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Kids can read to a dog

We don’t know anybody who has a dog who doesn’t talk to it, even if it’s in that goofy voice usually reserved for babies. That’s because dogs are great non-judgmental listeners. That’s also why they are perfect for a child who needs a little practice reading out loud without fear of correction. Paws for Reading puts therapy dogs in libraries, schools and other places where kids can read them a story. The Free Library of Philadelphia has a full slate of doggos visiting neighborhood branches. This charmer (right) is Sophie and she’ll be at the Ramonita G. de Rodriguez Library on Girard Avenue on May 9. Paws for Reading dogs appear throughout the Pennsylvania suburbs, New Jersey and Delaware, thanks to Paws for People. See Pawsforpeople.org for a calendar and details. Now, who’s a good boy? Who?

See West Side Story for free

To mark what would have been Leonard Bernstein’s 100th birthday this year, everybody with a baton is throwing a party. If you are looking for something to show the kids what all the fuss is about, The Mann is hosting a free performance of West Side Story on May 30. Put on by students from Upper Darby High School, the show is recommended for students in grades 7–12. Showtime is 10am and registration is required at Manncenter.org. There are plenty of other Bernstein events around Philadelphia in the next year – he did study at Curtis, after all – so this show is a great introduction for teens who wouldn’t believe a 60-year-old show written by a dude born 100 years ago could be relevant to them.

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What are you going to get mom for Mother’s Day, little dumpling? No, seriously, how about taking her to Manayunk for a dumpling-making class. The Dumpling Academy will hold a class at North Light Community Center on Green Lane on May 13, which is Mother’s Day, but they are also doing it on June 16 for Father’s Day. You will make at least two kinds of dumplings, may even master the art of making a wrapper, and then eat your work. Sign up at Dumplingacademy.com. You don’t need to bring anything but a container for leftovers. Lol leftover dumplings. Is that a thing? Have a suggestion for a cool thing to do in June? Email editor@metrokids.com

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Mom Matters

What Kind of MOM Are You?

Just for fun, have you ever considered what “mom” category you most likely fall into? By Christa Melnyk Hines

It is a busy school night. What is for dinner?

A vacation for your family looks like:

Your family pet is a:

How many extracurricular activities is each of your children in?

A. Tofu stir-fry B. Pizza C. Crockpot meal D. Hotdogs E. Mac and cheese F. One of your wholesome pre-made meals from the freezer A. Rescue dog or cat B. Cat or purse-sized puppy C. Golden retriever or lab D. Boxer or German shepherd E. Menagerie: Dogs, cats, fish, gerbils F. Zhu Zhu Pet

Your child has an early morning soccer game. You are most likely to wear:

A. Yoga pants and an organic cotton T-shirt B. Designer jeans, Uggs, hip jacket, cute hat. C. Comfy jeans, favorite T-shirt D. Team shirt, capris and a great attitude. E. Oops, forgot to do laundry. Pull on something relatively clean. F. Soccer causes concussions. My kids don’t play soccer.

Your favorite workout is:

A. Om! Yoga all the way. B. Tennis. C. Jazzercize. D. Running. E. Chasing my kids. F. With a personal trainer.

You relax by:

A. Making homemade soaps and gardening. B. Shopping and a spa day. C. Relax? What? D. Cheering on your favorite team. E. Sleeping in and watching old movies. F. Cleaning and organizing.

A. Camping. B. Beach-side resort. C. Disney World. D. Wherever my child’s tournament is also being played. E. A leisurely drive to your destination with stops along the way. F. Family lake house.

A. 0-2 B. 2-3 C. 4-5 D. 6+ E. I don’t have a clue.

Your car:

A. Has a picture of the earth on it. B. Is detailed at least once a month. C. Has your website on the rear windshield. D. Features decals of your kids’ names and the sports they play. E. Is littered with crumbs, sippy cups and toys. F. Is meticulously clean.

Your parenting mantra is:

A. “Eat real food. Live simply. Recycle like there is no tomorrow.” B. “To be the best mom, you have to take care of yourself.” C. “Need something done? Ask a busy mom!” D. “Winners never quit and quitters never win.” E. “Keep calm and carry on.” F. “Cleanliness is next to godliness!”

You organize your family by:

A. Using an old-fashioned day-planner. B. Hiring a virtual assistant. C. Plugging everything into your smartphone. D. All activities on the wall calendar, color-coded by person. E. A fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants approach; it will all work out. F. Each person has a folder.

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Music

Kindie Culture Albums that will grow your kids’ world. By Kathy O’Connell The world of kindie (independent kids’) music serves a wide audience. The field offers artists and CDs whose music reflects the cultural, educational, emotional and social world of kids. Some wise artists offer teaching tools to maximize the gift of music. In an ever-changing distribution landscape, some longtime musicians make their catalog available on an individual asneeded basis for new generations. This makes it possible for new discoveries from classic lullabies to songs of empowerment for differently-abled kids.

“There are kings and queens in your family tree” Culture Queen is Jessica Smith, whose multi-layered approach to cultural empowerment sparkles in her “Culture Kingdom” programs. She uses music, spoken word, colorful costumes, props and an impeccable sense of history to teach “there are kings and queens in your family tree.” Her CD I Like the Me I See gives a musical taste of her live show, including a young singer’s inspiring “Lift Every Voice and Sing.” “Culture Kingdom,” “A Wonderful Book,” and the title cut speak to the universality of kids’ lives. The world of Culture Queen is open to all, with special resonance for African American families.

