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Meet the mass mask maker By Kelly Krueger Thomas Whistlestop Express Editor
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Tracy Bell Redig has made over 440 masks by herself
made custom bridal gowns, altered others and created custom headpieces for over four decades in Marin. When a long-time friend asked her to make some masks for Whistlestop volunteers and drivers, Tracy sprang into action. She called friends who had extra fabric to donate, found the filter fabrics and worked with crafter friends who knew how to crochet masks and the needed back straps for nurses. In the
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search for that ever-elusive elastic, Tracy directed a Whistlestop staff member to a New York wholesaler that she used to buy from. To date, we have received over 1,000+ yards of the stretchy stuff. At the beginning of May, 1,460 mask kits were prepared for others to sew, and an astonishing 2,1000
masks have been made by a crew of 40 volunteers (443 made by Tracy herself). These masks are worn by our drivers, staff and volunteers, and are being distributed to meal, grocery, and food pantry recipients. For Tracy, it’s a labor of love that is very welcomed by those of us in the Whistlestop community.
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racy Bell Redig is on a mission. Since this public health issue began, she has turned out more than 1,900 masks and mask kits (prepared fabric, elastic and instructions) that are sewed by Whistlestop staff, volunteers and members of our community. While other volunteers have also generously donated 100's of masks to us, Tracy’s productivity and passion have taken maskmaking to an entirely new level. This shouldn’t be too surprising, given her lifelong love of fashion that dates to getting paid $10 by Mattel when she sent them a Barbie wedding dress at the age of eight. Tracy turned that childhood talent into a successful career. Over the years she’s worked at Levi’s and designed and produced costuming for SF Ballet and SF Opera productions. She even worked on the first Victoria’s Secret catalog. Her own company, Tracy Bell Designs, has
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ate Colin, Vice Mayor of San Rafael, wanted to find a way to stay connected as a community during COVID-19. Her answer, the Neighborhood Toolkit program, inviting neighborhood leaders to reach out and connect in some amazing ways. Kate Colin “Interactions are important and remind us that we are not alone,” says Vice Mayor Colin. “The toolkit was born out of a need to help neighbors connect with one another while helping individuals discover and embrace their leadership skills.” The Neighborhood Toolkit
helps build resiliency in the community. While the toolkit was designed with COVID-19 in mind, it will work for future crises too. The toolkit provides a way for community leaders to multiply outreach throughout the community. It is focused on connecting with those who are sheltering in place, especially with older adults who may not have the latest technology, or if they do, may not have a mastery of Zoom, FaceTime or other applications. “The overall goal is to build connectivity in the community,” says Vice Mayor Colin. “A simple phone call can do amazing things in
promoting good mental health and lessen the feeling of loneliness and isolation many of us are feeling right now. And neighbors can connect in ways others cannot. The Toolkit allows this connection, which in turn creates a sense of community and togetherness that will get us through these difficult times.” The secret of the program’s success is the multiplier effect. Neighborhood leaders recruit others to divide and conquer, each person taking on five to 10 people in the neighborhood. Each group determines the best way to connect with their neighbors, using a combination of technology and good old-fashioned
interpersonal interactions to share resources, connect neighbors to city services and provide assistance to those in the community who are most vulnerable and have the greatest need. “A good example is the library book link,” says Vice Mayor Colin. “The book is conveniently delivered via Amazon instead of having to go to the library. Someone with a second grader was so thrilled to receive something as simple as a book. People are reaching out to others in need and asking nothing in return. It has readily taken on a life of its own, allowing residents to connect with one another in so many new and interesting ways.” For a link to the toolkit, visit: cityofsanrafael.org.
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It’s easy to give and tax-deductible! Help an older adult by donating a car, truck or other vehicle to Whistlestop. We’ll arrange for free and convenient pick-up.
