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SCHOOL TIME

Well, that was fun, wasn't it! Summer holidays that is... Pplenty of beach visits, several family functions for some milestone birthdays (not mine) which included some overseas cousins I haven't seen all together in 15 years. Grand-dog (as my kids affectionately call my Dad, after Grandad Dog on Peppa Pig!) down from country NSW, a trip to the Grampians VIC (which I'll tell you all about in the Apr/May mag, hello meerkats!) and so much more. Oh, and a nasty bout of Covid just after school finished which got me for about two weeks (so not the best start to Summer).

Speaking of school, my baby girl graduated primary school so I just had to recreate our first day of school pics. I even still had the same top! She's grown a bit, hey? I can't believe it's back to school time already and my baby is in high school. She's even going to the same high school I went to, so it was a super nostalgic week. And so just like that the Summer holidays are over and it's all school, work, sport, repeat. I hope you find some really valuable content in this Education issue of MamaMag. We're all about supporting mamas like you, so if there's ever a topic or something you'd love us to write about, by all means get in touch via my email below. And if you know of any awesome mamas you just know we need to interview (yes, you can say yourself!) I'd love to hear about that too.

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EMBRACING TARYN

45-year-old Aussie mother of four Taryn Brumfitt is on a mission for meaningful change. Through her award-winning films, best-selling books and international speaking engagements, she has spent the last 10 years empowering people around the world to discover what’s possible when you embrace your life and purpose and she can now add Australian of the Year to her long list of accolades.

Taryn Brumfitt leads the Body Image Movement, an Adelaide-based organisation that teaches people to love and appreciate their bodies and her 10 years of work have led to The Prime Minister, The Hon Anthony Albanese MP, announcing her as the 2023 Australia of the Year.

movement and make the now infamous documentary Embrace to encourage women to be positive about their bodies.

The 2016 documentary tackled the serious issue of women’s body loathing and Taryn’s path to body acceptance. It was seen by millions of people in 190 countries and is today available on Netflix.

Taryn has now written four best-selling books and in September 2022 released another documentary, Embrace Kids, which aims to teach kids aged nine to 14 to move, nourish, respect and appreciate what their bodies can do. Embrace Kids is an uplifting film which brings together a vibrant collection of stories from young people and famous friends alike (Celeste Barber, Erin Phillips, Jameela Jamil), who share their experiences about body image, bullying, gender identity, advocacy, representation and more.

Taryn has also collaborated with body image expert Dr Zali Yager to create an Embrace Kids companion parenting book as well as The Embrace Hub – a free, research-based resource for teachers, parents, children and communities on fostering body positivity.

Not without controversy

The photo that started it all

An unconventional before and after social media post started it all 10 years ago when the above shot went viral due to its 'reverse' nature.

In the "before" photo Taryn stands on stage as a fit body builder. She looks happy, but she later said it was at that moment she realised the hours of daily exercise and restricted eating had indeed not made her happy at all.

The after photo is a much more relateable shot for mamas like us. Cellulite, stretch marks, folds, rolls, all the things, said Taryn.

Seeing this response to a post was crazy, that a woman learns to embrace her body, and it becomes headline news in most countries around the world. So Taryn used this global attention to launch her body image

Just hours after Taryn was announced as Australian of the Year, former radio host and journalist Mike Carlton Tweeted that the award should have instead to a doctor or nurse working in an emergency department, not "someone who makes a buck out of saying it's OK to be a bit fat".

He then received a barrage of replies, some agreeing, but many saying body image and eating disorders were big issues in Australia and were worthy of being highlighted by an Australian of the Year.

"Wow. You have clearly never dealt with body image issues that are debilitating for so many. Enormous industries built up on making people feel shit about themselves, destroying themselves in pursuit of an impossible ideal. She speaks truth to a different power."

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"I take your point about health workers, but eating disorders are a huge and underreported health issue and your take both misrepresents and diminishes Taryn Brunfitt’s work and the importance of what she does, especially for young women."

"You might want to keep an open mind on this one Mike. With research showing children as young as four (boys and girls) expressing negative body image and suicidal ideation rather than feeling empowered and strong in their bodies we have a serious problem. It’s an important issue."

So what's next?

Taryn won't be one to let the naysayers get her down and will now be able to leverage her new-found fame to influence governments to take on her message.

She said she spoke to Prime Minister Anthony Albanese after receiving the award along with several other Commonwealth ministers and has now organised to meet South Australian Premier Peter Malinauskas to talk about her goals — and funding.

"I've got a meeting with the premier in a couple of weeks and I'm so excited to sit down with him, especially now, and really talk about some funding and some resources," she said.

"I'm such a proud South Australian and I'm very keen to focus on SA and be the global leaders in this space.

"Let's get our kids right and let's show the world what we can do when we embrace our bodies, so yes to resources, yes to money, and then we can get it out free to all schools."

"We really need to help our kids across Australia and the world because the rates of suicide, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, steroid use, all on the increase related to body dissatisfaction."

Taryn wants to give children an "armour" to protect themselves from the messages from the diet and cosmetic industry and social media and we can't wait to see where her movement goes.

Find out more at theembracehub.com

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CARING ABOUT CHILDCARE

Raising children raises many questions. None more pertinent than 'where do we begin when it comes to childcare?'

As parents it’s our job to nurture, guide and prepare our children for the world they inhabit.

So, it’s no wonder it feels like one of the most consequential decisions when it comes time to entrust them into the care of others.

At Care for Kids, we believe every child has the right to safe, nurturing and high quality childcare.

We have created the most comprehensive childcare search platform to empower parents in making the best childcare decision for their individual family.

At Care for Kids, we are parents creating what we believe is the ultimate tool to help other families access, understand and connect with the best childcare options in their local area.

We are also on a mission to share with other parents, what many of us here, only understood once our children began childcare. Educators are not merely babysitters. They are our children’s first teachers outside of the home. Their dedication and insights, their care and teachings will impact your child’s early development and your families’ experience of early childhood.

So where do I begin? We hear you asking. Head to careforkids.com.au.

The first step to seeing what’s out there, what fits your budget, location and preferences is at the tip of your finger. Book tours and send your enquiries directly through the site.

Before you go, here are some tips from some of our team on what to consider as you embark on the childcare selection journey.

Ash - “Every child and family has a different version of the right childcare option for them, there are different options out there, so consider what is right for you.”

Kate – “After creating a shortlist of services that might meet their family's needs (using Care for Kids, of course!), I think it's really important for parents to book tours. Most parents will know after a short wander through a service and a chat with the educators if it is a good fit for themselves and their children.”

Georga - “Go with your gut feeling - that’s usually pretty spot on. Do your research, learn all you can, ask all the questions etc but ultimately once you visit the centre and meet the educators, you’ll know if it’s right for you and your family or not.”

James – “ Ask about the learning philosophy of the service”

Jo – “Children are so different, even siblings so when choosing childcare, think about the individual child.”

Don’t forget you have the reviews, detailed descriptions, ability to compare and childcare subsidy calculator amongst other tools on careforkids.com.au to help you make the best decision for this very special journey.

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CAREERS OF THE FUTURE THAT DON’T EXIST YET!

As the Summer holidays wrap up, the next challenge for mamas across the country starts to appear on the horizon - getting the kids back to school.

While uniforms, stationery and teachers are all strong considerations, it's also important to take a moment to think about the possible end goal for our children's educationa fulfilling career.

A recent report has predicted that in the near future 75% of jobs will require skills in science, technology, engineering and mathematics (STEM) and that 65% of primary school children will end up in careers that don’t even exist yet!

It’s a concern, particularly for our young girls who currently represent only a quarter of students in STEM fields.

To put our minds at ease, an initiative by the Queensland University of Technology called STEM the Tide is helping to bridge this gender gap by shining a bright light on the incredible women already succeeding in these fields,

the pathways available for young girls interested in STEM and encouraging them to take the leap!

It’s well known that the more visible successful women in these industries are and the paths they took to that success, the more young students can see themselves following those pathways.

Women in careers of the future like Tammy Bryant-Butow who has worked as a Chaos Engineer for major international companies like Apple, NAB and Dropbox where she breaks down digital systems to find their weaknesses.

Or Adrianna Eufrosina Bora, who is an Artificial Intelligence (AI) Researcher working with the United Nations to eliminate modern slavery through the application of AI technology.

To help shine an even brighter light down these pathways, we’ve pulled together this list of emerging jobs of the future!

