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A Taste of Melanin is a bi-weekly podcast hosted by Ashlee and Stephaney discussing lifestyle, relationships, business and more. Their goal is to uplift and motivate black women and men to live and be the best version of themselves. Also, to bring awareness to what young black women deal with in the dating world. Lastly, to shine a light on being authentic and how you shouldn’t feel guilty for wanting the best for yourself. They are also really big on getting the males perspective on everyday life situations.

You can find A Taste of Melanin live on Apple and Spotify.


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Native Mississippians, James and Natasha both have more than 14 years of experience in their respective fields of education (Natasha) and graphic design and ministry (James). In 2013 they decided to undergo an 18-month transition towards full-time entrepreneurship and homeschool education for their son, James III. After completing the System Mastery Course, James and Natasha published their first co-authored book, Our Story – A Journey to Purpose. The release of this book not only set them on the path to produce over 30 published authors, it revealed their purpose as a couple – to be the comprehensive elements of love, marriage and partnership. After discovering their purpose, James and Natasha invested time and other resources in developing themselves to align with the vision that had been given. Their work produced opportunities to produce a magazine Love, Marriage & Partnership – the Review, a VIP Awards program recognizing entrepreneurs and community leaders, speaking engagements domestically and internationally, instructional courses for singles and married couples, nine published books and recognized by the state’s current governor as BE Mississippi’s top business couple of the year and Mississippi Business Journal’s Top Entrepreneur. With their platform of love, marriage and partnership along with their desire to edify excellence in entrepreneurship and leadership, James and Natasha use their magazine as a resource for those looking for tools to add to their relationship and business arsenals. In all that they do, James and Natasha desire to keep God the center and love people. The byproduct of that desire is to impact, inspire and initiate purpose in the lives of 10 million people while promoting and being evidence of PositiveMississippi

“In all that they do, James and Natasha desire to keep God the center and love people.”


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Fall is here! We encourage you to look at where you are and where you decided to be at the beginning of the year, and truly celebrate the goals that you set, take responsibility to stay on track, and simply be grateful for it all. As we honor excellence and share love across many platforms, we charge you to welcome a new season in your life and embrace the journey of significance. IN THIS ISSUE OF LOVE, MARRIAGE & PARTNERSHIP THE REVIEW, be inspired to use a few new things, get organized, or take your love experience to a new level of being, giving and having. COUPLES IN PARTNERSHIP This feature is the heart of the publication, so become acquainted with phenomenal couples from all over that are building businesses and serving their communities through a loving partnership. DATE NIGHT IDEAS Do more than flirt with the idea of Date Nights, make a commitment. These sweet notions will spark dedication for that much desired QT whether you’re single, just having fun, or in a committed relationship. ON THE LOOKOUT Consider yourself well informed of this set of business owners and public figures that are impacting their respective fields with grace, style and so much more. The views expressed by featured individuals are independent of LMP and its publishers.


LOVE, MARRIAGE & PARTNERSHIP | THE REVIEW is a monthly publication sponsored by MR & MRS KING that focuses on married couples that are in partnership with each other through service and/or business to their communities and abroad. The goal of the LMP | THE REVIEW is to inspire readers to look at the essence of partnership in marriage as shared by exemplary couples, ultimately moving readers to actively define, develop,

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UNITY UNITY UNITY UNITY FROM THE DESK OF JAMES & NATASHA KING

I’m all about peace. I’m all about unity. I’m all about love. DJ Khaled


There are some things you cannot unhear, some experiences that will forever be with you. One of those experiences was being a young middle school student riding in the passenger seat with my mom after school. She worked at the elementary school around the corner from the school I attended, so the bus would drop me off at her place of employment and I would spend my afternoons there until she got off work. This wasn’t one of the days where she let me listen to “my” radio station. No, it was the usual gospel or old school classics which I also enjoyed. As the station went into its series of advertisements, a campaign commercial came on. It was a city official with a big boisterous voice. At the time, my interest level was minimal until he closed out with his last statement, “…I urge you to join me…” The outburst of laughter I let out in that car caused my mom to clench the steering wheel and look at me in utter disbelief. I was carrying on so much she laughed as well, barely getting out her question, “What’s gotten into you?” The gentleman’s voice was decked out with every bit of southern comfort as he seemed to sing “uuuurge you to jonnnn me!” Years later I still remember that moment. Now, why share this story? We urge you to join us in bringing a greater sense of harmony into your life. There is no balance in life and the past couple of years should provide great evidence of that. Instead, there is a chord that blends different aspects of your life into a piece that flows with grace. Guard your gateways. Be conscious of what you are hearing, speaking, and seeing. These disciplines determine the connections that you make. To unite is to bring something together. Now think about the many aspects of wellness: spiritual, emotional, physical, social, financial, mental, occupational, and environmental. What area needs work? If there is a disconnect, a lack of harmony, imagine the sound that’s coming from this area in your life. Is it more than one area? Are you moving through your days sounding like the choir in Sister Act before Sister Mary Clarence started working with them? In past issues we’ve talked about new seasons and harvest, however embracing newness is in vain if it is accompanied with no unison. Stop now and be grateful for where you are. Decide on what areas of your wellness you will focus on uniting. Believe that the harmony that you desire in your life is yours now. Create the circumstances that you want by continuously speaking and hearing the truth about who you are, what you do and what you have. When you are careful to do these things, you will attract that which you most genuinely desire. We urge you to join us in declaring and expecting the most harmonious sense of unity in your life. Unite.


