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1. The True Meaning of Christmas 2. Forgiveness

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How well do you know your Christmas movies? Take our movie trivia on page 36 to test your knowledge!

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Ring in the New Year with your kids. Try these fun family friendly New Year’s Eve party ideas on page 10.

3. Red! 4. Chance Perfume by Chanel 5. Andes Mints 6. Black Tights

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Give back this Christmas! Visit page 24 to learn how you can get your family involved in giving back to the community.

7. Sparkles 8. Cookie Dough 9. Balsam Fir Scent

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Need stocking stuffer ideas? Go to page 14 for 100 stocking stuffer ideas for kids at any age will love!

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Enjoy your winter pregnancy this year!

Find out why you should embrace your winter pregnancy on page 16.

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The gel nail polish may not be the best manicure to get.

Visit page 30 to see which nail polish trend is worth the money!

10. Real Christmas Trees 11. Family Traditions 12. The Nutcracker Ballet 13. Fudge 14. Giving Rather Than Receiving 15. Jesus

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Don’t forget to take your picture with Santa! See where Santa will be in Michiana on page 7.

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By: Chaunie Bruise

18 50 of the Best Baby Names of 2014

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Giving is Better than Receiving

8 The FAMILY Month Calendar

22 From A to Z: The Non-Gift Guide By: Meagan Church

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24 Teaching Our Kids Compassion

Family Recipe

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35 Gingerbread Cookies

26 Believe in More than Just Santa

Movie & Book Reviews

38 Book Review: Baby Sign Language

by Sarah Christensen Fu Reviewed By: Denise Stuart

38 Book Review: Looking for Alaska

by John Green Reviewed By: Aliyah Farhan

36 Family Trivia on Some of the Best (Holiday Films, that is!)

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Family Craft

34 Christmas Party Mix

28 Dear Mom, There is No Pause Button By: Meagan Church

30 Product Review: Nail Polish

Family Fun

10 5…4…3…2…1… Happy Family-Friendly New Year!

By: Michelle L. Shirk, J.D.

12 Making Exercise an Adventure By: Jackie Folkert

Family Kids

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Mommy and Daddy

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16 4 Ways to Enjoy a Winter Pregnancy

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32 Angel Gowns: Repurposing Wedding Dresses into Wraps of Love By: Meagan Church

39 Five Minutes for Mom:

How to Stay Calm, Cool and Collected on your Most Challenging Days By: Christina Katz

FAMILY contibutors

Noelle Elliott works in publicity.

She is a writer and has been published on several websites and print publications. She is the owner and creator of the esteemed bowchicabowmom.com where she humorously shares the triumphs and failures of raising her four young sons. She is also the creator of the successful local staged production, The Mamalogues. She happily lives in South Bend.

Meagan Church is married to her highschool sweetheart and is the mother of 3 kids. She is a writer and children’s book author. She is also the brainpower of the online resource Unexpectant, exploring the realities of birth, babies and beyond

Michelle Shirk is a proud graduate of the University of Notre Dame Law School and longtime resident of Northwest Indiana. Michelle writes for a number of publications across the United States and also serves as Assistant Director for READ La Porte County, Inc., a non-profit organization that provides free tutoring to students of all ages.

Michiana Santa Sightings Santa is making his list, checking it twice and also making his rounds in Michiana to visit the kids! Not sure where he will be this year? Stop by any of these locations below to get the kids into the Christmas spirit!

December 1st – December 24th

Santa’s Winter Wonderland Visits and Photos Monday-Saturday 11:00 A.M. – 7:00 P.M. Sunday 12:30 P.M. – 5:00 P.M. (Santa goes to lunch every day from 2:30 P.M. – 3:30 P.M.)

Concord Mall Cost: Several photo packages for you and your family to choose from!

December 1st – 24th

Santa at University Park Mall Call for Specific Times University Park Mall

December 1st – December 24th

Come Downtown for the Holidays View website for hours: www.downtownsouthbend.com/downtown-holidays Downtown South Bend – Santa will be at Santa’s House

Saturday & Sundays through December 20th

Free Pictures with Santa 10:00 A.M. – 4:00 P.M. Linton’s Enchanted Gardens Cost: Bring a food donation for the local food bank and your camera to take a picture with Santa!

December 5th

“Where’s Santa?” Holiday Hunt 6:00 P.M. – 8:00 P.M. Wellfield Botanic Gardens, Elkhart Cost: Admission is $3 for members and $5 for nonmembers with a suggested $1 donation per child.

December 6th:

Breakfast with Santa at WSBT Studio 9:00 A.M. – 10:30 A.M. WSBT Studios Cost: $5

December 12th:

Santa on the Race 4:00 P.M. East Race Waterway

Chaunie Brusie is a nurse, freelance writer and a young mom of three (soon to be four!). She lives in SE Michigan and is the author of Tiny Blue Lines: Reclaiming Your Life, Preparing For Your Baby, and Moving Forward in Faith in an Unplanned Pregnancy.

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Goshen First Fridays, 5:00 P.M., Downtown Goshen

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Minute to Win it, 4:00 P.M., Elkhart Public Library

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Southold Dance Theater presents The Nutcracker Ballet, 2:00 P.M., Morris Performing Arts Center

DTSB First Fridays, 5:00 P.M., Downtown South Bend

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Holiday Ball, 6:00 P.M., Century Center

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MythBusters: Laster Holidays, 6:30 P.M., Behind the Myths Tour, PHM Digital Video Theater/ 7:00 P.M., Southold Dance Theater Planetarium Morris Performing presents The Nutcracker Ballet, Arts Center 2:00 P.M., Morris Performing Shrek the Musical, A Lerner Christmas, Arts Center 8:00 P.M., 7:30 P.M., It’s a Wonderful Life at A The Round Barn Theater, The Lerner Theatre Rosie Place, 10:00 A.M., Nappanee South Bend

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2. The world’s tallest tree was a 221-foot Douglas fir. This tree was displayed in Seattle, Washington at the Northgate Shopping Center in 1950.

