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7 MARTINE’S MUSINGS Letter from the Editor 10 WEDDING DRESS STYLES A guide to your dress style options 11 COMPLETE THE LOOK! Helpful hints for creating your bridal ensemble 16 DESIGN INSPIRATION Classic Romantic, Urban Contemporary & Organic Ethereal Styles 24 MARTINE'S TIPS Hiring an invitation designer & mastering your budget

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26 REAL WEDDINGS Allow Real Weddings to Inspire Your Dreams!

34 ONE NORTH BROAD STREET Dream Weddings Feature 52 GET AUTHENTIC ENGAGEMENT PHOTOS Tips for capturing photos you’ll love 56 ADVICE FROM WEDDING PROS All about dancing and bouquets 64 MAKE IT OFFICIAL Places to file for your marriage license

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Central Pennsylvania’s first and only Wedding Reality Television Show!

Emmy nominated Dream Weddings follows real couples through their planning process until their big day unfolds right before your eyes. What began as a dream over 7 years ago for host Martine Cajas, has turned into a source of inspiration for couples everywhere.

Viewers enjoy some truly unique elements of the show: behind-the-scenes production meetings, wedding design upgrades and of course - bloopers! Martine has gotten so comfortable on camera that the production team feels he will become a one-take wonder...then his Spanglish takes over and he has everyone cracking

up in no time.

Dream Weddings continues to evolve from season to season. Check out the Dream Weddings YouTube channel to watch any episode, on demand. Or visit www.DreamWeddings.co/episodes and

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The Dream Weddings TV show is made possible by the creativity of the local professionals who make our couples’ dreams come true. Visit us at www.

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HAPPY SUMMER! Time to lay out a towel by the pool, kick up your feet, and plan your wedding!

My favorite part of my job is helping brides and grooms plan their Dream Wedding. Ideally, you only get married once. So why not make it exactly like the event you’ve been imagining in your dreams for years?

Throughout this issue, you’ll see a lot of images taken at One North Broad Street, an absolutely stunning venue in downtown Philadelphia. I wanted to think outside of the box, as every wedding should be unique. During my trip to Philadelphia, I fell in love with One North Broad Street, located at the Masonic Temple. (If you haven’t gotten the opportunity to visit this venue, you must!) I’m a sucker for details, and this venue truly has everything!

Even though it is located in an urban contemporary city, I decided to add touches of organic ethereal and classic romantic styling to this gorgeous ballroom. As usual, I partnered up with local vendors to bring my vision to life. A huge thanks goes out to Ashley of Ashley Gerrity Photography, as well as the other

incredible vendors that made this photo shoot happen. To see a video of this photo shoot, follow us on Instagram and check out our IGTV. If you want to learn more about our featured venue, read pages 16 and 34.

You’ll learn a bit about the history of this venue. However, you can appreciate this venue even if you aren’t a fan of history. Trust me, your photographer will go nuts in here with the outstanding architecture, stained glass windows, gold embellishments, portraits, marble floors, statues, staircases, chandeliers, and so much more!

Talking about photography, make sure you hire a photographer that matches your venue! Most photographers have a signature “look” to their photos, where they use a certain saturation and exposure. If you’re getting married indoors, you’re not going to want to work with a photographer who overexposes their photos. If you’re getting married in the fall for the beautiful colors of the trees, make sure you work with a photographer whose “look” highlights those colors without washing them out. If that’s what you’re looking for, then go ahead! Just get an idea of your photographer’s style before you hire them.

This issue is very out of the box. You’ll see weddings that take place inside, outside, mixing metals, and jewel tones.

But always remember, you don’t have to follow the trends--you can be the trend!

Let these real weddings starting on page 16 show you what is possible for your wedding, then add your own sense of style. Be inspired by these weddings and photo shoots, and hopefully you’ll inspire someone else in the future.

Believe me, I know that planning your big day isn’t easy. That’s why, starting on page 52, we’ve included some articles and advice to help you plan. Be sure to read them carefully and take the information to heart.

In your hands, you’re holding the ultimate tool to inspire, educate, and help you turn your Dream Wedding into a reality. Happy planning, dreamers!

owner and editor-in-chief MARTINE CAJAS digital marketing specialist and writer MADI DODGE cinematographer MARK YANG feature photographer ASHLEY GERRITY

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WEDDING DRESS STYLES

Your wedding gown is the most memorable fashion statement you will ever make! We want to help you consider which silhouettes and necklines will best convey your style and flatter your figure.

The gown follows the torso and then gracefully angles out at the waist. While this shape can complement any figure, it’s especially good for petite (the unbroken lines can make you appear taller) and full- figured (hips become less noticeable) brides.

A marriage (no pun intended!) of Mermaid & A-Line, it hugs the torso and flows outward at mid-thigh (making it less restrictive than the Mermaid). It’s a fantastic style for those with hourglass figures.

If you have an hourglass figure, this is the style that will accent your features the most! The fit hugs the body from the chest to the knee and then dramatically flares out. The only drawback is that this style can be a bit restrictive while dancing.

