Eastside MamaMag Oct/Nov 2018

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mamaMAG Oct/Nov 2018

WIN 1 OF 4 FamIly passes to The Lost lands festIval Mamas of Melbourne edit George McEncroe One fine brand Time to glow Baby skin

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Cover image: Jess Worrall Photography www.jessworrall.com

FASHION FORWARD Yeah, yeah, I know. I put myself on the cover of my own magazine!! Hah ha! But why wouldn’t you?! We had soooo much fun at the recent #mamasofmelbEDIT photoshoot and the pics of my kids were just far too cute to not end up on the cover. Not my fault I just happened to be in there too! So what is all this mamas of Melb stuff you ask? Well the fabulous Holly from Motherhood Melbourne decided to get together a bunch of amazing mums, all whom help contribute to your journey through motherhood, for an epic fashion collab. Then she got a heap of gorgeous fashion brands to dress us and our kids, and we all got glammed up for the day, photographed, and the #mamasofmelbEDIT was created.

Holly is sharing each of these clever mama’s stories over on her blog, www.motherhoodmelbourne.com.au and you can read a bit about their inspiring stories here on page 6, as well as catch some great fashion tips from our stylist on the day, Karina Dyer. Jess Worrall was our amazing photographer and she has the best eye for capturing the kids’ personalities and was a dream to work with.

But enough about us, what else is news? Did you make it to the recent One Fine Baby Fair? We were so pleased to support the fair this year and it was such a fun event.

I put on a little colouring-in stand to entertain the kids so there were quite a few husbands hanging out there with their kids while the mamas shopped up a storm.

Good boys! We used the event to promote the launch of our Springfree trampoline giveaway too. To enable me to make MamaMag the best mag it can be, we decided we need to know more about you, the reader. So we are running a quick MamaMag survey to learn more about you, your family and what you like and need. Of course, we can’t expect you to fill in a survey without the chance of something fabulous in return. Everyone who completes our survey before October 31st has a chance to win an amazing Springfree Trampoline worth over $3k! Head to page 17 to find out more and good luck!

Till next time xxx

@localmamamag

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Local fun for everyone • Bayside • Eastside • Northside • Westside

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Contents Mamas of Melb edit

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7 mums making a difference

Mum’s taxi

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Talking to Shebah’s George McEncroe

One fine brand

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$248 each

Fun from the One Fine Baby Fair

Parklife 16 The new Verdant Park, Doncaster

Time to glow

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A mama’s retreat

Summer sorted

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Fashion and beauty picks

Baby skin

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Why care is so important

Mama can cook

Enter at https://woobox.com/u9xcnb or www.facebook.com/localmamamag

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Entries are open to Victorian residents only. Competition starts October 1st 12.01am and closes October 26th 2018 at 11.59pm. Entries and prizes are not transferrable or redeemable for cash. Visit www.mamamag.com.au for full terms and conditions.

Anti-wrinkle injections

Sun, skin and sisters

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Their melanoma fight

Lovely locals

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Middleborough Rd Box Hill South

Turn the page

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Our favourite new books

My cancer journey

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Silvana’s story

The bumblebee named Ron

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Teaching kids to care

Wardrobe crisis

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Having a style dilemma?

Angry children

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5 great ways to manage them

Spring declutter

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Keep, toss or donate?

Colour to WIN

5 minutes to beauty

MamaMag Oct/Nov 2018

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To face reality

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Tasty pizzas from Fernwood Fitness

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WIN 1 of 4 family day-passes to The Lost Lands Festival

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Health related articles are designed to be informative and educational. They are not intended to provide specific medical advice or replace one-on-one advice from your health practitioner.

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mamas of melb EDIT

It’s true what they say - “motherhood is the toughest hood you’ll ever go through”. Having access to the right information and support makes a huge difference to our confidence as mothers.

Recently, seven Melbourne mums came together for a fashion photoshoot with a twist.

Each one is on mission to help mums survive and thrive in motherhood. They want you to know that “you’ve got this” and if you feel like you don’t, they’d love to help.

Let’s meet the Mamas of Melbourne who can help you through different aspects of your motherhood journey and their kids who inspired them to act.

The shoot stylist - and owner of Personalised Style, Karina Dyer - will be sharing practical tips to help you nail Melbourne Spring fashion and feel confident trying new looks.

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Motherhood Melbourne motherhoodmelbourne.com.au Chief Mama - Holly Brunnbauer

Holly started Motherhood Melbourne to give everyday Melbourne mums a voice and a place to tell their own motherhood story. Holly says, “when it comes to motherhood, honest is the best policy” and that “it’s important that all mums are afforded the opportunity to share their real experience of it.” Motherhood Melbourne also promotes and hosts Mamafriendly events to encourage me-time and celebrates local businesses that make the Mama gig easier. A podcast has recently been added to the mix which features mighty Melbourne mums who are on a mission to help others.

STYLE TIP – The art of illusion dressing Something that I discuss a lot with my clients is illusion dressing. This is how you can minimise or enhance certain areas of your body and you can control where people’s eyes go, including your own. It is really important to look at all of the positives of our bodies and absolutely love them! By creating distraction in your most loved areas, you are instantly taking away any urge to look at areas of your body that you might be wanting to minimise. You can use accessories or a statement hat, lipstick, or even just a lighter colour in that area. This way, your eyes, and other’s eyes are drawn to your favourite areas. It will make you feel more confident and a lot more comfortable. Plus when you’re creating outfits, you will understand what you need to add, which will make it so much easier for you and save you time.

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mamamag.com.au Editor in Chief – Sarah Cavalier What initially began as a magazine for mums living in the Bayside area, has grown into an iconic FREE resource for all Melbourne mums.

Whilst it has allowed Sarah to use her design skills and carve out a career she loves, it’s become so much more than she imagined.

Sarah says “MamaMag has allowed me to meet so many amazing mums and locals in business and I love having a platform to be able to help showcase their ideas.” Sarah is proud to recently celebrate the 4th year of MamaMag and reach over 40,000 mums per issue.

STYLE TIP – Adding a hero piece When you’re creating your outfit, it’s a really good idea to think about what will be the hero piece. Is it a stunning print dress or top? Is it a bold feature on your outfit? Is it your accessories?

When you have this in mind it is so much easier to create the rest of your outfit. It takes the hassle out of figuring out what will go with what, because you already know what you’re starting with, then you only need to add your essential pieces to it and you have your outfit sorted. Next time you’re putting an outfit together, start with the hero and go from there!

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MumLife Australia mumlifeaustralia.com Lead-Mama – Ani Kumaralingam

MumLife Australia helps expectant parents begin their parenting journey with confidence.

