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hoMe sweet home This month’s theme is a handy home-related triad: home beautiful, finance, and real-estate. When we start having kids, most of us move and get a bigger home, and start budgeting for our family’s future. If you need tips on selling your house, it’s all here in this little magazine. Our small family of three are personally not quite ready (or in other words, motivated enough!) for the big move to the suburbs, so we live in an old, two-bedroom, inner-city rental apartment. For us it’s all about location since we can walk everywhere; and not about lots of space and ‘stuff’ at this stage. As our little guy grows or our family grows, I’m sure this perspective on our lifestyle will change. Like a lot of us, our home decorating tastes change as the fashions do. For this reason, I like to choose a blank canvas regarding furniture and colours, and simply change the decor when the desire hits or the seasons change. I love unique, vintage, or eclectic pieces – I try to stray from the ‘matchy match’, but that’s just me…maybe because I have no idea, unlike a lot of the contributors to this month’s mag. Most notably is our Mama of the Month, Mimi Kwa from Tigeroy – a gorgeous store in Malvern. She’ll sort you out for all of your decorating inspirations and needs. Budgeting for us means being organised, being environmentally-conscious, meal-planning, and buying good quality ingredients but cooking from scratch. Don’t get me wrong, there’s always a takeaway dinner each week, spare cash for wine and a good coffee or two at a local café. Take a look at the recipes here from ‘What’s 4 Dinner?’ if you’re looking for some new ideas. Don’t like thinking about meals and shopping for them? They can do all of that for you, too! I’m the last person to offer financial advice, I would spend every cent on living in the now if I could- so please read the tips from our experts here. We’re all parents trying to do the best we can for our families, and do what makes each one of us happy. On that note, keep warm and healthy in this Melbourne winter, mamas!

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Contents Time for change

Do less, enjoy more

Spreading a little kindness

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Lovely locals

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Mortgage with mat leave?

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Saving families money

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Parklife 18 Outer Circle Linea Park, Balwyn

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This is me

A wife, a mama, a woman

Mama of the month

Mimi Kwa from Tigeroy

Nappy happy

Thankyou launch their baby range

Little Big Dash

Family fun this September

Avoid the selling trap

3 things to avoid when selling

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time for change We are all guilty of attempting to fit more into our daily life than there are hours – yet still we invite in MORE. We become ‘soo busy’ in the act of DOING IT ALL, we are left with little time for enjoying MORE. Whether you’re a SAHMum, Work from Home or are employed outside of the home, the juggle between home/work and family life leaves our schedules stretched at the seams. We become passengers in our own lives, more re-active than pro-active. These top tips from expert professional organiser Robyn Arnott will have you rethinking your approach to how you schedule your daily chores, tasks and life! Giving you back your precious time and sanity, whilst also putting you back into the driver’s seat.

Unsubscribe: Before even considering your schedule, consider what you need to let go of: Are you bogged down with stuff that is simply not relevant to you? Take stock and turn off or unsubscribe from anything that doesn’t hold a purpose to your life or the task at hand. Consider what you’re allowing in or taking on and whether it is of genuine purpose to you/ your family or work. The less we take on, the more time we gain back. Let go and focus on what truly has a purpose. DELETE!!!

In our attempts to fit more into our day – we need to do more. Sucking up our time and energy.

Unplug: Switch off from social media, emails or other distractions that suck up your valuable time, preventing you from focusing on the task at hand. Give yourself permission to let go and remove your FOMO.

The trick to a well scheduled life is actually in the act of less!

Learn to say ‘NO!’ – It’s important to understand our limitations.

When working with clients I find the first questions they ask are where should this go, and how do I schedule this into my day? Before even addressing these questions we look at what they are allowing in in the first place.

Establish boundaries on how much you’re prepared to take on each day and stick to them. Say ‘no’ to extra appointments, tasks or invitations. It’s important to even say ‘no’ to yourself. Let go or alter the expectations you have of your environment, on yourself and the expectations you take on or place on others.

We need to re-assess whether or not it’s even relevant to our lives – ask yourself ‘does it have a purpose for me’? We take on the less is more approach to daily scheduling, as opposed to finding a way to cram it all in by retraining behavioural patterns.

Avoid multi-tasking: Do you have those days where your just ‘so busy’ but never actually complete anything? Our ability to efficiently perform a task from start to finish can become impossible, when multi-tasking. Greater productivity is best established when we focus on one task or smaller tasks at a given time.

Outsource: We can’t do it all – so why not outsource some of life’s time consuming tasks. Forking out a little $$cash is worth the time you gain back.

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distraction, so we can focus on the bigger picture tasks which require a greater level of our attention. Be realistic with your ‘to do list’ based on the amount of time required.

Prioritise: Plan ahead by working backwards: Work backwards from a set task or deadline. Block out small amounts of time leading up to the end goal. Group similar tasks or actions together to assist in your ability to become more habitual with regular tasks without having to put it on a ‘to do list’.

Avoid burnout: Taking time out can provide you with the think time you need to re-focus on your priorities in order to reach your end goal. Focus on the tasks along the way rather than attempting to race towards the finish line. Attempting to cram too much into our day not only impacts on our health but also our ability to be alert, focused and efficient in our lives.

Review your week ahead to familiarise yourself and plan. Plan meals weekly so you only shop once.

Start from zero: Avoid playing catch-up: If you’re struggling to keep up, you don’t have time to catch-up.

Simplify: Look at how you can break down the number of steps in a task for greater time efficiency. By simplifying you relieve the pressure/stress and busyness in your life.

Complete set tasks (clear the decks) each day and avoid carrying them over to the next. Finish your day as you intend to start it. You’ll start each day fresh and focused.

Delegate: Do you feel like everything is always left up to you? In life we are essentially all part of a team. Delegate and share the load amongst other family/work members, including the kids. It’s part of living in a household and showcases great team building skills and independence.