The clean lines of this classic shape lend themselves to weddings of every style. It’s the finishing touches (lace, bling, ruching, etc.) that make it traditional, formal, retro or modern. It’s a good choice for tall, slender or petite brides.

Cinderella defines this fairy-tale look that begins with a fitted bodice/waistline and ends with a full skirt.

The style complements nearly every shape; the only exception is the petite bride, whose stature may be overwhelmed by the full skirt.

The updated version of empire styling is perfect for more casual affairs (a beach wedding, perhaps). The preferred fabric, chiffon, flows from under the bustline to provide an ethereal look. This style is a good choice for tall, slender or petite brides.

NECKLINES

In addition to the style of dress you choose, the proper neckline can accent your best features and help you feel secure in your gown. Use our guide so you know what necklines to try and how to ask for them at the bridal salon.

The Sweetheart dips in the middle, creating a heart-shaped design that’s especially complementary to brides with fuller busts.

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Simple and clean, this neckline is commonly seen on strapless gowns and complements brides with small chests & shoulders.

It covers the shoulders but takes a Sweetheart shape over the bust. A good choice for brides with fuller chests.

This flattering neckline (good for B or C cups) can be as demure or daring as you’d like! It’s also a style that lends itself to sleeves.

This classic, U-shaped neckline flatters brides with all types of figures and bust sizes. It also pairs well with a variety of necklaces.

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LOOK!

Choosing your wedding gown is an exciting part of preparing to get married. This is your opportunity to finally see your childhood dreams come to fruition! However, picking out your iconic wedding gown is only the first step—you need to complete the look with the rest of your wedding accessories.

Veil or headpiece

Part of the iconic bridal look is a white veil. Like anything else in fashion, important historical events influence the trends moving forward.

Likewise, Meghan Markle’s and Priyanka Chopra’s beautiful, long veils have sparked a huge trend in bridal fashion.

However, there are so many different styles and lengths for bridal veils. Once you choose your gown, try on some veils as well! Even if you don’t purchase it the same day as your gown, you can try out different types and decide the general look you’re going for.

Blushers are also becoming a big trend yet again. Many brides decided to throw them to the wayside due to their original symbolism of purity, but this tradition is anything but archaic! Not only does it no longer symbolize purity for modern brides, but it is a heartwarming tradition for the parents and loved ones who give these brides away.

Lifting a bride’s veil to present her to her partner is not only traditional, but it is a way to present her beauty to everyone in the room for

the first time. Your guests will see you in your wedding day attire for five hours, so why not play “peek a boo” for the first couple of minutes?

Some brides want to wear a hair comb or tiara, and therefore decide to go without a veil. But why not both?! Luckily for you, you have the amazing resources of Pinterest and Instagram to introduce you to different hair styles and combinations of accessories. Keep an open mind and be sure to consider all of your options—you may be surprised by what you find.

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The same idea goes for your shoes. Heels with stones and other embellishments are a very popular and beautiful choice for many brides.

However, before you walk down the aisle, you’re going to want to try them on with the gown. If at all possible, bring your shoes to the boutique when you try on gowns—or at least shoes similar to the ones you intend to wear.

If the shoes get snagged on the tulle or fabric of the gown’s skirt, you’ll want to either

consider different shoes, or talk with your seamstress about ways you can alter the dress to accommodate your shoes.

In addition, you’ll want to wear your shoes around prior to the wedding! This goes for the groom as well. Wearing them to your dress fittings won’t be enough to break them in completely, and you won’t want to give yourself blisters with shoes that are improperly worn in.

Some brides decide to change into a pair of shoes that are better for dancing during the reception. If you intend to do this, be sure to bring that pair of shoes to your dress fittings as well, so that your seamstress is able to make alterations that will look good for both pairs.

Something to think about: during your wedding day, you’ll be wearing mostly white.

Why not wear a colorful pair of shoes as a pop of color, incorporating your wedding color into your ensemble, or as your something blue!

Be creative and enjoy the process of creating your wedding day look.

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alter the necklace in a way that can be reversed after the wedding if need be.

You’ll also need to wear a bracelet that works with your ensemble. Make sure that all of your jewelry looks cohesive, and generally follows the same style. If you’re set on wearing a “blinged out” bracelet with lots of stones on it, be sure to try it on with your wedding gown before the big day—the last thing you want is to rip or damage your gown by catching it on your bracelet.

Our recommendation is to always put your jewelry on after your dress.

If you intend to wear a specific necklace on your wedding day (some brides wear family heirlooms and use their necklace as their “something borrowed/blue”) bring it with you when you try on gowns! You’re going to want to make sure that they look great together as a cohesive look.

In case you try on a dress where the necklace is too long, consider getting the necklace altered. Depending on the type of chain you have, your local jeweler will be able to

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One North Broad Street The Grand Ballroom at One North Broad Street is the perfect place to dine and dance the night away. Brilliant stained-glass windows line one wall, and a magnificent bronze statue of Benjamin Franklin graces this extraordinary ballroom. Dazzle each of the five senses with this incredible reception space!