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Kevin is from Jackson, Ms. and Thristina is from Clinton, Ms. Even though they grew up just a few miles apart, they met while living miles away. It all started with a DM from Kevin confessing his love for Thristina even though he had never met her. However, since that day they have never missed a day of talking. Later, Kevin moved to Dallas to be with Thristina, and the rest is history. They have 4 handsome sons through Kevin and an adorable Morkie named Anu. They have been married for 3 years now and one of their favorite traditions is participating in Christmas activities and traveling every year for their anniversary.


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WHAT IS THE MEANING OF MARRIAGE TO YOU? The meaning of marriage to me is making the active choice every day to do life with someone that you genuinely and whole heartedly want to do life with. WHAT DOES "BECOMING ONE" MEAN TO YOU AND WHAT DO YOU DO TO WORK TOWARDS IT? Becoming one to me is being able to be our whole self separately so that we can come together to reach all the goals of our marriage. WHAT IS THE MOST REWARDING THING THAT YOU HAVE ACCOMPLISHED TOGETHER? We have worked together to get our credit on track. This is a goal that we were working towards to get the ideal house for us. HOW DO YOU GROW YOURSELVES WITHIN THE RELATIONSHIP? HOW DO YOU GROW THE RELATIONSHIP? We take many reality checks. We take the time to also check our feelings. When we feel a certain feeling, we want to make sure that we are speaking to each other respectfully and from a place of love not anger at all times.


HOW DO YOU NOT FOCUS ON THE SUBJECTIVE AND RELATIVE STUFF AROUND YOU AND FOCUS ON THE TRUTH? We have to check ourselves and what we believe is true. We also have to block out things that may not be of value to our marriage. WHO DO YOU SEE WHEN YOU SEE YOUR SPOUSE? I see my personal hero. My husband is an operations supervisor and critical care paramedic, and I am blessed to have a real life super hero in my life. He not only looks like one, but he has the brains to back it. WHAT ARE SOME BENEFITS OF HAVING A SHARED VISION? When our vision is coming to life we have someone to celebrate with right away. We can make changes together, fail together, and succeed together. We are in it together.




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We talk about it. We get both points-of-views and try our best to solve the issue while seeing both sides and trying to understand each other. WHAT IS A QUOTE OR SCRIPTURE THAT YOU BOTH USE AS YOU FUNCTION IN PARTNERSHIP? “What is meant for us will be ours.” We know that if it is supposed to be ours it will be.


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CLEANSE HER. LISTEN TO HER.

Listening to your wife allows you to really understand her, and see her inner-most thoughts. You also see her needs. Being able to listen is one of the greatest gifts that you can give to your wife. When you listen, understand that she is not asking for your advice, she is simply looking for you to be open to her feelings and thoughts. Listening allows you to see what she is saying, how she is saying it, and most importantly, why she is saying it. By listening, you can discern whether your wife is seeking your advice or just in need of you helping her to find her own answer.

PAY ATTENTION TO HER.

The more you listen to your wife, the better you will get at paying attention to her. Paying attention allows you to learn major and minor details about your wife, such as knowing her favorite things, her love language, when to do things for her, and how to read her moods. When you pay attention to your wife, you can tell when she wants to do something or have something, but denies it to accommodate you or a situation. Perhaps the greatest thing is being able to recognize who God is in your wife, the strengths and gifts that He’s placed in her. Paying attention allows you to love her the way she deserves to be loved.

APPRECIATE HER.

As a husband it should be a privilege to appreciate your wife every chance you get. Appreciation shows her that all she does has value. Our wives do so much daily to make sure all our needs are met as well as running a household. Appreciate your wife by saying thank you every chance you get. Learn how to edify her at all times letting the world know that she is your gift from the Lord. Appreciate her time, her loving, her respect, her patients, her thoughts and her value to your life. This is an action that will always keep a smile on her face.

Cleansing your wife takes loving her mind, body and soul to a new level. As a husband we are taught to cleanse our wife by washing her with the word of God. As we listen and pay attention to her, please be aware that from day to day so much negativity, disappointments and past hurts fill her mind. Sometimes it’s visible and sometimes suppressed. To cleanse her we must pray with and for her daily, speak positive things into her life daily, speak the word of God with her daily and patently help her to focus on the positive only each and every day. As you cater to her as the weaker vessel the stronger she will be.

BE A GENTLEMAN (CHIVALRY) WITH HER.

Being a gentleman shows your wife that you’re a chivalrous, courteous and an honorable man. Doing this consistently will give your wife the assurance that you love and honor her worth. Your wife deserves to have her doors opened, her chair pulled out, having her hand held in public and private, foot rubs and fixing her plate, just to name a few. Being a gentleman is one of the greatest ways to honor your wife, not only for what she does but ultimately for who she is to you. As husbands let’s show our wives and the world that chivalry is alive and well.

SET GOALS THAT STRETCH HER.

Being the visionary of the home it is our job to set the bar high with everything that we do, including setting goals. The goals should include you and your wife at all times. Because we as husbands desire to see all God has instore for our wives, it is good to set all goals bigger than life. High goals are put into place so that we have to be stretched and grow to reach them. As husbands stretching our wives shows her that we believe in her. Believing in our wives is one of the highest forms of love and appreciation.

PLACE HER AS YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY IN YOUR HOUSEHOLD.

Yes, place her before parents, children, the household responsibilities, work-related duties, and all the other things that attempt to press their way in front

of your wife. Establishing and maintaining this priority is one way of fostering peace, better communication, and productivity within your home and relationship.


