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Therapeutic Joy of Purim By Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks zt"l

The Unforgivable Murder of the Bibas Family

Argalgi Sadacka

Purim Teaches Us How to Respond to Anti-Semitism By Slovie Jungreis-Wolff

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From The Editors

As we step into the month of March, we eagerly anticipate the arrival of spring—an awakening of nature that mirrors the renewal and joy of Purim. This festive season is one of celebration, resilience, and the triumph of light over darkness. In this issue, we delve deep into the spirit of Purim with a collection of compelling and thought-provoking articles that reflect the multifaceted beauty of this holiday.

This month, we bring you Mishloach Manot Reimagined, offering creative twists on the beloved mitzvah of sending Purim treats. From themed packages to personalized touches, this article will inspire new ways to enhance this cherished tradition. And for those who love a culinary debate, Hamantaschen Showdown: Sweet vs. Savory presents delicious recipes that challenge the boundaries of tradition.

Purim is more than just costumes and celebrations—it carries profound lessons that resonate today. In Purim Teaches Us How to Respond to Antisemitism, we reflect on the enduring strength of the Jewish people in the face of hatred and adversity. The joy of Purim itself also serves as a form of healing, as explored in The Therapeutic Joy of Purim, which highlights the deep emotional and communal impact of this holiday.

Our cover story, Randi’s Care, shines a light on a truly inspiring initiative that transforms the lives of our senior community members, bringing warmth, engagement, and a renewed sense of purpose to those who need it most. Randi’s mission is a testament to the power of compassion and the importance of giving back. With Israel on our minds, we present two powerful features that demand attention: The Unforgivable Murder of the Bibas Family, a chilling reminder of the horrors we must never forget, and The Moral Bankruptcy and Hypocrisy of the International Red Cross, an in-depth look at the failures of an organization that has turned a blind eye to Israel’s suffering. These pieces remind us that, even in joyous times, we must remain vigilant and resolute in our support for Israel and the Jewish people.

Our community is bustling with remarkable events, and this issue captures that vibrancy. The DSN Event – A Night of Resilience and Faith recounts an unforgettable evening of strength and survival, while Magen David Yeshivah shines in MDY Celebrates World Read Aloud Day with D.E.A.R. and MDY Students Raise Over $157,000 for Chai Lifeline, showcasing the incredible impact of our youth. Finally, our Photo Album this month is a tribute to creativity in our community, celebrating the imaginative spirit of young artists and seasoned creators alike.

As we embrace the joy of Purim, let us remember its lessons of unity, resilience, and giving. May this season bring you happiness, inspiration, and meaningful connections.

Wishing you a festive and joyous Purim!

Ben-Gurion Matsas and Rachelle Fallas Matsas

Ben-Gurion Matsas PUBLISHER/EDITOR

Rachelle Fallas Matsas EDITOR-IN-CHIEF

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THE THERAPEUTIC JOY OF PURIM

RABBI LORD JONATHAN SACKS ZT“L

There is a unique law in the approach to Purim. Mishe-nichnas Adar marbim be-simcha: “From the beginning of Adar, we increase in joy.” It is stated in the Talmud (Taanit 29a), and is based on the passage in the Megillah (Esther 9:21-22) in which Mordechai sends a letter throughout the land instructing Jews “to observe the fourteenth day of the month of Adar and the fifteenth day, every year – the days on which the Jews obtained rest from their enemies and the month which for them was turned from sorrow into gladness and from mourning into a holiday.”

This in turn refers back to the text in which Haman decided on the timing of his decree: “In the first month, the month of Nissan, in the twelfth year of Achashverosh, they cast pur (that is, ‘lots’) before Haman from day to day, and from month to month until the twelfth month, which is the month of Adar” (Esther 3:7).

The difficulties though are obvious. Why an entire month? The key events were focused on a few days, the thirteenth to the fifteenth, not the whole month. And why simcha? We can understand why the Jews of the time felt exhilaration. The decree sentencing them to death had been rescinded. Their enemies had been punished. Haman had been hanged on the very gallows he had prepared for Mordechai. Mordechai himself had been raised to greatness.

But is joy the emotion we should feel in perpetuity, remembering those events? The first warrant for genocide against the Jewish people (the second if one counts Pharaoh’s plan to kill all newborn Jewish males) had been

frustrated. Is simcha the appropriate emotion? Surely what we should feel is relief, not joy. Pesach is the proof. The word “joy” is never mentioned in the Torah in connection with it.

Besides which, the Talmud asks why we do not say Hallel on Purim. It gives several answers. The most powerful is that in Hallel we say, “Servants of the Lord, give praise,” – meaning that we are no longer the servants of Pharaoh. But, says the Talmud, even after the deliverance of Purim, Jews were still the servants of Achashverosh (Megillah 14a). Tragedy had been averted but there was no real change in the hazards of life in the Diaspora.

It seems to me therefore that the simcha we celebrate throughout the month of Adar is different from the normal joy we feel when something good and positive has happened to us or our people. That is expressive joy. The simcha of Adar, by contrast, is therapeutic joy.

Imagine what it is to be part of a people that had once heard the command issued against them: “to destroy, kill and annihilate all the Jews—young and old, women and children—on a single day” (Est. 3:13). We who live after the Holocaust, who have met survivors, heard their testimony, seen the photographs and documentaries and memorials, know the answer to that question. On Purim the Final Solution was averted. But it had been pronounced. Ever afterward, Jews knew their vulnerability. The very existence of Purim in our historical memory is traumatic.

The Jewish response to trauma is counterintuitive and extraordinary. You defeat fear by joy. You conquer terror by collective celebration. You prepare a festive meal, invite

guests, give gifts to friends. While the story is being told, you make a rumbustious noise as if not only to blot out the memory of Amalek, but to make a joke out of the whole episode. You wear masks. You drink a little too much. You make a Purim spiel.

Precisely because the threat was so serious, you refuse to be serious – and in that refusal you are doing something very serious indeed. You are denying your enemies a victory. You are declaring that you will not be intimidated. As the date of the scheduled destruction approaches, you surround yourself with the single most effective antidote to fear: joy in life itself. As the three-sentence summary of Jewish history puts it: “They tried to destroy us. We survived. Let’s eat.” Humor is the Jewish way of defeating hate. What you can laugh at, you cannot be held captive by.

I learned this from a Holocaust survivor. Some years ago, I wrote a book, Celebrating Life, to write my way out of the depression I fell into after the death of my father, zichro livracha. It was a cheer-you-up book, and it became a favorite of the Holocaust survivors. One of them, however, told me that a particular passage in the book was incorrect. Commenting on Roberto Begnini’s comedy about the Holocaust, Life is Beautiful, I had said that though I agreed with his thesis – a sense of humor keeps you sane – that was not enough in Auschwitz to keep you alive.

“On that, you are wrong,” the survivor said, and then told me his story. He had been in Auschwitz, and he soon realized that if he failed to keep his spirits up, he would die. So he made a pact with another young man, that they would both look out, each day, for some occurrence they

found amusing. At the end of each day they would tell one another their story and they would laugh together. “That sense of humor saved my life,” he said. I stood corrected. He was right.

That is what we do on Purim. The joy, the merrymaking, the food, the drink, the whole carnival atmosphere, are there to allow us to live with the risks of being a Jew – in the past, and tragically in the present also – without being terrified, traumatized or intimidated. It is the most counterintuitive response to terror, and the most effective. Terrorists aim to terrify. To be a Jew is to refuse to be terrified.

Terror, hatred, violence – the dark forces that are currently ravaging country after country in the Middle East, sub-Saharan Africa and parts of Asia – are always ultimately self-destructive. Those who practice them are always, as was Haman, hoisted on their own petard, destroyed by their very will to destruction. And yes, we as Jews must fight antisemitism, the demonization of Israel, and the intimidation of Jewish students on campus.

But we must never let ourselves be intimidated – and the Jewish way to avoid this is marbim be-simcha, to increase our joy. The people that can know the full darkness of history and yet rejoice is a people whose spirit no power on earth can ever break. Purim sameach. 

Rabbi Lord Jonathan Sacks ZT”L was an international religious leader, and philosopher. The author of over 30 books, Rabbi Sacks received multiple awards in recognition of his work. Sadly, he passed away in November 2020.

MEDICAL REFERRALS & GUIDANCE

CHIEF RABBI ISAK HALEVA, SPIRITUAL LEADER OF TURKEY’S JEWS, PASSES AWAY AT 84

FOR MORE THAN TWO DECADES, CHIEF RABBI ISAK HALEVA WAS THE SPIRITUAL LEADER OF TURKEY’S JEWISH COMMUNITY, GUIDING THEM THROUGH TIMES OF CHALLENGE AND CHANGE. A MAN OF DEEP WISDOM AND QUIET STRENGTH, HE DEDICATED HIS LIFE TO PRESERVING JEWISH TRADITIONS WHILE FOSTERING INTERFAITH UNDERSTANDING. HIS PASSING AT THE AGE OF 84 MARKS THE END OF AN ERA FOR TURKISH JEWRY, LEAVING BEHIND A LEGACY OF LEADERSHIP, SCHOLARSHIP, AND DEVOTION.

Born in 1940, Haleva was the 35th individual to hold the title of Hahambaşi, a position established after the Ottoman conquest of Istanbul in 1453. Raised in Istanbul, he pursued religious studies at the Porat Yosef Yeshiva in Jerusalem before returning to Turkey to serve his community. His knowledge, humility, and ability to connect with people made him a respected figure among both Jews and non-Jews. In 2002, he was appointed chief rabbi, succeeding Chief Rabbi David Asseo, whom he previously served as his deputy for seven years, and remained in this role until his passing.

Throughout his tenure, Haleva worked tirelessly to strengthen the Jewish community while building bridges with Turkish society. Under his leadership, synagogues and communal institutions continued to thrive despite political and social shifts. He advocated for religious freedoms, promoted dialogue with Muslim and Christian leaders, and ensured that Jewish traditions remained central to community life. His presence at official events and his engagement with government figures reinforced the historical ties between Turkish Jews and the nation they called home.

His tenure coincided with significant events, including the 2003 bombings of two Istanbul synagogues by Al-Qaeda, a tragedy that deeply affected the community. Despite these challenges, he maintained warm relationships with both local and visiting dignitaries. Notably, he met with U.S. President Barack Obama in 2009 and Pope Francis in 2014, reflecting his commitment to interfaith dialogue.

Beyond his public role, Haleva was deeply committed to education. He believed that passing down Jewish

knowledge was essential for preserving identity. He taught generations of students, inspiring them with his passion for Torah and Jewish heritage. His words carried weight, not just because of his position but because of his sincerity. His son, Rabbi Naftali Haleva, noted that his father’s personality touched the hearts of all who knew him, leaving an indelible impact on both Jewish and non-Jewish communities.

As Turkey’s Jewish community mourns his passing, they also reflect on the immense impact he had on their lives. His leadership provided stability, his wisdom offered guidance, and his kindness brought comfort. Though he is gone, his teachings and the institutions he nurtured will continue to shape the future. His memory will be a blessing, and his legacy will endure. 

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THE UNFORGIVABLE MURDER OF THE BIBAS FAMILY

NO, WE WILL NOT FORGIVE. AND WE WILL NOT FORGET.

LINDA ARGALGI SADACKA

There are moments when words fail—when language itself is too weak, too inadequate to capture the sheer magnitude of horror. This is one of those moments.

Consider the image: a mother, arms wrapped around her babies—not for herself, not out of fear, but in one final act of protection against the terror closing in. She wasn’t pleading for her own life. She was whispering to her children, soothing them as only a mother can, even as she knew that the monsters had come.

And they came. Let’s be absolutely clear: this was not war. This was not an accident. This was the calculated, premeditated slaughter of Jewish infants. Their only crime? Being Jewish. But the depravity did not stop there. When Hamas returned the bodies, they did so in locked coffins with no keys. The IDF had to force them open, wary of booby traps, because Hamas weaponizes even the dead.