Ultimately, we all choose our ‘busy’ lifestyle. So stop complaining about how ‘busy’ you are and start taking action. Give yourself permission to remove the ‘busy’ from your daily life, giving you more time to enjoy the things you love by doing less.

Allocate: We can’t do everything in a day. Allocate separate days of the week for each task. In order to be present, focused and in the moment, I recommend ticking off small, less time consuming tasks first. This frees us up mentally, avoiding procrastination or

Let go of any guilt – we all drop the ball from time to time – YOU’RE ONLY HUMAN! By Robyn Amott Professional Organiser BLESS THIS MESS blessthismess.com.au

Spreading A Little A simple act of kindness can make a tremendous impact on a person’s life. A smile, a card, a coffee or a hug. They don’t take much time or effort but they can make someone feel so good and even make their day. I have noticed over the years that children tend to have this beautiful sense of kindness that is so pure, innocent and instinctive. I guess as we grow up we get busy, we become fearful and maybe even a little awkward. With every part of my being I want to foster these innate responses of children and support them in harnessing and holding on to their visceral kindness for a lifetime. What a beautiful, magical place the world would be. The Early Learning Centre that I work for is completing a project this year relating to Kindness and Sustainability. These may not seem linked at first thought but they very much are. Kindness to one another and kindness to our environment and future generations. The project has taken place over the last five months and so we have truly delved deep into these concepts. We decided to start a ‘movement’. Well, at the very least, try our best to. We have had so many discussions about how kindness feels on the inside and how it sparks a sense of pride, confidence and even peace. Whilst children tend to speak their minds more effortlessly and spontaneously, adults can often find it hard. And so, the start of our movement began here – with the adults. We came up with a creative mail drop system and the children artistically produced hot air balloon mailboxes.

Whilst children tend to speak their minds more effortlessly and spontaneously, adults can often find it hard. Anonymous mail to one another was delivered daily with messages of kindness, love, compliments and compassion. Our centre lit up; people were shining from the inside. There was kindness in the air, excitement in their 8

Kindness steps and adoration in their eyes. It has been truly beautiful to watch unfold. The kindness was infectious and it was ready to burst out of the doors of our centre and into the public. It took some time and some thought, but the children were ready to spread their kindness and practice sustainability. We collected recycled materials over the course of a few weeks and we were so thankful to the families of our centre for being involved. Our next step was to be artistic and creative with our collection. The children painted and drew on our recycled cups and bottles with so much passion and fervour. And so of course, they produced genuinely gorgeous products. Recycling and sustainability became buzz words in our centre. Next, the children had a week of planting. We filled dozens of the recycled, decorated cups with soil and plants. The children did this themselves with so much thought and care. They got dirty, they were enthusiastic, they felt excited and best of all, they did it all with love and kindness in their hearts. The children took care of these plants, watering them, talking to them and watching their progress. The entire process was captivating and the children could hardly wait for the next stage. The children knew the whole time that these plants were not for them, they cared for their plant with selflessness, knowing that these

plants were for an anonymous donation as part of our ‘movement’. Excursion time came and the children were excited to walk up to the local main street with their plants that had been so loved and cared for. We all sat down outside at a local café that so willingly catered for us and our project. And then, they did it. With eyes full of hope and hands full of plants to donate. The children handed their beloved plants to strangers, asking “would you like a cup of kindness”. The children had just one request of the strangers they spoke to – “pay it forward”. It is fair to say that the educators had chills up their spine and a tear in their eye. The kindness, innocence and response was heart-warmingly beautiful. We’ve started small but tried to spread wide. We can only hope that the children have made a difference in someone’s day and maybe even sparked a thought in the minds of others. Kindness is not hard, children are living proof of that. And with that, we can be thankful to them for their inspiration and follow in their footsteps as they pave the way of kindness, love and respect. Pay it forward. Written by Hayley Jones. Hayley works at Bambini ELC.

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1. Gymbaroo Ashburton Offering educational age-appropriate sessions for babies as young as 8 weeks up to 5 years, and with a different topic each week, you and your child will have a bonding and enjoyable experience. Baby sessions focus on tummy time, massage, music and movement; while the toddler and Kinder classes enable your child to explore the equipment, sing songs, exercise, dance, and play. There is also a school readiness program. See their website for the timetable and enrolment details. 1/299 High Street. www.gymbarooashburton.com.au

2. Milk Cloud Cafe A buzzy and child-friendly café that serves amazing coffee. It’s split over two levels with plenty of seating, and is heaving with locals, which is always a good sign. Their cakes are to die for and cater to the glutenfree, the chocoholics, and the adventurous - Brioche French Toast with Raspberries, glazed apples, and maple cream anyone?? Getting there is easy, it’s right by a bike path and the train station. 283 High Street. www.facebook.com/milkcloudcafe

3. Ashburton Library Check out the website for the latest times for their regular programs, as well as their occasional events for all ages. Some activities are designed for reader and literacy development, like tiny tots or bedtime storytime; while others are focused on creativity or teaching a new skill, such as Crafternoon, Lego Club, Stitch with Boroondara (a sewing/knitting/ crocheting club)…there is something for the whole family! 154 High Street. www.libraries.boroondara.vic.gov.au

4. Real Toys (Unreal Parties is also upstairs) Here you’ll find a treasure trove of delights for kids of all ages. In such an electronic era, it’s always lovely to see a place for toys which encourages children to play and use their imaginations. Kids love toys that are versatile, simple and tactile, bringing fun and learning together. This shop sells all the popular brands, as well as ride-ons, tricycles and scooters, wooden and traditional toys, dress-ups, jewellery and accessories. 273 High Street. www.realtoys.com.au 5. Ashburton Community Centre This community owned and managed not-for-profit organisation offers activities and programs developed in response to the needs of the community. Winter is the perfect time for the whole family to sign up. Head to their website to discover their exciting array of activities and courses - crafts, gardening, film screenings, yoga, meditation, decluttering, kids’ art, cooking, languages, music…just for starters! If you want to get more involved in your community, they also have a list of interest groups that you can join and meet some lovely locals. 160 High Street. www.ashburtoncc.org.au 10

