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Where is the love?
Dream Out Loud
Bipolar Dating
In 2003, the Black Eyed Peas launched the global sensation of a
Dreamland was an exhibition open to all Mississauga residents
When should you tell a date about your diagnosis? Should
song, “Where is the Love?” The song depicts a world devoid of
to fulfill their need for discovery. From February 6 to February
you even tell them at all? Will they think of you differently
love, with the artists running around town, asking the question:
10, the City of Mississauga opened a platform for Black,
once they know? This past fall, the University of Toronto
where is the love? Fast-forward 21 years to today, the same
Indigenous, and People of Colour who are artists and residents
Mississauga (UTM) 2023 Spoken Word Poetry (ENG373)
loveless world is still here, and some might even argue that the
to share their perspectives on being an immigrant or refugee
course inspired me to construct a slam poem about the
world is worse than what it was back then.
in a Western world, and to explore the topic of whether it is
experienced stigmas surrounding my bipolar disorder II
possible to exist figuratively in two places at once.
diagnosis.
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NEWS
Editor | May Alsaigh news@themedium.ca
Recent study reveals ground-breaking research on the link between romantic love and the brain’s behavioural activation system Dr. Adam Bode and Dr. Phillip Sean Kavanagh unveil their findings on how the human brain correlates with romantic love in the scholarly journal, Behavioral Sciences. Dishika Vaswani Contributor
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ublished in November 2023, a joint
emerged some five million years ago after we
study from the Australian National
split from our ancestors, the great apes.”
University, the University of Canberra, and
Dr. Bode and Dr. Kavanagh’s research
the University of South Australia is the first
denotes the world’s inaugural exploration
in the world to examine the linkage between
of the correlation between the BAS and
romantic love and the human brain’s
romantic love. Their discoveries, recently
behavioural activation system (BAS).
featured in the Behavioral Sciences scholarly journal, unveil the neural mechanisms
Adam Bode, lead researcher and PhD
that propel the transformative power of
student in Biological Anthropology at the
love. Before their research, no studies have
Australian National University’s School of
examined the role of the BAS in romantic
Archaeology and Anthropology, collaborated
love.
with Dr. Phillip Sean Kavanagh at the University of Canberra to explore this link by
The survey questions focused on the
surveying 1,556 partnered young adults who
respondents’ emotional reactions toward
reported being “in love.”
their partners, how they behaved around them, and understanding the degree to
According to Dr. Bode, “We actually know
which their loved ones played a pivotal role
very little about the evolution of romantic
in their lives. The survey found that the BAS,
love. It is thought that romantic love first
a system that is believed to be associated
with “dopaminergic reward and motivation
The next stage of Dr. Bode and Dr.
circuitry,” according to their report, plays an
Kavanagh’s research entails examining how
integral role in the initial phase of romantic
men and women view love differently. Their
love.
research will identify four types of romantic
The results disclosed a discernible pattern
lovers through a worldwide survey.
in the brain’s activity when individuals are
According to their report, investigating
in love, underscoring the impact of the BAS.
the BAS should be employed in future
The research indicates that romantic love
psychological and imaging studies.
encompasses the release of oxytocin but also the interaction of dopamine, a chemical affiliated with uplifting emotions.
This ground-breaking research unveils a new phase in understanding love by
According to Dr. Kavanagh, “The way that
investigating the brain under a new
loved ones take on special importance,
lens. By deciphering the enigmas of the
however, is due to oxytocin combining
BAS, researchers facilitate groundwork
with dopamine, a chemical that our brain
for further investigations and new
releases during romantic love. Essentially,
understandings of the progress of romantic
love activates pathways in the brain
love.
associated with positive feelings.”
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Love in the digital age: examining social media’s impact on Valentine’s Day
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Marketers navigate the intersection of tradition, technology, and love to maximize engagement and revenue this Valentine’s Day. Karine Alhakim Associate News Editor
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alentine’s Day has become a lucrative
Revolution facilitated the mass production of
opportunity for businesses, both big and
Valentine’s Day cards in the 19th century, laying
guides to influencer-sponsored content,
on consumers’ desire for culinary
social media has created a digital
delights, with food delivery app installs
marketplace where expressions of love
rising as people opt for intimate dining
small, thanks to the rise of digital marketing
the groundwork for the commercialization we
strategies. Influencer collaborations, targeted
witness today.
are commodified and curated for public
experiences at home. Social media
consumption.
engagement peaks on Valentine’s Day,
become staples of Valentine’s Day campaigns
In today’s digital age, Valentine’s Day has
Millennials in particular are increasingly
providing an ideal platform for brands
as brands compete for consumers’ attention
transformed from a simple celebration of
treating themselves and their pets.
to connect with their audience and drive
in the crowded digital space. Influences in
love to a complex web of consumerism. The
According to the same international
user engagement.
particular play an influential role in shaping
influence of technology and social media on the
consumer behaviour. One international study
way we celebrate love and romance becomes
of more than 1,000 influencers revealed that
increasingly evident. From virtual dates to
consumers seek gift recommendations from the
curated playlists, tech-savvy millennials and
influencers they follow.
Gen Z are redefining traditional notions of
advertisements, and themed content have
study, 38 per cent of them purchase gifts for themselves and 12 per cent for
Valentine’s Day reflects the dynamic
their pets. Brands can capitalize on this
intersection of tradition, consumer
trend by offering exclusive deals and
behaviour, and technological
promotions targeted at self-gifting and
advancements. By targeting a wider
romance, and brands are taking note.
pet owners.
audience than just couples, offering
Valentine’s Day presents a significant
enticing deals, sending Valentine-
Ancient Rome and gained mainstream
The advent of technology and the subsequent
opportunity for mobile marketers to
themed push notifications, engaging on
popularity in the Middle Ages. Named after
boom of social media has revolutionized
capitalize on increased user engagement.
social media, utilizing email marketing,
Saint Valentine, a Christian martyr who defied
the way Valentine’s Day is celebrated and
App installs surge in the days leading
collaborating with influencers, and
Emperor Claudius II’s marriage ban, the
perceived. Platforms like Instagram, Pinterest,
up to the holiday, with dating apps
embracing Valentine’s Day clichés,
holiday became synonymous with expressing
and Facebook have become essential tools for
experiencing a notable increase as
brands can maximize their visibility
affection through handwritten notes and
individuals seeking inspiration for romantic
individuals seek companionship.
and engagement during this love-filled
small gifts by the 18th century. The Industrial
gestures and gift ideas. From curated gift
Food and drink apps also capitalize
season.
