MetroFamily Magazine June 2012

June 2012

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Local dads offer advice to their kids

Brendan Parker of Spaghetti Eddie shares his story

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Top picks & finds on our website this month • Whether your child’s birthday is this summer or next winter, you’ll find venue ideas both in this issue (see page 24) and online in the Party Guide directory. (www. metrofamilymagazine.com/party-guide) • Looking for the best day and weekend trips around Oklahoma? You’ll find it all at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/exploring oklahoma, including digital editions of our Exploring Oklahoma editions and a downloadable Kids Pass to help save you money at 35 Oklahoma attractions.

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Contents June 2012

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Dear MetroFamily

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Family Shorts

Editor’s Note.

Community news, resources & other family-friendly information.

14 Real Moms of the Metro It’s a Dad takeover! Meet musician Brendan Parker.

16 Oklahoma Reads

Great reads for all ages.

18 Exploring Oklahoma

Visit the Deep Fork National Wildlife Refuge.

20 Ask the Expert

Meet Brendan Parker of kindie band Spaghetti Eddie.

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Advice for when your child gives up.

27 Problem Solving Products 28 Focus on Education

Watch D.O.G.S in Oklahoma schools.

31 Character Corner

In honor of Father’s Day, local dads share inspirational advice for their children.

Encouraging financial stewardship.

What are your birthday traditions? Big or small, make their next birthday an event to remember with these ideas for marking the occasion.

Also find our handy Birthday Party Directory on page 24.

The Respect Diversity contest celebrates cultural awareness. Find the 2012 winners here.

32 Your Healthy Family Local moms weigh in on breastfeeding.

35 Calendar

Fun events, activities and classes.

46 Photo Gallery

Readers share images features dads and their kids.

ON OUR COVER AND ABOVE: Brendan Parker of local Kindie band Spaghetti Eddie, with 20-month old son James. Read more about Brendan on page 14.

PHOTO BY: Kathryne Taylor.

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Dear MetroFamily, It’s often the little things we do, those things we do almost without thinking that make the greatest impact.

As a kid, my mom always left a note for me on the kitchen table. Every time I came in the house, I made a beeline to the kitchen to see what Mom had left for me, whether I was coming home from school or coming home late from a night out. This little action made a big impact on me, to the point that even when I moved away and got married, I’d still check the table when I came home to visit. To my mom it was just a way to communicate with her children; to us, it was a reminder that she loved us.

I woke up on my birthday once to a note on the table from my dad. It was a simple thing, written in my dad’s hand, wishing me a happy birthday. I know we did all the normal stuff this birthday (presents, cake, party), but the only thing I remember is this note Dad had written on a piece of scratch paper, shown here. It’s been a year now that he’s been gone, and I cherish it.

I have noticed these little traditions (quirks?) in my own family—my kids rely on me to tell them to ‘be careful’ after they hurt themselves, to sing an ode to toast in the morning, and someday, when they get a little older, to leave them their own notes on the kitchen table.

Every day we have a new opportunity to make a big impression on our kids—and on the people they will become. What will you do today to impact your kids? You’ve probably already done more than you know.

Cheers,

Publisher Sarah L. Taylor sarah@metrofamilymagazine.com Editor Mari M. Farthing editor@metrofamilymagazine.com Art Director Kathryne Taylor kathryne@metrofamilymagazine.com Advertising Sales Athena Delce Dana Price ads@metrofamilymagazine.com Office and Distribution Manager Kathy Alberty kathy@metrofamilymagazine.com Assistant Editor & Online Content Manager Brooke Barnett brooke@metrofamilymagazine.com Calendar Editor Sara Riester calendar@metrofamilymagazine.com Special Projects Assistant Terri Fields

P.S. Visit metrofamilymagazine.com/ mari to read my blog, “Keeping it Real,” about my personal adventures in the ups and downs of parenting.

We asked our contributors:

What was the best advice your father ever gave to you?

Shannon Fields Your Healthy Family “You don't get anything in life without working for it.”

Jennifer Geary Exploring Oklahoma “Don’t spend more than you have.”

Brooke Barnett Assistant Editor “Never underestimate the value of being prepared.”

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Eric Urbach Dad feature “Your education is something no one can take from you.”

Sarah Holmes Character Corner “Your word should be just like a promise.”

Sarah Taylor Publisher “Anything worth starting is worth doing right.”

Contributing Writers Brooke Barnett, Kara Ferraro, Shannon Fields, Jennifer Geary, Sarah Holmes, Kristen Hoyt, Eric Urbach Circulation 35,000 – OKC, Edmond, Nichols Hills, Norman, Moore, Midwest City, Yukon Also available as a digital edition at MetroFamilyMagazine.com.

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Contributing writers: Brooke Barnett, Mari Farthing

Chris Wiser and Rob Martin are the Sugarfree Allstars.

Sugar Free Allstars Oklahoma’s own Grammy award-winning Kindie rockers, the Sugar Free Allstars, release their latest family-friendly CD June 12. All on a Sunday Afternoon features more of what the Allstars are known best for—a groovy Motown sound wrapped around kidfriendly songs that have broad appeal. Chris Wiser and Rob Martin know how to engage crowds of all ages, making music that parents will enjoy as much as their kids.

The Allstars are planning a regional tour this summer, including dates in more than 60 libraries across the state and a planned music festival in Oklahoma City this fall, Wiggle Out Loud.

Learn more about the Sugar Free Allstars and buy your copy of their new release at www.sugarfreeallstars.com.

Preventing Summer Learning Loss

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life lesson you learned from your father?

When children are not engaged in learning enrichment through the summer months, a loss of skills occurs. How can you help your children avoid this summer slide?

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Read to your children or encourage them to read on their own. Participate in your library’s Summer Reading Program, which offers incentives to read. Find a list of summer reading programs at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/summer-reading..

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Explore local resources that encourage learning. In addition to libraries, plan outings to parks, museums, universities and community centers.

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Play games that use math and reading skills. At the grocery store, tally prices; in the car, search for shapes, colors or letters on signs.

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School may be out, but your school’s website likely has information about online resources or downloadable activities to encourage learning.

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Limit screen time and get active with a more physical learning activity, such as a scavenger hunt.

Reprinted with permission by the Summer Matters (www.summermatters2you.net) campaign, a collaborative effort to expand and improve summer learning led by the nonprofit Partnership for Children and Youth (www.partnerforchildren.org).

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“Mind your mother!”

Sheena P., Oklahoma City “Always put your family first” Genia S., Oklahoma City “Be an example by doing, not just saying.”

Erica R., Choctaw “Always make time for your kids.

Don't make them feel like whatever you are doing is more important than they are.”

Rachel T., Edmond “That most things can be fixed... with duct tape, gorilla glue or a staple gun!”

Shannon I., Yukon

Teen Auto Safety According to a study by AAA, teen drivers are about 50 percent more likely to crash in the first month of driving than they are after a full year of experience driving on their own. AAA and other safety advocates say that participation in continued driving education is key for kids avoid being in dangerous car accidents.

To help teen drivers learn to be educated drivers, AutoMD’s Teen Driver Car Repair and Maintenance Guide is a free online guide to help your teen stay safe on the road in a wellmaintained vehicle. The guide includes a map to the basic parts of a car, maintenance and repair checklists for do-it-yourselfers, roadside safety information and a car maintenance quiz.

Find the guide at www.automd.com/teen.

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Top 10 Reader Picks: Birthday Party Venues The perfect party can help make a birthday even more special, but it is sometimes difficult to know which venue offers the best bang for your buck.

In May, we polled our readers for their favorite places to celebrate. Here, in random order, are their recommendations:

Chalk the Walk for Charity Chalk the Walk, Oklahoma City’s first chalk art event, is an amateur art competition using chalk as the medium and pavement as the canvas. The event is hosted by the Parents Assistance Center and will be held in the south parking lot of Bass Pro Shop in Bricktown, Saturday June 16 from 10:00am–3:00pm.

The festival is open to artists of all ages and experience levels, and team (up to four people) or individual entries will be judged in four categories: Child, Junior High, High School and College/Adult. Registration is $20 per square.

“We chose Father’s Day weekend for this event because this is an interactive, whimsical activity that the whole family can enjoy,” said Laura Gamble, Executive Director of the Parents Assistance Center. Event proceeds will help further the Parents Assistance Center’s mission to strengthen families to prevent child abuse, neglect and other family violence.

For more information or to register, call 405-232-8226 or visit www.pacok.org.

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The OKC Zoo (2101 NE 50th Street) Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western Avenue) Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Avenue NW Suite 130, Norman) • Bouncin Craze (14901 North Lincoln Boulevard, Edmond) • Tiger Safari (963 S Frisco Road, Tuttle) • Sonder Music (225 E Gray Street, Norman) • Oklahoma Gold Gymnastics (707 Centennial Boulevard, Edmond) • Science Museum Oklahoma (2100 NE 52nd Street) • Andy Alligator’s Fun Park (3300 Market Place Drive, Norman) • Blazers Ice Centre (8000 S I-35 Service Road) Thanks to Audrie B., Shyla H., Jennifer S., Tracie C., Sara R., Erica S. Lindsay A., Jeff D. and Maya T. for contributing to this month’s list. For other party venue suggestions, visit our Birthday Party Listing on page 24 of this isue and the Party Guide Directory at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/party-guide.

Visit www.facebook.com/metrofamily to share your thoughts on next month’s list. Have a venue you’d like to suggest? Comment on our website at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/party-venuesuggestions.

Smart Money Resources This month’s Character Corner (page 31) is all about financial stewardship—teaching our children smart money management. Are you looking for ways to teach your children about how to manage money? Try these online resources as a good place to start: • The US Securities and Exchange Commission. Find tips to teach older kids about financial intelligence. www.sec.gov/investor/students/tips.htm • Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace program is well-known and now adapated for children. www.daveramsey.com • The Moon Jar system helps children with the concepts of responsible giving, saving and spending. www.moonjar.com • Professor of Economics Sue Lynn Sasser (former financial columnist for MetroFamily Magazine) wrote the financial curriculum for Oklahoma schools. Find her article about teaching your kids smart money practices at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/smart-money.

• Our own Character Corner columnist Sarah Holmes features a list of fun and frugal summer activities on her website, www.thecharactermom.com.

• Look up our Summer Survival Guide at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/summer-survival for a list of summer fun ideas on a budget.

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Science of the Circus Ringling Bros. Barnum and Bailey Circus performers bring their electrifying performers to Science Museum Oklahoma on Wednesday, June 27 at 1:00pm.

The Science Live show will be reimagined with plate spinning, optical illusion and juggling to teach children how science is used in the circus.

The Ringling Bros. Barnum and Bailey Circus will be held at the Chesapeake Energy Arena from June 28–July 1. The all-new Fully Charged show features circus favorites with a fun electric theme.

Visit ww.ringling.com for more information about the circus or www.sciencemuseumok.org to learn more about Science Museum Oklahoma.

Protect Against Heatstroke According to Safe Kids USA, more than 500 children have died since 1998 due to heatstroke (hyperthermia) after being left in a car unattended. Safe Kids remind us all to ACT to prevent hyperthermia.

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AVOID injury or death by never leaving your child in a car alone and always locking the doors of unattended vehicles.

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CREATE habits such as contacting other caregivers when you take your child to drop-off, placing other necessities (such as your purse or briefcase) in the seat next to your child or set a cellphone alarm as a reminder.

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TAKE action if you see an unattended child in a vehicle—call 911 immediately and follow the instructions of emergency personnel.

Education News The Oklahoma State Department of Education (OSDE) has new developments to help and support Oklahoma families.

• Parent Power Night, part of the Vision 2020 Summer Conference, will be held at the Cox Convention Center on June 11 from 6:00–7:45pm. Parents and caregivers can attend to learn about college and career planning, job profiling, parental involvement, understanding the cyber word and drug abuse. Registration is free and open to all parents, guardians, caregivers and family members.

Learn more at 405-522-6225 or https://register.wciconferences.org/ ehome/index.php?eventid=40273.

• A new iTunes U site expands digital learning and professional development resources. The iTunes U site offers public access to free educational resources including hundreds of thousands of free lectures, videos, books, podcasts and courses. Access the OSDE on iTunes U at www.itunes.apple.com/institution/oklahoma-statedepartment/id493092792.

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Warning signs of hyperthermia include: red, hot skin; no sweating; rapid pulse or a slow and weak pulse; nausea; confusion or strange behavior. If your child exhibits these symptoms after spending time outdoors or in a hot car, cool your child and call 911.

