MAGAZINE OF THE INTERNATIONAL WOMEN OF ISTANBUL
04 MARCH APRIL 2012
MAGAZINE OF THE INTERNA TIONAL WOMEN OF IST ANBUL
A day witH
Yildirm Mayruk IWI Programs
March & April 2012
DISCOVER THE AUTHOR IN YOUR CHILD
IPWIN IWI Spring Ball
La Dolce Vita
Contents IWI
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Board information Board letter Regular Activities Join IWI Calendar Programs Other Groups & Associations Partners Offers Classified Ads Directory Policies & Advertising
CHARITY Cats… Cats… Cats… İZEV
MUMS ‘N KIDS
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Happy in our Skins Discover the author in your child A new Terracota Army Third culture kids Paly for healthy children development How to make a good swimmer Announcements
SPONSORED ARTICLES Time Out: Ending street harrassment Cornucopia: The Milky Way
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LALE FEATURES IPWIN IPWIN
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A day with Yıldırım Mayruk The Different Dimensions of Social Responsibility World of gems: Aquamarine
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the IWI OFFICE Every Wednesday, from 10.30am to 1pm, the office will be open and we encourage members and newcomers to drop in for a chat and a coffee. If you know of anyone new to Istanbul who would like to find out more about the IWI, then let them know we are open for questions every Wednesday between 10.30am and 1pm. The office address is: Adnan Saygun Cad., Öz Topuz Sok. Çamlıtepe Sitesi, No. 74 Blok C1 / D2 Ulus, Ortaköy. (Entrance to the Çamlıtepe Sitesi is opposite Ulus Park.) Map to the office is at the back of the magazine.
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Board Information
IWI Office Hours:
The IWI Board members 2011-2012
Wednesday from 10:30 AM till 1:00 PM
Address: Adnan Saygun Caddesi, Çamlıtepe Sitesi No:74 Blok C1 / D2 Ulus Ortaköy Istanbul – TURKEY Telephone: 0212 287 35 71 www.iwi-tr.org
Chairwoman
Suzy Kaluti
chairwoman@iwi-tr.org
Vice-Chairwoman
Esbie van Heerden
esbie@iwi-tr.org
Treasurer
Maj-Britt Riis-Hansen
treasury@iwi-tr.org
Secretary
Natalie Deutscher
natalie@iwi-tr.org
Office Manager
POSITION OPEN
Membership Secretary
Ayşe Natalie Turgut
membership@ iwi-tr.org
Dergi Adı/Magazine Name:
Events Coordinator
Eleonore Gamard
eleonore@iwi-tr.org
Lale, Monthly Programme of the International Women of Istanbul
Events Co-Coordinator
Kristina Ayoub
kristina@iwi-tr.org, iwi.xmasbazaar@iwi-tr.org
Sponsorship Coordinator
Johanna Widholm
johanna@iwi-tr.org
Yayını Yapan/Publisher:
Charity Coordinator
Laurina van Dam
laurina@iwi-tr.org
IWI International Women of Istanbul, Dernek Kod: 34-64/027
Charity Coordinator
Liza Bootsma
liza@iwi-tr.org
Lale Co-Editor
Güldehan Aysan
lale@iwi-tr.org
Lale Co-Editor
Yasemin Olcay
lale@iwi-tr.org
İrtibat Adresi/Address:
Advertising Coordinator
Anna Rappaport
advertising@iwi-tr.org
Adnan Saygun Caddesi, Çamlıtepe Sitesi No:74 Blok C1 / D2 Ulus Ortaköy Istanbul – TURKEY
Programs Coordinator
Jasmine Yüzer
jasmine@iwi-tr.org
IPWIN Coordinator
Marie-Theres Raberger
ipwin@iwi-tr.org
Newcomers Coordinator (European side)
Hana Danon
hana@iwi-tr.org
Newcomers Coordinator (European side)
Camelia Sağişman
camelia@iwi-tr.org
Newcomers Coordinator (Asian side)
Petra Gönenç
petra@iwi-tr.org
Neighborhood Coffee Mornings Coordinator
Nalini Narang
nalini@iwi-tr.org
Mums'N Kids Coordinator
Gigi Aksu
gigi@iwi-tr.org
Liaison Officer
Ebru Demirel
ebru@iwi-tr.org
Charity Assistant
Angela Roberts-Kuzucu
angela@iwi-tr.org
Lale Assistant
Johanna Widholm
johanna@iwi-tr.org
Programs Assistant
Derryn Snowdon
derryn@iwi-tr.org
Programs Assistant
Dilya Gok
reservations@iwi-tr.org
Yayın Türü/Issue Type:
Programs Assistant
Ayşe Yücel
aysegurleryucel@gmail.com
Yerel Süreli
IPWIN Assistant
Cerstin Diewald
ipwin.mail@gmail.com
Neighborhood Coffee Mornings Assistant
Christina Türk
christinaturk@tnn.net
Tasarım/Design:
Mums'N Kids Co-coordinator
Karolina Meisloch
karolina_ungefehr@web.de
Marlet Advertising Studios www.marlet.com.tr +90 216 386 32 16
Mums'N Kids Co-coordinator
Molly Grünberg
mollyhouser77@yahoo.com
Book Club 1
Lesley Tahtakiliç
tahtakilic@superonline.com
Book Club 2
Fiona Houlton
houlton4@yahoo.com
Tennis Club
POSITION AVAILABLE
Istanbul@Night
POSITION AVAILABLE
İmtiyaz Sahibi/Licensee: Suzanne Bruns Kaluti
Adresi/Address: Badur Boğaziçi Evleri No. 3/5 Özden Sokak Nispetiye Caddesi Etiler, Istanbul Tel: 0212 287 45 57
Sorumlu Yazı İşleri Müdürü/ Responsible Editor:
The Team members 2010-2011
Laily Neyzi
Adresi/Address: Kemerburgaz Mesa Evleri, Lavanta 7, D:9, 34075 Göktürk, Istanbul
Matbaa/Printer: Marlet Print Solutions www.marlet.com.tr +90 216 386 32 16
Basım Tarihi: 07.03.2012 Sayı: 57
THANK YOU! The cover illustration is for celebrating the coming spring "Descending Agaves" .It is an illustration of Hande Iyicil which took place in her "Spikies" exhibition in autumn.Her works can be seen at http://hiyicil.deviantart.com
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Board Letter
Esbie van Heerden Dear IWI Members,
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fter a harsh winter the first tentative signs of spring are appearing around us. Likewise, at the IWI we are becoming increasingly active with newly budding projects. First and foremost on our agenda is the upcoming Spring Ball. Please clear your diaries for 26 May, 2012! This year’s theme is La Dolce Vita and the IWI has gotten special permission to hold the ball at the spectacular “Venetian Palace” or “Palazzo Venezia” in Beyoğlu. In fact, the Turkish name of Pera, Beyoğlu, is linked to the Venetian ambassadorial title of Bailo, whose palazzo was the most grandiose structure in this quarter. The informal Turkish-language title, Bey Oğlu (literally Son of Governor/Emir) was originally used by the Ottoman Turks to describe Lodovico Gritti, who was the Venetian Bailo in Istanbul during the reign
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of Sultan Bayezid II. Originally built in the early 16th century, the "Venetian Palace" was the seat of the Bailo. The original palace building was replaced by the existing one in 1781, which later became the "Italian Embassy" following Italy's unification in 1861, and the "Italian Consulate" in 1923, when Ankara became the capital of the Republic of Turkey. It is a beautiful building and you will have the rare chance to see it in all its glory. In true IWI style we are planning a spectacular event for you. It promises to be one of the most glamorous parties of this spring so the time has started to the think of your dazzling outfit that reflects all that La Dolce Vita – a life filled with glamour and indulgence – encompasses. The dress code will be Black Tie and if you would like more information, or want to join our events team please e-mail springball@iwitr.org. Now that the period of winter hibernation is over, why not get involved with IWI? We are looking for volunteers for this season and also board members for next year. The Pink Angels have especially asked for volunteers to help bring a little spring cheer to the children who are leukaemia patients at Okmeydanı Hospital. Please contact laurina@iwi-tr.org if you are interested. We are also offering the writers in our midst the chance to get involved in updating our website. We would like those of you who are knowledgeable about life in Turkey to help us with the pages about local life and if you have a blog please contact esbie@ iwi-tr.org. Recruitment for the 2012/2013 board has also started. There is no need
for you to have a gap in your CV, you can gain valuable experience while you are in Istanbul. Whether you would like to help a little or would like to play a more professional role, we would like to speak to you. We can offer you support undertaking a new role and learn new skills. Joining the IWI board creates an opportunity to meet people from all over the world and join a fun team. On the 18th of February, Istanbul’s Dutch community celebrated 400 years of diplomatic relations between Turkey and The Netherlands with a grand charity ball at the Marriot hotel in Ataşehir. This year, for this event, the IWI co-operated with the Dutch association (NVI) and especially our treasurer Maj-Brit Riis- Hansen donated her expertise and time. We would like to thank the Dutch and Turkish business community, as well as IWI members who attended the event and made it possible for us to facilitate a donation of over 100 000 TL to the charity CYDD - Support for Modern Life Association – where the money will be used for educational bursaries for underprivileged girls. Finally, we would love to see more of you at our programs. Programs are not limited to members only, you are welcome to bring guests along too. Please have a look at what we have planned in the programs section of Lale, and don’t forget that full information is available on the website. Ciao and viva “La Dolce Vita”! IWI Vice-Chairwoman
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ıwı regular activities The Weekly Meeting Place of the IWI Café Meet - Alkent
Asian Coffee Mornings
All new comers and IWI members mark your calendars for Thursdays! Our popular weekly meeting spot in Etiler welcomes you anytime between 12 noon and 2 pm for lunch, coffee and a friendly chat. Camellia and Hana, our newcomer coordinators, will be there to greet you with a smile and introduce you to the other members. We look forward to seeing you there!
Please note that we now regularly meet at CAFE CADDE in Erenköy. Meet new members, establish new friendships or renew existing ones in İstanbul. Please note that the place offers 10% discount on food (lunch) and free coffee/tea for the IWI members! It’s the first and third Tuesday of every month.
Date
: See Calendar for details
Date
:
See Calendar fot Details
Time
: 12 noon to 2 pm
Time
:
11:00 am - 1:30pm
Venue
: Meet Café (Nunyo Café)
Venue
:
Cafe Cadde, Erenköy
Cost
: Pay as you order
Cost
:
Pay as you order
Meeting Place
: Tepecik Yolu, Alkent Sitesi, Etiler
Meeting Place
:
Bağdat Caddesi, Cafe Cadde, Erenköy
Reservations
: Not required
Reservations
:
No reservations necessary
Person to Contact
:
Petra Gönenç
Contact details
:
0532 275 42 19
Phone
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:
Camellia Sağışman 0532 236 97 55 Hana Danon 0532 213 31 51
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Previous Activities
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ıwı regular activities ART CLUB Experiment with your creativity. The IWI Art Club will take place twice month on Thursdays. It alternates between mornings and evenings. We commenced in October with water colour (aquarelle) but we will also experiment with other media. Check for updates and make your reservation on www.iwi-tr.org. Are you an artist or craftsperson? E-mail esbie@iwi-tr.org if you would like to share your talents with us!
BOOK CLUB The IWI has 2 Book Clubs running. E-mail Fiona Houlton at houlton4@yahoo.com to become a member of Book Club 2. Leslie Tahtakiliç is the contact for Book Club 1 but it is currently over-subscribed.
IWI CHESS CLUB Once a month, IWI members will get the opportunity to learn to play chess or to improve their chess skills free of charge with Woman Chess Grand Master and 2006 European Champion Ekaterina Atalik. Children from the age of five are welcome. Reserve directly with Ekaterina at makacat@yandex.ru or 05336904782. In January chess meetıng wıll take place on the 20th at 5.00 pm.
IPWIN The informal “First Tuesday” get together for professional women is held at the restaurant of Gezi Hotel Bosphorus in Taksim at 7 pm very first Tuesday of the month (www.gezibosphorus.com).
NEIGHBOURHOOD COFFEE MORNINGS Everyone is automatically a part of their Neighbourhood Coffee Mornings (NCMs) which meet on the second Wednesday of the month between 10:30 – 12:30. Please be on the lookout for e-mails from your area coordinator for the location of your NCM. For more information contact: Nalini Narang, Neighbourhood Coffee Mornings Coordinator at 0554 861 8058 or nalini@iwi-tr.org.
MUMS’ EVENING OUT Rediscover the joy of an evening out without the children. Join our new monthly program Night Out - Without Kids to be held every third Thursday night of the month. Please contact Gigi at gigi@iwi-tr.org.
YOGA AT THE LIFECO Use your IWI 50% discount to join the daily yoga sessions at LifeCo in Akatlar. No reservations are required. Daily at 8:00 am.
PHOTOGRAPHY The photo club is a group of international members whose skill levels vary from the very basic to semi-professional, but who all share the desire to capture the world in a photograph and to explore Istanbul while doing so. The group discussion includes all current event information, bi-weekly photo challenges, tips & tricks, and general photography topics. For more information, contact Jennifer Gürcüoğlu at photoclubofistanbul@gmail.com
OFFICE HOURS The IWI office hours are on Wednesdays from 10:30 - 1:00. Our new office is nice and bright and has a lovely garden. Feel free to drop in for a chat or if you have any questions. The address is: Ahmet Adnan Saygun Caddesi No 74, Çamlitepe Sitesi Block C1/D2, Ulus 34347. Telephone: 0212 287 3571 If you are interested in coordinating the Tennis or Movie Club, or are interested in forming a new club, please contact jasmine@iwi-tr.org
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joın ıwı
Join the 2012/2013 IWI Board & IWI Teams
Do you want to meet people from all over the world and join a fun team?
Do you have excellent people skills? Do you want to sharpen your professional skills? Do you have some extra time on your hands?
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Do you want to learn a completely new skill?
f you answered yes to any of the questions above we have a place for you on the IWI board. Whether you would like to help a little or would like to play a more professional role, we would like to speak to you! We can offer you support in undertaking a new role and learning new skills. There is no need for you to have a gap in your CV and you can gain valuable experience while you are in Istanbul.
