FILAM June 2024

Issue 76, June 2024

Patricia Evangelista

Patricia Evangelista

Her book wins the Bernstein award

Crab Mentality

Why some FilAms pull each other down

Rio Guerrero

Advocating for immigrants for 25 years

Letter from the Editor

The return of a security alliance

By Rene Pastor

Around the middle of last month, The New York Times published on page 1 the first military island chain map showcasing the defensive shield the U.S. has forged against China.

The Philippines figured prominently in the partnership.

The thrust of Luzon Island stood out against the underbelly of China. Within hailing distance is Taiwan. Occupying the middle of the Times report are extensive inside articles detailing the countries that Washington has recruited against what it called China’s aggressive stance in the region.

Other publications have taken note of the slow embrace by Manila and Washington, with Beijing pointedly warning its neighbor of the risks it is facing.

“The Philippines has been a treaty ally since 1951 and a major non-NATO ally since 2003. It is the largest recipient of U.S. military assistance, equipment, and training in the region.

The country holds strategic importance as a part of what some experts refer to as the ‘first island chain’ in the Pacific, and its maritime territorial disputes with China are a potential flashpoint in the South China Sea,” a report by the U.S. Congressional Research Service said.

The Philippine government felt it was left no choice given the assertive position by the

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Chinese authorities that all of the South China Sea belongs to them, even places that are part of the exclusive economic zone of the country.

What has happened recently is the Philippines and the U.S. have rekindled their close military and diplomatic relationship which seemed to fray under the previous administration.

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At the start of 2023 during his first visit to Beijing, Philippine president Ferdinand Marcos Jr. quietly visited China but found no give or compromise from the Chinese over the issue of the Spratlys.

The visit was given little attention, but shortly after that, Marcos effectively abandoned the policy of currying favor with the Chinese initiated by former president Rodrigo Duterte and made it clear his government supported the U.S.

Historically, the U.S. always viewed and treated the Philippines as a fulcrum of its security dispositions in Asia.

From the time on May 1, 1898 when U.S. warships of the Asia Pacific fleet sailed into Manila Bay and lost exactly one sailor in that battle, the U.S. has assumed a domineering role in the security posture by Manila.

One reason Japan conquered the Philippines in World War Two was because the country was a U.S. Commonwealth. It fought with U.S. forces in Korea and provided a team in Vietnam.

If anything, the series of articles in the Times is a less than subtle sign of the Philippines’ reemergence in the security picture of Southeast Asia. It bears a close watch in the weeks ahead.

Contributing Writers

Tricia J. Capistrano

Joel David

Wendell Gaa

Allen Gaborro

Maricar CP Hampton

Angelito Cabigao

Ludy AstraquilloOngkeko

Lindy Rosales

Vicky Potenciano-Vitug

Taiwan flanked by China and the Philippines

Patricia Evangelista book wins NYPL’s Helen Bernstein award

The New York Public Library announced on May 2 that Patricia Evangelista is the winner of the 2024 Helen Bernstein Book Award for Excellence in Journalism for Some People Need Killing: A Memoir of Murder in My Country published by Penguin Random House. Her winning book is a meticulously reported and deeply human chronicle of the Philippines’ drug war.

Journalist Patricia Evangelista came of age in the aftermath of a street revolution that forged a new future for the Philippines. Three decades later, in the face of mounting inequality, the nation discovered the fragility of its democratic institutions under the regime of strongman Rodrigo Duterte.

Some People Need Killing is Evangelista’s meticulously reported and deeply human chronicle of the Philippines’ drug war. For six years, Evangelista documented the killings carried out by police and vigilantes in the name of Duterte’s war on drugs—a crusade that has led to the slaughter of thousands— immersing herself in the world of killers and survivors and capturing the atmosphere of terror created when an elected president decides that some lives are worth less than others.

Evangelista is a trauma journalist and former investigative reporter for the Philippine news company Rappler. Her reporting on armed conflict and disaster was awarded the Kate Webb Prize for exceptional journalism in dangerous conditions. She was a Headlands Artist in Residence, a New America ASU Future Security Fellow, and a fellow of the Logan Nonfiction Program, the Civitella Ranieri Foundation, and the Dart Center for Journalism and Trauma. Her work has earned local and international acclaim. She lives in Manila.

The finalists for the NYPL’s Bernstein Award for Excellence in Journalism are:

Ben Goldfarb for his book Crossings: How Road Ecology is Shaping the Future of Our Planet by W. W. Norton

Tom Mueller for How to Make a Killing: Blood, Death, and Dollars in American Medicine by W. W. Norton

Jeff Goodell for The Heat Will Kill You First: Life and Death on a Scorched Planet by Hachette Roxanna Asgarian for We Were Once a Family: A Story of Love, Death, and Child Removal in America by Macmillan -- NYPL

Families of extra-judicial killings victims march in Baclaran holding photos of loved ones. Photo by Danny Pata/GMA Network

Evangelista is a trauma journalist for Rappler. Photo by Mark Nicdao

Watch out, world. The Filipino Food Movement is here

In 2010, Sonia Delen, senior executive at Bank of America Global Leasing, invested in a fine-dining Filipino restaurant in the San Francisco Bay Area. This experience introduced her to many talented Filipino American chefs.

Inspired to celebrate their talent, she approached the Philippine Consulate General in San Francisco with a plan to organize a culinary competition for professional and amateur Filipino chefs in the area. Together with then-Director Rene de los Santos and Debbie Gallano of the Department of Tourism, they established the very first Kulinarya Showdown in the United States.

