tier add cocoa power and mix melted chocolate with butter to create a chocolate buttercream.
Preheat the oven to 170 C. Butter the cake tin and line the bottom with baking paper.
21
Unveiled | Inspiration
The Tiny Details: An abundance of decorations for your glorious day If you have booked your venue, affirmed the caterers, decided on a colour scheme and hopefully had enough time to relax with a coffee it’s now time to talk decoration. It’s one of our favourite languages so let’s get started. Your wedding’s focus will not be on whether your cake toppers are the exact skin tone shade that you asked for. Or if your confetti strips matched you colour scheme exactly. Don’t fret about the small stuff like this. We believe that you shouldn’t have to pay a fortune for gold papered confetti, or for place mats and centrepieces you’ll never use again. At the same time you want your decor to be classy, contemporary and elegant. We’re here to help. Therefore we’ve
compiled a collection of all the small things that will enhance the beauty of your wedding.
The tiny details of decor you might not want to forget: • • • • • • • • • •
confetti centre pieces place mats stationery wedding favours balloons bows for chairs wedding signs and information photo booth props succulents
Remember:
Don’t stress about the small things. Inspiration is exactly that, inspiration. Use it only as a guideline and not an expectation.
Draw from many realms of inspiration but also be aware of your budget
With Pinterest, Google, our friends and family members we are now able to draw inspiration from so many places. Bear in mind, inspiration is your guideline and it doesn’t need to look exactly as Pinterest did it.
On the day, you’ll need as much help as possible.
Recruit family members, friends, neighbours and their family members and friends to help transport and set up your wedding day decorations. That is unless the decor company are able to do that part for you. There is no shame in asking for help!
We’ve picked out the prettiest, most affordable and classiest of the decorative details you can add to your wedding day to make it just as wonderful and magical as you hoped it would be. 23
Unveiled | Inspiration
Confetti Canon, £3.00, John Lewis
Tie laced netting over chairs and fasten with wire and flowers
Heart Willow Wreath, £4.00, John Lewis
If your centre pieces are fl floral oral heavy pad it out by using greenery as a base
Rustic Floral and Chic
page 25
Black and White Art Easel, £10.00, Sainsburys
Golden Glitter Jar, £10.00, John Lewis
This wedding theme ties in romantic, blush and vintage all at once, play texture upon each other and combine metallics as well
Peony Astrantia in Jam Jar, £10.00, John Lewis
Large White Faux Floral, £4.00, Sainsburys
Wooden Wedding Sign, £4.00, Sainsburys
Photo Booth Easel, £6 each, Made with Love Designs
Glitter Succulents, £4 each, Paperchase
Use twig and twine to decorate if your wedding theme is wood based 25
Unveiled | Inspiration
Themed Wedding Inspiration:
Fairytales & Gatsby Glamour Themed weddings are an instant know-all for what your guests can expect your day to entail. There are so many themes out there that we have decided to highlight two of the most recent trending wedding themes.
A Disney Fairytale
Intricate details, bold colour choices and beautiful calligraphy.
As young girls, fairytales may have captured your hearts from a very young age. Isabelle and David Blightly were able to recreate the fairytales we all know and love on their wedding day. A beautiful wedding affair captured by photographer, Marie Bleyer saw bride and groom Isabelle and David 26
draw inspiration from the Disney classic, Cinderella. Their combination of navy and gold recreated a royal and magical amalgamation of colour.
Isabelle wore a simple blue band of ribbon around her waist on her wedding dress to incorporate Cinderella’s headband somewhere on her.
Gold embellishments on frames, candlabras and cupcakes combined with handwritten calligraphy are the tiny details that Isabelle added to make her day that little bit more special. Use intricate patterns in cupcake detail.
Incorporate lace, vintage hard-backs and mismatching crockery for that fairytale twist. Use rose petals and tiny glass bottles as well. Miniature crockery and plays on different sizes of objects also creates that magical look.
Unveiled | Inspiration
The Great Gatsby
The roaring 20’s means embellishments, headpieces and metallics galore. Gold tones and jewel embellishments in excess are what the glamourised version of the roaring 20’s posess. Sleek, chic and glam are encompassed within this era and that is what this theme will capture. Asymmetric designs for your wedding stationary with gold accents are Gatsby in all its glory. Mesh and silver head pieces are also complimentary to long, sleek bejewelled dresses. It’s completely acceptable to go over board with glitter, in fact, it’s encouraged. Up the glamourous vibe by doing it this way. Play around with different textures by combining feather trimmed accessories with tulle and pearls.
