SHORE LOCAL | Mainland | November 21, 2024

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Kicking O The Holidays

Ocean City Group Rallies to "Save Wonderland"

Local Boxers Fight to Remain Undefeated

Advice for Thanksgiving Table Talk

Volunteer Fire Companies Call Out for Help

Skywatchers were treated to a celestial spectacle this past weekend as November’s full moon, known as the Beaver Moon, illuminated the night sky. This marked the last supermoon of 2024.

A supermoon occurs when a full moon coincides with its closest approach to Earth in its orbit, making it appear larger and brighter than usual. The Beaver Moon, named for the time

of year when beavers prepare for winter, showcased this phenomenon with its golden glow casting light on clear autumn evenings.

Across the region, photographers and stargazers alike gathered to capture the sight. Among them was Kristian Gonyea, who shot this striking photo of the supermoon, perfectly framed against the backdrop of the Atlantic City skyline.

Letter from the editor

Did you ever notice that some people just seem to be happier than others...regardless of their circumstances?

In my family, Grammy Agnes was that person. She was born in the early 1900s, one of twelve children. o f all her siblings, she happened to be the one born with a large and unsightly birthmark - smack in the middle of her nose. This was long before cosmetic surgery or lasering procedures became an option, especially for poor farming families. She endured quite a bit of shunning and ridicule as a child. Ultimately she had the birthmark removed by a generous dermatologist in her late teens.

In her 20s, Grammy married my grandfather. He was not exactly a gem of a husband, often parking himself at the bar while Grammy Ag cared for his

elderly mother and the children. She raised my dad as if he were her own, although he was actually wife number one's. She then had two more boys with my grandfather. The oldest, Billy died at the age of 14 of leukemia and Kent had one eye removed at only two years old. Still, Grammy endured.

My grandfather got rich in real estate investments, left her for a more glamorous woman and took all the money with him. Grammy found herself living in a one bedroom makeshift basement apartment with cement floors. She lived there alone for the last 35 years of her life.

The remarkable thing though is that if you met Grammy and talked with her, you would think she had a wonderful, if not enchanted life. Because in her mind she did. She was filled with gratitude for all she had in her life and she often marveled over her good fortune, nature, a cool breeze or a pretty flower. Grammy had every reason to be sad and bitter, yet she never was. I'd like to tell you that I am just like her. I'm not, but everyday I aspire to be a little more like her.

November is the time of year when we begin to think about what we are thankful for. Gratitude is defined as an attitude or mindset of approaching

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Cover photo of Santa's arrival at Storybook Land by Steffen Klenk.

life with appreciation, regardless of your circumstances. Those last four words are the hard part! This mindset though has the power to change everything in your life for the better. Grammy Ag lived to be 95 years old and aside from her famous dandelion tonic, I believe this was her secret to a life well lived.

Bob and I are thankful for you, the reader, and also for our talented team of writers and advertisers that make this possible. Shore Local is truly powered by the community.

Peace & Love, Cindy

“Most folks are about as happy as they make their minds up to be.”

10 ways to cultivate gratitude in your life:

1. Create a gratitude journal.

2. Write a thank-you note.

3. Share with a friend. So often we focus on the negative things in our lives when venting to our friends. Next time, try a "gratitude vent session" instead.

4. Discuss gratitude at the dinner table. Have everyone say what they are thankful for before each meal.

5. Meditate. Spend some time each day thinking about all the abundance in your life.

6. Take a walk. Focus on all of your beautiful surroundings.

7. Pray. When speaking to God/ The Universe/Your Higher Self, add all of the things you are thankful for.

8. Write it on a mirror. Using an Expo, this is a great visual reminder to be thankful.

9. Post it on social media. Tweet or post an expression of gratitude for someone at least once per week.

10. Say it. Incorporate the words "Thank You" into all aspects of your life each day.

NJ’s wet start to 2024 has dampened drought impact

Our drought is bad right now, there are no two ways about it. However, instead of this being the worst drought since 2002, this could have been the worst since decades earlier were it not for a wet start to 2024.

Believe it or not, when March ended, Atlantic City International Airport in Egg Harbor Township had the wettest start to the year on record. The 18.22 inches of precipitation bested the previous record of 17.90 inches in 2010. At the Sen. Frank S. Farley State Marina, which has records dating back to 1873, one of the longest in the country, it was the eighth wettest start. Atlantic City slipped out of the top 10 at the end of April, but ACY Airport was still the wettest then. The airport wouldn’t slip out of the top 10 until September. That makes sense

as drought first began in Atlantic County with the Sept. 10 update from the United States Drought Monitor. It expanded south into Cape May County on oct. 15.

To go a step further, at ACY Airport we didn’t go below average for precipitation year-to-date until o ct. 28. Less impressively, Atlantic City Marina didn't do the same until Aug. 25, right when our drought took off.

As of the Nov. 12 update from the United States Drought Monitor, all of Atlantic County is in “extreme” drought, the third level of drought out of four, along with o cean City, Upper Township, Woodbine and Dennis Township in Cape May County. The northern part of Sea Isle City is in extreme drought, too. The rest of Cape May County is in a “severe” drought, the second level of drought. The entire state is either in the second or third level of drought. That’s the first time that’s happened since 2002. on Nov. 13, Gov. Phil Murphy, along with the New Jersey Department of Environmental Protection, issued a drought warning for the state. That was an upgrade from the drought watch put into place on o ct. 22. This is the first drought warning since october 2016, which lasted until August

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2017 in some parts of the state.

“The administrative order establishes a formal process for the DEP to work with water suppliers in affected regions to ensure no single water supplier or region faces a significant shortfall if dry weather and high customer demand continue,” according to the press release issued by the state. In other words, the drought warning is the policy put into effect by the state in part due to the data that comes from the United States Drought Monitor.

We know how dry the ground has been. All New Jersey American Water customers are under a mandatory conservation order. outdoor watering and car washing must be paused.

However, it’s fair to wonder what our situation would be if the first roughly half of 2024 weren’t so wet. Even if we had average precipitation through June, with the same precipitation afterwards as it is now, my prediction is that Atlantic and Cape May counties would be in an exceptional drought, the highest stage, here in late November. That’s never happened here in the United States Drought Monitor’s recorded history.

The state would likely have issued a drought watch weeks earlier. We’d definitely be weeks into the drought warning. I’m sure the state would take a long look at issuing a drought

emergency and the governor would be ordering mandatory water restrictions for everyone in the state.

The long-term multiindicator drought index

The Long-Term Multi-Indicator Drought Index (MIID) approximates drought from changes in precipitation and moisture up to five hours. Going off of this alone, most of Atlantic and Cape May counties wouldn’t be in drought at all. At worst, the far western and eastern portions of Atlantic County would be in a moderate drought, the first state of drought. In fact, part of Cape May County would wind up in a state called W1, which is wetter than usual.

So while the winter and spring were pretty dreary around here, we should be thankful. It’s preventing us from an even worse situation now.

Joe earned his Meteorology Degree from Rutgers University. He is approved by the American Meteorological Society as a Certified Broadcast Meteorologist and Certified Digital Meteorologist, the only one in the state with both. He's won 10 New Jersey Press Association Awards. You can find him on social media @joemartwx

The Long-Term Multi-Indicator Drought Index for New Jersey. Drought.Gov

Salvation Army to host annual Thanksgiving dinner for Atlantic City community, Red kettles kickoff

The Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps is getting ready to host its annual Thanksgiving dinner, offering a warm, sit-down meal to hundreds of local residents in need. This year’s event will take place on Wednesday, Nov. 27, from 4 p.m. to 6 p.m. at the Salvation Army's gymnasium, located at 22 South Texas Ave.

Kimmie D'Angelo, a member of the Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps’ advisory board, said the corps, which is celebrating its 131st anniversary, always anticipates 300 people.

The Thanksgiving dinner is made possible through donations from both local businesses and private individuals. D'Angelo noted that a majority of the food items come from local

casinos, while private donations from individuals also help cover essential supplies like plates, napkins, coffee, sugar and trash bags.

Additionally, Atlantic Cape Community College culinary students and local chefs prepare dishes and volunteer to serve them each year.

“It’s a true community effort,” D'Angelo said. “We’re so thankful for all the support we receive.”

In addition to the Thanksgiving dinner, the Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps plays a vital role in the community year-round, offering a wide range of services. These include church services, after-school programs for children, drug rehabilitation programs and the annual Angel Tree program, which helps provide gifts for families in need during the holiday season.

D'Angelo said they helped 400 families last year.

The Salvation Army also operates a pantry that is open Monday through Friday, providing food and essential items to those struggling to make ends meet. Additionally, the iconic red kettles, which are set up

throughout Atlantic County during the holiday season, is the organization’s largest fundraiser each year, raising crucial funds that stay within the local community.

Every penny raised in the red kettles stays in Atlantic City, D'Angelo said.

Starting on Nov. 18, Salvation Army volunteers or employees stand outside of different locations with red buckets, or kettles, ringing a bell and collecting donations. They’re outside of 25 different stores throughout Atlantic County, like Walmart, Hobby Lobby and Sam's Club, six days a week until Dec. 24.

“They collect money for the Salvation Army to help [run] the programs, not just at Christmas time, but throughout the whole year,” said Lt. Lesley Colón. “So it helps the programs that we serve [and] the community.”

Donations help provide toys, clothing, food and essential resources to families in the community throughout the year.

Colón is a lieutenant, or leader, at Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps alongside her husband, Luie; They oversee the kettles.

Those standing with the kettles now accept mobile payments, a move D'Angelo said will allow passersby who aren’t carrying cash to donate when they want to.

Additionally, the Salvation Army is partnering with Walmart for the red Kettles with a roundup, which allows customers to roundup their change to the nearest dollar when at check out both online and in store.

To donate locally online, visit salvationarmyusa.org and click “Donate Locally” at the top of the page.

Julia is a recent Rider University graduate, where she studied multiplatform journalism and social media strategies. In her spare time, she enjoys reading, trying new coffee shops, photography and the beach. She can be reached at juliatrainmedia@gmail.com or connect with her on Instagram @juliatrain

The Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps holds their annual Thanksgiving dinner.
A Salvation Army Atlantic City Corps volunteer rings the bell outside a store.

Community groups unite to preserve family focus at Wonderland property

Soon after Gillian’s Wonderland Pier announced its imminent closure in August, a group of passionate locals rallied together on Facebook to protect its legacy and ensure that whatever replaces it respects the city’s unique zoning laws and maintains its family-focused character.

This movement, known as Save Wonderland, has grown rapidly, gaining supporters from all over the country and even internationally. The page currently has more than 900 followers.

The Save Wonderland movement began in August as a Facebook page, starting as a grassroots initiative. It has since grown into a formal advocacy group working to preserve the historical integrity of the ocean City Boardwalk and is in the process of becoming a recognized 501(c)(3) nonprofit.

Helen Struckmann, one of the group’s members, explains that its main goal is to protect and uphold the zoning standards that govern the boardwlk area. These laws have strict guidelines for development, and Save Wonderland wants to ensure the area remains in compliance.

Save Wonderland has also teamed up with Friends of o CNJ History & Culture, a local group dedicated to preserving o cean City's historic character.

o n Nov. 13, plans were announced to erect Icona in Wonderland, a 252-room hotel on the site of the defunct amusement park.

Wonderland’s current owner and developer, Eustace Mita, saved the

should remain a place for children and families to enjoy, in keeping with ocean City’s slogan, “America’s Greatest Family resort.”

Both Save Wonderland and Friends of oCNJ are advocating for a development that respects the historical significance of Wonderland while maintaining its family-friendly atmosphere.

A key tool in their efforts has been a petition to City Council and Mayor Jay Gillian, which has garnered more than 4,000 signatures. The petition opposes changes to zoning laws that could pave the way for a large hotel development at the Wonderland site.

property from a sheriff’s auction in 2021 and plans to keep the beloved Ferris wheel and carousel.

While supporters argue it would boost the economy, critics, like Bill Merritt, president of Friends of oCNJ History & Culture, say it could negatively impact the family-friendly nature of the Boardwalk.

“The resort that’s being proposed is not for kids; it’s for rich adults,” said Merritt, emphasizing that the space

“Something new can go in there, but whatever goes in there needs to achieve that same objective of being a place for kids, being a place that draws people up and down the Boardwalk," Merritt said.

The most controversial aspect of the proposal is Mita’s push to designate the site as a “redevelopment zone.” This would allow the project to relax zoning laws and historic preservation rules.

Save Wonderland members warn that allowing redevelopment in that area could create a dangerous precedent. They say that if the city permits this redevelopment, it risks lowering the bar for future developers seeking to build developments that aren’t in keeping with the area, such as hotels.

o n the other hand, if the city denies the redevelopment, it may face lawsuits from developers, both past and future, claiming discrimination or wrongful denial, leading to costly legal battles for taxpayers, Struckmann said.

“No matter what, it's a no-win scenario, and this is our opportunity to say we are not willing to do any of that, especially for a project that truly will not add anything at all to the city, and potentially hurt the city quite a bit,” said Struckmann.

Social media has played a key role in spreading the movement's message, helping Save Wonderland engage supporters and keep the community informed. With continued outreach and public meetings, the group is rallying for a future where ocean City's character remains intact.

The next meeting will be hosted Nov. 30 by both Save Wonderland and Friends of oCNJ at Tabernacle Baptist Church, 760 West Ave.

To learn more search for Save Wonderland on Facebook or see friendsofoCNJ.org.

Over one million lights amaze at Storybook Land

The festive spirit of the season has returned to Storybook Land. Last week, the popular South Jersey attraction was illuminated, for the first time this year, in over one million lights. Children young and old gathered by Santa’s house as the big man himself appeared from his chimney, said hello to all the onlookers below, and asked if everyone has been good all year long. With just a little Christmas magic and a wave his magic wand, the park is brought to life in a dazzling display of lights every night at 5 p.m.

The annual Christmas Fantasy with Lights is a South Jersey tradition that dates back over 30 years and has gained interest from all over. The display has been featured on ABC’s The Great Christmas Light Fight and was ranked #10 in USA Today’s Top

Ten Theme Park Holiday Events for 2023. As you arrive at Storybook Land, be sure to check out the illuminated front entrance, complete with Santa and his reindeer guiding the way. Walking into the park itself gives you the feeling of being in a winter wonderland.

The park itself is truly a sight to be seen at this time of year. As you make your way through Storybook Land, be sure to check out the synchronized light display towards the back of the

park. Tens of thousands of lights come to life to the sounds of some of your favorite Christmas songs. It is a dazzling sight to witness. At Jingle Bell Junction, you can enjoy the model Lehmann Gross Bohn (LGB) train display. Say hello to Santa’s reindeer, view the display of Santa’s Workshop, and, of course, check out all the rides and attractions.

Since 1955, Storybook Land has attracted visitors from all throughout the region and around the world. This

acclaimed South Jersey landmark keeps the spirit of childhood alive in an atmosphere that is educational and entertaining. It is a place where you can relive childhood memories while introducing new generations to classic fairytales and themes of wonderment.

Storybook Land is located at 6415 Black Horse Pike in Egg Harbor Township. They are open for the holidays Saturdays from 2 – 9 p.m., and Sundays 2 – 9 p.m., with extended hours through the month of December. Be there by 5 p.m. as the festive lights are turned on. The Christmas Fantasy with Lights will take place through December 23rd. The park is also hosting their Toys for Tots Toy Drive throughout the entire season. Be sure to drop off a new, unwrapped toy in the bin by guest services.

For updated hours of operation, advance tickets, or additional information, go to www.storybookland.com.

Steffen Klenk is a photographer and multimedia journalist who enjoys capturing the eclectic moments of shore life. You may contact Steffen at shorelocalsteffen@gmail.com.

EHT Parks and Recreation seeks public input about parks for 2025

Are you a resident with an idea to improve Egg Harbor Township’s hundreds of acres of recreational parks?

If so, Egg Harbor Township Parks and recreation Department is asking to hear from you.

Township residents are invited to speak up at 5:30 p.m. Tuesday (Nov. 26) during an open house at the Egg Harbor Township Municipal Building on Bargaintown road. The open house is being held in conjunction with the township committee meeting.

“This is a new initiative so that people’s voices can be heard,” said rick Audet, Director of Egg Harbor Township Parks and recreation.

The event by the Parks and recreation Department is an opportunity for township officials to hear ideas from residents, Audet said.

He plans to present information on recent park projects, the current capital improvement plan, and funding opportunities for park enhancements next year.

At the first open house on Nov. 13, Audet said some residents suggested adding more pickleball courts for the township. Audet said an 8-court facility was recently built at MK Betterment Park on Cates Avenue.

“It (pickleball) is so popular we could have built something twice as big,” he said.

He said a six-year capital recreation budget is being finalized for the township parks.

“The purpose (of the open house) is to gather more public input to help us in the development of the capital improvement plan,” he said.

Similar meetings with township youth sports organizations help Audet’s office assess the organization's needs each year. It’s the first time Parks and recreation has opened the discussion about parks to everyone in the township, not just youth organizations.

“These open house meetings are a way to garner additional input from people who are not part of sports organizations and are members of the general public. We want to find out everyone’s needs,” he said.

Audet said his office and the township recreation Commission have received “tremendous support” from the township administrator Thomas J. D'Intino and all of the township committee.

Suggestions and ideas from residents who attend the open house will be recorded for possible future use, Audet said.

“We will review all of the input,” he said. “We will review it and consider it and do our best to incorporate ideas into our six-year plan.”

Even if a suggestion doesn’t fit in with the parks and recreation plan for 2025, Audet said it is possible it could be considered in future years.

“We will take all the input we hear and use it for the next year – and the years beyond,” Audet said.

Audet is also preparing a survey for residents to take about the township’s parks.

The survey will be available in the next few weeks on the township Parks and recreation Department Facebook page and it will also be sent out to residents through email blasts, he said.

Egg Harbor Township boasts 10 parks and playgrounds which vary in size.

The township parks include the more than 50-acre Anthony ‘Tony’ Canale Park at Dogwood Avenue, the 83-acre veterans Memorial Park on o cean Heights Avenue, the 35-acre Childs-Kirk Memorial Park on Idlewood Avenue, the Delilah oaks Park which is 5 acres, and a basketball court at o akland and Tremont avenues which is just under 1 acre.

There is the more than 8-acre Shires Park, the Shires Playground on Esher Way, the 23-acre Bargaintown Park on Delaware Avenue, and the recently revitalized MK Betterment Park on Cates Avenue.

The township is also home to the 220-acre Egg Harbor Township Nature reserve on Zion road and the Egg Harbor Township Nature reserve Environmental Learning Center on 15 acres on School House road.

OC Sons of the American Legion to host Coast Guard recruits for Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is known as a holiday of family togetherness, combined with good food and fun. All this can change if one is away from home and in a new location while serving your country.

o cean City’s Sons of the American Legion Squadron 524 will be offering a traditional Thanksgiving dinner to 40 Coast Guard recruits stationed at Cape May’s Coast Guard Training Station during this family-centered holiday.

"Cape May County is a proud Coast Guard Community,” said Sons commander Mike Byerly. “Many of us spend a good deal of time on the water, and it is always reassuring to know that if things go sideways, the Coast Guard has our backs.”

At 9 a.m. on Thanksgiving morning, a charter bus will pick-up the recruits at the Cape May Coast Guard Training Station and transport them to the o cean City Welcome Center, where they will be greeted by a police and fire company brigade. The recruits will then be formally escorted to the American Legion’s Morvay-Miley Cruice Post 524 at

The U.S. Coast Guard Training Station in Cape May consists of 450 acres and 258 buildings. (Photo Courtesy of US Coast Guard Petty Officer Gregory Schell )

46th Street and West Avenue for a daylong celebration.

Following coffee and breakfast snacks, a full array of activities will be offered, including games of pinball, pool, shuffleboard, darts and corn hole. Surround sound music and television sports will play all day.