Valentine’s Day has roots dating back to
Rising costs place inflationary pressure on Canadian consumers and firms this Valentine’s Day A 2024 Canadian survey reveals less than half of Canadians intend on celebrating Valentine’s Day this year, which is nine per cent less than last year. Samuel Kamalendran Associate News Editor
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his year, the rising cost of inflation is taking a toll on Canadian spending habits,
Today, Canada’s inflation rates increased from 3.1 per cent in November to 3.4 per cent in
especially this Valentine’s Day season. According to a 2024 survey, only 39 per cent of
December. One source of financial strain is also the cost of housing, which rose six per cent in
Canadians intend on celebrating Valentine’s Day this year—a nearly 10 per cent drop from last
December compared to last year, generating a lot of inflationary pressure for Canadians.
year. The drop in demand and increase in costs are creating a financial storm for firms that A total of 83 per cent of those who are planning to celebrate the holiday are planning to spend
are forced to raise the prices of their products. Constance Menzies, owner of Chocolatier
the same amount or more than last year on festivities, with more than half planning to spend
Constance Popp in Winnipeg and winner of numerous entrepreneurial awards, reports that
more than $50.
“an increase in [the cost of] every single type of ingredient” purchased by her store adds up, resulting in price hikes that are “uncomfortable for everybody.”
Marketing firm Caddle partnered with the Retail Council of Canada (RCC) to gather data by surveying Canadians from coast to coast to “better understand consumers’ shopping
Caddle’s survey reveals this year’s top spending categories for those celebrating Valentine’s Day
intentions around Valentine’s Day,” according to their survey conducted in January 2024 with
will be food, alcohol, candies, and restaurants at 57.5 per cent.
a sample of 8,882 Canadian adults. In addition to Canadians, Americans are also feeling the pressure of rising inflation costs. Manitoba Chambers of Commerce President and Chief Executive Officer Chuck Davidson
According to a 2024 survey by WalletHub, 46 per cent of Americans say inflation is taking a
speaks on the implications of today’s rising prices. “People are going to be more cost-
toll on their Valentine Day’s plan. Like Canadians, the most common gift will be candies with
conscious in terms of how much money they have available to spend and what they’re going
57 per cent of Americans planning to buy treats this Valentine’s Day.
to be willing to spend as well.” The growing cost of inflation is breaking hearts this season and putting strain on not just Since inflation escalated in early 2021, Canadians have long struggled to keep up with the
Canadians but American consumers as well. Among the 200 respondents, WalletHub’s survey
country’s rising prices. In April 2022, three out of 10 Canadians expressed concern about
revealed 24 per cent of Americans don’t anticipate their partner to spend any money on a gift
whether they could afford housing or rent while almost three in four Canadians reported that
during this holiday.
rising prices impacted their ability to meet daily expenses.
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Cloverdale Mall’s redevelopment plans point to a steady decline in retail spaces
Shopping centres in the GTA are shutting down. Their downfall reveals the downside of increased online shopping. Yusuf Larizza-Ali Staff Writer
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nline shopping has steadily increased for Canadians, spiking dramatically in the last few
which will continue to be located at 250 The East Mall, will be named Cloverdale Square.
years after the pandemic. This increased online shopping poses a threat to retail stores,
Despite QuadReal’s assurance that the mixed space will provide great service to Etobicoke,
and recent trends regarding retail stores have begun to predict the demise of shopping malls.
community members have expressed concerns over the redevelopment. In December 2019, one individual created a petition on Change.org titled “Save Cloverdale” citing the mall’s
According to Statista, an online platform that specializes in data gathering, most Canadians
history and importance to Etobicoke. Today, the petition has more than 300 signatures.
are shopping online. The number of Canadian online shoppers went up from 73 per cent in 2018 to 82 per cent in 2022—posing a huge threat to shopping malls, particularly those
Many community members used the petition to share why they are against building the new
smaller strips with fewer stores.
space. In May 2023, user Layla Linger commented, “We don’t need more expensive condos. If they were building one for low-income families I would understand but obviously that isn’t
The redevelopment of Cloverdale Mall, which initially opened in 1956 and is located in
happening.”
Etobicoke, close to the Mississauga border, serves as one example of the everchanging retail trends. While the mall is not as large as ones like the Square One Shopping Centre, Cloverdale
Another user, George Rigakos, questioned why developers chose Cloverdale Mall as opposed
Mall is well-known in the Etobicoke area with its assortment of big retail spaces such as
to Honeydale Mall, “which has sat dormant for many years.” The user went on to comment,
Winners, Metro, Dollarama, Kitchen Stuff Plus, Home Hardware, and Rexall Drugstore.
“Cloverdale is loved by many.”
Cloverdale Mall’s flagship retail space has been vacant since 2015 and has been through
Honeydale Mall, a former mall located near Cloverdale Mall on Dundas Street, closed several
multiple changes. Zellers occupied the space from 2005 until 2012 when Hudson’s Bay
years ago. Its downfall parallel Cloverdale Mall, as it previously housed a flagship store for
Company sold the leases of their Zellers locations to Target. The retail space reopened as
Walmart and No Frills which lasted for nearly a decade.
Target in March 2013 but only lasted two years as Target withdrew from Canada in early 2015 and closed all their stores.
When the Honeydale Walmart closed in 2004, nothing replaced it, and the mall began to fade. An article by blogTO described Honeydale as being in a “zombie state” during this time, as it
The space has remained vacant since, except when it was briefly used as a Covid-19 vaccine
remained open despite losing most retailers.
clinic in 2021. The loss of its largest retail space undoubtedly impacted the mall in many ways. The mall may have seen a different fate if Target had remained open.
The Hurontario Light Rail Transit line will run through the middle of Jane and Finch Mall, prompting a similar redevelopment plan to Cloverdale Mall.
Today, Cloverdale Mall faces the challenge of remaining open in the coming years. In 2020, QuadReal Property Group, which has owned the mall since 2004, proposed replacing it
Community members have expressed concerns that the new additions will gentrify their
with an innovative mixed-use community. The corporation states it will include “shopping,
community and result in less affordable living. This would impact many community
residential homes, all seasons’ parklands, arts and culture, programming, fitness and wellness
members, especially immigrants living in the area.
facilities, restaurants, and community uses.” Despite similar plans of redeveloping Honeydale, none have come to fruition. It has been Although the mall will be demolished, the developers claim that it “will continue to be a
labelled “Toronto’s only true dead mall” and remains abandoned to this day. The downfall of
service-based centre while offering new retail opportunities that respond to the rapidly
both Honeydale Mall and Cloverdale Mall reflects the growing trends in online shopping and
changing retail landscape.” The proposal mentioned that “evolving retail trends and consumer
a lesser need for in-person shopping centres.
preferences” are why malls like Cloverdale Mall will struggle going forward. The community,
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Robert Gillespie Academic Skills Centre: A “collaborative and supportive haven” for students
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Writing instructors explain the benefits of seeking writing support at UTM. Yusuf Larizza-Ali Staff Writer
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he University of Toronto Mississauga (UTM) offers a wealth of resources to assist
the expectations of writing in different contexts, and to adjust their approach to sharing ideas
students with their assignments, writing skills, and more. The Robert Gillespie
in genres like essays, lab reports, and graduate school applications.”
