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October 2019 Vol. 30, No. 10

In This Issue 4 MomSpeak Roundup 6 Breast-Cancer Screening Update 7 Win It! 8 A New Age for Consent 10 Is Your Kid Bullying?

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MomSpeak

The MomSpeak Roundup

Moms know things, but not all the same things. So we tap the pool of local mommy bloggers to get you the handiest advice to make your job easier. Find these and others at MetroKids.com/MomSpeak.

Pumpkin, pumpkin, where’s the pumpkin?

“I need to find a pumpkin.”

“Where is the candy corn?”

These are pretty common things to say in October, especially if you print out Katie Chiavarone’s Halloween Memory Game to keep the little ones distracted from how long it takes trickor-treat to arrive, even though they spotted the first jack-o-lantern before Labor Day. This simple game (printable from Katie’s Views From a Step Stool blog) allows even pre-readers to test their memory by matching bats, spiders, ghosts and other Halloween icons.

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How to deal with school refusal The year is new and already your child has started to refuse to go to school. Mornings are hard enough.

How do you cope when each involves an argument before your kid even gets out of bed?

“It’s exhausting,” says Lisa Lightner, a special education advocate who writes the A Day in Our Shoes blog. “I’ve seen what can transpire in the worst situations (observing clients). My heart really goes out to you because I can see how stressful it is.”

Lisa provides eight tips for parents, from trying to figure out the source of the refusal to getting up to speed on truancy laws.

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Health

When to Get Screened What are the guidelines now for breast-cancer screening?

By Kimberly Blaker Screenings are an important means for detecting breast cancer, hopefully in its early stages. But screening guidelines change so October, as Breast Cancer Awareness Month, is a perfect time to update yourself on the latest recommendations.

Self exams out, doctor exams in

Women were once encouraged to do a monthly self-examination, but a study in the Journal of the National Cancer Institute in 2002 concluded self-examination played no role in improving cancer detection. It also found the extensive teaching of self-examination led to an increase in benign breast biopsies.

Clinical breast exams, however, are still recommended. For women with average risk factors, these should be done every one to three years starting at age 20.

Then annually starting at 40. Women with greater risk factors should have exams more often.

The evolution of mammography

Mammography was once believed to be one of the most crucial tools for early detection.

Early trials found mammography reduced breast cancer death rates by

25 percent. But Peggy Orenstein points out in her 2013 New York Times article, “The Feel-Good War on Breast Cancer,” such statistics have overstated mammography’s role in the reduction of breast cancer death rates because the increased use of mammograms occurred along with much-improved treatments. Medical experts now believe treatments likely played a greater role in reducing deaths.

For this reason, mammograms have come under fire in recent years as more studies question the usefulness of mammograms, at least for younger women.

One reason is because it’s now known there are at least four types and subtypes of breast cancer. Mammography often doesn’t detect the more lethal types until they’re in the later stages. Also, mammograms result in significant overdiagnosis

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that leads to unnecessary treatment, which comes with its own risks.

The dilemma of DCIS

Consider the case of DCIS. “Ductal carcinoma in-situ [DCIS] is also referred to as noninvasive, or Stage 0 breast cancer,” says Dr. Deanna Attai, president of the American Society of Breast Surgeons. “It is primarily diagnosed by screening mammogram, as it often does not form a palpable lump.

“DCIS accounts for approximately 20 percent of mammographically detected breast cancers. As screening mammography has become more prevalent, the rate of DCIS detection has increased.”

Some medical experts, however, say DCIS is not really a cancer at all and treating it as a cancer results in overly aggressive treatment. The likelihood of low-grade DCIS developing into invasive breast cancer is only 16 percent, says Dr. Attai, while high-grade DCIS has a 60 percent chance over 10 years.

The problem is there’s no way to determine which cases of DCIS will ultimately develop into breast cancer.

Age-dependent mammograms

There is much debate among medical and cancer organizations about the recommended frequency of mammography screening, particularly among women ages 40 and up.

The American Cancer Society recommends women with average risk have annual mammograms from ages 45 to 54. After that, every two years, as long as they’re in good health with a life expectancy of at least 10 years.

The American College of Physicians, however, says the potential harm from mammograms outweighs the benefits for most average-risk women under 50.

Kimberly Blaker is a freelance writer.

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Win It!

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Education

A New Age for Consent More states now require middle and high schoolers to be taught about consent, but it’s a lesson parents can teach boys and girls from a young age.

By Terri Akman Parents today realize that “the talk” is much more than it may have been for their generation.

In fact, it is not a single talk at all, but a series of lessons about consent that starts with boys and girls in preschool and continues through high school.

Many states, spurred by the cultural impact of #MeToo, adopted laws that require schools to teach consent. In New Jersey, consent is addressed in grades 6 through 12 and in Delaware, starting next fall, in grades 7 through 12. In April, PA State Senator Andy Dinniman introduced legislation to require consent education in the K-12 curriculum.

Since one in four girls and one in six boys will be sexually abused before they turn 18, it is best if parents talk to their kids about consent at home when they are young, but that’s often not the case.

“Parents often wait for their kids to bring the topic up, in the way that, if my child ever wants to talk about this, I’m here, open and available,” says Brendon Jobs, director of diversity and inclusion at the Haverford School.

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time never arises it is too easy to put off a conversation that neither parent nor child relishes.

“It’s about making intentional space and being brave enough to be proactive,” Jobs says. “It may even make your kids a little uncomfortable to get them to think about some of these issues.”

Because Hilary Platt has heard students say things like “She dresses like a slut, she deserved it,” and “My boyfriend hits me, but it’s okay,” she knows about the need to teach consent.

“These are really important statements, because if one person is saying it, more people are thinking it,” says Platt, coordinator and case manage for Project SARAH (Stop Abusive Relationships at Home) through Jewish Family and Children’s Services of Southern New Jersey.

Consent is more than sexual

You should start to talk about consent very early with kids, even as toddlers, says Meghan Walls, pediatric psychologist at Nemours A.I. duPont Hospital.

“There’s a lot more to consent than just sexual consent,” she says. With preschoolers you can point out that this

is your own body, this is your space and people can’t touch you without asking.

“I encourage parents to talk to kids at a young age about boundaries,” she says.

Parents can say things things like “If you don’t want to be hugged by another kid you can say ‘This is my space and I don’t want you in my space,’” Walls says. “Or, ‘What are the things we need to ask permission for before we go up to another person — if I can hug them, if I can touch them, even if I can share their belongings.’”

Walls encourages parents to role play what it sounds like when someone wants you to hug them or share something. Is the answer an enthusiastic “yes” or does the child turn his back, mumble “no” or appear uncomfortable? “Even if you are ‘bothering’ the child you say no to, that is your right. Your body and your space and things like physical hugs are okay to say no to.”

One critical change in the conversation is that the prevailing rule of sexual consent – No Means No — is shifting to Yes Means Yes, which protects someone incapacitated or even too shy to say no.

When someone says yes, it’s clear they are giving consent.

Parents should teach their children that only a verbal affirmative answer means yes, and anything else means they should either ask again if they aren’t sure, or take it as a no, says Walls.

“Parents can role play how to talk about their feelings, such as, ‘I felt sad that Katie didn’t want to hug me,’ but not have to act on those feelings,” she adds. “When we start these conversations early, we set the pathways to a better understanding of boundaries.”

Walls says research shows that talking about sex education as early as elementary school doesn’t do any harm. “It doesn’t make kids more promiscuous, but it does get rid of the mythology and excitement around the unknown, by parents having that conversation.”

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A dad’s advice

Jason Z., 40, from Wilmington, agrees.

When his sons Westen, 10, and Isaac, 8, were toddlers, he talked about consent but didn’t use that word. “I tried to teach them not just don’t hit or bite, but a lesson about not to violate someone’s personal space,” he says. “I talked about self-ownership and how it feels to be hurt or how it feels when someone touches you and you didn’t agree to it. Golden rule stuff.”

Those lessons are confirmed in their Brazilian jujitsu classes, which include a non-verbal part of training when they must do a two-touch system to verify that each partner is ready to engage. “They understand their bodies are capable of harm and using that capability in a responsible way is very important,” he says.

The boys learned how those lessons applied in romantic ways when their dad began dating after his wife passed away.

“It was a woman the boys already knew and they saw our physical relationship change,” he says. “They had seen me and their mom kiss and hug but we never explained that it was part of a deeper agreement and promise we had made to each other. So it opened up an opportunity for me to talk to them more specifically about romantic consent.”

Keys to Consent • • •

Consent should be between two people, so both people need to say “I’m okay with this.”

Consent needs to be given in a free and clear mindset, alcohol- and drug-free.

Consent can be taken back. Someone may say yes to a kiss but may say no to other things.

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Cup of Tea = Consent If your child is in middle school or older, the YouTube video Consent is Like a Cup of Tea is a wonderful way to broach the subject, several experts told us.

