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contents MARCH 2022 VOLUME 16, NUMBER 9
PUBLISHER
MS Christian Living, Inc. EDITOR
Katie Eubanks katie@mschristianliving.com MANAGING EDITOR
Suzanne Durfey ART/GRAPHIC DESIGN
Sandra Goff SALES
Suzanne Durfey, Ginger Gober CONTRIBUTING WRITERS
cover story
columns
19 Christian Leaders
8 Outside In
of the Future
When it’s frozen
Meet our 2022 scholarship finalists!
Chris Bates, Jerry Beavers, Ouida Drinkwater, Chris Fields, Dr. Fred Hall, Susan Shands Jones, Anna Claire O’Cain, Sarah Rein DISTRIBUTION ASSISTANTS
10 Modern Motherhood I can’t produce perfect kids – and that’s OK
12 Living My Call
Michelle and Randy Fortenberry, Rachel and Nettie Schulte, Jerri and Sammy Strickland, Rachel and Bob Whatley
Loving on little acorns
14 Mission Mississippi Moments Why we love to make racism ‘complicated’
17 Health & Wellness How to develop the will to obey
30 Food for Thought Veggie faves inspired by Miss Welty
31 Community Outreach The Garden Club of Jackson’s Spring Garden Tour
33 Tough Questions My daughter wants to attend a party school
in every issue “You could be having a hard time … and you just walk in and those children just light up your face,” said Little Acorns Child Development Center Director Ashley Elmore. See page 12.
6 Editor’s Letter 34 Quips & Quotes 34 Advertiser Index
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EDITOR’S LETTER
Don’t hit snooze
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recently attended a virtual writing group, and our leader read us a poem called
“Don’t Go Back To Sleep.” It’s a good poem, and easy to find online. The main idea that I took away was that when we’re “sleepy” and complacent, we miss out on good stuff. After discussing the poem, we wrote for 20 minutes. I rarely write anything during these sessions that I’d be bold enough to share here, but I believe Jesus spoke the following poem to me. Maybe it’ll help y’all too. Don’t Hit Snooze
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The Spirit of God is hovering As He did over the waters In the beginning of time. Like them, you are unfinished — But He sees what you will be. You can meet with Him Before the rest of the world wakes up And wants to ping you and poke you And ask you for favors. You can meet with Him alone, In the silence That falls like feather down And settles down around you. But this comfort doesn’t numb. It gets you ready. Your Father waits To speak to you, With secrets and mysteries of old to unfold: Leviathan, the Greenland shark, The fourth dimension, dinosaurs ... And how a Man (not just any man) Was both Man and God, Sin and perfection, Defeated and victorious, In one eternal afternoon On a cross. He also waits to hear from you So He can answer. He waits for you to speak up, Acknowledge reality, And embrace its sweaty, awkward slow dance Instead of ducking your head and turning away. And Jesus stands at the gate And waits for you, His beloved, To step out the door And follow Him. Let your limitations be left behind, Buried in your hobbit hole, And let yourself emerge Onto the road that goes ever on
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(surrounded by good, green pasture) With the One whose strength will see you through. Your God is waiting. Or you can hit snooze. For me, this poem is not just about physically getting out of bed, though that’s certainly part of it. It’s about not “hitting snooze” on whatever God calls me to. Often I’m afraid of what might happen when I journey away from my “hobbit hole,” i.e., whatever makes me comfortable. (Y’all know I had to get a Tolkien reference in there.) I’m afraid the path will be wrong, or the outcome will be wrong, or something will be wrong — and I love being right. Yet even as I write this, I look back at the poem and see that God spelled the solution out for me: Spend time with Him. He created me, He loves me, He wants what’s best for me, and He has provided all that I need for today. He wants to encourage me with His gospel. He wants to talk with me. And then He wants to take me on today’s adventure. The word “adventure” implies a bit of risk. But the things I might risk in the present are nothing compared to His eternal presence — which I can never lose. I used a lot of personal pronouns in the last few paragraphs, but this message is for anyone who has given their heart and life to Jesus Christ. He is calling you to something. Spend time with Him so He can equip you for it. He’ll be with you all the way. Our cover story this month is one of my favorites every year: our Christian Leaders of the Future scholarship finalists (see page 19). These young people are so cool, y’all. They’ve taken on responsibilities and followed Christ in ways I never would’ve dreamed at their age. And it’s such an awesome picture of the different talents and personalities that God gives each person. Whether you’re a senior in high school, a senior citizen, or anywhere in between, I hope you won’t “hit snooze” on God’s calling. He is faithful, and He will see you through. Amen and amen. Y
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OUTSIDE IN
by CHRIS BATES
When it’s frozen
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hunting season, we experienced several dawns of frozen ground, water and air. It can be invigorating, and the earth lets you know you’re alive, since you have an awareness of the fact that it can truly be dangerous. It seems you pay a bit more attention to your steps while wading through the water and the fragility of life. We take every precaution against hypothermia, communicate with one another, and make sure we have a plan for safety. The animals and the ground behave differently too. Birds and bugs move into slivers of sunshine and nestle together for warmth. Each breath produces moisture and makes the breeze visible. The harshness of it, though, is that the ground and water become hard, and nothing grows or moves. Much of life has to simply pause and survive. Life can become frozen too. It can be a job that feels like a dead end, or a relationship that seems more like a fence than a boat ride. Health issues, financial struggles, addiction, parenting challenges and even geography can be yokes keeping us in place, feeling frozen or unable to move. Our inclination is often to tackle the symptoms. Surely it will feel better with this job change, or by finding a new person to connect with. These pills that the doctor prescribed to make the pain go away today are the answer, or maybe moving locations will change the outlook. While sometimes changes in environment or habit are needed, they most often are not going to the roots of larger life patterns that restrain us. The path forward is not
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verything is different when the world around you is frozen. This past
The frozen Mississippi Delta.
always about trying to unfreeze the earth around us, but it is far more about how we thrive where we stand. I vividly remember packing my old two-door 4Runner with most of what I owned and driving out of my college town. I had failed out (again) and burned up a great relationship, several friendships and many opportunities. I just knew that a move across the country to Oregon would fix my lostness. A few years later, I looked back and realized I’d dragged my chains there with me, and that the geographic Band-Aid did not fix the core issues that were gripping me like ice shackles. Those core issues had to be dealt with first, with lots of help, in order to begin moving in new directions. God saw fit that help would come, but I had to do my part to get unfrozen. The real work was to happen from the inside out. The book of James of is a favorite because it’s largely about taking action. It’s one of many places in the Word that tell us how to become
unfrozen. James 4:8 begins with, “Come near to God and He will come near to you,” and it makes sense that we must take the first step toward Him. From there, the resources are many to help us continue to surrender, get to the roots of our troubles, and find new paths. Church, small groups, therapy, 12-step programs and accountability groups are but a few of the tools we can use to stop doing patch work and start doing real work. The most essential element to moving away from being stuck and mired is knowing we can’t do it alone. We never have to be alone, because God’s promise is that He is always there. By using His strength and connecting with others, we can find His grace and a newness that we never imagined. Y Chris Bates is CEO and co-founder of AgoraEversole a full-service marketing agency in Jackson, and can be reached at Chris@AgoraEversole.com. He and his wife, Stacy, and their children live in Madison.