Positions for the 2012/2013 season include: IWI Leadership: • Motivation and management of a diverse team • Planning and policy • Liaison with members and local community IWI Administration: • Treasury • Database management • Secretarial duties and office management Event Management: • Christmas Bazaar team • Spring Ball team Charity: • Evaluation of local charities • Fund raising and allocation • Volunteer co-ordination Promotion: • Lale magazine editing, contribution & proofreading • Website and e-newsletter • Advertising and sponsorship • Photography and photo database management Programs and Activities: • Welcoming newcomers to Istanbul • Creating exciting programs • Professional women’s group • Neighbourhood coffee morning coordinators Please contact chairwoman@iwi-tr.org for more information.
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Programs
Calendar
Regular Activitices
MARCH
IPWIN
Monday
Mums’n Kids
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday 1
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
2
3
4
9
10
11
16
17
18
23
24
25
30
31
Alkent Coffee Morning
5
6 Asian Coffee Morning
7
8 Kadikoy Şifa Asian Cooking Alkent Coffee Morning
12 Motivation Talk
13 Myths and Legends
14
15 Circus Skills Alkent Coffee Morning
19 How to build a brand?
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20 İstanbul Modern Asian Coffee Morning
21 Art and Music
27
28
22 Yap Yapıştır Alkent Coffee Morning 29 Alkent Coffee Morning
APRIL
Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday 1
2
9
3 LinkedIn & Co Asian Coffee Morning
4
10 Kadiköy Walking tour
11
5 Make up
6
7
8 Easter Brunch at the Hilton
13 Taste of India Cooking demo
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15
20
21
22
27 Turkish cooking demo
28 Social media
29
Alkent Coffee Morning
12 Bikram Yoga Alkent Coffee Morning
16
17 Kadiköy Walking tour
18
19 Alkent Coffee Morning
Asian Coffee Morning 23
24 Kadiköy Walking tour
25 Yıldırım Mayruk Fashion Show for ZEREV
26 Alkent Coffee Morning
30
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programs Longevity and Wellness
Asian Cooking Demonstration
All of us wants to look the best we can and feel the best we can. The rigors of everyday life take their toll on our bodies and we need to find ways to educate ourselves so that we make good decisions about our health and well-being.
Indonesian member Fanny Taranto will show you how to whip up some amazingly tasteful asiatic foods to delight the senses.
Kadiköy Şifa, one of the premier hospitals on the asian side, is offering us a glimpse into their Longevity and Wellness Clinic. They offer a range of non-surgical procedures that can help you achieve your desired look and feel. They have three hospitals on the asian side, and we will be visiting their newest addition in Atasehir. They have invited two doctors to speak with us about two very important and pertinent topics. Medical Aesthetician MD. Yasemin Savaş will talk to us about non surgical beauty procedures. Later, cardiovascular surgeon, MD Mustafa Kemal Çalık will speak to us about varicose veins: diagnosing, treatment and protection of our circulatory system. Come prepared with your questions.
The menu will consist of: Shrimp wonton soup, chicken sesame salad, beef satay with peanut sauce, or sliced beef with lemon grass and basil, mixed stirfried vegstables, a fish dish (possibly sweet and sour fish), steamed rice and tropical fruit salad. So for all those of you who love asian food and want to learn what ingredients to use, where to find them, and how to use them, this is the demo for you. You can use the techniques that you learn and the spice combinations to be creative at home and adapt them at your discretion. Happy cooking and bon apetit!
www.kadikoysifa.com
Date
:
Thursday, March 8th
Date
:
Friday, March 8th
Time
:
11:00 AM – 1:00 PM
Time
:
10:30 AM – ?
Venue
:
Kadikoy Sifa Hastanesi Atasehir
Venue
:
The home of Ayse Yucel in Yenikoy
Cost
:
Free
Cost
:
80 TL
:
Yeniköy
:
Lobby of Kadikoy Sifa Hastanesi : Atasehir approx. 2miles from Palladium on the opposiste side of TEM (2nd Bridge Road)
Meeting Place
Meeting Place
:
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
Reservations
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org LATE CANCELATIONS MUST PAY, 48 hours advance notice required. Max.15
Deadline
:
Tuesday, March 6th
Deadline
:
Tuesday, March 6th
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Getting Motivated!
Myths and Legends of Istanbul Seminar
Boost your self-motivation We are now in March and many of us have given up on our new years resolutions by this time. Most good intentions are often derailed within a few weeks. The resolutions set are forgotten and never acted on. The result is feelings of guilt, incompetence and frustration. So, how can you turn things around for yourself in 2012 be the year, in which you really accomplish your resolution and plans successfully?
Ever wondered why the Golden Horn has that name. What about the maze of tunnels under the city and the skeletons found there? Hear the tales of the Maiden’s Tower, the vanished priest of the Hagia Sophia and many more legends about this remarkable and mystifying city!
Come along to this group and learn about techniques that help you get what you really want even if you have no plan, no discipline, and you’re often in a lousy mood. Together, we will find the relevant steps how to actively pursue these things and raise your motivation whether it’s concerning your private life or changes in your career. You don’t need to become a better person first; you just need to be open to new perspectives and the right techniques.
Cem Aydoğdu has over 25 years of experience in nomadic textiles both as a collector and a merchant. He has been a student of Sufi mysticism for 20 years. He currently resides in California but spends time back in his native country of Turkey from time to time. Cem Aydoğdu will be exploring the myths and legends that surround us in this 3,000 year old city, many of which locals are not even aware.
Lavinia Lorenzen graduated with a degree in business administration, marketing and organizational psychology at the University of Hamburg and the Bordeaux Business Management School. She has worked for a German consulting firm as a business consultant, and is self-employed now as a coach and trainer.
Date
:
Tuesday, March 13th
Date
:
Monday, March 12th
Time
:
11:00AM – 1:00 PM
Time
:
10:30 AM – ?
Venue
:
Pusula Art Gallery
Venue
:
Lavinia’s home in Sisli
Cost
:
50TL
Cost
:
Free
Meeting Place
:
Address given upon booking
Meeting Place
:
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Pusula Sanat Gallery in Harbiye, Papa Roncalli Sok. 118A, see map at www.pusulasanat.com Parking available!
Deadline
:
Saturday, March 10th
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Person to Contact
:
Ayse Yücel
Deadline
:
Sunday, March 11th
:
aysegurleryucel@gmail.com and jasmine@iwi.tr.org
Person to Contact
Contact details
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Circus Skills Workshop
Istanbul Modern Museum Visit and Guided Tour
Ever wanted to be run away and join the circus as a kid, or maybe you still do? Well it is never too late!
Istanbul Modern has graciously invited us, the IWI for a complimentary guided tour. We are also in the process of planning some seminars and workshops with them for all of you to learn more about modern art, different conceptions, and art forms.
Come and learn some circus skills. Join this hands-on workshop and see what it feels like to be a circus performer. Instruction will be given on a static trapeze by Anne ‘Anika’ Weshinskey, a professional circus and burlesque performer/ investigator/craftperson/arts educator/liabrarian who has many more titles under her belt…such as tightwire walker and foot juggler to name a few. Learn the basics of juggling, and more. This is a once in a lifetime type class, or maybe you would like to persue it further. Come one, come all and enjoy!
One of the exhibits you will see is La La La Human Steps, it The exhibition relects on human relationships and genuine human conditions such as desire, failure, despair, curiosity, betrayl, and confrontations. It features the works of 28 prominent artists from different places and periods, La La La Human Steps translates these themses at three levels: Encounters in history, personal, and public encounters. Afterwards lets have lunch at the museums modern restaurant, that serves an innovative fusion of food. You are just steps from the Bosphorus, so the view is spectacular! This promises to be a great event. Don’t miss this eye-opening, mind expanding program.
Date
:
Thursday, March 15th
Time
:
10:30 AM – ?
Date
:
Tuesday, March 20th
Venue
:
Caravansarai in Galata(www.caravansarai.info)
Time
:
10:30 AM – ?
Cost
:
50TL
Venue
:
Istanbul Modern
Cost
:
Free – Lunch at your own expense
Meeting Place
:
Istanbul Modern
Meeting Place
:
Tunel enterance in Karakoy -near the Galata bridge
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Deadline
:
Tuesday, March 13th
Deadline
:
Sunday, March 18th
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Art and Music
Make It Yourself – Party Decorations
Enjoy wine and cheese at this atolier where you will design while you create to the rythm of the music. This is a different sort of art class, done with oil paints on canvas, to reflect the feelings and emotions that you derive from the music. In essence, you will be reflecting the music onto a platform for all to see.
Tired of ordering online or going to the few and in-between party stores/decoration stores to find stuff to decorate for a party? I know I am. That is why you should come to Yap-Yapıştır. It is a craft center that offers lessons on how to create things by hand. They teach a number of different techniques and ways to make things. It is nice to have nice things, but it even better to have nice things that you’ve made yourself!
Çağla Göksu, studied art in both high-school and university. She has been painting for well over 30 years. A number of her pieces are in high profile places, such as Rixos Residance, NTV studios, and at the Koç group headquarters to name a few. I would call her approach to painting modern, so it will be interesting to see what we come up with on this day. www.caglagoksu.com
Join us at Yap Yapıştır to learn how to make your party extra special. This will be two hours of hands-on instruction, to show you how to make the party decorations, cupcake deco, thank you letters, cute boxes, pompoms, and paper flowers. Spring is here, add flair to your lunch, dinner parties, and summer birthdays with the things that you make yourself.
Date
:
Wednesday, March 21
Date
:
Thursday, March 22nd
Time
:
11:30 AM – 2:00
Time
:
11:00AM-1:00PM
Venue
:
Art Studio
Venue
:
Yap-Yapıştır
Cost
:
50TL (inlcudes all materials and snack)
Cost
:
50TL (special discounted price for the IWI)
Meeting Place
:
Akkavak Sok. Ardi Apt. Floor:2 No:3 Teşvikiye
Meeting Place
:
Yap-Yapıştır, Sehit Erdoğan Iban Sok. No. 14/B AKATLAR - ETİLER
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
:
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Deadline
:
Sunday, March 18th
Deadline
:
Monday, March 19th
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Make-Up Designery : MUD
Easter Brunch at the Hilton
Want to learn how to use your make up right? Renew your make up routine and learn techniques to help you achieve your desired look.
Enjoy Easter Brunch with your family and the IWI at the Hilton in Taksim, at their Bosphorus Terrace Restaurant, where they are offering us an amazing brunch buffet, complete with an omelette station, sushi station, pasta station, carving station and so much more! It will be a feast!
Nihal Uçucu will be on hand to show us all how we can use our foundations, eye-liner, blushes, and eye shadows to create our desired look. She will be introducing us to MUD, Make-Up Designery, professional mineral based make-up. This American company is new in Turkey and would like to introduce their whole line of products to us! Nihal Uçucu is a 25 year veteran in the make-up industry. She has worked behind the scenes on programs such at Baştan Yarat, a make-over program on Turkish day time television, she also teaches at Istanbul Teknik University, as a cosmetologist, and offers her expertise to people in the art world as an image consultant. In addition, she is offering her knowledge to the students at ZEREV, an academy for the disabled.
There is a separate play room for children that will have some easter activities. Come enjoy Easter this year with us at the Hilton! • • •
Food! Fun! Entertainment!
Everyone will recieve personalized makeup tips and advise on the colors that are right for us, the technique, and types of makeup we should use for our skin tone, and a few freebies!
Date
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Sunday, April 8th
Time
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12:00Noon - 3:00PM
Venue
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The Hilton Hotel Taksim (Harbiye)
Date
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Thursday, April 5th
Time
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11:00AM – 1:00 PM
Venue
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MUD: Across from Akmerkez (Beymen door)
Cost
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75TL (special discounted price for the IWI) Children 0-12 FREE
Cost
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FREE
Meeting Place
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Bosphorus Terrace Restaurant
Meeting Place
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MUD Studio: Nispetiye No:35 Seyran Apt. floor 3
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
Reservations
Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org LATE CANCELATIONS MUST PAY, 48 hours advance notice required.
Deadline
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Tuesday, April 3rd
Deadline
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Wednesday, April 4th
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Walking Tour of Kadiköy and Moda
Bikram Yoga Workshop
Marc Guillet, Dutch journalist and adventurer will be giving us a tour of his own neighborhood, where he lives, in Kadiköy and Moda. Marc gives you a comprehensive tour sharing interesting facts and information about pre-ottoman, ottoman history, modern history, culture, and politics.
40 Derece Bikram Yoga is the first studio in Turkey to offer the hottest workout for the body and mind! Bikram Yoga is unique in that the class is a scientifically designed sequence of postures performed in a heated room. They are the first Bikram Yoga certified studio in Turkey!
The best views of Istanbul are from the asian side. He will walk us through Kadikoy’s fish and vegetable bazaar, where there are many little restaurants and bars where young professionals and students hang out, perform live music, and smoke nargile. We will also see a host of old Greek and Armenian churches, an old but recently restored opera house and stroll along one to the most visited shopping promenades of the city.
The room is intentionally heated to 40 degrees C with 40% humidity. Yoga changes the construction of the body from the inside out, from bones to skin and from fingertips to toes. A warm body is a flexible body. Practicing yoga in the heat facilitates deeper and safer stretching, helping to minimize the risk of injuries.
Come and see whats on the otherside, or explore the side you live on. Marc likes to keep his tours small, so he will be repeating the program to accomodate the demand. The tour takes at least 4 hours, so dress comfortably! There will be time for a quick bite to eat, coffee and tea.