Using a cup of tea as a metaphor for sexual activity, it’s a fun, interesting comic strip-like video that can jumpstart the conversation.

Learn from mistakes

Eva (not her real name), 18, from Mount Laurel, NJ, hopes tweens and teens will learn from the mistakes she made when, during the summer between 7th and 8th grade, friends coerced her to sext.

“Middle school was when we started to see more pressure from children,” recalls her mom, who believes kids lose sight of the dangers in a quest to be popular.

She noticed behavioral changes in her daughter and sensed that something wasn’t right. She looked in her phone and discovered compromising photos.

“Some teens think it’s the norm and don’t realize there’s anything wrong with it,” she adds. “Sexting is violating their boundaries and another form of abuse.”

After finding the pictures, Eva and her mom talked about the do’s and don’t’s of sexting and how it’s illegal. Eva went into counseling to begin the healing process.

Her mom has already started conversations with her 3-year-old son about consent, but in language he can understand. “We use words such as ‘my body,’ ‘my space,’ and ‘no touch,’” she says. “Just knowing that it’s his personal body is huge.”

A lot has changed in the 15-year gap between her kids. When her daughter was little and a relative would ask for a hug, she encouraged her to hug the person.

Now, when she finds her son in a similar situation, she lets him decide if he wants to hug the person or not.

“We have to have these conversations with our children about their bodies and boundaries and caring for themselves, regardless of their gender or sexual orientation,” she says. “My daughter is still healing from that experience. She has come very far and is helping her fellow teenage friends with this topic.”

Terri Akman is a contributing writer to MetroKids.

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Parenting

Is Your Kid Bullying?

What to do if your child is the one tormenting someone else.

By Michele Haddon What if your kid is the bully?

First of all, don’t call him that, says Mandy Mundy, senior director of programs and services at the Network of Victim Assistance of Bucks County, PA. “It’s important to remember that when anybody, especially children, engage in actions and behaviors that are defined as bullying, that we don’t in turn define the child as a bully,” says Mundy. “Sometimes those labels stick with a child for the rest of their lives” even if they stop bullying.

Look for signs

If you aren’t alerted by the school or another parent, how would you know?

For one thing, take time to listen to your kids, says Dr. Stuart Green, director of the New Jersey Coalition for Bullying Awareness and Prevention.

“Parents should ask about their children’s interests and lives,” Green says.

“What constitutes a lot of discourse between parents and their children comes from transmitting their values and interests to their kids rather than listening to their kids talk about what is happening in their lives.”

Mundy says to ask open-ended questions about her day: “What was one good thing that happened during the day?

What was something that made you sad or upset? What was something that was challenging?”

Maybe she’ll acknowledge that nobody plays or eats lunch with her. That might signal she’s being bullied but it could also mean she’s doing the bullying.

Set expectations, consequences

Make sure your child knows what bully behavior looks like.

“Kids need to have examples of what a bully does and doesn’t do. You have to be specific about the behavior,” says Dr. Patricia Scott, director of strategic partnerships and grants at Beau Biden Foundation in Wilmington, DE. See if he can identify it in real life.

“This can start out with questions about other people’s bullying behavior (which can be examples from TV, internet, social media), and, increasingly, bring the query to the more personal — questions about the child’s own experience with bullying, either being bullied or being the bully,” says Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD, a psychologist/psychoanalyst in New York City.

When expectations are broken, set consequences tied to the behavior.

“If the child engages in cyberbullying, take away the cell phone or use of social media. If it’s bullying on the playground, work with the school to substitute recess for extra library time,” says Mundy. This also makes it harder for that form of bullying to continue.

Look for a cause

“After you’ve addressed it, you also need to understand where that’s coming from,” Scott explains. “There’s always a reason behind it.

“It’s not always a good one, it may be unjustified, but if you can understand what led to it, you can change the bullying behavior.”

Bullying is a power struggle — whether emotionally, socially or physically, Mundy says. One possibility is your child is being bullied himself, is feeling misunderstood at school or has an unidentified learning disability.

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2019-2020 PREK-8 INDEPENDENT SCHOOL SURVEY

Those first years of school can be so important. Fortunately, there are many independent schools in Southeastern Pennsylvania that can set your child off on the right foot.

But with so many options, it can be difficult to decide which school is the best fit for your family. To help, we offer our 30th annual Independent School Survey for grades PreK-8.

In the chart below, you’ll find information about school size and type, tuition, world

languages and special services.

Tuition is listed as a range, as described in the accompanying key.

You can also find this information and more at Metrokids.com/ educationguide, where you can sort by school, state, county, grades of school and gender.

We are always looking for ways to improve our listings, so please send suggestions to editor@metrokids.com.

KEY TUITION: $ = < $10,000 $$ = $10,000-$20,000 $$$ = $20,000-$30,000 $$$$ = > $30,000

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SERVICES XXX = Enrollment

= Accommodates disabilities = Summer camp, school or program

Abington Friends School, (Quaker) Jenkintown; Abingtonfriends.net; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 560 $$ -$$$; FR, SP; Quaker school with early childhood emergent curriculum. Rigorous academic program and culture of intellectual and creative ambition.

Agnes Irwin School, The, (Nonsectarian) Rosemont; Agnesirwin.org; Grades PreK-12; Girls; 321 $$-$$$$; FR, LA, SP; Agora Cyber Charter School, (Cyber Charter) King of Prussia; Agora.org; Grades K-12; Coed; 6,300 $0; A Pennsylvania public cyber school that delivers a personalized learning experience, facilitated by highly qualified certified teachers.

AIM Academy, (Nonsectarian) Conshohocken; Aimpa.org; Grades 1-12; Coed; 363 $$$$; LA, SP; Ancillae-Assumpta Academy, (Catholic) Wyncote; Ancillae.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 580 $$; SP; Baldwin School, The, Bryn Mawr; Baldwinschool.org; Grades PreK-12; Girls; 315 $$$-$$$$; AR, CH, FR, LA, SP; Benchmark School, (Nonsectarian) Media; Benchmarkschool.org; Grades 1-8; Coed; 180 $$$$; Bryn Athyn Church School, (Christian) Bryn Athyn; Brynathynchurchschool.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 278 $$; SP Buckingham Friends School, (Quaker) Lahaska; Bfs.org; Grades K-8; Coed; 147 $$$; FR, SP; Children find space to explore and grow through a curriculum that is flexible and responsive to their interests.

Center School, (Nonsectarian) Abington; Centerschoolpa.org; Grades 1-8; Coed; 65 $$$$; City School, The, (Christian) Phila. 19123; cityschool.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 250 $; ASL, SP; Commonwealth Connections Academy Charter School, (Cyber Charter) PA; Connectionsacademy.com/reach-cyber-school; Grades K-12; Coed; 8,037 $0 10-year-old cyber school provides after-hours program with real-time teacher support, dozens of in-person clubs and hundreds of field trips.

Coventry Christian School, (Christian) Pottstown; Coventrychristian.com; Grades K-12; Coed; 365 $; LA; Delaware County Christian School, (Christian) Devon & Newtown Square; Dccs.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 630 $-$$; CH, GE, SP; Dock Mennonite Academy, (Christian) Souderton; Dock.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 370 $; SP; Episcopal Academy, The, (Christian) Newtown Sq.; Episcopalacademy.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 1,267 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, LA, SP; Frankford Friends School, (Quaker) Phila. 19124; Frankfordfriends.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 180 $$; SP French International School of Phila., (Nonsectarian) Bala Cynwyd; Frenchschoolphila.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 320 $$-$$$; FR, LA, SP; A bilingual curriculum in FR & English makes for a diverse school community. Service learning begins in PreK. Friendsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Central School, (Quaker) Wynnewood; Friendscentral.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 235 $$$-$$$$; FR, LA, PL, SP; Friends School Haverford, (Quaker) Haverford; Friendshaverford.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 110 $-$$$; SP; Friends Select School, (Quaker) Phila.; Friends-select.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 588 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, GE, IT, LA, SP; Germantown Academy, (Nonsectarian) Ft. Washington; Germantownacademy.net; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 593 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, GE, LA, SP; Offers outstanding academics in a setting steeped in more than 250 years of tradition.

Germantown Friends School, (Quaker) Phila. 19144; Germantownfriends.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 916 $$-$$$$; FR, LA, SP; Girard College, (Nonsectarian) Phila. 19121; Girardcollege.edu; Grades K-12; Coed; 211 $0; FR, SP Students receive full scholarships; must come from single- or no-parent family, have financial needs and possess good grades & behavior.

Gladwyne Montessori School, (Montessori) Gladwyne; Gladwyne.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 215 $$-$$$; SP; Grayson School, The, (Nonsectarian) Broomall; Thegraysonschool.org; Grades PreK-10; Coed; 52 $$-$$$; CH, LA, SP; Greene Street Friends School, (Quaker) Phila.19144; Greenestreetfriends.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 340 $$; SP; Offers exceptional academics to diverse student community with emphasis on discovery, achievement & kindness. Service learning program.