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mortgage with mat leave? How are you going to repay your home loan while on maternity leave? This is a question asked by many expectant mothers, so we have some great tips to help you through this challenging financial period. Part of the excitement and joy of planning a baby is buying gorgeous grow suits, cute cuddly toys, prams, cots and all the other stuff that you’ll need for your new family addition. A little bit less exciting, but just as important is planning how to manage your home loan repayments on a reduced family income while you’re on parental leave. Even if you are entitled to receive the government parental leave pay, it probably won’t replace your salary as it’s the national minimum wage amount for a maximum of 18 weeks. It’s vital that you know what your options are before you go on leave, so you understand what strategies can work for you and put the right ones in place. Not all banks are the same, so if yours doesn’t have several options for you, it may be time to talk to your mortgage broker and move to a lender who understands what you need and how they can help you.

Here are some possibilities to explore: Build up a buffer In the lead up to your maternity leave, make additional repayments into your home loan to build up a buffer. This is the most financially responsible solution. Pros: This buffer can sit in your home loan redraw or in your offset account and be used for your monthly repayments. If your loan doesn’t have these options talk to your mortgage broker about putting them in place. Cons: It’s not practical if you haven’t been able to save enough.

Borrow the buffer If you have enough equity in your home, top-up your home loan to draw out some cash to give you a buffer to tide you over your leave period. Pros: If you don’t use it you can pay it back into the home loan. Cons: Not all banks will lend you more money while you are actually on unpaid leave, so if this is your chosen strategy make sure you do it well before. Your loan repayments will increase because you owe the bank more, for example if you borrow $50,000 at 4% interest, your monthly repayments will be $240 higher.

Interest only repayments Change your loan repayments to interest only for a year or two. Pros: If you have the right type of loan, you can still choose to make principal repayments, but if you have a tight cashflow month you only have to pay the interest for that month. For a $500,000 loan with an interest rate of 4%, your monthly loan repayments would reduce by $720 every month. Cons: If your loan term is for 30 years, your minimum monthly repayments are calculated so that the loan is repaid in full by the end of the term. So, if you pay just interest for one of those years, then once you go back to principal and interest repayments, they will be calculated over the remaining 29 years. For our example loan above this would be an additional $40 every month for the rest of the loan term. Some banks charge a higher interest rate during the period that you don’t pay off any principal, so make sure you check with your mortgage broker to check whether this would happen with your loan.

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Pros: If this would help you sleep at night (because your baby probably won’t!) then think about fixing the interest rate of your loan for a year or two. At the moment, fixed rates are actually lower than variable rates, so it could be a great solution.

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Cons: Fixed rate home loans are not as flexible as variable rate loans, so talk to your mortgage broker to make sure this solution works for you.

Re-finance If you’ve had your loan for a few years already, you should owe less now than you originally borrowed. If you re-finance your loan with another lender, then you re-start the 30 year loan term with a smaller loan balance. Pros: Your monthly minimum repayments will be lower. Cons: Your mortgage broker will help you understand whether the costs of re-financing make this a sensible choice for you.

Loan repayment suspension You may be able to put your loan repayments on hold for a few months. Pros: You have no loan repayments for the arranged period of time. Cons: The bank will still charge you interest and it will be added onto the amount you owe, compounding how much total interest you end up paying. In addition to this, at the end of the period, your loan repayments will be re-calculated and will be more than they were originally.

Returning to work Of course, it’s not just the initial period of leave with reduced or no income that you need to think about. If you return to part-time work your income will be lower, and you may have additional expenses like childcare to pay. So make sure you plan and understand how this will affect your family budget.

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Parklife Outer Circle Linear Park Positioned next to the Anniversary Trail bike path, you can bring the kids by bike, stop for a play at the park, and finish your adventure with lunch at the lovely child-friendly café across the road, Town and Country. These are probably the best options for a visit to this park since it has limited nearby parking (however, there is a tram stop just by the entrance), and lacks public toilets. There is ample seating, lots of shady trees, and a BBQ for picnics in the warmer weather. The attractive, mostly wooden, and new-looking playground is suitable for all ages. There are various climbing structures for different levels

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of ability, as well as a ‘flying fox’, an array of hanging rings, swings, slides, bridges, and an interactive maze game, clock, and noughts and crosses. The highlight for all the little ones was the ride-on jeep that bounced along with their movement, making them feel like they were driving - with room in the back for passengers. Towards the rear of the grassy and tree-lined park is an amphitheatre surrounded by rocks and bushes, making it another great space to climb, explore, and collect nature’s goodies. After all, who doesn’t love a good stick and leaf collection?!

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Hudson Jack Calleja was born on Wednesday 8th of June at 2.20pm weighing 3.3kg, and my whole world changed instantly as we became a family of four. After having what I call a traumatic experience the first time around, I wanted to do whatever I could to make sure this second pregnancy was a positive one. From the very first appointment with my GP and every obstetrician appointment, I was in complete control.

There are so many challenges that us mums face once we take our newborn home. None of it is real until we have to do it all ourselves without the help and support of the midwives. The first challenge is taking care of the baby. Then there’s sleep deprivation and recovery from the c-section. There’s also a lot of washing to get through, and washing of bottles. Trying to feed everyone and just settling into a new routine.

It wasn’t until I walked into theatre and sat down on the bed that I started to feel nervous. For anyone that’s had a c-section, you know how uncomfortable it is. You don’t feel pain, but you do feel everything. You feel the initial cutting, the pulling, the prodding. You feel short of breath and nauseous. You feel claustrophobic and panicky. After all, you’re having major stomach surgery, and you’re completely awake and alert throughout the whole thing.

The ‘baby blues’ is also very real. I had it with Ben and I now have it with Hudson. I can go from extreme highs to extreme lows in an instant. Flashbacks of my ‘old life’ bring on a deep dark feeling of regret. Did I do the right thing? Was a second baby a good idea? There’s also the isolation. Staying home all day brings on not only boredom but a feeling of seclusion from the outside world.

