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Staged Crash Drives Home Dangers Of Drinking

BARNEGAT – The piercing wails of sirens echoed through the air on Monday, May 15, as police cars and emergency vehicles raced toward Barnegat High School.

The scene outside the high school was shockingly gruesome in the aftermath of a head-on collision. One of the drivers stood outside his car; his face twisted in horror as he gazed upon the lifeless body of his friend who had been hurled through the shattered windshield.

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Two teenage girls remained trapped within the wreckage of the other vehicle, one in full panic mode. Despite the passenger’s visible signs of breathing, she remained unresponsive, intensifying the already harrowing scene that unfolded before the eyes of onlookers.

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Seated on outdoor bleachers, the Class of 2023 watched intently as

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Local Boy’s Journey With Rare Epilepsy Offers Hope To Others

Kristy and Jeremy Salkewicz were on top of the world when they brought their fi rstborn home from the hospital eight years ago. The couple instantly fell in love with James and were overjoyed and relieved to see he appeared to be a big healthy baby.

Despite their growing adoration for their son, Kristy and Jeremy acknowledge that their feeling of ease was brief. Within three weeks of bringing James home, the fi rst-time parents began to worry that something just wasn’t right.

“Everything was perfect,” recalled Kristy. “And I suddenly noticed that James’ lips were a slight greyish color. I

almost felt it was something only a new mother would notice.”

Kristy shared her observations with a nurse she knew, who advised her to speak to the pediatrician about them. The nurse suggested James might be experiencing sleep apnea, which is generally more common in premature babies.

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Lacey Debates Upgrading Town Hall, Building New

LACEY – Township officials are awaiting

a report to see whether it would be better to upgrade current township buildings or construct a new municipal complex. Meanwhile, the proceeds from the sale of specific township assets could be utilized to help fi nance either project.

Lacey’s current municipal building was built in 1969, when the population totaled just 4,600 residents. The building is now dwarfed as far as its capacity. As of the 2020 census, Lacey has a population of 28,573, making it the 85th largest municipality in the state. Due to the town’s growth, officials said the current building is no longer sufficient to meet the community’s needs.

The police station is also bursting at the seams when it comes to space, as it was originally

Local WWII Hero Honored In Biography

hero was the subject of a question-and-answer session with author Steven M. Gillon at the

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built to accommodate eight officers. The Lacey Township Police Department headquarters currently serves as a home base for over sixty employees.

Johnson Controls, a Minnesota-based corporation, has been tasked with studying the available options. Township Administrator Veronica Laureigh expects Johnson Controls to issue a report by the end of the month for the governing body’s review. The information will ultimately be made public.

“We are going to have what it will cost to renovate this building and that building,” said Mayor Tim McDonald said at

the most recent township meeting that the report will estimate costs to renovate the buildings versus constructing a new municipal complex that would combine town hall, the police station, and an indoor recreation center. If the latter option is chosen, Lacey’s government operations would be situated in a new location.

Any proposed construction would fall under a state program called Public Private Partnership (P3), which would allow Lacey to enter into agreement with a private organization for various aspects of the project. The state would have the final say in determining if Lacey can financially afford development plans within the confines of its own budget.

Johnson Controls would be involved in financing the proposed construction and would have access to different avenues to capital than the government entity.

“I cannot bond for this project,” shared Laureigh. “A P3 project doesn’t allow me to bond for the money because bonding for the money is a useful life of a new item that you’re buying – not something that we already have.”

Part of the municipality’s plan is to sell property to fund a downpayment for the project. This includes the former community center, priced initially at $2.9 million and now reduced to $1.5 million due to a lack of bids. The price drop has already attracted three bidders, two of which are restaurant franchise owners.

Any proceeds from that sale would first go towards paying off the $700,000 owed

on the Knights of Columbus building, which currently serves as the community center.

Additionally, several 20 x 100 lots are available for purchase, and Fish and Wildlife may buy 72 acres as preserved land. Finally, if the township decides to proceed with a new municipal complex, the current town hall property will also be put up for sale.

Meanwhile, not everyone seems to be on board with the concept of a new construction. Residents stormed the November 2022 governing body’s meeting to express their dismay and spoke out against the consideration of a new municipal complex. While the most recent committee meeting was sparsely attended, two individuals reiterated their opposition to the proposal.

An individual who identified himself as both a public advocate and tax advocate in Lacey for the past 13 years claimed there was a real disconnect between those in power and the people they represent. Richard Bidnick said he joined many other residents who saw no reason the existing structures could not be renovated. Bidnick has also accused some governing body members of “scheming away tax dollars for their own pie-inthe-sky ideas.”

To alleviate the need for more space in Town Hall, Bidnick suggested following the growing trend of allowing employees to work from home. Officials dismissed the recommendation because much of the township work involves confidential

information and interaction with the public.

Bidnick urged officials to consider the financial burdens on taxpayers and seriously evaluate the project’s necessity and cost.

Another resident, Steve Bahrle, said he only recently began attending Township Committee meetings and was upset that other residents did not see the need to become active participants. Bahrle expressed his disappointment that local officials would make the determination to build a new municipal complex instead of having the decision made by voters through a public referendum.

During his time at the microphone, Bahrle polled local officials to secure an agreement requiring a referendum on township expenditures in excess of $1 million.

“(This) would prohibit the Township Committee from unilaterally approving the cost of current and future capital expenditures,” said Bahrle, “Exceeding the cost of $1 million.”

The officials responded negatively to Bahrle’s informal survey, noting that although $1 million may seem like a large sum for individual households, it is not significant when managing the town.

As it stands now, township officials stated they plan to review the report from Johnson Controls. The decision-making process won’t happen overnight, as a number of things need to be in place before the governing body votes on how to proceed.

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What followed was an incredibly alarming event. Upon checking on James after putting him to bed, Kristy was terrified by what she saw. No longer was it just a matter of her baby boy’s lips being slightly discolored. Instead, Kristy now observed with horror that James’ entire head had turned grey.

Kristy had already begun researching infant apnea based on her discussions with her nurse friend. She remembered what she had learned about assisting a baby in recovering from an apneic episode and put her knowledge into action.

“I was blowing on his face and tapping on his feet,” Kristy said. “He wouldn’t come out of it; he was just frozen.”

All of a sudden, James began to cry, and Kristy hugged him close to her body. James wanted no part of nursing and fell back to sleep for the entire night.

Kristy recounted the incident to her nurse friend, who emphasized the importance of seeking prompt medical attention for James. The nurse warned Kristy that the situation could worsen to the point where it might be difficult to intervene, leaving James in a precarious position.

As both parents attempted to come to grips with the fact that something could be wrong with James, they initially downplayed their initial fears. Jeremy and Kristy wanted to believe the issue was nothing more than a case of gas interfering with their newborn’s sleep. The couple was confident that everything would be fi ne.

Nevertheless, doctors admitted James to the hospital for two days and ran a battery of tests. Finally, they sent James home with an apnea monitor to capture his sleep patterns. Unfortunately, the answers didn’t start to make sense until after Kristy was able to video James during one of the episodes.

“He was three months old, and it was just before Christmas,” recalled Kristy. “He was asleep in his stroller like a new baby and suddenly woke up.”

James appeared to be mouthing something as he looked to the side, almost as if he was trying to communicate. Then, out of nowhere, James began crying from a deep sleep, and Kristy attempted to soothe him. Although she couldn’t pinpoint the exact problem, Kristy sensed something was off, as James seemed unusually lethargic.

Once concerned that they might be overreacting, Jeremy and Kristy wanted answers. A call to the pediatrician landed them in Jersey Shore Medical Center’s emergency room. A neurologist called for a consultation, watched the video, and determined that James had had a seizure.

James began his first course of anti-seizure medication that worked for a few days. Jeremy and Kristy became so hopeful –until the seizures broke through. Moving on to the next anti-seizure drug required weaning from the fi rst, as many of these medicines are addictive, and James could not be abruptly taken off them. Each medication came with its side effects, from potential heart damage to peripheral vision loss. Some drugs could only be obtained from off-label pharmacies. None-

theless, both parents felt desperate – they were willing to try anything.

“I couldn’t even count the number of ‘episodes’ as we called them back then,” Kristy said. “There were times there were over 100 in one day.”