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Freedom to Flourish

Jenkintown, PA

Open Houses

Saturday, October 19 and Tuesday, November 5

Register at:

www.abingtonfriends.net or 215.886.4350 A Quaker, coeducational, college-preparatory school for students from age 3 through Grade 12. Visit our award-winning outdoor playspaces on a 50-acre suburban campus just beyond the city border.

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An academically rigorous Quaker boarding and day high school in Newtown, Pennsylvania.

• Financial aid and merit aid available • More than 40 advanced (AP and IB) courses • • • Comprehensive college counseling program • • 25 varsity sports and state of the art athletics facilities • • 240 acre campus • You Are Invited: Admission Open House S U N, O CT 27, 2019, 1:30 p.m. | SAT, AP R I L 25, 2020, 1:30 p.m.

www.georgeschool.org

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Gwynedd-Mercy Academy Elementary, (Catholic) Spring House; Gmaelem.org; Grades K-8; Coed; 400 $$; FR, SP; Haverford School, The, (Nonsectarian) Haverford; Haverford.org; Grades PreK-12; Boys; 519 $$$-$$$$; LA, SP; Holmesburg Christian Academy, (Christian) Phila.19136; Holmesburgchristian.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 200 $; SP; Holy Child Academy, (Catholic) Drexel Hill; Holychildacademy.com; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 150 $$; SP; Holy Child School at Rosemont, (Catholic) Rosemont; Holychildrosemont.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 310 $-$$$; SP; Kimberton Waldorf School, (Progressive) Kimberton; Kimberton.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 250 $-$$; GE, SP; Lansdowne Friends School, (Quaker) Lansdowne; Lansdownefriendsschool.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 100 $-$$; SP; A responsive classroom approach to learning, promoting a respectful environment to support intellectual, emotional, social and spiritual growth.

Meadowbrook School, (Progressive) Meadowbrook; Themeadowbrookschool.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 120 $$-$$$; FR, SP; Small classes & exceptional blend of academics & enrichment in a family-like atmosphere on a 15-acre campus; focus on self-confidence.

Media-Providence Friends School, (Quaker) Media; Mpfs.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 122 $$ -$$$; SP; Miquon School, The, (Progressive) Conshohocken; Miquon.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 148 $$-$$$; SP; School treasures & celebrates childhood while affording students time to play and grow; emphasis on the natural world as a place to learn.

Montessori School, The, (Montessori) Dresher; Discovertms.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 135 $$; SP; Montgomery School, (Nonsectarian) Chester Springs; Montgomeryschool.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 240 $$-SSS; FR, SP; Nazareth Academy Grade School, (Catholic) Phila. 19114; Nazarethacademy.net; Grades 1-8; Coed; 199 $; LA, SP; Newtown Friends School, (Quaker) Newtown; Newtownfriends.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 250 $$-$$$; LA, SP Norwood-Fontbonne Academy, (Catholic) Phila. 19118; Norfon.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 416 $$; SP; Pennsylvania Cyber Charter School, (Cyber Charter) PA; Pacyber.org; Grades K-12; Coed; 10,389 $0 The arts, STEM and gifted programs are offered within student-centered instructional model; award-winning family support department.

Pen Ryn School, The, (Progressive) Fairless Hills; Penryn.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 250 $-$$; SP; Penn Christian Academy, (Christian) East Norriton; Pennchristian.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 150 $; SP; Perelman Jewish Day School, (Jewish) Wynnewood & Melrose Park; Pjds.org; Grades PreK-5; Coed; 340 $-$$$; HE; Phebe Anna Thorne School, (Nonsectarian) Bryn Mawr; Brynmawr.edu/thorne; Grades PreK-K; Coed; $-$$; Philadelphia School, The, (Progressive) Phila. 19146; Tpschool.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 478 $$$; LA, SP; Philadelphia-Montgomery Christian Academy, (Christian) Erdenheim; Phil-mont.com; Grades K-12; Coed; 150 $-$$; Plumstead Christian School, (Christian) Plumsteadville; Plumsteadchristian.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 207 $-$$; LA; Plymouth Meeting Friends School, (Quaker) Plymouth Meeting; Pmfs1780.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 110 $$-$$$; SP; Project Learn School, (Progressive) Phila. 19119; Projectlearnschool.org; Grades K-8; Coed; 60 $-$$; SP; Quadrat Academy, (Progressive) Phila; Quadratacademy.com; Grades 6-12; Coed; 4 $$-$$$; SP; A progressive middle and high school founded on principles of Montessori, experiential and STEAM learning approaches.

Sacred Heart Academy, (Catholic) Bryn Mawr; Shabrynmawr.org; Grades K-12; Girls; 250 $$; FR; School in Rose Valley, The, (Progressive) Rose Valley; Theschoolinrosevalley.org; Grades PreK-6; Coed; 123 $-$$$; SP; A progressive program committed to the development of the whole child. Full- and part-time enrollment options available for PreK and K. Shipley School, The, (Nonsectarian) Bryn Mawr; Shipleyschool.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 410 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, LA, SP; Springside Chestnut Hill Academy, (Nonsectarian) Phila. 19118; Sch.org; Grades PreK-8; Single Sex; 1,025 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, LA, SP; St. Aloysius Academy, Bryn Mawr; Staloysiusacademy.org; Grades PreKâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;Coed, K-8â&#x20AC;&#x201C;Boys; 200 $$; CH, SP, LA; St. Bernadette of Lourdes School, (Catholic) Drexel Hill; St-bernadette.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 330 $; SP St. Cornelius School, (Catholic) Chadds Ford; Scornelius.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 135 $; CH, SP; Students learn in an atmosphere of peace and beauty along with a strong Catholic formation and rigorous academic curriculum.

St. Gabriel School, (Catholic) Phila. 19146; Stgabrielphila.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 180 $; St. Katharine of Siena School, (Catholic) Wayne; Sksschool.org; Grades K-8; Coed; 389 $-$$; SP;

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Growing the Light in Every Child WEST CHESTER FRIENDS SCHOOL Quaker Values Enriched, Innovative Academics Children Age Three through Fifth Grade

We all know: Where your child goes to school won’t make or break their future.

But who they are as a person will.

Studio Art • Music • Spanish STEM • Makers Space • Robotics Outdoor Classroom • Gardening • Resident Hens Yoga • Dance • Clubs • Summer Program Flexible Tuition • Before and After Care www.WCFriends.org • admissions@wcfriends.org • 610-696-2937

OPEN HOUSE SATURDAY OCTOBER 19 • 10AM -12PM

Followed by a community-welcomed Fall Festival.

THE MEADOWBROOK SCHOOL Bringing Life to Learning since 1919

Preschool - 6th grade in Abington Township 215.884.3238 • www.themeadowbrookschool.org

Fall Family Open House & “New-to-You” Book Fair Saturday, November 2 • 10am–12noon School-Wide Open House Fall Family Open House & “New-to-You” Book Fair Tuesday, November 12 • 9am–11am Saturday, November 2 • 10am–12noon School-Wide Open House Tuesday, November 12 • 9am–11am

Learn. Play. Grow. theschoolinrosevalley.org

Learn. Play. Grow. theschoolinrosevalley.org

GREENE STREET FRIENDS SCHOOL

Open House dates: Thursday, Oct. 3 8:45 - 10:30am Saturday, Oct. 12 1:00 - 3:00pm

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greenestreetfriends.org lclancy@greenestreetfriends.org 215.438.7005

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Thursday, Nov. 14 8:45 - 10:30am Private Tours by Appointment

reIMAGINING the classroom

At Philadelphia’s oldest Friends school, we are

From the experiential learning emerging indoors and outdoors on our 47-acre green campus, to the creative intellectual work taking place in our labs, maker spaces, and classrooms, to the stewardship and empathy taking root within our diverse and dynamic school community—we’re preparing students to lead and serve in the wider world.

OPEN HOUSES

SATURDAY, OCT. 5

Pre-K to 5 @ 10 a.m.

Grades 6-12 @ 2:30 p.m.

TUESDAY, NOV. 5 8:30 a.m.

RSVP PENNCHARTER.COM

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St. Peter’s School, (Nonsectarian) Phila.19147; St-peters-school.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 200 $$-$$$; FR; Stratford Friends School, (Quaker) Newtown Square; Stratfordfriends.org; Grades K-9; Coed; 85 $$$$; Tatnall School, The, (Nonsectarian) Wilmington; Tatnall.org; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 550 $$-$$$; FR, LA, SP; School provides a strong, balanced foundation with exceptional academics and athletics, unparalleled arts and authentic relationships.