The recruits will enjoy a delicious Thanksgiving dinner of turkey, tenderloin, pulled pork and all the traditional side dish fixings. The main dishes are being prepared by Dave

Newman, owner and executive chef at o cean City’s Blitz’s Market. volunteers from Post 524’s veterans, Auxiliary and Sons family will make the recruits feel right at home.

“I can't think of a more fitting way to celebrate Thanksgiving than to demonstrably express our gratitude to these young men and women who have chosen to serve our country and our community,” said Byerly. “Hopefully today’s festivities will ease the burden of being separated from their

families, and serve as a reminder that their fellow Americans appreciate their sacrifices and service.”

The Coast Guard Training Center at Cape May is the birthplace of the U.S. Coast Guard Enlisted Corps, where all nationwide recruit training functions were consolidated in 1982. Annually, 4,600 new recruits begin their careers with an eight-week training program here.

The Squadron 524 Thanksgiving dinner was aided by the American red Cross’s New Jersey region and

3120 Fire Road, Suite 100, Egg Harbor Twp, NJ

Phone 609.317.0801 kap@djd.law djdlawyers.com

its o peration Fireside. This program puts recruits and Thanksgiving dinner sponsors in direct contact. Those who would like to learn more about the red Cross operation Fireside can reach out by email to opfiresidenj@ redcross.org or by calling 609-5623483.

To learn more about activities sponsored by o cean City’s Morvay-Miley-Cruise American Legion Post 524, contact them by phone: (609) 304-3088 or by email: www. legion524ocni.com.

Forty recruits from the U.S. Coast Guard Training Station in Cape May will be Thanksgiving dinner guests of Ocean City Post 524 Sons of the American Legion. (Photo Courtesy of U.S. Coast Guard Petty Officer Gregory Schell )
A Company Commander marches his trainees at Cape May Coast Guard Training Station (Photo courtesy of US Coast Guard Petty Officer Gregory Schell )

Events and Happenings

Multi Day Events

Christmas Fantasy with Lights at Storybook Land

▶Saturday, Nov. 23 and Sunday, Nov. 24

6415 E. Black Horse Pike, Egg Harbor Township

Every operating night at dusk, Santa will wave his magic wand and light up Storybook Land in over 1 million illuminated lights. The park will be open 2-9 p.m. this Saturday, and 2-8 p.m. this Sunday. Tickets will not be sold at the gate. Purchase online at www.storybookland.com.

GOYA Annual Thanksgiving Food Drive

▶Now-Sunday, Nov. 24

Holy Trinity Greek o rthodox Church, 7004 ridge Ave., Egg Harbor Township

GoYA at Holy Trinity is collecting donations for the Community Food Bank of New Jersey for Thanksgiving. Donation bins will be located in the church narthex and at the entrance through Nov. 24. Items requested include frozen turkeys and ham, gravy, cranberry sauce, stuffing, pasta, rice, potatoes, mac and cheese, chili, canned soup, peanut butter (plastic jars only), plus canned vegetables, fruit, tuna, chicken and ham.

Charity League Christmas Mart

▶Friday, Nov. 22, 10 a.m.-7 p.m.; and Saturday, Nov. 23, 10 a.m.-4 p.m.

Greate Bay Country Club, 901

Mays Landing road, Somers Point Shop in the spirit of Christmas at the 78th Annual Christmas Mart, hosted by the Charity League of Atlantic County. This year’s theme is “Starry, Starry Night.” Shop from over a dozen local vendors. Browse homemade goods, enjoy an array of cookies and desserts, and get a

photo with Santa. More information is available at www.charityleague-ac. com.

OCHS Drama Guild presents ‘Alice in Wonderland’

▶Friday, Nov. 22, 6:30 p.m.; and Saturday, Nov. 23, 1:30 and 6:30 p.m.

Bill and Nancy Hughes Performing Arts Center, Sixth St. and Atlantic Ave.

Join the o cean City School District and High School Drama Guild for their annual fall production. visit

www.facebook.com/oceanCityHS to purchase tickets in advance.

EHTHS presents ‘Harry Potter and the Cursed Child: High School Edition’

▶Friday, Nov. 22-Sunday, Nov. 24

Egg Harbor Township High School, 24 High School Drive

Join Egg Harbor Township High School for their annual fall show, a special adaptation of this beloved worldwide hit. Nineteen years after Harry, ron and Hermione saved the wizarding world, the trio are back on an extraordinary new adventure, joined by a brave new generation that has arrived at Hogwarts. Showtimes are Friday, Nov. 22 at 7 p.m.; Saturday, Nov. 23 at 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.; and Sunday, Nov. 24 at 2 p.m. Tickets can be purchased online at http://ehths. booktix.com.

Friday, November 22

Tinseltown Tree Lighting Kick-Off ▶1 p.m.

Tropicana Atlantic City, 2831 Boardwalk

Kick off the holiday season at Tropicana Atlantic City’s Tree Lighting Ceremony. Enjoy an afternoon

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Brigantine's Fall Farmers Market will be on Nov. 23. Photo credit: Brigantine Farmers Market Facebook

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of holiday magic with a festive performance by the Mainland regional High School Choir, complimentary treats from participating restaurants and a special appearance by Santa Claus. The afternoon concludes with a musical holiday light show, running every hour on the hour starting at noon through Dec. 26.

Enlightened Farm Market

▶2-6 p.m.

572 S. o dessa Ave., Egg Harbor City

Check out Enlightened Farms for fresh harvest and hand-crafted products, florals and more. Experience the farm firsthand through a tour, you-pick herbs and local vendor highlights.

Ventnor PBA Beef anf Beer Fundraiser

▶5-8 p.m.

Nucky’s Kitchen and Speakeasy, 5211 ventnor Ave.

Join ventnor City PBA Local 97 for their beef and beer fundraiser. There will be a silent auction and raffles, along with music by ricky Stevens. Tickets are $30 at the door.

Saturday, November 23

Earlier than the Bird

▶8 a.m.-Noon

Downtown Asbury Ave., o cean City

Get up earlier than the bird and jump-start your holiday shopping the weekend before Thanksgiving. Shop in your pajamas for early bird shopping specials. For more information, visit www.oceancityvacation.com

Brigantine Fall Farmers Market

▶9 a.m.-1 p.m.

Brigantine Community School Parking Lot, Sheridan Place

Join the Brigantine Farmers Market for their second Fall Market of the season. Dozens of local vendors will be lined up along the parking lot selling homemade items, food and beverages.

Horse and Carriage Rides in Ocean City

▶Noon-3 p.m.

Sixth St. and Asbury Ave.

For more information, visit www. oceancityvacation.com.

Artsy Autumn at Ocean City Library

▶Noon-2 p.m.

o cean City Free Public Library, 1735 Simpson Ave.

Drop in to o CFPL for a special craft event for kids ages 6-11. The theme is Harvest Creations. Enjoy an artsy autumn craft in the Children’s Activity room.

Lucinda Williams and Her Band ▶8 p.m.

ning singer/songwriter Lucinda Williams to the Music Pier. Presented by the City of ocean City. Produced by B rE Presents & rose Productions. Purchase tickets online at www. oceancityvacation.com.

Sunday, November 24

Jazz Concert Series at Ocean City Library

▶2 p.m.

o cean City Free Public Library, 1735 Simpson Ave.

Join oCFPL for their free weekly concert series as Michael Pedicin presents "The Art of the Trio.” This week, enjoy a performance by the Jim ridl Trio. Concerts will be held in the Chris Maloney Lecture Hall. Use the entrance closest to 17th Street. For more information, visit www. oceancitylibrary.org or call 609-3992434.

Junwen Liang, Pianist: From Then to Now ▶2 p.m.

Stockton Performing Arts Center, 101 vera King Farris Drive, Galloway Experience a musical journey spanning traditional to modern compositions in a single unforgettable concert. ‘From Then to Now’ is an enchanting piano recital spanning some of the most evocative pieces of music ever written. Purchase tickets at the Stockton PAC box office or online at www.stockton.edu/pac.

Masterworks Choir Presents ‘Jubilate Deo’

▶4 p.m.

St. Peter’s United Methodist Church, Eighth St. and Central Ave., ocean City

Join St. Peter’s for a special concert as the Masterworks Community Choir and Guest Middle School Choir and soloists present Dan Forrest’s contemporary “Jubilate Deo.” The choral work is sung in seven languages: Latin, Hebrew, Arabic, Mandarin Chinese, Zulu, Spanish and English. This is a free concert; a free-will offering will be accepted. John Bate is musical director and conductor, Scott Breiner is the organist. Opera by the Sea

▶4 p.m.

Community Presbyterian Church, 1501 W. Brigantine Ave., Brigantine Amici o pera Company presents verdi’s “Nabucco” this Sunday. Tickets are $30 per person and may be purchased at the door. For more information contact ralph Tudisco at 215-224-0257.

Tuesday, November 26

Beginner Yoga Class in Somers Point

▶10 a.m.

ocean City Music Pier, 825 Boardwalk

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Somers Point Senior Center, 22 N. Ambler road

The City of Somers Point is host-

ing a Beginner Yoga Class for Seniors. Take part in a relaxed gentle flow with focuses on yoga poses linking movement with breath, increasing strength and flexibility. Time will be spent on the mat in seated, kneeling and standing poses. Bring your own mat. register by calling 609-226-4389 or email helbigshore@icloud.com.

Memory Café

▶10:30 a.m.

ocean City Library, 1735 Simpson Ave.

Caregivers and their loved ones living with dementia are invited to join JFS village and UMC representatives in a dementia-friendly space. Experience creativity and social connections through art, music, gentle movements and more. rSvP by Nov. 22 by contacting Tina Serota at 609-287-8872 or email tserota@ jfsatlantic.org.

Trivia at the Library

▶6:30 p.m.

Longport Library, 2305 Atlantic Ave.

Gather your friends and test your knowledge in an evening of brain-teasing fun at the Longport Library. Call 609-487-7403 to register or learn more.

Somers Point Dance Society

▶7:30-10 p.m.

Somers Point Fire Hall, 447 Bethel road

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Admission is $10 and includes snacks, live musical duos, line dancing, dance mixers, social dancing and plenty of parking. Come out and kick up your heels, or just listen to good music with good company.

Wednesday, November 27

Somers Point Pinochle Club

▶6-8:30 p.m.

Somers Point Senior Center, 22 N. Ambler road

Join the Pinochle Club in Somers

NJAC 5:28A (Law) was passed by Governor Murphy in July of 2022 requiring compliance no later than July 22, 2024. The Law has been recently modified via Bill S3368 in September, 2024. The most notable revisions were the extension for compliance to July 22, 2025 and the modification of lead safe certificate expiration from two years to three years.

The Law requires either a lead safe dust wipe inspection or lead safe visual inspection depending the township/county where the property is located. The law applies to residential rental properties built before 1978, with rental terms of six-months or longer. Townships may require inspections for leases with shorter terms. Check with your local township.

What you need to know

This ar ticle is written to protect your rights, offer advice and most important, SAVE YOU MONEY The Law requires only one of two types of inspections based on the county and

Point for an evening of good times and great fun. All are welcome to join.

Thanksgiving Eve Tree Lighting at Tennessee Avenue

▶5:30-7 p.m.

Tennessee Avenue Beer Hall, 133 S. Tennessee Ave., Atlantic City

Enjoy a festive Christmas tree lighting ceremony along with live music, themed cocktails and good spirits to kick off the holiday season.

Thursday, November 28

HSOC Annual Fast and Furriest

5K Turkey Trot

▶8:30 a.m.

ocean City Music Pier 825 Boardwalk

Join the Humane Society of ocean City in supporting animals in need during the 17th Annual Turkey Trot. registration opens at 7 a.m.; the run will begin at 8:30. There will also be a 1 Mile Kids Fun run looping from the Music Pier to Fifth Street and back. For more information, call 609-3989500, ext. 4 or visit www.hsoc.org.

Mainland After Prom’s Annual Turkey Trot

▶8:30 a.m.

Mainland regional High School, 1301 oak Ave., Linwood

Join the M rHS Educational Foundation for their annual Turkey Trot

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township where the rental property is located. The first is a visual inspection. The second is a dust-wipe inspection. Nothing more is required. To determine if you will require a visual inspection or dust-wipe, you can access the New Jersey Department of Consumer Affairs (NJDCA) Website and search for “2022-2023 LEAD-BASED PAINT INSPECTION

METHODOLOGY PURSUANT TO P.L. 2021, C.182”. Next, use the same NJDCA website to access their “LIST OF CERTIFIED LEAD EVALUATION CONTRACTORS (PURSUANT TO NJAC 5:17”. You are free to select any certified provider on the list, and you are encouraged to do so in order to find a provider who is in geographic proximity and/or who is the most cost-effective. AVOID paying exorbitant fees to improvement authorities and/or local townships who “partner” with certain providers who are not competitive in price or within geographic proximity. We recommend you obtain at least three quotes from the NJDCA “2022-2023 LEAD-BASED PAINT INSPECTION METHODOLOGY PURSUANT TO P.L. 2021, C.182”.

Another area to tread cautiously, is when Lead Free XRF Inspections are recommended. While they tout being permanent, they are an

“oversell”. Lead free inspections using XRF analyzers far exceed the minimal requirements under the Law, nor are they recommended in the law. They are expensive, sometimes invasive and require full removal or demolition of building components (Abatement). Under the Law, building components require repair, painting or encapsulation (Remediation). Remediation is by far, and on average the fastest and least expensive means to earn your lead safe certificate. In addition, dust wipes often test positive for lead dust. That is because lead dust and lead particals are everywhere. They are in our water, soil, paint, in highway dust and debris and in the air. We track lead dust from lead in soil and the streets. It also finds itself in ventilation systems. Logically, nothing can be truly permanently lead free as long as lead dust exists. XRF analyzer inspections may have their place in full-scope lead inspection risk assessment (LIRA) examinations, but not in the lead safe law. The process and cost are “oversell” and it is unlikely a building constructed prior to 1978 will actually test permanently lead free if the inspections are performed thoroughly and properly, and considering the presence of lead dust transmission.

Junwen Liang will perform Nov. 24 at Stockton Performing Arts Center.

5K run and Walk on Thanksgiving Day benefiting Mainland’s After Prom. Early bird registration is open now at www.runsignup.com/mainlandturkeytro.

Friday, November 29

Christmas in the Downtown ▶2-5 p.m.

Downtown Asbury Avenue, ocean City

Join the Chamber of Commerce for a “Miracle on Asbury Avenue” kicking off an old-fashioned Downtown Christmas. Meet at City Hall prior to 5 p.m. for Christmas carols and performances. Then get ready as Santa makes his appearance atop City Hall, with some help from the ocean City Fire Department, to light the tree. For more information, visit www.oceancityvacation.com.

Paint it Black Friday: Rolling Stones Tribute ▶8 p.m.

Celebrity Theatre at The Claridge, 123 S. Indiana Ave., Atlantic City

Join Tony Mart Presents for Paint it Black Friday as the Billy Walton Band presents a special tribute to The rolling Stones. General admission seating is $20 per person and includes your first beer, wine or drink. Go to www.claridge.com to purchase tickets.

Health and Wellness

Living in the Moment Group

▶Fridays, 10:30 a.m.

Mental Health Association of Atlantic County, 4 E. Jimmie Leeds road Suite 8, Galloway

Slow down and spend an hour with like-minded people working on gratitude, self-love and other character traits that encourage mindfulness. Weekly meetings include meaningful discussions, camaraderie and a group activity. For more information, call 609-652-3800, ext. 0306.

Lung Cancer Screening Event

▶Saturday, Nov. 23, 8 a.m.Noon.

Shore Medical Center, 100 Medical Center Way, Somers Point

Shore Medical Center, a member of the Penn Medicine Cancer Network, and Advanced Shore Imaging Associates are working together to offer free screenings and consultations provided by Shore Physicians Group. If you are between the ages of 50 and 80, and a current smoker or have quit smoking in the last 15 years, a low-dose CT scan may be right for you. Call 609-653-3440 for your appointment.

Dementia Support Group

▶Wednesday, Dec. 4, 1:30 p.m.

6009 Paul and Thelma Lane, Mays Landing

Held on the first and third Wednesday of every month from

1:30 to 3 p.m. Call Diane Conover at 609-402-6966 for more information. NAMI Family Support and Connection

▶Monday, Dec. 9, 7 p.m.

St. Joseph’s Catholic Church, 606 Shore road, Somers Point

Hosted by the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI). The Family Support Group is peer led for families, caregivers and loved ones of individuals with mental illness. Connection is a recovery support group for adults 18+ living with a mental health condition. Participants gain the support of peers who understand their experience and gain insight into others’ challenges and successes. visit www.namiacm.org or call 609741-5125 for more information.

MHA Atlantic Family Meetings

▶Thursday, Dec. 12, 7 p.m.

These virtual support groups and educational programs are for individuals with a loved one affected by mental health and/or substance use disorders. Day and evening meetings include an educational segment as well as support in the form of stress-reduction, self-care, resources and advocacy. Meetings are held at 10 a.m. on the second and fourth Thursday, and 7 p.m. every third Wednesday. Contact Gail Christian at 609652-3800 ext. 0301 or gchristian@ mhanj.org to receive a meeting link.

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Volunteer fire companies looking for money

For most volunteer fire companies in South Jersey, it’s that time of year again. It's time for volunteers to hold a community fundraising drive.

Some fire companies send out mailers through the postal service to residents and businesses.

The hope is that someone will use the return envelope inside the mailer, and include a check with a donation for the fire company.

For many area volunteer fire companies, it’s time for firefighters to use their weekend to stand at the intersection with a donation bucket and hope motorists are kind enough

manpower

to drop some spare change into the container.

volunteer fire companies save money for communities and taxpayers.

However, many area volunteer fire companies are critically underfunded.

Cardiff volunteer Fire Company in Egg Harbor Township, which held a donation collection Nov. 17 at English

Creek and West Jersey avenues, is among them.

Firefighters will collect again on Nov. 24 at the same location.

The volunteer fire company reported that after the 2023 fund drive it mailed out 5,448 donation vouchers to Cardiff residents, but only 410 were returned with donations.

Cardiff firefighters also mailed out 439 donation vouchers for the businesses in Cardiff, but only 23 were returned with donations.

Cardiff thanked the businesses that donated in 2023: McGowan Landscaping, Palermo Masonry and the LB1 restaurant.

More calls, fewer volunteers

Signs that read “ volunteers Needed” are a mainstay along route 9 in Linwood and Somers Point, or in Egg Harbor Township. The same signs appear in Galloway Township and Hamilton Township outside firehouses.

In 2022 and 2023, firefighters in Atlantic County responded to a combined total of more than 20,000 total calls for service, according to data provided by the New Jersey Department of Community Affairs (DCA).

Atlantic County fire officials said that some area fire companies may surpass their previous number of calls for service in 2024.

The Bargaintown Fire Company responded to 482 fire calls in 2023 compared to 472 calls in 2022.

As of September 30, Bargaintown firefighters have handled 436 calls, according to Fire Chief Gene Sharp.

The Cardiff Fire Company responded to 548 calls in 2022 compared to 588 calls in 2023. Cardiff reports so far in 2024, firefighters have responded to more than 438 calls as of September.

What else do volunteer fire companies provide?

While their main task is providing fire protection, area volunteer fire departments do much more.

All of the fire companies participate in bringing Santa Claus around on a fire truck each December.

Each year, Sept. 11 ceremonies are held to remember those who died in the terrorist attacks. Firefighters staff each event with a fire engine.

Fire companies throughout Atlantic County provide o pen House for residents each o ctober during Fire Prevention Month. volunteer firefighters staff each event.

The volunteer firefighters also provide fire engines for the local Touch-A-Truck event, National Night o ut, or at area elementary schools during Fire Prevention Week.

It’s up to the volunteers to clean

each piece of fire apparatus.

Many volunteer companies provide college scholarships at area high schools.

Volunteers are needed

Ask any volunteer fire company in Atlantic County, and they will likely tell you they have trouble finding volunteers.

When former Police Chief Dennis Hofmann retired from law enforcement in North Jersey, he settled in the Bargaintown section of Egg Harbor Township and filled a slot with the fire police.

