MetroFamily Magazine October 2012 by MetroFamily Magazine

October 2012

Pumpkins, mazes & festivals, oh my!

Over 65 ways to enjoy fall

10 important questions to ask at your next parent-teacher conference It's time to VOTE on our Cover Kids & Family Favorites finalists! See inside for details.

Sleep, science & smarter kids:

How sleep boosts learning

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It will soon be time to pick our next President, but first, exercise your right to VOTE for our 2013 Cover Kids and your favorite family-friendly local businesses in our Family Favorites program! • The entries are in and the finalists have been chosen for our 2013 Cover Kids Search. From October 5-12, you may vote daily for your favorite kids, and help pick smiling faces for our upcoming covers. www.metrofamilymagazine.com/cover-kids-search. • By October 12, nominate your favorite family-friendly businesses, services and attractions for MetroFamily's Reader Favorites program. As an added bonus, just for completing a nomination ballot, you will be eligible to win a great holiday getaway to the Gaylord Texan Resort in Grapevine, Texas valued at $1000!

Voting to determine the winners in each category runs from October 15 through November 1. www.metrofamilymagazine.com/family-favorites. Our sincere gratitude to corporate sponsor, Oklahoma Employees Credit Union (OECU), for making this project possible.

Top picks & finds on our website this month Fall is more fun with these fabulous resources: • Seeking pumpkin patches? Fall festivals? We’ve got you covered! Find our comprehensive Fall Fun Guide at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/fall-fun. • Fall break camps are plentiful around the metro. Find them all here: www.metrofamilymagazine.com/fall-break-camps. • Our readers know best! Find their most-recommended places to go and enjoy (from parks to storytimes to places to take family photos, etc) at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/OKCreaders-recommend.

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Contents October 2012

Dear MetroFamily

Family Shorts

Editor’s Note.

Community news, resources & other family-friendly information.

16 Oklahoma Reads Great reads for all.

18 Exploring Oklahoma & Beyond

Grapevine, Texas is fun for all.

20 Ask the Expert

Help for parents of strongwilled children.

22 Real Moms of the Metro

Meet Lynda Powell, grandmother and advocate for single moms.

26 Problem-Solving Products 28 Focus on Education

The 10 questions you need to ask at the parent-teacher conference.

Find dozens of fall festivities in our calendar!

Pictured here are Reagan M., age 5, and Presley M., age 2, of Edmond at TG Farms. Photo provided.

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30 Local Shopping

Find “exquisite antiquity” at OKC’s Verdigris.

Did you know that a lack of sleep can be to blame for everything from behavioral problems to poor test scores? Find out if your child getting enough sleep! Get your family excited about voting! Resources and ideas to underscore the importance of our democratic process.

32 Your Healthy Family Breast cancer: tips for awareness and prevention.

35 Calendar

Fun events, activities and classes.

46 Mom Gets the Last Laugh Beware the corn maze.

ON OUR COVER: Brooklyn, age 5, is the daughter of Sarah and Matthew Lynch of Meeker. A kindergartner, Brooklyn enjoys cheering on her older brother, Ajay (age 7), dancing, gymnastics and playing outside. COVER PHOTO BY: Autumn Moore Photography, autumnmoorephotography.com.

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Dear MetroFamily, Parenting. Sometimes it seems like the hardest job in the world, sometimes the most absurd. But that’s what’s great about it, right? It’s never the same job two days in a row. God forbid the kids make it easy on us and behave with some sort of consistency so we can be prepared! This month, we are celebrating parenthood with a new column by humor writer Lela Davidson. We’re hoping that you laugh along with her (and us) about the ups and downs and absurdities of parenting. Because goodness knows, one of the most important things a parent needs (aside from a full night’s sleep) is a great sense of humor.

Enjoying the mild weather at the Children’s Zoo area of theOKC Zoo.

We celebrate fall in this issue, and this fall is bringing festivals and pumpkin patches (check out our calendar for a list of great events, and find even more online), and also in the tradition of our democratic process, the presidential election. Get your family involved by talking about the issues and the candidates. Find our guide to voting and the candidates on page 24.

And now that school is in full-swing, a big issue around our house is sleep. It seems like I never get a full night’s sleep for worrying about how much sleep my kids are getting (ironic, isn’t it?). Did you know that most kids, even teens, need at least eight hours a night. And preschoolers need up to 12! Find tips to help your kids get the rest they need on page 14.

Cheers,

To submit events to our calendar calendar@metrofamilymagazine.com Publisher Sarah L. Taylor sarah@metrofamilymagazine.com Editor Mari M. Farthing editor@metrofamilymagazine.com Art Director Kathryne Taylor kathryne@metrofamilymagazine.com Advertising Sales Athena Delce Dana Price ads@metrofamilymagazine.com Office and Distribution Manager Kathy Alberty kathy@metrofamilymagazine.com Assistant Editor & Online Content Manager Brooke Barnett brooke@metrofamilymagazine.com Calendar Editor Sara Riester calendar@metrofamilymagazine.com Contributing Writers Brooke Barnett, Lela Davidson, Julie Dill, Shannon Fields, Tiffany Guerzon, Malia Jacobson, Linda Kastiel Kozlowski Circulation 35,000 – OKC, Edmond, Nichols Hills, Norman, Moore, Midwest City, Yukon Also available as a digital edition at MetroFamilyMagazine.com.

P.S. Visit metrofamilymagazine.com/mari to read my blog, “Keeping it Real,” about my personal adventures in the ups and downs of parenting.

Articles and advertisements in MetroFamily do not necessarily reflect the opinions of the magazine or Inprint Publishing, Inc. We do not assume responsibility for statements made by advertisers or editorial contributors. The acceptance of advertising by MetroFamily does not constitute an endorsement of the products, services, or information. We do not knowingly present any product or service which is fraudulent or misleading in nature.

We asked our contributors:

What’s your favorite thing about fall? Brooke Barnett Assistant Editor

Sarah Taylor Publisher

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Shannon Fields Your Healthy Family

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Cooler temperatures, going to the pumpkin patch and carving jack o’lanterns

The weather, family, football, and a fire in the fireplace.

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The cooler weather and the many festivals and football games to enjoy.

Nothing beats a crisp fall evening around a bonfire!

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Contributing writers: Brooke Barnett, Mari Farthing

Fighting Cold and Flu Season

Fall means back to school, cooler weather, and unfortunately for parents, sick kids. According to WebMD, children have between seven and 12 colds per year, with higher numbers of colds occurring in kindergartenage children. Help combat cold germs by teaching your children to wash their hands properly. Hand sanitizers may also be helpful and can easily be made at home. To make your own, combine three ounces of filtered water with one teaspoon of aloe vera gel, 10 drops each of cinnamon, clove, rosemary and eucalyptus essential oils and 20 drops lemon essential oil in a four-ounce spray bottle. Shake gently and spray on hands. Massage into hands for 30 seconds for best results.

Agritourism Offers Teachable Moments

The Oklahoma Department of Agriculture, Food and Forestry recently announced the addition of a Teachable Moments icon to its website, www.oklahomaagritourism.com. Clicking on the icon allows teachers and educators to quickly and easily locate all venues in the Agritourism Program that offer a field trip option. More than 65 attractions statewide offer farm, ranch or Western heritage educational opportunities, and more than 500 venues and events are in the Agritourism Program, which joins together agriculture and tourism. Agritourism contributes to rural economic development in communities across the state where farms, ranches and vineyards open their gates, inviting the public to sample the state’s bounty and natural beauty.

“On a weekly basis, our Agritourism coordinators take questions from all over the state asking the same question: ‘We have a field trip scheduled, we would like to center it on agriculture, what is nearby that offers tours?’” says Program Administrator Jamie Cummings. “The Teachable Moments concept online is a way that all teachers and educators can quickly and easily look up their options.”

For more information about using the Teachable Moments icon, contact Jamie Cummings at 405-522-5652 or jamie.cummings@ag.ok.gov. Plus, visit www.metrofamilymagazine. com/fall-fun to read Jamie’s review and photos from local pumpkin patches and other agrotourism venues!

Halloween Treats To Keep—Not Eat By Tiffany Doerr Guerzon

With childhood obesity and food allergies on the rise, many families are trying to find nonedible items to hand out on Halloween night. Unfortunately, candy is often the cheapest option. But, by shopping around and buying in bulk, you can find fun, inexpensive treats without the sugar rush. Piñata mixes sold at party stores may often have a good assortment of small toys—but, remember that no matter what you select, keep a few larger objects that are age-appropriate (and not choking hazards) for younger children. Some ideas include:

• Glow sticks, which usually can be found at craft, party and discount stores. These can be activated and then connected to make bracelets or necklaces to wear immediately for fun and visibility. • Halloween jewelry like spider rings, plastic bead necklaces, bangle bracelets and more are fun options. • Small notebooks or fancy pens, fall-themed pencil toppers or erasers, tattoos, stickers and small boxes of crayons. • Party-favor-sized Play-Dough. • Lip balm in fun flavors. • Bouncy balls or other similar small toys.

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Fevers often accompany colds. MetroFamily staff members tried out the latest thermometers for sick children of all ages.

• Vicks Behind Ear Thermometer works great for your littlest patient, especially if he has an earache. ($50) • The Braun ThermoScan Ear Thermometer has a pre-warmed tip and built-in memory to remove the guesswork of whether that fever has gotten worse ($39+) • Vicks ComfortFlex Thermometer takes the old-fashioned oral thermometer a step further with a fast, 8-second reading time and color-coded backlight. ($15) All of these thermometers are available locally at major retailers or drug stores.

Hand sanitizer recipe used with permission from Treatment Alternatives for Children, by Dr. Lawrence Rosen, Jeff Cohen and Alpha Books.

Top 10 Reader Picks: Best Places to Find Fall Fun

Cooler fall weather brings great opportunities to enjoy outdoor fun— whether exploring a local pumpkin patch, getting lost in a corn maze or taking part in a trick-or-treat event. The metro offers many great places to find fall fun, and we recently polled our readers for their favorite places to go and fall events to attend. Here, in random order, are their recommendations: • Mikles Family Farm Maze & Pumpkin Patch (42610 N Wolverine, Shawnee)

Learning Outside the Classroom: They’re Lovin’ It!

• Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch (720 Henney, Arcadia) By Julie Dill

Students of Moore West Junior High were elated when their math teacher, Andrea Brock, walked them to a nearby McDonalds and taught them the practical use of decimals. “Delicious Decimalness” is a lesson Brock implemented to show students when and where they will see, use and compute with decimals. Word problems became real-world math problems as students collaborated with their peers to solve meaningful questions like: If you paid for your meal using a 10 dollar bill, then how much change should you expect? and How much does a small coffee and a #1 value meal cost?

Although field trips have been cut in many districts due to lack of funds, Brock feels that they are an excellent way to connect classroom learning to real-world application. She’s received positive feedback from students and parents. Seventh grader Camryn Loper said, “We learned how to subtract, multiply, divide and add decimals. We got to learn and have fun at the same time.” Of course, the added bonus, students were able to order a meal of their choice. Is this a cool school, or what?!

• Chester’s Pumpkin Patch (5201 Cimarron, Piedmont)

• St. Matthew United Methodist Church Annual Pumpkin Patch (300 N Air Depot, Midwest City) • Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western)

• TG Farms (4335 W Highway 9, Norman)

• FrightFest at Frontier City (11501 NE Expressway, October 5-28)

• Storybook Forest (Spring Creek Park at Arcadia Lake, October 23-31)

• Haunt the Harn at Harn Homestead (1721 N Lincoln, October 25)

• Haunt the Zoo at the OKC Zoo (2101 NE 50, October 26-31)

Thanks to Kim M., Christina T., Cheryl G., Suhail S., Heather W., Nicole C., Annie G., Tina R., Denise H. and Michelle G. for contributing to the list. Visit www.facebook.com/metrofamily to share your thoughts on next month’s list. Have a place you’d like to suggest? Comment on our website at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/favorite-fall-fun-venues.

Editor’s note: Find the details about all of these places and events in our calendar (starting on page 35) and even more ideas at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/fall-fun.

nominate a school by submitting a short video explaining why their school needs a healthy school makeover and how they’ll use the Grand Prize award to improve the health of their students.

Healthy School Makeover Contest

In support of National Childhood Obesity Awareness Month, video entries are now being accepted for a nationwide Healthy School Makeover Contest. The contest is managed by SPARK, a collection of research-based physical education, after school, early childhood and coordinated school health programs for PreK through 12th grade educators.

The winner will receive a $45,000 grand prize, consisting of educational materials, training, and equipment. Individuals can

“Budget cuts continue to negatively impact health and physical education programs. The Healthy School Makeover Contest will transform one location into a model healthy school,” said Paul Rosengard, Executive Director at SPARK. “We are calling on educators and students to motivate people to vote by sharing their stories about the importance of healthy living and how their school can be a positive example for others.”

Entrants must post videos on www.healthyschoolmakeover.com by the October 31 deadline. The public will vote on the videos from November 1–14 to determine the finalists. A panel of judges will then determine the winner from the finalists, and Hall of Fame golfer Annika Sorenstam will present the grand prize to the winning school. Find more information about the contest and a list of rules at www. healthyschoolmakeover.com. October 2012 | www.metrofamilymagazine.com

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Captain McFinn Battles Bullies

October is National Bullying Prevention Month. According to the National Association of Elementary School Principals, an estimated 18 million children are bullied in the United States each year. Bullying can be a difficult subject to discuss with young children, but a new book series featuring relatable characters just might make it easier.

Captain McFinn is a shark who was the biggest bully on the reef—until he learns through actions of kindness and compassion that it’s always more rewarding to be a friend than a bully.

“My ultimate goal with Captain McFinn and Friends is to make the world a better place in which to live, one child (and fish) at a time," says Phyllis Cafaro, author and founder of the series. “Bullying in schools is a major issue nationwide, occurring on a daily basis. No parent, grandparent or educator wants children to feel unsafe at school, because schools should be a place for learning, fun and friendship.”

Pack It Up! 10 School Lunch Ideas By Tiffany Doerr Guerzon

Are your kids already complaining of boredom when it comes to the lunches you’re packing? Try something new! 1.

Find out more at www.captainmcfinn.com.