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During Shelter In Place We are Here For You
The doors to our Active Aging Center Services may have closed when the Shelter in Place order was issued, but Whistlestop is still open, working to address the new challenges that older adults now face. We remain dedicated to you, and are working hard to expand our existing programs, and implement new ones. Below is a list of current programs. For the most up-to-date information, you can also visit our website or call us at 415-456-9062! CaringCalls Program. Our new intergenerational program, CaringCalls,
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pairs older adults or anyone feeling isolated during this crisis, with local high school students for weekly social phone visits. Share your experiences and insights and connect with a younger member of our community – they are feeling isolated as well! Call 415-456-9062 to learn more. Marin County’s Grocery Distribution Program is free to older adults and those with disabilities who are not receiving other food services. Whistlestop performs intake and delivers pre-bagged groceries to homes. Call 415-456-9062 to see if you qualify for free groceries. Funding for this program, at least in part, is made available by the Marin Department of Health and Human Services, Division of Social Services, Aging and Adult Services. WhistleShoppers offers older adults and those with disabilities a chance to purchase their own groceries without leaving their homes or the use of a computer or mobile phone. Our call center representative will work with you to create a detailed grocery list over the phone using the grocery website to ensure items are available. Our drivers shop for the groceries and provide free delivery. You pay only for the groceries. Call 415-456-9064 to get started. Great Plates Marin: Whistlestop is working with the County of Marin and numerous local restaurants to provide three meals a day to individuals who qualify. Call 415-456-9073. Check-in Calls. Our call center has called over 6,000 Marin County older adults to see how they are doing and offer referrals and resources. Volunteers are conducting regular follow-up calls to anyone who opts in. To start receiving check-in calls, please call 415-456-9062. Home Delivered Meals. Whistlestop Nourish and Meals on Wheels home meal delivery services are expanding to meet increased demand. To sign up for meals for yourself or a loved one, call 415-456-9062 x176. Marin Access Paratransit. We continue to provide daily, pre-scheduled, door-to-door bus transportation in Marin County for people needing assistance. Drivers are disinfecting their vehicles three times per shift, wearing masks and changing gloves after each rider. Call 415-454-0964 to schedule a ride.
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Take-out Meals. Whistlestop’s Jackson Café is offering
Free Volunteer Rides. Whistlestop’s CarePool program provides rides for older adults and people with disabilities. It has remained in continuous operation and is providing rides to medical appointments, to pharmacies and to grocery stores. Volunteer drivers are following all recommended sanitation guidelines. To schedule a ride, call 415-454-0927. Food pantry. Whistlestop’s Brown Bag Pantry program offers free fresh produce, meats and staple food items provided from the Marin/SF Food Bank to Marin residents every Friday. Any Marin resident in need of food is welcome. Pre-packed bags of groceries are given are handed to visitors upon arrival –either drive up or walk-up. 10-11am on Friday mornings at the Whistlestop Active Aging Center. Call 415-456-9062 with questions.
nutritious, affordable meals for $6, prepared fresh daily by our culinary team and sold through our front door at the Active Aging Center, 930 Tamalpais Ave, San Rafael. M-F 11:30am – 1:00pm. No need to order in advance - just show up!
Resource Referrals.
Our team of caring staff are available to answer questions about resources from Whistlestop’s main number: 415-456-9062.
Whistlestop Virtual Classes Whistlesizers, Tuesdays & Thursdays, 11:00 - 11:40 am, Free Have your chair ready and you phone on speaker. Call 415-480-2522 just before 11 am to join the class. Yoga, Friday 3:00 pm via Zoom, Free To find out how to attend these classes, visit Whistlestop.org/classes or call the front desk at 415-456-9062.
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With public events cancelled to stop the spread of the new coronavirus, we may not CULTURAL be stepping into a movie theater or a concert hall. However, many organizations RESOURCES are sharing their work through technology. Here are some Bay Area events that you can live-stream and enjoy from your home.
Buck Institute
These recent conversations at the Buck bring together colleagues inside and outside of the Buck who have important perspectives on how to think about, deal with, and potentially treat this pandemic. For more info, visit: buck2020.extendedsession.com.
Golden Gate Park
MUSIC Kennedy Center Couch Concerts Mondays, Wednesdays & Fridays – 1:00 pm Live-streamed performances by artists from their homes. Access on the organization’s Facebook and YouTube channel, youtube.com/ TheKennedyCenter. Performances archived for viewers to access any time at kennedy-center.org.
The 150th anniversary virtual live stream celebration includes podcasts, digital books, historic news stories, photo albums, webcams, online learning activities and more. Visit: GoldenGatePark150.com
ARTS & EXHIBITS California Academy of Sciences
Live animal webcams of the museum’s favorite creatures, “Academy Science” videos, and the “Flipside Science” series on environmental issues. 415-379-8000. Visit: calacademy.org
The Stanford University Cantor Arts Center
Online exhibition of Richard Diebenkorn’s sketchbooks, recorded lectures and oral histories by Judy Chicago, Nick Cave, Nathan Oliveira and Hunk and Moo Anderson, digitized archives of Andy Warhol’s contact sheets and negatives, works by Rodin, plus a Museum at Home portal for easy access to all online offerings. Contact 650-723-4177 or museum.stanford.edu
San Francisco Opera Saturdays 10:00 am – Midnight on Sundays San Francisco Opera will stream performances from its archives on Saturdays at 10 am Pacific time at sfopera.com and remain available until midnight the following day. Michael Tilson Thomas’ “Keeping Score” series, nine one-hour musical documentaries and nine accompanying concert performances stream weekly for free on YouTube: youtube.com/sfsymphony
GENERAL ENTERTAINMENT Aperitivo Fridays Virtual Wine Tasting Series Fridays – 2:30 pm Wine education, vineyard insights, food pairings, etc. For more info visit: muscardinicellars.com.