But he wanted to do more, so he became a volunteer firefighter.

“I was 60 years old when I went through the fire academy,” said Hofmann, the fire company’s president. “But I was used to seeing action and I wanted to get back in the game.”

Because he was retired, Hofmann was able to go through fire school without disrupting his schedule.

Not everyone, however, has the time to volunteer.

“The number one problem today, and it’s an age-old problem, is people don’t have time,” said William Danz Sr., a former Cardiff Fire Chief and longtime member of Cardiff volunteer Fire Company #1.

He blamed a lack of volunteer firefighters on state regulations that require full days and months of training.

“In my day, I worked two jobs and was a volunteer,” he said. “Today state regulations are strict and fire school means 180-200 hours of time training in Firefighter one.

“The problem in this day and age is people don’t have the time to do what it takes to be true volunteers,” he said.

Danz also said many people believe Egg Harbor Township firefighters get salaries from the township.

“They all think we’re paid,” Danz said.

He said the township expanded in population during the 1980s when casinos opened in Atlantic City. A shopping center was built on English Creek Avenue and housing developments popped up in each section of the township.

“A lot of older folks relocated here from northern New Jersey where they had paid departments,” Danz said. “That’s not the case here. We’re volunteers. And we’re in the same boat today as we were then.

Stephanie is a freelance writer with 40 years experience covering NJ news for The Asbury Park Press, The Courier Post, The Catholic Star Herald and The Press of AC. Email her at stephanieloder59@hotmail.com

South Jersey holiday craft shows and sales supporting local artists and driving tourism

In South Jersey, a full line-up of ongoing craft shows provide residents and visitors with an important way to support artists and drive tourism as well as revenue to local businesses. A recent report from American for the Arts indicates that the nonprofit arts industry generates $166.3 billion in economic activity annually including spending

by organizations and their audiences. This economic activity supports 4.6 million jobs and results in $27.5 billion in government revenue.

According to this research, arts attendees spend $31.47 per person, per event, beyond the cost of admission on items such as meals, parking and lodging—essential revenue for local businesses. Arts travelers are considered excellent tourists who remain longer and spend more at desirable

locations, where they search for engaging culture experiences.

Here are several upcoming craft shows and sales lighting up the holiday season in South Jersey: Holiday Crafts & Collectibles Show at Cape May MAC--Celebrating Museums, Art and Culture

o n Nov. 29 and 30, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., the Cape May MAC Holiday Craft Show promises visitors a range of unique gift discoveries.

“Crafters and artisans from throughout the region will be displaying their creations, including handmade jewelry, original photography, miniatures, fresh holiday greenery and handmade wreaths, hand-crafted pottery, handmade knitwear, original artwork and more," said Susan Krysiak, Cape May MAC director of media relations.

“Cape May MAC offers visitors multiple indoor and outdoor crafts and collectibles shows in every season throughout the year. There are 22 shows planned for 2025. The outdoor shows are at the beautiful grounds of the historic Emlen Physick Estate, and the indoor shows are at Cape May Convention Hall, a comfortable and spacious setting for the colder months. Cape May is a wonderful historic place to visit, with wonderful restaurants and accommodations and Cape May MAC tours, activities and events to enjoy year-round.”

For more information, visit capemaymac.org. Artisans can find out more about being part of Cape May MAC shows here: https://capemaymac.org/crafts-and-collectibles/. Holiday Studio Sale at WheatonArts Event Center in Millville At the WheatonArts Event Center in Millville, N.J., the Holiday Studio Sale will run from Nov. 29 through Dec. 8, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Handcrafted ceramic and glass items will be available at 3070% off original prices.

A table will be set up at the free-admission sale for visitors to create their own unique gift tags. Proceeds from the sale support individual artists and arts programming at WheatonArts.

Trunk shows will be held in the Museum Stores on Nov. 29 to Dec. 1 and Dec.14. Pieces from the collections of Chris Coffman, Lorraine Haddock and Susan Boyce will also be featured. During the last day of the Holiday Studio Sale, free family nature art activities are scheduled.

visitors will find The Museum of American Glass at the heart of the Center, which is one of only nine museums in New Jersey to be accredited by the American Alliance of Museums. Learn more about the Holiday Studio Sale and programs throughout the year at http://www.wheatonarts.org.

Artisan Holiday Market at Grounds For Sculpture in Hamilton o n Nov. 30 and Dec. 1, more than 40 local artisans will sell handcrafted jewelry, pottery, woodworking and original art at Grounds For Sculpture. visitors may also explore 42 acres of art- filled gardens and collections in

the galleries. Sculptural works and installations by American and international artists include wood, bronze, stone, stone, steel and paper.

Slow Motion, an indoor and outdoor art exhibition curated by Monument Lab at Grounds For Sculpture, reimagines the material possibilities of public memory. The exhibition, which runs through Sept. 1, 2025, will feature the work of artists who make their mark through unconventional materials and processes.

Upcoming activities include family open studios, winter wreath making and tots for sculpture. For more information, see https://www.groundsforsculpture.org/

Ventnor Holiday Art Show & Sale

o n Dec. 7 and 8 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., the ventnor Cultural Arts Center will hold the annual holiday art show and sale. The work of local artists, including handmade items, will

be available for sale. Live music and treats will create a festive atmosphere at the center, which is located in the ventnor Library building.

In addition, the center offers ongoing pottery, painting and jewelry-making classes. Along with dance and yoga classes for children and adults, participants may join a variety of workshops.

For additional details, see https:// www.ventnorarts.org/

Holiday Market & Gingerbread Village at Noyes Arts Garage of Stockton University in Atlantic City

o n Dec. 14 and 15 from noon to 5 p.m., vendors will display and sell handmade items, which add a personal touch during the gift-giving season. visitors are invited to vote on their favorite gingerbread house throughout the event weekend. This year’s theme is "favorite fictional home." Santa will also delight children, who are interested in great photo opportunities.

Featuring a full line-up of ongoing art classes and workshops, the Arts Garage has scheduled a toy drive and poetry open mic event during the holiday season. Affiliated with the Noyes Museum of Art in Hammonton, the Noyes Arts Garage of Stockton University promotes education and provides resources for emerging artists.

For more information, visit https:// noyesmuseum.org/

Most collections in Atlantic County will be delayed by one day.* Thursday collections will be performed on Friday. Friday collections will be performed on Saturday. *In Ventnor, Thursday AND Friday collections will be performed on Friday.

See acua.com for details.

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Keep spending in check this holiday season

Christmas is often called the season of giving, but with that comes spending. According to the National retail Federation, consumer spending on the winter holidays is expected to reach a record $902 per person on average across gifts, food, decorations, and other seasonal items. In addition, total holiday spending in November and December is expected to be between $979.5 billion and $989 billion. While it feels good to give gifts, sticking to your budget is key to helping you not go into debt during the holidays. Here are some of the best ways to keep a budget and still have a great holiday season. The first way to plan for the holidays is to start saving early. remember the old “Christmas Club” savings accounts? You put in a little money each week. By the end of the year,

you had all of your money saved for gifts. This is something that needs to make a comeback! Setting up an auto-transfer each week from your checking account to a separate account that is used only for the holidays is a great way to stay out of debt after the holidays are over. Even just $10 a week means $520 to spend at the end of the year. $20 will give you $1,040. Whatever you want to spend, just divide that number by 52, and that’s what you need to save each week.

Saving in advance is only part of the equation. All of that is wasted if once we start shopping, we start using our credit cards. Use debit cards only for your holiday shopping. If you haven’t saved the money before the holidays, then you can’t spend it, period. I know that doesn’t help you this year since you’re just reading this a few weeks before Christmas, but implement this system on Jan. 1 in order to be prepared for next year. For this year, write out your budget before you shop. The simple act

of writing something down holds you more accountable for following it. Start thinking about ways to earn extra money over the holidays to pay for all of your purchases. There are always a ton of seasonal opportunities for side jobs around the holidays to earn extra cash. o nce you know your budget, you will know exactly how much extra you have to earn (net of taxes) to pay for your presents. Next, think about why you picked the budget number you chose. Do you really need to spend $1,000, $2,000 or $3,000? I know toys cost a lot more than they used to, especially electronics, and inflation isn’t helping, but do kids really need that much stuff? When I was a kid, my parents sacrificed so much to give us great gifts at Christmas. However, honestly, I can only remember a small handful over all of those years. What I really remember is the time we spent together and the traditions we had as a family, even if they were seemingly insignificant at the time. In fact, in recent years, my family and I have planned family vacations instead, using the amount we would have

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Atlantic City International Airport enhances passenger flow with new exit lane technology

Atlantic City International Airport (ACY) announced the installation of new exit lane technology, designed to significantly improve passenger flow and streamline the process of exiting the terminal. This system replaces the previous exit portals, and meets the demands of high passenger throughput and offers a more efficient and seamless experience for travelers.

The new exit lanes are state-ofthe-art, one-way access doors that maintain the integrity of the airport’s sterile side while allowing for faster and more efficient movement. The innovative doors were manufactured by record North America, a leading provider of automated door solutions. record North America is a subsidiary of the record Group, which operates

in thirteen countries worldwide.

“This new exit technology is another value-added improvement to the airport’s infrastructure,” says Tim Kroll, director of Atlantic City International Airport. “Not only does it greatly improve the overall passenger experience by reducing wait times and easing congestion, but this upgrade is also ultimately our way of letting passengers know we want their ACY experience to be as stress-free as possible, from when they first arrive on the property to them leaving to return home. The exit doors are just one of the many ways we’re working to enhance services and amenities for our travelers.”

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Baby bella mushrooms with a soy-balsamic marinade make the perfect Thanksgiving side dish

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Move over turkey! We have a savory side that’s going to steal your spotlight. Baby bella mushrooms mixed with balsamic vinegar, soy sauce, garlic and thyme give this dish that umami flavor that will have you coming back for second helpings. This dish comes together easily and can be thrown into the oven while the turkey is resting and waiting to be carved.

Years ago, I started making these mushrooms when I was searching for Thanksgiving foods that would fit my daughter’s vegetarian diet. Now, all of my family enjoys this side dish and requests it throughout the year. These mushrooms almost have a “meaty” taste that could stand in as a main entrée.

Marinate them in the morning directly in your cooking dish for less chaos at turkey time. Anything that can be started ahead will help ease some of the last-minute pressure when preparing the feast of the year. o nce you taste these mushrooms, you will wish that you made more. Keep in mind that mushrooms are full of water and will greatly reduce in size after cooking. For a crowd, I use two 24-ounce packages of mushrooms. Don’t worry if you have leftovers; they also taste great the next day.

After cleaning your mushrooms, cut them in half, making sure to include the stems. Place the baby bellas directly into your oven-proof dish in a single layer and drain any water that has accumulated before adding the marinade. In a separate bowl, add 2 tablespoons of extra virgin olive oil, 4 tablespoons of balsamic vinegar, 3

tablespoons of soy sauce, 3 cloves of chopped garlic and a half teaspoon of fresh thyme. Mix well and pour over mushrooms, stirring them so that the marinade coats all of the mushrooms. Sprinkle it with salt and fresh ground pepper.

You can prepare everything up to this point and refrigerate the mushrooms for an hour or so before continuing. I have also placed the mushrooms directly in the oven with -

out taking time to marinate them. roast the mushroom dish in a preheated 400° oven for 25-30 minutes, stirring halfway through cooking. If you marinated the mushrooms in the refrigerator, allow them to come to room temperature before cooking.

These mushrooms are a must-have at our Thanksgiving Day dinners. They taste delicious paired with my make-ahead mashed potatoes. When it’s not Thanksgiving, these marinated baby bellas also make an amazing side dish with steak.

What’s your favorite side dish? We would love to hear your comments and questions. Kindly email shorelocalgardener@gmail.com.

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Whether you’re interested in the hottest new books, educational workshops, children’s activities, or online resources, the library has everything you need to spark your imagination this fall. Visit OceanCityLibrary.org for a complete list of events and resources.

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Downtown ‘Earlier Than

the

Bird’ Celebration Set for Saturday

The early forecast calls for clear skies and mild temperatures on Saturday –ideal conditions to kick off the holiday season along downtown Asbury Avenue. In o cean City, that means shopping in your pajamas during the annual Earlier Than the Bird celebration.

The downtown shopping extravaganza takes place 8 a.m. to noon Nov. 23 – the Saturday before Thanksgiving. Anybody (pajama-clad or not) can take advantage of early-bird shopping specials at stores on Asbury Avenue between Sixth Street and 14th Street. But free turkeys will be awarded to the best-dressed, and shoppers can text in to win gift certificates and prizes from downtown merchants.

Free coffee will be available at Jon & Patty’s (637 Asbury Avenue) and ocean City Coffee Company (917 Asbury Ave.). Downtown Asbury Avenue will be decorated for the season.

Free horse-and-carriage rides will

be available later that day from noon to 3 p.m. It’s a chance to ride downtown the old-fashioned way with boarding at Sixth Street and Asbury Avenue.

Downtown will be celebrating “Festive Fridays” again this year. The fun will start on Nov. 29 with o cean City’s traditional Christmas in the Downtown – “o ur Miracle on Asbury Avenue.” This Black Friday event includes shopping, horse-andcarriage rides, street entertainment and carolers. The event will culminate around 5 p.m. when Santa Claus will emerge on the rooftop of City Hall. With the help of an ocean City Fire Department ladder truck, Santa will descend and help light the Christmas Tree and illuminate City Hall.

Festive Fridays will continue on Dec. 6 with the annual Christmas Parade at 6 p.m. on Asbury Avenue from 6th Street to 11th Street. Festive Fridays will then continue on Dec. 13 and 20 with shopping, carolers, and free horse-and-carriage rides from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m.

Registration open for Holiday House Decorating Contest and Christmas Parade registration is now open for the annual o cean City Holiday House Decorating Contest. The contest awards prizes based on creativity, special effects, lighting, theme and overall appearance. A list of all contest participants will be posted, so everybody can enjoy the holiday displays. For more information and to register, visit ocnj.us/HolidayHouse. registration is also open for the annual Christmas Parade at 6 p.m. Friday, Dec. 6. Anybody who would like to enter a walking unit, float, musical act, car or dance/cheer team, can register by Nov. 29 at ocnj.us/ christmas-parade.

Coming up in November and December

Horse and Carriage rides (Nov. 23, 29, 30 and Dec. 1, 7, 8, 14, 15, 21, 22): Free rides along decorated downtown Asbury Avenue from noon to 3 p.m. with boarding at Sixth Street.

Lucinda Williams and Her Band (Nov. 23): The concert begins at 8 p.m. at the ocean City Music Pier. Tickets available at etix. com.

Fast & Furriest 5K Turkey Trot (Nov. 28): Annual 5K running race on the ocean City Boardwalk benefits the Humane Society of o cean City. For more information call 609-3989500 ext. 4 or visit hsocnj. org.

Christmas in the Downtown – “o ur Miracle on Asbury Avenue” (Nov. 29): 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. Join the merchants and Chamber in kicking off an old-fashioned Downtown Christmas and tree-lighting. The o cean City Fire Department will be ready in case Santa makes his usual landing on the roof of City Hall at 5 p.m.

Photos with Santa in a Lifeguard Boat (Nov. 30 and Dec. 1, 7, 8, 14, 15, 21, 22): 1 p.m. to 3 p.m. at the ocean City Music Pier.

Santa in the Downtown (Nov. 30 and Dec. 1, 7, 8, 14, 15, 21, 22): 9 a.m. to 11 a.m. at Mark Soifer Park (9th Street and Asbury Avenue).

o cean City Pops Holiday Show (Nov. 30): The annual holiday show at the o cean City Music Pier will fea -

ture the o cean City Pops orchestra performing classic Christmas song favorites and modern hits, led by conductor vince Lee. The show starts at 6 p.m. Tickets available at oceancityvacation.com/boxoffice.

Christmas Parade (Dec. 6): 6 p.m. on Asbury Avenue from 6th Street to 11th Street.

Train Show (Dec. 7 and 8): 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Saturday and Sunday at the o cean City Music Pier. Admission free.

Festive Fridays Along Downtown Asbury Avenue (Dec. 13 and 20): Join downtown ocean City merchants as they celebrate the holiday season with shopping specials. Enjoy horseand-carriage rides from 4 p.m. to 7 p.m. through the downtown adorned

with thousands of Christmas lights and shop for some for the best gifts this holiday season. Two pickup locations include the Tabernacle (Sixth and Asbury) and o ceanFirst Bank (10th and Asbury).

Anastasia: The Musical (Youth Edition) (Dec. 14 and 15): Presented by the ocean City Theatre Company’s Junior Company, the musical is a 60-minute adaptation of the Broadway hit specially tailored for young actors. Shows are 7:30 p.m. Saturday and 2 p.m. Sunday at the ocean City Music Pier. Tickets can be purchased at .oceancitytheatrecompany.com.

Jolly Trolley Lights Tour (Dec 17): Tickets are sold out for a new holiday trolley tour geared toward families with young children.

First Night New Year’s Eve Celebration (Dec. 31): A complete schedule of entertainment and tickets for this family-friendly New Year’s Eve celebration are available at FirstNightoCNJ.com.

First Day (Jan. 1, 2025): Celebrate New Year’s Day with a Shopping Extravaganza on downtown Asbury Avenue, a 5K run on the Boardwalk (1 p.m.) and the annual First Dip in the Atlantic ocean (2 p.m.).

Remembering Stainton’s Department Store

A Look Back

On April 13, 1913, Howard S. Stainton bought Emma Morris Corson’s dry goods store at 808 Asbury Avenue. It was the beginning of what would become the largest department store in Cape May County.

The store was always busy in the summer, but thanks to Stainton’s business sense, the store did well the rest of the year. He bought 810 Asbury Avenue in 1916 to meet the demands of the people.

Christmas season was as busy as summer as people came to shop. Stainton advertised, “”Weatherman predicts that cooler weather will follow. Warm underwear, hosiery, etc. will be needed. our stock offers an unusually fine selection.”

quality merchandise at reasonable prices, with an efficient, dependable and courteous service.”

In 1947, the Stainton’s Annex opened behind the department store on West Avenue. It carried furniture, bedding, floor coverings and appliances. It also included Stainton’s Toyland where Santa would greet the children and listen to what they wanted for Christmas. Many wanted the Lionel train they saw displayed in the front of the store.

The December 7, 1922 o cean City Sentinel advertisement reported the store would be open every evening until Christmas. The ad told of good deals on leather goods, stockings and neckwear. “In the eyes of men neckties hold first place as Christmas gifts. And because this is true we have arranged a sale which should bring every person in ocean City here for Xmas neckwear.”

Stainton’s store continued to prosper even during the Great Depression, and he knew he needed a bigger building. The headline of the July 3, 1940, o cean City Sentinel-Ledger reported, “ resort’s Big New Department Store Formally o pens Today; Climaxes Merchandising Career Begun Here 28 Years Ago.” A full page ad in the newspaper told people what to expect: “STAINTo N’S new department store is dedicated to sound principle of offering the finest

Stainton’s continued to prosper even with the opening of enclosed shopping malls. The biggest blow to the business came on June 24, 1979 with the death of Howard S. Stainton. The ocean City Sentinel-Ledger on June 26 reported: “An era came to an end in ocean City at 4:23 p.m. Sunday with the death of Howard S. Stainton.” The article reported on the 93-yearold legend: “True to form Stainton, despite his failing health, could be seen walking the floors of his department store at 8th Street and Asbury Avenue practically right up to the day before

he died, familiar to those residents and visitors who looked forward to seeing him in the store in his black suit, black hat, white shirt and black tie.”

Howard S. Stainton shows a Sunbeam Electric Blanket to interested shoppers.
In 1913, Howard S. Stainton bought his first store seen here with the awnings next to the Ocean City Title and Trust Company.