AI Ethicist

As AI continues to play a more significant role in our day-to-day lives, issues relating to the legality and ethics surrounding it grow too, indicating a need for advocacy in this field. Prospective students should possess an equal passion for philosophy and robotics alongside an analytic mind.

Self-driving car mechanic

While the role of the ordinary mechanic might become obsolete in future years, even selfdriving cars require maintenance and repair jobs only humans can perform. Picking up advanced software programming and data management skills secures this hands-on job against future redundancy.

Fashion engineer

With climate change now at the forefront of everyone’s mind, the environmental impact of industries is under increasing scrutiny. By combining scientific skills with textiles or fashion, students could map the ecological impact and efficacy of the industry’s practices.

Telesurgeon

As the COVID-19 pandemic becomes less reality and more memory, one practice born out of it — remote healthcare — has stayed put. Naturally, tele-surgeons would combine IT, robotics, and medical skills to operate on patients remotely via a surgical robotic system.

3D printed chef

Remember when the world thought smell-ovision would be the next frontrunner in food technology? While that never happened, 3D printing has advanced significantly over the past few years, making the prospect of whipping up meals via 3D printer very possible. By combining programming and software development skills, math competency, and a love of food, students could become the next big thing in this developing discipline.

Coding ethicist

Human rights activists can future proof their passion by applying their ethical stance to the world of coding. Coding ethicists hold a magnifying glass over companies coding practices, ensuring they adhere to global computing standards of ethics when creating algorithms and tech.

It’s clear that with new career options hatching alongside every technological development, female students are getting ahead of the game by arming themselves with a skillset to stand the test of time.

65% of primary school children will end up in careers that don’t even exist yet!

HOW TO PACK A HEALTHY LUNCHBOX

Did you know that around 30% of a child’s daily food intake is consumed at school? What your child eats during their school day is critical to their learning and development. Creating a healthy lunchbox may seem daunting however when children eat well, they have more energy and better focus1 Nuzest Nutritionist Lauren Parchi shares her top tips on how to create a healthy and tasty lunchbox for your kids.

1. Build your lunchbox around the three macronutrients

Carbohydrates are the body’s main source of energy, however, not all carbohydrates are created equal. Wholegrain carbohydrates (complex carbs) are high in fibre compared to refined (simple) carbohydrates and promote a steady release of energy (AKA, no sugar rush). Lauren says, “Aim to include one serving of a complex carbohydrate in their lunchbox. Multigrain bread, wholegrain wrap, pasta, seed crackers and brown rice are all good options. Also, there are many high-fibre bread options on the market that look and taste like white bread for the more fussy eater.”

Protein is one of the most important macronutrients in a child’s lunchbox as not only does it promote growth and development, but it also keeps them feeling fuller for longer2. Some good sources of protein include chicken, turkey, tuna, eggs (if permitted by your school), dairy yoghurt, chickpeas, and tofu. These foods also provide other valuable nutrients such as zinc, iron and B vitamins which are necessary to support optimal health and well-being.

Aim to include two servings of protein in their lunchbox. You can achieve this by adding a source of protein to a sandwich or wrap and include a protein-rich snack. Lauren’s

favourite school-friendly high- protein snack is Nuzest’s Strawberry Bliss Balls which are also nut free.

Healthy fats provide a good source of energy as well as essential vitamins and minerals, such as calcium, which is important for building healthy bones3. Aim to include one serve of dairy or non-dairy product. Cheese sticks and yoghurt pots are a great option and if your child is lactose intolerant, unsweetened calcium-fortified non-dairy alternatives such as soymilk and coconut yoghurt are good substitutes.

2. Fruits and vegetables

Fruits and vegetables are a crucial part of your child’s lunchbox as they provide fibre, essential vitamins and minerals, such as vitamin C, zinc and magnesium, which help to promote immunity and vitality. They also provide a source of texture and crunch which is an important sensory stimulant for children. Always aim to include fresh or frozen fruit. Lauren recommends pre-cutting fruits and vegetables so it’s easier to pick up and consume. You can try using cookie cutters to create fun shapes or purchase snack-sized vegetables such as cherry tomatoes, snow peas, baby carrot sticks or mini cucumbers.

3. Prepare ahead of time

Meal preparation and planning is a key tool that can be used to keep you organised throughout the school week. Using leftovers from dinner can be a great way to speed up the lunchbox prep, and getting the kids involved creates some quality time to connect. Simply asking your child what fruit or snacks they would like in their lunchbox can help to ensure they come home with empty lunchboxes.

Some other great meal prep hacks include allocating one hour on the weekend to write out lunchbox ideas for the week ahead and batch cooking. Batch cooking is an efficient method that can be used to prepare many meals at once. Pick some of your child’s favourite recipes and double the quantities to increase the number of serves.

Filling nutritional gaps for optimal health

If you still feel that your child’s lunchbox is lacking in nutrition or find you are a constant victim of the ‘uneaten lunchbox’, supplementing with a plant-based powdered multivitamin is a great option to ensure your child is getting the nutrients they may otherwise be missing.

Whilst every child’s lunchbox may look slightly different, it is important not to get caught up in perfection. Listening to your

child’s needs and adjusting the contents to suit, teaches them to be aware of their hunger cues, taste preferences and cravings.

Nuzest Kids Good Stuff is available online and in select health food stores nationally. For more information and recipes visit www.nuzest.com.au

1 Nutrition Australia. (2022). Fact Sheets and Guides. Retrieved from https://www.healthylunchboxweek.org.au/fact- sheets-and-guides. 2 Braun K. V., Erler N. S., Kiefte-de Jong J. C., Jaddoe V. W., van den Hooven E. H., Franco O. H., Voortman T. (2016). Dietary intake of protein in early childhood is associated with growth trajectories between 1 and 9 years of age. The Journal of Nutrition, 146(11), 2361–2367. DOI: 10.3945/jn.116.237164. 3 Weaver C. M., Gordon C. M., Janz K. F., Kalkwarf H. J., Lappe J. M., Lewis R., O’Karma M., Wallace T. C., Zemel B. S. (2016). The National Osteoporosis Foundation’s position statement on peak bone mass development and lifestyle factors: a systematic review and implementation recommendations. Osteoporosis International: A Journal Established as Result of Cooperation between the European Foundation for Osteoporosis and the National Osteoporosis Foundation of the USA, 27(4), 1281–1386. DOI: 10.1007/s00198-015-3440-3

30% of a child’s daily food intake is consumed at school?

HOW MUCH INCOME DO YOU REALLY NEED IN RETIREMENT?

Here’s a wake up call.

The Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) reports that more than 75% of retired Australians rely on the age pension for financial survival.

When you consider that the age pension is about a quarter of what an average person in full-time employment earns, mean people face the unpleasant reality of experiencing a permanent fall in living standards once they retire.

If you’re hoping for a better and brighter future than what the majority of Australian retirees experience then it’s crucial that you set a goal to chart a path that mean you avoid having to rely on the age pension for survival. In fact, the act of setting a goal and engaging your mind to figuring out how it could be achieved is the most important step to becoming more financially secure in your retirement years.

Regrettably, a consistently made common mistake is forgetting to set a goal for how much income you want in retirement. It may be because you don’t know how much you

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might need, or else what process to follow. The consequence is that you end up earning and spending until retirement looms large, at which time it can be too late to avoid unpleasant consequences. The essential twofold message is this: set an income goal, and set it while time is on your side.

So how much income might you need in retirement? Here are four possibilities:

#1: Rule of thumb

An easy rule to remember is 80 per cent of what you earned before you retired. This assumes that your living standard equals what you used to earn, with the sum but amount scaled back slightly because you won’t have work expenses.

The Australian Bureau of Statistics reports that median weekly earnings for an employed Australian person aged 55-59 employed $85,335 (full time) and $37,142 (part time). 80 per cent would equate to $68,268 and $29,714 respectively.

#2: Retirement standard

The Association of Superannuation Funds of Australia’s (ASFA) Retirement Standard is an often-quoted benchmark. It distinguishes between two living standards: comfortable and modest. Assuming you want to aim for a comfortable level (daily essentials, health insurance, an occasional restaurant meal and an overseas trip once every seven years), ASFA’s suggests you’ll need $45,000 if you’re single (the age pension is $23,000) and $65,000 if you’re a couple (the age pension is $35,000).

What we learn is that the age pension alone won’t provide enough money for you to live a comfortable life (as described and budgeted by the ASFA) in retirement.