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LOVE GOD AND BUILD A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. This must be priority over all other things. It is not possible to know God and not love Him, and it is impossible to love someone else and not love God. Establishing a loving relationship with God will properly equip you with the strength and wisdom to truly love your husband with an unconditional lovean Agape love. Furthermore, the love that you have for God allows you to accept His commands, and grow in understanding of His word. As your relationship with God grows, so will it with your husband as God shows you how to submit to your husband as unto Christ. LOVE YOURSELF AND HAVE AN INCREASING DESIRE TO BETTER YOURSELF. The better woman that you become, his inspiration to be better is also increased. He sees you as a suitable helper, a true partner – one who completes him as opposed to competes with him. By focusing on positive change within yourself, your husband will view you as someone to be honored, instead of feeling like you’re trying to change him. Also, it may be necessary to tell him that you are working to make yourself better, so that you can be a better help to him. BELIEVE IN AND BUILD UP THE MAN THAT HE IS TO BE. It is vital that you always keep a positive image of who your husband is to be. This takes work on your part, but it’s worth it in the end. There will be moments where it’s easy to see your husband’s weaknesses or areas you feel he needs to grow in, but trust in God to mold and change him. Continue to build him up, encourage him, speak to and treat him like the man that he is to become. Also, be careful not to compare him to anyone else. Ultimately, you want him to be his best self, who God designed him to be – which is more than what you may desire him to be within a moment.

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LET YOUR THOUGHTS, WORDS, AND ACTIONS ALWAYS BE POSITIVE OF HIM. This requires self-discipline on many levels. It has often been said that when we do things, we do them three times: in our mind, in our words, and in our actions. Often, there is much emphasis on guarding what we say or do, because those are external things that others can see. However, our thoughts are internal which only God can see. Don’t allow negative thoughts to build up against what you know is true about your husband – that he is your good and perfect gift from the Lord, and that he is fearfully and wonderfully made. Through prayer, fasting, meditation, and God’s word, tear down the strongholds that have built themselves up in regard to your husband so that your words and actions may always be positive both publicly and privately. HONOR HIM AS THE PRIEST, PROVIDER, AND PROTECTOR OF YOUR HOME. To do so requires trust and faith in God at an optimum level. Perhaps this is the area where submission is exercised the most, because it requires a great deal of sacrifice. As the priest of the home, your husband must be respected as the mediator between God and the family. Respect your husband as the one who provides the vision and goals for your family – not just a provider of resources. Understand that God will provide your husband with the vision. Your work is found in his vision. This is not to disregard your goals and dreams. When you sacrifice your personal ambitions, you’ll understand that God has made provisions for your gifts to be used and desires fulfilled in the work that He has given your husband. As the protector of your home, your husband’s fortification addresses anything that may infringe upon the physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being of your family. If you feel or see that these components are not present in your husband, pray that God develops these things in him. PRAY FOR HIM. Be attentive to your husband’s needs, desires, strengths, and weaknesses in a way that you can prayerfully ask God to address. When you do so, you allow God to use all of His resources to touch the areas of your husband that you’re praying for. Have peace in knowing that you have no power to change anything about your husband, but God gives you the power and authority to pray for him and help him through God’s strength. PLACE HIM AS YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY IN YOUR HOUSEHOLD. Yes, place him before the children, the household chores, work-related duties, and all the other things that attempt to press their way in front of your husband. Establishing and maintaining this priority is one way of fostering peace, better communication, and productivity within your home and relationship.



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KIM TAYLOR Founder of Kimazing Photography,

is nothing less than a photographic genius. Born in Slidell, Louisiana, she is loyal to her faith, her family and football (GO SAINTS). Kim's love for the art of photography since her younger years has bolstered her ability to express the human spirit through the magic of her camera lens. Most times, in just a single click of the camera, her clients have come to life in a picture. Not only is she skillfully talented in her approach to create, capture and convey still moments, Kim has an authentic way of bringing imagination to life. For more than a pastime, Kim finds enormous pleasure in bringing out a variety of emotion in every shot. It is no wonder that she spends hours on end crafting priceless memories that will last a lifetime. Kim's art speaks thousands of words without ever being written down. Her focus and drive to positively exploit the human essence in her craft is beyond stellar. She takes her fearless ideas and pours them into her work. Her clients are encouraged and entranced by her abilities, She thrives off of the single clicks, the weight of her tool, the naturalistic emotions that are provided by her clients and the unexpected moments that give her life. So, what’s your story? Whether you can answer that question with ease or you’ve never thought about it, start with this powerful, dynamic images that compel your audience to know more. Whether you are looking for images for social media or for print, digital or media outlets, your branding portfolio through Kimazing Photography will be a timeless investment that will remind you - and your audience - of your “why”.





Arletha ORR is an American author from a small town in Mississippi. Orr initially started working a corporate job until exasperated by it and she eventually ventured into full time entrepreneurship until she realized that destiny had other plans for her. It was only when her world collapsed around her, after a fatal evening that Arletha discovered her true calling in life and she birthed “Live!” She knew that God had a greater purpose for her and with Him by her side, Orr began her journey to shine a light for the people whose lives had been consumed by the darkness around them. She knew that in order to reach out to others like her and spread the word of God, she needed them to hear her story. Her works are infused with the hope that Christ had blessed her with at a time when all the light around her seemed to be fading away. It is this hope and the Lord’s presence that she wants her readers to feel through her work because her experiences have taught her that when all hope is lost, it is His hand on your shoulder that will help one weather any storm. With this passion and vigor, she hopes to selflessly serve others and save souls for His Kingdom. When she’s not writing, Arletha enjoys worshipping God, traveling, and working to help others – all of which, contribute to broadening her horizons and perspective on life. She’s also a Certified Event Planner, a Life Coach, and the founder of Exquisite Events & Kingdom Trailblazers Publishing.