Same old story: amusements versus hotels

It is impossible to be a weekly columnist from ocean City and not write a story about the end of Gillian’s Wonderland Pier and the beginning of the “ICo NA in Wonderland” Hotel. I tried to avoid it, but I got an email from the AAWC (American Association of Weekly Columnists) informing me that, if I didn’t write about it, I’d be “drummed out” of the AAWC! Being drummed out is a bad scene! They tear off my “I am a columnist” badge, take away my laptop, and force me to wear an “I write comic strips” badge. I shudder when I think about it.

No surprise: OC people hate change

When the news that Wonderland was going to close hit the Facebook groups, all the o C regulars – residents, homeowners, and visitors – raised a ruckus! There were lots of laments, predictions and even some dire warnings. “This is the end of o cean City as we know it” was a prevailing theme in the emails and editorials.

SIX WORDS ON A BOARDWALK

BENCH by Bill Quain

I started to get the messaging about Wonderland confused with the campaign messaging from the republicans and Democrats. I almost sent a mail-in ballot to Jay Gillian’s office, asking him to reconsider his decision to close Wonderland down!

However, when I read that his payroll costs had risen from $40,000 to $80,000 and that was one of the reasons he was closing the park, I thought better of it. As a former business owner in ocean City, I know how labor costs can be a killer.

One last trip ‘round The Wheel

Like many people, Jeanne and I took one last trip on the Ferris Wheel – or did we? It seems that the new developer has plans to keep both the Ferris Wheel and the Carousel. Who knows? Maybe these two iconic rides on the Boardwalk will reopen from time to time. If so, we’ll do our best to get on the list of riders. Just in case, I started to buy up Wonderland

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TIRE AND SERVICE EXPERTS

Tickets! By the way, they are very inexpensive right now! My guess is that it will take about 2,500 tickets for the Carousel, and a five-night stay at the hotel in early August to ride the Ferris Wheel.

As a “hotel guy,” I’m prejudiced. Many of my readers know my story. I attended the Hotel School at Cornell University as an undergraduate, and at age 19, in the summer of ’72, I leased a hotel here in o cean City. I have worked in a number of hotels across the U.S., and now teach Hospitality Management at Stockton

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pool, she can’t call herself an ocean City “local.” There was even a separate diving pool. When you came off that high dive and hit that salt water, it was tough!

That oasis was replaced by an amusement park. When Playland’s Castaway Cove expanded into that space, there was a lot of grumbling about the change! Ironic, isn’t it?

Mr. Mita, welcome to Ocean City

But please be aware that we are all a little afraid of change. We know your plans are just that, plans, and they need to be approved. And the general public is going to be watch -

University. So, I’m prejudiced in favor of hotels – especially nice ones! Yes, I’m sure I’ll be sitting on a Boardwalk bench years from now, stopping walkers, bikers, runners and surrey riders, and telling them about the “good old days” when you could ride over people’s heads on a tiny train, go around in circles in little boats and slide down a giant slide. “And it was all right there,” I’ll say. “But now, all we have is that beautiful hotel, all brand-new and well-kept. Isn’t it a shame?”

But then, I’ll reflect back on all the hotels that used to be in o cean City, and think how lucky we are that people love this place so much that they are willing to invest in a piece of our community.

It’s the OC hotel/amusement tradition.

Here’s an irony. Where is the other (remaining) amusement park in o cean City? It’s in front of The Flanders Hotel! And what did we lose when Playland’s Castaway Cove was built? The beautiful hotel deck and beach club at The Flanders.

Most people don’t remember this, (or maybe weren’t even alive at the time), but The Flanders used to have two huge pools and a semi-private beach, with canvas cabanas. The pools were filled with saltwater. In fact, I learned to swim in those pools! I often tease my wife that since she didn’t learn to swim in the Flander’s

ing everything with great suspicion. In fact, a group of citizens recently formed an organization called “Friends of oCNJ History & Culture” and reportedly raised a million bucks to offer a different plan!

However, if you can gain approval to build a beautiful, tasteful and prosperous hotel, it won’t be long until that hotel is just part of the Boardwalk scenery. We haven’t had a new, full-service hotel built here in many years. Plus, you aren’t just building a hotel. You’re going to be a part of family stories, generational images, and an iconic family vacation destination.

Okay, this column should get responses!

Blast away! Write to me at bill@ quain.com. I’m a big boy. I can take it! As I say each week, I’ll see ya in the papers!

Bill is a Professor in Stockton University’s Hospitality Management Program. He is the author of 27 books, and a highly-respected speaker. Even though he is almost totally blind, Bill is a long-distance runner and runs the Ocean City Half Marathon each year. He lives in Ocean City with his wife Jeanne, and his Guide Dog Trudy. Visit www.billquain.com or email him at bill@quain.com.

Navigating Thanksgiving conversations: Five topics to avoid and what to talk about instead

Thanksgiving is a time for family, friends and cherished traditions, whether it’s tossing the football before the turkey’s ready, watching the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade or cheering on a favorite pup at the National Dog Show. However, one tradition everyone hopes to skip is the infamous family argument.

When loved ones gather, their varied opinions often follow, sometimes sparking lively debates—or worse, heated exchanges. While some enjoy diving into discussions about politics or pop culture, Thanksgiving is a day best reserved for fostering connection and gratitude. Steering clear of sensitive or divisive topics can keep the mood light and the gathering enjoyable for everyone.

Here are five conversation pitfalls to avoid this Thanksgiving, along with positive alternatives to keep the dialogue inclusive and uplifting.

1. Politics

Avoid: “Who did you vote for?”

Try instead: “What’s something you’re excited about for the future?”

With elections often on people’s minds, political talk might seem inevitable, but these discussions can quickly turn contentious, creating tension at the table.

rather than diving into debates, shift the focus to personal goals, future aspirations, or even exciting advancements in technology or the environment. This sparks inspiring and engaging conversations without the risk of dividing the room.

2. Religion

Avoid: “Why didn't I see you in church last week?"

Try instead: “What traditions make this holiday special to you?”

Although Thanksgiving isn’t inherently a religious holiday, everyone has different views on spirituality and traditions that make life meaningful. If everyone shares the same beliefs, you could give a blessing over the meal, but if there's dissent, perhaps say a prayer silently.

We encourage you to celebrate traditions in a way that everyone can join in. Asking about favorite customs— whether holiday-related or cultural— opens up space for meaningful sharing

without stepping into sensitive territory.

3. Money and finances

Avoid: “Do you think we are entering a recession?”

Try instead: “What’s something you’ve accomplished or learned recently?”

Conversations about salaries, financial challenges or job changes can make people uncomfortable or self-conscious, even unintentionally.

Instead of focusing on money matters, turn the discussion to personal achievements, new skills or hobbies. This keeps the tone upbeat and helps everyone share something they’re proud of.

4. Food choices, diets and weight

Avoid: “Do you really need another helping?”

Try instead: “What’s your favorite dish on the table?”

Food is a centerpiece of Thanksgiving, but commenting on someone’s eating habits, weight or health can be hurtful, even if unintended.

Celebrate the joy of the meal by asking about favorite dishes or the stories behind cherished recipes. This keeps the focus on the culinary experience

and brings back fond memories for everyone.

5. Parenting and family planning

Avoid: “When are you two having kids?” or “Why do you let your kids do that?”

Try instead: “What’s the funniest story from your childhood or your parenting adventures?”

Parenting and family planning are deeply personal topics, and unsolicited opinions or questions can put people on edge. Whether it’s advice on raising children or speculation about starting a family, these discussions are best avoided.

Instead, turn the conversation toward lighthearted anecdotes. Share funny or heartwarming parenting stories, or invite others to recall amusing childhood memories.

By choosing positive and inclusive topics, you can create an atmosphere where everyone feels valued and welcome. Thanksgiving is about coming together, celebrating gratitude and embracing the uniqueness of our loved ones. So this year, focus on what connects us and enjoy a holiday full of warmth, laughter and love.

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Unwrap the magic of the holidays in Cape May

As the crisp air of winter approaches, Cape May begins to transform into a Christmas wonderland—a place where the spirit of the season is both celebrated and embraced. The quiet coastal town, known for its grand victorian homes and holiday charm, invites visitors to experience a season full of tradition, festivity, and a touch of magic. Whether you’re looking to create new memories with loved ones or escape on a winter retreat, Cape May offers something unique for everyone.

At the heart of Cape May’s holiday spirit is Congress Hall, the oldest seaside resort in America.

For over a decade, this historic landmark has been the centerpiece of the town’s Christmas celebrations, with its grand lawn transformed into a Winter Wonderland—a beloved local tradition. The festive decor—twinkling lights, an old-fashioned carousel, and the sound of Christmas music—sets the stage for families to gather and enjoy a ride on the Congress Hall Express, a charming little train that winds through the property. Children excitedly await their turn to meet Santa over breakfast, and if you’re in the mood for some shopping, the vendor village, with its candy-cane striped tents, offers unique handmade holiday gifts for all. For those looking to get even more into the spirit, Congress Hall offers a Christmas package that includes a stay and a festive dinner in the grand ballroom. The atmosphere is a perfect balance between holiday cheer and quiet elegance, making for a welcoming space to celebrate family traditions or create new memories. But not every holiday experience in

Cape May is centered around the hustle and bustle of a large celebration. A few miles from Congress Hall lies Beach Plum Farm, where a different kind of holiday magic unfolds. Known for its sustainable farming practices and farm-to-table dining, the farm offers a slower, more intimate approach to the season. Guests are invited to take a hayride through the property, followed by a candlelit walk along the Woodland Trail. The farm offers a peaceful escape from the holiday crowds.

The highlight of a visit to Beach Plum Farm is its family-style holiday dinner. Served in a cozy heated hoop house, the meal features dishes like pasture-raised turkey, heritage pork, and seasonal vegetables harvested right from the farm. It’s easy to see why the farm’s holiday dinners have become a cherished tradition for many. For those wanting to extend their stay, Beach Plum Farm offers cottages where guests can enjoy the peace and quiet of the farm at their own pace.

There are also seasonal activities to enjoy, such as wreath-making and custom candle-making.

charm, making it the perfect spot for a romantic holiday escape. The hotel’s ‘Twas the Night Before package invites couples to unwind in style, beginning with welcome cocktails at the Ebbitt room, followed by a candlelit Christmas dinner created by Executive Chef Jason Hanin. The menu, which showcases the best of the season, is both festive and intimate, providing the perfect setting for a cozy, adults-only holiday retreat. Whether you're drawn to the festive fun at Congress Hall's Winter Wonderland, the quiet charm of Beach Plum Farm, or the cozy elegance of The virginia Hotel, Cape May offers something for every kind of holiday mood. It's a place where traditions blend with new experiences, making the season feel both familiar and

For those seeking something a little more refined, The virginia Hotel offers a sophisticated alternative to the traditional holiday experience. Located in the heart of Cape May, The virginia Hotel boasts victorian

brand new. In Cape May, the magic of the holidays isn’t just something you see, it’s something you can feel, taste, and truly enjoy.

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Big crowd at Tropicana sees Figueroa, Seldon earn wins

Back in the day, boxing promoter Don Elbaum was a major force in helping to put Atlantic City on the boxing map.

As the casino era took off on the boardwalk, virtually every property added boxing to its entertainment menu.

And it wasn’t long before it became the main course.

Fight fans could watch as many as four boxing cards in a given week during the 1980’s. Bally’s, Caesars, Playboy, resorts, the Sands, Tropicana, Trump Plaza and others all hosted boxing in their showrooms while major bouts took place at what is now Jim Whelan Boardwalk Hall.

From 1982-85, Atlantic City staged an incredible 521 boxing shows, including 139 in 1982 and 143 in 1985.

Elbaum and the late Ted Menas turned the Tropicana into a boxing hotbed, promoting near 200 shows over a five-year period through their widely popular “Tuesday Night Fights” series at the Trop’s Showroom.

“I went to Tropicana and asked them to give me the slowest night of the week and they gave me Tuesday,”

Elbaum said. “I knew boxing would work there no matter what day of the week we did it.”

Now 93 years old, he was back at the scene on Saturday night.

Boxing Insider Promotions and promoter Larry Goldberg honored Elbaum during their show at the Trop by presenting him with a plaque and watch in recognition of his incredible achievement.

The brief ceremony was part of an outstanding card that served as a

welcome return to legitimate boxing in the wake of the Mike Tyson-Jake Paul debacle in Dallas the night before.

A large, enthusiastic crowd filled the bleachers on the Showroom stage – the best seats in town for a boxing event – and the booths and chairs throughout the arena to see some of the region’s top fighters in action.

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The biggest cheers were reserved for Atlantic City middleweight Justin Figueroa and Smithville heavyweight Bruce Seldon Jr., who both thrilled their fan bases by delivering impressive performances.

Figueroa (11-0, 9 Ko s), a former football and wrestling standout at Holy Spirit High School and former member of the Atlantic City Beach Patrol, remained unbeaten with a fourth-round TKo over Houston’s o mar rosales (9-5-1, 4 Ko s) in a scheduled six-round middleweight bout.

Figueroa, 25, took command at the outset, punishing rosales, 34, with combinations until referee Edgardo Claudio stopped it.

“I was so calm before this fight because I had over 100 rounds of sparring,” Figueroa said in the ring afterward. “I’ve got the talent and I’ve got the dedication. I’ve got an insane work ethic and that’s how I got here.”

Seldon (4-0, 3 Kos), the 30-yearold son of former WBA heavyweight champion Bruce Seldon, went the distance for the first time in gaining a four-round, unanimous decision over veteran Julio Mendoza (3-5, 3 Kos), of Palm Coast, Florida.

Seldon, a former football player at Absegami High School, turned pro five months ago without benefit of

an amateur career, so each fight is serving as on-the-job training.

“That was a learning experience for me,” Seldon said in the dressing room afterward. “I’m just looking to grow as a fighter every time I’m in the ring.”

Notes: Saturday’s card was part of a boxing doubleheader at the Trop. It also hosted an amateur show on Sunday, with all proceeds benefitting the Atlantic City Police Athletic League’s boxing program.

Pro boxing returns to the resort on Saturday, November 30, when Danny Garcia’s Swift Promotions brings a card to ACX1 Studios at the Pier Shops at Caesars.

Pleasantville welterweight Anthony Young (23-3, 8 Ko s) will be ending an 18-month layoff when he faces Windry Amadis Martinez (10-2,

5 Kos) of the Dominican republic in a scheduled eight-rounder.

Local NFL update

Bills defensive tackle Austin Johnson (St. Augustine Prep, Galloway Township) had three tackles in Buffalo’s 30-21 victory over the Kansas City Chiefs Sunday.

Packers wide receiver Bo Melton (Cedar Creek High School) played

special teams in Green Bay’s 20-19 win over the Chicago Bears. He has three receptions for 33 yards and two carries for 27 yards this season.

Cardinals cornerback Max Melton (Cedar Creek), Bo’s younger brother, was on a bye this week. He has 37 tackles, three pass defenses and a forced fumble this season.

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Entertainment & Dining at the Shore

Whitney’s Weekly Picks

This week presents an exciting range of events featuring some amazing events including Disney on Ice, Wayne Newton, 98° and Bell Biv Devoe, and KC & the Sunshine Band. It's going to be a week filled with incredible performances! Don’t forget to share your epic moments with the hashtags #shorelocal, #gotowhitney and #thecitypulse.

What : Disney on Ice

Where: Jim Whelan Boardwalk Hall

When : Thursday, Nov. 21-Sunday, Nov. 24

Time: 8 p.m.

Website: boardwalkhall.com/events/detail/ disney-on-ice-1

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Disney o n Ice is bringing the party to hometowns across the country, and the guest list is jam-packed with audience favorite Disney characters.

Who: 98° and Bell Biv Devoe

Where: Hard rock Hotel & Casino | Etess Arena

When : Friday, Nov. 22

Time: 8 p.m.

Website: casino.hardrock.com/atlantic-city/ event-calendar/98-and-bell-bivdevoe

Get ready for an unforgettable night of r&B and pop nostalgia as 98° and

The City Pulse with Whitney Ullman

Bell Biv Devoe bring their electrifying performance to Atlantic City. Don't miss their high-energy show that's guaranteed to get everyone on their feet.

Who: Wayne Newton

Where: Hard rock Hotel & Casino | Sound Waves

When : Friday, Nov. 22

Time: 8 p.m.

Website:casino.hardrock.com/atlantic-city/entertainment

Experience a captivating performance by Wayne Newton, filled with classic tunes like "Danke Schoen" and " red roses for a Blue Lady." Whether you're a long-time fan or new to his music, this is a night you won't want to miss.

What : Tinseltown Tree Lighting Kicko ff

Where: Tropicana Atlantic City

When : Friday, Nov. 22

Time: 1 p.m.

Website: caesars.com/atlantic-city/ guides/news/5-ways-to-spend-theholidays-in-atlantic-city

Kick off the holiday season at Tropicana Atlantic City’s Tree Lighting Ceremony. Enjoy an afternoon of holiday magic with a festive performance by the Mainland regional High School Choir, complimentary treats from participating restaurants, and a special appearance by Santa Claus. The afternoon concludes with the Holiday Musical Light Show, which runs every hour on the hour, starting at noon through Dec. 26.

Who: Jeff Hartman Concert | Arts

Books & Culture Festival

Where: Katz JCC Margate

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 7 p.m.

Website: jccatlantic.org

Jeff Hartman is live in concert. With over 10 million listeners worldwide and a style that blends smooth jazz, adult contemporary pop and rock, Jeff’s music will captivate you from start to finish.

Who: KC & The Sunshine Band

Where: ocean Casino resort | ovation Hall

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 8 p.m.

Website: theoceanac.com/kc-sunshine-band

KC and The Sunshine Band formed in 1973 with one single purpose: to create instant happiness through music - and the group has done just that, topping the charts and having worldwide sales of over 100 million. They will have you grooving. Get your tickets before it’s sold out.

Who: An Evening with Jeffrey o sborne and Heatwave

Where: Caesars Atlantic City

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 8 p.m.

Website: caesars.com/caesars-ac/ shows

Jeffrey osborne will share the stage with contemporary r&B vocal group Heatwave.

What : Wiseguyz variety Show | Holiday Spectacular

Where: resorts Casino Hotel | Superstar Theater

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 7 p.m.

Website: resortsac.com/entertainment/wiseguyz-variety-show

This holiday season enjoy a fun-filled night of entertainment that’s sure to get you in the festive spirit. You’ll be treated to the magic of rocco Silano, the smooth sounds of Biagio, and the

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laugh-out-loud comedy of The Uncle Louie variety Show. Plus there’s even a unicycle juggler that will blow your mind. With the holidays just around the corner, it’s the perfect way to start the season with some laughter and joy. Grab your tickets today.

Who: Daryl Hall with special guest Howard Jones

Where: Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa | Event Center

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 7:30 p.m.

Website: borgata.mgmresorts.com/ en/entertainment/event-center/ daryl-hall.html

Daryl Hall, known for hits like “We Are The World” and “Maneater” is an iconic musician selling out venues for over 40 years. From the streets of Philadelphia to The rock & roll Hall of Fame, Daryl Hall has been mastering his craft for decades.

Who: Zoidakis and Glykeria Show

Where: Golden Nugget

When : Saturday, Nov. 23

Time: 9 p.m.

Website: goldennugget.com/atlantic-city/entertainment/entertainers/ tower-of-power2/

Celebrate the 100th anniversary of the Saint Nicholas Greek Church located in Atlantic City. All proceeds from the ticket sales will be donated to the church.

What : The Irish Pub Christmas Spectacular

Where: The Irish Pub

When : Now until Jan. 6

Time: 8 p.m.

Website: www.theirishpub.com

Join The Irish Pub and experience the joyous wonder and magic of Christmas! The Irish Pub and Inn is once again transformed into a Christmas wonderland with thousands of twin -

kling lights, Christmas trees and one of the largest and most magnificent Christmas displays you’ll ever see.

What : Candy Cane Lounge Atlantic City Pop-Up Bar

Where: resorts Casino Hotel | Bar o ne

When : Now until Jan. 3

Website: resortsac.com/entertainment/winter-holiday-pop-up-bar

Get ready for some holiday cheer at AC’s favorite seasonal pop-up bar. It’s the perfect place to sip on holiday-themed cocktails and take some holiday selfies, and will feature festive decor and live entertainment.