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for about 15 years before they are cut down and sold.

Perfect Gift Ideas for Dad! • Notre Dame Hockey Tickets • Golf Clubs, Tees and Golf Balls • Personalized Coffee Mug • Grilling Utensil Set • Beer Brewing Kit • Shaving Kit or a New Shaver • Heated Jacket • Deluxe Poker Chip Set • iPhone 6 or iPhone 6+ • Gym Membership or Boxing Classes

What we are Pinning: The Perfect Christmas Tree

4. The traditional Christmas colors (green, red and gold)

have different meanings. Green symbolizes life and rebirth, red symbolizes the blood of Christ and gold symbolizes light, wealth and royalty.

5. The first Christmas

postage stamp was issued in the United States in 1962.

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Frosty Tree:

www.removeandreplace.com

Peppermint Tree: www.woohome.com

Rustic Tree:

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Belly Rest Pregnancy Pillow

www.fairhavenhealth.com Can’t seem to get a comfortable night’s sleep while pregnant?

Do you have several different pillows varying in shapes and sizes hoping that maybe ONE will do the job? This Belly Rest Pregnancy Pillow will solve all of your problems! This small and adjustable pillow will become your new bed buddy!

Giveaway Dates: December 1st-December 4th Winner will be announced December 4th at 6 P.M.

Hip Baby Wrap & Nursing Poncho

www.hipbabywrap.com Keep your child secure with Hip Baby Wrap! This stylish wrap and nursing poncho are soft, breathable and easy to clean! These warps were handmade with 100% cotton and non-toxic dyes!

They are durable and strong and, let’s not forget, very stylish!

Giveaway Dates: December 5th – December 9th Winner will be announced December 9th at 6 P.M.

The FAMILY Magazine's Holiday Gift Guide The FAMILY Magazine has a few great gift ideas that you and your family will all enjoy!

The best part yet, we are giving away each of these items this month on our website!

Visit our Facebook page and our website for your chance to win one of these gift items!

MOMiN Organic Products

www.mysmilebaby.com MOMiN Organic products are made to help ease parents’ minds.

All ingredients are organic leaving you worry free on what is going on your child’s skin. MOMiN features organic shampoos, lotions, oils, ointments, bug repellents and so much more!

Giveaway Dates: December 10th – 15th Winner will be announced December 15th at 6 P.M.

Flip 2 B Fit Family Board Game

www.flip2bfit.com Tired of playing the same old board games around the kitchen table? Want to improve your family fitness and nutritional knowledge? Flip 2 B Fit Board game is the perfect gift to give this holiday season that will keep everyone moving! “Flip, Stretch and Twist your way to a ‘Healthier Body.’”

Giveaway Dates: December 16th – December 19th Winner will be announced December 19th at 6 P.M.

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s the parent of one or more young children, you may be anticipating a New Year’s Eve that is less sequins and champagne and more mini hot dogs and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. Fortunately, celebrating this traditionally decadent night in a family friendly way can be just as much fun for grown-ups as for kids.

If you’re willing to push back bedtime at least a little bit, those extra hours can provide a great opportunity to enjoy a creative family activity while making memories that will last for years to come. Consider using one of the six ideas below to help your family ring in 2015 in style.

1. Create something together.

Take a break from your usual movie night and tackle a more adventurous project as a family. If your children are young, collaborate on a giant butcher paper mural or use wooden blocks to recreate your home and street. Older kids may be ready to take on a 500-piece puzzle or an elaborate LEGO construction project. Your family will end the night with a sense of accomplishment plus some great photos of your creation.

2. Reminisce about the old year.

Given the current popularity of digital cameras, camera phones and online photo sharing, many parents have gotten out of the habit of regularly printing photos, let alone displaying them in neatly labeled albums. New Year’s Eve is a perfect time to cycle through the digital photos you’ve stored on your laptop over the past year. Talk about the memories associated with your pictures, then ask each family member to select their five or ten favorites. You can spend New Year’s Day arranging the chosen pictures in a customized photo book to print and enjoy.

3. Create a family “bucket list” for the coming year.

How can your family make 2015 your best year yet? Maybe you really want to take the kids ice-skating for the first time this January. Or, perhaps your daughter’s life won’t be complete unless your family attends the town’s annual Easter egg hunt in March. Decide as a family which events and activities are most important for the months ahead and commit to them in writing. Then, immediately schedule upcoming activities on the family calendar to make sure they don’t get lost in the shuffle of daily life.

4. Dress for dinner.

Regardless of whether you’ll be leaving the house, encourage family members to don their snazziest attire to say goodbye to 2014.

Even take-out pizza eaten off of paper plates feels special when you’re dressed to the nines! Pick up some New Year’s Eve party hats, leis and other accessories at www. orientaltrading.com to complete the look.

5. Stretch your celebration.

It’s midnight somewhere! Check out www. timeanddate.com to see where. Per the site’s handy New Year Countdown, Melbourne will celebrate the arrival of 2015 at 8:00 a.m., Tokyo at 10:00 a.m., and London at 7:00 p.m. South Bend time. If one round of “Happy New Year!” isn’t enough for your family, enjoy a quick celebration every hour on the hour! Or, focus on celebrating with the countries you feel personally connected to due to your family history or past travel adventures.

6. Enjoy your own private “ball drop.”

Whether or not you plan to stay up to watch the big Times Square Ball Drop, kids will have a blast recreating this tradition in your home.

A racquetball or tennis ball can be manually “dropped” down a length of string while family members count down from 60. As an added bonus, decorating the chosen ball with sequins, glitter, feathers or paint will make a great art project for your kids during the days leading up to New Year’s Eve!

Choose one of these activities, add some tasty snacks and festive music, and enjoy a fun and memorable night with your family.

Happy New Year to you and yours!

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FAMILY fun

Making Exercise an

Adventure with the Kids during the Holidays By: Jackie Folkert

Bursts of exercise– even if it’s only 15 minutes at a time – contribute to maintaining your fitness.”