Then came the final twist of cruelty. The woman’s body they returned? It wasn’t even Shiri’s. Forensic experts con-

firmed it—Hamas handed over a random corpse, as if any mutilated woman would suffice, shocking Israel and the world. Hamas chose to taunt, deceive, and desecrate. And how did Gaza respond? They celebrated. They poured into the streets like a parade, rejoicing over coffins. They cheered, danced, and raised their children—not to mourn, not to grieve, but to glorify the slaughter of Jews. The same people who demand “humanitarian aid” turned a funeral into a festival. Twenty-four hours later, they returned her body, claiming it was a simple mix-up.

And the world? The world watched. Oh, and let’s talk about the world. Let’s talk about the people who sip their overpriced oat milk lattes, adjusting their Gucci belts and Dior sunglasses between bites of their avocado toast, smugly convincing themselves they’re on the right side of history. The ones who scream about oppression from the comfort of their West Elm couches while living off trust funds their fathers built in the very system they claim to hate. These are the people who ripped down hostage posters, sneering as they tossed them into garbage bins between SoulCycle classes. The ones who chant “free Palestine” as they post selfies from their iPhones. The ones who sit in Brooklyn cafés, draped in designer brands, while celebrating the assault and murder of Israeli women.

They call themselves “activists.” They call themselves “progressives.” They call themselves moral. But let me tell you exactly what they are. They are frauds. They are accomplices to terror. Just as the world looked away during the Holocaust, they look away now. They look away from the babies burned alive. From the families tortured and executed in front of each other. They look away—or worse, they cheer.

But we will not look away. We will not let these faces disappear into history, reduced to another footnote in the world’s indifference. We will not allow their deaths to be excused as “the price of war” while their murderers are shielded by the lies of victimhood. And we will not be told to forgive. Forgiveness is for those who seek redemption. For those who acknowledge their crimes and beg for atonement. Forgiveness is not for monsters.

It is not for those who butcher Jewish babies and then parade their own infants as trophies. It is not for those who turn funerals into celebrations. It is not for those who hand over a mutilated body and call it justice. It is not for the latte-drinking, Prada-wearing, basement-dwelling “revolu-

tionaries” who actively cheer for Jewish genocide. There can be no coexistence with those who celebrate death. There can be no peace with those who raise their children to revel in slaughter. There can be no mercy for those who have none.

So don’t ask me to temper my words. Don’t ask me to soften my rage in the name of diplomacy. Let’s not forget what happened on October 7. It was not just babies slaughtered in their homes. It was entire families burned alive, young women dragged from their beds and assaulted in the streets, elderly Holocaust survivors abducted from their wheelchairs. It was fathers shot in front of their children, concertgoers massacred in the hundreds, and human beings hunted down, executed, and desecrated—just for being Jews. This was the largest massacre of Jews since the Holocaust.

The world may want to forget. But WE will not. Because they did not get to wake up today. They will never see tomorrow. And that is an injustice so profound, so unforgivable, that it demands more than grief. It demands action. It demands vengeance. The world can wring its hands and issue its platitudes. But the only language these monsters understand is the one spoken through fire and iron. And that is exactly what they should receive.

No, we will not forget. And no, we will never, ever forgive.

In the face of such profound loss, we hold onto hope. We pray for the safe return of all those still missing. May they come back to us alive, and may their families find solace in their reunion. 

Linda Argalgi Sadacka is a writer, political strategist, community organizer, and Jewish activist dedicated to combating antisemitism. A delegate for the ZOA in the WZO elections, she works to protect Jewish interests worldwide. Known for her impactful advocacy, media presence, and writing, she actively mobilizes communities and fights for Israel. Follow her on Instagram: @LindaAdvocate

RANDI’S CARE

WHERE EVERY SENIOR MATTERS

THERE IS NOTHING IN THE WORLD—LET ALONE IN OUR COMMUNITY—LIKE RANDI’S CARE. FOUNDED BY THE COMPASSIONATE AND VISIONARY RANDI TAMIR, THIS HEARTFELT INITIATIVE IS DEDICATED TO ENRICHING THE LIVES OF OUR SENIORS, OUR LOVED ONES. MORE THAN JUST PROVIDING BASIC CARE, RANDI’S MISSION IS TO MAKE DREAMS COME TRUE. SHE GOES BEYOND TRADITIONAL CAREGIVING, UNDERSTANDING EACH INDIVIDUAL’S UNIQUE NEEDS AND INFUSING THEIR DAYS WITH JOY, PURPOSE, AND EXCITEMENT.

For many seniors, life can become monotonous—days spent in front of a television, accompanied solely by an aide. But Randi changes everything. She immerses seniors in engaging activities, from spirited games to dancing to lively music, reigniting the childlike wonder that time has dulled. Her presence brings energy and happiness into homes, lifting spirits and transforming routines.

Randi acts as an extension of the family, stepping in

when loved ones, despite their best intentions, struggle to provide the level of care and attention their seniors truly deserve. She challenges them to dream again, taking them on outings to Broadway shows, shopping malls, and movie theaters. She doesn’t just care for seniors; she revives them, bringing light and laughter back into their lives. Her impact extends beyond the seniors—she revitalizes entire households, inspiring caregivers and aides to bring renewed enthusiasm to their roles.

Like a superhero, Randi arrives just in time to uplift spirits and transform moods. Now, by transitioning her initiative into a nonprofit, she aims to train a team to carry forward her mission, ensuring that every senior can experience the warmth, care, and excitement she brings.

Each visit begins with Randi arriving with a bag of games and a speaker playing Frank Sinatra, Arabic classics, or nostalgic hits from the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s. Music, she believes, sets the tone, evoking memories and emotions that bring seniors back to life. She works closely with aides to ensure seniors receive the attention they deserve, and when a senior is hospitalized without support, she steps in—bathing them, giving manicures and pedicures, and applying makeup. For those who have aides, she joins in, adding fun and warmth to their care.

Randi’s essence is carnival fun—she brings a carnival to someone’s house. It’s all wrapped up in a whirlwind of excitement: painting projects, card games, hysterical fun, and multiple activities tailored for each person. She sets up games and fun stations—golf, spike ball, basketballs, oversized LEGOs, bowling matches, and more. Even those who struggle to move find themselves standing with support, laughing and playing. She creates whimsical playhouses, brings the joy of outdoor fun, and organizes lively bingo matches.

Randi’s infectious joy creates moments of magic— people who haven’t smiled in years light up with happiness. She transforms an ordinary day into an extraordinary celebration. It’s not just an activity—it’s a carnival of love and laughter right at home.

Randi calls her favorite day Sunday Funday—because why shouldn’t our seniors get to have fun too? Each Sunday, she brings extra energy, more games, and even more laughter, making it a day filled with joy and connection. She believes that every senior deserves to experience the excitement and joy that weekends bring.

More than just a service, Randi’s Care is a movement— a call to ensure that our seniors are never forgotten. They are the pillars of our families and communities, and they deserve to be cherished. Randi will not let us forget them. Whether by donating Shabbat meals, offering companionship, or simply showing up with a listening ear, she ensures that no senior feels abandoned. She is the person to call— the one who will be there when it matters most.

THE FUTURE OF RANDI’S CARE: EXPANDING JOY AND SUPPORT

With this nonprofit initiative, Randi is removing financial barriers to care, ensuring that every senior, regardless of their financial situation, has access to dignity and joy. Through community donations and fundraising, her organization will provide essential services such as:

• Personal Care Assistance – Helping seniors with bathing, grooming, and hygiene, ensuring they feel their best.

• Companionship and Stimulation – Engaging them in music, games, and chair exercises to keep both their minds and bodies active.

• Special Outings and Celebrations – Taking seniors on meaningful trips, whether to a favorite store, a Broadway show, or simply a scenic walk.

• Medical and Emotional Support – Escorting seniors to appointments, offering comfort in difficult times, and ensuring they always have someone by their side.

Randi’s work has already transformed countless lives in hospitals, nursing homes, and private residences. Now, with the structure of a nonprofit, she can reach even more people who need her unique brand of care and love.

HOW YOU CAN HELP

If you’d like to support Randi’s mission, there are several ways to make a difference:

• Make a Donation – Every contribution helps bring joy and care to seniors in need.

• Volunteer Your Time – Whether visiting seniors, assisting at events, or simply offering companionship, every effort counts.

• Spread the Word – Share Randi’s mission with those who may need her services or want to support her cause.

Through her nonprofit, Randi Tamir is ensuring that no senior is forgotten. With kindness, dignity, and a deep commitment to joy, she is revolutionizing senior care, one smile at a time. For more information on how to support Randi’s Care, call Randi Levy 917-353-9674. 

IS YOUR RETIREMENT SAVINGS PLAN ON TRACK?

ARI BAUM, CFP®

RETIREMENT IS THE DREAM, ISN’T IT? A TIME TO LEAVE BEHIND THE DAILY GRIND, TRAVEL, RELAX, & SPEND MORE TIME WITH LOVED ONES. BUT THE PATH TO THAT DREAM CAN FEEL UNCERTAIN, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT COMES TO SAVING ENOUGH TO FUND THE LIFESTYLE YOU’VE WORKED SO HARD TO ACHIEVE. IT’S A CONCERN SHARED BY MANY—WHAT IF YOUR SAVINGS FALL SHORT, OR WORSE, RUN OUT BEFORE YOU’RE READY?

For many Americans, the figure of $1.5 million is seen as a benchmark for a comfortable retirement. But is that number right for everyone? Probably not. Your unique circumstances, from career choices to personal goals, shape what you truly need for your retirement years. The key to building confidence in your retirement plan is to understand where you stand today and where you want to be. Our team recommends starting with savings milestones based on your age.

By Age 30: Aim to have saved the equivalent of your annual salary. Starting early allows you to take full advantage of compound growth.

By Age 40: Try to have three times your salary saved. Balancing growing expenses while maintaining steady contributions is key at this stage.

By Age 50: Work toward saving six times your salary. This is a good time to focus on reducing debt and maximizing retirement contributions.

By Age 60: Aim for eight times your salary. Start thinking about your retirement timeline and whether working part-time might fit into your plans.

By Age 67: Ideally, you’ll have 10 times your annual salary saved if you’re planning to retire around Social Security’s full retirement age. For example, a $100,000 annual salary would mean a goal of $1 million.

These guidelines are not rigid rules but serve as helpful benchmarks. After all, everyone’s journey is different, and your savings trajectory will depend on factors like when you started saving, your income growth, and how your priorities evolve.

Beyond the numbers, the lifestyle you envision for retirement plays a major role in determining how much you’ll need. Do you dream of traveling the globe, or are you planning to downsize and simplify? These choices shape your financial goals as much as any milestone. For instance, retiring in a high-cost city may require a much larger nest egg than settling into a quieter, low-cost town. If international travel is in your future, budgeting for it in advance can ensure those dreams don’t stretch your finances too thin.

Another critical piece of the puzzle is timing. When you choose to retire has a direct impact on how much you need to save. Retiring earlier means you’ll need your savings to

last longer, particularly if there’s a gap between leaving the workforce and the age you qualify for Social Security or pension benefits.

Of course, retirement planning isn’t just about the big picture; it’s also about the small, steady steps you take along the way. The earlier you start saving, the more powerful the effect of compound interest becomes, allowing your money to grow exponentially over time. Even small contributions in your 20s and 30s can make a huge difference by the time you’re ready to retire. If your employer offers a retirement plan with matching contributions, make it a priority to contribute enough to get the full match—it’s essentially free money for your future.

When you finally retire, your income will likely come from a mix of Social Security benefits, pensions, and personal savings. Knowing how much you can rely on each source and comparing it to your projected expenses will help you identify any gaps. If those gaps exist, creating a plan to close them—whether by adjusting your savings rate or considering part-time work in retirement—can provide peace of mind.

Retirement planning is not about chasing an arbitrary number; it’s about creating a roadmap for the life you want. The sooner you start asking questions and seeking clarity, the better prepared you’ll be to make informed decisions about your future. And while the process may

seem overwhelming at times, you don’t have to go it alone. Working with a financial professional can help you clarify your goals, navigate the complexities of planning, and develop a personalized strategy that makes your dream retirement a reality.

