2016 Manila Up! June Specal Edition

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MAGAZINE June 2016 Edition

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FATHER’S DAY INDEPENDENCE DAY

“HAPPY LIFE”

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CAMILLE AGBAYANI

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Photography by HYDEE ABRAHAN

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By RANDY ANTONIO

A Father’s Day History Lesson…

HAWAII ISLAND STYLE

Hau’oli La Makuakane! (“Happy Father’s Day” in Hawaiian). One of the blessings about

living in Hawaii is the culture fosters and nurtures the value of “ohana” (family). The predominant demographic of the Asian and Pacific Islander population strongly influences the traditions here and how we live.

During ancient times, the Hawaiian culture had an amazing way of raising children. Children were encouraged to discover their interests and to learn from whomever they were inspired by. Thus, if you enjoyed fishing, you went to live with the fisherman’s family. Today’s parenting roles In Hawaii are a blend of both ancient ways and traditional island cultures. Today’s Hawaiians are and have always been adaptable.

The “ keiki” (children) learn from a very young age to show respect for all adults and elders. This is why you hear local kids refer to everyone as their Auntie, Uncle and even Tutu (grandmother)…even complete strangers!

The Hawaiian culture has a strong belief that “ kane” (men) behavior and actions represent 7 generations of ohana, that is 2 from the past (grandparents), 2 in the present (parents), 2 in the future (children) and 1 family member not yet born. There is much “pono” (meaning “in right relationship with family, life, and all things”) and honor in this belief system that ancient Hawaiians took it seriously. It was the Hawaiian males responsibility to teach the keiki various daily rituals such as fishing, “hale” (house) and canoe building, hunting, farming, and warrior skills. While the women had the responsibility of teaching children social skills and family customs, religion and rituals, as well as cooking, food gathering and making of clothing.

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TOP 5 THINGS TO DO ON MAUI FOR FATHER’S DAY 1) DO NOTHING !

2) Power Lounging at his Favorite Beach 3) A round of golf at the exclusive and world famous Kapalua Plantation Course, home to the Mercedes Benz and Hyundai Golf Championships 4) A luxury spa day (yeah, dads need ’em too!) at the sinfully delightful Waldorf Astoria Grand Wailea Resort and Spa 5) Poolside beer at my favorite and sexy lounge spot, the Four Seasons Serenity Pool overlooking the glorious Wailea beach Dedicated to all the Fathers out there who deserve all the love and pampering in the world!

Randy Antonio is a long-time resident of Maui and professional realtor with KW Island Living.

When he’s not helping people find their dream home on Maui, he can be found swimming or stand-up paddle boarding in the ocean! He can be reached at www.RandyAntonio.com. Or like him at MauiLifestyles on Facebook.

The concept of “it takes a village” to raise a child, holds true in the ancient Hawaiian culture since there is no clearly defined concept of fatherhood during these times, except as a bloodline to royalty. Actually, In today’s Hawaiian society, the concept of children belonging to and being the responsibility of the extended family is known as the belief system of “Hanai”, in which anyone could be accepted into a family. It’s a culture I truly embrace since being a transplant from the mainland here, I really never felt alone since I became an adopted keiki to many welcoming friends and family! Now that’s the Aloha spirit in action!

As with many places in the US, celebrating Father’s Day on the islands, especially Maui, is one of relaxation and doing what makes the OL guy feel like he’s the KING of the World!

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Jessica Anderson: aka Who Is Heartbreak Written by NANSHI IGNACIO

Born and raised in San Diego, Jessica

Anderson is the younger of two daughters of Nanshi Ignacio and Wilhelm Anderson.

Also known as Who Is Heartbreak, she resides in Los Angeles and graduated from the University of California, Merced with a Bachelor’s Degree in Mechanical Engineering. Jackie, her older sister was her inspiration and influence to become a Mechanical Engineer. She led by example, encouraged her to work hard and led by example by getting straight A’s while attaining her Mechanical Engineering degree at the University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA).

Jessica previously worked for Procter & Gamble (P & G) involved with several brands including Mr. Clean, Febreeze, Cascade and Swifter. Currently, she works for Space X (check out this pioneering endeavor at http:www.space.com/31420-spacex-rocket-landing-successhtml for more interesting details). She was part of a team that manufactured the Falcon 9 rocket which launched 11 satellites into orbit for Space X client ORBCOMM. This made history as the first orbital rocket to land back on earth with the hope of reusability.

Another facet of this gifted lady is her talent as a singer, songwriter and music producer. She has been doing music for about 4 years and started off producing when she began writing to the music she was composing. This then led her to sing the songs she wrote, writing all of her own lyricsm she has written for several other independent artists as well.

With over 96,000 plays on Soundcloud (soundcloud.com/whoisheartbreak) she has collaborated with successful artists such as King Los (Bad Boy & RCA), Abrina, Stevie Dub, Ajona Camile (aka Jax) and JT Harker. Her collaborative undertakings also got her to work together with producers like Devin Cruise, Cutty Dre, J. Stew and J Maine.

She was named RnBass Beauty of the Week on RnBass.com, and alongside this was also featured on several blogs all over the country among which are DJ Carisma, Young California and ThisIsRnB.com. Jessica is currently busy working on a collaboration EP with recording artist Stevie Dub and her own solo EP with title and release dates to be determined.

All her music can be found at www.soundcloud.com/whoisheartbreak.

As if being in the field of both scientific endeavor and music were not enough, this multi faceted personality has another passion, that of playing basketball. As far as she recalls she has been playing the ball game from elementary school while attending Naval Basketball camps to the Mira Mesa High School basketball team and further during her college years at UC, Merced. She is a Shooting Guard but has also heavily played the positions of Point Guard and Forward.

In 2007-2008 she became the founding President and Captain of the UC, Merced Women’s Basketball Team.

She was the recipient of the Most Valuable Player and Coach’s Awards within the same season in 2009-2010.

Another feature to her cap was added when she was given the Founder’s Award by the Women’s Basketball team in 2011.

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She plays basketball for the new Basketball Beauties League in Los Angeles and participates in Hollywood Hoops Fundraiser events for high schools and nonprofit organizations for Breast Cancer Awareness. She envisions herself in the next 5 years, continuing to play basketball, writing and producing music as an independent artist and growing as a Rocket Engineer with the Space X family.

Lastly, Jessica’s real dream in life is to be able to inspire people to work hard to achieve their goals and dreams, and provide an example to the youth that there are no limits or boundaries to what they can accomplish.

Jesssica Anderson is on Instagram: @whoisbeartbreak and on Twitter: @whoisheartbreak

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A visionary in a “Sea of Colors” :

TOM NGUYEN

As with most, if not all “refugees” of one

kind or another, Tom Nguyen ‘gets it’. In 1975, as the Vietnam conflict was ending, his family fled for the U.S. on the very last day in April of that epic escape.

Living in transition tent housing in Thailand, he can easily commiserate with the refugees fleeing their homelands because of war. When a Lutheran church in Michigan sponsored his family they were non-English speaking immigrants but “blended in”. His education started when he was in second grade along with white kids, “kids are kids” he says, “and I grew up white. I did not know myself as yellow”!

His father moved them to California, a place that to him was a “sea of colors”. He started learning about his original culture and language, educating himself about Vietnam.

His parents were expecting or, at least, hoping that he would pursue medicine in a career as a doctor. Doctor? “No”, he answered, I just fear blood! He then went on to USC Fullerton and now is a realtor, and a successful one at that as a broker’s insurer.

He started out as a file clerk at First American Title, moved on to become and escrow assistant and as the escrow manager for California.

