2024-11-23 - The Brick Times

Thousands GaT her For TuG- oF-War Fundraiser

By Alyssa Riccardi POINT PLEASANT BEACH

– A friendly rivalry between two local towns has grown into a major fundraising event at the Jersey Shore.

The annual Manasquan Inlet Tug-of-War has been going strong for six years. Thousands came out to watch Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach go head-to-head pulling a 1,200-foot rope across the Manasquan Inlet, which stretches to about 500 feet.

“The event was fantastic. The

weather could not have been better,” event chairman Geoff Brown from the Manasquan Recreation Department said. “Every year we’re bringing in new people and it’s exciting. A tremendous event for both towns and both communities had a great time.”

The event consisted of about nine heats, with over 200 tuggers participating for the cause.

“For this year, we’ve probably had the best weather we’ve ever had. That resulted in an absolutely fantastic turn out. According to police

Environmental Summit Provides Hands-On Learning

By Chris Lundy BERKELEY

classroom, but sometimes you have to go to the source.

That’s why more than 200 5th-8th grade students from nine area schools spent a day learning about marine ecosystems at Island Beach State Park during the 36th Annual Clean Ocean Action Fall Student Summit. Each session was like an immersive field trip, where the students were able to learn

about environmental protection in a fun and hands-on way.

While one group learned seining, another group looked for mollusks and crustaceans. They learned about invasive species and something even more invasive – microplastics.

The schools participating were Bay Head School, Bordentown Regional Middle School, Calvary Academy, Hugh J. Boyd, Jr.

estimated it was about 1,500 on each side. It was a really great day, our busiest event yet,” said event chairman Ryan Simunovich from Point Pleasant Beach Recreation.

During this year’s game, Point Pleasant Beach was leading 3-2 going into halftime. However, Manasquan won the last three heats to snag the win, 5-4.

“It came down to the last heat which was really exciting – Point Pleasant Beach High School football vs. Manasquan football. They tugged for almost 90 seconds, which was the longest tug of the day as well and ultimately, we lost on the beach side,” Simunovich said. “It was a culmination of a perfect day to come down to that last tug and really put a nice exclamation point on a great day for the Recreation Department and a great day for

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Road Elevation Projects Approved

By Alyssa Riccardi

BRICK – Two Brick Township neighborhoods are slated to receive roadway elevations in order to alleviate flooding in the area.

At a recent meeting, the Township Council awarded contracts for roadway elevation projects in flood-prone neighborhoods. Officials said the purpose of the projects is to improve the roadways as well as help with drainage.

One project will occur in the Normandy Beach neighborhood on the barrier island. The project focuses on the following roadways: Broad Avenue, Arrow Court, and Normandy Drive.

Previously, the Township accepted a $401,859 grant from the State Department of Transportation for the elevation project, which plans to raise the height of the street as well as pave roads and alleviate flooding issues in the area.

Normandy Beach is located on the barrier island portion of the township and is divided between Brick and Toms River. The two towns joined forces after flooding became so bad that school buses and delivery trucks were unable to drive through a main road. Residents say roads that used to flood a handful of times a year now flood anywhere from 20 to 30 times a year.

Back in 2021 when the Township first filed for funding, engineers said that Brick had already collected survey information for the neighborhoods to assess how high the roadway elevations can go. The goal

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Teams faced off across the 500-foot inlet

Photo courtesy Manasquan Inlet Tug of War

Normandy Beach residents are concerned about the flooding.

Photo courtesy Larry Reid

– You can learn a lot in the

Middle school students listen as the MATES students teach them about horseshoe crabs during the roundtable segment of the Student Summit.

Photo courtesy Clean Ocean Action

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Make-A-Wish.”

Finishing it’s six year, Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach are now tied for wins, each having three wins under their belts.

“It’s been a great back and forth over the past few years,” Simunovich added.

The winning team not only gets bragging rights, but a Mayor’s Trophy to celebrate the victory. All proceeds generated from

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is to raise them approximately 2.5 feet above sea level. Not only will the project reduce the frequency of street flooding, but when it does flood it will decrease the depth of the flooding.

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Elementary in Seaside Heights, Lavallette Elementary, Manchester Township Middle School, Memorial Middle School in Point Pleasant, Saint Peter’s School in Point Pleasant Beach, and Westfield Friends School in Cinnaminson.

Kristen Grazioso, education and volunteer

the event will support the recreation departments of both Manasquan and Point Pleasant Beach.

In addition, the event incorporates the opportunity for participants to contribute to the Make-a-Wish New Jersey. In the past, they’ve raised around $15,000 for the cause.

“It’s been great each year, Make-A-Wish has been getting more and more involved as they are really seeing the benefits I think for exposure to their organization,” Simu-

At the council meeting, the governing body unanimously awarded a contract for the Normandy Beach roadway elevation project to the lowest bidder, Meco Inc., of Clarksburg, NJ, for a total bid amount of $1,448,992.

Another area of town receiving road elevation is the community of Shore Acres,

manager for Clean Ocean Action, pointed out that while some lessons were taught by groups like the Barnegat Bay Partnership, some were taught by seniors from the Marine Academy of Technology and Environmental Science (MATES).

“They’re learning from their peers,” she said. “They are inspired by the experience.”

The younger students might decide to attend MATES after this. She noted that she’ll

novich said. “It kind of nicely ties home the whole message of what we’re doing.

Every year Make-A-Wish has a bunch of their volunteers come to raise money and also increase awareness to what they do every day, which is just amazing work.”

Simunovich expressed how he’s excited to see the event grow to offer such a unique experience to its participants.

“Each year it’s getting better, and we’re still (learning) how to navigate a 500-foot tug-of-war across two towns,” Simunovich said. “Our hope is that we continue to learn how to give to Make-A-Wish as much as possible. And really to make sure our teams are having a great experience when they’re there. Probably the next level of an event for us overall is making sure the teams are really excited about coming year over year.”

which is a lagoon community located across the bay from Normandy Beach. The project will also focus on drainage and infrastructure improvements on parts of Bay View Drive, specifically from Drum Point Road to Adair Drive.

In 2023, the Township received a NJDOT Municipal Aid Program Grant $392,942

meet MATES students who fondly remember the summit. Even if they don’t continue their educational career in environmental science, the goal is to encourage them to think and live in a more environmentally sustainable way.

“By having them here, hands on, connected with the environment, they’ll be more inspired to protect it,” she said.

Some examples of the field trips included

“The vendors, the food, the band, the DJ, everything comes together really well and I think the event continues to improve,” Simunovich added.

for the Bay View Drive project.

The Township Council also awarded Meco Inc., who was the lowest bidder, the Shore Acres project. The total bid amount is $701,538.

The start dates for these projects have yet to be determined.

a botany walk, beach combing, fishing, beach profiling, and beach sweeps. Roundtable discussions focused on subjects like horseshoe crabs, terrapins, and nonpoint source pollution.

The schools only had to provide transportation. The rest was free thanks to the John Ben Snow Memorial Trust and Eloise & John Pound in memory of Anne Inman Webster, as well as Island Beach State Park.