27
Unveiled | Inspiration
1.
Singer Ciara and Football Player Russell Wilson tied the knot in January. The couple said their vows at the stunning backdrop of the medieval Peckforton Castle in Cheshire, UK, in front of 100 guests. Ciara wore a custom made gown by Roberto Cavalli Couture Ciara decided to have her bridesmades dress in edgy all black dresses.
Happy couples
2.
Celebrities who’ve tied the knot this year (so far!)
Eniko Parrish and comedian, Kevin Hart wed in Santa Barbara, California in August in front of family and friends. Parrish wore a custom Vera Wang silk crepe mermaid gown boasting a soft white sheer plunging V neck lace. The reception featured crystal chandeliers, and white and ivory roses draped over rustic white wooden tables.
Olympic legend, Michael Phelps and Nicole Johnson walked down the aisle in a lavish outdoor ceremony in Cabo at the El Dorado Golf & Beach Club in October. The couple legally got married in secret earlier this year in June. phelps, filmed himself and his new wife moments after the cermemony. Have a look at the video on you website: www.unveiledmagazine.com
28
High School Musical’s Corbin Bleu married actor Sasha Clements in April in lavish Santa Barbara The couple exchanged vows before 160 family and friends. They kept the theme of their wedding simple yet romantic with a white and gold palette
5.
TV show personality host Adrienne Bailon and Gospel sing, Israel Houghton had a Parisian wedding at the Hotel Plaza Athénéel on November 11th. The newlyweds played in the rain on their wedding day, and posed near the Eiffel Tower! the couple’s first dance which was more of a loving embrace and sway than a choreographed waltz.
Professional dancer and actress, Melissa Molinaro broke the internet and tradition with her first dance. Molinaro led her bridesmaids in a choreographed dance to Queen Bey’s “Upgrade U” and “Run the World” and Lil Mo’s “4Ever.” The video that Melissa has uploaded to YouTube already has nearly 14.5k views. Head on over to our website to view the whole video www.unveiledmagazine.com
29
Unveiled | Latest
By up687601
S
unday the 6th November 2016, down at Southsea seafront was a vintage wedding fayre to remember. Me and one of my friends decided to go to this wedding fayre to get some information about how people create their perfect days. I wasn’t planning on what happened next. To make sure that we fit in to the place, I pretended to be engaged for the afternoon placing my love heart shaped Pandora ring on the marriage finger, and the crazy thing is, people actually believed that I was engaged. Questions started flooding about my “big day”, venue, wedding date, dress, guest list, bridesmaids, I was telling stories to all the people about my big day (the one that I imagined when I was 12). Not once did I believe that anyone suspected that I was lying to them just to get information. We were greeted with free champagne at the photographers table in fancy wedding glasses that I can only assume cost more than a wedding dress. Walking around the venue seemed surreal but fascinating, seeing all these fabulous wedding gowns and cakes that people were putting their names down for, I felt left out so I gave her my email address and the date of my “wedding” which is actually my birthday. My friend tried to hold back my laughter, she couldn’t believe that I was putting my name down for a cake that I will never purchase. A fashion show of different wedding dresses was held on the stage, seeing all these old vintage wedding dresses from different stools around the fayre was memorising to watch and actually, picturing my fake wedding day in my head. Flyers were flying towards me about different things that you can plan for wedding, centre pieces, party favours, wedding cars, flowers, make-up, hair, I truly was mind blown. Coming towards the end of the fayre, my friend spotted a flower stool where people were creating their own flower headbands, also this would be good if you were planning a budget wedding, very easy to make and with real flowers. We sat down and started making these headbands that we were dying to make all day. I then continued to answer the many questions that I had been answered. I used my imagination and told the woman that my boyfriend proposed to me on the day of my graduation. The response I got was lovely and it made me believe more that I was actually engaged to be married. Out of nowhere, a power cut interrupted the wedding fayre causing us to finish our headbands in the dark whilst everyone else was forced to pack up their stools. We left with big smiles on our faces, laughing away with all the great imaginations of what a wedding is actually like to plan. 30
A Fayre to Remember
Unveiled | Real Wedding’s
t Real Weddings t The 1990’s Pearly & William
Pearly Bezuidenhout, 49 got married in 1991 to the love of her life William Amos Bezuidenhout. They had a traditional Catholic wedding in a church where they exchanged their vows. Pearly describes the wedding trends as classy and elegant. Many brides in the 90’s had similar choices and stuck to the classic white dress and pointy heels.