Ani says, “everywhere I looked, I was faced with images of Perfect Mum. From Instagram to Mother’s Group – It seemed like there was a competition for that elusive title!” It was clear to Ani that she wanted to spread the message far and wide that perfect is not the standard when it comes to motherhood. Ani has made it her mission to prepare mums-to-be with realistic expectations. As the host of Beyond Birth, a fully immersive event experience, MumLife Australia arms expectant parents with the skills, resources and knowledge from a range of experts to help parents-to-be prepare for bringing their baby home.

STYLE TIP – Choosing the right formal outfit When you're heading out to a formal event, remember that you need to still be comfortable. As soon as you don’t feel comfortable, you also won’t feel confident. It shows in how we walk, how we talk, and how we hold ourselves. When you're looking for the perfect outfit, the cut of the dress is incredibly important. It needs to fit you in the right places and be designed to work with your figure, not against it. I was so impressed by the range that Revoque offer. Their dresses work so well with all different figures and they are really comfortable to wear because of the fabric and quality of each piece. Plus, they have the cutest dresses for your girls too!

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circlein.com.au Founders – Jodi Geddes and Kate Pollard Jodi and Kate met through work and felt connected by their shared experience of parental leave. They both found that when they returned to work, their confidence was shaken and that this was a common feeling among mothers. So together they have created a community that supports women to have careers and family. As a working mother you’ll find real stories, resources, podcasts and videos that can help you with the juggle. They’ve also launched Circle In for Business which is a stay in touch program that empowers and educates employees throughout their parental leave journey and beyond.

STYLE TIP – Supporting local mums in business Both kid’s labels, Tiny Finery and Frankie + Roy, are Melbourne mums who understand exactly how important it is to have kids in quality clothing. Tiny Finery have a great focus on using fabrics that are organic, and locally sourced where possible. Tiny Finery are available for boys and girls in sizes 00-6. Frankie + Roy, who Oliver and Finn are wearing, are incredibly high in quality and their fits are perfect for kids. Frankie + Roy are made entirely in Melbourne and are available for boys and girls in sizes 1-12 8

Natalie Roberts-Mazzeo

miraclemama.com.au - Founder Natalie provides soulful support for special needs mums. After her youngest daughter had a stroke, Natalie says, “I’ve since been on a mission to help her reach her full potential and in the process, she’s helping me reach mine.”

Through her work as a writer, speaker, coach and advocate, Natalie has created a community and sanctuary for mothers raising children with a diagnosis or disability. It’s a place to feel supported, empowered and inspired through this unique motherhood journey.

STYLE TIP – Rocking a maxi dress This Spring and Summer is all about the maxi dress! You will be seeing them flood the stores and that’s for a very good reason. They can be really flattering, comfortable and look absolutely stunning. But you want to make sure that you are choosing the right one for you. Look for one that comes in at the waist, and if it doesn’t, all you need to do is simply add a gorgeous waist belt to it. Maxi’s are also the perfect piece to dress up or down, you can wear them with casual flats, or a beautiful strappy wedge to take you through the night.

Australian Birth Stories

Founder - Sophie Walker australianbirthstories.com Despite planning for a drug free birth, Sophie ended up having a long labour with multiple complications and medical interventions.

This experience led her down a path of seeking out birth stories.

Whilst there were plenty out there, Sophie found there was a lack of podcasts that featured Australian women. After achieving a beautiful birth with her second son, Sophie decided to create the Australian Birth Stories podcast. The show has been downloaded over 500,000 times and is helping Australian women to find comfort in their birth choices and experiences.

STYLE TIP - Creating a versatile wardrobe We all want that stylish, versatile, comfortable and practical wardrobe, but how do we get it? When you’re adding to your wardrobe, think before you purchase. Can it be dressed up and down? Can you wear it with other garments to create different looks? Is it comfortable and does it match your personality and style? And most importantly, does it make you smile and feel good when you wear it? This is something that is really important, especially when you’re pregnant, because it’s best to add pieces that can be worn during pregnancy, but also, well after birth. Luckily, there are some beautiful pregnancy/breastfeeding and beyond labels, like Emilia Elliott and Max & Mee, who have gorgeous pieces that can easily be mixed and matched into your current wardrobe and will end up being your favourite go-to pieces! #mamasofmelbEDIT credits

Written by Holly Brunnbauer and Karina Dyer

Photography – Jess Worrall Photography Concept – Holly Brunnbauer (Motherhood Melbourne) Stylist – Karina Dyer (Personalised Style) Hair & Make-up – Tamarua Beauty Academy Clothes, shoes & accessories: Finding Allyse, Leesie, Emilia Elliott, Max & Mee, Revoque, Cammino, NC Label, Puggle Baby Australia, SmallPrint (Inner South East Melbourne & Bayside), SS Designs Handmade, Tiny Finery, Frankie + Roy, Just Ray, PaperKrane, Jack and Lu’s, Little Designer Club, The Loot Lab and Lucas Loves Cars.

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MUM’S TAXI Meet George McEncroe... This clever Melbourne mama has an extensive list of accolades including stand-up comedian, breakfast radio host, ABC producer, teacher, activist and all whilst playing mum to four kids. But her most recent role is that of Founder and CEO of Shebah, a ride sharing service operated by women for women. “I think every woman in the world gets told from the time she is born to not get in the car with a strange man and then every woman finds that at some point she has no option” said George. Until now that is.

So it’s MamaMag, we only talk to ace mums here! Tell us a bit about you and the kids.

I am a single mum to four teenage kids who I adore. They are always at the forefront of my mind and my daughter was my main inspiration for Shebah.

The idea for Shebah came when you were rock bottom, recently divorced and looking for more flexible work to support the kids.

How did the idea come about?

In early 2016, after my divorce where I lost my house, I discovered that no bank was going to loan me the money to buy another one on my paltry income. I had four teenagers to raise and four casual jobs. But no matter how hard I worked, I couldn’t earn enough to get the bank to give me a home loan to buy another house.

I was 47 and about to start driving Ubers in my spare time. But I was scared of being in a car, my own car, with men who I didn’t know and could be drunk, angry or violent.

I was also worried about my daughter having nights out with friends and coming home in ride-share or taxis. They were choosing to walk home from parties because they didn’t want to get into a stranger’s car. Women using these services and women driving for these platforms could all be at risk. I wanted to find a way to 12

make travelling safe for women while creating a safe working environment for other women as well. Thus Shebah was born.

There are some pretty low statistics about the number of women driving cabs and Uber.

Does this inspire you further?

Absolutely. We are living in a time where women are at risk and we as women need to stand together and find ways to break through the glass ceiling while still being safe. Only about four percent of cab drivers are female in Australia whilst women comprise about 10 percent of Uber drivers. The flexibility of ride-sharing income appeals to women juggling competing priorities and we can offer it without the fear of potentially volatile male passengers in the backseat.