#3: Super Consumers Australia

Super Consumers Australia also publish a savings target for singles and couples to support an annual spending at three standards: high, medium and low. If you’re single, aged 57, are planning to retire in 10 years and are aiming for a high standard of living, it is estimated that your annual cost of living will be $54,000, and you’ll need to have saved $742,000. Your savings target becomes the amount of income-earning as-sets you need.

#4: Steve’s Simple Solution

Finally, there is the number I suggest: a nice round $100,000. Yes, it sounds high by the earlier standards, but it you could achieve it then you would almost certainly avoid a dreaded permanent fall in living standards when you retire from the workforce. Remember, the question to ask is not ‘Can I?’, but ‘How can I?’

So what’s your number? Once you have something in mind it will provide a goal to aim for, and a context to guide your investing strategy and individual investments. The alternative is to plod along and hope everything works out. This is dangerous. With more than 75% of retirees reported to be reliant on the pension to survive, the more things you leave to chance, the more chance things will go wrong.

This is an edited extract from Steve McKnight’s Money Magnet: How to Attract and Keep a Fortune that Counts (Wiley $32.95), available at leading retailers.

THE IMPORTANCE OF PLAYGROUPS

What are playgroups?

Playgroups are meetings of families that provide children with opportunities for quality play. They are safe, inclusive environments that bring together children and parents to socialise, collaborate, play, and provide support to one another.

Stationed all over Australia, regular meetings of parents and carers, and their children take place. Children between 0-5 years of age engage in different forms of play with others for about an hour, usually every week.

During playgroup, parents and carers stay and play with their children to establish the vital bonds needed in the critical early years of childhood development. Here, parents and caregivers connect and support each other, and create quality play and bonding time for, and with, their child.

“My favourite thing about our playgroup is the deep sense of community. Bringing people together in a shared environment for the same common goal... to have positive interactions, connectedness, for the benefit of our little people and of course, ourselves.” (Parent, Karalee Playgroup)

What do playgroups provide?

Playgroups provide a welcoming environment for children to play, learn and grow. They facilitate a variety of learning experiences in community-accessible areas (Queensland Government). A playgroup facilitator or volunteer helps operate and support the playgroup, creating a welcoming and inclusive environment. Playgroups encourage child-led play by delivering engaging experiences to support social, emotional, physical and cognitive development.

“We live in a rural area, without many of the fun centres and activities for young children, but our playgroup … gives little ones in our community the chance to explore, play and socialise in an inclusive environment while the parents and carers make meaningful connections with others and also get to interact with their little ones. Playgroup days are my favourite day of the week!” (Parent, Emerald Gumnuts Playgroup)

Why Play Matters?

Play is vital to children’s development, especially in the early years. Children are learning as they explore, experiment, observe, create and problem-solve. Children in the early stages of their development need both support and freedom to play. Enriching activities and positive interactions during the formative years supports the development of key life skills which help children flourish and prepares them for success in later education and future growth. Such areas of growth can include language skills, emotional regulation, social interactions, cognitive and communication development (raisingchildren.net.au; The Australian Parenting Website).

“We love that the kids (and their parents/ carers) are growing more and more comfortable each week to come and learn through PLAY, about their world, about themselves and about how much play matters.” (Facilitator, GREAT MATES Playgroup, Goondiwindi.)

Why are playgroups important?

Playgroups have a number of benefits for families, even beyond play. Playgroups help expose children to new experiences. Young children are learning about their world and their role in it, through everyday experiences

and activities. Children develop language and social skills while playing with others; they learn sharing, cooperation and routines, skills that help build lifelong learners and prepare children for school. The positive relationships children and parents can build in playgroups can last for years or a lifetime. Positive relationships are vital for growing brains, and make positive impacts on parents, too (raisingchildren.net.au; The Australian Parenting Website). Research has found children who attend playgroups have improved chances of being developmentally prepared in the AEDC domains than children who don’t (Telethon Kids Institute). Studies show the transition to school is often easier for children who have attended playgroups (Telethon Kids Institute). The benefit of playgroups extends to parents and caregivers. Playgroups provide opportunities for families to meet other local families and develop friendships. They provide relaxing and safe environments to connect, share experiences, and knowledge. Accessible early years education empowers parents and carers in the role of their child's first teacher.

“My granddaughter and I love going to playgroup as the smile on her face when we arrive each week is just wonderful. She loves it so of course that is my favourite thing” (Parent, Redlands Funtime).

Who are Play Matters

Play Matters is one of the largest communitybased charities specialising in play and parent-child attachment in Australia. Operating for almost 50 years, Play Matters Australia supports children and families to build relationships, skills, and confidence through play. We aim to provide children with the best start to life by empowering parents and carers with the skills and confidence to guide and support their children's development through the fundamental act of play. Play Matters Australia’s ethos of recognising parents and carers as a child’s first teacher is embedded in our organisation's theory of change and underpins our programs, service design and delivery.

Find a playgroup

Play Matters Australia currently supports in excess of 10,000 families with children aged birth-to-five. Visit the Play Matters website to become a member and discover playgroups in your local area. Our friendly and welcoming staff and volunteers can’t wait to meet you.

“A wonderfully welcoming group that all the children love and parents are all very helpful and welcoming.” (Parent, Possum Club Playgroup Brassall).

Find your local Play Matters Playgroup at https://playmatters.org.au/

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CYBERBULLYING IN SCHOOLS

The dangers of bullying are well documented and despite our best efforts, we don’t appear to be able to eradicate this problem. As both a parent and a psychiatrist, I’ve had the unfortunate experience of witnessing the dire impact of bullying on a child’s mental health. Urgent steps need to be taken to address bullying and to encourage tolerance, respect, and inclusiveness of our differences.

Bullying & establishing cultural tolerance

Bullying and intolerance of differences are problems that have been around for a long time. Adults have been fighting wars and committing senseless acts because of their differences for centuries. White supremacists are no different than terrorists who commit acts in the name of religion. They are both trying to force their beliefs on others and create a world in which everyone is the same. This type of thinking is not only dangerous, but it is unrealistic. People are different for a reason, and we should accept, embrace and celebrate those differences to create a world where everyone is treated respectfully and fairly.

Parents and schools have a responsibility to teach and model tolerance.

Schools can have assemblies or lessons that focus on diversity and how to get along with people who are different from

us. Inviting people of different races and cultural backgrounds to speak and share their experiences of hardship would not only help to raise awareness but also empathy for others.

Parents play an incredibly important role in teaching and modelling tolerance for difference. They should talk with their children about different cultures and religions and emphasise the importance of being kind and respectful. Parents can also help their child to develop empathy by providing them with opportunities to learn about the history of different people and experience how they live.

The government and community can also help to promote tolerance for differences by creating public service announcements or fund programs that teach diversity and acceptance. They can also work to create a society where everyone feels safe and welcome, regardless of their background or beliefs.

Bullying in schools: Is there a fool-proof system in place?

School bullying is a problem that has been around for as long as schools have been in existence. And while there are many different opinions on how to best deal with bullying, one thing is for sure: suspensions and expulsions don't seem to be working.

In fact, according to a study from the University of California, Los Angeles,

suspensions and expulsions actually worsen the problem. The study found that students who are suspended or expelled are more likely to drop out of school, and they're also more likely to engage in criminal behaviour. There aren’t easy answers to this problem. Some people believe that we need to create tougher anti-bullying policies, while others think that we need to provide more support for victims of bullying.

Bullied children have higher risks of self-harm, depression and anxiety. The ramifications of bullying are endless and all the more reason to prioritise addressing the issue.

Your role as a parent

As a parent, it can be difficult to keep track of what your child is doing online. But it's important to be aware of their activities, especially if they're young. Here are some tips to help you monitor your child's online behaviour:

1. Talk to your child about the dangers of the internet. Make sure they understand that not everyone they meet online is who they say they are and that there are some people who may try to harm them.

2. Set rules for your child's use of the internet. Establish guidelines for how

much time they can spend online, what websites they can visit, and what type of content is allowed.

3. Use parental controls to restrict your child's access to certain websites or content. Most internet browsers have built-in parental controls that allow you to filter out inappropriate content.

4. Monitor your child's activity. Use a monitoring program or tool to see what websites your child is visiting, what they're talking about with their friends online, and who they're interacting with.

5. Educate yourself about the latest online threats and how to protect your child from them. Stay up-to-date on the latest scams and cyber-bullying tactics so you can warn your child about them.

Bullying and racism can cause tremendous harm to individuals, and they need to be addressed immediately. If you or anyone you know is going through the ordeal of being bullied online or offline, it is crucial to alert someone in authority who can immediately intervene. We must all work together to create a safe and inclusive environment for everyone.