Inspired by a special NJ school Multiple Grammy nominee Brady Rymer’s anthem Love Me for Who I Am was inspired by work with students at New Jersey’s Celebrate the Children School. Many of the students are on the autism spectrum, and the title came from one of the kids. The entire Love Me for Who I Am album is available on his website, as well as a party dance mix of the title cut and Rymer’s reworking of Diana Ross’ “I’m Coming Out” as a song of strength for diﬀerent learners.

Spanish lullabies 123 Andres is the educational activist Andres Salguaro’s musical identity. In La Luna, his focus shines upon classic Spanish-language lullabies. A ﬁrm believer in adding the “A” for “Arts” back to STEM learning, 123 Andres provides art and musical teaching materials as well as soothing sounds to relax listeners of all ages. La Luna shines with lush production that enhances the basic positivity of this wonderful performer.

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New versions of science songs from 1961 The remarkable catalog of Cathy Fink & Marcy Marxer addresses media literacy (Changing Channels), nutrition (Bon Appetit!), musical legend Ella Jenkins (cELLAbration!), and more. Their 1994 release, Nobody Else Like Me, celebrated differences in cultures, abilities, and languages. Songs like “A Kid Like Me,” “Walkin’ on My Wheels,” and “Harry’s Glasses” help create new avenues of understanding. Because of its timelessness, Nobody Else Like Me is available on demand. Their 2015 Dancin’ in the Kitchen: Songs for ALL Families is a fine companion to it, with an updated version of Fred Small’s Everything Possible that reflects our progress since 1994 and a goofy new take on the classic “I’m My Own Grandpa.” Cathy and Marcy’s latest is Zoom a Little Zoom: a Ride Through Science. They enhanced songs about science first released in 1961 with the remarkable musical variety and flair that marks all their projects. Kathy O’Connell is a contributing writer to MetroKids and host of the Peabody award-winning Kids Corner, which is celebrating its 30th anniversary on WXPN 88.5 FM this year.

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Education

From ZZZZs to As How sleep, or the lack of it, impacts kids’ academic success

By Malia Jacobson Lost sleep hurts learning and hinders school-day success, according to sleep experts and numerous new studies. That’s bad news, because today’s kids get about an hour less sleep each night than they did 30 years ago, says New York Times bestselling author Po Bronson in his book NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children. This lost sleep comes with a steep price tag — impaired learning and academic success. How does sleep boost learning? Researchers believe it has to do with the way the brain processes information during sleep. In fact, Michigan State University researchers found that children can even learn while they’re asleep as the brain integrates new information and memories. Researchers from University of Florida discovered that newborns learn in their sleep, and new research from the American Academy of Sleep Medicine shows that sleep helps students perform better on tests. Here’s how a lack of sleep impacts kids at different ages and how to help them get a better night’s rest.

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Sleep deprivation significantly worsens inattentiveness and hyperactivity in young children, leading to ADHD-like symptoms (known as “faux” ADHD), the American Professional Sleep Society reports. So instead of appearing sleepy, they may act hyper and goofy. Even modest sleep deprivation is enough to hinder learning. According to a study published in the journal Sleep, a mere hour of lost slumber is enough to bring on inattentiveness and hyperactivity in young children.

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How to help: Establish a consistent, age-appropriate bedtime that allows your child to rest for 10 to 11 hours each night.

TWEEN YEARS 9-13

During the late elementary and middle-school years, academics become more challenging and sports more competitive. But when increasingly busy schedules start cutting into sleep, kids retain less of what they learn, says Dr. Mark Splaingard, director of the Sleep Disorders Center at Nationwide Children’s Hospital. “Long hours spent on sports practice or math problems are counterproductive, if these activities keep kids up late at night,” he notes. How to help: Choose after-school and evening activities that end at least an hour before kids need to wind down for bed.

TEENAGE YEARS 14-18

Teenagers are Splaingard’s most sleep-deprived patients, a fact that doesn’t surprise him. Juggling high school, after-school jobs, extracurricular activities, sports, socializing and homework simply doesn’t leave enough time for sleep. Teens need more than nine hours of sleep a night and chronic sleep deprivation hurts learning at a time when kids need lots of mental energy for tough subjects from chemistry to calculus. Teens’ busy schedules are only partly to blame for their sleep deficits; cell phones and laptops keep teens up late, often into the wee hours. When they finally power off their computers, roundthe-clock access to cell phones disrupts sleep. A new study reports that sleeping

How much sleep does your child need? 3-6 Years Old ............ 10-12 Hours 7-12 Years Old .......... 10-11 hours 13-18 Years Old ............ 8-9 hours near cell phones puts teens at risk for so-called “sleep texting:” waking up and firing off text messages during the night without any recollection of having sent the texts the next morning. All this sleep disruption adds up to bleary mornings and bleak report cards. How to help: Set a media curfew: Shut down all electronics an hour before bed and establish a “charging station” outside the bedroom where teens leave their electronics overnight. This important step keeps bedrooms free of sleep-disrupting cell phones and computers, says Shelby F. Harris, PsyD, director of the Behavioral Sleep Medicine Program at Montefiore Medical Center in New York. “The bedroom should be a place for sleep,” she notes. “It’s not a spot for homework, watching TV or surfing the Internet.” When it comes to learning, tutors, cutting-edge gadgets and hours of homework can’t compensate for hours of lost sleep. When parents prioritize kids’ sleep needs, learning comes more naturally, says Splaingard. “We think we’re helping make kids more successful with more activities and more homework. But what they really need is more sleep.” Malia Jacobson is a freelance writer. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades.