Big messy hair was very popular in the 1990’s and so many brides styled their hair in messy curls as Mrs Bezuidenhout has. Puffy sleeves and padded shoulders were very much in for wedding dresses in the 1990’s.They made more of a fashion statement and gave your dress that pop.
Caps were worn with veils which made the bride look elegant and fancy.
A lot of blush and lickstick was used in the 90’s weddings as it made the bride look more bright and gave her a bashful and cute look.
32
Big dresses with petticoats were worn and they gave the bride a more lavish look.
Unveiled | Real Wedding’s
90’s Bridesmaid’s & more...t
1990’s weddings were quite lavish. When it came to cakes (see above) they usually had three separate cakes or tiers of different sizes covered in icing with decorations on them. Normally edible flowers or sprinkles. Bridesmaids often had frilly dresses of the same colour which is similar to the 21st century and they had wild hairstyles which was of fashion in the 1990’s. Whilst the groomsmen wore tail coats and bow ties which made them look as stylish as the groom himself. A traditional church wedding was very normal in the 1990’s as Pearly Bezuidenhout stated that “to get married in a Catholic Church was very important to my family as they are all religious and I wanted God to be part of their nupitals as I became one with my husband through the sacrament of marriage”. The all white wedding dress was also very common as the 1990’s bride usually did not want to deviate from the norm and wanted to look very elegant. Overall the 1990’s bride had a very traditional wedding in terms of the clasic white wedding dress and shoes and having a religious ceremony in their local church with their friends and family.
33
Unveiled|Real Weddings
Real Weddings Cassandra & Karl
Wedding Planner, Cassandra Swaby, 26, exchanged vows with Motivational Speaker and Poet, Karl Lokko, 26 on Saturday July, 16th 2016 at The Gibson Hall, Bishopsgate, London in front of their close family and friends. She says:
“
Karl & Cassandra kept with the theme of purple & butterflies
”
aisle to a live singing group, singing and acoustic version of “Let’s get Married” by Jagged Edge. I feel like the acoustic version
mellowed the song out and gave the lyrics a more sentimental meaning. My maid of honour Fiona styled my hair. I wanted to go for a sleek and elegant look but I also wanted my hair to be as
photography by: SmedleyShots
We looked at two venues, well Karl did. I couldn’t get the time off work. So all the pressure was on him. The first one which was Karl’s pick was The Banqueting Hall, Whitehall, London. It was so grand with 17th century paintings etched on the ceilings. But for a guest list our size to the amount of bathrooms and space for the wedding party to get changed in, it just couldn’t work. The type of venue that I preferred was an outdoor modern venue with everything simple and white. But because Karl had this King and Queen, Royal Wedding theme going on, so I knew I had to compromise. After the venue was chosen, Karl was going to have little to none input in the
wedding after that (laughs). Our wedding planner Magdalene who owns wedding planning company La Jefet, that Karl met at his friend Sam Branson’s office, was literally a God send and was so patient. We told her we had no budget and her eyes opened wide. She told us she’s going to show us something which we want and cheaper alternatives. Karl knew his suit was going to be purple and I wanted to keep the concept of purple throughout our wedding. The colours gold and white complimented the purple perfectly. Now it was time to figure out where this purple, gold and white wedding would be held. Magdalene helped us eventually find our venue, Gibson Hall in Bishopsgate, London. I immediately fell in love, there were these huge chandeliers which fell into the Royal Wedding theme. But most importantly- it had plenty of room! The main room could definitely fit all of our guests. I just loved the high ceilings, it felt so regal. The garden area was transformed with flowers and ribbons of gold and royal purple subtly place around our alter, where we exchanged our vows. As my bridesmaids in their gold dresses, and groomsmen in their black and white suits and walked down the
Cassandra and Karl, filmed filmed their wedd views.. Head over to our website to view natural looking as possible. I think I just wanted to look as myself. As I held onto my father’s arm, and walked down the aisle, Karl began to speak, telling not just me, but to our guests as well. He said:
ding and placed it on Youtube which went viral and have over 400,000 w the whole video : www.unveiledmagazine.com ‘you are that single raindrop that watered my hope for love. Lengthened my scope for love, strengthened my boat for love. Flood me...your beauty is water to my thirst.’ He nearly made me ruin my makeup before I got to the alter!