By Dr Lisa Myers, Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist

FIRST AID IN SCHOOLS

Parents understand the importance of being able to act swiftly and calmly in First Aid situations, with 98% of Aussie parents, who took part in research by Elastoplast, agreeing that being involved in a previous accident had highlighted the need for basic First Aid knowledge. With children being adventurous, sometimes an adult may not be immediately close by, highlighting the importance for children to have confidence in their own First Aid skills so they feel empowered in their ability to help themselves and each other when needed.

First aid training in schools

A recent study showed that 81% of parents believe children as young as three years old should be able to dial triple zero and ask for help, opening up the conversation around where and when children should be participating in their own First Aid training.

Whilst 50% of parents believe that parents and guardians are responsible for teaching age appropriate First Aid to children, 78% believe First Aid should be taught at schools, with 4-7 years being the age group where more than half (56%) of parents believe this teaching should commence.

To provide a solution, Elastoplast is running its Kids First Aid School Program for its third year in a row, equipping teachers with the knowledge to teach basic first aid in schools, and empower students with the skills they require to keep themselves and each other safe. Developed with ACHPER (The Australian Council for Health, Physical Education and Recreation,) the program is useful for all aspects of life and is curriculum approved, integrating First Aid knowledge into foundational, Year 1 & 2 learning structures.

Dr Sue Whatman, President of ACHPER, states “Schools are places where children are meant to learn and be kept safe. The curriculum is supposed to equip them with life skills that they will carry on outside of the classroom. With this Kids First Aid Program, we are confident that teachers have the necessary resources to teach children these essential life skills that help them keep themselves and others safe, also giving parents peace of mind.”

Parents and first aid training

Children having accidents is a parent’s worst nightmare, so ensuring life-saving knowledge is learnt at a young age will inevitably put Aussies at ease and encourage decisive action and decision making when it matters most. Elastoplast’s mission is to grow the next generation of life savers by providing children with the tools to not only treat minor injuries, but to help them recognise and respond to unsafe situations by either sending for help or knowing who to call in an emergency.

We have identified parents are putting First Aid high on the agenda to learn. The majority of Aussie parents (85%) have attended First Aid training, with over half (54%) having done so within the last two years, and a quarter (23%) within the last 12 months.

While nine in ten (90%) Aussie parents have at least some level of knowledge of First Aid, only 14% say they are confident/ proficient in using it, making the need for refresher training vital in equipping parents to act quickly and calmly in the case of an accident.

The most common reasons Aussie parents give for why they have not undertaken any First Aid training include lack of time (41%), not knowing how/where to get trained (40%) and concerns around the cost (29%). As a result, Elastoplast has introduced an engaging and educational age appropriate Kids First Aid school program with practical lessons that will kick-start their children's First Aid learning process. Evidence suggests that learning from a young age can increase the likelihood that children will retain and utilise this knowledge in the future, meaning parents can feel reassured their child will grow up with confidence to be able to respond to emergency situations.

Developed in collaboration with ACHPER, the Elastoplast Kids First Aid Program provides schools across the country with free, curriculum-aligned resources focusing on the key first aid knowledge areas – recognising and responding to unsafe situations, treating minor injuries and sending for help.

Each school that registers will receive free lesson plans, classroom activity sheets, Elastoplast first aid product samples and even a pack of 1st First Aid Certificates to hand out to students when they have completed the program.

If you'd like your school to get involved direct them to www.elastoplast.com.au/pages/kidsfirst-aid-program for more information and registration

81% of parents believe children as young as three years old should be able to dial triple zero

MAMA CAN COOK

Spinach Tortilla Wrap

Serves 2. Dairy free, gluten free option

Ingredients:

1 large (51g) egg

1 cup packed (35g) spinach

1 tbsp (10g) spelt flour

Light spray oil

80g grilled chicken breast

30g avocado

¼ cup (22g) grated carrot

¼ cup (25g) grated beetroot

Method:

Blend spinach, egg and flour in a blender or Nutribullet until smooth.

Heat a non-stick pan on medium. Lightly spray with oil.

spinach mixture in and tilt

pan in a circular motion to spread mixture out thinly like a crepe. Cook until almost set. Flip and cook for a further minute.

Transfer wrap to a plate and allow to cool.

Top with avocado, chicken, and salad. Wrap up and enjoy!

An awesome lunchbox inclusion for both the kids or for work. An alternative to spelt flour is plain flour or for gluten free, use a gluten free plain flour or buckwheat flour.

Tip: Sweet potato noodles can be found in the Asian aisle of supermarkets. Alternatively use brown rice vermicelli noodles for the same macros.

Vietnamese prawn noodle salad

Serves 2. Gluten & dairy free

Ingredients:

250g medium or king prawns

1 clove garlic, finely diced

1 tsp coconut oil

80g sweet potato noodles (dry)

1.5 cups bean shoots

½ medium red capsicum, 12 snow peas

¼ large cucumber

½ medium carrot

1 spring onion

¼ cup min

¼ cup coriander

1 tbsp roasted peanuts

Dressing:

1 clove garlic, finely diced

¼ tsp red chilli, finely diced

2 tbsp fish sauce

2 tbsp rice wine vinegar

1 tbsp coconut sugar

1 tsp tamari

Method:

Chop capsicum, snow peas, cucumber and carrot into matchsticks. Slice spring onion, chop mint and coriander, and set aside.

Combine dressing ingredients – finely diced garlic and chilli,

fish sauce, rice wine vinegar, coconut sugar and tamari.

Boil a saucepan of water and cook noodles for 8 minutes (or as per packet instructions). Drain water and cool.

Heat oil in a non-stick frypan. Add prawns and garlic. Stir fry for 6-8 minutes until cooked through.

Divide noodles, vegetables, herbs and prawns between two bowls. Pour dressing over and toss to combine. Top with spring onion and peanuts.

Sophie Guidolin is a published author, fitness model, qualified trainer, nutritionist and wellness advocate. Find more of her tasty ideas and treats at sophieguidolin.com.au

Monster Muesli Trifles

Prep time: 20min | Serves: 5

Ingredients:

1 medium mango

250g strawberries, quartered

2 cups Greek-style or coconut yoghurt

Monster Muesli:

2 cups rolled oats

1⁄2 cup sultanas

1⁄4 cup dried cranberries

1⁄4 cup pepitas

1⁄2 cup shredded coconut

1 tbsp ground cinnamon

1 teaspoon ground nutmeg

1⁄4 cup black chia seeds

Method:

Make the Monster Muesli: Place all ingredients in a medium airtight container; mix together with your hands. This amount of muesli serves 8; you only need 1 cup for this recipe. Seal the remainder in the container and store at room temperature for up to one month.

Cut cheeks from mango; scoop the flesh from cheeks and chop coarsely. Combine mango and strawberries in a small bowl.

Divide fruit among four 375ml glasses. Top with yoghurt, then 1⁄4 cup of the Monster Muesli on each serve.

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A DAY AT THE BEACH

As the sun continues to shine this summer, a family day at the beach is a must! Most Aussies have had a long-standing love affair with the beach. We have our own wonderful memories of days out exploring rock pools, swimming and playing in the sand and want our kids to enjoy the same memories.

What we don’t remember is the mountain of ‘stuff’ our parents had to pack to make the day survivable! Here’s a beach-packing checklist from Shae Rickards, Global Nutrition Manager and Paediatric Dietitian at Bellamy’s Organic to help you get prepared.

Sunscreen and rash guard

Make sure you apply sunscreen to your toddler (and yourself) before you put any swimmers and clothes on. The ideal time to do this is at least 20 minutes before you leave the house and well before you are out in the elements. Make sure your sunscreen is at least 30 SPF, broad-spectrum and water resistant. It will need to be reapplied after swimming. A rash guard is also a great idea. It helps cover more of your toddler’s delicate skin and allow you to use less sunscreen.

Hat and sunnies

Make sure you all wear a wide brimmed hat that covers your ears and neck. For your little one, consider an under-chin strap, otherwise their hat will most likely end up in the water. Sunnies are also a must to protect your kids’ precious peepers. For toddlers, a strap is also a good idea, for the above reason!

Brolly or beach tent

An umbrella or beach tent is a good idea for a day at the beach. Not only does it provide shade, but it keeps you dry too. Bring shade that fits over your entire body to make sure you receive maximum protection from the sun (and hopefully not the rain). Finding a tree is always a great idea… if you can find one.

Snacks

Shae says no day at the beach is complete without a cooler packed with all your favourite snacks. Sand is always the enemy when it comes to food at the beach, so be sure to include ingredients that are packaged ready to eat, or pre-cut, to reduce handling.