This rich and captivating setting will be sure to leave a lasting impression on both you and your guests.

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CLASSIC ROMANTIC

This photo shoot was taken at the historical One North Broad Street Grand Ballroom in Philadelphia, PA. photographer Ashley Gerrity Photography venue One North Broad Street Grand Ballroom flowers Leigh Florist | editor-in-chief Martine Cajas | rental Party Rental Ltd. | cake House of Clarendon | invitations The Paper Lab linens Special Occasions & Queen Street Linens For more images of this incredible venue, go to page 34

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ORGANIC ETHEREAL

This organic ethereal tablescape was written in the stars! When you think about the night sky, perhaps you don’t think of gorgeous tones of pink and purple, but we just love the marriage of all of these colors. photographer and stylist Garnet Dahlia Photography | florals Paisley Petals | cake Bee’s Custom Cakes | paper suite Flourish Grace | ring box Beloved Fine Jewels

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CLASSIC ROMANTIC

This classic romantic reception space is adorned with gorgeous blush roses and hydrangea, bold greenery, and uniquely textured linens. photographer Leslie Gilbert Photography venue Historic Acres of Hershey linens and flowers Weddings by JDK cake Kyrsten’s Sweet Designs | cake toppers and table numbers Confetti Home | invitations and signage Brittany Haak Designs | coordinator Mx2 Event Design For more images of this wedding, go to page 26

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Use an Invitation Designer

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represents your special day in a way that makes guests want to attend!

If you don’t have any idea what you’d like your invitation to look like, then Pinterest and Instagram are a great place to start.

Even doing an internet search for “local wedding invitation designers” will yield lots of results. From here, you can check out the individual styles of your local designers

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Whether you agree or not, your wedding invitations are a big part of your special day.

Guests will receive their save-the-dates and invitations months before the actual day, so one could say that this is the very first impression for your wedding day.

There are tons of websites available that will let you use their pre-made design elements to create your wedding invitations. With these websites, you’ll be able to incorporate hundreds of elements and likely come up with something that looks good. But unfortunately, your invitations will look very “cookie cutter” or average. This is inevitable.

With an event as important as your marriage, you’ll want to prepare to possibly pay a little bit extra to make sure that your invitations are totally “you!” Working with a local designer will ensure that the invitation

While the designs you can use on a free “designing” website will look pretty, it will not have the unique feel that working with a designer will give.

When you have invitations printed from a website, you’ll likely have only one or two options for card stock. Designers can incorporate elements such as laser cut paper for a lace effect, shimmery paper, or other unique paper elements. We’ve even seen handmade invitations with thread stitching! The sky is truly the limit.

In addition to the unique card base, designers can create unique elements that free sites won’t offer. Want a watercolor painting of your venue, or even a handdrawn map to help guests arrive in the right place? With the right designer, these are all possible.

Depending on the designer you choose, they may also do custom calligraphy to make each invitation unique, or include elements such as a wax seal! Keep in mind that the outside of the envelope you use to mail your invitation should look cohesive with the design of the contents inside. A designer will ensure that the envelope is gorgeous, and invites the guest to open it.

While you’re at it, you can have your invitation designer create custom table cards, escort and seating cards, menus, programs, etc.! There’s no better way to have a beautiful cohesive design across all of the paper elements for your wedding!

Amidst the craziness of planning a wedding, we know that it’s hard not to choose the “easy way out,” but you’ll thank yourself when you see the amazing, showstopping invitations and paper elements that a designer can custom make for you.

Your guests will thank you.

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Why Use a Designer?

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By the time they figure out that they’ve used too much in one area to have enough for everything, it's too late and they aren’t left with the ability to really style their celebration and make it a unique affair.

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People view budgets in one of two ways. They either think they’re extremely restrictive or extremely freeing. I personally love budgets because they allow me to relax, knowing what funds I have to work with for whatever I’m budgeting.

In this edition of Tips, I’m going to dissect some common wedding budget issues and tell you how to avoid budget blunders!

The average cost of a wedding in the United States in 2018 was $35k Philadelphia ($56k) Maryland ($45k) and New York City ($88k). Regardless of the amount, there is a proper way to approach how you use your wedding funds. Too often, I talk with couples who forget to consider the big picture before making one or more

Expect to pay between $4k and $9.5k for all your flowers.

sad than when a couple tells me that they used half of their budget to book their venue and that particular one is basically 4 walls…no food, beverage, linens, lighting, flowers or anything! This is totally fine if you are still left with ENOUGH funds to book the average 15 remaining vendors for your Dream Wedding.

I can’t tell you what your budget should be or what percentage of your overall funds you should allocate for each category. What I can do is educate you about the average cost of essential wedding vendors so that you’re not surprised when you begin reaching out for pricing and YOU are empowered to effectively manage your wedding budget.

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Get an idea of your total guest count.

In summary, follow these four simple steps before you use any part of your wedding budget:

Decide on your total budget amount, based on the number of people you'll have attending and what type of venues accommodate parties your size. Also, consider that you may have funds coming from different sources: yourselves, parents, grandparents, etc.