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Health

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TO PANIC By Suzanne Koup-Larsen The irony of a panic attack is that it comes with real physical symptoms that can fuel anxiety, especially for a teen or young person who is experiencing one for the first time. Fortunately, there are techniques to help your child cope with an impending attack and that can eventually eliminate them altogether.

Anxiety vs. panic attack

Many people use the terms panic and anxiety interchangeably, but they are very different, says Katherine Dahlsgaard, PhD clinical director of the Anxiety Behaviors Clinic at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia. “Panic attacks are really dramatic events in people’s lives,” she says. A panic attack comes with a sudden, intense surge of physical symptoms, says Dahlsgaard. Symptoms, which can last for 10 to 20 minutes, include: • Heart pounding • Sweating • Shaky hands • Nausea • Shortness of breath • Choking sensation • Dizziness • A fear of losing control or dying Because the body acts as if it’s responding to an emergency when it’s inappropriate to do so, panic attacks are not only distressing, they can be very embarrassing, says Dr. Antoinette Tate, PhD, a Moorestown, NJ psychologist. With anxiety, on the other hand, the child may be jittery and have an upset stomach or headache, says Cami R. Winkelspecht, PhD, clinical director of pediatric behavioral health at Nemours/

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Panic attacks in teens are scary but manageable with behavioral therapy.

Alfred I. duPont Hospital for Children in Wilmington, DE, but they do not come with the focused intensity of a panic attack. During an anxiety attack, a child might feel like he needs to leave the room, but he does not experience the physical symptoms of a panic attack. Age is another way to disntinquish a panic attack from anxiety. Panic attacks are unusual in very young kids, says Tate, and aren’t usually seen until teen or late adolescence. However, anxiety can be seen in even preverbal kids. Because panic attacks often come on suddenly and the symptoms are so physical, many kids end up in the emergency room, says Winklespecht. However, there is no test to verify a panic attack, so it’s good to pursue a medical diagnosis to be sure. First, rule out other conditions that could mimic anxiety, says Tate. Those conditions include cardiac problems, thyroid disease, diabetes and even sleep disorders.

is sometimes recommended, says Tate. The medication is intended to bring the anxiety down a notch, but once the patient has had practice with coping methods, medication might not be necessary. Dahlsgaard recommends finding a therapist who specializes in interoceptive exposure therapy, which exposes the patient to situations that get them used to feeling hot, dizzy, or having an elevated heart rate. Exercise can also be used to mimic some of the same symptoms “I frequently prescribe exercise,” says Dahlsgaard. When you exercise, your heart races, you feel hot, you feel uncomfortable, sensations similar to a panic attack, except that exercise is a productive way to feel that way. “Temporary physical discomfort is not dangerous most of the time,” she says. This helps kids learn to interpret the physical discomfort in a way that doesn’t assume a negative outcome.

Treatment for panic attacks

For younger kids with anxiety, play I Spy, suggests Tate. In a heightened moment of fight-or-flight mode, naming the things we see around us engages the more advanced part of our brains, she says. Diaphragmatic breathing or belly breathing is another go-to technique. “Calming your breathing cycle down calms the physiologic response,” says Winklespecht.

Once more serious medical conditions are ruled out, the good news is that panic attacks are not dangerous, says Dahlsgaard. “Anxiety itself isn’t problematic It’s how someone copes with it.” Panic disorder is highly treatable but the aim isn’t to prevent attacks, says Dahlsgaard, though that is often a benefit of treatment. “The goal is to tolerate panic attacks when they come.” Through treatment such as cognitive behavioral therapy, teens can recognize the cues that trigger panic attacks and talk themselves through it. Depending on the severity, medication

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Suzanne Koup-Larsen is a contributing writer to MetroKids.

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Mom Matters

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If most of your answers were: (A) Crunchy Mama

From food to cleansers, you take an all-natural approach to life.

(B) ButterďŹ&#x201A;y Mama You rarely have a hair out of place and other moms are constantly wondering how you manage to look so classy and put together all of the time

(C) Connected Mama Social media has created a perfect storm of connection for you. Networking comes with ease and you manage to find friends wherever you go.

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(D) Sports Mama You love sports as much as your kids. Your competitive nature can get you a little riled up during games.

(E) Free Spirit Mama You tend to take a go-with-the-flow approach to life and prefer to live for the present.

(F) Mama Bear Committed to the health and wellness of the family, you are an avid reader of medical news and child development books. Your kids knew about stranger danger before anybody else. Christa Melnyk Hines is a freelance writer.

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SpecialKids

By Amy Kelly We all want the best care for our children, and a crucial part of good care for any child is finding a doctor that is knowledgeable, experienced and compassionate. This is especially important for kids with special needs, who often require more doctor visits and more medical attention. My own daughter, Annie, has been to dozens of doctors and specialists in her 15 years because she has autism spectrum disorder (ASD) and other diagnoses. She was diagnosed just before the age of 2 and I knew immediately that I needed to find a good doctor. But more than that, I quickly learned that I needed to work closely with our pediatrician in order to make the most of her appointments and her care. Here are four tips to foster a positive relationship with your child’s doctor:

Prepare a list of questions and concerns. Often, there are so many issues and worries to address when you learn your child has special needs that it can sometimes be overwhelming. I always kept a folder with Annie’s most important medical information, any new test results or recommendations and a sticky pad of questions that I compiled since the prior appointment. I brought this folder to each appointment. This allowed me to fill him in on her most recent therapies and medical concerns, and gave me the opportunity to ask the specific questions I saved up for him.