Walking down the aisle with my dad, and seeing Karl and all of my church. Just seeing them and knowing about all what I went through, I was overwhelmed, Karl and I are very religious, so I felt like all of this was God’s doing
When our Pastor asked, ‘who gives this woman?’ My father replied “I” but on the left to me I felt like my mum was there in spirit. She knew I was marrying the love of my life and she wanted to be there. You could really feel the love in the atmosphere it felt magical After losing my mother to cancer the year before (when the initial wedding date was set), I wanted include my mother into the wedding somehow Magdalene suggested we create a scent which best represented my mother and placed them on each table. As we said our I Do’s and walked up the aisle as Husband and Wife, a box filled with butterflies which symbolised peace and freedom. We were letting go of any inhibitions and adversity that may come in our marriage were released into the open. As I took photos with my Husband and bridal party (photos which ended up going viral on Instagram and all of the blogs because of our statement photo, showing support to the Black Lives Matter movement) I had entertainment ready for the rest of our guests. I wanted our wedding to be an experience, for my guests, rather than just a waiting game. We had London-based violinist Daj Jordan playing in the first section of our reception partnered with nibbles and cocktails. So they could enjoy some music whilst socialising, he played a mixture of songs from Hip Hop, and grime to old R’n’B. It left everyone feeling pretty nostalgic but elegantly played. It definitely set a high standard for what our guests were about to witness in the main dining room. The party then then led onto the grand ballroom where my bridesmaids and Karl’s groomsmen had partnered up and choreographed dance routines introducing themselves in- ready to entertain our guests Right before Mr and Mrs Lokko came in. (Gosh it still feels surreal calling myself that). As I’m Jamaican and Karl is Ghanaian we weren’t to bring both cultures together when we decided on food, and trust me, there were no complaints on our guests’ end. And boy oh boy was it delicious! I could barely move around in my dress afterwards - which was great because it was time for speeches. We hired host Eddie Kadi, he’s a well known Ghanaian comedian. 35
It allowed Karl and his family to have something to relate to. But most of his jokes were universal so everyone enjoyed. Something which Karl and I liked was that he included everyone. The speeches started off with maid of honour. She recited a beautiful poem based around love, seeing her talk about me and how far we have come, not just as friends but as women. Next to talk Karl’s brother, who never fails to make us laugh. Now he’s got his grandmother asking when is it his time to get married. My sister spoke next, which is when the waterworks started. She mentioned that my mum would have loved to of seen me right now and said she had a gift from my mum to give to me. I was completely blindsided and shocked. i knew nothing about this gift. even when she’s not here, she was able to surprise me. A little heart necklace with some writing engraved on the back. I could barely get the last few words out as my sister made me read out what the engraved note on the back which said “To Cassandra, watching over you bless you my baby girl.” My mum called all of her daughters baby girl so the sentimental gift meant so much, that even though I’m a married woman now- I’ll always be her baby girl. As we raised our glasses, Karl got up and made the final speech. He said “i can’t really call it luck, because luck can’t create this,” as he pointed towards me. Our guests thundered with applause. He reminded us that it was never an easy road but with our faith, love and patience with one another is what has got us here today. It was time to cut our 4-tier purple, white and gold wedding cake, complimented with butterflies near the top (we went for a generic sponge cake filling which could accustom to everyone’s taste). Next was our first dance. We had a gold metallic dance floor in the centre where we welcomed three ballerina dancers with lights sewn into their tutu’s surrounding us. They gracefully danced around us to (insert song name here), this song meant so much to me. In my mother’s last few months she was staying with Karl and I and we used to play this song near enough everyday. It then led onto another choreographed dance with my bridal party. We changed into Ghanaian traditional styled outfits. Karl and his groomsmen also changed 36
into custom made Kente outfits and we had a dance war- it was hilarious! It truly was an unforgettable night. and
just to make sure we filmed the whole wedding so everyone can relive the experience with us.
Troubles with the dress and shoes before the big day.... Cassandra’s Shoes
Sophia Webster white sandal with rose-gold tone leather straps, and finished with laser-cut angel wings with a slim metal stiletto heel, £395
Sarah Alonuko Hollywood glam, bespoke fishtail style dress, £1000
Nothing was ever going to be simple with my dress decision making, because I’m so indecisive. Our wedding planner sent me to some reasonable dress shops. For me, I wanted a dress made in another country but for it to look shop brought. The bridal shop owner I went to was so lovely and she let me choose five fishtail dresses which didn’t really flatter me. So she brought out this princess dress and my eyes lit up. It sparkled and I loved it. But she said I need to get it as soon as possible. I ended up putting a £1000 deposit on the dress, but a couple days later I went back to try it and I started to rethink it. I felt like I looked like one of those toilet roll cosy, a year later I found the dress I truly wanted - baring in mind I’ve already bought a dress.