Local Author’s Book Series Teaches Empathy For Neurodiverse Children

By Stephanie Faughnan

TOMS RIVER - Alyssa Lego, a 22-year-old Boston College senior from Toms River, is on a mission to raise awareness about autism. Inspired by her brother Michael, who is nonverbal, Alyssa has dedicated time and creativity to telling stories that foster understanding and empathy around neurodiversity.

“My younger brother is 19 and on the autism spectrum,” Alyssa shared. “Michael is two and a half years younger than me, and growing up, I realized that he experienced a lot of ableism, discrimination, and bullying because of his disability.”

The 2021 Donovan Catholic graduate has already released four books in her “You Me Neurodiversity” series, each one helping children and adults better understand autism and its impacts. However, her journey to becoming an advocate began as a young teenager.

Alyssa said that watching how others treated her brother forced her to grow into the protective big sister role from an early age. She found that she was particularly affected by how Michael was bullied.

“When I was 13 or 14, I sat down with the

woman who’d been my fourth-grade teacher,” shared Alyssa. “We created a lesson plan program called ‘Friends Who Are Different.’ It was all about respecting students.”

After fine-tuning the program, Alyssa courageously pitched the concept to the Toms River School District. “Friends Who Are Different” caught fire, with Alyssa touring kindergarten classes to deliver the message of understanding and acceptance.

“I did that for about a year,” Alyssa said. “For the next seven years, I was heavily involved with a lot of fundraising work to support autism communities in New Jersey.”

Alyssa left home to go away to college, still determined to keep advocating for autism awareness – though she wasn’t yet sure how. After brainstorming with her mother, Dawn Lego, she devised the idea for the You Me Neurodiversity series. The goal was to create engaging stories for young children that introduce concepts of acceptance and understanding in a fun, relatable way.

The first book, “Max and the Tower of Acceptance,” came out in spring 2023. The story introduces Max and his journey to explain to

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Alyssa Lego displays the books she wrote to foster understanding and empathy around neurodiversity.

Photo by Stephanie Faughnan

OPINIONS & COMMENTARY

EDITORIAL

If You Want To Run For Office, Start Volunteering

The campaign is over. Let the campaign begin!

I know we just had an election, and everyone could certainly use a breather. But for those few of you thinking of running for office, now is the time to take that next step.

Start attending meetings of whatever board you want to join. Watch the proceedings. Learn how they do things and why. If you win, you’ll be spending your evenings at these meetings anyway; you might as well get used to it.

More importantly, become active in your community. Whether it’s youth sports, church groups, or some other volunteer activity, they’d be happy to have you.

Hopefully, the reason you want to get into politics is to help someone other than yourself. This is why you should start volunteering. Why wait until you’re in office to help people? Get going now!

Do you care about the environment? There are organizations for that. 2 nd Amendment? There are organizations for that. Education?

There are organizations for that. Reach out and find them.

Every time I interview candidates for office, I ask them if they are involved in any community groups. It really paints a picture. It tells voters how you spend your free time. It will also give you a taste of interacting with the public. Many people live very structured lives where you will never meet someone who you don’t already know. Getting yourself out there will introduce you to new ideas and points of view. They might not be intelligent ideas or valid points of view, but you’ll be able to understand what people in your community are thinking. Otherwise, you’re just talking to just your own friends and family. And, even if you don’t wind up running, or you run for election and lose, the hours you spend doing public service will be time well spent. Who knows, you might even decide that this is a better way to help people.

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Watch How Your Taxes Are Spent

I am very humbled to have received over 92,000 votes for the position of Ocean County Commissioner. Thank you to all those that voted for me!! I really appreciate it.

However, majority rules and those that got 215,000 votes won.

Another clean sweep for George Gilmore.

We all know who pulls the strings behind the Ocean County Commissioners.

I will continue my watch and I urge more citizens to attend the untelevised and non- video recorded County Commissioner meetings at 4 p.m. on Wednesday afternoons in the Ocean County Administration Building on the corner of Hooper Ave and Washington Street in Toms River.

The Commissioners have a TON of your tax moneycome watch them spend it for you!

See you there!

Regina Discenza Forked River

Rise And Fall

Shortly after graduating from West Point, I found myself stationed in West Germany as a 2nd Lieutenant. Being fascinated with history and living in Germany, I started reading “The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich.” As I remember, my company commander, a Captain, asked me, “Why are you reading that?” My answer, “Because I want to see how he [Hitler of course] did it!” When I finished the book, I couldn’t help think how gullible the German people were to follow a crazed man into a nightmare as they had. Over the years my wife and I often spoke of how, if the Roman Empire could fall, why not the United States of America? We thought this would happen one day, given the history of the world and the outcome of various regimes. We never

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dreamed it would happen in our lifetime.

Fast forward ahead to the present. It is said that those ignorant of history are bound to let it repeat itself. I feel like I am watching the movie of the book I read so many years ago. How can people be so gullible as to follow a man that has no interest in them, nor any interest in making things better for them? And those in power who follow this man and let the power transfer to him will certainly become powerless in the end. If I knew they would read a book, I could recommend a good one for them.

As for me, it is quite possible that, if these gullible folks do not wake up, I could easily become an author by just following the chapters in the above mentioned book, changing only the names, dates, and locations.

James Dulong Mantoloking

Governor Candidate Speaks

I am writing to announce my candidacy for the office of Governor of New Jersey in the upcoming election. Throughout my life, I have been deeply committed to serving our communities, advocating for positive change, and fighting for the values that make New Jersey a great place to live, work, and raise a family.

As a longtime resident of New Jersey (since 1958), I have witnessed both the challenges we face and the incredible potential we hold. New Jersey is a diverse and vibrant state, rich in history and culture, but we cannot overlook the pressing issues confronting families, workers, and taxpayers today. I believe that together, we can create a brighter future for all residents through transparency, collaboration, and innovative solutions. I want to hear what New Jerseyans have to say. I believe my experience

as a teacher, principal, and Superintendent of Schools in New Jersey, and as an elected official for 30 years, including Mayor of the City of Burlington for eight years, has equipped me with the skills necessary to lead our state effectively. I earned Master’s and Doctorate degrees in Leadership. As an Associate Professor for Central Michigan University, I taught members of the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, and Coast Guard on the graduate level at Camp Pendleton and Joint Base MDL. I also participated in the U.S. Army War College as a citizen leader while serving as mayor.

I am passionate about listening to the voices of our citizens and ensuring that those concerns guide my initiatives, policies, and decisions. I believe in fostering an inclusive environment where every New Jerseyan feels heard, valued, and part of the decision making process.

I am excited to embark on this journey to connect with the people of New Jersey. I invite everyone to join me in this campaign for a better tomorrow, where we prioritize education, enhance opportunities in the trades, provide quality healthcare, and generate economic growth which benefits all New Jerseyans. Together, we can build a New Jersey that reflects our shared values and aspirations.