Shebah provides a safe and secure way for woman to earn their own money. You encourage and empower them to control their finances. Tell us more about the women you have helped in ways beyond just a job driving.

At Shebah we not only allow women to work in a safe environment but we also provide free financial advise when they first start with Shebah to help them get the best out of their finances.

Shebah also pays more than any other ride sharing service and the drivers can take their babies with them. Sounds like a dream job.

Tell us more.

Yes! All mums can work with their children in the car which not only gets them back to work quicker but without the financial stress of paying for day care.

“I think every woman in the world gets told from the time she is born to not get in the car with a strange man and then every woman finds that at some point she has no option”

No doubt, whilst many women are cheering across Australia about your fab service, there are some negative comments about sexism and the like being slung your way.

What do you say to them?

We don’t have anything against men at Shebah and in fact we employ men in our HQ office.

However we just wanted to create a safe space for women to travel and for women to work.

Men have had that freedom forever so we are not taking that away from them, we are just adding an alternative for women.

Raising four teenagers alone can’t be easy. How do you balance both work and children?

I am Wonder Woman… You didn’t know?

No, seriously, I am lucky to be completely supported by my family and I have a wonderful team at Shebah HQ who work hard to make sure my vision is projected.

Any advice you can give to aspiring mums wanting to branch out and change careers, start up a business?

Do it! Being a mum is scary sometimes; if you can do that you can do anything. You won’t know until you try.

What can we expect next for Shebah?

We have lots more in the works especially from our tech team who work tirelessly to make our app user friendly. Watch this space because it’s only bigger and better things to come.

And finally, how do we start using Shebah?

Download the app in the App Store or on Google Play and you can find out more at she-bah.com.au

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ONE FINE BRAND Actually, lots! Mama had such a fun time at the One Fine Baby Fair recently.

With so many fabulous brands and biz-mamas under the one roof, we couldn’t help but sneak away from our own stand and introduce ourselves to some fab new (and old) brands at the fair! Check out our favourite finds... @littlenameco

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Parklife Verdant Park, Doncaster ‘Wowwwww, awesome!’ Surely this four year-old’s first impression is all you need to be convinced to take the kids along. Aimed more at the daredevils or pre-schoolers, this playground, part of Mirvac’s new Tullamore Estate, will not disappoint. Reminiscent of Jack and the Beanstalk, you can watch as they scale the steps to dizzying heights. They can either slide down the first windy slide they reach, or continue up a ladder to a giant nest and an even longer slide. Once they’ve done that eleventeen times, they’ll want to try out the flying fox, huge basket swing, and rope bridge.

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This new adventure playground is one of three in the estate – which is still very much in its development stage, so there’s plenty to do and lots of construction action going on everywhere. All three playgrounds are in walking distance of one another, and they’re all definitely worth visiting for every age and ability. BBQs, park benches, some shade, but not enclosed with fencing. The huge downside, though, is that there are no toilets or nearby cafés, so bring a picnic and an empty bladder!

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TIME TO GLOW Growing a tiny life inside is… beautiful and, beyond doubt life’s greatest gift. But, it is also exhausting, and at times stressful. Taking time to regenerate your body and mind, and embrace the journey is an important part of any pregnancy. We hear of health retreats all the time however, it is not often we hear of retreat’s that cater purely for deserving mum’s-to-be… until now that is.

With winter in full swing we set off down the surf coast to a pregnancy specific, wellness retreat. In three words… IT WAS MAGIC. Five women with six babies on board. We all had different stories to share and we were all at differing stages of pregnancy and life but, the one thing we had in common was that we were all carrying life’s most precious cargo.

Now, if you’re going to retreat for a few days you want it to be somewhere that feeds the soul, and somewhere not too far away. Enter ‘The Summer House’. Located in Torquay this stunning home sweeps you off your feet, and

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whisks you away from the moment you walk through the door. We all agreed that it would be very hard to wake up unhappy in this house.

Welcomed with beautiful gifts for mums and bubs, luxury body products from The Essentials and snuggly baby wraps from Goldie and Ace allowed all the ladies to feel special and completely loved up.

This warm and inviting space became our haven and a really special environment for five women to be heard and feel safe. There were countless cups of tea sipped while we watched the world pass by from the balcony, and the reading nook was the perfect spot to fill the normally neglected baby books.

In the evenings, we found ourselves spread across the large dining table enjoying fruit and cheese platters as we toasted our mocktails.

We continued to sit at the table all night long, scarring the first-time mum with our less favourable moments from childbirth (sorry Anna), looking to the future and sharing our

thoughts about what life will look like with our impending arrivals. We also touched on the hard stuff; miscarriages, newborn life with twins, fertility struggles and stillbirth. As one of our mummas shared her heart wrenching journey of losing her daughter at 37 weeks, there were tears, there were hugs and there was a tribe of women all bonding together to heal and grow.

Whilst there were deeply raw moments we also had plenty of laugh’s and lots of fun. We were lucky enough to try out Blossom and Glow’s gorgeous maternity collection, and let’s just say we are never taking off the lounge pants EVER! As any pregnant woman would tell you, we often don’t feel our best and clothes that fit well and feel great are hard to find, so it was extra special to indulge in a wardrobe of style and comfort!

We spent one of our mornings with amazing local photographer Monika Berry who helped capture our beautiful bellies and changing bodies and who made sure to remind us to embrace our bump’s and pose with confidence.

One thing we all agreed upon is that none of us took enough photos in our first pregnancy and we regretted it. The retreat was the perfect excuse to get snap happy and take those glowing shots to celebrate our bodies and the babies growing inside.

On our final afternoon we spent an hour in the on-site yoga studio with Jo from Revitilize Lifestyle. Jo guided us through a yoga class

that focused on gentle poses, breathing and mindfulness. It was the first time in many month’s we all had a chance to be nothing other than present.

Our weekend was everything we had hoped for. Questions were asked, worries were voiced, and experiences shared. Long, uninterrupted soaks in the bath were had and good food was shared. We all walked away a little more knowledgeable and grateful for the opportunity to make new friends. It was commonly agreed upon that a few days away to just be, and to happily talk all things babies was exactly what we needed, and we are now more ready than ever to welcome these babies earth side. *A huge Congratulations to Keely who has since welcomed her beautiful baby boy Eoin into the world over the weekend.

Retreat Team: Coordination @thevibetribegroup Accommodation @the_summer_house Arrival Gifts @goldieandace, @theessentials_airbnb Pre natal yoga/meditation @josurkitt Photographer @monika_berry Thank you to our amazing Mamas...

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Why Baby Skin Care is so important – It is not as simple as it seems Good baby skin care is hard to find, as most of us know, so how do we balance good effective skin care that is safe for our children?

