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Dear Annie: The COVID-19 pandemic broke my relationship. I was with my guy for 14 years, and we live in different towns. When all this stuff started, we both agreed that we couldn’t see each other because his elderly mother lives with him. That was all fine. But then I asked him to please stay in contact, by phone or text or email. I waited one month before hearing from him. He proceeded to tell me his opinions on our fragile couple situation, criticized me, and then stopped contact altogether. After that, I sent a few neutral, easy-going texts, and I got zero replies. I’m beyond hurt by his lack of contact and the fact that a stupid virus has led him to leave me. Yes, I realize we may have been on shaky ground before, but with all the media telling us to stay in contact, he has failed miserably. My summer is ruined. — Isolation Blues Dear Isolation Blues: The pandemic didn’t break your relationship. It just laid bare some preexisting cracks. Ultimately, this is a good thing. Now it’s time to repair together or move on apart. Good communication is foundational to any healthy relationship. You spent the month waiting for him to contact you: Are you aware that phones can make outgoing calls? Don’t be too proud to be the one to reach out. Perhaps he’s going through a lot of stress at home worrying about his mother’s health, which led to his inconsiderate behavior. It’s worth trying to have that conversation once more before calling it quits. And if it’s beyond repair, you’re better off now you know. Sure, you might have a crummy summer. But I
bet you’ll have your best autumn in years. ——— Dear Annie: I am a psychologist with considerable experience in working with ADHD clients. In reference to “Jane’s Father,” who wrote to you about the 45-year-old dependent daughter: I would like to suggest to the parents that, before they abandon their daughter, they should see to it that she receives an examination by an appropriate health care profes-
had to pay $100,000 to the IRS. We finally said no. Right now, she is struggling because of the pandemic, but we have to stick to our guns or we will be homeless. Please, let your adult children figure out their own lives. You’ll be doing them a big favor — and doing yourself one, too. — Been There Dear Been There: Yikes. I’m glad you were able to finally draw the line but sorry to hear how much damage was wrought before that point. Thanks for writing.
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sional if she has not previously received an evaluation for attention-deficit disorder. She appears to be manifesting classical symptoms of an untreated adult with the disorder, i.e., marital problems, frequent job changes, disorganized, etc. Research has shown that the ADHD brain constantly searches for novelty and such patients have limited control of their impulses. Treatment often improves lives significantly, for both patient and parents. — Psychologist’s Input Dear Psychologist: I sincerely appreciate your expertise and am glad to share your letter, though I have to quibble with the word “abandon”: the letter writer wasn’t considering abandoning her daughter, only setting boundaries. Thank you for writing. ——— Dear Annie: This is just a warning to “Jane’s Father”: Our adult daughter bankrupted us and ruined our credit. Because of her, we
Dear Annie: My husband is in his late 50s and works in road construction. Every time that he is assigned to a job that lasts at least six to eight weeks, he always seems to start trying to pick up a female co-worker, usually in the age range of 25 to 35. He will buy them cigarettes and lunch and drinks and is super sweet to them. He texts them all day and always tells them how beautiful they looked that day. And to every single one of these women, he at some point says: “Ever since I’ve met you, I’ve really come out of my shell. Thank you.” I have tried to talk to him about it, but he just denies it every time, even as I quote to him the text messages verbatim. He doesn’t know how I know that he does this. (I won’t reveal my method here.) I don’t know if it is something to worry about. Am I just overreacting? To me, it seems like emotional abuse. I have to know, Annie, should I stay with him or dump his sorry butt? — Confused Dear Confused: If only