Fine Arts Museums of San Francisco
Virtual tours of de Young Museum and the Legion of Honor, as part of #MuseumFromHome. Access the entire collection online at art.famsf.org.
Marin Museum of Contemporary Art
Virtual tour of the exhibition of works by Elmer Bishoff. Contact 415-506-0137 or marinmoca.org
San Francisco Museum of Modern Art
Watch videos of ongoing exhibitions. Visit: sfmoma.org
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Information on food resources and other services and assistance: COMMUNITY
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$20 check booklets are provided to individuals 60 years of age and older who are on a limited income, allowing them to purchase fresh produce at these local farmers markets:
Monday Tomales: 9:00am – 10:00am: Main St. & Dillon Beach Rd. Point Reyes Station: 12:30pm – 1:30pm: Walnut Place, 600 A St. San Geronimo: 2:30pm – 3:30pm: San Geronimo Valley Community Center, 6350 Sir Francis Drake Blvd.
Thursday San Rafael: 9:00am – 10:00am, Martinelli House, 1327 Lincoln Ave. Novato: 11:00am – 12:00pm: Marin Valley Mobile Country Club, 100 Marin Valley Dr. Marin City: 1:00pm – 2:000pm: 100 - 200 Drake Ave. San Rafael: 2:30pm – 3:30pm: Maria B. Freitas Senior Community, 455 Manuel T. Freitas Pkwy.
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To identify a variety of food resources, find the most comprehensive and up-to-date food resources by visiting: foodlocator. sfmfoodbank.org or call: 415-282-1900.
Email 457-INFO@marincounty.org or call 415-457-INFO Visit www.211.org or Dial 211 from your phone
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Rollin’ Root mobile farmers market program serves an increased number of homebound seniors. For help with transportation to a Rollin' Root farmers market or if you would like to have a volunteer shop for you and deliver to your home, call: 707-634-4672. Marin City: Wednesday: 10:30 am – 12:30 pm, Bayside MLK, 200 Phillips Dr. San Geronimo: Thursday: 12 pm – 2 pm, San Geronimo Valley Community Center, 1 Lagunitas School Rd. San Rafael: Saturday: 10am – 2pm, Kerner Drive-through Pantry, 2550 Kerner Blvd.
Jewish Family and Children’s Services
Older Adult and Disabled Care—For immediate assistance please call 415-449-3700.
Emergency Rental Assistance Program
This program of Marin HHS supports people who are at risk of homelessness and need rental assistance to prevent eviction due to a loss of income from the COVID-19 pandemic. Please email covid-19@marincounty.org or call at 415-473-7191. If you have questions about the emergency ban on evictions contact Housing and Federal Grants Division staff by email or telephone at 415473-7309. An FAQ and additional materials is available at marincounty.org/ renterlandlord
Covia Well Connected
Well Connected members call in via a toll-free number at a set time each week, with some groups also offering the option to connect via computer, tablet, or mobile device. Most groups last 30 minutes to an hour with around 12 participants. Newcomers are always welcome! If you don’t feel like talking at first, you’re welcome to just listen as long as you’ve let the group know you’re there. To register call, 877-797-7299 or coviaconnections@covia.org.
Family Caregiver Alliance
These webinars provide guidance, strategies and resources for those who provide care to an individual living with a chronic or disabling health condition. Whether you are a family, friend or professional caregiver, you’ll find tailored information on a variety of caregiving topics from daily care and care planning to self-care and specialized subjects. Webinar speakers include physician, nurses, social workers, business leaders and professionals in the legal, mental health and other fields. Recordings average 1 hour each and are free to stream. Visit: caregiver.org/fca-webinars
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Volunteering in challenging times By Kelly Krueger Thomas Whistlestop Express Editor
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EMILY ROBERTS The call to service comes from many places. In the case of Emily Roberts, it came from a need to help, even in a time when stayat-home orders and social distancing have become the norm.
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studies his route for the day. He admits that some of his clients have been startled when a man in gloves and mask shows up at their door, but they quickly warm to him when he says he’s from Whistlestop. “At times, we are the only people they see in a day and it means more than we could know,” he says. “To be seen, to be heard, to know that we are truly never alone is so meaningful, especially in these times of social distancing.” Volunteering has always been in Robbie’s blood. Over the years he has been
involved with the United Nations Association of Tampa Bay, St. Vinnies in St. Petersburg and Habitat for Humanity. He grew up the son of two Pentecostal ministers in Australia who exposed him to the importance of giving to others as a child. To the new generation of volunteers, Robbie passes on this advice: “To know you have positively impacted someone else’s life by the simple act of delivering food takes very little effort, but the personal reward is hard to believe and makes every moment of volunteering worth it.”