My daughter had the most horrendous nappy rash. Like ‘no skin on her bum cheeks’ horrendous. Unbeknown to us at the time she was suffering from dairy intolerance, which at five weeks old is near impossible to diagnose.

I tried pretty much every cream I could afford but regardless, nappy changes would be traumatic…for all of us. When trying to get some mineral oil/petroleum concoction to stay on her bottom I started to think about how I was protecting her skin, could I actually be doing her more harm in the long run by using chemicals?

I recognised, like most mums just trying to get the job done, that I didn’t think about what I was actually putting on my daughter’s skin. How skin care is not just skin care. I had forgotten that about 60% of anything we put on our child’s skin is absorbed into their bodies, possibly affecting how their body functions.

Our skin is fantastic at absorbing things, especially in the nappy areas where the skin is incredibly permeable. I realised with horror that whatever I was putting on her bottom, (up to 10 applications a day in the first few weeks - eek) was definitely going to be absorbed into her system.

I needed to do some further research to calm my anxious mum mind. More often than not most of the chemicals present in our everyday baby care products should never be in our baby’s bodies. In products they are at higher levels than found in nature or are not encountered in nature at all!

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There is little scientific data on the long-term effects or build-up of most of these chemicals yet we do know that there can be three possible hazards to babies’ bodies from putting chemicals on their skin that should not be there: Toxic Load – Babies’ bodies cannot break down or dispose of everything that gets into their system. How long chemicals stay in the body can depend on two things: 1) can the substance be metabolised (broken down) by the body at all, and 2) what is the normal half-life (natural time to break down) of the chemical.

Factor in that baby is constantly absorbing, ingesting and inhaling numerous chemicals from the environment on a daily basis. Surely there is a chemical load you don’t want to add to.

Local Reactions – Some babies experience localised reactions from exposure to chemicals, even those found in nappies or baby wipes.

Reactions can vary from inflammation, burns to affecting the integrity of the skin barrier. Yikes.

Allergic Reactions – Rather than localised reactions, allergic reactions involve the whole body, activating the immune system to respond. Symptoms can vary from hives all over, skin itching or a runny nose, to asthmalike symptoms which can cause breathing difficulties and chest tightness. Not fun.

What are the effects of all these chemicals?

How can they affect our child’s health in the long-term? Scientists have proven that minute changes in body systems (at the cellular level) can increase the chances of developing cancer or other life-threatening chronic health conditions. That is now why a

number of products are being reformulated as ‘Paraben-free’. Parabens (commonly used baby care preservatives) have been found to induce four out of the six cellular changes that are the hallmarks of cancer in lab studies. Yep, frightening.

This is just an example of some the research that I did. You can understand how as a mum, scientist and aromatherapist I decided for my family’s benefit I needed to be able to trust the products I bought. If I couldn’t understand what was in them, or why, how could I trust them?

You have every right to choose what you put on your child’s skin, what enters their body and being educated is the key. I researched some common components in readily available baby products and I decided I didn’t want or need them to be in the baby skin care I used.

I wanted to give my family the best I could and until we can understand the full implications of some of the chemicals we are exposed to, I can make a choice to limit our exposure where I can. Remember that absence of studies does not mean that there isn’t any risk, it also doesn’t mean it’s unsafe either as there is nothing to work with.

With that I want to help other mums be informed consumers. I encourage you to make the choice that fits you and your family and know that your choice is what’s right for you.

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mama can Cook!

Chilli and garlic prawn pita pizza Ingredients:

Method:

1 wholemeal pita

1. Preheat oven to 180 degrees. Line baking tray with baking paper and place pita on top.

4 king green prawns 1/4 medium red onion 1/4 cup frozen green peas 4 small slices red chilli (optional) 1/2 tbs lemon juice 2 tbs parsley 1 clove minced garlic 1 tbs basil pesto 1 cup rocket 10g parmesan cheese

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2. Peel and devein prawns. Finely slice onion and garlic and chop fresh parsley and chilli.

3. Preheat nonstick frypan over medium heat.

Add prawns, garlic and frozen peas and cook, stirring for 1-2 minutes.

4. Spread pesto evenly on base of pita. Layer with onion, prawns, peas and red chilli. Sprinkle with parmesan and bake for 5 minutes or until crisp. Garnish with rocket and fresh parsley, and squeeze over lemon juice prior to serving.

Crispy eggplant lentil and hommus flatbread Ingredients:

Method:

1 wholemeal pita

1. Preheat oven to 200 degrees. Line baking tray with baking paper.

1 tbs hummus 2 tbs canned brown lentils 1/2 medium red onion 1 small eggplant 2 tbs basil 1 cup spinach 1 tsp olive oil 1 tsp minced garlic 1 tbs no fat Greek yoghurt 1 tbs lemon juice

2. Heat olive oil in griddle pan over medium heat. Slice eggplant into long thin strips. Season with salt and pepper and griddle for 3 minutes each side or until charred.

3. Spread hummus and minced garlic evenly over pita. Finely slice red onion and add to pita along with eggplant, basil, spinach and lentils.

4. Transfer to oven and cook for 12 minutes or until crisp. Serve alongside yoghurt mixed with lemon juice.

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wIth a lIttle help fr If you’ve ever been curious about what goes on with anti-wrinkle injections but wanted to avoid looking like a reality star, we’ve got the scoop from the experts.

Let’s face it, some days you’d like to feel a little fresher, or a little younger, or even as if you have been wearing SPF since the early days.

If you have been considering anti-wrinkle injections but still have a few questions before trying it, here are the answers to the five most common questions.

Will people notice?

The clever folks at Flawless Rejuvenation have been helping mama’s feel fresh and young looking for years now.

By visiting with qualified injectors, the response you will receive is more ‘wow you look fresh’ and ‘have you been away?’

When Medical Director, Dr. Sean Arendse decided to set up Flawless Rejuvenation Skin Clinics, his vision was to balance his senior emergency consultancy role at a leading hospital, by creating aesthetic clinics that raise the bar of safe practice in the cosmetic industry.

With most people wanting a natural and subtle look, experienced injectors take a ‘less is more’ approach to enhancing your natural beauty.

Dr. Arendse finds that people are most concerned about looking as if they’ve ‘had work done.’ “Most people who have antiwrinkle injections in our clinics for the first time are surprised at how fresh and natural they look after the treatment. People seem to notice the reality TV stars who are overdone.

With qualified injectors, the look should always be natural. We enhance, preserve and then maintain your natural beauty.” comments Dr. Arendse.

“Our clients are always commenting that they originally thought people would ask if they’d had anti-wrinkle injections. We work with our clients to add to their natural beauty, not to change it,” Dr. Arendse adds.

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“There are so many subtle adjustments that can be made to enhance facial symmetry. Every face is different and we are sure to treat them as such.”

Treatments are undertaken over a period of time so that subtle changes are gradual and not dramatic.