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As a young girl she excelled in her academic studies at Galloway Elementary. During her attendance at this school, she established herself as a rising star among her peers. She progressed forward to higher learning in Middle and High school by becoming Valedictorian of her graduating class in 1994. This set the stage for her to transition into and lead with excellency at Antonelli College for Business Administration, Mississippi College for Paralegal Studies and later Strayer University where her final degree will be in Contract Management and Acquisition. As a teenager she began to establish herself as a pillar in the community by becoming an advocate for social justice and inequality. She used her voice to fight against childhood bullying, gun violence and suicide awareness. As a young professional she was able to broaden her platform by working alongside the Attorney for the City of Jackson, Mississippi implementing programs that would evoke change and ultimately redirect the trajectory of many lives in that region. As the CEO and founder of the Odom Johnson Gant Group which is the one of the fastest growing financial firms under PHP Agency,

she continues to place her stamp on the lives of those around her. This professional platform is used to teach families how to make their money work for them as well as to develop other entrepreneurs from all walks of life. She has also established the Onder Woman Ministries which embodies the non-profit foundation called “These Shoes These Shoes” and “The Sound of Prayer Studios”. Both organizations were designed to strengthen the structure of the family and build the character of man. Lady Latoya has chosen to use her testimony of overcoming heartache and shame by authoring Saved Sanctified but Pregnant by a Married Man. This is her life story about rising from the ashes and finding victory. Lady Latoya truly knows that none of these accomplishments would be possible without God, her Father. He has allowed her to be ruled by His word and kept by His Grace. She walks by faith and not sight in every area of her life. She intends to continue the path of righteousness all while teaching and preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ!



Dismiss every misconception that you have about dating, Be open-minded, and expect to have fun! Who says that Dating has to be anything other than what you want it to be? No one- it’s up to you how creative you want your predetermined moment of eminence to be! It is also important to note that Dating is for anyone: married, engaged, and yes, SINGLE.

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BY: MR & MRS KING

BREAKFAST DATE Instead of your standard “dinner date,” try taking her out for everyone’s favorite meal: Breakfast. Get to know her over a hot cup of coffee, bacon and eggs, or by visiting a quaint juice bar. EMBRACE YOUR DIY SIDE Build something together. Whether it’s simple crafting or building furniture, spending the quality time working together is sure to grow your relationship. GO BACK TO WHERE IT ALL BEGAN. This is perfect for a couple who has been dating for awhile. Go back to the first place you met or that first date spot. It’s a great way to reminisce. EXPLORE A NEW COFFEE SHOP Spend some time having a really good conversation over a great cup of joe at your new favorite coffee shop.




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Creativity is like a wildfire - it can start as a small spark but has the capacity to spread into every area of your life and others! If you’ve been in a stale place for any length of time, we encourage you to get moving. May we suggest something aggressive yet fun to fire up some intrinsic motivation that we believe will ultimately push you towards the realization of a truly worthy ideal. Set your mind on creating 30 New Things within a specific timeframe. These things can be 30 new outfits/hairstyles, craft projects, letters to a loved one, implementations of an investment strategy, live videos or food dishes. YOU DECIDE! Check out the guidelines below to get yourself creatively moving towards action and peace.

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Determine what things you will HAVE to do daily. Also identify what things you’ll have to give up or go without doing. The idea behind #30NewThings is implementation, and not perfection. You want to spark your curiosity and creativity by actively engaging in something new and fun. Do not become so focused on accurate execution, and leave room for spontaneity and uniqueness. Make a decision to get moving towards something new; in this case, 30 new things! happy adventures




relationship COMMUNICATION JAMES & NATASHA KING IT MAY COME AS A SURPRISE TO SOME THAT MERELY TALKING, THE EXCHANGE OF WORDS AND THOUGHTS BETWEEN TWO OR MORE PEOPLE, DOES NOT EQUATE TO COMMUNICATION - EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION THAT IS.

Consider these seven habits as you establish and/or grow your relationships. LISTEN WITHOUT CONDEMNATION: Whenever you are engaging in a conversation, remember that the other person trusts you enough to share with you with no fear of judgement. Even if you don’t say anything that is viewed as judgmental during the conversation, guard your thoughts against judgement. Not doing so could impact your thoughts, feelings, or actions towards them later on.

AVOID CRAFTINESS: If you find yourself letting a conversation brew well before it actually takes place, where you craft the other person’s responses, you are unnecessarily tampering with your emotions. Avoid being emotionally disturbed and viewing the other person inappropriately because of comments you’ve developed in your own mind. Allow the other person to communicate with you in their own truth. TALK WITHOUT COVETOUSNESS: It is not a comfortable feeling to genuinely engage in a conversation only to be met with words that are dripping with thirst. Refrain from abusing someone’s listening ear with words and thoughts that stem from longing and desiring what someone else has.

USE WORDS WITH NO COATING: At times, you may feel as if you cannot be completely truthful because you fear that you will hurt them. When this happens, you may find yourself sprinkling sugar over your words to avoid telling the whole truth. Coating your words can be misleading for them and restricting for you. There is a way to use your words wisely, and still be completely truthful.

DODGE THE COPOUT: The copout is that opportune, yet evasive moment where you find yourself using phrases like whatever, that’s okay, or I don’t care. The irony is that it is not whatever, it is not okay, and you do care. We often find ourselves using these elementary colloquialisms, not because we don’t feel like talking at that particular time, but because we have not learned how to communicate beyond our feelings. Depending on the value of the relationship, you have three options: say nothing (some comments and behaviors don’t deserve your response), agree to talk at a better time, talk through whatever the problem is.

BE CAREFUL WITH YOUR WORDS: Being that opportunities wrapped in a particular set of circumstances do not present themselves more than once, you must choose your words wisely. Justifying what you say using, “I just have to speak my mind…” is acceptable only when you are choosing to allow your spirit to control your mind. Too often, when we “speak our mind”, we are really speaking from a place where we choose to allow our emotions to control our thoughts.