When asked if I am a New York Football Giants or Philadelphia Eagles fan I answer by saying that I was invited, as a free agent, to closed tryouts for both teams after playing NCAA College Football. Thank you for your time and consideration. I look forward to earning your support as we work towards a brighter future for our great state of New Jersey.

James A. Fazzone

Jersey Jim Fazzone for Governor

This letter was sent to the Brick Board of Adjustment and Planning Board.

I am a resident of Brick. I am writing to express concern regarding the pending approval of the use of the Fellowship Chapel of the Jersey Shore as a school run by Rebeka Snegon and the Liberty School Association. I am a former NJ educator. I hold a Doctorate in Education from Rutgers University and served in many capacities during my long career. I have written extensively on a variety of topics, have consulted internationally, and have a deep understanding of education in New Jersey.

My concern is that under New Jersey code, the described project is not a school. New Jersey recognizes public and nonpublic schools and this project does not fit the definition of either, therefore it cannot operate as a school. Here is the code:

Definition of a Nonpublic School in New Jersey

A nonpublic school means an elementary or secondary school within the State, other than a public school, offering education for grades kindergarten through 12, or any combination of them, wherein any child may legally fulfill compulsory school attendance requirements and which complies with the requirements of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 [N.J.S.A. 18A:46A-2(b)].

A nonpublic school is a place where children attend and receive instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments (N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25). As such, a nonpublic school requires in-person attendance by children.

Nonpublic schools are eligible to receive services for their students through several State and federal

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Senators: Release Ethics Report On Trump’s Attorney General Pick

WASHINGTON D.C. – U.S. Senator Cory Booker (D-NJ) joined all Senate Judiciary Democrats in a letter to the House Ethics Committee urging the House Ethics Committee to preserve and transmit to the Senate Judiciary Committee all relevant documentation on former Congressman Matt Gaetz, including the report that the House Ethics Committee was reportedly prepared to vote to release. The letter follows Mr. Gaetz’s resignation from Congress after President-elect Donald Trump announced his intention to nominate Mr. Gaetz to serve as Attorney General.

In April 2021, the bipartisan House Ethics Committee announced that the Committee was “aware of public allegations that Representative Matt Gaetz may have engaged in sexual misconduct and/or illicit drug use, shared inappropriate images or videos

on the House floor, misused state identification records, converted campaign funds to personal use, and/or accepted a bribe, improper gratuity, or impermissible gift, in violation of House Rules, laws, or other standards of conduct,” and as a result, the Committee had “begun an investigation and will gather additional information regarding the allegations.”

In June 2024, the House Ethics Committee issued a statement noting that the Committee had “determined that certain of the allegations merit continued review” and that “the Committee has also identified additional allegations that merit review,” including allegations pursuant to Committee Rules 14(a)(3) and 18(a) that Representative Gaetz may have: engaged in sexual misconduct and illicit drug use, accepted improper gifts, dispensed special privileges and favors to individuals with whom he had a personal relationship, and sought to obstruct government investigations of his conduct.”

The Senators wrote, “The sequence and timing of Mr. Gaetz’s resignation from the

House raises serious questions about the contents of the House Ethics Committee report and findings. We cannot allow this critical information from a bipartisan investigation into longstanding public allegations to be hidden from the American people, given that it is directly relevant to the question of whether Mr. Gaetz is qualified and fit to be the next Attorney General of the United States.”

The Senators continued, “The Senate has a constitutional duty to provide advice and consent on presidential nominees, and it is crucial that we review all of the information necessary to fulfill this duty as we consider Mr. Gaetz’s nomination. We thus request that you immediately provide to the Senate Judiciary Committee your Committee’s report and all documentation related to your investigation into Mr. Gaetz’s alleged misconduct.

The Senate Judiciary Committee will accept this information in any format that accords with your Committee’s rules, but please include all underlying source materials on which you relied, including interviews and contact information for any of these sources.”

There is substantial precedent for the release of such materials in both chambers of

Congress. In 1987, the House Ethics Committee released a preliminary report about former Rep. Bill Boner after he left Congress, stating: “In the Committee’s view, the general policy against issuing reports in cases such as here involved is outweighed by the responsibility of the Committee to fully inform the public regarding the status and results of its efforts up to the date of Representative Boner’s departure from Congress.” Similarly, in 2011, the Senate Select Committee on Ethics released its preliminary report on former Senator John Ensign after he resigned from Congress. The House Ethics Committee has also continued investigations after Members have left Congress, such as in 2010 when it twice reauthorized its investigation into former Rep. Eric Massa after his departure. The letter was led by Majority Whip Dick Durbin (D-IL), Chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee, and signed by U.S. Senators Cory Booker (D-NJ), Sheldon Whitehouse (D-RI), Amy Klobuchar (D-MN), Chris Coons (D-DE), Richard Blumenthal (D-CT), Mazie Hirono (D-HI), Alex Padilla (D-CA), Jon Ossoff (D-GA), Peter Welch (D-VT), and Laphonza Butler (D-CA).

Update Given On Record-Breaking Drought And Wildfire Response

From The Desk Of The Governor

Phil Murphy

TRENTON – As New Jersey continues to experience historically low precipitation, above-average temperatures, and deteriorating water-supply conditions, Governor Phil Murphy and DEP Commissioner Shawn M. LaTourette announced on November 13 the State is declaring a Drought Warning and gave an update on the significant increase in wildfires over last year. As New Jersey enters the next stage in severity of water-storage conditions, officials strongly encouraged the public to reduce water use during a virtual press conference.

Firefighters across New Jersey are battling a number of wildfires during a record-breaking dry spell that is affecting the entire northeast. Since early October, the New Jersey Forest Fire Service has responded to 537 wildfires, a more than 1,300% increase in wildfires over the same period last year. The New Jersey Office of Emergency Management has deployed the State’s All-Hazards Incident Management Team to supplement operations.

The Jennings Creek wildfire, burning along New Jersey’s border with New York, claimed the life of New York State parks system employee Dariel Vasquez as he fought the fire.

Since the start of the year, nearly 1,300 wildfires have burned over 11,000 acres. The average number of fires per year since the year 2000 is 1,071 wildfires and 4,000 acres burned. As a result of the extremely dry conditions, mandatory statewide Stage 3 fire restrictions remain in effect. These restrictions prohibit all fires unless they are contained in an elevated stove using only propane, natural gas, or electricity. No wood or charcoal fires are allowed, and the use of kerosene or gas torches of any kind is prohibited while this level of restriction is in place.

Commissioner LaTourette signed an Administrative Order authorizing the Drought Warning designation, which is the next stage of drought after a Water Supply Drought Watch. DEP announced Drought Watch status in mid-October, following a period of prolonged dry conditions. A Drought Warning enables the DEP to more closely manage water systems by directing water transfers among systems, controlling releases from

reservoirs, and modifying the rate of flow in streams and rivers in order to balance ecological protection and needs of water suppliers.

“New Jersey is experiencing unprecedented weather conditions - as a result of climate change - that require us to take these precautionary measures now,” Governor Murphy said. “It can be challenging to adjust our daily habits, but it is imperative that we all work together, heed the guidance to conserve water, and use the utmost caution outdoors to reduce the risk of wildfire as dry conditions continue statewide.”