Great snacks for your toddler include:

• Bite-sized soft pieces of fruit like watermelon and strawberries

• Grapes - cut in half (you can also freeze these the night before)

• Natural yoghurt

• Bellamy’s Organic Pear & Apple Snacks

• Bellamy’s Organic Banana & Strawberry Hearts

• Bellamy’s Organic Milk Rusks for your teething toddlers

• Wraps or sandwiches - (we love a vegemite sanga that doesn't melt in the heat!)

• Soft veggie pieces like cherry tomatoes (cut in half), sliced cucumber and capsicum

• Ice packs - to keep everything cool. If you don’t have ice packs, try using a frozen water bottle to keep food chilled and safe.

Some of these foods are perfect for the big kids too!

Shae says that with some delicious fruit, ready to go Bellamy’s snacks and healthy sangas on hand, you will hopefully have more chances of resisting the smells of takeaway chipswith-vinegar!

Hydration

Shae also stresses the importance of water. Staying hydrated during the day is important and having plenty of cool, tap water on hand will help stop you from purchasing sugary drinks.

Be sure to take a refillable cup or water bottle for each person. Pre-freezing some water bottles in advance is also a great idea and can be popped into the cooler in place of ice.

If your little one is still nursing, a nursing cover can come in handy, protecting your little one from the sun.

Toys

Toys can help keep your toddler busy while you relax a little. These include a big bucket and shovel, a plastic boat and toy cars or dolls. If you’re taking some older kids as well, a beach cricket set and boogie board are always popular.

Bags and clothes

Take a sturdy, waterproof beach bag to carry all your belongings. The bigger the better. Pack a garbage bag for any rubbish, as well as an additional waterproof bag that you can put wet clothes in. A mesh bag is handy for holding toys and a waterproof phone pouch is helpful for keeping your phone clean and dry.

And don’t forget to take a change of clothes for your toddler and yourself!

Chairs and towels

Beach towels, a large blanket and beach chairs all make life more comfortable during your day out. You can even get tiny beach chairs for your toddler. A sarong always finds multiple uses, the primary being draping it over yourself when you’re napping.

Wipes and sanitiser

With sand ready to stick to every surface and sneak into every crevice, fragrance-free wipes always come in handy at the beach. They help clean sticky fingers and remove sand from faces. And of course, we’re now old hands at taking the sanitiser whenever we head out!

Shae Rickards is the Global Nutrition Manager at Bellamy’s Organic. Shae has a particular interest in early childhood nutrition and is passionate about ensuring children have the best start to a lifetime of eating.

She is actively involved in several nutrition committees including the Dietitian’s Association of Australia Paediatric Leadership Team, Breastfeeding group, Food Allergy and Intolerance Leadership Team and The Department of Health Early Childhood Reference Group.

Find the full range of great Bellamy's Organic snacks here.

A PRESCRIPTION OF NATURE:

Fostering a generation of happier and healthier children through play

People experience adversity from the moment they are born; babies get tired and restless, toddlers struggle with communication and control, and as children transition into adulthood, life fronts them with countless new challenges.

While spending time at the local playground or exploring the national park seems like a simple family outing, as a father of two children and co-founder of Wearthy, the experts in outdoor play, I believe play can be so much more than that.

In fact, spending time outdoors, in nature, is an incredible opportunity for fostering confident, compassionate and resilient children who are equipped with the skills to conquer life’s challenges. Just an hour a day outside connecting with nature and developing a deep-rooted sense of connection and appreciation for the natural world may be the very cure for mental health concerns for generations to come.

This is especially important as last year, 3.2 million Australians saw a professional for their mental health, and 1 in 6 children aged 2-8 years old were diagnosed with a mental, behavioural or developmental disorder1. Emerging from these statistics are parents living in heightened fear and anxiety as to what this may mean for the future of their children. While this fear may not be going away anytime soon, we have the power to transform how we tackle it; through play and spending time in nature.

Nature has benefits for both physical and psychological development:

We all feel it - spending time outside with the fresh air and warm sun creates a long-lasting buzz of good endorphins that flow into the way you perceive the rest of your day. You can boost your mood by just walking in nature, but what happens when you spend time truly embracing and connecting with it?

Between the ages of three to eight, children retain the most information—eager to learn, asking lots of questions, and embracing the world with complete curiosity. As such, active exposure to nature can facilitate the development of:

– emotion regulation

– improved mental health

– creativity

– motor skills

– memory

– cognitive skills

There are infinite ways children can interact with the outdoor environment, but it is important to remember that the way kids play in nature is a lot less structured than most types of indoor play. So while we’re talking about setting our children up for success let’s unpack the specific styles of play that are most enriching for our children’s lives for the long term:

Outdoor Activities:

Spending time outside in nature provides kids with free rein to choose how they play, letting their imagination run wild. Nature generates connection and creates an avenue of opportunity to let creative freedom flourish. So, while engrossed in the stimulation of all the senses, this creative outlet helps to

develop essential neural pathways and nerve connections for growth and development. Try embracing what nature has to offer, such as collecting sticks and stones for artwork, counting the flowers, or simply, listening to and unpacking all of the unique sounds the world has to offer. Talk to your kids about what they are doing, hearing, seeing and feeling to help develop communication skills.

Learning Limits and Taking Risks:

Often parents can be risk averse, and understandably so, but embracing this fear is an incredible opportunity to help children learn to overcome setbacks, in a safe and comforting environment. In fact, engaging in risky play can facilitate confidence, resilience and determination within our children as they learn to understand and overcome failure. Similarly to celebrating achievements, it creates a thrill of uncertainty, where children can learn how to best move forward from challenges. Furthermore, children can learn how and when to ask for help, which equips them with the ability to lead, manage, or seek help when needed. Activities include climbing trees and balancing, as they are great opportunities to step beyond their comfort zone while receiving a dopamine award for achieving their goal.

Embrace their Inner Artist:

We all know kids are bursting with energy and excitement when you give them a paintbrush and paper—because they have the chance to unleash their imagination and creativity, creating something that is completely theirs. Similarly, nature provides an avenue of tools for creating art—and it is up to us to find them! Try creating a canvas out of something from nature such as a stone or leaf, and use it as the basis to let your child’s creativity evolve. Upon doing so, children create an enhanced connection to nature, while also expressing and bringing to life an idea that is solely theirs—fostering a sense of limitless opportunity.

Spending just an hour outside releases dopamine and oxytocin, which is critical to developing happier, more connected children—amplifying brain activity such as happiness and appreciation for themselves and the world around them. To counteract mental health concerns across the globe, we have an opportunity to commit to happier, healthier children, by spending more time outside within nature.

By Lukas Ritson, Expert of Play, Co-founder of Wearthy

Spending just an hour outside releases dopamine and oxytocin, which is critical to developing happier, more connected children - amplifying brain activity such as happiness and appreciation for themselves and the world around them.

HOW TO AVOID HIDDEN SUGARS IN SCHOOL LUNCHBOXES

With millions of school students now back at school, the Australian Dental Association (ADA) has some tips for families who want to refresh their kids’ lunchbox contents and help improve their oral and overall health.

As parents and carers, we are busier than ever, and the daily grind of making and packing kid’s lunches means that often it can feel easier to reach for convenient options that are actually higher in sugar than you realise.

As a father of two children who take a packed lunch to school, I know how hard finding extra time is, but setting kids up for good oral health starts early in life.

In my dental practice, I see first-hand the impacts of daily sugar consumption. We know that many popular and convenient lunchbox items are high in sugar, causing tooth decay or gum disease over time. This can lead to more invasive dental treatments for children such as fillings and early extractions and also contribute to greater hospitalisations and chronic diseases such as Type 2 diabetes later down the track.

Parents may be surprised to know that a lunch that includes dried apricots, a flavoured yogurt, and a fruit juice box is delivering more than double the recommended daily amount of sugar. Limiting sugar consumption is key to preventing tooth decay, which is the most common chronic disease in childhood.

Around 1 in 4 (24%) Australian children aged 6–14 had dental caries in their permanent teeth, and around 1 in 10 (11%) had at least one permanent tooth with untreated decay, according to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (March 2022).

The ADA's easy tips for tooth-friendly lunchboxes:

• Include something from each of the five food groups including fruit/vegetables/ legumes/beans, dairy, grain (cereal) foods and lean meats poultry/fish/eggs. E.g. cheese sticks hard-boiled eggs

• Replace chips, chocolates, muesli bars, and sweet biscuits with items such as fresh fruit, celery and carrot sticks, and cucumbers.