Golf Tournament Benefits Local Family

The Griffin and Logan Chill Golf Tournament and Benefit, scheduled for Monday, October 22 at the Greens Golf and Country Club (13100 Green Valley Drive), will benefit the Chill family, whose twin boys, Griffin and Logan Chill, were diagnosed with the terminal illness Alpers’ Syndrome earlier this year.

Alpers’ Syndrome is caused by a genetic mutation passed on by two healthy parents who are carriers of the recessive gene. There is no cure or method to slow the progression of Alpers’, and most who are diagnosed do not live to see the following year. Logan lost his battle with Alpers’ on August 21.

“Karlee and Jeff are enduring a trial that no parents should have to face, but they are not doing it alone,” said Ainslee Crum, benefit chair. “We are hosting this benefit both to soften the medical expenses they are facing and to celebrate the lives of Logan and Griffin.” The golf tournament includes two flights of golf with shotgun starts at 8:00am and 1:00pm, $150 per player. A benefit dinner and auction will follow at 6:30pm (tickets $50). Tournament registrations due by 10/8; dinner registration by 10/19. For more information, visit www.glchill.com.

2. Cut it: For the diehard sandwich eater, use large cookie cutters to cut their favorite sandwich into interesting shapes. Try the MomInvented Puzzle Bites Sandwich Cutter ($4, www.ginsey.com) for a fun alternative. 3.

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Spotlight on Character: Virtue

Riches adorn the dwelling; virtue adorns the person. — Chinese Proverb

Being virtuous means that you work hard to do what is morally right. It means you set the standard for your family and uphold it by your example. Having virtue means that you work hard to make good choices about all things in life, and that you strive to uplift others with your choices and influence. Encourage virtue in your family by saying these “I will” statements aloud with your children, encouraging them to apply these statements to situations in everyday life.

I will: do what is right and encourage others to do the same • guard my eyes, ears, words and thoughts • learn to stand alone • abstain from damaging my mind or body • treat others as I want to be treated. Read about virtue to bring the lesson home to your kids.

• The Children’s Book of Virtues is a compilation of stories edited by William J. Bennett, offering tales of good virtue from Aesop to modern folklore. • Step Gently Out by Helen Frost and Rick Lieder reminds readers that there is virtue in treating even the smallest creature with respect. I will statements courtesy of Character First, www.characterfirst.com.

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Buy it: Invest in small reusable containers for pudding, gelatin or fruit cups. Try the Planet Box Lunch System ($40+, www. planetbox.com) for a durable, reusable option for packing up lunch.

Dip it: Try carrot sticks in ranch dressing or apple slices in peanut butter.

Freeze it: Freeze a juice box or water bottle and pack with perishables.

Heat it: In a thermos, heat up anything from canned soup to last night’s chili. Try the Thermos Foogo Baby Bento, with 2 insulated containers in an insulated bag. ($20, www.thermos.com)

Rethink it: Try new things! Consider freeze-dried organic fruit by Little Duck Organics in Strawberry Mango. ($4, www.littleduckorganics.com) Roll it: Make roll-ups by rolling several slices of lunch meat together, then cut in half and secure with toothpicks. Or, roll lunchmeat around cheese sticks.

8. Stack it: Cut lunch meat and cheese into small squares and pack with crackers.

9. Wrap it: Turn their favorite sandwich into a wrap. Use large tortillas to wrap anything from PB&J to turkey and avocado.

10. Write it: A handwritten note from mom or dad in their lunch box makes a kid feel special; from “I love you” to jokes or words of encouragement on test day.

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Sleep, Science, and Smarter Kids: HOW SLEEP BOOSTS LEARNING

Want kids to bring home A’s? Start with more ZZZs. According to sleep experts, lost sleep hurts learning and hinders school success. That’s bad news, because today’s kids get about an hour less sleep each night than they did 30 years ago, says New York Times bestselling author Po Bronson in his book NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children. This lost sleep comes with a steep price tag—impaired learning and decreased academic success. How does sleep boost learning? Researchers believe it has to do “Restorative sleep is essential for children; lack of sleep can lead to with the way the brain processes information during sleep. In fact, lack of concentration and behavior problems,” says Kris Sekar, M.D., Michigan State University researchers found that children learn while Medical Director of the Children’s Sleep Disorders Center at OU they’re asleep as the brain integrates new information and memories. Medical Center. Even modest sleep deprivation is enough to hinder Researchers from University of Florida discovered that newborns learning. According to a study published in the journal SLEEP, a learn in their sleep, and new research from the American Academy of mere hour of lost slumber is enough to bring on inattentiveness Sleep Medicine shows that sleep helps students perform better on tests. and hyperactivity in young children. A 2011 study of 6 and 7 year It turns out that there are important considerations about sleep for olds shows that language skills, grammar, spelling and reading each age and stage of childhood. comprehension suffer when kids get less than nine hours of sleep nightly.

Ages 3–8

For sleep-deprived kids, school trouble starts early: 10 percent of kids in early education suffer from sleep disturbances that disrupt learning, according to a German study. The American Professional Sleep Society reports that sleep deprivation significantly worsens inattentiveness and hyperactivity in young children, leading to ADHD-like symptoms (known as faux ADHD).

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Sleep-deprived children may not appear sleepy, notes Salman Zubair, M.D., a sleep specialist at Oklahoma Saints Neurology. In fact, they may act hyper and goofy. But preschoolers and school-age children don’t outgrow the need for a consistent bedtime and bedtime routine. Establish an age-appropriate bedtime that allows your child to rest for 10–11 hours each night.

Ages 9–13

During the tween years, academics become more challenging and sports more competitive. But when increasingly busy schedules start cutting into sleep, kids retain less of what they learn, says Mark Splaingard, M.D., director of the Sleep Disorders Center at Nationwide Children’s Hospital in Ohio. “Long hours spent on sports practice or math problems are counterproductive, if these activities keep kids up late at night,” he notes. Kids will learn more and perform better—whether on the field or in the classroom—with sufficient shut-eye.

Parents need to understand sleep’s importance and guard kids’ sleep hours zealously, says Splaingard. That means maintaining firm school-year bedtimes and choosing after-school and evening activities that end at least an hour before kids need to wind down for bed.

Ages 14–18

Teenagers are notoriously sleep-deprived, with good reason. During high school, jobs, activities, sports, socializing and homework simply don’t leave enough time for sleep. Most teens need more sleep than parents think—over nine hours a night—and chronic sleep deprivation hurts learning at a time when kids need lots of mental energy for tough subjects from chemistry to calculus.

But busy schedules deserve only part of the blame for a teen’s sleep deficit: cell phones and laptops keep teens up late, and when computers are finally powered off, round-the-clock access to cell phones provides a further disruption. A new study reports that sleeping near cell phones puts teens at risk for so-called “sleep texting”—waking up and firing off text messages during the night without any recollection of having sent the texts the next morning. All this sleep disruption adds up to bleary mornings and bleak report cards. Protect teens’ sleep hours with a media curfew—shut down all electronics an hour before bed and establish a “charging station” outside the bedroom to leave electronics overnight. This important step keeps bedrooms free of sleep-disrupting cell phones and computers, says Harris. “The bedroom should be a place for sleep,” says Zubair. “Not homework, watching TV or surfing the internet.”

Tutors, cutting-edge gadgets and hours of homework can’t compensate for hours of lost sleep when it comes to learning. When parents prioritize kids’ sleep needs, learning comes more naturally, says Splaingard. “We think we’re helping make kids more successful with more activities and more homework. But what they really need is more sleep.”

Malia Jacobson is a nationally published health writer specializing in sleep. She blogs about family life at www.thewellrestedfamily.com.

How much sleep does your child need? Is your child getting enough rest? Check these guidelines to be sure. Three to Six years old

10-12 hours per day

Seven to Twelve years old

10-11 hours per day

Thirteen to Eighteen years old

8-9 hours per day

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Oklahoma Reads Great Reads for All Highlights Hello Hello is a magazine designed for babies by the publishers of the popular children's magazine, Highlights. Hello features bright colors printed with non-toxic vegetable inks on sturdy coated pages that are stitched and not stapled. Subscriptions available, starting at $34 per year.

Early Readers

Nominate your faves until October 12— then VOTE Oct 15-Nov 1 to determine each category’s winner!

Bedtime for Boo By Mickie Matheis, illustrated by Bonnie Leick Golden Books, hardcover, $11 Just in time for Halloween, this ghost of a bedtime tale features a cast of friendly monsters, making for a fun Halloween spin on a bedtime book.

Ready for Pumpkins By Kate Duke Alfred A. Knopf, hardcover, $17 The class guinea pig learns a lesson in patience and happiness in this cute story that will make you want to celebrate fall.

Robot Zombie Frankenstein! By Annette Simon Candlewick, hardcover, $17 Humans shouldn’t be the only ones to have fun with costumes. Friends Robot and Robot learn that the only thing as good as friends and costumes is pie. Whimsical and brightlycolored pages will engage young readers.

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Goosebumps Wanted: The Haunted Mask By R. L. Stine Scholastic, hardcover, $16 This first-ever hardcover title celebrates 20 years of Goosebumps stories. Lu-Ann thought it would be a boring Halloween until she finds the haunted mask... A frightful tale for all ages.

Rightfully Ours: How Women Won the Vote By Kerrie Logan Hollihan Chicago Review Press, softcover, $17 Twenty-one stories and activities for kids to teach them about women’s suffrage. Includes important stories from historical figures (both women and men) who fought to given women the right to vote.

The Secret of the Fortune Wookiee By Tom Angleberger Amulet Books, hardcover, $13 The irreverent saga continues in this third book in the Origami Yoda series. A fun spin on Star Wars, middle school and cootie catchers.

Teens

Something Wicked Edited by Mari Farthing Buzz Books, softcover, $9 Six short stories (including several by local authors) feature inventive tales about mythical monsters, curses, trolls and a spider infestation.

Adults

Ball Complete Book of Home Preserving Edited by Judi Kingry and Lauren Devine Robert Rose, softcover, $23 Make the most of a summer bounty with home preserving. Tips and recipes for all levels of expertise will encourage readers to preserve and store a delicious variety of foods.

The Homework Trap: How to Save the Sanity of Parents, Students and Teachers By Kenneth Goldberg, Ph.D. Meg Schultz, softcover, $15 For any parent who dreads homework as much as her child does, this book offers guidance and help for addressing homework issues and leaving the drama behind. The Family ROI Experience By Barbara Fagan-Smith and Lesli Gee Family ROI, softcover, $25 Packed with advice from business professionals, this workbook will help your family reach its full potential.

Reviews by Mari Farthing.

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Exploring Oklahoma & Beyond Good Times in Grapevine

ust a short trip down I-35 brings you to Grapevine, Texas. This small town, tucked between Dallas and Fort Worth, is a fun-packed destination with something for all ages to enjoy. From the metro, head south on I-35 and when you reach the East/ West split, take the west leg to Texas 114; there is some construction but the drive is quick and easy, delivering you right to the heart of downtown Grapevine and close to fun attractions. Grapevine is home to the best of both worlds: historical attractions and modern fun that will keep everyone in your family engaged. Here are must-see highlights for your trip.

Great Wolf Lodge

Great Wolf Lodge (photo 1) is a familyfriendly resort jam-packed with adventure. The highlight is water fun—indoor and outdoor water slides, pools and hot tubs—but other fun activities (6) such as the MagiQuest adventure (additional fee required) and daily free activities (such as the Clock Tower Show and pre-bedtime Story Time) will keep you occupied when you’ve had enough time in the water. Parents, if your children are old enough to slide by themselves, the adults-only area includes tables and a hot tub for relaxation.

The Lodge has several food and drink venues, but the in-room fridge makes it easy to cut costs by packing your own snacks and drinks. Other places to stay: The Gaylord Texan Resort is just across the road from Great

Wolf and offers many amenities, including themed family activities during school breaks and holidays. If your family prefers a more rustic venue, try the Vineyards Campground & Cabins on Grapevine Lake, which offers camp and RV sites along with fully-furnished cabins.

Historic Main Street

Downtown Grapevine is a treat not to be missed. On the corner of College and Main, the Clock Tower Glockenspiel (3) features animatronic would-be train robbers putting on a free show each day at noon and 6:00pm. All along Main Street, the historic storefronts have been restored to provide a great venue for walking, shopping and eating from dawn until dusk.

Stop by the Main Street Bistro and Bakery for breakfast, where you can get everything from fruit or bacon and eggs to freshly-baked treats (be sure to try the almond croissant—it came highly recommended by the locals and is delicious!).

At lunch, stop by Chicago-style Weinberger’s Deli for one of 120 different sandwiches that guarantee you will not leave hungry. We recommend the Reuben or the Cheeseburger sub, a local favorite. For dinner, Esparza’s offers authentic Mexican fare just off Main Street in a historic renovated home. The ambience is relaxed and friendly and first-time visitors will be made to feel at home.

Have a craving for Italian food? Try Napoli’s Cafe and Confectionary on Main Street for great Italian menu items (including personalsize pizzas (2)) that are generous enough to share but so delicious that you might not want to. Save room for dessert—their homemade treats include gelato and pastries.

Grapevine Vintage Railroad (5)

The free museum at the Grapevine Vintage Railroad Depot (4) features historic (and some prehistoric) items that tell the story of Grapevine. Purchase a ticket for a 90-minute ride on the vintage open-air or closed coaches to the Fort Worth Stockyards and spend a few hours exploring before returning. Round-trip rides are scheduled every day— but be advised that the train runs on working railroad tracks, which may cause delays.

Grapevine Opry

Housed in the restored 1940s-era Palace Arts Theatre on Main Street in the historic downtown, the Opry is home to live performances each weekend. During our visit, we enjoyed an evening of Elvis music that was fun for ages 8—108. The theater also hosts a First Friday Film Series, featuring a classic film each month for just $5—bring a receipt from any Grapevine restaurant for free popcorn with your movie.

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4 Grapevine Mills Mall

Featuring over 180 stores in more than a million square feet of space, Grapevine Mills Mall is just down the road from historic downtown.

Enjoy a wild lunch at the Rainforest Café, which provides an unforgettable rainforest setting to enjoy while you dine. This is a popular place to eat, so be sure to arrive early or allot for ample time (up to several hours) to wait for a table.