For four years, the semi-finals and final competitions of the Kulinarya Showdown attracted Filipino chefs from San Francisco, Los Angeles, Honolulu and New York.

During this time, Sonia met PJ Quesada, vice president of Ramar Foods, the largest manufacturer of Filipino food products in the U.S. Passionate about raising awareness of Filipino cuisine, PJ started an exhibit on its history and advancement in the U.S. He invited Sonia and other volunteers including Al Perez of Pistahan, Pearl Parmelee, Joann Boston, Pauline Vela, and Susie Quesada (CEO of Ramar Foods) to form the Filipino Food Movement™ (FFM) in 2014.

FFM, a 501(c)3 non-profit organization, is dedicated to preserving, promoting and progressing Filipino cuisine in the mainstream U.S. It is driven by dedicated volunteers who aim to raise broad awareness, appreciation and enhanced investment in Filipino culinary arts through education and community building. They have engaged chefs, food purveyors, and foodies across the nation and have expanded to other countries, including chapters in Canada and Australia, with potential to further international growth.

FFM established the first Filipino American food community through events, mainstream media advocacy and social digital platforms.

Since then, Filipino cuisine, along with its chefs and restaurants, has been featured in major publications such as The New York Times, L.A. Times, the San Francisco Chronicle, Bon Appetit, Sunset, and more. These talented chefs and restaurants have garnered awards from the James Beard Foundation, and recognized by Michelin.

FFM has also empowered many FilAm chefs to be more visible, vocal and proud of their work and cuisine in social media and local publications.

Filipino food events began to flourish.

In 2018, FFM held its inaugural event, Savor Filipino. Thirty-six chefs from all over the U.S. came to San Francisco for a one-day event at the Justin Herman Plaza. From an expected 10,000 attendees, the event saw 30,000 visitors by the end of the day. Alongside the proliferation of Philippine food and beverage, music, dance, and cooking demonstrations enlivened the event.

During the pandemic from 2020 to 2023, Savor Filipino transitioned to a virtual format.

FFM hosted forums where participants from all over the world discussed how they pivoted their businesses, secured financial resources, operationalized and marketed programs to assist chefs and restaurants developing their products and to remain resilient and sustainable.

FFM launched Kulinarya Live!, a weekly online live cooking demonstration, hosted by FFM board member, Keesa Ocampo, featuring guest chefs from the U.S., Canada, UAE, UK, Philippines, Argentina, Germany, Australia, Italy and Greece. To-date, FFM has over 100 chefs and videos available on its Facebook page.

FFM also coordinated food donations to the first responders and medical professionals during the height of the pandemic.

FFM supported restaurants during the pandemic by creating a global directory of establishments offering takeout or delivery service. Registration and inclusion in this directory are free and on-going.

Patikim (Taste) is another FFM project where culinary products were offered from local artisans in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Most importantly, in partnership with the Philippine Consulates General in the United States, the Filipino Food Month is celebrated in April in all major cities.

In 2018, FFM Introduced Filipino cuisine at the James Beard House Foundation in New York City, a very prestigious event where five FilAm chefs cooked at the kitchen of the prestigious James Beard House. They were Francis Ang (Abaca San Francisco) Melissa Miranda (Musang Seattle), Carlo Lamagna (MagnaPDX), Lou Boquilla (Perla, Philadelphia) and Nicole Ponseca (Maharlika team).

In April 2024, for the second time, Merienda was held in a sold-out affair at the James Beard House organized by FFM board members, Nicole Ponseca and Mike Ang with six culinary chefs.

The board of the Filipino Food Movement™ continues to march on to Switzerland, the U.K., France and other parts of the world. Whenever Sonia Delen travels for business or pleasure, she is committed to preserving, promoting and advancing Filipino cuisine wherever the Filipino Diaspora thrives.

NEXT: Filipino Food Movement Board Member Nicole Ponseca

Daly City Mayor Juslyn Manalo giving commendation to FFM for promoting and celebrating Filipino cuisine at the kick-off of the Filipino Food Month. In photo are (front) Al Perez, FFM Director Sonia Delen, and FFM President Keesa Ocampo.

Small bites created by talented FilAm chefs. Photos courtesy of Sonia Delen

Why some FilAms have the mentality of crabs tearing each other down and dividing the community

By Cristina DC Pastor

Filipinos know it when they see it. We’re talking about crab mentality, a way of thinking where FilAms are harshly criticized, mercilessly ridiculed or become a target of laughter or gossip because they are successful.

We even seem to react with glee in putting other Pinoys down.

Lea Salonga, when she became Miss Saigon, experienced it. Jo Koy, whose jokes bombed at the Golden Globes, was tormented by its toxicity. Both personalities were able to get past that witches’ brew, it and continued to excel notwithstanding the fleeting blow to their egos. Ultimately, crab mentality becomes some kind of a litmus test that determines one’s toughness and ability to survive and get on with their lives.

A certain sense of jealousy emerges when one is perceived to be “moving up” in society, said psychiatrist Dr. Romulo Aromin Jr. in the television talk show Makilala TV.

“When one gets to be in that situation there are feelings that can be attached. You can be admiring the individual or envious of them. There is a sense of egocentricity which leads to the eventual outcome of a sense of I want what you want to achieve but if I can’t get it you can’t get it either,” he explained.

What makes it more toxic, according to him, is people don’t talk about it. “When the victim feels he’s the only one experiencing it… By being able to talk about it, have your social support, it will surmount the difficulties they’re encountering.”