The best time to start planning for retirement is yesterday, but the second-best time is today. Taking even small steps now can bring you closer to the retirement you deserve—a future that’s not just financially secure, but one where you can truly thrive. 

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A NIGHT OF RESILIENCE AND FAITH:

YANIV

BEN

HAIM SHARES HIS STORY OF OCTOBER 7 AT DSN BEACH CLUB

ON THE EVENING OF FEBRUARY 5, THE DSN BEACH CLUB PLAYED HOST TO ANOTHER UNFORGETTABLE EVENT—ONE THAT TRANSCENDED MERE STORYTELLING AND BECAME A TESTAMENT TO THE RESILIENCE OF THE HUMAN SPIRIT. YANIV BEN HAIM, A 24-YEAR-OLD SURVIVOR OF THE HARROWING OCTOBER 7 ATTACK AT THE NOVA FESTIVAL, STOOD BEFORE A RAPT AUDIENCE, SHARING HIS HARROWING JOURNEY OF SURVIVAL, FAITH, AND PERSEVERANCE.

This event was a product of remarkable collaboration, with DSN joining forces with the SCC, SCA, Chabad of the Shore, and Congregation Brothers of Israel to bring Yaniv from Israel to share his testimony. Moderated by DSN Executive Board Member Steven Kassin, the evening was a profound reflection on the darkest of times and the light that emerges from within.

Yaniv recounted his experience at the NOVA music festival, where he and his friends were caught in an unimaginable nightmare. With gripping detail and the support of a compelling PowerPoint presentation, he spoke of the many close encounters he had with death, the atrocities he witnessed, and the friends he tragically lost. Yet, amid the horror, there was an unexpected savior—an Arab man whom Yaniv now calls his “angel.” This story reaffirmed the complexity of humanity and the power of compassion in the face of hate.

“In the darkest moments, when fear took over, I realized I had two choices—give in to despair or hold onto faith—faith in myself and in G-d,” Yaniv shared, his words resonating deeply with those in attendance. His journey of escape, the lessons he has embraced since that day, and his unwavering belief in miracles served as a beacon of hope and inspiration.

The evening was made even more poignant by the presence of Yaniv’s family and mother in the audience, as she had flown in from Israel to hear her son share his story in this public setting. His cousin translated for him, adding an intimate and deeply emotional dimension to the night. DSN Member Mordi Kameo, whose wife is Yaniv’s cousin, stated that “Listening to Yaniv’s story left tears in the room- but happy and grateful tears. Tears of gratitude that Hashem protected him each step he took that day October 7. Hashem brought him back alive after being at the Nova festival, and now it was beautiful to have him share his story with all of us”.

Left to right: Chabad Chazan Shalom Jacobs, Yaniv Ben Haim & his Mother

Adding to the evening’s impact was the heartfelt participation of Chabad’s Rabbi Yaakov Greenberg and Chazan Shalom Jacobs, whose soul-stirring rendition of Mi Sheberach left the audience in solemn reverence. The room was thick with emotion, a collective moment of prayer and unity that underscored the event’s significance. Jacobs said, “It was an honor to spend the evening with another true hero. Standing in front of those who have literally put their lives on the front lines- for our people and our country- not just on October 7, but every day, was an indescribable experience. Singing in everyone’s presence gave each song a deeper, more powerful meaning, filled with gratitude, strength and resilience. Their bravery and sacrifice are beyond words, and it was a privilege to share this moment with them”.

The night was more than an opportunity to hear a survivor’s story; it was a moment of communal strength, remembrance, and reaffirmation of faith. Steven Kassin noted that the “DSN Beach Club continues to be a space where stories are honored, connections are deepened, and resilience is celebrated and I was deeply humbled to have been a part of it”. 

Left to right: Steven Kassin, Yaniv Ben Haim, Translator, Rabbie Greenberg and Shalom Jacobs

Left to right: Translator and Yaniv Ben Haim

THE RIPPLE EFFECT OF KINDNESS

HOW RABBI GROSSMAN TRANSFORMED LIVES AND INSPIRED A MOVEMENT

ELIAV RONAN

EVER FEEL LIKE THE WORLD’S A BIT OF A MESS? IT’S EASY TO GET OVERWHELMED AND THINK, “WHAT CAN I POSSIBLY DO?” BUT HERE’S THE THING: HISTORY IS PACKED WITH STORIES OF ORDINARY PEOPLE WHO DID EXTRAORDINARY THINGS, SIMPLY BY DECIDING TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE. RABBI YITZCHAK DOVID GROSSMAN IS ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE – A REAL-LIFE EXAMPLE OF HOW ONE ACT OF KINDNESS CAN CREATE A RIPPLE EFFECT THAT CHANGES THE WORLD.

In 1967, Israel celebrated its victory in the Six-Day War. But amidst the jubilation, a young Rabbi Grossman saw a different battle being waged – a silent war on the streets, where a generation of Israeli youth was succumbing to crime, drugs, and despair. He saw children losing their fight for survival, and he knew he couldn’t stand idly by.

He heard whispers of Migdal HaEmek, a town riddled with poverty, crime, and abandoned youth. It was a place where hope had seemingly vanished, a place no rabbi

dared to go. But at just 23 years old, Rabbi Grossman made a promise: he would dedicate one year to these forgotten children.

That single year became a lifetime. The pain, the struggles, the desperate longing for love and acceptance he witnessed in these children resonated deep within him. He couldn’t walk away. He ventured into the darkness, into the nightclubs and the haunts of gang members, not to judge, but to understand. He listened. He embraced. He brought light where only shadows existed.

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Through unwavering warmth, boundless love, and an unwavering belief in their potential, Rabbi Grossman achieved the impossible. He transformed criminals into scholars, orphans into leaders, and broken children into builders of the future. He defied the naysayers and proved that even in the most desolate corners, hope can flourish.

Rabbi Grossman’s work embodies the very essence of the Torah’s command to care for the vulnerable. It’s not merely a suggestion, but a divine imperative: “You shall not pervert the justice due to the stranger or the orphan.” (Deuteronomy 24:17) “He upholds the cause of the orphan and the widow, and He loves the stranger, giving him food and clothing.” (Deuteronomy 10:18) These verses weren’t just words on a page for Rabbi Grossman; they were a call to action. He saw them as a mission, a responsibility he embraced with his entire being.

The impact of his dedication is immeasurable. Yossi, a hardened gang leader, found redemption and is now a Torah scholar guiding others. David, once homeless and

hopeless, now serves as an IDF officer, protecting the very country he felt had abandoned him. Tamar, an orphan left to navigate the world alone, now empowers other orphans as a social worker. These are just a few examples of the thousands of lives touched by one man’s unwavering commitment.

Rabbi Grossman’s story challenges us: If one person can achieve such profound change, what’s stopping us from changing even one life? We often wait for grand gestures, for sweeping reforms initiated from the top down. But true change begins at the grassroots level, with individuals who choose to care. We don’t need to be Rabbi Grossman to make a difference. We don’t need to build institutions or rescue thousands. We simply need to take responsibility. This means finding that struggling student and offering a word of encouragement. It means checking in on a lonely neighbor. It means volunteering our time, donating to causes we believe in, and uplifting those around us. It means choosing to believe in someone who has lost faith

in themselves. Because the truth is, there’s a Yossi, a David, or a Tamar in every community, waiting for someone to see them, to believe in them, to remind them that they matter. They’re waiting for us.

Rabbi Grossman didn’t wait for the world to change; he changed the world. And the question we must ask ourselves is: Will we? We don’t need to perform extraordinary feats. We just need to start with one. One act of kindness. One child in need of guidance. One family requiring support. One neighbor longing for connection. When we step up, when we rise above our own concerns, we ignite a chain reaction of goodness that reverberates far beyond our own lives. As Maimonides, the Rambam, so eloquently stated: “There is no greater or more glorious joy than bringing happiness to the poor, to orphans, widows, and strangers. One who brings them joy is likened to the Divine Presence itself.” (Mishneh Torah, Hilchot Megillah 2:17)

Rabbi Grossman’s legacy is not just about the thousands of lives he touched, but about the ripple effect he created, inspiring countless others to follow his example. Let us be part of that ripple. Let us be the change we wish to see in the world. The power is within each and every one of us. Go out and ignite your spark. Find your “one.” And together, let us illuminate the world, one life at a time. 

Ronan is a writer, speaker, and NYU-certified life and business coach specializing in personal growth, resilience, and purpose through Jewish wisdom and psychology. For 18 years, he has guided individuals toward fulfillment, sharing insights through his writing on Substack and other platforms. His forthcoming book, An Elevated Mindset: A Journey Through Life, explores faith, self-awareness, and resilience, accompanied by a website and podcast. Ronan speaks to diverse audiences, from students to professionals, on mindset, leadership, and personal growth. He lives with his wife and two children, splitting his time between Israel, South Jersey, and Florida.

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MAGEN DAVID YESHIVAH STUDENTS

RAISE OVER $157,000 FOR CHAI LIFELINE

Magen David Yeshivah (MDY) students showcased their commitment to kindness by raising an impressive, record-breaking $157,703.01 for Chai Lifeline—the highest amount MDY has ever raised for this cause. Representatives from Chai Lifeline visited MDY to distribute prizes to the top fundraisers, recognizing their dedication to this meaningful cause.

As part of the celebration, Rabbi Simcha Scholar from Chai Lifeline visited MDY and presented a giant check showcasing the incredible amount raised. His presence further emphasized the impact of the student’s efforts and the significance of their contribution to the organization.

First, we would like to thank Rabbi Finkelstein! Without his help promoting and showcasing what it means to give, we wouldn’t have been able to raise as much as we had. We would also like to thank our top 10 fundraisers, who raised a combined total of $63,012.

TOP FUNDRAISERS

• Harry Adelman – $22,625.00

• Ikey Cayre – $10,429.00

• Steven Sherr and Henri Saide – $9,219.00

• Joey and Jesse Jemal – $5,603.00

• Ben Hoffman – $3,500.00

• Mylo Beyda – $2,698.00

• Chloe Cohen – $2,479.00

• Steven Shalom – $2,343.00

• Fortune Kabariti – $2,108.00

• Ikey Sutton and Stevie Doueck – $2,008.00

Their selflessness played a crucial role in supporting Chai Lifeline’s mission.

“Every dollar raised goes directly to Chai Lifeline’s vital programs, it will support Camp Simcha Without Borders, an initiative that brings the joy of summer camp to children with serious illnesses. This program provides day camps and events in locations across the U.S. and beyond, allowing Chai Lifeline clients and their siblings to experience the fun of camp closer to home. Since 2020, over 1,200 children have participated in programs across cities like Baltimore, Miami, Los Angeles, and Monsey.

A COMMUNITY EFFORT

All of this generosity couldn’t have been done without the community effort to help this wonderful cause. Our partnership with you is a testament to the values of kindness and compassion, inspiring future generations to make a difference. We thank each and every one of you who donated and made a difference in the lives of our children and the children abroad. 

U.S. GRANTS MINORITY STATUS TO JEWISH-OWNED BUSINESSES, EXPANDING ECONOMIC OPPORTUNITIES

IN A HISTORIC MOVE, THE U.S. DEPARTMENT OF COMMERCE HAS OFFICIALLY RECOGNIZED JEWISHOWNED BUSINESSES AS MINORITY BUSINESS ENTERPRISES (MBE), GRANTING THEM ACCESS TO BILLIONS OF DOLLARS IN FEDERAL PROGRAMS, CONTRACTS, LOANS, AND GRANTS. THIS DECISION WAS FORMALIZED THROUGH A MEMORANDUM OF UNDERSTANDING (MOU) BETWEEN THE ORTHODOX JEWISH CHAMBER OF COMMERCE (OJCC) AND THE MINORITY BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT AGENCY (MBDA), MARKING A SIGNIFICANT STEP TOWARD ECONOMIC INCLUSIVITY FOR JEWISH ENTREPRENEURS ACROSS THE UNITED STATES. FOR THE FIRST TIME, JEWISH BUSINESS OWNERS WILL BE ELIGIBLE FOR FEDERAL MINORITY BUSINESS PROGRAMS, PROVIDING NEW OPPORTUNITIES FOR GROWTH AND FINANCIAL STABILITY.