Find more summer safety tips at Safe Kids USA (www.safekids.org) and the local chapter of Safe Kids Oklahoma (www. safekidsok.org).

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An Open Letter

To My Childr en

Dads, what if you were given one opportunity to impart wisdom to your children? Just one shot to tell them what really matters, the essential information they need to learn before they leave home and venture out into the world. What lessons would be the most important to you?

Personally, I would use this opportunity to tell my kids how important it is to listen to the advice offered by those who’ve lived—and seen—more. I challenge my kids to seek advice from others, as there is a good chance that they’ll find someone who has faced similar challenges—and might offer a new take on a situation. Yes, kids often fall into the trap of thinking that they alone have all the answers, but trust me on this one: experience provides the ability to better predict outcomes. Gaining knowledge from experience will help to better inform future decisions.

In the spirit of seeking advice from others, we asked local fathers to weight in. Here are the lessons that 10 local fathers would give to their children, to guide them as they journey from childhood to adulthood.

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To My Childr en,

I need to tell you a few things. I’m trying, day by day, to teach you the things you need to know, to be the best person you can be in this world. Most of the advice I have for you was given to me by my parents or some other adult, somewhere along the way. Please let me share with you what I’ve learned. May you accept these lessons with my love.

Honor those older than you.

You only get one chance to make a first impression. You should always address your elders respectfully with their proper title, such as Mr., Mrs., Doctor or Reverend. They have earned this respect through their life’s experiences and hard work. You want them to hear you recognize and respect that fact. If you approach each person you meet with proper respect, they will always respect you enough to remember your face (if not your name), and will listen when you speak to them. And at the very least, you will be a good role model for those younger than you.

(Geoff Bice, father of two)

Be humble in victor y and pr oud in loss.

Winning seldom comes from the effort of a single person, and no one wants to hear bragging. When you win, show respect for your

teammates and others who have helped you to victory. And showing empathy (to the opponent) is always a good rule to follow in victory.

Remember that there is no shame if you do your best and come up short of victory. It is easy to learn when you are winning, but both teams and individuals excel when they learn from losses and focus on what can be changed next time. Don’t feel shame for the loss, but rather pride in the effort.

(Brett Burleson, father of four)

Shar e what you’ve been g iven.

Yes, even adults need to be reminded of this from time to time.

Always keep your eyes and heart open to those that need help or just a little encouragement. You have been given much, and with that comes a responsibility to help others. The world will tell you to look out for yourself first; I say to first instead look out for others in need of a helping hand.

(Brad Stone, father of four)

Be quick to for g ive.

One of the most important things I want you to embrace is forgiveness. Forgiveness keeps you from anger, bitterness or holding a grudge. There will be many times in your life when you feel like someone has wronged you and the easy thing to do is to retaliate in anger. This approach will only impact you negatively. Our Christian faith tells us that God wants us to love one another; when we choose to love everyone in and through every situation and try to see them as God does, then we can truly understand and start to see the depth of this love. Forgiving others allows you to maintain great character, mental clarity and truly be free to become the person you are supposed to be.

(Chris Shepherd, father of three)

Never take time for g r anted.

Inside each of us is someone else’s miracle. You have a God-given purpose, and if you carelessly stroll through life without paying attention to those around you, you may pass by a person waiting on you… their miracle. Be intentional in everything you do and look for opportunities to help someone in need. You never know when you may need a miracle.

(Jeff Buchanan, father of five)

Take car e of your body.

The human body is an incredible workmanship that is capable of doing amazing tasks when it is properly trained, nourished and hydrated. Try to set aside 30 to 60 minutes a day for vigorous activity that will challenge and improve your body. The results of sensible living will have an exponential impact at home, work and play because people who feel better, do better. You have one life and one body, take care of it!

(Kevin Polcovich, father of two)

Save money for bad days.

I come from a generation that tends to spend more than we make and to use credit cards to pay for things that we can’t afford. My wish for you is that you avoid the mistakes of my generation. Money—or lack of money—should not control our lives. Preparing will help you

to weather the ups and downs. The one constant in life is change and you need to be prepared. My advice to you is to live on 70 percent of your household income and save the rest. Put it away and don’t touch it. Don’t wait until later in life, do this with your first paycheck.

When emergencies happen you will be prepared to weather the storm.

If you are lucky to avoid the storms, then you will be in a unique position to serve others with your generous heart.

(Scott Bell, father of one)

Believe in your self.

It doesn’t matter if it’s in school, sports or life; the two things that you can control are attitude and effort. If you have the right attitude and give maximum effort, you can do anything. If you ever find yourself faced with doubts, questions or fears, remember these words: “God believes in you, I believe in you, you simply need to believe in yourself.” Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t do anything; your dreams are your possibilities. Dream BIG! (Scott Williams, father of two)

Help other s.

Life is made up of good times and bad times, and through it all, people are the most important thing. Value the relationships you have with others. Pay attention to the people around you, and when you see that someone’s going through a rough patch, do whatever you’re able to make it easier for them. Money and things come and go, but what people really need is to know that they’re not alone, and that there’s always hope.

(Ryan Hukill, father of five)

Believe in something big g er than your self.

In this world, many people live their life focused only on themselves.

They think that if they make more money or own more stuff that they will be happy and satisfied. What they find, though, is completely opposite of that. No matter how much they have, they are never really happy and they still want more.

God did not intend for us to live this way. We find true happiness when we seek to help others, especially those in great need.

You were created by God to make a difference in this world, to do something very special that only you can do, something bigger than yourself. Life is short, and the world is waiting. God wants to do something amazing through you that will make you happier than you could ever imagine!

(Trevor Williams, father of three)

I love you, Dad

Eric Urbach lives in Edmond with his wife Amy, where he is a father of three and step-father of two.

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AD D Real Moms of the Metro Meet Kindie Rocker Brendan Parker

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Photo by Greer Inez Photography http://greerinez.com

ocal singer/songwriter Brendan Parker has developed quite a following in the OKC metro—especially with the 6 and under crowd. The energetic musician is the front man of popular kindie (“indie” rock for kids) band Spaghetti Eddie, in which he sings, plays guitar and even rocks an electric kazoo.

Along with drummer Todd Parsons, Parker can be seen at events and festivals across the metro, performing fun, educational music enjoyed by both children and parents.

Parker, age 31, released his first fulllength album, Spaghetti Eddie! And Other Children’s Songs, in 2010, with songs designed to teach kids about colors, days of the week and more. Spaghetti Eddie! And Other Children’s Songs Volume 2 followed in 2011, which covers everything from the months of the year and vowels, to monsters and meatballs. Parker also released a DVD of music videos for children in December 2011. Here is more about what keeps this local musician and father (son James is 1) spreading fun and learning through music.

What are you passionate about?

Living up to my full potential and trying to make a difference in the world.

How has fatherhood changed you?

I think of myself less and more about the

Quick Facts About Brendan 1. What are five words that describe you? Respectful, hopeful, thankful, helpful, fun.

2. What is your favorite indulgence? Chocolate.

Specifically cookies with some form of chocolate in them.

3. What can’t you live without?

Wife, son and immediate family excluded? My guitar.

4. What’s your favorite meal to cook for dinner? I can do a nice “big salad” or some spaghetti, but I'm more of a Saturday morning breakfast cook. French toast, eggs, bacon, sausage, fruit smoothies. It’s the most important meal of the day.

5. What’s your favorite movie?

The Big Lebowski.

6. What’s always in your handbag? I don’t carry a handbag. When I do carry a bag, it usually has my planner, Spaghetti Eddie merchandise, gum and my wallet.

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The Parker family: Brendan, Carrie and James (age 1) of Oklahoma City.

family as a whole. I try harder. I had no idea I could love these people so much.

How do you banish stress?

My wife helps me get rid of stress. She is a great person to talk to and can think of solutions faster than I can stress about problems.

What inspires you?

That feeling of getting goose bumps from hearing a song or watching something unfold.

Along with your jobs as a dad and musician, what do you do?

I help my old medical equipment company from time to time. I also help my wife’s synthetic grass company, Always Greener.

What do you like most about your job?

I love to see people smiling and having fun while I’m “working,” it’s probably the most fulfilling thing that I have ever been involved with. Also, all of the good people we meet along the way.

Advice for other dads?

Provide for them, be there for them, give them time. Be the person they want you to be and fill them with confidence along the way.

Where are you from originally?

I am originally from Oklahoma, but we lived in California for four years. We made our way back after getting married in hopes of starting a family.

What’s the biggest challenge in your life?

Enjoying the moment, which I do much more now than ever, but it’s still hard to not think ahead.

How do you help others?

I like making people laugh. Laughter can help in so many ways.

What is your parenting style?

I like to be both the “good cop” AND the “bad cop.”

What is on your wish list?

72 degrees and sunny... every day.

Favorite advice about parenthood?

It’s a marathon, and they don’t hand out medals until the VERY end. Chris Rock taught me this.

What are you most proud of?

My wife and son.

Learn more about Brendan and Spaghetti Eddie at www.thespaghettieddie.com.

What motivates you?

Leaving a legacy that my family and I can look back on and be proud of.

How do you find balance in your life?

Trying to stay organized and always having a trip or something fun to look forward to.

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Brooke Barnett is the Assistant Editor of MetroFamily Magazine.

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Oklahoma Reads Great Reads for All Early Readers

Chuckling Ducklings

By Aaron Zenz (Bloomsbury Kids, hardcover, $16) Early readers will love the bright and whimsical pictures of baby animals.

Adults will love learning the answers to the pressing questions of toddlers (who knew a baby ? was a ??).

Slither, Slide, What’s Outside?

By Nora Hilb and Simon and Sharon Shapiro (Firefly Books, softcover, $9) A fun, rhyming book that encourages kids (and adults) to get outside and interact with the natural world, no matter the season.

The Buzz on Honeybees

By Cathy Kaemmerlen, illustrated by Kathy Coates (Pelican Publishign, softcover, $17) Are your kids afraid of bees? Teach them the

Page to Screen: Pigeon, Knufflebunny and More Mo Willems’ Pigeon & Pals DVD (Scholastic, DVD, $20) With nearly two hours of quirky storytelling fun, these read-along DVDs allow kids to join their friends Pigeon, Knuffle Bunny, Naked Mole Rat and more while sharpening their reading skills. The two-disc set features six stories based on Willems' well-known stories (including Don't Let the Pigeon Drive the Bus) that encourage interaction, cooperation and problem-solving, plus a Spanish version of one classic Willems story. integral part that bees play in the food chain through this tale, told from the perspective of Betty, the Storytelling Honeybee.

Grades 4+

The Five Lives of Our Cat Zook

By Joanne Rocklin (Amulet Books, hardcover, $19) Through the power of a good imagination, Oona imagines a life of adventure for her cat Zook (short for Zucchini) as she and her brother navigate the sometimes choppy waters of their lives.

An imaginative tale of resilience.

13 Hangmen

By Art Corriveau (Amulet Books, hardcover, $17) An adventure combining time-travel, mystery and treasure. Set in the attic room of an historic Boston home, Tony and his friends work together to decipher historical events that solve a present-day mystery.

Adults

Joy the Baker Cookbook

By Joy Wilson (Hyperion, softcover, $20) Kick up your birthday cakes—and all the treats you make—with this treatfilled cookbook by food blogger Joy. Sweet (and savory) recipes to take you from breakfast to midnight snack.

Dad, I Love You All the Way to God and Back

By Shannon Shy (Authorhouse, softcover, $17) Parents are charged with teaching their children, but the lessons taught to this author by his daughter capture the true meaning of fatherhood.

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Dad’s Playbook: Wisdom for Fathers from the Greatest Coaches of All Time

By Tom Limbert (Chronicle Books, hardcover, $13) Sports-loving fathers will appreciate this book of advice on fathering that echoes the lessons learned on the field: motivation, mentorship, discipline and love.

100 Best Grilling Recipes

By Kathleen Sloan-McIntosh (Robert Rose, softcover, $20) Celebrate summer with food on the grill and this book of recipes featuring ingredients from around the world. Serve a different flavor each day of the summer with this collection of sauces, marinades, starters and grilling tips.

Let’s Let Kids Do Something Big

By Anthony Recenello (Charismatickid, softcover, $12) Anti-bullying coach Recenello believes that kids are capable of great things, and he shares his tips for encouraging your child to tap into their inner strength.

Rabbi Rami: Roadside Assistance for the Spiritual Traveler

By Rami Shaipiro (Spirtuality & Health Books, softcover, $9 each) Through a series of titles including Forgiveness, Parenting, God and Psalm 23, Rabbi Rami offers accessible lessons to complicated spiritual questions for readers of any religious belief.