TAKE CONTROL: Taking control is not about dominating the conversation or dictating the other person’s thoughts or feelings. Honestly, that type of behavior and thinking typically yields an unfavorable outcome. Instead, being responsible and taking control of your thoughts, words, and actions places you in a much more effective position for communicating. Maintaining positivity while truthfully sharing what you think and feel will have a greater impact beyond the conversation.


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Marshatta JOHNSON C h r i s t i a n .

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Marshatta, 31, is currently building her own brand Marsha, Marsha! Marsha, Marsha!, is a life style brand that help consumers find balance in their lives through five “f” words: Fitness, Faith, Finance, Fun and Family. The brand has journals, books, apparel and other products that correlate with each topic. Marshatta also works as a Business Analyst for United Health Care and is a near term Regional Vise President for Primerica specializing in Life insurance and investments.



SHORT- AND LONG-TERM INTENTIONS:

THE FRUIT OR THE SEED JAMES & NATASHA KING


The people that share your life will do so with either short- or longterm intention. It is important to be able to discern the difference between the two so that you can maintain a peace of mind and communication and relationships can operate with clarity. There is a proverb that says, “You know a tree by its fruit.” This is absolute truth! For that reason, most people only focus on the fruit…you can classify it, and identify whether you like it, need it or not. In a practical sense, if you’re a plum tree, you’ll have certain people coming to you for your fruit based on their personal preference or need at that time. They may or may not come for your fruit for several reasons- someone said that it was good, bad, or whatever. There are also seasons where you’re on and when you’re not, and people can feel that too. When you are producing the fruit that this person wants and or needs at the given time, understand this to be shortterm intent. He or she will give to you or for you to receive the fruit that you bear. In contrast, there is the person who recognizes you as a seed that has been gifted to them. A person that cherishes the seed is going to prepare the soil, ensuring the seed is in the right environment for it to take root. This person is going to water the seed and consistently do the things necessary for its continued growth, even pruning.

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YOU ARE A TREE. THERE ARE TWO BASIC PARTS TO YOU! YOUR SEED AND YOUR FRUIT.

Follow the relationship of a seed and bosom. It is a nurturing relationship where the nurturer cares for the growth and development of the seed but also adheres to the responsibility of being well themselves. As the nurturer, he/ she understands that if toxins (whether physical, mental, emotional or spiritual) are present, they can be transferred while nursing. It is a powerful thing to have someone in your life that understands all of that and is committed to see you grow and produce fruit in season and out. EVALUATE THE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE. Which ones are present with shortterm intentions? In most cases, these individuals interact with you through sacrifice of their time and other resources and expect something directly from you – your fruit. Which ones are present with long-term intentions? These individuals are focused on you as a seed and have a desire to sow into your life. Anything that they do is an investment of which the return will reach far beyond you or them – multiple seeds and much fruit.


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STATE THE GOAL Write a clearly defined goal of what you desire with a specific date. IDENTIFY BENCHMARKS Consider the benchmarks as checkpoints that you will reach along the way. Celebrate them as selfconfidence builders towards your goal. IDENTIFIY PEOPLE NEEDED These are people that have achieved what you are trying to accomplish, believe in your success and are willing to assist you. Note: you do not have to know these people before you start. Just know that they will be presented to you when it’s time. DEVELOP A PLAN See yourself as if you’ve already achieved your goal. Write a plan of action that you feel will help you reach your goal. Note: Expect that a better plan will present itself to you and be willing to change. IDENTIFY THE OBSTACLES Be honest with yourself and list six things (including your own limiting habits) that will try to stop you from reaching your goal. Note: Write these obstacles on a sheet of paper and burn it. LIST THE SKILLS NEEDED Consider the skills that you are not willing or able to outsource in order to achieve your goal. LIST THE REWARD(S) Consider how you will celebrate the achievement of your goal and receive that joy with grace.




Napoleon Hill described desire as the starting point of all achievement. Everyone carries a desire for something more than what they currently have. However, that desire will not begin a growth process until it becomes a seed of gratitude. Think of the many things that you are desiring - physical well-being, growth in a relationship, emotional harmony, mental health, financial freedom, environmental peace and stability, or occupational growth. Which area(s) are constantly on your mind despite your success in other areas? You have a divine nature to both give and receive. Our task is to learn to give and receive with the same amount of grace. When there is an area of perceived lack, give with gratitude that very thing that you are desiring. It’s the difference between simply carrying around a seed wanting it to be more and graciously giving it to an environment where it has a greater chance of growing. Your expectation of faith is what activates the growth of your seed, and the laws of growth are inevitable. 1 Corinthians 3:6-9


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LameshiaEDWARDS aka Meshia Edwards, “ME”

born in Vicksburg, MS. I relocated to Jackson MS at the age of 10 where I attended Jackson Public Schools. I graduated from Jim Hill High School In 1997 and soon after attended Hinds Community College where I received my Associates Degree In Early Childhood Development.

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Young College Students, after obtaining my degree I decided I was no longer interested in that profession and began working for a local cell phone company as financial service representative. I worked this job for 2 years and had planned to retire from this job; so happy that I had landed the job that I loved at a young age of 24. That would soon come to an end when one day our ceo called us into a conference room to inform us that the company was relocating and we could either relocate or take a severance pay. Well, it turns out we were new homeowners and couldn’t relocate so easily.