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‘Gethsemane’ Gethsemane — What an incredible place! Where Christ, in love, displayed His Grace! Salvation was ultimately settled there … When Jesus fell to His knees in prayer! “Your will, and not Mine, Be Done!” Was the cry of God’s own Son! He agreed to pay the price for me … Right there on His knees, at Gethsemane! In a place called Gethsemane’s garden … Jesus decided to seal my pardon! The agony and sorrow He felt in that hour — Must have almost exceeded his power! But, it didn’t exceed His love for me … That love was quite evident at Gethsemane! Christ had a choice in those fateful hours … To give up His own life in exchange for ours! Praise God He loved us and set us free! And Thank You, Jesus, for Gethsemane! The weight of the world was upon Him that day As he knelt in Gethsemane’s garden to pray! “Father, take this cup from me? “He pled …” While sweat drops of blood fell from His head! He’d asked His disciples to stand watch, and pray … But they fell asleep as He walked away. So alone, with His Father, down on His knees — Our salvation was sealed at Gethsemane! Peggy and Gene Brown
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MODERN MOTHERHOOD
by SARAH REIN
I can’t produce perfect kids — and that’s OK
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hen our oldest child was born,
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I suddenly became a parenting expert. I read books about attachment parenting, baby-led weaning, breastfeeding and developmental milestones. I made homemade baby food, rocked her through every nap, and purchased organic crib bedding. It took several months for me to take her to the church nursery; when I did, I took homemade crackers so they wouldn’t feed her Goldfish. Imagine the look those workers gave each other when I left. The fact that I don’t remember my mother, my husband or my mother-in-law ever pointing out that I’d lost my mind is a credit to them. As our daughter grew, my confidence began to falter. Why couldn’t I get her to sleep through the night? Was it time to take away the pacifier? Should we get ear tubes, or wait it out? I read more books and became frustrated when they didn’t work. I was doing things right ... so why wasn’t she getting with the program? What more did I need to do?
“ I still struggle with the idea
that I have the power to produce polite, smart, well-rounded children who love God and pick up their dirty clothes.
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I laugh now when I think about my newmom crazy phase. I’m no longer under the illusion that I know what I’m doing, or that it would work if I did. We have four children whom I homeschool, and I recently caught myself asking my older kids if anyone knew where the 2year-old was. Not to worry — his 8-year-old sister had given him an iPad because she thought he was being too loud, and he was hiding behind a chair with it. Children have a way of putting you in your place like few other things in life. With each passing year, I’m realizing that most of the things I’ve anguished over haven’t made any difference. My children are imperfect humans being parented by imperfect humans, and nothing short of sanctification by the Holy Spirit will improve that. I still struggle with the idea that I have the power to produce polite, smart, well-rounded children who love God and pick up their dirty clothes. Maybe if I have them memorize the
Back, from left: Stuart, Sarah and Trey Rein. Front, from left: Vivian, John Ready, and Eliza Rein.
right verse or come up with a better routine, everything will fall into place. I have to check my motives regularly. Am I homeschooling because I think it will guarantee their salvation? Am I feeding them organic food (sometimes) because I think it’ll guarantee their health? Yes, parents, we have been tasked with “training up a child in the way he should go” (Proverbs 22:6). But let’s remind ourselves often that God is sovereign, and it is He alone who saves. As Paul David Tripp wrote in his book “Parenting” (that one is actually worth reading): “So your hope as a parent is not found in your power, your wisdom, your character, your experience, or your success, but in this one thing alone: the presence of your Lord.” Y
Sarah Rein and her husband, Trey, are raising their four children in Brandon, where Trey is a school principal and Sarah is home a LOT. Luckily she’s an introvert who enjoys reading and learning about new things and people. The Reins love their church family at Lakeside Presbyterian and coffee.
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LIVING MY CALL
by ANNA CLAIRE O’CAIN
Loving on little acorns “You could be having a hard time, or something be going on outside of work, and you just walk in and those children just light up your face. They’re so curious, and everything in the world is just fascinating to them. They have so much energy.” Serving the children at Little Acorns also allows Ashley to live out her faith daily. “I pray for the kids I work with,” she says. “(There are) a lot of different stories that you hear when working in childcare. (We) have children in the foster care system, we have children who don’t get to see their parents. ... I’ve really learned a lot about the power of prayer when (I) pray for these families.”
A group of kids at Little Acorns Child Development Center in Jackson.
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ucked away in Mississippi’s capital city is the state’s only privately owned
childcare center located in a federal space: Little Acorns, established in 1990 and located in the Dr. AH McCoy Federal Building. Little Acorns Center Director and Jackson native Ashley Elmore and staff are passionate about providing a nurturing and safe environment for infants, toddlers and preschoolers. Ashley shares how God’s perfect timing and her lifelong love for children have allowed her to live out her faith daily. “My little brother grew up with autism and he’s nonverbal,” Ashley says. “I’ve always just had a passion for working with children. I started volunteering with my church as a vacation Bible school leader, and when I got to college, I majored in child development and later got my master’s in early intervention. That (deals with) working with children that have developmental delays.” As her graduate program came to a close, Ashley began looking for a job so she could complete her internship. Due to the COVID-19 pandemic, her choices were limited. “Everything was pretty much virtual. Little 12 MARCH 2022 ❘ Mississippi Christian Living
Acorns really wasn’t working with early intervention necessarily, but I had that child development background. (They) were looking for a new director, so the timing was kind of perfect.” She says she felt a sense of home from the moment she walked in. “Everybody was so friendly and introduced themselves to me. All the staff members are great.” After completing her internship at Little Acorns and learning alongside the previous director, Ashley became center director in April 2021. “I didn’t even know that this place existed (before),” Ashley says. “It’s like a hidden gem, (which) is what a lot of parents have called it. ... Most people don’t even know a childcare center is there.” Another part of Little Acorns that stood out to Ashley was its accreditation and commitment to quality childcare. “It’s a NAEYC (National Association for the Education of Young Children) accredited school. They have had this accreditation since they have been open. (They) have the qualifications and exceed beyond every expectation I had ever had. The people that work there (and) the kids are wonderful,” she says.
“I’ve always just had a passion for working with children,” says Little Acorns Center Director Ashley Elmore, pictured here with the youngest members of her bridal party last summer.