Since its establishment in 1969, the MBDA has provided extensive support to minority groups such as Hispanics, who make up 19% of the U.S. population, and African Americans at 15%, but Jewish entrepreneurs, despite comprising approximately 2.4% of the population, had previously been excluded. The MOU, signed on January 13, 2025, is the result of more than 15 months of advocacy. It introduces a new certification process for MBEs, ensuring Jewish businesses can qualify without explicitly listing their minority background. Verification will occur during the certification process, though the exact method is still being finalized.

Jewish business leaders have praised the decision as a game-changer. Duvi Honig, Founder and CEO of the OJCC, emphasized its broad impact, stating, “Every single Jewish business is going to benefit from this. We are officially a partner with the United States Department of Commerce and the government.” He highlighted that this initiative will provide Jewish business owners access to hundreds of federal programs, mentorship opportunities, and financial resources previously unavailable to them.

The recognition is expected to significantly benefit industries where Jewish entrepreneurs play a key role,

including real estate, finance, healthcare, law, and technology. Minority business certification also gives businesses a competitive advantage when bidding for state and federal contracts. New Jersey State Senator Robert Singer pointed out that many Orthodox Jews pursue business rather than academia, making access to state and federal funding critical to their success. He believes this will encourage young Jewish entrepreneurs to remain in New Jersey, establish businesses, and qualify for funding.

Beyond financial opportunities, the MOU strengthens partnerships between Jewish businesses and government agencies. The MBDA and OJCC have committed to expanding Jewish entrepreneurs’ participation in government-sponsored workshops, conferences, and educational outreach programs, helping them integrate into the broader business community. Acting Under Secretary of Commerce for Minority Business Development Eric Morrissette emphasized the importance of this collaboration, stating, “The MBDA is excited to work with the Orthodox Jewish community to help break down barriers and expand opportunities for Jewish entrepreneurs.

The OJCC played a pivotal role in securing this recognition, advocating for Jewish business inclusion at both

federal and state levels. Honig credited Graves, Morrissette, and MBDA Director Joann Hill for their efforts in advancing the initiative and fostering stronger ties between the MBDA and Jewish business communities. The designation also has the potential to strengthen Jewish business engagement in global markets. The MBDA has long worked to expand the international reach of minority businesses, and Jewish businesses will now be included in these initiatives, enhancing their access to global trade and international partnerships.

This agreement marks a turning point for Jewish-owned businesses in the United States, providing them with the

resources needed to flourish. The MBDA’s expanded outreach ensures that Jewish businesses will not only benefit from financial support but also from a broader network of government and private-sector opportunities. The next step in implementation involves finalizing the certification process, ensuring fair and efficient verification procedures that will allow eligible Jewish businesses to fully participate in MBE programs. As Jewish entrepreneurs begin accessing these new opportunities, this historic decision is likely to have a lasting impact, paving the way for a more inclusive and supportive business landscape. 

(From left) Duvi Honig, founder and CEO of the Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce; Don Graves, deputy U.S. commerce secretary; and Eric Morrissette, deputy U.S. undersecretary of commerce for minority business development at the signing of a memorandum of understanding in Washington on Jan. 13, 2025. (Photo: U.S. Commerce Department.)

The Sweetest Success

How Three Young Bakers Turned Their Passion into a Trip of a Lifetime

What started as a fun after-school activity quickly turned into a full-blown baking business for Shterna, Ava, and Norma—three Class Four girls with big dreams and even bigger hearts. It all began in November when they nervously stepped into the kitchen, unsure if they could pull off something as ambitious as Atidaynu Sweets. After all, baking isn’t just about mixing flour and sugar, it’s about teamwork, patience, and a whole lot of love (and maybe a little powdered sugar on your nose).

At first, the trio fumbled with measurements, cracked eggs a little too enthusiastically, and wondered if their frosting skills would ever live up to their vision. But week after week, they kept at it, whisking, rolling, and perfecting their craft. What once felt intimidating became second nature as they kneaded dough and friendships at the same time. It turns out that baking is a lot like life, the more love and effort you put in, the sweeter the outcome.

Before they knew it, they weren’t just bakers— they were businesswomen. Each week, they carefully planned their shopping trips, learned the art of budgeting, and made sure they had all the right ingredients before heading back to whip up something delicious. And of course, the best part? Delivering their baked goods every Thursday, watching their customers’ faces light up with pure joy.

But this wasn’t just about baking; it was about building something together, supporting each other, and proving that hard work really does pay off. And now, after months of dedication (and more than a few taste tests), these incredible young entrepreneurs are using their hardearned money to take a well-deserved trip to Miami to visit the creator of Atidaynu! It’s a full-circle moment that none of them could have imagined when they first picked up a rolling pin.

Of course, none of this would have been possible without the love and support of Atidaynu, which gave them this incredible opportunity, and especially Mrs. Miriam Yusupov, who has been there every step of the way, guiding them, encouraging them, and turning their kitchen experiments into real-deal masterpieces. We truly knead people like her in our lives!

For anyone who has been following along on Instagram at @Atidaynu. Sweets, you know that this page is more than just a feed—it’s a pink, frostingcovered hub of love, laughter, and the kind of

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treats that make life a little bit sweeter. It’s where you can order our weekly specials and keep up with the girls as they continue to bake their way to success.

From hesitant beginners to confident bakers, from classmates to best friends, from an after-school activity to a trip of a lifetime—this is just the beginning for Shterna, Ava, and Norma. They mixed, they whisked, they conquered. And now? Miami, here they come!

MDY CELEBRATES WORLD READ ALOUD DAY WITH D.E.A.R.

AT MAGEN DAVID YESHIVAH, STUDENTS WERE ENCOURAGED TO DROP EVERYTHING AND READ (D.E.A.R.) IN CELEBRATION OF WORLD READ ALOUD DAY—A GLOBAL EVENT DESIGNED TO HIGHLIGHT THE JOY AND IMPORTANCE OF READING. THE INITIATIVE SERVED AS A POWERFUL REMINDER FOR STUDENTS OF ALL AGES TO PRIORITIZE READING AND APPRECIATE THE IMPACT OF STORYTELLING.

For 30 minutes, students in grades K-5 paused their regular schedules, as 37 faculty members from multiple divisions read stories to the classes. By showcasing the importance of reading through example, these faculty members helped reinforce the significance of literacy in a meaningful and memorable way. The event not only emphasized literacy but also fostered a sense of excitement and enthusiasm for reading.

The teachers, administrators, security team, and all others who participated in this event brought their stories to life through animated readings and discussions. These shared reading moments helped students develop a deeper connection with books while reinforcing the importance of literacy as a lifelong skill.

Reading aloud has been proven to improve comprehension, fluency, and vocabulary, making events like World Read Aloud Day an essential part of fostering a love for literature. By hearing expressive readings, students were able to engage more deeply with the material and develop a greater appreciation for storytelling. Additionally, the pres-

ence of faculty members from various divisions emphasized the communal value of reading and showed students that literacy is a lifelong skill valued across all academic and professional fields.

Beyond the immediate joy of reading, the event also

encouraged students to see books as windows to different worlds, ideas, and experiences. By immersing themselves in different stories, they had the opportunity to expand their imaginations, improve critical thinking skills, and gain insights into cultures and perspectives beyond their own.

By participating in D.E.A.R., Magen David Yeshivah students embraced the joy of storytelling, strengthened their reading skills, and celebrated the power of words. This event served as a meaningful reminder that books have the ability to inspire, educate, and bring people together.

As the students closed their books at the end of the day, they carried with them a renewed love for reading—a passion that will continue to grow well beyond World Read Aloud Day and into their everyday lives, shaping them into lifelong readers and learners. 

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MICHELINE CARACOCLY GROWING UP IN HAITI

HAITI WAS THE MAGICAL ISLAND, FULL OF PALM TREES AND LUSH FLORA, WHERE MICHELINE CARACOCLY NEE CHREM, GREW UP. THE YOUNGEST OF FIVE CHILDREN BORN TO ANTOINE AND SALHA CHREM (NEE SAFDIEH), EGYPTIAN JEWS, MICHELINE HAS FOND MEMORIES OF LIFE IN HAITI.

Sephardic Jewish families have been in Haiti since the 1492, when Luis De Torres, an interpreter for Christopher Columbus, settled there. Haiti was colonized by the French in 1633 and Dutch Jews from Brazil, who were employees of sugar plantations, emigrated to Haiti. A few years ago, archaeologists uncovered an ancient synagogue of Crypto-Jews in the city of Jérémie, the only one found on the island

At the end of the 19th century, approximately 30 mostly Sephardi Jewish families had arrived from Lebanon, Syria, and Egypt; many Jews from the Middle East felt secure emigrating to Haiti, as a law in France had been passed during this period that gave French citizenship to minorities in the Americas. Antoine Chrem was among those who arrived in Haiti during this period.

From 1915 to 1934, the United States occupied Haiti to stabilize its political and financial interests. During that time, many Syrian Jewish families settled there including the Ades, Suttons, Danas, Dayans, Bijous, Bigios, Silveras, Ashkenazies and Shaloms. Gilbert Bigio has been the unofficial leader of the Sephardic community in Haiti. Bigio owns the only Torah in all of Haiti. He serves as Israel’s Honorary Consul to Haiti. Gilbert Bjgio’s uncle went to Haiti in 1896 and his father followed during World War I, when he was escaping the Ottoman Empire and conscription in the Army.

Antoine Chrem had a good business selling textiles. In those days, people bought the fabric and took it to a tailor to make their clothing. Jews generally preferred to settle on the coastline in port cities, as many were involved in commerce and trade, establishing communities in major industry centers.

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Antoine’s mother wanted him to marry a Jewish woman so she went to Egypt and found Salha, age 16. Salha had lost mother her as a young child and was working. Antoine’s mother convinced her to marry Antoine and told her she was going to America. Salha was enticed by going to American and insisted on bringing her younger brother. Once in Haiti, Salha was disappointed as she thought she was going to America.

Antoine and Salha married in 1923 in Haiti and had five children–Isaac, Esther, Molly, Albert, Micheline. They lived in Porto Prince. Micheline remembers a very large home with many servants who cooked, did gardening and other chores.

“There were no Jewish schools or synagogues,” she said. “So the Jewish children attended the public schools, which were all Catholic. The nuns used to kneel and make the cross. At one point, my older brother was doing it and when my mother found out, she took him out of school. They wanted him to be a priest. There was a lot of non-

Rose Dana, Micheline, Esther and Molly Chrem

Raymond Dana and Micheline, cousins

Jewish influence. That’s why people sent their daughters to Brooklyn, to get married.”

Although there was no official Jewish sector in Haiti, the Sephardic Jews settled in neighborhoods surrounding Portau-Prince. Unlike the Jewish communities of Curacao and Suriname, the Jews of Haiti had no synagogue, no rabbi, no schools, and no community center of their own.

Since there was no rabbi or center of Jewish life on the Island even the Jewish ritual of circumcision had to wait until a mohel was brought in from the United States. The ritual might be delayed for years. For example, Elie Abady did not receive a bris until the age of two.

On holidays, local Jews got together in the Bigio home, which was large enough to accommodate services. The community would bring a rabbi to the island for the holidays. On Passover, they brought matza and whatever else they needed was shipped in. If someone had a boy, they had to wait for a mohel to come to do the bris.

“We kept the religion. My mother koshered the beef herself. We kept Shabbat and all the customs,” said Micheline. “She did a fantastic job to make sure we kept our religion and heritage.” Micheline’s best friend was Irene Bigio. Irene came to Brooklyn a few years after Micheline.

“I was 11 when I came to Brooklyn in 1954. I stayed with my older sisters in Bensonhurst and went to Seth Low JHS and Lafayette HS. My sisters were working in the city. A neighbor took me to school and picked me up. I learned English from watching TV and from school. It was a big adjustment. I had an Italian friend, Maria from Italy.”

