Davis Enterprise classifieds Wednesday, September 16, 2020

WEDNESDAY, SEPTEMBER 16, 2020 A5

THE DAVIS ENTERPRISE

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into this option if they are near any of these types of gardens. — Sharing Abundance Dear Sharing Abundance: What a great tip. Thank you for the idea!

Dear Annie: I had two brothers die within a year of each other. One was 53, and the other was 62. They were my only remaining siblings. They resided in Ohio, You must draw a line and I live in Arizona. I had to plan both Dear Annie: I have a friend who is of funerals by myself and clean out and sell Pentecostal faith while I’m of Catholic whatever I could of their homes and pos- faith. She monopolizes the conversation on sessions. her religion and doesn’t allow me to talk. I At the same time, my mom was diag- hate being preached to, and she has nothnosed with dementia and had to be put in a ing else that interests her but reading her nursing home. Eventually, I brought her to Bible and preaching. live with me in Arizona. I had to clean and She complains that no one calls her or sell her house, and her belongings, too. I visits her. It has been nine years since she was in Ohio for four months getting every- lost her best friend, mother and brother, thing straightened out. My husband of 12 who was also her boss, which meant she years never came to help, nor did he come to lost her job as well — all within a threethe funerals. Am I wrong for resenting him month period. She keeps bringing this up for this?

— Alone at Funerals every time we talk. I suggested that she Dear Alone: No, you are not wrong for might be resenting his absence. Marriage is a partseverely nership, and when your partner is going depressed through a difficult time, you should be at and should her side and not leaving her to carry the consider entire burden herself. However, resentgetting proment is like drinking poison and waiting fessional for the other person to die. help. She Let’s work on turning your resentment replied that into a healing conversation. Does your she is not husband know how it hurt your feelings depressed and made you angry that he didn’t attend and, if she were, she can’t afford it. the funerals or help relocating your Having been a care provider, I see that mother? You have the power to express she is having issues just doing the day-toyourself and share, so do so. And listen to day duties and suggested she might find an why he wasn’t there to support you. If he is assisted care facility that would help her. unconcerned or unapologetic, then I She claims to either have too much money would suggest marriage counseling. for that or not enough money for that. She ——— is going downhill but doesn’t want help, Dear Annie: We took in my son, his wife won’t move and complains that no one and her toddler son. Her son has struggles comes to see her. I suggested that she hold and is in the process of getting tested for Bible study at her house, but she said she autism. He is now 5 years old and sup- can’t do it. I offer to bring her devotional posed to be starting kindergarten this year; readings, puzzles and a few other things to however, he’s not completely potty trained, keep her busy, but she refuses it. so the school system wants him to do a year She was on the phone with me yesterday of preschool first. for 2.5 hours, preaching to me 99% of the Our problem is that his mom is doing time. She is not open to change, and I don’t nothing — no child care application, no want to be in contact with her, for I’m preschool and no autism test. We’re won- physically drained after we talk. She knows dering if we should do what we think is nothing about what’s going on in my life, best for the boy and turn her in to family and doesn’t care. What do you suggest I services for neglect. We don’t know how do?

— Exhausted and Worried Friend much more of his behaviorial issues we can Dear Exhausted and Worried Friend: take.

— At a Loss First things first: You must set boundaries Dear At a Loss: While you might be feel- with her. Two and a half hours of being ing at a loss, this poor child is the one suf- preached at over the phone is way too fering the most. Speak with your son about much. It is not healthy for either of you. your concerns and tell him that you are Conversation and friendship should be a thinking of calling social services regarding two-way street. It sounds like your friend is neglect. The child’s well-being must come depressed or has some type of mental first, and if he is living under your roof, decline, given that she is having trouble then you are correct to be concerned. This with day-to-day activities. You are right to child needs support and love. As for the be concerned and try to get her help. If she behavioral issues, consider learning more won’t listen to you, perhaps you could about supporting children and grandchilreach out to one of her family members dren with autism from resources such as and express your concerns. the Autism Speaks website: https://www.

In the end, she has to want help. I know autismspeaks.org/tool-kit/grandparentsshe is rejecting your efforts now, but once guide-autism.

——— 09977408035, Label/Insignia Number FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME TRA351582, and stored on property Dear Annie: STATEMENT within the Davis Creek Mobile Home Park, I just wanted Filed: August 28, 2020 at 500 Artis Lane, Davis, California 95618, to remind your FBN Number: F20200718 County of Yolo, California (specifically readers of 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) the space designated as 500 Artis Lane, Nathan’s Property Management another way to Space #89 within the park), will be sold 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of use up excess Principal Place of Business in California. by auction at the mobilehome park at 500 Artis Lane, Davis, California 95618, garden pro- Business is located in Yolo County.

County of Yolo, California (specifically 2820 5th Street duce. Many the space designated as 500 Artis urban gardens Davis, CA 95618 Lane, Space #89 within the park), on List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), October 1, 2020, at 11:00 a.m., and are in “food 3.

