Want better Charisma? Here are 6 ways to do it

Want better Charisma? Here are 6 ways to do it

Some men (women too) are born charismatic. They have this ability to grab all the attention wherever they are without even doing anything. Then, there are those who have the talent to learn how to be charismatic. Oh yes!! You too can be a person with a charming charisma that makes you come across a magnetic, trustworthy and influential personality. All you have to do is to practice certain things and you’ll be a better person whom everyone wants to approach and communicate with.

Barack Obama is a charismatic person because he knows his audience and has the capability to pull it off effortlessly. Not only Obama, there are personalities like Oprah Winfrey, Ellen DeGeneres, Meryl Streep, Robert Downey Jr and so much more are there who would clearly fall in this category. People all over the world wants to be alluring, bewitching, captivating, fascinating, charming, enchanting, engaging, magnetic and seductive (synonyms of charismatic).

You should too learn the art of being a charismatic person.

How??

Well, that’s exactly what we’re going to talk about in this article.

1. Presence matters most

Even before someone notices you, your presence of mind can help you grab some extra points. The art of engaging the others in your conversations is what presence is all about. Work on your confidence is you really want to master this art. Without confidence, you won’t be able to give your best shot while engaging others and all the preparations would go in vain. You can practice yoga and meditation to stay in touch with your senses in order to keep your mind here, there and everywhere.

2. Stay at comfort

Going step by step, comfort is the next big thing when it comes to staying in one's senses. When you want to spread your magic everywhere else, you need to be at comfort within. How can you be present (mentally) when all you can think of is how uncomfortable your pants are or the constant rubbing of your undergarment edge and causing rashes? Well, in order to stop your manhood to sweating or cause the discomfort to your mental peace, you must stay comfortable. Wear comfortable outfits that help you stay fresh throughout the day. Cotton is preferably your go-to fabric during summers and you can choose any other during the cold months to stay at peace.

3. Let your body language do the talking

It is not always that your tongue does the work of communicating with others. Let your body language be a more powerful tool that makes you approachable for others. A close-shut personality is harder to reach out to and is considered to be less charismatic than the ones who are open and approachable. Not only this! You must smile, look gracious, make eye contact

while talking and shake hands like a man whenever you get an opportunity. Your body language is what others find appealing even before get into the first conversation with them. Hence, make sure you don’t go close ended.

4. Don’t always talk- learn to listen

It is always a good listener who wins the race.

Jabbering and going on and on with your own talks is not what others want. In order to be a person who others find comfort in, you need to be a good listener.

Start from remembering a person whom you met somewhere long back by remembering his name. It actually matters a lot to him. Don’t be sympathetic all the time, try to empathize with the person and treat the problem like you would do it for yourself. Pay attention to details of what others are suggesting and put them into action.

5. Keep your phone aside and live in that moment

Everyone has a virtual life and we don’t doubt that you wouldn’t have one. However, when you have company, all you need to do is keep your phone aside and interact with the people next to you. Put them on silent and out of your sight so that you don’t even get tempted to reach out and touch the phone. This will help you get more interactive towards the people in front rather than in your virtual world.

6. Wait before you respond So, you’ve started talking to people and they’ve started indulging in your conversations. You must now pause before you reply or revert to someone’s questions, statements or general discussions. This gives you time to reciprocate in your head the possibilities and also lets others know that you’ll come up with something full proof.

Is there anything else we missed up in the list? Do let us know in the comments below. Be a charismatic personality with these easy and practical ways. You’d see the visible difference in sometime after you start practicing these in your day-to-day life.