As Ashley serves children, she says she owes much of her inspiration to her mom, a former nurse and teacher. “She’s (now) a full-time caretaker for my brother,” Ashley says. “(And) she is such a strong woman in her faith. (She) would always read Bible verses to me, and bedtime stories about the Bible. ... watching her use that to bless others is just incredible. (So) I just want to be so much like her.” Little Acorns’ hours are Monday-Friday 6:45 a.m. – 5:45 p.m. They currently have a few childcare openings and are seeking more teachers. For more information, call 601.965.4999 or visit littleacornsms.com. Y
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by JERRY BEAVERS
gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, ‘You sit here in a good place,’ while you say to the poor man, ‘You stand over there,’ or, ‘Sit down at my feet,’ have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts?” - James 2:1-4 One of the most disheartening emotions is to believe or “feel” that we’re not respected or valued. James makes it clear in his letter that to make such judgments based on appearance, social standing, or anything other than a person’s intrinsic value as an individual, is a sin. God’s commandment is to love Him without reservation and to love one another in a like manner. There you have it, the solution for racism and a multitude of other social ills. Yet why do we find such simple solutions so hard to apply? It could be we’re so full of pride, selfishness and lust (James again, 2:13 - 4:2), that we’d rather search for more complicated solutions so we can feel justified in not dealing with the real issues. I’m sure the people James was writing to were pricked by what he said. Apparently, they placed a great deal of value on wealth and position as to who was welcomed into their fellowship. Now there are honorable wealthy people who understand that their blessings come from God, but their acceptance should not be based on their wealth and position. I believe our social struggle with racism reveals the same sin in our hearts. When we love and respect one another based on God’s criteria, we’ll find solutions to what seem to be unsolvable problems. Are we willing to trust God’s Word, obey what we know to be true, and enjoy love, harmony and peace, or are we going to insist on finding a more “suitable” remedy that doesn’t deal with our sin? My wife and I have participated in Mission Mississippi activities over the years, and those we’ve found most rewarding are the opportunities to be “intentional” in our personal fellowship through meetings, meals,
and best of all, visiting other churches for prayer. Even prayer by Zoom has been special. We’ve developed relationships with those who are different from us in color but pretty much the same in most every other way. Skin color is not one of God’s criteria for loving each other.
“ God’s commandment is to love
Him without reservation and to love one another in a like manner. ... why do we find such simple solutions so hard to apply? It could be we’re so full of pride, selfishness and lust ... that we’d rather search for more complicated solutions so we can feel justified in not dealing with the real issues.
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A Mission Mississippi goal for 2022 is to go “deeper” in practicing those things which are true and productive in our struggle with racism. So how do we go deeper? It must go beyond the theoretical and become active. I think the key word is “intentional,” which is central in Mission Mississippi’s message. To go deeper in experiencing the benefits of respect, we must deal with our hearts and show respect in our attitudes, our speech, and our sensitivity to others, along with an awareness of its value in specific situations. We know what respect is; if not, we surely know when we’re disrespected. Let’s be honest, let’s show some trust in our wise God, and let’s not make it complicated. #DeeperRespect Y
Jerry Beavers was a pastor of Koinonia Ministries for 30 years. He and his family moved to the Jackson area in 1981. He is married to the former Barbara Keil; they have four children and 10 grandchildren. They are members of Highlands Presbyterian Church in Ridgeland and are involved in a variety of ministry activities. Jerry and Barbara have been involved in Mission Mississippi since its inception and have been profoundly blessed by the relationships they’ve developed over the years.
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HEALTH & WELLNESS
by CHRIS FIELDS
How to develop the will to obey
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ast year I set out to read the Bible all the way through for the first time.
This was a practice I’d heard other Christians boast about, but I always felt it was unnecessary. I already felt like a super Christian! I mean, I work out all the time, eat right, do my devotions every day. I even got up to more than 400 consecutive days on my Bible app before I forgot to open it one Friday (forgive me, Lord). I even get on my knees to pray! Every morning! I closed my eyes and raised my hands during the slow portion of worship. I even cried all the time during this portion of service, and I’m a 6’3” slab of muscle. I We all start journeys mean, I was on fire for the Lord, right? to better our health Plus, I was a church leader, leading small groups and stuff. Talking about Jesus all the time at church. (physical, mental and I was constantly listening to preachers and sermons. spiritual), but we often Reading the Bible all the way through couldn’t get don’t reach our me any closer to the Lord than I already was, so destination ... Whatever I thought. Then I felt my Christian growth plateauing and I your journey is, be it started running out of sermons to listen to and living healthier, being books to read. I ran out of groups to lead. I started more mentally astute searching for new ways to strive, to no avail. I didn’t and spiritually sound, have anything else to do but read the Bible all the or strengthening your way through, and oh, to my enlightenment! It was one of the best things I’ve ever done. walk with Christ, I urge Now this column isn’t about reading the Bible you to develop your all the way through, so let me pivot. The lesson I will to obey. learned through my journey in God’s Word was obedience, and not just obedience but having a will to obey. That’s the driving force behind developing discipline. We all start journeys to better our health (physical, mental and spiritual), but we often don’t reach our destination because we don’t develop our will to obey. Whatever your journey is, be it living healthier, being more mentally astute and spiritually sound, or strengthening your walk with Christ, I urge you to develop your will to obey. Here are three tips on how.