“They needed to give him intravenous drugs to knock him out,” added Kristy. “To kind of calm his brain down.”

Medical consultants at the Children’s Hospital of Pennsylvania were equally puzzled why none of the medications would work. So when James was six months old, doctors suggested genetic testing to see what they could learn.

The tests revealed that James’ seizures were not caused by a genetic condition he inherited from his parents. However, James did have a form of epilepsy caused by a spontaneous gene mutation.

KCNT1 epilepsy is a rare and severe form of epilepsy that can cause developmental delays and other health problems. Its resistance to anti-seizure drugs is one of the key characteristics of the disease. The diagnosis fi nally explained why none of the medications given to James could halt his seizures.

“After the doctors determined the diagnosis, they knew there was an old medication that would help James,” Kristy shared. “He was the second one to try it, and the seizures started to dissipate.”

Kristy said she preferred not to release the name of the medication and added that the drug could have a potential adverse side effect on the heart.

Researchers believe that KCNT1 mutations caused James to experience malignant mi-

grating partial seizures of infancy. James began showing evidence that he was developmentally delayed as a result at a young age. For example, he did not reach for toys or meet typical milestones as he grew older.

At 8 years old, James is non-verbal and unable to walk. A school bus takes him to the Lehmann School in Lakewood, where he has both therapies and learns at a slower pace.

“They work on seeing if he can make eye contact in a field of two,” said Kristy, “And maybe look for a letter or listen to songs. He’s got aides who just help him along. The school also gives James some socialization.”

When he’s around his family, there’s no doubt that James is particularly happy. He has an infectious giggle, almost instantly triggered when his little brother makes silly noises.

Jackson, age 6, took his mom by surprise when he opened up about James. Usually somewhat reserved, Jackson admitted he liked pushing his brother’s stroller and enjoyed pulling pranks on the nurses who sometimes visit.

“He takes James in stride,” Kristy shared. “Jackson is really the sweetest thing to him, and I can tell James really likes it when he’s with his brother.”

The Salkewicz family has two dogs, a black lab named Indy and a yellow lab named Duck, who eagerly await James’ return home from school so they can give him kisses. However, James is not fond of the dogs licking his face after he eats and (Journey - See Page 6)

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what seemed to be a genuine tragedy played out before them. The scene was not real, however. Instead, the entire set-up was part of Project Crash, a meticulously planned event specifically designed to educate students about the perils of driving under the influence.

The presence of actual first responders enhanced the authenticity of the crash scene and its aftermath. As a result, while four high school seniors portrayed the accident victims, the remaining individuals did not need a script to perform their regular jobs.

Barnegat Police arrived first at the scene, with the Barnegat First Aid Squad and Barnegat Fire Department following suit. In addition, Hackensack Meridian Health dispatched a helicopter to the high school field to facilitate the medical transportation of one of the feigned injury victims.

Ensuring prompt emergency medical aid was the topmost concern at the crash site. The first officer to arrive evaluated the scene and shared his findings. Next, first aid squad members did their assessments and preliminary treatment. Firefighters promptly extracted the two girls who could not free themselves from the car. One of them was swiftly prepared for transport to the hospital via an ambulance. Meanwhile, the severity of the situation amplified as the unresponsive girl suffered cardiac arrest and needed resuscitation. The Hackensack Meridian team carefully placed her on a stretcher and loaded the victim into the helicopter.

With an eerie lifelike feel to the entire scenario, the audience remained silent. Event organizers revealed that the student actors, Skylar Dasti, Emily Dasti, Aiden Ortiz, and Joseph Sanchez, had only practiced their roles a handful of times. Nevertheless, their performance had a sobering effect in delivering the message to make responsible choices.

The driver of the initial vehicle remained uninjured, and the officer interrogated him regarding the events leading up to the collision. Additionally, the policeman detected the scent of alcohol on the driver’s breath and inquired about the quantity consumed.

“People were hurt,” said the officer. “I need to know how much you had to drink.”

While saying drinking two beers didn’t seem like a big deal, it was enough to warrant a sobriety test. A hush continued throughout the audience as students watched what would lead to another consequence of driving under the influence.

“You are being placed under arrest,” the officer stated. “For suspicion of driving while intoxicated.”

The totality of the offenses was even more shattering, as the male juvenile was charged with DWI, vehicular manslaughter, and assault by auto. Bad choices led to all-around horrific consequences.

Barnegat Police Officers Michael Moore and Julie Palasits are assigned to the local law enforcement agency’s traffic division. Inspired by the successful implementation of Project Crash by the Stafford Police Department, they began working with the local school district to introduce the same

initiative to Barnegat.

Moore said they secured a template from Stafford as a starting point and then tweaked it. The event was quickly planned, with Barnegat deciding to exclude one group Stafford included as part of their mock crash scene.

“Stafford actually has a funeral home come out and take out the dead body,” Palasits explained. “We figured we’d wait and see if we want to do that another year.”

Barnegat High School Vice Principal Frank Pannullo was already familiar with Project Crash and recognized it as an excellent means of conversing with students about making responsible decisions. With the senior prom coming up soon, the timing seemed right.

During prom season, many teenagers attend parties, social gatherings, and events involving driving, increasing the risk of accidents due to impaired or distracted driving. In introducing the program to the senior class, Principal Pat Magee made something clear.

“The purpose of this event is to educate all of us of the dangers of distracted or impaired driving,” said Magee. “Not just in prom season, but in everyday life.”

Joseph Solda, who works as the chief flight nurse for Hackensack Meridian Health, was an invaluable resource for Barnegat’s first Project Crash. Solda, in his 39th year of nursing, said he believed the program could make kids think twice about drinking and driving. Solda has personally participated in several Project Crash events.

“At the end, we hit home and bring the student actors and actresses out,” said Solda. “They start answering questions. That’s more powerful than anything I can ever do.”

Authorities are fully aware that alcohol does not stand alone as the sole substance capable of impairing a driver who operates a vehicle. Cannabis and prescription drugs have also been identified as potential risks in this regard, as pointed out by a speaker from MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving).

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Kristy said daily prayer is a critical part of her life and remembers asking God to stop the seizures. Watching her son’s little body become tired was difficult as the episodes came one after the other.

“They still kept coming,” said Kristy. “It was so frustrating.”

A chance encounter with a random stranger changed Kristy’s way of thinking. A store clerk said his grandfather told him that no matter how bad you think you have it, somebody else always has it worse.

Kristy swears the young man was put on her path to deliver a message, one that didn’t make sense at the time. Her prayers changed to expressing gratitude for the things she could. For example, James can breathe on his own, and he can eat – both things everyone takes for granted.

“There are only about 200 children known to have KCNT1 epilepsy,” said Kristy.

Sticker Shock

The week before Project Crash, members of Barnegat High School’s DART Club met up with the Communities That Cares group to make a powerful statement against underaged drinking.

Students involved in DART Club, short for “Drinking Awareness and Responsibility for Teens,” visited three liquor stores in Barnegat with hopes of discouraging underage drinking through a simple yet impactful method.

Armed with specially designed stickers featuring eye-catching warning messages, students took action by placing reminders on alcohol selections that tend to attract underage drinkers. The intention was to raise awareness among both buyers and sellers, emphasizing the law against purchasing or selling alcohol to individuals under the age of 21.

One of the highlights of stopping in liquor stores came when a store clerk made a startling revelation about the number of people trying to purchase alcohol with fake identification cards. As a result, the store has accumulated a substantial stack of confiscated cards, which they diligently retain to deter repeat attempts by prospective customers.

Barnegat Police Lt. Jeff Ryan is an active member of the Communities That Cares coalition, which focuses on a proven prevention system against substance abuse and works to make a difference. Ryan emphasized his concerns about underage drinking.

“I cannot stress enough the importance for parents to make it clear to their children that underage drinking is unacceptable,” said Ryan. “It is not just about drinking and driving; there’s way more to it.”

“Children who begin drinking at the age of 15 have a significantly greater chance of developing an alcohol addiction than those who wait until they are 21,” Ryan continued. “Kids are a greater risk of unplanned pregnancy, increased suicide rates, as well as other accidental deaths.”

Ryan implored parents to act as parents, rather than their children’s friends.