Now his vision is geared towards being the people’s representative as a Councilman. It all began upon an invitation from a friend, who encouraged him to attend a meeting in regard to a $2.00 increase in trash collection for Palm Valley. The same company has been used for this service for over 40 years. Ergo, at $17.00 per month times 56 thousand homes = $? Westminster is currently charging only $11.00 per month!

Tom Nguyen has lived in the local community for over ten years beginning in August 2014. His first run for office did not allow a win, however, it became an impetus for him to go further and think things through.

“No voting, no one is doing anything”, he adds.

And what of his plans? First is to make Hampton Valley prosper, new blood, innovative thinking outside of the box.

A councilman and father of three, the oldest being 20 years

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old, he also has 14 a year old daughter who is into Lacrosse.

His wife and he work the streets as Vietnamese but as a councilman and father doing his thing, if his son needs a hug, he gives it, that moment’s need exists and it’s not going to come around again.

At an age where he doesn’t have much of the luxury of time anymore, with no weekends, no weekdays as such, he makes the now, now. “I work now and I’m part of them while I’m working. How do you use 24 hours? Mine is different” As members of our community Filipinos need to get more engaged. How to get engaged? Not to follow the mindset of ants, “don’t let other people pull your chains”.

Being a part of the Fountain Valley family, he is active in supporting autistic children in a reality show, as well as helping finance kids into Yale University. A mentoring program was set up in the Santa Ana district.

He feeds the homeless to fit into his schedule, doing whatever it takes about giving back. To help people succeed, they help back with no strings attached. What he sees within 5 to 10 years is a vision, now only day to day, but also a vision, a path.

Compilation of photo by ICEE CRUZ

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Jonathan Orbita

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whether it’s Godiva, Lindt, or Ghirardelli; he loves them all! Speaking of loving them all, he has four children and does just that. He has been blessed with three handsome sons: Jonathan Jr. (also Boogie), Jerome, and Jacob; and one beautiful daughter: me!

My name is Jannah France N. Orbita.

When I was in the third grade, I took a spelling test; one of the vocabulary words was: hero. As a third-grader, I spelled hero like this: “D-A-D.” Just in case you were wondering, no, I was not entirely marked wrong on that answer. I simply got a smiley face next to my attempt at spelling “hero.”

According to the dictionary, hero is defined as a person who is admired for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities. However, my dad is my hero, and he means so much more to me than that. First and foremost, he is always there for my brothers and me, regardless of the occasion; whether it is basketball games, award ceremonies, or simply when we need someone to lean on; Dad is there. He is by our sides, supporting and rooting for us.

Jonathan Orbita, also known as Boogie Boy

or Nathan, is from Nabua, Camarines Sur, Bicol, Philippines.

This handsome man is married to the beautiful Penafrancia N. Orbita. Together they run a family business: Pen Homes Inc. As a hard worker in the business, Jonathan loves to relax by playing golf and basketball. In addition to playing sports, he loves watching them! His favorite basketball team is the Los Angeles Lakers (*he misses you, Kobe!). The hard work Kobe put on the court cannot measure up to the hard work Jonathan does with tools. From painting walls to changing tiles to hardwood floors and fixing leaks to repairing damaged things, Jonathan can fix practically anything and everything in a jiff, it’s like magic. Aside from work, sports, and handiwork, this versatile man also loves food! Most known for his baked ham, roasted turkey, and grilled rib eye steak, the occasional dinner outing to Bulgogi House for his favorite Korean barbecue would never hurt anybody. After dinner, his sweet tooth never fails to strike and when it does, there’s only one solution: chocolate. Jonathan will eat any milk chocolate,

In addition to being supportive, he is probably the funniest man I know; he literally turns my frown upside down. Dad is a big fan of Bruno Mars, so he has made his own choreography for Uptown Funk. He yells “HIT IT” and does an awesome dance with his arms; it’s one of his the best signature moves that I will always smile about. With his smooth dancing skills, I can always count on Dad to take me to the dance floor during dinner dances to practice our cha-cha or swing dances. In addition to dancing, he loves to sing! With the song book and microphones in our hands, we can sing karaoke on the Magic Sing all night long! There is never a dull moment with someone as special as Dad. I love my dad for his encouragement, good sense of humor, and for the hobbies that we dabble in. I know I speak on behalf of my brothers when I say that we are extremely blessed to have Jonathan S. Orbita as our dad. My dad has been, is, and always will be my hero; the man I admire and look up to.

Photo by JOE COBILLA

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Elena Lapid: Inspired by her Inspiration

When the eighth child among eleven children was raised by an inspiration of a mother,

she eventually morphed into that special model. Elena Lapid was awed by how her own Mom influenced her upbringing and the woman she has emerged to become.

Having a generation of females bound by domestic responsibilities ahead of us “baby boomers”, as in Elena’s case, we never imagined how transforming the years will be in terms of opportunities for females whether they are mothers of one or more. Nowadays, the “traditional” mother has far more time and education to pursue her passions outside of the home setting. It is not about totally abandoning the ultimate role of parent, rather, it is about living within the realities of our times.

While being a proud mother and grandmother is an honor women proudly wear on their sleeves, Elena found out that beyond the walls of the household existed another world that was simply waiting for her to arrive. And so has she.

Her timely message to women who choose to chase their dreams outside of the role as full time mother is to just change the mindset. Regardless of discouragement from within herself or outside influences, decide to change her outlook. Once she has the opportunity, whether while still raising a family or is done with the role, like Elena is now, just believe in herself. Go for your dreams, that is the key…..!!!

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Jenna Roca: A Passionate Lawyer

By FE P. KOONS

Jenna Roca took up law at UC Berkeley

because she is passionate about helping people. “I firmly believe that you have to be truly passionate about something in order to succeed at it. Luckily, she went into injury law where she has the opportunity to help people overcome some of the most difficult and devastating times in their lives. Nothing has proven more rewarding to me than achieving justice for injury victims and their families in circumstances where they would be taken advantage of by big trillion dollar insurance companies,” Jenna explained.

She is a civil trial lawyer for personal injury cases. This practice includes dog attacks, burn victims, paralysis, exposure to chemicals and wrongful death cases.

Quite young, Jenna joined the Bb. Pilipinas USA, and she coveted the title Ms.Eagle Rock, the same year 2012 when she joined Miss California, as a judge believing that it was an excellent program for young Filipina women to grow, mature, develop confidence and learn skills necessary to succeed in life.

On the contrary, Jenna strongly stands up to the critics of beauty pageants who say that the contests create a commodity with the bodies of women. “I tell the beauty pageant critics that the pageants teach young women to live and serve as role models for a healthy lifestyle through healthy eating and exercise necessary to prevent disease. Learning these skills help them to perform their best in school, in their careers and to contribute meaningfully to society.”

Being a strong-willed lawyer herself, she thinks that Filipino women are very capable of running for political office. Jenna believes that this breaks down the deep-rooted gender and racial barriers with the result of being to create a better society for future generations. “Being a political candidate sets a great example for children, minorities and women by proving that you can accomplish political goals and platforms so that you can serve your constituency. It is not easy to run for office. But once your mind is set, you can overcome the odds stacked against you,” Jenna stressed.

She is a member of the Philippine American Bar Association (PABA), a community of Filipino attorneys who support each other in a field where there are very few Filipinos.

But Jenna is really naturally inclined to helping others. She confessed that she attended Christian and Catholic schools. “Since I was two years old, volunteering has always been a part of my life. Now I am fortunate enough to be able to donate money to worthy causes and volunteer for charities whenever I can. Nothing is more gratifying than knowing that you helped, and it makes someone’s life a little better!”

Because Jenna is still quite young, she hopes to grow the Roca firm and continue to develop her skills by dealing with more trials and to serve more people. For sure though, she will always be at the frontline helping people!