In 2020 I put a lot of energy into working on systems, structure and getting staff in place that would ensure that agents would get the most from being a part of my firm. As of February 2021, I currently have a team of 10 agents that are producing, team players. I see that our firm will only grow larger and better throughout the years. My Scripture that I stand on is Matthew 6:33. My brokerage was opened and being ran by this principal. I was named One of The Top 50 Business Women 2018, MS Business Journal.. 2019, Mississippi’s Top 20 Entrepreneurs, Mississippi Business Journal… 2021, Best Real Estate Agent, Jackson Free Press. I am the mother of 3 young adults (Montario Edwards, Alondrea Edwards, And AJ Edwards). I’ve Been Married 23 Years This Year (2021) to Alonzo Edwards. We have two dogs ( Rocket, Pug) and (Nuggett, Yorkie). Currently Reside In Madison County Where We’ve Resided For 23 Years.. Its Always Great Whenever Alonzo And I Have a chance to work together. This Year Will Be Year 14 For Me In Real Estate And Year 19 For Alonzo In The Mortgage Industry… The Best Is Yet To Come….


Fast forward a year or so, I began working for the state where I was earning 12k per year and loaded with work. Needless to say, this wasn’t it. After observing my husband in the mortgage industry for a few years. I grew an interest in the real estate profession; so after much prayer about leaving that state job; I felt a release and decided to quit and pursue my career in Real Estate. My only prayer at this time was; “Lord, please don’t make me have to go back and ask for that job back”… This move was a 100% faith move. My husband was working off commission only and now I was about to embark on the same journey. Through many people’s eyes this was a foolish move. We would have 0 reliable income. BUT GOD…

In 2007, I enrolled in real estate school, passed the class and the exams on the first try. I was so excited but became very discouraged as finding a broker in a down market was challenging. However, I landed a broker that took a chance on me and that Broker is Carla Palmer Allen of CPA Realty, I am forever grateful for her for giving me the opportunity to be under her leadership and be a part of her firm. I worked with CPA Realty for 1 Year and to my surprise and excitement my first year I was a Million Dollar Producing Realtor…. Once Again I decided it was time for me to make a strategic move and decided to become a part of a franchise which was Century 21 Maselle Associates in Madison… When entering real estate I had a 5 year plan of working and getting as much exposure and training as I could get because once I made my 5 year mark. I would open my very own firm. While working at Century 21 Maselle, I Became A multi-million dollar producer receiving many top producer and quality service awards.

I studied and took the brokers exam and passed on first try. Although, I was comfortable and loved working with the firm... I had a plan and had to stick with it. In 2012, my brokerage “Community First Real Estate” was opened.. This was such a big move for me… Someone that had no idea what they wanted to do is now the owner of a brokerage. Throughout the years, I would maintain my same clients and referrals which caused my brokerage to thrive. As planned, I wanted to add agents to my firm and added friends. I would soon realize that being a broker of agents wasn’t as easy as it looked. I then shifted my focus on education (receiveing many designations) and serving my clients. Throughout the years I would maintain my multi-million dollar producer status . After working alone for several years I decided in 2020 to rebuild a team now that I’ve had time to do better with leadership and develop a quality team.

LameshiaEDWARDS aka Meshia Edwards, “ME”


I AM A SURVIVOR



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WHAT WAS YOUR MINDSET LIKE WHEN YOU WERE FIRST DIAGNOSED? My first mindset was Confirmation cause God had already showed me that my tests were positive! I was nervous, scared, even wanted to question God and ask why me Lord! But that changed quickly. I knew I had to put on my Boxing gloves, find the positive in the situation, and deal with it knowing that God was right there with me in it all! WHAT HAS KEPT YOU ENCOURAGED AND POSITIVE THROUGHOUT YOUR JOURNEY? There is no room for Negativity when you’re dealing with this kind of sickness whatsoever! My Faith, Family, My Community, My Church and all around support from friends and other Positive people who are dealing or have dealt with this monster! I truly knew My God had me and was taking care of me! I didn’t flinch at all in my Faith I became much stronger. HOW HAS THIS EXPERIENCE CHANGED YOU, WHERE YOU DECIDED TO BE BETTER? It taught me how to prioritize what’s really important in Life! I will never ever take nothing in life for granted and forever be Grateful for my life! I love and try to bring happiness and positivity to everyone always! WHAT DO YOU DO TO HELP OTHERS IN THEIR JOURNEY? Always be an Encouragement to other no matter what and help them!


“YOU WERE DESIGNED TO BEAT THIS - #GETITDONE.” Kimberly’s breast cancer journey to survivorship started on February 24, 2020, when she discovered a lump in her left breast. Looking in the mirror she said, “God you got me." After numerous doctor visits and procedures, on March 10, 2020, she received the diagnosis of Stage 2 Triple Negative Breast Cancer. Again, her first thoughts were, “God got me,” and her only question was, “what’s next?" During the height of the pandemic, Kimberly underwent a mastectomy on March 18, 2020, to remove her left breast. Not knowing what to expect, she did the only thing she knew to do- put her trust in God. A month later, Kimberly went into a double quarantine after receiving the first of her eight rounds of chemotherapy treatments. A week after, she began experiencing hair loss, which sparked a wave of overwhelming emotions. With support from her daughter, she received her first haircut, with the second following only days later. Nevertheless, she maintained a positive, upbeat attitude to remain mentally healthy.

Now it was her time to find a new comfort zone - a wig or no wig? The answer was simple, be natural. Kimberly found confidence in just being who she is - strong, resilient, a survivor! Sharing her feelings with a friend one day after seeing a post of him holding his grandson, she confessed that the greatest challenge was not the rounds of chemo, hair loss, continued drops in blood levels, or blood transfusion. Her challenge was being separated from her grandchildren (her loves) and grand pup. Kimberly received a powerful reminder from a friend saying, “YOU WERE DESIGNED TO BEAT THIS - #GETITDONE.” Per the instruction in the text, she printed out the message and taped it to her refrigerator to serve as a daily reminder that she is designed to beat this! Gratefully, Kimberly is in remission! Her journey has given her newfound purpose to spread awareness, share her story, and uplift those experiencing this unforgivable condition. She intends to continue living a long life full of love.