“Climate change is driving our record low precipitation and above-average temperature recorded statewide in September and October,” Commissioner LaTourette said.

“This combination of events has resulted in decreased streamflow and groundwater levels, which harms our available water supplies. Taking these measures now and encouraging reduced water use will help provide some measure of protection from the weather uncertainty we face entering winter.”

Major reservoir systems are below their normal water levels for this time of year and may need transfers of water through interconnected infrastructure to balance storage.

The Coastal North region’s storage is predominantly created from the combined storage in reservoirs operated by New Jersey

American Water and the New Jersey Water Supply Authority serving portions of Monmouth and Ocean counties are 62 percent capacity, compared to their normal level of 86 percent for this time of year.

Water Conservation Guidance

The public is strongly encouraged to follow these tips to reduce water use:

• At this time of year, it is appropriate to let lawns go dormant for the season.

• Winterize, and shut off irrigation systems as soon as possible.

• Only use a watering can to water flowers and shrubs or allow them to go dormant for the season.

• Use a broom to sweep the sidewalk, rather than a hose.

• Use a commercial car wash that recycles water, as washing your car at home typically results in more water use.

• To save water at home, fix leaky faucets and pipes. Consider replacing your toilet with a low-flow version; this can save around 11,000 gallons per year.

• Upgrade your showerhead to low-flow versions, which can save some 7,700 gallons per year.

• Upgrade your faucets or install faucet aerators; this can save some 16,000 gallons per year.

Disclaimer: Micromedia Publications has always provided a space in its newspapers to provide a place for readers to learn what their elected officials are doing. These items are lightly edited for such things as punctuation and grammar but are mostly unchanged from the source. These press releases are the politicians’ own views, not that of Micromedia Publications. We cannot vouch for the accuracy of information that these politicians are providing, and readers are encouraged to keep an open mind and consider multiple sources.

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Officers Host Annual Veterans Day Brunch

BRICK – On November 11, members of Brick Township PBA 230 held their annual Veterans Day Brunch at the Brick VFW Post 8867 in observation of Veterans Day.

This free breakfast, with food donated by Windward Tavern, is a small way for us to thank the members of our community who have selflessly defended our country by serv-

ing in its Armed Forces.

Of the many brave men and women in attendance at this year’s event was US Army veteran Raymond Carroll, who is turning 100 years old this month! Brick Township Mayor Lisa Crate presented Raymond with a proclamation honoring his lifetime of achievements, and we were honored to have him among us this year.

Visit The OC Historical Society For The 4th Annual Victorian Style Holiday Open House

TOMS RIVER – Celebrate this Holiday Season At the Ocean County Historical Society’s 4th Annual Victorian Style Open House on November 30 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.

For many members of the Ocean County Historical Society one of the first signs of the Holiday Season is the OCHS Holiday Open House. The event offers something for the whole family. Make sure to have your picture taken with Santa and Mrs. Claus at no charge. They will be arriving from the North Pole at 11 a.m. and staying until 2 p.m. You are also going to want to tour the 1860s house and museum, decorated for the holidays. When you get hungry enjoy the holiday snacks and drinks. And, of course, Santa will have special gifts for the children.

Make sure to bring your children and grandchildren to this fun filled event. And keep in mind, the day is meant to be enjoyed by people of all ages.

According to OCHS Board member Frank Parks, “my wife and I look so forward to the Open House each year. We love dressing up in holiday themed clothes and have our picture taken with Santa and Mrs. Claus each year. A lot of fun, and great memories.”

The Ocean County Historical Society is located in Downtown Toms River at 26 Hadley Avenue. In keeping with the holiday spirit, there is no fee for admission to the museum or for pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus. For additional information, contact Jeff at 609-339-9134 or jeffschenker@myyahoo.com.

Jersey Shore Animal Center Pocketbook Bingo Fundraiser

BRICK – On behalf of the Jersey Shore Animal Center and the very special fourlegged friends in their care, they thank you for considering them for your donation. They are proud to announce their very first Pocketbook Bingo Fundraiser being held March 9 at the

American Legion Post 348, 822 Mantoloking Road, Brick.

Funds raised will help continue their mission – to rescue, care for, and rehome unwanted, abused, abandoned, and sick animals. They are hoping they can count on your support.

Kick-Off To Christmas Breakfast

With

Santa

BRICK – Laurelton Fire Company Ladies Auxiliary invites you to their Breakfast With Santa on November 30 from 8 to 11 a.m. at 1725 Route 88, Brick. Come have breakfast with Santa before he returns to the North Pile to get ready for his busy Christmas Eve. Cost is $10 per person; ages 3 and under are free. Call 732-202-6731 for information or to reserve tickets.

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Senior Men’s Cuts $15

Reg. Men’s Cuts $18

Senior Women’s Cuts $19

Reg. Women’s Cuts $22

Children’s Cuts $15

(Children 10 and Younger) Foils $50 & Up

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Township Holds Annual Veterans Day Ceremony

Infrastructure Improvements Completed

LAKEWOOD – Regardless of where you live or drive in Lakewood, you have likely encountered newly improved roads and/or sidewalks in recent weeks. Infrastructure improvements were recently completed including new streets; new signals; new sidewalks; new pavement; and drainage improvements. At the same time, preparation work has also advanced for several infrastructure projects to be completed in the near future. These diverse projects were completed within a relatively short span of several weeks, which encompassed the holiday season of Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and Sukkos, during which there are a number of days with minimal traffic. During the time when there was high traffic, such as Erev Yom Tov, there was little or no

roadwork done in high traffic locations. This entailed complex planning and coordination on the part of local officials with Lakewood Township, Ocean County, and the State of New Jersey governments – each of whom was responsible for some of these projects - as well as engineers, contractors, and law enforcement agencies.

Lakewood Committeeman Meir Lichtenstein said, “During the hectic Yom Tov season, we kept on getting calls from both residents and business owners, who were amazed at how smooth the traffic flow was for them and their customers, even as all these projects were underway. I would like to thank our partners at all levels for working with us so efficiently to improve Lakewood’s infrastructure with minimal disruption.”

BRICK – Brick Township held its annual Veterans Day ceremony to honor our military veterans of the United States Armed Forces. Thanks to all military veterans and their families!

Photo courtesy Brick Township

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Local Pets Available For Adoption

BRICK – Meet Thomas! This handsome tabby is about a year old and came to us from an overcrowded NJ shelter. He’s sweet, friendly, and likes other cats too. He quickly made his way into our free-roaming cat room. We’re hoping his stay with us is

Photo courtesy Jersey Shore Animal Center

a short one because he’s ready to find his forever home!

You can view this pet and more at jerseyshoreanimalcenter.org. They are located at 185 Brick Boulevard and can be reached at 732-920-1600.

Brick PAL Cookie Exchange & Ugly Sweater Dance

BRICK – Brick PAL Cookie Exchange & Ugly Sweater Dance will be on December 17 from 6:30 to 9 p.m. at 60 Drum Point Road. Beginner lessons 6:30 to 7 p.m.; Open dance 7 to 9 p.m. Admission is $10 and includes coffee and tea; Soda and water are $1. BYOB beer, wine, snacks.