With regular practice you will experience improved strength, flexibility and balance, toned muscles, improved immune system, reduced stress,increased lung capacity, increased bone density, improved digestive & circulatory systems, and a better sense of relaxation and well- being. The Bikram series is suitable for all ages and levels of ability. Come join us at their studio in Etiler, and be prepared for a fun, challenging, and rewarding experience! See Ayse and Michelle’s website www.40derecebikramyoga.com
Date
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Tuesday, April 10th, 17th, and 24th
Time
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10:0AM-2:00PM
Date
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Thursday, April 12th
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1:00 PM-2:30PM
Venue
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Kadiköy and Moda
Time
Cost
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70TL
Venue
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40 Derece Bikram Yoga
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15TL
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European siders: Eminonu/Kabataş feribot station, Asian siders: Kadiköy, in front of the Haldun Taner Conservatory.
Cost
Meeting Place
Meeting Place
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Yoga Studio: Tepecik Yolu Caddesi, Akgören Sok. No:3 D: 1 - Etiler
Reservations
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Deadline
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RSVP upon availability (Max. 5 per tour)
Deadline
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Tuesday, April 10th
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs The Taste of India cooking Demonstration at SWAAD
Mosaic Day Spa IWI Treatment Day
The Taste of SWAAD - INDIA is situated in Sultanahmet on the main tram road. It is located in the heart of the old city and a short walk away from the grand bazaar and the blue mosque.
TARABYA’S MOSAIC DAY SPA is closing its doors to the public and reserving 2 days exclusively for the IWI.
You might recognize Rishya the owner and an IWI member from her Indian food stand in the food court at the Christmas Bazaar. She is inviting us to the restaurant’s kitchen to prepare some an Indian delights! There will be a hands on demonstration along with a indian feast at the end, so bring along a friend, learn from a professional Indian chef the ingrediants and cooking techniques so that you make the same dishes at home. Menu:
Starter - Samoosas Mains - Chicken curry Indian Cheese w. Peas in a vegetable curry Dal fry Desert - Shahi tukda (can change)
Rice, naan, yogurt, and salad will also be served on the side. All soft drinks and 1 indian drink are included. See their website to view all of the vegetarian, Jain food, and nonvegetarian dishes that they have on offer. www.swaad.com.tr
Tucked into the thırd floor of a building by the cove, this cosy spa is an unexpected delight to find in Tarabya. It has a home-like feel with only two rooms devoted to relaxation and pampering. There is also a terrace, which boats are relaxing view of the harbour. Visitors are invited to enjoy a cup of jasmine tea as a rıtual here before and after their sessions.Having opened in January 2010, Mosaic Day Spa is fast becoming a favourite of locals and visitors alike for quality of service and that boutique feel. There are two experts working at Mosaic Day Spa -one an esthetician for body and facial treatments of CARITA and DECLEOR and other a masseuse specializing in Far Eastern massages(also for pregnant women)-the treatments are as exclusive as can be, and guests are treated like royalty. Guests are pampered with products by one of two lines-CARITA, which incorporates the luxury of technology, and DECLEOR, which offers a line of products that are 100% natural. Sena Kanpulat will be on hand to welcome you. Please contact her to make your reservation, this is by appointment so make your appointment early to get the time slot you desire. Enjoy! www.mosaicdayspa.com.tr
Date
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Friday, April 13th
Date
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Wednesday and Thursday, April 18-19
Time
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10:30AM-2:00PM
Time
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Schedule appointment
Venue
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Swaad Restaurant
Venue
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Mosaic Day Spa
Cost
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60TL
Cost
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20% discount on treatments and products
Meeting Place
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Binbirek Mah. Perkhane Sok. No:15/17 Emberlitaş (Sultanahmet)212-518-7111
Meeting Place
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Mosaic Day Spa in Tarabya Haydar Aliyev Caddesi No: 176/B Kat: 3
Reservations
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Reservations
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org
Deadline
:
Tuesday, April 17th
Deadline
:
RSVP upon availability
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Person to Contact
:
Sera Kanpulat
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Contact details
:
0532-217-4077 or 212-223-4666
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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programs Fashion Show
Turkish Cooking Demonstration
Get the first look at Turkey’s most reknowned fashion designer, Yildirim Mayruk’s new collection.
We live here in Turkey, learn some local traditional dishes to enhance your own recipies or add a new one to your repertoire. Ayşe Yücel has been giving cooking demonstrations for close to 10 years, it is her hobby and her passion.
This fashion show fundraiser will be held at the stylish Swiss Hotel. Proceeds from ticket sales will go to ZEREV, a foundation that serves the mentally challenged. (Please see Jasmine’s article in this issue for further details on ZEREV or visit www.zerev.org.tr) Come and witness the spectacle of color and feminine extravagance that is Yildirim Mayruk. There are two showings open to the public, one at 3:00PM and the other in the evening at 8:00PM with an after-party prolonge. IWI would like to show its support to ZEREV by inviting all of you to attend this event. Come see haute couture and help a worthy cause.
You will work alongside her step by step to prepare a traditional Turkish meal. Together you will prepare: Kisir (Turkish Tabulah) Hunkar Beğendi: Cubed lamb sauteed in onions, tomatoes, and spices served on top of roasted eggplant puree mixed with a bechamel sauce Çerkez Tavuk (Circassian Chicken) Cold chicken salad with walnuts. Mücver: squash and feta, fritters. Stuffed dried eggplant with pomegranite reduction Irmik Helva for dessert. Happy cooking and bon appétit!
Date
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Wednesday, April 25th
Date
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Friday, April 27th
Time
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3:00PM and 8:00PM
Time
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10:30 AM – ?
Venue
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The Swiss Hotel
Venue
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The home of Ayse Yucel in Yenikoy
Cost
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TBA
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3:00PM show is 100TL for general seating and 200TL for VIP front row seating, 8:00PM show is 500TL, incl. Unlimited drinks and buffet.
Meeting Place
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Address given upon booking
Reservations
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Online on IWI website or to reservations@iwi-tr.org LATE CANCELATIONS MUST PAY, 48 hours advance notice required. Max.15
Cost Meeting Place
:
Fuji Ballroom
Reservations
:
taluyd@hotmail.com
Deadline
:
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Deadline
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Tuesday, March 6th
Person to Contact
:
Taluy Petuhova
Person to Contact
:
Jasmine Yüzer
Contact details
:
taluyd@hotmail.com, 535-485-8877
Contact details
:
jasmine@iwi-tr.org or 533-393-1151
Please note CANCELLATION of the attendance after the RESERVATION DEADLINE or NO SHOW is chargeable in full. For non members the cost of this programme is an additional 20 TL.
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Yuli Weston Photograph by : Robi Olson Özgündüz
CHARITY
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Yes we love them. I hope all of us do.
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o understand, better yet, to appreciate cats, you must live with a Turkish cat. Never mind whether of street or pedigree lineage, each and every single one of them is a character and…they know how to get under your skin. They are born street smart. Life on the streets is tough, even lethal. Unfortunately, sometime life as a pet isn’t all that safe either. What if, after being a pet, a member of the family, they find themselves on the streets… They have no chance of survival. What expects them is a sure death. Cars, dogs, hunger, cold, diseases not to mention the mean children and adults are all contributing factors to their end. If a cat owner finds new owners for their cats, chances are the cat will again end up on the streets. From personal experiences, I can easily say that the second hand owners are a lot less patient to the animal. They also don’t have the bond that the first owners usually develop with their pets. Thus, abandoning becomes easy. Once on the streets, how can we help them?
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Or, why should we? I help them because I can’t bear to see these most sensitive, fragile creatures suffer. Others might want to help them out of gratitude for they are the most effective and ecological rodent control. Remember, because of this characteristic the ancient Egyptians elevated the cats to God status. Whatever the reason, there are certain things that must be done. Feeding them and sterilizing them are the priorities. The next is providing them a place where they can keep from freezing. This is really a simple task. All it takes is couple of cardboard boxes, lots of newspapers, a packing tape and a large garbage bag. This box should be big enough to hold one or two cats. What it does is to keep the body heat in. If cats can stay just a little warm during the cold months they’ll have a chance to see the next spring.
become orphaned because mother cat was too weak or sick to give birth or to nurse her babies. Orphaned kittens, unless found and properly cared for, perish. Actually, caring for a baby kitten isn’t very hard. All they need is food, a bit of tummy massaging for elimination, lots of sleep and furry blankets and hot bottles to keep them warm. If a kitten or a cat befriends you and you start thinking about accepting him/her in your home, think again. Are you capable of keeping him/her till death do us part? If not, it is best that you feed the cat outside and when you are ready to leave for another location/country, try to find a neighbor in whose care to trust your dependent. Cats are extremely territorial. They don’t like being relocated. If you must, do it with extreme care and prepare to devote lots of time the cat.
During Spring and Fall we see thousands and thousands of kittens born. Many of them
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CHARITY
Jasmine Bolton Yüzer
Istanbul Foundation of Education and Solidarity for Mentally Disabled People The Foundation The IZEV Foundation is a Turkish nonprofit organization dedicated to support, educate and train mentally disabled people. The organization was founded by trustees with mentally disabled children in 1989 as a society and gained charitable foundation status in 1997. IZEV is the founder of the Saadet Elementary and Vocational School, which provides rehabilitation and therapy services and elementary and secondary education to mentally disabled people aging 0 to 35. In 2008, IZEV opened a training center in Sariyer where mentally disabled people, who completed their secondary education, get vocational education.
Sariyer Training Center The course center was opened in order to improve the basic life skills of the students graduated from the Vocational School department of the Saadet Elementary and Vocational School. Majority of the students in the training center consist of the mild mentally handicapped individuals requiring special education. At this training center, IZEV offers living spaces where the students can perform different kind of activities. The center provides activities that are appropriate for the characteristics of the students and with the help of specially trained staff. The main activities in which the students participate are: • • • • •
Cookery Agriculture Animal care Handicraft workshops Sports
Perspectives for the Future IZEV’s aim is to ensure the continuance and improvement of education and course activities for mentally disabled people. Furthermore, IZEV is committed to provide a campus where the students can receive education and rehabilitation services. This campus contributes to the integration of the students in the social life and society, and is a place where they can stay if need arises. To achieve this aim, IZEV depends on donations from others. By working together with other non-profit organizations, IZEV will be able to continue offering activities for people with a mental disability. IWI is supporting IZEV for many years.
Mission IZEV’s mission is to ensure that people with a disability can maintain their life with their own strengths, abilities and efforts. In line with this mission, IZEV provides supportive and educational services to mentally disabled people to help them integrate into social life and to cover their legal rights and economic sustainability. The foundation has established schools, treatment centers, research centers, production centers and other employment opportunities while continuing to support the existing ones. In this way, the students are being prepared to integrate in the society and participate in ordinary business settings. IZEV also continues lobbying for the legal and social rights of disabled people and pushing for initiatives from official authorities.
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İZEV - İstanbul Zihinsel Engelliler Eğitim ve Dayanışma Vakfı Address: Piyasa Caddesi No: 31 Sarıyer / İstanbul Turkey Phone: +90 212 271 00 05 / +90 212 271 00 06 Fax: +90 212 271 00 08 E-mail: izev@izev.org.tr Website: www.izev.org.tr
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IPWIN
*Cerstin Diewald & Marie Theres Raberger
IPWIN International Professional Women of Istanbul Network It’s Time to Say Thank You In the New Year IPWIN continued organizing exciting events for its members. Special thanks to all of our members, who supported our events: like those of you who attended our events – a big thank our “frequent members” we were able to welcome at each (!) of our events! Also, a very warm welcome to our new members, who joined our group recently! And thank you for spreading the word and ”recruiting” new members for our network! And last but not least: a very special thank you to all of our active IPWIN members, who step forward and volunteer to host their own events: Our January event with Martha Hooper of HOOPER CONSULTING INTERNATIONAL & Cerstin Diewald, certified Facilitator for Cultural Detective®, HR consultant & IPWIN coordinator who gave insights about how to raise intercultural awareness and gain an overall appreciation for different cultural values. Our February event with consultant Semiha Ünal, S4U/Solutions For You, expert in establishing businesses in Turkey who talked about the requirements of starting your own business and the necessary elements of doing your own business in a Turkish business environment. It’s Time to Welcome… …our new IPWIN team member Hana Moualla. She is responsible for our IPWIN LinkedIn group. Hana graduated with MSc. degree in Management and Economy from Nottingham Trent University. Worked as a bank archive specialist at Volksbank. She published a book about Information Technology as a preparation for secondary school graduation exam. She regularly publishes in Czech newspapers, magazines and online media. Currently she is working as a freelance editor/journalist and she is a member of Czech Syndicate of Journalists and IFJ. It’s Time for a Change As many of you may know, we – Cerstin & Marie Theres – took over your IPWIN group 2 years ago. Thanks to the support of all of you our network has been growing since then and we realized that our IPWIN work increased as well and that there are so many things that could be done additionally or more thoroughly – if only we had more time or if our team would be bigger!!! So ladies – if anyone is interested to contribute in the coordination of IPWIN contact us! We are sure, that many of you have excellent, new, different ideas for IWPIN! Join us! And working for IPWIN is interesting, rewarding and fun, believe us! And please, don’t forget: If you want to join IPWIN – as guest, guest-speaker or coordinator, you don’t have to be working! IPWIN is open to everyone. You may have small children or cannot work in Turkey for other/legal reasons. What unites us all is our interest in job-related topics and the wish to network with other women with similar interests. So we invite
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all non-working, working women and we are also open to guests and non-IWI-members – as our main aim is to enable networking. All the best & kolay gelsin! Marie Theres & Cerstin IPWIN Coordinators IPWIN Program March – May 2012 Please RSVP to ipwin.mail@gmail.com!
FIRST TUESDAY March 6th, 7pm at the restaurant of Gezi Hotel Bosphorus in Taksim: Human Resources Anyone? We are looking for all HR experts in our group to exchange experience about HR in- and outside of Turkey. Of course, we also welcome everyone interested in Human Resources and/or HR related issues (f.e. Do you want to apply for a job in Turkey? Do you need your CV updated? Want to know what to expect in a job interview?)! IPWIN coordinators & HR specialists Cerstin & Marie Theres are looking forward to network with you! April 3rd, 7pm at the restaurant of Gezi Hotel Bosphorus in Taksim: LinkedIn & Co: We will come to together to discuss pros (and cons) of LinkedIN & co. How to set up your LinkedIN account. How to set up your LinkedIN group. How to infuse life into your LinkedIn account? Come and chat with us!