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KALAYAAN INCORPORATED Come June 11, 2016, a new set of officers, inducted last December by Consul General Leo Herrera-Lim, will present the 118th Anniversary of the Proclamation of Philippine Independence at the Concourse Hotel, a Hyatt Regency Affiliate, at the Los Angeles International Airport.

Headed by Josie E. de Jesus, president and chair of the freedom day celebration, and Jose Relson Banas, vice president and vice-chair, other officials sworn in are as follows: secretary Lady Hope Robillos and Violet A. Mislang, assistant; treasurer Santos Capistrano Jr. and Virginia Vivas, assistant; Sheila M. Berrei, auditor, and Lydia V. Solis, PRO . Serving as Board members are: Edmund Anciano, Esq., Ner Azaula, DDS, Myrna Baculi, Arnold Bejasa, Archerie G. Calunod, Rosalie P. Caratao, Anna Lourdes Armada-Chickey, MD, Bonnie De Los Santos, Susan Dilkes, Bituin Francisco, Rene Galano, Lynda Joco, Rowena Khan, Benel Se-Liban, Annie Cuevas-Lim, J. Victor M. Martires, Benito Miranda, Carmelita Paule, Marilou Perez, Cirilo Pinlac, Pedro Ramirez, Erlinda Granada-Sabah, and Mary Lyn T. Sanga, Esq. KI officers are pillars of the community and stand out as leaders in their own organizations. They have rendered services to mankind that speak of philanthropy. They are officers in their own organizations.

De Jesus is a nursing supervisor/night administrator on duty at the Cedars Sinai Medical Center. And retirement is not an option even if she’s been working for some 40 years!

“It takes a strong, dedicated and compassionate woman to excel in such a high-profile position with demanding responsibilities, night in and night out,” remarked an associate. For her accomplishments, she has been rewarded with the Cedars Sinai President’s Award, just one of many accolades she has received in her profession.

The former president of the Philippine Nurses Association of Southern California, De Jesus is the president of the 26-yearold Philippine Heritage Institute International, which has been credited with recognizing outstanding Filipino American nurses and community leaders.

She received her Bachelor of Science in nursing degree from the University of the East, College of Nursing and her Master of Arts in Management from the University of Redlands.

Busy as she is, the KI president gives back to her origins and has conducted several medical missions and fundraisers for the needy in her hometown Camalaniugan.

Her civic-spirited endeavors and volunteerism have certainly been an inspiration to her peers in the nursing profession and elsewhere.

KI past president Techie Emperador (2013) once said, “Every time I attend a Filipino event and gathering, I see lesser youth in the crowd as compared to other nationalities.”

According to Relson Banas, “that left a message and a challenge on how we involve our youth in any organization so we can continue to preserve our rich and beautiful cultural heritage as Filipinos. I guess this is the time that she was wishing for. Being new to this organization, I would consider myself and some other members as ‘the youth’ of KI.” Banas is the Assistant Principal of Instruction in Rosemead High School of the El Monte Union High School District. Previously, he was Asst. Principal of Curriculum in Compton High School. He has a Bachelor of Science in Education in Mathematics from the West Visayas State University in Iloilo City; and a Master of Education in Mathematics from the University of the Philippines in the Visayas. Before he immigrated to the United States, he was Math professor and coach at various schools.

“With Ate Josie’s experience and long time involvement with KI,” said Banas, “plus the guidance of our past presidents and chairs, there is no doubt that Kalayaan Incorporated will continue to be recognized as the leading community organization in Southern California.

“I promise to preserve the culture and tradition of KI, embrace and implement its vision, acknowledge and honor the wisdom of those who were ahead of us, and embrace diversity in the organization,” asserted Jose Relson, who was a recipient of the Young Achievers Award in Education from the Filipino American Lions Club of Los Angeles.

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Life Journey

By MELODY GARCIA

The Dual Role We Play

Just a short transition from celebrating

Alana V Tassi

Mother’s Day, we enter Father’s day as we honor the men whom we have called Daddy, Papa, “Tatay”, or Father. In this particular article, I take a bit of a detour from the tradition and highlight those whose unique roles have brought the blessings and challenges of single parenting. Meet today’s successful, strong, single moms: Mirena Umizaj: CEO of Frameless Consulting LLC & President of Settlement Professionals Inc. of Florida; Dara Karen Urbina: cofounder of iPrevail a nonprofit international company and Co-Owner of Pole Mamas LLC; Alana Tassi: Real Estate Agent; and TanyaDrascovic: CEO and Founder of World Elite Concierge.

Having the opportunity to have met with these women and conduct mini-interviews, their stories serve to inspire and ignite the passion for growth, vision and ability to overcome adversities. I’ve asked them the same questions and found, very interestingly, a similarly strong pattern and mindset that led them to success.

Tanya Draskovic First is knowing their Purpose. Without much of a second thought, all resounded to be the best mother they can be, however, the desire to serve and give back to the community, their level of self-accountability, their continuous quest to invest in themselves in growth, development, fitness, being well-rounded and whom they surround themselves with resounded strong.

Second, is having a Creed or Motto that represents their lifestyle and choices. Faith, positive mental focus, doing what honors them and making use of their Godgiven gifts

Dara Karen Urbina

Third, they all face the same challenges as single Moms playing the dual role of being mom and dad to their children. It’s about finding Balance in handling all facets of their lives. The busy life is often tripled. Take Dara for example, her son Noah was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and has to go through rigorous routines making sure his insulin levels are “normal”. “Striking a balance between personal and professional” life according to Mirena is an ongoing norm. But they all remain focused and steadfast. What drives them are their legacies called their children.

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Fourth, on the manner by which they achieved success. Some powerful statements were made by all four women. Mirena stated that there came a realization that “success” without fulfillment is ultimately a failure. She further added: “You can have money, social status and unlimited vacations, but these don’t necessarily make you successful or happy. I achieved success when I felt balanced and at peace with myself.” Tanya, Dara and Alanna, stressed on the importance of developing oneself whether it’s through the pursuit of education, certification or aligning with those already doing what one aspires to achieve and become,and, facing fears by overcoming challenges which in fact, may be areas of opportunities.

Finally, they share their Words of Wisdoms with other single parents playing the dual role.

Mirena comments “Stay committed to you and your wellbeing. Stay committed to love, acceptance, growth, passion and adventure and everything else will work itself out.

Tanya reminds us to “Never Give Up” while Dara and Alana further enhance on the importance of Trust and Faith in God in their journeys. And everyone agreed that having a great network of inspiring, trustworthy people around you and mentors who can guide you and help you continue to become what you are fully capable of being is very important. When asked whom they would love to mentor them if the sky was the limit. The responses ranged from the Tony Robbins, Esther Hicks, Jesus, Grandfather and still looking for one.

Mirena Umizaj

There are real “Wonder Women and Superwomen” who walk among the masses. Every day, they put on their superheroine capes, they often go incognito, and yet achieve incredible things. Parenting is a tough job and an incomparable responsibility for all of us blessed enough to have this role. Single parenting is even tougher. Although this particular write-up this month focused on the single moms, there is equal honor given to the single fathers out there. The quote that goes“ when life hands you lemons, make lemonade” is taken one step further by those who are walking the life of this challenging role, in short, they found the way to “own the orchard”. Happy Father’s Day and God bless everyone who is on this life journey.

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KAREN TIMARIO Karen Timario loves diversity and it stems from being multicultural in ethnicity, Filipino/Spanish/Irish. She lives life with a passion and gravitates around people who are positively driven. Her advocacies lie on children and women empowerment.