It’s a “passive aggressive behavior,” noted lawyer and a frequent observer of social interactions in the Filipino American community, Elizabeth Cueva. She was also a panelist on the topic of “Deconstructing crab mentality and the Filipino psyche.”

There are several manifestations of crab mentality in the community. One is “gloating and being happy over the misfortune of others,” she said. Another, she added, is leaders who do not want to give up their power and let the younger generation take over.

Makilala co-host Rachelle Ocampo added an observation about community recognition and how some people tend to grumble when an organization wins an award, “Why did they get it? They’re not better than me” is a common gripe.

Aromin spoke of a “code of silence”, a kind of omerta’ that instead of calling out those individuals who perpetuate crab mentality, others join the bandwagon. He used the Tagalog term “Kuyog” for this type of “collective attack.”

“The idea is that when someone does that there is a tendency for others to follow,” he said.

Still others, according to Aromin, have the urge to minimize people’s success not so much because of their innate talent or ability but because of things like ‘the family is rich’ or ‘they have connections.’

“You can make comments about individuals being successful until you hear a comment that

Panelists to the Makilala TV episode on ‘Deconstructing crab mentality and the Filipino psyche’ Dr. Romulo Aromin Jr. and lawyer Elizabeth Cueva (far left). With co-hosts Cristina Pastor and Rachelle Ocampo at center.

you were being helped by someone, or there may probably have some undermining comments such as ‘oh because you have money.’”

However, he believes crab mentality can “work both ways.” A person being criticized may look at it as some form of constructive criticism and try to better himself in his pursuits.

“It can be both,” he said. “ It goes back to being able to be sensitive with regards to comments and feedback. But at the same time it must provide things for improvement. The idea is to have positive change as the outcome.”

Becoming role models is the best outcome for crab mentality, he said.

Being happy for the success of others may not come easy for some of us, but it’s a trait that can be acquired. Cueva said it is important for people to remember certain questions before passing around gossip as a form of crab mentality: “Is it true? Is it helpful? Is it inspiring? Is it necessary? Is it kind?”

Makilala TV is the longest running Filipino talk show (10 years) in the New York metropolitan area. It is aired through Manhattan Neighborhood Network.

Gossip, as shown in this meme, can be a toxic trait. Art by Ivy Aguas

Dulcie Dee: Catwoman from Queens

By Cristina DC Pastor

In her one-bedroom Sunnyside apartment in Queens, artist Dulcie Dee would have cats – sometimes as many as four -- running around, jumping from floor to cupboard or sleeping on her bed.

Dulcie, 67, is a “cat boarder,” which is an ideal gig because she loves cats and used to own a pair of Seal Point Siamese cats which she adopted when she was married in late 1990s.

As a cat boarder, she takes care of feline pets for days, weeks or even months when their owners are gone for long periods of vacation time. She feeds them, plays with them, pets and groom them, scoops out their litter twice a day and sometimes teaches them tricks. One owner even left his kitty with her for two months while he was in Colorado.

“Cat owners prefer to have a personal cat boarder for human contact daily instead of putting their cats in a cage all day at a luxury cat board facility,” she said when interviewed by The FilAm.

Dulcie is fortunate to live in an apartment that allows pets. “I don’t need to inform the landlord because cats are not living with me 24/7,” she said. Sometimes, the cats scratch her hands and legs, may playfully bite her, knock things over, step on her laptop keyboard or artwork.

“I must vacuum every day to get rid of cat hair that gets everywhere. I have to cat-proof my apartment!” she said.

For more than 10 years now, cats have kept her company and given her “extra money to help pay the bills.”

For three days work, she gets $126, for a month anywhere from $400 to $500. “It’s cash I don’t need to report if less than $600/year,” she said. “No 1099.”

Dulcie found this job through a site for cat care service called Kitty in NY. She was interviewed by the KittyinNY owner and asked if she knew how to take care of cats. Cat owners are likely to find her through the website, which is advertised on Craigslist or other social media websites.

The owner must follow certain rules like providing food with feeding instructions for the period of time he or she is away. They also need to provide sufficient litter, food, and some toys. Cats need to have their vaccinations up to date and owners must provide the vet’s contact information.

“I have to feed whatever food the owner gives me, sometimes dry food, sometimes wet, sometimes freezedried food. I hate freeze-dried food. You have to take it out from the freezer, put a little water in it and mash it up until it’s all moist and soft. It’s more work,” she said.

On the first day, Dulcie observes her little meow-er. If the cat is sociable, her tail is usually up. “That means the cat is comfortable with me.” When the tail is down, it usually means the cat is scared. Scared cats will hide under the bed or in the bathroom and they might take a

whole weekend to get adjusted. Most of the time, she leaves scared cats alone but makes sure to have food and water available where they can see and smell their food bowls. Sometimes, they don’t want to come out to eat but when they become hungry overnight, they go to their food bowls and help themselves.

The cats love her bedroom. They sit by the window that looks to the East because that’s where they face the morning light and watch traffic and people pass by, or birds flying from tree to tree and landing on her fire escape. “They love to chirp at the birds and watch me do my artwork at my desk or they might sit on my lap for pettings.”

Dulcie uses pen & ink, photography and digital art to capture felines in her paintings.

funny poses to their owners to show they are being well taken care of. Cats atop New York skyscrapers have figured in many of her art works.

Dulcie, who is also a skilled photographer, sends beautiful photos of the cats napping, resting or in

“I’ve always loved cats. I don’t wanna do dog walking,” she said. The idea of picking up after the dog is a big turnoff.

Artist, cat lover and carer. Facebook photo

Babies are Jan Andrada Lane’s business

Babies are her business. Twins are her specialty.