Get to know the oﬃce staﬀ. The nurses, physician assistants and administrators who assist the doctor are incredibly important people. If you take the time to get to know them, and allow them to know your family, they can really make a difference in the quality of the appointment. We used to send our Christmas card to their office every year with a note from our family. Sometimes, I’d even drop by with a fruit basket or something unexpected to just say ‘thank you.’ This went a long way in showing them our family’s appreciation of their care for our children, but also in helping them to remember us!

Take a “test run” or two. Even from a very young age, Annie knew when we were going to the doctor. She would begin to cry and tantrum when we turned onto the street

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where the doctor was located. She had a lot of anxiety about going, which quickly turned into my own anxiety as well – dreading the upcoming appointment. Our pediatrician and I worked together to plan visits for Annie that were actually pleasant. To begin, Annie would go in, sit in the waiting room for a few minutes and be called back to the room. The doctor would pop by and say hi, and then Annie would get a prize of some kind. The next time, we would extend the wait a little longer, and let the doctor listen to her heart and check her ears. Then Annie would get another prize. Over time, Annie realized that her doctor was actually nice and fun, and not someone to be feared. Now, Annie feels very comfortable with her doctor.

Speak up if you aren’t sure of something. True partnership means that both the parents and the doctor feel free to ask important questions of each other to ensure the best decisions are made. This means two things: giving truthful and complete answers to the doctor and feeling comfortable to respectfully ask questions of your doctor This sort of open collaboration allows for both the doctor and caregiver to make appropriate medical decisions together, without feeling judged or worried about repercussions. Your relationship with your child’s doctor is essential to making sure that your child gets the attentive, informed and comprehensive care that she deserves. By investing time strengthening that relationship, together you and your child’s doctor can help your child to thrive.

By Bradley Dyer, MD Pediatrics often requires a level of patience and care that is uncharacteristic of other specialties. However, unique challenges arise when a patient with developmental disabilities enters an office. The anxiety of children with special needs is not the same as other children. They need a step-by-step understanding of how the office works, and what will happen during their appointment in order to feel comfortable. Above all, doctors must gain trust so they not only can provide the highest level of medical care, but also become an ally and friend to the child and parents. In finding treatment for children with special needs, here are four key things to look for in a doctor.

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Editor's Pick

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1 Tuesday

Philadelphia Chinese Lantern Festival at Franklin Square, Phila. Experience the glow of 1,500 massive, handcrafted light installations, as well as cultural entertainment and art. Through June 30. $$$ Line-Dancing Class at the Mosaic Family Success Center, Glassboro. No experience is required for this laidback class. FREE

Don a swashbuckling costume for Captain Kidd Pirate Day on the Wildwood beach, May 19.

Drum Circle at Historic Smithville & Village Greene, Smithville. Bring a percussion instrument or purchase one on-site. FREE Early Birds Program at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. Walk the trails in search of birds, meet them up-close and study feathers. FREE Eco Fair at Wheaton Arts and Cultural Center, Millville. Enjoy family art activities, music and crafters. FREE

2 Wednesday

Gloucester County Home and Craftsmen Show at the Gloucester County 4H Fairgrounds, Mullica Hill. See “Town & County,” p. 23. FREE

Storytime: Star Wars Heroes at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. Kids paint their favorite character on tile. $$$

Kidsland at the Katz JCC, Cherry Hill. Expect amusement rides, carnival games, giveaways, entertainment, inﬂatable attractions and pony rides. $

First Wednesday at the Please Touch Museum, Phila. Enjoy extended hours and discounted admission. $

3 Thursday

Storytime: Star Wars Heroes at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. See May 2. $$$

4 Friday

Kids and Critters Preschool Program at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. Activities include stories, crafts and an animal presentation. $$

5 Saturday

All-Girls Camp-In at the Franklin Institute, Phila. Enjoy a slumber party with an astronomy show, grab a telescope to check out the sky and explore exhibits. $$$$ Astronaut Day at the New Jersey State Museum, Trenton. Make an astronaut helmet and visit the planetarium to learn about space. FREE Community Day at Liberty Lake Day Camp, Bordentown. Enjoy boating, mini golf, ﬁshing, a moonbounce and rock wall, laser tag and train rides. FREE

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Kite Day at Terhune Orchards, Princeton. Bring your own kite or make one on-site, then ﬂy it in the pasture. There will also be music, games and tractor-drawn wagon rides. $$ South Street Spring Festival at South Street Headhouse District, Phila. While parents browse vendors, kids get hands-on with crafts, music, dance performances and face painting. FREE Storytime: Star Wars Heroes at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. See May 2. $$$ West Deptford Twp. Book Festival at the RiverWinds Community Center, West Deptford. Meet 30-plus local authors and enjoy face painting, balloon art, music, theatre performances and vendors. FREE

6 Sunday

Chestnut Hill Home and Garden Festival on Germantown Avenue, Phila. This outdoor garden marketplace features vendors, music, food from area restaurants, amusement rides, face painting and arts & crafts. FREE