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May 8th, 7pm at the restaurant of Gezi Hotel Bosphorus in Taksim: Human Resources Anyone? We are looking for all HR experts in our group to exchange experience about HR in- and outside of Turkey. Of course, we also welcome everyone interested in Human Resources and/or HR related issues (f.e. Do you want to apply for a job in Turkey? Do you need your CV updated? Want to know what to expect in a job interview?)! IPWIN coordinators & HR specialists Cerstin & Marie Theres are looking forward to network with you!
SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT Our member Özlem Ilıca is working at Foreign Market Consultant and is offering us a free monthly newsletter (available in German or English) which provides latest news and statistics concerning Turkish economy, politics and other various topics. Whether you want to use this information for business purposes or just to “impress” your friends, all you have to do is sign up at newsletter@fmconsulting.info
SPECIAL EVENTS March 19th, 7pm @ IWI Office in Ulus: How To Build A Brand? Would you like to start your business but you do not know anything about marketing Barbara Balletta, marketing expert with international experience, will help you with a talk about "how to build a brand" and will provide some documents that will help you to make your analysis and focus your ideas! April 28th, 10:30am @ IWI Office in Ulus: Want To Get Introduced To Social Media? This workshop with Tara Agacayak is for all those who know they have to enter the mysterious world of social media, but need an extra kick to really get started. Whether you need social media for your career or your own business - join us and learn how to maneuver successfully through different social media. May 19th, 10:30am @ IWI Office in Ulus: Overcoming Cultural Blocks to Team Effectiveness! This experiential workshop will enable participants to learn how to convert Turkish work culture obstacles - such as hierarchical communications, emotionalism, jealousy and lack of planning and procrastination - into productive and meaningful problem solving, project management and innovation. Martha Hooper of HOOPER CONSULTING INTERNATIONAL will share several methods drawn from the Creative Problem Solving process that have been successful in the teams she has led in Turkey and beyond. This will be a "hands-on" follow up to the "How to Survive and Thrive in the Turkish Work Culture" workshop she facilitated in mid January.
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Visit to ZEREV and INTERVIEW with HAUTE COUTURE FASHION DESIGNER YILDIRIM MAYRUK
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t was one of those snowy, İstanbul days. It took me 2 hours to get to ZEREV’s building in Caglayan, (Sisli) but it was well worth the hassle. How many days do you get to see a wonderful new building that is being made to help children and individuals with disabilities, get your makeup down by a professional cosmetologist to the stars, and meet one, if not, the most reknown high fashion designer in Turkey! That is exactly what I did! Our visit to ZEREV (Zihnisel Engeliler ve Rehabilatsyon Egitim Vakif- Foundation for the Rehabilitation and Education of the
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Disabled) was full of suprises. First of all, the school building was not done, as the construction workers were running late, (go figure!) we got a tour of all 9 floors of an unfinished building. Seref Umut, a theatre actor by trade is the director of this one of a kind establishment. ZEREV’s school gives people the chance to learn a trade or an art form and earn a certificate from the department of education, which allows them the opportunity to work in the field of their choice in Turkey. All Turkish businesses that employe over 50 people must have jobs set aside for the disabled. Allowing
people with disabilities the chance to help their families and themselves by earning a living is priceless. Everyone deserves the right to work and this also contributes to their self-esteem and quality of life. ZEREV is enabling the disabled, whether they have downs syndrome, autism, or a physical handicap, they are able to enjoy the sense of worth that working and earning their own wage provides. The director Seref Bey lends his artistic vision to the types of classes that are offered. This school or academy offers classes in drama, water color, oil painting,
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LALE Features word-carving, mother of pearl work, modern dance, ballet, script writing, poetry writing, speech and diction, music, singing, sound and film production, photography, and camera work. All in all there are 12 branches. They have about 175 students enrolled, 75 of which actually do not have disabilities, but their student capacity goal is actually 600. Although ZEREV recieves government funding for the students with disabilities, it is not enough to encompass the scope of their intentions and that is why Seref Bey organizes events to suppliment the schools income. Unfortunately they had to sell their building in Nisantasi, but their new academy will consist of 9 floors, complete with its own caffeteria, 3 dance studios, recording studio, a 150 seat auditorium, and 300 m2 gallery, which they will also rent out for showings and exhibitions. The ZEREV foundation will also have its headquarters in this building. Being inside the art community is very beneficial and Seref Bey uses his expertise to organize a variety of fundraisers, music concerts, theatre, dance performances, and fashion show fundraisers. He is currently organizing one such fashion fundraiser in conjuction with Yildirim Mayruk and his famous apprentice or 23 years Barbaros Sansal. Yildirim Mayruk and Barbaros Sansal make it a priority to do a fundraiser every year, helping out various causes, from animals, to education, to health. After our tour of ZEREV’s soon-to-be school, one of the teachers, Mrs. Nihal Uçucu, gave us a sample of what she shows her students in her cosmetology class. I had no idea that he had planned to give us each a personal makeover! I saw 22 year old researcher Afshin Alaf Khan transform from student to sophisticated intellectual, and PHD, dissertation writing, Arpita Chatterjee go from good to great in just a few waves of her brush! After seeing what she did with our other two members, I new that I was safe in her hands, and I ended up loving how she made me look. Out of all the make-up artists that have done my face, albeit I don’t get my make-up done very often, she was the best, a true artist. It was the first time that I didn’t say it looks nice and then run to the bathroom and wipe my face clean! Needless to say, I want to offer this opportunity to the rest of you that weren’t there that day, so I spoke with her and she has agreed to give IWI a make-up techniques program the first week of April, so please check the programs section of the Lale for more details. After our quick makeovers, we were ready to visit Yildirm Mayruk, the most reknown designer of haute couture fashion in Turkey. This was yet another suprise that Seref Bey had in store for us. Yildirim Mayruk is a
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fashion icon in Turkey, her has been in the business for 47 years. Born in Bursa, the textile capital of Turkey, he was the son of a soldier, with 4 other siblings. He grew up
in his older sister Munirye atolier where she made clothes. He never sowed, but he stuck his nose into everything at the atolier. Everyone but his family wanted him become a tailor, instead they willed him to become a government worker, or clerk. He abruptly ended his highschool career due to
illness and started making hats, soon after did his military duty, after which he began working along side his big sister. Then in 1965 he opened his own atolier in Beyoglu, which quickly grew into three. At this time he designed and constructed clothes for women of the stage; theatre actresses and singers. He described his work work to me as fluid, soft, feminine, clothes that lovingly hug and drape the body. Every year since 1980 he has been putting out 2 collections per year. He has had shows in Japan, Israel, Paris, London, Turkmenistan, and Africa to name a few. He designs, draws, supervises the sowing, gives the fittings, and does the alterations himself. Yildirim Mayruk is with his design from start to finish. He says that his biggest desire is to be able to take a day off or to go out to a restaurant for lunch, because his work ethic simply does not allow him to leave his atolier when there is work to do. When I asked the names of some of his famous clients he didn’t give me even one name, but instead said that he has dressed and continues to dress the ‘whose-who’ in Turkey, and that he has dressed just about everyone I would be able to name that is famous in Turkey. He is a success story. A school drop-out, with no formal training, self-trained and self-made. (There was no school of fashion at the time in Turkey) He became a wizard that creates magical masterpieces of fabric. I find his style wimsical, airy, intricately delicate, absolutely feminine and very sophiscated. Wednesday, April 25th at the Swiss Hotel Yildirm Mayruk, will show his new spring collection to benefit ZEREV. He told me that we would see white, black, light blues, light pinks, and light greens, and of course red. Big full skirts, chiffon that caresses the body, techniques with silk, and drapery that will knock your socks off! There will be three showings, one at noon especially created for students of design schools, fashion and vocational schools and those that work in textiles, a 3:00pm showing, and an evening show that starts at 8:00pm complete with a lively after-party. You will want to be at this event, don’t miss it.
For more details or ticket info please call: Taluy Petuhova at 535-485-8877 Jasmine Yuzer at 533-393-1151 Support the cause that enables the disabled! See you April 25th at the Swiss Hotel for Haute Couture show from the wizard of fashion, Yıldırım Mayruk.
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The different dimensions of Social Responsibility Political and corporate terms sometimes become so powerful guidelines in our personal lives that we are losing the forest for the trees. In recent years there has been a large shift in society changing from a society based on personal responsibility to focusing more and more on social responsibility. However true social responsibility whether it’s individual or corporate begins with personal responsibility.
The golden rule Naturally feeling social responsible is not a new concept and most of us were taught to “do unto others as you would have them do unto you” (Christianity) or “hurt not others in ways that you would find hurtful” (Buddhism) or “no one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself (Islam). These golden rules are a fundamental part of the values that most civilizations built upon. They teach us the value of equality, solidarity and compassion or in other words charity. In fact you could argue that charity and social responsibility is like old wine on new bottles. Introducing social responsibility to our youngsters So what does it involve to teach our chil-
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dren to be social responsible? Well to fully prepare our children to become active and contributing members of society, they need to learn to be responsible for themselves, others and the environment. This deeper level of responsibility or social responsibility includes awareness and growing appreciation of our connectedness to and interdependence of each other and our environment. By creating a caring and loving home environment we teach children the importance of their actions and decisions, and we teach them the values of respect and concern for others, thereby building the foundation for social responsibility. Numerous lessons and opportunities abound in every day family life. When a child does something that hurts their brother or sister, parents can
help them to reflect on how the other person feels as a result of what they did and how they might make amends or do things differently next time. Over time and with regular practice, children can grow in selfcontrol and accountability for their actions. Parents can extend the opportunities to care beyond the family to include others in their community including people in need. We can also teach how a small act can make a big difference. Taking your child to visit an elderly in the community who is living alone, visit a nursing home or helping them pack up some of the clothing and toys they have outgrown, bringing it to children in need at the local homeless shelter can reinforce the lesson of caring for others and social responsibility. Creating opportunities for young children
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LALE Features to learn about the environment can be as simple as taking a walk in the forest, visiting a local farm or planting a garden. Any of these activities can stimulate your child’s natural curiosity while providing many teachable moments to talk about the delicate balance of nature and our responsibility to preserve it. As children become school-age and adolescents, parents and teachers can further promote their development by deepening their understanding of and responses to issues affecting their communities and world. They can learn how to develop community service projects in response to a community need, an environmental issue or a larger social issue. Food drives, volunteering in a soup kitchen or food pantry, developing recycling programs, raising awareness of an environmental issue, collecting much needed items for disaster relief victims are all possible activities that can serve to deepen social responsibility and social action. Raising money for a cause or teaching children to use part of their allowance to donate directly to an organization are additional possibilities for parents to consider. Finally parents can also teach their children about social responsibility by making voluntary and community service priority activities for the family. Parents are often unaware of their influence on their children especially as they become teens nevertheless our children learn more from what our actions as parents than from what we say. We are the most important role models. The arising of Cooperate Social Responsibility (CSR) In the times of globalisation, we have become increasingly conscious not only of what we buy, but also how the goods and services we buy have been produced. Being socially responsible means that people and organisations must behave ethically and with sensitivity, whether it is social, cultural, economic and environmental issues. Environmentally harmful production, child labour, dangerous working environments and other inhumane conditions are examples of issues being brought into the open. All companies and organisations aiming at long-term profitability and credibility have realized they must act in accordance with norms of right and wrong, not just from a legal standpoint but increasingly from moral standpoint. And who represent the values of the companies better than employees and the products. Corporate Social Responsibility (CSR) has become a brand and companies or organisations focus on their image like never before. Massive
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campaigns are being rolled out informing customers, investors, shareholders and the entire workforce of the importance and vital role of CSR, not only to the company but also to every individual representing the company. Branding is moving from micro to macro level and political/public institutions and Governments are beginning to understand the impact and importance of CSR. How did we lose the focus? However looking at modern societies of today our values and actions seem out of balance, which result in a constant need to blame someone for everything. Some how we seem to have lost contact with the true meaning of the golden rules. Social responsibility is no longer of question of inner values but rather of external, materialised and shallow greed and need. Showing social responsibility has to some extent developed into a trading situation, a commodity, where by giving we feel entitled to get something in return. And gradually what should have been an act of good will and good faith has become a score between society on one side and us as individuals and citizens on the other. Our code of moral is degrading because we feel that society is letting us down and we seem to be out of touch with an essential dimension in life. The reflection in the mirror is you and by taking personal responsibility for your own actions you will cohere with the true values of being social responsible. The forgotten dimension Personal responsibility is the exact opposite of pointing the finger of blame. Personal responsibility is about taking responsibility for your actions, accepting the consequences and understanding that what ever you do has an impact on those around you. As well the ability to take care of oneself by means of staying healthy, managing one’s emotions, keeping a sound mind and treating yourself with respect. You can’t truly care for others if you do not know how to care for yourself. Furthermore when you truly learn to be responsible for yourself you realise that it is in your best interest to be a good role model for others and the world around you. Personal responsibility is the underlying dimension from which social cohesion, unselfishness and compassion evolves. When our children are not taught personal responsibility they experience life as something that happened to them rather than what they actually accomplished. Without personal responsibility you can never truly appreciate the reward of accomplishment and you only experience life as the victim. Entitlement and
accomplishment are polar opposites. Entitlement results in fear and pain and accomplishment in happiness and productivity. The two wolves A Native American grandfather was talking to his grandson about how he felt. He said “I feel as if I have two wolves fighting in my heart. One wolf is the vengeful, angry, violent one. The other wolf is the loving, compassionate one.' The grandson asked him. ”Which wolf will win the fight in your heart?” The grandfather replied: ”The one I feed.” It can seem like it is a daily choice to feed the loving, compassionate, happy and contented wolf while starving the vengeful, angry, discontented one. Why does it seem so easy to fall into the trap of following in the footsteps of the bad wolf? It is because we often do not accept full responsibility for our own lives and by blaming things on someone else we feed the discontent in our hearts. Accepting that you’re completely responsible for yourself and realizing that no one is coming to the rescue is the beginning of peak performance. Responsibility goes hand in hand with success, achievement, motivation, happiness and self-actualization. It’s the absolute minimum requirement for the accomplishing everything you could ever really want in life. The opposite of accepting responsibility is making up excuses and blaming people and things for everything that goes wrong in your life. It’s a bad habit that feeds itself. Once the mind start working in negative and destructive patterns it’s like a broken record that goes on and on… Thoughts become emotions, which results in actions that will have a positive or negative impact on others or ourselves. What’s the antidote to this blame? It’s simple! Since your mind can hold only one thought at a time, either positive or negative, you can override the tendency to blame and become angry, simply by saying, firmly, “I am responsible!” Accepting responsibility negates negative emotions and short-circuits any tendency toward unhappiness. Actually the very act of accepting responsibility calms your mind and clarifies your vision. It soothes your emotions and enables you to think more positively and constructively, making space for true social responsibility to shine through.