Who: Joe Holiday Live, The Magic and Comedy Hour

Where: Wyndham’s Skyline Tower

When : Every Saturday Times: 3 and 7 p.m.

Website: joeholiday.com/live

Check out magician Joe Holiday LIvE

at Wyndham’s Skyline Tower for the magic comedy hour every Saturday.

What : Thursday Night Comedy

Where: Showboat Atlantic City

When : Every Thursday Time: 8-10 p.m.

Website: standupcomedyclub.com

See a variety of comics every Thursday.

Whitney Ullman, Stockton University graduate, and founder of gotowhitney.com is known as a “go to” resource, content creator, reporter, and influencer with established credibility in Atlantic City, The Jersey Shore, Philadelphia and the surrounding areas. With over 6 million views on her social platforms, she created TheCityPulse.com as a go-to lifeline for all things happening in the city!

Atlantic City Headliners

Friday, November 22

98 Degrees & Bell Biv DeVoe

▶8 p.m.

Hard rock Live at Etess Arena

Wayne Newman

8 p.m.

Sound Waves at Hard rock

Melvin Seals and JGB

▶8:30 p.m.

Tropicana Showroom

Saturday, November 23

KC & the Sunshine Band

▶8 p.m.

ovation Hall at ocean Casino

Daryl Hall w/ Howard Jones

▶7:30 p.m.

Borgata Event Center

Jeffrey Osborne and Heatwave

▶8 p.m.

Circus Maximus Theater at Caesars

Friday, November 29

Justin Hayward

▶8 p.m.

The Music Box at Borgata

Saturday, November 30

Tropicaliente Max

▶8 p.m.

Hard rock Live at Etess Arena

Jim Jefferies

▶8 p.m.

ovation Hall at ocean Casino

Matteo Bocelli

▶8 p.m.

Sound Waves at Hard rock

Sunday, December 1

Cirque Dreams Holidaze

▶4 p.m.

ovation Hall at ocean Casino

Friday, December 6

The Temptations & The Four Seasons

▶8 p.m.

Sound Waves at Hard rock

Jerry Seinfeld

▶8 p.m.

Borgata Event Center

Matt Fraser

▶8 p.m.

The Music Box at Borgata

Saturday, December 7

Cyndi Lauper

▶8 p.m.

Hard rock Live at Etess Arena

Jason Bonham’s Led Zeppelin Evening

▶8 p.m.

Sound Waves at Hard rock Tiesto

▶9 p.m.

ovation Hall at ocean Casino

The Musical Box

▶8 p.m.

Engelbert Humperdinck

▶8 p.m.

Harrah’s Atlantic City

The Marshall Tucker Band w/ Jefferson Starship

▶8 p.m.

Circus Maximus Theater at Caesars

Circus Maximus Theater at Caesars

Friday, December 13

Babyface

▶9 p.m.

Tropicana Showroom

Saturday, December 14

The Front Bottoms

▶8 p.m.

Hard rock Live at Etess Arena

On Sale This Week

Def Leppard

▶Saturday, June 28, 8 p.m.

Borgata Event Center

Jimmy Carr: Laughs Funny

▶Saturday, June 28, 7 p.m.

The Music Box at Borgata

Fantasia, Trey Songz & Tank

▶Saturday, Feb. 15, 8 p.m.

Jim Whelan Boardwalk Hall

Tickets on sale Friday, Nov. 22, 10 a.m.

Photo credit: Jerry Seinfeld Facebook
Photo credit: The Front Bottoms Facebook

Local billiards tradition lives on in EHT

ary Conover’s ties to billiards go back to 1948 when his father opened the ross Parker Billiard

Academy at 19 South Carolina Ave. in Atlantic City, above the famous Angelo’s Barber Shop.

o pen 24 hours, the pool hall was a true gentlemen’s club, attracting the who's who of Atlantic City. Some of the most recognized players, and local political officials of the time, patronized the pool hall and the barbershop.

Powerbrokers like Hap Farley, Nucky Johnson, Mayor Joseph Altman and others frequently held shop at the hall, all dressed in suits, as was the custom back then. Club Harlem

was nearby and Atlantic City was in its heyday.

Anybody and everybody who was famous in billiards played at ross Parker Billiards including Minnesota Fats, Willie Mosconi, and the famous alleged bookmaker Snooks Perlstein. Were they gambling? We will let you decide.

ross Parker eventually moved the business to 2204 Atlantic Ave. where the name changed to ross Billiard Academy. The famous names of the time continued including Johnny “Irish” Lineen, Jimmy Caras who was the world champion at 5x10 table. Mosconi was the champion of the 4x9 table. To say the times were exciting is an understatement.

Pool is a great game of skill where every time you are feeling good about your game, there is somebody waiting in the wings who is going to show you differently.

Fast forward to today where Gary Conover, son of ross Parker, is the owner of Atlantic City Billiard Club, 6701 Black Horse Pike Egg Harbor Township. Gary has continued the tradition of billiards locally.

vegas where there are over 4,000 players.

Billiards is for all ages, young and old. They have players from 18 to 85 playing. Some of the world’s best players such as Shane van Boening, Josh Filler and Carlo Biado come every year to practice for the Professional World Championship Tournament, which is held in Atlantic City. The bottom line is that billiards is alive and well in Atlantic County. If you have a sharp eye, are looking to fine-tune your skills, or just want to relax in a fun setting, come and

o riginally he got his feet wet by working at the race tracks in Florida, including Hialeah. In 2010, Gary bought Atlantic City Billiards, which provides a great environment for people to sharpen and highlight their skills.

There are 32 American Poolplayers Association (APA) leagues for eight- and nine-ball where players every week are trying to qualify for the annual 2,500-player tournament in Atlantic City. The ultimate goal is to win in Atlantic City and qualify for Las

find out what a great game billiards is at Atlantic City Billiard Club. There is a reason why the game has been around for more than 300 years and is still growing.

Hours are Monday, Wednesday and Saturday, noon to 12 a.m.; and Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 6 p.m. to 12 a.m. Learn more at acbilliard. com.

Explore vegan, gluten-free options like Hannah G’s

There is a different feeling in the air as the summer season at the shore comes to a close and the off-season begins. The streets have less

traffic, beaches have fewer people and the restaurant business has slowed down. It is a good time for residents to come out of their shells and support local businesses.

I recently visited a restaurant that has been on my off-season bucket list for quite some time: Hannah G’s at 7310 ventnor Ave. in ventnor.

o wners Donna and Kevin McCarthy will celebrate 24 years at that loca-

gluten-free, vegan and did not contain any white sugar. Instead Donna uses coconut sugar and cacao nibs in place of chocolate chips. The bread was paired with a seasonal pumpkin butter which was also vegan and a perfect addition to the bread.

tion on May 5, 2025. Donna sat down with me to talk about Hannah G’s and why they offer vegan and gluten-free items on their menu.

She has been working in the restaurant business since she was 10 years old. Her 20 years of experience ranges from food courts to fine dining with The Ark Company, which currently has a restaurant at the Tropicana in Atlantic City.

Although she is from the area, she has also traveled, having lived in California, Boston and Florida. She eventually found her way back to the Jersey Shore. She and her husband purchased the space that is now Hannah G’s from an owner who was also operating it as a breakfast restaurant.

In 2012 they expanded, purchasing the adjacent building and doubling their dining space. They are open 7 a.m.-2 p.m. daily, closed on Tuesdays.

During the pandemic they offered to-go meals – dinners as well as catering. They still offer catering and to-go dinners in the winter months.

About eight years ago they added the vegan and gluten-free menu items as summer vacationers from New York and Philadelphia started to request these options. Donna did some research and began adding these options to the menu board. Although not vegan, she said she’s conscious about what she eats and actively supports local food sourcing. She said she would rather purchase quality, local products.

“You either pay at the doctor or pay at the grocer,” she told me.

In the summer she supports the local farmers markets by purchasing fresh produce for the restaurant. She travels to Stella Farms in Berlin Borough, Camden County, for corn as their corn is considered to be some of the best in South Jersey.

She bakes a daily loaf of bread that is gluten-free and often vegan as well. She omits any seed oils because she prefers not to eat them, and uses avocado or olive oil.

The banana bread I tried was

Their most popular menu items are the vegan burrito which is loaded with potatoes, avocado, chopped tomatoes, red peppers, black beans, mushrooms, shredded cabbage and vegan cheese. The burrito can be made gluten-free with a corn tortilla.

The blueberry chia pancakes are vegan and made with a flax egg and soy milk. o ne of the servers shared with me that many of their vegan regulars order the sausage and vegan breakfast hash, which includes sautéed mushrooms, peppers, onions, zucchini, potatoes, smoked paprika and a Beyond Meat sausage patty.

o ther vegan menu items include a black bean veggie burger, vegan shrimp tacos, a breakfast sandwich which contains a “just egg” product which is a vegan egg replacement. There is also a quinoa breakfast bowl which sounds like the perfect breakfast for the winter months ahead. It has quinoa, topped with chia seeds, hemp hearts, fresh berries and almond butter.

Hannah G’s has homemade soup daily. In the winter they offer two or three soups on the menu, and most often you will find that one or more of them is vegan.

o n their Thanksgiving catering menu they have options for vegan and gluten-free meals. Just contact Donna McCarthy to create a custom menu with these options.

It is nice to have more and more restaurants with plant-based options, and the off-season is a great time to check out these healthier menu options.

Hannah G’s is located at 7310 ventnor Ave. in ventnor. Call 609823-1466, see hannahgs.com or find Hannah G’s on Facebook and Instagram.

Chef Christina Martin is a dedicated chef educator, passionate advocate for healthy eating, and mother. Christina’s expertise has been spotlighted in Independent Restaurateur Magazine and she has been awarded 2024 Chef Educator of the Year from the Professional Chef Association of South Jersey.

Christmas at the Hangar returns to the Aviation Museum

Naval Air Station Wildwood (NASW) Aviation Museum announced the return of its 3rd annual Christmas at the Hangar event on Saturday, Nov. 30 from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. The event had been on hold during the hangar’s roof replacement project which is now completed. This much-anticipated, free community event brings holiday cheer to guests with a full day of festivities, including a special meet and greet with Santa Claus and unique photo opportunities throughout a decorated hangar #1. Be sure to get your photo in the museum’s giant decorated sleigh on loan from the North Pole!

Guests can enjoy live Christmas music by soloist/pianist Kelsey Brown, beer and wine garden, free face painting from 11 a.m. to 3 p.m. and complimentary hot cocoa from Stowaways and cookies provided by Cape May Peanut Butter Company (while supplies last). Food trucks from local favorites o n the Way Cafe and Mac’s Cafe will also be serving delicious food throughout the day. The museum’s gift shop will offer 20% off purchases, making it the perfect time to find unique gifts while also supporting a local nonprofit. For more additional unique gifts, browse the wares of local vendors who will be offering handcrafted items that are perfect for holiday presents. Lastly, try your hand at winning holiday presents or personal treats by

purchasing raffle tickets for a variety of beautifully curated (and generously donated) gift baskets. All proceeds benefit the museum!

This family-friendly event is a fun tradition for all ages. Don’t forget to dress for the cold weather as the hangar is not climate-controlled and bring along your friendly, leashed dogs to join in the festivities. We invite you to stop by, get into the holiday spirit, and help spread cheer as NASW celebrates the return of Christmas at the Hangar!

Naval Air Station Wildwood Aviation Museum is located inside historic Hangar #1 at the Cape May Airport, New Jersey. The site was formerly Naval Air Station Wildwood, which served as a World War II dive-bomber training center. The museum, dedicated to the 42 aviators who perished while training at Naval Air Station Wildwood between 1943 and 1945. The museum is open from 10 a.m.4 p.m. daily. For more information, visit www.usnasw.org or call (609) 886-8787.

Open Weekdays 7am-2pm Sat. & Sun. 8am-2pm

Lucinda Williams sings ‘Stories From A Rock N Roll Heart’ at the Ocean City Music Pier Saturday

Tune In, Turn On

With Doug Deutsch

Thank you Bob rose and the o cean City Music Pier for bringing Lucinda Williams, one of rock music’s most relevant, talented and respected artists, to our area this Saturday night, Nov. 23.

This is her ‘Stories From A rock N roll Heart’ Tour, also the title of her terrific 2023 album produced by her husband, Tom overbay, who cowrote all 10 tracks on “ rock N roll Heart” plus manages her. respected New York musician Jesse Malin who, like Williams, is recuperating from a stroke, co-wrote several tracks.

Williams is also an author. She released the autobiographical “Don’t Tell Anybody The Secrets I Told You” in 2023, which became a New York

Times Best Seller (my girlfriend is reading it now).

Williams has resumed touring after her stroke in 2020, which initially kept her from performing.

“Well, I’m struggling with [my hands]. It hurts. I can barely make a chord because it hurts so bad,” Lucinda told Boston.com. “It feels like what I imagine arthritis feels like. I probably have some of that.”

The native of Lake Charles, La. won’t be strumming her familiar guitar, but we still get to hear her distinct, arresting, forever-Southern, bluesy voice, which continues to shine on.

Expect to hear tracks like the rousing “Let’s Get The Band Back Together Again” and poignant “Never Gonna Fade Away,” where Williams sings, “when I get like this, and nothing’s gonna fix it, and I’m getting sick of it, and all I want to do is quit… I’m not gonna fade away, I’m never gonna fade away.”

Lyrics were always a strength of the three-time Grammy winner who calls Nashville home. New Jersey’s favorite son Bruce Springsteen and wife Patti Scialfa join Lucinda on title

track, “ rock N roll Heart” and deeply personal “New York Comeback,” about having to not only re-learn to play her beloved guitar, but also having to learn to walk again.

“You wouldn’t want to miss my New York Comeback,” Williams sings confidently, backed by that all-too-familiar raspy Springsteen drawl. Instant classic.

Lucinda Williams is a three-time Grammy-winning singer-songwriter whose music has an alt-country flavor.

Next up: “Lucinda Williams Sings The Beatles From Abbey road,” (to be released Dec. 6), a passion project for the ageless Williams, and latest installment of Lu’s Jukebox, a series where she records music by some of her favorite artists: Bob Dylan, Tom Petty and The rolling Stones.

In ocean City, expect Williams to perform songs from “Lucinda Sings The Beatles” in addition to her muchloved songbook (“Drunken Angel,” “Are You Alright?, “Car Wheels o n A Gravel road,” and personal favorite, “Metal Firecracker”: “o nce we rode together, in a metal firecracker, you told me I was your queen, you told me I was your biker, you told me I was everything.” Songs for the soundtrack of a life well-lived and guided by love. Her music is especially appealing if you favor singer-songwriters with an alt-country flavor.

Now I get to cross off one of my musical bucket list items: “See Lucinda Williams live.”

WXPN Welcomes Lucinda Williams and Her Band at o cean City Music Pier, 825 Boardwalk, o cean City, Saturday, Nov. 23. Doors open at 7 p.m.; show starts at 8. Call 609525-9300.

Ticket info: https://www.etix. com/ticket/p/89399487/lucindawilliams-and-her-band-ocean-cityocean-city-music-pier?

Amanda Fish/Lizzie Rose Music Hall, Nov. 24: A product of Kansas City, Mo.’s robust blues scene, Fish is back with a new album, “Kingdom,” on which she plays bass, guitar and piano in addition to vocals.

“We recorded at Blue Lotus Studio in St. Louis with recording engineer, musician, and all-around renaissance man, Paul Niehaus, Iv.,” Amanda told me via email while on the road prior to her show next Sunday night at

Lizzie rose.

“I sought him out because the other records I heard coming from his studio had that same authentic warmth and feel of the old retro records from the ’70s. I feel like my album is part ‘praise and worship gospel’ and part v ietnam-era protest songs set in the modern day,” continues Fish, “and Paul was the guy to deliver that.”

Can’t say I was very familiar with Fish’s music, but I have been listening to “Kingdom” on Sirius XM and it’s good stuff. (217 E. Main, route 9, Tuckerton. Lizzierosemusic.com).

Jeff Hartman/Katz JCC, Nov. 23: Comic robert Klein memorably sang the blues and played a tight harmonica at the JCC in Margate, where local singer-songwriter Jeff Hartman performs on Saturday.

“Performing as a solo act for a hometown crowd will be a wonderfully rewarding experience for me,” says Hartman. “My audiences are always very special to me and I am so grateful to share my music with all who attend this wonderful fundraiser for the JCC.” It’s located at 501 N. Jerome Ave. in Margate. Show starts at 7 p.m. Tickets/info at jccatlantic.org. Heading to the Keswick Theatre with photographer pal John Loreaux for the ruf records 30th Anniversary Tour featuring Samantha Fish, Canned Heat, Mitch r yder, Bernard Allison, and Ghalia volt. First in a new rockin road Trip series. Be well, until next week.

Doug is the owner/operator of Doug Deutsch Publicity Services, which since 1995 has been servicing nationally touring acts, and working record release campaigns for clients. Doug also hàs experience writing for the one time shore-based weekly publication, Whoot! He also was a team member with Chip Braymes Advertising. Doug loves bicycling and aspires to bring the Blues to Atlantic City. He can be reached at ShoreLocalDoug@ gmail.com and www.facebook. com/dougdeutschpublicity.

Photo by Danny Clinch

It’s beginning to look—and sound— a lot like Christmas in the casinos

It seems like it was just a few weeks ago that we were getting

ready for the summer season. But the sad (well, for some, anyway) fact is that it’s just a matter of weeks before we welcome the New Year. And that means it’s time for our town’s casinos to rev up the Yuletide programming in their showrooms.

This year’s holiday-entertainment smorgasbord is certainly eclectic enough, as it encompasses everything from traditional musical presentations to LGBQT-facing programs.

And there are even a couple bona fide headliners. Here’s a look at the entertainment offerings in store for the most festive time of the year. All tickets are available at ticketmaster.com.

Cirque Dreams Holidaze

The Cirque Dreams crew returns to AyCee with an extravaganza featuring Broadway-style musical numbers and an array of specialty acts who perform you-gotta-see-‘em-to-

believe-‘em feats of human strength and concentration in celebration of the various holidays (Dec. 1; o cean Casino resort).

Brittany Lynn’s Big, Gay Holiday Cabaret

So maybe this isn’t your grandparents’ idea of a holiday pageant. That doesn’t mean it won’t be a hoot and holler as drag star Lynn hosts an evening of music and (likely outrageous) comedy in celebration of the season (Dec. 3; resorts Casino Hotel).

Rat Pack Holiday Show

Toast the season in mid-20th-century, ultra-cool style with a program that celebrates the season and pays tribute to Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin and Sammy Davis Jr. (Dec. 5; Tropicana Atlantic City).

Christmas In Concert

This new production from locally based impresario Allen valentine should be a typically high-energy, eye-catching spin through a beloved songbook boasting eye-popping costumes, sharp choreography and a sleigh-full of beloved tunes, popular and non-secular (Dec. 7-Dec. 24; Borgata Hotel Casino & Spa).

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‘A Very Merry Christmas’ Those looking for a traditional holiday musicale should find it here as tunes from the Christmas canon are performed (Dec. 9; Tropicana).

John Eddie Holiday Ho Ho Hoedown

Just the title of the presentation by singer-songwriter-T v producer (“ return of the King: The Fall and rise of Elvis Presley”) makes this one-nighter worth investigating. We’re not sure what Eddie and his Dirty ol’ Band have planned, but it’s a safe bet there will be plenty of rockin’ around the old Christmas tree (Dec. 13; resorts).

My Big Gay Italian Christmas

The fruitcake hits the fan when the oh-so-traditional Pinnuziato family’s Christmas gathering runs into the alternative lifestyle of one of its members in this continuation of the wildly popular “My Big Gay” series of theatrical comedies (Dec. 14; Hard rock Hotel & Casino Atlantic City).