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Decide which vendors you need to have for your Dream Wedding and prioritize by importance from your own perspective.

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Based on your guest count, allocate funds to each vendor or category you need to book. Use the list of average prices per vendor to get a feel for what you can afford.

Also remember, the more elaborate your theme, the more expensive it will be to style it! Be realistic and don't forget...you get what you pay for!

$ Wedding Vendor Average Costs There are ranges for everything.

It's just like buying a car: The better the quality and more accessories, the more the car will cost.

CEREMONY & RECEPTION VENUE (Not including catering/beverage) $3,000 - $11,000 CATERING & BEVERAGE $40 - $300 per person PLANNER / DESIGNER $1,500 - $5,000 PHOTOGRAPHER $4,500 - $9,000 VIDEOGRAPHER $3,000 - $7,500 DRESS & ACCESSORIES $1,500 - $5,200 GROOM'S ATTIRE & ACCESSORIES $350 (Rental) $1,200 (Custom) WEDDING RINGS $400 - $2,500 (bands only) FLOWERS $4,000 - $9,500 DESIGN ELEMENTS & RENTALS $3,000 - $9,000 MUSIC & ENTERTAINMENT $1,750 - $3,500 CAKES & DESSERTS $7 - $17 per person PAPER SUITE (Invitations, etc.) $400 - $900 HAIR & MAKEUP $400 - $700 TRANSPORTATION $250 - $800 OFFICIANT $250.00 - $500 FAVORS & GIFTS $400 - $850 Again, all of these are averages.

There will be vendors in each category that fall outside of these ranges, either way.

Careful budgeting will bring your vision to life.

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hen you look at engagement photos, they’re typically staged and taken as an engagement photo shoot months after the real engagement. Here at Dream Weddings, the only “real” engagement photos are the ones taken as someone gets down on one knee!

If you’re going to propose, or know that your partner plans to propose sometime soon, be sure that a photographer is present! Years down the line, once you’ve gotten married and perhaps forgotten how you felt at that moment, you will be able to look back at the photos and remember the range of emotions you felt as you got engaged.

However, if you don’t want to have a photographer present for your engagement, it’s perfectly fine to have an engagement photo shoot!

In order to help you get the most amazing, authentic engagement shoot photos, we’ve put together a list of things you must do.

Find a good photographer Most photographers have either digital galleries, or they post their work to Instagram. This provides you a great opportunity to really look into many different photographers and see their unique shooting styles, and knowing what mood or style you’re looking for will be helpful in narrowing down your choices. However, finding the right photographer is about more than just enjoying their photography style. In order to get the best photos, you’ll need to have a comfortable 52

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relationship with your photographer.

If you don’t connect well at the initial meeting, you should keep looking!

Many photographers offer free consultations, so meet with as many as you need to find one the perfect match for you.

Choose a meaningful location Great photography is all about location. Even the most photogenic subjects will look bad if they clash with their location, so you’ll want to pick a place that will work with the theme you’re going for. Off the top of your head, you can probably think of several great, beautiful places for an engagement photo shoot.

In addition, the location you choose should be meaningful to both you and your partner. Your engagement shoot tells the story that led to your engagement and eventual marriage, so consider places that have history in your relationship.

Many couples don’t consider having engagement photos taken inside of their home, but this is one way to get comfortable photos that are relevant to your relationship.

These type of shoots can lead to some very heartfelt, raw photos that are truly meaningful.

Dress comfortably We know that you want to look your very best in these important photos. However, in order to do that, choose outfits that FEEL as awesome as they look.

You know what feels good to wear, so we can’t tell you what styles are

best for you. But if you aren’t sure if you’ve picked the right outfit, give it a test run by trying it on and moving around! Make sure you’re comfortable in a variety of positions, and that you can walk and move without being restricted too much. Try out some of the poses you’d like to use, but know that your photographer will come up with many more that are tried and true—so make sure your outfit will let you move the way they need you to.

Make it about you Your engagement photos can be either as standard or detailed as you’d like, and ultimately, it’s up to you and your photographer to make that call.

Some couples decide to use props to add another level of flair and uniqueness to their photos. Musical instruments, pets, or meaningful items make great additions to engagement photos.

In addition, many couples decide to make hand-written signs with poems, their wedding date, or cute messages about their relationship.

This is a fun way to make your engagement photos extra unique, and can be useful for communicating information (like your wedding date) on social media! Get creative!

What’s most important for your engagement shoot is that you have fun. You’re going to look at these photos in adoration for years to come, so you might as well have as much fun with it as you can!

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You'll want to stay organized during your wedding planning process, and the weeks after. These 5 lists will save your life!

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WISHES & NON-NEGOTIABLES Maybe you’ll consider this the “fun” list. At this point in your planning endeavors, you’re probably newly engaged and aren’t quite sure what you really want for your wedding. That’s okay! You should start with a list of all of your crazy, fun ideas. Chances are, you won’t be using each and every idea, but while your creative and imaginative juices are flowing, it’s important to document them for when they really matter.