Let’s face it, it’s tough to fight off holiday weight gain when the kids are home for winter break. It’s easier to bake sugar cookies than trudge to the gym with the kiddos in tow. With the average woman consuming 7,000 calories on Christmas day alone, packing on the holiday pounds seems inevitable.

But, you don’t have to give in to the weight gain. You can make exercising a fun adventure for you and the kids over the holidays.

Christy Mishler is a personal trainer in Ekhart. She said that the woman who wants to stay in shape over the holidays should “think about what she does in her regular exercise routine and what she wants to accomplish.” Moms get a mental block when it comes to implementing exercise with the kids around, she said.

Exercise doesn’t have to be complex.

Anything active that includes the kids is helpful to preserving your fitness. You can view most activities as opportunities for exercise, even if it’s as simple as pulling your kids on the sled or building a snowman.

Play a game such as hide and seek with the kids outside. Instead of just walking to find them, up the intensity and jog. Do lunges while you wait for them to find you. Look for ways to raise your heart rate.

You can incorporate your kids into your exercise routine—literally. Use your toddler instead of hand weights. Squat down and then stand up and toss her/him in the air.

Give your children a ride as you use them for shoulder raises.

With the kids home, scavenging for an hour to exercise may not be possible. Mishler said that finding that magical 60 minutes isn’t required to keep in shape.

Bursts of exercise—even if it’s only 15 minutes at a time—contribute to maintaining your fitness. “You’ll feel a sense of accomplishment,” she said. Bursts are much more practical, too.

If you really want to track your exercise, wear a heart rate monitor to reach a level of activity similar to your regular workout. Or, wear a pedometer to meet a daily number of steps.

An added bonus to keeping up with your fitness is that your kids will witness your efforts. You will be modeling a healthy lifestyle.

According to Myfitnesspal.com, a 150-pound woman will burn approximately 476 calories if she goes sledding or cross-country skiing for an hour. If you take the kids downhill skiing you’ll burn about 340.

Mamas, here is some good news; you burn 238 calories an hour carrying your 15-pound baby. Put the baby in a carrier and take the whole family on a hike outside.

Challenge your older kids to spot critters along the way. When you get home, scroll through the photos and talk about the nature while you and the gang sip hot chocolate.

If it’s too cold outside, dash to the roller rink; an hour skating will burn you about 480 calories. The local YMCA offers racquetball or handball lessons. Try out a new sport together.

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If the weather allows, rent cross-country skis or snowshoes at a county park: Ideal Beach County Park, Elkhart, Madeline Bertrand and Love Creek Parks, Berrien County and St. Patrick’s County Park and Ferriettie/Baugo Creek Park in St. Joseph County.

And nothing makes exercise more fun than meeting up with some friends. The games red rover and red light, green light get challenging when the group runs through the snow to win the games. Knowing that your friends are outside waiting for your family creates accountability as well.

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Your Kids Will Actually Use By: Michelle L. Shirk, J.D.

After putting so much energy into dolls, trains and bicycles, Santa may find himself a bit stumped when it comes to stocking stuffers.

We’ve got him – and you – covered with 100 ideas for kids of every age.

Many of the listed items are readily available at your local supermarket or drug store. As an added bonus, the vast majority of them are useful, consumable or both, so hopefully you won’t find yourself tripping over trinkets until July!

Bath and Body

Food and Drink

Arts and Crafts

1. Body “Pouf” 2. Wash Cloth 3. Body Wash 4. Bath Bomb 5. Scented Lotion or Body Spray 6. Nail Polish 7. Nail File 8. Comb or Brush 9. Toothbrush 10. Toothpaste

1. Travel Size Cereal Boxes 2. Seasonal Candy 3. Orange or Clementine 4. Dried Fruit 5. Trail Mix 6. Christmas Cookies 7. Flavored Popcorn 8. Personalized Mug or Glass 9. Character-Shaped Cookie Cutters 10. Hot Chocolate Packets

1. Small Craft Kit 2. Markers 3. Colored Glue Sticks 4. Stickers 5. Rainbow Loom or Other Craft Kit Refill Packs 6. Paint 7. Paintbrushes 8. Coloring or Activity Book 9. Chalk 10. Colored Pencils

Clothing and Accessories

School Supplies

Just for Fun

1. Socks 2. Scarf 3. Jewelry 4. Gloves or Mittens 5. Coin Purse 6. Money Clip 7. Ponytail Holders 8. Barrettes 9. Belt 10. Tie

1. Crayons 2. Scissors 3. Folder 4. Pens or Pencils 5. Student Planner 6. Decorative Binder Clips 7. Calculator 8. Patterned Tissues 9. Locker Magnets 10. Mini Stapler

1. Play-Doh 2. Silly Putty 3. Mini Lego or Duplo Kit 4. Matchbox Cars 5. Travel Games 6. Rubber Duckie 7. Play Food 8. Bubbles 9. Mad Libs 10. Puzzle

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Gifts for the Future

For Teens

1. Movie Tickets 2. E-Reader Gift Card 3. I.O.U. for a Cone at Your Local Ice Cream Store 4. Magazine Subscription Voucher 5. Subscription to Hulu/Netflix 6. Museum Passes 7. Arcade Tokens 8. Gift Certificate to a Favorite Restaurant or Coffee Shop 9. Passes for Bowling, Putt-Putt or Other Family Activity 10. Car Wash Vouchers

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Earphones or Ear Buds Car Air Freshener Windshield Scraper Playing Cards Scented Candle Discount Card for Local Shops and Restaurants 7. Crossword Puzzle Book 8. Washi Tape 9. Lip Balm 10. iTunes Gift Card

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Desktop Calendar Paperback Book Educational Magnets Golf, Tennis or Ping Pong Balls DVD Soundtrack CD Colorful Pillowcase Keepsake Ornament Thank You Notes (To be put to Use after Christmas!)

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Armed with these ideas, hopefully you can hang those stockings by the chimney with care, then rest easy knowing Santa’s got it covered.

Merry Christmas!

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By: Chaunie Brusie

Is there any better season than winter for pregnancy?