Jan Andrada Lane is a “newborn care specialist” known to many by the outdated term “baby nurse.” It’s a term that triggers uncomfortable reactions from some RNs who feel they are not legitimate nurses and the term diminishes the prestige of their profession. Jan just shrugs off such remarks.

For more than a dozen years, Jan, 56, has been working for wealthy couples taking care of their newborn infants. These are couples who delegate the chores of waking up at an ungodly hour when the baby cries, feeding the baby, and putting him or her back to sleep. Working parents are her typical employers. Sometimes, the mother is stay-at-home and still hires women like Jan because she’s a first-time mom who doesn’t know how to deal with fussy babies or she can be a spoiled socialite who just doesn’t want to be bothered.

“There’s this thin line. Sometimes, we are mistaken as a nanny, a sitter, a doula, or a lactation nurse,” Jan said when interviewed by The FilAm. “Basically, we assist and guide mothers how to breastfeed properly so they can effectively care for their babies. Then the routine follows until we are able to reach our goal to sleep-train the baby.”

Her primary objective as a newborn care specialist is to enforce sleep training for the child. She works on the baby’s ideal weight and makes sure food intake is regulated. A crying baby does not necessarily mean a hungry baby, she said, and feeding may not be the solution to make her quiet. Some mothers act by instinct thinking that her bawling baby needs milk even if there may be other reasons, such as they are wet, they are feeling hot or they have dirty diaper. The trained newborn care specialist can tell the difference.

“Kailangan experienced,” she said. “Babies can be non-stop eaters, they are insatiable. Their stomachs expand,” she said. “A baby who is not sleep-trained shows erratic behavior because there is no discipline. A disciplined baby makes for a happy family.”

| First client

Jan’s first client is a highly paid fashion model in New York City who hired her to care of her baby daughter. The new mom found her through her agency.

“That’s the beauty of being part of an agency, I get to meet diverse clients,” she said.

At her best recollection, she has cared for hundreds

By Cristina DC Pastor

of babies over 13 years. Sometimes she is a stay-in carer, other times she works twelve hours and goes to her home to Virginia which she shares with her husband John. The pay is nothing to scoff at: Based on the internet its $40 to $45 per hour but because she specializes in twins, the pay can be more. (Jan has twin daughters)

“It doesn’t matter how wealthy a client is, the main focus is the love and care they have for their children,” she said. “I see that every child grows with love and care in their families. Most of the time the parents are not around and they just want someone to be there for their children.”

Jan did not dive into the field unsure of what to do. She is a Registered Nurse in the Philippines, a graduate of St. Louis University in Baguio City . She could have been an RN but opted to be a newborn care specialist which she is enjoying as the stress level is not that high.

“I am enjoying this job,” she declared.

While many of her clients are nice to work with, she occasionally meets one or two who make her job “difficult.” There is one who insists on burping her child her own way contrary to how a newborn care

specialist was trained to do. There is another who refused to give her a portable cot so she could sleep near the baby. When the mom refuses her request, “I openly discuss the problem with the concerned parent and suggest solutions. But if there is no meeting of the minds, I suggest for a replacement or sometimes they also look for one then I turn over or endorse properly to make sure the baby’s routine is consistent as how it was started.”

She feels newborn care specialists should unionize so that grievances are settled between them and their employers in an amicable manner. So far, there is little interest in organizing among her peers but she is confident it will happen.

Lack of sleep is the biggest challenge. Because she is up all night with her energy focused on the baby, Jan loses out on her nightly rest. That’s why after a week’s work she sleeps all day not to be roused for any reason.

“Bawi ng tulog,” she said.

‘I love my job’ is a new segment of The FilAm featuring Filipinos who have rare and unique occupations. If you know someone, please pitch us a story at thefilamny@gmail.com.

Caring for twins is Jan’s forte. Courtesy of Jan Andrada

An RN in the Philippines, a baby nurse in the U.S., with 13 years of experience.

‘This is for us:’ Art by John-Herbert Wright

By Marissa Bañez

“Para sa atin ito.” This is for us.

Written at the top of Celebration of Us, a painting by Filipino American multimedia artist and streetwear designer John-Herbert Wright, those words perfectly express the undercurrent running throughout his works on exhibit at the Philippine Center from May 15 to 31.

Wright’s solo exhibition, entitled Coming Home, features paintings that explore and comment upon his cultural and personal identity journeys as a multi-racial man of part Filipino heritage in his unique style that incorporates abstractionism, surrealism, and neo-expressionism partly influenced by Matisse, Dali, and Basquiat. Although the origins of his style may be rooted in techniques that some may find unapproachable and even incomprehensible, the powerfully intimate nature of the subjects of the paintings breaks through, rendering them compelling and accessible.

Wright’s mother is Filipina and his father is bi-racial. Born in Miami in 1983, he and his family moved to New York when he was three. He began painting at age 8 and eventually studied art at the highly competitive Fiorello H. LaGuardia High School of Music & Art and Performing Arts in Manhattan. Unfortunately, he struggled with depression and alcohol in his twenties.

During his opening night remarks on May 15, 2024, Wright said he had recently undergone a difficult time which included his father’s recent death and which colored his personal definition of Coming Home. To him, that title has come to mean the strengthening or affirmation of connections with family, relationships, a higher being, and our community, as well as a recognition of “the trials and tribulations we have to go through.”