LEGOLAND Discovery Center

Inside the mall, the LEGOLAND Discovery Center is a great place to shop and explore. A small-LEGO-themed indoor park, there are rides to enjoy (including a Kingdom Quest ride where the whole family can compete to rescue the Princess), a Forest Ranger Pursuit ride, the MINILAND exhibit that brings the Dallas/Fort Worth skyline to life in miniature and plenty of opportunities to build and explore. Be sure to have your kids bring a mini figure along for the trip—they can trade with a LEGOLAND employee for one of the figures on their name bagde. A great way to get outof-circulation figures.

Sea Life Grapevine Aquarium

Just across from the LEGOLAND attraction in the mall, the Sea Life Aquarium contains an amazing display of marine life, including a 360-degree walk-through tank that highlights sharks, starfishes, rays and sea turtles. Hands-on activities for the kids and easy-toreach viewing windows make this accessible for all abilities. Unique attractions include a room of jellyfish and a room of seahorses. Lots of fun for all ages!

9/11 Flight Crew Memorial (7)

Grapevine is perhaps best known as the home to the Dallas-Fort Worth World Airport and the headquarters of American Airlines, so it’s fitting that Grapevine would pay homage to the brave flight crews who lost their lives on 9/11. This larger-than-life bronze statue can be found on Texas 114, just east of the historic downtown. No matter what type of adventure you seek, Grapevine offers all that and more, a convenient short drive away.

Mari Farthing is the editor of MetroFamily Magazine.

Festive Fun in Grapevine

Planning your visit to Grapevine? Here are some fun upcoming events not to miss:

• October 20: The 12th Annual Nash Farm Fall Roundup features family-friendly activities (games, wood carving and demonstrations to name a few). • October 20: 15th Annual Butterfly Flutterby features a butterfly parade that travels down Main Street. Over 600 butterflies will be released throughout the event to celebrate the southern migration of the monarch butterflies. • November through January: The Christmas Capital of Texas, Grapevine celebrates the holidays with millions of lights, Christmas decor and over a thousand unique events. • December 13, 14, 16, 20, 21 and 22: The Texas Tenors (recently featured on the television show America’s Got Talent) will be featured at the Palace Theatre for a limited engagement. Visit www.thetexastenors.com for details. Unless otherwise noted, visit www.grapevinetexasusa.com for details.

Find It

Great Wolf Lodge 100 Great Wolf Drive 817-488-6510, www.greatwolf.com

Grapevine Opry at the Palace Theatre 300 S Main Street 817-481-8733, www.gvopry.com Main Street Bistro and Bakery 316 S Main Street 817-424-4333, www.themainbakery.com

Weinberger’s Deli 601 S Main Street 817-898-1425, www.weinbergersdeli.com

Esparza’s Restaurante Mexicano 124 E Worth Street 817-481-4668, www.esparzastexas.com

Napoli’s Italian Cafe & Confectionary 311 S Main Street 817-310-0385, www.napolisofgrapevine.com Grapevine Opry 300 South Main Street 817-481-8733, www.gvopry.com

Grapevine Mills Mall 3000 Grapevine Mills Parkway www.simon.com/Mall/?id=1248

Rainforest Cafe Grapevine Mills Mall 972-539-5001,www.rainforestcafe.com

LEGOLAND Discovery Center Grapevine Mills Mall 972-539-9386, www.legolanddiscoverycenter. com

Sea Life Grapevine Aquarium Grapevine Mills Mall 972-539-9386, www.visitsealife.com/ grapevine

The Gaylord Texan 1501 Gaylord Trail 817-778-1000, www.gaylordtexan.com Vineyards Campground & Cabins 1501 N Dooley Street 888-329-8993, www.vineyardscampground.com

Images 1, 4, 5 and 7 courtesy of Grapevine CVB.

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Ask the Experts Help for Raising Strong-Willed Children This month’s question: My daughter is so strong-willed, no matter what I say, she always does the opposite. How can I encourage her to follow the rules and guidelines of our family and beyond? Even at a very young age, children can be taught that good decisions result in positive consequences, and conversely, bad decisions result in negative consequences.

Understanding positive and negative consequences is an important lesson for children to learn about the world. I would recommend that you develop a series of guidelines for your child with both positive and negative consequences explained. Let her make her own decisions, separate from your influence or emotions. Then, as the parent, be responsible for carrying out the consequences.

Teach her that her world can be easy or difficult, depending on her decisions. It’s also helpful to incorporate her responsibilities or privileges into her decision-making process. If she behaves maturely, give her mature, age-appropriate privileges; if she behaves immaturely, respond with appropriate loss of privileges. Donnie Van Curen, M.A., LMFT is a licensed marriage and family therapist with Counseling 1820, LLC. 405-823-4302, www.counseling1820.com.

Strong-willed kids can challenge even the best parent’s skills. Trying to change a child’s behavior is a process and requires consistency and plenty of patience. Choose one or two behaviors that your daughter exhibits that you want to change and work on those behaviors.

Talk with her and explain the consequences of each behavior and what you want her to do instead. Choose a consequence you know you can consistently enforce, is realistic, and appropriate for the child’s age and that particular behavior. If she is in school or a child care program, discuss how her behavior will be handled by her teacher and the importance of everyone following the rules at school because they are meant to protect and help everyone learn.

Another way to deal with “bad behaviors” is to find ways to show your child a more appropriate behavior that still fulfills her need for independence and is an outlet for her energy. For very young children, re-directing the child’s attention can be an effective means of changing behaviors. Tamara Walker, RN is a talk show host and speaker in Edmond. www.momrn.com.

This is a tough topic to handle in a short column; whole books and programs have been developed around this issue! If I were to sum up my professional thoughts, I would say this: A strong-willed child is dancing to a different tune than the children who follow directions easily. There are many good characteristics of having a strong will. She will not be taken advantage of easily. She is probably willing to take the consequences for her behavior. A child who obeys easily doesn’t like consequences, so tries harder to avoid them, but a strongwilled child is strong enough to take the consequences. My advice is to continue to discipline her, even if it doesn’t seem to change her behavior. But if you discontinue the discipline, she will take over the house and do whatever she likes, whenever she likes.

I would encourage you to try a new type of discipline for two weeks at a time. Figure out what tune she’s dancing to, find what is important to her and what motivates her. When you discover her tune, you will be able to motivate her in the behaviors you want to teach her to engage in or abstain from.

Devonne Carter, LCSW, is a Clinical Social Worker in private practice in Edmond. 405-326-3923, www.carterscounseling.com.

Our Readers Respond:

• Give her two choices that you are comfortable with and let her decide for herself. Then she will feel like she has some control and you get your desired outcome. • I’d say if she is off the chart with her oppositional behavior, then you might be looking at something where you need professional help. • She needs to feel empowered! She should have mandatory chores, because she’s part of the family. With privileges of being such a grown up come responsibilities. • Pick your battles, for one. Let her have some choices that she feels she can really make. Then, you have to law down the law on the non-negotiable things. You have to look at how you really feel about everything, and, if something is not that big of a deal, don’t waste time and energy on it. Thanks to Tara T., Leah M., Sarah T. and Kathy W. for your feedback! Have a question for our experts? Email it to editor@metrofamilymagazine.com.

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Real Moms of the Metro Meet Lynda Powell: Advocate for Strengthening Single Mothers

Photo by Autumn Moore Photography, www.autumnmoorephotography.com

t was Lynda Powell’s experience as a struggling single mother that led her to dedicate her life to provide opportunities for others. Lynda founded the Bethel Foundation in 2004, with the mission of making single mothers more productive citizens. She works daily to help alleviate the roadblocks that keep single mothers from taking steps to provide a better life for themselves and their children. Her foundation provides support through mentoring, rehabilitation and quality housing options designed to help struggling single mothers get back on their feet. The Foundation offers assistance through a home ownership program, scholarship funds, cooking classes, educational conferences, access to clothing and food, and free summer camps for children of single mothers. Lynda believes that changing lives—one mom at a time—makes for stronger families and a stronger America. Here’s more about how this 60-year-old mother (daughter Cassie is 29 and son Joseph is 23) and grandmother (to 6-year-old Kayle and 2-year-old Lily) works to support single mothers in the OKC metro:

What’s one thing most people don’t know about you? I attended Woodstock in 1969 and was a rebellious teenager.

What are you passionate about? Living and enjoying life to the fullest and not wasting a minute We never know when our last minute will be.

How has motherhood changed you? As a single mom for many years, it was a struggle for me to provide for my family. However, as “Nana,” I have been able to enjoy with my grandchildren what I missed as a mother.

Quick Facts About Lynda 1. What are five words that describe you? Faith, believer, passionate, loyal and driven. 2. What’s your favorite meal to cook for dinner? Turkey chili and cornbread. 3. What’s your favorite movie? Sleepless in Seattle and Titanic. I’m a diehard romantic! 4. What’s your guilty pleasure? Bling! I love all jewelry, real and fake. 5. Coffee or tea? Flavored coffee.

Lynda and her family: Back row, L to R: Son, Joseph Belle and wife, Courtney; motherin-law, Jackie Powell; daughter, Cassie Richerson and husband, Steve. Front row, L to R: Husband, J.R. Powell; granddaughters Kayla and Lilly Richerson; Lynda Powell.

How do you banish stress? I do something creative, like seasonal decorating.

What inspires you? My husband, J. R.—he’s my sounding board and grounding force.

Along with your job as a mom, what do you do? I am the founder of the Bethel Foundation in Oklahoma City. It’s amazing how I started [the organization] on a desk in my home and now, in our eighth year, we have our own building on five acres. In 2011, we provided services to over 9,500 women and children through the various programs that we offer. What do you like most about your job? Each day is different. I never know what or whom God is going to send our way, so it makes the day exciting. What is on your wish list? More family vacations!

What are you most proud of? That God chose someone like me to do a big mission for him.

Advice for other moms? To realize you are worthy and that your life matters. To remember that all difficult situations do pass.

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What motivates you? Knowing that each day I’m given, I can make a difference in another person’s life. How do you find balance in your life? That is difficult for me, however, I try to keep order in my spiritual walk. Then, everything else falls into place.

Where are you from originally? What brought you to Oklahoma? I was born in Durant and raised in Antlers. Over my life, I have lived in Oregon, Missouri, Florida, North Carolina and New York City, but Oklahoma is home. What’s the biggest challenge in your life? Remembering to take time off—I’m a workaholic.

What is your parenting style? As a single mom, I was strict—but as Nana, I’m such a softie! Favorite advice about motherhood? Tell your children that you love them daily. I learned it late, but now realize that love really does conquer all.

Brooke Barnett is the Assistant Editor of MetroFamily Magazine. Editor’s note: For more information about the Bethel Foundation, call 405-286-3700 or visit www.bethelfoundationusa.com

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Hook Your Kids On Voting! Every four years, the presidential election puts the spotlight on our country’s democratic process in action. It’s also a helpful reminder that, as parents, one of our tasks is to grow our children into caring, informed and active citizens. What a great opportunity for us to explain to our children how our President is elected—and more importantly, why the election process is at the heart of what it means to be an American. Why it Matters

Even at a very young age, children can be taught about American government and election procedures. The key is to make it fun, while drawing parallels with what’s actually going on in the news. It’s also the perfect time to emphasize why exercising your right to vote, as an adult, is so important.

Voting is the ultimate equalizer. Everyone gets one vote, regardless of the job they hold, their connections or the money they have in the bank. Voting is also communicating—it’s one of the most important ways each of us can reach out and communicate with those in power. Voting sends a direct message about what’s important to the voters.

Suzanne McCabe, Editor of Junior Scholastic, has identified other important concepts which all kids can be taught. “Young people should be aware that the President has a profound effect on their lives and their futures,” says McCabe. For example, the President nominates members of the Supreme Court, who make important decisions about everything from the children’s rights and freedoms to video game policies!

McCabe adds that although kids can’t yet vote, parents can establish a voting habit in their kids. “Studies show that children who accompany their parents to the polling place are more likely to vote when they become adults,” says McCabe. Getting kids involved in politics can help them to become more engaged citizens, “which empowers them to help shape the kind of country they want to live in,” she adds.

Beware of “Bad Guys”

As we expose our kids to the election process, Dr. Virginia Shiller, a licensed clinical psychologist and lecturer at the Yale Child Study Center, suggests we take a cautious approach. “Children from 3–8 years old will gradually acquire the worldly knowledge and cognitive

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skills to understand elections. It’s best to avoid exposure to TV shows or heated discussions that could frighten them.” She explains that children have images of good guys and bad guys from fairy tales and movies, and so positioning a candidate as bad may alarm your child (especially if the “bad guy” ends up elected!).

McCabe agrees. “Parents should pay keen attention to what their children are hearing and help them understand the significance… without necessarily going into graphic detail.” As all parents know, there are many lessons to be learned from the mistakes of others. Though sometimes elections, and the negative campaigns and news stories that often result, can seem like reality TV gone bad, McCabe explains that kids can be taught the crucial role that a free press plays in American society. “When they report the news accurately and investigate potential wrongdoing, they do a great service to the nation. Without free press and free elections, government leaders can inflict great harm on their citizens,” McCabe reports. For very young kids, Shiller explains that it’s all about their little world. “A preschooler's world is very much centered on their home, school and immediate neighborhoods. In any discussion, it’s best to focus on local elections. As children progress to elementary school, they can start to understand that the policies of national leaders can make a difference to this country—and the world.” As parents, it’s up to us to decide how far to take the subject, but getting the conversation started is a positive move.

Dr. Shiller stresses that our most important role as parents is to “model that it’s important to be a good citizen and to vote. Take children to the polls with you, or proudly display your ‘I voted today!’ sticker.”

Create a Kid-Friendly Election

One of the clearest ways to explain the election process is to recreate it. Lisa Jacobson, founder and CEO of Inspirica (a nationwide tutoring company that “inspires” kids to do better in school) describes how we can convey the power of elections in a fun way. “Create an election for ‘Which is the favorite sport of family and friends?’” Provide kids with a ballot box and a list of sports (use pictures for younger children). Then each child can vote for their favorite sport. Jacobson suggests that children ask their family members and friends to cast votes, which are all counted up at a pre-determined time. During the last election, my kids were 8 and 10 years old. We made a poster with pictures of both candidates, and every kid who came over got a chance to “vote” by writing their name on lines under each picture. It got my kids interested in the election and forced them to explain the process to their friends. They couldn’t wait to see if the national election would match the results of our kid-election (It did, by the way).