Engelbert Humperdinck—A Winter World

of Love

The veteran British crooner, who’s in his seventh decade of music-making, returns to our town for the umpteenth time with a presentation that will combine his signature tunes with holiday favorites (Dec. 14; Harrah’s resort Atlantic City).

The Nutcracker

What’s Christmas without a pro -

duction of the revered ballet set to the music of Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky? Let’s hope we never get the answer (Dec. 15; Caesars Atlantic City).

A John Legend Christmas

There’s no debating the season’s biggest holiday-themed production is the one starring the megastar singer-songwriter. As with Humperdinck’s game plan, expect Legend to serve up a combination of his many oh-so-popular numbers and a heaping helping of Christmas ditties (Dec. 20; Borgata).

Candlelight: Holiday Special

Featuring The Nutcracker & More

The latest in the series of atmospheric (they’re not called “Candlelight” concerts for nothing), classical-leaning piano recitals. This one will, of course, be chock-full of holiday melodies (Dec. 21; resorts).

Holiday lounge pops up at Resorts

The gaming halls’ nods to the season are hardly limited to their entertainment venues. For instance, we popped into resorts last Friday evening for the grand opening of the Candy Cane Lounge, a seasonally themed saloon that will be in operation through Jan. 3.

What is normally Bar one (located adjacent to the casino on the city side

of the main floor) has been impressively transformed into a holiday party space complete with Christmasy lighting; live entertainers and DJs re also part of the mix. Beverage offerings include cocktails especially designed with the holidays in mind.

O Christmas trees

And since you can’t have Christmas without Christmas trees, you can head to Tropicana Friday at 1 p.m. to watch the tree lighting at The Quarter, the Trop’s Havana-inthe-’50s-themed retail, dining and entertainment complex. The festivities will include a performance by the Mainland regional High School Choir, treats courtesy of various Quarter retailers and a visit by a certain gen -

tleman from the North Pole. The ceremony ends with a light show that will be repeated daily through Dec. 26.

If you miss tomorrow’s bash (or if you just dig tree-lighting parties), head over to Bally’s Atlantic City on Dec. 6 at 4:30 p.m. That’s where and when the midtown gaming hall will light its tree, which will be planted (as it were) at the Yard, the Boardwalk-adjacent party pit.

The proceedings will be hosted by Cat Country 107’s Joe Kelly and Jahna Michal and will include free hot chocolate and other treats as well as a visit from St. Nick (you’ll also be able to donate new, unwrapped presents for the annual Toys For Tots campaign). Def Leppard headed this way Here’s an early present for fans of the rock & roll Hall of Fame unit: The band has been booked for a June 25, 2025 date at Borgata’s Event Center (likely the most-intimate venue they’ll be playing on their upcoming road trip). Ticket sale date and prices are TBA.

Chuck Darrow has spent more than 40 years writing about Atlantic City casinos.

He’d rather not go back to the old house

Morrissey favors new material over the classics at Ocean Casino

Most artists who are still performing at age 65 treat their live show as a walk down memory lane, an opportunity for aging fans to play dress-up as they throw on the threadbare, suddenly too tight band T-shirts they kept from their high school days for a night of nostalgic sing-alongs before heading back to reality a few hours later.

But Morrissey rejects the idea of wallowing in the good ol’ days for the sake of anyone, as his set at o cean Casino resort’s o vation Hall last weekend leaned harder on output from more recent years of his career than on anything from his days fronting The Smiths, or even his beloved early solo records from the ’80s and ’90s.

Not only did Morrissey perform an abundance of material from his new millennian solo efforts, but four of the songs — that’s a full 20% of his 20-song set, for those keeping score — were tracks from his shelved album “Bonfire of Teenagers,” which was recorded in 2021 but never released

to the public due to a bitter battle between Morrissey and Capitol records, his label at the time.

While the setlists on his current tour may not always play to nostalgia-thirsty fans looking to recapture their youth, they certainly show remarkable confidence on the part of Morrissey.

It appears that in his mind, his recent output is as relevant or more relevant than his work from the early days, and he can’t be bothered to worry much about the opinions or expectations of others on this matter. And he may be right, as the songs are great — particularly “ rebels Without Applause” and “I Ex-Love You,” each from “Bonfire of Teenagers.” While that approach might leave some of the more casual fans alienated, it’s a reward to those who have stuck with him and enjoyed all four decades of his career.

Morrissey did manage to dip into some older fan favorites, as well, during his roughly 90-minute set. In fact, the Manchester, United Kingdom, native came out swinging for the fences with a trio of some of his catchiest songs, starting with “You’re

the o ne for Me, Fatty,” a bouncy and amusing (albeit slightly insensitive) gem from 1992’s “Your Arsenal,” followed by “Alma Matters,” the standout single from his vastly underrated 1997 album “Maladjusted,” before launching into “Shoplifters of the World Unite,” one of the heavier rockers from The Smiths near-flawless catalog.

Eventually the crowd was treated to a few of the sing-alongs they were likely pining for all night, with “Everyday is Like Sunday” and the iconic Smiths tracks “Please, Please, Please Let Me Get What I Want” and “How Soon Is Now?” adding a few highly recognizable highlights for the fair-weather fans.

For a singer who is best known for crooning over jangly pop tunes, his backing band offered an impressive ability to flex its rock muscles at will, adding heft, power and a formidable backbone to their singer’s often biting lyrics.

He did have an early moment with a concertgoer that made longtime fans nervous he might walk off the stage at any moment. He bantered with someone near the front of the stage, telling the fan to stop staring at him and that he was ruining the night for everyone, “including me.”

The nearly 5,000-seat venue was close to being sold out, an impressive feat for Morrissey and another feather in the cap of ocean Casino. Their commanding presence within Atlantic City’s live entertainment landscape lately is impressive to say the least.

Earlier this month, ocean hosted rock icon Lenny Kravitz for his only two East Coast shows in the United States on this tour. o cean’s jackpot November also featured “SNL” comedian David Spade, legendary crooner Paul Anka and popular reggae rockers Dirty Heads. The impressive entertainment lineup continues this month with the always-popular KC & the Sunshine Band (Nov. 23) and super-hot comic Jim Jefferies (Nov. 30).

What makes ocean’s mentionable entertainment lineup special is its diversity, truly offering something for

Many in attendance were glad to see him on the ovation Hall stage at all. Throughout his career, the eccentric frontman has been known to cancel shows unexpectedly with little notice, sometimes just because he seemingly doesn’t feel like performing that night.

everyone. The indie darling Morrissey and classic rocker Kravitz are great examples of how o cean entertainment guru Steve Gietka will book great acts the city rarely sees.

As is typical for a Morrissey concert, there were several fans who managed to rush the stage in an effort to hug their hero with mixed results. This tradition is often encouraged by Moz, although a swarm of devotees at a recent show in Dallas led to the singer cutting the evening short. This time things managed to stay in check, with the show wrapping up as planned, as the encore “Irish Blood, English Heart” from his 2004 comeback album, “You are the Quarry” provided a blistering and exhilarating finale to the performance.

Plus, other future acts like Dutch DJ/producer Tiesto (Dec. 7), party pop legends Kool & the Gang (Feb. 8), Long Island Medium Theresa Caputo (Feb. 21), controversial comic and “Kill Tony” podcast creator Tony Hinchcliffe (March 1), r&B powerhouses Ginuwine with Montell Jordan (March 21) and Chazz Palminteri’s one-man play “A Bronx Tale” (April 11) indicate Gietka and o cean are just warming up.

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Junior Jazz Battle Royal: Teen jazz ensembles offer free music in Ocean City

The o cean City Arts Center’s presents an exciting afternoon of music Saturday, Dec. 7 at 2 p.m. in the Lecture Hall, ocean City Free Public Library, 1735 Simpson Ave., o cean City. This will be our second Junior Jazz Battle royal which features two teen jazz ensembles. The concert is free and open to the public. With limited seating, reservations are strongly suggested and can be made online at

oceancityartscenter.org or by calling the office at 609-399-7628.

First up in the Junior Jazz Battle royal will be TD Jazz for Teens Ensemble from the New Jersey Performing Arts Center (NJPAC) directed by Mark Gross. TD Jazz for Teens is a comprehensive and sequential jazz education program that develops well-rounded young performers through access to life-changing experiences. Students

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receive top-notch musical training and study with world-class working artists in courses including technique, theory and composition.

Following will be the Ambassador ensemble from Jazz House Kids, which is the only community arts organization in New Jersey exclusively dedicated to educating children through jazz: America’s home-grown art form. In the schools, at the Jazz House and in the community, they give students an artistic edge – music, mentoring, education and leadership at work! Directed by Darrell Smith, PhD, this ensemble performed at the recent Exit Zero Jazz Festival in Cape May and bowled over the audience!

The Arts Center ‘s second Junior Jazz Battle royal is proud to feature these youth jazz ensembles who are keeping the jazz flame burning bright with brilliant and virtuosic performances. The inaugural Junior Jazz Battle royal last spring featured Deptford High School’s Jazz Ensemble and The Happy Accidentals from Egg Harbor Township High. Because of the overwhelming response to that event, we have plans to make this a

semi-annual program.

The concert follows in the tradition of the Battle of the Bands popularized by an early 20th century concert staple where two popular orchestras would try to outperform one another in front of a live audience, like the first time ever Count Basie o rchestra and the Duke Ellington o rchestra came together in 1961. That historic meeting, later referred to in jazz circles as The Battle royal, has been recreated through live performances by other jazz orchestras and ensembles over the years including on the stage of the 2011 edition of the Jazz à vienne festival. Likewise it brings to mind the annual Essentially Ellington High School Jazz Band Competition & Festival held at Lincoln Center in New York.

With this Junior Jazz Battle royal, o cean City will come alive with the sound of some of jazz's future stars facing off, not in competition, but in synergy.

This program is made possible in part by the New Jersey State Council on the Arts, a partner agency of the National Endowment for the Arts.

Thanksgiving wines: a toast to gratitude

Drink Up!

Thanksgiving is about gratitude and appreciation for those we care most about, both living and deceased, and for the freedom we share. Though some other countries celebrate a “harvest holiday” with a similar name, the American version of Thanksgiving is historically unique. Most recall the story of Pilgrims and Native Americans sitting down to celebrate the harvest. According to the journals of William Bradford, the first governor of the Plymouth Colony, the first Thanksgiving celebration occurred in the fall of 1621. However, it was more of a dinner with prayers, bonfires, and gunshots to ward off the Native Americans in the area than what many of us envisioned in elementary school. A peace treaty with the Wampanoag people and the shared harvest celebrations started a few years later. In 1863, President Abraham Lincoln declared the last Thursday of November to be Thanksgiving to heal hurts from the Civil War. In 1941, FD r changed the date to the fourth Thursday.

The most common question I hear around this time is: “What should I serve with Thanksgiving dinner?” Though families enjoy a variety of foods, I’ve based recommendations in this article on the traditional Thanksgiving menu: turkey, stuffing, green bean casserole, sweet potatoes and/ or mashed potatoes, cranberries, and pie. Here are my top 10 Thanksgiving wine recommendations for 2024.

The Mantlerhof Gruner veltliner is a classic Austrian white wine that pairs well with Thanksgiving dinner, from appetizers to dessert. This is a well-balanced dry white wine with notes of pears and green apples with a touch of citrus and a lovely stony minerality. The relatively high acidity makes it an ideal pairing for roasted turkey and vegetables.

Another excellent Austrian white wine is the Schlosskellerei Gobelsburg riesling from Kamptal. Some have the misconception that all riesling wines are sweet. Not so! This is a medium dry white wine with the flavors of white peaches, pears and green apple with notes of honey and ginger. This is a great wine for the entire dinner, even the dessert.

Chardonnay is a classic pairing with poultry. I highly recommend the Balletto vineyards Chardonnay from the russian river valley of California. This wine has the classic flavors of green apple and pear with notes of citrus and vanilla. Balletto makes the outstanding wine in both a traditionally oaked and unoaked version for those who prefer less of the wood notes of most Cali Chards.

The vigneau-Chevreau vouvray Cuvee Silex is also high on my list for a white wine. vouvray is a subregion in the center of the Loire valley in France. The grape produced in this appellation is Chenin Blanc. This dry white wine has the intense flavors and aromas of apricots and pears with light notes of citrus and honey and a notable stone-like minerality. If you have not experienced a vouvray, Thanksgiving is a great opportunity. It pairs perfectly with every course and is guaranteed to delight your guests.

relatively high acidity makes it a perfect pairing for your turkey dinner.

My last recommendation for a white is a sparkling wine from valdobbiadene, Italy. The Bortolomiol Grande Cuvee Del Fondatore Motus vitae Prosecco is the perfect pairing as a “Welcome Wine,” to greet guests, with your salad course and with your dessert course. It is one of the best Prosecco wines I have experienced. It is dry, crisp, and refreshing with a persistent effervescence that will add a sparkle to your Thanksgiving.

The adage, “red wine with red meats and white wines with fish and white meats,” is not always true. Turkey is a relatively low-fat meat, so many lower-tannin, medium- or light-bodied red wines with higher acidity pair very well. The vina Zorzal Malayeto Garnacha from Navarra, Spain, is a medium-bodied young red wine with a medium acidity that pairs perfectly with turkey and all the sides. The fruit flavors are plums and berries with notes of orange and herbs such as sage and thyme. Sounds like Thanksgiving to me!

From the Piedmont region of northwest Italy, try the Mauro Molino Barbera D’Alba. It is a fresh, dry red wine with the flavors of tart cherries and blackberries and notes of dried herbs and black pepper. The relatively low tannins and high acidity make this Italian a guaranteed hit for the red wine lovers at your table.

A French recommendation is the Le Grande valmal vielles vignes from the Cote du rhone region. This medium-bodied dry red wine is a blend of

Grenache, Syrah, and Mourvèdre and has flavors of dark berries and Mediterranean aromatic herbs. Delicious! o ne of the classic red wine pairings for Thanksgiving is Pinot Noir. The Willamette valley of o regon has become world-renowned for this noble grape. The Pinot Noir wines from there have the classic old-world flavors that wines from Burgundy have but with a new-world freshness. The L’Umami NW Wine Company Pinot Noir is my recommendation. This is a dry, earthy red with flavors of ripe red cherries and notes of fresh mushrooms, black pepper, and smoke. The

My last recommendation is the other classic red pairing for your turkey dinner: Gamay. This dry, fresh, light to medium-bodied wine has the fruit flavors of pomegranate, cranberry, and blackberry with a beautiful earthiness. My recommendation is the L. Tramier & Fils Moulin-A-vent Beaujolais Gamay. The classic flavor notes and high acidity of this wine will earn it a place of honor at your Thanksgiving table. It is almost always on mine.

I am grateful to you all for taking the time to read these wine articles; it is truly my pleasure to write them. Don’t hesitate to contact me at dsetley@passionvines.com with any questions. Until next time, Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Wining!

David Setley is enjoying his retirement from higher education as a wine educator and certified sommelier at Passion Vines in Somers Point, New Jersey.

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Live & Local Music Calendar

Thursday, November 21

Atlantic City

Candy Cane Lounge at Resorts

Karaoke Night w/ Cowboy Kevin

8 p.m.

1133 Boardwalk

Council Oak at Hard Rock

NGXB

5:30 – 9 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Nola’s Bar at Ocean Casino

DJ KY

8 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Rush Lounge at Golden Nugget

Steve Moore & MIA

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

600 Huron Ave.

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

Stealing Savannah

7 – 11 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Somers Point

Caroline’s by the Bay

Karaoke Night w/ Mike Dempsey

8:30 p.m. – 12:30 a.m.

450 Bay Ave.

Crab Trap

Bittersweet Duo

6 – 9 p.m.

2 Broadway

Josie Kelly’s

40 North

6 p.m.

908 Shore rd.

Mexiquila

vahe Sarkissian

6 – 9 p.m.

101 E. Maryland Ave.

Queen Jayne’s Sidestory Duo

6 – 9 p.m.

264 New rd.

Tuckerton

The Lizzie Rose Music Room

Marshall Crenshaw

7:30 p.m.

217 E. Main St.

Friday, November 22

Atlantic City

Anchor Rock Club

A Farewell to Kings: A Tribute to rush

8 p.m.

247 S. New York Ave.

Candy Cane Lane at Resorts

DJ Gary

9 p.m. – 12 a.m.

1133 Boardwalk

Council Oak at Hard Rock

vahe Sarkissian Trio

6 – 9:30 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Hard Rock Café

Dueling Pianos

9 p.m. – 1 a.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Nola’s Bar at Ocean Casino

Lenahan Brothers Duo

7 p.m.

3AM Tokyo

10 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Rush Lounge at Golden Nugget

Indelible Groove Duo

6 p.m.

The Deck Band

10 p.m.

600 Huron Ave.

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

Night Anthem

5 – 8:30 p.m.

Garden State radio

9:30 p.m. – 1 a.m.

1000 Boardwalk

The Wave at Golden Nugget

Flashback Friday: Hello I Must Be

Going: Phil Collins Trio

9 p.m. – 12 a.m.

600 Huron Ave.

Topgolf at Ocean Casino

Kelli & DJ Trish

7 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Villain & Saint at Ocean Casino

Slay Town City

9:30 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Egg Harbor Township

The Roost Pub & Grill

Tony & Kim

6:30 – 9:30 p.m.

500 St. Andrews Dr.

Margate

Bocca

CJ Sooy

6:30 – 9:30 p.m.

7805 ventnor Ave.

Marmora

Yesterday’s

Kevin Burns

8 – 11 p.m.

316 roosevelt Blvd.

Smithville

Fred & Ethel’s Lantern Light

Tony Caine

7 – 10 p.m.

1 N. New York rd.

Somers Point

Caroline’s by the Bay

The Company

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

450 Bay Ave.

Crab Trap

Doug Jennings

6 – 9 p.m.

2 Broadway

Josie Kelly’s

BigFoot. 8 p.m.

908 Shore rd.

Tuckerton

The Lizzie Rose Music Room

Shemekia Copeland

7:30 p.m.

217 E. Main St.

Saturday, November 23

Atlantic City

Anchor Rock Club

Gecko County, Sapped, Wring Me o ut, Future Souls, Silly Time with Damien

6 p.m.

247 S. New York Ave.

Candy Cane Lane at Resorts

Tom & Kimi

6 – 9 p.m.

DJ Chazz

9 p.m. – 2 a.m.

1133 Boardwalk

Council Oak at Hard Rock

Indelible Groove Trio

6 – 9:30 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Hard Rock Café

Dueling Pianos

9 p.m. – 1 a.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Nola’s Bar at Ocean Casino

Black Car Gina Duo

7 p.m.

Steal the Sky

10 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Rush Lounge at Golden Nugget

No Clue Trio

5 p.m.

Party Wave

10 p.m.

600 Huron Ave.

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

Sky City Social

5 – 8:30 p.m.

Kristen & The Noise

9:30 p.m. – 1 a.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Topgolf at Ocean Casino

Sceneior Citizens

8 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Villain and Saint at Ocean Casino

Late Last Night

9:30 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

Margate Bocca

Jim Shaw

6:30 – 9:30 p.m.

7805 ventnor Ave.

Marmora

Yesterday’s

Steve Mullary of Atley Moon

8 – 11 p.m.

316 roosevelt Blvd.

Smithville

Fred & Ethel’s Lantern Light

Tom and Sarah

7 – 10 p.m.

1 N. New York rd.

Somers Point

Caroline’s by the Bay Twisted Livin’

4 – 7 p.m.

radio revolution

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

450 Bay Ave.

Crab Trap

Doug Jennings. 6 – 9 p.m.

2 Broadway

Josie Kelly’s

The Turtle Heads

9 p.m. – 12:30 a.m.

908 Shore rd.

Tuckerton

The Lizzie Rose Music Room

Wooden Ships Band: A Tribute to Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young

7:30 p.m.

217 E. Main St.

Waretown

Albert Music Hall

Saturday Night Show w/ Billy Sullivan & Friends, Lou Pica & Friends, Piney Blues, Billy Penn and the Inside Drivers, Third rail

6 – 9 p.m.