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• Grow your desire. The main way to grow your desires, in my experience, is to increase your knowledge base. Of course this should be knowledge that’s factual and in line with God’s truth, not just someone’s opinion. • Grow your understanding. Here is where you act on your newly obtained knowledge. It does you no good to just have knowledge. We are called to act in accordance with what we know. • Grow your humility. Maybe this one should be first. We never know as much as we think we know, and we’re never as close as we think we are. Just ask the Israelites Moses was leading to the promised land. We are called to follow. Christians = followers of Christ. Y
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COVER STORY
In summer 2008, Belhaven University President Roger Parrott approached MCL with an idea for a Christian scholarship program. Since then, Belhaven has partnered with us each year to honor Christian Leaders of the Future. Applications are reviewed by trusted believers, and we honor the finalists and winners at our awards program, to be held March 1 of this year. Check our Facebook page for the live announcement of the two winners, who will each receive $2,000! In the meantime, we hope these brief excerpts from the finalists’ recommendation letters and essays give you hope for what God is doing in Mississippi’s young people. Thank you to all our 2022 sponsors of Christian Leaders of the Future: Gold: Southern Farm Bureau Life Insurance Company Silver: Smiles By Design, Dr. Eugene Brown Bronze: Mississippi Fellowship of Christian Athletes Friends: Herrin-Gear Lexus; First Commercial Bank In-kind: Fresh Cut Catering & Floral; MMI Dining
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EMILY ADCOCK
REGAN FELDER
Madison Central High School St. Matthew’s United Methodist Church Parents: Michael and Sarah Adcock
Jackson Academy First Baptist Madison Parents: Bill and Kimberly Felder
“Emily’s servant heart was first revealed to me when a straight-line wind damaged our church grounds in 2018. She came with her family to help clear debris, and she worked with the determination and grit of a grownup! (Then this summer) Emily called to say she wanted to serve in Congregational Care Ministries. ... Not only does she bake cookies for our homebound members ... but she also communicates Christ’s love by sending them cards.” – Kay Schloemer, St. Matthew’s United Methodist “I feel like the community Paul advocates for (in Galatians 6) is key to the success of the church. We are called to ‘carry each other’s burdens,’ meaning we should support each other through issues. ... The honesty of sharing your burdens with other believers ultimately transforms into a deeper love of Christ.” – Emily Adcock
“Regan is inclusive and has a way of making people feel good and special about themselves. She is the type of girl that where she walks into a room it lights up and the people there are better because she is present.” – Alan Loving, student minister “(God) has given me joy, peace, and contentment with the life He has given me. Now, my biggest concern is allowing the Lord to continue molding my heart to be more like His, and I want everyone to know the radical, eternity-altering transformation that has taken place in my life.” – Regan Felder
CAITLYN CARNATHAN Saltillo High School First Baptist Church Tupelo Parents: Nik and Brandy Carnathan
“On a personal note, I have had the good fortune as a father to watch the impact that Caitlyn has had on my own daughter. As a senior on the Saltillo High School volleyball team and a leader on our softball team, I have seen Caitlyn take my daughter under her wing, mentor, and care for her in a time when most upperclassmen would never pay attention to an 8th or 9th grader.” – Casey Dye, principal “My favorite passage in the Bible is (when) Jesus is washing the disciples’ feet …. I created a motto for myself from this verse that says, ‘Be living proof of a loving God.’ I need to live a life of proof. One that serves others and puts their needs before mine.” – Caitlyn Carnathan
LAUREN ELDRED Hernando High School Crossroads Church, Hernando Parents: Thomas and Belinda Eldred
“(Lauren) displays Christian leadership through leading a girls’ middle school small group each (week). Lauren has built a mentor relationship with these girls. She studies scripture and takes her job seriously ... She also makes sure to welcome the girls into the group by making them feel special. She has attended school volleyball games and any other activity in which they participate.” – Geri Hill, youth pastor “Sometimes the unconvinced just need to be loved. They need to see the true love of Jesus, and I hope that I can show them that. Jesus changed my life beyond what I could have ever imagined, and I want everyone else to experience that same kind of life change and unconditional love.” – Lauren Eldred
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AVERY FORET Purvis High School Good Hope Baptist Church, Purvis Parents: Guy Foret, Tiffany Hudson
“Avery sets and performs at incredibly high standards in all (aspects) of life. Ironically, her standards are never selfish. Everything she does is an effort to help, serve, and better the people and community around her. Ms. Avery is and will continue to be a blessing to every person, school, and organization in her path.” – Michael Wilson, Gulf Coast Community Ministries “Above my work life, I deeply want to create a family of my own and lead my own children to Christ and teach them how to love others more than themselves. While I would love to have my own children, I also would love to foster children ranging from newborns to teenagers, attempting to give love and comfort to youth that have already experienced so many challenges in their young lives.” – Avery Foret
ELIZABETH GANN Itawamba Agricultural High School Itawamba Christian Church, Fulton Parents: Greg and Caryn Gann
“What few spare moments (Elizabeth) has in our busy pharmacy, she seeks opportunities to keep workflow going. ... In a time where many people her age are running from the workforce, I remain impressed with her very immediate desire to be the first to grab the customer at the pharmacy’s drive-thru window or the inside counter.” – Cyndi Bowen, pharmacy manager “When people realize that Christ wants them, and that He rejoices over a single soul that is won for Him, they know that they have someone who truly loves them — someone who wants them, holds them, and cares for them when the world shuts them out, and someone who was willing to die ... so that they could be saved from their sins. I believe that so many people in the world today feel that they are not worthy of love, and I hope to show them that that is the furthest thing from true.” – Elizabeth Gann
Karson Lowery Karson, we are so very thankful for you and who you are! You want so much for people to see Jesus in you. Keep sharing Jesus, keep being a light and keep planting seeds. You are an absolute blessing and joy! Love Dad, Mom and Kendall
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KATE GANN
JM HOLMES
Itawamba Agricultural High School Itawamba Christian Church, Fulton Parents: Greg and Caryn Gann
Hartfield Academy Pinelake Church, Brandon Parents: Jason and Sunday Holmes
“Whether it be cleaning up after others, getting equipment out, or taking trash out, Kate is always willing to do the little things that sometimes go unnoticed. Personally, my wife and I always talk about how we like for Kate and her sister Liz to babysit our daughter simply because we hope some of her character and goodness rubs off.” – Randy Earnest, cross-country and track coach “I personally believe that the number one way to reach the lost is to invest in building relationships. ... This year at school, I have started sitting with students who sit alone at lunch. Jesus ministered to the outcasts; He ate with sinners, touched the lepers, and forgave an adulterer. We are called to walk as Jesus walked.” – Kate Gann
“JM transferred in the middle of his junior year, and from the moment he stepped on campus, he brought a gospelfueled light and Christ-centered perspective ... He has an outspoken love for his Savior that is contagious, and the effect on his peers is evident. Within just a few short weeks, he organized a once-a-week prayer group of his new peers that continues to grow.” – Blakeney Hatcliff, teacher and theatre director “Paradoxically I sometimes think (obeying God) will drain life from me, but God is gracious to promise that as I lose my life to Him, I will stumble upon a wonderful encounter with the God who loves me ... This is a great encouragement to remember when I think God’s will simply isn’t worth it.” – JM Holmes