Read all about it

An outstanding book, especially for very young children, is Max for President, written and illustrated by Jarrett Krosoczka. In this story, Max and Kelly both run for class president. They each create posters, distribute buttons and announce their platforms for a better school. The story demonstrates the campaign and election process with a pleasant resolution at the end. I found it great to read once through, and then go back and draw parallels to the presidential election the kids have been hearing about. The story boiled it down to the essentials that young children should understand, and illustrated the power of the vote, and of the office. Most are available online, at your local bookstore, or better yet, your local library.

Get involved

Growing Leaders is an international nonprofit, which is dedicated to mentoring American youth to become effective, compassionate leaders. Tim Elmore, Founder and President, encourages all parents to go beyond the “talking” and help their kids get involved in the process. “Children have been told all their life to be environmentally conscious, get involved and make a difference. They are ready and waiting,” says Elmore.

He suggests our kids want action and interaction, not simple talking points from the candidates or from parents. “Write a letter to a congressman, make signs that express

their opinions, attend a rally and ultimately, take them to the polls with you on Election Day,” are just a few of Elmore’s ideas. Through it all, he insists, parents must keep an open dialogue with their children, as they will be exposed to a whole host of campaign messages, but they may not be mature enough to process it all—especially the negativity.

Historically, the voter turnout rate in the country has been low; in the 2008 presidential election, only 71 percent of the voting-age population registered to vote—and only 64 percent actually voted. The good news is that, in a 2011 survey (“Teens Speak Up: A National Youth Survey on Civic Engagement and Citizenship” by Boys &

The Candidates

The next presidential election will take place on Tuesday, November 6, 2012. Incumbent President Barack Obama is running for a second term as the candidate from the Democratic party.

So I will continue to teach my children about the democratic process of our government and why their right to vote is so important. Then, when the spotlight is again on our country in 2020 and my youngest finds himself voting for the first time, hopefully he will embrace what a privilege and duty it is to have a voice in choosing our leaders.

Linda Kastiel Kozlowski blogs at www. thewayformoms.com, is the mother of two young boys and votes every chance she gets.

His major challenger is former Massachusetts Governor Mitt Romney, a Republican.

Nominee: Barak Obama

Nominee: Mitt Romney

Home State: Illinois

Home State: Massachusets

Website: www.barackobama.com

Website: www.mittromney.com

Party: Democratic

Running Mate: Joe Biden

Campaign Notes: According to his website, Obama plans to grow the economy from the middle class out, not the top down. He also believes in raising classroom standards and reforming student loans to put an affordable, high-quality education within reach for millions of students. He plans to cut oil imports in half by 2020 and make America more energy independent. His campaign information also states that he believes that quality, affordable health insurance is a key part of middle-class security. Obama is working to simplify the tax code while asking millionaires and billionaires to pay more, as well as giving women more control over their health, offering expanded access to health care and decreasing pay and health care discrimination.

Girls Clubs of America in partnership with the Case Foundation and Nickelodeon), 10,000 teens in over 200 communities were asked about voting, education and leadership. A full 80 percent of teens polled agreed that citizens absolutely have a responsibility to vote. They also believe that each and every vote counts.

Party: Republican

Running Mate: Paul Ryan

Campaign Notes: According to his website, Romney believes that reducing and stabilizing federal spending is essential, but breathing life into the present anemic recovery will also require fixing the nation’s tax code to focus on jobs and growth. His campaign information states that he believes the U.S. can strengthen its workforce by retraining American workers to ensure that they have the education and skills to match the jobs of today’s economy and attracting the best and the brightest from around the world. As president, Romney pledges to cut federal spending and regulation, and bring much-needed reforms to Medicare and Social Security, work to balance the budget, reduce the size and reach of the federal government and return power to the states and the people. October 2012 | www.metrofamilymagazine.com

Problem Solvers Helpful Family Products

When we hear about new or helpful products, we like to let our readers know! Here are a few of the more interesting items we’ve recently discovered. Visit the product website for a list of local retailers.

Problem:

Ouch! Bug bites.

Solution:

The Therapik offers portable relief with the natural healing power of heat. ($13, www. therapik.com)

Problem:

Your little builder gets destructive when not engaged.

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Solution:

The SmartLab Toys Weird & Wacky Contraption Lab will keep her constructively busy for hours. ($40, www. smartlabtoys.com)

Problem:

Out for a walk. It’s too hot! It’s too cold!

Solution:

The Wrapeaze fleece poncho is warm, cozy and easy to put on or take off in quickly-changing weather. ($35+, www.wrapeaze.com)

Problem:

Love cooking with your tablet computer, but it keeps falling over!

Solution:

The 2-Cool EZView Stand props up your tablet and keeps it off the messy countertop. ($22, www. rtaproducts.com)

Problem:

You need a less-giant diaper bag.

Solution:

The Baby Pak Mini Diaper Bag holds all of your essentials in one small package. ($22, www. rtaproducts.com)

Problem:

Little brother has learned to climb. Big sister has a bunk bed. Danger!

Solution:

The Toddle Lock straps onto the ladder, preventing young climbers from precarious heights. ($40, www. toddleladderlock.com)

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Focus on Education Parent-Teacher Conferences: 10 Questions to Ask

ou’ve been there before—sitting in your child’s chair, feeling the minutes fly by, and you want to ask your child’s teacher something… if only you could remember now what it was. Given the short time allocated per parent-teacher conference, it’s important to ask your child’s teacher the questions that can help you better understand your child’s academic performance, gain a clearer picture into any strengths and weaknesses and create a collaborative relationship that will last throughout the year.

Getting Ready

Amy Shapiro, Executive Director at My Learning Springboard (www. mylearningspringboard.com) says the first step to a successful parent-teacher conference is to get to know the teacher before the conference. “This is important because if concerns and problems arise, you have already established a positive and trusting relationship with your child’s teacher,” Shapiro explains. “Any time you meet with your child’s teacher you want to make the most of the time provided.”

Shapiro also says that the parent-teacher conference is no time for surprises. “As a parent, you want to be continually up-to-date, knowledgeable and involved in your child’s academic and emotional progress,” she explains. “Don’t wait until you sit down at the table to share your concerns. Teachers don’t like surprises either!”

“It’s important to start the process with an open mind and good attitude,” explains Tanya Mitchell, Vice President of Research and Development at LearningRX (www. learningrx.com). “Don’t let bad experiences with school, conferences, or even this teacher force you into a defensive role. With the right approach, you can turn the conference into a valuable opportunity to collaborate on your child’s progress.” Mitchell urges parents to go in to the conference prepared with open-ended questions that can make the most of the time allotted and to do their homework before you go. “Conference time is limited, averaging 20 minutes in elementary school and just a few minutes per teacher in high school,” she

The Big Ten Questions to Ask

In addition to specific questions directly related to classroom policies, school work and curriculum content, Hendrickson encourages parents to ask open-ended questions to give you a better grasp of who your child is during the school day. Consider asking your child’s teacher:

From your perspective, does he enjoy school?

Does he seem curious and eager to learn? When given the choice, what does she choose to learn? How does he deal with transitions or changes in the schedule?

How does he act when his behavior is corrected or redirected?

What does he talk to you about?

In a group setting, what role does he take on? How does he fit into the class?

How does he express himself best?

6. What kinds of questions does he ask in class? 8.

Is he confident about school? Is he confident in his abilities?

10. Does he demonstrate empathy? Respect? Wonder?

In addition to these suggestions, Mitchell encourages parents to remember one other important question, which furthers the spirit of collaboration between parents and educators. “Be sure to ask ‘What can we do at home to reinforce what you’re doing at school?’’ she explains. “Then, make a follow-up plan and set a timeline for updates. Confirm the best time and manner to contact the teacher to check on progress.”

cautions. “Review schoolwork, test results, online grading systems, homework policies and other information already sent home so you don’t use valuable time asking questions that you could already have the answers to.”

Moving Beyond Grades and Behavior

Jean Hendrickson, Executive Director of Oklahoma A+ Schools, has worked with both teachers and parents to identify questions that can help stimulate more meaningful dialogue during conferences. “Considering both what teachers wish parents would ask of them and what parents really want to know about their kid’s school experiences, we have developed a list of questions to help parents better prepare for conferences,” Hendrickson explains. “Vetted by teachers and parents, the questions are designed to move past the basics like grades and behavior. They help to establish a relationship between the adults as co-teachers of the child and equip students

About Oklahoma A+ Schools

Part of the University of Central Oklahoma, OKA+ is the state’s only research-based whole school network dedicated to improving test scores, reducing behavioral issues and creating more joyful and engaged students in its schools. The network of more than 70 schools represents early childhood through high school institutions in urban, suburban and rural Oklahoma. For more information, visit www.okaplus.org.

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to be creative thinkers, problem solvers and collaborators.”

Going Home Happy

Even if you only have 20 minutes to cover all these bases, Shapiro says asking the correct questions can help you feel satisfied with the outcome of the conference and help to make the most of the remaining school year. By the end of the conference you should know:

• • • •

your child’s strengths, goals and steps to facilitate improvement, how and when follow-up will occur, and what you will be doing with your child outside of school to support these goals. Mitchell says that there is one last step to a successful parent-teacher conference—taking the message home. “Even if there are no problems, chances are your child was a little nervous about conferences too, so be sure to share praise, concerns and solutions.”

Brooke Barnett is the Assistant Editor and Online Content Manager at MetroFamily Magazine.

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Local Shopping Verdigris: Exquisite Antiquity

n the dictionary, verdigris is defined in part as that greenish-blue patina that forms on copper, brass or bronze when it ages. On the corner of Classen and 10th in Oklahoma City, however, Verdigris describes a place to find a plethora of beautiful vintage pieces for your home.

Exquisite Antiquity

Shoppers searching for that perfect something to accessorize a room, a vintage furniture piece or a repurposed globe-cum-lamp will find all of that and more at Verdigris. Sisters and proprietors Melissa Graham and Kimberly Spicer say that’s exactly what people expect from the store—something that can’t be found just anywhere.

A year and a half ago, Kim rented booths at consignment shops around the metro, but none of them were exactly what she was looking for. “I never felt like I personally fit in at the spaces I was selling at,” said Kim. The sisters decided to open Verdigris to create an environment that more closely met their vision of a space featuring an eclectic mix of vintage pieces, antiquities and repurposed works of art.

like the look of the store when it has a good, open flow,” so customers can move between the booths without even realizing that they are seeing items from a different buyer.

A Little Bit of Everything

Verdigris offers a wide range of items because they have a wide range of buyers. “Our buyers travel all over the country,” said Melissa. “We have at-home moms with a love for antiques and vintage items and people who do this full-time, traveling all over to find items. We have a good variety of dealers.” “The best thing that our customers tell us is that they find things here that they can’t find anywhere else,” says Melissa. “And that’s the most rewarding part.” Often, visitors will come in several times a week because the unique stock found in the store changes so often, with new items arriving daily.

“Our dealers can log on at the end of the day to see exactly what sold,” says Melissa. “They’ll bring in items the next day to replace what’s sold.”

For those looking to sell items at Verdigris, there is a moderated waiting list, meaning that dealers are added to the store according to the type of items they will bring to the store, not based on how long they have been on the waiting list. “Current dealers are given priority to grow their space when new space opens,” says Kim.

A Family Business

The best thing about working together is that the women compliment one another’s skills. Melissa works on the administrative side of things while Kim works on the creative—but it all overlaps. The sisters stay flexible to make sure that all the needs of the company are met.

“It’s a lot of work,” says Melissa. But it’s clear that it’s a labor of love.

Mari Farthing is the Editor of MetroFamily Magazine.

Verdigris

1001 NW 10th Street, OKC 405-602-8986, www.verdigrisokc.com Open Monday-Saturday, 10:00am–5:00pm Verdigris Flea events held each month, featuring expanded vendors in the courtyard, food and more. Details available online.

Photos by Mari Farthing.

“Some of our customers feel that if they don’t come in often, they might miss something,” The women combined their love of vintage says Kim. “And a lot of times, people won’t pieces, individual creativity and business buy that piece that they really want, and sense to create a new kind of space. Currently, when they come back, it’s gone.” there are over 30 separate dealers housed Many of the buyers at Verdigris have booths at Verdigris, offering a variety of items at other stores, but there are also quite a both vintage and repurposed. “We’re not a few who have never sold any of their items consignment shop,” says Kim. “Our vendors in a store before. “Some of our dealers are are like buyers for Verdigris, not just people lifetime pickers, but they’ve never sold their who bring their stuff here to sell.” items in a storefront,” says Melissa. Melissa agrees. “We try to bring together all of our buyers to make it one store. We really

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Your Healthy Family Your Breast Health

s you likely know, October is Breast Cancer Awareness month. As I prepare with my team to run in my second Race for the Cure (October 27 at the Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark in downtown Oklahoma City), it seemed like a good opportunity to remind readers of the importance of maintaining breast health. The best defense in fighting this often devastating disease is a thorough knowledge of our own breast anatomy, personal risk factors. Combine this with preventative measures and proper screenings for greatest success.

and 39 should have a clinical exam done by a health care provider at least once every three years, and should perform a self-exam every month. Women over the age of 40 should have an annual mammogram and clinical exam, as well as performing a self-exam each month.

Lifestyle Changes

While you may not think of your breasts as having a very distinct anatomy, each breast actually has six to nine overlapping sections, called lobes. Within each are smaller lobules, which end in dozens of tiny bulbs that can produce milk. These structures are all linked by a system of tiny tubes called ducts, which lead to the nipple. Fat fills the spaces around the lobules and ducts.

While screening is probably the most important factor, incorporating healthier habits into your lifestyle is important. There is no clear cause of breast cancer, but it is believed that increasing healthier practices may help to lower risk factors. Consider making positive changes to your diet, increasing exercise and reducing stress as a part of your overall commitment toward improving your health. A recent study shows that breast cancer is more likely to occur in women who are overweight or obese. The study suggests that excess body fat may cause hormonal changes in the body that can fuel cancer.