Join for their Holiday Cookie Exchange. Rules: Bring two dozen of your favorite holiday cookies and a copy of your recipe and share your recipe. Don’t forget to bring a small container to take some of your favorite cookies home with you. All cookies should be homemade

Label your tray on the bottom if you want it back

Two dozen cookies per person

Arrange cookies in whatever you would like to display them (platter, basket and be creative!) Bring a container to carry away your cookies. Bring copies of your recipe to the event.

RSVP as soon as you can to BTK email FB or text 908-415-4777so there is no duplicate recipes.

If you don’t have time to bake or have burnt your cookies, but still want to participate in the exchange, you must go to a real bakery and buy two dozen yummy cookies.

5th Annual Thanksgiving Farmers Market

BRICK – Mayor Lisa Crate is excited to announce that the Brick Township Farmers Market’s 5th Annual Thanksgiving Market will be held on November 23 at Windward Beach Park!

Join from 8:30 a.m. to 1:30 p.m. and enjoy a special holiday market featuring 50 vendors offering a wide selection of fresh and local products perfect for your Thanksgiving feast. With all your favorite Brick Farmers Market vendors in one place, this is the ideal oppor-

tunity to gather quality ingredients while supporting local farmers and artisans. In addition to Thanksgiving essentials, the market is a great place to get a head start on holiday shopping! Browse unique, handcrafted items, one-of-a-kind home goods and artisanal products that make perfect gifts for friends and family. They encourage residents and visitors alike to come out and experience this festive tradition, connect with the community and celebrate the season!

A MESSAGE FROM OUR ADMINISTRATOR:

Rose Garden is one of the few “mom and pop” skilled nursing and rehabilitation centers left ... in the state of New Jersey. The world has turned “corporate;” we have not.

It has been our core belief that the delivery of healthcare is quite personal. That “intimacy” is in danger when 5 to 100 facilities are operated in multiple states by large corporations.

We have always strived for a close “family” atmosphere and believe we have succeeded. The environment is warm and inviting and exceedingly clean and spotless. Our homemade food and soups are outstanding, and the care is thoughtful, kind and productive.

We have been called the “Hotel of Healthcare.”

Please ask your friends, neighbors and, most importantly, other healthcare professionals. We are here, in your neighborhood, to serve you!

Visit the Ocean County Historical Society for Our 4th Annual Victorian Style Holiday Open House!

Saturday, Nov. 30th from 10:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Located at 26 Hadley Ave. in Downtown Toms River ADMISSION IS FREE!

• Free Pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus from 11am-2pm

• Take a Tour of Our Holiday Decorated Victorian Style Home

• Enjoy Holiday Refreshments and Gifts for the Children

Bring your children and grandchildren to this fun filled event!

Contact Jeff at 609.339.9134 or jeffschenker@myyahoo.com for additional information.

Local EMS Host

Successful Blood Drive

POINT PLEASANT – On November 11, Point Boro EMS had a great turn out for the Gary Letizia Memorial Blood Drive.

A total of 51 pints of blood was donated thanks to our amazing community. Thank you to those who donated and helped save countless lives! Pictured is EMT Peters donating blood.

Dasti & Staiger Embraces Season Of Giving With Community Spirit

FORKED RIVER – As the season of gratitude approaches, Dasti & Staiger is proud to highlight its commitment to community service and giving back. Our team of dedicated attorneys actively participates in various charitable initiatives, reflecting our deep-rooted belief in supporting the community in which we live and work.

Our attorneys hold leadership positions on several non-profit boards, including Lauren Staiger on the RWJ Barnabas Health Behavioral Health Center Board, Brandon DeJesus as the State Bar Trustee for the Ocean County Bar Association and Jeffrey Cheney with the Central Ocean Business Association.

Managing Partner, Christopher Dasti also serves on the Ocean County College Foundation Board and recently contributed as a committee member for HOPE Sheds Light’s fundraising committee.

“We are all very blessed and fortunate for the positions we find ourselves in,” Dasti said.

“It’s important for our firm to not only excel in our professional responsibilities but to also give back to the community that supports us. Our long-term goal is to foster a culture of giving within our team, encouraging involve-

ment in causes that matter to us.”

As Thanksgiving approaches, we aim to reflect and express gratitude for the opportunities we have been given. Dasti emphasized, “Work life can be stressful at times, and it’s crucial to take a moment to acknowledge how fortunate we are. We strive to be a pillar in our community, and we look forward to continuing our efforts in the future.”

Dasti & Staiger’s motivation stems from a shared desire to see our community thrive.

“We all live here, we’re raising our families here, and we want to ensure it’s a great place for everyone,” Dasti added. “Helping others is a responsibility we all share, and the reward of making a difference is immeasurable.”

As we move forward, Dasti & Staiger invites everyone in our community to join us in giving back. “Mentorship and friendship have paved the way for many of us,” Dasti noted. “It’s important to remember that we can all help others through our experiences, whether it’s by donating time, resources, or simply offering guidance.”

For more information about Dasti & Staiger and their commitment to community involvement, please visit their website at dastilaw.com.

Photo courtesy Point Boro EMS

R.C. Shea & Assoc. Inside The Law

TRAVEL INSURANCE Are You Really Insured?

By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates

Before you purchase travel insurance, especially in this post COVID era, read the policy to make sure you are covered.

As with any insurance policy, you are only insured for certain enumerated conditions or events and there are always a ton of exclusions which will leave you uninsured.

These days, a lot of people are purchasing Travel Insurance in the event they cannot take a planned trip due to COVID restrictions, such as testing positive a few days before leaving for a Cruise. Many cruise lines will not permit you to board their ship if you recently tested positive for COVID, even if you have very minor symptoms or no symptoms at all. So, if you have tested positive for COVID can you file a successful insurance claim for your lost vacation?

In order to make a successful claim, your trip must have been cancelled due to a “Covered Event”. Your policy will list what is considered a “Covered Event” and it will also list the many, many Exclusions. Read the “Covered Event” and “Exclusions” sections of the policy carefully. Many Trip (Travel) Protection Insurance Policies do not provide coverage for “travel restrictions imposed for a certain area by a governmental authority”, “a Pandemic or an Endemic”. So, if just prior to your trip to Mexico the Mexican government closes its border to vacationers and you are denied entry into the Country then your insurance claim may be denied.

In addition, if you or a family member are ill or injured then your policy will require that you demonstrate that the sickness or injury commenced while your coverage is in effect under the Policy and you may be required to attend in-person treatment with a physician

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who must then diagnose you with a condition that is “so disabling in the written opinion of a Physician as to prevent you from taking your Trip.” So, does the mere fact that you have tested positive for COVID necessarily mean that your condition is “so disabling in the written opinion of a Physician as to prevent you from taking your Trip? If not, your claim will be denied.