Isaac Caracocly left Egypt with his brother Albert during the time of Nassar, when Jews were expelled. He attended Mirrer Yeshiva on Ocean Parkway.

The wedding of Micheline and Isaac Caracoly on Nov 25, 1962

Micheline married Isaac, also from Cairo, on Nov 25, 1962. Married 62 years, they have three daughters, Ninette a”h, Sharon and Jacqueline. She worked with her husband in the jewelry business, selling women’s accessories and handbags. Micheline enjoys spending a few weeks in Florida each winter with her family, especially her grandchildren and great grandchildren. 

A genealogist and historian, Sarina Roffé is the author of Branching Out from Sepharad (Sephardic Heritage Project, 2017). She is researching a new book: Syria - Paths to Freedom. Sarina holds a BA in Journalism, and MA in Jewish Studies and an MBA.

Micheline and Isaac Caracocly

PURIM TEACHES US HOW TO RESPOND TO ANTI-SEMITISM

BOND IN UNITY AND STAND UP AS PROUD JEWS

SLOVIE JUNGREIS-WOLFF

AS ANTI-SEMITIC INCIDENTS RISE AT AN ALARMING RATE, I AM LISTENING CAREFULLY TO THE MESSAGE OF PURIM. THE JEWISH PEOPLE WERE FRIGHTENED, FACED WITH THREAT OF ANNIHILATION. HAMAN’S HATRED HUNG OVER THE NATION LIKE A DARK CLOUD. KING ACHASHVEROSH TOLD HAMAN “TO DO WITH AS YOU SEE FIT.” LETTERS WERE SENT WITH PERMISSION TO “DESTROY, TO SLAY, AND TO EXTERMINATE ALL THE JEWS, FROM YOUNG TO OLD, CHILDREN AND WOMEN…” IN SUCH DIRE CIRCUMSTANCES WHO COULD KEEP HOPE ALIVE?

My mother, Rebbetzin Esther Jungreis, of blessed memory, described being deported from her home in Szeged, Hungary. She was a little girl when the Nazis awakened her from her sleep. My grandparents were given just a few moments to get ready and then they were thrown into the night. German shepherd dogs were barking. There was shouting and screaming. Terrified, my mother stood in the street holding

in her arms her favorite doll for dear life, the only thing she was able to take with her.

My mother noticed her friend, Marta, the daughter of the non-Jewish caretaker of the synagogue. The two girls had always played together. Marta was standing there with her father. She approached my mother and for a moment my mother thought that at least this little friend was coming to say goodbye.

As Marta came close, she grabbed the doll. My mother began to cry. “This doll is mine! Give me back my doll!” “My father said I could take whatever I want. You can’t keep anything.” Father and daughter looked at her, laughing. Then Marta’s father sneered, “You are a dirty Jew. And you need to learn the facts of life. Where you are going you won’t need any toys.” He spat on the ground. “But you don’t have to worry,” he added. “Marta will take care of all your things.” My mother was deported to Bergen-Belsen.

How many times was the world ready to bid farewell to the Jews? How often have they vowed to throw us into the sea, to terrorize us, delegitimize our very breath and destroy our children?

My mother’s transport was halted in Linz. They were loaded off the cattle cars. Heads were shaved. Amidst the sobbing, my mother found herself herded into a shower. They later realized this was also a gas chamber. My mother felt as if life had come to an end. She no longer felt as if she was a human being. She could not bear to glance at her beautiful mother who was shorn of all her grace and dignity. At that moment of suffocating darkness, something incredible occurred.

My mother put her hand into her pocket and discovered a crumpled piece of paper inside. She pulled it out and carefully unfolded its fragile ends. It was a page from a prayer book. My grandfather had secretly placed the holy paper inside as a message to his little girl. The words of the Shema filled my mother’s heart with hope. The message was clear: No matter what happens, no matter where life takes you, know that you never walk alone. My dear child you are part of the Jewish people. G-d is watching over you; never lose your faith.

There are times we search for G-d’s hand and feel despair. We long for clear vision. We cannot understand what is happening. It feels as if the presence of G-d is concealed. But we must know that beneath all the confusion there is a Divine plan. G-d is guiding us. We will survive.

This is the message of Purim. It is Queen Esther, herself, who calls out to us until today. Esther is alluded to in the Torah with the Hebrew expression “hastir astir”- I, G-d, will hide My face. There are times of darkness when we feel that G-d’s face is hidden. In the Book of Esther, G-d’s name does not appear. We may not always see or be cognizant of G-d’s hand in our life, but we need to know that His presence is guiding us, to pierce the veil of nature and search for the light behind the clouds.

That terrible night when my mother was woken from her bed and cast off for deportation, Marta and her father likely believed that they were done with the Jews. The Nazis could never have fathomed that one day the Jewish people would walk through the streets of Jerusalem and wash the stones of the Western Wall with our tears.

That page of the Shema sustained not only my mother, but an entire generation of Jews. We cannot afford to give up on ourselves. Let us never give up hope. Instead, let us embrace the words of Queen Esther in times of trouble, Queen Esther told us what we must do. She asked that we bond in unity, stop hurting one another, and join together in prayer. This is the time to strengthen your Jewish pride.

As we contemplate the rising anti-Semitism that is spreading throughout the world, the hatred of the BDS movement and the threats to our land, we must take a moment to think. We have faced cruel enemies before. We have suffered through pogroms, inquisitions, crusades, Holocaust and murderous terror attacks. But we are still here, continuing to tell our unique story.

Let us never give up hope. Instead, let us embrace the words of Queen Esther: “Go, gather all the Jews.” Become one. Reach out to someone with kindness. Make a difference in the life of another, even if it’s just through a good word or a bright smile. Say a prayer and stand up for the Jewish people.

Together we can turn sorrow to gladness and darkness to light. 

Slovie Jungreis Wolff is a noted teacher, author, relationships and parenting lecturer. She is the leader of Hineni Couples and daughter of Rebbetzen Esther Jungreis. Slovie is the author of the parenting handbook, Raising A Child With Soul. She gives weekly classes and has lectured throughout the U.S., Canada, Mexico, Panama, and South Africa.

MISHLOACH MANOT REIMAGINED

FUN AND FESTIVE THEMES TO TRY

PURIM IS A TIME OF CELEBRATION, JOY, AND GENEROSITY, AND ONE OF ITS MOST CHERISHED TRADITIONS IS THE GIVING OF MISHLOACH MANOT. THESE FOOD GIFTS, EXCHANGED AMONG FRIENDS AND FAMILY, EMBODY THE SPIRIT OF UNITY AND FESTIVITY THAT DEFINES THE HOLIDAY. WHILE THE MITZVAH CAN BE FULFILLED WITH JUST TWO FOOD ITEMS, MANY TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY TO GET CREATIVE, USING THEMES TO MAKE THEIR PACKAGES FUN, MEANINGFUL, AND VISUALLY DELIGHTFUL. WHETHER YOU WANT TO IMPRESS WITH AN ELEGANT PRESENTATION, BRING LAUGHTER WITH A PLAYFUL CONCEPT, OR EVOKE NOSTALGIA WITH CHILDHOOD FAVORITES, THE POSSIBILITIES FOR THEMED MISHLOACH MANOT ARE ENDLESS.

Agreat theme ties everything together—packaging, food choices, and even a short message that connects it to Purim. For those looking to elevate their Mishloach Manot this year, here are some inspired ideas to make your gifts memorable and enjoyable.

A “Breakfast in a Box” theme is both practical and delightful, offering recipients a cozy morning treat. Include items such as mini pancakes, maple syrup, hot cocoa mix, and a fruit cup. A small bottle of orange juice or a singleserving coffee sachet adds a thoughtful touch. For an extra nod to Purim, attach a note that says, “Wake up to the joy of Purim!”

A “Deli Delight” package brings a taste of the classic Jewish deli experience. Fill it with a fresh bagel, a small container of lox or cream cheese, a mini knish, and a bottle of Dr. Brown’s soda. Tie it together with a label that reads, “A little taste of tradition for a joyous Purim!”

A “Pizza Party” theme is always a hit, especially for families. Pack a mini pizza crust, a small container of marinara sauce, shredded mozzarella, and a single-serving snack like garlic breadsticks. Add a can of soda or a fruit punch juice box, and label it with a playful message like, “Purim is all about a ‘slice’ of joy!”

A “Candy Store” theme is a colorful and exciting option, perfect for children and those with a sweet tooth. Fill a clear container with an assortment of classic candies, such as jelly beans, chocolate coins, taffy, and lollipops. Decorate the package with bright ribbons and a message that reads, “A sweet Purim, just for you!”

For those who love a touch of nostalgia, a “Throwback to Childhood” Mishloach Manot is sure to bring smiles. Include retro snacks such as Bamba, Bisli, chocolate milk in a bottle, and a pack of gum. Attach a tag that says, “Bringing back childhood memories for a Purim filled with laughter!”

A “Shuk Experience” theme replicates the vibrant energy of an Israeli marketplace. Package dried fruits, nuts, a small pita with hummus, and a bottle of Israeli grape juice or soda. Wrap everything in a brown paper bag with a hand-stamped label that says, “A taste of the shuk for a festive Purim!”

A “Tea Time” concept offers a more refined presentation. Choose an assortment of herbal teas, honey sticks, shortbread cookies, and a chocolate-covered spoon. Place everything in a small decorative box with a tag that reads, “Take a moment to relax and enjoy the sweetness of Purim.”

For a humorous twist, a “Doctor’s Orders” theme plays off the idea of staying “healthy” in a fun way. Pack in chocolate “pills” (candy-coated chocolates), a bottle of grape juice labeled as “medicine,” and a granola bar as a “health food” item. A playful prescription note can say, “Take two chocolates and call Mordechai in the morning!”

A “Sushi Lover’s” package is perfect for fans of Japanese cuisine. Include sushi-flavored snacks like seaweed crisps, rice crackers, wasabi-flavored nuts, and a can of green tea. A cute addition is candy sushi made from fruit roll-ups, marshmallows, and gummy candies. Tie it together with the message, “Rolling into Purim with joy and celebration!”

A “Movie Night” theme transforms Mishloach Manot into an at-home entertainment experience. Fill a box with a bag of popcorn, a bottle of soda, a chocolate bar, and a small pack of licorice or gummy candies. Label it with, “Lights, camera, Purim!”

For a taste of something warm and comforting, a “Soup and Sides” theme is a cozy option. Include a container of homemade soup, a small challah roll, and a mini pack of crackers. Wrap it with a rustic napkin and a message that says, “Wishing you warmth and happiness this Purim!”

A “Bakery Box” theme brings the joy of fresh-baked goods to friends and family. Fill a decorative box with mini babkas, rugelach, hamentashen, and a small container of chocolate spread. A charming tag can read, “Baked with love for a sweet Purim!”

For those who want a bold, over-the-top idea, a “Purim Carnival” package is filled with fun and surprises. Include cotton candy, caramel popcorn, chocolate-covered pretzels, and a small toy or party favor. Wrap it in brightcolored paper with a message like, “Step right up for a Purim full of fun!”

A “Chocolate Lover’s” Mishloach Manot is an indulgent treat. Include chocolate-covered almonds, hot chocolate mix, a chocolate bar, and chocolate hamentashen. A golden ribbon adds an elegant touch, with a tag that reads, “Double the chocolate, double the simcha!”

No matter which theme you choose, a thoughtful presentation and a creative message will make your Mishloach Manot stand out. The joy of giving is at the heart of this mitzvah, and with a little imagination, you can bring even more delight to those around you. As Purim approaches, embrace the spirit of creativity and generosity, making each package a meaningful expression of the holiday’s joy. 