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Butterflies and Birds Festival at the Camden Children’s Garden, Camden. Learn about bird adaptations and butterfly gardening, then make a butterfly lifecycle model and bird’s nest model. Kids who dress as either of the two creatures receive $1 off admission. $$ Children's Festival at Historic Smithville & Village Greene, Smithville. Enjoy performances, animal presentations, balloon art, face painting and games. FREE Game Masters Presents: Programming from Scratch at the Franklin Institute, Phila. Inspired by the new temporary exhibit, beginners learn how to build a controller and code a video game. $$$$

Fan of . . . Birdwatching

Got a nature nut in the family? Sign the whole brood up for the World Series of Birding at Cranbury’s Plainsboro Preserve May 6. Teams compete against one another, searching the expansive grounds and putting their observational skills to the test to ﬁnd out who can spot the most birds in one day. Crocs: Ancient Predators in a Modern World Closing Day at the Academy of Natural Sciences, Phila. Last chance to meet these creatures, learn to speak their language, test your strength against theirs and make a 3D animation of a long-extinct crocodile. $$$$ First Sunday Family Day: Freedom of Movement at the Barnes Foundation, Phila. Visit the still-life station to draw bikes, trikes and wheels, then make projects inspired by art-making techniques around the globe. FREE World Series of Birding at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. See "Fan of," above. $$$$

8 Tuesday

Read and Pick: Vegetables at Terhune Orchards, Princeton. Following storytime, kids pick a small container of asparagus to take home. $$

9 Wednesday

Little Sprouts Preschool Program at the Rancocas Nature Center, Westampton. Activities include stories and outdoor exploration. FREE

11 Friday

International Migratory Bird Day at Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Point Pleasant Beach. Crafts and activities focus on a bird’s journey between its summer and winter homes. $$$ Philadelphia Taco Festival at Sugarhouse Casino, Phila. Bring your appetite for traditional and unique tacos, tequila sampling, a margarita bar and, for the kids, carnival games, moonbounces and face painting. $$$$ PNC Grow Up Great at the Kimmel Center’s Commonwealth Plaza, Phila. Kids are introduced to jazz and musical theatre. FREE Sip Into Spring Festival at the Emlen Physick Estate, Cape May. This brand-new fest features an outdoor marketplace, music, gardening activities and, for adults, beer and wine. FREE Starlight Hike at the Rancocas Nature Center, Westampton. $$$$

13 Sunday

Azalea Festival at Sayen Park Botanical Garden, Hamilton Twp. View 250,000 ﬂowering buds while you enjoy music, crafts and food. FREE Butterﬂies and Birds Festival at the Camden Children’s Garden, Camden. See May 12. $$ Morey’s Piers Mother’s Day Celebration on the Wildwoods Boardwalk, Wildwood. See “Town & County,” p. 23. FREE Mother’s Day Climb at the Absecon Lighthouse, Atlantic City. See “Town & County,” p. 23. $$ Philadelphia Taco Festival at Sugarhouse Casino, Phila. See May 12. $$$$

16 Wednesday

Early Intervention Day at the Camden Children’s Garden, Camden. Embark on a guided nature walk, tour the butterﬂy house and take part in a hands-on activity. $

Car Cruise at the Historic Smithville & Village Greene, Smithville. FREE

Little Sprouts Preschool Program at the Rancocas Nature Center, Westampton. See May 9. FREE

Season Opening at Spruce Street Harbor Park, Phila. The popular “urban beach” caters to families with hammocks, oversized games, food and plenty of space to lounge by the waterfront. FREE

Storytime: There’s a Dragon in My Sleeping Bag at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. Kids paint a dragon inspired by the tale. $$$

Sky Observation Session at the New Jersey State Museum, Trenton. Watch a planetarium show and drive over to the Washington Crossing Park observatory to view the sky through a telescope. FREE Twilight Trails Hike at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. $$

12 Saturday

Art Star Craft Bazaar at Penn’s Landing, Phila. An outdoor fair with interactive demos and make-and-take projects. FREE

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Family Movie Night: Born Wild at the Mosaic Family Success Center, Glassboro. FREE Philadelphia Children's Festival at Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts, Phila. Enjoy all-ages entertainment, face painting, balloon art, food trucks and an appearance by the Phillie Phanatic. $$$$ Storytime: There’s a Dragon in My Sleeping Bag at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. See May 16. $$$

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Family Fun Wizard World Comic Con at the Pennsylvania Convention Center, Phila. Come dressed in your cosplay best to take part in contests, meet-andgreet favorite actors and comic-book artists, and celebrate favorite fandoms, comics, games and series. $$$$

18 Friday

Kids and Critters Preschool Program at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. See May 4. $$ Philadelphia Children's Festival at Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts, Phila. See May 17. $$$$ Sky Observation Session at the New Jersey State Museum, Trenton. See May 11. FREE Wizard World Comic Con at the Pennsylvania Convention Center, Phila. See May 17. $$$$