Unlike my most miserable of miserable summer pregnancies, in which I melted into a sweaty pool each and every day and tried in vain to stuff my body into tank tops and shorts that resembled clothes suitable for public viewing, winter provides many advantages for the pregnant mama.

So, your mission, should you choose to accept it? Trying one of these ways to enjoy your pregnancy through winter and beyond!

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Embrace a comfy winter wardrobe.

For pregnancy in the winter, I have but one word for you: leggings. Leggings are the number one go-to for winter pregnancy style.

You can easily pick up a pair of maternity leggings for less than $10, and I can guarantee that you will get your money’s worth. Pair with an oversized sweater or dress, and you have an easy and comfortable outfit that may just pass for stylish. Also, I have a confession: I still, to this day, wear the maternity leggings that I bought when I was pregnant with my son over two years ago. What can I say?

They’re stretchy!

spend 2. Don’t money on a new coat.

Save that money for the baby and make do this winter by simply buttoning your top button on your coat, borrowing a maternity coat, or making do with lots of layers. Luckily for you, you have your own internal heater to get through those cold winter months.

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Get some fun maternity pictures taken.

Sure, lots of moms get maternity pictures taken on the beach or against a gorgeous fall backdrop, but how many winter wonderland maternity pictures do you see? Stand out from the crowd and take advantage of the snowy months to get some unique maternity pictures taken of you and your baby bump. You may just want to pass on making any snow angels this year.

4. Hit the slopes.

Just kidding. Instead of feeling remorseful over missing out on some outdoor winter fun, switch up your routine to enjoy some pregnancy-safe snowy activities, like strapping on some snow shoes and taking a walk or building a snowman with the older kids. Or, if this is your first baby, take full advantage of a snowy wintery getaway with your husband—even if all you do is snuggle in front of the fire with a hot chocolate. Because this time next year, you’ll be busy Christmas shopping for your new addition!

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Best Baby Names of 2014

By: Chaunie Brusie

As you prepare to welcome your baby at the close of 2014—or into 2015—take a look back at a few of the most unique names of the year. And, even if you won’t be sipping on some champagne this New Years’ Eve, you can celebrate by finally agreeing on a baby’s name. Maybe.

Boys

Girls 1. Isla

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13. Kieran –

14. Arabella

2. Harrison

14. Dashiell

15. Eliza

3. Finley

15. Kai

16. Iris

4. Xavier –

16. Soren

derived from the Latin word for “gold”

2. Cora –

derived from the Greek word for “maiden”

3. Harper –

great for creative types, as it is derived from the word “harpist”

4. Hazel 5. Ivy

17. Mila 18. Aria 19. Emmeline –

German for “hardworking”

6. Maeve –

Irish for “joy”

7. Adeline 8. Seraphina –

Hebrew for “princess”

of Spanish origin, meaning “bright, splendid, new house”

5. Knox

Latin for “soldier”

20. Rowan

Biblical term for “humble”

22. Zara

9. Callum

10. Nora

23. Delilah

10. Theo

11. Willa

24. Mabel

11. Hugo

12. Finn

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8. Nico

field of heather

Celtic term for “dark” or “black”

6. Roman

21. Kinsley

“fiery-winged” angel

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Santa on the Race,

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When it comes to Christmas gifts, we all want to shower our kids with things that will bring them happiness. We want to create a memorable Christmas morning, as they rip into packages and squeal with delight as they discover what’s inside. But, then the moment passes. The living room suddenly looks like Christmas has detonated over every square-inch of the floor, leaving wrapping paper and ribbon shrapnel in its wake.

Soon enough, the newness of the items wears off and we are tasked with finding a place within our already-too crowded homes for all these new things. So, what if we took a different approach to gift giving this Christmas?

 The Field Museum of Natural History passes  Golf lessons  Great Wolf getaway  Gymnastics classes  HealthWorks! membership  Hesston Steam Museum passes

Instead of giving things, give experiences. Maybe your child has always wanted to try something new, or maybe he really loves one thing in particular. This would be a great opportunity to gift him the ability to do that thing. Giving experiences can also set the stage for bonding moments with family and other friends. These can be gifts that build relationships, teach valuable life lessons, encourage passions or help your child realize abilities they didn’t know they had. Or, they could simply be a fun time that will hopefully leave a lasting impression.

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Special Section Giving is Better Than Receiving

Teaching Our Kids

Compassion By: Lara West

Family Volunteer

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day, and one of the qualities we desire them to have is a lifelong passion

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for helping others and volunteering.

 Bell Ringing for the Salvation Army

But how do we sow the seeds to grow a garden of compassion in the

 Visiting with elders at a nursing home

hearts of our children when the evening news makes it seem as though

 Distributing treats at local hospital

the world is more corrupt than it is compassionate? We remember

 Shovel snow in an elderly neighbor’s yard

that the news does not represent the mass of society’s good and private

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actions, and we show our children how to give love.

Love is the most important thing we can teach our children to give to others. It doesn’t have to be a world saving mission placed on their hearts, as sometimes, we forget that there are people and organizations in our own community that are in desperate need of our help.

Charitable work also provides many benefits for whole familial unit.

These benefits include a chance to spend quality time together, bring on new experiences for the family, witnessing of hands-on positive role models, and teach social responsibility. Volunteering also promotes a healthy lifestyle and choices, which is another one of the important qualities we hope to teach our children.

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Not knowing where to begin, or deciding where we can be of help, can hinder our desire to be more involved. Here is a “simple” four step plan to help get you and your family started on this wonderful journey together.

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Discuss it. Begin by calling a family meeting. Explain to your family about the importance of volunteering and how their help can benefit others. Then ask them if they know of any of charitable opportunities the family can participate in, and make a list of their suggestions. This can include activities such as donating clothes or canned goods, or grooming an elderly neighbor’s yard. Have a charitable meeting every month to keep the ideas and motivation fresh.