HAMANTASCHEN SHOWDOWN: SWEET VS. SAVORY

Purim is a time of joy, celebration, and, of course, delicious treats. No Purim feast is complete without hamantaschen, the iconic triangular pastries symbolizing the villain Haman’s hat, pockets, or ears— depending on the tradition. While the classic poppy seed or jam-filled hamantaschen remain favorites, bakers have started experimenting with both sweet and savory flavors. Some argue that hamantaschen should stay sweet, while others swear by the rich flavors of a savory twist. So, which side are you on?

Before we dive into the fillings, let’s start with a perfect, versatile dough that works for both sweet and savory variations.

BASIC HAMANTASCHEN DOUGH

The recipe yields approximately 24-30 cookies, depending on the size of the circles you cut and the thickness of the dough.

Ingredients:

• 2 ¾ cups all-purpose flour

• 1 teaspoon baking powder

• ¼ teaspoon salt

• ¾ cup sugar

• ½ cup unsalted butter, softened

• ¼ cup vegetable oil

• 2 eggs

• 1 teaspoon vanilla extract (for sweet dough) or ½ teaspoon garlic powder (for savory dough)

• 2 tablespoons orange juice or milk

Directions:

1. In a bowl, whisk together flour, baking powder, and salt.

2. In a separate large bowl, beat the butter, sugar, and oil until light and fluffy.

3. Add eggs one at a time, mixing well.

4. Stir in vanilla (for sweet) or garlic powder (for savory), followed by the orange juice or milk.

5. Gradually add the dry ingredients, mixing until a dough forms.

6. Wrap in plastic and chill for at least 1 hour before rolling out.

Now that we have our dough, let’s get to the fun part—the fillings!

SWEET FILLINGS

PEANUT BUTTER & JELLY HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup creamy peanut butter

• ¼ cup powdered sugar

• ¼ teaspoon vanilla extract

• Strawberry or grape jam

Instructions:

1. Mix peanut butter, powdered sugar, and vanilla until smooth.

2. Roll out dough and cut circles.

3. Place a small amount of peanut butter mixture in the center, then top with a small dollop of jam.

4. Fold into triangles and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

NUTELLA-BANANA HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup Nutella

• ½ banana, mashed

• 1 teaspoon cinnamon

Instructions:

1. Mix Nutella, mashed banana, and cinnamon.

2. Place a small spoonful in each dough circle.

3. Fold into triangles and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

APPLE PIE HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup diced apples (preferably Granny Smith)

• 2 tablespoons brown sugar

• ½ teaspoon cinnamon

• ½ teaspoon lemon juice

Instructions:

1. Sauté apples, sugar, cinnamon, and lemon juice in a pan over medium heat until soft.

2. Let cool and place a small spoonful in the center of each dough circle.

3. Fold and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

SAVORY FILLINGS

CARAMELIZED ONION & FETA HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• 1 large onion, thinly sliced

• 1 tablespoon olive oil

• ½ teaspoon balsamic vinegar

• ¼ cup crumbled feta

Instructions:

1. Sauté onions in olive oil over low heat until caramelized. Stir in balsamic vinegar and let cool.

2. Place a small amount in each dough circle, add a sprinkle of feta, then fold and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

LOX & CREAM CHEESE HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup whipped cream cheese

• ¼ cup smoked salmon, finely chopped

• ½ teaspoon lemon zest

• 1 teaspoon fresh dill

Instructions:

1. Mix cream cheese, salmon, lemon zest, and dill.

2. Fill the dough circles, fold, and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

MEDITERRANEAN SPINACH & TAHINI HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup cooked spinach, squeezed dry

• 2 tablespoons tahini

• ¼ teaspoon garlic powder

• Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

1. Mix spinach, tahini, garlic powder, salt, and pepper.

2. Place a small spoonful in each dough circle, fold, and bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

EVERYTHING BAGEL HAMANTASCHEN

Ingredients:

• ½ cup cream cheese

• ½ teaspoon everything bagel seasoning (plus extra for topping)

Instructions:

1. Fill each dough circle with cream cheese, fold, and sprinkle extra everything bagel seasoning on top.

2. Bake at 350°F for 12-15 minutes.

Whether you prefer the traditional sweetness of hamantaschen or are intrigued by the savory twist, there’s a filling for every taste. Perhaps this Purim, you’ll experiment with both and let your friends and family decide the ultimate winner in this hamantaschen showdown. After all, no matter the flavor, hamantaschen are a delicious way to celebrate the holiday. 

CREATIVITY IN OUR COMMUNITY

A SHOWCASE OF ARTISTIC TALENT AND EXPRESSION

CREATIVITY KNOWS NO AGE, AND THIS MONTH, WE CELEBRATE THE IMAGINATION AND ARTISTIC EXPRESSION OF CHILDREN, TEENS, AND ADULTS ACROSS OUR COMMUNITY. FROM YOUNG MINDS EXPLORING NEW IDEAS TO SEASONED CREATORS REFINING THEIR CRAFT, CREATIVITY IS A POWERFUL FORCE THAT BRINGS PEOPLE TOGETHER AND ENRICHES OUR SHARED EXPERIENCES. AS YOU BROWSE THROUGH THIS SPECIAL COLLECTION OF PHOTOS, YOU’LL WITNESS THE JOY AND DEDICATION THAT CREATIVITY SPARKS AT EVERY STAGE OF LIFE. WHETHER IT’S THE EXCITEMENT OF CHILDREN DISCOVERING NEW WAYS TO EXPRESS THEMSELVES, THE ENTHUSIASM OF TEENS HONING THEIR TALENTS, OR THE EXPERTISE OF ADULTS SHARING THEIR SKILLS, EACH MOMENT REFLECTS THE BEAUTY OF IMAGINATION IN ACTION. WE HOPE THIS SHOWCASE INSPIRES YOU TO APPRECIATE, SUPPORT, AND NURTURE THE CREATIVE ENERGY THAT MAKES OUR COMMUNITY SO VIBRANT AND UNIQUE.

THE MORAL BANKRUPTCY AND HYPOCRISY OF THE INTERNATIONAL RED CROSS

The 1986 foundational Statutes of the International Committee of the Red Cross (ICRC) and Red Crescent Movement proclaim that the International Committee of the Red Cross and the International Federation of Red Cross and Red Crescent Societies together constitute a worldwide humanitarian movement. Their mission is to prevent and alleviate human suffering wherever it may be found, to protect life and health, and to ensure respect for the human being, particularly in times of armed conflict and other emergencies.

On issues of impartiality and neutrality, the Statutes similarly proclaim: Impartiality – It makes no discrimination as to nationality, race, religious beliefs, class, or political opinions. It endeavors to relieve the suffering of individuals, being guided solely by their needs and giving priority

to the most urgent cases of distress. Neutrality – In order to continue to enjoy the confidence of all, the Movement may not take sides in hostilities or engage at any time in controversies of a political, racial, religious, or ideological nature.

Specifically, the Statutes require the ICRC to endeavor at all times—as a neutral institution whose humanitarian work is carried out particularly in times of international and other armed conflicts or internal strife—to ensure the protection of and assistance to military and civilian victims of such events and their direct consequences.

For an organization whose sole acknowledged purpose and mission is to help victims of wars and human rights violations, it is patently obvious that the ICRC has totally failed in its mission, as reflected in its mishandling of Israel’s hostage crisis. The ICRC’s abject failure in its most

AMBASSADOR ALAN BAKER

basic responsibilities to the more than 250 kidnap victims from some 20 nations— taken hostage as part of the Iran-backed Hamas terror group’s egregious invasion, mass murder, and rape—is tragic in and of itself.

There are even worse ramifications: the ICRC’s reasoning for its malfeasance, how it could possibly have taken place, and its more far-reaching, evident lack of capability, willingness, seriousness, or even perhaps willful and deliberate apathy, neglect, and laxity on the part of the ICRC staff. This historic dereliction is not limited to the ICRC and its staff. Moral and legal responsibility lies chiefly with the Swiss government, under whose auspices the ICRC functions, together with the state parties to the Geneva Conventions, who finance its very existence and are in the position to monitor, direct, and influence the ICRC’s functioning.

all this without taking requisite and vital international action in light of their unique international status.

Given the celebrated constitutional impartiality and neutrality of the ICRC, it challenges all semblance of logic and moral clarity that the ICRC can countenance images of armed, masked terrorists sitting and standing on ICRC vehicles displaying the Red Cross emblem and flag while such vehicles transport tortured, suffering, and ill Israeli hostages.

By the same token, how can the ICRC permit its representatives, its status, dignity, and presence to be manipulated into participating in staged, contrived bogus “release ceremonies,” sitting with masked, armed terrorist leaders, signing bogus “release certificates,” and exchanging handshakes? Where is the dignity of the ICRC, the Red Cross Movement, the Cross Emblem, and the Red Cross Flag?

One may indeed ask: where has the Swiss government been, with its unique international stature, in the context of the Israeli hostage situation? Why have they not leveraged their historically renowned international reputation and stature—perhaps Switzerland’s outstanding capability and international reputation—to impress upon those elements influencing the Hamas terror organization, chiefly Qatar, Egypt, the UN, and other Arab elements, that Israeli victims of terror and kidnapping are entitled to humane treatment?

This is particularly evident in light of the remarks by Swiss Federation President Karin Keller-Sutter in her February 10, 2025, Holocaust Remembrance Day ceremony address. There, Keller-Sutter emphasized the crucial remembrance and lessons of the Holocaust and its commensurate total civilizational breakdown, especially now that antisemitism is reemerging in Switzerland, in some cases openly. She noted: “There can be no tolerance of Jews being intimidated, discriminated against, or threatened. Our democratic values of tolerance, mutual respect, and coexistence are not compatible with signs of hatred based on race, ethnicity, religion, or sexual orientation.”

How is it conceivable that the Swiss government and the ICRC have sat idly for more than 16 months while being openly manipulated and abused by the Hamas terror organization? Rather, they have passively accepted Hamas’s refusal to allow the transfer of medications, medical and humanitarian visits to the sick and wounded, and humane treatment for all illegally held hostages. They have also failed to act on ensuring respectful treatment of the dead—

The enormity of this intolerable and inexcusable failure by Switzerland and the ICRC cannot be explained in terms of inability or incapability. It begs the obvious question as to how this could happen. This vast lack of any genuine, serious, and sincere action by Switzerland and the ICRC is not just glaring in its enormity but defies all logic.

Furthermore, and no less pointedly, it cannot but lead to the implication and assumption that such inaction has been and continues to be beyond mere negligence or unintended error. It raises the question as to whether it emanates from a sinister and ulterior motive—something that, tragically, in historical context, appears to be all too familiar.

The Swiss and ICRC’s failures in ensuring the provision of humanitarian aid to the Israeli hostages are not just unforgettable. They are unforgivable. The entire credibility of the ICRC as a humanitarian organization is in tatters. It cannot recover from this. The reputation of Switzerland as the worldwide bastion of moral rectitude and dignity is completely undermined and ruined.

Switzerland can no longer claim any element of international moral high ground. It has lost the little stature that it might have had. 

Ambassador Alan Baker is the former legal adviser of the Foreign Ministry and Israeli ambassador to Canada. He participated in the negotiation and drafting of all Israel’s peace agreements with its neighbors, and is presently head of the International Law Program of the Jerusalem Center for Public Affairs.

THE SCIENCE OF DAYLIGHT SAVING SPRING FORWARD:

TWICE A YEAR, PEOPLE IN MANY PARTS OF THE WORLD ADJUST THEIR CLOCKS, SPRINGING FORWARD IN MARCH AND FALLING BACK IN NOVEMBER. WHILE THE EXTRA DAYLIGHT IN THE EVENING MAY SEEM LIKE A SIMPLE CONVENIENCE, DAYLIGHT SAVING TIME (DST) HAS SPARKED DECADES OF DEBATE. SOME PRAISE IT FOR MAKING BETTER USE OF DAYLIGHT HOURS, WHILE OTHERS ARGUE THAT IT DISRUPTS SLEEP, SCHEDULES, AND EVEN RELIGIOUS PRACTICES. FOR THOSE WHO FOLLOW STRUCTURED DAILY ROUTINES, INCLUDING THE OBSERVANCE OF FIXED PRAYER TIMES, THE SHIFT IN CLOCKS CAN PRESENT UNIQUE CHALLENGES. AS DISCUSSIONS CONTINUE ABOUT WHETHER TO KEEP, ELIMINATE, OR STANDARDIZE DST WORLDWIDE, UNDERSTANDING ITS IMPACT CAN HELP PEOPLE ADAPT.