Residence Address, State, and Zip such succeeding sales days as may be deserts.” In our Nathan Park necessary, and the proceeds of the sales city, there is a 2820 5th Street will be applied to the satisfaction of the “share shelf ” Davis, CA 95618 lien, including the reasonable charges of 4.

Business Classification: in which peonotice, advertisement, and sale.

Individual ple can share 5. Beginning Date of Business: The the excess Registrant(s) commenced to transact This sale is conducted on a cash or certified fund basis only (cash, cashier’s bounty of their business under the fictitious business check or travelers’ checks only). Personal name or names listed above on: gardens with checks and/or business checks are not October 29, 2010 others who live “I declare that all information in acceptable. Payment is due and payable in these food this statement is true and correct.” immediately following the sale. No The mobilehome and/or deserts. When (A registrant who declares as true exceptions. contents are sold as is, where is, with no I am going in information which he or she knows to be guarantees. is guilty of a crime.) that direction, false 6. Signature of Registrant(s): This sale is conducted under the I drop off my Nathan Park authority of California Civil Code 798.56a excess vegeta- 9/9, 9/16, 9/23, 9/30 962 and Commercial Code 7210. bles.

This PUBLIC NOTICE allows others Unless a written waiver is received from park management, the mobilehome NOTICE OF AUCTION SALE who live near and contents must be removed from the these “share IS HEREBY GIVEN that a park within 10 days. The buyer will have shelves” to get NOTICE mobilehome, registered to MICHAEL no right to the space after the home is healthy food D. SCHARLACH, Legal Owner DYNEX removed. for free. Please FINANCIAL INC and described as a urge your 1997 MEADOW CREEK mobilehome, DATED: September 8, 2020 readers to look Decal Number LAZ9824, Serial Number JOSEPH W. CARROLL

you get firm with her on your own boundaries, she might miss you as a friend and be more inclined to take you up on the puzzles or devotional readings.

Stick with love

Dear Annie: My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half.

While maintaining separate homes, we spend the majority of our days and evenings together. I have three children and get along very well with my ex-husband and his girlfriend. My boyfriend has a son, “Tommy.”

The problem is that my boyfriend’s exwife creates conflict and difficulties for him. She is remarried to the man she left him for, and though my boyfriend accepted him in time, she continues to make things difficult for everyPUBLIC NOTICE one. In fact, she goes around talking about both of us, telling people that he is not involved with Tommy and doesn’t pay for City of Davis anything, which is not true. Combined Notice of Public Comment Period and Public They have 50/50 shared cus- Hearing for Proposed Reallocation of CDBG-CV1 Funds and Activities in an Amendment to the 2019 Annual Action Plan tody, and we do support Tommy. and Approval of the HOME TBRA Policies Recently, my son came to us and said Tommy told him that The City of Davis Social Services Commission will conduct a my boyfriend hates Tommy and meeting scheduled for Monday, September 21, 2020 beginning at 7:00 p.m. The City Council will conduct a public hearing at a lied about several things. I meeting scheduled for Tuesday, September 22, 2020 beginning assume this is likely because at 6:30 p.m. In compliance with the Shelter in Place Order, and Tommy constantly hears nega- as allowed by the Governor’s Executive Order N-29-20, which tive things about his dad and allows for a deviation of teleconference rules required by the Act, Public Meetings will be held by teleconference was seeking attention. We often Brown only until further notice. In-person attendance in Community talk with Tommy about the chal- Chambers will not be permitted. lenges his mom presents. We have put him in counseling to The Social Services Commission will review a proposed help him cope with the conflict, reallocation of CDBG-CV1 funds and activities in an amendment to the 2019 Annual Action Plan and approval of the HOME and we feel we have done every- Tenant Based Rental Assistance Program (TBRA) Policies at their thing we can possibly do to help. meeting on September 21, 2020 and make recommendations But, recently, Tommy has been to the City Council. The City Council meeting is scheduled asking to stay with his mom to hear comments from the public to aid them in making decisions for funding and activity reallocation to the CDBG-CV1 more and more, and we believe funds previously approved in the 2019 Annual Action Plan and she is seeking full custody. to approve the HOME TBRA Policies.

My boyfriend is sick over this, as we’ve tried very hard to pro- CDBG-CV-1 Program vide a different and more posi- Reallocate $362,662 of a total of $437,662 approved CDBG-CV1 tive environment for Tommy. funds from the following activities to Subsistence Payments This hasn’t been easy with three (rental assistance to homeless): kids of my own and the chalInstallation at Respite Center -$150,000 lenges that split homes naturally Shower Rental Units Acquired or rehabbed for homeless -$212,662 have anyway.

Subsistence Payments for homeless $362,662 We realize things will never change with my boyfriend’s ex, HOME TBRA Policies but how do we navigate this?

Draft Policies will be presented with considerations up to and Things with her are always an including approval regarding preferences for tenant selection, issue, whether it is clothing which services to assist with-rent, security deposit, utility bills Tommy has there versus here, or (PG&E) or utility deposit, a cap on total amount received per me helping with homework. household and percentage of required tenant contribution to rent.