The designer Karen Grace of the dream dress said she would rent the dress to me for £1,000. But the measurements were too complicated for every tailor I went to get the sizes I needed. So I had to say goodbye to my dream dress. A friend of mine recommended dress maker, Sarah Alonuko. I told her what I wanted and she said she could make it. I was a bit sceptical but I gave her a shot and she basically made the previous dress but better! My shoes were a whole other story, I decided to wear the shoes I initially bought an event earlier in the year and couldn’t be seen wearing them again! I wanted to keep the butterfly theme going so I found these Sophia Webster heels worth £395 and they complimented my dress so effortlessly. I ended up loving the replacement shoes even more than the originals.
Unveiled | Inspiration
Marriage Advice:
Life after your wedding day So as your last guests leave the How did your parents deal with it? How you react when certain situations don’t hotel reception foyer, the DJ draws do go your way? his set to a close and you sit across a table of chewed sweets and loose Try and create an honest and open napkins. Glancing upwards you environment between you and your spouse that when tough times come, which are catch eyes with your new husband so guaranteed, you can work through them. and with a sense of joy, a hint of exhaustion you take a deep breath. Learn to say sorry and apologies. It’s time to talk about life after accept It is important to acknowledge when marriage. you are wrong and even, at times when It’s
not just about you
In order for a marriage to head into a direction that is growing and learning with each other daily, selflessness is crucial. Through this union, you are committing yourself to the other person. You are promising to stay in that commitment for life with that person. Through thick and thin, for better or for worse. Be willing to put others needs, before your own. That is not such a bad thing especially if both of you are willing to be sacrifical and are also willing to compromise along the way.
Communication
is key
Make sure that you and your partner are able to communicate effectively. Each person handles conflict in a different way. Some of the methods we use to handle conflict may be dependent on our upbringing. Talk through each other’s past and sort out any isues you have concerning conflict.
38
you aren’t. Don’t let the pride of being right all the time determine what you do. Words are powerful. Therefore, learn to accept apologies fully, with no conditions.
“Forgive fully and often.”
Never
stop dating
Quality time spent with your spouse every once in a while is important. Set aside time in the week to go on a date with your significant other. You can make it cheap - i.e a walk, window shopping, coffee date or you can pull out all the stops - i.e dining, a concert, a show, cinema showing, city break. Life with your partner should be enjoyed and falling in love continuously should be fun, besides, you are married to your best friend!
Learn
your love language
“Unhappiness in marriage often has a simple root cause: we speak different love languages.” Dr. Gary Chapman who, while working as a marriage counselor for more than 30 years identified five love languages we use to express and to receive love:
“What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel that they are joined for life - to strengthen each other in all labour, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all sorrow, to be one with each other in silent unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting?”
George Eliot, novelist, 1819-1880
Unveiled | Inspiration
1. Words of Affirmation
This love language uses words to affirm people. For example, compliments and words of encouragement like “You look beautiful today.” or “You are so brilliant at what you do.” will let the other person know how much you love them.
2. Quality Time
This love language is all about giving your undivided attention to someone. When you spend time in the other person’s presence don’t let distractions get in the way of your time together. Be focused and intentional in the way that you spend time with that person.
3. Receiving Gifts
For some people, what makes them feel most loved is receiving gifts. Buying small, medium and large gifts aside from special events and occasions will let the person know how much you love them.
4. Acts of Service
For these people actions speak louder than words. A simple thing such as taking the rubbish out or fixing the boiler will suffice. Jobs that need to be completed within the house or buying groceries for the week without being asked to all show love.
5. Physical Touch
To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than appropriate touch. A long, meaningful hug after a long day at work or a touch of appreciation is enough to let them know you care.
“When you understand that you both differ in ways that you express love - you begin to appreciate those differences and learn how to effectively demonstrate love to the other person.”
Make
it fun!
Be silly, tease eachother and poke fun at eachother - it is possible to do these things without hurting the other person. Recognise that marriage can be fun, you can be silly and enjoy life together.
Marriage is the coming together of two individuals. The aim is to create a union together that serve eachother, honour one another and enable both of you to live in such a way that ultimately expresses the love that you have for one another. Embrace imperfection and be willing to grow in love, humility and selflessness.