Reviews by Mari Farthing & Brooke Barnett.

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Exploring Oklahoma Deep Fork National Wildlife Refuge

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hen we started off on our trip to the Deep Fork National Wildlife Refuge, my 7 year old asked me where we were going. “Well,” I replied, “it’s kind of a nature place.” That was really the best I could do based on what I had read beforehand, but that description is like calling the Grand Canyon a big hole in the ground. This is a gorgeous, amazing place!

The Deep Fork National Wildlife Refuge (NWR) was established in 1993 and encompasses 9,000 acres of land surrounding 34 miles of the Deep Fork River. The refuge is covered with beautiful forests and because of its closeness to the river, the land floods yearly. These wetlands and forests are home to a multitude of birds, fish and other animals.

Getting There When I called before our visit, I was warned that the refuge is “in the middle of nowhere.”

While you may have a bit of a drive, Deep Fork NWR is easy to find.

From Oklahoma City, head east on I-40 to Henryetta and then go about fourteen miles north of town on Highway 75. From Highway 75, follow Lavender Road until it dead ends and you see the sign directing you to the left. The refuge will be down the road a little over a mile and a half on your right. Though you’re in the country, the roads are paved and easy to navigate.

Cussetah Bottoms There are several different parts of the refuge that are accessible to the public, but the most family-friendly area is the Cussetah Bottoms Boardwalk area. This acreage is adjacent to the Deep Fork NWR offices.

The office is open Monday through Friday from 7:30am–4:00pm and the staff can help answer any questions you might have during your visit. The 1,200-foot-boardwalk area winding through the woods is accessible 24 hours a day.

Deep Fork National Wildlife Refuge 21844 S 250 Road, Okmulgee 918-652-0456 or www.fws.gov/ southwest/refuges/oklahoma/Deep Fork/ Admission is free Office open Monday–Friday, 7:30am–4:00pm Cussetah Bottoms Boardwalk is always open

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The entrance to the Cussetah Bottoms Boardwalk area.

Activities

photography equipment.

What is there to do at a wildlife refuge?

Plenty! My kids (ages 2 and 7) both enjoyed themselves immensely. There are several trail areas available at the Cussetah Bottoms area. The boardwalk and the paved trails are stroller and wheelchair-friendly, so everyone can have a good time. The paved section of trail lets you literally get right in the thick of things. In several spots, the water comes right up to the edge of the trail, much to the delight of my kids! There is also a section of trail approximately ¼-mile long that is not paved, so if you want to try that out, make sure you bring good, sturdy shoes and some bug spray.

After you’ve explored the trails, take a break at the picnic area. Restrooms are available, along with portable sinks.

Wildlife While you’re out on the trails, it’s a great time to notice all the plant and animal life in the refuge. After we arrived, I realized this would have been a great place to break out some of our bird and plant guides.

Thankfully, there are some helpful signs along the way to show you what to look for during specific seasons and where to look for signs of certain birds or other animals. If you visit the Deep Fork NWR website, you can find a checklist for different types of birds living in the area. This is an activity even the youngest member of your family can try.

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Hunting and Fishing If your family enjoys hunting or fishing, visit the Deep Fork NWR website or call the office for specific rules. These activities are allowed in certain areas of the refuge during specific times of the year. Small watercraft are also allowed in some areas, though there are no docks. Camping is not permitted.

Planning Your Visit If you would like to visit Deep Fork NWR with a group, call ahead to speak with one of the office staff. They are ready and willing to help plan field trips that will focus on topics of interest and they can provide information on any of the eight other refuges in Oklahoma. Various educational programs are also held throughout the year. Call ahead for information or check the website for details.

Jennifer Geary is a homeschooling mom from Broken Arrow, formerly of Oklahoma City, who loves to have adventures with her family.

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Ask the Experts Encouraging a “Can-Do” Attitude This month’s question: My son is so hard on himself when he makes mistakes. When he missed a play in a game, he wanted to quit the team. How can we encourage him to persevere?

Kevin Tutty, LCSW:

Devonne Carter, LCSW:

Motivational speeches can sometimes fall flat when kids fail at a task. This is one of the things that make competitive sports build so much character in our younger ones. You might be able to think about a time when you failed and were able to persevere through adversity. I like to use an example from my own life in which I was unable to persist when faced with a challenge and a time when I pushed through to the end. I know I have a much better feeling looking back on the times when I finished a difficult challenge than when I didn’t complete a task. Drawing on these experiences in your own life will help your son understand that it’s better for his character to push through difficult times, as well as show that we all have difficult times in our lives. It’s not a failure to fall— only if we don't get up and try again!

Show your child how to persevere. Talk to him about a task that is difficult for you, and allow him to watch you conquer the difficulty.

Talk about how good it feels to overcome a challenge. Our self-esteem grows when we are able to learn something new, especially if it’s something we thought we would never figure out. The same thing happens for our children. When your child fails, remind him that we learn by failing. Continue to help him stick with the task. If you need to, help him visualize the big picture by telling him stories that relate back to successfully completing his task. Don’t do it for him—but do be his biggest cheerleader!

Kevin Tutty, LPC, is a Licensed Professional Counselor in private practice. Contact him at 405-431-6225.

Devonne Carter, LCSW, is a Clinical Social Worker in private practice in Edmond.

Contact her at 405-326-3923 or www. carterscounseling.com.

Tamara Walker, RN: No one is perfect and that’s okay! Learning that failure is a stepping stone to success is a

valuable life lesson. What he perceives as failures, such as a missed play, are the very things that can teach him how to improve his skills and increase his knowledge of the game—or any other endeavor. When we are able to view mistake and failures as learning opportunities and teachable moments, we are much more likely to succeed in the future.

Seek out books, articles or videos about great athletes who play the same sport as your son.

You’re sure to find stories of perseverance and dedication, athletes who didn’t give up when they missed a play or lost a game. For every successful goal made or home run hit, there are almost always many more misses in between. Even the best athletes don’t play perfectly. The very best NBA players, like OKC Thunder’s Kevin Durant, still miss 10 percent of their free throws.

When we let go of perfectionism, which brings us down, then we can focus on enjoying the game and progressing towards success.

Tamara Walker RN is a talk show host and speaker in Edmond. Contact her at www. momrn.com.

Our readers respond: • “If he quits, then he can not learn from the mistake he made. If you’re not making mistakes, you are not learning.”

• “Ensure him we all make mistakes, then relate to him on a mistake you made recently so he can see it happens and it’s okay.”

• “Talk to him about the idea that perfection is unattainable, and about all we can do it our personal best in any situation. Assure him that your love and approval are not consistent upon him being the very best—but merely by being the best he can be.

Remind him that the fun of life is in the journey—and encourage him to focus on the moment and enjoy every aspect of his life, no matter how imperfect.”

Thanks to Anita B., Trina M., and Caroline E. for your feedback!

Have a question for our experts? Email it to editor@metrofamilymagazine.com.

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Birthday Traditions to Create

Magical Moments A child’s birthday is one of the most anticipated days of the year. And as soon as the party is over, they’re planning their next birthday—364 days away! Every parent wants their child’s birthday to be special, and each year, as your children get older and their wants become greater, it’s easy to get caught up in the hype of trying to outdo the previous year’s birthday.

Growing up with three siblings, one of which has his birthday only two days after mine, my parents tried their best to make our birthdays special. Each year on our birthday we would arrive home from school and there would be balloons, gifts and handmade cards around the “birthday chair.” As soon as we finished dinner and gobbled up our cake, the birthday child was directed to sit in the birthday chair and would proceed to open up their gifts. It was a magical moment each year!

On my 10th birthday, I received a blue three-speed bike. Aside from that, the only other gift I remember receiving was a small wooden trinket box my mother had polyurethaned with some random magazine pictures and a groovy picture of me with a “shag” haircut and the date 1976 on the inside. That was 36 years ago—and I still have my trinket box today.

Now that I’m a mother of two, I think about those special celebrations of my childhood. Families are so busy these days that finding simple, inexpensive ways to turn an ordinary day into an extraordinary birthday celebration may take a little time and creativity, but it certainly doesn’t have to empty your wallet.

What children want more than anything on their birthday is to feel like it is their own special day. So find ways to help celebrate it with them. Here are 15 ways you can start your own birthday traditions to create some magical moments that your children will remember for years to come.

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The night before your child’s birthday, decorate the house or their room with balloons, confetti, flowers or a homemade banner.

2. Wake up your child by singing “Happy Birthday.”

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Start the day of by making a special birthday breakfast.

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Pull out some baby pictures or other birthday pictures from the years past and decorate the house with them.

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Stick a special birthday snack or note in your child’s lunch box.

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Have lunch with your child at school and bring cupcakes.

Okay, they may not like this when they get older, but during the elementary years, you and that box of cupcakes will be the epitome of cool!

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Have your child help you make their own birthday cake. It’s more fun for them to decorate the cake and get sugared up on eating the extra batter, frosting and sprinkles than it is actually eating the cake—regardless of their age.

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Plan a family outing that you will do each year: a trip to the beach, a picnic in the park, or even a trip to your favorite pizza joint.

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Start a scrapbook for each year on your child’s birthday and decorate the cover with a picture that was taken on their birthday.

10. Take a picture each year of your child at the exact time they were born or as soon as they wake up.

11. Let your child pick out all of the meals that day. If they want spaghetti for breakfast or pancakes for dinner—go for it—it’s their day!

12. Give gifts that reflect the same number as your child’s birthday.

For example, if your child is 5, how about five markers, five coloring books, five lollipops, five pairs of socks—you get the idea.

13. Get crafty and make something for your child each year. A special pillow, frame, jewelry box or toy chest. She may not appreciate it now, but in years to come those handmade mementos are going to be the gifts she cherishes.

14. Create a time capsule. Each year on your child’s birthday put a photo of your child, a newspaper, perhaps a drawing your child made and a note of all that is going on in your life. File away for the next year or for years to come.

15. The birthday chair. Go on ahead, it’s been a tradition in my family for years, and to this day I still get to sit in the birthday chair complete with balloons and handmade cards— and now, so do my lucky kids!

Regardless of your child’s age or interests, birthdays are a special day for them. Even if their birthday falls on a school day or they have extracurricular activities, the key to making them feel special is that you remember the whole day is their birthday—so celebrate and let them enjoy it. By taking some time out to create your own family birthday traditions, you will be giving your child something to look forward to all throughout the year and perhaps for a lifetime.

Kara Ferraro is a publisher and mother of two elementary school children. She is always looking for clever and inexpensive ways to start new traditions with her family as well as carry on the traditions from her childhood.

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Birthday Party Resource Guide Name

Contact

Description

Ages

Cost

Andy Alligator's Fun Park

3300 Market Place, Norman 405-321-7275 www.andyalligators.com

Party activities include go-kart speedway, Bayou Blaster Boats, batting cages and pizza.

All ages

$130+

Be Wild for Art

1006 24th Ave NW Suite 130, Norman 405-307-9971 www.bewildforart.com

Choose a party package or create your own from pottery painting, glass fusing, and canvas painting packages. Includes party room, assistant, and all materials.

All ages

$15– $35 per person

Bouncin Craze

14901 N Lincoln Boulevard, Edmond 405-607-2020 www.bouncincraze.com

Indoor Play Center offering private (facility is open to party guests only) and open birthday parties (held during regularlyscheduled open play times). Check website for more details.

Up to age 13

$160– $225

Creative Adventures

10455 N May Ave, OKC 405-751-1002 www.creativeadventures ourchildrenarespecial.webs.com

90 minutes of creative birthday fun includes hostess, puppet show, story time, hands-on activity and $5 gift certificate for birthday child. Parties are for 10-20 children..

Ages 3–6

$10 per child

Dawn to Dusk Inflatables

OKC metro 405-630-7275 www.dawntoduskinflatables. com

Bringing the bounce to you with licensed and insured moonbounces, combo units, obstacle courses, slides, water slides. Cotton candy, popcorn and snow cone machine rentals also available.

All ages

Up to $500

Dodge City Paintball & Outdoor Laser Tag

16425 NW 150th, Piedmont 405-373-3745 www.dodgecitypaintball.com

All equipment provided (building, bathrooms, grill). Bring your charcoal & food. 4-hour paintball or 2-hour laser tag (parents required for paintball under age 10). Rates charged per person, per hour of play for paintball or party size for Laser Tag.

All ages

$16– $20 per person

Fine Arts Institute of Edmond

27 E Edwards, Edmond 405-340-4481 www.edmondfinearts.com

90-minute art parties include hands-on project with all materials provided plus paper goods and gift for the birthday child.