Screening

Risk Factors

Anatomy

The goal of breast cancer screening is to find potential cancers before they begin to cause symptoms. Breast cancers that are detected as a result of symptoms tend to be larger, and may have already spread beyond the breast tissue. Those found during screening examinations are more likely to be confined to the breast. According to the American Cancer Society, the use of mammography, clinical breast exam and self-examination offers women the best opportunity for early detection. Women between the ages of 20

There are a number of risk factors associated with the development of breast cancer. According to the Susan G. Komen Research Institute, the following factors are associated with an increase in the risk of developing breast cancer: advanced age, gender (females are more likely to get breast cancer, but males are also affected), BRCA1 or BRCA2 gene mutation, family history, dense breasts, Atypical Hyperplasia (a benign breast condition) and a personal history of cancer or radiation treatments.

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Factors with a moderate increase of risk include: having children after age 35, high levels of blood androgens or estrogens in preor post-menopausal women, weight gain after menopause and excess body weight.

Finally, factors with a lower increase in risk include: African-American or Ashkenazi Jewish heritage, heavy drinking, taking oral contraceptives and radiation exposure.

While these lists seems exhaustive, there is good news. Certain factors have also been shown to decrease risk, such as Vitamin D supplementation, breastfeeding and increased physical activity. Regular screenings can detect breast abnormalities in their earliest stages, and these measures, combined with minimizing your risk factors, can significantly improve your breast health and reduce your risk of developing breast cancer.

Types of Breast Cancer

Cancer occurs when cells become abnormal and divide without control or order. There are several types of breast cancer, the most common of which is called ductal carcinoma, as it originates in the milk ducts. Lobular carcinoma begins in the lobules, where milk is produced. If a malignant tumor invades nearby tissues, it is known as infiltrating or invasive cancer. These tumors can destroy healthy tissue, and can also enter the bloodstream or the lymphatic system, causing cancer to spread within the body.

Although medical researchers have made huge strides in genetic studies in recent years, no one can predict exactly when cancer will occur or how it will progress. Breast cancer usually begins in a single cell that changes

Vote daily from October 5-12 to help determine who will be featured on our 2013 covers! from normal to malignant over time. When breast cancer is diagnosed, even when found in its earliest stages, it is impossible to predict whether it will spread quickly or be easily treated. Breast cancer is a complex disease, and because of its unpredictability, early detection is key to successful treatment.

Be Proactive

Awareness is the best defense to staying healthy. Karen deCordova is the Director of Communications at Breast Imaging of Oklahoma. “It is especially important to remember that an annual screening mammogram is still the best technology for early detection of breast cancer. Despite controversial reports in recent years that may have given the impression that a screening mammogram was not necessary, we are joined with other health care groups, including the American Medical Association, American Cancer Society and American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology in recommending a screening mammogram on an annual basis for every woman starting at age 40 and continuing each year as long as the woman is in otherwise good health.” In addition, regular self exams are necessary to detect early changes.

Demystifying Mammograms

Many women are apprehensive about their first mammogram, which can be an unfamiliar procedure. However, while the procedure may be uncomfortable at times, mammograms are generally painless. The process is fairly simple, according to deCordova.

“When a woman comes in for a mammogram we first review her information, making certain that there haven’t been any recent major health changes that might influence her breast health, such as pregnancy, nursing, or surgery,” says deCordova.

After changing in a private dressing room, a technologist walks the patient through the mammogram process—which includes two X-ray views of each breast, to view from the top and the side. Once the image quality is checked, the patient can dress and check out of the clinic.

“Altogether, a screening mammogram will take a woman about 30–45 minutes. It may be a bit longer if the patient has very large breasts or has breast implants, as additional views are necessary,” says deCordova. The images are read by a radiologist, comparing to previous images, if available. Digital mammography allows for improvements in viewing the images, allowing for adjustments in contrast, zoom and focus of the images.

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Most insurance companies cover annual mammograms for women age 40 and over. For low-income families, there are other options. “One of the best programs out there is the Take Charge program,” says deCorva. Take Charge is a service provided by the Oklahoma State Department of Health’s Chronic Disease program and provides information and screening services to women between 50–65 years of age who meet income guidelines, lack insurance coverage or other qualifying factors. Call 405-2714072 for more information. It’s important to remember that the fight against breast cancer starts at home, with regular self-examinations. If you’re unsure how to perform a self-exam, ask your clinician when you’re in for your next appointment, or visit www.breastcancer.org or www.komen.org for instructions.

Shannon Fields is a freelance writer from Edmond and a Certified Pharmacy Technician at Innovative Pharmacy Solutions.

Susan G. Komen Foundation Thanks to events like the Race for the Cure, the Susan G. Komen Foundation has invested almost $2 billion into ground-breaking research, community health outreach, advocacy and programs in more than 50 countries. Since 1982, the Foundation has contributed to every major advance in the fight against breast cancer—transforming how the world talks about and treats this disease and helping to turn millions of breast cancer patients into breast cancer survivors. The Foundation works to promote early detection, fund ground-breaking research and to give home to women diagnosed with breast cancer. For more information, call 1-877 GO KOMEN or contact the Central Oklahoma Komen Affiliate office (115 Park Avenue) at 405-526-2873 or www.komencentralwesternok.org.

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Oklahoma City Barons

OPENING GAME

The Oklahoma City Barons open their third season at home on Friday, October 19 against the San Antonio Rampage at the Cox Convention Center at 7:00pm. Tickets begin at $16 and are available at the Cox Convention Center Box Office or at www. ticketmaster.com. On Sunday, October 28, the Barons will celebrate Halloween by offering a $5 discount on all regular admission ticket for those in costume, plus a Family Skate and autograph session with the players following the game. Kids can join the Barons Power Players club for $20 and receive a T-shirt, water bottle and admission to one game each month with paid adult admission. Also, during each Saturday home game through the season, the Barons will give away a car to one lucky fan. For more information on these and other promotions, call 405-232-4625 or visit www.okcbarons.com.

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31ST Race for the Cure Approximately 18,000 people are expected to participate in the 19th Annual Oklahoma City Race for the Cure, scheduled for Saturday, October 27 at the Chickasaw Ballpark in Bricktown. All Komen events raise funds and awareness for the fight against breast cancer, celebrating breast cancer survivorship and honoring those who have lost their battle with the disease. Registration begins at 7:00am, with the 5K at 7:45am, Kids Dash at 9:45am and Survivor Ceremony at 10:15am. Entry fees for the 5K or 1-mile race are $30 in advance, $35 on race day. Registration for children ages 17 & under for the Kids Dash is $20, $25 on race day. Breast cancer survivors receive free race registration. For more information or to volunteer, call 405-526-7223. Online registrations is available at www.komencentralwesternok.org.

Museum of Osteology’s 3rd Annual Halloween Bash As the only museum of its kind in America, the Museum of Osteology (10301 S. Sunnylane) displays hundreds of skulls and skeletons from all corners of the world making it the perfect venue for a family-friendly trick-or-treating alternative. The museum’s 3rd Annual Halloween Bash will be held on Wednesday, October 31 from 6:00-9:00pm and provides safe and educational trick-or-treating, crafts, activities and more. Admission is $3 per person and children ages 3 and under and free with a paid adult. For more information, call 8140006 or visit www.museumofosteology.org. Find dozens of fall fun events at www. metrofamilymagazine.com/fall-fun.

Mary Poppins Celebrity Attractions will welcome Mary Poppins to the stage of the Civic Center Music Hall on November 6-11, 2012 for eight performances. Featuring an irresistible story and unforgettable songs from one of the most popular Disney films of all time, Mary Poppins is recommended for children of all ages. The magical story of the world’s most famous nanny is the winner of 44 major theatre awards and is currently performing on three continents. Tickets go on sale on Friday, October 12 and may be purchased via phone at 405-2972264, in person at the Civic Center Box Office or online at www.celebrityattractions.com. For more information, visit www.celebrityattractions.com. Photo by Deen Van Meer, courtesy of Celebrity Attractions.

Photo courtesy of the Museum of Osteology.

Photo by Danielle Newport, courtesy of the Komen Central and Western Oklahoma Affiliate.

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Quick Reference American Banjo Museum 9 E Sheridan Ave, OKC 604-2793, www.banjomuseum.org City Arts Center Fair Park, 3000 Pershing Blvd, OKC 951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org Fine Arts Institute of Edmond 27 E Edwards, Edmond 340-4481, www.edmondfinearts.com Fred Jones Jr Museum of Art 555 Elm Ave, Norman 325-3272, www.ou.edu/fjjma Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum 13th & Shartel, OKC 235-4458, www.oklahomaheritage.com Museum of Osteology 10301 S. Sunnylane Rd, OKC 814-0006, www.museumofosteology.org Myriad Botanical Gardens 301 W Reno, OKC 297-3995, www.myriadgardens.com National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum 1700 NE 63rd St, OKC 478-2250, www.nationalcowboymuseum.org Oklahoma Aquarium 300 Aquarium Dr, Jenks 918-296-FISH, www.okaquarium.org OKC Museum of Art 415 Couch Dr, OKC 236-3100, www.okcmoa.com OKC National Memorial 620 N Harvey, OKC 235-3313, www.oklahomacitynationalmemorial.org OKC Zoo 2101 NE 50th St, OKC 424-3344, www.okczoo.com Oklahoma Children’s Theatre 2501 N Blackwelder, OKC 606-7003, www.oklahomachildrenstheatre.org Oklahoma History Center 800 Nazih Zuhdi Dr., OKC 522-0765, www.oklahomahistorycenter.org Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History 2401 Chautauqua Ave, Norman 325-4712, www.snomnh.ou.edu Science Museum Oklahoma 2100 NE 52nd St, OKC 602-6664, www.sciencemuseumok.org

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Daily Events

Editor's note: This symbol Q indicates a fall or Halloween special event. Find an expanded version of the Fall Fun guide at www.metrofamilymagazine.com/fall-fun.

October 6 • Saturday FREE Oklahoma Czech Festival in Yukon features a carnival, parade, craft booths & food. 8am-5pm. 206-8142. FREE Kids Workshop “Fire Truck” at Home Depot Stores features a hands-on workshop designed for children ages 5-12. All kids keep their project plus a FREE apron, pin & certificate. First Saturday of the month, 9am-noon. www.homedepot.com. Q FREE Fairy House Festival at Southmoore High School (2901 S Santa Fe, Moore). Performances, crafts, face-painting & a Fairy Tea Party. 9am-1pm. www. southmooretheatrecommunity.weebly.com. 3rd Annual Michaelmas Country Fair at St. Michael’s Episcopal Church (1601 W Imhoff, Norman) features food, horse back riding, face painting, carnival games. Proceeds benefit community outreach & parish repairs. 9am-4pm. 321-8951, www.stmichaelsnorman.org. FREE Diaper Bazaar at Green Bambino (5120 N Shartel). Buy, sell, trade or browse. Cash transactions only on used items in the bazaar. 10am-noon. 848-2330, www.green-bambino.com. Volunteer Recruitment at the OKC Zoo Education Center seeks dedicated individuals 18 & older to assist in the care of animals & plants. 10am. 425-0275. FREE Saturdays for Kids: Felting at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum allows children of all ages to create a three-dimensional piece of art from pure wool fibers. Preregister. Includes Museum admission for child & accompanying adult. 10am-noon.

FREE Global Oklahoma at Rose State College promotes an appreciation of other cultures through exhibits, entertainment, food, school displays, arts & children's activities. This year’s festival focuses on Haiti. 10am-5pm. 736-0313, www.rose.edu/globaloklahoma. Q FREE Spiders & Bats with Bill at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial). Outdoor spider hunt with Bill Bennet. 10am. 755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/ martin_park. Q FREE Spaghetti Eddie/Halloween Concert at Uptown Kids (5840 N Classen). 10:30-11:30am. 4188881, www.uptownkidsstyle.com. Idol for the Cure-Round 2 at the Country Western Museum & Hall of Fame (3925 SE 29, Del City) hosted by the Country Music Singers Association benefits the Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals with a series of live musical performances including auctions, raffles & donation opportunities. 1-5pm. www.heartlandopry.com.

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FREE Canterbury Youth Choruses Informance at OCU (2501 N Blackwelder) provides a preview experience with all three youth choruses that is family friendly & full of singing, information & demonstrations. 5pm. www.canterburyokc.com. The Great Escape at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) provides hotdogs, crafts, sports, games & more for children 6-12. $15. 6-11pm. 376-3411, jheasley@cityofmustang.org. FREE Teen Talent Show at Mitch Park Amphitheater in Edmond for ages 13-18 gives teens an opportunity to share their talents. Preregister by October 4. 7pm. 359-4630. “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough: OK City Chorus Heads to Denver” at Hillsdale Free Will Baptist College (3701 S I-35 Service, Moore) features the OK City Chorus of Sweet Adelines as they prepare for International Competition in Denver along with violinist, Kyle Dillingham. $15 adults, $10 children 12 & under/ seniors, FREE children 2 & under. 7:00pm. 720-SING, www.okcity.org. Songs of Land & Sea presented by the OKC Philharmonic at the Civic Center Music Hall features violinist, Gil Shaham. 8pm. 842-5387, www. okcphilharmonic.org.

October 6–7 Guthrie Escape! Fine Art, Wine & Music Festival in Guthrie features live art demonstrations, children’s interactive art area, live music, wine tastings, food & more. Saturday, 10am-7pm; Sunday, 10am-5pm. 2827778, www.guthrieescape.com. Q Wolves & Witches: A Not-Too-Scary Children’s Matinee presented by the Cimarron Opera at Davenport’s (344 4th, Norman). With craft & trick-ortreating. Tickets must be pre-purchased. $5. 2-4pm. 364-8962, www.cimarronopera.org.

October 6–14 Q Pumpkin Drive at the OKC Zoo. FREE admission when you bring a pumpkin larger than your head.