As you narrow down this list, you’re going to want to figure out which of the items are non-negotiable. If you’re set on a certain color scheme, you might want to indicate that on your list. We know it sounds tedious and unnecessary, but keeping a list of the most important things is a great way to ensure that you keep your sights on them throughout the planning process.

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DAY-OF CHECKLIST To keep yourself as organized and prepared as possible, you will want to create a list of the necessary items to bring with you on the big day. Even if you’re adding small things such as tissues or cotton balls, you’ll likely thank yourself later. Consider keeping this list on something accessible, like a note on your phone. That way, if something randomly occurs to you, you can add it to the list without the risk of forgetting.

You may also want to compose a list of what needs to be done on the day of the wedding, and when. In order to avoid confusion, you may want to create a basic itinerary for you and your wedding party, so that everyone knows what needs to be done, and when.

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CLASSIC TO-DO LIST This list will grow and change throughout your planning process. Once you’ve figured out what vendors you’ll need, you should make a list of the calls and appointments you’ll have to make. This to-do list can be as minimal or in-depth as you’d like.

If your workflow requires you to include items such as “have coffee with maid of honor to discuss wedding stuff,” then add it to the list! Keeping a list like this is merely a way to ensure you do all that needs done, so you can compose it however you want.

As you start to create the list of people you’re considering sending an invite, you’ll have to make decisions about which people are most important to you and your fiancé.

Like the other lists, this one will go through several drafts.

After you’ve generated a guest list that is agreeable to you both, you’ll send out your save-the-dates and eventually your wedding invitations. As guests RSVP, you’ll want to establish a system for keeping track of how guests respond. This will consist of a system to indicate whether guests will be attending or not, but may also need to include dietary choices if you presented entrée options on your RSVP card.

Being very organized at this point will serve you well when you sit down to arrange the seating chart a little later on.

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GIFTS & THANK YOUS As a child, you probably dreaded writing thank-you notes. Now that you’re a bit older, you realize that it’s an important part of receiving a gift—especially something as meaningful as a wedding gift. When you and your new spouse open your gifts, be sure to keep a list of which guest gave you what.

Unfortunately, there may be some overlap, or you might have received an item that you already own. If this is the case, you may want to create a system of indicating which gifts will need to be returned to the store.

As you write thank-you notes to the people on this list, you can use it as a guide for telling you whose note has already been written. This level of organization will keep your mind clearer and ensure that you don’t do more work than you need to!

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1 . Rustic Chic

Contemporary barn weddings are all the rage right now, and what better place to find the perfect, affordable venue than the scenic farmland of Lancaster County? At a fraction of the big city costs, and with a variety of options for you to choose from you have nothing to lose.

2 . Something Old. . .

Lancaster is know for antiquing.

Take some time and explore the county for a one-of-a-kind piece of jewlery to wear with your dress.

Or find unqiue items to create centerpieces or decorations to customize your venue.

3 . All In The family

Family style meals are very popular in Pennsylvania Dutch culture. Tie this tradition into your special day... because after all you’re all family now!

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Some caterers in the area will work with local farmers or co-ops for ingredients, making each dish as authentic as possible. This allows your out-of-town guests to try the real tastes of Lancaster.

You can serve traditional PA Dutch dishes or use local ingredients to make creative culinary masterpieces.

5. What a View. . .

Lancaster County is full of lush farmland, rolling hills, and countless vistas to give your day the perfect backdrop reguardless of the time of year.

Each season has its own special qualities and charms.

6. Kick up your heels

The music scene in Lancaster is great! With such a variety of local bands and musicians you are sure to find someone to get your guests up and groovin’.

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With a brewing history that earned Lancaster the nickname of “Little Munich of America,” why not serve your guests local libations? We have a variety of local breweries, wineries, and distilleries for you to choose from!

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Using seasonal blooms can save you quite a bit. Check what grows locally before setting your heart on having peonies in October.

9 . Pucker up

Covered bridges, also know as kissing bridges create a classic Lancaster County photo location.

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Whoopie pies make a great favor. They are an authentic Lancaster treat that will leave your guest whooping for joy!

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Pick a song that is particularly meaningful to you and your partner.

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Decide what type of dance you’d like to do!

Sweet, Simple Slow Dance Chances are, if you’ve been to high school homecoming or prom, you’ve done a simple slowdance. This is an impromptu dance where you hold your partner and slowly sway from side to side. It’s very easy, and comes naturally to even those who aren’t the best

at dancing. It’s not very memorable for those watching, but will still get tons of “aww”s from your guests—plus, it requires little to no preparation for you and your partner.

Choreography If you’d like your first dance to be a bit more memorable than a simple slowdance, you might want to consider getting it choreographed!

You’ll need to put some money aside to hire a choreographer, and most choreographers ask that you start the process six months in advance. If you have to remember a special dance, you’ll want to give yourself some time to practice it.

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On your wedding day, all eyes will be on you and your new spouse. There will be many moments throughout your day that will be photographed for years of enjoyment and fond memories. One of these moments is your first dance.