It was the most surreal moment when one of the nurses said “Hudson is here” and I heard my little boy cry. This little baby was mine. I was now a mum of two. My beautiful boy Benny was a big brother and just like that, my life was never going to be the same.

The biggest challenge of all though was Ben. I really thought (and hoped) that he would be accepting of Hudson and take on the big brother role with pride. It was the complete opposite though. My perfect little boy turned into a nightmare. He was aggressive. He was crying for no reason. He was whingy and threw

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tantrums. He physically hurt us and didn’t want anything to do with Hudson. I knew this was normal but I wanted it to stop.

appreciation I have for him is not something I think I’ll ever be able to put into words. The boys have the best dad in the world!

It wasn’t until we read a blog that Jay found about how bringing a newborn into the family affects the older sibling and how to deal with it, that we started to see progress. We’ve also since tried to stick to our old routine as much as possible and have noticed a huge difference. He’s absolutely loving getting to know Hudson and their new growing bond melts my heart.

Although overwhelmed by the change, my family is complete and my heart is full. I’m excited for this next chapter in our lives and you better believe that I’ll be blogging about it!

The last blog I wrote before having Hudson was an open letter to Ben. I am extremely grateful I did that because I’ll be able to show him once he’s bigger that there was never a moment that I didn’t think about how having another baby would affect him. I guess it’s another reason why I love blogging so much.

Kat x By Kat Calleja, a 32 year old wife, mum and blogger at My Raw Self. myrawself.com Instagram @KatCalleja Facebook @MyRawSelf

I don’t know what the next 10 days will bring, or the next 10 weeks. But I do know that I am the luckiest woman alive to have two healthy beautiful little boys who I am so proud of, and a husband who has been there by my side every step of the way. That man is truly one in a million, and the love, respect, admiration and

MAMA of the month Mimi Kwa, mother of four, is a super organised, multitasking entrepreneur. She has worked in television for 20 years but like a lot mamas, having kids changed her life focus. She wanted to do something that could work around her family. Up late at night feeding babies, the idea for Tigeroy emerged… beanbags, teepees, and bibs. Then twelve months ago, Mimi went beyond product development and her beautiful and beloved store in Malvern of the same name was launched.

Hi Mimi, can you tell us about your children and what you enjoy doing as a family. I have four children – Royston 12, Mason 10, Harper 8, and Berry 6. All two years apart and the funny thing is their birthdays are two months apart! They all have curious minds and are quite inventive and theatrical when they are together, making up all sorts of games and turning our home upside down. I quietly hoped that they might all like the same activities but (of course!) they are all into different things. The one activity we can all agree on though - is the beach. We are drawn to the ocean and chase the sun whenever we can.

How would you describe Tigeroy? Tigeroy is a collection of things I love - all beautifully curated with a whole lot of heart. The Tigeroy team is amazing and there’s no way it would exist without their incredible dedication and support. We source predominantly Australian design and some international. Basically, if it’s beautiful, ethical, sustainable, hard to find anywhere else, and it feels authentic … then it’s Tigeroy. Our range includes everything from babies, kids and adult clothing, toys and gifts, as well as homewares like bedding, baskets, rugs and ceramics. We also have some wonderful paintings in store from clever local artists. We want everyone to feel at home when they visit us. Giving our customers the most welcoming, best possible experience finding the perfect gift or piece for their home is what drives us every day.

Did you always dream of opening your own business, or was there something else you wanted to be ‘when you grew up’? I was, and still am a television presenter (www.mimitv.com.au). When I had kids, I started out with my brand Little Grommets as two of my kids had grommets and I couldn’t find anything to keep their ears dry so I invented something. ENTs, pharmacies and hospitals stock our earbands and earplugs but most people find us online. From that came ideas for Tigeroy. Tigeroy wholesale has been going for a few years now, and we supply stores across Australia. Last year I took the plunge into retail, selling not only my own brand but more than 70 other brands as well. I have always wanted to open my own shop since I used to sit behind the counter in my Aunty’s shop in Hong Kong’s Mandarin Oriental Hotel. She used an abacus back then. I’m glad we have a computerised cash register at Tigeroy!

How do you juggle running your own business with motherhood? I have to delegate quite a lot to get things done. I could never do it without fabulous staff. Not to mention an amazingly supportive hubby. I love having the flexibility to be at every school drop off, every pick up, every appointment, and to be able to be with the children as much as I can. Now that all the children are at school it’s easier to get things done but I still do struggle with the juggle. Being all things to all people is not possible so I just do my damned best to be as much as I can to as many as I can.

What advice would you give other mums who are considering starting a business? It’s hard work so you need to start from an honest place with why you want to start a business. Of course it needs to be commercial, but if your heart isn’t in it you will never feel fulfilled. I am learning new ways to juggle work and kids all the time. I would say be open to ideas, be flexible and be willing to make lots of mistakes. What we learn from our mistakes makes our successes. My most practical advice though is to get systems in place from the beginning. As my business changes and evolves we are still streamlining our systems.

What inspires you and what has motherhood taught you? Beautiful design and particularly art inspires me. I love hanging out at NGV with the kids whenever I can. Motherhood has taught me to be mindful and forgiving, tolerant, patient and more patient and … did I say patient. My kids teach me something new every day. Because of course they know everything! Sometimes I like to run a tight ship to stay sane, but often I surrender to the chaos of four children, a dog, a cat, and a canary, and just think I’m the luckiest girl in the world.