October 7 • Sunday FREE 2nd Annual Ranch Art Show at JC’s Funky Hair Ranch (22 E 3, Edmond) features local artists, musicians, poets, food, yoga, face painting, massage demos & more. 11am-7pm. 340-4140, www. jcsfunkyhairranch.com. FREE SchlegelFest 2012 at Schlegel Bicycles (900 N Broadway) features bike safety obstacle course & Halloween fun & raffle to support nonprofit organizations. Noon-5pm. 232-4040, www. schlegelbicycles.com. FREE 5210 Kick-Off Event at the Myriad Botanical Gardens (301 W Reno) features outdoor games & activities, plant giveaways, health information,

musicians, baby food made easy, kids make healthy parfaits, coloring contest, giveaways & more. Noon4pm. www.ymcaokc.org. Pistol Pete’s 89th Birthday Celebration in the OKC Zoo’s Global Plaza features FREE birthday activities. Guests can bring a pumpkin larger than their head to receive FREE zoo admission. 2pm. CROP Hunger Walk at Food & Shelter (104 W Comanche, Norman) raises funds to help fight hunger. Walk as an individual or part of a team. Registration, 1:30pm; walk, 2pm. www.clevelandcountycropwalk.org. Taste of Bricktown at the Chickasaw Bricktown Ballpark showcases the best of Bricktown restaurants in a festival-like atmosphere. $20 adults, $50 VIP, 12 & under FREE. 3-5pm. www.welcometobricktown.com. Arturo Sandoval performs at Rose State College Performing Arts Theatre (6420 SE 15, Midwest City) features this protégé of jazz master Dizzy Gillespie. 7:30pm. 733-7673, www.rose.edu/rose-state-live.

October 9–14 Les Miserables at the Civic Center Music Hall features a musical based on the classic novel by Victor Hugo. Recommended for ages 12+. $20 & up. TuesdayThursday, 7:30pm; Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm; Sunday, 2pm & 7pm. www.celebrityattractions.com.

October 10–14 Batman Live at the Chesapeake Energy Arena. Live production with a cast of DC Comic favorites. $19.50 & up. Wednesday-Friday, 7pm; Saturday, 11:30am, 3:30pm & 7:30pm; Sunday, 1pm & 5pm. www. chesapeakearena.com, www.batmanlive.com.

October 11 • Thursday Q Pumpkin Painting at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) for ages 2-6 to decorate a pumpkin. Bring your own pumpkin. $3. 10am. 376-3411, jheasley@ cityofmustang.org. Q Art on Thursday: Painting with Earth Elements at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman). Children 8 & up will design & paint a canister using Earth Elements specialty glazes. Preregister. $40, includes materials. 1-2:30pm & 4:30-6pm. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

October 11–12 Cowboy Crossings featuring the Cowboy Artists of America 47th Annual Exhibition & Sale and the Traditional Cowboy Arts Association 14th Annual Exhibition, Sale & Seminar at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum. Preregister.

October 11–13 Junior League of OKC’s Mistletoe Market at the Cox Convention Center supports community projects. Shop for gifts, clothing, Christmas décor, jewelry & more. $8 adults, $5 seniors & children ages 3-12, children under 3 FREE. Thursday, 10am-8pm; Friday, 10am-7pm; Saturday, 10am-5pm. www.mistletoemarket.org.

October 12 • Friday Homeschool Program at the OKC Zoo Education Center provides monthly programs focusing on a different group of animals. Includes an animal encounter & exhibit tour. 10am. 425-0218, www.okczooed.com. FREE Norman’s 2nd Friday Circuit of Art monthly celebration of the arts connects the downtown arts district with galleries, performance halls, & Campus Corner. Trolley service between venues at minimal cost. 6-10pm. 360-1162, www.2ndfridaynorman.com. FREE LIVE on the Plaza in the Plaza District (NW 16th between Classen & Penn), second Friday of each month includes art walk, local artists, live music & shopping. 7-11pm. www.plazadistrict.org. Red Dirt n’ Red Velvet 2012 Membership Appreciation Party at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art (1900 W MacArthur, Shawnee) treats current museum members to cupcakes & a free concert by Melissa Hembree. 7pm. 878-5300, www.mgmoa.org. Q Mummy & Son Masquerade Ball at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang) is a costume affair for Moms & sons ages 4-12 with activities & dancing. Tickets must be pre-purchased. $5. 7-9pm. 376-3411, jheasley@ cityofmustang.org.

October 13 • Saturday FREE Practice ACT/SAT at College Nannies & Tutors (1333 N Santa Fe, Edmond). Preregister. 9am. 5136060, www.collegetutors.com/edmondok. FREE Crafts for Kids “It’s a Hoot! Puppet” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) for ages 3 & up. Transform paper plates into a lovable owl. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com. FREE Kids' Meditation Class at Buddha Mind Monastery (5916 S Anderson) helps kids discover their inner wisdom through meditation, stories & activities. Wear comfortable, modest attire & socks. 11am12:30pm. 869-0501, www.ctbuddhamind.org/classes. Hands-On Science: Butterflies at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial). Help collect, tag & study migrating monarchs on their trek northward from Mexico. Preregister. $2 per person. 4pm. 755-0676, www.okc. gov/parks/martin_park. Q FREE Downtown Library After Dark! teen lock-in for ages 12-17. Registration form required with parent signature. 7pm.

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Belle Isle.................5501 N Villa...........843-9601 Bethany................3510 N Mueller.........789-8363 Capitol Hill............ 334 SW 26th...........634-6308 Choctaw.................2525 Muzzy...........390-8418 Del City..................4509 SE 15th...........672-1377 Downtown.............300 Park Ave.......... 231-8650 Edmond............... 10 S Boulevard......... 341-9282 Midwest City......... 8143 E Reno........... 732-4828 Ralph Ellison....... 2000 NE 23rd...........424-1437 Southern Oaks....6900 S Walker.........631-4468 The Village........... 10307 N Penn.......... 755-0710 Warr Acres...........5901 NW 63rd...........721-2616 Harrah...............1930 N Church Ave.....454-2001 Jones.......................111 E Main............399-5471 Luther......................310 NE 3rd............ 277-9967 Nicoma Park...... 2240 Overholser........769-9452 Northwest ..........5600 NW 122nd........606-3580 Wright Library.... 2101 Exchange.........235-5035

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Blanchard............... 300 N Main............ 485-2275 McLoud....................133 N Main............964-2960 Moore.................... 225 S Howard.......... 793-5100 Newcastle............. 705 NW Tenth.......... 387-5076 Noble........................204 N 5th..............872-5713 Norman.................225 N Webster......... 701-2600 Purcell.................... 919 N Ninth............ 527-5546 Shawnee............101 N Philadelphia......275-6353 SW OKC............... 2201 SW 134th.........979-2200 Tecumseh............114 N Broadway........598-5955

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October 15–20

Q Pumpkinville in the Children’s Garden at the Myriad Botanical Gardens (301 W Reno). Hands-on activities, entertainment & hay bale mazes. FREE for members, $5 non-members. Adults FREE with child. MondayThursday, 10am-8pm; Friday-Sunday, 9am-9pm. www. myriadgardens.org.

Just Between Friends Children’s Consignment Event at the Cleveland County Fairgrounds (615 E Robinson, Norman). Many items 25% off on Friday & 50% off on Saturday. Monday-Friday, 10am-7pm; Saturday, 10am-4pm. www.jbfsale.com/norman.

October 15 • Monday Homeschool Day at the Oklahoma Aquarium accommodates homeschool families & groups who do not meet the standard minimum for education group rates. Preregister. $10 adults, $7 youth.

October 16 • Tuesday Q Tiny Tuesdays “Spooky Puppets” at the OKC Museum of Art. Drop in, open-ended art-making for ages 2-5 with parent. FREE with paid museum admission. 10am-noon.

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Q FREE Zombie Makeup at the Del City Library teaches teens to create special effects zombie makeup for Halloween. Preregister. 4:30-5:30pm.

October 17 • Wednesday Homeschool Day at the Harn Homestead (1721 N Lincoln) provides hands-on learning activities in an old-fashioned schoolhouse, barn & farmhouse for homeschool students ages 6-12. Preregister. $8 per student. 10am-1:30pm. 235-4058, www.harnhomestead. com.

October 18 • Thursday Orchids in October Luncheon at the Myriad Gardens Restaurant honors Larry Nichols & benefits the Myriad Botanical Gardens Foundation. $75 per person. 11:30am-1pm. 297-3974, www.myriadgardens.org. Art on Thursday: Wind Chimes at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman). Children 10+ will learn to make colorful glass wind chimes. Preregister. $40, includes materials. 1-2:30pm & 4:30-6pm. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com.

enter competition. Event is FREE with paid museum admission. 11:30am. Broadway Ball: A Gallantly Gothic Affair at the Skirvin Hilton (1 Park) benefits Lyric Theatre & features songs from some of Broadway’s spookiest productions. 6:30pm, $250. 524-9310, www.lyrictheatreokc.com. OKC Barons vs. San Antonio Rampage at the Cox Convention Center. 7pm. Tickets $16 & up, 800-7453000 or www.ticketmaster.com. www.okcbarons.com. Other home games this month: 10/20, 23, 26, 28. Q Whooo’s Out There? Family Program at the OKC Zoo. Families will learn about owls, meet a real owl & enjoy a zoo night hike. Preregister. $15 ZooFriends member, $18 nonmembers. Parents FREE with paid child. 6-8:30pm. 425-0218. Q Broadway Ball: A Gallantly Gothic Affair at the Skirvin Hilton benefits Lyric Theatre & celebrates the dark side with songs from Broadway’s spookiest productions. 524-9310, www.lyrictheatreokc.com. Q FREE The Great Pumpkin Roll at Chilsholm Trail Park (500 W Vandament, Yukon) features a variety of pumpkin contests. 350-8937, www.cityofyukonok.gov.

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Mom’s Classic Grilled Cheese Challenge at Science Museum Oklahoma is a live grilled cheese cook-off for six celebrity judges. To enter, record yourself making your famous grilled cheese sandwich & submit it to SMO by October 12 at noon. The top 10 entries will be selected to compete in the cook-off. No cost to

Sweet Repeats Children’s & Maternity Consignment Sale at the Edmond Armory (600 S Bryant, Edmond). Friday, 9am-6pm; Saturday, 9am-3pm, Sunday, noon3pm. www.sweetrepeatskidsconsignment.com.

Weekly Events FREE Discovery Room programs at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History. See website for details. FREE Art Moves weekdays (Monday-Friday) in downtown OKC (various locations). Performances, demonstrations, short films & discussions. Noon-1pm. 270-4892, www.artscouncilokc.com/art-moves.

An Affair of the Heart at the State Fairgrounds is among the largest arts & crafts shows in the nation FREE Wide Open Wednesdays at the National Cowboy & Western Heritage Museum features FREE admission on 15 consecutive Wednesdays concluding November 14. FREE Wednesday Night at the Movies at the Downtown Library. Held every Wednesday, 6-8pm. 231-8650. FREE Thursday Noon Tunes live concerts at the Downtown Library, 11:30-1pm.

Toddler Time playtime at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang). $2 or FREE with Town Center membership. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 9am-noon. 3763411, www.cityofmustang.org.

FREE Norman Library Music Connection features music & story for ages 3-7 with parent. Thursdays, 7pm; Fridays, 10:30am.

FREE Admission at Norman’s Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art on Tuesdays. 10am-5pm. Activities include Art Adventures for children ages 3-5 with adult (10:30am).

Family Fun Day at Celebration Station (509 Westline) features unlimited rides & a pizza buffet for $15.99 per person. Thursdays, 4-9pm. 942-7888, www. celebrationstation.com.

FREE Sooner Mall Outreach Storytime is an interactive story time held outside Sears at Sooner Mall for ages 9 & under. Tuesdays, 10am.

The UCO Jazz Lab features performances each Friday & Saturday at 8pm. $7 adults, $5 age 12 & under. 359-7989, www.ucojazzlab.com.

FREE Tuesday Noon Tunes at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features 30-minute concerts performed by OU music students & faculty. Tuesdays. Noon-12:30pm.

FREE Children’s Storytime at Full Circle Bookstore (1900 NW Expressway) each Saturday, 10:15am. 8422900, www.fullcirclebooks.com.

Family Fun Night at JumpZone (SW 104th & Western) includes 2 adults, 2 children, 1 large pizza, 2 liter pop for $25. Tuesdays & Thursdays, 4:30-8pm. 200-1691, www.jumpzoneparty.com.

FREE Children’s Story Time at Edmond’s Best of Books, Saturdays, 11am. 340-9202, www. bestofbooksedmond.com. FREE Skating Lessons at Skate Galaxy (5800 NW 36) for beginner, intermediate, advanced & featured styles. Saturdays, noon-12:45pm. 605-2758, www. skategalaxyokc.com.

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occupying more than five buildings & offering a variety of crafts, antiques, collectibles, furniture, decorative items, jewelry & clothing. $7 per person (ticket good for all three days). Friday-Saturday, 9am-6pm; Sunday, 11am-5pm. 632-2652, www.aaoth.com.

October 20 • Saturday Q FREE Fall Fest at the Chickasaw Cultural Center (867 Charles Cooper, Sulphur) features traditional Chickasaw food & family-friendly activities. 10am-4pm. 580-622-7130, www.chikcasawculturalcenter.com. Q FREE Crafts for Kids “Dancing Spider” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) for ages 3 & up to make a spider to dance with. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning.com. FREE 8th Annual Cancer Survivor’s Tea at the Peggy & Charles Stephenson Cancer Center (800 NE 10) is open to anyone that has been affected by cancer. Features refreshments, speaker Jari Askins & informational health news. Preregister. 1pm. 232-1621. OU Football vs. Kansas at Oklahoma Memorial Stadium in Norman. Time TBA. www.soonersports.com. Other home games this month: 10/27. FREE Tippi Toes Day of Dance at Transformation Fitness Center (14701 N Kelly, Edmond) features crafts & dance for ages 18 months-10 years. 2:30-5pm. 3613620, www.tippitoesdance.com. OSU Football vs. Iowa State at Boone Pickens Stadium in Stillwater. Time TBA. www.okstate.com. Other home games this month: 10/27. Drop in Art at the OKC Museum of Art features hands-on art activities. FREE with paid admission. Saturdays, 1-4pm. All-Star Bowling for Differently-Abled Individuals at AMF Yukon Lanes (500 E Main). $8/week includes 3 games & shoes. Saturdays, 1pm. Email dbrakefield@yahoo.com to verify schedule. 354-2516. FREE Green Earth Gang for ages 9-13 works on conservation projects in Martin Park. Saturdays, 2-5pm. 755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/martin_park. Live Banjo Performance at the American Banjo Museum (9 E Sheridan) invites guests to enjoy a live banjo performance on Saturdays. FREE with paid admission. 3-5pm. 604-2793, www. americanbanjomuseum.com. Haunt the River Cruise departs from Regatta Park Landing. Includes cocktails, dancing, appetizers & costume contest. Must be 21 & older. Preregister. Saturdays in October, 7:30-9pm. 702-7755, www. okrivercruises.com. FREE Green Earth Rangers at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial) for teens ages 13-18 to assist the park with complex, leadership-driven conservation efforts. Sundays, call for times. 7550676, www.okc.gov/parks/martin_park. FREE Open House at techJOYnt (8328 Glade) provides information about this hands-on, technologybased after-school education academy. Sundays, 2-4pm. 345-5010, www.techjoynt.org.