In Riches of the Soil, he pays homage to his mother by depicting a mother guiding her child with unconditional love. Sweet Baby James recalls the comforting relationship with his father when he was a young boy, which later changed as Wright faced challenges. You Got Me is an expression of his appreciation for his family’s faith in and support of him, as he came out on the other side of his ordeals to return to his art.

I asked Wright whether he had a theme or message that he wanted to convey through his works.

Acknowledging his mortality, he described what he hoped his legacy would be for future generations: “I want to tell human stories. How we feel pain, love, how we overcome, rejoice, and celebrate.” Indeed, his paintings tell stories, not only through arresting pictorial representations but also with thought-provoking words and phrases. That some of the words and phrases are in English and others in Tagalog nicely reflects – intentionally or not – Wright’s multi-racial-

ity, which is yet another layer of his storytelling.

And so it was gratifying that opening night was well-attended and included prominent Filipino officials, such as the Trade Commissioner for the Philippine Consulate General Benedict Uy, Deputy Consul General Adrian Cruz. RB Tamayo was Mistress of Ceremonies, while Jisyl De Los Santos sang and the Kinding Sindaw Dance Theater Company performed an indigenous Filipino dance.

There was also a silent auction of original art pieces that included smaller paintings, clothing, and other objects created by Wright. Coming Home is curated by Vivian Velasco.

Before his current exhibition at the Philippine Center, Wright’s works had been exhibited at several venues, including Mark Miller Gallery, Blue Gallery, Affordable Art Fair, Hamptons Fine Art Fair, and Aqua Art Miami.

Trade Commissioner Uy said in his welcome remarks that the exhibition is aptly named because the Philippine Center is a kind of home for anyone of Filipino heritage. This – the Coming Home art exhibition at the Philippine Center – is for us. Para sa atin ito.

The influences of Matisse, Dali, and Basquiat are reflected in Wright’s paintings.

The artist at his silent auction. ‘I want to tell human stories.’ Photos by Marissa Bañez

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Lawyer Rio Guerrero: Honoring his parents by serving immigrant communities

By Cristina DC Pastor

Rio Guerrero looks back on his more than two decades as an immigration lawyer in New York and New Jersey. He recalls his earliest clients both apprehensive and excited to stay in the country as immigrants. He was then a young Associate Attorney working for a major litigation firm in midtown Manhattan but also hoping to start his own law firm.

His mind wanders back as well to the attorneys he worked with as a young lawyer.

“One of my most cherished mentors and I enjoyed lunch at Casa Cipriani the other day. We took time to reminisce about our careers. It’s important to keep these treasured bonds strong, remain close with longtime colleagues who have become old friends as we build for the future.”

As a young associate in the 1990s, he knew that he specifically wanted to serve his Filipino-American and immigrant communities.

“My father was from Bicol and my mother from Laguna,” he began. “They met during their college years in Manila. My father was an accountant and my mother a physician when they immigrated to the U.S. I was the first in my family born in the U.S.” He has an older sister who was born in Manila.

| A mother’s story

Rio lived briefly in Elmhurst, Queens as a little boy, his family’s apartment building filled with Filipino immigrants. Those neighbors were like many of the clients he proudly serves now as the principal of Guerrero Law Firm.

One of the cases that gives him personal fulfillment as a lawyer is that of a Filipina mother who was in the United States for 15 years and unable

to return to the Philippines. When she came to the U.S., she left behind her infant child, connecting with him only by phone and Facetime.

“It was very sad,” he said mulling the story when it first got his attention. He took on the case and was able to secure for the mother a Green Card through a 601A waiver that allowed her to go home.

Rio, as president of FALA-NY in 2016, shown here with members of the board

With former U.S. Senator Mike Honda, 2017

“She shared with us the amazing video of her surprising her son at his high school graduation party. For the first time they got to hug and hold one another again – they had been apart for nearly the boy’s entire life. The pure joy and surprise on their faces were priceless. It is exactly why I love being an immigration attorney. We can change people’s lives,” he recalled beaming with a sense of fulfillment.

Another one of his favorite clients was an employee of a healthcare professional placement agency in New York City whom he assisted with getting a Green Card. Today, he said this individual has gone on to become the “epitome of the immigrant success story.” He now owns one of the largest healthcare service provider companies in the city.

“Our shared journey has come full circle,” he noted. “Now, he is the U.S. business owner and employer, while we help his foreign employees immigrate to the U.S.”

When he formed the Guerrero Law Firm in 2002, all of the company’s clients were located in the New York metropolitan area. Now in its 22nd year, the office has helped thousands of individuals, families and companies located in nearly every single state in the country and in many parts of the world. GLF’s reach is now global.

“My advocacy for our kababayan and the immigrant community has been a priority in my career,” he said when interviewed by The FilAm. He has lobbied and spoken as a staunch advocate of immigrant rights in The White House and the halls of the U.S. Congress, hoping to give voice to those with “no impactful political clout.”

Rio is one of founding members of the National Filipino American Lawyers Association (NFALA), the first-ever organization of FilAm lawyers nationwide. He co-founded the Filipino American Lawyers Association of New York (FALANY)

and became its first president.

“All of the FilAm attorneys of my generation share the same experience, having to navigate their legal careers without any experienced FilAm attorneys to mentor them early on.

Our mission includes the mentoring of law students and lawyers. We strive to pave a way for those who come after us,” he said.

| Pride in Filipino roots

When not busy with work, he finds time to travel with his family -- his wife Joan and their two teenage children.

“My wife and I want our children to have a diverse world view, so we travel with them as much as possible,” he said.

As second-generation Filipino

Americans, it is important to Rio and Joan that their children understand and are proud of their Filipino roots.