Since this month’s theme is home beautiful, we have to ask you: do you have a few words of advice on interior design for families? I’m reading a book called The Kinfolk Home at the moment (which incidentally we now stock at Tigeroy), since I received it as a gift from a friend. It’s all about curating your home with meaning and beauty and things you just can’t do without. It’s a beautiful pictorial and essay account of homes around the world that abound in simplicity, warmth and are a genuine expression of the people who live there. It’s a teaching I am trying to follow and really think Tigeroy is a reflection of this philosophy, bringing you many of those sorts of lovely things you just can’t do without. Find Tigeroy at 189 Glenferrie Rd, Malvern and online at tigeroy.com

nappy happy? Noticed some savings on the purchase of nappies lately? If not already, it’s predicted to come, as the giants who monopolise the baby market aim to flush out an exciting new competitor launching in their market. That competitor is Thankyou Baby and mama is pretty excited about it!

Like their existing brands, 100% of profits from the new Thankyou Baby range will help communities less fortunate than us, this time by funding infant and maternal health programs around the globe. So as a parent, by using Thankyou, you’re not only looking after your child but you’re helping save the lives of other children through safe birth clinics, vital life-saving vaccinations, and many more programs that they will be funding. How awesome is that? Thankyou Baby will sit alongside their existing three categories – Thankyou Water, Thankyou Food and Thankyou Body Care – each of which exist for the sole purpose of funding water, food and hygiene and sanitation training in developing nations. To date they have donated $4.1m to these causes. In March this year they launched an innovative crowd-funding campaign, and successfully raised the target of $600k needed to fund the Thankyou Baby launch, as well as an additional $600k to launch Thankyou in New Zealand, all in 28 days. The name-your-price book used to front the crowd-funding campaign, Chapter One, is a raw, personal and honest account of the Thankyou journey to date, written by cofounder Daniel Flynn. It’s inspiring and relevant to your own personal journey and appeals to the entrepreneurial spirit in us all.

Thankyou Baby products are now currently rolling out on the shelves of Coles across Australia. The cause and movement resonated with many of us. As mothers, if there is something we can do to help out a fellow mama – we will do it. It’s the sisterhood of motherhood. If we can help change that hard-hitting statistic that every 90 seconds a mother dies in childbirth and millions of babies die in their first month of life across the world, than why wouldn’t we? All profits from Thankyou Baby products will go towards funding maternal and health projects to those in greatest need. And providing services which we take for granted such as access to antenatal and postnatal care for mothers and babies, birthing centres with medical supplies and satisfactory facilities, birthing among educated attendants (nurses) and birth centres with access to safe water. $600,000. It’s a pretty small sum when you consider the current market leader spends around $10 million a year in marketing alone! Not to mention that the number one brand of nappies in the world has crushed about eight new brand launches in Australia already. But a mere David verse Goliath battle has not deterred the Thankyou team in the past. The movement of people behind them is a pretty powerful weapon! Their game-plan has always been quality product first and foremost. An inferior product cannot support the core purpose of the business – to end global poverty. So with an emphasis on quality product, they’ve already challenged and succeeded in the Water, Food and Body Care categories. Market research has shown that 46% of people who buy Thankyou products don’t know about the impact their purchase makes and on the flipside, 54% of people consume because the product is simply good.

“Every 90 seconds a mother dies in childbirth and millions of babies die in their first month of life across the world” If the packaging of the product is anything to go by of what’s inside, then the switch to Thankyou nappies (and baby products) will be welcome by many. The branding and packaging is aesthetically divine with their funky monochrome look. In the first few nappy sizes, the child is too small to even appreciate the design anyway, so why not make the look more aesthetic for the parents? I wouldn’t miss Winnie the Pooh! The accompanying baby care products include baby ointment, bath milk, bath wash, lotion, shampoo, massage oil and nappy balm. They are bringing dermatologically tested products to the consumer market, meaning high end quality for you at an affordable price point. There’s also set to be a “game changing secret” announced on launch day – we can’t wait to find out what it is! You don’t always need the deepest pockets to shake up a market – innovative thinking, passion, focus and purpose can go a long way. It could even save millions of mums and bubs. What a remarkable gift and impact that would be. It’s certainly a story that we would like to become a part of and a world in which we’d be proud to live.

little big dash Do you love getting out with the kids and doing something active? Well Melbourne families, you’re in for a treat! This September will see the Sanitarium Little BIG DASH™ come to Melbourne for the first time and MamaMag can’t wait to be involved! Little BIG DASH is designed to give you a new experience of family fun! Live in the moment and release that inner-child while having heaps of laughs helping each other through the amazing obstacle course. The event’s aim is to encourage families to embrace an active lifestyle in a safe and non-competitive environment and the event brings people of all ages together. Little BIG DASH features fabulous activities and obstacles which have been designed for kids from age five to 15 and for adults looking to get in touch with their inner

child. With ten thrilling obstacles to challenge participants, kids and parents work together in a team where they can bounce through the Rumble Tumble Tower, twist through the Tangle Tunnel and test their balance on the Bupa Balance Beam! There will be prizes for dressing up — so families are encouraged to find some fun and quirky matching outfits to wear! Every team member will receive a Little BIG DASH participant bib (mailed to you), cap and leg strap,and your special keepsake t-shirts for hand printing. For more information and to register a team, head to www.littlebigdash.com.au and for you chance to win a Family Pass, head over to the MamaMag facebook page.

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Avoid the selling trap Three things to avoid when selling a property 1. Selecting the agent quoting the highest selling price or on the lowest commission rate Let’s face it – we all like to think that our property is better than the one next door. So when an agent tells you a nice big fat number when you ask how much your property is worth, your eyes light up with glee. Is that really what your home is worth or is the agent telling you what he or she knows you want to hear, so that you will give them the job? How would you know? One of the most common mistakes made by sellers every day is to choose an agent based purely on price. The seller believes the inflated price the agent quotes and then will make their selection based on who has said they can get the highest selling price. Selling a home is expensive. There are a myriad of costs, the largest of which are 1) marketing costs and 2) the agent’s commission. So it is tempting to try and save a bit of money where you can. However, basing your choice on the one offering the cheapest commission is not the best strategy. Selling a home for the best price takes market knowledge and skill. The selection of an agent should be based on the agent’s proposed sales strategy and their ability to negotiate, not on a bargain basement commission. Once your property becomes available for sale, the price the agent quoted you is irrelevant. The buying public will decide what your property is worth. Do you really want the agent that has dropped their commission to get your listing? If they have used that tactic to win your business, what’s to say they won’t employ it again, on YOU, to get you to drop your price in order to make a sale? 28