Trevose Day School/Neshaminy Montessori, (Montessori) Feasterville; Trevosedayschool.org; Grades PreK-5; Coed; 110 $-$$; FR United Friends School, (Quaker) Quakertown; Unitedfriendsschool.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 109 $-$$; SP; Upland Country Day School, (Nonsectarian) Kennett Square; Uplandcds.org; Grades PreK-9; Coed; 145 $-$$$; LA, SP; Valley Christian School, (Christian) Huntingdon Valley; Vcskids.com; Grades PreK-8; Coed 130 $; SP; Villa Maria Academy Lower School, (Catholic) Malvern; Villamaria.org; Grades PreK–Coed, K-8–Girls; 285 $$; SP; Walden School, The, (Montessori) Media; Thewaldenschool.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 140 $-$$; SP, GE Waldorf School of Phila., The, (Progressive) Phila.19144; Phillywaldorf.com; Grades K-8; Coed; 244 $-$$; SP; Waldron Mercy Academy, (Catholic) Merion Station; Waldronmercy.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 439 $$; LA, SP; West Chester Friends School, (Quaker) West Chester; Wcfriends.org; Grades PreK-5; Coed; 145 $$$; SP; Stress on community service emphasizes literature, studio art and art history, music, science and health.

Westtown School, (Quaker) West Chester; Westtown.edu; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 320 $$-$$$; LA, SP; William Penn Charter School, (Quaker) Phila. 19144; Penncharter.com; Grades PreK-12; Coed; 969 $$$-$$$$; CH, FR, LA, SP; Friends school that grounds vigorous academics, arts & athletics in Quaker values. 47-acre campus; math & writing centers.

Willistown Country Day School, (Montessori) Malvern & West Chester; Willistown.org; Grades PreK-5; Coed; 100 $-$$; FR, SP; Woodlynde School, (Nonsectarian) Strafford; Woodlynde.org; Grades K-12; Coed; 275 $$$-$$$$; FR, SP; Wyndcroft School, The, (Nonsectarian) Pottstown; Wyndcroft.org; Grades PreK-8; Coed; 220 $-$$$; FR, LA; Wyoming Seminary, (Boarding) Kingston; Wyomingseminary.org; Grades PreK-PG; Coed; 795 $$$-$$$$; FR, LA, MA, SP;

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Autism and the College Quest If their academics can get them admitted and there’s support when they enroll, students with autism can succeed.

By Debra Wallace When Jane M.’s son, Ben, was 13 months old he was diagnosed with autism and his parents became sleep-deprived and emotional wrecks.

As they tried to grasp the enormity of their “new normal” the Philadelphia parents asked themselves daunting questions: “Is Ben ever going to talk?” “Will he go to school?” “Over the years, how much progress will he make?”

Now age 17 and a high school senior, Ben, along with his parents, meets with school guidance counselors as they embark on campus tours like other families that navigate the path to college.

This is an overwhelming task for parents of neuro-typical teens, but when a high school student also has an autism diagnosis, the complicated college admissions process can feel like learning to run a marathon.

“We have raised a very independent young man, who knows he has autism,

but he doesn’t use it as a crutch,” Jane says. “We have always tried to push him to reach his potential, but at the end of the day I can’t believe my baby may be going to college three hours away from us.”

With 1 in 59 children diagnosed with autism, according to the Centers for Disease Control, and as this population grows older, their parents need to figure out the often bumpy road to college, internships and employment.

Don’t write it off

Should parents even consider college for a teen who has an autism diagnosis?

“Absolutely. Everyone has a different strength and brings something new to the table,” says Amy Edwards, EdD, director of the Drexel University Autism Support program. “It is important that each of us embrace people’s differences.”

Kathy Miller, director of community services for the Institute on Disabilities for Temple University, advises parents of

“The problem is that sometimes educators don’t even ask high shcool students who have differences if they want to go to college.”

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high school students who have autism or another disability to pursue the college path the same way as their neuro-typical peers.

“The problem is that sometimes educators don’t even ask high school students who have differences if they want to go to college, so parents and students need to know that there are many opportunities out there,” Miller said. “The student, the family and those at the high school level all need to provide support.”

Most college applications do not ask if the student has autism, so the students must decide if or when to identify themselves. Since the Americans with Disabilities Act was amended in 2008 and broadened the definition of disabilities, more students are identifying themselves to educators and programs, says Erin Leuthold, director of Disability Services at Rutgers-Camden.

Drexel University is “test flexible, but not test-optional.” This means that depending on the major, the student may need Advanced Placement courses, SAT scores, entrance exams, or another gauge of the students’ abilities.

However, even if their academics are good enough to get them admitted, that doesn’t guarantee success. Many 18-yearolds, with or without autism, simply aren’t ready for college.

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FY: Full Year AY: Academic Year SP: Summer Program MP: Meals Provided

BS: Before School AS: After School DA: Diapers Accepted TP: Transportation Provided

SN: Special Needs DHS*: Licensed: Dept. of Health & Human Svcs.

DE*: Licensed: Dept. of Education DYF: Licensed: Dept. of Youth & Family Serv.

NAEYC: Accredited—National Assoc. of Education of Young Children PAIS: Accredited—PA Assoc. of Independent Schools MSCES: Accredited—Middle States Commission on Elementary Schools AMS: Accredited—American Montessori Society

* Note: DHS License: requires annual on-site visits. DE License: 20% of all facilities are inspected annually.

MULTIPLE SITES

CHESTER COUNTY

JENKINTOWN, MONTGOMERY COUNTY

HEY DIDDLE DIDDLE DAY SCHOOL, INC. 520 Bethlehem Pike, Ft. Washington, PA 215-654-9955 • HeyDiddleDiddleDaySchool.net LITTLE DIDDLE PRESCHOOL 440 Bethlehem Pike, Ft. Washington, PA 215-565-5866 • LittleDiddlePreschool.net Ages: 6 wks.-PreK • Hours: 7am-6pm Our school offers full-day programs. Our staff members are well-educated and experienced which enables us to give the students an educational program in a caring, nurturing environment. FY, AY, SP, BS, AS, DA, DHS, DE

KIMBERTON WALDORF SCHOOL 410 W. Seven Stars Rd. Kimberton, PA 610-933-3635 • Kimberton.org Ages: PreK- 12th grade • Hours: 8am-3:15pm At Kimberton Waldorf School, learning is a process of discovery that engages the whole human being. Instead of passively receiving information, our students are involved in a dynamic process of exploration and experience, both of the world and of themselves. Emphasis on the breadth of skills and opportunities that we value in childhood and in adulthood provides a reminder that education needs to be designed to produce holistically developed learners who are well-equipped to navigate the challenges of life in the 21st century. We develop analytical thinkers with imaginative minds capable of producing life-changing ideas. Our students build capacities and skills of creativity, resourcefulness, collaboration, perseverance, integrity, and ethical understanding. How we teach this matters. Every aspect of Waldorf education is intentional and planned.

Why we teach this way matters. At each stage of child development, students are challenged, capacities are built, foundations are set, and opportunities are given.

When we teach things matters.

ABINGTON FRIENDS 575 Washington Ln., Jenkintown, PA 215-886-4350 • AbingtonFriends.net Ages: 3 yrs.-K • Hours: 8am-3pm w/ext.-day option Our lower school early childhood program values and preserves childhood, building on the excitement and curiosity that children bring to their first school experience. Located on our beautiful 50-acre campus, our emergent curriculum program is designed to support your child’s developing independence. AY, SP, BS, AS, DHS, DE, NAEYC, PAIS

NEW YMCA OF GREATER BRANDYWINE Multiple Locations, Chester County, PA 610-643-9622 • Ymcagbw.org Ages: 6 weeks to 5th grade The YMCA’s childcare and early learning programs provide each child a warm and supportive environment in which to grow. We meet the needs of each child with experiences that foster development and a sense of self-esteem. Programs strive to develop the total child, with particular emphasis on educational, physical, emotional and social skills necessary for success in the coming school years.