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MAUI MANIA

By EDITH PENDLETON

June is a dream month to get married as it has been the traditional time of year to tie the knot. Maui is a place of choice to engage in this life-long commitment and/or take a honeymoon after the ritual. Los Angeles has a lot to offer in terms of options so it is akin to sibling rivalry as to the better place to dream on.

June: A Middle Ground

Los Angeles has a rather odd way of

showing its climactic mood swings. June gloom it’s called.

Somehow, nature imposes its presence in the way clouds seem to hover over this sunny state’s city of angels.

How best to describe the middle month of the year when there is divergence with the traditional June bride, Father’s Day and in the Philippines, Independence Day! How does one make a choice as to the most relevant subject matter, they are all topics of interest to one or another. If you had a June nuptial, that is all that will matter.

Father’s Day can be a nice celebratory offering following Mother’s Day in May. Independence Day, well, maybe it’s something to also consider. Choices, choices…

Maui on the other hand has a more steady flow from month to month. The whales are seen mostly for the last time as they travel through the channels and birthing gives way to other whaling matters. Pun aside, there is a season and the Jacarandas are in full bloom both in Hawaii and California. There are travel discounts for airfares and so this is also a month to consider that break, either from island fever or from the concrete jungle.

The reason for Father’s day is not lost in the heels of last month’s tribute to mothers. Instead we discover that there is quite a revelation in this dynamic whereby we find that there are single parents out there who are either the father or the mother, all is fair in love and war. June is the balancing act that soothes the frazzled nerves of those who find themselves in these dual roles.

Yin yang is what I gather from all of the above. And when it comes to celebrating Philippine Independence, it’s still up in the air. Depending on which side of the fence one sits, or, chooses to sit on the fence, there is ongoing discussion as to what Filipinos really freed themselves from. With the chaotic fallout from all the political turmoil and the spoils of corruption, the nationalists who had such noble dreams for an independent and stable country free from the structures of colonialism are probably rethinking whether it was in the interest of freedom to allow destabilization from within as a contrast to being a state like Hawaii whose climate is quite similar. Needless to say, the native and local “kamaaina” will counter with their ongoing struggle to restore their independence from US federal governance and restore the order of society as it were before the “takeover”.

June is almost a ‘neutral’ month, and though it sits smack in the middle of the year, somehow it allows for reflection as to what has come about since our New Year resolutions and the opportunity to redeem ourselves from our deeds or misdeeds since there are six more months before the year is over.

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“FATHER AND SON” COMMODORE GERONIMO M. CABAL

By MAJOR RONALD M. CABAL

In honor of this upcoming Father’s Day, I would like to

remember someone very dear to me: my father, Commodore Geronimo M. Cabal (retired) of the Armed Forces of the Philippines. My name is Major Ronald M. Cabal (Ret), United States Air Force Reserve, and I am his youngest son. Just like my father, I proudly served and retired from the Armed Services.

My father passed away three years ago. Although he is no longer with us, I will always carry the teachings and the wisdom he passed on to me and try to live it out and share it with my children. I remember my father as a true patriot. He was recognized by various titles: A hero of Batanes Islands and the Philippines, a World War II Veteran, leader of the Bisumi guerilla fighters, Philippine Military Academy graduate class of 1944. The First Commanding Officer of the Destroyer RPS Rajah Soliman. The First Commandant of the Philippine Coast Guard, and a Retired Commodore from the Philippine Navy. Not to mention, he was an attorney and a constitutional delegate.

60 years ago, my father married my beautiful mother, Antonia Magsarili Cabal. Together, they had seven children: Winston, Wellington, Jane, Jean, Rosalie, Ronald (me), and Cheryl. Not to mention, fifteen grandchildren and five great-grandchildren. Growing up, my father taught us his beliefs in having integrity, honor, duty, service to country, and freedom. Our upbringing was regimented – this meant six a.m. wake-up calls, morning routines, and goal setting. My father thought it was important we complete these goals. Of course, being a kid, I preferred building model airplanes or playing basketballs, which meant not completely my goal “check-list.” However, instead of my father getting upset with me, I remember him sitting me down and talking about life lessons. He told me to fight for what I believe in and never give up on whatever goal I set before myself.

Some of my favorite memories include the stories my father would tell me about growing up in Batanes Island. For example, he would tell me how he loved riding his horse to high school, and how he was very sad to give his horse away when he went to college in Manila. My father also told me that despite not having electricity and certain resources in college, he always managed to study and be at the top of the class. From his experiences, my father emphasized that education is the key, my ticket to success.

Another story he told me was that when he was young and he would watch ships sail through the Pacific Ocean. Every time he saw one, he told himself, “One day I will be captain of a big ship.” Eventually, my father became the Captain of the Philippine Navy’s first destroyer, RPS Soliman.

Through his example, my father told me that I could be somebody if I worked hard for it. When my father wasn’t telling me stories, we would watch movies together – he always preferred documentaries or nature movies – and

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afterwards, we would eat ice cream together. We both loved ice cream. During one of our conversations about a war movie, I told my father, “In war, they will never capture me alive.” He responded immediately saying, “Son, life is precious. Live and fight another day and find a way to live.” He also shared with me his belief in God’s divine providence. He said, “Son, there were many times I could have been killed by the Japanese during the war, but I was always saved by a stroke of luck or something. Son, you are here for a reason. That reason is God’s providence.”

When my family immigrated to America in 1981, my father expressed he wanted me to go West Point. I did not end up applying to West Point, for at the time, I would rather hang out with my friends. Slowly, the life lessons my father taught me began to wither away, and I began to lose my drive and ambition. Then I realized I needed to snap out it, because I did not have the direction to move forward or accomplish the goals I had set when I was younger. As a result, I enlisted in the United States Army in 1986. When I took this intiative, the lessons that my father taught me began to dawn on me. Army basic training was tough – I was the shortest and the lightest guy in Army basic training. However, I remembered my father’s lessons on fulfilling your goals and decided never to give up. After serving my tour of duty with the 1st Armored Division in Germany, I went to the Army Reserves and became a college student. I began valuing education and realized my father was correct – education is the key to my success. I went on to graduating from Mt. San Antonio College, then California State University at Fullerton, and finally became a Registered Nurse. Working in the Emergency Departement, Oncology, and Perio-operative Care Unit, I found purpose saving and caring for people. Just like my father said, “These experiences are precious. LIFE IS PRECIOUS.” Immediately after September 11, 2001, I received my commission as 1st Lieutenant and served with the Nurse Corps. My father was elated when the Army pinned my bars. He was instrumental in my decision to becoming officer. Later, I transferred to the United States Air Force in 2006 and became a Flight Nurse, and was deployed overseas in Landstuhl Medical Center in Germany in 2004 and Balad Airbase in Iraq in 2011. I retired as Major from the military on February 23th, 2016 after 29 years of service. Unfortunately, my father passed away before I retired. However, all the lessons he taught me as a child about divine providence, life being precious, and never giving up still continue to influence my decisions and perspective on life.

When I met my wife Kim Cabal in 1991 and started my own family, I continued to believe in and cherish my father’s wisdom – passing it down to my own children. Now, I have two daughters: Christyana, who will be getting her Master’s at UCLA in the fall and my daughter, Kellie, who will be graduating from 6th grade. Though my wife and I are both nurses, we felt for a while that we had lost the American Dream and needed a change of pace. Thanks to my wife’s entrepreneur spirit, we found ourselves working alongside World Financial Group. We have an office with the Brookshire Baseshop in Diamond Bar, California and work as financial advisors. With WFG’s philosophy of “No Family Left Behind,” we are completely rewriting the record books on how financial products are distributed in the country and the world. The heart of what we do is helping people understand financial concepts to help give them a strong foundation to create a strategy for financial security. Our Executive Marketing Directors Jeffrey and Michelle Brookshire have been instrumental in our success in being who we are as business owners. They have titled our team the Dream Warriors, because we fight for families and help them rise. My wife and I decided to name our team, Team Providence, just like after my father’s motto for “God’s Providence.”