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quamarine is the birthstone for March and considered as the treasure of mermaids. It’s name derives from the Latin expression for seawater. Aquamarine is of aqua (sea blue) color, but the darker color of the stone is considerably more valuable. If you are more attracted towards the greenish shade of the stone, you probably would have to spend less to owe it as compared to the blue colored stone.
included, Aquamarine can form in stunning flawless crystals, creating some of the most beautiful mineral master pieces. The leading producer of aquamarine is Brazil, with many mines spread throughout the country. Other deposits found in Pakistan, Nigeria, Namibia, Kenya and Madagaskar. Some of the highest quality specimens of brilliant blue “Santa Maria” aquamarine come from the Santa Maria de Itabira Mine in Brazil.
Aquamarine is the greenish-blue to blue variety of Beryl. The more saturated the blue color, the higher the value, though almost all aquamarine has a light tone. Duller or greenish colored stones can be heated to very high temperatures in which they can attain a beautiful sky-blue color. The stone posses a hardness of 7.5 and thus considered as a durable gem for daily wear.
There have been huge finds of aquamarine with the weight of several tons that didn’t qualify for cutting due to the weak, gray or opaque color. The largest find of aquamarine in gemstone quality dates back to 1910. The “Minas Gerais” in Marambaya, Brazil mined a stone of 243 lb (110.5 kg), 18 inch (48.5 cm) long and 15.5 inch in diameter that was cut in many gems of a total weight of more than 100,000 ct.
It forms in beautiful crystals that can be quite large and totally transparent. Unlike Emerald which usually is flawed or heavily
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HAPPY inour SKINS American author Debra Menase, focuses on a growing problem among youngsters, nevrosa, in her newest children's book I am Beautiful....
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e spoke with Debra Menase, an American author and longtime Turkish resident, about her latest published book, I Am Beautiful. The mother of two “young-adult” children and the wife of a Turkish citizen, Debra told us she has had four books published to date, all books aimed at young children and all published by Çitlembik Publishing, a company owned and operated by two of our IWI members, Zarife and Nancy Öztürk. This newest book, which was also published in Turkish with the title Ben Güzelim, is unique as it addresses young children's issues with body image, peer pressure, and bullying, and also is a very gentle introduction to the notion and dangers of bulemia. Debra said that when she learned of the extreme steps young children were taking to achieve a body they believe to be 'ideal,' she began to research the subject and found that the average onset of bulemia has now dropped to as low as 8-12 years, while the available literature is all directed at older adolescents and young adults. This book fills this gap and is wellillustrated, engaging, and easy to read; it both provides children
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with recognition of the problem and encourages them to like themselves as they are. The hope is that this book will also help parents and teachers gain insight into these difficult issues. The pre-publication response has been quite positive as this has been judged to be a book that all children—both girls and boys—should read or be read to. The book has just hit Turkey's bookshelves and is available here in both English and Turkish versions. The English version is now also available across the English speaking world. Here is how Debra Menase answered our questions about her book: How did you begin writing children's books? I never planned on writing children's books; it just seemed to happen. One day I was sitting on my balcony reflecting back on all the things I did with my son and daughter over the years and I decided to write down little stories in a notebook. I showed them to a friend who in return showed them to a publisher he knew. That's how it all came about.
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Was it hard to get published in Turkey? Can you tell us a bit about your books that have been published so far? As I mentioned, I originally did not see myself as an author, but when I was introduced to Zarife Öztürk of Çitlembik Publishing, she expressed an interest in publishing my stories. I was quite flattered and excited with this opportunity and subsequently went on to publish four books with them. Rainbow was my first book. It is a beautifully illustrated book that is designed to help children learn about colors. The illustrations done so beautifully by Iidih Wanha help capture a child’s interest, while he or she is learning the basic colors. My second book Purple Butterflies is based upon our summers in the Adirondacks where we would go on nature walks and look for butterflies. My daughter and I would make up imaginary stories together about what it would be like to become a butterfly and be able to fly. This book both brings back great memories of our times together and leads children to develop their creative senses. It gives them the notion of freedom, while also offering the security of the family. My third book Bay Bay Bezim (Bye-Bye Diaper) was suggested to me by Zarife as she had recognized the need for a book about this topic on the Turkish market. The book developed into a fun way to introduce toilet training to a child in an easy and non-pressured context. My most recent book, I Am Beautiful, is about issues of body image and peer pressure that children face while growing up. I learned that these subjects have not been fully explored in Turkey and need to be addressed. According to research, children today are becoming increasingly self-conscious about their bodies and are being subjected to peer pressure on body image considerations by the time they reach the young age of seven, so these are subjects that need to be written about in a format that is directed especially at this young age group. Parents and teachers also have to become more aware of the impacts that shyness, bullying, peer pressure, and have on preteens and should help in leading our children to think about their options and actions before these issues become problematic. I hold that if we can instill more confidence and self esteem into our children at an earlier age this has the potential of softening their ultimate transitions into a world filled with superficiality and false imagery.
fashionable, especially in Istanbul where the emphasis is on fashion and all the women are perfectly groomed to perfection with the trendiest label right down to the manicured foot in Gucci shoes. I also panic with each new wrinkle I find and run for a jab of Botox. In this day and age, when we all seem inundated with images of perfection, we can only imagine how hard it is for our children to come to terms with these difficult subjects. What are your plans for future books? There are many other controversial topics I would like to cover for pre-teens in Turkey, such as problems related to sex, divorce, and cutting. According to the child psychologists I have spoken with here in Turkey, while many pre-teens face these sorts of problems, these issues are generally not recognized by the society. These kinds of issues remain concealed by a screen of secrecy and there is hesitation about dealing openly with these issues. Hopefully books writing about these problems can prove helpful in reducing all these stressful situations in our children's lives and help them in being able to cope with them. Children who engage in high risk behaviors before their teenage years are definitely more likely to find themselves acting in ways which will ultimately threaten their well-being in their years ahead. How did you research this subject? I started off by listening to my children and their friends and the concerns and worries they shared with me. No one wants their child to be a victim. All parents hope that their children will adjust and form good and lasting friendships. The reality is that today children are growing up faster than ever--both physically and emotionally-- and they often value and evaluate themselves in terms of their appearance and relationships with friends. They often find it very difficult to fit in with their peers. Many children will do anything to achieve a body that others consider to be thin and beautiful. Hopefully we can teach our children how to become self assured and happy in their own skins and help them to find the right approaches to making good decisions that will influence their futures and their lives.
In terms of subject matter your new book "I am Beautiful" is very different from your previous books. What led you to focus on this subject? Also, you are a graduate of sociology. Has this field influenced the subject matter and how you deal with it? The field of sociology has definitely influenced the direction my writing has taken me. The experience of living in a culture different from the one I grew up in has also had a deep influence on the subjects on which I focus. In Turkey I fınd that I sometimes encounter ways of thinking and behavior that are quite different from the norms I grew up with. Certain topics that are freely discussed in the United States never seem to be on the agenda here. Many parents I have met here have not yet recognized that eating disorders most often derive from children endeavoring to be thin and beautiful in order to fit in with the popular groups. This focus on body image is often true for adults as well. To be frank, I personally also find myself driven to have a great body and to be
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o you ever ponder how master storytellers like JK Rowling, Roald Dahl, Julia Donaldson and Rick Riordan created their mythical worlds and characters? These successful writers of children’s fiction discovered the magic to create and bring to life fantasies that hold many young readers spellbound. Often it takes just one book to hook a child and turn an ambivalent reader into a book lover. So children’s authors should be recognised as a positive influence in youngsters’ formative years. A child’s mind has the capacity to absorb the writings of all of the above authors as well as a dearth of others. However, with the array of sports and hobby activities and high technology gadgets available to kids today the challenge is how to get youngsters to focus some of their time on what is often considered the less exciting world of books. How wrong this perception is. From my experience once children are introduced by a parent or teacher to books that truly interest them and capture their imagination kids generally become habitual readers. It is also interesting to note that research has found that reading for pleasure is the only out-of-school activity linked to higher chances of getting to university and improved career prospects. Literacy skills can therefore potentially provide the key to social mobility. Imagination is one of the most amazing gifts of childhood. It used to be considered simply as a child’s escape route from reality. However, specialists increasingly acknowledge the importance of imagination in child development, as it is key not only for fantasising but also understanding reality. Imagination is
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mums ‘n kids important for learning about things we haven’t experienced first hand. You are using your imagination each time you think about a historic event or daydream about visiting an overseas destination. Children with strong and active imaginations frequently grow up to become creative thinkers, business pioneers and problem solvers. It is clear from the many positive attributes that imagination brings to youngsters it is a quality that needs to be nurtured. For young writers imagination is the cornerstone upon which to build their literary skills and cut their author teeth. It also encourages a broad vocabulary as reading, writing and story telling assist children to discover new words. Books are often the only way children have of expanding their vocabulary, because regular daily conversation is limited in its range of words. It is evident that creative writing and imagination make perfect partners. Creative writing can cultivate and stimulate a child’s intellect as well as teach a broad range of skill sets such as: Discipline. It may seem contradictory to talk of instilling discipline upon writers who typically need to let their imaginations run free. Writers will tell you however, that transferring thoughts onto paper and ensuring the writing is both real and enjoyable for the reader is an exercise in discipline. The ideas need to be ordered, intelligible and concise. This is an important exercise for a young brain and encourages self-discipline. Writing contests also offer experience with adhering to deadlines and writing within specified parameters such as genre or word count. These are core skills youngsters’ will likely draw upon in their adult working lives. Persuasiveness. The story line and characters need to be believable. With every page the writer needs to paint a clear picture with words in order to convince the reader the tale is credible and so maintain their interest.
books are written and the challenges authors experience trying to convey their thoughts and ideas from mind, to paper and from the page to the reader. With this knowledge we anticipate that young bookworms will develop a greater appreciation of books. It is helpful to keep in mind that youngsters should be fearless about writing. After all they have nothing to lose and everything to gain! Simply encourage your child to put pen to paper and see what happens. Some may show a natural aptitude, others less so. The point is you don’t have to be a great writer to enjoy the process. The Tirtil Kids specialized, multi-language bookshop stocks a wide range of books and educational games for children and teenagers of all ages and reading grades. We also work closely with many of the top schools in Istanbul. Our experienced staff will be pleased to advise parents on book titles and games to meet their child’s specific needs. For those who are unable to visit our Istinye Park shop we offer an on-line purchasing facility via our website www. tirtilkids.com.
Tirtil Kids Kitabevi Istinye Park, Floor minus 2, Istanbul Shop Tel: (0212) 345 5370 Nick Cullen Co-owner of Tirtil Kids,
Grammar skills and spelling practice. Writing for pleasure helps children practice good grammar and spelling skills without seeming like class work. They will learn about punctuation and achieve a better understanding for instance of when to use apostrophes and semi-colons, where to insert a comma and when to start a new paragraph. Precision of expression. A writer must be vigilant in their use of vocabulary in order to say precisely what they mean. Enhances language learning for those studying in a second language. Whilst creative writing is a lot of fun it does involve detailed attention to language work. This can be beneficial to those writing in a language other than their mother tongue. To produce quality pieces the language must be correct and has to flow. Problem solving. It also encourages imaginative thinking. Children can learn how to solve storyline complications by thinking through the options and considering the alternative outcomes. Therapeutic. Sometimes children have difficulty saying what is on their minds, Creative writing enables the writer to express himself or herself from a third person perspective and as such remain detached. An introverted child can find creative writing a wonderful emotional outlet. Creative writing provides many educational and emotional benefits but above all it is stimulating and great fun! For each child to discover over time their own writer’s voice, a style of writing that is uniquely theirs. It also gives youngsters an initial insight as to how
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Sandra Louise Luxon
A New Terracotta Army by Children’s Hands and Minds
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o you know about the Terracotta Army? The magnificent Chinese archaeological find of over 8000 life size figures. The Terracotta army will be exhibited at Topkapı in October as part of 2012 Year of Chinese Culture in Turkey.
excitement, they made their own figure using a plastic glass a ball and straws. They coved this with clay and used a range of techniques to shape and model the clay for decorative features. Of course like the original the TEIS Terracotta Army Figures are all unique.
Children at TEIS an international pre-school in 4 Levent have been learning about China and the Terracotta army in their annual project, ‘Joyous Steps on the Silk Road’ in recognition of the Year of Chinese Culture. As part of the project, aimed to promote appreciation of diversity, cultural exchange, understanding and friendship, twenty-two five to six year old children at the school have been on an amazing adventure back in time and to China to discover and recreate the Terracotta Army.
We asked the children what they liked about their figures, Metehan aged 5 said ‘I was very careful I wanted to make a good soldier.’ Sanem aged 6 said, ‘I liked being an archaeologist.’