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I AM A SURVIVOR


jessica james I AM A SURVIVOR


WHAT MADE YOU REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE ENVIRONMENT? (ALSO SHARE IF THE ABUSE OCCURRED WITHIN A HOME/PARENTAL ENVIRONMENT, RELATIONSHIP OR OTHER.) I was a new mother with a 2 week old son. It was the last straw! I was holding my baby when the father of my child screams at me about a man telling me congratulations in my inbox on Facebook. I told him I’ve been pregnant and it was just a friend, I have nothing to do with the man he is only being nice and telling me congratulations!

I made a decision to become celibate to fully focus on me and my life long dreams. I graduated from Jackson State University with my Bachelors Degree and studied Public Health in Capetown, South Africa . I grew so much and developed self love and a closer relationship with my son. HOW DO YOU VIEW YOURSELF NOW COMPARED TO THE PERSON YOU WERE DURING THAT TIME? I view myself as a woman that’s in self control now compared to being out of control during the abusive relationship. I felt hopeless and too crippled to move on. I now live in so much liberty .

He then grabs me by the neck as I’m holding my son and chokes me so fast. I almost dropped my baby! I screamed out of fear, anger, and ultimate frustration. Get OUT! I don’t want you NO MORE! I Don’t Want You NO MoRE! I then opened the door to the apartment and started crying holding my baby. He left and I asked God to give me a way of escape. I knew if I stayed in the area by myself he would torture us. I then called my family to get away for a few days to rest. During my stay The apartment manager told my family they had saw me getting abused outside the apartment one night and some of the neighbors had been calling about hearing a woman screaming and crying. The abuse was obvious and I did not want to go back. My mom allowed me to live with her and that was my way of escape.

WHAT HAS YOUR JOURNEY TAUGHT YOU AND HOW DO YOU USE THAT TO HELP OTHERS?

AFTER REMOVING YOURSELF FROM THAT SITUATION, WHAT TYPE OF THINGS DID YOU DO TO COMMIT TO THE CHANGE YOU WANTED FOR YOURSELF?

The Breakthrough Tribe, LLC with a purpose to collectively breakthrough life's challenges within our mental and physical health. Promoting an overall healthy balanced life by using strategies to heal from life's Traumas.

After removing myself from the Toxic abusive relationship, I wanted to finish the goals I started before the situation. I got a job working at the hospital, and met a new man that showed me so much love, but I didn’t love myself so I couldn’t amplify the love from someone else. We broke up and I then decided to work on Jessica James the woman, the mother, the spirit. I did my work to heal mentally.

My journey taught me that when you don’t believe in yourself to live you will die. I was only living for 2013 and not thinking about my acceptance towards the abuser would keep me from living 20 years beyond that. I learned how to trust my discernment and make wiser decisions. I became a wise woman after the abuse and developed a love for mental health after suffering from depression and anxiety after my traumatic experience. I’m currently attaining a professional clinical license in behavioral and Mental health. While completing the licensing requirements I’ve created a Behavioral Health Business named

The Breakthrough Tribe houses The Free Therapy movement “ SucKaz For Love to help with love/family relationships & “Secrets from the Grave “ to assist In overcoming the shame of past experiences in life that were vowed to never be shared with a soul and instead hidden forever and taken to the grave.


“THIS WASN’T EASY, I FOUND OUT THAT I’M STRONGER THAN I EVER THOUGHT.” WHAT MADE YOU REMOVE YOURSELF FROM THE ENVIRONMENT? (ALSO SHARE IF THE ABUSE OCCURRED WITHIN A HOME/PARENTAL ENVIRONMENT, RELATIONSHIP OR OTHER.) The first time I was hit was 6 months after the wedding day and it continued to get worse through a 17-year marriage. Each time he was sorry, so he said at first. After years of the abuse and life appearing public to be great but was progressively spiraling out of control inside. I tried to leave but then came back for my children I said. But when it finally came to a head, this was the night I thought I was going to die. I knew I had to save my own life so that I could save my children. I left that night with my sons and never went back. AFTER REMOVING YOURSELF FROM THAT SITUATION, WHAT TYPE OF THINGS DID YOU DO TO COMMIT TO THE CHANGE YOU WANTED FOR YOURSELF? First we needed therapy to deal with the physical stuff as well as the mental impact it was sure to have on all of us. I was broke and broken but found an amazing program that helped you even if you couldn’t pay. Then I had to figure out how to live and provide a life for my sons and myself. I had to learn how to think for myself and make the best decisions that I could. This wasn’t easy, I found out that I’m stronger than I ever thought. HOW DO YOU VIEW YOURSELF NOW COMPARED TO THE PERSON YOU WERE DURING THAT TIME? I would have to introduce myself to that very insecure, fearful person. I am confident in myself, I know how to make decisions and even if they’re not good I know I can just make another decision. The person who came out of that situation wouldn’t talk to anyone outside of family and work now I know I have a lot to say and I’m not afraid to say it. I learned through my faith in God that I can DREAM and I can DREAM Big. WHAT HAS YOUR JOURNEY TAUGHT YOU AND HOW DO YOU USE THAT TO HELP OTHERS? My journey has taught me to trust in God to hold him to every promise. To believe in my self and I’m my only limit. That if I work hard and keep going I will achieve my DREAMS. My passion is to encourage others to push themselves to go further than they could imagine. That you are special, a masterpiece created in God’s image and don’t ever let anyone tell you different.