2. Not presenting your home for sale in the best possible way Have you ever walked into a home for sale that is full of someone else’s “stuff”? The home will feel cluttered and not terribly appealing. Alternatively, the owners have moved out and the house is totally bare with not a piece of furniture. Compare the above to a home that has been beautifully prepared for sale with care and attention paid to even the tiniest detail. Cupboards are sorted. Clutter has been removed. The home will feel welcoming and inviting to a potential buyer. Staging involves dressing your home to present it in the best possible light in the eyes of potential buyers. This includes arranging flowers in an attractive vase, use of scatter cushions, to the correct placement of furniture to open up a room, staging your home for sale can literally add thousands to the price a potential purchaser is willing to pay. By creating an inviting experience, the buyer can become emotionally invested in a property. This heightened desire to acquire a property can lead to a higher sales price for the owner. Ever noticed how a room can appear smaller when it is void of furniture? Some people find it hard to visualise how to fill a space or are unsure whether their own furniture will fit. So make it easy for your potential buyers to see themselves living in your home. You want to invoke emotion. When looking for a home, a buyer needs to be able to visualise the space and imagine what it would be like to live there themselves. Through the clever use of furniture, you can paint the picture in your buyer’s mind of how their own furniture will look and feel in the space. You want them to start to imagine living there.

3. Setting yourself an unrealistic selling price Ever noticed a home languishing on the market and wonder what is wrong with it? Chances are, probably nothing. It may just be a case of an unrealistic vendor asking too much for their property. One of the biggest mistakes a seller can make is to put the wrong price on a home. Not meeting the market on price can mean your home can remain unsold far longer than it may have done had you researched the market and been honest and realistic about just what your home is worth. Failing to check or compare prices of homes sold within your area means you may have unrealistic expectations of what your home is actually worth. The market will always decide the value of your property. Speak to two or three real estate agents that know your area. Be aware of agents who quote high to win the business, then quickly employ “seller conditioning” tactics, encouraging you to drop your price in order to secure a sale. It’s far better to seek a recommendation as to which agent to use from a trusted friend or a no cost Professional Sellers Advocate such as Amalain Vendor Advocates. We offer impartial advice so that you can remain realistic about what you can expect a buyer to pay for your home. By Wendy Chamberlain Buyer & Vendor Advocate | Amalain Get your EBOOK, “The 16 Most Common Real Estate Mistakes When Buying Or Selling Property” at www.Amalain.com.au

outside play Why your kids should play outside rain or shine As the days are getting shorter, darker and colder many of us unconsciously go into hibernation mode. We mistakenly believe that staying inside is best for our families. But for children, outside play is essential to their health and wellbeing regardless of the weather. We believe that there’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes! Here’s some reasons why we think you should you embrace the weather – even if it’s cold and wet!

1. A little ray of sunshine – Get a dose of Vitamin D Vitamin D is crucial for helping your child’s bones grow strong. Children get most of their Vitamin D from the sun which is easy during the warmer months but from May to August this can be more of a challenge. Experts recommend that children need 20 minutes of sun a day during the cold seasons. Ensuring they have plenty of outdoor play every day is one way to make sure they are getting their essential dose of Vitamin D.

2. Feel good - Staying fit and healthy Like adults, physical activity is something that needs to be maintained. A regular routine of outdoor play promotes healthy growth and wellbeing in your child. If kids stop being active simply due to the weather this can have a negative impact on their health. According to The Department of Health, children aged from 0 to 5 years need to be physically active at least three hours per day (spread across the day) and children aged 5 to 12 years should accumulate at least 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity every day.

Worried about your kids catching a cold? As long as they’re properly rugged up experts say that playing outside in the cold can actually improve their immune system. An age-old myth that colds are caught from the weather is far from the truth.

3. Dream big! Boosting creativity and imagination As well as creating healthy bodies, outside play in the colder seasons provide a whole variety of new challenges for kids to nurture happy minds and create exciting experiences. Rainy days are the perfect opportunity to splash around in puddles wearing gumboots. Colder weather also brings a changing environment and new growth in nature. Why not go for a walk and notice these changes together? Once you get creative with your play ideas and you’ll soon find that weather is no longer a limitation.

Best of all, all of the above reasons also apply to Mum and Dad! So why not get the whole family involved with your next outside play activity? Ensuring they get the opportunity to play outside every single day is something we actively endorse at YMCA Children’s Services centres. Find out more about what we offer at our YMCA Children’s Services centres at childrensservices.ymca.org.au

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mama can Cook! Persian Chicken Ingredients: 2 kilograms chicken thigh, diced 5g ground cinnamon 30g fresh ginger, finely chopped 25g ground cumin 10g paprika 1/2 teaspoon dried chilli

4 cups chicken stock 40g garlic, chopped 2 small onion, diced 100ml lemon juice 5 tbs lemon zest Salt and pepper 1 1/2 tbs tomato paste 3/4 tbs honey

2 cups pre cooked puy lentils 1/2 bunch parsley chopped 1/2 bunch coriander chopped 1/2 cups green olives, pitted 3 teaspoon gluten free corn flour Serves 4

Method: In a large bowl mix cinnamon, ginger, cumin, paprika and chilli with a small amount of water to make a paste and coat the chicken. Marinate while preparing remaining recipe. Fry off chicken (either on grill plate or in the large saucepan to be cooked in). Remove from pan and add oil and fry off onion, add garlic and fry off lightly. Add stock, lemon juice, zest, salt and pepper, tomato paste and honey. Return chicken and simmer till cooked through. Add lentils, parsley, coriander, olives. Thicken with gluten free cornflour if required.