Additionally, don’t become blind-sided by the “Optional Cancel For Any Reason” coverage. Yes, you can purchase this optional coverage for an additional premium, but does this mean you can cancel for any reasons whatsoever? The answer is “NO”. Again, you must read the policy. For example, one policy that I read stated that, “We will reimburse You… when You cancel your trip prior to departure for any reason not otherwise covered by this policy, provided [certain] conditions are met…” This sentence does not mean that you can ignore the many, many enumerated Exclusions in the policy. Finally, make sure you are purchasing enough insurance benefits to cover your trip. Like any insurance policy, you choose the limits of your coverage and even if your claim is covered you will be limited by the amount of insurance coverage you purchased.

The attorneys at R.C. Shea & Associates are experienced litigators ready to serve our community and we hope you enjoy your vacation.

Recall The Hindenburg’s Final Flight

LAKEWOOD – It was the largest aircraft ever to go aloft. It pioneered commercial transatlantic air travel. It was a symbol of luxury and of Germany’s global influence. And when the Hindenburg burst into flames in 1937 at Lakehurst, the tragedy was felt around the world. Join us for “The Hindenburg Experience” at the Ocean County Library Lakewood Branch, 6 p.m. on December 11.

Bill Schmidt of the Navy Lakehurst Historical Society will reconstruct the final voyage of the storied airship. The Hindenburg (LZ-129) measured almost 803 feet in length and 135 feet in diameter. It bore many hundreds of passengers and gracefully traveled thousands of miles.

What triggered the tragedy when docking

maneuvers faltered? What was the cost in human lives? What did it mean for the future of aviation and for the image of a re-emerging world power? Bill Schmidt’s revealing presentation brings local and world history to life. The Navy Lakehurst Historical Society maintains a museum of artifacts salvaged from the dirigible and a reconstruction of its bridge on the grounds of Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst, within view of the spot of the devastation which is marked by a plaque.

Register at tinyurl.com/OclLakHindenburg to attend this free program. For more information, stop by the OCL Lakewood Branch, 301 Lexington Avenue, call 732-363-1435 or visit the Library’s online Calendar of Events.

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Dr. Izzy’s

Sound News

Presented By: Isidore Kirsh, Ph.D., F.A.A.A. (N.J. Lic. #678)

Shepherd Others To Better Hearing

Are you someone who has experienced the care our practice provides? Have you acknowledged your hearing issues, fought back, and won? If so, you now have the opportunity to assist someone else on their journey to better hearing and whole-body health. Want to be a hero? Here’s how you can shepherd someone into the process and support them along the way:

Start the Conversation - The stigma is real. Begin by having an open and compassionate discussion about hearing health issues. Share your own experiences and the benefits you’ve experienced from addressing your own hearing issues. This can help reduce the stigma and fear often associated with getting treatment (like wearing hearing aids).

Encourage Professional Help - Suggest they schedule an appointment with us. Assure them you know a great hearing care professional and offer to accompany them on their first visit. Your support makes the process less intimidating.

Be Patient and Understanding - Understand that acknowledging one’s own hearing issues, and seeking help for them, can be a gradual process. Provide contin-

uous encouragement, emphasizing the positive changes they can expect.

Provide Educational Resources - Share articles, brochures, or online resources about hearing loss and its impact. Helping them learn the importance of hearing health can motivate them to take action. Keep It Up - Continue to check in on their progress and offer assistance. Celebrate their milestones, no matter how small, and remind them of the benefits they’ll enjoy with improved hearing health.

By guiding someone through this process, you give the gift of a better life. Your empathy, encouragement, and practical support can make all the difference in helping them take the first steps toward better hearing health.

Your journey can inspire someone else to take control of their hearing health. Let’s work together to improve lives. Help a friend schedule an appointment to address their hearing health today.

Dr. Izzy and his Staff are always available to provide you with honest answers about your hearing health care. Please feel free to contact our office at 732-451-3962 or visit our website at gardenstatehearing.com

We Hear You and We are Here for You!

His offices are in Toms River, Whiting, and Manahawkin. He can be reached at 732-451-3962 or via Web site at gardenstatehearing.com. Dr. Izzy & Staff gives Retirement Community Talks!

Citizen Input Wanted For Open Space And Recreation Plan

BRICK – The Township of Brick has a long tradition of preserving open spaces and developing state-of-the-art parks and recreation facilities.

In order to optimize funding from grant sources such as the NJ Green Acres Program, the Township is updating its original Open Space and Recreation Plan completed in 2000 to reflect current trends in open space and recreational needs.

The public is invited to help us develop the plan through a series of outreach efforts including a public hearing on December 11 at 6 p.m., a pop-up table at the Fall Farmers Market on November 23 and through the survey link: surveymonkey.com/r/FXFMWMQ?

Help plan for the future park and recreational amenities in the Township by responding to the survey.

Hospice Volunteers Looking For Craft Supplies

BRICK – Much like Santa’s elves, as the holiday season approaches, hospice volunteers are working on gifts for patients.

Angelic Health Hospice Volunteers are in need of yarn, Mod Podge glue, pine cones about 3 to 4 inches, 2-inch burlap

ribbon and word search and crossword books.

If you have any of these items to donate, contact Kathy Donadio, volunteer coordinator at 609-432-0073, or email her at kdonadio@angelichospice.net.

Dr. Isidore Kirsh Ph.D., F.A.A.A.

Dear Pharmacist

Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

The Nutmeg Buzz: It’s More Than Just a Holiday Spice!

By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.

I recently made a Bourbon Pumpkin Pie (recipe’s up on my website for all you brave souls drooling to taste it!) and decided to grate some whole nutmeg right into it. Wow, what a difference! Freshly grated nutmeg brings a richer, deeper flavor compared to the powdered spice I usually use. Seriously, it’s like comparing a string quartet to a kazoo. Nutmeg is already a holiday superstar, but did you know this humble spice has some pretty quirky effects on the brain?

Nutmeg can cause a bit of a natural high. It has compounds that can make you feel, well, a little “off” if you use too much. Ever notice that one relative who gets mysteriously weird after dessert on Thanksgiving? You thought it was the carb load, but it could be the nutmeg in that pumpkin pie!

Nutmeg contains myristicin, a psychoactive compound that, in larger amounts, has been known to trigger a trippy experience.

Nutmeg’s “trippy” compound, myristicin, also shows up in other familiar spices like parsley, cinnamon, anise, clove, and fennel but only tiny trace amounts. Nutmeg is the true heavyweight of the bunch.

Dosage matters: A little goes a long way. Recipes usually call for about half a teaspoon which is considered a small pinch in the grand scheme of your soup or pie. But some people, and especially teens who did that TikTok challenge, were downing teaspoonfuls (cringe!) and at those amounts, nutmeg becomes dangerous.

Ingesting too much nutmeg activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering fight-or-flight responses. A “nutmeg trip”

can come with a cocktail of nasty symptoms: Dry mouth, blurred vision, nausea, dizziness, hallucinations and even heart arrhythmias. For anyone with heart issues, too much is dangerous. And the sneaky part? The negative effects don’t kick in right away. People may feel fine at first and then BOOM!