Ages 4+

$200+

Gattitown Family Entertainment

5833 NW Expressway, OKC 405-721-4227 www.gattitownokc.com

Three party packages to choose from that include a Party Hero (helper), food, drinks and game play for the arcade and attractions.

Up to age 12

$130+

Green Goodies by Tiffany

5840 N Classen, Suite 5, OKC 405-842-2288 www.greengoodiesokc.com

Natural cupcakes decorated for all occasions. Special diets accommodated (vegan, gluten free, sugar free). Frozen yogurt, coffee, & cookies also available. Patio area available for parties.

All ages

Varies

Gymboree Play & Music

11928 N May Avenue, OKC 405-755-3445 www.gymboreeclasses.com

90 minutes of private party time includes one-of-a-kind guided activities, paper goods, juice boxes and balloons for 20 children.

Ages 1–5

$195+

HeyDay Entertainment

3201 Market Place, Norman 405-310-3500 www.heydayfamilyfun.com

Party activities include laser tag, rope courses and mini-golf.

All packages include party table and server for 2 hours, paper goods, drinks, balloons and T-shirt for birthday child.

For all ages but some activities have height/weight restrictions.

$125– $400

Juggle Whatever

OKC metro 405-464-1060 www.jugglewhatever.com

Kids learn to juggle with this family-friendly birthday concept.

Based in OKC; travels to your party venue. Provides all needed equipment.

Ages 7+

$125– $300

Jump!Zone Party & Play Center

10400 S Western, OKC 405-200-1691 www.jumpzoneparty.com

The biggest inflatable party place in Oklahoma City includes 6 massive inflatables, 5 playsets and 4 party rooms.

Up to age 12

$140– $250

Mad Science

OKC metro 405-285-9643 www.madscience.org/okc

60-minute party includes hands-on science fun at your location.

All materials included. All we need from you is a table for our experiments and supplies.

Ages 3+

$185+

Free option includes use of picnic area, play area, amphitheater, electricity & grill. Paid package ($50) adds balloons, activity pack for each child, bottled water, birthday/corvette t-shirt for child. Inquire about Outdoor Movie party ($100).

All ages

Free– $100

32-foot temperature-controlled mobile game theater brings the party to you. Includes high-definition TVs, surround sound, vibration seating and the latest games and systems for up to 16 players (beginner to expert).

Ages 7+

$225+

1221 Ed Noble Parkway (I-35 Marc Heitz Exit 108-b), Norman Community Complex 405-488-7971

Mobile Game Party

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Name

Contact

Description

Ages

Cost

Mobile Laser Forces

OKC metro 405-259-9300 www.mobilelaserforces.com

Customizable indoor/outdoor laser tag with different options of play available for varying prices.

Ages 6+

$150+

Musem of Osteology

10301 S Sunnylane, OKC 405-814-0006 www.museumofosteology.org

2-hour parties include private classroom, tour, hands-on presentation, free time to explore the museum exhibits and a T-shirt for birthday child. Bring decorations for room.

Ages 4+

$250

My Princess Party

OKC metro 405-445-8339 www.myprincessparty.net

Costumed princess comes to your venue to tell an interactive story, play games, face painting and more. Each guest receives a treasure, special gifts for birthday child. Appropriate for girls or boys.

Up to age 10

$120+

Oklahoma City Zoo

2101 NE 50th, OKC 405-425-0218 www.okczooed.com

Six birthday party packages include party host, live animal encounter, themed room, guided tour, decorations, party favor and zoo admission. Ask for overnight sleepover ideas.

Up to age 13

$275+

Oklahoma Railway Museum

3400 NE Grand Blvd, OKC 405-424-8222 www.oklahomarailwaymuseum. org

Parties held in 1921 wooden caboose or 1927 passenger car.

Coloring books and paper hats provided. Packages with or without train rides.

All ages

$100– $200

Oklahoma WONDERtorium

308 W Franklin Lane, Stillwater 405-533-3333 www.okwondertorium.org

90-minute parties include an hour of play-to-learn exploration for up to 15 children, private party room, assistant, T-shirt for birthday child and free admission for adults with party. $50 deposit required.

Up to age 12

$150+

Paint ’N Station

7906 N May, OKC 405-842-7770 www.paintnstation.com

Creative parties for you & your group to enjoy 90 minutes of painting, eating cake and opening gifts.

All ages

$10+ per person

Paint Your Art Out

100 N Broadway, Edmond 405-513-5333 www.paintyourartout.net

2-hour birthday parties including artist-led instruction, cake & gift time. 10 guest minimum; additional guests $17-$22 each, 30 maximum allowed.

Ages 5–16

$200– $250+

Pelican Bay Aquatic Center

1034 Bryant, Edmond 405-216-7655 www.edmondok.com

Party package includes cabana for 90 minutes. Choose Birthday All ages Blast or Extravaganza package and enjoy swimming and cake.

$200+

RedPin Restaurant & Bowling Lounge

200 S Oklahoma Ave, Bricktown 405-702-8880 www.bowlredpin.com

Parties include 2 hours of bowling, meals, soft drinks and optional space for cake and gifts plus waitstaff. Minimum 8 children.

$19– $32 per child

Ages 4+

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Birthday Party Resource Guide Name

Contact

Description

Ages

Cost

Sam Noble OK Museum of Natural History

2401 Chautauqua Ave, Norman 405-325-4712 www.snomnh.ou.edu

Package includes 30 minute activity with host, 30 minute tour, T-shirt for birthday child, admission for up to 12 kids and 13 adults plus party space. Deluxe package includes cake, ice cream, drinks and tableware.

Ages 5–12

$150– $250

Science Museum Oklahoma

2100 NE 52nd St, OKC 405-602-3760 www.sciencemuseumok.org

Birthday Party Packages at Science Museum Oklahoma include admission to the museum's exhibits, Planetarium and Science Live shows and access to a private birthday party room.

Demonstrations can be booked for extra fee.

All ages

$235+

SoccerCity OKC

4520 Old Farm Road, OKC 405-748-3888 www.soccercityokcity.com

Four party packages available that each include one hour of field time, one hour in the party room, a birthday child shirt and various amounts of food and drink.

All ages

$175– $250

Sooner Bowling Center

550 24th Avenue NW, Norman 405-360-3634 www.soonerbowl.com

Bowling birthday parties include food, beverages, party host and separate party room plus free wifi also available.

All ages

$149+

Stafford Air & Space Museum

3000 Logan Road, Weatherford 580-772-5871 www.staffordmuseum.com

Birthday parties include planetarium shows and party room to accommodate 15–100 guests.

All ages

$50– $150

Unpluggits Playstudio

575 Enterprise Dr, Edmond 405-340-7584 www.unpluggits.com

2-hour party for the birthday child plus 15 guests in your choice Ages 2–12 of private party room (Fairy Cove or Treasure Island). Includes Paint your own pottery paint'n play admission, supervised craft to take home, invitations, parties for ages 12+. paper goods and party assistant.

$225

Velocity Dance Center

11122 N Rockwell Avenue, OKC 405-721-8807 www.velocitydancecenterokc. com

2-hour themed parties (choose princess, pop star, fairies, hip hop and more) include 45 minutes of instruction, 15 minutes of games or free dance and 1 hour for cake, pizza and presents.

$100+

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Problem Solvers Helpful Family Products When we hear about new or helpful products, we like to let our readers know! Here are a few of the more interesting items we’ve recently discovered. Visit the product website for a list of local retailers.

Problem:

Mom! Can you make cake pops? Or those fancy cakes like on TV?

Solution:

Yes you can! Cake pops are easy to create with the My Little Cupcake Mini Molds, a set of four that even lets you turn crushed cookies into cake pops. ($23/set of 4; www.mylittlecupcakepop.com) For a creative cake, try the Petal Crafts Topsy Turvy Cake Pan, a set of 4 pans that make creating a fancy cake, well, a piece of cake. ($86; www.topsyturvycakepans. com)

Problem:

You worry about your child getting into the pool when he shouldn’t.

Solution:

The Safety Turtle is a safety alarm system that alerts you if your child (or pet) gets too close to the water. Works at home or away. ($280; www.safetyturtle.com)

Problem:

Potty training can be tricky—and stinky!

Solution:

The Poo-pourri Potty Training Kit includes a book, Poo-Pourri spray and a T-shirt to help you potty train your way to success. ($29 for kit; www.poopourri.com)

Problem:

You want to paint your child's room but worry about chemical emissions.

Solution:

Virtually ordorless, Benjamin Moore’s Natura paints have zero-VOC (volatile organic compounds) even after tinting. Durable, washable and environmentally-friendly. ($57/ gallon, www.spectrumpaint.com)

Problem:

You have all you need for the barbecue except the matches to light the charcoal.

Solution:

The Looftlighter is a no-mess electric starter for your charcoal grill or wood-burning fire pit. ($80; www. looftlighter.com)

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Focus on Education Who Let the Watch D.O.G.S. Out?

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klahoma City Public Schools have tapped into the Father Involvement Initiative of the National Center for Fathering called “Watch D.O.G.S. (Dads of Great Students). This initiative organizes fathers and father figures to promote positive male role models for students and to enhance school security. Watch D.O.G.S. began in Springdale, Arkansas in 1998—and has quickly grown to 2,276 active programs in 41 states and Washington, D.C. Across our state, schools with Watch D.O.G.S. programs have an average of 85 days throughout the year where a Watch D.O.G. dad volunteers in the school. In Oklahoma, there are currently 53 schools participating in the program, including Cleveland Elementary in Oklahoma City, where we spoke to a few of the Watch D.O.G. dads.

Thomas Cherry Thomas Cherry, a self-employed dad of a kindergarten student, regularly volunteers once per week during the morning drop off. He opens car doors, ensures the safety of children walking to and from school and greets parents.

Mr. Cherry has helped with birthday parties, reading to and with students, providing transportation for field trips and with mailings. “Usually the moms are called upon to do many of the volunteer jobs in the school,” said Mr. Cherry. “Being selfemployed, I am able to set aside some time each week to help out. It benefits me as a dad and it seems to benefit the children, too.”

Paxton Gray Paxton Gray works the drop-off line for the morning school rush as well as the school pick-up line in the afternoons. He also assists at recess, which both helps teachers with monitoring and wards off potential bullying issues.

Mr. Gray recently helped students train for the Oklahoma City Memorial Marathon Kid’s Marathon. He walked and timed the kids on Friday afternoons, staying with them until their parents picked them up. His commitment to these kids encouraged them to participate in community events and to commit to being healthy.

Even with all that he does, Mr. Gray was modest in saying, “There are several dads and father figures who help at Cleveland. I do what I can, but there are many others, too.”

Cleveland’s Watch D.O.G.S. dads also serve as testing proctors for standardized tests and organized a flag football game to raise funds

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for the school. These dads are a welcome and helpful addition to the volunteers at Cleveland and several other schools in the Oklahoma City Public School District.

Positive Impacts According to Principal Marsha Stafford, about 50 dads actively participate in Watch D.O.G.S. at Cleveland Elementary. “We have a list of dads that we can call on any time we need help,” she explains. “They help in the cafeteria, on the playground, with tutoring, with test monitoring and committees. They have even shoveled snow in the parking lot!” Stafford notes that the Watch D.O.G.S. have been particularly helpful with the school's efforts to integrate Spanish into their curriculum. “We have some dads who speak fluent Spanish and are helping us teach the curriculum and tutor students after school,” Stafford says.

But beyond the extra hands and help with special projects, Stafford sees a larger value in having dads in the school setting. “It's important for these children to see a positive male role model, especially for those who might not have a male figure in their lives,” Stafford explains. “They are forming relationships with the children and making sure the children feel very safe at school.

They help make the atmosphere at Cleveland friendly, warm and accepting by modeling courtesy and respect. They help set the tone for our school.”

According to research, increased involvement by fathers has shown to result in: • higher grades and higher confidence levels in the student body as a whole, • children who enjoy school and view education as important and worthy, • a decrease in school-related anxiety in children, and • community members working hard to benefit their neighbors.

If you or your principal would like to start a Watch D.O.G.S. program at your school, access the National Center for Fathering website at www.fathers.com.

I’m not sure who let the Watch D.O.G.S. out, but I am certainly glad they did!

Kristen Hoyt is Assistant Professor and Director of Field Experience in the School of Teacher Education at MACU (Mid-America Christian University in OKC).