GRACIE GUEST Lafayette High School Community Church Oxford Parents: Josh and Heather Guest
“Gracie has guided my girls in being confident in themselves by (pointing) them to Bible verses or studies that prove God’s love. She also hosts a girl’s Bible study on Sunday nights that my oldest daughter attends. ... She always uses the Bible as a reference for where she will lead from. ... I am thankful that she has become a part of our family.” – Kayla Martin, employer “The Christian leader that has impacted me the most in my life is Misty Parmer, the children’s director at my church. ... There are many people who will ignore you when you talk to them and, afterwards, try to give you the advice they were waiting to give ... (Ms. Misty) not only listens, she hears. And after that, she speaks wisdom over me.” – Gracie Guest
OLIVIA HANBY Tupelo High School St. James Catholic Church, Tupelo Parents: Doug and Rhonda Hanby
“(Olivia) has joy because she tries her best to see the good in this world and focuses on others. (She) not only leads by example, but for the past two years, she has organized a Bible Study for girls ... only asking my permission. I, of course, said yes! It was life giving.” – Mary Frances Strange, youth minister “There was one night where all of my best friends stood praising God’s name during worship. ... I was incredibly humbled and realized that Jesus Christ is our Lord and Savior who died for the sins that I have committed. While I grew up memorizing this idea, it never really hit me until that moment.” – Olivia Hanby
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CATHERINE HOOD Hernando High School Hernando Baptist Church Parents: Lloyd and Tara Hood
“Catherine has been a leader in the life group since she entered. Her care for others, especially the unchurched, is unmatched. She will always sacrifice her time to make sure that a guest feels welcome and loved.” – Chad Fowler, life group teacher “One of the biggest things I hear from non-Christians is that us Christians are hypocrites. I plan to live my life as a full Christian, not just a part-time one. I do not want different people to see a different me. ... It is my goal to stay humble and always love others, even when they do not love me.” – Catherine Hood
ABBY HUFF Jackson Preparatory School First Baptist Jackson Parents: Josh and Cameron Huff
“One of the better leadership qualities (Abby) has is the ability to let her (FCA) team do their jobs too without micromanaging. (At Jackson Prep) I was fortunate enough to have a head coach who trusted me to do my job without staring over my shoulders ... So I understand the importance of leaders surrounding themselves with good help.” – Shane Bennett, Fellowship of Christian Athletes “God has blessed me with a multitude of strong Christian leaders in all areas of my life, but the one that comes to my mind first is my grandfather, Buddy Huff. ... Leaving church on Sunday mornings, it’s a common occurrence that someone asks the question, “Where’s Pop?” Nine times out of ten, he has stopped to talk to someone else, genuinely seeking ways that he can help them. His heart is big, and it all comes from the overflow of the love he has for Jesus!” – Abby Huff
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KIRKLYN JOHNSON
EMERSON LOVE
Houston High School House of Mercy Worship Center, Houston, MS Parents: Stan and Shalandor Johnson
Tupelo High School Harrisburg Baptist Church, Tupelo Parents: Drew and Jennifer Love
“Kirklyn is an outgoing young man that goes out of his way to talk to every person that he can. He greets most students by name daily. He is always positive, no matter what is going on in his life. Kirklyn is always willing to talk or pray with anyone who may need it.” – William Cook, principal “At the age of three years old, I was diagnosed with autism. ... I walk every day by faith knowing that God’s power is greater than any diagnosis I may have, and every single day I choose to live in that truth. I went from low-functioning and needing to be in special inclusion classes to on track and graduating with honors.” – Kirklyn Johnson
“Many people, especially young students, think of worship leading as a stage or a platform for their fame, but Emerson never saw it that way. Much like in her personal life, Emerson shies away from the spotlight, giving glory to Jesus, where it belongs.” – Cole Gandenberger, former student ministry associate “Music has been important to me my whole life. Before I understood how God gives us each unique spiritual gifts, I was unsure of my purpose. After He revealed to me what He had in store for me, I fell in love with leading worship. I believe that God has called me to lead people to Him through music; I can’t see a future without worship being a part of it.” – Emerson Love
CHLOE KNIPPERS
KARSON LOWERY
Richland High School Pinelake Church, Brandon Parents: Jason and Melissa Knippers
Central Hinds Academy First Baptist Raymond, Pinelake Clinton Parents: Shannon and Anna Lowery
“(Chloe) has been placed in a leadership role with her peers (at the Richland High School Fire Academy) and she has never been satisfied with less than her absolute best. In times where this said training tested her resolve, she (bore) witness that selfsacrifice, hard work, and determination alone are not enough without the Light of Christ to guide us.” – Deputy Chief Todd Muli, Clinton Fire Department “I have always known that I wanted to help people. ... After entering the RHS Fire Academy, I realized that having a career in fire service is where God is leading me. I am now following my dreams and pursuing this career to become a paramedic and firefighter. I want to continue to help people and be the person they need.” – Chloe Knippers
“Karson took (my daughter) under her wing and taught her softball skills, and encouraged her walk with Christ through devotions and by leading the team by example. She always made sure that the younger girls felt like a part of the team, and she was always cheering them on during their game.” – Tyanne McCoy, teacher “I feel God calling me into a career of orthotics and prosthetics. I want to measure the patients, order their supplies, and help them use their new brace or limb in their daily lives. When I was in eighth grade, I fractured a vertebra in my back and fell in love with everything about orthotics. (Helping) people and having an opportunity to spread the gospel is all I want to do.” – Karson Lowery
HAILEY LOTT
SUMMER MAY
Lewisburg High School Compel Church, Olive Branch Parents: Stewart and Lisa Lott
Seminary High School The Springs Church, Sumrall; Magnolia Baptist Church, Hattiesburg Parents: Jason May, Lisa Carroll
“(Hailey has) taken invitations to Compel Youth’s monthly gathering to sporting events to invite classmates, and volunteered her time on school nights to set up and tear down from these events. Simply put, she has a servant’s heart. I’ve witnessed her pray over friends and peers through difficult times and lead others in worship as well.” – Bethany Williams, girls youth leader “(My youth leader Jay Williams) threw me into certain things such as leading youth groups even if it was uncomfortable. He knows that people need a community, and he makes sure that everyone feels welcome .… I hope I will do the same thing someday for a young girl who longs for a (fulfilling) relationship with Christ.” – Hailey Lott
“(Summer asked to) lead devotion after cheer practice, and I agreed. She would study, prepare, and stay after even if it was only a handful of girls there ... Many days, I felt as if the devotion was sent to me by God.” – Joannie Harrell, coach and teacher “Last year I didn’t have many friends …. but my cheer coach, Ms. Joannie, and I became very close. ... I was always welcome at her house, and I always knew that if I ever needed to talk to anybody or needed anything, she was my girl. (She) had faith in me and made me feel seen ... She has inspired me to have that impact on others.” – Summer May
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Abby Huff
Congratulations, JM Holmes! We love you and can't wait to see what God does through you! Mom, Dad, Sarah Sunday, Josh, Big Pop, Mimi, Grandpa, and BonBon
We are so excited to see what God has planned for your future!
“For I am confident of this very thing, that He who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus."
We love you, Abby! Mom, Dad, Cacky, Logan, Holt, Lulu, Sugie, Pop, and Peanut
–Philippians 1:6
CONGRATULATIONS to our JA seniors,
REGAN FELDER, ANNA CARLISLE NICHOLS, and JOHN WICKS III,
named as finalists among Mississippi Christian Living magazine’s
CHRISTIAN LEADERS OF THE FUTURE.