The children researched about the army with their teachers using the Internet. They travelled back in time and discovered that the army was, found by chance, during the digging of a well in 1974 in the Shaanxi province of China They learnt about archaeologists who excavated the site of the well and found an amazing treasure; over 8000 life sized terracotta figures, all with different faces. The children became historians found out that the Terracotta Army was buried with the Emperor of Qin in 209-210 BC to guard his mausoleum. The children looked at pictures of the army and discussed how it was made and features that they particularly liked. They also became archaeologists themselves by excavating objects carefully from a sandpit. The children learnt that historians and archaeologists have to record their findings and wrote key information about the Terracotta army in their own book. The children then became designers. They decided on characteristics for their soldier, first doing role plays bringing the Terracotta Army to life. Then they sketched a figure carefully. Then, with great
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This is this group of children’s third annual project; previously they have voyaged to Japan and Denmark in previous years without leaving their school. They learnt different languages, worked with artists, learnt about culture, art music and history. We asked the school’s Principal Sandra Luxon about the purpose of the school project. She told us, ‘As educationalists we need to look to the future, we want our children to be global citizens with an awareness of and respect for different cultures. We want them to feel successful in a range of creative and academic experiences. As China becomes ever more important as a world power we know that some of our children will work with Chinese people or even live in China. If we can give them respect for others and pride in and joy in their own achievements we are doing something which will stay with them always and shape them and the future.’ The TEIS Terracotta army is on display, along with Chinese Kites made by each child of the school’s 172 children. TEIS hopes to exhibit the army and an accompanying film in events for the Year of Chinese Culture and to form links of friendship with China for 2013 which will be the Year of Turkish Culture in China. The children’s army could even voyage along the Silk Road for exhibition in China. What an amazing achievement this would be for a group of twenty two five and six year olds living in Istanbul.
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A Second Hand Reflection on Third Culture Kids
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kay, here’s the deal: I was asked by my deputy head teacher to write an article about third culture kids. To be honest, this concept was something as a teacher I experience daily but hadn’t done any research into. So, just like I recommend to my students, if you don’t know about something, it’s time to start learning! After reading a variety of research, it seems third culture kids is an interesting and to me, perplexing concept. It was coined by an American anthropologist and sociologist, Ruth Hill Useem and comes with a host of issues which face many of our students. However, I am left with very mixed feelings about the nature of third culture kids.
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mums ‘n kids “Third culture kids” refers to children who grow up in countries other than their parents’ home country. Quite often, these children spend their childhood in an array of vastly different places and so miss out on the connections between them and a sense of cultural belonging to a specific nationality. These children can feel distinct separation from their parents’ home countries and a concept of culture that those of us who grew up in one place identify with. Looking around our school, it’s easy to see signs of this. Take International Day for example: many students were really stuck when asked their nationality. Is it the country on their passport? The country their mom was born in or their dad’s? What about the country they spent the most time in? Does it count if they were born in a country but moved away when they were still a baby? What seems like such a simple question often befuddles our students though it also helps us teachers recognise their struggle with cultural identity. Along with the confusion, we also see our students’ efforts to forge cultural bonds with their backgrounds. I have seen it when an Egyptian American student becomes avidly engaged in summarising newspaper reports about the Cairo riots. I have seen it when a student beams with pride that the chocolate on my desk comes from his country. I have seen it when we solve long division and suddenly, a shy student is eager to share the Russian method with the class. I have seen it when a Greek student proudly announces that a spelling word comes from his language. As teachers, we celebrate these opportunities. We purposefully build in opportunities for students to share their family culture in an effort to help culture be part of our students. We aim to create an environment that us Canadians would call “a tossed salad” - where students can celebrate, share, and learn more about their cultural heritage. It’s with this thought that I can’t help but become a little stumped on the concept of third culture kids. Coming from Canada, and I can imagine that it would not be too different other countries like the United States where the country itself was established by a large mix of immigrants, I grew up in schools where we were all from mixed backgrounds. Our parents or our parents’ parents or their parents’ parents’ parents were from a variety of different cultures and countries. In fact, it would seem stranger for me to be in a community with very few different cultures than one with a wide variety. My family itself is a mixture of Italian, Polish, Scottish, English, and Irish. My childhood friends were equally mixed and not once did we feel like we were struggling to establish cultural identities. We jumped on cultural ties when we found them in our schooling just like third culture kids and we identified our nationalities as strange mixes like “half Italian, a quarter Scottish and the rest a mix of English and Irish”. Wherein lies the difference between us and third culture kids?
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Quite simply, my gut response to this is permanence. In our schools, the majority of the students stayed put from beginning of primary to the end. In our international schools however, it is a completely different case. My year six class alone has only eight of the same students as last year and only two from when they were in year one. It’s not just one or two students that move in and out of our school – it’s the majority of them. Inevitably, this alters their sense of school culture and the relationships they build there. It seems pretty clear then, that this is where we as educators can make the most difference. So, how do we do this? First and foremost, we need to make sure the students feel a sense of our school identity and community. When students enter our school, it’s not just about introducing them to their new class and teacher, it’s about welcoming them to the whole of the school. It’s lovely to see how quickly new students make friends across different classes and year groups and how quickly they feel comfortable going up and chatting with different teachers. Very quickly, students get to know all of us. Secondly though of no less importance, we make sure we welcome new students for who they. Whether it be a seasoned traveller or a first time abroad student, we make sure to get to know our students for who they are and the unique background that each of us adds to our school community. Students really shouldn’t have to change who they are but simply share themselves with us and feel they have something uniquely important to contribute. Finally, I can’t help but mention the stability of our primary staff as helping. The students get to know the teachers and the teachers get to know the students and although their friends may leave, the teachers relatively remain the same, providing a sense of consistency in the school community. In the end, I can’t help but conclude that our role as international educators is of course to provide many opportunities for our students to feel and explore connections to their cultural backgrounds, but also that it’s of equal importance to help them feel a sense of belonging to our community. I’ll never forget my first year at BISI where I watched a lovely year 4 student break down in tears on his last day. What touched me most was that this child was able to feel he was leaving something important to him behind; that in two years, our school could make him feel like an important member of our community and a part of him. Since that day, I think I realised what mattered most to me was to honour and seize my chance to give to our students a sense of importance and identity in our community that they will always feel – a sense that they will always be part of the BISI family no matter where they go next. Although third culture kid syndrome will certainly apply to many of our students, perhaps our efforts to provide a BISI culture will be something that our students will always feel a part of.
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PLAY FOR HEALTHY CHILD DEVELOPMENT 4. Fine Motor Skill Development refers to the child's ability to use small muscles, specifically their hands and fingers, to pick up small objects, hold a spoon, turn pages in a book, or use crayons to draw. Fine motor skills are important for school readiness and writing skills. These skills can be promoted through play in fun ways. Ideas for improving fine motor skills: Lacing beads, cut and paste activities, crayons and paints, finger paints, play dough, peg games, building blocks, stacking toys, using tweezers… 5. Gross Motor Skill Development refers to the child's ability to use large muscles in their arms, legs and trunk to learn how to sit up, stand up holding onto furniture, walking, running, and jumping. Ideas for improving gross motor skills: Dancing, swimming, hide and seek, riding toys, catching games, obstacle course, throwing and catching soft balls, pulling and pushing toys, swinging and sliding…
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lay is one of the most fundamental parts of children’s development, allowing them to explore and understand the world around them. Play stimulates healthy development from birth to school age years and helps children to develop skills in five main areas of development. Appropriate toys and games for the developmental level of the child support their skills in these areas. 1. Cognitive Development refers to the developing functions of the brain such as processing information, learning new materials, thinking, making judgments, awareness and problem solving. Play promotes cognitive development by providing settings for children to think, take perspectives and develop imagination. Ideas for improving cognitive skills: Puzzles, patterns, mosaic-type games, Legos, sequence games, sorting objects, characters and theme toys such as farm, school… 2. Social and Emotional Development refers to the child’s ability to selfregulate, interact and enjoy with peers or adults, express thoughts and feelings, show frustration in a healthy way, solve conflicts peacefully, wait for turns, and follow rules. Like any other skills, children develop these skills step by step over time with social experiences. Ideas for improving social and emotional skills: Creating social situations for helping others, sharing, taking turns, independently dressing and self-feeding, social interaction games such as peek-a-boo or cooperative construction projects, games in circle times…
As children get older, they learn to use their imagination and they get involved in pretend play. Pretend play, also referred to as symbolic play, occurs when children substitute one object for another such as using a spoon to represent a microphone or feeding a doll, or making two dolls interact with each other. During pretend play, children develop skills in different areas of development. Children think of a scenario for pretend play, including the roles for each participant and the necessary props. In these roles, they practice both verbal and nonverbal communication skills. Children often invent situation where they can reflect their emotions and conquer their fears while practicing adult roles. They also have to work through conflicts with other children or adults and have compromises. As the play continues, they keep developing and testing new ideas. Play also offers an ideal opportunity for parents to engage fully with their children. Toddlers love to copy what their parents do by pretending their actions. Parents can help their child by creating an environment with a variety of items that fosters pretend play. The play should be allowed to be child driven, where children can practice thinking and move at their own pace. Parents should encourage their child to build new ideas, without too much control over the play. Pretend play provides great opportunities for introducing new vocabulary, dealing with emotions and solving problems. When the play is controlled by the adults, children have less opportunity to use their imagination and reflect their feelings. Choosing appropriate toys for children is important for promoting developmental skills. Toys should match the developmental stage of the child, should be challenging but not frustrating. Toys that can be used for multiple purposes and that can stimulate creative thinking are essential for playtime. Less electronic toys are advised as they limit children’s exploration and communication.
3. Speech and Language Development refers to the child’s ability to both understand and use language. Language develops in stages. First, children babble, then they produce individual sounds. By stringing sounds together, they produce words and as they learn the grammatical rules, they combine words into sentences to communicate properly. Playtime offers parents opportunities to foster their children language development. During play, parent can introduce new vocabulary and model how to communicate an idea or narrate a story. Ideas for improving speech and language skills: Singing simple songs, using body language, naming objects and body parts, asking openended questions, allowing the child to express his/her thoughts and feelings, telling stories, letting the child tell a story to you, reading books…
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How to Make a Good Swimmer out of your Child Summer is approaching fast and like every parent, you want your child to learn how to swim. So, you decide to enroll your child in a swimming class, and you do the research and get recommendations for a good teacher. On one hand, you’re hoping that your child will learn something new and become a real swimmer, and on the other hand, you’re dreaming of stretching out on your lounge chair and watching your child swim instead of running after him until he learns how to swim. You know that you and your spouse keep a stopwatch to time whose turn it is to take care of the child (I know this sounds silly but you know that I’m right). Anyway, let’s continue… for you in the water. These are the children who might have a good chance of excelling at swimming.
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ou are now at your first class but your child is not only refusing to swim, he won’t even come near the edge of the pool and keeps crying! Whose fault is it: the child’s, the teacher’s, the pool’s, or the parent’s? What do you do now? But you know your child loved the water and didn’t want to get out of the bathtub, so what’s different now? Let’s examine what’s going on here. My experiences as a swimming teacher for the last 15 years have shown me that there isn’t a child who can’t learn how to swim. When you proceed calmly and confidently, you and the teacher can overcome this initial obstacle together. You’ll find that the same child who refused to go in the water will now refuse to get out of the pool! Especially the children who had difficulty in the beginning will be the ones who’ll gain confidence and want to put on a show
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No child (except for those who experienced a serious trauma such as almost drowning) is naturally afraid of the water. Your child’s fear of the water has more to do with your approach and your projections. Maybe you don’t know how to swim or you have an overly protective nature. If this is the case, it is best to start working on your fears first. Don’t forget that children can pick up on your emotional state, even when before they are born. It is very important to be aware of what you project onto your children because their brains are like sponge that absorb all of your fears. Whenever I see a child who is afraid of the water, I look to the parents first. I request from the parents that they establish a better way to communicate with their child and watch their words. As a parent, you need to avoid any negative comments about swimming and prepare your child for his first class in advance by telling stories. You could tell your child how he can chase the fish in the sea, or share a story book with pictures about the sea. It is very helpful to get your child excited about swimming before he comes to his first class. Another source of anxiety for the child could be the pool itself. Some children could be intimidated by large buildings or unfamiliar surroundings, and they may need time to warm up the the location. It is natural for children to feel this way, much like some adults do. In addition, whether the pool is small or large, it can be a loud place. The elevated noise levels make communication more difficult. You could try to schedule your classes for less busy times or pick smaller pools. This might help your child feel more confident, just like small fish feeling secure enough to come out of their hiding places in the cracks of a rock or behind the sea weeds and venturing out to the open sea.
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mums ‘n kids Even though it is not the most important factor, it is possible that disrupting a child’s eating schedule might make him less cooperative. If this a possibility, I recommend that you delay his meal until after the lesson and surprise him wish his favorite food to increase his motivation. If he can be wrapped in a warm towel, eating his chocolate after class, this shows that he is building self confidence. And now, let’s take a look at the teacher you've selected. You must research the teacher’s qualifications and background thoroughly. Like the way your child may not warm up to every person he meets, he may also not warm up to his swimming teacher right away. A good teacher must be aware of this fact and should know how to act around the child. If you allow sufficient time for the teacher and your child to get to know each other, you might be surprised at how strong the bond between them can become. You, as the parent, must trust the teacher if you are going to allow the teacher to work with your child. If you don’t trust the teacher as the absolute authority during the lesson, your child won’t trust him either. You must be patient with your child. If he cries on the first lesson, he doesn’t have to go in the water right away. There have been many times when all I've done on the first lesson is hold the child’s hand and walk around the pool and finished the lesson just sitting on the edge of the pool. You can regard this as investing in the next lesson. A good teacher knows to work a the child’s speed, not the parents’. It never pays to get into a contest of wills or show other children as examples. This would only make your child feel worthless or unsuccessful. It is always better to use positive reinforcement rather than negative.