• Limit snacks that are high in sugar and/ or saturated fats e.g. donuts

• Pick whole fruit over fruit juice – the vitamins, minerals and fibre make it more filling and nutritious and reduce the sugar content per serve.

• Pack water as your school drink rather than sports drinks, juice, soft drinks, cordials or flavoured milk which are high in sugar. If your tap water is fluoridated even better!

• Look for grain-based snacks with whole grains and high fibre, such as wholegrain bread and crackers.

• Processed snack products such as muesli and breakfast bars, chips, and cookies should be limited to one item and ideally a low-sugar choice, such as rice crackers, popcorn and cheese.

As well as packing a tooth-friendly lunchbox, parents should ensure their child visits a dentist at least once a year for a check-up as maintaining good oral health improves overall health outcomes for your life.

Brushing teeth twice a day, flossing and drinking tap water in place of other drinks are also easy ways to help protect oral health among people of all ages. Checking the labelling of packaged items before buying to see their real sugar content is a quick way to gauge what should be included or not in school lunchboxes.

By Dr Dominic Aouad, Australian Dental Association New South

Wales (ADA

NSW) Vice President.

ADA NSW is the peak body representing dentists and dental students in NSW and the ACT, with more than 5,000 members. We have been supporting dentists and promoting good oral health in the community since 1929.

Poor oral health in childhood is the strongest predictor of further dental disease in adulthood

About 70% of children aged 9-13 are consuming too much sugar

Oral diseases such as tooth decay, gum disease and oral cancer contribute to illness, disability and death in Australia.

CYCLE TO SCHOOL

Cancer Council is calling for increased support for younger Australians to walk or cycle to school, with new data revealing a decrease in the proportion of 12 – 17 year-olds using an active mode of transport to get to school each day.

Cancer Council’s National Secondary Students’ Diet and Activity (NaSSDA) study surveyed teens on their diet and lifestyle habits. The survey found students were 29% less likely to actively travel every weekday in 2018 compared to 2009 – 10, with less than one in three Australian secondary students actively travelling to school each day.

Clare Hughes, Chair of Cancer Council’s Nutrition, Alcohol and Physical Activity Committee explained that physical activity in the teenage years is important as it sets up good habits for adulthood.

“Active school travel is an important source of regular physical activity for secondary students. Behaviours established in adolescence create lifelong patterns that promote good health. We want to encourage teens to be as active as possible to achieve the recommended 60 minutes of moderate to vigorous physical activity each day, and the school commute is a great way to fit in more physical activity.”

Physical activity reduces excess weight gain, which is a risk factor for developing 13 different types of cancer later in life. Being physically active can also reduce the risk of endometrial, breast and bowel cancer.

Overall, male students were more likely to actively travel than females. Yet the decline in active travel over time was greater for males, with males 31% less likely to use active travel every weekday in 2018 than in 2009-10 (compared to females being 25% less likely).

Safety concerns appeared to be a key barrier to active travel, especially among female students who were 21% more likely to actively travel if they felt safe walking or riding their bike in their neighbourhood during the day.

The National Obesity Strategy identifies connected spaces such as cycle paths and walkways as important ways to support Aussies to be active within their communities. We urge all Australian governments to act on these recommendations to minimise barriers to physical activity and develop strategies for safer, more accessible environments that support active transport.

Few (1 in 6) teens are currently meeting the recommended health guidelines of 60 minutes or more of moderate-to-vigorous intensity physical activity every day.

We are encouraging Australian secondary students and their parents to look for opportunities to add active travel into journeys to school. This means walking, cycling, scooting or taking public transport, even part of the way. By increasing their daily physical activity levels, teenagers not only benefit their current health but can ultimately reduce their risk of health problems, including cancer, later in life.

5 expert tips to boost your teen’s daily active travelling

1. Start small

If active travelling to school for the whole journey isn’t an option, try adding walking, cycling, scooting, or taking public transport for even part of the way.

2. Lead (or cycle!) by example

Show your kids how easy it can be to travel through an active mode of transport by riding to errands or the office. Why not consider swapping the morning drop off on some days for a cycle instead to boost your own physical activity levels and make it a family affair?

3. Don’t aim for all or nothing

Be realistic about your child’s schedule and your own commitments. Choosing to walk or cycle to school for even a few days a week can boost your overall physical activity rates.

4. Put it on the calendar

Start by picking a day to try an active school commute, plan it around other activities and set the alarm a little bit earlier if you need to. Simplify your route by mapping it out ahead of time.

About the report

5. Make it socialEncourage your kids to tee up with others in the neighbourhood or friends from school to make travelling in the mornings or after school fun.

‘Trends and determinants of active school travel among Australian secondary school students: national cross-sectional data from 2009 to 2018’ was developed by Cancer Council. The data from the paper, published in the Australian and New Zealand Journal of Public Health this month, was obtained from the National Secondary Students’ Diet and Activity survey. Over a nine-year period, three surveys around diet and lifestyle habits were conducted. Nationally representative samples of Australian secondary school students in year levels 8 to 11 (ages 12 to 17 years) were surveyed in 2009-10 (n=13,790 from 238 schools), 2012-13 (n=10,309 from 196 schools) and 2018 (n=9,102 from 104 schools) using a self-report webbased questionnaire. A total sample of 33, 201 secondary students was achieved.

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The Berenstain Bears School Days Collection by Mike Berenstain

Head back to school with the Berenstain Bears! Young readers will enjoy the stories, activities, stickers, and recipes in The Berenstain Bears School Days Collection, an addition to the Living Lights™ series of The Berenstain Bears books. With stories about starting school, new students, rumors and gossip, and settling disagreements, this treasury is perfect for children beginning a new school year or right in the middle of one.

Published by HarperCollins. RRP $29.99.

Queen Elizabeth II: A Little Golden Book Biography by Jen Arena

Help your little one dream big with a Little Golden Book biography about Queen Elizabeth II! The perfect introduction to nonfiction for preschoolers!

This Little Golden Book about Queen Elizabeth II who sat on the throne for more than 70 years and was the longest ruling monarch of the United Kingdom is an inspiring read-aloud for young girls and boys.

Published by Golden Books. RRP $4.99.

My epic Dad! takes us camping by Dani Vee

This dad will leave you (and himself) in stitches! Things don’t always go to plan when this dad is around, but one thing is for sure – Every adventure turns out EPIC in the end!

Despite the best of intentions, this dad seems to have the worst luck! But… with the right attitude and fully stocked first aid kit, things always have a way of working out in the end. This story will have readers laughing at every page turn and parents will relate to the adventures this epic dad plans, determined to get his kids out in the world and trying new things. As often happens in life, the times when everything goes wrong can create the BEST STORIES!.

Published by Larrikin House. RRP $19.99.

Pocket Treasure by Juliana Oakley and Wenda Shurety

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MapMaker by Lisa Moore Ramée

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Solve Your Own Mystery: The Time Thief by Gareth P. Jones

Welcome to Haventry, a town where the ordinary and extraordinary collide! With ghosts, werewolves and zombies living side by side, trouble is always brewing. And when a fiendish crime is committed, YOU are the detective in charge of the case.

The Museum of Magical Objects and Precious Stones is putting on a special time-travelling showcase, but when the main exhibit is stolen, it’s up to YOU to find the thief. The Time Sponge has the ability to stop and start time for whoever squeezes it, so who has the strongest motive?

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Australia's bestselling anxiety and mental health expert, Bev Aisbett, tackles a growing mental health emergency: burnout, using humour, straightforward language and her signature illustrations, Bev clearly explains what burnout is, who is at risk, how to recognise the danger signs and, finally, how to step back from the brink, providing insight and techniques to ease burnout and stop yourself going up in smoke.

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A QUICK GUIDE TO BUYING SCHOOL SHOES

STEP 1

Take this quiz!

Should your child see a podiatrist before you buy school shoes?

STEP 2

Review this checklist

Does your child experience skin rashes, hard skin on their feet, lumps, bumps, excessive sweating, itching or ingrown toenails?

Did you answer ‘yes’ to one or more of these questions?

Consider taking your child to a podiatrist before you buy school shoes. Find a Podiatrist by using Australian Podiatry Association’s ‘Find a Podiatrist’ search tool: podiatry.org.au/find-a-podiatrist

Did you bring your child’s uniform-issued school socks or stockings to ensure the shoes fit well with them?

Have your child’s feet been measured correctly for length and width? E.g. at a store that offers trained assistants or by a Podiatrist?