“We bring them back to the Philippines whenever their school schedules allow. They are also extremely active in the FilAm community performing Filipino traditional dances at events including the annual Brooklyn Nets Filipino Heritage Games.” He encourages their involvement in the community through volunteering and being physically and mentally healthy. He is a proud coach of his children’s baseball and softball teams.

“Just like our parents, we place a strong value in education – we make sure our kids study hard and participate actively in school,” he said.

Rio finds his life’s work rewarding professionally and personally.

He said, “I know I am honoring my family – in particular, my parents – by serving the same immigrant community where we started.

“The last 25 years have been filled with so many achievements and wonderful professional and personal memories. I am excited to experience all the accomplishments to come in the next 25 years.”

Guerrero Law Firm sponsors APALA-NJ golf tournament, 2024. GLF annually receives accolades as one of the top immigration law firms from U.S. News and World Report, Best Law Firms, SuperLawyers and other organizations.

The Guerreros in Paris, 2023. Photos provided by Rio Guerrero

Rio’s parents Leonardo Guerrero and Dr. Rosario Guerrero in front of his childhood home in Long Island, New York

Calendar of Events

| June 2

126th Philippine Independence Day Parade

Madison Avenue NYC

| June 3 to August 2

Summer 2024 IMPACT! FilipinoAmerican National Internship Program

Participants come to Washington, D.C. to gain a firsthand look at the American government and political system, engage civically, and reflect on the role they, as future leaders, might play in strengthening Philippine-U.S. relations Visit: www.usasiainstitute.org

| June 4

Flag Raising Ceremony and Commemoration of the 126th Anniversary of the Philippine Independence

Legislative Office Building of the State Capitol Albany N.Y.

| June 7 & 8

Filipino Fridays: Chikahan, an online gathering of UP alumni in the U.S.

Contact: UP Alumni Association in America

| June 8

Philippine Independence Celebration on Staten Island

Sacred Heart School

350 Castleton Avenue

Staten Island NYC

Email: info@Picosi.org

| June 9

Rockland Art Walk

The Shops at Nanuet 5101 Fashion Drive Nanuet, N.Y.

| June 15

Bryan Magsayo: one night only 58 Manor 58-02 37th Avenue Woodside NYC

| June 17 & 24, July 1, 8, 15 & 22

Exploring Filipino American History through Storytelling & Literature

Online event

To register contact: info@filschoolnynj.org or call 774-257-4669.

| June 17

Exploring the Role of Nurses in Advancing Health Equity by the PNA New York Ethics Committee

Webinar

Contact for details: info@pnanewyork.org

| June 17

5th Annual Saleaflor Foundation Charity Golf Cup

Forest Hill Field Club

Bloomfield, N.J.

Email: info@saleaflorfoundation.org

| June 21

Women & Media (WAM) Café with guests Anne del Castillo, Cielo Buenaventura and Anne Branigin Philippine Center Kalayaan Hall 556 5th Avenue, NYC

| June 23

PAFCOM 34TH Grand Parade and Festival

Lincoln Park Jersey City

| June 29

Filipino Day Grand Parade –Kalayaan Day in Albany Washington Park Albany N.Y.

| June 30

Pistahang Bayan in commemoration of Philippine Independence Day and Nationhood Philippine Consulate 556 Fifth Ave NYC

| July 2 to 30

Adult Conversational Filipino, Beginner 2 with Noel Pangilinan

Prerequisite: Must have completed Beginner 1 or consult with School Director

Contact Venessa Manzano, School Director, at 774-257-4669 or info@filschool-nynj.org

| July 15

Deadline: Applications for Miss Universe Philippines; represent your state

Email resume and 2 headshots to missphilippinesnorthamerica@gmail. com; subject line; MPNA

| August 16 to 17

Igniting the Power in Us: NaFFAA 16th National Empowerment Conference & Civic Leadership Forum

The Atheneum Detroit

| August 17

Fiesta in America: Health & Wellness

American Dream Mall

1 American Dream Way East Rutherford, N.J

| August 17

8th Kids Philippines Annual Charity Golf Tournament

Pequot Golf Club 127 Wheeler Road Stonington, CT

Contact Cherry at 860-234-4607

| September 7

New York Fashion Week

Now casting for models

Contact Grace Steadfast at 304-6014368 or email Steadfast.fashion. design@gmail.com

| September 7

New York Fashion Week with AJ Platinum Productions

Metropolitan Pavilion NYC For more info call 801-577-0193

| September 20

Jo Koy: Just Being Koy Tour Prudential Center 25 Lafayette Street Newark, N.J.

| September 28

28th Biennial induction of officers of the Philippine Nurses Association of New York 1 Marina Drive Bronx, NYC

| October 6

Fashion for Compassion Cancer

Charity Gala by FACC Hyatt Regency 1800 President’s Street Reston, VA

Contact info@filamcancercare.org

| October 27

14th Annual TOFA (The Outstanding Filipino Awards) Honolulu

Harvard’s Peabody Museum showcases Philippine collection

Consul General Senen Mangalile visited the Peabody Museum of Archaeology and Ethnography at Harvard University on May 21 to view its extensive Philippine collection. His wife Ma. Fe Mangalile joined him on his visit.

The Peabody Museum houses over 8,000 ethnographic and photographic materials from the Philippines, primarily acquired between 1900 and 1930 by renowned anthropologists, colonial administrators, and collectors, according to a statement from the Philippine Consulate.

The visit was part of the commemoration of Philippine National Heritage Month in May.

