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Kids’ Education
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Cooking
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Summertime explorations
Jews and the Web they’ve weaved.
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Flying the Flag Israel has joined the international Blue Flag program, which recognizes public beaches for their environmental, safety and accessibility standards. See Page 4
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Synagogue merger does not go as planned
Growing pains Judy Bolton-Fasman writes about the sadness and pain that parents feel when they realize their children and growing up and don’t need them quite as much. See Page 19
Love connection
Ahavath Torah Congregation withdraws from South Shore Unification Plan
Singles columnist Julie Judson ponders the wonder of two strangers seeing each other from across the way, and then later connecting on the Internet. See Page 20
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Familiar ‘Sound’
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The North Shore Music Theatre’s production of family favorite “The Sound of Music” skillfully balances lighthearted scenes with the story’s darker moments. See Page 25
Teen queen Thirteen-year-old Sima Kasten is the Queen of the stage, even though she’s playing a King, in a show currently being staged in Brighton. See Page 25
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Members of the Samaritan community pray atop Mount Gerizim, above the city of Nablus, West Bank, after sunrise on Sunday as they celebrate the Shavuot festival, marking the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai seven weeks after the Exodus of the Jewish people from Egypt.
Gomez gives his views on key issues for the Jewish community Senate hopeful Gabriel Gomez talks about Middle East, current affairs By Ian Thal
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Congressman Edward J. Markey and Gabriel Gomez are running for the Massachusetts Senate seat vacated by John Kerry. The Advocate contacted both candidates to solicit their views on issues of concern to the Jewish Community. (Congressman Markey did not respond.) Gabriel E. Gomez is the Republican nominee for the Senate in the 2013 special election. Gomez is a private equity investor with an MBA from Harvard University and former Navy SEAL. The son of Colombian immigrants, he is a first generation American born in Los Angeles. Q: As with the Latino vote, the Republican Party has historically done poorly with the Jewish vote. How do you convince groups that traditionally haven’t
munity since I’m a first generation American… I am Latino, I understand the Latino issues. I don’t need another congressman coming in on my behalf to speak the language for me, to translate what the concerns… are of the Latino community—I can do that by myself. In terms of Israel, I’ve got a unique perspective there, as well. I served my country; I went to the Naval Academy, served nine years in the service. I was an aircraft carrier pilot first, then a Navy SEAL [platoon] commander and I understand fully the importance of our relationship with Israel. Gabriel Gomez They’re our strongest and our best ally. I understand fully [that] voted Republican to give you a the biggest threat to Israel… is Iran; it’s an existential threat and chance? A: I think I have a very unique perspective on the Latino comContinued on Page 9
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As discussions to unify three South Shore congregations went underway, members of one synagogue had a change of heart. On June 4 members of the Ahavath Torah Congregation (ATC), a Conservative synagogue in Stoughton voted to pull out of unification talks with Temple Beth Am (TBA) in Randolph and Temple Beth Emunah (TBE) in Brockton. Neither TBA nor TBE have stated an Continued on Page 3
Synagogues come together in celebration Synagogue Council of Massachusetts honors Jewish leaders By Ian Thal Advocate Staff The Synagogue Council of Massachusetts’ (SCM) annual tribute celebration affirmed that shuls continue to hold sway in the Jewish community. The transdenominational organization that fosters dialogue and collaboration between congregations in the Commonwealth held the event at Temple Emanuel in Newton on June 11. The first honoree was Steffi Aronson Karp, founder of LimmudBoston who was this year’s recipient of the K’lal Yisrael Award, which is awarded Continued on Page 5