“There’s more and more getting diagnosed because genetic testing is key. They couldn’t find out what it was without it, and the testing is helping to target treatment.”

The KCNT1 Epilepsy Foundation supports parents who may feel alone in finding resources. According to Kristy, the Foundation is also trying to raise awareness and donations for drug research and development.

“I am doing as much as I can to participate in all the surveys they (the Foundation) provide,” Kristy shared. “They’ve been looking for blood samples, so we’re working on getting blood to them from James.”

James also participated in a year-long natural history study, which required Kristy to document seizure activity and sleep. The family has also participated in interviews with a doctor and a psychologist and donated James’ saliva in conjunction with a study in Chicago.

“I felt like I was not helping enough at first because I was so used to doing this on my own,” said Kristy. “Now there are these people who want to get the word out – and we’re not the only ones anymore.”

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My Mental Health Is Bad, How About Yours?

Mental health is probably the most important kind of health care. It trickles down to everything else. If you are depressed, for example, you won’t want to take care of the rest of your body. It all starts at the top. I suffer from anxiety and depression. I have for decades but only did something about it a few years ago.

I wish I had taken it seriously when it started in high school. I couldn’t always focus, and my moods went from super happy to super sad. I didn’t really think anything of it because I just described a basic teenager.

By the time I got to Montclair State University, I was telling my teachers that I might have to leave early because I can’t sit through classes. “It’s not

you, it’s me,” I said. Remember that Far Side cartoon where the kid asks if he can be excused because his brain was full? That was me. After about a half an hour, I couldn’t handle any more stimuli. I was pressing my fi ngernails into my arm to try to keep my mind from wandering.

You would think that would be a warning sign, but no... I thought I was too tough for that. I had created a bunch of crutches to get by instead of dealing with the problem in my head head-on.

About 5 years ago, I fi nally gave in and started taking a happy pill every day. I didn’t even have to go to a psychiatrist – my own general practitioner was able to prescribe.

The fi rst pill took the edge off, but didn’t solve the problem. So, we upped the

dosage. That was ok but it didn’t get the job done. So, we tried a different med. That pill worked even better but I still had some freak-outs for no reason. Finally, the pill I’m on now is pretty good. There are still bad days but I think I’m mostly in the groove with it. I share these trials and errors because I want you to know that simply taking a pill isn’t going to solve everything. You’re still going to have to adjust it, and put the work in. But it’s work worth doing.

Now that I’m on the mend, I can’t believe how long I let myself suffer. I could have been happier for 25 years. A quarter century of “just getting by.” I’m kicking myself now. Why did I wait?

I’ve never been at the point where I was going to hurt myself or others

so, to me, I didn’t think I really needed help. I didn’t realize that all this time I really was hurting myself. And I could have been a better husband and friend during those years if I was able to crawl out of my cave long enough to do so. And worst of all, having a toddler while dealing with extreme mood swings was bad. Real bad.

There’s a connotation to being “crazy,” obviously. No one wants to be called that – or to think of yourself as that. But we’re all a little nuts, honestly. I’ve never been to a therapist. I check in at the GP every so often, fill out a questionnaire, and I’m done. What I’ve said to people is “My life is great, but my brain doesn’t let me enjoy it.”

Our brains are full of

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chemicals and electrical impulses. Sometimes, your wiring will be off. That’s nothing to be ashamed of. If you need a cup of coffee to get your head on straight in the morning, why not also take meds?

What’s the difference between taking a pill for a migraine and taking a pill for depression? They both make your head pain go away.

Part of the problem was that I’ve always been so independent that I would never ask for help. I kept thinking “I can handle this. I can fix this.” And I would ignore the evidence that I couldn’t.

I never played a sport in my life, how could I be macho? It turns out that it’s ingrained in us. Men especially are told never to ask for help. Americans got their start by literally

fighting for independence. That self-sufficiency is in our DNA. Add to it that Jersey strength and damn, we will fight like crazy and never back down. Never get help. Never admit weakness.

The strongest thing you can do is admit a weakness. It takes amazing bravery to swallow your pride and ask for help.

May is Mental Health Month, where caregivers are trying to eliminate the stigma that keeps people from getting the help they need. So, if I can admit my mental health issues to our tens of thousands of readers, I encourage you to tell the people you love and to tell your doctor. Don’t wait for 25 years like I did.

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than ever. The future of our coastline faces an increased risk of flooding, diminishing marine life, and extreme weather. Many argue that we aren’t prepared to take on clean energy, and that we need more time to prepare for such an immense change in New Jersey. I would argue that we aren’t prepared for the consequences of our inaction. We cannot afford to sit idly by and wait for climate change to take our shores. According to the Barnegat Bay Partnership, New Jersey is “experiencing one of the highest rates of sea-level rise in the US” (Climate Change Impacts on the Barnegat Bay, 2020). Rising sea levels and warmer waters can prove disastrous for our local ecosystems, and we are not prepared for the damage. With Ocean Wind 1, we are fortunate enough to be at the forefront of the fight for our environment.

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My problems as a homeowner continue at Paramount Escapes Ocean Breeze in Barnegat. As one of the 31 homeowners who experienced a significant delay in the construction of my new home due to Paramount’s failure to comply with Affordable Housing regulations, I thought my problems with Paramount were over. Unfortunately, this is not the case.

Fifteen months after I had selected the lot and model home I wanted, I discovered that my house would have both front steps and steps into the garage. None of the model homes have these steps, and it was too late for me to do anything to change it.

Fast forward another seven months to closing. I discovered that the cement

entryway steps were uneven in height, narrow in width and lacked handrails. I also learned that the garage steps extended so far into the garage that I could not park my car on that side. My two-car garage is in reality a one-car garage, unless I decide to buy a Mini Cooper.

Paramount flatly refused to work out a compromise with me on the front steps. All they offered to do was bring the steps up to code by making the risers of equal height. It’s no surprise that I didn’t accept Paramount’s offer. There is no point in ripping out the steps a second time in order to achieve a safer result with a wider footprint and handrails.

I now regret that I didn’t get my deposit back from Paramount last summer and walk away when I had the chance to do so.

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WASHINGTON, D.C. – U.S. Senator Bob Menendez (D-N.J.) and several of his colleagues in the Senate reintroduced the Homes for Every Local Protector Educator and Responder (HELPER) Act to create a first-time homebuyer loan program under the Federal Housing Administration (FHA) for teachers and first responders who have served at least four years in their respective role.

“First responders and teachers work day in and day out to make a difference in the lives of New Jerseyans and Americans all

across the country. Yet, all too often, many struggle to achieve their dreams of becoming homeowners due to the high cost of buying a home,” said Sen. Menendez. “As members of Congress, we have a responsibility to be there for our public sector workers and that’s why I’m proud to join my colleagues in supporting this bipartisan bill to make it easier for our police officers, fi refighters, and teachers to afford buying a home in or near the communities they serve.”

The HELPER Act would:

• Create a new home loan assistance program administered by the FHA for law enforcement officers, fi refighters, Emergency Medical Technicians (EMTs), paramedics, and pre-K-12 teachers who have served for

at least four years in their respective roles and are fi rst-time home buyers.

• Eliminate a mortgage down payment requirement.

• Eliminate a monthly mortgage insurance premium requirement.

• Include an upfront mortgage insurance premium to help fund the program.

• Allow for a one-time use of the program by eligible individuals.

Joining Sen. Menendez in cosponsoring this legislation are Sens. Marco Rubio (R-Fla.), Jon Ossoff (D-Ga.), Sherrod Brown (D-Ohio), Richard Blumenthal (D-Conn.), Raphael Warnock (D-Ga.), and Catherine Cortez Masto (D-Nev.). U.S. Representatives Bonnie Watson Coleman (D-N.J.) and John Rutherford (R-Fla.) reintroduced companion legislation in the House of Representatives.

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New Law Responds To Att acks Against Doctors, Nurses

TRENTON – In response to increased attacks on health care workers in recent years, Governor Phil Murphy signed the ‘Health Care Heroes Violence Prevention Act’ to make it a criminal offense to intentionally threaten health care professionals or volunteers in an effort to

intimidate them or interfere with their work. The act also establishes additional penalties against individuals who assault health care workers or volunteers.