Different treatments have different recovery times. Anti-wrinkle muscle relaxants have little visible recovery, allowing you to head back to work or off to pick up while the treatment gets to work.

Does it hurt?

There is minimal pain associated with injectable treatments and varies from person to person.

The feeling is often described as similar to that of an ant bite, lasting for a few seconds.

Every face is different and we are sure to treat them as such.

rom my frIEnds How much does it cost?

Every face is unique, and every person wants to achieve different results. Cost of treatment depends on the individual needs and the treatment involved.

It’s imperative to look at experience and safety before cost. Marketing can be misleading, and some companies may advertise a lower cost to draw patients in.

It is important not to assume a lower cost will achieve the same outcome.

We asked Flawless Rejuvenation about their indicative costs: they use the two most wellknown brands for anti-wrinkle treatments.

Cost begins at $6 per unit (up to $16 per unit) including a complimentary consultation. This equates to the forehead area around $90 and crows feet or frown lines around $320.

Who can I trust?

Dr. Arendse warns to ensure your injectable treatments are carried out only by qualified Doctors and appropriately trained and supervised Division 1 registered nurses.

How long do anti-wrinkle injections last?

The effects of facial injections typically last three to four months, but they can last longer with ongoing treatment.

The effects wear off very gradually which means you can make small touch-ups over time and keep that “wow you look fresh” look.

You can find Dr. Sean and his team at Flawless Rejuvenation (Hampton and Toorak) 9598 5333 flawlessrejuvenation.com.au

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skIn, sun and sIsters Approximately two in three Australians will be diagnosed with skin cancer by the time they are 70. But skin cancer is not a disease that only affects seniors. Melanoma is the most common cancer in young Australians aged 15 to 39. In fact, Australia has one of the highest rates of melanoma in the world and melanoma is often referred to as ‘Australia’s national cancer’.

My sister and I felt the full weight of that statistic when Naomi was diagnosed with melanoma in 2014. I had spotted a suspicious mole on Naomi and suggested she get it checked out. But it really highlighted the importance of life-long sun protection for us.

Following successful surgery to remove the melanoma we went shopping for sun protective swimwear. However, we were really disappointed with the limited options available.

It was mostly ugly rash shirts that were very unflattering. Naomi and I wanted to protect ourselves from the sun, but that didn’t mean we had suddenly lost all interest in fashion.

Approximately two in three Australians will be diagnosed with skin cancer by the time they are 70.

So we decided to solve this problem with the launch of our own swimwear label, MARA swim. But it’s not just maximum skin coverage that is important, maximum UPF factor is also important when considering your purchase for superior sun protection. UPF 50+ is the highest Australian classification of sun protection.

We have partnered with Melanoma Institute Australia which holds great importance to us.

It gives us the ability to give back which means we are able to contribute to vital research for melanoma, which will continue to help save lives. This partnership also gives us updates on latest melanoma research, advancements and access to expert advice, as well as opportunities to participate in corporate events, and fundraisers for the charity.

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We want to do all we can to create more awareness of melanoma and the Melanoma Institute of Australia. It is an organisation that has a very special place in our heart.

Sun protection messages are the genuine base of everything we do, and definitely help drive us each day.

We encourage everyone to change their perspective on the importance of sun protection - not just women. By creating a luxurious and unique range of long sleeve one-pieces, swim tops and swim pants, we are providing not only beautiful swimwear but also a lifesaving gift – which is the label’s greatest achievement. Over exposure to ultra violet (UV) light causes 95% of melanoma – pretty clear proof that prevention is the key to avoiding it. The best way to prevent melanoma is to protect your skin from the sun.

By Kirsty Parnell, MARA SWIM AUSTRALIA www.maraswim.com.au @maraswimau.

Naomi and Kirsty’s passion is to educate and change the way people believe sun safety looks, by giving women the choice of personal style and luxury in their sun protection.

What to look out for The first symptom of a melanoma is usually the appearance of a new spot, or a change in an existing freckle or mole. The change may be in size, shape or colour and is normally noticed over several weeks or months.

The ABCDE guidelines provide a useful way to monitor your skin and detect the early signs of melanoma. Please note that this is just a guide and melanoma may present with different characteristics. This is why regular skin checks from a professional are so important.

Please seek expert advice if you notice any of the following: A is for ASYMMETRY: One-half of a mole or birthmark does not match the other.

B is for BORDER irregularity: The edges are irregular, ragged, notched, or blurred.

C is for COLOUR variation: The colour is not the same all over, but may have differing shades of brown or black, sometimes with patches of red, white, or blue.

D is for DIAMETER: The area is larger than 6mm (about the size of a pencil eraser) or is growing larger.

E is for EVOLVING: Changes in size, shape, colour, elevation, or another trait (such as itching, bleeding or crusting). This last point is likely the strongest of all of the warning signs.

If you see a strange new mole on your skin or an old mole that’s started changing be sure to see your doctor right away, because an early diagnosis makes a big difference in your outcome.

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1. Rolf’s Pies – For comfort food Did you know there’s an official Great Aussie Meat Pie competition?

This pie shop regularly wins awards for theirs, but they’re nothing like the sloppy (questionable) meat pies of your youth. How does a Canadian maple, Bombay lamb, or tom yum hot and spicy seafood pie grab you?

Pick up a family-sized one next time you don’t feel like cooking dinner.

While you’re there, check out their mouth-watering sweet tooth menu, or book them in to cater for your next party.

181 Middleborough Road. www.rolfspies.com 2. No Fuss Kitchens – For home renovators

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If you watch The Block, you’re probably tempted to rip out your kitchen and start again. These talented guys will design, custom-make, and install your cabinetry to fit any budget. Head to their website to check out their stunning portfolio.

311 Middleborough Road. www.nofusskitchens.com 3. PetStock – For your pets

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Fur babies can sometimes be more demanding than human ones.

Thankfully this place has everything you need to care for your pet – an animal hospital, grooming service, hydrobath, puppy school, doggy daycare, cat boarding, plus every product imaginable to keep them healthy and happy. If only it was that simple with the kids!

Shop 4,313 Middleborough Road. www.petstock.com.au 4. Wallies Lollies – For the kid in you Lollies aren’t just for kids. The owners of this family-run store know what appeals to mamas. They suggest making champagne cocktails with their cotton candy; or buying a kilo bag of Lindt balls to keep you cosy on the couch at night once the kids have gone to bed. If you’re worried Willy Wonka won’t let you out alive, you can always order from the safety of your laptop.

Unit 8, 205 Middleborough Road. www.lolly.com.au

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5. Café Rubix – For the foodies

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You won’t find an innovative menu like this in too many cafés. Try and decide between open lamb gyros, Peking duck bao, fish with five types of chips, or pulled beef Benedict. Wash it down with some colourful latte art, butterfly pea tea, Aero milkshake, or infused cold drip coffee.