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Schedule it. Once your family decides on an opportunity (or more) to participate in it’s important to set a date on the calendar. If the family thinks donating clothes is beneficial, then schedule a day where the entire family purges their closets with fun music ringing through the house, and make the drop-off donation together.

There are usually lots of opportunities around the holidays to get the entire family out of the house to do charitable work together.

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Do it. It’s likely that just talking about the importance of charity work is not going to fill their hearts with a passion to give and serve, and it certainly won’t fill them with the joy of experiencing it first hand with the people they love the most.

Leave any distractions at the door, and show up ready and excited to bless others with your efforts.

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Reflect on it. Even if it’s in the car on the way home, it’s important to talk with your children about their experience and how it made them feel. Maybe getting rid of a certain toy seemed like a good idea at the time, but now that’s really gone their said they can’t play with it. They might feel so good about what they've done they want tell everyone what an awesome thing they’ve done, or it might be a little of both. Either way, the conversation after the contribution is just as important at the first discussion about getting involved.

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Special Section

Believe Giving is Better Than Receiving

in More than Just Santa

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By: Noelle Elliott

very year, on the day after Thanksgiving, we get a special visitor named Henry. He is our elf and a reminder that Christmas is on its way. Our elf is a little different. Rather than looking for children being naughty, he celebrates their kindness towards each other and reports back to Santa.

I have always enjoyed this time of year. My name Noelle, after all means Christmas. Although I was not born in December, my parents couldn’t have given me a more appropriate name. I’m not ashamed to admit that I start listening to Christmas music before Halloween. It makes me happy and the familiarity of it reminds me of what Christmas was like as a child.

I never saw Santa despite trying on numerous years to catch him climbing down the chimney. One Christmas, my father let me climb a ladder to the top of the house to see if Santa and his reindeer left tracks in the snow. Sure enough they had! That was all I needed to keep my belief in Santa alive.

It taught me that there are several things in life that we can’t see, but still believe in.

For children, Santa represents all that is good in the world. Giving to people in need, spreading Christmas cheer and celebrating kindness. As children grow so can their perception of Santa. Christmas time becomes less about receiving gifts and more about giving them. As a parent, our belief evolves even further and we can experience the spirit of Christmas through our greatest gift, our children.

One of the ways we can spread Christmas cheer is becoming an ambassador for Santa. What this means, is that you take goodwill on the road and spread it to as many places as you can think of. I have made a list of some of the things we have done as a family of Santa ambassadors.

Donate

Give each of the children a box and ask them to collect toys that they would be willing to give away. If they are gently used, you can donate them to the Salvation Army or Goodwill.

Send a Christmas card to a Solider

Many service men and women are away from their families for the holidays.

Show them appreciation by mailing them a Christmas card. Contact the local Red Cross to find out about their Holiday Mail for Heroes program. If you are feeling even more generous put together a care package.

Adopt a Grandparent

This is a very rewarding experience for not only the person you visit but also your child. Call a local nursing home and ask if any of their residents need a visitor. Bring a Christmas card and drop in and say hi. Many of the residents are so happy to chat with someone new. I guarantee you will want to visit again soon.

Be a Secret Santa

Our church has a tree with Christmas tags hanging from it.

Each tag has the age and gender of a child and a toy they are wishing for. We find one tag for each of our boys and go to the store and find a present. It is fun to wrap and deliver back to the church knowing that on Christmas morning we will have made another child feel special.

Buy the Coffee for the Person Behind you in Line

This can be one of those surprises that can make someone’s week.

I had someone do it for me once and it made me smile for the rest of the day. Generosity is contagious because I did it for someone the following week.

Give the Gift of Warmth

Can you imagine not having the proper clothing to stay warm?

Donate a coat to a person in need. Visit onewarmcoat.com and type in your zip code. It will give you the closest drop off station.

Don’t Forget Santa Paws

Dogs and cats need a little Christmas cheer too. Many of the shelters are in need of blankets, bedding and pet food. Call before you go and ask if they have any particular items they are in need of.

Have a Cookie Decorating Party

Invite a friend’s kids over for a cookie decorating party to give them some free time to get some last minute shopping done. This can be fun and very helpful.

Be creative! When you start brainstorming with your family you will be able to come up with some fun ways to celebrate Christmas. Believing in more than just Santa means believing in the kindness and the wonderment of the season. You may never meet the people you help, but they will certainly feel the love you passed their way.

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Dear Mom, There is No Pause Button By: Meagan Church

Dear Mom, Sometimes milestones happen when you’re just not ready. As parents, we often spend a lot of energy in the early months and years coaxing our children towards the next milestone. We encourage them to roll over, crawl, walk, talk, potty train and self soothe. Then somewhere along the way, they start meeting milestones without as much effort on our part. It’s usually around this time that we want to hit the pause button for just a moment and slow things down a bit.

This happened recently with my middle child. One day, she walked into her little sister’s room carrying her favorite toy, Baby. Kenna and Baby have had a very close bond over the last few years. Baby has gone on every trip and sleepover. She has comforted Kenna in the middle of the night and cuddled with her during each naptime. Of course all of this attention has come at a price for Baby. Her once white onesie is now a permanent shade of gray, no matter how much we wash her. She has scuffmarks on her head, her stuffing has lost integrity and become clumpy, and as a result, her arms and legs dangle from her.

Even still, Baby has always been precious in Kenna’s eyes. Until recently.

When Kenna walked into her sister’s room, she put Baby on top of a pile of stuffed animals and declared that she was done with her; her sister could have her. I thought I misheard her.

I thought she just meant her sister could play with her. “No. She can have her. I’m done with her,” Kenna said with complete assurance, as she walked out of the room.

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My heart broke.

When did we get to the point where Baby was no longer necessary? And, before we just give her up completely, shouldn't there be a bit more of a transition? Like first she takes up residence at the foot of the bed. Then maybe she falls to the floor and no one notices. Eventually she gets placed in a pile of other toys in Kenna’s room.

But, there was no progression.

There was love one day and dismissal the next.