131 Wells Mills rd.

Sunday, November 24

Atlantic City

Anchor Rock Club

Tierra Cali

9 p.m.

247 S. New York Ave.

Candy Cane Lane at Resorts

DJ Proud

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

1133 Boardwalk

Council Oak at Hard Rock

Dan Jost Trio

5:30 – 9 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Nola’s Bar at Ocean Casino

Dueling Pianos

8 p.m.

500 Boardwalk

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

Se7en Band

4 – 7:30 p.m.

Ladies & Gentlemen

8:30 – 11:30 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Somers Point

Josie Kelly’s

Traditional Irish Session

1 – 4 p.m.

908 Shore rd.

Tuckerton

The Lizzie Rose Music Room

Amanda Fish. 7:30 p.m.

217 E. Main St.

Monday, November 25

Atlantic City

Candy Cane Lane at Resorts

DJ Proud

7 p.m. – 12 a.m.

1133 Boardwalk

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

Sidestory

7 – 11 p.m.

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Tony’s Baltimore Grill: An Atlantic City tradition since 1927

TThe following year, the restaurant was sold to an ownership team headed by veteran Tony’s cook Fred Pugh. Nothing much changed under the new management in line with the décor and the menu.

here was a time when there were lines of people that stretched around the block, all waiting to get in to eat at Tony’s Baltimore Grill. While that may not often be the case today, the 90-year-old restaurant continues to update and thrive, and thankfully keep its rich tradition alive.

Some of the wait staff have been there for decades, the booths with the old-style mini-jukeboxes are pretty much the same, and the menu, though updated somewhat to reflect contemporary tastes, hasn’t changed too drastically from the time Tony’s opened in 1927.

In that year, Philadelphian Joseph Tarsitano opened the Baltimore Grille at 604 Atlantic Ave. The first menu featured pasta and fried seafood from Baltimore. As the story goes, son Tony was asked to help his father in the kitchen, and in the process, Tony came up with what they called the tomato pie, said to be the first ever made in Atlantic City.

“It really all does come back to great food at reasonable prices, and we still try to keep the prices moderate and try to appeal to the blue-collar customer,” Pugh told Shore Local’s Scott Cronick, in a 2018 piece Cronick wrote for the old Atlantic City Weekly. “It’s basically us and the White House Sub Shop. We have outlasted everyone. There’s just something about us, and it always was from the very beginning. People just love our food. I think it’s that simple.”

In 2021, Tony’s changed hands again. The buyers were ronald Nolan Aspell and his wife, Julie. The Aspells not only updated Tony’s menu somewhat and instituted a daily happy hour, but they made a big media splash in these parts when they bought and revived the shuttered Italian spot, Angeloni’s II restaurant and Lounge.

Broadcaster/columnist Harry Hurley, in April, 2024 wrote for the WPG radio web page: “ ronald and Julie have already done great things with Tony’s Baltimore Grill. They have successfully demonstrated the capacity to acquire iconic establishments and thread the needle by respecting the rich history, while putting their own touch on things at the same time. It’s a winning formula.”

Upon Joseph’s passing, his brother John owned and operated the restaurant until Tony returned from service in World War II. Tony and his younger brothers bought the place from their uncle John and renamed it Tony’s Baltimore Grill. In December of 1964, Tony and two partners bought what was Paddy McGahns Cafe and Musical Bar, and converted it to the present-day Tony’s Baltimore Grill as a part of the city’s 1964 Urban renewal Project. The formal opening on 2800 Atlantic Ave. was on April 1, 1965 and it was reported that the lines stretched for blocks.

Tony’s has weathered a lot of storms through the years, including the many changes in Atlantic City, but one issue the restaurant could not surmount was bankruptcy, filed in 2016. The reasons for the bankruptcy, according to the Tarsitano family, were a $715,000 charge for withdrawing from a union pension fund as well as government liens for unpaid bills. The restaurant remained open nonetheless.

Tony’s through the years has always been the perfect family spot and, to this day, it’s a place for latenight eats, as the kitchen is open until 2 a.m. during the week and 3 a.m. on Friday and Saturday. And for those who partake of such things, the bar is open 24/7. Given the hours, the consistent quality of the food, reasonable prices, and just-like-home service, Tony’s Baltimore Grill, for many years, was the spot for Atlantic City musicians to have some great food after, or sometimes before, the job.

During the years when the hotel/ casinos employed hundreds of musicians, Tony’s was the gathering place at every hour of the day. Though that situation is not what it once was, many of the musicians who frequented Tony’s back in the day still visit often. Two world-class musicians that I know of – they are among my dearest friends as well – rarely work in the casinos these days, but they continue

to make regular pilgrimages to Tony’s.

Bruce Kaminsky is a first-call jazz bassists, world music pioneer, educator, and inventor of the electric/acoustic hybrid KYDD Bass. He swears by Tony’s Baltimore Grill and he’ll tell you that it’s not just about the food.

“Atlantic City has become famous for its casinos, celebrities and nightlife, but that all pales next to dinner at Tony’s,” Kaminsky says. “I’m not saying that Tony’s is the best restaurant in town. I’m saying it’s the most entertaining place to be. Don’t get me wrong; I love the food: The hot beef sandwich, the half ravioli and spaghetti platter, the very fresh salad, the shockingly tasty ginger ale, the bread pudding (which is its own food group) and, of course, the warmed up Atlantic City bread are all fabulous. But there’s more to it than the food.

that’s entertainment!”

As a pianist, orchestrator, conductor and educator, Dean Schneider, currently the musical director of Bordentown’s exquisite ristorante LUCCA, has few equals. He’s been going to what he calls “The Balt” since 1985.

“It’s the wait staff that really brings it together. They are fun and relaxed. one waiter had worked on Broadway. A waitress on Halloween was dressed like a cat and handed out candy to the patrons. This is dinner and a show. If you walked in with troubles, you left with a smile and a full belly. Now

“I’ve never had a bad meal there since,” Schneider says. “I remember back then, there would be a line around the corner. It was that good. Worth the wait? Absolutely! Tony’s remains the first-preference spot for me and my son, Steven, for dinner in Atlantic City. Ever since moving to Connecticut, when Steven is in the area, we’ll hit Tony’s. The waitresses

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there have been remarkable. They watched my son grow up there right in front of their eyes.

“As a professional musician, Tony’s was the place to go after a long night. A pizza and a fried shrimp platter with well-done fries and an antipasto was the best way to end the day. The late pianist, George Mesterhazy, and I lived for the grated cheese and we used to see who would get the biggest ‘snow cap’ on a slice. I’m very happy Tony’s is still around, and the cur-

NOV 23

Holiday Kickoff at Mudhen

NOV 27 – JAN 1

Holiday Window Decorating Contest Display at the Wildwoods Convention Center & Greater Wildwood Chamber of Commerce – FREE

NOV 29 – DEC 8

Wildwoods Holiday Restaurant Week – NEW!

NOV 29

Family Holiday Beach Bonfire

NOV 29 – DEC 1

Christmas in North Wildwood – FREE

NOV 30

Wildwoods Holiday Shopping Village/ Small Business Saturday – FREE

DEC 1, 8, 15, & 22

Holidays at HenVille: Shopping Village – FREE

DEC 3

Wildwood Crest Holiday Tree Lighting Ceremony – FREE

DEC 6

Greater Wildwood Jaycees Christmas Parade – FREE

DEC 6

Downtown Wildwood Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony – FREE

rent owners are very accommodating and friendly.”

Professional food reviewers may have more schooling about what restaurant is good and what restaurant is not, but I’ll take the opinion of jazz musicians anytime. And for that reason, I’ll see you at Tony’s.

Bruce Klauber is the author of four books, an award-winning music journalist, concert and record producer and publicist, producer of the Warner Brothers and Hudson Music "Jazz Legends" film series, and performs both as a drummer and vocalist.

DEC 6 - 7

Greater Wildwood Jaycees Downtown Wildwood Christmas in the Plaza – FREE

DEC 7

North Wildwood Tree Lighting Ceremony – FREE

DEC 7

Santa Paws in North Wildwood – FREE

DEC 7

Wildwood Holiday Spectacular Concert – NEW!

DEC 8

Holiday Tree Jubilee in Wildwood Crest

DEC 13 - 14

Wildwood’s Winter Wonderland at Holly Beach Park – FREE

DEC 14

Family Holiday Celebration & Tree Lighting Ceremony at the Wildwoods Convention Center – FREE

DEC 14

Pinch the ‘GrYnch’ Boardwalk 5K Run

DEC 14 12 Pubs of Christmas

DEC 16

Wildwood Crest Holiday Light Walk – FREE

DEC 20 - 21

Wildwood’s Winter Wonderland at Holly Beach Park – FREE

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DECEMBER 6-7-8

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Open for Holiday Shopping every Fri, Sat, Sun 12-5pm

Tony’s has always been the perfect family spot and a place for late-night eats.

Somers Point

Caroline’s

450 Bay Ave.

Gregory’s

Tom Angello’s All-Star Jazz Series

7 – 8:30 p.m. 900 Shore rd.

Tuesday, November 26

Atlantic City

Rush Lounge at Golden Nugget

Patty & Bugzy

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

600 Huron Ave.

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock

1000 Boardwalk

Somers Point

Caroline’s by the Bay Music Bingo hosted by DJ Chris

John

7

450

Josie Kelly’s

Wednesday, November 27

Atlantic City

Rush Lounge at Golden Nugget Michael Stevens

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

600 Huron Ave.

The Lobby Bar at Hard Rock Austin City Nights

7 – 11 p.m.

1000 Boardwalk

Margate

Bocca

Bob Sterling & The Bocca Boys

7 – 10 p.m.

7805 ventnor Ave.

Marmora

Yesterday’s Thanksgiving Eve Party feat. Sofroney & Holman 8 – 11 p.m.

316 roosevelt Blvd.

Smithville

Fred & Ethel’s Lantern Light

Chad Miller

7 – 10 p.m.

1 N. New York rd.

Somers Point

Caroline’s by the Bay DJ Mike Dempsey

8 p.m. – 12 a.m.

450 Bay Ave.

Crab Trap

Doug Jennings

6 – 9 p.m.

2 Broadway

Josie Kelly’s Local Noise ft. John Wood

9 p.m.

908 Shore rd.

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New Jersey’s most iconic roller coaster disappears without a farewell

Kingda Ka, the towering giant of Six Flags Great Adventure and a marvel of engineering, is officially closed. The ocean County theme park confirmed the news Thursday, ending weeks of speculation among roller coaster enthusiasts.

The 456-foot behemoth, which had dominated the skyline since its debut in 2005, is being dismantled to make way for a “multi-record-breaking launch coaster,” slated to debut in 2026 as the park’s new centerpiece attraction.

While the prospect of a new thrill ride is exciting, Six Flags’ handling of Kingda Ka’s closure leaves much to be desired. Fans didn’t even get the chance to say goodbye.

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personal loss

Six Flags Great Adventure has been a part of my family for decades. As season pass holders, my siblings and I would spend long afternoons screaming on the park's many roller coasters, including Kingda Ka. Conveniently located 50 miles up the Parkway, Great Adventure allowed me to experience thrills, which brought our family closer.

My sister and I would tease each other about Kingda Ka. She hated the idea that the train could potentially not make it over the over-400-foot hill and rush backwards. I was addicted to the adrenaline rush when riders were propelled forward at top speeds. We'd laugh at our ride picture - me gripping the harness and my sister squeezing her eyes shut.

What other coaster can inflict fear and delight all at once? No other coaster can compare. Who would dare to ride one of the greatest coasters of all time, hidden amongst the Pine Barrens?

A missed opportunity

Instead of making an announcement ahead of time, Six Flags waited until after Kingda Ka had already shut down. This lack of transparency robbed park goers of the opportunity to experience one last adrenaline-pumping ride.

As someone who loved Kingda Ka, I feel this loss acutely. I remember being awestruck by its size and speed, a green steel monster named after a mythical Bengal tiger. I chickened out in 2005 when it first opened, but a few years later, I finally braved the 128 mph launch—losing my phone in the process but gaining a lifelong memory.

Cedar Fair’s acquisition and operational changes

Kingda Ka’s closure also comes in the wake of Cedar Fair’s acquisition of Six Flags, a merger that has sparked significant changes across the company’s parks. Cedar Fair, known for prioritizing efficiency and long-term operational sustainability, has launched a campaign to remove rides that are deemed operationally challenging or maintenance-heavy.

Kingda Ka, with its complex hydraulic launch system and towering structure, likely fell victim to this strategy. While its speed and height made it a marvel, the ride’s maintenance requirements often caused downtime, frustrating park guests and operators alike. Cedar Fair’s approach to streamlining park operations makes business sense, but the loss of iconic rides like Kingda Ka raises concerns about whether efficiency is coming at the cost of character and fan loyalty.

This shift reflects a broader trend in the amusement park industry, where high-maintenance attractions are increasingly replaced with rides that are less costly to operate and maintain. While the new record-breaking launch coaster promises to deliver thrills, it also underscores a changing philosophy: one that values reliability over nostalgia.

A shrinking amusement landscape in South Jersey

As rides like Kingda Ka disappear and fade into memory, the state’s amusement scene feels increasingly fragile. For many, these closures represent more than lost rides—they signify a fading era of New Jersey’s rich entertainment history.

What’s next?

In a press release published Thursday morning, Six Flags announced that two roller coasters at Great Adventure in are closing permanently — Kingda Ka and Green Lantern. Additional closures include Zumanjaro, the drop tower attached to Kingda Ka, as well as two family rides — Twister and Parachutes.

With Kingda Ka’s removal, the park’s president, Brian Bacica, promised guests that an “all-new, record-breaking launch coaster” will replace the beloved attraction in 2026. More details about the attraction will come next summer, according to the release. The park will also feature another new ride next year:

The Flash: vertical velocity, North America’s first “super boomerang” roller coaster.

The park is investing heavily in its future. According to a company press release, Six Flags plans to invest over $2 billion in the coming years.

“The investments, which will total between $500 million and $525 million in both 2025 and 2026, will include new rides, attractions, themed areas, dining upgrades and technology enhancements that are sure to deliver

an unparalleled level of fun and excitement to guests of all ages,” the announcement stated.

In the same press release, Bacica acknowledged the difficulty of letting go of fan favorites. “We understand that saying goodbye to beloved rides can be difficult, and we appreciate our guests’ passion. These changes are an important part of our growth and dedication to delivering exceptional new experiences,” he wrote.

While these promises might excite some, it’s hard not to feel that Kingda Ka deserved a more fitting sendoff. The new attraction must not only live up to its predecessor’s legacy but also mend the disappointment left by its sudden and silent departure. Whatever comes next, it better be worth it. It’s not just about breaking records—it’s about rebuilding trust and rekindling the excitement Kingda Ka inspired for nearly two decades.

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Tis the Season: Holiday decorating when your home is for sale

Real Estate Matters

One of the many delights of the holiday season is decorating your home. From a cornucopia and pumpkins for Thanksgiving to a Douglas fir and lights for Christmas or a menorah for Hanukkah, decorating can bring a joyous feeling to any home. However, if you are selling your home around the holidays, you may want to practice moderation when choosing your holiday decor. Use these tips to decorate your house while being mindful of your home sale.

Limit clutter

While some people enjoy the holidays as an opportunity to decorate every nook and cranny of their home, it is best to keep things to a minimum.

A significant focus of staging is to remove clutter to make your home appear as spacious as possible. Select a few pieces of festive flair to bring the holiday spirit into your home, and leave the rest in storage this year. If you need help choosing decorations, you should avoid anything with names or photos. Personalized items can make it difficult for homebuyers to see themselves living in your home.

Don’t block natural light

You should highlight how much natural light your home receives while selling it, so make sure to avoid placing any decorations in front of windows or doors. If you are limited in the amount of space you have, you can place an item in these areas, but be mindful of how it is positioned to maintain the flow of light throughout the room.

Coordinate colors

Certain colors instantly come to mind when you think of the holidays. You may choose to accent with the classic red and green for Christmas, or silver, gold, white, or even blue. However, it is important to keep your home as visually appealing as possi -

ble, so avoid decorations that clash with the current color scheme of the rooms in your home.

Accentuate features

If you need help deciding where to place decorations when selling your home, start with some of the best features. This could include a holiday-inspired garland for your mantel or mistletoe hanging from an arched doorway. However, you should make sure decorations don't hide any feature that you love. For example, don’t hang seasonal decorations in a window with a spectacular view of your backyard.

Avoid movement and sound

Some holiday decorations come to life with flashing lights, moving parts, and festive music. However, these items can be distracting when potential buyers visit your home. While you don’t necessarily need to eliminate these items from your decorating, just be sure to turn them off before a showing.

Keep things fresh

Adding plants to your home is a common way to decorate for the holidays, but it takes some extra attention to keep them looking lively. If you are decorating with poinsettias, keep an eye on them and make sure to regularly water and care for them and for any plants that you bring inside for the holidays to keep them looking good and lively.

Avoid large decorations

Try to limit your decorating to pieces that positively highlight the size and charm of the room. For example, a lush tree can be the ultimate

sign that Christmas is on its way. However, you may want to opt for a smaller tree when your home is for sale. While large trees bring a festive feel to your home, they may also make a room appear smaller and cramped.

Decorate the exterior

If part of your holiday decorating includes the outside of your home, don’t be afraid to keep up that tradition. Exterior decorating can boost your home’s curb appeal. However, exterior decorating can have its limitations, and you should avoid large decorations that take attention away from the aesthetic of your home. You may want to decorate with a beautiful welcoming wreath on your front door, a few strands of white lights, and a lovely red ribbon on your mailbox, keeping your home classic, festive, warm, and welcoming for the holidays. By creating a cheerful feel on the outside and inside of your home, potential buyers will be able to envision themselves owning your home, living in it, and having their own traditions and celebrations in your home for many happy years to come.

For real estate information and advice, contact Elisa Jo Eagan, the “ real Estate Godmother,” at 609703-0432. Learn more at www.therealestategodmother.com.

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A Senior’s Observations, Opinions

and Rantings

The ‘unfriending’ pandemic

Ifirst signed on to what has become the social media phenomenon, Facebook, in 2012 as a way of sharing my photography with like-minded people, staying in touch with colleagues, friends and relatives around the world. I have used it successfully to locate friends, some of whom I have not seen in over 40 years.

The app seemed innocent enough at the time. My “friends” list grew as the algorithms introduced me to people they thought I should “friend.” Some of them I did, but some of them were not really people with whom I wanted to share my personal information.

As time went on, I could see that people had lists of friends that went into the high hundreds and even thousands. I understand that if your Facebook page

is a portal to your business and you are monetizing your page, but to put it politely, many of those people wouldn’t put you out if your hair were on fire.

The first hint of people’s political leanings began percolating during the CovID pandemic. Positions on vaxing and not vaxing were being thrust upon friends, with videos vilifying those who did not agree with the positions of those doing the posting.

There were people discovering a voice unlike they have ever experienced before and were using the platform to lecture those to whom they felt intellectually superior. This was tolerated since the “friendships” were more important.

The postings soon ran their course and were replaced by more mundane topics, such as photos of travel, food, family events and bad jokes. Certainly not the domain of the Mensa Society, but entertaining nonetheless.

r ecently, with the presidential election looming, the postings took on a bitter and vile tone. Both sides were firmly entrenched and passionate about their views and opinions. The rhetoric became more and more hostile, resulting in personal accusa -

tions and the worst name calling one can imagine, and this from Facebook “friends.” The level of animosity was palpable as if to say, “how dare you have an opposing position.”

To be true, I put up postings and videos supporting my positions, as well as those against my “friends’” candidate. The difference is that I didn’t personally attack my friends. People were thrashing out statements in the privacy and safety of their own homes that they would dare not say in person. This exposed their true character, or more accurately, lack of character.

All of this had a silver lining, however. It has presented an opportunity for me to take a hard look at all of my “friends” and what they contribute to my Facebook experience. I was surprised by what I learned from this exercise.