519 Middleborough Road. www.restaurantwebexpert.com/CafeRubix 6. Lose it with Laser – For your body Most mamas have very little time for self-care, but with summer around the corner, the kids are going to want us to get into the pool with them or play at the beach so that means time to de-fuzz. Christine offers waxing, cosmetic tattooing, a range of skin and IPL treatments as well as teeth whitening. Or you can just ‘lose it with laser’ for a more permanent hair removal option which will save you time in the long run!

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PET EXPO A paw-some day out for the whole family!

Saturday 17 November 2018 8am-1pm

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Demonstrations Competitions and prizes Workshops Expert advice Pet-related stalls Furry friends (on leads) welcome

turn the page Lemonade Jones by Davina Bell and Karen Blair Lemonade Jones likes to ask lots of questions and does not like rules - warm, funny stories for the beginning reader about a girl who likes to ask ‘why?’

There are a lot of rules that don’t interest Lemonade Jones. No running in the classroom, not even in an emergency. Dangerous animals should be in cages.

No biting. (Not even your worst enemy.)

But it’s especially hard to stick to the rules when you’re making life loud and exciting. And Lemonade Jones likes it when loud and exciting things happen.

Two delightful stories about Lemonade Jones – a feisty girl with a lot of fizz!

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Watch This! by Hilary Walker, Jane Godwin and Beci Orpin Watch This! is a groundbreaking modern photographic picture book about children using their bodies to make sense of shapes in a playful way, from three highly-acclaimed Australian creators.

Can you make a circle with your arms? Or a triangle with your fingers?

If we work together, we can make a rectangle, or even a pyramid.

We can make lots and lots of shapes – just watch this!

A bold and playful celebration of movement, energy, pattern, colour and shape!

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Fairytales for Feisty Girls by Susannah McFarlane.

Feisty: typically describes one who is relatively small, lively, determined and courageous.

Renowned girl hero and feisty author Susannah McFarlane presents an illustrated collection of ‘tilted’ fairytales featuring girls with smarts. Girls can rescue themselves - just watch Rapunzel, Little Red Riding Hood, Cinderella and Thumbelina create their own happily ever afters in this beautiful and emboldening bedtime book. A glorious treasury for young girls – and boys.

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From Dinosaurs to Diprotodons: Australia’s Amazing Fossils Ever met a thingadonta or seen a fangaroo? What about a gigantic titanosaur or a mighty diprotodon? Come on an Aussie fossil adventure and explore prehistoric life down under. Discover amazing animals unique to Australia.

Danielle Clode, the award-winning author of Prehistoric giants: the megafauna of Australia, takes you to the best fossil sites so you can learn about the incredible animals that once roamed this ancient land.

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My CANCER JOURNEY My journey with breast cancer began on August 1st 2016. I was 36 years old, a wife and mother of 2, fit and healthy working as a personal trainer, and 2 months out from completing a full marathon.

I found a lump under my left armpit in 2015 so I visited my GP and had an ultrasound which came back that I had fibroadenoma. My GP asked me to keep an eye on the lump and if it hadn’t disappeared that I would need to come back and see him in 6 months. At this stage, I was not concerned at all and went about my busy life running around after my children, husband and my personal training business.

One night while relaxing, I decided to have a feel around and check my breasts – not something I did consistently. I always thought breast cancer was something older women had to worry about. As I was feeling around I felt a lump in my left breast, a small one, but it was definitely a lump. So I booked myself into see my GP again, he advised me that all was ok, there was nothing to worry about. But for some reason I wasn’t convinced.

“I decided to have a feel around and check my breasts – not something I did consistently, I always thought breast cancer was something older women had to worry about.“ After waking up with a sharp pain in the lump under my arm, I made an appointment with a specialist who booked me into surgery to remove the lump. A few weeks later at my follow up appointment with the specialist, he broke the news that I had breast cancer.

It rocked my world. I thought ‘who gets breast cancer at 36, I am fit and healthy, I don’t smoke, I hardly drink, I am a healthy weight… I’m doing everything I am supposed to do to live

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a healthy life’. I was at this appointment on my own, so my surgeon called my husband Chris and asked him to come down to the consulting suite. I remember breaking into a sweat and asking my surgeon if I could go outside for fresh air and wait for Chris. When I saw Chris he knew something was terribly wrong, we embraced and I could feel his heart thumping.

I cried in his arms and told him that I had breast cancer.

The days following my diagnosis I felt like I was in slow motion, while the rest of the world was moving forward. At night I would wake up so many times from my sleep and kept wishing it was all a bad nightmare. I didn’t know how to deal with it. I was trying to remain strong, not only for me, but for my family. It was so difficult trying to hide my feelings, emotions, fears and worries from my children and continuing to do all my motherly duties while inside I was a complete mess.

“The days following my diagnosis I felt like I was in slow motion, while the rest of the world was moving forward.”

Once we had all the information, Chris and I sat Mariah (10 years old) and Jacob (8 years old) down and told them the news. We reassured them that I was tough and I was going to get through it all. We told them everything we knew and promised not to hide anything from them moving forward. It was so difficult telling the kids and seeing how emotional they got.

On October 14th I had my first chemotherapy.

I tried the cold cap in order to keep my hair but after my first session I could not follow through with it. It felt like I had a constant brain freeze and then after the treatment I couldn’t stay warm. I remember even going to bed with my beanie on. By my second treatment I had started to lose my hair. Eventually I lost all the hair on my head, my eyelashes, most

of my eyebrows and all the hair on my body. I tried to not look at myself in the mirror because I just did not recognise the person staring back at me. I received 6 months of chemotherapy – 4 FEC, 11 x Taxol and finished at the end of February 2017.

Radiation followed shortly after chemotherapy finished. I had 30 sessions. I had to use the holding of my breath method as the radiation was on my left breast and neck area.

Holding my breath ensured that my heart moved a little to the right and it didn’t get any radiation. By the end of radiation I was feeling so fatigued, but grateful that my skin held up and didn’t blister.

Since treatment I have a new zest for life. I am a breast cancer survivor and I am going to live life to the fullest.

Breast cancer has changed me but I believe it’s for the better. I no longer sweat the small stuff, I no longer take life for granted. I am grateful for my medical team, my friends and my family who got me through the biggest battle of my life.

“Life is precious and every day is a blessing!”

x Silvana

Show your support to Silvana and other breast cancer sufferers by joining the Carmen’s Woman’s Fun Run on December 2nd 2018, St Kilda.

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The Bumblebee Named Ron How do you inspire your kids to care about the Earth and the environment? Well, what if your main task is to empower them to be what they already are: immensely caring.

Most children are born caring about everything, from a tiny ant, to the biggest, most beautiful tree in the forest.