Brandywine YMCA, Coatesville, 610-380-9622, FY, AY, SP, MP Jennersville YMCA, West Grove, 610-869-9622, FY, AY, SP, BS, AS Kennett Area YMCA, Kennett Square, 610-444-9622, FY, AY, SP, BS, AS Lionville Community YMCA, Exton, 610-363-9622, FY, AY, SP Octorara YMCA Program Center, Atglen, 610-593-9622, FY, AY, SP, BS, AS Oscar Lasko YMCA & Childcare Center, West Chester, 610-696-9622, FY, AY, SP, BS, AS Upper Main Line YMCA, Berwyn, 610-647-9622, FY, SP West Chester Area YMCA, West Chester, 610-431-9622, FY, SP

BUCKS COUNTY BRIGHT BEGINNERS ACADEMY 800 Clarmont Ave., Suite A, Bensalem, PA 267-520-7200 • Brightbeginnersacademy.com Ages: 6 wks. to 6 yrs. • Hours: 6:45am - 6pm Our preschool is designed to meet the needs of every child in a developmentally inclusive setting. Our program encourages progress at a child’s own pace and according to individual needs and abilities. Play-based learning centers for math, science, dramatic play, blocks, music, creative art and technology provide opportunities to balance and stimulate both shared and independent learning experiences. Private pay and subsidized funding accepted, infant and toddler care available. Parent volunteer opportunities available. FY, AY, SP, DA, SN, DHS*, DE TREVOSE DAY SCHOOL / NESHAMINY MONTESSORI 4951 Central Ave., Trevose, PA 215–355-4373 • Trevosedayschool.org Neshaminymontessori.org Ages: 2.5-10 yrs. • Hours: 7am-6pm Established in 1970, our programs excel at offering state-of-the-art education in a community-minded environment. We combine interactive technology, the visual and performing arts and scientific exploration with a sustainable hands-on approach that values our planet and nurtures curiosity. Our teachers are Pennsylvania Certified Early Childhood and Elementary Education Teachers. FY, AY, SP, MP, BS, AS, TP, SN, AMS

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NEW MESSIAH COMMUNITY PRESCHOOL 46 W. Lancaster Ave. Downingtown, PA 19335 610-269-4488 messiahcommunitypreschool.com Ages: 2.5-5 yrs. Hours: 9-12pm M-F Messiah Community Preschool is a community based early learning and preschool program operated out of the Messiah Lutheran Church. Our program allows children to explore, examine and discover the wonders of learning for themselves. All classes are designed to nurture and develop a child’s self-esteem and positive attitude toward learning and school. AY SP DA SN

MAIN LINE, DELAWARE COUNTY FRIENDS SCHOOL HAVERFORD 851 Buck Lane, Haverford, PA 19041 610-642-2334 • Friendshaverford.org Ages: Nursery through 8th Grade Hours: 8:00am - 2:45pm Friends School Haverford, a co-ed Quaker school, promotes academic scholarship, creativity, respect, integrity, and self-awareness with a commitment to creating a culture and kindness. Our unique hands-on, minds-on curriculum encourages and celebrates curiosity, imagination, and exploration. Offering a full-day kindergarten program with full- and half-day nursery school, preschool, and pre-k options. AY, SP, MP, BS, AS, DA, PAIS

SWARTHMORE/MEDIA, DELAWARE COUNTY SCHOOL IN ROSE VALLEY, THE 20 School Ln., Rose Valley, PA 610-566-1088 • TheSchoolinRoseValley.org Ages: Preschool-Grade 6 • Hours: 7:30am-6pm With over 80 years of experience, The School in Rose Valley offers a progressive, Preschool – 6th Grade program committed to the development of the whole child.

Full and part time enrollment options are available for Preschool and Kindergarten students. Weekly special subjects include Woodshop, Spanish, Science, Art, Music and Sports. SRV is located on a beautiful 9.5 acre campus just minutes from Media, PA. AY, SP, MP, BS, AS, TP, PAIS

LAFAYETTE HILL, MONTGOMERY COUNTY MIQUON SCHOOL, THE 2025 Harts Lane, Conshohocken, PA 610-828-1231 • Miquon.org Ages: 3 yrs.-12 yrs. • Hours: 8:30am-3pm Located on a wooded 11-acre campus just outside Northwest Philadelphia, Miquon is a co-educational day school offering Progressive education for children in Nursery (age three) through Sixth Grade. Our Nursery program offers full-day, 3-day, 4-day schedules and includes art, music, science, physical education and library. Miquon teachers provide a positive and nurturing environment for children to learn through play while meeting their social, emotional, cognitive and physical needs. Snacks provided. Optional van service available.

AY, SP, BS, AS, PAIS

MAIN LINE, MONTGOMERY COUNTY BALA HOUSE MONTESSORI SCHOOL 27 Conshohocken State Rd., Bala Cynwyd, PA 610-664-6767 • BalaHouse.org Ages: 3 yrs.-6 yrs. • Hours: 8am-6pm Mixed-age classes, for ages 3 - 6 yrs., are led by sensitive, nurturing and highly qualified teachers who offer gentle guidance in an atmosphere of freedom, warmth and trust.

Flexible schedules, convenient hours (7:45 a.m. to 5:45 p.m.) and three-, four-, and five-day afternoon class options are available. Art, music, gymnastics, kindergarten Spanish classes, extended care, summer camp round out our program. Some tuition assistance is available.

Embracing diversity since 1969. AY, SP, DHS, DE CHILDREN’S SCHOOL AT ST. JOHN’S, THE 404 Levering Mill Rd., Bala Cynwyd, PA 610-664-4588 • Childrens-school.org Ages: 3 mos.-K • Hours: 7am-6pm We offer a warm and creative learning environment where everyone has a “hands on” approach to learning.

Our developmental approach includes music, Spanish and Tumbling Tots, Pre-K follows the Letter People Curriculum and Handwriting without Tears. Subsidized funding from the state accepted. 4-star facility with Keystone Stars. FY, SP, BS, AS, SN, DHS, DE, NAEYC FRENCH INTERNATIONAL SCHOOL OF PHILADELPHIA 150 N. Highland Ave., Bala Cynwyd, PA 610-667-1284 • Frenchschoolphila.org Ages: 3 yrs.-Grade 8 • Hours: 7:30am-6pm The French International School of Philadelphia offers a French/English bilingual program from preschool through grade 8. Our non-French speaking students develop their verbal skills in French in the younger grades as they engage in developmentally appropriate activities. New students with no prior knowledge of French are admitted at the age of 3, 4 or 5. Extended care is provided starting at 7:30am and until 6pm. Accredited by the Middle States Association and the French Department of Education. AY, AS, BS, SP, MP, DHS, MOSES

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THE HAVERFORD SCHOOL 450 Lancaster Ave., Haverford, PA 610-642-3020 • Haverford.org Ages: PreK-12 Extraordinary educators prepare boys to be future-ready in a supportive learning environment designed to bring out the best in each student. Haverford strives to develop a well-balanced boy who is a high academic performer, socially and emotionally aware, and a good citizen of the School and community. Financial aid available. SP

KIDSPARK 23 Easton Rd. (Entrance on Davisville Rd.) Willow Grove, PA 215-657-KIDS (5437) • KidsPark.com Ages: 18 mos.-12 yrs. • Hours: Mon-Thu 7am-10pm; Fri 7am-12pm; Sat 10am-12pm; Sun 1pm-6pm A family favorite for over 20 years! Hourly drop-in childcare for ages 18 months-12 yrs old. Morning Preschool, birthday parties on the weekend. Arts & crafts, games, indoor climbing structure, music & stories. Days, evenings, weekends, attend meetings, run errands, exercise... while your children are safe and having fun.

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Fall Fun! Sweater weather is here, apple cider’s flowing and jack-olanterns are perched on every porch. Fall is in full swing, and with it comes an array of harvest and Halloween fun in the Delaware Valley.

KEY: not-so-spooky;

elementary-age eerie;

batten down the hatches!

Froelich’s Farm & Garden, Furlong

Arasapha Farm, Glen Mills

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. A new hay-bale maze, barnyard bounce, pumpkin jump and gem-mining area join longtime favorites like pumpkin-picking hayrides and duck races.

Cherry Crest Adventure Farm, Ronks

Through Nov. 2; flashlight mazes Fri. & Sat. Families can take the maze experience into their own hands here, with three routes. The easy path winds along the edges, while the intermediate route requires problem solving. Want to test your navigational know-how? You’ll have to solve a puzzle and answer trivia to find the way out.

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. Pick pumpkins from the patch, hop on hayrides and the new cow train, find your way out of the maze, stop by the petting zoo and partake in plenty of kids’ activities during fall festival weekends.

Milky Way Farm, Chester Springs

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. Pumpkin harvest weekends boast all the hallmarks of fall fun, from pick-your-own pumpkins and hayrides to farm animal meet-and-greets and a corn maze.

Shady Brook Farm, Yardley

Hellerick’s Family Farm, Doylestown

Through Nov. 3 The daily fall festival features a 5-acre maze, hayrides, corn-chute slides, pumpkin and squash fields, a tractortire climb and tunnel and farm-animal attractions.

Through Oct. Do your kids want a hint of spooky fun?

Let them try the Barn of Horror Jr. and Alien Invasion Jr., scaled-down versions of the farm’s nighttime programming. Then check out rubber-ducky and pig races, the spider web climb, inflatable attractions and the new chicken show.

Hurricane Hill Farm, Coatesville

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. The Gladiator-themed maze transports visitors back to ancient Rome, where you’ll take on word games, a picture-find and secret word jumble to find the way out.

Linvilla Orchards, Media

Through Nov. 10 After marveling at 100 tons of pumpkins and towering scarecrows in Pumpkinland, climb aboard a hayride to the witch’s house (select Oct. dates) to meet a chatty enchantress who doles out stories, jokes and treats.