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this act allows them to be sentenced to an anger management course of up to 12 months and community service of up to 30 days.

“If there’s one thing the COVID-19 pandemic made abundantly clear, it is the essential role health care workers play in our society,” said Governor Murphy. “Growing threats and attacks against these courageous heroes are unacceptable. We owe health care workers, including volunteers and employees in health care settings, our gratitude and respect. This law will provide greater protections for health care workers in our state to help deter both physical and verbal acts of violence against these professionals.”

“Protecting health care workers is essential to maintaining a strong and viable workforce and ensuring public health,” said Health Commissioner Judith Persichilli. “Their tireless commitment to improving health care delivery and saving lives should be without the additional worry of their physical and mental well-being.”

The act applies to health care professionals, as well as any volunteer or employee of a health care professional or health care facility, while in the course of performing their official duties. Health care facilities and certain physicians will be required to display a written notice to notify the public that it is a crime to assault health care workers and volunteers, and is subject to a fine, imprisonment, or both.

Sponsors of the bill include Senator Troy Singleton and Assembly Majority Leader Louis Greenwald, as well as Senator Fred Madden and Assembly members Shavonda Sumter, Sadaf Jaffer, Lisa Swain, and Daniel Benson.

“Over the last three years, our nurses, doctors and health care professionals were on the frontline of the COVID pandemic – often putting their own health at risk,” said Senator Singleton. “Sadly, this figurative battlefield turned literal, with people physically assaulting these essential workers. This is simply unacceptable. This

law will send a clear message that our health care workers must be treated with the respect, decency and civility they deserve.”

“We could not have gone through the past several years without the dedication of our frontline healthcare workers. They are truly heroes in this pandemic. Unfortunately, these frontline healthcare heroes have reported a dramatic increase in violent acts since 2020,” said Assembly Majority Leader Greenwald. “These repeated acts of violence against our health care heroes are simply unacceptable. This law will strengthen protections for these frontline workers by enhancing penalties and awareness about violence in the workplace.”

“The law provides important new protections for health care workers. These healthcare workers provide critical services for their patients,” said Cathleen Bennett, President & CEO of the New Jersey Hospital Association. “Unfortunately, instead of showing appreciation and patience to healthcare workers, there has been an increase in workers being treated poorly. When that leads to violence, we must act to protect healthcare workers. With the enactment of this measure, Gov. Murphy, Senator Singleton and Majority Leader Greenwald send a strong message that the tireless efforts of healthcare workers are appreciated and valued.”

“Health care workers are five times more likely to be assaulted than any other workforce, adding to the many reasons healthcare workers are migrating out of the profession,” said Debbie White, HPAE President. “We applaud the Legislature and the Governor’s office for the passing of this bill into law – the Health Care Heroes Violence Prevention Act. It’s a step forward in taking reasonable measures to minimize our risks. It’s time to treat workplace violence in healthcare settings with the seriousness this crisis warrants. If our hospitals and nursing homes are unsafe for workers, they are unsafe for our patients too.”

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Lacey Garden Club Maintains Memorial To Officer Trainor

LACEY – The Lacey Township Garden Club has maintained the memorial to Officer William Trainor on Lacey Road in Forked River for many years. Officer Trainor died 33 years ago on May 9 as a result of injuries suffered when he was hit by a car while jogging on West Lacey Road. The site of the accident is where the memorial is located.

On May 5, Garden Club members Margaret Gaskill, Judy Schermerhorn, and Susan Labor were in attendance to start this year’s maintenance. The Garden Club appreciates the work done by Township employee Dennis who delivered the mulch. Garden Club members volunteer to help keep the plants watered and weeded until October.

Democratic Coalition Hosts Save Barnegat Bay Film DRIFT

BARNEGAT – The Democratic Coalition of Ocean County, an organization dedicated to the election of Democrats in Ocean County, is sponsoring a screening of Save Barnegat Bay’s documentary film, DRIFT on May 21 at 2 p.m. at the Barnegat Community/Recreation Center, 900 West Bay Avenue (behind Town Hall). Light refreshments will be served. Save Barnegat Bay’s Executive Director, Britta Forsberg, will introduce the film and entertain questions afterwards. The event is free and all are invited. Donations to Save Barnegat Bay will be welcomed.

In celebrating their 50th Anniversary and their mission of preserving Barnegat Bay, the non-profit and non-partisan organization, Save Barnegat Bay, co-produced a documentary film called DRIFT. It tells the

story of Barnegat Bay through the voices and eyes of people who cherish the Bay as a natural, recreational, and economic resource for the local community and all of New Jersey. The film allows the viewer to DRIFT through 50 years of complex issues through a series of short vignettes, using a variety of perspectives, viewpoints, and experiences. It carries you along the 42 miles that make up NJ’s largest body of water, the Barnegat Bay. Discover the natural beauty, complicated environmental issues, and formidable people striving to keep this natural wonder healthy for future generations.

DCOC invites the public to attend this film screening on the 21st of May. It promises to be an exciting and informative event. Call 212-249-6292 for further information.

Women’s Club Of The Forked River Tuna Club Bunco Party

FORKED RIVER – The Women’s Club of the Forked River Tuna Club is hosting a Bunco Party on May 21. Doors open at 12 p.m., play begins at 1 p.m. Cost is $10 per person, includes a sandwich, chips, dessert,

water and coffee. Basket Raffles and 50/50 will be available. All profit goes to Mt. Zion, transitional housing for veterans, in Forked River. Contact avongirl101@comcast.net for tickets.

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WARETOWN – Old and new friends and colleagues gathered for the 26th Annual Barnegat Bay Environmental Educators Roundtable on April 19 at the Lighthouse Center for Natural Resource Education.

Over 100 people were in attendance at this year’s professional development event. The Open House featured almost two dozen local environmental organizations exhibiting their resources and services to educators. A light dinner was enjoyed by all. Teachers and educators engaged in a variety of workshops and field trips that reflected our theme: Data: Calculating the Importance of Nature.

The Keynotes Speaker, Christine Girtain, NJEA’s 2022-23 Teacher of the Year provided an interactive and inspirational keynote, highlighting the importance of data collection and analysis in the classroom.

Visit OCSCD’s Barnegat Bay Environmental Educators Roundtable webpage where they will continue to add workshop presentations, lesson plans and resources for you to download. They hope you will join at next year’s 27th Annual Barnegat Bay Environmental Educators Roundtable. Keep an eye on the website for the “Save-the-Date.”

Learn ‘Hidden Dangers’ Of Special Needs Individuals: POAC Program

LITTLE EGG HARBOR – Families, guardians, parents, and professionals who interact with children and adults with autism, developmental challenges, and special needs can discover effective safety steps at the Ocean County Library Little Egg Harbor Branch, 5 p.m. June 13.

Brick Township-based POAC’s “Hidden Dangers” program will offer potentially-lifesaving information for a wide range of special needs and independence levels, including:

• Wandering – how to address it, and use of high-tech tracking devices

• Home and classroom modifications

• Emergency and disaster preparedness and fire safety practices

• Personal safety regarding sexuality, the Internet, and bullying

• Behavioral interventions such as social stories, visual cues, activity schedules

• School and transportation matters

• Ongoing support and assistance resources

“Hidden Dangers” is supported in full by funds provided by the Institute of Museum and Library Services, administered by the New Jersey State Library (NJSL) under Award Number LS-252474-OLS-22.

The New Jersey State Library, an affiliate of Thomas Edison State University (TESU), connects people with information and resources through its service to libraries, government, TESU students and staff, and New Jersey residents.

NJSL provides support for public, school, academic, and special libraries, including key areas of continuing need such as literacy, business outreach, workforce development, disaster preparedness and technology. For more information, visit njstatelib.org Register at theoceancountylibrary.org/ events to attend this free program. The Little Egg Harbor Branch is located at 290 Mathistown Road. For more details, call 609-294-1197.

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STAFFORD – Mayor Myhre and Township Council would like to thank the Department of Public Works and Southern Regional High School for coordinating a tour of the Department

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Southern Basketball Summer Camps 2023

STAFFORD – We are excited to host our 15th annual Southern Basketball Summer Camps on the campus of Southern Regional for boys & girls grades PreK to 9th. Experienced and knowledgeable coaches, along with appropriately sized basketballs and baskets provide each age level with a fun, instructional, competitive camp experience.