If this is your first experience with a choreographed dance, you may struggle a bit with the unique moves your choreographer comes up with. Make sure to practice this dance with your partner a fair bit prior to the wedding, so that it doesn’t look awkward or forced.

Choreography and Dance Lessons A great way for inexperienced dancers to get more comfortable on the dance floor is by taking lessons! This

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What type of first dance is right for you?

is a wonderful way to make your first dance look perfect and relaxed and a fun way to spend some time with your partner. Ballroom dancing lessons are a great place to start, as your first dance choreography will likely incorporate mostly ballroom elements.

We recommend that if you decide to take lessons, you start them several months prior to working with a choreographer, and perhaps during the process of practicing your choreographed first dance.

If dancing doesn’t come naturally to you, these lessons can only help you to feel more comfortable when you dance in front of your wedding guests on the big day! If you’re interested in dance lessons and choreography, check out the Ballroom on the Square in Lancaster, PA!

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his cascade bridal bouquet features a wide variety of flowers and textures in antique colors.

It includes both imported and local blooms.

Roses, scabiosa, hydrangea, lisianthus, rice flower, astilbe, celosia, dahlias, eucalyptus, pepper berry, sea oats, and more.

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lush flowers are all the rage! Some of our favorites are Porcelaina spray roses, stock, peonies, garden roses and CafĂŠ au Lait dahlias. Pair them with various types of eucalyptus and waxflower for a fragrant, luscious bridal bouquet. Notice the adorable white with black center anenomes dancing throughout this gorgeous design. A good florist will know the seasonal availability of any flower.

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his rich toned bouquet pulls in a variety of fall florals and textures, matching her late September orchard wedding.

Amnesia roses, astilbe, ranunculus, hearts garden roses, hypericum, anemones, castor pods, brunia, privet berries, Italian ruscus, baby eucalyptus, agonis, corylus.

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his hand tied bouquet incorporates deep rich colors paired with softer blush shades... a great romantic style for any time of year. It has high textural value and depth and is somewhat open and flowing to give a natural look.

Assorted lush roses, thistle, astrantia, hanging pepperberry, and more.

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couple’s planning guide

A wedding can be the most exciting time in a couple’s relationship but it can also become overwhelming rather quickly! With so much to accomplish before your dream day, it’s easy to panic over everything on your to-do list. Whether you’re planning your wedding in one month or over two years, let us help take the stress out of the planning process. Follow this step-bystep guide and you’ll easily be able to enjoy your Dream Wedding! Now take a deep breath and let your anxiety melt away.

STEP ONE _ Determine your budget _ Choose more than one possible

wedding date _ Based on your budget, determine your guest count _ Pick and view several ceremony

and reception venues that align with your theme (keep your guest count in mind and make sure the venues can accommodate) _ Set your wedding date STEP TWO _ Select the members of your bridal party _ Choose a bridal gown to go with

your theme and season _ Begin conceptualizing groom and wedding party attire _ Establish a wedding registry _ Send out save-the-dates

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STEP THREE _ Hire your Dream Team (see next page) _ Arrange consultations with your Dream Teamers _ Schedule food and cake tastings _ Reserve a block of rooms at a local hotel for your out-of-town guests _ Send out invitations _ Book rehearsal dinner venue STEP FOUR _ Obtain a marriage license (Important!) _ Complete reception seating chart _ Schedule a final fitting for your Dream gown _ Finalize preparations for the rehearsal dinner _ Pack for your honeymoon (Don’t forget a passport if you’re traveling internationally!)

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Venue? √ Gown? √ Panic? √ There are so many little details that go into planning a Dream Wedding and it can become overwhelming rather quickly. This checklist will ensure your Dream Team is complete. They can worry about all the pesky little details so you can simply enjoy your special day. Worry free wedding? √

DREAM TEAM

_ Beauty Treatments _ Bridal Gown & Accessories _ Groom’s Attire & Accessories _ Alterations & Design _ Cakery _ Caterer (including rehearsal dinner, cocktail hour & reception) _ Cosmetic Dentistry _ Dance Lessons (for the first

dance!) _ Décor, Linens & Lighting _ Favors & Attendant Gifts _ Fitness & Weight Loss _ Florist (ceremony & reception) _ Hair & Makeup (for you & your

bridal party) _ Hotel Accommodations _ Jeweler (bride, bridesmaids, wedding bands, groom, groomsmen, parents, etc.) _ Music (ceremony & reception) _ Officiant _ Paper (invitations, save-the-date cards, programs, menus, seating cards, thank you notes, etc.)

_ Photo Booth _ Photographer _ Rental Accessories _ Transportation (to & from reception for you and your guests) _ Venue (ceremony & reception) _ Videographer _ Wedding Stylist & Planner (A must!)