Freddy Hill Farms, Lansdale

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. Hayrides to the pumpkin patch, cornstalk mazes, pony rides, pig races and kids’ crafts are all part of the seasonal mix here.

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Dutch Wonderland, Lancaster

Sat. & Sun., Oct. 19-Nov. 3 Perfect for the littlest ghouls, Happy Hauntings caters to kids with themed rides and an interactive trick-or-treat trail.

Do your kids love the thrill of a good scare? These venues deliver just that, with special effects, unsavory characters and scream-worthy surprises guaranteed to terrify the whole family.

Active Acres Farm in Newtown hosts Sleepy Hollow (Fri.-Sun. through Oct.), featuring a hayride, house and cornfield.

In Glen Mills, Arasapha Farms (select dates through Oct.) solidifies its scary reputation with impressive attention to detail and special effects.

Mazes, themed rides and prowling spooks frighten even the most jaded thrill-seekers at Dorney Park’s Halloween Haunt (Fri.-Sun. through Oct).

Franklin Square, Phila.

Thurs.-Sun. through Oct. Philly Mini Golf gets an eerie makeover with fog, lights, music and a few surprises.

Stop by on select dates for trick-or-treat — for humans and dogs — and pumpkin decorating.

LEGOLAND Discovery Center, Plymouth Meeting

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. Enthusiasts of the beloved blocks enjoy Halloween characters, a “brick-or-treat” trail and scavenger hunt, and a fireworks show.

Hersheypark, Hershey

Fri.-Sun., Oct. 18-Nov. 3 Show off your crew’s costumes during a flashlight tour of ZooAmerica, lights-out roller coaster rides and a Halloween dance party with popular characters.

Terror Behind the Walls at Philly’s Eastern State Penitentiary (select dates through Nov. 9) takes visitors around every creepy corner of the former prison.

Hayrides, horror shows, cornfields and bonfires provide ample scares at Jason’s Woods (Fri.-Sun. through Nov. 2) in Lancaster.

Peddler’s Village, Lahaska

Through Oct. 27 The Scarecrow Competition and Display takes the art of scarecrow making to a new level, with dozens of creative and colorful straw-people in categories guests vote on, ranging from Kids only to Thrills with Chills.

The Haunted Circus Mansion (Fri. & Sat. through Oct.) transforms the Philadelphia School of Circus Arts facility into an attraction that boasts multiple paths rife with twists and turns.

Tiptoe through the Barn of Horror, take on the 3D Alien Encounter and hold on tight during the Hayride of Horror at Horrorfest (through Oct.) at Yardley’s Shady Brook Farm.

Feasterville-Trevose’s Valley of Fear (select dates through Nov. 2) is packed with fresh frights this year, including a new hayride and revamped haunted house with unfamiliar rooms and characters.

There’s nowhere to run aboard the Night Chills hayride at Warrington’s Winding Brook Farm (Fri.-Sun. through Oct.), where you’ll find thrills and chills deep in the forest.

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Sesame Place, Langhorne

Through Nov. 3 Join favorite Sesame Street pals for The Count’s Halloween Spooktacular. The silly celebration includes themed shows, rides and parades.

Longwood Gardens, Kennett Sq.

Oct. 3-31 After viewing the 300lb. pumpkin in the vegetable garden, hit the children’s corner in the Idea Garden to explore a pumpkin display and pose for pics.

Morris Arboretum, Phila.

Oct. 5-31 The Scarecrow Contest calls on visitors to cast a vote for their favorite straw creation made by locals. Themed to famous musicians, stroll down Halloween Walk to spot luminaries like Lady Gaga, Elvis or Elton John.

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Philadelphia Zoo, Phila.

Sat. & Sun., Oct. 12-27 It’s A-OK to go a little wild during Boo at the Zoo. Families set out on trick-or-treat safari, explore the not-so-scary “extinction graveyard,” navigate a hay-bale maze and snap selfies in front of the giant pumpkin wall.

Woodmere Art Museum, Phila.

Sat. & Sun. through Oct. 27 Created by area artists, the architecturally designed straw maze is chock-full of twists and turns that beg to be explored.

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Pam Lubbers, of the University of Delaware’s new Spectrum Scholars support program, says her advice is the same for any prospective student who may not be ready to leave home and attend a four-year college program.

“You don’t have to take the whole plunge,” she said, “If it is more comfortable for you, there is a way to do it step-by-step.”

One plan is for the student to start at a community college to see what it feels like to be a college student.

“Work on life skills, social skills and group projects,” Lubbers advises. “When nobody is prompting them at home will they brush their teeth, take a shower and do their homework?

“If the student doesn’t have this figured out before heading to college, it could be a major challenge.”

Many local community colleges, including those in Montgomery and Bucks counties in PA and Burlington County in NJ, have programs to help students with autism.

“The most successful students have parents who aren’t afraid to let them stumble a little bit,” she says. “So, all of this newfound independence is a learning curve for the parents as well.”

However, the student must be willing to ask for help.

Taryn Cooper, accommodations assistant for Disability Services at Rutgers-Camden, says students who had an Individualized Education Plan or 504 (medical plan) in high school, often see college as a chance to do it on their own, without putting support services in place.

“But they should never be afraid to ask for help or to find resources such as tutors or learning specialists. It all starts with self-advocacy.”

Debra Wallace is freelance writer based in Huntingdon Valley, PA.

Support programs

At Drexel, once accepted, the student can apply for the Drexel Autism Support program that begins the summer before the student’s freshman year.

“Initially, I meet with the students on a weekly basis, help them write task lists, help them become organized so they will schedule enough study time,” Edwards explained.

At the University of Delaware, Lubbers says the students meet with an academic coach at least twice a week in order to work on academic skills, executive function, self-care and wellbeing, socialization and more.

Parents, meanwhile, should be prepared to step back.

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“If they feel like somebody else is taking power away from them, they may engage in bullying behaviors against somebody else to feel powerful themselves and to feel in control of another situation,” Mundy explains. “Or if they have trouble learning in school, if they have trouble focusing in school, that sense of lack of control sometimes turns outwardly to aggressive behaviors or bullying behaviors.”

Teach, show empathy

Learning to build and maintain healthy relationships begins at home.

“Children learn from watching. How we not only interact with the members within our household, but also with the people we see in our community, the people we see in our

children’s school, also impacts what children see and learn from us,” explains Mundy.

Teaching empathy from a young age can help decrease bullying behaviors, says Claudine Malone, program director at Beau Biden Foundation.

“Say to them, ‘When you hurt somebody, when you say something hurtful, they feel it. You don’t know what other kids are dealing with,’ ” Malone suggests.

Sometimes, despite everything you’ve tried, the bullying behavior may continue. If so, seek outside help. Don’t let the fear of labels stop you, Mundy warns.

“We’re not always the expert in helping our child solve problems,” she asserts.

“So, if the things you try to redirect your child’s bullying behaviors don’t seem to be working, seek help from a school guidance counselor, an independent mental health counselor, or even another trusted family member.”

Michele Haddon is a freelance writer based in Doylestown, PA.

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Enjoy live entertainment at the South Street Fall Pumpkinfest in Philly, Oct. 26.

DAY-BY-DAY CALENDAR Special needs event Revolutionary Germantown Festival

5 Saturday

Seasonal event

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1 Tuesday

Day-Off Camp: Mad Scientist at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. Science experiments answer questions like, “How do sticks float?” and “How are rocks formed?” $$$$ Museum Playdate: Let's Go to Egypt at the Penn Museum, Phila. Little ones engage in storytime, art activities and gallery exploration. $$

2 Wednesday

Child's Play Series: Spices at the Peter Wentz Farmstead, Lansdale. Preschoolers learn about spices and prepare a sachet of a common spice mix. $ All Hallow's Eve Fall Festival

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3 Thursday

Night Market Philadelphia: Point Breeze at Federal St. & Point Breeze Ave., Phila. Dine al fresco at this pop-up festival featuring dozens of vendors and kids’ activities. FREE

4 Friday

Chestnut Hill First Friday on Germantown Avenue, Phila. There’ll be shopping deals and extended store hours. FREE Eerie Limited Train Ride on the Colebrookdale Railroad, Boyertown. Listen to spooky tales of local hauntings. $$$$

The Glow: A Jack-o-Lantern Experience at West Fairmount Park, Phila. Through Nov. 3, wander along a trail of expertly carved pumpkins that depict superheroes, famous Philadelphians and local landmarks. $$$$

5 Saturday

Bank of America Museums on Us, Phila. Bank of America and Merrill Lynch cardholders are granted admission to participating venues including the African American Museum in Philadelphia, Museum of the American Revolution and the National Museum of American Jewish History. FREE Fall Family Weekend at Morris Arboretum, Phila. Make a scarecrow, paint pumpkins and sample a variety of apples. $$$ Fall Foliage Express on the West Chester Railroad, West Chester. $$$$ Fall Harvest Festival at Newlin Grist Mill, Glen Mills. Enjoy 18th-century skill demos, hayrides, pumpkin painting and colonial games.