Typical Camp Day - fundamentals - dribbling, passing, pivots/starts/stops, defense/ rebounding shooting & fi nishing (lay-ups)

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Small Sided Games - 1v1, 2v2, 3v3, 4V4; Competitions & Games; 5 V 5 League Games.

June Session: June 26 to June 29 (All grades are as of September 2023)

Prek-Kindergarten, 9/10 gym, 10 to 10:45 a.m., $80

1st-2nd Grades, 9/10 gym, 11 a.m. to 12 p.m., $100

3rd-4th Grades, 9/10 gym, 12:30 to 4

Students from Southern Regional High School enjoyed a tour of the 320 Haywood Road Facility and demonstrations of our various machines and vehicles. p.m., $180

5 th-6th Grades, 11/12 gym, 12:30 to 4 p.m., $180

7th, 8th, 9th Grades, 7/8 gym, 12:30 to 4 p.m., $180

July Session: July 24 to July 27 (All grades are as of September 2023)

Prek-Kindergarten, 9/10 gym, 10 to 10:45 a.m., $80

1st-2nd Grades, 9/10 gym, 11 a.m. to 12 p.m., $100

3rd-4th Grades, 9/10 gym, 12:30 to 4 p.m., $180

5th-6th Grades, 11/12 gym, 12:30 to 4 p.m., $180

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LACEY – The Associated Humane Society shelter at the Popcorn Park Zoo has pets available for adoption.

Angus is a big boy with a soft, sweet, gentle personality. What a lover-boy he is! Angus may appear to be a little shy but you’ll never hear a hiss out of this big softy! He’s not shy at all, he just enjoys snuggling up in a blanket or pillow, and when you pet him, he acts as if he’d enjoy nothing more than to have you pet him all day, as long as you don’t mind if he goes back to napping. Angus is only about a year old, and he’s mellow and mushy, and he’s an all-around great guy. He came from a home of many cats, so he’s pretty easy-going with other cats, and he absolutely loves people that are kind to him. He’s going to make the best lap-cat ever if you give him a chance!

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MANAHAWKIN – Author Jim Stempel will speak about his newest book “The Enemy Harassed, Washington’s New Jersey Campaign of 1777.”

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Fired Up Car Show

STAFFORD – Fired Up Car Show sponsored by Stafford Township Volunteer Fire Company #1 and Ladies Auxiliary, will be on August 19 from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m. at the Stafford Township Fire House, 133 Stafford Avenue, Manahawkin. Rain or shine. At 2 p.m., trophies presented

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Disney Sing-Along

LACEY – Come spend the week singing all of your favorite Disney songs. There will also be Disney games, trivia and dancing that will add to the fun. Taught by a Lacey resident and music teacher of 32 years, Shelly Minucci, at Lacey Recreation Classroom.

Fee is $110. Week 1: July 10 to 14; Week 2: August 7 to 11.

Ages: Grades 1 to 3 from 3 to 4 p.m.

Ages: Grades 4 to 6 from 4:30 to 5:30 p.m. To register visit: parksrec.egov.basgov. com/laceynj.

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George P. Vanderveer American Legion Post 129. Gillon, a history professor at the University of Oklahoma, entertained those in attendance and provided insight regarding his latest book, “Len Lomell: D-Day Hero.”

In addition to Lomell’s wife, Renee, many of those in attendance had known Lomell personally. So, in addition to the information imparted by the author, numerous friends and acquaintances of the local hero took the opportunity to share their recollections at the well-attended event. Lomell had been a member of American Legion Post 129 and had run his law practice in Toms River, as well. Lomell was drafted into the U.S. Army in

1942, and had become an Army Ranger. As part of his involvement in WWII, Lomell’s squad was tasked with taking the German stronghold at Point du Hoc as part of the D-Day invasion. He is credited with being the one soldier who made D-Day a victory. Lomell’s exploits, many of which had not previously been known to the author, are contained in the book.

As Gillon explained to the audience, he had met Lomell while doing a television show on the History Channel.

“I was just mesmerized by his story and incredibly impressed by him,” Gillon said of Lomell. “I know that most of his friends and people who knew him called him ‘Bud.’ To me, he was Mister Lomell. I was also struck by how modest he was, how down to Earth he was. He was just like a regular guy. He never

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The idea for the book was hatched during the COVID-19 pandemic, and during the question-and-answer session, the author revealed how the book truly came to fruition.

Just as he had done with the previous 11 books he has written, Gillon did hours of fact-checking and interviews in preparation for the task.

“What happened is,” Gillon explained to his audience, “in the very beginning, I did a lot of background research before I even reached out to the family. I wanted to make sure the story held together.”

Gillon explained that historical materials about Lomell were often hard to come by, including at the Library of Congress.

“In this case there were very few of those types of documents,” Gillon said. “And what you do as an author, is you gather up as much information as you can.”

But the most noteworthy assistance came from the Lomell family themselves when the late war hero’s wife had a small gathering, which included Gillon, at her home.

“And I think it was that time, after that meeting,” Gillon related, “Renee asked me to stay behind. She went into the back room where she stored lots of [Lomell’s] memorabilia. She brought out a big black folder, and she explained to me what it was.”

Inside the folder was a 186-page letter that Lomell had written to his grandchildren in 1980 that documented his life.

not been woven into the fabric of the American zeitgeist in the same fashion as such iconic figures as General George S. Patton, or Audie Murphy. From his inauspicious beginnings as a World War II draftee, the selfless bravery and resourcefulness of Lomell are accurately recounted by Gillon, who vividly painted the scene for those in attendance at the lecture.

“I just think it’s great that we have someone who’s written a nationally published book,” said Toms River Mayor Maurice B. Hill, who was also in attendance at the event. “And it’s available now to people, to read about his history, and how important [Lomell] was in changing the outcome of World War Two.”

Many audience members had known Lomell, either through his membership at the American Legion Hall, through his law practice, or simply as an involved community member, and took turns sharing their stories with the author. While he did not do so publicly during the event, Hill also knew Lomell personally, as well.

“I actually met him downtown,” Hill explained, “at a number of events, Memorial Day events. He was our Grand Marshall, and he was always a very humble guy. I used to see him at the Ocean County Veteran’s Day and Memorial Day celebrations they had.

The mayor and the town council of Toms River are even working to have a new VA outpatient clinic being built off Hooper Avenue named in Lomell’s honor, with resolutions already in place.

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“As a historian, it doesn’t get any better,” explained Gillon. “He essentially did a lot of the work for me.”

The biography recounts the heroic actions of Lomell, whose exploits, while impressive, have

“[Lomell was] one of the pillars of the town,” said Hill. “He’s done a lot for the community.”

Preliminary indications are that the measure will pass and that Lomell’s name will be adopted for the clinic.

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By now, you’ve probably heard that there are waterproof hearing aids. This is true, and they’re an amazing technological advancement, but most devices are only water resistant. This is made possible by a moisture-repellent nano-coating. It’s helpful but not impenetrable. Here are some tips to protect your tech from water damage: Want more advice on how to protect your investment in better hearing? Call us today — we’re HEAR to help! This may seem like a lot of things to keep in mind while wearing and caring for your devices, but the precautions are worth it. Over time, exposure to moisture can corrode the delicate electronics and shorten their lifespan. By doing what you can to keep them dry, you’ll save on repairs, replacements, and premature upgrades.

Avoid Moisture Altogether Remember to take your devices out of your ears before showering, hitting the pool, or getting into the hot tub. Be sure to store them in their own secure case rather than in a pocket or purse. The safest risk is the one you don’t take.

Wipe Them Down Wiping your devices daily with a clean, dry cloth helps clear moisture and debris. Audiowipes can be purchased from your hearing healthcare professional which is even a better option than using a dry cloth. This is especially important during the colder months when condensation is more likely to form.

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This may seem like a lot of things to keep in mind while wearing and caring for your devices, but the precautions are worth it. Over time, exposure to moisture can corrode the delicate electronics and shorten their lifespan. By doing what you can to keep them dry, you’ll save on repairs, replacements, and premature upgrades.

Dr. Izzy & his Staff are always available to answer all of your hearing care questions. They can be reached at 732-818-3610 (Toms River/ Whiting) or 609-978-8946 (Manahawkin) or visit us at www.gardenstatehearing.com.