Our team name was solidified when we began learning more about the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the meaning of God’s providence at Mere Church in Rancho Cucamonga. Reading and listening to the Bible has given us a better understanding that God provides and takes care of His people, because He is good and sovereign. We are still learning more about God, but I feel like God’s providence has been a theme that keeps reoccurring in my life, from my father’s wisdom to our work mission. This father’s day, I will reflect on the person my father was and still is to me and how my Father in Heaven will also continue to lead and guide me as a father to my two daughters and as a husband to my beautiful wife.

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DR. SALVADOR ABIERA, P.T., D.P.T., M.D.

Photo by JOE COBILLA

In a country that’s bustling with many

opportunities as well as hardworking Filipinos with unmatched skill and dedication, it takes Dr. Sal Abiera’s intense personality and superior character to command the growth of the community and look after the well-being of others. He is not afraid to wear numerous hats, to lead, conquer, and take on various demanding roles to get the job done. A Clinician, Community Leader, Writer, Speaker, Innovator, Artist, Athlete, Culinary Genius, Entrepreneur and Philanthropist and a Loving Father are only a few words to describe Dr. Abiera. He is father to two children, one boy (29 year old) who is pursuing a Doctor of Physical Therapy and one girl, who graduated from UC Berkeley with a degree in Film. He graduated from the University of the Philippines Elementary School, University of Santo Tomas High School, and college at the University of Santo Tomas Institute of Physical Therapy with a BACHELOR OF SCIENCE IN PHYSICAL THERAPY. His post graduate education includes: University of Santo Tomas Faculty of Medicine and Surgery, as DOCTOR OF MEDICINE & SURGERY, Utica College DPT Program, Utica, New York as DOCTOR OF PHYSICAL THERAPY. He undertook Special Training at the University of Santo Tomas Hospital, in 1983 - PostGraduate Internship, Pre-Residency Training in General Surgery, Rural Health Physician, San Jose District Hospital, Occidental Mindoro, Philippines.

He consults with healthcare industries through Allstar Executives, Inc. (Healthcare Consulting, Training & Support Services, Chief Executive Officer; Procare Home Health Agency, Inc. (Montebello, CA) – President/CEO/Chairman of the Board; Mother’s Care Home Health Services, Inc. – Chairman of the Board; Blendship Inc., A Palliative & Hospice Agency (Upland, CA) - President/CEO; OPALIFE Greek Restaurants Franchises (Tempe, AZ) - Owner, Restaurateur, Brand Ambassador; Vita Grande Inc. Palliative Care & Hospice - Chairman of the Board; Axis of Life, Inc., A Venture Capital Group (Walnut, CA) - President/CEO; President & Life Member of the University of Santo Tomas Medical Alumni Association of Southern California; Board Member, Executive Council & Life Member, Philippine Medical Association of Southern California; Greater Los Angeles District of the American Physical Therapy Association - Former District Chair of Executive Board; California Delegate American Physical Therapy Association House of Delegates (Legislative Body) – Member; University of Santo Tomas Physical Therapy Association, U.S.A. – Founding President; University of Santo Tomas Medical Alumni Association (Philippines) – Life Member; University of Santo Tomas Medical Alumni Association of America, Board Member; Knights of Columbus: Past Grand Knight, Former District Deputy; Los Angeles Maharlika Lions Club – Member. He had former Affiliations with Able Hands Home Health Care (Walnut, CA) - President/CEO/Chairman of the Board; A-Biz Inc. dba A-Biz Health Systems (Walnut, CA) – President, Alltime Home Health Providers (Las Vegas, NV) – CFO/Chairman of the Board; MC Home Health Services, Inc. (Walnut, CA) Excellent Care Home Health Services, Inc. (Racho Cucamonga, CA); PTME Rehabilitation and Wellness Center Inc. (La Puente, CA) – President/CEO; PTME & Associates, Inc. – President; Physical Therapists Marketing Excellence (Paramount, CA) - Managing Partner; Integral Center for Physical Therapy – President/CEO; Covina West Medical Group (West Covina, CA) – Managing Partner; Dr. Joyce Mae B. Abiera Memorial Foundation (a non-profit charitable organization), President/CEO.

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Real Estate Investor, Private Money Lender, Tech Entrepreneur CHRISTOPHER VIGLIETTA THE DEALMAKER Christopher Viglietta is a Los Angeles native with strong ties to the real estate and technology industry in the U.S. He’s also an adrenaline junky who spends his time pursuing activities such as skydiving, sailing, racing, and extreme sports. He’s worked with several universities and private sector programs to launch entrepreneurship programs. His life’s mission is to innovate the real estate development and construction industry with autonomous robots. He’s currently looking for international partners.

Mr.Viglietta is no stranger to competition. He’s competed against the US’s top military officer candidates for a spot to attend prestigious military academies and has won approval from US Congressmen. Since leaving a potential military career, Mr. Viglietta has focused his attention and drive on making changes within the private sector. That’s how he ended up in real estate and technology. The current real estate market has led him to becoming a dominant force in the private money lending space where he personally lends upwards of $5M+ a month on real estate investments including acquisitions, fix and flips, bridge loans, and the overwhelming demand of refinancing.

If you’re an investor looking to allocate your money into the US, look no further, you’ve met THE DEALMAKER.Chris.Viglietta@civicFS.com

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ON THE BEAT

By FE P. KOONS

Remembering My Father I am an only child so it is inevitable that I would be spending time with

my father Gildegardo Panaligan. From my father I learned to fight for what I believe in. I remember nights when my mother and I would be sleeping alone in our house. My father was vice president of the auto workers union at Universal Motors and also with another auto manufacturing company. In the Philippines union camp out in protest by the front premises of the companies. I recall my father coming home to take a shower, get dressed and then go back to the strike area again. He got kicked out of the company because of his union activities, but he never regretted it. For my father, fighting for higher wages and benefits for the workers were very important issues to stand up for --- all at the cost of losing his job!

His belief in caring for the workers was instilled in my heart. I guess he never knew that early in my childhood, he was teaching me labor organizing and sometimes one has to compromise the moments of spending time with your family and fighting for the workers.

My father decided to put up a mom and pop store in La Loma where I grew up. In that store, I saw how our neighbors struggled to have food on their table. I mingled with jeepney drivers, and kids who sold newspapers. I learned to play chess with guys hanging around our store and played basketball on the street. They were the best times of my life. I distinctly remember my father allowing the poor to pay later for the food that they got from the store. He told me that the poor are good people and that the good things you do to others will make you richer in many ways! I remember adding up how much our neighbors owed us, but when they began to smile back at me and as a gesture of how grateful they were, I did not care if they owed us a lot of money. For this, they respected my father. They called him “Mr.” as a sign of respect. I was known as “Baby” the daughter of “Mr.” to whom they can run to for help and loan money if they needed some.

The love for the land was something I learned from my father. Every time we went to Mindoro, Philippines and spent a vacation at my grandfather’s house, planting was a common activity. I learned how to weed, plant pineapples, harvest lansones, fruits from the trees and to always take care of the farm. It really pains me that nowadays very few of the youth want to till the land and be peasant farmers. When my father retired and settled in Marinduque, he continuously planted. Around our house, there was cacao, coffee, rambutan, pineapple and coconut. He never stopped growing fruit trees. It is impossible for me not to become an environmental activist because of the love of the land that my father has taught me.