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Exploring Diversity Through the Arts The annual Respect Diversity Art & Poetry Contest celebrates the differences within our world. Contest entries are showcased each year at the Respect Diversity Symbol Exhibit, created to help people of all ages successfully live, learn and work in our increasingly diverse society. The contest is sponsored by MetroFamily Magazine and the Respect Diversity Foundation (RDF), which seeks to help students of all ages understand other cultures and their own, create positive inter-group relationships and build strong communities throughout the state of Oklahoma.

The 11th Annual Respect Diversity Symbol Exhibit was on display at Science Museum Oklahoma from March 9–May 9. The exhibit featured collaborative artwork created by Oklahoma students and inspired by historical, cultural, ethnic and experiential perspectives.

“Behind each work of art is integration and collaboration, as well as a deep story, said Joan Korenblit, RDF’s Executive Director.

“Each entry is by students from across the Oklahoma City metro who have taken the time to truly explore diversity through the arts and have expressed this through the various mediums.”

The 2012 winners are pictured from top to bottom, left to right: • PreK-K—We Stand for the Weak, the Injured, the Silent, Oppressed (Ranchwood Elementary School, Yukon) • Grades 1-3—The Essence of the All (Heronville Elementary School, Oklahoma City)

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• Grades 4-5—We Are the World, We Are Oklahoma (Stanley Hupfeld Academy, Oklahoma City) • Grades 6-8—Voices of the Next Generation (Independence Charter Middle School, Oklahoma City) • Grades 9-12—We Are the World, We Share the Same DNA (Harding Fine Arts Academy, Oklahoma City) The 2013 Contest Theme is “The Beauty of Diversity” and seeks visual art and poetry that expresses respect for people of different cultures and ethnicities, different ability levels, different ages, and/or different religions.

Prizes will be awarded for winning entries from each age group: pre-K, grades 1–3, grades 4–5, grades 6–8, and grades 9–12.

Entry forms are due by January 7, 2013 and can be downloaded at www.respectdiversity. citymax.com/entryform.html.

For more information, call 405-359-0369 or visit www.respectdiversity.org.

Brooke Barnett is MetroFamily's assistant editor.

Character Corner Learning About Stewardship Spending fun quality time with your children while teaching them about responsible money management is one investment that is sure to pay off. However, be ready to learn some rich lessons of your own as your new “expert” financial stewards question your spending habits.

“Mom, why did you buy those designer diamond-studded flip-flops with your credit card after you told me I had to save money and pay with cash?”

Earn all you can. Save all you can.

Give all you can. ~ John Wesley

Help Your Family Become Better Stewards Family tradition. You don’t have to go out and spend lots of money to have fun or to make someone feel special. Get your child involved as you plan and prepare a special home-cooked meal for Dad. Family outing. One of the best places to learn about stewardship is the grocery store. By comparing prices, sticking to your budget and only purchasing items on your list, you teach your children financial stewardship.

Here’s a good checklist to discuss spending and saving with your kids: • Do you really want or need it?

• Will you still want it in a week?

• How will you pay for it?

• Can you find it elsewhere for less money?

• Is there something better you should be using your money for?

Games. Classic board games that use money (like Monopoly, Life and Payday) are great opportunities to talk to your kids about stewardship.

Object lesson: The power of compound interest. How much does a slice of pizza cost? Would you believe nearly $65,000? If a slice of pizza cost $2, and you buy a slice every week for 50 years, you'll spend $5,200 on pizza. However, if you give up that slice of pizza and invest the money instead, earning 8% interest compounded each year, you'll have over $64,678.87! Read Rock, Brock, and the Savings Shock

by Sheila Bair to explain this to your child in easier terms.

Resources. Visit the US Securities and Exchange Commission website for ideas to teach your older kids about savings (www.sec.gov/ investor/students/tips.htm). Read The Berenstain Bears & Trouble with Money with younger kids to discuss ideas about financial stewarship.

See page 9 for more ideas for teaching kids about money.

“I will” statements. Encourage stewardship in your home by committing to the following statements. Say these “I will” statements aloud with your children, and encourage them to apply them to situations in their everyday life.

I will: save more and spend less • budget my money, time, talents and energy • look for the best value • make good choices with what I have • not confuse wants with needs.

Sarah Holmes lives in Norman and is the founder of Wildflowers Character Resources. Find more at www.thecharactermom.blogspot. com. “I Will” statements used with permission of Character First, www. character first.com.

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Your Healthy Family Metro Moms Talk Breastfeeding

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he subject of breastfeeding is often riddled with controversy. A recent TIME magazine cover sparked debate with its photo of a 26-year-old mom breastfeeding her 3-year-old son while he stands on a step stool in front of her.

Interestingly, the article wasn’t specifically about breastfeeding, but the photo did its job well…people bought magazines, and people were talking, including me. I was curious about how local moms felt about breastfeeding, and I learned a lot from the local moms who were gracious enough to share their breastfeeding experiences with me.

Benefits The World Health Organization recommends exclusive breastfeeding for the first six months of life, with continued breastfeeding and appropriate complementary foods up to the age of 2. Why? Here are some benefits of breastfeeding: • It has been shown to protect babies from illness and reduce the risk of developing asthma, obesity, type 1 and 2 diabetes, childhood leukemia and atopic dermatitis in infancy.

• It also reduces the risk of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome.

• It is easier for babies to digest, so breastfed babies suffer from fewer gastrointestinal symptoms than their formula-fed counterparts.

• It contains exactly the right amount of fat, sugar, water and protein, and is rich in nutrients and antibodies that formula companies simply can’t match—and, best of all?

• It releases oxytocin, a hormone that helps milk flow and has a calming effect on the mother.

Local Statistics None of this information is new, and yet in Oklahoma, only about 67 percent of new mothers even attempt to breastfeed, which is on the lower end of the national state-by-state breakdown published by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Only about 36 percent of Oklahoma moms are still breastfeeding their babies at 6 months of age Despite a breastfeeding information media campaign by the State Department of Health, Oklahoma consistently remains below the national average in nursing rates.

Parenting is all about choices, and every parent is entitled to the right to choose how to feed their child. What leads to these choices varies from one mom to the next.

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Working Moms Shana works full-time, and has a daughter who just turned 1. “I breastfed my daughter for three months, motivated by the fact that it was nutritionally the perfect food, it was free and it allowed me more time to bond,” she says. “But it was hard to find enough time to pump at work. Because I was gone all day, it seemed like she was breastfeeding constantly from the time I got home until she went to bed. She was taking very little at her daytime feedings, and seemed to be saving it all up for when I got home.”

Shana also notes that, “I think it would be fabulous if the United States had paid mandatory maternity leave. I was given six weeks at 70 percent pay, and it was just not enough time to establish breastfeeding the way I had hoped.”

Amy is also a working mother, but found it less challenging after having eight weeks of time off. “I breastfed my daughter for nine months and I pumped for 13. We began supplementing her diet with cereal and baby food at about 5½ months, because our pediatrician told us that exclusively breastfed infants have a decrease in Vitamin D levels around that time,” she says. “She began to take less milk at about 9 months, and my supply decreased. I think weaning then led to her having a little more independence. We used organic, Omega-3 fortified whole milk to wean. Teaching your child to find nutrients in their diets and not rely on breast milk or Pedia-sure types of drinks sets them up to make better independent choices later.”

Stay-at-Home Moms Lindsay is a stay-at-home mom to a 9-monthold son, though she worked briefly after her maternity leave before deciding to stay at home. She wasn’t able to breastfeed due to a medical condition. While she feels it is a mother’s choice how she feeds her baby, when speaking of the TIME magazine cover depicting a mom who practices extended nursing, she notes “There is a hippie mom movement that I think could be beneficial to our society. At a time when childhood obesity is at an all-time high and we are poisoning our children and ourselves with overly processed food, is breastfeeding for an extended period of time REALLY an issue?”

Marta is a stay-at-home mom of a 6-year-old daughter and 2-year-old old son. “I made the decision to breastfeed before my first child was born. I knew my mother had breastfed me and she told me about all the wonderful benefits breastfeeding would bring me and my child,” Marta explains. “I soon discovered

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that I really enjoyed the time that was just for me and my baby. Some of my most precious memories happened when we were sharing a quiet moment to nurse.” Both the health benefits and the bonding it provided proved important to Marta. “I never set out to break any records or to breastfeed for a certain length of time, but I ended up breastfeeding both my kids until they were around 2½ years. For us it just worked. Of course, they were eating table food by age 1, so the actual feeding part took more of a back seat to the other aspects that don’t get a lot of mention from doctors—the soothing, bonding and just being together in a quiet moment.”

My Own Story As for me, I am a working mother of two girls also. My first child, whom I had when I was only 23 and perhaps not as well-equipped to handle—well, anything—I nursed for about four months, but she was supplemented with some formula. She has always been pretty healthy, but still, I wish I had nursed her longer than I did.

My second child was nursed almost exclusively for six months, and I continued until a few weeks before her first birthday. I think we used exactly one can of formula in her first six months. She has always been in relatively good health, but not quite to the extent of her sister. She was slightly more prone to ear and respiratory infections, and was diagnosed with asthma at age five.

With both children, I was back to my prepregnancy weight by my six-week checkup.

The bottom line seems to be that moms are human, and while you can’t argue that in virtually every case, breast is best, as long as a mom is DOING her best and her child is healthy and thriving, there’s not much more you can ask for. Nothing is foolproof, and there’s no way to entirely predict any child’s future health, but the benefits of breastfeeding are substantial and should be given consideration, especially given the nation’s overall declining health.

To learn more about breastfeeding, contact The La Leche League (www.llli.org) or your healthcare provider. Another helpful source is the state’s website about breastfeeding, www.ok.gov/strongandhealthy/Eat_Better/ Breastfeeding.

Shannon Fields is a freelance writer from Edmond and a Certified Pharmacy Technician at Innovative Pharmacy Solutions.

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LibertyFest Edmond’s LibertyFest 2012 features 11 family-friendly festival events, including a car show, KiteFest, Chalk-It-Up, A Taste of Edmond, Concert in the Park, a parade and, of course, fireworks. Selected as one of the top 10 places to be in America on July 4th by CNN & USA Today, this weeklong celebration hosts Oklahoma’s largest hometown Fourth of July parade and the largest fireworks display in the Metro. For a complete schedule of events, call 405-3402527 or visit www.libertyfest.org.

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Safety Town Sooner Mall’s Safety Town teaches children the importance of bicycle, fire and personal safety. Classes are 50 minutes in length and offered free to children who turn 5 years old by September 1. Classes are conducted in a “safety village” located on the northeast corner of the Sooner Mall parking lot by the Norman Police Department, the Norman Fire Department and EMSTAT. One-week sessions are offered at various times throughout the day from June 4–29.

Register by phone at 405-360-0360 or in person at the Sooner Mall Management office. For more information, visit www. soonermall.com/events.

Photo courtesy of Sooner Mall.

2012 Endeavor Games The University of Central Oklahoma in Edmond hosts the 2012 Endeavor Games for athletes with physical disabilities from June 7–10 on campus and other nearby locations. A nationally-recognized, multisport, multi-disability event for athletes of all ages, the Games allow participants to compete in multiple sports and provides training clinics for aspiring athletes.

Competitions include the adaptive archery, cycling, power lifting, sitting volleyball, shooting, swimming, table tennis, track and field and wheelchair basketball. Visit www.ucoendeavorgames.com to register for participation, volunteer or view a schedule of events.

Jazz in June Six-time Grammy Award winner David Sanborn headlines the 29th annual Jazz in June music festival. The free, three-day, live jazz and blues event is scheduled for June 21–23 in Norman. Sanborn will headline “Jazz in the Park” on June 23, 9:00pm, at Andrews Park (201 W Daws), which also features a performance by the Norman High School Jazz Combo. For a complete list of performances, visit www.jazzinjune.org.

Photo courtesy of Jazz in June.

Photo courtesy of Endeavor Games.