Game Day Camps for Kids at Oklahoma WONDERtorium (308 W Franklin, Stillwater). Free play for children 3-12 while parents attend OSU football. Open 1 hour prior to kickoff on home game days. Preregister. $60 per child. 533-3333, www. okwondertorium.org/gameday. Also held: 10/27.

Girls Go STEM event for grades 4-12 includes hands-on projects, career exploration and leadership development. 6100 N. Robinson, OKC. $5 for Girl Scout members, $7 for non-members. Sponsored by Girl Scouts Western Oklahoma. 800698-0022, www.gswestok.org.

Q Fort Reno Ghost Tours at Historic Fort Reno (7107 W Cheyenne, El Reno). Tales of haunted buildings, villainous murders & lost treasure. Tours & presentations by paranormal research teams. Preregister. $8 adults, $7 seniors, $5 children ages 5-12. 7:30pm. 262-3987, www.fortreno.org.

October 21 • Sunday

FALL BREAK CAMPS October 10–12 Did You Ever? Fall Break Camp at Science Museum Oklahoma for students in grades 1-6 features fun science activities. Preregister. $150 for three-day camp, $65/day. 9am-4pm. 602-3760, www. sciencemuseumok.org. Also held 10/18-19; $100 for 2-day camp or $65/day. G.O.T.C.H.A (Great Outdoor Teaching Classroom Holiday Adventure) at Camp DaKaNi (3309 E Hefner) features indoor & outdoor activities. Before/ After care for additional fee. Preregister. $105. 9am3:30pm. 254-2080, www.campfireusa-ok.org. Fall Into Art Create Escape Camp at Fine Arts Institute of Edmond (27 E Edwards, Edmond) for students in grades 2-5. Drinks & snacks provided, bring a sack lunch. Preregister. $55 per day. 9:30am2pm. 340-4481, www.edmondfinearts.com.

October 11 & 18 School’s Out Safari Day Camp at the OKC Zoo Education Center for ages 4-12 years old features animal encounters, crafts, activities & more. Preregister. $30 per day. 8am-3pm. 425-0218.

October 11 • Thursday Engineers to the Rescue: Fall Break Workshop presented by Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma at the Mary Nichols’ Leadership Center (6100 N Robinson) teaches girls about engineering. For Juniors, Cadettes, Seniors & Ambassadors. Preregister by 10/8. $20. 8am-5pm. www.gswestok.org. Duct Tape Crafts at the MAC (2733 Marilyn Williams, Edmond) instructs youth & teens how to make accessories out of duct tape. Supplies included. Preregister. $12. Ages 13-17, 2-4pm; ages 6-12, 3-5pm. www.edmondok.com/parks/rec.

October 11-12 Thunder Youth Basketball Fall Break Mini-Camp at the Thunder Events Center (14701 N Lincoln) for ages 5-16 features Thunder coaches/players (when available). Includes T-shirt & $10 gift voucher. $125, $100 for season ticket & kids club members. 9am-noon. www.nba.com/thunder/thunder-youthbasketball-grows.

Q FREE Fall Into Art at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial) features nature-inspired art, exhibitions, kids’ crafts, music & more. 1-5pm. 755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/martin_park.

October 12 • Friday Design Time: Fall Break Workshop presented by Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma at the Mary Nichols’ Family Leadership Center (6100 N Robinson) teachers girls about designing & engineering. Preregister by 10/8. For Juniors, Cadettes, Seniors & Ambassadors. $20. 8am-5pm. www.gswestok.org. Abstract Painting at the MAC (2733 Marilyn Williams, Edmond) instruction in how to work with acrylics to create original abstract art on canvas. Preregister. $10. Ages 6-12), 10am-noon; ages 13-17, 2-4pm. www. edmondok.com/parks/rec.

October 17–19 City Arts Center Fall Break Camp at the City Arts Center (3000 General Pershing) for ages 5-13. Sessions taught by Oklahoma artists exploring mixed media painting, photography, ceramics, stop motion animation, visual & performance art, use of color & holiday-inspired folk art. Before & after-care available. Preregister. $90. 9am-4pm. 951-0000, www. cityartscenter.org. Also held 10/22-26, $150.

October 18–19 Fall Break Camp at the Yukon Community Center (2200 Holly) for ages 5-11 features a field trip, crafts, games, pumpkin decorating & pumpkin roll contest. Preregister. $30. 9am-4pm. 354-8442, www. cityofyukonok.gov. Basketball Camp at the Moore Community Center (301 S Howard,) for ages 7-16 features instruction in basic basketball skills. Preregister. 9am-noon. $50. 793-5090. Thunder Youth Basketball Fall Break Mini-Camp at the Yukon High School Gym (1777 S Yukon, Yukon) for ages 5-16 features Thunder coaches/players (when available). See 10/11-12 listing for details.

October 22–26 Fall Break Storytelling Camp presented by the Oklahoma Children’s Theatre (2501 N Blackwelder) for ages 5-7 & 8-12 explores storytelling. Preregister. $150. 8am-6pm. 606-7003, www. oklahomachildrenstheatre.org. G.O.T.C.H.A (Great Outdoor Teaching Classroom Holiday Adventure) at Camp DaKaNi (3309 E Hefner). See 10/10-12 listing for details.

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FREE Casady School Open House for Primary (PreK-K) & Lower Divisions (Grades 1-4) at Casady School (9500 N Pennsylvania). Preregister. Walk-ins always welcome. 2-4pm. 749-3185, www.casady.org.

October 20–21 Director’s Choice presented by the OKC Ballet at the Civic Center Music Hall features select performances. $33 & up. 8pm. 848-8637, www.okcballet.com.

October 20–22 FREE Norman Friends of the Library Book Sale at the Norman Public Library features bargains on books including special sections for collectible books & children’s books. $5 bag sale on Monday. Saturday, 9am-5pm; Sunday, 1-5pm; Monday, 3-8pm.

October 23 • Tuesday Q FREE Art Adventures: Jeremy Draws a Monster by Peter McCarty at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art (555 Elm, Norman) for ages 3-5 with adult. Includes FREE museum admission. 10:30-11:30am. 325-3272, www.ou.edu/fjjma.

October 23–31 Q Storybook Forest at Spring Creek Park at Arcadia Lake is a not-so-scary walk through trick-or-treat path plus hayrides, games & campfire for roasting hot dogs & marshmallows. Adults FREE with child’s ticket. 5:308:30pm. 216-7471, www.arcadialakeok.com.

October 25 • Thursday Q Haunt the Harn at Harn Homestead (1721 N Lincoln) features trick-or-treating, games & face painting on the museum’s grounds. $3 per child in advance, $5 per child at the door, up to 2 FREE adults per group. 6-9pm. 235-4058, www.harnhomestead.com. Q Haunt the Zoo Preview Hike Family Program at the OKC Zoo. Take photos at the Haunt the Zoo booths without the crowds and candy. Preregister. $15 ZooFriends members, $18 nonmembers, Parents FREE with paid child. 6-8pm. 425-0218. Ladies Night Out at Be Wild for Art (1006 24th Ave NW, Norman) features a reduced studio fee of $4 for women. 6-9pm. 307-9971, www.bewildforart.com. Carrie Underwood Blown Away Tour at the Chesapeake Energy Arena with special guest Hunter Hayes. $55 & up. 7:30pm. www.chesapeakearena.com. Patty Griffin at the Sooner Theatre (101 E Main, Norman) features a solo concert by this singersongwriter. $40 & up. 8pm. 321-9600, www. soonertheatre.org.

October 26 • Friday Q FREE Fall Festival at Church of the Servant (14343 N MacArthur). Games, moon bounce, giant slide, cakewalk, bingo, clowns & more. Donations for Infant Crisis Services will be received. 6-8:30pm. 721-4141 Q Mummy & Me Masquerade Ball at the 12th Ave Recreation Center (170112th Ave NE, Norman). A night

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PUMPKIN PATCHES Through November 1 TG Farms (4335 W Highway 9, Norman). Open daily, 9am-dark, call or visit website for pricing. 387-3276, www.tgfarms.com.

Through November 3 The Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western). Admission includes hayride & a sugar pie pumpkin for children. Monday-Thursday, 10am6pm; Friday-Saturday 10am-9pm. Call or visit website for pricing. 799-3276, www.orrfamilyfarm. com.

Through October 31 St. Matthew United Methodist Church Annual Pumpkin Patch (300 N Air Depot, Midwest City). Proceeds benefit local programs. MondaySaturday, 10am-8pm; Sunday, noon-8pm. 7326831, www.stmatthew.org.

Through November 4 Parkhurst Pumpkin Patch (720 Henney, Arcadia). $8. Thursday, 1-6pm; Friday-Saturday, 10am-8pm; Sunday, 1-6pm. 396-0909, www. parkhurstpumpkinpatch.com.

Through November 3 Mikles Family Farm Maze & Pumpkin Patch (42610 N Wolverine, Shawnee). Fridays, 6-10pm; Saturdays, 11am-10pm; Sundays, noon-5pm. Call or visit website for pricing. 401-8371, www. miklesfamilyfarm.com.

Through November 4 Chester’s Pumpkin Patch (5201 Cimarron Rd, Piedmont). Entry fee includes pumpkin. Monday-Saturday, 9am-6pm; Sunday, 1-6pm. Call or visit website for pricing. 373-1595, www. chesterandcrew.com/pumpkinpatch.html. out for moms & their sons ages 4-12. Pre-purchase tickets at the 12th Ave Recreation Center or at the Norman Parks & Recreation office. $5; 6pm & 8pm. 292-7275, www.normanfun.com. Q Mummy & Son Dance at the Moore Community Center (301 S Howard, Moore) is an evening of dancing and snacks for moms & sons. Halloween costumes encouraged. Pre-purchase tickets. $5. 7-8:30pm. 7935090, www.cityofmoore.com. Q Halloween Silent Film “The Cat & the Canary” at Sharp Hall in OU Catlett Music Center (500 W Boyd, Norman) features a silent film with organ accompaniment. $9, $5 students/seniors. 8pm. 3254101, http://aoi.ou.edu. Q Halloween Party at Unpluggits Playstudio (575 Enterprise, Edmond) not-so-scary party featuring carnival games with guaranteed prizes and more. $5

ages 18 months-10 years, FREE 11 & up. 5:30-7:30pm. 340-7584, www.unpluggits.com. FREE Casady School Open House for Upper Division (Grades 9-12) at Casady School (9500 N Pennsylvania). Preregister. Walk-ins always welcome. 6-7:30pm. 7493185, www.casady.org.

October 26–27 Q Bright Night: Halloween with Harry Potter at Science Museum Oklahoma is a "haunted" overnight museum experience exploring the world of Harry Potter. Costumes encouraged. 1 adult per 6 children required. $45/child, $25/adult, discount for members. 6pm8:15am. 602-6664, www.sciencemuseumok.org.

October 26–31 Q Haunt the Zoo at the OKC Zoo includes trick-ortreating & Halloween-themed fun. $7 per child, $6 in advance, adults FREE. 6:30-8:30pm.

October 27 • Saturday 2012 OKC Race for the Cure at the Chickasaw Ballpark in Bricktown benefits the Susan G Komen Foundation in their fight to find a cure for breast cancer. Features a 5K timed race or 5K & 1-mile walk/run as well as a Kids’ Dash & Survivor Ceremony. $30 & up. 8am. www.komencentralwesternok.org. Q Trick-Orr-Treating & Costume Contest at Orr Family Farm (14400 S Western) is a non-scary event with trick-or-treating & costume contest for ages 12 & under. 10am-9pm. 799-3276, www.orrfamilyfarm.com. Q Halloween Train at the Oklahoma Railway Museum (3400 NE Grand). $2 discount if you wear a costume. $15, Kids under 3 FREE. 10am, 11am, noon, 1:30pm & 2:30pm. 424-8222, www.oklahomarailwaymuseum.org. Q FREE Crafts for Kids “Trick-or-Treat Scarecrow Mask” at Lakeshore Learning (6300 N May) for ages 3 & up. 11am-3pm. 858-8778, www.lakeshorelearning. com. Q FREE Fall Festival at the Ralph Ellison Library. Petting zoo, costume contest, dancing, crafts & face painting. 1-4pm. Q FREE Monster Mash Dance Party at Quail Springs Mall (2501 W Memorial). Games, costume contest & mall-wide trick-or-treating. 1-4pm. www. quailspringsmall.com. Q FREE Trick-or-Treat City at Joe B Barnes Regional Park in Midwest City. Candy village & carnival with food, games & crafts, carnival rides (ticket purchase required). 2-4:30pm. www.midwestcityok.org. Special needs session held 10/30, 1-2:30pm. Q Spooksville at the Yukon Community Center (2200 Holly) features a carnival & haunted house. $3. 3-6pm. 350-8937, www.cityofyukonok.gov. Q FREE Haunt Old Town Moore (Main & Broadway Area). Trick-or-treating, karaoke, hayrides, extreme animals petting zoo & more. 4-7pm. 793-4332, www. cityofmoore.com.