Academic Skills Center (RGASC) is UTM’s main writing and support center and is available
Dr. Zapotochny recognizes that writing is a complex process for many. “Writing is a very
for students of all years and programs.
imperfect process in which our ideas never translate exactly into the words we choose, and our audience’s perception adds a further layer of complexity. Meeting with a writing
According to UTM’s website, RGASC Director Jordana Garbati describes the centre as
instructor can help people to reflect on how they share ideas and improve the thoroughness
“UTM’s hub of activity for academic work.” There are three appointment types that students
and clarity of their communication in academic, creative, and professional writing.”
can sign up for, these include writing, math and numeracy, and study skills. Dr. Kampherm provided insight into how these sessions function. She stated, Study skills appointments are typically 30 minutes long and focus on
“In our dynamic drop-in Writing Studio environment at the RGASC,
understanding lectures, course material, and assignments. Writing
students find a collaborative and supportive haven for their writing
appointments are one hour long and focus on written works like
projects. Writing instructors visit with each student , address a writing
essays, projects, and homework assignments. Math and numeracy
question or two, and offer insight [into] select written passages. The
appointments, according to the RGASC’s website, offer help with
RGASC Writing Studio is a vibrant space where each student gains
“pre-calculus, descriptive statistics, logic, and the application of
tailored writing guidance.”
mathematical, statistical and computational approaches.” When asked about how the drop-ins differ from regular appointments, Dr. Depending on the type of appointment they want, students can book oneon-one sessions, either in-person or on Zoom, with an instructor. They might
Raymont responded, “In the studio, there isn’t as much time to conduct a fuller also
exploration of the student’s project so there’s a greater focus on identifying [their] primary
receive eTutoring, where students upload a document and an instructor will edit and send it
concern or question about their writing. In responding to a question, we try to provide more
back with feedback.
focused suggestions relevant to the student’s immediate concerns.” Dr. Raymont stated that the studio can be better than an appointment for specific questions such as those concerned
One of the centre’s most accessible resources is the Writing Studio, where students can
about citations or formatting.
drop in from Mondays to Thursdays from 12-1 p.m.. No appointment is required to join— students only need to bring their written work and come with questions.
The centre has also started course-specific drop-in sessions known as Dedicated DropIns (DDI’s). Dr. Blaauw-Hara stated that for these sessions, “course instructors share their
The Medium interviewed writing instructors Dr. Jack Zaptochny, Dr. Monique Kampherm,
writing-intensive assignments with the RGASC. Then, if a DDI is coming up, we can pull up
Dr. Mark Blaauw-Hara, and Dr. Paul Raymont to get a better sense of the benefits of visiting
the assignment the students are working on and familiarize ourselves with it. We’re not the
UTM’s RGASC.
same thing as a TA in the course—we don’t have the content knowledge of the course, and we obviously won’t be grading the assignment, nor is it a ‘fix-it service’ where the student
When asked what the purpose of connecting with a writing instructor is, Dr. Zapotochny
hands us an essay and we make it perfect.”
emphasized that effective writing is necessary to succeed in all academic disciplines. “Writing instructors are a resource alongside writing courses like ISP100 [Writing for
The RGASC not only helps students with their work but guides them in developing their
University and Beyond] to help students succeed in their programs by understanding
writing skills. Dr. Blaauw-Hara stated, “We talk through their writing choices and help them
communication methods, course material, assignment instructions, and formatting styles.”
make decisions about their own writing, and since we are writing experts, I think we make good suggestions.” Dr. Blaauw-Hara went on to discuss other advantages, “We, as instructors
He continued, “Writing at the university level is an adjustment from the writing styles with
have time to familiarize ourselves with the course materials ahead of time, so we can
which many students are more familiar. Writing instructors can help students to understand
probably offer more targeted feedback since the assignments aren’t new to us.”
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OPINION
Editor | Aya Yafaoui opinion@themedium.ca
Where is the love? After 21 years, we are still trying to find it around us Love doesn’t need to be found; it’s all around. Louis Lam Features Editor
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dreamt about the idea of the love depicted on the screens. But as
ne might ask: isn’t technology supposed to bring the
time goes by, the media changes. It locks onto the next bestseller,
world together? Aren’t we the most connected right now
and nothing sells better than tragedy. Romance turns into
compared to any point in history? Aren’t we learning from our
heartbreak. Perfect couples turn into complicated ones. Social
mistakes? Despite being able to connect with anyone anywhere
media pushes for relationship drama. The list goes on. Our once
in the world with a few pushes of a button, tensions run high
impeccable image of love turned into a mess of heartbreaks and
internationally, various issues are breaking out within our nation,
tragedy. We create expectations of love based on what the media
and interpersonal relationships remain complicated.
shows us. Love is romantic. Love is unfair. Love is this. Love is that.
Valentine’s Day signifies a day of celebration for most couples. It’s a day to remind us of our romantic partners and to appreciate and
As we create these expectations, we start setting conditions for
acknowledge the love they provide for us. For some, Valentine’s
them. We start forming links to guide us in a certain way. We
Day provides people a chance to reflect on their relationships,
need to look a certain way for people to be attracted to us. We
which contributes to the increased amount of breakups seen
need to be exceptional to be revered. We need to fill certain
the week before and after the holiday. This isn’t an unexplained
gender roles, be successful, generous, kind, caring, understanding,
phenomenon; it can be understood through attachment styles.
and… perfect. And if we don’t, then we don’t deserve love. And
While romantic reminders such as Valentine’s Day help with
those who end up in a bad relationship aren’t doing it right.
strengthening relationships for securely attached individuals,
But we forget that the first love we received in this world was
insecure individuals don’t experience the same boost of
unconditional.
relationship satisfaction and gratitude. We fell in love with the idea of love and stopped trying to It doesn’t help when social media feeds into the minds of
understand it.
insecure individuals. TikTok and Instagram houses a wealth of “relationship gurus” who claim they can determine the health of a
We need to take down that ideology. Turn off the spotlight and
relationship through simple actions and phenomena. While some
look at it holistically. Love is all around us. Love is in the little
are grounded in psychological research, others are speculations
things: the friend that waits for you to speak before they chime
at their best. Trends, such as the “orange peel theory,” have urged
in; the partner that smiles as you talk about your day; the parents
a lot of couples to try out various tests to find out the health of
that help their kids get ready for school; individuals of different
their relationships–the orange peel theory is simple: if you ask
backgrounds supporting global causes around the world. They
your partner to peel an orange for you and they say yes, great!
love because it’s in their nature. We love because we were born
However, if they decline, TikTok would have you believe that
with it. Love is everywhere. In fact, I dare say that we live in a
your relationship is on its last legs. Some couples take these
world full of love. More than ever before.
challenges light-heartedly, with a few teasing here and there on camera, whereas others end in arguments and even breakups.