So on this Father’s Day, I say,“ I miss you a lot Tatay. I thank you for the wonderful memories and how I love you so much. You taught me the great values of helping the poor, fighting for the workers and taking care of the land. You guide me from heaven. My love forever!”

OVER A CUP OF TEA

By MALOU MARIANO

“Spring, being a tough act to follow, God created June.” Al Bernstein The sizzling summer is rolling in and half of the year has evaporated just like the mist at dawn when kissed by the rays of the sun. With the heat in mind, it is time to dare and bare under a wide brim hat, behind those dark glasses and drenched with the highest SPF sun block.

Talk about hydration. There is no excuse not to drink.

There’s flavored water galore, gas or sin gas and, of course, there’s also more that comes with happy hour. And talk about colorful - the Farmers Markets could not be more vibrant with the abundance of mangoes, oranges, cantaloupes, nectarines, plums, luscious strawberries, red and yellow cherries, and watermelon for munching or delightful shakes. (photos of beach beauties and fruits)

The month of May witnessed the celebrations of Asian Pacific Islander Heritage Month, Cinco de Mayo and Mother’s Day. A favored month for weddings, and school graduations, June is also regarded as the National Candy’s month as well as the National Iced Tea month in the United States. Oh yes, we welcome every reason to celebrate. (photos of Cinco de Mayo, API celebration, Mother’s Day). galo

Noelle Reyes

“In the blink of an eye, I went from changing her diapers to celebrating her superb list of accomplishments. Noelle Elaine Reyes finished college in THREE years, not with one, but TWO degrees, and not just from any school, but from the premier public

university in the nation, UC Berkeley while serving her country in the US Air Force Reserves, and earning the rank of Staff Sgt.” Remarks from the proud father, LA Lawyer Norberto Jojo Reyes.

Isa Manon Musni graduated from the California Institute of Arts. When told that graduates could wear whatever they wanted to the ceremony; she opted for a Miss Philippines/Universe Isa Manon Musni Pia Wurtzbach “who won? and Fides Enriquez Me?” gown. What a great sense of humor! Isa’s proud mom, Fides Enriquez quipped: “She is the first in the family to graduate in “Murica.”

Shane Brantley with parents Gladz and Raul Bautista and other family members.

Long Beach Celebration of the Asian Pacific Islanders Month with Government Officials

Bragging Rights Bing Cardena Branigin was recently in LA with husband, Bill to celebrate their daughter, Anne’s graduation with an MS on communications and journalism at USC. A remarkable young woman who has lived in some of the world’s exotic places and who can speak several languages, Anne was awarded the Most Outstanding MS in Journalism Student.

From the Island of Alohas, macadamia nuts, whispering breeze and Hang Ten waves. Gladz and Raul Bautista celebrated son, Shane Brantley’s graduation at the University of Hawaii.

Cynthia Carolyn Tan wrote: “Commencement Exercise of my favorite first son Kristian Tan Bachelor of Science in Biology minor in Chemistry – California State University, Long Beach.”

Vanessa Dichoso, unica hija of Van and Dr. Marilou Estandarte Dichoso has graduated from high school and is now at UCLA. Mom, Marilou writes: “UCLAs Samahang Pilipino

UCLA. Mom, Marilou writes: “UCLAs Samahang Pilipino Cultural Night (SPCN) is on May 28. I am so happy that Vanessa has embraced the Filipino community by taking an active role in this organization. There are 160 participants in this year’s event and she will be performing the bangko dance. Am a proud supporter and donor of SPCN! Here she is with the organizers and performers (Right, 4th row). More power and success to Samahang Pilipino.”

Florante Aquilar was awarded for his contribution to the Diaspora of Philippine Culture. He thanked the ACPA, USF Performing Arts & Social Justice, Parangal Dance Company, and Kularts. Florante is humbled to be in the same company as Rudi Soriano, Danny Kalanduyan, Polly Manalo Herrera and Leny Strobel.

From Colorado, Rachele Espiritu Vo was sworn in as a Board member for District 4 of Denver Public Schools. She will represent the largest and most diverse region within the system. She earned her Master’s Degree and a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from the University of Colorado in Boulder. Espiritu also serves as the Project Director for the National Network to Eliminate Disparities in Behavioral Health, and was appointed by Denver Mayor Michael B. Hancock to serve as a Commissioner on the Denver Asian Pacific American Commission.

Politics, here and there

Mike Guingona and Mae Cendana Torlakson are two prominent Filipino Americans running for public office this coming election. A criminal lawyer, Mike is a long time City Council and Mayor of Daly City who is seeking a

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A BEEK and not a Geek.

The friendly skies and Philippine Air Lines lost Lilibeth Mercado when a joyful life situation took her to Louisiana and transformed her into a modern Southern Belle. Today, she is a happy Beek, a Beek Lilibeth moniker for Beekeeper.

It all started with the video, Romanian bees still creating a buzz in the health industry. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oaISRq6IQO8 Lilibeth got very interested in the curative power of bee sting because her friend had multiple sclerosis.

Curiosity took her to Ilog Maria Honeybee Farm in Silang, Cavite where she met the owner, Joel Magsaysay, and experienced her first bee sting. Through that tiny venom injection, she discovered the true meaning of PAIN. However, after regular treatments, she noted improvements in her body and she started using bee products like propolis for asthma and honey for wounds.

One would say “poor honeybee!,” knowing that imparting a bee sting is fatal to this lovely creature, but it is a sacrifice much like harvesting meat from chickens or cows. As a beekeeper, Lilibeth guarantees the continuity of their species.

The biggest challenges in beekeeping are pesticides and mosquito control, which not only poison them directly, but their water source as well. The most rewarding part is that the more she learns about honey bees, the closer Lilibeth feels with its creator, the ultimate Beek.

Photo caption with bees: To her delight Lilibeth Mercado is now numbered among The Beeks of Louisiana. Here she is inspecting her beehives from the side because a frontal approach would block the entryway for the bees.

Mike Guingona

seat on the Board of San Mateo County. He is a martial arts instructor and a military reservist. Mae Torlakson was elected member of the Board of Ambrose Recreation and Park District, wants to be the first Filipino woman in the State Assembly. She was a recording artist in the Philippines before moving to California where she met her politician husband and the rest, as they say, is history. When elected, Mike Guingona will be the first Asian American on the Board of San Mateo County.

Farewell Philippine Ambassador to the US, Jose Cuisia and Los Angeles Consul General Leo Herrera Lim will be honored at a farewell reception that will be held at the Los Angeles City Hall. Both have completed their respective posts and are ready for the next adventure. At least, this holds true for Ambassador Cuisia. Consul General Leo Herrera-Lim will be on home leave and will prepare for his next diplomatic assignment. Thank you for serving the Filipino communities and for promoting trade, culture and goodwill between the Philippines and the United

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Vinnie Scafidi :

A father of all reasons for all seasons

By EDITH PENDLETON

Who is Vinnie? A father and more…

At the ripe young age of fifty one, Vinnie is rediscovering himself. He is above all, a father. Then, he has other coats to wear as a son, businessman and friend.

Vinnie defines himself with people in his life. As a single father who raised his kids, he won’t see it any other way. He had toddlers for starters. A major turning point came about when he made the decision, to stay rather than leave them. His resolve cost him no regrets.

In real estate since 1999 his first year yielded one home sold as a realtor. He shifted on to other pursuits with DiTech, Home Corporate America and Independent Entrepreneurs. He is currently a Senior Mortgage Consultant with Carrington Real Estate, Inc. As for his first priority being a single father raising children, he has only self sacrifice as the main reason and advice to other men who find themselves in his shoes. Children come first. The biggest challenge being time management.