JACKSONACADEMY.ORG
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MCKENZIE MCWILLIAMS
ISABELLA REYNOLDS
Madison Central High School Greater Bethlehem Temple Apostolic Church, Jackson Parents: Makeicha and Donald Ray McWilliams
Germantown High School Colonial Heights Baptist Church, Ridgeland Parents: Cliff and Leslie Reynolds
“McKenzie has contributed to (our) ministry in attendance (at) meetings, community service outreach to nursing homes (and teen) shelters, designing and making blankets for the elderly (and participation) in (church youth missions) events. (I’ve) had the pleasure to watch her mature into a lovely and intelligent young woman.” – Michelle Aldridge, facilitator, Bethany Ministries “When I was younger, my mom was the host of the coolest science camp for the children in the church and community. We would spend the entire summer learning about the wonders of God through science. It was there that I learned how to use black lights and cool science experiments to minister the word of God to my peers.” – McKenzie McWilliams
“Isabella has a love for others and a love for life. She is sensitive to feelings and a good listener. She always has a smile on her face and something positive to say. ... She continually puts others’ needs ahead of her own. ... Knowing her and watching her grow has been a pleasure.” – Dana Kinsley, teacher and yearbook sponsor “(In college) I want to be intentional by holding myself accountable to know the Word, so when I am asked those hard questions, I can do my best to help give the most biblically accurate answer I can. As well as putting myself in uncomfortable situations for the sake of something greater than myself, spreading the Kingdom of Heaven.” – Isabella Reynolds
ANNA CARLISLE NICHOLS Jackson Academy Fondren Church, Jackson Parent: Ashley Nichols
“Anna Carlisle is a student who sets a tone for other students. Girls in our youth group admire her and want to imitate her. It gives me joy to know her heart and walk is what I would want my daughter to imitate.” – Allison Barnhill, youth group leader “I thought God was a sort of genie in a bottle or Santa Claus type figure. On some days, I even thought God was more of a police officer or Supreme Court judge. It wasn’t until after my conversation with (my youth pastor, Daniel Wagner) that I truly realized who God is: father, friend, salvation, hope, freedom, love, and so much more. When I finally realized who God is, I decided that I wanted to truly know Him and live my life for Him.” – Anna Carlisle Nichols
ARIELLE ROBINSON Germantown High School Greater Saint Matthew Missionary Baptist Church, Canton Parents: Michael and Nia Robinson
“I have found Arielle’s character to be above reproach, stain or blemish. In difficult situations, without prompting, Arielle takes on a leadership role mediating sustainable solutions for all involved.” – Raymond Rideout, former teacher “My pastor, who is also my father, is the Christian leader that has influenced me the most. I have witnessed firsthand a consistent selflessness and valuing others above himself. I have seen how he handles conflicts and how he seeks to find the good in every situation. I have seen how my father takes on the burdens of others while giving of himself all the time ... My dad is my hero as he has demonstrated what love should look like.” – Arielle Robinson
LAURA BETH PARKER
JOSIE SMITH
Germantown High School Grace Crossing Baptist Church, Canton Parents: Eric and Crissy Parker
Madison-Ridgeland Academy Pinelake Church, Madison Parents: Jason and Beth Smith
“I have not seen many students buy into what they believe the way that Laura Beth has. She is always eager to learn and grow ... She is not content where she is in her walk with Jesus, she is consistently desiring more. (The) culture of our student ministry would not be the way that it is without people like Laura Beth.” – Luke Comfort, student pastor “I believe (God) is calling me to pursue a career in foster care or mental health. All of my life, I have been surrounded by children in the foster system ... A career in a nonprofit organization (would) allow me to work hands-on with systems and children and watch connections form with families and children.” – Laura Beth Parker
“I have seen (Josie) transform a friend group and a small group with her love for the Lord. She is compassionate and has a heart like Jesus that fights for the outcast. ... She is honest. I have witnessed her facilitate conversations with peers that led to growth and forgiveness.” – Tatum Willis, student minister “I am pretty confident that God is calling me into social work/counseling at a children’s hospital. I know firsthand what it feels like to be sick and need someone to talk to in the most vulnerable and scary moments of a serious diagnosis. I believe that my experience, as well as my natural giftings ... will help me be successful in a career like that.” – Josie Smith
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Congratulations, Anna Carlisle!
We love you! Mom, Livvie, Webb and Elizabeth
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Congratulations, McKenzie McWilliams! We are super proud of you. Love Mom, Dad, Julia, and Miley
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HUNTER THOMPSON
EMMA WILEMON
Madison-Ridgeland Academy Madison Heights Church, PCA Parents: Tom and Amber Thompson
Itawamba Agricultural High School Mount Pleasant Baptist Church, Fulton Parents: Bryon and Jeannine Wilemon
“I have coached (more than) 1,700 kids in my career, and Hunter is ABSOLUTELY one of the highest-character kids I have been around. ... Not only do I adore Hunter, her AAU teammates do too, and most importantly, her rival players at other high schools. This is something that I don’t see very often.” – Henry Gatz, basketball coach “My best friend, Peyton Young, has been the biggest Christian influence in my life. ... Peyton was the first person to make me realize that my faith was superficial. ... Peyton loved everyone, and she didn’t care how it made her look to hang out with the ‘unpopular’ crowd. ... Peyton showed me how to be a good Christian friend; be consistent and real.” – Hunter Thompson
“On our (mission) trips to Pikeville, Kentucky, Emma was one of the students who took part in the Shoes of Hope Day. We not only gave new shoes to needy children, but shared Christ with them in a one-on-one setting. Even though she was a middle-school student at the time, Emma was bold enough to be one of the students who shared Christ with the children.” – Tim Holsonback, pastor “Since I was saved, I have had doubts of my salvation ... Whenever these came up, I thought I was alone, abnormal, or even that there was something wrong with me. No one I knew my age ever expressed their doubts ... but once I found (James 1:2-4), I knew I was not alone. I realized that (these) challenges I had gone through were not in vain, but they were meant to draw me closer to Christ.” – Emma Wilemon
JOHN WICKS III Jackson Academy Mount Nebo Baptist Church Parents: John and Felice Wicks
“Prior to the pandemic, John spent countless hours of his summer serving younger children and families who visited the (museum). He has assisted in the galleries, conducted programs and art activities, assisted in prepping for events, (and) showed compassion to children who were exhibiting various learning and developmental delays.” – Monique Ealey, Mississippi Children’s Museum “I paid close attention to the way (my father) would inflect his voice to make key points (in sermons). I loved how he explained the stories of the Bible …. I would come home, stand before the fireplace, and preach my own sermons. (I) plan to study journalism and pre-law in college so that I might possibly use my voice to inform and uplift.” – John Wicks III