I even tried to reconcile the relationship by putting Baby in a doll bed in Kenna’s room. I set the scene by placing her head on a pillow and a blanket across her, so she looked peaceful and sweet. Later that day, I found Baby and the bed in the hallway. When I asked Kenna about it, she reminded me that she had given her to her sister. She was done.

Case closed. Let’s move on with life.

I couldn’t move on that quickly. This was a milestone I wasn’t prepared for. Perhaps that’s because I still have my favorite childhood toy on display in my bedroom. But, more than the sentimental attachment, I realized that I wasn’t ready for Kenna to reach the point where Baby wasn’t necessary, where she was old enough to not need (or want) a lovey anymore, where she was old enough to make this decision on her own. Case closed. Let’s move on with life.

The milestones are happening, whether we’re ready for them or not.”

And that’s the thing about milestones, they are about moving on with life, which I was all for when it meant crawling instead of remaining stationary, talking instead of relying on crying and grunting, potty training instead of diapers. But now we’ve reached a point in parenting where the milestones happen regardless of whether or not I’m ready. They are still good and necessary, but sometimes I wish parenting came with a pause button. I wish I could rewind to that last nap when Kenna squashed Baby beneath her and slumbered with her in a chokehold. I wish I would’ve known it was the last time. I would’ve peeked through her door to see it one last time. Maybe I would’ve snuck in to to snap a picture, filter and Instagram it, so we could officially document the last naptime.

But, there is no pause button.

There is no putting life on hold. Progress is in motion. The milestones are happening, whether we’re ready for them or not. Even still, with as ready as Kenna is to say goodbye to her friend, I’m still going to tuck her away in the recesses of my closet. I’m going to store her with Kenna’s first outfit, shoes and pacifier. I’ll keep her safe so that if she ever asks about Baby, even if it’s years down the road, I’ll be able to pull out that well-loved doll, and then remind her of the time she grew up when I wasn’t ready.

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By: Lara West

Product Review:

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here are so many nail polish options available right now that I decided it was time to break some of them down and see how they measure up against each other. Now, I already have a bit of a nail polish obsession, so I have been looking forward to this one for a while. A friend even jokes that I must spend a fortune at the salon, but the truth is- I don’t. In fact, I have to confess, I’ve only had one professional manicure and it was a gift. It’s time to see if the $18 brand of polish was really superior to the $8 and $2 brands. I also compared gel polishes that require an LED light to gel polishes that do not need to be set under an LED light, and for good measure I also tested those incredibly adorable adhesive nail wraps.

Regular Nail Polish: For this test, I applied two coats of each polish with no base coat polish first, and then re-applied each with a top coat.

The least expensive polish was also the least impressive. It provided a thin coat of color that had me constantly wanting to add another coat, (but for the integrity of the test I did not give in to temptation). The shine was more of a dull luster. The polish began cracking and chipping away after a day. There is a larger array of colors with the cheaper polish, and with a top coat, this one lasted three days.

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The middle polish was slightly thicker and the color coated better than the $2 bottle. Two coats are definitely needed for a beautiful even color. As with the cheapest polish, the shine left something to be desired.

It began chipping off on the third day.

The most expensive nail polish was noticeably thicker than the others. It had great coverage with a simple shine, and if you’re in a hurry, one coat would suffice.

It stayed on for four days. Using a top coat seems to extend the life of the polish by two to three days.

Gel Nail Polish:

For this test, I compared two types of gel polish from the drug store. One required an LED light for proper application and the other did not.

Both polishes were incredibly thick, but the polish that required a light needed two coats while the no-light polish covered very well with one coat. They both had a brilliant shine without the use of a top coat, but one was superior in its adhesion – the nolight polish. The polish that required a light came completely off in a full nail shape. (That could be a good thing…but not when it comes off in your ear when you scratch it!) The LED polish did not stay on for a full 24 hours, and the no-light polish covered strong for six days.

Nail Wraps: This test included nail wraps purchased from the drug store and from an independent consultant.

I had a difficult time getting either of these wraps to fit my nails correctly. (Practice makes perfect?) I followed the directions and made several attempts, but had a hard time trimming the wraps correctly. However, after many (many, many) attempts I finally began to find success. Unfortunately, I could feel the wraps on my nails, and that bothered me, so I had a friend who loves them wear them for this test. The wraps from the drug store stayed on and looked good for seven days and the specialty ones stayed looking good for nine days.

Recommendation:

For the most color choices you can go with the cheapest polish, but I would spring for a good top coat so you do not have to paint your nails every other day. If you paint on the run, I would go with a more expensive quick-drying polish which looks good with only one coat and dries if half the time.

For the beautiful gel polish, I’d go with the no-light needed polish.

It was shiny, covered great with a deep rich color, and stayed on significantly longer. The nail wraps both performed well. You can buy the ones at the store if you like them, or for a much larger and decorative selection you can go for the specialty wraps.

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Angel Gowns: Repurposing Wedding Dresses into Wraps of Love

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By: Meagan Church

t an age when most infants are just learning to walk, Ashley Swathwood was beginning her pageantry career that would span more than two decades. With her years of experience as a participant, coach and consultant, she recognized a need. She recalled times when she drove hours and states away to find gowns and swimsuits for her competitions, and she realized she needed to create a one-stop pageantry shop in Elkhart. Since then, Ashley Rene’s has expanded to include prom, formal and wedding wear.

As her company continued to grow, she happened upon another need. This one wasn’t for women seeking formal wear or pageantry coaching; it was for families during a deep time of hurt.

One morning, Ashley happened to be home when she saw a segment on the Today Show about something called Angel Gowns. “It was a fluke that I even saw it. I am never home then. I’m either working or with the family,” Ashley said.

“Beauty in taking something that symbolized a day of happiness and turning it into something that touches a very deep hurt.”

Through the segment, Ashley learned that a woman in Texas had begun taking wedding gowns and transforming them into gowns for babies who would not be going home from the hospital. Often, hospitals use blankets, towels, washrags or whatever they have on hand to wrap an infant during his or her final moments. Lisa Grubb, whose husband is a specialist for premature babies, wanted to do something more. In 2013, she founded Angel Gowns that provides free gowns for babies’ final photos and burial services to families around the country.