Can your child wiggle their toes freely in the shoes, both up and down and side to side?

Is there about 1cm of growing room (no more!) between the end of their longest toe and the end of the shoe?

Do the shoes match their activities and the season? E.g. breathable material such as leather for school shoes and cotton or nylon for sports shoes

Do the shoes have laces, a buckle or Velcro? This allows the shoe to be adjusted to meet the growing needs of your child. Avoid elastic shoes and slip-ons as these don’t support developing young feet.

Here is a helpful checklist to make sure you get the right shoe: Answered ‘yes’ to all the above questions?

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SCREAM TIME

Are you screaming for the kids to get off their screens? Australians spend almost 17 years in their lifetime staring at a screen. Globally, people average almost seven hours of screen time per day - that's roughly 40 percent of their total waking hours. The inaugural ‘Great Australian Switch Off’ took place on Sunday 4 December, with people across the country encouraged to embark on a ‘digital detox’ by switching off their screens for 24 hours.

Dr Sarah Hanieh (MBBS, FRACP, PhD), creator of The Great Australian Switch-Off, came up with the idea to start an important conversation about the harmful effects of excessive screen time in today's society and to raise awareness about how screen time may displace other important moments and opportunities in a child’s life.

And it’s not too late to incorporate The Great Australian Switch Off’s principles into our daily lives on a regular basis. There are many ways we can keep things entertaining and fun over the summer break by minimising our screen use and making the most of downtime with loved ones.

Track your daily screen time

When we are casually scrolling through Facebook, TikTok and Instagram it's not hard to become fixated on your screen. A good way to keep track of your daily scrolling habits

is to identify how much screen time you are actually getting each day, and then create a family screen time plan together that outlines how each family member will use their screens. It’s really important to have a whole family discussion and ensure that everyone understands the rationale behind creating boundaries around screen time.

Once you've established a screen time limit that's suitable to your lifestyle, sit down with your children every week and talk together about how they plan to use it. This can help create that perfect screen time to family time ratio, and also create a sense of autonomy and control over screen time decisions.

Switch off while you’re with family and friends

Family relationships are an important part of a child’s development. Children look to their caregivers and the connection they have to others to gain a sense of belonging. Excessive screen time can damage the opportunity for children to develop the crucial connections and personal interaction skills they need.

When parents are engaging with a screen, children may feel the need to compete for attention. So, by setting down your device, children will feel their parents are more emotionally available. This small step can help strengthen your family bond.

Screens down during meals

According to The National Library Of Medicine, there is evidence that eating meals while watching TV is an obesogenic factor. This may be as a result of decreased physical activity and more sedentary behaviour, increased exposure to junk food advertisements, as well as interruptions to sleep patterns. Moreover, the association between media exposure and childhood obesity has been supported by research over the past several decades, with the pattern of screen use during meals beginning early and persisting through to adulthood.

Having the television (or other screens) on during meal times is never a good idea. Once this becomes a pattern, it can be hard to reverse. A great way to break the habit is by choosing one meal where you will switch off all devices. Once you start weaning your child off screens, don’t stop there. Every two to three days you can choose another meal to go screen-free until eventually the screen meals stop all together. A simple ‘no devices allowed at the table’ rule can surprisingly bring your family closer together during dinner time.

Get active

Children are naturally curious and long for the outdoors. Instead of spending time glzued to your devices, encourage yourself and your family to try new outdoor activities, especially over the Christmas break. Go for a bike ride or walk, visit a park, have a beach day or explore a local nature trail. Playing and being outdoors is so important for a child’s physical and cognitive development, as well as their social and emotional well-being.

It is widely known that screen time contributes to negative physical health effects including increased obesity, lack of physical activity and poor posture. So switch off your devices to switch on to the outside world and all it has to offer.

Remove social media apps from your device

While social media can be a great way to connect and communicate, there is a fine line between us being in control of our social media use, and social media being in control

of us. It’s no secret that these platforms have worked out specifically how to keep us coming back for more. They know how to keep us checking and scrolling, and because this works on a deeper psychological and neurochemical level, it can be difficult to fight the compulsion loop that has been created to keep us checking and scrolling.

The key is to be aware of how they work, and to limit their use where possible. Delete any toxic apps from yours or your child’s phone, particularly those that add nothing to your life, but only create anxiety, division, or low self-esteem.

A 2021 study by ‘Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking’ involving 132 people found that limiting social media use for a week improved well-being by preventing sleep problems. However, the authors note that adolescents who were already heavily engaged with social media may have chosen not to participate in the study because they were unwilling to reduce their use.

By blocking access to your social media apps at a specific time, such as before bed, or even removing apps for a dedicated day of the week, you may notice increased sleep, more quality family time, and even a reduction in anxiety and depression.

Look for other ways to get that dopamine hit that you might be getting from social media. There are so many other ways to create a natural dopamine surge in your brain, such as being outdoors in nature, exercising, listening to your favourite music, challenging yourself to do something completely different or new for the first time, and achieving a goal.

Finally, consider signing up to ‘The Social Deedia Project’. This new initiative by Dr Hanieh is asking whether you could give up social media for ‘good’? “We are creating a platform where we are asking you to swap out a portion of the time you spend on social media every week, to instead do something ‘good’ for someone else.”

Learn more about The Social Deedia Project here: https://thegreataustralianswitchoff.com/ the-social-deedia-project/

FROM NAPPIES TO NUTRIENTS...

Aussie parents are one step closer to being able to recycle disposable nappies, thanks to an industry-leading nappy recycling pilot program from Huggies® parent company, Kimberly-Clark.

There are approximately 300,000 babies born in Australia every year and approximately 95% of them wear disposable nappies. The Nappy Loop recycling program, which is the first of its kind in Australia, aims to provide a sustainable solution for the 1.5 billion disposable nappies that end up in landfill each year.

Launched as a trial in South Australia, The Nappy Loop recycling program is a partnership with Australia’s national science agency CSIRO, one of South Australia’s largest composters, Peats Soils and Garden Supplies, early learning and care provider G8 Education and Solo Resource Recovery. The program sees used nappies collected from the daycare centre and delivered to a composting facility for processing. CSIRO is providing scientific validation of the pilot program, which will help inform the team on the potential scaling of the program.

The recycling program uses a process known as anaerobic digestion to turn used Huggies nappies into nutrient-rich compost, and the plastic components are separated and evaluated for future recycled products. Meanwhile, bioenergy that is captured from the process is used to power the composting facility. To understand more about the nappy recycling process, visit www.huggies.com.au/ nappy-recycling.

CSIRO’s Principal Research Scientist Dr Anu Kumar said: “CSIRO is working with Kimberly-Clark Australia to provide scientific validation of The Nappy Loop pilot to help tackle waste. Our research for this Australian trial will help inform the team on the potential scaling of the program to help reduce the amount of nappies ending up in landfill.”

Kimberly-Clark’s ANZ Managing Director, Belinda Driscoll added: “Families and day care centres across the country rely on the convenience and performance of disposable nappies, and while we work to innovate and create more sustainable products, recycling is the best answer to the disposable nappy waste issue today. At Huggies, improving our sustainability has been a longstanding priority for us and we’re proud to be leading this Australian-first nappy recycling program here in Australia, offering parents a solution to sustainable disposable nappy use”.

G8 Education, Ali Evans, Head of Learning commented on the initiative: “Through this partnership the nappies changed every day at our Welly Road centre are recycled instead of going into landfill. As educators of our future generations, sustainability is a core focus in all our 440 centres across Australia and we’re excited to contribute to this partnership and the positive environmental impact it can make.”

After five months of recycling used nappies, The Nappy Loop team is now exploring the opportunity to scale the program in South Australia and nationally. This includes partnering with APR Plastics to test the recycling of the recovered plastic from the nappies using pyrolysis, with the aim of having results available in early 2023. So keep your eyes peeled for more exciting news!

This industry-first nappy recycling pilot program could be Australia’s answer to the 1.5 billion disposable nappies that end up in landfill each year.

PLAYGROUND SQUEEZE

As school enrolments climb and urban spaces become more crowded, some Australian schools have been left with less play space per student than a prison cell.

Standard prison cell guidelines recommend at least 7.5 square metres per prisoner. One Sydney school reportedly has just 1.14 square metres of play space per student.

As experts in health and physical education, we are deeply concerned by reports students are running out of play space.

Why is this a problem? And what options do parents and teachers have to keep young people happy and healthy?