ERIN WIGGINGTON Saltillo High School Saltillo First United Methodist Church Parents: Tim and Kelly Wiggington
“I have observed firsthand Erin’s witness while living out her faith. One of Erin’s passions is to work with special needs students through our school REACH club. Erin encourages these students as they seek to participate in activities that the average human takes for granted.” – Deana Jackson, school library media specialist “I believe that God is calling me to pursue a degree in fashion design and merchandising. Too many women have bought into the lie that putting themselves out there in a provocative way is the only way to be noticed ... I hope to own my own brand that (would) show women that they can still dress cute and trendy without abandoning their morals and values in Christ.” – Erin Wiggington 28 MARCH 2022 ❘ Mississippi Christian Living
MARGARET WINGO Hartfield Academy Eureka Baptist Church, Lena Parents: Floyd and Sylvia Wingo
“Even as a child, Margaret had an unwavering faith in her Savior and a steadfast sense of right and wrong that has only strengthened in wisdom and grace as she has grown into a young woman. Coupled with her warm demeanor and servantheartedness, these attributes have made her a natural leader and drawn her peers to seek her advice and biblical knowledge.” – Blakeney Hatcliff, teacher “In this increasingly hostile and agnostic world, I plan to continue living out loud for Christ. (When my faith is challenged), I will go back to the one thing keeping me running, God. (I’ll) return to those who know God and know me. ... My plan for living out my faith is keeping grounded in what I know to be true and trusting God with the rest.” – Margaret Wingo
CARSON YODER Germantown High School Pinelake Church, Madison Parents: Dow Yoder, Melinda Yoder
“(Carson) has a lot to do with his academic success and accomplishments. Not only that, he’s an individual that displays resilience, and that is often a far better predictor of success than any test score or award.” – Nancy McCullough, guidance counselor “People still look down on Christians and find them to be judgmental. I was that person, and I thought I would be judged. However ... I was sheltered by grace and love. I was told that I was not the only one who has sinned. ... I feel that to reach others and bring them to God, I will need to do the same.” – Carson Yoder Y
Isabella Reynolds
Emma, We are so proud of you and all of your accomplishments! Love you, Mom, Dad & Jake “Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” – Ephesians 4:32
We are so proud of you and the young woman you have become! Remember to always seek God first and everything else will fall into place. We love you, Dad, Mom, Bethany, Nathan, Mamaw and Papaw
Congratscuhollataiorsnshitpo ourfinalclisatss! of 2022 We are excited to see how God will use each of you. mschristianliving.com ❘ MARCH 2022 29
FOOD FOR THOUGHT
submitted by THE GARDEN CLUB OF JACKSON
Veggie faves inspired by Miss Welty
W
ith spring’s arrival, Mississippi gardeners’ thoughts overflow
with visions of fruits and vegetables. Strawberries, onions and tomatoes were garden favorites of Pulitzer Prize-winning author Eudora Welty, who enjoyed tending her Belhaven garden and often had fresh strawberries for breakfast or a sliced tomato sandwich for lunch.
Below are two recipes: one from Welty herself, shared with the Junior League of Jackson for their 1978 “Southern Sideboards” cookbook, and the other by Jane Gerber, inspired by Miss Welty. The Eudora Welty property is the beneficiary of The Garden Club of Jackson’s 2022 Spring Garden Tour (see facing page). Y
YEAST DOUGH ⅓ 1 ½ 1½ ½ 1 3
EUDORA WELTY’S ONION PIE *Use purchased crust or make from scratch
CRUST Lump of butter, size of an egg 1 rounded teaspoon lard 1 heaping teaspoon baking powder Salt 1 fairly heaping cup sifted flour Cold sweet milk 1 egg yolk (optional) FILLING 3 large sweet Spanish onions 1 large tablespoon butter 1 teaspoon flour Salt and pepper 2 eggs 1 cup whipping cream
CRUST: Work together the softened butter, lard, baking powder, salt and flour. Add enough cold sweet milk to make a good firm dough. Wellbeaten yolk of an egg may be added if desired. Line an 8-inch pie plate with rolled pastry. FILLING: Shave onions fine; fry in butter to a nice brown, really brown and much reduced. Add flour. Stir well; salt and pepper to taste. Beat the eggs till pretty light; mix with cupful cream; fold them into the fried onions gently till perfectly mixed. Pour into the crust and bake about 30 minutes or till brown and puffy at about 400 degrees F. Serve at once. Serves 4.
TOMATO AND CARAMELIZED ONION GALETTE *Use purchased crust or make from scratch
A galette is a rustic pie made with a free-form pastry. A tender yeast dough works best for this vegetable galette. FILLING 2½ pounds sweet onions, coarsely chopped 6 fresh thyme sprigs, or 2 pinches dried thyme ¼ cup good olive oil Salt and pepper 1 tablespoon minced fresh rosemary, or 1 teaspoon dried 3 ounces goat cheese 1 pound cherry or grape tomatoes, sliced crosswise 1 large egg, beaten
In a large, heavy, nonreactive saucepan, cook onions and thyme over moderate heat, stirring once or twice, until onions start to turn golden, about 15 minutes. Add 3 tablespoons olive oil, cover and cook over low heat, scraping the pan every 10 minutes, until onions are browned, about 1 hour. Season with salt, pepper and about 2 teaspoons of rosemary. Let cool. Reserve remaining ingredients.
cup lukewarm water (105-115 degrees) teaspoon active dry yeast teaspoon sugar cups all-purpose flour teaspoon salt large egg, room temperature tablespoons unsalted butter, softened
Stir together water, yeast and sugar. Let stand until bubbly. In another bowl, toss flour with salt and make a well in the center. Add egg, softened butter, and the yeast mixture to the well in the center. Using a wooden spoon, stir the flour into the liquid ingredients to form a soft dough. Turn out onto a floured surface and knead briefly until smooth. Transfer dough to a lightly buttered bowl, cover with plastic wrap and allow to rise until doubled, about 45 minutes. Plunge your fist into middle of dough to deflate it, and let it rest briefly before rolling out. On a lightly floured baking sheet without sides, roll out dough into a 14-inch round. Spread filling mixture over dough, leaving a 2inch border. Dot goat cheese over the filling and overlap the sliced tomatoes in a ring. Season tomatoes with salt and pepper, and drizzle with remaining tablespoon of olive oil. Wrap edges of dough over the filling, pleating dough with your fingers. (Center of galette will remain uncovered.) Brush dough with beaten egg to achieve glossy shine on baked galette. Bake in 400-degree preheated oven until crust is golden, about 20 minutes. Sprinkle with fresh rosemary; serve hot or warm. Makes a 12-inch galette.
Jane Gerber is a longtime member of The Garden Club of Jackson and Cereus Weeder at the Eudora Welty House & Garden. She is widely known for her gourmet cooking, floral designs, and photography, and raises flowers and vegetables at her Jackson home. 30 MARCH 2022 ❘ Mississippi Christian Living
COMMUNITY OUTREACH
by OUIDA DRINKWATER and SUSAN SHANDS JONES
The Garden Club of Jackson’s Spring Garden Tour
Spring Garden Tour 2022 Members of The Garden Club of Jackson planning for the Spring Garden Tour are (from left) President Hollidae Morrison, Katy Creath, June Stone, Charlotte McNeel, Collette McIntyre and Robin Kennedy.