Q FREE Halloween Festival at the Moore Community Center (301 S Howard). Trick-or-treating, games, costume contest & haunted room. 4-7pm. 793-4332, www.cityofmoore.com. Q FREE Pumpkin Palooza at Mitch Park in Edmond features activities including a Flashlight Pumpkin Hunt. 5pm. 359-4630, www.edmondok.com/parks/rec. Q Halloween Party in Pumpkinville at the Myriad Botanical Gardens Children’s Garden (301 W Reno). Trick-or-treating, games, activities & music. Costumes welcome. FREE for members; nonmembers $10 children, $8.50 adults, $35 family (2 adults, 2 kids). 5-8pm. www.myriadgardens.org. Q FREE Spooktacular at Mustang Town Center (1201 N Mustang). Carnival booths, games & haunted house for ages 11 & under with family. 6:30-9pm. 376-3411, jheasley@cityofmustang.org. Edmond’s Got Talent at Edmond North High School (215 W Danforth, Edmond) features a variety of acts from the community. $7 in advance, $10 at the door. 7pm. 340-4481, www.edmondfinearts.com.

October 29 • Wednesday Q Mummy & Son Masquerade at the Jackie Cooper gym (1024 E Main, Yukon) for boys ages 4-12 with an adult female caregiver. $3. 6-8pm. 350-8920, www. cityofyukonok.gov. Full Moon Hike at Martin Park Nature Center (5000 W Memorial) features hike & lunar discussion. Preregister. $2 per person. 6:30pm. 755-0676, www.okc.gov/parks/ martin_park.

October 30 • Tuesday Q FREE Art Adventures: The Legend of Spookley the Square Pumpkin at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art for ages 3-5 with an adult. Includes free museum admission. 10:30-11:30am. FREE Wizard’s Chess at the Northwest Library features a live chess game where participants become the pieces. No prior chess experience required. For older elementary, teens & adults. Preregister.

Broadway to Bricktown presented by the Canterbury Choral Society at the Civic Center Music Hall features Broadway veteran & TV star, Ron Raines. $40 & up. 8pm. 232-7464, www.canterburyokc.com. Q Spook & Roll at Skate Galaxy (5800 NW 36) includes costume contest. $15. 7pm-midnight. 405-6052758, www.skategalaxyokc.com.

October 27–31 Q HallowMarine! at the Oklahoma Aquarium in Jenks includes trick-or-treating among the tanks, games, pirate ship & mermaid & pirate divers in the Coral Reef. $10 adults, $7 children. 6:30-9pm.

October 28 • Sunday Girl Scout Fest at the Kirkpatrick Family Farm (1001 Garth Brooks, Yukon) features games, a sing-along, time capsule collection, lunch & birthday cake celebrating the 100th Anniversary of Girl Scouts of Western Oklahoma. $4. 1-4pm. 528-GIRL, www. gswestok.org. Q OKC Philharmonic Discovery Concert Series: Phil’s Monster Mash at the Civic Center Music Hall features costumes, Halloween-themed music & treats. $9. 2pm. 842-5387, www.okcphilharmonic.org. Q FREE Trunk-or-Treat at Crown Heights Christian Church (4020 N Western) for ages 12 & under with adult. 5-6:30pm. 528-5568, www.crownheightschristian.com. Q FREE Trunk-or-Treat at St. Matthew United Methodist Church (300 N Air Depot, Midwest City). Candy, music & games. 5-7pm. 732-6831, www. stmatthew.org. Q FREE Trunk or Treat at New Covenant Church (2700 S Boulevard, Edmond) features carnival games, moon bounce, refreshments, door prizes, trick-ortreating & friendly costumes. 6pm. 562-3200, www. newcov.tv.

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October 31 • Wednesday Q Official Trick-or-Treating Day: Edmond, Midwest City, Moore, Norman, Mustang, Oklahoma City and Yukon! Q FREE Trick-or-Treat on Our Street at the Outlet Shoppes at OKC (7624 W Reno) for ages 12 & under in Halloween costumes. 4-6pm. 787-3700 x1. Q FREE Trick-or-Treat on the Street in Downtown Edmond. 5-7pm. 249-9391. Q FREE Treats But No Tricks at Sooner Mall (3301 W Main, Norman) features mall wide trick-or-treating & costume contest for children 11 & under. 5-8pm. www. soonermall.com. Q FREE Trunk-or-Treat at Edmond First Baptist Church (1300 SE 33) features candy & games. 6-7:30pm. www. fbcedmond.org/trunkortreat. Q 3rd Annual Halloween Bash at the Museum of Osteology (10301 S Sunnylane). A safe & educational trick-or-treating alternative with door prizes, candy & activities. $3, children 3 & under FREE with a paid adult. 6-9pm. 814-0006, www.museumofosteology.org.

Ongoing Events October 9–December 22

Oklahoma at the Movies at the Oklahoma History Center showcases the creativity & innovation of Oklahomans & their legacy of creating, starring in & watching motion pictures.

Boo Ritson Exhibit: Homecoming at the City Arts Center (3000 General Pershing). Opening reception 10/9, 5:30pm. 951-0000, www.cityartscenter.org.

Through January 6, 2013

Through October 12 Hank the Cowdog: Lost in the Dark Unchanted Forest presented by Oklahoma Children’s Theatre at the Children’s Center for the Arts. $9 adults, $6 children ages 2-12, FREE children under 2. Friday & Wednesday, 11am; Saturday-Sunday, 2pm.

October 18–November 4 Frankenstein at the Civic Center Music Hall presents a modern adaptation of Mary Shelley’s tale. $10 preview performance 10/18. $20. Thursday-Saturday, 8pm; Sunday, 2pm. 297-2264, www.okctheatrecompany.org.

November 2 • Friday

Through October 27

Chemistry Day at Science Museum Oklahoma allows visitors to discover chemistry through inquiry stations, team & individual chemistry competitions & live chemistry demonstrations. 9am-4pm.

Generation Next: Chapter Two at the Gaylord-Pickens Oklahoma Heritage Museum showcases artwork by former OKC Thunder player Desmond Mason.

OKC Thunder vs. Portland Trail Blazers at the Chesapeake Energy Arena. $10 & up. 7pm. www.nba. com/thunder. Other home games this month: 11/4, 6, 9, 11, 14, 18, 21, 26, 28, 30. OKC Barons vs. Houston Aeros at the Cox Convention Center. 7pm. Tickets $16 & up, 800-7453000 or www.ticketmaster.com. www.okcbarons.com. Other home games this month: 11/3, 13, 16, 17.

November 2–3 FREE First Friday Gallery Walk in the Paseo Arts District features more than 60 artists in 17 galleries. Friday, 6-10pm; Saturday, noon-5pm. 525-2688, www. thepaseo.com.

Through October 28 Earth Chronicles: Oklahoma at the Mabee-Gerrer Museum of Art (1900 W MacArthur, Shawnee) features works by Fran Hardy and other Oklahoma artists. 8785300, www.mgmoa.org. FrightFest at Frontier City (11501 NE Expressway) Halloween-themed fun for all ages. FREE with admission. Additional fee for Haunted House. Friday, 6-11pm; Saturday, noon-11pm; Sunday, noon-10pm. 478-2140, www.frontiercity.com.

Through October 31

November 2–4

Q FREE 8th Annual Terror on 10th Street Haunted House (2005 NW 10th, OKC). All proceeds go to mission trips. $7 per person. Friday-Sunday, 7-11pm; 10/20, 3-11pm; Open Daily 10/25-31. 232-1816.

The Wizard of Oz at Rose State Performing Arts Theatre (6420 SE 15, Midwest City) is a musical based on the classic novel by L. Frank Baum. Friday-Saturday, 7:30pm, Sunday, 2pm. 733-7673, www.rose.edu/rosestate-live.

Q WINGS Fall Festival (13700 N Eastern, Edmond) features pumpkins and fall decor for sale, FREE hayrides & pumpkin decorating. Monday-Saturday, 10am-5pm; Sunday, noon-5pm (until pumpkins are gone). 242-4646, www.wingsok.org.

November 3

Through November 25

Q FREE Pumpkin Harvest Craft Festival at the Robertson Activity Center (Hwy 66 & Mustang, Yukon). 9am-4pm. 350-8937, www.cityofyukonok.gov.

A Gathering of Traditions: A Centennial Celebration of Dr. Charles Marius Barbeau in Oklahoma at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History.

November 6–11

Through December 9

Mary Poppins at the Civic Center Music Hall stage adaptation of the popular Disney film. $20+. TuesdayThursday, 7:30pm; Friday, 8pm; Saturday, 2pm & 8pm; Sunday, 2pm & 7pm. www.celebrityattractions.com.

Oklahoma & Infamy at the Oklahoma History Center includes artifacts, uniforms, interviews with veterans & personal letters. FREE admission to veterans & active duty military.

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American Moderns, 1910-1960: From O’Keeffe to Rockwell at the OKC Museum of Art includes paintings & sculptures by a variety of artists. Dancers & Deities: Kachinas from the James T. Bialac Native American Art Collection at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History features a selection of Native American Kachina. Southwest Visions: Paintings from the James T. Bialac Native American Art Collection at the Sam Noble Oklahoma Museum of Natural History includes Southwest Native American paintings that span the development of this important genre of Native American Art.

Through May 29, 2013 Crumbo Spirit Talk at the Oklahoma History Center features the art of Woody Crumbo & his children.

Through June 2013 Enriched: Animal Art from the OKC Zoo at the Oklahoma History Center showcases the process of animal enrichment through painting. MondaysSaturdays.

Through August 2013 Pablo Picasso’s Woman in the Studio at the Fred Jones Jr. Museum of Art features works by Picasso from the museum’s permanent collection and on loan from the St. Louis Art Museum.

For a comprehensive and constantly-updated Fall Fun Guide, check out www. metrofamilymagazine.com/ fall-fun!

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Mom Gets the Last Laugh Terror in the Corn Maze

or years my family tried to get me into a corn maze. They finally succeeded on the pretense of a Girl Scout outing. My daughter cared less about the maze than the accumulation of badges, and she’d already picked out a spot on her green vest for the gigantic ear of corn that symbolized overcoming the challenge. So, after having suffered the actual corn maze, I would be rewarded with the monumental task of affixing the badge to the sash. When she started Girl Scouts we had to choose between the sash and the vest, which held more badges. I’m an optimist, so I bought the sash hoping she’d lose interest after the first year. However, it didn’t look like I’d get my wish. The girl would do anything for a badge. She was so competitive I wouldn’t have been surprised if she got the Gold Medal for crocheting a scarf out of yarn she made herself from sheep she raised in the back yard.

On this corn maze thing, she was taking no prisoners.

Every year before this my family asked me to take them to a corn maze, and every year I found an excuse to say no to that particular brand of asinine and terrifying “family fun.” No good can come from getting lost amid stalks. It’s not that I don’t like corn. Creamed corn, corn on the cob, corn fritters, corn bread, candy corn, cornstarch, corn chips. Love them all. I just don’t understand what is supposed to be fun about getting lost on purpose. This phobia not my fault. I blame Children of the Corn. Or any other horror film. What would a slasher flick be without corn syrup? I also believe that corncob violence during October and November is greatly underreported. It’s a scary food group. One might get lost in corn, never to be seen or heard from again. Last year, one unfortunate family made national headlines for their panicked 9-1-1 call from the belly of a corn beast. As darkness fell, they were unable to find their way out of a corn maze. This is supposed to be a crop, not wholesome autumn entertainment. But that bit of handy news came too late for me this year. Even if it hadn’t, there was the badge at stake. Off we went, venturing deep into the Ozark mountains, which are really just hills. Broken down shacks, trailers with corrugated green plastic roofing, and rusted everything made up the scenery on the way to the corn maze. This did little for my confidence in the type of people who ran the place. Would they employ state of the art maze GPS tracking? Not likely. Would they kill us and sell our organs? Perhaps. On the drive in I imagined a whole cottage industry of

human spleens harvested among the stalks. We passed through several towns where the only productive thing a person can do is to leave. In one such town was a filling station (that is what they are called in these parts) advertising buffalo meat for sale.

“Oh, sure,” I said, “that’s what they call it. Just don’t get lost in the corn.” Sorry, people of the hills, but it’s not a stretch to think that those who would pickle and eat the foot of a pig might not be squeamish about your tender bicep flesh. No worries. I had a plan. And I had a phone with GPS.

A couple miles from the corn maze, just when I thought I’d found an app that might keep me safe—or at least my next of kin notified of my whereabouts—I lost my signal. The lightning started just as we turned onto the gravel road, and continued to provide dramatic ambiance as we approached the entrance, which happened to be a cemetery. Not a normal cemetery, with smooth cut rocks and tidy rows, but a creepy country ordeal complete with a gnarly old tree and a barbed wire fence. Just in case anyone wanted to break in. Or out.

“There sure are a lot of people here,” my husband muttered as we pulled into the parking lot.

“That’s because they’re all lost in the corn maze,” I told him. “It’s like a roach motel for stupid humans.” My daughter, the sensitive one, said from the back seat. “We’re all gonna die!”

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believed it housed the stranded puppies of families who never came out of the corn.

When we found the rest of the troop, I wondered if the leader had Thin Mints and Samosas in her fanny pack. You know, in case we weren’t murdered right off, but had to survive by our wits, hiding from hungry hillbillies and He Who Walks Behind the Rows.

The fates were with us that day. Shortly after we arrived, the corn maze was closed due to the rain. My fear of corn mazes continued, but I wouldn’t have to face it for at least another year. My daughter took a consolation “rainy day” badge that was nearly as large as the corn badge, and just as difficult to sew onto her sash. A few months later she resigned. Any future attempts to convince me to risk my life in rows of corn would not be assisted by the full backing of the Girl Scouts of America. But those crafty corn maze proprietors have come up with a new selling point: going into the maze after dark, with merely a flashlight to guide the way. Right. I’ll be right over, just as soon as I charge my phone and file this Last Will and Testament.

Lela Davidson is the author of Blacklisted from the PTA, a collection of irreverent essays about motherhood and the modern family. She blogs about marriage, motherhood, and lifeafter-40 on www.afterthebubbly.com. Editor’s note: We welcome Lela Davidson to MetroFamily Magazine! She’ll be sharing her humor about the trials and tribulations of motherhood here each month.