Love is unconditional. In all forms, it’s unconditional. It’s a
Relationships are more complicated than peeling an orange.
blessing we were all born with. It’s an innate ability. Like falling in
Simple tests and trends won’t be enough to tell you about a
love with a cute puppy or tasting the best ice cream for the first
relationship. And they shouldn’t.
time—it’s an overwhelming feeling that rushes through us. It may take time for some to learn. But as we open our eyes to all the love
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How do we even find love in this loveless world? Where love
around us, we start understanding the true nature of it. That is the
is determined by swipes on a screen, a few raunchy texts here
first step in learning how to love. And the first step to seeing our
and there, and a quick night of passion. The meaning behind
“loveless” world in a whole new light.
love starts deforming before our eyes. Yet, it’s not that love isn’t around. We just got desensitized to what love is. It started with
So, whenever you hear that Black Eyed Peas song again, smile and
stories. Princesses, princes, and all the fairy tale romances. Then
look out the window because love is everywhere around you.
came Hollywood, with the big screen romance. All was well as we
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Galentine’s Day: a celebration of the most unconditional love I’ve ever known
How female friendships empower us, and why this love should be celebrated this February. Fariha Shimu Contributor Valentine’s Day. It’s well associated with flowers and chocolates, candlelit dinners, and
Galentine’s Day is also a celebration of our femininity. It’s a celebration of the deep con-
cheesy rom-coms—after asking that special someone to be your Valentine, of course. But
nections that come with female camaraderie. A feeling that’s beautifully unique from other
romantic love is not the only form of profound, all-consuming love one can experience in
relationships in our lives. Dressing up in cute pink outfits is just a bonus.
their lifetime. Love envelopes us in a multitude of ways, yet we focus so heavily on romantic love on February 14 each year.
Though I cannot deny how special it is to have a significant other with whom to share chocolate and sugary sweet embraces on the annual day of love, there’s more than one way
Coined by the sitcom Parks and Recreation, the concept of “Galentine’s Day” is, as described
to be struck by Cupid’s arrow. Boyfriends and girlfriends will come and go, but it’s often the
by Cosmopolitan, “a sacred day of sisterhood.” Leslie Knope, played by Amy Poehler in the
women in our lives who mend our broken hearts. It’s our gals who are our shoulders to cry
show, describes it as “...the best day of the year.” Every February 13, she gathers her female
on. The people who just get us without having to say a single word. Friendships that make
friends, leaving their husbands and boyfriends at home, to come “kick it breakfast style.” She
us feel held and nurtured. The feeling of knowing that you could say anything at all and be
proclaims that it’s simply a way for ladies to celebrate ladies.
heard. Our relationships with our mothers, sisters, and friends are equally (and sometimes more) important and binding than any romantic relationship.
Recently popularized by social media, Galentine’s Day-themed brunches and slumber parties have been all the rage this year. Inspired by the countless videos I saw on TikTok, I
These unconditional, wholehearted relationships ought to be celebrated—even the one you
also began planning a Galentine’s Day party of my own. I took a trip to my local dollar store
have with yourself. It could be as simple as getting yourself flowers or baking your favourite
(which looked as though Cupid himself had thrown up all over it), and of course, bought
treat, making sure to add heart-shaped sprinkles just to be festive. After all, it’s hard to pour
heart-shaped balloons, heart-shaped plates, heart-shaped champagne flutes, and napkins
from an empty cup.
which were—you guessed it—also heart-shaped. So, gather your closest friends, eat all the chocolate chip cookies that your heart desires, and As I stood there in that aisle of Dollarama, looking at the sea of red and pink that stood
bask in the unparalleled security and comfort that emanates from female friendship. Try
before me, I couldn’t help but feel an overwhelming sense of gratitude. Being able to gather
your hand at making heart-shaped pizzas from scratch. Put on the Titanic movie for good
with my friends to celebrate the beautiful women and the love that we have for each other
measure (bring tissues if you’re an easy crier like I am). And remember that although mes-
feels like an unparalleled privilege.
sages of celebrating romantic love often dominate the narrative during this time of year, we can, and certainly should, celebrate all forms of love on Valentine’s Day.
Although many argue that Valentine’s Day is merely a marketing tactic, that capitalism dictates a singular day for us to celebrate love, it’s so much more than that to me. Much like the Barbie movie allowed us to don our best pink outfits with ribbons in our hair, to me,
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Friendship breakups: we need to talk about it
Platonic breakups are important and not talked about enough, and they hurt just as much as romantic breakups. Karissa Harrypersad Contributor
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ife is full of different types of breakups. From your first middle school boyfriend you
Another aspect that makes friendship breakups hurt more is the amount of effort and time
dated for two weeks to your high school best friend who slowly drifted away after
you put into the friendship. Friendships can span a significant portion of an individual’s
promising to be BFFs for life, we’re constantly changing. Change is perfectly normal
life and can sometimes last longer than romantic relationships. When you’re heartbroken
because we are meant to explore and outgrow certain people. But what if you are not ready
by a romantic partner, who’s there for you? Your best friends. However, what if you have a
to move on?
breakup with your best friend—then who do you go to? The depth of shared experiences, memories, and the investment of time and emotions can make a friendship breakup feel
Friendship breakups are very painful to go through and often not talked about because
like losing a part of oneself or a substantial portion of one’s history.
they’re overshadowed by romantic breakups. Mass media, through movies, music, and books, showcases failing romantic relationships and the grieving process, but we’re at a
Feeling betrayed is natural after your best friend breaks up with you because the trust
shortage when it comes to depicting friendship breakups. It has been a common belief that
that was built for many years is washed away after a breakup text. In friendships, there
relationships and romantic partners come and go just like seasons, but what about friends?
are expectations of trust and loyalty, which you don’t expect them to break because it feels like they should be by your side. This perceived betrayal can lead to feelings of deep
Friendship breakups hurt as much as relationship breakups because of certain factors
disappointment and emotional pain.
including the significance of the connection and the time invested into these friendships. These breakups can feel worse than relationship breakups because it can be awkward and
Friendship breakups are painful and hurt as much as—or more than—romantic
hard to move on. You can often predict when a romantic relationship will come to an end,
relationships in certain situations. Yet, no matter how hard it gets, there are always new
but it can be very unexpected when your best friend with whom you’ve been through thick
friends to meet. With the right self-care routines, the heartache of the will heal. You
and thin then becomes a stranger.
shouldn’t forget about the fun memories or delete any photos because, after enough time, you’ll be able to look back at the good times.