They don’t come into the world with the judgement that a person is better than a dog, or a dog better than a frog, or a frog better than a flower.

For them, it all starts out as magic. Just think of all the different collections of wooden sticks and grey little stones that you’ve found in their pockets: nature’s own treasures and toys. It is actually this society that teaches them – and once taught us – to judge it as throwaway things, with little value.

I still remember when my daughter was six years old and a big bumblebee flew into our apartment. It flew around, increasingly confused, and kept bumping into everything.

I tried several times to shoo it in the direction of an open window, with little luck.

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My daughter’s eyes were wide as she watched the flight of the bumblebee. After a while, she named the bumblebee Ron and grew increasingly concerned about the fact that he may lose his family if he stayed with us too long.

Finally, I managed to catch the bee in a glass jar and carefully carried it out on the balcony and set it free. My daughter and I watched it fly away into the sky. When my daughter looked up at me, she was beaming and she said; “Mum, you’re a hero!”

Now, this may just seem like a simple, sweet story but it actually marks an important in how you can invite your kid to care about the environment. Here are some tips to empowering your children to care more about our precious Earth:

#1. Encourage your kids to have a personal relationship with nature!

Let them name the bumblebees, ants and frogs, and talk to them about their families and lives.

Inspire them to find their own special, secret places and hideouts in the “wild” – like a nearby park, beach or even your own backyard – and maybe tell them about yours, from once upon a time. Let them keep all those treasures they find, and admire them together, mud and all!

# 3. Show them what you love!

If you would like your kids to care about Earth, share with them them what you truly enjoy about our planet!

Sleep under the stars, plant a tree, watch the sunset, even owning a pet, will show your children what you love and appreciate about our precious planet. True joy is next to irresistible and very contagious. Especially if someone we trust and love introduces it to us, like our parents.

Even though my daughter is now a teenager and she’s no longer naming bumblebees, and doesn’t like being told what to do, she still acknowledges what I shared with her during her childhood, and has developed an intelligent and eco-conscious mind.

I even encourage her to create lists of things we can be and do as a family, that would contribute to the planet. And I plan to listen to her.

That is my last and most important tip.

#4. Trust that your kids know

#2 Show them that you care Yes, saving a bumblebee may seem like a small, silly thing, and sometimes not even possible.

Your kids, especially when they’re young, do and be what you do and be… not so much what you tell them.

So if you care about animals, this will show them that animals are worth caring about.

If you turn off the lights when you leave the house, sort your garbage and cycle to work, it will show them that those things are actually important to do.

Your kids function like big radio receivers and pick up information from everyone and everywhere. They know more than you’ve probably ever dared to imagine. So, ask them questions and honour their point of views and suggestions for the planet.

That, more than anything else, will inspire and empower them to continue caring, well into teenage and adulthood.

By Katarina Wallentin.

Author of Clara & the Climate Changer and The Baby Unicorn Manifesto. www.claraandtheclimatechanger.com

You are your child’s heroes and role models, so it’s important to be conscious of your choices and lead by example.

“Mum, you’re a hero!”

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wardrobe crIsIs Let’s be honest the mum life/mum juggle is real, so real. I know so many women who now fall into the category of the ‘modern day mum’.

We juggle work, kids, home life, social life and everything in between.

Having studied personal styling and personal brand I realised there was an opportunity to help others who were perhaps also experiencing a ‘wardrobe crisis’. With my passion, combined with my own personal transformation of being a mum, and I started to realise that what you wear can have such an impact on your day to day life.

I often refer to the phrase ‘you are what you dress’. The reason for this is that your clothing can not only make you feel good, it can actually have a strong connection with your attitude, behaviour, confidence and self-esteem.

I see personal styling as more than a service for celebrities. It’s a way of investing in yourself, to fill your emotional bucket. As mums, we often don’t prioritise ourselves and I know that through feeling good about yourself that you will not only be able to pour from a full cup, but you will also have a positive mindset and that will in turn help you be the best version of yourself.

I believe that personal style starts in your wardrobe and if you don’t have the foundations set up right it has a direct impact on your life.

I think it’s really important to highlight that the role of a personal stylist is to identify with an individual rather than a particular fashion brand or product. Throughout all of my packages this is the part I love the most. Forming an understanding and connection with my clients around their lifestyle, body shape and expectations.

My role as a personal stylist is to make people more aware of the influences clothing has on them and to help them understand how changing their clothes can change their mood and their thoughts.

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People can sometimes feel overwhelmed with the thought of hiring a personal stylist, when in actual fact it’s our role to remove the overwhelm from your life when it comes to getting dressed. Imagine starting everyday with ease? Opening your wardrobe and feeling good about what’s hanging in it?

Having worked with so many different women across very different lifestyles, it’s been the most rewarding experience. To hear a client say that the experience was ‘life changing’ is simply an honour.

The benefits of investing in a personal stylist is far greater than you think. After you’ve experienced a styling service you will have greater confidence, more me time, more money in your pocket and no more wardrobe stress each morning!

Within your wardrobe lie the secrets to looking good and feeling great! Your wardrobe should be a feel good zone, not a zone of fear.

Together we can work through this personal journey, which I can guarantee leads you to success.

By Hayley Alcock, The Suburbanstylist, www.thesuburbanstylist.com.au

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5 ways to help your child manage anger Whether it’s because of not getting the treat he wants or fighting with his sister over a toy, all children get angry at times. Often it is a reaction to frustration, stress, disappointment or simply when a child doesn’t get their own way.

Child psychologist, mum and author of children’s book, The Day My Brain Went Crazy, Michelle Karavas shares her five top tips of how parents can help their children manage their anger in a healthy and positive way.

1. Use an emotional vocabulary with children It is important to teach children that all feelings are healthy and normal; however, children often need tools to learn how to best manage their emotions. Using an emotional vocabulary with children is important as it normalises it for them, and shows the child that you accept and validate their feelings e.g. “Oh that must be so frustrating for you” or “I can see that you look sad”.

2. Use visuals As children understand and communicate at different levels, visuals (or pictures) can also be used to help a child communicate. It is a great tool to help them see and understand what they are being asked to do, especially 42

when they are in a highly emotional state.

Visuals give the child the ability to process the information in their own time and act as a cue to inform children what they can do and simplify the message by breaking it down into small achievable steps. For example developing a calm chart together e.g. when I get angry I can: Jump on trampoline, punch a pillow, and kick a ball.

3. Teach body warning signs Parents can begin by teaching their child to look for the warning signs in their body when they start to feel angry. For example children will say their heart is beating fast or their face is turning red. It is a good idea to make children aware that their body is their best friend and their body will give them warning signs to let them know when they are feeling a particular way. As adults we can help children tune into these warning signs so they can learn to better self-regulate.