19 Saturday

Captain Kidd Pirate Day on 26th Avenue and the Boardwalk, Wildwood. Join the pirate costume parade and treasure hunt on the beach. FREE Endangered Species Day at Jenkinson’s Aquarium, Point Pleasant Beach. Learn how to help preserve species through games and keeper chats. $$$ Family Camp Weekend at the Appel Farm Arts and Music Center, Elmer. Partake in theatre, dance and music workshops. $$$$ Fit and Fun Festival at the Camden Children’s Garden, Camden. Families discover ways to lead a healthy lifestyle while they try hopscotch, hula hooping and jumping rope. Dress as a sports player or a circus clown to receive $1 off admission. $$ Haddonfield Farmers Market at Kings Court, Haddonfield. FREE Kensington Kinetic Sculpture Derby and Arts Festival at Trenton Ave. & Norris St., Phila. Watch wacky, human-powered floats race along an urban obstacle course, then browse local vendors on the sidelines. FREE Mayfest at Historic Smithville & Village Greene, Smithville. Enjoy the international food court, juried crafters, music and kids’ activities. FREE New Jersey Renaissance Faire at Liberty Lake, Bordentown. Aerialists, sword fighting, comedy, music, fire breathing and period vendors are all part of the historical entertainment. $$$$

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Philadelphia Children's Festival at Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts, Phila. See May 17. $$$$

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Rittenhouse Row Spring Festival at Rittenhouse Square, Phila. Sample food from vendors, watch culinary demos and fashion shows, and partake in kid-friendly activities. FREE Small Explorers at the New Jersey State Museum, Trenton. Little ones read a story about the solar system, decorate rocket ships and make an astronaut helmet. FREE Storytime: There’s a Dragon in My Sleeping Bag at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. See May 16. $$$ Wizard World Comic Con at the Pennsylvania Convention Center, Phila. See May 17. $$$$

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Comic Book Festival and Car Show at the Mill Race Village, Mount Holly. Features vendors with old and new comics, toys, action figures, movie posters and trading cars, as well as vintage automobiles. FREE Connect with Nature: Shelter at the Rancocas Nature Center, Westampton. Learn about different types of shelters and build one that can withstand the wilderness. FREE Game Masters Presents: Programming from Scratch at the Franklin Institute, Phila. See May 12. $$$$ Italian Market Festival on South 9th Street, Phila. Activities include the annual Procession of Saints, a half-ball tournament, crafts, family events and food. FREE New Jersey Renaissance Faire at Liberty Lake, Bordentown. See May 19. $$$$ Open Arms Family Evening at the Garden State Discovery Museum, Phila. Kids on the autism spectrum and their families explore the venue in a sensory-friendly setting. FREE What's Swimming in Vernal Pools at the Plainsboro Preserve, Cranbury. Prepare to get wet and muddy while you find out what vernal ponds are and which animals call them home. $$

Your big day is here! In honor of Mother’s Day (May 13), have the family treat you to a weekend as special as you are. ATLANTIC COUNTY Revel in the scenery atop Absecon Lighthouse in Atlantic City, where moms climb FREE May 13. The recently renovated space includes a replica of the keeper’s dwelling, a museum and quaint gift shop. CAPE MAY COUNTY Spend the day down the shore May 13 for Morey’s Piers Mother’s Day Celebration on the boardwalk in Wildwood. Hop on the teacups ride for afternoon tea with treats, then decorate cookies and take a propﬁlled photo. Plus, moms ride FREE at Mariner’s and Surfside Piers. GLOUCESTER COUNTY Clear your schedule for a much-deserved shopping trip May 5 during the Gloucester County Home and Craftsmen Show at the 4H Fairgrounds in Mullica Hill. You’ll ﬁnd a farmers’ market, home-and-garden expo, plant sales and activities for the kids.

Wizard World Comic Con at the Pennsylvania Convention Center, Phila. See May 17. $$$$

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The Captain’s Ball at the Independence Seaport Museum, Phila. Celebrate the Tall Ships arrival with dinner, dancing and ﬁreworks. $$$$ Sail Philadelphia at Penn's Landing, Phila. See “See-Worthy,” p. 24. $$

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Sail Philadelphia at Penn's Landing, Phila. See “See-Worthy,” below. $$ Wildwoods International Kite Festival on the Rio Grande Avenue Beach and Wildwoods Convention Center, Wildwood. Festivities include an illuminated kite ﬂy, the East Coast Kite Championship and the World Indoor Kite Championship, where competitors ﬂy kites without wind. FREE, spectators

26 Saturday

May Fair on Haddon Avenue, Collingswood. This street festival features live music, vendors, pony rides and a kids’ zone. FREE Memorial Day Activities at the National Constitution Center, Phila. Mark the occasion with ﬂag-raising ceremonies, historical shows, ﬂag-etiquette workshops and make-and-take projects. $$

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New Jersey Renaissance Faire at Liberty Lake, Bordentown. See May 19. $$$$

The 25th Annual Putnam County Spelling Bee at the Ritz Theatre Company, Haddon Twp. May 3-20. $$$$

Philly Pops Memorial Salute Concert at the Mann Center for the Performing Arts, Phila. FREE

Cinderella at the Broadway Theatre of Pitman, Pitman. May 4 & 5. $$

Sail Philadelphia at Penn's Landing, Phila. See “See-Worthy,” below. $$

Honk! Jr. at the Dennis Flyer Theatre, Blackwood. May 5 & 6. $$

Wildwoods International Kite Festival on the Rio Grande Avenue Beach and Wildwoods Convention Center, Wildwood. See May 25. FREE, spectators Xtreme Bugs Exhibit Opening at the Academy of Natural Sciences, Phila. Come face-to-face with large, colorful creatures, from an oversized monarch butterﬂy and tri-colored bumblebee to a Madagascar hissing cockroach. Through Jan. 21. $$$