Daylight saving time works by shifting an hour of daylight from the morning to the evening. This means that when DST begins in the spring, the sun rises and sets an hour later than it would on standard time. In the fall, clocks return to standard time, and sunrise and sunset occur an hour earlier. The goal of DST is to extend evening daylight, reducing the need for artificial lighting and encouraging outdoor activity. Historically, DST was introduced to save energy, but modern studies suggest its benefits may not be as significant as once believed. While some appreciate the longer daylight hours after work, others struggle with the disruption to their internal clocks.

One of the most immediate effects of DST is on sleep. Losing an hour in the spring can leave people feeling groggy and disoriented, as their bodies take time to adjust. Sleep experts recommend easing into the change by gradually shifting bedtime earlier in the days leading up to DST. Exposure to morning sunlight can also help regulate the body’s internal clock, making it easier to wake up and feel alert. Studies have linked DST transitions to temporary increases in health risks, including heart attacks, strokes, and car accidents, as people struggle to adapt to the sudden shift in time.

Beyond sleep, DST also impacts daily routines, including religious observances such as prayer times. In Judaism, prayer times are determined by the position of the sun rather than the clock. This means that when DST begins, sunrise occurs later, which can delay the earliest time for Shacharit (morning prayers). Many people who need to pray before starting their workday may find it difficult to do so at the proper time. In contrast, when DST ends in the fall, sunset occurs earlier, shortening the window for Mincha (afternoon prayers). For those who work standard hours, this can make it challenging to complete prayers before nightfall. Maariv (evening prayers), which should be recited after nightfall, also shifts accordingly. If DST were to be eliminated or made permanent, these changes would need to be carefully considered to maintain proper prayer observance. Daylight saving time is not a universal practice. Some countries have abolished it altogether, while others adjust their clocks at different times of the year. Most of Europe follows DST, though discussions have been ongoing about eliminating it. Many Asian nations, including China and Japan, do not observe DST at all. In the Southern Hemisphere, where seasons are reversed, DST operates on a different schedule. These differences make international coordination more complex, leading some to propose a

standardized global approach. However, because daylight patterns vary so widely by region, achieving worldwide consistency would be difficult.

In the United States, the debate over daylight saving time has intensified in recent years. Some lawmakers argue for making DST permanent, believing that extended evening daylight benefits the economy, public safety, and mental health. Others advocate for abolishing DST altogether, citing concerns over health risks and sleep disruption. Several states have passed laws to stay on one time year-round, but federal approval is required before they can make the change. The debate is far from settled, with strong arguments on both sides.

As discussions continue, individuals can take steps to adjust more smoothly to DST. Gradually shifting sleep schedules, prioritizing exposure to natural light, and maintaining consistent daily routines can help minimize its effects. For those observing fixed prayer times, staying aware of changes and planning accordingly can help maintain religious observance without unnecessary stress. Whether DST remains a seasonal tradition, is eliminated, or becomes a permanent fixture, its impact on daily life—both secular and religious—remains significant. Don’t forget to move your clocks forward on March 15th! 

FOUR TOOLS TO MANAGE YOUR EMOTIONS SO THEY DON’T MANAGE YOU

DEBBIE GUTFREUND

DR. ETHAN KROSS’S NEW BOOK SHIFT PRESENTS A TOOLBOX OF PRACTICAL STRATEGIES TO MANAGE YOUR FEELINGS AND SHIFT YOUR EMOTIONAL STATES. ONE OF THE WORLD’S LEADING EXPERTS ON THE CONSCIOUS MIND, KROSS EXPANDS ON HIS PREVIOUS RESEARCH ON HOW TO HARNESS THE VOICE IN YOUR HEAD PRESENTED IN HIS BOOK CHATTER AND DELVES INTO DIFFERENT WAYS YOU CAN SHIFT YOUR FEELINGS.

You can turn the volume of your emotions up or down. You can lengthen or shorten the amount of time you spend in each feeling. Or you can shift from one emotion to the next. Here are four types of tools to shift your feelings based on Dr. Kross’s newest research.

1. SENSORY SHIFT

You can purposely activate your senses to push your emotions in a particular direction. You’ve probably experienced getting into the car feeling down and playing a favorite song immediately lifts your mood. But music is only one way to use your senses to change how you feel. You can light a candle with a favorite scent. You can taste a drink or dish you love. You can hold a loved one’s hand or pet your dog. And you can look at a picture or a sight that fills you with awe like a beautiful sunset or majestic mountain. The key to this tool is to intentionally use your senses as potential gateways to different emotional states.

2. SPACE SHIFT

Your environment has a tremendous influence on how you feel; there are tools hidden all around you. You can set up or change your surroundings to shift your emotions. For example, research shows that having greenery in the room, even if the plants are artificial, boosts your mood. Displaying photos of people you love in your space and even books that are meaningful to you can also shift your emotional state.

Identify what Kross refers to as your “emotional oasis” or a comforting, favorite place that reliably brings you joy. It can be a coffee shop nearby or a park in your town. It can be a vacation spot that you love or a room in your house. You can visit it or even just go there in your mind to shift your emotions to a place of joy.

3. TIME SHIFT

You can time travel to manage your emotions. If you are stressed about something, think about how you will feel

about the situation in a week, a month and then in a year. Will this matter so much then? Or travel back in time to a period when you (or your ancestors) faced a much harder predicament. How does that compare to your current stressors?

Kross teaches that always trying to live in the present moment isn’t always possible or helpful. When you wake up in the middle of night worrying about something, keep in mind that there is a trajectory for every emotion. The moment it gets triggered, whether by a thought or event, the emotion is at its highest peak. You don’t necessarily need to stay in the awfulness of the moment, cycling ‘what ifs’ endlessly through your mind. You can zoom out to see the bigger picture by time traveling because every emotion decreases in intensity over time.

Using time to shift your feelings gives you access to future hope and the knowledge that as bad as it is now, you will eventually feel better.

4. CONNECTION SHIFT

Reaching out to people who are reliable sources of support and encouragement is one of the most effective tools for shifting how you feel. But Kross cautions that, contrary to popular belief, venting can often make you feel worse. If you are venting to someone who is going to mirror and reinforce your frustrated or depressed view, then you will have a hard time shifting your emotions. When you

vent you often just share the surface level of the problem in order to let something out. Instead connect by focusing on exploring the thoughts and feelings about the situation with someone who will challenge and help you reframe your perspective. You can also use this tool by connecting with someone who has experienced a similar challenge and can share how they coped with it.

Beyond these tools, Kross’ book dispels some common myths like you can’t control your emotions or that negative emotions mean that something is wrong with you. He writes: “Time and again, I encounter people who report feeling bad, as though something is wrong with them, if they experience anger, anxiety, sadness or any of the other myriad negative feelings that bubble up inside us from time to time. That sentiment reflects a pervasive belief: That negative emotions are harmful. They’re not.”

Your emotions, whether positive or negative, are gifts you are given to help you navigate the world. But they are gifts that you can manage so that they don’t manage you.

Debbie Gutfreund is an OCD and trauma therapist. She holds a BA in English from the University of Pennsylvania and an MA in Family Therapy from the University of North Texas. In her free time, she is a competitive runner and skier. She lives in Parkland, Florida with her husband and children.

EATING CELEBRATING WITHOUT OVERINDULGING

THE ART

OF MINDFUL

LAURA SHAMMAH MS, RDN

DO YOU STRESS OVER WHAT YOU MAY EAT BEFORE GOING TO AN EVENT? DO YOU HAVE A WEDDING, BAR MITZVAH, BRIS, OR ENGAGEMENT TO ATTEND THAT FEELS LIKE EVERY NIGHT? SOCIAL GET-TOGETHERS CAN BE A BLAST—THERE’S GOOD MUSIC, GOOD PEOPLE, AND, OF COURSE, GOOD FOOD. BUT FOR SOME, THE FOOD AT THESE PARTIES CAN FEEL OVERWHELMING. WE ARE BLESSED AS A COMMUNITY TO HAVE SO MANY HAPPY OCCASIONS, BUT FOR MANY, THE MENUS AT THESE FUNCTIONS CAN BE DAUNTING.

Do you go to parties so hungry that, ten minutes in, you don’t even realize what you ate? Sound familiar? You’re not alone. We all know what it’s like to mindlessly graze, only to unconsciously consume an entire day’s worth of calories in just a few hours. Granted, festivities are meant for enjoyment, but between the socializing, the music, and the energy, it can be all too easy to lose sight of mindful eating. Mindful eating is a crucial component of overall health, from the portions on your plate to the feelings you have about food.

WHAT IS MINDFUL EATING?

One of the best ways to understand mindful eating is to break down the meaning of “mindfulness.” Mindfulness

is “the practice of maintaining a nonjudgmental state of heightened or complete awareness of one’s thoughts, emotions, or experiences on a moment-to-moment basis.” In short, mindfulness is noticing what is happening as it’s happening, in a nonjudgmental manner.

Mindful eating takes this concept and applies it to food. When you eat in the moment, you are fully present with your meal as you cook, serve, and eat it. Mindful eating also involves recognizing your emotional and physical responses as you eat. Every bite comes down to being fully present in the experience of eating.

Many times, we are on autopilot during our day-to-day routines. Paying more attention to what you eat can put you on a healthier track. With this type of awareness, you

create the opportunity to control your eating behaviors. In turn, you’ll be more likely to align your lifestyle and habits with your health and wellness goals.

When you’ve got weddings and parties on the calendar, it can be difficult to find the mental space to practice mindful eating. With the right approach, though, it is possible to apply basic principles while still celebrating.

HOW SOCIAL GATHERINGS CHALLENGE MINDFUL EATING

From enticing dessert tables to sugary punch bowls, social gatherings are notorious for putting mindfulness to the test. That’s because we eat more when we’re with other people. Social eating enables bonding—the act of eating and talking creates a positive atmosphere. These experiences typically elicit joy and relaxation, which only fuels the tendency to keep eating.

It’s all thanks to endorphins, the “feel-good” hormones typically associated with a runner’s high. Eating activates our endorphin systems, much like laughing and dancing. This release of endorphins promotes a sense of closeness with the people we’re enjoying the activity with, which releases even more endorphins. Basically, we eat more at parties because it makes our brains happy. We know overindulgence can disrupt an otherwise healthy diet, and strict eating rules can take the fun out of food—so how can one find balance?

HOW TO PRACTICE MINDFUL EATING AT PARTIES

When you’re at a social function, thinking about mindful eating might feel like an extra task. But with these simple tips, you can allow room for awareness and presence to naturally flourish while still enjoying the gathering. As with any lifestyle practice, it’s best to adopt these tips gradually,

aiming for small changes. Over time, mindful eating will become second nature—your plus-one at every event.

EAT BEFORE YOU LEAVE

One of the simplest ways to control your appetite at a party is to take charge before you even arrive. Most of my clients think that when they are going to a party where they will eat a lot, they shouldn’t eat all day. But I have taught my clients that when you show up with this mindset—and an empty stomach—you create the opportunity for ravenous overeating. Instead, eat a snack with protein and fiber before you leave the house. These nutrients are extremely filling, so you’ll feel satiated for a long time.

BRING THE SNACKS

It’s tricky to attend a party when you don’t know what’s on the menu. Depending on the host or event, you might already expect a variety of calorie-laden sweets and dishes. Offer to bring a healthy appetizer—like a veggie tray with hummus or guacamole—to the gathering. By contributing nutritious options to the party, you’ll be able to enjoy both healthy and indulgent foods. Plus, bringing a dish is a great way to show your appreciation for the host’s hospitality. Obviously, when it comes to events like weddings, this isn’t always an appropriate option. In those situations, eating a pre-party snack is your best bet.