There are three main reasons why friendship breakups can hurt more than romantic relationships. These reasons are a lack of closure, the longevity and depth of the friendship,
My favourite quote to reflect on this comes from the show BoJack Horseman: “I think there
and the perceived betrayal of trust. These factors, among various others, can intensify the
are people that help you become the person that you end up being, and you can be grateful
emotional impact of friendship breakups and contribute to the heightened sense of hurt
for them, even if they were never meant to be in your life forever.” This quote is super
and loss compared to some romantic relationships.
helpful because friendships are meant to be fun. You shouldn’t be sad that it ended, but happy that it happened because it made you the person you are today. Friends will change
A lack of closure from friendship breakups is messy and confusing. It lacks the formality of closure because there are different types of platonic breakups, many of which involve someone drifting apart slowly, which doesn’t give the person who is getting broken up with any closure. This absence of closure or clear reasons for the end of the friendship can leave individuals feeling confused and unable to process or move on from the loss.
at every stage of your life, so you should enjoy every moment.
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How to be your own Valentine this year So, you don’t have a Valentine? Well, welcome to the club! Keira Johannson Contributor
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s we approach the looming holiday of red roses and homemade cards, I am struck with
this constant need for validation from others.
the realization that I will be spending February 14 alone this year. Now, you might
Now, at 20 years old, I’m forced to reprogram the way I approach Valentine’s Day. Instead
think I’d be bitter toward the lovey-dovey couples I pass in the hallways on campus, but the
of seeking validation from someone else—be it a partner or a friend or a schoolboy crush—
truth is, I’m quite happy to not have any Valentine’s Day plans.
what if it was a holiday to celebrate me? At the end of the day, Valentine’s Day is about love, so whether I’m single or taken doesn’t quite matter. I love myself, so why not just be my own
I’ve been in relationships before, so my opinion on the holiday comes from a very neutral
Valentine?
stance. Don’t get me wrong, I understand the special feeling of sharing Valentine’s Day with a significant other. But I also understand the other side of it: spending Valentine’s Day alone.
My Mom always tells me to put myself at the top of my to-do list. Let this Valentine’s Day be your reminder to do the same. Maybe there’s an item on your wish list that you’ve had your
As a single girl in my 20s, I am beginning to learn that the most important relationship I will
eye on for a while. Go treat yourself to it. Have an ideal day in mind? Go schedule time to go
ever have is the one I have with myself. So, while my Valentine’s Day this year won’t consist of
on your own date! Maybe you can cook (or order in) your go-to meal, put on a new outfit
a fancy dinner date or romantic gesture, I still find contentment on this day of love, even in
you love, and watch your favourite comfort series on TV. Or perhaps there’s an art exhibit
solitude.
you’ve always wanted to visit, a new film you’ve always wanted to see, or a park you’ve always wanted to walk around in. These things are fun to do with others, but we can also do it by
The other day, I got off the bus and was welcomed by the display window of a local flower
ourselves and enjoy it just as much.
shop. Arrays of beautifully arranged red, pink, and white bouquets flooded my vision, and I decided to walk into the store. I’m nothing if not an avid window shopper. “It couldn’t hurt to
While it can certainly be a challenge to walk into a flower shop and confidently walk out with
just peek in,” I told myself.
roses you’ve bought yourself, trust me when I say that you will leave feeling extremely loved.
Valentine’s Day was just over a week away and the shop’s decorations were in full swing
But being your own Valentine can also be something you do in secret. Find a quiet space
with love hearts and flower petals. I roamed the selection, awing at the carnations and lilies
and write a letter addressed to yourself. Note down the things you love—the qualities, the
scattered across the shelves, until my gaze stumbled upon a bouquet of cream and baby pink
quirks—that make you, you. Once you’ve finished writing it, read it aloud. Remind yourself
roses.
how awesome you are, how loved you are. It might be an uncomfortable and unfamiliar thing at first, but self-love is a daily practice. Start doing positive things for yourself today, and over
As I looked at the roses, I realized I couldn’t remember the last time I received flowers from
time, you will notice a significant difference in your confidence, self-worth, and emotional
somebody. Then, I was struck with another realization: I could accept that I wouldn’t have a
well-being.
Valentine this year, but I could not accept leaving the store without the flowers. So, no Valentine this year? No problem. I challenge you to be your own! Treat yourself to selfWith a nicely wrapped mini bouquet in hand and a C$12 transaction out of my bank
love, and most importantly, don’t let it be exclusive to February 14. Self-love is something you
account, I left the flower shop with a skip in my step and a dozen roses to my name. If I was
should strive for every day, whether you are single or in a relationship.
going to spend Valentine’s Day alone, I was going to make sure that I still enjoyed it. With that, I wish you the happiest of Valentine’s Days and the utmost love for the rest of your Even though a part of me wishes I could skip out on Valentine’s Day altogether, it’s
February. But remember: your self-love practices shouldn’t end when the roses and hearts get
unfortunately an unavoidable holiday. So instead, I’ve decided to reframe the way I think
replaced with shamrocks and parades. Continue to celebrate self-love every day, regardless of
about it.
what day of the year it is.
When I was younger, I felt a lot of pressure about Valentine’s Day. I wanted to have the best homemade cards, the cutest pink outfit, and ultimately, the undivided attention of a schoolboy crush. The problem with all of this, however, is that the holiday transformed into
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Love on Campus: balancing a life of love and academics Communication is top priority in managing romantic relationships and academic stressors. Louis Lam Features Editor
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here are three things most university students stress about: their grades, their future, and
ending with the use of dating apps and social apps. But this comes with its problems.
their relationships. As we navigate our lives throughout university, our understanding of
As online intimacy becomes more and more important, it has become a determining factor that
ourselves and the ones around us grows. Most of us start our first romantic encounters early
contributes to self-esteem and self-efficacy in relationships. Some couples face problems such as
in high school, whereas others may start theirs in university. With the diverse population of
increased distractions and relationship satisfaction. Think about the times you see relationship
unique individuals, the campus becomes the perfect social pot for relationships of all kinds to
“advice” on social media platforms, or “stories” of cheating online. Not only does modern dating
start.
sound bleak for everyone, but we are also exposed to the information that makes us rethink and re-evaluate our relationships.