Having experienced heartache and loss for herself, Ashley wanted to do something for other families. “We were told we wouldn’t have children,” Ashley said. “When I did get pregnant, I didn’t realize or anticipate what would happen. I thought getting pregnant, not staying pregnant would be the problem.”

Ashley was on bed rest for most of the pregnancy. Even still, she delivered her daughter two-and-a-half months early. Her little one spent weeks in the NICU before coming home. She is now healthy, but during her hospitalization, “I was able to see firsthand the little ones who didn’t make it home,” Ashley said.

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With the help of seamstresses who are volunteering their time and skills, donated wedding gowns are now being turned into beautiful mementos for hurting families.

Ashley Rene’s has collected a few gowns so far, many of which have come from NICU nurses who have seen the need firsthand.

Each dress is being turned into multiple gowns, or simple coverings that can be used for tiny, miscarried babies.

They are currently accepting donations of wedding and other formal gowns that are white or ivory in color. They are also looking for local seamstresses and dry cleaners that would like to volunteer their time, skills and services to help the organization.

For Ashley, she is honored to be able to play a part in helping these families. She also sees a certain beauty in taking something that symbolized a day of happiness and turning it into something that touches a very deep hurt.

“There is a part of weddings where everything is so happy, angelic and pure,” she said. “These gowns were part of such an incredible day.” And now, the dress that covered a bride on a day she felt most loved is being repurposed to wrap a too-young, yet much-loved child during his or her final moments.

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Christmas

Party Mix Supplies: Chex Mix Bugles White Baking Chocolate Green Food Coloring Sprinkles

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Yum & Fun!

Combine Chex Mix and Bugles into a big mixing bowl Melt baking chocolate according to package instructions.

Add food coloring to chocolate and stir until combined.

Dip Bugles and circle pretzels into chocolate and place on wax paper Before the chocolate dries, put sprinkles on.

Allow to cool and combine with the rest of the mixture into a festive bowl.

Enjoy!!

You’ve heard the phrase “put your money where your mouth is”,

but have you ever considered to put your

money where your heart is?

This year, as you get ready to stack your family’s presents under the tree, consider the messages you might be sending to your children. If you spend the entire year telling your children to turn off the TV and get active, but in turn buy them a new video game system and enough games to keep them glued to the screen for an entire year- you’ve set yourself up for 365 more days of uphill battles!

While there is nothing wrong with a little indulgence during the holidays, consider mixing in one or two the following gift ideas to keep you children grounded in reality:

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 A book that you can read together as a family for self- improvement

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FAMILY movie review

Family Trivia

on Some of the Best (Holiday Films, that is!)

By: Cole Pollyea

If you avid readers of my monthly articles (or just well-watched filmgoers) watched all of the films I put on the “Top Ten Best Family Holiday Movies” last year, then you’re in luck, because this year I decided on putting together some trivia questions for the families that sat down and watched them throughout the particularly long and unruly winter of last year—or those who have seen them before. So while this isn’t newspaper-crossword difficulty, it is enough to test your memory in a way that each family member can compete. If you’re extremely well-watched, then you should be able to eliminate some answers based on your knowledge of other movies. Bottom line; you snooze you lose.

1. In A Christmas Story, what is the name of the iconic neighbors whose dogs terrorized Ralph’s family’s turkey dinner? (a) Stewarts (b) Bumpasses (c) Corleone (d) Manero 2. Finish the quote from National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation: “You couldn’t hear a dump truck driving through…” (a) a building full of C4 explosives! (b) a soundproof room! (c) a nitroglycerin plant! (d) your own bedroom!

3. In Ron Howard’s How The Grinch Stole Christmas, what is the name of the chair in which The Grinch is celebrated during the Who’s Whobilation festival? (a) The Chair of Who (b) The Chair of Cheer (c) The Chair of Care (d) The Chair of Giving 4. In Scrooged, what was the answer to the trivial pursuit question during Frank’s visit to his brother’s residence with the Ghost of Christmas Present? (a) “The Great Gatsby” (b) “The S.S. Mino” (c) “The Mayflower” (d) “The Bride Wore Black” 36

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5. What are the four different food groups for elves in the movie Elf? (a) candy corn, candy canes, cotton candy and syrup (b) candy canes, candy corn, cotton candy and soda (c) candy corn, candy, candy canes and syrup (d) there were five food groups 6. In The Family Stone, what vegetable is Everett allergic to? (a) tomatoes (b) celery (c) peas (d) mushrooms 7. In It’s A Wonderful Life, what did Goerge Bailey tell Mary Hatch he would “lasso”? (a) The Moon (b) The most beautiful horse he could find for her (c) Their future together (d) A crazed, wild bull to display his affection for her 8. In The Santa Clause, what is Scott’s explanation for why he has gained so much weight? (a) A bee sting (b) Too many holiday cookies (c) His diet pills got mixed up (d) His clothes were shrunk in the drier

9. In Home Alone, what is the name of the “forbidden movie” he stays home and watches and the name of the sequel which he watches in Home Alone 2: Lost in New York? (a) Filthy Angels; Filthier Angels (b) Angels With Guns; Angels With More Guns (c) Angels With Filthy Souls; Angels With Filthier Souls (d) None of the above 10. In Disney’s A Christmas Carol, what is the first entity Ebenezer is exposed to upon returning to his house on Christmas Eve? (a) The doormat (b) The door handle (c) The spirit in his bedroom (d) The door knocker

Find the answers on page 39.

FAMILY recipe

Ingredients: • • • • • • • • • • •

6 Cups Flour 1 Tablespoon Baking Powder 1 Tablespoon Ground Ginger 1 Teaspoon Ground Nutmeg 1 Teaspoon Ground Cinnamon 1 Cup Shortening, Melted and Cooled 1 Cup Molasses 1 Cup Brown Sugar ½ Cup Water 1 Egg 1 Teaspoon Vanilla Extract

Directions: 1. Sift together the flour, baking powder, ginger, nutmeg, cloves and cinnamon then set aside. Mix together the shortening, molasses, brown sugar, water, egg and vanilla until smooth in a separate bowl. Then, gradually stir in the dry ingredients.