Beyond the “nutmeg buzz,” this spice is loaded with health perks. It’s a fantastic anti-inflammatory, a natural remedy for pain and digestive issues, and even has sleep-promoting properties. Used correctly, nutmeg is a culinary and health powerhouse, adding a warm, earthy depth to dishes while also offering a range of benefits. I much prefer nutmeg to clove! It’s been linked to better memory, reduced blood pressure, and even anti-cancer properties. A 2023 study published in Current Molecular Pharmacology, found that myristicin could block a critical cancer pathway showing that it might have real potential as a new, natural approach to stomach cancer treatment!

In short, nutmeg is a superfood, just in a pinch, not a scoop!

The takeaway is that nutmeg is a delightful, healthful spice when used properly, it’s one I highly recommend especially if you grate the fresh seed. It can elevate your cooking in so many ways. Just keep an eye on those measurements and, while you’re at it, maybe keep an eye on your kids’ social media trends, too. Nutmeg deserves a spot in your spice cabinet, but like many awesome natural things, it deserves respect.

(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2024 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.

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Mary & Steve Mulvey recently moved to Brick where they discovered the beauty of sunsets over Bayside Cove. While enjoying the view, a gentleman took this photo and came over to them to say that he just had to snap this shot. We agree – it’s awesome! Want to see your picture in this space? Email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and we may just publish it.

Thanksgiving Box Of Kindness Buffet Lunch

BRICK – If you’re in need of Thanksgiving groceries, New Beginnings Church would love to help out!

Join on November 23 at the Brick Campus (236 Brick Boulevard) anytime from 12 to 1:30 p.m. to receive a Box Of Kindness that includes everything you need to cook a Thanksgiving meal, including a frozen turkey.

In addition to distributing a Box Of Kindness to each family, they will also be serving a hot buffet lunch and sitting down

to eat together at 12 p.m. If you’d like to eat with us, please be here at 12 p.m. Your entire family is invited!

Registration is required. Register at: newbeginningsnj.org/outreach. Please only register if you know you can come to receive your Box Of Kindness, supplies are limited and they don’t want anyone to miss receiving help.

They pray this gathering and these groceries are a blessing to you this holiday season!

Holiday Of Hope Pet Photos With Santa

BRICK – You do not want to miss the Holiday of Hope event! Our elves are already at work preparing for Santa’s arrival on December 8 at Jersey Shore Animal Center 185 Brick Boulevard from 1 to 4 p.m.

Bring your camera or phone. They supply the Santa, and you take the photos. Santa’s helpers can help you take your photo! All pets must be leashed! Friendly animals welcome. This is a rain or shine event.

Cheers To The Year Installation Dinner

BRICK – Join the Brick Chamber of Commerce for a celebration of 2024 and installation of their 2025 Officers and Board of Directors. Event will be on December 3 from 6 to

9 p.m. at The Grenville. A fun and festive evening with delicious food, beer and wine!

For more information and to register, visit brickchamber.com.

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his classmates what it is to be autistic.

“His classmates have this new appreciation for him,” shared Alyssa. “And he develops this really close relationship with his teacher, Miss Jones.”

Through Max’s story, Alyssa brings readers along as his friends build a “tower of acceptance” and discover what it means to appreciate each other’s differences. One of the most touching parts of the book is the dedication – to Michael, who Alyssa refers to as her beautiful brother.

“You are a constant source of inspiration, and your unique way of experiencing the world has forever shaped my perspective,” Alyssa wrote. “In your gentle presence, I have learned the true meaning of acceptance, empathy, and the beauty of neurodiversity.”

Following “Max and the Tower of Acceptance,” Alyssa published “Lily Finds Her Voice” in the summer of 2023. This book tells the story of Lily, a nonverbal young girl

who uses an AAC (augmentative and alternative communication) device to communicate.

Lily’s story is close to Alyssa’s heart, as Michael also uses an AAC device. While he can say words occasionally, the device allows Michael to express more complex thoughts and emotions. Through Lily’s journey, Alyssa hopes to show readers that communication goes beyond spoken words - it’s about understanding each other’s needs and creating connections.

“Henry and the Birthday Invitation,” the third book in the series, was released in early 2024. It follows Henry, a boy with autism, who is finally invited to a friend’s birthday party. Henry’s friends make sure he feels comfortable at the party by creating a “quiet corner” with calming items, showing how small changes can make a big difference.

“I don’t think my brother was ever invited to a birthday party,” Alyssa said. “Henry’s story is what inclusion can look like.”

The latest addition, “Julie Visits the Statue of Liberty,” debuted in August 2024. The book was inspired by Michael’s interest in visiting the iconic statue. After seeing him

mention the Statue of Liberty on his AAC device, the family planned a sensory-friendly trip that allowed Michael to experience the landmark comfortably. Julie’s story celebrates the adventure of exploring new places while keeping the needs of neurodiverse individuals in mind.

To make the books even more impactful, the two new titles include “self-advocate pages” spotlighting individuals with intellectual disabilities. A coloring book entitled “Colorful Minds; Colorful Worlds” encourages children of all abilities to express their emotions through art.

“It’s a neurodiversity affirming coloring book,” explained Alyssa. “It’s a way to express emotions and share the joy of coloring with a neurotypical and a neurodiverse person.”

Alyssa and her mom worked together on the graphic designs of the books, which are self-published and available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. A portion of all proceeds goes to autism-focused charities.

Alongside her writing, Alyssa is active in promoting autism awareness on social media and attends conferences to speak about

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neurodiversity and inclusive education. Most recently, she spoke at the Summit for Transformative Learning in St. Louis, Missouri. After college graduation, Alyssa plans to work in healthcare public relations, bringing her advocacy skills to a new field.

No matter what she does professionally, Alyssa will always be there for her younger brother in every way. She’s honored that her parents have named her as one of Michael’s legal guardians along with them. And she gives both her mom and dad credit for raising her to be accepting and tolerant.

“It’s the way they would tell me things about my brother, and how we would reconcile them,” Alyssa shared. “They would tell me this is how Michael communicates, how he behaves, and how we help him and support him.”

“I almost didn’t know there was anything abnormal or different until we would enter the community,” she continued. “Then, we would get the backlash, the bullying and the questions. I thought finding creative solutions was normal, as was being resilient and not afraid to fail.”

BRICK – Recently, the Women’s Club of Brick filled 32 Christmas Stockings for our service men and women. Here’s how our relatively small contribution made a difference statewide in this statement from Barbara McCloskey, New Jersey State Fed-

eration of Women’s Club President:

“Thank you to all the clubs and members who spent so many hours purchasing, organizing and filling the holiday stockings! A new record: 2,706 stockings were donated, and $6,317 in postage and donations.”

“A huge thank you to Dawn Pogosaew, Civic Engagement and Outreach Chairman, Linda Carbley, NJSFWC Treasurer and all the other volunteers who supported this fabulous project!