“I went to the city’s website to see how I could help and Whistlestop had posted a need to help get food to people’s homes,“ Emily says. “It seemed like an easy and natural way to make a difference and get some guilt-free exercise at the same time.” Currently, Emily delivers meals one day and groceries on another. It takes her about four to five hours to do her route at Whistlestop, which covers the homes of eight or nine clients each time. “It’s rewarding to feel that at least in some way, you’re making things better, even if it's just a tiny bit. One client told me it was like getting a care package from home every week when she was at camp.”
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obbie Kruithoff knows the importance of food security on a very personal level. He still remembers what it feels like to not know where the next meal will come from. And he will never forget the compassion others have shown him throughout his life. When he saw the opportunity to play a role in offering that same compassion and security to others, he jumped at the chance. An aspiring writer with a degree in Public Health, Robbie seems to be made for the role of Whistlestop volunteer, delivering meals to clients a couple times a week. His career gives him the flexibility to volunteer and his education an understanding of the importance of good nutrition. “I’ve been very fortunate during this pandemic,” says Robbie. “My husband still has a job and we have a roof over our heads and food on the table. This isn’t the case for many right now. I just couldn’t let my car gather dust in the garage knowing there were people in need.” Robbie arrives in the morning to load his car up with premade meals and
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histlestop and the community at large experienced a great loss with the passing of Beth Ashley last month. Beth, who passed away just shy of her 94th birthday, served on the board of Whistlestop for more than 20 years and was a columnist for the Marin Independent Journal. To many of her dedicated readers, she embodied the Journal. Long before there were reality shows on television, there was Beth’s column, where she invited the public into her life to follow along
in all the joys, heartache and adventures she shared each week. Her signature style was airy and free flowing, a conversational style that took readers with her as she traveled to Tahoe with her family, vacationed in far away, exotic locales, navigated motherhood, and dealt humorously and honestly with the world as it changed around her. She was a woman ahead of her time, in many respects. Over the course of four decades she told her readers what it was like to be a
professional woman “in a man’s world,” eventually earning her a place in Marin’s Women’s Hall of Fame. “We are the sum of all the lives we once lived,” she wrote on the subject of aging. “We only show the grownup part, but inside we are still the laughing children, the shy teens, the dream-filled youths. There still exists, most real, the matrix of all we were or ever yearned to be.” A fitting tribute that only she could write. Thank you Beth for all your many contributions over the years.
Creative celebrations in the time of COVD19 social distancing
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For Mother’s Day, Gayle Moore facetimed with her daughter who lives in LA at dinnertime. They cheered with glasses of wine and signed off to eat. Her special meal was delivered by Stacey Scott Catering and 15% of the proceeds from the meal were donated to Whistelstop. Wendy Lee was originally going to be celebrating her birthday in Boston with her husband, son and his girlfriend. Instead neighbors and friends pulled together a spontaneous socialdistancing party in the Fairfax Sequoia Road neighborhood, complete with a hand painted card, presents and cake in the middle of the street! She also got eight new chickens for her new, remodeled chicken coop and after one hour one of them laid its first egg. Congratulations to you all! So glad you were able to find creative ways to celebrate.
Rubenstein Anniversary
Gayle Moore
Miss Pam 70th
Wendy Lee birthday
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am Wisner, or Miss Pam to many, got quite the surprise for her 70th birthday. The initial plan was to hike in the headlands south of Muir Beach with friends who had helped her celebrate her 50th birthday topped off with a stop at the end of the day for tea at the Pelican Inn. When that fell through, friends and students decided to surprise her with a drive-by birthday parade instead. Over 20 teachers, students and their parents drove slowly by with signs and notes of celebration and praise. For their 42nd wedding anniversary, Michael and Marcia Rubenstein were also in for a surprise. With shelter in place, they had to cancel their usual gathering for Seder, including the order for their favorite Passover cake. Unbeknownst to the couple, it was reordered by their daughter Ashley. On the appointed day, three of their daughters met down the block from their parent’s house and told the couple to open the garage door. The fourth daughter was FaceTimed in from Chicago. Everyone kept their distance, but the celebration went on anyway with five of their nine grandchildren sharing the special occasion from the driveway and the other four on via video to make it a “full house,” albeit at the end of the driveway.
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