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-276-1011 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

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The Dark Side Of Medicine: 10 Outrageous And Horrific Treatments

Today, I will explore the dark and disturbing history of medical treatments. While these methods may seem shocking and gruesome by today’s standards, they were once considered cutting-edge solutions.

As we delve into the past, it’s important to appreciate the progress we’ve made in medicine. Additionally, I’ll briefly speculate on current treatments we do today, that may be viewed as primitive in the future. It’s scary to think about it.

Tight now let’s explore 10 fascinating and bizarre historical remedies and reflect on medicine’s hall of shame:

Bloodletting: Bloodletting, a widespread medical treatment in ancient and medieval times, aimed to restore balance by draining blood to rectify an imbalance of the four “humors.” Despite its popularity, bloodletting often led to infection and death.

Trepanation: Trepanation involved drilling holes into the skull to release evil spirits or pressure, with the intent of treating conditions like headaches and epilepsy. This risky procedure persisted until the 18th century.

Mercury as a Cure-All: Mercury was once considered a universal remedy for various ailments, including syphilis and toothaches. However, its toxic nature caused severe side effects and contributed to neurological damage, as seen in hatters during the 19th century.

Tobacco Smoke Enemas: In the 18th century, tobacco smoke enemas were used to treat respiratory issues and even revive drowning victims. This practice, based on the belief that tobacco smoke could warm the body and stimulate respiration, proved ineffective and dangerous.

Lobotomies: Lobotomy, a procedure that severed connections in the brain’s prefrontal cortex, gained popularity in the 20th century as a treatment for severe mental illnesses. Despite its initial promise, it often resulted in severe side effects and has since fallen out of favor.

Animal-Dung Ointments: In ancient Egypt, animal dung was believed to possess healing properties and was used to treat various ailments. However, this unsanitary practice introduced harmful bacteria and worsened infections!

Mummy Powder: Powdered mummies were used as a medical treatment in the belief that they possessed curative properties. This practice, which persisted for centuries, was not only ineffective but also contributed to the destruction of historical artifacts.

Hemiglossectomy for Stuttering: During the 18th and 19th centuries, doctors believed that stuttering resulted from an unusually thick or long tongue. Hemiglossectomy, the removal of a portion of the tongue, was thought to cure the condition but often led to severe complications.

Strychnine as a Stimulant: In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, strychnine, a highly toxic alkaloid, was used as a stimulant and performance-enhancing substance. However, its poisonous effects posed significant risks to health. Cocaine as a Miracle Cure: Cocaine was once hailed as a miracle cure for various ailments and was widely used in medicine and everyday products. However, its addictive and dangerous nature eventually led to its decline and regulation. While we can’t predict the future, some current medical practices might be considered primitive in years to come. Chemotherapy’s non-selective nature, electroconvulsive therapy’s side effects, organ transplantation’s risks, and the necessity of amputations may one day be replaced by more targeted and advanced alternatives. We can only hope!

Reflecting on the past, it’s evident that our understanding of health and medicine has come a long way. These historical treatments serve as a reminder of the progress we’ve made and the importance of evolving our therapies so that they are less invasive and more effective.

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PHOTO OF THE WEEK

The Osprey Of New Jersey –From Endangered To Comeback

The osprey, a raptor (bird of prey) is also known as the fi sh hawk, and their abundance could be spotted along the Jersey coast. With a six-foot wingspan, they soar in the skies plucking fi sh from the local waters. When DDT pesticides came into use, their diet of fi sh exposed to pesticide resulted in stunted osprey reproduction. Their eggshells were thinner, causing a decline in their numbers.

The New Jersey endangered species list reported there were less than 50 nests in the state by 1974. DDT use was banned, and the osprey numbers started to slowly increase. Tree lines were replaced by development. The work of conservation groups erecting platforms encouraged osprey nesting in the marshy habitats. There were over 200 healthy pairs nesting there by the mid-1980s.

More than 800 platforms exist in our state with approximately 75% of osprey nests utilizing these man-made structures. The diligent efforts by The Nature Conservancy and other conservation groups, the osprey numbers in our state are thriving. In 2022, it was estimated by the New Jersey Division of Fish and Wildlife and the Conserve Wildlife Foun-

dation of New Jersey, that approximately 733 pairs nested in our state during that time. This number is an increase of 45 new nests from the prior year 2021. While there was a total of 206 pairs that failed to produce young, there were 720 young produced from the 555 known-outcome nests throughout the state.

Weather has had an adverse impact on the nests; however, productivity has been well above what is needed to sustain the population. We can attribute the comeback of the osprey largely to conservation groups, in particular The Nature Conservancy, who, before nesting begins, repairs/replaces approximately 30 osprey platforms in southern New Jersey. This consistent upkeep of nests is vital to the ospreys and their continued success in breeding. We owe a special thanks to The Nature Conservancy for their continued efforts in helping the osprey. Visit youtu.be/wEVbPGAWuGE for a live osprey stream.

I gathered the information for this article from multiple sources so statistics may vary slightly. To reach me please call 732-244-2768.

It’s illegal to possess, relocate, or cause harm to wildlife for any reason. Managing wildlife without the proper state/federal permits is illegal. Violating laws protecting wildlife is punishable by law.

Independence Day Fireworks

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The countdown to Memorial Day continues. Local resident Ryan J. Drewes captured this amazing sunset in Mantoloking recently. Want to share your pix with our readers? What about a chance to see the Jersey Shore BlueClaws on us? Email photos@ jerseyshoreonline.com and you may get lucky! LACEY – Join on July 3 for Lacey Township’s Annual Firework display at Lacey Township High School at 7:30 p.m. Before the fi reworks begin enjoy live music by Shallow Green! Rain date: July 5.

R.C. Shea & Assoc. Inside The Law

Consider A Caregiver Agreement

A Caregiver Agreement is a written contract entered into between a person needing care and a person providing care. Usually, the Caregiver Agreement is between an adult child and a parent, a relative or a friend. Through the use of a Caregiver Agreement, the disabled or elderly person can transfer money to family members as compensation rather than as a gift.

A properly prepared Agreement specifically lists what services the child is to provide to the parent and at what price. The Agreement must be in writing and entered into before the compensated services are rendered. Since the caregiver child is getting “paid” they must report the income for tax purposes. In some cases, the parent may be able to deduct the payments as a medical expense.

The advantages of having a Caregiver Agreement include establishing clear caregiver compensation, providing a practical housing arrangement and assisting a Medicaid plan.

Family members overwhelmingly provide the care for elderly and disabled loved ones at home. Although it’s a labor of love, taking care of ailing loved ones also has a market value, meaning that caretakers can be paid as a way to protect assets. It’s only fair that the child who is caring for the parent should be paid for the services. When a caregiver’s compensation is memorialized in a legal document, allegations by other siblings are minimized because the contract spells out the details. Further, to protect family relationships, it’s recommended that all family members agree with the Arrangement even if they are not parties to the agreement.

By having a Caregiver Agreement the parent may be able to avoid a nursing facility by providing for the parent to be able to remain in the parent’s home or the home of the caregiver instead of a nursing facility.

A Caregiver Agreement can also be part of a Medicaid plan. As long as the Agreement is correctly drafted, and both parties abide by its terms, funds payable to the caregiver under the Agreement will accelerate Medicaid eligibility. Since payments are made for the services rendered, they should not be treated as gifts. This will thwart Medicaid penalties as a result of giving money directly to the caregiver child. Since caregiver agreements transfer money over a period of time, they are better entered into sooner rather than later. The child should consider the following points if the child feels uncomfortable about taking money to care for the parent:

• A third party caregiver would get paid for caring and giving room and board to the parent;

• If the parent were to apply for Medicaid, money that the child could have been paid for legitimately caring for their parent will instead be paid to the nursing home as part of a Medicaid spend down.

A proper Caregiver Agreement can be a valuable elder-law planning tool in the right circumstances. Contact R.C. Shea & Associates (732-505-1212) to see if a Caregiver Agreement makes sense for you.

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Game Day For Jersey Shore’s “Magical” Community

BRICK – It’s a Wednesday, and 27 duelists from around the region are facing off to determine who will be champion.