4. Role-model It is important for parents to model how they effectively manage their own feelings. By acting calmly we can help reassure children that they are capable of successfully managing their own difficult feelings.

5. Praise your child This is important to do when you see your child managing their anger in a helpful way. By getting down onto your child’s level and praising them shows your child you are noticing them for good behaviour not just when they are not doing the right thing. This can help boost your child’s selfesteem and increase their motivation to do well. Being specific with praise e.g. “I really liked the way you walked away from your brother when he snatched the toy off you” tells your child what they specifically did well, as opposed to saying “well done for not getting angry”.

The Day My Brain Went Crazy is a children’s book designed to help children who find it help children who find it difficult to self-regulate and manage their anger.

Michelle was inspired to write the book after working with many children – including her own – to help them better understand and deal with their anger. The book helps children learn helpful strategies for managing their temper in an easy to understand and practical way.

The Day My Brain Went Crazy can be purchased from Amazon and www.michellekaravas.com.au

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Spring Declutter Why we all need it, and how to tackle it without inflicting too much pain How many times have you asked yourself “do I need it, should I buy it and will I wear it”?

If you’re like a lot of us, I’m sure way too many!

In many cases the item in question ends up making its way into our wardrobes even if the answers are no! It’s “just in case”, or for... “when we lose those couple of extra kilos”.

Justifications of “it was on sale”, or “the last one in stock”, or my personal favourite, “I can always take it back”, helps us feel better about the purchase, for a short time at least.

This might be a generalisation I admit, but us ladies (and I am guilty here too!), do tend to fill our spaces with way too much stuff that we never use. Having said that, please don’t think I’m suggesting our male counterparts are any different because I can assure you, through my “We Sort You” work experiences, they are just as guilty as we are, although they would probably argue differently!

As a result of this decluttering and sorting has become an essential requirement in every home. My motto of “declutter your stuff, uncover your life” is so true, and has been proven over and over by our clients who repeatedly express their sense of relief and feeling of lightness once I have done my job of sorting their wardrobe.

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For many, hiring someone who is not emotionally attached, yet sensitive and understanding, makes the task at hand that much easier, and in many cases ends up being a cleansing experience that starts in the wardrobe but invariably moves through the entire house!

But if you’re tackling it yourself I suggest the method of three piles - one to keep, one to throw out and one to donate to charity. This always works well and “giving forward” adds to the process. We all know that one person’s trash is another person’s treasure.

Whether it be the wardrobe, pantry, laundry or toy cupboard, it’s important to empty the entire space, clean it thoroughly and systematically replace, label and organise the area to be functional and easy to maintain for all of the family. Use tubs, baskets and other sorting systems to make items easy to recognise, ensure it is user-friendly and to optimise the space! You will get back your home and your time, allowing more time to be spent with family and friends.

So, when it comes to dealing with what seems a task that is too hard to tackle, be assured there is another way, and that it doesn’t have to be as painful as you think. On the contrary, it can be an experience that not only has a fantastic end result but is cathartic and rewarding at the same time!

By Jenny Selleck, We Sort You, the creative and smart way to “sort you”. www.wesortyou.com.au

WIN One of the most-read and famous children’s books of all time, ‘The Very Hungry Caterpillar’ emerges off the page in a masterful theatrical experience for the whole family. This enchanting show features a menagerie of 75 lovable puppets, faithfully adapting four of Eric Carle’s timeless stories, ‘The Artist Who Painted a Blue Horse’, ‘Mr Seahorse’, ‘The Very Lonely Firefly’ and of course the star of the show – ‘The Very Hungry Caterpillar’.

Saturday 1 December, 10am show.

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TO FACE REALITY Imagine being able to wake up, spend no more than five minutes on your beauty routine and leave the house looking radiant and ready for the day. Sounds nice, right?

Thin, patchy, light, shapeless or having no brow hair at all, microblading creates shape and fullness to the brow resulting in an effortless and natural look tailored for your face. A quick internet search will bring up some pretty amazing ‘before and after’ photos but be warned, you’ll have major brow envy!

Now, the reality of being a busy mum snaps you back into real life and you think- ‘even if there were magically a spare five minutes of solitude available and I somehow miraculously made the decision to spend that time on my appearance, the reality is that putting anything on my face is up against grimy hands and snotty kisses. Kids-1, Mum-0.

Microblading consists of two treatments. During the first initial treatment, your consultant will discuss your desired outcome – this is where your research will come in handy so you can talk shape, fullness and colour. Next, an outline of your new brow will be drawn on. Once you are happy with this the microblading begins!

There are, however, quick things you can do to make your beauty routine more efficient and long-lasting. Sunscreen, moisturising lotion and daily cleansing are all necessary to ensure your skin stays hydrated and refreshed. When it comes to defining your features though, there is one treatment which guarantees your face is framed and ready to go with no time required Eyebrow microblading.

Eyebrow microblading is a semi-permanent tattoo performed by a qualified professional to scratch pigment in fine ‘hair-like’ strokes into the skin using a hand tool rather than a tattoo machine. This hand tool allows the consultant to have more precision and control over the placement and shape of the strokes.

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On the pain scale, most clients compare microblading with laser hair removal and brow threading. The body can be more sensitive just before or after menstruating so if this applies to you, try to arrange your appointments around these times. Artists however will normally use a topical anaesthetic during the procedure to ensure the client is comfortable for the whole treatment. After your first session your brow can sometimes be a shade darker and the area will scab and fall off revealing the final result.

The second treatment, 4-6 weeks later, is essentially a retouch. Here, your consultant will go over the brow, reinforcing the strokes and making any adjustments to the shape and fill to ensure the precision and longevity of the tattoo is accomplished.

As with any tattoo, the brow will begin to fade over time. Factors that increase fading include sun exposure, oily skin, lighter pigments, laser treatments and skin peels. A ‘refresh’ treatment is suggested every 12-18 months to ensure the brows continue looking fresh and defined.

You can find microblading treatments ranging from $350 specials to $1000 packages, and as tempting as a cheaper alternative might be, just remember this is your face we’re talking about!

Ask a consultant to see their studio. Is the area clean? Are the microblading pens sterile?

How are the pigments stored? How old are the pigments? What are the pigments made of?

Ask to see some of the consultant’s previous client work. Ask about treatment and follow up procedures. Does the consultant have specific microblading qualifications? You may pay more,

but it is crucial you ensure only the highest quality pigment and equipment will be used for your treatment.

In the end, your brow will only ever be as good as the consultant’s abilities. They are an artist and your face is the canvas. Choose wisely and you are guaranteed brilliant brows that are no-maintenance and will survive those grimy hands and snotty kisses!

By Elley Mensa, Elley J. Mensa Cosmetic Tattoo, Park Orchards. www.elleyjmensacosmetictattoo.com

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