Museum of Archaeology and Ethnography. Photo by Vice Consul Cathe Aguilar

Among the collectors whose donations form part of the Philippine artifacts were American anthropologist Henry Otley Beyer, author John M. Garvan of “The Manobos of Mindanao,” diplomat William Cameron Forbes, Boston collector Lewis H. Farlow, and Swedish archaeologist Olov Janse.

Part of the collection were the earliest versions of the Philippine flags and various indigenous crafts, which reflect the country’s rich history and cultural heritage.

The Peabody Museum is located on 11 Divinity Avenue, Cambridge, MA. – Philippine Consulate General

Consul General Senen Mangalile and Mrs. Fe Mangalile view the Philippine collection on display at the Peabody

‘Carved wooden dish.’ Photo: Peabody Museum

‘Small basket wallet in three sections’ from Benguet. Photo: Peabody Museum

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PAFCOM: 34 in ‘24

“3

4 in ’24” was on everyone’s lips and in many of the evening’s speeches.

The math-themed motto was more than a rally cry. It means Philippine American Friendship Community is celebrating its 34th founding anniversary as New Jersey’s biggest not-for-profit organization that grew out of the pavements of Jersey City’s basketball courts and Catholic churches, a time when our elders felt Filipinos and Americans should close ranks as one.

The PAFCOM Gala and Coronation Ball, held May 25 at the Marriott Hotel in Newark Airport, was graced by New Jersey’s top political leaders and local officials together with FilAm leaders and individuals who have made New Jersey home. Filipino and American “friendship” has indeed come a long way. It has witnessed FilAms vote in substantial numbers and serve in city and state offices. In turn, state resources find their way to our vulnerable elders, our at-risk youths, our out-of-job kababayan, and our immigrant communities.

It was a night celebrating not just the wisdom and unshakeable spirit of PAFCOM’s leaders, but also generations of young Filipino New Jerseyans who are now the club’s cultural message bearers, pageant beauties, budding organizers and young volunteers. High school students are welcome to join PAFCOM which serves as its staging ground for advocacy and leadership,

By Cristina DC Pastor

said President Maricar Taino.

Fresh, new leader Maricar Taino is this year’s president. In her speech, she harked back to the time in 1955 when Philippine-American Friendship Day

was born and became known as the Philippine American Friendship Committee in 1990. The name evolved into what is now the Philippine-American Friendship Commu-

members to be service-leaders of the community.

by Ness Bantog

nity in recognition of the constituents it serves.

“PAFCOM is more than an organization; it's a family, a community that has thrived through the years,” said Taino in her opening remarks. “It has inspired the next generation to actively participate in shaping our collective future." She is joined in her 2024 Team by known ‘movers and shakers’ such as Secretary: Jessamyn Bonafe, Assis-

Maricar Lakandula Taino is the youngest president of PAFCOM as the organization encourages younger

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The Flag Bearers symbolizing the amiable friendship and alliance between the Philippines and the United States

The 2024 PAFCOM officers, board of directors and committee chairs building intergenerational gap leadership.

tant Secretary: Catherine Bulahan, Treasurer: Federico "Freddy" Burke, Assistant Treasurer: Susan Lagmay, Auditor: Mylz Tolentino, Press Relations Officer: Amira Arcangel, President-Elect 2025: Joyce Castillo, and Immediate Past-President: Roxanne Cajigas, Board Chairman: Rosalinda Rupel, and Vice-Chair Helen Castillo. Taino is just the exemplary leader to “guide us into the new year,” according to the PAFCOM website.

Consul General Senen Mangalile calls the PAFCOM Gala a “happy gathering,” its members and guests appearing “resplendent.” He described PAFCOM as a wide-ranging organization with diverse programs – from scholarships to Zumba classes – a nonprofit with big achievements.

Filipinos and Americans are friends, he declared, “our people blending together” in a time post-war and in peace. The friendship parade held yearly celebrates the “vibrant spirit and rich heritage of our kababayan, a cherished tradition for all FilAms not just in New Jersey,” he said.

Dr. Connie Somera Uy, who had streamlined PAFCOM’s goals and financial structure, was honored with the First Lifetime Achievement Award. Having served as board chairperson for 10 years, she noted how she found an organization where members truly care for each other.

“In serving, I learned a simple truth. We need each other and we need to care for one another. As leaders, we must appreciate the good qualities of other people. We should be loyal but not subservient. We must be firm but not abrasive,” said Connie Uy who was described as a “dynamic leader and visionary.”

The occasion also paid recognition to 2024 Grand Marshal Senen Cabalfin and her Honorary Grand Marshals William O’Dea, Jersey City Council President Joyce Watterman, Isagani Morales, Lee Clemente, and Dr. Michelle Molina.

Hotel executive Rodrigo Pangesban was named Mr. LGBTQ, a first of its kind honor bestowed by a major FilAm organization. He said the title is important because it means LGBTQ people are no longer just tolerated.

“They are now being celebrated.”

Singer Kirby Asunto sang two Visayan songs and a Kristen Chenoweth number in a well applauded performance. She recalled how she started singing for

PAFCOM when she was 9 years old. She is now 26 and was just too happy to perform again after a long break.

The special 2024 honorees are:

Mrs. PAFCOM: Ramona Gapasin

Mr. LGBTQ: Rod Pangesban

Miss PAFCOM: Diana Kristine Soriano

Miss Teen PAFCOM:

Little Miss PAFCOM: Ava

Trinity Maya Policarpio

Dylan Arad

PAFCOM honorees from left: Miss Teen PAFCOM Trinity Policarpio, Mrs. PAFCOM Ramona Gapasin, Litte Miss PAFCOM Ava Dylan Arad, Miss PAFCOM Diana Kristine Soriano and Mr. PAFCOM LGBTQ Rod Pangesban

The first PAFCOM Lifetime Achievement Award is bestowed on Connie S. Uy for her 10 years as chairperson of the board.