“Did you know that NJSFWC started this

yearly tradition in 2009 during the administration of NJSFWC President Anne Redlus? Clubs have embraced the project for the past 16 years, and members have contributed 26,314 stockings to date. We now proudly add another 2,706 to that total.”

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Continued From Page 6 programs. The programs are administered through the public school district in which the nonpublic school is located. To be eligible for services, a nonpublic school must be registered with the New Jersey Department of Education (NJDOE) and must complete the Nonpublic Enrollment Report annually, located in the NJDOE Homeroom.

The following New Jersey statutes apply to compulsory education:

N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25 requires that “every parent, guardian or other person having custody and control of a child between six and 16 to ensure that such child regularly attends the public schools of the district or a day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments or to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school.”

Note: The provision, “to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school” in N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/ guardian to educate the child at home.

N.J.S.A. 18A:38-31 states that “a parent or guardian or other person having charge and control of a child between the ages of 6 and 16 years, who shall fail to comply with any of the provisions of the article (N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25) relating to his/her duties, shall be deemed to be a disorderly person and shall be subject to a fine of not more than $25 for the first offense and not more than $100 for each subsequent offense, in the discretion of the court.”

While the code allows for non-compliance in the case of homeschooling, it clearly states “N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/guardian to educate the child at home.”

This project is not an “at home” situation and therefore, is not a school. If the Liberty School Association wishes to comply with the code, it needs to demonstrate that it is a “day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments or to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school.”

It also needs to comply with the definition of a non-public school including … “legally fulfill compulsory school attendance requirements and which complies with the requirements of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 [N.J.S.A. 18A:46A-2(b)].”

If The Liberty School Association is proposing a school, it has failed to present appropriate documentation that would allow it to be considered a non-public school. If it is homeschooling, then the state only recognizes homeschooling if it occurs at home. Any other option will place the parents of the children in violation of N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25 which requires that “every parent, guardian or other person having custody and control of a child between six and 16 to ensure that such child regularly attends the public schools of the district or a day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools…”

At the August, 2024 meeting Ms. Snegon stated she intends to run the “school” based on New Jersey requirements for homeschooling. Unfortunately, New Jersey is one of one five states which has no regulations. The only

“regulation” in code is a suggestion: “N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/guardian to educate the child at home.”

The NJ Department of Education Frequently Asked Questions Homeschooling page states “The New Jersey Department of Education encourages parents to notify the local board of education of the intent to educate the child elsewhere than at school so that questions do not arise with respect to the parent’s compliance with the compulsory

education law.” There is no mandate to comply. Notification is “encouraged.” There are currently NO guidelines or requirements that homeschooling parents must follow.

I firmly believe that the evidence provided so far by the Liberty School Association prohibits the use of Fellowship Chapel of the Jersey Shore for the unclear purpose The Liberty School Association has presented. If approved, aside from the traffic and con-

cerns other have expressed, there is a real danger that the parents, the Chapel, and the town can be held accountable for failure to meet NJ code which is clear in describing three options: public school, non-public school, and homeschooling.

I urge the Board to deny approval for the project.

Tina Gordon, Ed.D. Brick

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ARIES (March 21-April 19) : Competitive games may be like mini dramas you can’t take your eyes away from. Whether it’s a board game or a friendly soccer match, they could bring people together. Laughter and a dash of healthy rivalry could brighten your day.

TAURUS (April 20-May 20): When you’ve been contemplating change, the universe may seem to conspire in your favor. It might be the people you meet or the places you visit that could fire up your imagination. You may feel motivated to try something new this week.

GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Perform the delicate dance of not stepping on anyone’s toes. Be considerate, but don’t tiptoe so much that you lose your rhythm. Add a sprinkle of kindness or a pinch of wit to the recipe when cooking up fun ideas for loved ones.

CANCER (June 21-July 22): Nobody wants to play the role of the hypocrite, it’s like casting yourself as the villain in your own story. If you advocate for kindness, be kind. If you preach patience, practice it. Walk your talk to create a happier life.

LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Loyalty might be your middle name but sometimes you must take charge. Leading by example may feel like being the compass for others and allowing your light to guide the way. Let your actions be in sync with your dialogue this week.

VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You may handle juggling friendships and tightrope-walking between extra commitments. Gatherings and community events that you attend in the week ahead could help you put things back into perspective. Find a good balance.

FOR THE WEEK OF NOV 23 - NOV 29

BY JERALDINE SAUNDERS

OMARR’S ASTROLOGICAL FORECAST

LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Ignore the urge the digital world and allow yourself to venture beyond four walls for an adventure. Consider gathering loved ones, or those who light up your life, for a social outing. The sound of laughter and cheer may be therapeutic for everyone.

SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Think of loyalty as your trusty sidekick, like the Robin to your Batman. It may be there unwavering when you need it but consider letting it stretch its wings a bit. Be open to spontaneity, like a secret handshake with new experiences.

SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Imagine your life as a movie. Your words are the script, but your actions are the scenes. When you say one thing but do another, it creates a dissonance that may cause you to stop believing in yourself. Stay authentic and true.

CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): A stroke of good luck doesn’t mean you need to rewrite the entire plot. Goals are the backbone of your narrative so be sure to evaluate them carefully before making changes. Luck may frequently change, but purpose remains the same.

AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Imagine your goal as the center of the target. You may find that each element including your thoughts, actions, and circumstances gradually aligns, like arrows pointing toward that bull’s eye. Trust that timing plays a part.

PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): The best moments of life may happen when you step away from the screen and participate in the real world. Consider choosing a new path this week, whether it is a walking trail or a game board and be sure to include some friends.

THE AIR FRYER HELPED DELIVER A JUICY PORK CHOP WITH A CRISPY CRUST, NO OIL REQUIRED

By America’s Test Kitchen

AIR-FRYER CRISPY BREADED BONELESS PORK CHOPS

Serves 2

3/4 cup panko bread crumbs

2 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted

1 large egg

2 tablespoons Dijon mustard

1 tablespoon all-purpose flour

1 1/2 teaspoons dry mustard

1/2 teaspoon garlic powder

1/4 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper

2 (8-ounce) boneless pork chops,

1 1/2 inches thick, trimmed Lemon wedges

1. Toss panko with melted butter in a bowl until evenly coated. Microwave, stirring

frequently, until light golden brown, 1 to 3 minutes; transfer to a shallow dish. Whisk egg, Dijon mustard, flour, dry mustard, garlic powder, salt, and cayenne together in a second shallow dish.

2. Pat chops dry with paper towels. Using a sharp knife, cut two slits, about 2 inches apart, through fat on edges of each chop. Cut 1/16-inch-deep slits, spaced 1/2 inch apart, in a crosshatch pattern on both sides of the chops. Working with one chop at a time, dredge in egg mixture, letting excess drip off, then coat with panko mixture, pressing gently to adhere.

3. Lightly spray base of air-fryer basket with vegetable oil spray. Arrange chops in prepared basket, spaced evenly apart. Place basket in air fryer and set temperature to 400 degrees. Cook until pork registers 140 degrees, 18 to 22 minutes, flipping and rotating chops halfway through cooking. Serve with lemon wedges.

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