The average age for marriage was between 20 and 24 years old for both men and women in the 1960s up to the 2000s. More than two decades later in 2023, the average age of marriage reached
In the time where we struggle to navigate and place ourselves in society, handling all the
the late 20s for both men and women, a gradual increase throughout the years. This pushes the
difficulties of dating alongside our university life is not easy.
age of where we meet our potential forever spouse to the prime age of our early 20s, the same time we are in university. Chances are we may have passed by potential life partners in the
“It’s always about balance,” Lam says when asked about how she handles dating while being
hallways while we are scuttling off to class. What does this mean for university relationships?
a university student. “You would have to constantly start thinking outside of your own perspective. Chances are you both are facing the same problems. And even if you think you
As we navigate through the formative years of our careers, we start to plan our next steps into
don’t have time, take your time to communicate and figure things out. You have a lifetime to
the world. What career am I going to take? Where will I go? What should I do next? Juggling
spend with them.”
these questions within a relationship expands the “I” into a “we.” Where will “we” go next? What will “we” do now? But these questions may only start to appear when nearing graduation.
Lam also states that “it’s important to list out your priorities with your partners first.
Catherine Lam, a fourth-year sociology student, stated that “these feelings only started creeping
Understanding where your priorities lie will help you navigate your relationship throughout
in when thinking about graduation and leaving university. The first two or even three years of
university. There is nothing wrong to put studies first for now and the relationship later. Or
university was like time stood still.” Now, both her and her boyfriend worry about the future.
if both of you are looking to marry first then careers later, it’s all up to the communication between couples.”
Modern dating can be categorized with a few notable things compared to when our parents were dating. We are subjected to a world filled with choices in the age of technology. The
Juggling a relationship and the role of being a university student may seem like a lot to handle,
internet connects us to a much bigger world. We are no longer limited to nearby relationships. If
but students can work their way around the problem if they focus on what’s important to them.
we scale this back down to dating as a university student, this means instead of a limiting dating
So, this Valentine’s, don’t worry too much about your studies or your relationship, show your
pool of just the people around you, you can meet people from outside your immediate circle,
appreciation towards one another and appreciate the romance you share with one another.
outside this campus, or even outside the country. The possibilities and opportunities are never-
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The history of Valentine’s Day: origins and traditions From the Romans to modern romance, how Valentine’s Day has been witnessed throughout time and history. Marii Khan Contributor
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nfatuation, romance, and dread. Love is in the air and Valentine’s Day is nearing. For some
Valentine’s Day, Today
of us who are cuffed, this is exciting, especially when it’s your first Valentine’s Day together.
For the rest of us who are single, it’s looking bleak. If you’re “lucky,” you might have a date with
Valentine’s Day is still a day of romance, love, and infatuation. There is no cookie-cutter recipe
a midterm and a valid excuse to not worry about the day. Otherwise, it’s a night filled with
for a successful Valentine’s and everyone has their own spin to their celebrations. However, it is
loneliness and cheesy rom-coms.
still customary to buy your Valentine something to commemorate the special day between the two of you.
How did the popular day of love and Cupid striking our hearts come to be? A newer trend emerging is spending Valentine’s Day alone or with a friend. While the day Back to the Roots
might have roots in romance, many forms of love exist outside of romance that should still be celebrated. In Toronto, there are markets and different events that you can go to alone or with
The origins of Valentine’s Day are mysterious and unclear.
friends. The University of Toronto Mississauga Student Union (UTMSU) is also hosting and collaborating on different events for Valentine’s Day. Some events include their XOXO Giveaway
Some believe that Valentine’s originated from Lupercalia, a Pagan festival held annually in
(held in the Student Centre) and Dirty Bingo Night (also held in the Student Centre). Check out
February. Pagans would sacrifice a goat and dog during the festival in honour of Faunus, the
the UTMSU’s Instagram page for more information on these events and other events they have
Roman god of agriculture, to be blessed with fertility and purification. The hide of the goat
planned for Valentine’s Day!
would be stripped and dipped into sacrificial blood and then slapped gently onto women and crops. As disgusting as this might sound, it was welcomed by the women at the time, as they
For other events in Mississauga and Toronto, look up Valentine Ideas on TikTok. There are
believed that the touch of the blood and goat hide would increase their fertility for the year. The
always free and affordable events happening in town. These events include date ideas for you
festival would also include the pairing of women and men by a drawing of names from an urn,
and your partner, friends, or just yourself.
eventually leading to marriage. Trends This Valentine’s Day There still exists a similar tradition (without the goat and sacrificial blood) seen in TV shows and movies. In an episode of Gilmore Girls, the women in the town put together their own
As the perception of Valentine’s Day changes, so too does the way it is celebrated. One factor
lunch baskets for an auction. The baskets and the opportunity to have lunch with them are then
behind the current popularity of Valentine’s Day could be that individuals are more inclined to
auctioned off and the money is put toward a charitable cause for the town. The person who wins
put their work first. A survey in 2023 asked more than 1,000 people if they would choose work
the auction would land an opportunity for a lunch date with the person that made the basket.
over a relationship, and 75 per cent of individuals said they would. Considering the climate of the current economy, this is not surprising. As university students, instead of feeling romantic
The other possible origin of Valentine’s Day stems from the martyr of St. Valentine. However,
and infatuated with our partners, we are overwhelmed with the stress
the Catholic Church recognizes three different individuals with the St. Valentine name.
of our midterms. It can be painful having to balance everything, and it leads to the question of whether we should celebrate Valentine’s
One was a priest who held secret marriages between young lovers as the emperor of the time
Day or not. But regardless of the popularity of this holiday,
decreed that young men should defend their nation and people, so marriages among young
there will always be a young couple being overly
couples were prohibited. The priest was condemned by the emperor and sentenced to death.
affectionate in your peripheral vision that you cannot escape on February 14.
Another St. Valentine was a bishop who was sentenced to death by the same emperor. It should be no surprise that this emperor seems to have no record of a wife or other lover. One of the two St. Valentines was imprisoned and fell in love with the jailer’s daughter. He wrote letters to her and in one of the last letters he sent her, he ended it with, “From your Valentine.” A sweet ending to love letters that is still used today.