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Quick Reference American Banjo Museum 9 E Sheridan Ave, OKC 604-2793, www.banjomuseum.org City Arts Center Fair Park, 3000 Pershing Blvd, OKC 951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org Fine Arts Institute of Edmond 27 E Edwards, Edmond 340-4481, www.edmondfinearts.com Fred Jones Jr Museum of Art 555 Elm Ave, Norman 325-3272, www.ou.edu/fjjma Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum 13th & Shartel, OKC 235-4458, www.oklahomaheritage.com Museum of Osteology 10301 S. Sunnylane Rd, OKC 814-0006, www.museumofosteology.org Myriad Botanical Gardens 301 W Reno, OKC 297-3995, www.myriadgardens.com National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum 1700 NE 63rd St, OKC 478-2250, www.nationalcowboymuseum.org Oklahoma Aquarium 300 Aquarium Dr, Jenks 918-296-FISH, www.okaquarium.org OKC Museum of Art 415 Couch Dr, OKC 236-3100, www.okcmoa.com OKC National Memorial 620 N Harvey, OKC 235-3313, www.oklahomacitynationalmemorial.org OKC Zoo 2101 NE 50th St, OKC 424-3344, www.okczoo.com Oklahoma Children’s Theatre 2501 N Blackwelder, OKC 606-7003, www.oklahomachildrenstheatre.org Oklahoma History Center 800 Nazih Zuhdi Dr., OKC 522-0765, www.oklahomahistorycenter.org Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History 2401 Chautauqua Ave, Norman 325-4712, www.snomnh.ou.edu Science Museum Oklahoma 2100 NE 52nd St, OKC 602-6664, www.sciencemuseumok.org

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JUNE 2012 Find our comprehensive 4th of July listing of local and statewide celebrations at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/ independence-day-fun!

June 1 • Friday OKC Redhawks vs. Nashville Sounds baseball at the Bricktown Ballpark. 7:05pm. $5 & up. 218-1000, www. okcredhawks.com. Other home games this month: 6/2-5, 7-10, 23-26, 30.

June 1–6 NCAA Women's College World Series at the ASA Hall of Fame Stadium, 2801 NE 50th St, OKC. 866-2080048, www.ncaa.com/wcws.

Rock, Paper, Scissors interactive multimedia exhibit at Science Museum Oklahoma.

June 1–10 Native American New Play Festival at the City Space Theatre in the Civic Center Music Hall features a new play by celebrated Native American poet, novelist & playwright Diane Glancy, staged readings & more. See website for schedule. 812-7737, www. okctheatrecompany.org.

June 3 • Sunday FREE Summer Breeze Concert Series: Alegria Real features live Latin American folk music at Lions Park (Symmes & Flood, Norman) 7:30pm. 307-9320, www. pasnorman.org/programs/summerbreeze. Also held: 6/17 (Beau Jennings & The Tigers).

June 4 • Monday FREE Admission at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History on the first Monday of each month. 10am-5pm.

FREE Puppets with Joann McMillan at the Norman Library features puppets of all sizes in the show “Wynken, Blynken, Venus, Neptune & Mars.” 2pm & 7pm.

June 4–29 Safety Town at Sooner Mall (3301 W Main, Norman) educates children ages 5-6 about bicycle, street & personal safety. Upon completion of a week-long sesssion, each child receives a bicycle helmet, goody bag and more. 9am, 10:10am, 11:20am & 6pm (1st & 3rd week only). 360-0341.

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June 5 • Tuesday FREE Family Night Out at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) features family-friendly activities & themes in the Food Court. 5:30-7:30pm. 755-6530, www. quailspringsmall.com.

FREE Monthly Mini Model Build at Penn Square Mall’s Lego Store. Build a new model every month. Held the first Tuesday of the month. Quantities are limited.

For ages 6-14. 5pm. 840-9993, www.Stores.Lego.com.

June 5–6 Picadilly Circus at Arctic Edge Ice Arena (14513 N Kelly) a white tiger spectacular, circus clowns & acrobats. See website for details. 941-552-9952, www. thefuncircus.com.

June 6 • Wednesday FREE National Running Day 5K sponsored

by RunHers, MetroFamily, Homeland Stores & DG Productions features family fitness events at Stars & Stripes Park (Lake Hefner), 7pm. www. metrofamilymagazine.com/running-day.

FREE Dream Boxes at the Village Library (10307 N Penn) invites teens to create a 3D dream box & explore surrealist images with the help of a local artist. Supplies provided. Preregister. 2-3pm.

June 6–10 12th Annual deadCenter Film Festival showcases films from all across the country with panels, workshops & parties planned over five days in downtown Oklahoma City. 246-9233, www.deadcenterfilm.org.

June 7 • Thursday Bug Day at Science Museum Oklahoma provides an up-close & personal experience with SMO’s very own flat rock scorpion, centipede & Chilean rose hair tarantula. FREE with paid admission. 9am-5pm.

Second Annual Annie Oakley Society Luncheon at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum honors Reba McIntire with the Annie Oakley Society Award. Proceeds benefit children's initiatives at the museum. Preregister.

FREE Concerts on the Curve at Classen Curve in OKC features family fun with live music, food, art & more. 6pm. www.classencurve.com.

June 7–10 UCO Endeavor Games presented by the University of Central Oklahoma at UCO, Edmond North High School & Lake Arcadia Outdoor Adventure Recreation Center features 11 sport competitions for athletes with physical disabilities. See website for details. 974-3160, www. ucoendeavorgames.com.

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June 8 • Friday World Oceans Day at the Oklahoma Aquarium (Jenks) celebrates water with fun, educational activities for kids.

10am-6pm.

World Oceans Day at the OKC Zoo invites guests to learn about water conservation & ways to help protect wildlife through special activities. 9am-5pm.

FREE Art a la Carte at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art provides live music, short films & an art activity in connection with Norman’s 2nd Friday Circuit of Art. 6-9pm.

efforts to help students living alone due to family crisis.

Chip-timed 5K & 1-mile Fun Run. Preregister. $20 5K, $15 Fun Run. 7:30am. www.earlysignup.com/footpursuit.

All American Idol Pre-Auditions at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) invites ages 16 & up to audition for a chance to win over $5,000 in cash & prizes. $3 donation benefits the Bethel Foundation. 9am. 286-3700, www. bethelfoundationusa.com. Also held, 6/23.

Yoga for Real Life Workshop at St. Luke’s United Methodist Church (222 NW 15) features yoga guru Maya Fiennes as she takes participants through exercises that will stimulate the chakras. Includes lunch. $110. 10am-3pm. 609-1026, www.poteettheatre.com.

FREE LIVE on the Plaza in the Plaza District (NW 16th between Classen & Penn) on the second Friday of each month includes art walk, local artists, live music & shopping. 7-11pm. www.plazadistrict.org.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Flip-Flop Notepad” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up ot create a notepad that looks like a flip-flop. 11am3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

June 8–10

Central Oklahoma Hemerocallis Society (Daylily Club) Show & Sale at Will Rogers Garden Center (3400 NW 36). 1-4pm. 550-7632.

26th Annual Red Earth Native American Cultural Festival at the Cox Convention Center includes dance competition, art market & parade representing more than 100 tribes. 427-5228, www.redearth.org.

Ozarka OKC Nationals at the Oklahoma River Boathouse District features one of the largest drag boat races in the nation. $15 & up, FREE for ages 12 & under. www.okcmotorsports.com.

The Musical Adventures of Flat Stanley presented

by ArtWorks Academy at Hillsdale College (3701 S Frontage, Moore) features students in K-7th grade. $8.

397-1824, www.ArtWorksAcademy.com.

2012 Oklahoma Senior Follies at OCU Kirkpatrick Auditorium (2501 N Blackwelder) benefits Mobile Meals of OK County. $25. Friday-Saturday, 7pm; Sunday, 3pm.

208-5227, www.okcu.edu/ticketoffice.

June 9 • Saturday 3rd Annual Stepping Out to Cure Scleroderma is a fundraising walk at Little River Park in Moore that benefits research to find a cure for Scleroderma.

Preregister. 213-9230, www.firstgiving.com/scl-ok.

Metropolitan Library System

FREE Diaper Bazaar at Green Bambino (5120 N Shartel) invites guests to buy, sell, swap & browse gently used diapers, diapering accessories & baby carriers. 10am-noon. 848-2330, www.green-bambino. com.

FREE Norman’s 2nd Friday Circuit of Art is a monthly celebration of the arts connecting the downtown arts district with galleries, performance halls, & Campus Corner. Trolley service between venues available at minimal cost. 6-10pm. 360-1162, www.2ndfridaynorman. com.

www.metrolibrary.org

June 9–10 Fort Reno Reunion in El Reno is for anyone who has lived or worked or had relatives who lived or worked at Fort Reno at any time in the past. Friday, 5pm; Saturday, 8am-2pm. 262-3987, www.fortreno.org.

Buchanan’s Vintage Flea Market in the Modern Living Building at State Fair Park features a large selection of quality antiques & collectibles. $5 adults, FREE children under 12. Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm. www.buchananmarkets.com.

June 9–15 FREE Family Summer Camp at Bass Pro Shops (200 Bass Pro) features activities, workshops, crafts, photos, s'mores, catch & release pond. Kids earn a pin for every workshop completed. Saturday, Sunday, Tuesday & Thursday. 218-5200, www.basspro.com.

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Belle Isle.................5501 N Villa...........843-9601 Bethany................3510 N Mueller.........789-8363 Capitol Hill............ 334 SW 26th...........634-6308 Choctaw.................2525 Muzzy...........390-8418 Del City..................4509 SE 15th...........672-1377 Downtown.............300 Park Ave.......... 231-8650 Edmond............... 10 S Boulevard......... 341-9282 Midwest City......... 8143 E Reno........... 732-4828 Ralph Ellison....... 2000 NE 23rd...........424-1437 Southern Oaks....6900 S Walker.........631-4468 The Village........... 10307 N Penn.......... 755-0710 Warr Acres...........5901 NW 63rd...........721-2616 Harrah...............1930 N Church Ave.....454-2001 Jones.......................111 E Main............399-5471 Luther......................310 NE 3rd............ 277-9967 Nicoma Park...... 2240 Overholser........769-9452 Northwest ..........5600 NW 122nd........606-3580 Wright Library.... 2101 Exchange.........235-5035

Pioneer Library System www.pls.lib.ok.us

Blanchard............... 300 N Main............ 485-2275 McLoud....................133 N Main............964-2960 Moore.................... 225 S Howard.......... 793-5100 Newcastle............. 705 NW Tenth.......... 387-5076 Noble........................204 N 5th..............872-5713 Norman.................225 N Webster......... 701-2600 Purcell.................... 919 N Ninth............ 527-5546 Shawnee............101 N Philadelphia......275-6353 SW OKC............... 2201 SW 134th.........979-2200 Tecumseh............114 N Broadway........598-5955

Walk for Wellness hosted by the OKC Indian Clinic at the OKC Zoo features a one-mile fun walk, information & vendor booths, light snacks & more. FREE zoo admission to walk participants who register by 8:30am.

8-11:30am. 948-4900 ext. 160.

Looking for a fun family activity?

College Tutors FREE ACT Practice Test at Edmond Learning Center (1333 N Santa Fe, Edmond). Space is limited, preregister. 8:30am. 513-6060, www. collegetutors.com/edmondok.

Weekend Picks

Building Bridges One Foot at a Time 5K at Bridges (1670 Stubbeman, Norman) benefits Bridges in their

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June 10 • Sunday

June 12 • Tuesday

Prix de West Perk at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum offers a Sunday morning stroll through the galleries & an opportunity to view the Prix de West art still available for purchase after the opening night sale. Complimentary coffee & admission. 9-11am.

Storytime Science at Science Museum Oklahoma invites guests to enjoy storytelling at its finest with SMO’s performer-puppeteer extraordinaire. FREE with paid museum admission.10am & 2pm.

FREE Family Day at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art invites the whole family to enjoy hands-on art activities and FREE admission to the museum. 1-4pm.

June 11 • Monday FREE Parent Power Night hosted by the Oklahoma State Department of Education at the Cox Convention Center features sessions on college & career planning, ACE for parents, Career Tech & more. Preregister.

6-7:45pm. 522-6225, https://register.wciconferences. org/ehome/index.php?eventid=40273&.

FREE See a Play, Dream a Dream at the Norman Library features the theatrical troupe Rhythmically Speaking as they combine music, drama & storytelling to enrich the spirit & enhance the mind. 2pm & 7pm. Also held: 6/12 (Moore), 6/13 (Blanchard & Newcastle), 6/14 (McLoud & Tecumseh.

Weekly Events FREE Discovery Room programs at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History. Usually held Saturdays and Sundays but see website for complete list & details.

FREE Art Moves weekdays (Monday-Friday) in downtown OKC (various locations), including performances, demonstrations, short films & discussions. Noon-1pm. 270-4892, www. artscouncilokc.com/art-moves.

Monday Evening Family Swim at the Mustang Town Aquatic Center (1201 N Mustang). $3 per person, $10 entire family. Mondays in June & July, 7:30-9:30pm. 376-9049.

Toddler Time playtime at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang). $2 or FREE with Town Center membership. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 9am-noon.