FOR THE BRIDE _ Gown _ Reception Gown (if applicable) _ Veil or Headpiece _ Shoes (think comfort for the

reception) _ Handbag _ Jewelry _ Makeup _ Bouquet _ Something Old, New, Borrowed

FOR THE GROOM _ Attire _ Shoes & Socks _ Accessories (watch, cuff links, etc.) _ Boutonniere WEDDING PARTY _ Bridesmaid Dresses, Accessories & Shoes (think comfort for the reception!) _ Hair & Makeup _ Bouquets _ Groomsmen Attire, Accessories & Shoes _ Boutonniere _ Flower Girl / Ring Bearer Attire, Accessories & Shoes _ Wedding Party Gifts

& Blue _ Garter (2) _ Lingerie _ Bridal Emergency Kit

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DIRECTORY

BARTENDERS Good Spirits Lancaster (717) 371-4849 goodspiritslancaster.com Lancaster BRIDAL SHOWS Best Wedding Showcase (717) 733-5683 bestweddingshowcase.com Ephrata BEAUTY & SKINCARE Vicky Papageorgiou Skincare & Lashes (717) 487-6402 York CATERERS Festive Board (717) 854-2420 festive-board.com York COSMETIC TREATMENTS Center for Cosmetic Dermatology (717) 741-5512 centerforcosmeticdermatology.com York Dentistry for Life (717) 569-3911 dentistryforlife.com Lancaster

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CUSTOM WEDDING ILLUSTRATIONS Megan Hamilton Weddings (516) 993-6734 meganhamiltonweddings.com Yardely DANCE LESSONS Ballroom on the Square (717) 799-9416 ballroomonthesquare.com Lancaster DECOR & LINENS Special Occasions & Queen Street Linens (717) 299-4642 specialo.com Lancaster EVENT RENTALS Ace the Party Place (717) 393-1707 acethepartyplace.com Lancaster Barnes Handcrafted Farmhouse Tables (717) 586-3170 barnesfarmtables.com Seven Valleys Rental World (717) 397-3663 rentalworldpa.com Lancaster Special Occasions & Queen Street Linens (717) 299-4642 specialo.com Lancaster

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Vendor

We present you with the Dream Weddings Vendor Directory, an amazing resource filled with highly talented professionals that will make your wedding day dreams a reality. Use our directory as a checklist to search through and select your Dream Team. Also, don’t forget to visit our online Vendor Guide at www.DreamWeddings.co/vendors. Happy Planning!

Don’t delay! Remember to book all of your vendors six months to one year ahead of time.

FAVORS Brown’s Orchards & Farm Market (717) 428-2036 brownsorchards.com Megan Hamilton Weddings (516) 993-6734 meganhamiltonweddings.com Yardely FLORISTS Butera the Florist (717) 846-4283 buteratheflorist.com York Tulips & Twine (717) 278-5186 tulipsandtwine.com Lancaster Rosemary & Rust (717) 942-2429 rosemaryandrust.com The Sunflower Lady (717) 572-3763 sunflowerlady.com Marietta Petals With Style (717) 392-4000 petalswithstyle.com Lancaster

HAIR & MAKE-UP MKUP the Beauty Studio (702) 885-9756 mkupbeautystudio.com York HONEYMOON Making MAGICAL Vacations Travel (717) 847-7654 makingmagicalvacationstravel. vpweb.com HOTEL & ACCOMODATIONS Hilton Garden Inn Lancaster (717) 560-0880 lancaster.hgi.com Lancaster Lancaster Marriott at Penn Square (717) 239-1600 marriott.com/hotels/travel/ lnsmc-lancaster-marriott-atpenn-square/ Lancaster INVITATIONS Carpenter Invitations & Design (717) 842-0231 carpenterinvitations.com Wrightsville The Paper Lab thepaperlab.co Lancaster Persnickity Invitation Studio (717) 741-2324 persnickityinc.com York JOE KELLY PHOTO

Weir Event Rentals & Sales (717) 975-7089 weireventrentals.com Hershey

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Vendor DIRECTORY

We present you with the Dream Weddings Vendor Directory, an amazing resource filled with highly talented professionals that will make your wedding day dreams a reality. Use our directory as a checklist to search through and select your Dream Team. Also, don’t forget to visit our online Vendor Guide at www.DreamWeddings.co/vendors. Happy Planning!

JEWELERS Finch Jewelers (717) 293-3333 finchjewelers.com Lancaster

OFFICIANTS Reverend Kelly Jo Singleton (717) 471-3599 revkellyjosingleton.com Lancaster

Garrick Jewelers (717) 637-1177 garrickjewelers.com Hanover

PHOTOGRAPHY April and Bryan Photography (717) 925-0525 aprilandbryan.com Lancaster

Koser Jewelers (717) 653-4941 koserjewelers.com Mt. Joy Warren Jewellers (717) 299-3088 warrenjewellers.com Lancaster MEN’S WEAR Central PA Tuxedo (717) 295-2550 centralpatuxedo.com Lancaster Cocoa Couture (717) 533-3323 cocoacoutureonline.com Hershey MUSIC HD Entertainment (717) 850-0460 hdentertainmentdj.com

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Ashley Gerrity Photography (717) 496-7043 ashleygerrityphotography.com Philadelphia Garnet Dahlia Photography (717) 383-2420 garnetdahlia.com Katy Trefry Photography (717) 487-6182 katytrefryphotography.com Wrightsville Leslie Gilbert Photography (717) 314-7266 lesliegilbertphotography.com Lancaster Lovefusion Photography (717) 779-6935 lovefusionphoto.com PHOTO BOOTH Shining Star Photo Booth (717) 472-1897 shinigstarphotobooth.com

Don’t delay! Remember to book all of your vendors six months to one year ahead of time.