Without enough time for himself, then because it was always about them, he is rediscovering himself. The kids, now in their 20’s allows him opportunities beyond more than just passing in and out of relationships.

In his youthful years being single, he was footloose and fancy free, but all changed when the children arrived. He was much more different then and now, he is rediscovering himself. In this self rediscovery, with Fountain Valley in front of him , however, he doesn’t want to be tied down to a desk.

His fondest memories as a father was: “Daddy! Daddy!”, my kids running to see him after work.

No matter how bad a day it was, it became better. As

a loan officer now, he choose the field following the counsel of his parents who told him to do what he enjoys in life. He had lots of jobs because of his lifestyle in his younger days, but at 51 years old, Vinnie enjoys quality time for himself, biking, listening to live music with friends and is open to exploring new things that are in his bucket list.

When it comes to expectations from his children, he absolutely does not interfere with their choices.

He will always be there for them to give advice, but they choose what they have to do. Socially functioning individuals they have become is what they are, happy people as individuals.

There is a saying of old, he adds, that if he knew back then what he knows now… he would have ruined the world!

He will always be a father till the day he dies.

He likes dancing and travel, but needs to set time aside for these activities along with going to the beach and enjoying outdoor activities.

As to what he wants for Father’s Day, it is pretty simple, to hang out casually with his kids, go out to lunch, or see what the kids do and go from there.

And also, he would counsel single fathers to always support the kids, they may not be the kids you want them to be and fit into a mold. Let them live their own lives, make their own mistakes, but keep the lines of communication open. When one imposes rules, it is hard to open the lines because what worked for you may not work for them.

Compilation of photos by ICEE CRUZ

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BECKY GARCIA’S MANY BIRTHDAY CELEBRATION!

By ATTY. MANETTE AGBAYANI

The month of May in the Philippines is the

time of merriment when feasts/fiestas and sagalas all over the country are held. How apt that BECKY GARCIA, one of the country's most loved personalities was born on the same month. This year's series of celebration is no different from those of the previous years.

It started with a surprise birthday asalto in the guise of bienvenida party for Lady Minda Feliciano Lonsdale & Atty. Manette Agbayani at the posh Blackbird initiated by Marissa Fenton & hosted by Ex-Gov. Chavit Singson. As yearly tradition, her spiritual guru and close friend Inquirer columnist George Sison conducted the traditional velum to attract all the blessings all year round.

Emma Nieto, Tess Willockx and Nancy Bismonte organized the next celebration at the Cafe Aruga of Rockwell attended by her closest friends.

Rep. Imelda Marcos and Becky Garcia

Becky Garcia, Rep. Imelda Marcos and Makati Shangrila GM Alain Borgers

Noel Gonzales owner of Muebles Italiano hosted another big event at the Shang Palace, Shangrila Makati Hotel with former First Lady now Congresswoman Imelda Marcos, Gov. Chavit Singson, famous host and Phil. Star columnist Johnny Littton, young billionaire Joseph Calata, Joel Cruz of Aficionado, Camille Agbayani of L'Aura Wellness-Los Angeles, actor/director Ricky Davao, handsome couple Joel and Joy Rustia, Anthony Violago, sister-in-law Lady Minda Feliciano Lonsdale and Asia's Jazz King, Tony Bennett of the Philippines Arthur Manuntag and the celebrant's better half Dr. George Sarakinis, to name a few. Joy Fong of Vanity Fair was in charge of the lavish and sinful 14 course menu.

Not to be outdone, Gela Cornelissen and Michelle Lee organized a green themed party at Smith Butcher and Grill Room with famous hairstylist Jesi Mendez as addition to the usual cadre of friends.

An impromptu birthday dinner came next at the Peninsula Hotel hosted by Camille Agbayani and sister Atty. Manette Agbayani with surprise guests actress Isabel Rivas and wellness guru Cory Quirino.

To date, plenty more parties are being cooked and lined up by other friends the closest of which is being organized and hosted by Kathy Park of Kaya Korean Restaurant and another one by Emilio Mina of Caruso Ristorante Italiano.

Camille Agbayani, Jazz Carreon and Gov. Chavit Singson

To Becky Garcia who has defied aging, by looking younger and younger each year, "HAPPIEST BIRTHDAY!"

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A Father’s Story By: MARIA R. ANONAS

Thousands, if not millions of articles have been written about men. Of all these men, many

are famous and some not so famous – who have sacrificed their lives for our country and other parts of the world. These men have given their time, talent, and energy in order to attain greatness. There are so many great men in this universe of ours. But despite the countless accolades, tributes, and recognitions among all these men who have existed in our history and have come in our lifetime, we as human beings never seem to look further beyond our own backyard to find our real hero.

This Father’s Day, I am going to pay tribute to a very special man in my life. My father was a simple man who kept my family together in overcoming difficult odds.

Jaime U. Anonas was born in Santa Ana, Manila in the year 1930. His father, Ceferino Anonas, was a high school teacher while his mother, Basilia Ugalde, was a homemaker. He had a brother, Clario, and two sisters Conching and Erlinda. Sadly, Erlinda, the youngest of four, died tragically from an accident during World War II. She was only 8 years old.

MANILA UP! 77 Jimmy, as my father was fondly called, was 12 years old when World War II broke out. He was sent home one early morning from school and unfortunately, that was to be the last time he will get to see several of his classmates. They did not survive the war. Although my Dad came from a humble middle class family, he tested his entrepreneurial skills by selling small bags of peanuts after school in and around the neighborhood. As he became a teenager, he developed his fondness for sports and excelled in basketball. For a Filipino, standing at 5’9 inches was considered rather tall in those days.

He proceeded to play basketball for Aurallo High School in Manila, eventually graduating in 1949. The graduating class called themselves the ’49ers. He pursued his college career by enrolling at the University of the East. He earned his Bachelor’s Degree in Business Management and Accounting. Not long after he completed his internship, he was

hired by Philamlife Insurance Company as a Junior Accountant. While as an accountant with Philamlife, he was subsequently offered a big promotion as a Housing Project Administrator for Philamlife Homes in Quezon City. This was a huge undertaking. Under his leadership, he will be overseeing close to 1,000 homeowners along with their problems from simple plumbing to major renovations.

It was also during this time in 1956 that he met my mother Monica, a young college co-ed who lived with her eldest sister Perla and her family. She was a resident of Philamlife Homes. A serious romance blossomed and they were eventually got married in 1957. That same year my oldest brother Caesar was born. I was born 10 years later, then my brother Jose the following year, followed by my sister Cece, and lastly, my youngest brother John Paul.

In 1969, My father was offered another promotion by Philamlife Homes. The company was looking to expand by building another housing project. However at this time, it will be located in Las Piñas, then a part of Rizal, Manila. Without hesitation, my father accepted the offer and moved his wife and then four children to Las Piñas. He continued to be the Housing Project Administrator of Philamlife Village Las Pinas until one tragic day in 1977.

My father was attending a leadership seminar in Pampanga when he suffered a massive stroke. He was taken to Manila Sanitarium Hospital via ambulance where he spent over two months recuperating. With almost a year of rehabilitation, the doctors decided that he could no longer go back to his duties as an administrator and so shall remain permanently disabled. Luckily, my mother was a natural born American Citizen; therefore, we had an option of being able to immigrate to the United States. So in 1978, my oldest brother and I immigrated and 10 months later in April of 1979, the entire family moved to Covina, CA. Even though my father was disabled and unable to work, he made himself readily available for his family. He pursued his physical therapy and was able to be strong enough to start driving again. He drove me and my siblings to school and drove my mother to work everyday. At the end of the day, he picked all of us up - five different times for 5 different people. He did the laundry, folded clothes, mowed the lawn, cleaned the house, washed dishes and fed the dogs. This was his special routine for close to 15 years until the time of his death from an aortic aneurysm in 1999.