376-3411, www.cityofmustang.org.

Wild Tuesdays Story Time Safari at the OKC Zoo for kids 11 & under to hear stories & meet a zookeeper. FREE with paid admission. Tuesdays in June & July, 9:30am & 10:30am.

FREE Admission at Norman’s Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art on Tuesdays. 10am-5pm. Activities include Art Adventures for children ages 3-5 with adult (10:30am).

FREE Sooner Mall Outreach Storytime is an interactive story time held outside Sears at Sooner Mall for ages 9 & under. Tuesdays, 10am.

Story Time at Be Wild For Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) includes story & pottery activity. See website for details. Tuesday & Wednesday, 10:30am.

307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

Family Fun Night at JumpZone (SW 104th &

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Cupcake Party Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a cupcake stand & enjoy cupcakes from one of Norman’s own bakeries. $40 includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing. 1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart. com.

Paseo FEAST (Funding Emerging Artists with Sustainable Tactics) at LOCAL (2262 W Main, Norman) features five artists competing for a small grant including the proceeds from the dinner. The audience will vote on which artist deserves the money based on their presentations. $30. 6-8pm, www. paseofeast.com.

Tuesday Night at Town Center at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) features a concert by guitarist Edgar Cruz, games & crafts. 7pm. 376-3411.

Western) includes 2 adults, 2 children, 1 large pizza, 2 liter pop for $25. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 4:30-8pm.

200-1691, www.jumpzoneparty.com.

FREE Children’s Storytime at Quail Springs Barnes & Noble (13800 N May) every Wednesday & Saturday, 11am. 755-1155, www.barnesandnoble. com.

FREE Wednesday Night at the Movies at the Downtown Library. Held every Wednesday, 6-8pm.

231-8650.

Home School Bowling Days at Sooner Bowling Center (550 24th Ave NW, Norman) offers bowling for up to 6 people and much more, $15. Wednesdays & Fridays in June & July, 10am-3pm. 360-3634, www.soonerbowl.com.

FREE Thursday Noon Tunes at the Downtown Library, 11:30-1pm.

Family Fun Day at Celebration Station (509 Westline) features unlimited rides & a pizza buffet for $15.99 per person. Thursdays, 4-9pm. 942-7888, www.celebrationstation.com.

Cocktails on the Skyline at the OKC Museum of Art. Free for members; $5 for nonmembers. Cash bar, complimentary snacks & live music. See website for details. Thursdays through October 11, 5-10:30pm.

FREE Concerts in the Park at Chisholm Trail Park (500 W Vandament, Yukon) features music each Thursday eve (except July 5). 7-9pm. www. cityofyukonok.gov.

FREE Outdoor Concerts in the Park at Hafer Park Stage (1034 S Bryant, Edmond) offers live music outdoors each Thursday at 7:15pm. 359-4630, www.edmondok.com/parks/rec.

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June 15 • Friday

Movie Mania Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a their own snack bowl. $40, includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing. 1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart. com.

FREE Lights Out, Nights Out! at the Midwest City Library invites children of all ages to explore how nocturnal animals are well suited for night life & meet a nocturnal animal. Co-sponsored by the OKC Zoo. 3-3:45pm.

June 14–16

FREE Heitz Movie Nitez The Adventure of Rocky & Bullwinkle at Marc Heitz Chevrolet (I-35 & Lindsay, Norman) features family movies on the 3rd Friday of every month at dusk. Playground closed during movies.

488-7971, www.facebook.com/kcoyote.1Force.

The Jane Austen Festival presented by the Reduxion Theatre Company (1613 N Broadway) features readings, lectures, exhibits & workshops on Austen. $10 1-Day pass, $25 3-Day pass. 7:30pm. 651-3191, www. reduxiontheatre.com.

June 14–30 Two Gentlemen of Verona presented by Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park at the Myriad Gardens Water Stage (100 Myriad Gardens) features Shakespeare’s clever comedy about jealousy & the fickle nature of love. $15. Thursday-Saturday, 8pm. 235-3700, www. oklahomashakespeare.com.

FREE Green Earth Gang for ages 9-13 works on conservation projects in Martin Park. Fridays, 9:30am-12:30pm during the summer months.

755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/martin_park.

The UCO Jazz Lab features performances each Friday & Saturday at 8pm. $7 adults, $5 age 12 & under. 359-7989, www.ucojazzlab.com.

FREE Summer Nights Music in the Park at Buck Thomas Park (1903 NE 12, Moore) provides live music appropriate for all ages. Fridays in June, 7pm.

793-4332, www.cityofmoore.com.

Train Rides at the Oklahoma Railway Museum leave the Oakwood Depot at 10am, 11am, noon, 1:30pm & 2:30pm on the first & third Saturday of the month. $10 ages 15 & up, $5 ages 3-14, FREE under 3. 4248222, www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org.

FREE Children’s Storytime at Full Circle Bookstore (1900 NW Expressway) each Saturday, 10:15am.

842-2900, www.fullcirclebooks.com.

FREE Children’s Story Time at Edmond’s Best of Books, Saturdays, 11am. 340-9202, www. bestofbooksedmond.com.

FREE Skating Lessons at Skate Galaxy (5800 NW 36) for beginner, intermediate, advanced & featured styles. Saturdays, noon-12:45pm. 605-2758, www. skategalaxyokc.com.

All-Star Bowling for Differently-Abled Individuals at AMF Yukon Lanes (500 E Main). $8/week includes 3 games & shoes. Saturdays, 1pm. Email dbrakefield@yahoo.com to verify schedule. 354-2516.

Drop in Art at the OKC Museum of Art features hands-on art activities. FREE with paid admission.

Saturdays, 1-4pm.

Stay Late on Saturdays at the OKC Zoo. Open until 8pm on Saturdays through September.

Zoobilation at the Oklahoma City Zoo benefits the Oklahoma Zoological Society & features live music, food, drinks, silent auction & more. Must be 21 & older. $100. 7-11pm. 425-0613, www.zoofriends.org.

June 15–16 Juneteenth Heritage Festival in Shawnee observes the emancipation of African Americans from slavery, with historical talks by community elders, gospel signing, parade & heritage craft demonstrations. 275-3999, www.visitshawnee.com.

History Cruises (Saturdays) & Shakespeare Cruises (Sundays) on the Oklahoma River depart Regatta Park & Exchange landings. Adults $6+, children $3+, FREE under age 6. Through August, noon & 12:45pm. 702-7755, www.okrivercruises.com.

Specialty Cruises on the Oklahoma River depart from Regatta Park or Exchange Landings & feature a different theme each month. Must be 21 & older.

Saturdays, 7-8:30pm. www.okrivercruises.com.

FREE Open House at techJOYnt (8328 Glade) presents information about this hands-on, technology-based after-school education academy.

Sundays, 2-4pm. 345-5010, www.techjoynt.org.

FREE Concerts in the Park at Joe B Barnes Regional Park in Midwest City each Thursday evening through August 2. 7pm. www.midwestcityok. org for lineup.

FREE Lower Bricktown Live Summer Concert Series in front of the fountain just South of Mickey Mantel & Reno each Thursday evening throughout the summer. 7:30-9:30pm. www.lowerbricktown.com.

FREE Summer Concert Series at the Outlet Shoppes at OKC (7624 W Reno) features music in the Center Court on Thursday evenings through July.

7pm. www.theoutletshoppesatoklahomacity.com.

FREE Sunday Twilight Concert Series at the Great Lawn Stage in the Myriad Gardens provides free, family-friendly concerts in an outdoor setting.

Sundays June through August, 7:30-9pm. www. artscouncilokc.com for lineup.

FREE Sunset Cinemas at Charles J Johnson Park (7209 SE 29, Midwest City) features outdoor movies shown each Sunday night through August 12. Movies begin 20 minutes after sundown. www. visitmidwestcity.com.

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Babysitting Bootcamp at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) teaches skills needed for babysitting including first aid & CPR. $50. 10am-3pm. 376-3411, jheasley@cityofmustang.org.

Bright Night of Grossology at Science Museum Oklahoma is an after-hours, overnight experience at Science Museum Oklahoma. Registration required. $35 members, $45 nonmembers. 6pm-8:30am.

FREE 14th Annual Farming Heritage Festival in Shawnee provides fun for the whole family. 623-2834, www.oktractorclub.com.

June 15–17 Hairspray presented by ArtWorks Academy at Hillsdale College (3701 S Frontage, Moore) features students in 7th-12th grade. $8-$10. 397-1824, www.

ArtWorksAcademy.com.

June 15–24 The Music Man at UCOs Mitchell Hall Theater (100 N University, Edmond) features the story of a fast-talking traveling salesman. $20 adults, $15 students, FREE ages 4 & under. $5 discount for matinee performances.

Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm; Sunday, 2pm. 9743375, www.summerstockok.com.

June 16 • Saturday FREE “Hooked on Fishing” Classes presented by the OKC Parks Department at MetroTech Springlake (NW 36 & Springlake) invites participants ages 5-15 with adult to learn fishing basics. Equipment provided.

8-10:30am. 297-3903, www.okc.gov/parks.

Fort Reno Ghost Tours at Historic Fort Reno (7107 W Cheyenne, El Reno) includes tales of the fort & paranormal research teams. Third Saturday of the month through November. Preregister. $8 adults, $7 seniors, $5 children ages 5-12. 7:30pm. 262-3987, www.fortreno.org.

June 16–17 FREE Central Oklahoma Cactus & Succulent Society Annual Show & Plant Sale at Will Rogers Garden (3400 NW 36) features cactus, succulents & more. Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 9am-4pm. http:// sites.google.com/site/cocssok.

June 17 • Sunday FREE Admission for Father’s on Father’s Day at the following venues (most venues require on paid admission per complimentary admission): • Oklahoma Aquarium, 10am-6pm • OKC Zoo, 9am-5pm • OKC Museum of Art, noon-5pm • American Banjo Museum, noon-5pm • Fred Jones Jr Museum of Art, 1-5pm • OKC National Memorial Museum, noon-6pm • Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art, 1-4pm • Science Museum Oklahoma, 11am-6pm (with the donation of a new children's book) • Myriad Gardens Crystal Bridge Tropical Conservatory, 11am-5pm Drawing with Dad at the OKC Museum of Art invites dads & their children ages 6-9 to create a treasured art piece using a variety of drawing media. Preregister. $10 members, $15 nonmembers. 2-4pm.

Chalk the Walk in the South parking lot of Bass Pro Shop (200 Bass Pro) benefits the Parents Assistance Center. Preregister. $20 per square. 10am-3pm. 2328226, www.pacok.org.

June 18 • Monday

Riley’s Run 5K at Oakdale School (10909 N Sooner, Edmond) includes a 5K & 1-Mile Fun Run benefitting the American Partnership for Eosinophilic Disorders. $15 & up. 8am. www.rileysrun.com.

FREE Rock to the Moon & Back at the Norman Library features the Grammy Award Winning Sugar Free All-Stars & their kid rockin’ funky music. 2pm & 7pm.

Walk to Remember at Hafer Park (1034 S Bryant, Edmond) is a 3K walk to remember victims of drunk driving as well as to raise awareness & funds for victims’ families. $25 adults, FREE kids under 15. 9am-1:30pm. www.facebook.com/TheZachariahProject

June 19 • Tuesday

Decorate for Dad at the OKC Museum of Art invites kids ages 3-5 to share a story & make a special paper tie for Father’s Day. Preregister. $7.50 members, $10 nonmembers. 10-11am.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Key Keeper” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a gift for Dad for Father’s Day. 11am-3pm. 8588778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

Daddy Daughter Dance at the Moore Community Center (301 S Howard) for Dads & Daughters ages 4-14.

Two separate dances. Tickets must be purchased by 6/14. $5 per person. 5pm & 7:30pm. 793-5090, www. cityofmoore.com.

Fabulous Father’s Day at the Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western, OKC) offers FREE admission for dads.

10am-6pm. 799-FARM, www.orrfamilyfarm.com.

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Glenn Miller Orchestra at the Rose State Performing Arts Center (6420 SE 15, Midwest City) features big band music. 7pm. 297-2264, www.okciviccenter.com.

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FREE Tuesdays at Town Center “Woofstock” at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) features a Frisbee dog demonstration, vendors, contest for dogs, music, pictures & games. 7pm. 376-3411.

June 20 • Wednesday Pet Love Session at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites children to create a glass frame for their pet’s picture using frit, noodles & stringers. $40 includes materials, instruction, use of tools & firing.