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Memorial Day Activities at the National Constitution Center, Phila. See May 26. $$

Mowgli: The Jungle Book Musical (pictured) at Kendall Hall, Ewing. Performed by the Roxey Ballet. May 5 & 6. $$$$ Ben Franklin and the History of America at the Broadway Theatre of Pitman, Pitman. May 17 & 18. $$ The Lost Little Fish at the Broadway Theatre of Pitman, Pitman. May 30 & June 1-2. $$ Stone Soup and Other Stories at Rutger’s University’s Gordon Theatre, Camden. Performed by Pushcart Players. May 31. $$ New Jersey Renaissance Faire at Liberty Lake, Bordentown. See May 19. $$$$ Sail Philadelphia at Penn's Landing, Phila. See “See-Worthy,” left. $$ Summer Kickoﬀ Concert at Centennial Park, Wildwood Crest. Bring a beach chair or blanket. FREE Wildwoods International Kite Festival on the Rio Grande Avenue Beach and Wildwoods Convention Center, Wildwood. See May 25. FREE, spectators

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Wildwoods International Kite Festival on the Rio Grande Avenue Beach and Wildwoods Convention Center, Wildwood. See May 25. FREE, spectators Sail Philadelphia at Penn's Landing, Phila. See “See-Worthy,” left. $$

See-Worthy

Land ahoy! A ﬂeet of majestic ships will dock along the Delaware River May 24-28 for Sail Philadelphia. As the only East Coast port to host the Tall Ships Challenge race series this year, this celebration of maritime heritage features the Parade of Sail (Thurs.), ship tours, sailing excursions and a weekend-long Waterfront Festival with live music, food vendors and family-friendly programming. 24 MetroKids.com

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Storytime: Just Like My Dad! at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. Kids paint a hand-print mug. $$$

31 Thursday

Storytime: Just Like My Dad! at All Fired Up!, Collingswood. See May 30. $$$

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BURLINGTON COUNTY BEGINNINGS AT MFS: THE MOORESTOWN FRIENDS SCHOOL Early Childhood Program, 110 E. Main St., Moorestown, NJ 856-914-4428 • MFriends.org Ages: 3 & up • Hours: 8:05am-3:10pm Beginnings at MFS: The Moorestown Friends School Early Childhood Program offers a values-based education for 3-year-olds and up. A project-based approach to learning and wide range of special subject areas are hallmarks of the experience. Moorestown Friends School is one of the only schools in the United States to offer a Coding Program to all Lower School students - Preschool through Grade 4. This innovative program has three strands: coding, problem solving and teamwork. These skills will be in high demand as the 21st century progresses. Half-day and full-day Preschool is available. Prekindergarten and Kindergarten are full-day programs. AY, SP, BS, AS, MSCES ESSENTIAL BEGINNINGS LEARNING CENTER 1329 Rte. 38, Hainsport, NJ 609-667-7838 • info@essentialbeginningslc.com Essentialbeginningslc.com • Ages: 2-1/2 yrs.-13 yrs. Hours 6:30am - 6:00pm Essential Beginnings embraces the differentiation approach to teaching. This method ensures that all children can learn the content based on their learning style. FY, AY, SP, SN, DYF FUTURE SCHOLARS EARLY LEARNING CENTER Bruni Square, 1351 Rte. 38 W., B-1, Hainesport, NJ 609-518-1333 • FutureScholarsLearning.com Ages: 6 wks.-13 yrs. • Hours: 6:30am-6:30pm “Where Generations Come and Grow” Full- and half-day classes available year round. Family-owned and operated with an owner on premises daily. Offering Infant & Toddler Care, PreSchool, Drop-In Hourly Daycare, Established Full-Day Kindergarten, Before- and After-School Care with bussing for township students, Private Tutoring and Summer Camp! We are your one-stop solution for early education and child care! STOP BY TODAY FOR A TOUR! FY, AY, SP, BS, AS, DA, DYF LITTLE DARLINGS CHILDCARE CENTER 624 Moorestown-Mt.Laurel Rd., Mt. Laurel, NJ • 856-787-0737 Ages: 10 wks.-10 yrs. • Hours: 6:30am-6:30pm Come visit Little Darlings’ State-of-the-Art Child Care Center located on 2½ acres in Mt. Laurel, NJ. We offer full- and part-time care, emergency drop in and a before/ after kindergarten program. We serve breakfast and two snacks daily. Little Darlings has separate age-appropriate play areas with colorful and fun play equipment, soft surface flooring and rubber mulch. All staff is First Aid, Infant and Child CPR Certified. Tuition includes all Preschool programs as well as daily specials such as: Hands-on Science, Cooking, Spanish, Gym, Music, Art, Yoga and much more. Little Darlings offers a full range of Summer Camp activities, including Certified Swimming Lessons in our in-ground pool. Owner-operated / Security System. Rated #1 childcare center in five surrounding counties. FY, AY, SP, BS, AS, DA, TP, DHS*, DE, DYF OUR LADY OF GOOD COUNSEL EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER 32 W. Main St., Moorestown, NJ • 856-235-5371 • www.olgcnj.org/school Ages: 4 yrs.-6 yrs. • Hours: 8:30am-3pm • school@olgcnj.org Our Lady of Good Counsel School features full- and half-day pre-kindergarten programs, as well as full-day kindergarten. Children in first through eighth grades are educated in a top-notch, Catholic school environment, where our mission to form students in the image of Jesus Christ is reinforced daily. We provide education in music, art, specialized clubs, sports, after-school enrichment programs such as Lego Robotics and Latin, Spanish, technology, and physical education. Students do not need to be Catholic to attend our school. Please call to arrange a tour. Financial aid and volunteer opportunities available. AY, SP, AS