FREE Kids Run Wild at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. Every participant will receive a nature-themed race bib, finishing medal and race packet. $$

Scarecrow-Making Workshop

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Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Autumn Harvest Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ PHILADANCO Genesis at the Merriam Theater, Phila. See Oct. 5. $$$$ Two Alarm 5K at the Belmont Hills Fire Company, Bala Cynwyd.

Benefits local fire companies. $$$$

9 Wednesday

Children's Nature Series: Squirrel Tales at Norristown Farm Park, E. Norriton. Listen to a squirrely story, make a craft and try to find the critter outdoors. $

PARENTS’ NIGHT OUT

Get the kids a sitter: Oktoberfest season is here! Mark the occasion with Germaninspired shindigs — and plenty of beer — at area venues. Kick off the fun at Morgan’s Pier Oct. 5 in Philly, where you’ll find an open bar, soft pretzels and live music. Or the same day, Roxborough’s Rocktoberfest features carnival rides and food trucks. On Oct. 12, OctoberFEAST at Peddler’s Village in Lahashka plays host to an array of food, drinks and seasonal activities.

Day-Off Camp: Art and Nature at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. Discover how artists incorporate nature into their work during a stroll through an art gallery and nature trails. $$$$ School Holiday Camp: Creepy Nature at the Bucks County Audubon Society, New Hope. Activities include hiking, animal meet-and-greets and science experiments. $$$$

10 Thursday

Books and Boots at the Myrick Conservation Center, West Chester. Join Potter the Otter for storytime that leads to an outdoor adventure. $$

11 Friday

Tall Trees Nature Playdate at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. FREE

12 Saturday

Midtown Village Fall Festival at 13th & Chestnut Sts, Phila.

While parents explore vendor displays, kids are kept busy with performances and activities. FREE

Autumn Festival at Windlestrae Park, North Wales. Expect hayrides, face painting, pony rides, a magic show, petting zoo and K9 demos. FREE

Oktoberfest at Morgan’s Pier, Phila. See “Parents’ Night Out,” above. $$$$

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. Wear your costume to set out on a trick-or-treat safari, wind through the hay maze and explore the not-so-scary “Extinction Graveyard.” $$$$

Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Autumn Harvest Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ PHILADANCO Genesis at the Merriam Theater, Phila. The dance company performs popular ballets from its early years. $$$$ Revolutionary Germantown Festival at Cliveden, Phila. Witness how the Revolutionary War turned this spot into a battleground for Gen. George Washington’s colonial soldiers as they fought the British to liberate occupied Philly. FREE Rocktoberfest in the Roxborough neighborhood, Phila. See “Parents’ Night Out,” above. FREE Storytime on the Mansion Porch at Pennypacker Mills, Schwenksville. $

6 Sunday

Bank of America Museums on Us, Phila. See Oct. 5. FREE Fall Family Weekend at Morris Arboretum, Phila. See Oct. 5. $$$ Fall Foliage Express on the West Chester Railroad, West Chester. $$$$

Harvest Festival at the Quiet Valley Living Historical Farm, Stroudsburg. Journey back in time and enjoy spinning and weaving demos, folk entertainment and kids’ activities including pumpkin decorating and horse-drawn wagon rides. $$ Haunted Hayride at Green Lane Park, Green Lane. The familyfriendly trip ends with crafts and snacks. FREE Hocus Pocus Movie Screening at Suburban Square, Ardmore.

FREE OctoberFEAST at Peddler's Village, Lahaska. See “Parents’ Night Out,” above left. FREE Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Halloween Daze and Spooky Nights Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ Philadelphia Open Studio Tours, South Phila. Various neighborhood sites host studio visits, hands-on demonstrations, workshops, artist discussions, receptions, guided tours and exhibits. FREE

Family Arts Academy: Optical Illusion Paper Sculpture at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts, Phila. FREE

Pumpkin Patch Train Ride on the Colebrookdale Railroad, Boyertown. Journey to Frog Hollow Farm to pick jack-o-lanterns. $$$$

First Sunday Family Day: Art and Movement at the Barnes Foundation, Phila. Practice drawing a live model, make tutus & ribbon wands and learn ballet moves. FREE

Living with Cardiomyopathy Family Conference at the Hilton DoubleTree Hotel, Phila. Includes presentations by specialists, patient-and-physician panels and breakout sessions. FREE

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Song and Story with Sister Cities Girlchoir at Palmer Park, Phila. FREE

13 Sunday

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. See Oct. 12. $$$$ Family Arts Academy: Magic Storytelling and Rattle Craft at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts, Phila. FREE Full Moon Hike at Norristown Farm Park, E. Norriton. FREE

Witches and Wizards Weekend in the Chestnut Hill neighborhood, Phila. See “Fan of,” below. FREE

19 Saturday

All Hallow's Eve Fall Festival at Pennypacker Mills, Schwenksville. Pumpkin painting, hayrides, crafts, corn shucking, bean-bag toss and a straw jump are all part of the seasonal mix. $

Harvest Festival at the Quiet Valley Living Historical Farm, Stroudsburg. See Oct. 12. $$

Autumn Faire at Churchville Nature Center, Churchville. This new event features live music, artisan vendors, tastings from local breweries, herbalism workshops and games. FREE

National Dog Show Charity Walk at Wilson Farm Park, Wayne. $$$$

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. See Oct. 12. $$$$

Naturalist Foray: Birds of Autumn at the Peace Valley Nature Center, Doylestown. FREE

Children’s Workshop: Haunted House at the Wayne Art Center, Wayne. $$$$

Old City Fest at 3rd & Arch Sts., Phila. This event highlights the area’s art, culture and history via demos, live music, fashion shows, a kids’ zone and 100-plus vendors. FREE Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Halloween Daze and Spooky Nights Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ Philadelphia Open Studio Tours in Northwest Phila. See Oct. 12. FREE

17 Thursday

The Great Pumpkin Carve at the Chadds Ford Historical Society, Chadds Ford. In addition to hayrides, pumpkin painting and entertainment, you’ll view more than 70 pumpkins carved by local artists. $$$

18 Friday

The Great Pumpkin Carve at the Chadds Ford Historical Society, Chadds Ford. See Oct. 17. $$$ Haunted Trails: What Lurks in the Night? at the Bucks County Audubon Society, New Hope. Follow the jack-o-lantern trail to learn how nocturnal critters contribute to the ecosystem. $$$$

The Great Pumpkin Carve at the Chadds Ford Historical Society, Chadds Ford. See Oct. 17. $$$ Harvest Festival at Pennypack Farm, Horsham. Enjoy wagon rides, arts & crafts, live music and a bug walk. FREE Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Halloween Daze and Spooky Nights Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ Philadelphia Open Studio Tours, Northwest Phila. See Oct. 12. FREE Pumpkin Patch at Franklin Square, Phila. Pick a pumpkin and decorate it to take home. $

Vendor Fest at Smith Memorial Playground, Phila. Shop for family-friendly items. FREE Witches and Wizards Weekend in the Chestnut Hill neighborhood, Phila. See “Fan of,” below. FREE

20 Sunday

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. See Oct. 12. $$$$ Family Arts Academy: Fantastical Landscapes with Encaustic at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts, Phila. FREE Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Halloween Daze and Spooky Nights Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ Philadelphia Open Studio Tours, West Phila. See Oct. 12. FREE Scarecrow-Making Workshop at Norristown Farm Park, E. Norriton. Bring the clothes you’d like to use, as well as materials to make the head. $

22 Tuesday

Zombie Hunter Train Ride on the Colebrookdale Railroad, Boyertown.

Invade the zombie camp set up along the tracks. $$$$

24 Thursday

Books and Boots at the Myrick Conservation Center, West Chester. See Oct. 10. $$ Halloween Crafts at Norristown Farm Park, E. Norriton. Get an up-close look at nocturnal critters and the adaptations that allow them to hunt in the dark. $

Run for the Mill 5K Trail Run and Walk at Newlin Grist Mill, Glen Mills. $$$$

Shipley Shops Event at the Shipley School, Bryn Mawr. Browse merch from retailers across the country. $$

Shiverfest at Riverbend Environmental Education Center, Gladwyne. Wear your costume for this mildly eerie festival, where activities include pony rides, pumpkin decorating, storytelling, trick-or-treat, a haunted trail and animal shows. $$$$

Eerie Limited Train Ride on the Colebrookdale Railroad, Boyertown. See Oct. 4. $$$$

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FAN OF . . . HALLOWEEN COSTUMES

Whether your brood is drawn to spooky, magical, fantastical or downright whimsical costumes, the whole family can show theirs off during Witches and Wizards Weekend, Oct. 18 & 19 at locations throughout Philly’s Chestnut Hill neighborhood. Say “hi” to strolling actors sporting ghoulish garb on Germantown Avenue, attend the Jenk Academy for Witchcraft and Wizardry, cheer on competitors in the Quidditch tournament and navigate a haunted escape room.