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Editor | Hannah Wang arts@themedium.ca
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A Valentine’s Dream
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t’s the night of
hits midnight as I
February 13 and
scribble love notes
I’m awake cutting
to my friends and
paper hearts in 20
stuff chocolates in my
different colours. I
backpack. The dark
wipe glitter off my
clouds that blanketed
face and hands and
the winter sky are
hair and floor. I love
now glittering and
Valentine’s Day, but
pink, and the snow
it’s not much fun
that once blocked my
when everything
car in the driveway
is frozen! A frigid
has turned into
month chosen
bundles of red roses.
for such a warm holiday. The clock
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andy grams, stemming from 1960s
event. Beyond educational settings, candy
American high schools, blend
grams became a symbol of thoughtfulness
fundraising with personal expression
in offices and community celebrations.
through candy attached to customized
Despite the rise of digital communication,
notes. This concept rapidly gained
the tactile joy of receiving a candy gram
popularity, allowing students to convey
persists, underscoring the enduring power
affection with a simple, cost-effective
of personal, tangible gestures in expressing
gesture. The anticipation of receiving candy
kindness and connection in our fast-paced,
grams from friends, teachers, or admirers
digital era.
transformed this into a cherished school
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Art is not a commodity; “Art is for everybody” How Keith Haring’s famous quote promotes the accessibility of art in our everyday lives. Evelia Raphael Contributor
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t can seem impossible to maintain creativity in a culture that views the pursuit of and
artistic pastimes without falling victim to the pressure
engagement with art as a luxury reserved for the elite. Creating art seems almost elusive, an
of perfection and a culture that views art as a lucrative
ideal for those who can afford to make it, buy it, or sell it. But as the late contemporary artist
“side gig.” After all, what’s the value of a hobby if it
and activist Keith Haring famously stated, “Art is for Everybody.”
can’t turn a profit? And yet, we find ourselves signing up for Paint & Sip
Haring was always interested in the accessibility of his work. His belief that “The public has a
nights, joining pottery classes, and doodling in the
right to art” and his desire to reach a wider audience inspired him to use empty advertisement
margins of our notebooks, regardless of whether we’ll
panels in the subway as his canvas and chalk as his medium. Making art widely available to the
become “the next big thing.” Art can simply be done for
masses is a crucial part of promoting creativity. Such accessibility measures can be observed
art’s sake. With no shortage of mental and physical benefits, art is often implemented as a
today in the implementation of free community-based exhibits and workspaces, such as
non-medical aid to a plethora of health concerns, including stress reduction. The repetition
Toronto’s iconic Graffiti Alley or Mississauga’s Small Arms Inspection Building—as well as the
involved in tactile activities like sculpting or crocheting serves as a sensory stimulant—
protection of financial aid programs that provide access to classes,
promoting mindfulness, concentration, and patience.
studios, and supplies. A detailed list of local art installations and services can be found on Visit Mississauga’s website.
Nurturing creativity can equally deepen one’s engagement with their community, and in turn, promote solidarity and advocacy for marginalized groups. Haring’s work has always been
It’s not just the viewing of art that must be expanded, but the
a symbol of anti-capitalist, anti-apartheid activism, and an outlet through which he’s raised
creative act itself. Due to an overtly consumerist climate, creating
awareness for the AIDS epidemic. As we celebrate his legacy, we must remember his focus on
art is often reduced to a financial pursuit reserved for those who have
art as a tool of change, to ensure that art truly is for everybody.
something of value to sell. It’s as though one cannot dabble in
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A space to dream out loud
Mississauga exhibition provides a space for residents to bridge the gaps between their house and their home. Sabrina Chow ContributorPosition >> continued from the front cover...
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ere immigrants and refugees able to preserve their culture? Or did they have to
studentAsim, on a mission to educate the public about The Partition of India in 1947, a
sacrifice a part of their “home” to live a life championed by different values, opposite
tumultuous but central piece of South Asian history that he never learned from schools in
to what they were taught by their ancestors?
Canada. He created the exhibit, First Contact, where a digital print display titled “JAWAB DO!—an odyssey into the Partition of India” detailed all his questions and the horror
In collaboration with the Mississauga Arts Council, the City Council hosted a multi-day
of knowing nothing about it despite being South Asian himself. Besides the artwork,
exhibition for residents to explore different cultural identities and exchange histories in the
Hussain was also present at SAIB on February 10, from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. to greet the local
Small Arms Inspection Building (SAIB)—a repurposed building located on Lakeshore Road
community.
with significant importance during the Second World War. The location is now a bright,
Curator Hibah Mian agreed that Mississauga is a rapidly growing city, where more than half
multi-purpose, open-concept arts and cultural hub for creatives in the community and has
of its residents have a native language that is not English, and that artists help to articulate
played host to events of various sizes.
the distinctiveness of the many identities in this city. She hopes that Dreamland can provide community members with a space for their voice; a hub to share their culture with others
Mixed media, painting, embroidered pieces, and photography by five artists covered the
who share the space we spend our livelihoods in, and act as a signal to reflect on what we
walls side-by-side. The shock of missing out on key information about his own culture
call “home.”
prompted South Asian artist Asim Hussain, who goes by the social media handle @
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Goodness Gracious: a theatrical performance that showcases what it means to be good Learning what it means to be good through a great performance. Keira Johannson Contributor
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elcomed by the sounds of laughter, acoustic piano riffs, and the beginning scenes of
actors before me, but I also found myself reflecting inward on the similar experiences I’ve had
an introductory improv session, I took my seat in the back row of Deerfield Studio,
in my own life. And while, at first, I thought maybe the show was starting with its best foot
unprepared for the emotional journey I was about to embark on.
forward, I was quickly proven wrong. The following short pieces to come were just as worthy of applause, laughter, and consideration.
With thoughtful references to childhood classic literature and inspiration from 15th- to 18thcentury styles of theatre, this year’s The Devised Project provides both entertainment and
Nods to “Cinderella,” the tooth fairy, and scary stories by the fire at summer camp all poked
value to its guests. Over the last four weeks, the ensemble cast of third-year drama studies
fun at youthful nostalgia. Paired with juxtaposing stories that displayed more serious
students collaborated, choreographed, and composed their original one-act play, Goodness
undertones, Goodness Gracious provides a show that everyone can take something away
Gracious. Led by director, Rachel Blair, and stage manager, Neha Ross, the “Travelling
from.
Troupe” entertains its audience with a collection of short stories—each one unique on its own, but better together—resulting in a positive theatrical experience, where each guest
From its talented ensemble cast to the excellent creative direction behind the scenes, this
leaves with something they didn’t have when they arrived.
year’s original one-act play by The Devised Project had me leaving the room with a newfound admiration for the arts. Goodness Gracious made me laugh, (nearly) cry, and most notably,
Seated in a full audience under soft hazy lighting, the opening night crowd laughed and
reflect on what it means to be human. Looking out at centre stage, I witnessed a group of
awed as the “Travelling Troupe” performed various improv scenes—all accompanied by the
people so in love with what they were doing that it emanated out toward the crowd.
soothing voices of those gathered around the piano. But as the lights dimmed, the audience was introduced to the titular vocal track, a tune destined to be stuck in your head for days to
Acknowledgement is awarded to the cast and crew who made Goodness Gracious the
come—and for good reason. Along with its playful rhyme came its impressive dance number,
success that it is: Liam Armstrong, Ryan Bagley, Rachel Blair, Jasmine Brough, Madison
showcasing the physical talents of the splendid cast.