MINGLE AWAY FROM THE FOOD

Walk away from the buffet. Invite a friend to sit at a table or move to another area of the venue. By relocating yourself, you can avoid mindlessly refilling your plate as you mingle.

EAT SLOWLY

Thanks to the high energy of social gatherings, it can

be tempting to grab hors d’oeuvres quickly. But when you take the time to chew and eat slowly, you’ll have more control over your eating. It takes about 20 minutes for fullness signals to reach your brain. Eating slowly gives your body enough time to process these signals.

While you’re at it, use this time to truly savor the food. Pay attention to the flavor, texture, and aroma. Notice how you feel. With these simple check-ins, you’ll automatically be more in tune with the food you’re eating.

DRINK WATER

Staying hydrated is always essential, whether you’re at home or sweating in a hot yoga class. But when it comes to social gatherings, drinking water can completely transform your eating behaviors. Water increases the feeling of fullness and helps reduce food intake. Dehydration can even disguise itself as hunger, so try sipping on water before and during the party. If you’re truly hungry, you’ll still feel the hunger after drinking water.

For many people, eating at parties is a habit born out of nerves. Grabbing and eating food gives them something to do with their hands while making small talk or standing alone between conversations. If that’s the case for you, holding and drinking a glass of water can act as a stand-in for those chocolates you can’t stop popping.

INDULGE SELECTIVELY

Allowing yourself to enjoy your favorite treats will keep your cravings in check. People who strictly avoid the foods they crave often develop an even greater craving for that food. Most people who forbid themselves from having any sweets are more likely to either overeat dessert at the party or go home and binge on sugar because they felt deprived. Instead, aim for balance. Eat a plate of food that makes you feel good, then enjoy one item from the dessert table. This way, you satisfy your cravings without overindulging.

FINDING YOUR BALANCE

It will take time to master these habits. There are many factors to consider, including your current eating behaviors and how often you attend social gatherings. But as you repeatedly practice mindful eating, you’ll eventually find a style that works for you.

Eating is more than just physical fuel—it’s a social, cultural, and emotional experience. When you make the effort to connect with each of these aspects, you’ll be able to eat, drink, and be happy in the most mindful way possible. 

Laura Shammah MS, RDN specializes in eating disorders but has clientele that run the gamut from people dealing with PCOS, infertility hypertension, high cholesterol, Crohn’s disease, diabetes and cancer. She also helps clients who run in marathons, are pregnant and those who would like to lose or gain weight in a healthy way.

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THE HEALING POWER OF JEWISH MEDITATION

ESTHER AZIZO

MEDITATION HAS BEEN AT THE HEART OF JEWISH SPIRITUALITY FOR CENTURIES. IN ANCIENT TIMES, IT OFFERED RABBIS A GATEWAY TO CONNECT DEEPLY WITH HASHEM, ALIGNING THEMSELVES WITH DIVINE WISDOM. PRACTICES LIKE HITBODEDUT—A PERSONAL AND HEARTFELT DIALOGUE WITH HASHEM— EMPOWER INDIVIDUALS TO POUR OUT THEIR EMOTIONS THROUGH REFLECTION AND INTROSPECTION. THESE SACRED TRADITIONS FORM THE FOUNDATION OF MY WORK, TRANSLATING TIMELESS PRACTICES INTO TRANSFORMATIVE EXPERIENCES FOR THE MODERN SOUL.

One extraordinary story became the cornerstone of my journey into meditative healing—a true testament to the incredible power of the mind and the connection between our thoughts and healing. This is the story of a young person who experienced a devastating accident, leaving him completely paralyzed. Doctors believed he had no chance of recovery, but he believed otherwise.

He had deep knowledge about the power of the mind and used visualization to shape and manifest the reality he desired. Every day, he envisioned his future self, feeling fully healed, strong, and vibrant, bringing that vision into the present moment. He imagined walking, eating by himself, and performing even the smallest daily tasks with ease. His

passion and vision were so vivid and unwavering that they became his reality. In just 11 weeks, he defied all odds and began walking. By the 12th week, he returned to work, proving that healing is not only physical but also deeply tied to belief, focus, action, and most of all, connection to the Creator.

When I shared this miraculous story during a speech, something incredible happened. The audience was so inspired that they asked me to create a meditation focused on healing the body. I poured my heart into crafting that meditation, weaving together ancient Jewish wisdom and modern mindfulness techniques. The response was overwhelming, confirming the deep need for healing and spiritual connection through these transformative practices.

Participants reported profound physical and emotional healing, and the meditation’s success opened the door to what has now become my life’s work. Today, thank G-d, I have led countless meditations that bring light, healing, and inspiration to many. These guided meditations create a sacred space where individuals can connect to Hashem, the ultimate source of all healing and wisdom. Each session is infused with the values of the Torah and the light of the Creator.

My meditations are carefully reviewed and approved by Rabbi Malka of New Jersey. I am deeply grateful to Rabbi Malka for his guidance and support, which ensures that my work aligns with Torah teachings and helps participants grow closer to Hashem.

Through my meditations, I focus on themes like healing the body, cultivating self-love, being comfortable in one’s own skin, embracing the inner child, building confidence, relieving stress and anxiety, and helping participants recognize their divine uniqueness. Every session is an invitation to step into a space of empowerment, safety, and deep spiritual connection.

MEDITATION: A TOOL FOR TRANSFORMATION

Some of my meditations also incorporate powerful prayers and blessings. By meditating on these blessings, participants connect to Hashem in profound and transformative ways, bringing healing to the mind, body, and soul.

HEALING THE INNER CHILD

Another deeply rewarding aspect of my work is guiding participants in healing their inner child through upcoming meditations. Through sessions like Healing and Embracing the Inner Child with Hashem’s Light, I help participants experience emotional healing and spiritual renewal.

EXCITING ANNOUNCEMENTS!

1. WhatsApp Community for Jewish Spiritual Healing

I have started a WhatsApp chat, b’ezrat Hashem, which has been receiving great feedback. This WhatsApp group is where I post a variety of content, including inspirational messages, Jewish spiritual healing insights, daily or weekly tips. Often, I record snippets of my weekly speeches and share updates on upcoming events that I will be hosting.

2. New Three-Part Meditation Series Starting Soon!

I’m absolutely thrilled to announce an upcoming three-part meditation series that will guide you through deep healing, forgiveness, and powerful spiritual growth. These transformative sessions are designed to help you reconnect with your divine light and experience profound change.

If you’re ready to embark on this journey, reach out to me directly to learn more or to reserve your spot.

3. Special Meditation Event at DSN!

I’m also excited to announce that I’ll be leading a special meditation at DSN on Thursday, March 27th, at 12:30 PM sharp! This session will be a powerful opportunity to experience healing and spiritual connection in a group setting. I can’t wait to share this sacred moment with you all.

HELPING THE NEXT GENERATION

Recently, I’ve introduced children’s story-time meditations. These imaginative sessions guide young ones through feelings of anger, anxiety, and fear, helping them develop emotional regulation and spiritual grounding. Using relatable characters to connect them to Hashem’s guidance and love, these meditations are transforming how children understand and manage their emotions.

Whether you’re seeking group sessions, personalized meditations tailored to your needs, or creative tools for children, my goal is to help you rediscover the divine light within you. Through the power of Jewish meditation, you can experience physical, emotional, and spiritual healing while deepening your connection to Hashem.

Let’s embark on this transformative journey together. To learn more about my meditations or to schedule a session, please contact Esther Azizo at BeMindfulMeditation8@ gmail.com.Together, we can uncover the limitless potential of connecting to Hashem through meditation and bring healing and light into every aspect of our lives. 

Esther Azizo is a Jewish meditation guide, specializing in spiritual healing through Torah-infused mindfulness practices. Her transformative meditations help individuals connect deeply with Hashem, fostering emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. With guidance from Rabbi Malka, she leads personalized and group sessions that inspire healing, self-growth, and inner peace.

MARCH 12TH, 2025 APRIL 9TH, 2025

Rabbi

Prussman, with the help of Akiva clubs, was in charge of Board of Ed clubs, and gave out many awards to different high schools, junior high schools & public schools in order to put jewish programs in their schools.

Rabbi Prussman (left) gave free boxing lessons at the Beth Shifra organization and other organizations.

CONGRATULATIONS

Mabrouk, Mazal Tov

BIRTHS

Michelle and Elliot Beyda – Boy

Adina and Isaac Mizrahi – Twins Boy & Girl

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Florence and Max Cohen – Boy

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IS 2025 THE YEAR TO INVEST?

THE REAL ESTATE TRENDS YOU NEED TO KNOW

AFTER A FEW UNPREDICTABLE YEARS IN THE HOUSING MARKET, 2025 IS SHAPING UP TO BE A CRITICAL YEAR FOR REAL ESTATE INVESTORS. WITH SHIFTING INTEREST RATES, EVOLVING BUYER PREFERENCES, AND NEW ECONOMIC REALITIES, THE LANDSCAPE IS CHANGING. WHETHER YOU’RE A SEASONED INVESTOR OR SOMEONE CONSIDERING BUYING PROPERTY FOR THE FIRST TIME, UNDERSTANDING MARKET TRENDS IS KEY TO MAKING SMART DECISIONS. EXPERTS SUGGEST THAT THIS YEAR PRESENTS BOTH OPPORTUNITIES AND CHALLENGES, BUT THE RIGHT STRATEGY COULD LEAD TO PROFITABLE RETURNS.

The past few years have been marked by fluctuating mortgage rates, supply chain issues, and inflation concerns, all of which impacted housing affordability and availability. Now, as inflation shows signs of cooling and supply chains stabilize, real estate is beginning to find its footing. Many investors are watching for interest rate adjustments, which could determine how competitive the market will be. With home prices in some regions stabilizing and rental demand remaining strong, the question isn’t just whether to invest but where and how.

Affordability remains a concern, but it’s also driving new investment trends. Remote work, which gained trac-

tion in recent years, continues to shape housing markets. Secondary cities and suburban areas that offer a mix of affordability and lifestyle benefits are seeing increased demand, making them attractive to investors. Places with strong job markets, growing infrastructure, and favorable tax conditions are particularly appealing. States like Texas, Florida, and Tennessee continue to draw new residents due to their business-friendly climates and relatively lower cost of living. On the other hand, some traditionally hot markets, such as California and New York, are seeing shifts as affordability challenges push buyers and renters elsewhere. Interest rates play a crucial role in shaping investment

opportunities. While the Federal Reserve has signaled a cautious approach to rate cuts in 2025, any adjustments will influence mortgage rates and affordability. Investors hoping for significant rate drops may need to manage their expectations, but even minor decreases could create a more favorable borrowing environment. Cash buyers and those with strong financial positions may have an edge, but creative financing solutions—such as seller financing and adjustable-rate mortgages—are becoming more popular tools for investors looking to stay competitive.

Rental properties continue to be a strong investment option, particularly as high home prices keep many wouldbe buyers in the rental market. Multi-family housing and short-term rentals in high-tourism areas remain in demand, though local regulations are evolving in some places. Investors need to stay informed about zoning laws and rental restrictions, as cities with strict short-term rental rules may not be as profitable as they once were. In contrast, build-to-rent communities are emerging as a promising trend, providing new inventory for renters while offering investors steady returns.

Commercial real estate is also undergoing a transformation. The office space sector remains uncertain as hybrid work models reduce the need for traditional office buildings. However, industrial and warehouse spaces continue to thrive, fueled by e-commerce growth and supply chain shifts. Retail real estate is adapting as well, with experiential and mixed-use spaces gaining popularity. Investors looking for long-term stability may find opportunities in healthcare real estate, senior living facilities, and data centers, all of which are seeing increased demand due to demographic and technological trends.

With all these factors at play, 2025 is not a one-sizefits-all market. Investors need to be strategic, flexible, and well-informed. Working with experienced real estate professionals, keeping an eye on economic indicators, and leveraging technology for market research can make a significant difference. While uncertainty always exists in real estate, those who approach the market with a clear plan and a willingness to adapt will find opportunities for growth and success.

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• Ideal for Empty Nesters

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