PAFCOM Honorary Grand Marshals Isagani Morales, Dr. Michelle Molina, Jersey City Council President Joyce Watterman, and Hudson County Commissioner Bill O'Dea. They are joined by PAFCOM President Maricar Taino (far left), Board Chair Rosalinda Rupel (2nd from right) and Consul General Senen Mangalile

The first Mr. PAFCOM LGBTQ Rod Pangesban proudly waves the Pride flag.

PAFCOM Grand Marshal Senen Cabalfin, a Nurse Entrepreneur who is the proprietor of five businesses involving medical services.

Jaylyn Myles Rivera: Never too shy for the runway

At 11 months old, Brooke Shields was already an advertising model for a brand of soap.

Jaylyn Myles Rivera has been on a box of Play-Doh at 5 years old, quite late by Brooke’s standards, but it is worth noting that she is currently one of the youngest Filipino child advertising models in the country.

Jaylyn from Manchester, New Hampshire, had been approached for a modeling gig when she was only an 8-month-old baby, according to her mother Melissa. It was her big tantalizing eyes and smiling face that one agency fell in love with.

“Unfortunately, she wasn’t fully cooperating, maybe because she was still too young,” said the mom, who works for a defense company BAE Electronics Systems.

The agency communicated again with Melissa when Jaylyn was 5 years old. “Do you think she’s now ready?” they asked.

“Hasbro wanted her in the toddler/girls department.”

It’s quite a wait but this time, Jaylyn was more than ready. At 5 years old her agent moved her to the girls section and that was when she started getting modeling projects for Hasbro Toys and Games products. Her first toy project was Play-Doh Kitchen Creations. This was followed by Little Pony Dolls, and Hungry Hungry Hippo.

“She has no more tantrum, but still a little shy,” Melissa noted.

For a minimum of two hours of modeling work, a child is usually compensated (anywhere between $250 to $1,500).

In the intervening years, Melissa has been training Jaylyn the tricks of the trade: how to smile for the cameras, how to walk and not to be too shy.

She was invited for a modeling gig at 8 months old.

Channeling Audrey Hepburn's style at age 2.

The Riveras of Manchester, NH: From left, brothers Jayred Lloyd, Jaymier Lyle, mom Melissa, Jaylyn Myles, and dad Paul John. Photos provided by Rivera family.

| Shy but smart girl

Jaylyn Myles Rivera is a first grader at Green Acres Elementary School in Manchester, New Hampshire. Her teacher described her as “extremely shy but a smart girl.” She made lots of friends in school, especially after she donated to her class a Play-Doh game with her photo on the box.

She likes reading books; plays the piano with her Dad as her mentor, and sings to the music of Taylor Swift, Olivia Rodrigo, and Vanessa Hudgens. She also dances jazz and her favorite sport is tumbling. Her father, Paul John Rivera, is a senior software engineer at Hewlett Packard Enterprise.

Currently, Melissa says her daughter is showing a keen interest in fashion modeling. Jaylyn recently earned the title, Miss Worldwide Princess, bestowed on her by renowned designer, Kirsten Regalado who is of Filipino descent. Regalado is known for her exquisite designs worn by pageant beauty queens.

Her portfolio includes creating the winning national costume for Miss Iceland in the 2019 Miss Queen Beauty Universe Pageant, as well

as dressing Miss Universe candidates from various countries such as Armenia, Australia, Bahamas, Mauritius, the Philippines, St. Lucia, and Iceland.

Last September, Jaylyn was a runway model for New York Fashion Week walking the ramp for international labels like Meraki and Eye Candy. She also wore the designs of Bitty Bundles of Joy, Aritutus, Makena Lane and Oh Shana. She will return to NYFW again next year.

“I’ve always wanted to have a baby girl. I wanted her to be a model,” Melissa shared her fondest wish.

Her first two children were boys, Jaymier Lyle, now 15, and Jayred Lloyd, 10. Imagine her delight when Jaylyn became her third and youngest child. Jaylyn jokingly calls her brothers her personal bodyguards who lovingly take good care of her.

Jaylyn now walks the ramp like a pro – head up, shoulders back, unsmiling, and walking long strides with confidence.

“She’s no longer nervous,” noted Melissa. Her pictures have graced the pages of Iconic Magazine and Kids Fashion Magazine for their Open Theme and Christmas editions. In November 2023, she joined the Little Miss Citrus New England contest and won two titles, the Most Beautiful Award and Little Miss Citrus Princess New England. In December 2023 she walked in the Atlanta Fashion Parade for two designers. In the same month, Jaylyn was crowned Little Red Poinsettia 2023 in New York City.

“This little girl is shy and barely talks to anyone but when it comes to runway and photo shoots, Jaylyn amazes us,” said Melissa.

The girl has stepped out of her shell. What would she like to be when she grows up?

A fashion model, replied Jaylyn. Mom couldn’t be happier and prouder! – Cristina DC Pastor

Jaylyn's face appears on the Play-Doh box.

Modeling like a pro

Miss Worldwide International in 2023

Dulcie Dee Catwoman from Queens

Issue 76, June 2024

Jaylyn Myles Rivera Shy girl slays the runway

Sonia Delen Pioneer of the Filipino Food Movement