Love and its ways

Love and its ways At the present, so many people, are breaking up with their partners, or taking some room out of the relationship, or already separated, can find senseless the expression “love will find its ways.”

Well, referring to “love will find its ways”, I do about a real feeling. When there is love, this will overcome any situation or knock down barriers. Perhaps, you’re in the middle of the split-up, but if a real feeling is there, so the conflict between you and your partner will let you see what is missing and what is the thing to fix –beyond any doubt, you need more than love for it, I mean open-mindedness.

For those who are separated, love will reveal a true feeling about the other, and if this strong it will help you to make up with the other –once you´ve been aware of your mistakes and your partner’s gift; a thing that you haven’t previously for rage.

If a wall-like barrier rise such as: close-mindedness or bending personality –an influential one by a third party against you, or fears for freedom lose, though love still. This feeling will make a new personality well up inside of the individual. And, it will give a new perspective of his feelings and the relationship, so the person will rebel against the negative influences around.

PS. If you don’t know that love is energy and the most powerful one in the whole universe, then what I wrote above is bullshit for you.

Love over differences Isn’t rare to find differences in a relationship such as social class, religion, culture or race.

The key to success in differences between a couple that loves each other is acceptance.

If the two people that are partners come from different backgrounds, one should understand another. In a social class gap between them, the partner from higher class should deal with the habits and point of view of the other because of that is easier to go down a few steps than to climb them -when it’s referred to social status. Unless that the individual from a lower class than that of his partner wishes to arise himself from his previous status and adopt the rules and behave according to the expectations of the higher class.

In reference to religion and culture, acceptance and respect is paramount. No one should interfere with the other about his credence, nor run down his partner’s culture. In case of that the couple decides to have children, then they’ll deal with a bigger issue where the hey is agreement and tolerance until the child comes of age and choose what religion or culture he or she will embrace.

About race comes the first principle of love: acceptance.

Love over materialism Nowadays, relationships are seen as the means for financial benefits or privileges. In fact, 80% of New York marriages are based on financial associations. Anyone who ties down in this kind of relationship will either carry on a heavy burden or see as the relationship becomes a hard work dealing with the provider.

This sort of relationships make difficult for any person establishes a relationship based on love in the future; inasmuch as that he or she is used to consider relationships like business.

Love is forgiveness Perhaps one could find hard to forgive another after a bitter and suffering experience between them or a painful break-up. However, there is no an existing thing or happened event that can’t be forgiven. Those who don’t forgive are exposed to live inside their own hell.

It’s ironic, at least, not hilarious, that in many cases what should be forgiven is a silly thing. So don’t bog yourself down on account of your stubbornness about your belief that events or things have to be as you think.

Oliver Frances