T
he Garden Club of Jackson’s 12th biennial garden tour, happening April 6-7, provides the perfect trifecta
for getting outside this spring to embrace nature, observe clever and beautiful landscape designs, and glean ideas to try at home. The two-day tour in Meadowbrook Highlands will feature four homes and five gardens that vary from playful to contemporary, from formal French to minimalist to a Japaneseinspired meditation garden. Tour chairs are Collette McIntyre and Evie Hines. The GCJ tour will be held rain or shine from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m., Wednesday and Thursday. Tour tickets, $20, may be purchased beginning March 1 at The Everyday Gourmet or on the club’s website. Meadowbrook Highlands, a premier Jackson neighborhood, was established circa 1980 but with roots dating back to when Angelo Kenneth “Pop” Primos purchased the property in 1945 as a family homesite. Family is a theme that reverberates through the 2022 tour, including the honorary chairs, sisters and avid gardeners Carolyn Newman McIntyre and Barbara Newman Kroeze, longtime GCJ members. Gardens and homes on tour include Meadowbrook Highlands’ Japanese Garden, Shirley and Rick Griffin, Ashley and Douglas Hindman, Madalyn and Steve Hindman, and Martha Jo and Greg Vance.
Information and tickets for the boxed lunch by Newk’s Eatery, and the two after-hours events, can be found at gardenclubofjackson.com. Tickets for lunch and special events must be purchased in advance. Tour headquarters will be at 4000 Ridgewood Road to purchase tickets, park, and ride the shuttle to Meadowbrook Highlands. Proceeds from the 2022 tour will restore the garage at the Tudor Revival home of perhaps Mississippi’s most famous gardener, Eudora Welty (1919-2001), transforming it into classroom space for horticultural activities and workshops. Since 1993, GCJ fundraisers have raised over $215,000, in addition to sweat equity, to conserve, beautify and enhance a variety of Jackson landmarks and gardens.
WE THANK OUR SPONSORS FOR THEIR SUPPORT: Title Meredith and Jimmy Creekmore Kathy and Joe Sanderson Fresh Cut Catering and Floral
April 6 & April 7 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. Rain or Shine Meadowbrook Highlands
Tour $20, Reserved Lunch $20
gardenclubofjackson.com Lunch tickets, Special Events tickets, and Group tickets must be purchased in advance.
Gardens and Homes on Tour Meadowbrook Japanese Garden Shirley and Rick Griffin Ashley and Douglas Hindman Madalyn and Steve Hindman Martha Jo and Greg Vance (GCJ member art show)
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TOUGH QUESTIONS
by DR. FRED HALL, LPC
My daughter wants to attend a party school QUESTION: My child’s preferred college is a ‘party school.’ She’s a good kid, but easily influenced. Do I make her go somewhere else, or take a risk? ANSWER: Thanks for the interesting question, reader. Of course the answer is not easy. I would say, “Yes and no.” I think it depends on your daughter. You know her and how she is psychologically, spiritually, physically and interpersonally made up. Could she handle a party atmosphere and come out unscathed? Could she go to a predominantly Christian college and find a party or unhealthy environment anyway? Both are possible. The key is to know, understand, and guide your daughter. Know your child. Does she listen and follow your expectations and have a spirit of gentleness, or is she a risk taker, boundary breaker or free spirit? If the latter, you caution and warn against the dangers of being spiritually or relationally inflammatory. If she is mostly compliant, then trust that you’ve done the hard work of parenting good enough. Trust God with the rest. Distractions vs. focus: Can your teen daughter self-manage and self-regulate her emotions and time? The answer stems from her ability (real or perceived) to focus, stay focused, or get distracted. Is she a serious student or easily persuaded? Work with her on focus and self-management. This brings up the idea of your student establishing autonomy from you and her family of origin. This is a milestone in her life, and she wants to make her own way. Give her the tools she needs to establish “inter-dependence” with you, her family, and her new environment. She is right at the beginning of “adulting” — doing grownup things because
they make sense to her. Give her the support, counsel and framework she needs to be successful. Don’t do the work and make the decisions for her. Let her do some or all of it herself with your guidance. These are necessary mental and emotional places she must go to and become familiar with as an adult. Give her a long runway to get ready for adulthood. Again, this leans heavily on your child’s makeup. If she is easily influenced, I would caution against enrolling her at a “party school.” If you use the power of influence, then influence “up” rather than “down.” Find good friends, groups on campus, churches, and supports in the college town that could be an adjunct to your values for your child. Point her in that direction. Lastly, establish a new level of communication with your adult child. Be supportive. Encourage her. Let her struggle with decisions. Let her feel the freedom to tell you anything, good or bad. This will help her trust you when she’s older. You’re still the parent, but the way you communicate will need to change. Trust God with your teen. Give her your expectation. Inspect what you expect. She will thank you for it. Y
“ Does she listen
(and) have a spirit of gentleness, or is she a risk taker, boundary breaker or free spirit? ”
Dr. Fred Hall is a licensed professional counselor (LPC), supervisor, life and leadership coach and consultant. He works with individuals, couples, families and organizations in training, speaking, consulting and clinical practice. He does clinical work at Cornerstone Counseling in Jackson.
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I have been crucified with Christ, and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. ~ GALATIANS 2:20, CSB
But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant.
See to it, night and day, that you pray for your children. Then you will leave them a great legacy of answers to prayer, which will follow them all the days of their life. Then you may calmly and with a good conscience depart from them, even though you may not leave them a great deal of material wealth. ~Ole Hallesby
~ LUKE 22:26, NLT
The Spirit of the Lord God is on me, because the Lord has anointed me to bring good news to the poor. He has sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives and freedom to the prisoners. ~ ISAIAH 61:1, CSB
For in him we live and move and exist. As some of your own poets have said, “We are his offspring.” ~ ACTS 17:28, NLT
Then he said to me, “This is the word of the LORD to Zerub′babel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the LORD of hosts.” ~ ZECHARIAH 4:6, RSV
Lord, you are my portion and my cup of blessing; you hold my future. ~ PSALM 16:5, CSB
You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed. ~ PSALM 139:16, NLT
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Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. ~ MATTHEW 28:19, NLT
For the LORD your God is living among you. He is a mighty savior. He will take delight in you with gladness. With his love, he will calm all your fears. He will rejoice over you with joyful songs.
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And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him. ~ HEBREWS 11:6, NASB
The LORD is my shepherd; I have all that I need. He lets me rest in green meadows; he leads me beside peaceful streams.
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~ PSALM 23:1-2, NLT
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For you have been called to live in freedom, my brothers and sisters. But don’t use your freedom to satisfy your sinful nature. Instead, use your freedom to serve one another in love.
~ GALATIANS 5:13, NLT
Ask me and I will tell you remarkable secrets you do not know about things to come. ~ JEREMIAH 33:3, NLT
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