More and more, Tommy is pulling away, and it’s not only Public Comment & Meeting Requirements: Per the CARES extremely hurtful to my boy- Act Public Law 116-136, HUD Secretary is authorized to grant friend; we worry about the neg- specific waivers, and alternate requirements to permit flexibility speed in program implementation. Therefore, per HUD, a ativity he constantly encounters and reduced public comment period for action plan amendments in his mother’s home. What is approved from 30 days to 5 days, and allows the option of more can we do? Or is it simply virtual meetings in lieu of in‐person public hearings, in order to comply with national and local social gathering requirements. time to let go?

— Wanting What’s Best The City will make available the draft HOME TBRA policies for Dear Wanting: My heart goes a required 5-day public review/comment period on the city’s

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out to Tommy. Divorce is always challenging for children, and the best thing you can do for his sake is continue trying to get along with your boyfriend’s ex. It sounds like you do a wonderful job at that. Your boyfriend should have an open and honest conversation with his ex about his concerns. If she is seeking full custody, he might want to seek legal counsel.

The only thing you can do is be supportive and loving to Tommy. Never badmouth his mother, and practice the good old-fashioned rule that if you don’t have anything nice to say about someone, don’t say anything at all. I wish Tommy’s mother would live by that, too.

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webpage at www.cityofdavis.org . Public comment will be accepted from all interested parties up to and including the City Council public hearing on September 22, 2020.

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FICTITIOUS BUSINESS NAME STATEMENT Filed: September 9, 2020 FBN Number: F20200742 1. Fictitious Business Name(s) Pemberton Engineering Inc. 2. Street Address, City, State and Zip of Principal Place of Business in California.

Business is located in Yolo County.

312 Walnut Street Woodland, CA 95695 Mailing address: 2050 Lyndell Terrace Ste. 200 Davis, CA 95616 3. List Full Name(s) of Registrant(s), Residence Address, State, and Zip Pemberton Engineering inc.

2050 Lyndell Terrace Ste. 200 Davis, CA 95616 4. Business Classification: Corporation 5. Beginning Date of Business: The Registrant(s) commenced to transact business under the fictitious business name or names listed above on: January 3, 2020 “I declare that all information in this statement is true and correct.”

(A registrant who declares as true information which he or she knows to be false is guilty of a crime.)

6. Signature of Registrant(s): Mark Pemberton Jessica Pemberton CEO, Pemberton Engineering Inc. 9/16, 9/23, 9/30, 10/7 969

Remote Public Comments for Public Hearing: All interested parties are invited to comment at the public hearing by submitting written comments to the City Manager’s Office no later than 12:00 p.m. on the hearing date. Written comments may be submitted by mail to Kelly Stachowicz, City of Davis, 23 Russell Blvd., Suite 1, Davis CA, 95616, or via email to cmoweb@ cityofdavis.org. Public Comment may also be submitted by following instructions for public comment on the City Council Agenda, located at www.cityofdavis.org/councilagendas.

Availability of Documents: The HOME TBRA policies will be on the city’s webpage at www. cityofdavis.org. Per the Governor’s Executive Order N-29-20, public computers are not available for online viewing, nor are documents available for review at City Hall, as the building closed to the public at this time.

By request, alternative document formats are available to person with disabilities. To request alternative document format or to arrange aid or services to modify or accommodate persons with a disability to participate in a public meeting, contact the City Clerk by calling (530) 757-5648 (voice) or 7575666 (TDD) or emailing clerkweb@cityofdavis.org.

The City does not transcribe its proceedings. Persons who wish to obtain a verbatim record should arrange for attendance by a court reporter or any other acceptable means of recordation.

Such arrangements will be at the sole expense of the person requesting the recordation.

Individuals wishing to challenge the action taken on this matter in court are notified that, the challenge may be limited to only those issues raised at the public hearing described in this notice, or in written correspondence delivered to City Manager’s Office prior to the public hearing.

Kelly Stachowicz, Assistant City Manager City Manager’s Office 9/16

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Have you lost a pet?

Do you want to help shelter animals get back home?

Please join the Yolo County Lost and Found Pets Group on Facebook at facebook.com/ groups/yolopets

HELP WANTED Payroll Technician I/II, Finance Department, FFD: 9/14/20 Salary: $4,023.07 - $5,380.27 Monthly; City of Davis, 23 Russell Blvd., Davis, CA 95616. FFD: 9/14/2020. See job bulletin at www.cityofdavis.org for min. req. or call (530) 757-5644, TDD (530) 757-5666; City emp. appl. req. EOE

RENTALS & REAL ESTATE RENTALS & REAL ESTATE Your Puzzle Solutions Plumshire Office Spaces in Village Homes are available for rent. 250 square feet and 406 square feet. If you have an interest, please Contact King Properties, Inc. at frontdesk@ kingproperties.com or call us at 753-0121.

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Email ecadler@ucdavis.edu or call (909) 251-9857.

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