1:30-3:30pm. 301-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

June 20–24 The Little Big Top presented by the Oklahoma Children’s Theatre (2501 N Blackwelder) tells the story of a sad little town where nothing fun ever happens until the day the circus came to town. $9 adults, $6 students & children ages 2-12. Wednesday-Friday, 10am & noon; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm. 951-0011, www. oklahomachildrenstheatre.org.

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June 23–July 4

Mother Son Pirate Party at Mustang Town Center & Aquatic Center (1201 N Mustang) features games, snacks & activities followed by time in the pool. $5. 6:309pm. 376-3411.

Liberty Fest in Edmond is a week long celebration featuring 11 family-oriented events, including a concert, road rally, kite fest, rodeo, car show, food fest, pageant, parade & fireworks. Named by CNN & USA Today as one of the top 10 July 4th festivals in the US. 340-2527, www.libertyfest.org.

June 21–23 FREE 28th Annual Jazz in June in Norman features three days of music. See website for details. ThursdayFriday, 7pm; Saturday, noon-1am. 325-3388, www. jazzinjune.org.

June 21–30 Willy Wonka by Upstage Theatre at the MAC in Edmond.

Thursday-Saturday. $12 adults, $6 students, FREE kids 4 & under. 285-5803, www.upstagetheatreok.com.

June 22 • Friday Sleep with the Sharks at the Oklahoma Aquarium includes movie, scavenger hunt, snacks & overnight stay in the Aquarium. Group discounts available. $45 nonmembers, $35 members. 7pm-8am.

June 23 • Saturday FREE “Hooked on Fishing” Classes presented by the OKC Parks Department at Dolese Youth Park Pond ( NW 50 & Meridian) invites participants ages 5-15 with adult to learn fishing basics. Equipment provided.

8-10:30am. 297-3903, www.okc.gov/parks.

FREE Sugar Free Allstars in Concert at Uptown Kids (5840 N Classen). 10:30am. 418-8881, www. uptownkidsstyle.com.

National Wildlife Federation’s Great American Backyard Campout invites families to enjoy camping out in their backyard to raise awareness & funds to support NWF’s efforts to connect children with nature.

Register online for recipes, activities & crafts for your campout. www.backyardcampout.org.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Summertime Door Hanger” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a beach scene to hang on their door.11am3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

At Snack Wars at the Downtown YMCA (1 NW 4), kids have 12 minutes to create a healthy snack in the mock kitchen. Features Marshall Reid, co-author of Portion Size Me: A Kid-Driven Plan to a Healthy Family. 4pm.

297-7700, www.ymcaokc.org.

Family Fun Night at KickingBird Golf Club (1600 E Danforth, Edmond) invites families to play 9 holes with special junior tees. Tee times required one week in advance. FREE putting course, $6 green fees, $6 carts, $2 range tokens. Tee times start at 5pm. 341-5350, www.kickingbirdgolf.com.

June 23–24 Overnight Family ZooSnooze at the OKC Zoo features a guided night hike for ages 4 years & up with parent to experience nighttime zoo animals, sounds, smells & stars before bunking down in the Zoo classrooms. $25 per child, $10 per parent. 7pm-9am.

June 25 • Monday Santa Express Golf Tournament at the Moore Athletic Golf Club (920 SW 19, Moore) benefits the Moore Firefighter’s Santa Express that provides Christmas gifts for children. Preregister. 9am. 833-5389, www. cityofmoore.com.

FREE Greg Rogers Native Storyteller at the Norman Library tells stories that highlight the importance of having a dream, living the dream & telling the tale. 2pm & 7pm.

Lorie Line—Live in the Sunshine at the Civic Center Music Hall highlights music from Line’s three newest albums & features world-class musicians. $44 & up.

8pm. 297-2264, www.okciviccenter.com.

June 26 • Tuesday Tuesdays at Town Center “Family Luau” at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang, Mustang) features luau themed games followed by a movie in the pool.

Purchase tickets by 6/25. $5 per person. 376-3411.

FREE Stage Combat workshop at the Edmond Library invites teens ages 14 & up to learn the basics of hand-to-hand grappling, punching, kicks, throws, falls & grabs with a focus on the teamwork & safety necessary for these techniques. Supervised by Reduxion Theatre Company’s Artistic Director & Stage Combat veteran, Tyler Woods. Preregister. 7:30-8:30pm.

June 26–30 Bye Bye Birdie presented by Lyric Theatre at the Civic Center Music Hall. $33 & up. Tuesday-Thursday, 7:30pm; Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm. 524-9312, www.lyrictheatreokc.com.

June 27 • Wednesday Science of the Circus at Science Museum Oklahoma features the performers of Ringling Bros. Barnum & Bailey to teach children how science is used in the circus. FREE with paid museum admission. 1pm.

June 27–July 2 World Cup of Softball VII & Border Battle Slow Pitch at the ASA Hall of Fame Stadium. www.asasoftball.com.

June 28 • Thursday Ladies Night Out at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) invites ladies to enjoy a night out with friends & bring snacks & beverages of choice. $4 studio fee.

6-9pm. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

June 28–July 1 Ringling Bros. & Barnum & Bailey: Fully Charged at the Chesapeake Energy Arena. $22 & up plus fees.

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Thursday-Friday, 7:30pm; Saturday, 3:30pm & 7:30pm; Sunday, 3pm. www.chesapeakearena.com.

July 5 • Thursday

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FREE A Day with Benjamin Franklin at the Oklahoma History Center features special activities with a Benjamin Franklin impersonator. 7pm.

Through June 30

Iolanthe presented by the Cimarron Opera at the Nancy O’Brian Center for the Performing Arts (1809 Stubbeman, Norman) is a comic operetta featuring participants from organization’s Theatre Camp. $10 adults, $5 children. 2pm & 7:30pm. 364-8962, www. cimarronopera.org. Also held 7/6-8.

June 30 • Saturday FREE Crafts for Kids “Star Spangled Shaker” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a patriotic shaker for Independence Day. Ages 3 & up. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www. lakeshorelearning.com.

June 30–July 1 Stars & Stripes River Festival in the Boathouse District on the Oklahoma River will include children's activities, bounce houses, face painting, games, Olympic Day, food & beverage vendors, live music, fireworks & more. www.oklahomariverevents.org.

JULY 2012 July 1 • Sunday Science Live Birthday at Science Museum Oklahoma celebrates the birthday of Science live with cake, singing & more. FREE with paid admission. 11am-6pm.

OKC Redhawks vs. Memphis Redbirds baseball at the Bricktown Ballpark. 7:05pm. $5 & up. 218-1000, www.okcredhawks.com. Other home games this month: 7/1-3, 12-15, 24-31.

July 1–August 26 Morning Zoo Rise at the OKC Zoo features an early opening at 8am daily to allow guests to enjoy the Zoo during the cooler morning hours. 8am-5pm.

July 3 • Tuesday FREE Family Night Out at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial) features family friendly activities & themes in the Food Court. 5:30-7:30pm. 755-6530, www. quailspringsmall.com.

FREE Monthly Mini Model Build at Penn Square Mall’s Lego Store. Build a new model every month. Held the first Tuesday of the month. Quantities are limited.

For ages 6-14. 5pm. 840-9993, www.Stores.Lego.com.

July 3–4 Art in the Park 2012: A Celebration in the Heartland at Buck Thomas Park (1903 NE 12, Moore) features live music, children’s tent, a giant sand pit, food, wineries, fireworks, arts, crafts & more. 793-4332, www. cityofmoore.com.

FREE Freedom Fest 2012 at Yukon City Park (2200 S Holly, Yukon) & Chisholm Trail Park (500 W Vandament, Yukon) features live music, fireworks, car show, United Freestyle Stunt Team Show & more. 350-3911, www. cityofyukonok.gov.

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Water Balloon Day at Science Museum Oklahoma invites guests to come launch water balloons on SMO’s west lawn. FREE with paid admission. 10am, noon, 2pm & 4pm.

July 6–7

The Return of Elegance exhibit at the Oklahoma History Center features historic eveningwear.

Through June 24 Katherine Liontas-Warren: Oklahoma Perspectives art exhibit at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art. FREE Julie Ayres Exhibit at the State Capitol features print works from the Choteau-based artist.

FREE First Friday Gallery Walk in the Paseo Arts District features more than 60 artists in 17 galleries.

Friday, 6-10pm; Saturday, noon-5pm. 525-2688, www. thepaseo.com.

Through July 28

July 7 • Saturday

Enoch Kelly Haney Art Exhibit: Touching the Past at the Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum.

FREE Crafts for Kids “Sunny Day Visor” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) invites kids ages 3 & up to create a visor to keep them safe from the sun.

11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com.

Through August 10

Ongoing Events June 8–August 5 Prix de West Invitational Art Exhibition & Sale at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum in an annual exhibition featuring more than 300 works by the finest contemporary Western artists. Opening activities June 8-10 feature art seminars, demonstrations, & awards banquet. Preregister for opening activities.

The Summer Movie Fun series at Harkins Bricktown Cinemas 16 features family-friendly movies. 231-4747, www.harkinstheatres.com/smf.

Through August 31 FREE Admission at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art (1900 W MacArthur, Shawnee) through August. 8785300, www.mgmoa.org.

Through September 3

Faces of Bettina Steinke at the National Cowboy & National Heritage Museum features the work of renowned portraitist, Bettina Steinke.

Blue Star Museums provides FREE admission for active military members & their families to participating museums across the country from Memorial Day through Labor Day. Available to military ID holder & five immediate family members. See website for details & full list of participating locations. www.arts.gov/ bluestarmuseums.

June 8–September 9

Through September 16

June 8–September 3

Vernet to Villon: Nineteenth Century French Master Drawings from the National Gallery of Art at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features the first exhibition lent to Oklahoma by DC’s National Gallery of Art including drawings & watercolors representing each of the major 19th-century movements.

June 8–September 16 The Cult of Personality: Andy Warhol, Harold Stevenson & Portraiture at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features portraits by Andy Warhol with a special focus on the Polaroids he used as preparatory studies for the portraits he produced.

Chinasaurs: Dinosaur Discoveries from China at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History features a dozen rare cast dinosaurs as well as fossil dinosaur eggs, nests & bones.

Through December 9 The Oklahoma & Infamy exhibit at the Oklahoma History Center features a display of military artifacts.

Also at OHC is a new exhibit, Oklahomans @ the Movies, that shows filmmakers, actors and historic theaters in our state.

June 12–August 25 Soaring Voices: Recent Ceramics by Women from Japan at the City Arts Center (3000 General Pershing) features ceramic works by 25 women artists. 951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org.

Visit www.metrofamilymagazine. com/calendar today for more fun upcoming events!

June 14–September 9

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Fusion: A New Century of Glass at the OKC Museum of Art features glass sculptures & installations from the

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Your family could win great prizes through the

PARTY GIVEAWAY With thesupport generous support of the following partners, MetroFamily With the generous of the following partners, MetroFamily brings you the opportunity to win one of these great party packages: brings you the opportunity to win one of these great party packages:

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Dodge City Paintball & Outdoor Laser Tag, party package for 10 people for either paintball or laser tag ($160 value).

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Jump!Zone, Weekend Classic! Party for 25 kids ($250 value).

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Paint Your Art Out, two-hour birthday party for 10 children ages 5-16 ($200 value).

RedPin Bowling Lounge, TenPin party package for 8 kids ($152 value).

Science Museum Oklahoma, admission for 35 people, private party room and host ($235 value).

Marc Heitz Community Complex, Movie Night birthday party for unlimited number of guests ($100 value).

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We Love Dads!

Levi W., age 1, Seth W., age 4, Finn W., age 6, and dad Daryl W. of Norman

To celebrate Father's Day, we asked our readers to submit their favorite dad and child photos.

Wyatt B., 4 months, of Oklahoma City with grandfather Johnny J. of Cashion

View all submissions at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/ june-2012-photos.

Keelan H., age 1, with dad Christopher H. of Oklahoma City.

Geoffrey B. and daughter Ainsley B., age 7, of Oklahoma City.

Addyson D., age 6, with dad Matthew D. of Edmond.

Jenna B., age 12, Sarah B., age 11, Lauren B., age 9, Kyle B., age 8 and Ben B., age 5, with dad Max of Mustang.

Robert W. with daughter, Zoey, age 1, of Choctaw.

For July, we want to see your family having fun in or near water. Submit your best splash pad, pool, river or lake photos by Friday, June 15.

For August, we want to see your favorite first day of school photos. Photos are due by Thursday, July 19.

Guidelines and a photo submission form can be found at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/mfm-photo-galleries.

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