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If your child is really having a tough time, be sure to have your swim suit and your goggles with you to jump in the pool. Parents can be an essential part of the learning process. This is one of the most wonderful things you can share with your child. With a good teacher, you can learn how to work with your child outside the class environment. Being a part of your child’s swimming education can lead to unforgettable, beautiful memories of shared joy and excitement and be the start of a deep and trusting relationship. So, now that you know how much can be gained by getting your child to learn how to swim, it is time to start your search for that perfect teacher who will understand your child and work with his needs, at his level. Once your deliver your child to the swimming teacher, you can bring out that lounge chair, get your favorite book, and get ready to enjoy the summer time ! By Halim Erçeri I was lucky that a family friend took interest in me and taught me to swim when I was two years old. I could have never imagined how learning to swim would change my entire life. I went on to become a professional swimmer and competed for many years, winning numerous awards. However, nothing gave me as much satisfaction as the first time I taught a child how to swim. I decided to make a career out of teaching children how to swim. I studied physical education in Ege University and specialized in working with autistic, handicapped, and hyperactive children. I have been a professional swimming coach for the last 15 years.
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HEALING WITH LIGHT NEW POSSIBILITIES FOR THE INTEGRATIVE MEDICINE! Laser-Acupuncture The laser not only gives the acupuncture effect, but also has its own anti-inflammatory effect on the tissues. Low level laser has a photochemical (not thermal) effect on the cells. The light energy is absorbed by the cell and converted to chemical energy. Cell function improves, allowing healing to take place. Enzymes such as endorphins and seratonin are released to give further pain relief. Four well accepted biological effects of Laserneedle are :
Every living cell transmits and receives energy across the electromagnetic spectrum from radio waves through infrared, visible and ultraviolet wavelengths. Biophotons provide the means for near instantaneous communication throughout our bodies, and create an intricate web of energy within all living systems. Einstein taught us that light from all conventional sources and in nature is produced by spontaneous emission. Einstein was a visionary. Beyond describing how light was emitted from known sources, he imagined the theoretical physics of an entirely new form of light: Lasers. The light from a Laser is coherent and monochromatic like the light from our cells. By increasing energy available in this readily accessible form, laser light is able to greatly stimulate the biological function of cells, tissue, and systems and even raise overall vital energy throughout the individual. When energy is available, the body can heal itself ; “Bio” stimulation = Life stimulation . The therapy with laser needles (LaserNeedle-Akupunktur) was developed by the Universities of Graz and Paderborn and introduced into acupuncture in 2000. This is a non-invasive, completely painless method without side effects during which laser needles are placed onto the skin rather than inserted into it. Laser needle treatment improves largely various symptoms and stimulates the immune system. Moreover, it increases the therapeutic spectrum of acupuncture. The process is completely pain free which allows providing best treatment for patients and small children.
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Biostimulation / Tissue Regeneration Reduction of Inflammation Analgesia Enhanced Immune Function / Antimicrobial
One fundamental way in which laser therapy energizes living systems is through photon absorption by mitochondria to activate the respiratory chain and increase synthesis of ATP. At the tissue level, infrared and visible red laser light increase circulation; enhance the formation of new blood and lymphatic vessels; reduce edema; increase the formation of granulation tissue in wounds and accelerate re-epitheliazation at their margins; increase the activity and numbers of fibroblasts; increase collagen formation; and increase the number and activity of macrophages.By increasing energy available in this readily accessible form, laser light is able to profoundly stimulate the biological function of cells, tissue, and system and has even been reported to increase overall health and vitality. Laser therapy accelerates and may initiate tissue regeneration, promoting the activities and numbers of formative cells. It has been documented to stimulate the healing of tissue of many kinds, bone, blood, cartilage, nerve and muscle and even to improve its quality. Laser acupuncture has a regulatory effect, restoring function to weakened cells and tissues without affecting healthy tissue negatively. Successful Laser –Needle Treatments : Pain therapy ( neck pain ,shoulder pain ,Low back pain and …) Joint- and bone diseases (Osteoarthritis of Knee , Tennis elbow ,CTS ,…)
Skin diseases ( Exema , Dermatitis , Acne , Herpes zoster ) and skin regeneration ( Acne scars ) Skin rejuvenation ( mikrotellanjectasis and fine wrinkles ) Allerjic desease in ( Bronchitis , Astma ) Pediatric indications The advantages of the painless laser needle treatments can be felt in particular in the treatments of children. The painless and sideeffect free character of laser needle micro therapies is essential for the pediatrics, the children experience the acupuncture and the laser therapy as pleasant and efficient method. The accompanying medication of inflammations, astma , joint diseases or skin diseases can often be significantly reduced. What aboute Safety of laser therapy ? Laser therapy has proven to be extremely safe. In the more than 40 years since this method was discovered, an adverse reaction has never been reported in the over 4,000 published studies and articles. Medical Laser-Acupuncture studies using functional brain imaging help elucidate effects and pathways linking peripheral stimulation, cortical brain changes and empirically-validated effects on internal organs. Are you one of the many people who really hate needles? Has this ever annoyed you because you’ve wanted to try acupuncture but the needles involved have really put you off ? Now there’s laser acupuncture. It works on exactly the same principles as normal acupuncture but no needles whatsoever are involved. In contrast to needle acupuncture, in which input begins with the microtraumatic mechanical effects of the needle on local tissue, laser acupuncture relies on the absorption and scattering of light within tissue.
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IWI MUMS ‘N’ KIDS MEETINGS & PLAYGROUPS Please note that the age recommendation given is not a strict one –feel free to join the group to which you and your kid feel most comfortable. Also “Mums`n`Kids” doesn’t only mean that it’s for mums only – “Dads`n`Kids” are just as welcome! European Side
“Asian Babies” (6 months – 3 years) When : Every Wednesday. Time : 10 am - 12 pm. Location : A pre-arranged meeting place. Cost : FREE. Coordinator Aischa Erten: aischa@erten.net or 0532-324-2739.
“Asian Babies” (Big Kids) Pregnant & Infants (0 – 12 months) This is an opportunity to meet other pregnant ladies and mums of infants, as well as share the joys and trials of motherhood while creating a support network. A guest speaker is invited periodically to talk to the group regarding pregnancy and new parenting topics. When : Every Tuesday. Time : 10 am – 12 pm. Location : Rotating turns at mums’ homes and pre-arranged places. Cost : FREE. Coordinators Elisabeth Wedam: Elisabeth.wedam@gmail.com or 0212-263-9311 Asra Ghori: asraghori@gmail.com or 0535-036-2962 Christiane Sebald: christianesebald@gmx.de or 0531-928-9259.
Walkers – Younger Toddlers (13 – 25 months) When : Every Tuesday. Time : 10.30 am – 12.30 pm. Location : Rotating turns at mums’ homes and pre-arranged places. Cost : FREE. Coordinators Andrea Karapınar: a.koziel@gmx.de or 0533-276-0582, Karolina Meisloch: karolina@meisloch.com or 0531-695-7887.
This is a fun playgroup for our older ones. When : Every Wednesday. Time : 10 am – 12 pm. Location : Rotating turns at mums’ homes and pre-arranged places. Cost : FREE. Coordinators Gigi Aksu: gaksu05@yahoo.com or 0530-645-9494, Maria Petersen Çiftgül: mariabwp@hotmail.com
NEW: European Side Afternoon Meeting for Ages 0-3 A great opportunity for parents working in the morning, or those with children in several age groups, to get all together and have fun at the park, the playground, a café or a home. When : Every 1st and 3rd Thursday afternoon each month. Time : 3 pm. Location : The first meeting will be held on September 15 at the Playground in Bebek Park. Coordinator Gigi Aksu: gaksu05@yahoo.com or 0530-645-9494. Asian Side
Pregnant & Infants (0 – 18 months) This is an opportunity to meet other pregnant ladies and mums of infants, as well as share the joys and trials of motherhood while creating a support network. A guest speaker is invited periodically to talk to the group regarding pregnancy and new parenting topics. When : Every Tuesday. Time : Vary. Location : Rotating turns at mums’ homes and pre-arranged places. Cost : FREE. Coordinator Lucille Abendanon: lucille.abendanon@gmail.com or 0534-971-6584.
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This is a group for school goers who want to stop by after a long day at school or get together for a Playdate on weekends from time to time. Coordinator Michele Kafer: michelekafer@gmail.com or 0537-504-7442.
Asian Side Weekend Playgroup This is our Weekend Playgroup for working and non-working IWI parents who like to meet on Saturdays to socialize with their babies and toddlers. When : Every Saturday. Time : Mornings or afternoons - according to majority decision. Location : Rotating turns at mums’ homes and outdoors. Cost : FREE. Coordinator Jane Örer: janeorer@hotmail.com.
Children with Special Needs
For resources and recommended specialists for children with special needs. Coordinator Debbie Sainte-Rose: debbiesainterose@yahoo.com or 0531-769-1368.
Attachment Parenting International (API) Non-profit group to help parents & professionals network, find the support, information and empowerment they need to form strong bonds and enduring relationships with their children. Open to parents of children up to 3 years of age. Cost : FREE. Coordinator Nilüfer Devecigil: ndevecigil@hotmail.com
Breastfeeding and Post-Partum Support Group La Leche League-type instruction about breastfeeding techniques and other relevant information facilitated by doula Julia Steils Paçacıoğlu. Date and Time: Every 2nd and 4th Wednesday of the month. Location : Rotating mums’ homes. Cost : FREE. Coordinator Julia Steils Paçacıoğlu: Julia@fullcirclehealing.org or 0537-435-5552.
INTERNATIONAL PRE-SCHOOLS & CENTERS’ PLAYGROUPS: Bosphorus International Pre-School (BIP), Emirgan www.bipschool.net Teacher-organized-activity, song-and-circle time and half an hour of garden play (weather-permitting). Coffee, tea, milk and cookies provided. When : Tuesdays, starting Wednesday, October 5. Time : 10 – 11.30 am. Cost : FREE. Age Group: 0 -3 years. Coordinator Ms. Colette Laffan-Perşembe: cpersembe@bipschool.net or 0212-277-8444. Note: Call Mondays to reserve, there are only 10 spots. ONLY ONE known adult per child please.
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announcements British International School (BIS), Zekeriyaköy, Etiler www.bis.k12.tr Indoor and outdoor garden play (weather-permitting), followed by snack and music time. Known adult to stay and supervise child. Days and locations: Tuesdays and Thursdays in Zekeriyaköy; Mondays and Fridays in Etiler, beginning Tuesday, September 14. Time : 9 -11 am (both campuses). Cost : 10 TL per session. Age Group: 0 – 2½ years. Coordinator Mrs. Amanda Ilhan, Preschool and Primary Deputy Director: amandailhan@bis.k12.tr or 0212-202-7027 ext. 116.
Eden’s Garden International Pre-School, Yeniköy www.edensgardenpreschool.com Teacher-coordinated song and story time, along with baby music and ballet in the dance room, Arts & Crafts in the ceramics studio, or garden play (weather-permitting). Known adult must supervise child. Bring soft slippers. Also organizes birthday parties. When : Thursdays. Time : 9.30 – 11.30 am. Cost : 30 TL per session; includes a brunch at 10.30 am. Age Group: 0 – 3 years. Coordinator Ms. Christina Heath: director@edensgardenpreschool.com or
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Free Play’ for ages 0- 5, including coffee or a drink for mums. When : Every Monday. Time : 3.30 – 5.30 pm. Cost : 25 TL per session. Several ‘Play & Learn’ 45-minute classes in English and Turkish, including food, beverage and Free Play for different age levels. Cost : 45 TL per class (Note: 8-week minimum for groups of 5). ‘Drop-off Program’ for ages 2 -3.5, including snack, music, art, fitness and play classes. When : Tuesdays and Thursdays. Time : 10 am – 12.30 pm. Cost : 70 TL. Coordinator Ms. Esra Taşar: esratasar@gymboreeturkey.com or 0212-2827666.
IWI’s Mums ‘n’ Kids Team organizes activities for you and your children to enjoy. We remind you that you are responsible for your child’s safety at all times. IWI cannot take responsibility for injury and extra cost incurred during any activity.
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Woodsview International Nursery & Pre-School, Tarabya www.woodsviewpreschool.com This is an international English-speaking Playgroup. Each session includes a simple craft activity, refreshments (coffee for the parents) and music time. There’s a large selection of toys to play with each week. It’s a great place for babies, young children and their mothers, fathers and caregivers to get to know each other. Come along and join in the fun! Free Play Time (getting to know colours, playing dough), Music Time and Tidy-up Time. Music time is much more than simply singing songs. We will try to incorporate some clapping rhythms, instruments, and a few action songs or dances to develop the children’s coordination, and also their fine and major motor skills. Our mission is to get the kids rocking and rolling, tapping and clapping, banging and shaking, marching and stamping, moving and swaying to the beat - and they will be having a really great time. The parents will too! When : Thursdays. Time : 10 – 11.30 am. Cost : FREE. Age Group: 0 – 3 years. Coordinator Ms. Sharon Harding: Sharon@woodsviewpreschool.com or 0212-299-3906 (-67 65).
Etiler Kemer Kids’ Garden, Etiler www.kemer.k12.tr Native English-speaking teacher leads Playgroup. Known adult must supervise child. When : Wednesdays Time : 2.30 – 4 pm. Cost : FREE. Age Group: 0 – 3 years. Coordinator and Reservations Ms. Esra Dürüst: ekids@kemer.k12.tr or 0212-265-1723 or 0212-263-6698. Gymboree, Ulus /Ortaköy www.gymboreeturkey.com
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OTHER GROUPS & ASSOCIATIONS Alcoholics Anonymous / Al-Anon
Open AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) meetings are held in the Union Hanbuilding on Istiklal Caddesi, Tünel, next to the Swedish Consulate at 7 pm every Monday, Wednesday, Friday and at 6:30 every Thursday. We also have a Sunday meeting in Harbiye at 4:15 pm. Contact Michael: 05327616466 or 05374338368. michael.kuser@gmail.com For details see: www.aa-europe.net/countries/turkey.htm
Art Lovers of Istanbul
ALI is an informal group for artists, art collectors and all art lovers living in Istanbul. It is open for any English speaker who enjoys the arts. We hold monthly meetings to share our ideas and talents. We meet to create and inspire! For more information visit www. artloversofistanbul.com or contact us through artloversofistanbul@hotmail.com
Turkey, whilst making new friends and discovering new activities and interests. Aiming to help each other to settle in with tips, trips, food demos, potluck lunches and a little charity help when and we can manage it.