he really were sorry; that’s the crux of the issue. He doesn’t seem to have a shred of remorse. Tell him that if he wants this marriage to work, you two need to go to marriage counseling. Otherwise, he can take his shell and get crawling. ——— Dear Annie: What is the social protocol during a FaceTime call? For example, when a nonparticipating family member walks past the camera frame during the FaceTime call, should the viewer acknowledge the family member or simply continue the conversation without any acknowledgment? — New to This Dear New to This: There’s no protocol here, but I believe a wave and a smile are always appropriate. This allows the passerby an opportunity to stop and chat more if they’d like, without putting any pressure on them to do so. ——— Dear Annie: Recently, you’ve published a number of letters from older folks who say they are lonely and forgotten. I don’t doubt their feelings, but I want to tell you my experience with my older neighbors. They read your column, so I hope they see this letter. I’m a 54-year-old emptynester who works part time as an RN. I’m a naturally caring person, and I enjoy people. When I check on my neighbors either through a phone call, a quick visit over the fence or taking over a piece of warm cake, they seem to care less. Especially an older couple across the street. The husband reminded me that his kin live in the neighborhood, and they help them out when needed. Oddly, I really don’t see his kin over there much. They all work and seem really busy. I get lonely myself, but when I attempt to reach out to
Dear Annie: For 25 years, a very close couple would get together with us for a nice meal. We did lots of things including trips and outings. Eighteen months ago, my friend suddenly died. Her husband is now dating a very lovely woman (I hear), and we are glad he is happy. We expect them to travel to our area this summer, and possibly, we will go out for dinner. This feels very weird. Any suggestions on how to embrace this new person? — Adjusting to the Change Dear Adjusting: I am very sorry for your loss. Adjusting to the change, and the feelings of missing your friend, creates a special challenge. If she were alive today, she would want her husband to be happy and not alone. Try and see your friend’s new companion with an open heart and think about his happiness.
——— Dear Annie: Here are the rules I recommend for getting rid of mice: — NEVER poison an animal. Their stomachs will swell and burst, or they will hemorrhage all over their body. Think about that being done to you. — NEVER trap their feet in a sticky box to starve and thirst them to death. — NEVER drown an animal. All this would not be necessary with a small amount of prevention. In my house, I keep dog food in one cooler and birdseed, grass and flower seeds in another cooler. I keep my kitchen clean. No mice. If they are coming into your garage in the fall, keep the garage door closed unless you are woodworking or in the garage. My door was old, and the seal at the bottom left gaps. I put on a new seal strip, and no more mice. Two more things: 1. Possums are marsupials, like koalas and kangaroos, not rats or rodents. They have prehensile tails and used to hang upside down in trees. They will play possum if you happen on them, unless they have young, are trapped or you come at them. They just hiss then. Mostly they play possum. They eat insects and fruits and berries. 2. Before you become a National Wildlife Habitat, check with Dad. No more use of pesticides, herbicides or nitrate fertilizers on the lawn. You could still become one, but you would be telling a lie, and what is that lesson to your children? — Rules for Being a Kind Human Dear Rules for Being a Kind Human: I love the message of kindness to all living things in your letter. Thank you.
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older neighbors, they seem a bit aloof. I’m very careful not to infringe on their personal time, and I don’t show up unannounced. Remind your readers we all can use an extra friend or two, and you never know who you might need in an emergency. Thanks for letting me vent. — A Neighbor in the South Dear Neighbor: Perhaps these neighbors get the sense you’re condescending to them with your warmth, and so they act defensively. Hopefully, in time, as you make it clear that you’d like a good neighborly relationship in which you help one another, they’ll come around. In the meantime, your letter reminds us all not to guess at one another’s intentions or get too defensive when someone wants to help. We might be doing that person a favor by allowing them the chance.