SUNLESS SPRAY TAN TANacious Tanning (717) 698-4146 tanacioustanning.com TRAVEL & TOURISM Discover Lancaster 1(800) 723-8824 discoverlancasterweddings.com Lancaster VENUES Chestnut Hill Villa (717) 898-2926 chestnuthillvilla.com Lancaster Heritage Hills Resort (717) 755-0123 heritagehillsresort.com York Lancaster Marriott at Penn Square (717) 239-1600 marriott.com/hotels/travel/ lnsmc-lancaster-marriott-atpenn-square/ Lancaster Melhorn Manor (717) 928-6126 melhornmanor.com Mt. Joy

Reading Public Museum (610) 371-5850 Ext. 235 readingpublicmuseum.org White Chimneys (717) 442-1037 whitechimneys.com Gap VIDEOGRAPHY Bamboo Shoots (717) 715-5054 www.bambooshoots.net Lancaster Cinematic Love Stories (717) 585-3028 www.cinematiclovestories.com Lancaster Lavon Films (717) 393-4256 lavonfilmsweddings.com Lancaster Kevin Rist Productions (240) 529-2514 kevinristproductions.com Chambersburg WEDDING CAKES Colebrook Bakery (717) 664-0108 cwbakery.com York Custom Cakes by Jen (717) 792-3182 customcakesbyjen.net York

House of Clarendon (717) 290-7800 houseofclarendon.com Lancaster Providence Divine Cakes (717) 741-0120 providencedivinecakes andpastries.com York WEDDING DRESSES Brides of Today (717) 786-0190 bridesoftoday.com Quarrysville Cocoa Couture (717) 533-3323 cocoacoutureonline.com Hershey Irina’s Tailor Shop (717) 683-7246 irinastailoryork.com York Tiffany’s Bridal Boutique (717) 419-2119 tiffanysbridalboutique.com Stevens WEDDING PLANNERS MX2 Event Design (717) 254-5100 mx2eventdesign.com Harrisburg

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SIGNS Eddie Belle’s Studio (410) 570-6789 eddiebellesstudio.wordpress.com York

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make it official!

When you go to file for your marriage license, be sure you have all of the facts!

• Different counties have different requirements, so check online to see what they need from you.

• Most counties charge around $60 for a marriage license, and require that it be paid for with cash.

• Marriage licenses are only valid for 60 days, so plan to file for yours within this window of time.

• While some counties allow you to apply for a license online, you will both still have to appear at the courthouse or office.

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Baltimore County (MD) 401 Bosley Avenue, Towson, Maryland 21204 (410) 887-2614 baltimorecountymd.gov

Lancaster County 50 N. Duke St, Lancaster, PA 17602 (717) 299-8000 co.lancaster.pa.us

Bucks County 55 East Court Street, Doylestown, PA 18901 (215) 348-6265 buckscounty.org

Lebanon County 400 South 8th Street, Lebanon, PA 17042 (717) 228-4415 lebcounty.org

Cumberland County 1 Courthouse Square, Carlisle, PA 17013 (717) 240-6100 ccpa.net

Lehigh County 455 West Hamilton Street, Allentown, PA 18101 (610) 782-3173 lccpa.org

Dauphin County 101 Market St, Harrisburg, PA 17101 (717) 780-6506 dauphincounty.org Delaware County 201 W. Front St, Media, PA 19063 (610) 891-4403 co.delaware.pa.us Franklin County 157 Lincoln Way East, Chambersburg, PA 17201 (717) 261-3805 franklincounty.org

Montgomery County 425 Swede Street, Norristown, PA 19401 (610) 278-3400 montcopa.org

New Castle County (DE) 800 N. French St, Wilmington, DE 19801 (302) 395-7780 nccde.org Northampton County 669 Washington Street, Easton, PA 18042 (610) 829-6489 northamptoncounty.org

Frederick County (MD) 100 West Patrick Street, Frederick, MD 21701 (301) 600-1976 courts.state.md.us

Philadelphia Room 415 City Hall, Philadelphia, PA 19107 (215) 686-2233 phila.gov

Harford County (MD) 7 West Courtland Street, Bel Air, MD 21014 (410) 838-4952 mdcourts.gov

Washington County (MD) 24 Summit Avenue, Hagerstown, MD 21740 (301) 733-8660 courts.state.md.us

Howard County (MD) 9250 Bendix Road, Columbia, Maryland 21045 (410) 313-5850 courts.state.md.us

York County 45 North George Street, York, PA 17401 (717) 771-9615 yorkcountypa.gov