Many are strangers, some are long-time friends, others even come from the same family. That night they all had something in common - playing their favorite trading card game.

They were all in a Brick hobby shop’s weekly Yu-Gi-Oh tournament. Decks were heard shuffling, strategies were thrown around. Cheerful laughter and banter rung around the tables after the announcer gave all the COVID hygiene announcements.

Above all the cheers of victory and groans of defeat, something else stood out - a father

asking his son if he had fun.

Walter Ward, 51, started playing the game around the end of 2003 when it became popular here in the United States. He remembered that his son, who primarily was into Pokemon, developed an interest in Yu-Gi-Oh when the anime was released for western audiences.

“I got into the game with my son,” said Ward. “I learned how to play with him.”

He believes that the stores where the trading card community thrives are great places to meet new people and feel welcomed no matter a person’s background. Also, part of the fun is the competitiveness that these games promote.

The impact of the trading card scene

spans worldwide, and has shuffled around the Jersey shore for decades. Magic the Gathering was the fi rst of its kind, started in 1993 and going strong today. It incorporates fantasy worlds similar to Dungeons & Dragons. Pokemon is another popular one, where players collect and duel with “pocket monsters,” just like in the show. Many other licensed properties, from Star Wars to My Little Pony, have been adapted to card games.

Multiple stores around our county give access to enthusiasts of all ages and backgrounds to express their hobbies by trading, collecting, building decks, and then challenging each other with a healthy dose of competitiveness and the occasional

saltiness.

Trading card games also help to improve a good bit of tactical thinking, math, and imagination skills due to their spectacular art.

Joseph Coppinger, 22, who started playing when he was 10 years old, shared how he was enamored by how cool the monster cards looked, and that everyone can play their own deck.

When it comes to beginners starting out in the game, Coppinger and Ward share similar advice for new players. When newcomers fi nd something that they like and want to play with, they should stick with it and take the steps until they learn how to (Game - See Page 24)

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Energy Saving Tips And Bill Assistance Information

MAYS LANDING – Winter is officially here. As even colder temperatures can be expected through the coming months, leading to increased energy usage and potentially higher bills, Atlantic City Electric is committed to helping all customers use less energy by providing energy efficiency information to help keep bills as low as possible this winter season. The company also continues to encourage customers to take advantage of millions of dollars in energy assistance available across New Jersey.

Atlantic City Electric recognizes customers may use more energy than expected as temperatures get colder, and some continue with a hybrid work schedule. Atlantic City Electric offers the following tips to help reduce energy use and costs:

Check your thermostat. Set your ther-

mostat a few degrees lower in the winter, if health permits. You can save about two percent on your heating bill for every degree you lower your thermostat. When you are asleep or out of the house, try turning your thermostat back 10 to 15 degrees for eight hours to save approximately 10 percent on your heating bill. Consider investing in a smart thermostat that can connect to your mobile devices, helping you stay on top of your energy usage.

Unplug your devices. Mobile phones, laptops and other electronic devices will continue to use energy after they are fully charged.

Adjust your blinds. Keep your blinds up during the day to capture the radiant heating benefits of the sun. Close your blinds and curtains after the sun goes down to keep

the cold air out and the heat in. Install energy efficient light bulbs. Energy-efficient LED bulbs use up to 75 percent less energy than standard bulbs. Check for air leaks. Check the ductwork for air leaks about once a year if you have a forced-air heating system. To do this, feel around the duct joints for escaping air when the fan is on.

Insulate your home. Trap escaping air from windows and doors by using caulking or weather-stripping around leaky areas, install storm windows in winter and close chimney flues. Adjust hot water heater. Lowering the temperature on your water heater/hot water tank can help save money and energy. Dust or vacuum radiators. Dust and grime impede the flow of heat. Keeping radiators

clean helps maintain their efficiency. Maintain home heating equipment Have your heating equipment serviced periodically by a professional service representative.

Look for the ENERGY STAR® label on home appliances, electronics, and other products. ENERGY STAR® products meet strict energy efficiency guidelines set by the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency and the U.S. Department of Energy.

Customers can also manage their bill through My Account, Atlantic City Electric’s online energy management tool that shows how much energy a customer is using. More information is available for customers at atlanticcityelectric.com/ MyAccount.

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Estate Sale

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Garage Sale

Annual Community Garage Sale - At Greenbriar I, Burnt Tavern Road, Brick on Saturday, June 3 (rain date Sunday, June 4) from 9-3. Over 60 families will be holding sales. Follow the balloons for the streets participating. Call 732-840-9496 with questions. (23)

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4th-Grader Named SemiFinalist In NASA Competition

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– A local student was one of 45 kids selected as a semi-finalist of a national competition hosted by NASA.

The “Power to Explore Challenge” required students to submit a 200-word essay on how they would use Radioisotope Power Systems (RPS) to succeed in their own science mission. RPS is a type of “nuclear battery” that NASA uses to explore the solar system and more.

Sofia Chiaravalle, a 4 th grade student at Midstreams Elementary School, wrote about her idea titled “Project Cousteau.” Project Cousteau would be a rover that would investigate the depths of oceans on Europa, which is the smallest of the four Galilean moons orbiting Jupiter

In her essay, Sofia asked: Is there any existence on Europa? Is there an ocean underneath the ice? How frigid is the water? Can you breathe on Europa?

Sofia went on to explain that the rover would collect samples, take pictures of any species, and record temperatures of the environment.

When asked what excited her the most about NASA’s RPS, Sofia expressed her eagerness to learn more about the planets within the solar system.

“I love space and writing so I started working on my entry right away. What I’m most excited about NASA’s RPS probes is that they allow us to learn more about all the planets in the solar system and they may help find life on Europa like in my essay,” Sofia said.

After being named a semi-finalist and recognized by NASA, Sofia said, “I was watching the video when they announced the semi-finalist on the screen at school, I was very excited and screamed in joy when my name popped up!”

Sofia expressed that when she grows up, she would love to be a veterinarian and

–Photo courtesy Dennis Chiaravalle Sofia Chiaravalle extensively researched technology and astronomy for her essay. have the opportunity to work at NASA.

“I do enjoy astronomy and learned the basics from my dad. We visited the planetarium at the college a few times and I’m always asking questions. When I grow up, I would love to become a veterinarian and work at NASA where I can help a create a habitat on Mars. Maybe I can go there someday!” Sofia said.

“I’m so proud of Sofia!” Sofia’s father Dennis said. “She took days to research everything she could on Europa, Jupiter, and RPS probes. It took her a long time to make it under 200 words, the original report was over 20 pages. Being able to see her learn about Europa and discovering that there might be life somewhere else in the solar system was a great joy.”

“We were thrilled when she was recognized! Sofia is very smart and she worked really hard on this project. I can’t wait to see what else she will accomplish,” Dennis added.

Summer In The Parks

LACEY – “Summer in the Parks” Program Registration is online at parksrec. egov.basgov.com/laceynj as well as in person at the Recreation Office.

They are using a new registration site this year please contact them if you are having any issues. They encourage those interested in registering for the “Summer in the Parks” Program to register online. It is also recommended for users to set up their online accounts with their information and children’s information completed before registration begins. If you have an account but do not remember the login information, please use the “Forgot username or password” option at the link provided above.

The “Summer in the Parks” Program will run Monday through Thursday from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. The program is slated to run from June 26 to August 10. The program will not run on Tuesday, July 4.

Lacey Township residents aged 5 to 13 are eligible. The fee is $175 per child and includes 4 t-shirts as well as the end of the year pizza party.

The program will run at Clune, Hebrew, and Huff y Wallis Parks. There are no capacity restrictions this summer.

Before Care will be offered this year. Sign-in for Before Care begins at 7:45 a.m. and takes place at the park you sign your child up for camp. The fee for Before Care is $125.

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play it with ease.

Tournament events provided by the local game stores are the perfect spot for beginners to get a grasp on the game, Cottinger said. During those events, they will be able to see players using different decks and tactics, as well as meet new people. Most stores post their gaming schedule online or in the shop.

A piece of advice he also gives out to parents who might have kids that are inter-

ested in the game: “Let them go to events and talk to people… let them have fun,” said Cottinger.