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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: June 17, 2020 FBN Number: F20200470 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Boss Communications 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1803 Oceano Way Davis, CA 95618 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Boss Co, LLC 1803 Oceano Way Davis, CA 95618 4. Business Classification: Limited Liability Company 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: April 10, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Patricia Bosco CEO, Boss Co, LLC 888 6/28, 7/5, 7/12, 7/19
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Community Chambers, City Offices, 23 Russell Boulevard, Davis, California. In accordance with Executive Order N-33-20 and N-29-20, this meeting may be conducted electronically or by teleconference, without a physical location from which members of the public may observe and offer public comment. Information on how to observe the meeting and offer public comment electronically or telephonically will be included in the meeting agenda. Please contact the City Clerk’s Office or Community Development and Sustainability Department for the approximate time this item will be heard. Project Name: Bretton Woods (aka West Davis Active Adult Community) Project Location: West Covell Blvd & Risling Place, Davis, CA 95616 Applicant: Taormino & Associates Inc., David Taormino 260 Russell Blvd., Suite C Davis, California 95616 Owner: Binning Ranch Holding Company, LLC K. Scott Stiewig, Controller, P. O. Box 293870 Sacramento, CA 95829
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of entitlement applications to allow Phases 1, 2 and 3A tentative subdivision maps, final planned development standards establishment, site plan and architectural review, associated project improvements, including private parks and open spaces. The request is to approve the entitlement applications to allow for the creation and construction of 298 single-family residential lots out of 560 dwelling units envisioned in the project’s baseline features. The remaining 262 units will be improved at a later phase of the project’s development. The current project entitlement applications will include all needed amenities and subdivision improvements as prescribed in the Baseline Features, Development Agreement, and Planned Development zoning for Bretton Woods project. The project includes an Addendum EIR to address the drainage channel improvements for the project. Environmental Determination: The City of Davis (City) prepared a Draft and Final Environmental Impact Report (FEIR) in accordance with the requirements of the California Environmental Quality Act (CEQA), the State CEQA Guidelines, the City’s procedures for the implementation of CEQA, and other applicable laws. The proposed tentative map is consistent with the FEIR certified by the City. There is no new information that would warrant additional review. An Addendum to the EIR has been prepared because the Bretton Woods Project requires some storm drainage system modifications that trigger the need for both ministerial and discretionary permits approval by Yolo County. These permits are the impetus for the EIR Addendum.
File Number: 39660 West Covell Boulevard (Bretton Woods aka West Davis Active Adult Community (WDAAC)) – Planning Application (PA) #20-09 for Tentative Subdivision Map City of Davis (TM) #4-19 for Phases 1 & 2, Final Planned Notice of Public Hearing Development (FPD) #01-20 for Phases 1, The City of Davis Planning Commission 2, & 3A, Design Review (DR) #03-20 for will conduct a public hearing on the Phases 1, 2, & 3A, and EIR Addendum project application, as described below, at a meeting beginning at 7:00 p.m. Project Description: on Wednesday, July 22, 2020, in the The proposed project requests approval Availability of Documents:
The project application file is available for review at the Department of Community Development and Sustainability, Planning Division, 23 Russell Boulevard, Davis, California, 95616. Staff reports are available through the City Councils’ website at: https://cityofdavis.org/cityhall/commissions-and-committees/ planning-commission/agendas. Staff reports for the public hearing are generally available five (5) days prior to the hearing date and may be available by contacting the project planner. Public Comments: All interested parties are invited to attend the meeting or send written comments to Ike Njoku, Project Planner, City of Davis, Department of Community Development and Sustainability, 23 Russell Boulevard, Suite 2, Davis, California, 95616; or via email at injoku@cityofdavis.org, no later than noon the date of the meeting. For questions, please call the project planner at (530) 757-5610, extension 7230. The City does not transcribe its proceedings. Persons who wish to obtain a verbatim record should arrange for attendance by a court reporter or for some other acceptable means of recordation. Such arrangements will be at the sole expense of the person requesting the recordation. If you challenge the action taken on this matter in court, the challenge may be limited to raising only those issues raised at the public hearing described in this notice, or in written correspondence to the Director of Community Development and Sustainability or City Clerk at, or prior to, the public hearing. Sherri Metzker, Principal Planner 7/12
FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: June 10, 2020 FBN Number: F20200445 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) DRL CONSULTING DRL CONSULTING GROUP 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California. Business is located in Yolo County. 1023 Fountain Drive West Sacramento, CA 95605 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Danelle Reese Senf 1023 Fountain Drive West Sacramento, CA 95605 4. Business Classification: Individual 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: May 12, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.” (A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.) 6. Signature of Registrant(s): Danelle Reese Senf 7/12, 7/19, 7/26, 8/2 907
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