CAMDEN COUNTY BEECHWOOD SCHOOL, PRESCHOOL & KINDERGARTEN 441 Beechwood Ave., Haddonfield, NJ • 856-429-0303 • TheBeechwoodSchool.com • Ages: 2½ yrs.-K Preschool, Kindergarten, Childcare. Beechwood School is a family-owned, independent, statelicensed school since 1951. We oﬀer both half-day and full-day classes year round for children 2½ through kindergarten. Call for a tour. FY, AY, SP, MP, BS, AS, DYF PRIMROSE SCHOOL OF CHERRY HILL 1875 Rt. 70 East., Cherry Hill, NJ 8856-242-0034 • www.primrosecherryhill.com Ages: 6 wks.-Pre-K • Hours: 6:30am to 6:00pm Primrose Schools® is a national system of accredited private preschools that provides a premier early education and child care experience for children and families. Our Franchise Owners, Leadership Teams and School Staﬀ partner with parents to help build the right foundation for future learning and in life. FY, AY, SP, BS, AS, MP, DA, SN, NAEYC

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CAMDEN COUNTY (continued) SARI ISDANER EARLY CHILDHOOD CENTER AT THE KATZ JCC 1301 Springdale Rd., Cherry Hill, NJ • 856-424-4444 • KatzJCC.org/ECE Ages: 6 wks.-K • Hours: 6:45am-6:15pm, M-Th; 6pm, F Infant/Toddler Day Care, Flexible Part-Time Nursery Programs, Half- & Full-Day Preschool, Pre-Kindergarten, Kindergarten, Transitional Kindergarten, & Parent/Child Classes. Enriching curriculum, based in Jewish values, in state-of-the-art, child-friendly facility. Program allows children to develop cognitively, academically, socially and emotionally and encourages the development of their inner resources: curiosity, creativity, imagination, independence, love of learning and self-esteem. Children will learn reading readiness, science, math, language, social studies, music, art, swim, gym & Jewish holiday and cultural celebrations. STEAM is incorporated to encourage creative learning and problem solving. Facility includes age-appropriate classrooms with learning and play centers, computer labs, 3 playgrounds including indoor play structure, indoor pool, gym & secure entrance. Contact for free tour. FY, AY, SP, BS, AS, DA, SN, DHS*, DE, NAEYC SHINING LIGHTS PRESCHOOL AND DAYCARE CENTER 1720 Springdale Rd., Cherry Hill, NJ • 856-424-4915 www.shininglightsonline.org • Ages: 6 wks.-5 yrs. • Hours: 7:00am-6pm M-F Bible-based curriculum designed by our degreed director and certified teachers focuses on your child’s individual needs. Each classroom boasts hands-on exploration and discovery promoting learning centers. Small class sizes allow a variety of programs, which include: field trips, holiday shows, cooking projects and themed days. State-of-the-art security system and fenced-in playground. FY, AY, SP, DA, DYF SOUTH JERSEY CHRISTIAN ACADEMY 406 Church Rd., Sicklerville, NJ • 856-728-2001 www.sjchristianacademy.org • Ages: PK - 7th Grade • Hours: 8:15am-3pm M-F South Jersey Christian Academy oﬀers an aﬀordable Christian education for students, Preschool through 7th Grade, in the South Jersey area. We educate today’s children to be tomorrow’s Christian leaders. AY, BS, AS

GLOUCESTER COUNTY BUILDING BLOCKS CHILDCARE Applewood Dr., Logan Township • 856-975-6247 www.buildingblockscc.vpweb.com • Ages: 6 wks-12 yrs • Hours: 24 hours Building Blocks Childcare is a 24-hr. home care facility. We have daily age-appropriate activities. We also go on local trips to the park and library, as well as field trips. We are very ﬂexible and have rates from daily to rates that include overtime. We also accept Rutgers vouchers. Rutgers Resource and Referral. FY, MP, BS, AS, DA, TP, SN HOLDING HANDS FAMILY CHILD CARE & PLAY CENTER 138 Tomlin Station Rd., Mullica Hill, NJ • 856-467-6811 Ages: Infant-School Age • Hours: 6am-6:30pm A place for families providing exceptional care, engaged learning and everyday play. A full-service center in a new facility with a gym, three playgrounds, access control system and video monitoring. FY, SP, BS, AS, DA, DHS*

BUCKS COUNTY BRIGHT BEGINNERS ACADEMY 800 Clarmont Ave., Suite A, Bensalem, PA 19020 267-520-7200 • http://brightbeginnersacademy.com Ages: 6 wks.- 6 yrs. • Hours: 6:45am - 6pm Our preschool is designed to meet the needs of every child in a developmentally inclusive setting. Our program encourages progress at a child’s own pace and according to individual needs and abilities. Play-based learning centers for math, science, dramatic play, blocks, music, creative art and technology provide opportunities to balance and stimulate both shared and independent learning experiences. Private pay and subsidized funding accepted, infant and toddler care available. Parent volunteer opportunities available. FY, AY, SP, DA, SN, DHS*, DE

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