39
Unveiled | Honeymoon
Kuoni Travel Experts What makes the perfect honeymoon? Is it romantic candlelit dinners with ocean backdrops? Is it the tranquillity of a private pool in your own luxury villa? Or a once-in-a-lifetime adventure, with fascinating wildlife and local culture? Kuoni Travel UK is part of DER Touristik, one of Europe’s leading travel groups. Kuoni has continued to set the pace in luxury worldwide travel in the UK market for over fifty years and is 42
regularly voted one of the best holiday companies in the country by readers of national newspapers and travel industry titles. The company creates tailor-made holidays and honeymoons to more than 90 destinations around the world. Your honeymoon should be as unique as you are. With a choice of over 90 destinations, their Honeymoon packages range from a short-but-sweet minimoon, like a few romantic nights in Rome, to
an extensive bucket-list maximoon, such as a guided tour through Latin America. There are many Honeymoon ideas to consider, but they’ll do their best to make sure you Find Your Amazing, and plan that seamless trip that lives up to your imagination exceeding your expectations. It’s not just a holiday; it’s an experience that creates special memories for you and your partner to cherish for the rest of your lives. Their Honeymoon
Where will the wind take you? Close to home or far away choosing the right destination is essential, whether it’s on a sandy beach overlooking the Indian Ocean or a safari exploring Africa’s wildlife, there’s a place for everyone.
experts have travelled all over the world and can help bring your dream honeymoon to life through their first hand experiences and honest recommendations. Whether it’s finding that castaway island in the Maldives that’s perfect for you or suggesting that all- inclusive resort in the Caribbean that’s great for spa treatments and water sports. Honeymoon Experts can help you create an unforgettable escape.
Over the last six years Kuoni has grown its retail network across the UK and can be found in 46 locations on premium high streets and in selected John Lewis department stores. Each store is unique in design and showcases Kuoni’s Personal Travel Experts and personalised customer service. This service allows your guests to contribute to your Kuoni honeymoon through a John Lewis gift list, to help
“
“
We believe no two holidays should be the same and personal service makes all the difference. We’ll take the time to get to know you and help find your amazing.
pay the balance, upgrade your flights or room, even with the added extra of Kuoni Authentic Experiences to make your travels unforgettable. Winning over 200 awards for their holidays and exceptional service, many for their Honeymoon packages, including The Reader’s Choice Award at the 2015 Brides Magazine Awards. So visit one of their stores, enjoy a glass of Champagne and let them show you why. 43
Destinations... Africa ◆ Tanzania - Incredible safari experiences and stunning island beaches. Historic and teeming with wildlife, it packs a visual punch with landscapes ranging from idyllic Indian Ocean beaches and great lakes to wide-open grasslands and Africa’s highest mountain. You’ll find the Great Migration thundering through the Serengeti – a must for first-timers – and quieter southerly parks ideal for experienced safari-goers.
Caribbean
◆ St Lucia - Striking natural landscapes provide the perfect backdrop to your dream holiday in this picturesque island. Fringed by largely unspoilt beaches, St Lucia, often touted as one of the world’s most romantic destinations, is scattered with sprawling banana, cocoa, coconut and mango plantations which are nestled in thousands of acres of pristine rainforest. The island has long been a popular destination for both weddings and honeymoons, with a number of romantic hideaways dotting its golden shores.
Indian Ocean
Sri Lanka - From the golden beaches that encircle the island to the multitude of flourishing National Parks, ancient ruins and colourful temples scattered throughout its jungle interior. Whether you kick back at one of the popular beach resorts, trek to the pinnacle of Sigiriya Rock or take a tour up to untouched Jaffna, Sri Lanka is sure to delight. December to March is the best period for the west and south coast and from April to September for the heart of Sri Lanka and the East Coast.
◆
Europe ◆ Greece - On Greece’s mainland you’ll find sweeping coastlines and delightful villages full of character and drenched in history. With its three peninsulas and miles of beautiful beaches, Halkidiki has an island feel and is home to stylish resorts with impressive facilities that are great for all the family. A little further off the beaten track, Messinia in the scenic south-west Peloponnese hosts crumbling castles, unspoilt coves and valleys dotted with lakes and waterfalls. 44
Keep up to date with us on...
Website: www.unveiledmagazine.co.uk Twitter: @unveiledmag Instagram: @unveiledmag
Pages UP687601: 3, 4, 5, 17,19 & 30 UP730030: 7, 12, 13, 15, 32 & 33 UP746065: 23, 25, 26, 27, 38 & 39 UP683288: 9, 28, 29, 34, 35 & 36 UP723665: 11, 20, 21, 42, 43 & 44