My father was a simple, honest, hardworking, intelligent yet humble man. This is a simple story of his Life.

Yet beyond its simplicity lies the countless extraordinary qualities that he represented in all of the fathers that have gone before us. Every one of us has our own unique father stories. Some are greater than others, but none more special and meaningful.

Happy Father’s Day Everyone!

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ELNA VILLAFLOR Manila Up May 2016 Cover Girl Photography by PHILLIP NER

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DR. EDGAR C. BANEZ, M.D. I was born 63 years ago in Quezon City,

Philippines. I grew up in Narvacan, Ilocos Sur. I finished medical school at UERM, 40 years ago. I did orthopedic surgery at National Orthopedic Hospital in Banawe, Quezon City, Philippines. I came to the U.S. in 1984 and finished my Internal Medicine residency at Martin Luther King/Drew Hospital in Wilmington, California.

On family life: I am married to Flordeliza Banez, R.N. We have two beautiful daughters, Melissa Jade, and Pia Ruth.

On the obstacles of becoming a doctor in America:

I had to pass two licensure exams and adjust against discrimination to foreign medical graduates.

On what sets you apart: I was honored as one of L.A.'s best doctors by the Los Angeles City Council. I organize annual medical missions for UERM, and the Philippine Medical Association. I was the past president of the Philippine Medical Association - Southern California Chapter, as well as the past president of UERM - Southern California Chapter, and UERM - National Alumni Association

On being a family man and a doctor: Balancing between family responsibilities and the enormous demands to a physician by his patients are always a challenge in my everyday life. I also have responsibilities to my brothers and sisters, and to my mother who still reside in the Philippines.

The love of my family and the guidance of our everlasting Lord are what helps me to continue on.

On being a father: The achievements of my two beautiful daughters are the testaments to being a great parent. The values that I've learned living in poverty and growing up with six brothers and sisters, guided by the love and care of my parents have prepared me to be a better father.

Photo by JOE COBILLA

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ROSEMARIE BELLE TRINIDAD MEJIA Rosemarie Belle is a seasoned real estate agent with over 20 years of experience. She has helped numerous

clients turn their bank savings into a thriving investment portfolio of houses and rental properties. Specializing in rental properties, commercial properties, single family homes, vacant land, leases, short sales, and foreclosures. Rosemarie is also a financial consultant, a real estate investor, and a Certified Resident Property Manager.

Aside from her career, Rosemarie Belle is also an active member of her hometown in the Philippines, by donating her money to feed the poor and homeless, funds to build churches, gifts to schools and school children, food distribution to the less fortunate people, gifts to sick children in the hospital, and provides basic necessities, and feed the elderly. She is also very active and frequent donor here in California to many churches and non-profit community organizations helping the poor, the sick, and the needy, as well as international civic organizations.

Rosemarie Belle lived and studied in Pampanga, Philippines (her Mom’s hometown), and frequently visited Pangasinan (her Dad’s province). To pursue her studies, she also lived in Manila. She graduated from High School from Jose Rizal University. She earned her degree in Commerce majored in Management from PUP, and took post graduate studies in Business Education in San Diego, California.

During her childhood and teen years, she was already a Beauty Queen at her communities and schools.

Rosemarie has recently won beauty pageants and has been recently crowned as Ms. Earth, Ms. Lakambini ng Kalayaan, and Valentines Queen. She has also been given the titles of Lakambini ng Pag-Ibig, Lakambini ng Pag-Asa, at recent community events.

Some of her passions include traveling, dancing, singing, cooking, and going to the gym. She hopes to travel to more places. Rosemarie Belle has been an inspiration to her family and friends in the U.S. and abroad. Family and friends have encouraged her to one day write her memoir, to hopefully serve as an inspiration to many. One legacy that she has often tried to impart to her family, relatives, and friends is: “No matter what you have achieved in life, not to forget your roots!” Rosemarie’s goal is to make a difference in everyday life and help the less fortunate ones. She hopes to leave her humble mark into the lives and hearts of the people she has touched.

Awards and Achievements: Top Seller, Top Listing Agent (Agent who gets the most properties to sell), 100% Club, Platinum Club, Hall of Fame Awardee for most sales, Los Angeles Super Real Estate Agent, Outstanding Service and Contribution Awards by the City of Los Angeles, Outstanding Leader of the Year, held the position as President of MOTHER (Movement to Help End Rape and Child Abuses), and been with L.A. Philippine Women’s Club, Filipino American Community of L.A., Filipino American Service Group Inc., National Association of Professional Women, National Association of Realtors, California Association of Realtors, Philippine Chamber of Commerce, Foundation Chairman of Rotary Club of Historic Filipinotown.

Rosemarie Belle is also a proud recipient of two much-coveted awards from Tri-Media, first the Leadership Award then Tri Media’s highest award: Tri Media Lifetime Award! She is a Co-Founder of her Alma Mater’s PUP Alumni Assn USA, and serves as PUPAA USA Board Member as Vice President-PRO, and slated as an Awardee as One of the Outstanding Alumni and Successful Graduates of PUP during the Alumni’s Global Reunion in May in Las Vegas.

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I remember when I had my daughter Hannah. My greatest fear was how to raise her properly since I never really had an example that I could follow. I prayed desperately to God knowing that as a young Christian, it was my responsibility to raise her up in the Lord. One day in my time of prayer the Lord impressed upon me the well-worn Lord’s Prayer, particularly the first two words - “Our Father.” I felt the Lord speak to my heart saying, “If you want to be a good father, look to me.”

Reflections of Hope

By REV. R.D. QUEMA

Fathers for the Next Generation Psalm 78:5–7 (ESV) 5 He established a testimony in Jacob and appointed a law in Israel, which he commanded our fathers to teach to their children, 6 that the next generation might know them, the children yet unborn, and arise and tell them to their children, 7 so that they should set their hope in God and not forget the works of God, but keep his commandments;

This month ushers a new chapter in Philippine history. The people have chosen a new president.

Their choice reflects a collective desire for change, for discipline. As a believer and follower of Jesus Christ I see it as an opportunity to recognize that what we really need is a transformation that can only be ushered by a return to God’s plan and purpose of us. If we really want to see change, we need to begin with the shaping of the young Filipino men so they can be godly fathers for the next generation.

The people of Israel were given a legacy of faith and a mission to be a nation that will manifest the supremacy of their God. They experienced amazing acts of God’s power and miracles that established them by the hand of God. All they had to do was to obey God and follow His plan. But they got so caught up in their own desires. The men who were supposed to lead them were drawn by their desires and forgot God. He reminded them of God’s command that fathers have the solemn responsibility to teach their children so that they can know God personally.

2 Chronicles 7:14–15 (NIV) 14 if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 15 Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayers offered in this place.

Put God first in your life. Acknowledge the truth that as Creator, He has designed us for a specific purpose. Fathers can stand up to many tests and trials better when they are on their knees before a holy God. Be a man of prayer. Second, let your experience inform you and the Word of God instruct you that you may pass on your wisdom to the next generation.

Deuteronomy 4:9 (NIV) 9 Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them fade from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them.

This new era will be shaped by how we can be informed by our history, never forgetting the painful lessons we have learned, and receiving instruction from God’s Word so we can chart a new course for the country. We have a hope and that hope is found in Jesus Christ. Finally, be a disciple, a follower of Christ who will disciple others for Christ. As fathers, this begins at home. Lead them in transforming the community with God’s love.

Ephesians 6:4 (NIV) 4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

As we welcome this new chapter in the nation’s history, let us rise to the challenge as men and be the fathers for the next generation.