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ANDREA BLACKLEY is the owner and designer of the innovative clothing brand, AB Originals. Since she was 8 years old, she’s always had a keen eye, and love for style and fashion. Being raised by a fashionable single mother, one of her favorite moments of her childhood, is when her mom would go “Spring Shopping” for new clothes. It would always be a big event because Andrea would be spontaneously surprised after coming home from school, and finding a bed full of clothes laid out for her. “Christmas in Spring”, as she called it, was always one of her favorite times of the year. As an only child, this was definitely one of the benefits of not having any siblings. But it was also the birth of her infatuation with fashion.

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“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised” Proverbs 31:30


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BEING SINGLE with Great Expectations Being single IS NOT a death sentence, NOT an indication of worth, nor is it an indication or a source of incompleteness. Being single is a time that should be used effectively and efficiently. This precious time should be spent first and foremost, focusing on and nurturing a personal and intimate relationship with God. Because we will most certainly need a SOLID foundation as we wait to be found by our husband(women) or to find your wife(men), as we date with a Godly purpose and unquestionably once we enter into the ministry of marriage. There is value in being single with GREAT EXPECTATIONS. Personally, it started with a transformation of my thought process(mentality). I had to start living a Roman 12:2 lifestyle and stop conforming to the patterns of this world in order to be transformed. I had to allow my mind to be renewed into a WIFE...not a girlfriend... not a “friend”...not someone who would except being in a “rotation” with other women. The value extends beyond just the visible things about me. The value runs deeper than the natural eye can see. It is written in the Book of Genesis that God created us in His likeness and in His image. So, I live as though I know that I am valued by my God who cherished me enough that He wanted me to “resemble” Him and I should be valued by the person that He created to be in my life.


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That significance started with me valuing myself as a single Christian woman and making up my mind that I would NOT settle for anything less than God’s best for my life and not what I would categorize as “best”, but GOD’S BEST! As I stand in GREAT EXPACTIONS, I stand on a truth of sexual purity and will not engage in sex until marriage – #TeamPurity. Now I am sure that that truth eliminates over 50% of the male population as a potential prospect of being my husband. So many people are led by the flesh, not the spirit and live accordingly. I’ve accepted, that I cannot expect someone to accept something that they don’t understand if they are not journeying their own sexual abstinent lifestyle. The one(s) NOT sent by God, won’t value this truth and I am ok with that. It is written in 1 Corinthians 6 that my body is a TEMPLE of the Holy Spirit which I received from God; it is not my own and that I should flee sexual immorality. As a single Christian woman with GREAT EXPECTATIONS, I empower you to invest in yourself. Because there’s a return on that investment which can’t be measured and embraces value – whether single or married. Intentionally pray that God will lead and guide you to the passion and purpose that He’s planted in you for His glory. Seek God’s will for your life. Spend some time becoming that which you desire to see in your spouse, because we are truly what we attract.

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BEING SINGLE with Great Expectations

It is written in Genesis 2:18 that the LORD God said that it is not good for the man to be alone and He would make a helper suitable for him. Spend time investing in becoming “suitable”; meaning right or appropriate for a particular person, purpose, or situation. Ask yourself the million-dollar question … “Would I marry me?” As a single Christian woman with GREAT EXPECTATIONS, I also empower you to know that to a blessed man - not a lucky man, you are his good thing and his bridge to favor. It’s written in Proverbs 18:22 that he who finds a WIFE, finds a good thing AND obtains favor from the Lord. Study the Godly duties of a wife, pray and seek Godly mentors and counsel, fast and pray without ceasing in your season(s) of singleness for insight and revelations about being the wife that God created you to be! Read daily devotionals in conjunction with God’s word and equip yourself with His gear and live abundantly as Jesus came that you may. Determine what constitutes your “best life” and live it. Find your completion in God and God alone because He is your ONLY source of eternal completeness; everything else is temporary. It is my sincere prayer that on your journey through singleness you live, enjoy it, and maximize it. And at the appointed time, God will make that divine introduction all for His glory.





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20 TOUGH QUESTIONS WITH A HIGH RETURN Of the tens of thousands of choices that you make during the day, consider your current position and ask yourself “Am I answering the right questions?” Your results are a direct reflection of your choices, and those choices are based on the questions that you answer. Take time to answer the following questions. Allow yourself to be honest. What you give in response will yield an even greater return.


1 - WHAT DO YOU WANT? 2 - WHY DO YOU WANT IT? 3 - WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO SACRIFICE TO HAVE IT? 4 - HOW BIG DO YOU WANT TO DREAM? 5 - HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO ENVISION? 6 - HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO SERVE? 7 - HOW MUCH DO YOU WANT TO BELIEVE? 8 - HOW MUCH ARE YOU WILLING TO FORGET? 9 - WILL YOU BE MORE AFRAID (WITH REVERENCE) OF LOOSING THE OPPORTUNITY THAN FEAR OF THE OBSTACLE ITSELF? 10 - WILL YOU REFUSE TO GIVE YOURSELF A PLAN OF RETREAT? 11 - WILL YOU REFUSE TO DIE IN THE PRESENCE OF RESOURCES? 12 - WHAT RESOURCES WILL YOU CHOOSE TO HONOR? 13 - WILL YOU EMBRACE TIME AS THE GIFT THAT IT IS? 14 - WHO DO YOU NEED TO FORGIVE? 15 - WILL YOU FORGIVE YOUR OFFENDER AND COVER THE OFFENSE WITH LOVE 16 - WILL YOU EMBRACE FAILURE AS A GIFT? 17 - WILL YOU CHOOSE TO BELIEVE THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF? 18 - WILL YOU CHOOSE TO LOVE AT ALL TIMES? 19 - WILL YOU KEEP GOD AS THE SOURCE? 20 - WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE TO GOD ASKING, “WHAT SHALL I DO FOR THEE?”



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