Space at a premium

Australian student numbers are predicated to increase by 17% over the decade to 2026, creating a need for hundreds of new, mostly metropolitan schools and new classrooms in areas previously set aside for play.

With only small blocks available for some inner-city school sites, “vertical” schools have

been established in most Australian states. More vertical schools are planned, even at the primary level.

Vertical schools can provide some space for climbing, indoor running and ball sports, as well as outdoor areas such as rooftops.

But a lack of space and a reliance on lifts rather than stairs does not help keep kids active or provide much opportunity to engage with nature.

Australian kids have alarmingly low physical activity levels. Making sure students get the activity they need is vital for them to grow up fit and healthy.

How much space do kids need?

Australian guidelines on free play space –school areas other than buildings, footpaths and car parks – suggest a minimum of ten square metres per student.

However, Australian researchers have recommended school spaces should ideally be increased to 25 square metres per student,

combined with access to portable play equipment such as balls, bats and blocks. Even more space can have extra benefits. Two studies in Europe showed when more than 15 square metres per student was available, primary school children were much more physically active than those with less than eight square metres.

A study in the United Kingdom found that as play spaces per child increased, so did more vigorous physical activity. Smaller play spaces can result in crowded play, clashes and reduced movement.

8 ways to keep kids active in small spaces

Children need space to discover, take calculated movement risks and extend themselves physically. Here are eight ideas to keep young people active in confined spaces. These can be adapted to the home, classrooms, gymnasiums and outdoor areas, whatever the weather.

1. Move to a theme

Give kids a body movement theme, such as “stand as tall or as wide was possible”.

Students then move in a variety of ways to match the theme – widening or narrowing their body, twisting, turning, bending, stretching, balancing, rolling and transferring body weight.

2. Use activity ‘zones’

Use task cards to create zones and stations in small spaces where small groups of students can do different activities such as push-ups or skipping. Cards can illustrate ways to undertake the activities at different levels –from easy to medium and difficult.

Sport Australia’s Playing for Life cards allow teachers and parents to match activities to children’s ages.

3. Move to music

Dance offers a wide variety of activities and sequences of movements that can be done in a small space.

Along with making up their own dances, students can perform movements that suggest words for others to guess. Another option is regular one-minute bursts of movement with music throughout the day.

4. Set up obstacle courses

Get students to make up obstacle courses. Not only is this an exercise in problem-solving, it can also increase their motivation around physical education.

5. Use nearby parks and facilities

Many young people do not use their closest park. But public spaces can be a valuable resource for physical education and engagement with the community.

6. Play co-operative games

Develop co-operative movement challenges. These ask groups to work together in a small space, developing not just gross motor skills, but team work and problem-solving. An example is throwing a scarf in the air that both partners need to catch, gradually increasing the distance apart.

7. Adapt the space

Use colours, lines and patterns within spaces as guides for students to follow, aim towards and jump on during movement activities.

It’s also a useful way to break up the space into zones for different activities, and even target games such as bowling and beanbag bocce.

8. Look beyond PE

Beyond physical education school subjects

there are other opportunities to be active. This even includes traditional subjects like maths and English, which can be adapted to use movement-based activities.

By Brendon Hyndman, Associate Dean (Research) and Associate Professor of Education (Personal Development, Health & Physical Education), Charles Sturt University; Jessica Amy Sears, Lecturer,

Charles Sturt

University

and Vaughan

Cruickshank, Program

Director – Health and Physical Education, Maths/ Science, Faculty of Education, University of Tasmania. This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article

WEIGHING UP APPETITE

Remember being taught to finish everything on your plate?

This advice teaches children to ignore natural hunger and appetite cues. Teach your children to tune into their hunger. Explain that hunger is a way of telling us when we are ready to eat and fullness is our body’s smart way of telling us it’s time to stop eating.

If they aren’t hungry, don’t force them. If they want food, ask them if they are hungry or bored or tired or something else? If they are hungry, let them fill up on as much healthy, everyday foods until they feel full, while not restricting them from less healthy options either.

It might mean one day they graze on next to nothing and the next eat for the world, but our appetite is the key to feeling normal around food. Your appetite’s purpose is to provide energy for your body, which is unique and different from others.

I quite like the phrase, ‘Oh, you’re having a hungry day’ when I’m speaking to my son, said in a neutral tone. It feels like I’m helping him to understand that some days he will naturally be more hungry, and other days, less hungry. The tone really matters, and so does the age of your child. The opposite, ‘It seems you’re just not as hungry today’, comes along with it so that there is balance showing the natural ebb and flow of appetite during growth spurts, teething, busy daycare or school days and whatever else.

However, I can see how saying, ‘Oh, you’re having a hungry day’ to a tween or teenager is going to hit them quite differently! Sounds confusing? That’s a fair assessment. As children become more aware that thin is the idealised body state, accusations that they are eating too much or too hungry (no matter how you phrase it) may teach them that there is something wrong with their appetite.

Just one more bite!

Dinner time with kids. You used at least three different vegies (hello colour!), dressed them up with some delicious cheesy sauce and are about to start your own home-cooking channel, you’re so pleased with yourself. That’s until your kids turn their nose up at what you’ve served. What is this rainbow dinner when all they want is a beige buffet? Frustration sets in. You believed this was one meal your kids would enjoy. Why did you waste your time– and food? But while it’s tempting to start a dinner-table power struggle, threatening that they must eat it or at least have one more bite, it’s not a good idea.

‘Please. Just have one more bite’ is a plea uttered by many desperate parents at meal time.

As a parent of a toddler, I understand it’s easy to feel worried when your child isn’t eating well or concerned they’ll go to bed hungry. So what harm is asking them to have just ‘one more bite’ when it’s encouraging more variety in their diet?

As parents, we just want what’s best for our kids– and with 95 per cent of Australian children not getting the recommended amount of vegetables a day, it’s easy to fear they’re not filling up on the healthy stuff.16 The big problem with the ‘one bite’ rule is that it’s a rule, and associating rules with food is never healthy. It moralises food and can lead to guilt and shame. Encouraging a child to eat more or less than their appetite says they need can disrupt their internal feelings of hunger and fullness. It’s a big problem we see today with so many of us eating by the clock, or a meal plan, rather than by appetite.

Bottom line is that the eating habits you start as a kid go with you into adulthood. Creating pressure around food can lead to children ignoring their natural cues. Of course, we need to remember kids have very little control in their lives. Where they go, what they wear, what they are going to eat is largely

determined by us, so they often flex their independence in terms of what options they choose to eat.

Strategies to encourage picky eaters

Ask yourself, would I actually eat this? When it comes to kids we can sometimes go too purist or ‘clean’ with food. Plain can also mean devoid of flavour and fun. If what you’re serving your child seems unappetising even to you, then it’s time to rejig your thinking and try out some different recipes. Shameless plug: finding new, kid-friendly recipes doesn’t have to be tricky. My app Back to Basics is designed for busy parents and people who just want a yummy, easy and healthy dinner sorted.

Play dress-ups. This isn’t about adding sugars and salts, but adding flavour to food. Olive oil and cheese are two versatile options, while I like to add peanut butter to broccoli so it’s not so sad and doubles as an allergen exposure.

Try up to ten times. We want our kids to eat variety, so while it’s easy to feel despondent, don’t give up. Research shows children often need at least ten times of seeing a new food before they’ll even try it, whereas we as parents tend to give up after three to five exposures. Given the effort and waste– it’s understandable– but persevere if you can. Simply place the food on your child’s plate (a small amount to start). Even if they don’t touch it, this small interaction with the food counts as an exposure.

Combine with familiar foods. Introduce a novel food along with a food they already accept. If pasta is much loved but zucchini isn’t in favour just yet, use a peeler to create zucchini ribbons. Or add zucchini to some pasta sauce. Or try grating just a touch on top.

Role model. Sit with your child and eat bits of the same food you served to them. It’s not about tricking them, but showing you enjoy carrots too. And if you don’t? Find another healthy option you do enjoy.

Batch cook and freeze. Use ice-cube trays to make small portion sizes so you can continue exposing new foods to your kids without huge waste. This also gives you the option to keep changing things up and present new food without making it the whole meal. By giving small amounts, kids still have their familiar favourites, while not getting overwhelmed by the unknown.

The way you speak to your child now will inform how they will eventually speak to themselves. You’re helping to shape their own inner critic, to hopefully be, well, a lot less critical. A gift every kid deserves to unwrap. An inner voice that speaks kindly and gently.

Text from Your Weight is Not the Problem by Lyndi Cohen. Murdoch Books RRP $32.99.

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