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Saute leek in a little butter until soft, add celery and cook a further one minute. Remove leek and celery, brown off diced chicken until just cooked. Add to celery mix.

1 leek washed and sliced 2 sticks celery washed and sliced 50g butter

To make veloute, melt butter and add flour to make a roux. Gradually add stock, cook until thickened, allow to cool slightly and add to chicken mix.

50g flour

Season with salt and pepper, add soy and cream, mix well.

1 tbs soy sauce

Grease a 22cm pie dish, line with puff pastry, allow pastry edge to overhang. Fill w chicken mix. Place another piece of pastry over the top and trim edges evenly. Seal by pinching together. Make two small cuts in the top of the pastry to allow steam to escape. Brush with eggyolk and a little cream. Bake in a hot oven for 35-40 mins until golden brown.

1 litre chicken stock

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starting childcare One of the most debatable questions related to early childhood education and care is: “When should my child start childcare?” My answer might surprise many of you. A child should only start going to childcare when the parents are 100% ready for this. Yes, dear parents and parents to be, you have to think about yourselves first. The key aspect is for a child is to see absolute confidence in their parent’s decision. Your words are not enough for your children, children have strong intuitions. From birth a child can detect their parent’s mood, for example, if a parent is uneasy and sensitive when taking their child to childcare, what reaction should we expect from the child? I would say that most commonly children under 12 months overcome separation anxiety from their parents better than parents themselves. Experience tells us that for children at this stage, the key to a happy and positive child is a good routine, including meal times spread out appropriately and well-organised sleep. When you first leave your child at a childcare centre, it is important to continue their usual routine. It is best for children under 18 months to adapt to a consistent routine, be flexible and take an individual approach to each child. Only after a child turns one, they may begin to adjust to a more general routine, transitioning to one daytime nap. When a child starts at childcare after 18 months, it is important to take into consideration that your child is more aware of their surroundings, 34

and more advanced in their skills. It is not just a fixed routine that is important for your child to feel comfortable in child care at this age. You need to understand the psychology of your child, be able to explain what is happening to them, and know how you should behave when dropping your child off. If you are able to show your child that your decision to start child care is the right one, and the child feels that you are confident and relaxed, you are well on the way to success. Isn’t this better than running back and forth and asking for “one more kiss” or “just wave bye-bye to mum” when your child is already occupied in an activity? The older a child is when starting child care, the more patient the parents have to be, the more certain in themselves and their decision. Do not show any dissatisfaction or concern (you can always discuss any issues with the carer or centre manager later when your child is not present). If your child is misbehaving or upset, don’t let your child sway your emotions. You have spent a lot of time in selecting the right centre for your child, now rely on the staff in that centre to look after your child. Don’t remain in the room longer than necessary to acquaint your child with the staff and the room. It is easy to think that by spending more time, you are easing the transition for your child, but unfortunately, it is often the opposite. If the parents can find the strength to leave confidently, the child will automatically pick up that confidence and will adapt to their environment faster. Wishing you every success in your journey! Natasha Shulina. Director and Owner of Developmental Learning Centre Rainbow www.rainbowchildcare.com.au

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safety serIes Burns and scalds - safety prevention and first aid for families Burns and Scalds are one of the most common accidents that can happen in your household and cause serious injury to your child. A burn is where the skin has been damaged by something hot which includes hot water, steam, the heater, oven and also from electricity, friction, chemicals and radiation (sunlight)! The most common burn for children is scalds which is caused by hot liquids.

Things you can do to prevent burns and scalds Hot water in domestic homes is usually set at 70°. The ideal temperature should be set at 50°. Hot water burns like fire, and even small adjustments to its temperature can be the difference between a minor or severe burn. At 60° it takes one second for hot water to cause a life threatening scald to an infant. At 55° it takes ten seconds and at 50° it takes five minutes. Hot surfaces around the home include cooking surfaces, hot liquids and hot surfaces such as the heater and iron. Ensure these items are out of reach from children, that they cannot be pulled down by accessible cords and pot handles and that they are turned off after use. “I had left my room to do something in the kitchen and for a period of time I could not hear my little one around the house. When I found her she was in the bathroom and had put the hair straightener on her arm. It was on and she had not removed it so it was just burning through her skin” – Family First Aid Parent Story. 36

Part 2 Burns & scalds

Electrical burns are very serious and caused by electrical sources, sockets, cords and open outlets. It is important to cover up outlets that are not in use and to protect your child from pulling out cords that are in use. It is essential to do an assessment and tidy up any potential dangers to make sure that areas of risk are safe for your child. “I found my child sucking on the USB cord for my phone charger which resulted in some burns in his mouth, and a few days of discomfort when drinking milk and eating food” – Family First Aid Parent Story. Chemical burns are caused by corrosive and causative agents around the home such as cleaning products, chlorine and acids. “I was at park one day, and my young child decided to go down one of those tube slides. As she came down the slide there was a mist of dust that flew out the other end. She was screaming and the closer I walked towards her the stronger the smell of chemicals appeared. It turned out that chlorine powder was poured down the slide. My daughter had chemicals burns over her body and her genitals”.Founder of WONDERWOMAN Children. Be sure to call poison information hotline on 13 11 26 to find out more advice.

Radiation burns are most commonly caused by the sun. There is a strong message about being sun safe in Australia and we can reinforce this by ensuring that you as a family are aware of how to keep safe in the sun, by using sunscreen and staying out of the sun during the hotter periods of the day.

First aid management for all burns and scalds If the child has collapsed, stopped breathing, is fitting or non-responsive, commence airway management. 1. Cool the burn for 20 minutes under cool running water. This treatment is useful for up to three hours after the incident. 2. Cool the burn, not the child. If the burn is large, stop cooling after 20 minutes (no less, unless recommended otherwise). Children are more prone to hypothermia. 3. Cover the burn with a sterile, non-stick dressing (if not available use cling wrap/ cotton sheet). 4. Call an ambulance 000. If the burn is to the child’s face, airway, hands, joints or genitals or if the burn is larger than the size of the child’s hand. 5. Go to the hospital or doctor if the burn is larger than a 20 cent piece, looks raw or the child is in pain.