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Kids' Tech Day at Turn5 Inc. HQ, Paoli. Take part in hands-on STEM activities. FREE Pennsylvania Renaissance Faire: Halloween Daze and Spooky Nights Weekend at the Mount Hope Estate and Winery, Manheim. $$$$ Philly K-8 School Fair at Girard College, Phila. Meet reps from 100-plus public and private schools in the area. FREE Shipley Shops Event at the Shipley School, Bryn Mawr. See Oct. 24. $$ South Street Fall Pumpkinfest at Headhouse Square, Phila.

Family activities include crafts, circus performances, pumpkin putt-putt golf, a straw-bale maze, face painting and a costume contest. FREE

FAB FREEBIE Give the kids another chance to trick-or-treat Oct. 26 during the Witches of Narberth Scavenger Hunt. Junior detectives roam downtown Narberth in search of witches hidden among local businesses. With clues that lead the way, find the witches and wrap up the afternoon with a Halloween prize.

Spider’s Tea Party at the Peace Valley Nature Center, Doylestown. Bring a stuffed pal to Join Mrs. Spider for tea and tales. FREE Trick-or-Treat Trail at Franklin Square, Phila. FREE Trick-or-Treat Weekend at Storybook Land, Egg Harbor Twp., NJ. $$$$ Witches of Narberth Scavenger Hunt at Haverford & Forrest Aves., Narberth. See “Fab Freebie,” left. FREE

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Bark-or-Treat Trail at Franklin Square, Phila. Bring the family pup for treats, music, photo ops and space to play. FREE Gaggles of Ghosts and Goblins at the Peace Valley Nature Center, Doylestown. This slightly spooky walk explores myths about cats, rats, snakes and other creatures that go bump in the night. $ Halloween Hikes and Hayrides at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. Trek through the candlelit forest to meet nocturnal animals, then enjoy hayrides, crafts and a campfire. $$$

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. See Oct. 12. $$$$ Family Arts Academy: Accidental Characters at the Pennsylvania Academy of the Fine Arts, Phila. Use pigment staining on paper to make spooky or silly characters. FREE Fall Family Day Parade and Picnic at Laurel Hill Cemetery, Phila. $

Shipley Shops Event at the Shipley School, Bryn Mawr. See Oct. 24. $$

Great Pumpkin Express on the West Chester Railroad, West Chester. See Oct. 26. $$$$

Trick-or-Treat Weekend at Storybook Land, Egg Harbor Twp., NJ. $$$$

Halloween Costume Contest at Sesame Place, Langhorne. $$$$

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Medieval Festival at the Glencairn Museum, Bryn Athyn. Watch stained-glass-painting and weaponry demos and see a Gutenberg-style printing press in action. $$

Boo at the Zoo at the Philadelphia Zoo, Phila. See Oct. 12. $$$$ Children’s Workshop: Halloween Fleece Blanket at the Wayne Art Center, Wayne. $$$$ CultureFest! Dia de Los Muertos at the Penn Museum, Phila.

Celebrate the Mexican holiday with storytelling, face painting, sugar skulls and arts & crafts. $$$ East Passyunk Fall Fest and Spooky Saturday on East Passyunk Avenue, Phila. Festivities include costume contests for kids & dogs, pumpkin decorating, crafts, storytime, live music, trick-or-treat and a scarecrow scavenger hunt. FREE Great Pumpkin Express on the West Chester Railroad, West Chester. Kids receive a treat and a small pumpkin. $$$$ Halloween Hikes and Hayrides at the Schuylkill Center for Environmental Education, Phila. See Oct. 25. $$$ Haunted Helicopters at the American Helicopter Museum and Education Center, West Chester. $$

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Naturalist Foray: What Creeps You Out? at the Peace Valley Nature Center, Doylestown. Learn the truth behind often-misunderstood creatures. FREE Seaport Spooktacular at the Independence Seaport Museum, Phila. Trick-or-treat on the decks of the Cruiser Olympia, make a fish-skeleton craft, build a pirate scarecrow and partake in a scavenger hunt. $$$$ Spooktacular Train Ride on the Strasburg Rail Road, Ronks.

Journey to the harvest festival at Groff ’s Grove, where you’ll enjoy trick-or-treat, games and pumpkin decorating. $$$ Teen Workshop: Jewelry Making at the Wayne Art Center, Wayne. $$$$ Trick-or-Treat Weekend at Storybook Land, Egg Harbor Twp., NJ. $$$$

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Family Fun 2019 Season

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PERFORMANCES Young Frankenstein at the Walnut Street Theatre, Phila.

Through Oct. 20. $$$$ Matilda the Musical at the Media Theatre, Media. Oct. 3-27. $$$$

Don Quixote at the Academy of Music, Phila. Oct. 10-20. $$$$ Rent at the Merriam Theater, Phila. (pictured) Oct. 18-20. $$$$ Imaginary at the Montgomery Theater, Souderton. Oct. 18-27. $$$

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All Abilities Night at iFly Indoor Skydiving, King of Prussia.

Following a training session, embark on two indoor skydives alongside an instructor. $$$$ Community Night at the Franklin Institute, Phila. FREE History After Hours: All the Gory Details at the Museum of the American Revolution, Phila. Watch a performance by Irish officer Richard St. George as he relives his time fighting in the American war and its Irish aftermath. $$

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Junie B. Jones the Musical at the Players Club of Swarthmore, Swarthmore. Oct. 5-13. $$

Open Weekends Sept 21st thru Oct 27th Sat/Sun and Columbus Day 10am - 5pm Open Fridays in October Noon to 5 pm Weekday School Groups by Appointment (Private parties hosted year-round by appointment)

Sept 27 – Nov 9 • Night Events Fri & Sat • 5-to-9 pm

Flashlight corn maze, Bonfires, and Hayrides Details at Ramseysfam.com

Zombie Hunter Train Ride on the Colebrookdale Railroad, Boyertown. See Oct. 22. $$$$

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Feast of Fools at Hawthorne Park, Phila. Halloween-themed clown performance. FREE Night Tales at Fonthill Castle, Doylestown. An evening tour is followed by a performance of Edgar Allen Poe’s The Telltale Heart. $$$$

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Classes

After-School Specials There can be academic, social and health benefits for your kids when they sign up for an after-school program.

By Tanni Haas, PhD With the school year underway, parents may ask themselves whether they should enroll their children in an after-school program. The answer is a resounding “Yes!” Experts agree that after-school programs not only boost kids’ academic performance, they enhance their social and emotional development, as well as their overall health and well-being.

ers believe that’s because they spend more time doing homework and get the material explained by a wider variety of adults with different teaching styles. After-school programs generally offer more hands-on, experiential ways of learning, which are great for many kids.

work to finish but are looking forward to a favorite activity, they learn how to manage their time so that they can do both.

Social and emotional development

Academic performance

Kids who attend after-school programs tend to do better academically than those who don’t. They pay more attention in class, are more involved in classroom discussions, develop stronger study habits, and earn higher test scores. Research-

In addition to their academic tutoring, most after-school programs also offer different extra-curricular activities such as art, music and sports, which also have a positive impact on academic performance. When children discover they have a particular talent, they gain confidence and that translates into better classroom behavior and performance.

They also learn important time-management skills. When they have home-

After-school programs are great for social and emotional development. Kids spend considerable time interacting with peers other than their regular classmates, including some from different grades.

This teaches them interpersonal skills and how to make new friends.

They also learn much from the extra-curricular activities. Whether they’re working together on an art project or music performance, or preparing for a sports competition, kids learn how to support one another and solve problems through teamwork. These are extremely valuable lessons that will serve them well for the rest of their lives. Almost all professional jobs require good communication and conflict-resolution skills as well as the ability to work well with others.

Health and wellness

Attending an after-school program is excellent for their overall health and well-being. Most after-school programs teach children about nutrition; engage them in physical activities that are good for their health, and offer them healthy snacks — all in a safe and structured learning environment.

Tanni Haas, PhD, is a professor in the Department of Communication Arts, Sciences and Disorders at the City University of New York – Brooklyn College.

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October 5, 2019 through January 12, 2020 Very Eric Carle is locally sponsored by:

VERY ERIC CARLE: A VERY HUNGRY, QUIET, LONELY, CLUMSY, BUSY EXHIBIT WAS CO-ORGANIZED BY CHILDREN’S MUSEUM OF PITTSBURGH AND THE ERIC CARLE MUSEUM OF PICTURE BOOK ART

4231 Avenue of the Republic, Philadelphia, PA 19131 • 215.581.3181 www.pleasetouchmuseum.org OCTOBER 2019

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