Circolo Roma
The Italian Association organizes several activities, such as rithmic gymnastic for girls, cooking classes, drawing and painting, yoga, salsa dance, Italian and Turkish conversation, sale of Italian Books, Italian Cinema and more and more. The wonderfull liberty hall can be used for private parties and conferences upon contribution. Please contact info@circoloroma.com.
Die Brücke
The Friends of ARIT Istanbul, with branches in North America and Ankara, was established to support the ARIT in Turkey and carry out its scholarly activities. The Istanbul Friends run a yearround program of tours and lectures for members and guests. Membership is open to all interested residents of Istanbul. For further information: 0212 257 81 11.
“DIE BRÜCKE e.V.” (‘THE BRIDGE’) is a platform for the German speaking community. It was founded in 1989 to serve the needs of a steadily growing community. It is not a German club; it is open for everyone who speaks German. “DIE BRÜCKE e.V.” issues a monthly newsletter. Different gatherings, charities, information concerning daily life, bi-national education, help with bureaucracy and immigration laws in Turkey are covered as well as assistance to newcomers. Many cultural activities are also organized, like visits to concerts or exhibitions. Contact: +90 212 458 98 50, www.brueckeistanbul.org, info@bruecke-istanbul.org
AWI (American Women of Istanbul)
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The AWI is a social network open to Americans, Canadians and spouses of U.S. or Canadian citizens living in Istanbul. The AWI provides social programs ranging from special interest groups to charities. If you’re a newcomer to Istanbul please contact our newcomers committee so you can start to feel at home in your new country. Contact Sharon Lewis email: awiistanbul@gmail.com
British Community Council
The British Community council (founded 1942) supports ten pensioners and local charities by its fundraising events. Helpers and new members of the BCC are always welcome.. Contact person: Michael Ashor, chairman@bccistanbul.org, 0212 2497 296, 0 545 588 1933, www.bccistanbul.org
The Dutch club Istanbul is a group of people who like to keep typical Dutch festivities alive, for people who have connection to Holland, who like to meet up with Dutch speaking people. On a monthly basis we organize a get together. Among the festivities we do the typical celebrations like Sinterklass (5 December) and Koninginnedag (queensday). For further information and details check our website www.nv-istanbul.org or contact: secretariaat@nv-istanbul.org Mariska Steenkamer 0530 828 65 65.
Fransız Fakirhanesi - Little Sisters of the Poor Contact: Mother Mary 0212 296 46 08.
FOCI (Friends of Contemporary Istanbul)
Our bridge group meets on Fridays at 11a.m. All levels of bridge players are welcome. Please contact Sandra at (212) 257-9781 or 0532-483--5319.
Working with the international community in promoting the growth and development of contemporary art, the Friends of Contemporary Istanbul aim to enrich the rising art scent in Turkey and to contribute to the cultural life of Istanbul. For further information, please contact Jasmine Taranto – VIP Coordinator & International Relations at 0 212 244 7171, info@contemporaryistanbul.com
CHICAS - Spanish Speaking Women of Istanbul
Friends of India
Bridge Group - All Levels
A group open to all ladies who speak our language, or would like to practice it. We have lots of fun, hilarious Latin parties, and last but not least, cultural venues. Come on, jump on in, you won’t regret it! Contact: Ninoska Gutierrez Sierra 0533 651 35 81 , Norma Maranges 0532 314 29 34, Lorena Martinez 0533 388 63 09 e-mail: chicasestambul@yahoo.com.mx It has also an own blog: http:// chicasestambul.blogspot.com/ and it’s in Facebook under “Chicas Estambul”.
Corona Ladies Group
Corona Ladies are an informal group of English speakers who would like to welcome you to Istanbul, explore the city together, and make the most of our time here. We have permanent members as well as new comers and are open to all nationalities (ability to speak English is necessary) who wish to join us in getting to know about
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InterNations
is the first international online community for people who live and work abroad. Our network is represented by more than 230 local communities all over the world. InterNations users can exchange reliable information on expat-specific topics, both on a global and a local level. The members of InterNations Istanbul meet every month at different locations. Please contact Gundula Strittmatter for information and to join our Istanbul community: gstrittmatter@internations.org, 05386948728 www.internations.org
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OTHER GROUPS & ASSOCIATIONS Istanbul Accueil
Welcomes French-speaking newcomers in Istanbul. We publish a bimonthly newsletter with many activity groups (bridge, baby groups, cooking, cultural outings and social events, etc.) Our common language is French and all French-speaking people are welcome! www.istanbulaccueil.org, email: istaccueil@gmail.com
The Istanbul Ottomans Rugby Club
Practice every Saturday afternoon at the Dikilitas Spor Klubu in Besiktas (directions available at www.ottomansrugby.com). Players of all ages (14+) and levels of fitness welcome, including ladies for our newly formed Ottomans Women Rugby Club. Please contact Ozer Onkal at +90 533 482 6262 or email: ozer.ali.onkal@ ottomansrugby.com or ozer212@yahoo.com
SWEA
(Swedish Women Educational Association) A world-wide network for Swedish or Swedish-speaking A world-wide network for Swedish or Swedish-speaking women with a chapter in Istanbul. Contact Helene Fredell helene.fredell@hm.com
Istanbul Toastmasters
The English speaking Istanbul Toastmasters club is the only local branch of Toastmasters International, an organization that helps its members improve their communication and leadership skills in a supportive environment. ITM meets on the first and third Wednesday of each month from 19:30-21:30 at the Metro Park Hotel in Taksim. Guests are welcome to attend two meetings free of charge. For further information contact: Madeleine Pelletier, Vice-President Education 0535 227 1074 (vp-education@istanbultoastmasters.org) or Alper Rozanes, Vice-President Membership, 0532 243 3753 (vpmembership@istanbultoastmasters.org).
PAWI (Professional American Women of Istanbul)
The Professional American Women of Istanbul, is a network of American/Canadian women and spouses of Americans/Canadians living in Istanbul. PAWI strives to empower and support members by promoting professional and personal growth. Members inspire each other to achieve and share success. PAWI meetings are held the second Saturday of each month. Each meeting features a guest speaker, and locations alternate between the European and Asian sides. Contact info@pawistanbul.com or visit www.pawistanbul.com
*Please check our website www.iwi-tr.org for updates to this page. If you represent a group and want your group updated or listed on these pages, e-mail esbie@iwi-tr.org. These pages are for your information only; the IWI does not accept any responsibility regarding these groups or their activities.
Patchwork Group
Contact Cynthia Royce 0536 348 4086, cynthroyce@hotmail.com
SEDplatform for animals
SEDplatform has been formed by a handful of expat and local volunteers to make a change in the way animals are being perceived and treated in Turkey. To this aim, we have launched education in schools, educational activities, proper on-hand care of street animals, sterilization and adoptions campaigns, pet care brochures and World Animal Day activities in Istanbul. We have been active since 2001. Contacts: Big Dog Yuli 0532 314 8238, Kit Kat Robi 0542 423 0633 or Cat Lady Leyla 0555 404 3113; email: sahiplenelim@sed-tr.org New kitty site: www.onlarbizimkedilerimiz.org
Speech Bubbles
Is an international group aiming to perform high-quality Is an international group aiming to perform high-quality musical theater and donating the income to NGO’s supporting children and education. Speech Bubbles is composed of amateur and professional dancers, singers and musicians from II countries. Contact Tom Godfrey 0532 736 7702; www.speechbubbles.org
Sublime Portal
The Sublime Portal is your expat on-line community reference for all things Turkey. Here you can find a lively group of people who discuss everything about Turkey, network and organize social events. Over a 1000 members and still growing... www.sublimeportal.com
Support Group for Parents of Children with Special Needs
Looking for the support of other parents of children with special needs and additional resources for your child? Please contact Debbie L Sainte-Rose for more information at 05317691368 or debbiesainterose@yahoo.com.
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partner offers
Our Partner Offers page will list various offers and discounts that our partners are extending to IWI members. These discounts apply to the month of June/July/August 2011 and in order to redeem these partner benefits, you must show your IWI Membership ID card
The LifeCo The LifeCo Detox and Well-being Center in Akatlar is offering a 50% discount on yoga classes (15TL with discount). Classes are twice a day at 8:00 and 18:30. www.thelifeco.com
The Learning Center Istanbul in Yenikoy offers free consul-
DoubleTree by Hilton Istanbul-Moda offers a 10% discount
Time Out Istanbul in English is offering a 25% discount on subscriptions. Make Time Out Istanbul in English your monthly go-to guide for the city by contacting: Gizem Unsalan 02122871990 gizem@timeoutistanbul.com www.timeoutistanbul.com/english
for IWI members in its outlets till the end of 2012! The Doubles Restaurant offers breakfast, lunch and dinner options featuring international dishes. Our open buffet offers a variety of signature dishes each bursting with flavor. At lunch and dinner you can also choose from our a la carte menu consisting of unique dishes from a variety of cuisines. La Gazetta Café & Bar, with its spacious garden view, is ideal for your little breaks such as the morning coffee or five o’clock tea. You can also relax after an exhausting meeting or catch up with old friends for a quick break… Elemental Fitness & SPA invites you to discover the healing power of water. Our professional staff will bring you a variety of massages from different parts of the world in a unique peaceful environment. Please do not forget to bring your IWI membership card with you! For detailed information about our The Doubles Restaurant’s cuisine weeks and La Gazetta live music nights please follow us: www.facebook.com/DoubleTreebyHiltonIstanbul Moda and 0216 542 43 44
tation to parents to determine the educational needs of your child and how best to address them. www.thelearningcenteristanbul.com info@thelearningcenteristanbul.com
NBA Saloon (Etiler) as an IWI Partner is pleased to announce that IWI members will be given the following privileges up until December 31, 2012: * 20% discount on all hair, make up and nail spa services * 10% discount on Mystic Tan (UV free tanning) To take advantage of this beauty offer at NBA Saloon where you will discover the “new you”, you are invited to the following address: Nispetiye Caddesi. Selçuklar Sokak. No:9 (Valet parking is available) For questions please contact Enver Celikbas at 0533 774 08 27.
EF INST Turkish Centre is offering a 10% discount on Turkish lessons. You can contact them at: Hillside Sports is offering a 20% discount on general memberships to IWI members. For details, please contact:
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classıfıed ads GUITAR LESSONS for Children or Adults
Spice up summer with private guitar lessons available in rock, blues or jazz by graduate of the Berklee College of Music with 30 years’ performance experience. Gentle, non-stressful approach with Turkish instructor who speaks English. Can travel to your home. Reasonable rates. Also has jazz duo, trio, quartet group for weddings and parties. Contact: Ali Ağca, 0533 353-1221, erdoganagca@yahoo.com
TURKISH LESSONS: PRIVATE AND CONVERSATIONAL
For ladies and men, group or one to one lessons, at your home or workplace, from an experienced native teacher fluent in English and French. Adjustable to your needs and time schedule. Please call 0530 310 21 32 or email rbensan@superonline. com for full information.
SHORT AND MEDIUM-STAY APARTMENTS IN BEYOGLU AND GALATA
Professional Massage
Easybox Prestigious Gifts now in Turkey!
HOME WANTED for PLAYFUL TIGA
Reiki treatments:
AYŞE TURGUT, LICENCED REALTOR
Turkish-speaking nanny needed in Germany!
MEF INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL
istanbul!place offers high quality apartments for short and medium-stay rental (holiday or business), in the heart of Istanbul. The properties are all in historical buildings, stylishly furnished and recently renovated, retaining original architectural features and the spirit of another age. Contact Julia Bayne www.istanbulplace. com - info@istanbulplace.com
Are you looking for a special gift for your loved ones? Then Easybox is just the right one for you. You can find many preselected activities and services specially prepared by prestigious suppliers in these nicely designed thematic boxes. Adventure, Hobby and Culture, Spa & Wellness, Beauty, Romantic Hotels and many more. www.theexclusivegift.com and www.easybox. com.tr. Tel: 0212 346 35 05.
Do you feel out of energy, stressed or unbalanced? Reiki can help. It is a holistic form of healing carried out by placing hands on or over a person with the intent to channel healing energy. It touches body, mind and spirit. For information contact Laurina van Dam: laurina.van.dam@gmail.com , 0545 449 19 84
A young german-turkish family (she:german Pediatrist, he:VicePresident) is seeking a nanny for their twins (16 months) in Germany, near Düsseldorf. We would see you as a part of our family and also a good friend (Abla) for our girls. We expect you to teach and talk to our girls in Turkish and also do some housework. You will receive a nice flat and a good salary. Contact: +49 151 55159293, a.dalgic@gmx.net.
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I can come to your house... Pregnancy massage, cellulite massage, relaxing massage, full body massage, osho re-balancing, massage or wax. Call me for more information : Hatice Yildrim Tirli 0532 260 41 18 / 0542 434 19 32.
She cannot commute between UK and Turkey. About 8 months old and very cute Tekir kitten. Medical checks & inoculations done and she has had the operation to stop future generations. Comes with all her things. Needs a good home. Contact 0538 604 9795.
Furnished/Unfurnished rentals/sales. Etiler, Ulus, Bosphorus. ayse@artemlakltd.com.tr www.aysesellsistanbul.com www.artemlakltd.com.tr 0537 501 7403
Cordially invites prospective families to the Annual Open Day on March 14th, 2012, 9:00a.m.-11:30am in the Middle Conference Hall at MEF Schools Campus: Ulus Mahallesi, Öztopuz Caddesi Leylak Sokak 34340 Beşiktaş, Istanbul• Presentations by School Principals • Coffee with PTA • School Tour • Classroom Visits R.S.V.P. by March 12th 2012 Tel : +90 (212) 287 38 71 antillond@mef.k12.tr
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IWI Policies & Advertising
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MAGAZINE OF THE INTERNATIONAL WOMEN OF ISTANBUL
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MAGAZINE OF THE INTERNA TIONAL WOMEN OF IST ANBUL
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Yildirm Mayruk IWI Programs
March & April 2012
DISCOVER THE AUTHOR IN YOUR CHILD
IPWIN IWI Spring Ball
La Dolce Vita