Buchanan, Aria De Castro, Senzenina De Freitas, Linghao Feng, Camryn Ferguson, Ciara Hall, Cameron Helmkay, Jasmine Jenkinson, Jacob Klick-McMahon, Kaden Klodt,
But it was halfway through the first story that I knew that this was the show for me. The
Rachael Liness, Nicole Lynch, Vandana Maharaj, Clarc Mangclimot, Rhys Parker, Gareth
beginning performance introduced the audience to the first moral lesson: courage. Through
Roberts, Neha Ross, Joelle Salsa, Zoe Saum, Sarah Scroggie, Olivia Sgambelluri, Adam
thoughtful dialogue and the representation of relevant subject matters, such as body
Stein, Maggie Tavares, Molly Tice, Madison Toma-Dame, Emma Waller, and Leslie
image, mental health, growing up, and the importance of friendship, I found myself with
Wright.
goosebumps. Not only was I enthralled by the craft of storytelling showcased by the talented
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Editor | Omar Khan sports@themedium.ca
Swift and Kelce’s Superbowl update
Anti-Swift sentiment won’t stop NFL diehards from watching this year’s Superbowl. Joseph Falzata Contributor
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t’s official. The NFL’s biggest star is headed to the Superbowl. But I’m not talking about
In this year’s AFC Championship broadcast, Swift was shown on-screen a total of seven times,
Kansas City Chiefs quarterback Patrick Mahomes, San Francisco 49ers running back
once again throwing social media into a frenzy between diehard Swift fans and seasoned
Christian McCaffrey, or even any of the 12 other Pro Bowl selections on the Chiefs and 49ers
football viewers.
rosters. I’m talking about Taylor Swift.
“Now I can hate Taylor Swift and Brittaney Mahomes at the same time,” said one X user after a clip showing Swift celebrating with Brittany Mahomes, the unpopular wife of Patrick
The NFL averaged 17.9 million viewers per game this regular season – the second-highest
Mahomes. “NOBODY CARES ABOUT TAYLOR SWIFT STOP SHOWING HER AFTER
total since averages were first tracked in 1995. This increase in viewership has largely been
EVERYTHING TRAVIS KELCE DOES,” ranted another.
attributed to “Swifties” who have been flocking to watch their idol and her future Hall-ofFame boyfriend, Travis Kelce.
But are the concerns of football fans really warranted? According to Sports Illustrated, Swift’s seven appearances combined for a grand total of 44 seconds of screen time. Considering that
According to an October report by NBC News, teen girl viewership for Sunday Night Football
the game lasted three hours and nine minutes, Swift only appeared for 0.39 per cent of the
climbed a whopping 53 per cent throughout the first three weeks of the season. Viewership
broadcast. The backlash begins to sound even more ridiculous when you realize a recording
from women aged 18-24 increased 24 per cent, while the audience of women over 35 grew
of arena staff cooking, serving, and munching on crab cakes lasted 27 seconds. But nobody
by 34 per cent. This combined spike in viewership accounted for an additional two million
seems to complain about that.
weekly watchers. NBA legend turned sports commentator Charles Barkley publicly stepped in to defend Swift Swift’s audience seems to follow her everywhere she goes. Another report from Forbes
amid growing animosity, saying in a recent CNN feature that anyone who taunts her is “just a
magazine predicted that her Eras Tour could produce US$4.6 billion for the local economies
loser or a jackass.”
of the cities she performs in. Kelce’s podcast has more than quadrupled in weekly listeners, and his jersey sales catapulted into the top five most sold in the entire league.
Regardless of their distaste for Swift, NFL fans inevitably tuned in this past Sunday to watch the Kansas City Chiefs take on the San Francisco 49ers in Super Bowl LVII. Though Swift was
The NFL is about as popular as ever, Travis Kelce is on the way to another Superbowl, and
on tour in Japan, it’d be hard to imagine America’s biggest star failing to appear at America’s
Swift just dominated another year of the Grammys. Everyone seems to be winning. Everyone
biggest event of the year.
except for NFL purists.
Tessa Virtue and Morgan Rielly: An iconic power couple The two Canadian icons illustrate a journey of triumph and romance. Simran Rattanpal Contributor
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rowing up as a figure skater, my dream was always to fall in love with an NHL player
engaged. Again, literally my childhood dream. Finally, on February 1, 2024, Hello! Canada
and become a Canadian icon. Tessa Virtue has paved the way for young women and
magazine revealed that Virtue and Rielly had tied the knot in 2 separate, intimate wedding
girls to achieve their wildest dreams, both by becoming the most decorated female ice dance
celebrations. Enjoying their relationship without blasting it through the public eye, Virtue
athlete in Olympic history and by dating Maple Leafs defenseman and alternate captain
and Rielly have been able to enjoy their time together and grow into the married couple they
Morgan Rielly.
are now.
A Globe and Mail article recounts the timeline of the iconic Canadian relationship, which
Rielly is still an All-Star player for the Toronto Maple Leafs and is taking part in the All-Star
began in late 2019 or early 2020. On January 8, 2020, the couple attended the Maple Leaf
Games this year. While Rielly continues to play hockey for the Toronto
Sports and Entertainment Gala together in Toronto. It was here that dating rumours and
Maple Leafs, Virtue retired from her ice dance career after the 2018
excitement around this couple began. A couple of comments back and forth on Instagram
Olympics, where she won her second Olympic gold. Virtue has since
started to confirm that Virtue and Rielly had sparked a romance. While we were all
become a media personality, showing up in many magazines
speculating, Rielly’s teammate Auston Matthews said that he, too, had to pry the relationship
and interviews; she was inducted into the Sports Hall of
information out of Rielly because he is a private person.
Fame in 2023, the Walk of Fame in 2018, and was named into the Order of Canada in 2020.
The rumors were confirmed when Virtue was joined by Rielly during an Instagram live with Max Kerman from the Arkells. The couple described their time together during quarantine
Congratulations, Virtue and
and how they were staying active and sane in such a difficult time. Throughout the timeline
Rielly, you are the blueprint for
of their relationship, Virtue and Rielly’s media presence began to grow. Most posts on the
all young Canadian athletes
couple’s Instagram pages were little hints at their relationship.
who dream to be like you when they get older.
The first official confirmation that this iconic relationship had taken its next step came with Virtue’s interview on the “Without Losing Your Cool” podcast in 2023. During the interview, Virtue revealed that she and Reilly met through mutual friends and were now