Some of them I categorized as “legacy friends,” i.e., friends from high school or work from years ago. I have enjoyed seeing their families grow and celebrate milestones as ours have. But their relevance, and the interest in some others have been waning for a long time and quite possibly, so has their interest in me.

The bar is pretty low to remain one of my Facebook friends, so if that metric is not met, there is a reason. Those who have been making the most repugnant postings have been “unfriended.” This was not meant as a finger in the eye, but simply as the removal of something toxic from my browsing experience.

Some have also unfriended me and to this I say, “thank you.” To me, the Facebook app is meant to be a positive, informative, yet entertaining medium. To be fair, I do like to poke the bear occasionally, but if not provoked, I will remain civilized.

There is more than enough negativity to go around and I choose not to engage with those who offer it up as a beacon to follow. So far, my “friend” list is down to 184, but I am cautiously optimistic.

Charles Eberson has been in the newspaper business for over 25 years. He has worked as a writer, advertising executive, circulation manager and photographer. His photography can be viewed at charles-eberson. fineartamerica.com

How to keep kids safe from dog bites

In 2013, The National Library of Medicine published a study that of the over two million reported dog bites where a child was the victim, roughly 90 percent of those victims knew the dog that bit them. Most of those bites occurred when an adult was nearby but not directly supervising the interaction between the child and the dog. In a 2022 study, the number of reported dog bites had slightly increased, maybe due to the uptick in dog adoptions during the pandemic. The median age of dog bite victims was 6.8 years old, according to that study published in the National Library of Medicine.

Dogs (particularly puppies) and children need time and patience to learn the rules on how to interact with each other correctly. I firmly believe how quickly that happens has little to do with obedience, but rather with the temperament of the dog/puppy and

the amount of effort put forth by the adults in rewarding desired behavior.

It is common for older dogs that have been great around a baby to suddenly become over-aroused once the child develops more mobility and vocalizations. The overstimulation from this newly moving person may just be too much for the dog. Puppies generally do not possess the impulse control to contain their arousal when around a mobile, screaming, happy child.

Many of the dog bites I have worked with started with the child being happy and running. The dog joined in and became overstimulated, first knocking the child down. That resulted in crying, which further stimulated the dog. Then the nipping began, which sent parents into a panic, yelling “stop!” Before they knew it, there was broken skin.

Dogs with any sort of herding instinct will naturally chase moving things and nip them to move them to where they feel they are safer. Terriers may hear those sounds and think it’s vermin that needs to be dealt with. Nipping during over-stimulation can be terrifying to a child and lead to actual bites, which are one hundred percent avoidable.

As much as your puppy or dog needs to learn the rules, so do children. remembering that approximately 90

percent of the dog bites in the 2013 study were at face level, it is important for parents to show their children how to pet their dogs. I discourage teaching your children to be at eye level with a dog's mouth and having the children pet a young dog or puppy’s face. If a puppy is mouthy with adult hands, you have zero business putting a child’s hands near their mouth. Bending down over top of a puppy or dog can invite jumping or headbutts.

Teach the child to calmly pet a dog or puppy behind the ears or on the body slowly, instead of excitedly petting in a way that elicits arousal in the dogs. I like to have one person managing the child and another rewarding the dog, perhaps on a leash. Keep in mind that it can be hard to manage both if you're alone. If a child gets upset and needs to be picked up or held, you are

now holding the source of the dog's overstimulation. That invites a dog with no self-control to jump and possibly nip at the source of their arousal. I also don’t like situations where children grab puppies by the face to give them a kiss if both are still learning how to behave around each other.

In my experience with dog bite cases where a child has been bit or where the child was knocked over and hurt, these situations all could have been avoided with proper management and training. Give your kids and your puppies the best chance of building a solid relationship by using sound judgment during their interactions.

If you have any questions, please feel free to email heidi@fouronthefloordogtraining.net.

Heidi Clayton started Four On the Floor Dog Training to provide positive, rewardbased dog training in South Jersey. She breeds, trains and shows bull terriers under the SoraBully’s Bull Terriers kennel name. Email questions to heidi@ fouronthefloordogtraining. net or learn more at https:// fouronthefloordogtraining.net

Stay fit through the holidays: Avoiding weight gain without missing the fun

The holiday season is a time for celebration, joy and togetherness, but for many health-conscious women, it can also bring challenges to maintaining fitness goals. The festive months are synonymous with indulgent meals, holiday parties and tempting treats that make it easy to stray from our usual routines. If you're mindful about staying healthy, it’s important to know the facts about holiday weight gain and take proactive steps to keep it in check.

The truth about holiday weight gain

The average American gains about 1 to 2 pounds during the holi -

day season, according to studies published in the New England Journal of Medicine. While this may seem minor, research also shows that this weight often isn't lost after the season ends. o ver the years, these small gains can add up, contributing to long-term weight challenges.

Interestingly, women are slightly more likely than men to experience holiday weight gain. Hormonal fluctuations, the tendency to use food as stress relief and juggling busy schedules of work, family and holiday commitments can all contribute. For health-conscious women, the key is not to avoid enjoying the holidays but to approach them with balance and mindfulness.

weight loss or peak fitness goals. Focus on maintaining your current weight instead. Setting realistic goals helps keep stress at bay and allows you to enjoy the season without guilt.

2. Practice mindful eating

Strategies to stay on track

1. Set realistic goals

Understand that the holiday season is not the ideal time for dramatic

Enjoying your favorite holiday dishes is part of the fun, but overeating can sneak up on you. Practice mindful eating by savoring each bite, eating slowly and stopping when you feel satisfied rather than stuffed. Use smaller plates at parties, which can help with portion control, and limit mindless grazing by staying mindful of what you're eating.

3. Balance indulgence with activity

Holiday treats are inevitable, so balance indulgence with physical activity. Stick to your regular fitness routine as much as possible. If your schedule is tight, fit in shorter but effective workouts like a 20-minute HIIT session or a quick walk around the block. Bonus tip: Invite friends or family to join you for a festive workout, like a morning jog before a big holiday meal!

4. Stay hydrated

It’s easy to mistake thirst for hunger, so make sure to stay hydrated throughout the day. Drinking water not only curbs unnecessary snacking but also helps you feel more energized and reduces bloating from salty holiday foods.

5. Make healthy swaps

You don’t have to skip your favorite dishes altogether—just lighten them up. Use Greek yogurt instead of sour cream in dips, swap mashed potatoes for mashed cauliflower or bake with applesauce instead of butter. These small changes can significantly reduce calorie intake without sacrificing flavor.

6. Plan ahead for social events

If you’re attending a holiday

party, eat a small, protein-packed snack beforehand to avoid overindulging on high-calorie appetizers. Be selective about what you indulge in—pick the treat you’re most excited about rather than sampling everything on the buffet.

7. Watch alcohol intake

Alcoholic drinks can be a significant source of hidden calories, especially sugary cocktails and spiked eggnog. Limit your consumption to one or two drinks, and alternate with water or sparkling water to stay hydrated.

8. Prioritize sleep and stress management

The holidays can be hectic, but lack of sleep and increased stress can lead to poor food choices and weight gain. Aim for at least 7-8 hours of sleep per night and find ways to unwind, whether that’s through yoga, meditation, or simply taking time for yourself.

Enjoy the Season Without Sacrificing Your Goals

remember, the holidays are meant to be enjoyed, and occasional indulgences are part of the celebration. By approaching the season with a plan and maintaining balance, you can avoid weight gain while still participating in all the festivities.

Instead of dreading January and feeling the need to "reset," celebrate the New Year knowing that you’ve prioritized your health and well-being throughout the holiday season. A healthy, happy holiday season starts with mindful choices—because you deserve to feel your best, every day of the year.

Rachel Guevara is the owner of Lift & Glitz Training Studio in Northfield, NJ. With 13 years of experience in the fitness industry, Rachel holds certifications in Personal & Group Fitness through ISSA and is a Zumba Fitness Instructor. A proud single mother of two, Rachel balances her professional and personal life with grace and determination. She earned her BA in Communications from Stockton University and resides in Northfield.

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Postcards From The Past

In the 1920s a 17-room mansion called the Bahai Vista was built for Grace Hutton Middleton, sister of F.W. Woolworth. It was located along the Black Horse Pike in the West Atlantic City section of Egg Harbor Township. Middleton sold the building in 1940 and moved to Ventnor. The property was later known as the Sandcastle Restaurant and Fire and Ice Disco. It was demolished in 2002 and today is an empty lot.

SHORE FUNNY QUOTES

“Thanksgiving is an emotional time. People travel thousands of miles to be with people they see only once a year. And then discover once a year is way too often.” — Johnny Carson

“Thanksgiving dinners take 18 hours to prepare. They are consumed in 12 minutes. Half-times take 12 minutes. This is not a coincidence.”

— Erma Bombeck

“Thanksgiving, man. Not a good day to be my pants.” — Kevin James

“A new survey found that 80 percent of men claim they help cook Thanksgiving dinner. Which makes sense when you hear them consider saying ‘that smells good’ to be helping.” — Jimmy Fallon

SUDOKU

Solution on page 78

ACROSS

1. Slick grp.?

5. Mountain basin

8. Bygone bird of New Zealand

11. relating to armpit

12. Pestilence pest

13. End a mission

15. Ancient Greece assembly site, pl.

16. What little kittens did with their mittens

17. *Thanksgiving Cranberry concoction

18. *Site of the "First Thanksgiving"

20. "Guilty," e.g.

21. Kiln, pl.

22. ____ Aviv

23. *Give what?

26. Strangling tool

30. Jul. follower

31. Pupil protector

34. Loads from lodes

35. Shows off

37. Part of human cage

38. Source of indigo dye, pl.

39. Laughing on the inside

40. Truly

42. Highest or lowest card

43. Nemo's home plant

45. *U.S. President's magnanimous gesture

47. Say "no"

48. Plural of carpus

50. Tom Jones's "____ a Lady"

52. *First settlers

55. ____ con Carne or ____ verde

56. Fe

57. off-color

59. Popular jeans brand

60. Attention-getting sound

61. Peter, Paul and Mary, e.g.

62. Elvis' "____ Now or Never"

63. ____ someone off

64. Do like goo

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2. Alka-Seltzer sound

3. James ____ Jones

4. Colored wax stick

5. vIP's influence

6. Compass point, pl.

7. The Count's favorite subject

8. Wry face

9. Black and white mammal

10. *What Thanksgiving celebrant did?

12. Excessively showy, slang

13. Turkish monetary unit

14. *Macy's parade flyer

19. "Haste ____ waste"

22. Little bit

23. ____ Periydica

24. Connected to Lake Michigan

25. September stone

26. Hurtful remark

27. Synonym to #61 Across

28. Telephone company

29. City in Germany

32. Marine eagle

33. Jack-in-the-box part

36. *First Thanksgiving parade (Philadelphia) sponsor

38. What Darwin says we do

40. "No room in the ____ for the travelers weary..."

41. Print from a smartphone

44. Desert mirage

46. ____ Bridge in venice

48. The ____ of the Bambino

49. What phoenix did

50. Bolted

51. Hurries

52. Hearts and diamonds

53. Claudius' heir and successor

54. British slang for swindle

55. Computer-generated imagery, acr.

58. Anonymous John

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THEME: THANKSGIVING

Sammy Davis, Jr: The world’s greatest entertainer and his ties to the World’s Playground

It’s been said by more than one show business industry expert through the years that the late and legendary Sammy Davis, Jr. was the greatest entertainer who ever lived. He was certainly among the most versatile. He was a world-class dancer, singer, mimic, comic, actor and multi-instrumentalist, and in all likelihood, we will never see his likes again.

Davis, who died in 1990 at the age of 64, had close personal and professional ties to Atlantic City. He performed in AC in virtually every decade from the 1930s through the 1980s, famed broadcaster and Memories in Margate founder Jerry Blavat was one of Davis’ closest friends, and Davis’ mother, Elvera “Baby” Sanchez, tended bar at Kentucky Avenue’s Grace’s Little Belmont Club for decades.

The Will Mastin Trio is nothing more than a nearly-forgotten footnote in show business history, but Davis’ many appearances at the shore from the 1930s through the

late 1950s, were as the youngest member of this energetic dance troupe.

The act was formed by Sammy Davis, Sr., Will Mastin, and Howard M. Colbert, Jr. sometime in the 1920s. Colbert departed to join the Army in 1941, and was replaced by a 16-year-old Sammy Davis, Jr., in that year, though he had frequently joined the trio on stage as early as 1933. A fascinating film short that was released in 1933 called “ rufus Jones for President,” featured the incredible dancing and singing of an 8-year-old Sammy Davis, Jr.

The Will Mastin Trio, with and without Davis, were frequent headliners at Atlantic City’s iconic Club Harlem, virtually from the day the club opened in 1935. The club was incredibly popular until its closing in 1986. Aside from presenting an astounding array of superstars

through the years, Club Harlem is historically important. In his book about the club, author W.D. Palmer wrote, “Club Harlem was a retreat from

racial discrimination and segregation in the city, a home for African-American musicians, artists and comedians to display their craft in front of an inclusive community.”

Many white performers would visit the club after their own shows were over, including Frank Sinatra, who would visit Club Harlem often and frequently take a turn on stage, especially when Sammy Davis, Jr. was headlining. Davis was so loyal to the place that it was his second Atlantic City home for decades. As late as 1964, in addition to his frequent appearances at Paul “Skinny” D’Amato’s 500 Club, he still headlined at Club Harlem. A poster exists that advertises the stars who were set to appear there in the summer of 1964, including Sam Cooke, Damita Jo, Dinah Washington,

Sammy Davis’ many appearances at the shore from the 1930s through the late 1950s, were as the youngest member of the Will Mastin Trio.

The Platters, and from Aug. 8 to Aug. 21, Sammy Davis, Jr.

A piece of show business history in the form of what was originally a bootleg record chronicles the 4:30 a.m. breakfast show at the 500 Club, recorded on Aug. 25, 1962, and starring Frank Sinatra, Dean Martin, and Sammy Davis, Jr. Those who have heard the recording, and Sinatra aficionados have had it for years, can attest to the fact that Davis had lost his singing voice that night. Though it was impossible for him to sing, he still wowed the late-night Atlantic City audiences with his dancing, drumming and spot-on impressions.

After gambling was legalized in Atlantic City, Davis performed often in the casinos, mainly at Caesars and Bally’s, and notably with Sinatra and Jerry Lewis at the much-ballyhooed Golden Nugget/Bally’s Grand name changing ceremony in 1987, detailed in these pages recently. Through the years, whenever his sets were over, he would head over to Grace's Little Belmont to visit his mother, who had tended bar there for years.

According to an article written by Delilah Jackson in the old New York Beacon newspaper, “Elvera Sanchez, Sammy’s mother, had connections with entertainers Count Basie, Billy Eckstine, and Sarah vaughan drew these and other celebrities to her station, and her son would come to visit after performing across town at the 500 Club and delighted everyone, pouring drinks and singing.”

Sinatra often dropped by to pay his respects to Elvera after his own shows, said Sinatra valet George Jacobs in his book about Mr. S.

A young Jerry Blavat was a dancer on the “American Bandstand” television show, and was also put in charge by host Dick Clark of handling celeb -

rities who appeared on the program. In his book, “You o nly rock o nce,” Blavat wrote about his first meeting with Sammy Davis, Jr.

“When I met Sammy, he saw me jitterbugging and said, ‘Where’d you learn how to dance like that?’ Blavat wrote. “I said that everybody in South Philly dances like that. He said, ‘No, man, you’re like a white me!’ I turned around and said, ‘No, I don’t think so.’ Sammy laughed and it was the start of a lifelong friendship.”

Blavat and Davis remained close through the years. As soon as he found out that Davis had been diagnosed with cancer, Blavat flew out to Los Angeles and visited Davis as often as he could. Philadelphia’s Cardinal Krol gave Blavat a bottle of holy water from Lourdes to bring out to his ailing friend, but it was too late. Jerry Blavat was with Davis when he died.

“on the plane back to Philly,” Blavat wrote, “I couldn’t stop thinking of Sammy, how he loved my mother’s cooking, and how he would always come over to the house and shoot pool with me in my basement. We would listen to music on my jukebox and watch old Warner Brothers movies on my projector. At one point, after I cooked for him, he started calling me ‘my man, pots and pans’ and became a gourmet cook himself. When he was in Atlantic City or on the road, he would bring his own pots and pans and cook for everybody in his hotel room at four in the morning.”

Jerry Blavat died in 2023 at the age of 82. Elvera Sanchez died in 2000 at the age of 95. Grace’s Little Belmont closed around 1975 and was later demolished. However, the contributions of Sammy Davis, Jr. – as a singer, as a dancer, and as an incomparable entertainer – live on.

Horoscopes for Nov. 21 – 27

♈ Aries: You are the master of yourself and your destiny. A bolder vision requires courage and surrounding yourself with people who will support and challenge you. Are you ready?

♉ Taurus: Your personal revolution has been the training ground for a leveling-up in your career. That which is falling away is creating a clean slate for greater transformation. Aim high in the pursuit of allowing your true self to shine.

♊ Gemini: The beginning of a profound deconditioning journey has arrived. Perspectives no longer worthy of your unique creative force have no place on this beautiful, new horizon. Be selective of your travel companions.

♋ Cancer: The purification of your relationships has occurred. Now is the time to devote yourself to deepening your connection to those who remain and cutting the emotional cords to those who don’t. Incorporating daily spiritual practices can be soothing.

♌ Leo: The journey to purify your relationships is just beginning. How you give your power away to others will be revealed. Let your heart be your guide and voice your truth with peace and diplomacy.

♍ Virgo: Health is wealth, and time is money. Be honest with your-

self about daily habits and routines that negatively impact your vitality. Shed what’s no longer serving you.

♎ Libra: You’ve been in an ongoing makeover process for a while. Your creativity is coming online in new ways. It’s time, Libra, to be the artist you truly are, and to reveal your talents and creations to the world.

♏ Scorpio: Phase 1 of a reconstruction project is here. The blueprints are comprised of pages detailing plans to reconfigure your roots and family ties. Ultimately, the goal is to discover your truest self. Surrender to the process.

♐ Sagittarius: redefining oneself within the framework of self-expression is the next chapter of your evolution. Letting go of your current trajectory and creating a new one will pave the way for a more fulfilling environment.

♑ Capricorn: The time to clear out the clutter has arrived. What may feel like loss happens to create space for something better. A proactive review of your tangible investments and consideration of the unconventional are wise courses of action.

♒ Aquarius: Layers of yourself, as well as what’s not in alignment, are going to be peeled and revealed. The beginning of a great rebirth is underway. The goal is to become the eccentric, innovative, humanitarian rebel that you are.

♓ Pisces: Feelings of detachment and loneliness are part of the Pisces experience. Finding deep connections rather than numbing or escaping these feelings is utopia. Seek out what eases and soothes you with emphasis on remaining present and in the moment.

Weekly astrology summary:

This week’s Cosmic Connection focuses primarily on the permanent shift of transformational Pluto into the zodiac sign Aquarius (Tuesday, Nov. 19) and its personal impact on your sign. As I mentioned last week, these themes have already been developing since March 2023. It’s another big week as we will also experience the beginning of benevolent, uplifting Sagittarius season (Thursday, Nov. 21) and the official start of mercury retrograde (Monday, Nov. 25). The overall energy will feel more optimistic as we shake off the watery, emotional depth of Scorpio season, but things may also start to feel stagnant. remember the power of slowing down, pressing pause and taking time for review periods. It may feel paradoxical to the hustle of the holiday season, so remember to work with the energies in ways that are best for you.

See the above horoscope for your rising sign for more specific information. If you’re unsure what your rising sign is, you can learn more in my info/ tutorial video on our Sea Goddess Healing Arts YouTube channel or cast your own birth chart for free on astro.com.

Ursula Duffy is a Professional Astrologer, founder of Ursa Alchemy and founding partner/ Goddess of Operations (GOO) of Sea Goddess Healing Arts, Atlantic City, NJ. Find her services, teachings, podcast, get in touch and more at www. seagoddesshealingarts.com/ ursaalchemy

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