What not to do: Do not apply ice, iced water, butter, creams, oil or powders. Do not use a hydrogel for the first aid treatment of burns. Do not cover chemical burns with cling wrap or hydrogel dressings.

Want to learn more? LEARN the skills of airway management and what to do in an emergency by joining one of our family first aid classes or hosting one of your own with your family and friends! Visit www.wonderwomanchildren.com. LISTEN to the interview on burns and scalds, safety and first aid of Nataly Tormey from WONDERWOMAN Children on Little Rockers Radio. READ the most up to date information bought to you by Kidsafe on all things safety. www.kidsafe.vic.com.au. Proudly bought to you by Little Rockers Radio and WONDERWOMAN Children.

“Burns and Scalds are the third most common injury for babies and toddlers” The Australian Institute of Health and Welfare 2009.

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Peppa Pig Live! Big Splash! is back by popular demand in 2016! Join Peppa, George, Mummy and Daddy Pig, along with Danny Dog, Pedro Pony and Suzy Sheep in this interactive theatrical performance filled with singing, dancing, fun games and, of course, muddy puddles! • Melbourne, Athenaeum Theatre - Thu 15 September. • St Kilda, National Theatre - Tue 13 September. • South Morang, Plenty Ranges Arts Centre - Fri 16 September. • Dandenong, Drum Theatre - Sat 17 September.

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buying a house? The ‘ins and outs’ of pre-purchase property inspections. Buying a home is likely to be one of the biggest investments many of us will make in our lives. It’s surprising how many people don’t think about getting a pre-purchase building inspection or even contemplate forgoing one for the sake of saving a few hundred dollars. And then there’s some people who don’t even realise they exist! So let’s take a look at what pre-purchase Inspections actually entail and the benefits of having one done when you’re looking at buying a home.

What is a pre-purchase inspection? As the name suggests, a pre-purchase inspection is a written report that outlines the condition of a property. There are two main types of reports that can be completed: 1. Building Report: The purpose of this inspection is to provide advice to a prospective purchaser regarding the condition of the property at the date and time of the inspection. Areas of inspection generally include roof and gutters, hot water system, exterior of the home, garage/carport, stairs, interior of the home, roof void and any pergola or balconies. 2. Timber Pest Report: In this report, the inspector will outline any evidence of timber pests, the existence of visually observable damage caused by timber pests and the susceptibility of them within the home. They will look for live or active termites, damage caused by wood decay, excessive moisture and visible borer of seasoned timbers.

What to look for in a building inspector. Believe it or not, in Victoria, there is no strict legislation around who can conduct pre-purchase inspections so it’s extremely important that you do your research in finding someone reputable. We suggest you look for the following: Someone who has building or construction qualifications and has worked in the industry Someone who has indemnity insurance Someone who is a member of an association (eg. HIA or Master Builders) Someone who will offer a post report phone call for you to ask any questions

What are the benefits of having a pre-purchase inspection?

How much will an inspection cost?

1. Uncover any defects: By law, the vendor needs to disclose any defects that they are aware of, but in many cases, defects can be unnoticed, particularly if the seller or buyer doesn’t know what to look for. In many cases, structural defects or termite susceptibility can’t be seen by the naked eye.

This really depends on the size of the home and whether you want just a Building or just a Timber inspection. Often, combining the 2 inspections will offer you significant savings. Look for a business that is upfront about their prices and get a price before the report is done. Pre-Inspection Building Reports should cost anywhere from $250 to $500 Pre-Inspection Timber Pest Reports should cost anywhere from $200 to $500 A combined Building and Timber Pest should cost anywhere between $400 to $800

2. Save money: The report itself might set you back a few hundred dollars but it might also be your negotiation tool when purchasing a property. If the report finds an issue, it’s your bargaining chip to pay less! 3. Peace of mind: A pre-inspection report may also uncover that there’s nothing wrong with the property you wish to purchase. In this case, it’s the peace of mind you need to know you’re purchasing a quality home.

John Sortino has worked in building and construction for over 20 years and runs his own Pre-Purchase Building and Timber Inspection business, Safeguard Home Inspections. Visit www.safeguardhomeinspections.com.au for all the details and mention MamaMag for a 10% discount.

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Turn the page Home – Carson Ellis. RRP - $16.99 - Paperback Every home is unique and special to those who live inside them. Sometimes a home can be a haven for your imagination to run wild, or even a cosy retreat where you feel most safe and happy. Through vivid illustrations and poetic narrative, Ellis’s Home is a beautiful picture book for the family to share, and explore together the many different ways people from all over live – the possibilities will be sure to surprise everyone! A House of Her Own – Jenny Hughes - RRP - $14.99 - Paperback Audrey is growing bigger every day, until one day, she decides she is just too big for her parent’s home. Her Dad suggests that maybe the best house for her is a newly built tree house. However, she soon discovers that there is something missing – her parents. This vibrant story is sure to leave any reader feeling all warm and fuzzy. Beautifully written, and each page as colourful as the next, it’s a gentle reminder that home is always where the heart is. Iggy Peck Architect – Andrea Beaty - RRP - $11.95 - Paperback Ignacious Peck has been creating fantastic buildings from all sorts of materials since he was two years old - that is, until his Grade 2 teacher forbids any mention of architecture. Iggy has to find a way to prove to his class that there are worse things to do than spend your time building a dream. The book is charming, funny and above all quirky. The text is in verse and is genuinely fun to read aloud. The illustrations are simply delightful. The Great $20 Adventure – Effie Zahos - RRP - $14.99 - Paperback Max has been given $20 for his birthday, and he’s very excited to spend it. Questions are posed to the reader to involve kids with Max’s decision about his very special present, and the fun and bright illustrations are sure to keep them engaged. Complete with handy hints for parents to teach kids about money, this book is a perfect introduction to the basics of finance.

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