2. Divide dough into three pieces, pat down to 1 1/2 inch thickness, wrap in plastic wrap and refrigerate for at least four hours.

3. Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. On a lightly floured surface, roll the dough out to 1/4 inch thickness. Cut into desired shapes with cookie cutters. Place cookies onto an ungreased cookie sheet.

4. Bake for 10 to 12 minutes in the preheated oven. When the cookies are cooled, they can be frosted with icing.

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FAMILY book reviews

Baby Sign Language

By Sarah Christensen Fu Reviewed By: Denise Stuart, Children’s Services Assistant at Mishawaka-Penn-Harris Public Library, Harris Branch

Parents have a natural desire to better understand and meet their baby’s wants and needs. Baby Sign Language by Sarah Christensen Fu is a kit which provides parents with a method to communicate with babies as early as six to nine months of age.

The kit includes a DVD, a guide book and 64 flashcards. The DVD shows an adorable family with a toddler and twin baby boys using their signing skills in real life situations. The guide book gives thorough explanations of what sign language is for babies and how to incorporate it successfully into family life. Each of the large, durable flashcards displays a picture of a commonly used word or concept on the front and a picture of the author demonstrating how to make the sign on the back.

This kit presents signs for basic objects and activities in daily life. Parents will gain a technique to communicate with their preverbal children. They are shown how to guide babies to use their own developing gross motor skills and language comprehension to express themselves. Babies learn to imitate and memorize hand gestures which symbolize things, people and events in the world around them. Child rearing becomes easier and more enjoyable. Babies thrive when given the ability to share their thoughts, feelings and desires.

There is a myth that babies who learn to sign are slower to speak than non-signing babies. The author explains how once the child’s spoken vocabulary improves, he or she will ease out of signing on their own.

Baby Sign Language is an excellent resource for parents, caregivers or any adult wishing to interact with precious little learners.

FAMILY student book reviews

Looking For Alaska

By John Green

Reviewed By: Aliyah Farhan, 8th Grade Student at Edwardsburg Middle School

Looking for Alaska definitely is what won me over. It is written by my alltime favorite author John Green. The book is full of life and there is never a dull point in the story. John Green writes with a lot of passion and gives his stories a lot of excitement. Looking for Alaska shows the great talent John Green has that can make you close the book after you’re done reading it and become a new person.

Looking for Alaska cannot be described as a typical boy-meets-girl story because it most definitely isn’t. It is more of a story that shows that love isn’t as crazy as it seems. Miles Halter, or “Pudge” as he is referred to throughout the book, is the main character. The book starts off with Miles leaving Florida to go school in Alabama. His parents threw him a going away party, and only two people came because he doesn’t have very many friends. Once he gets to the school in Alabama, Culver Creek Boarding School, his roommates introduce him to the gorgeous, mysterious and emotionally confused Alaska Young.

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The story mostly revolves around Miles’ life at Culver Creek, and his feelings for Alaska. There are also some basic parts of teenage life included into the story on some occasions such as pranks, bets and crazy parties. The best part of the book is that it doesn’t hide anything and it shows what young love is like.

I recommend John Green’s novel Looking for Alaska to other adults and young adults because it is written with almost no effort, yet so amazing. You may not cry your eyes out like you did if you read The Fault in Our Stars, but you most likely will grow attached to Miles and Alaska as they did together.

FAMILY mommy & daddy

Five Minutes

For Mom:

Sit: • Sip a cup of coffee or tea • Eat a piece of quality chocolate • Write everything in your head on one sticky note

How To Stay Calm, Cool And Collected On Your Most Challenging Days By: Christina Katz

• Read a meditation or poem a day • Stare out the window at nature

Move: • Stand in the middle of the kitchen and twist, bend and shake

• Go to your room and hit the bed with a pillow ten times

• Go outside and stretch your legs a bit

• Do ten quick sit-ups and ten push-ups

• Lie down on a carpet and try some spontaneous yoga poses

Mentally escape: • Research the answer to a nagging question on the Internet • Pin a few photos that reflect your interests on Pinterest

• Connect with three friends on Facebook • Upload photos you've taken lately to Instagram • Climb in bed, curl up, and rest for five minutes

Chill:

It's not always easy being a mom. But even a mom with an extremely hectic schedule can find a few minutes for herself and learn the habit of "taking five" every chance she gets.

• Read three articles at your • Peruse your favorite favorite magazine website section in an online newspaper • Watch some video clips

All you need is five minutes of doing what you want to do to get from the end of your reactive rope to a calm, centered place. You deserve this and a whole lot more, mom. So don't neglect yourself, even as you strive to care for those you love.

• Go to the Internet Movie Database and watch new movie trailer or two

For days where everything seems to go off-course and nothing seems to go the way you had hoped, five minutes of downtime is not enough, but it's somewhere to start. And certainly every mom deserves much more than five minutes to herself each day. But, five minutes may be the most time a busy mom can grab in the next few hours. According to a study in the UK, over fifty percent of moms said they could go weeks without a single minute of time to themselves.

So, if your day has gone off the tracks-again-and you need to get your day back on track, grab the next five minutes you can and bogart them all for yourself. Here's a list of ways to take five when you need it most. Get in the habit of giving yourself little breaks throughout the day and you will reclaim your calm, cool and collected self. And isn't this the type of parent we all long to be?

Family Trivia Answers

at your favorite TV show website

• Skim blog posts by people you admire that were delivered to your e-mail

Center yourself: • Pull all the shades, dim the lights, and turn on soothing music • Arrange and rearrange flowers in vases throughout your home

• Read the long version of your monthly horoscope • Draw tarot cards and think about the message • Meditate or pray

Create: • Collage

• Scrapbook

• Knit

• Find recipes

• Doodle

By: Cole Pollyea

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