Just like Ward enjoys spending quality father-son time with his boy while playing Yu-Gi-Oh!, he suggests that this can be a great way for parents to get involved with their kids.

And while it might be a challenge at the very start of a person’s dueling journey due to a learning curve, the trading card scene here at the shore has created a close-knit community where everyone is welcome.

–Photo courtesy Nova Games Gamers flock to local card stores to play in casual matches or tournaments.

Summer Art Camp

LACEY – Join Lacey Recreation for the art summer art adventure! Art camp is a wonderful way to have fun, meet friends and express yourself! This camp focuses on project-based instruction, centered around daily themes. The child will be guided through a variety of projects that utilize an assortment of media. Come join the fun! Sign up today- Spots are limited! Location: Lacey Recreation Classroom;

Instructor: Diane Salkeld. Camp is from July 17 to July 21. Fee is $169. Ages: 5 to 7 from 10 a.m. to 12 p.m. Ages: 8 to 11 from 1 to 3 p.m. To register visit parksrec.egov. basgov.com/laceynj.

Monday: Rainforest adventure

Tuesday: Aloha Summer

Wednesday: Animal Safari

Thursday: Landscape fun

Friday: Under the Sea

Youth Pickleball Class

TUCKERTON – Pickleball is the newest sports sensation taking the country by storm, and it is loved by all age groups. This class is designed for children and teens to get to know the basics of this wonderful sport. Dinking, serving, volleying, and scoring are some of the topics of instruction in this class. Come out and learn to play

pickleball with your peers! Please wear sneakers and bring a drink. Paddles and balls will be provided.

Classes are held at the Pickleball Courts 5 & 6, Stanley “Tip” Seaman County Park, Tuckerton, Thursdays June 8 through June 22 from 5 to 6 p.m. Fee is $8 per person. Open to ages 10 to 16.

Barnegat Farmer’s Market

BARNEGAT – Barnegat Farmer’s Market is seeking vendors for the 2023 Season: June 22 to October 5 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. at 14 Birdsall Street Barnegat.

Interested vendors are asked to email Jeanne Broadbent jbroadbent@barnegat. net for more information and an application form.

Build Your Own Terrarium Class

TUCKERTON – The St. Francis Counseling Center is offering a free build your own terrarium class on May 31 from 5 to 7 p.m. at Union March and Gallery, 120 W.

Main Street, Tuckerton. Light refreshments will be served. Call 609-494-1554 to register. Limited spots available.

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Unity Tour Honoring Fallen Police Makes Stop In Ocean County

TOMS RIVER – Hundreds of police officers riding bicycles traveled through the township’s downtown district as part of the annual Police Unity Tour, stopping to honor two officers from Ocean County who made the ultimate sacrifice.

“It was our honor to have the Ocean County Justice Complex on Hooper Avenue chosen by the Police Unity Tour to host its Rose Ceremony,” Ocean County Sheriff Michael G. Mastronardy said. “The County has performed this function in the past.”

“This year the Rose Ceremony honored Sgt. Matthew Horton of the Ocean County Sheriff’s Office whose end of watch was Feb. 22, 2022 and Captain Joseph Goertz of the Lakewood Police Department whose end of watch was Oct. 31, 2021,” Mastronardy added.

The simple but solemn ceremony featured Ocean County Sheriff ’s Office Capt. Craig Johnson as master of ceremonies. It included family members and friends of the officers with loved ones being presented with gold roses from representatives of the Unity Tour and their respective police departments. The Ocean County Board of Commissioners issued proclamations honoring the fallen.

“We are here today to express our deepest appreciation to Sgt. Horton and to Capt. Goertz, and to their loved ones and colleagues,” Commissioner Gary Quinn remarked.

“While Sgt. Horton provided 15 years of service to the Ocean County Sheriff ’s Office and Captain Goertz, 23 years of service to the Lakewood Police Department, we cannot quantify the good

they have done simply in time. Rather, we know that their service to law enforcement came with compassion, concern, courage and character,” Quinn added.

Quinn serves as liaison to the Ocean County Sheriff ’s Office and he was joined by his Board colleagues, Director Joseph H. Vicari, and Commissioners Virginia E. Haines and Barbara Jo Crea in presenting the Board’s proclamations.

“As the Unity Tour completes its ride this year, the legacies of Sgt. Horton and Capt. Goertz will receive a place in our nation’s history that they rightly deserve at the National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial,” Quinn said. “They served and sacrificed for a purpose far greater than themselves.”

Morgan Blann of Brick Township was also honored during the ceremony by survivors John Tobias, Denise Tobias and Lisa Preslar, for her ongoing efforts to raise awareness and honor fallen officers or fi refighters as part of Running 4 Heroes, a charitable organization, started in 2019, that provides help to fi rst responders.

Upon the conclusion of the Rose Ceremony the riders mounted their bikes and headed to their next destination.

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–Photos courtesy Ocean County Hundreds of law enforcement officers biked into downtown Toms River as part of the annual Police Unity Tour stopping to pay tribute to two officers from Ocean County. Deputy Director of the Ocean County Board of Commissioners Gary Quinn addresses the attendees at the May 9 Rose Ceremony held at the Ocean County Justice Complex, which is part of the annual Police Unity Tour.

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48 *Sheriff Woody’s sidekick

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54 Lily pad squatter

57 Sap

59 Erode, with “away”

62 Team’s lack, in a clichŽ

63 Scot’s swimming spot

64 *Spoken language, in semiotics

68 Tennis great who wrote “Days of Grace”

69 First lady not married to a president?

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38 Ruth on a diamond

39 “Sure, probably”

40 Andalusian vegetable soup served cold

41 Bell-shaped lily

43 Ignoring, with “to”

46 Org. with Jets and Flyers

49 Instrument laid flat during play

50 Many a freshman

51 Like 70-Across

55 “Paper Moon” Oscar winner

56 Tot’s sassy demand ... or a hint to the start of the answers to starred clues

58 River of Flanders

60 YWCA part: Abbr.

61 1997 Mattel acquisition

63 Chem class part

65 Climbing greenery

66 “Wow!”

67 Sellout letters

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Omarr’s Astrological Forecast

For the week of MAY 20 - MAY 26

ARIES (March 21-April 19): An enthusiastic new friend might encourage you to overspend or take unnecessary risks. You could be at odds with someone who may want to take advantage of your honesty or sincerity. Putting on airs can lead to misunderstandings, so remain true to yourself.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): Try to keep your attentions focused on purposeful plans. It can be important to surround yourself with positive, encouraging people. Keep an eye on your finances and avoid making large investments or major purchases for now.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): You may feel overly sensitive to criticism and could be easily upset by instability. This is not a suitable time to take on new ventures or projects. Take this time to focus on your mental health and find small ways to relieve some of your pressures.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Take your time regarding your finances. If you are in too much of a hurry to make a purchase, you could have regrets later. Be skeptical about possibly risky investments and you will be able to skate past thin fiscal ice.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Boundaries could be put into place and should be respected. Someone may poke holes in possible plans or red tape could prevent you from achieving your objectives. You may find that getting your way might not always lead to contentment.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): Let facts be your friend. Obtaining a straight answer from companions may be as difficult as herding cats. You may need to practice more patience and understanding when interacting with ill-tempered people.

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Impulsive people may pressure you into making changes to your career, finances or personal life. You may be tempted to take advantage of someone’s loyalty but remember that impulse decisions could lead to issues later on.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21) : Try to find a place to burrow away far from possible noise and distractions. You may need a quiet space to fix problems or address deficiencies. Someone might agree with you on the surface but could be fixated on their own agenda.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): During an internal game of tug of war, either side could end up falling into the mud. You might wrestle with your conscience about trying something new and stimulating when it could be wiser to stick to what is tried and true.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): Pump up your persistence and you can prevent getting detoured by possible controversies. This may not be a good time to question the rules or to ignore your responsibilities. Stick to what you know and avoid experimenting for now.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): You may be willing to focus on all work and no play. Your ambitions may be at a high point, perhaps because you feel the crunch of having more expenses than income. Follow any rules to avoid possible disapproval.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): Having a good relationship with the people you meet could be like petting porcupines. You may need leather gauntlets rather than kid gloves to manage some relationship issues. Maintain a low profile and avoid arguments for now.

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