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The schools participating were Bay Head School, Bordentown Regional Middle School, Calvary Academy, Hugh J. Boyd, Jr. Elementary in Seaside Heights, Lavallette Elementary, Manchester Township Middle School, Memorial Middle School in Point Pleasant, Saint Peter’s School in Point Pleasant Beach, and Westfield Friends School in Cinnaminson.
By Chris Lundy BERKELEY
By Chris Lundy
BERKELEY – You can learn a lot in the classroom, but sometimes you have to go to the source.
That’s why more than 200 5th -8th grade students from nine area schools spent a day learning about marine ecosystems at Island Beach State Park during the 36th Annual Clean Ocean
Action Fall Student Summit.
Each session was like an immersive field trip, where the students were able to learn about environmental protection in a fun and hands-on way.
While one group learned seining, another group looked for mollusks and crustaceans. They learned about invasive species and something even more inva-
Kristen Grazioso, education and volunteer manager for Clean Ocean Action, pointed out that while some lessons were taught by groups like the Barnegat Bay Partnership, some were taught by seniors from the Marine Academy of Technology and Environmental Science (MATES).
“They’re learning from their peers,” she said. “They are inspired by the experience.”
The younger students might decide to attend MATES after this. She noted that she’ll meet
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By Stephanie Faughnan
TOMS RIVER - Alyssa Lego, a 22-yearold Boston College senior from Toms River, is on a mission to raise awareness about autism. Inspired by her brother Michael, who is nonverbal, Alyssa has dedicated time and creativity to telling stories that foster understanding and empathy around neurodiversity.
“My younger brother is 19 and on the autism spectrum,” Alyssa shared. “Michael is two and a half years younger than me,
and growing up, I realized that he experienced a lot of ableism, discrimination, and bullying because of his disability.”
The 2021 Donovan Catholic graduate has already released four books in her “You Me Neurodiversity” series, each one helping children and adults better understand autism and its impacts. However, her journey to becoming an advocate began as a young teenager.
Alyssa said that watching how others
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– A number of employees were trained on wound kits in case they have to respond to medical emergencies at Central Regional Middle or High School.
“My goal is to make sure that all of our faculty are properly trained on the use of the supplies in the kit in the event of an emergency,” Superintendent Dr. Michelle CarneyRay-Yoder said. “I want to get as many of our staff trained as soon as possible.”
Approximately 150 staff members took part in a 45-minute Survival+ For Schools training course so they would know how to use these wound kits. This made them eligible to receive Certificates of Completion from the program developed by the American College of Surgeons Survival+ For Schools Founder Stewart Krentzman said that a team led by first responder and a member of the Survival+ team, Robert Baran, who is also the Director of Emergency Services in Manchester, donated their time to train the staff at Central.
“I want to extend a heartfelt thank you to Superintendent Michelle CarneyRay-Yoder for her unwavering determination to advance the program,” Krentzman said. “I also want to thank Bobby Baran and his team for generously volunteering their time on a Friday to conduct the training. We all hope they never have to use their new skills and kits,
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but they now have them just in case the unthinkable happens!”
In the event of an emergency, a staff person will be trained to use these kits to treat wounds before emergency responders arrive, he said.
“The largest benefit is knowing that
tal science, the goal is to encourage them to think and live in a more environmentally sustainable way.
“By having them here, hands on, connected with the environment, they’ll be more inspired to protect it,” she said.
all teachers, administrators, support staff, and students will be trained in these lifesaving techniques, which allow victims to have the best overall chance at survival prior to the arrival of emergency services,” Baran said. “Placing the equipment and training for the whole school district is not only setting a new standard for educational facilities but pushing the boundaries on the advancement of school safety.”
Some examples of the field trips included a botany walk, beach combing, fishing, beach profiling, and beach sweeps. Roundtable discussions focused on subjects like horseshoe crabs, terrapins, and nonpoint source pollution.
Make Our Schools Safe, founded by the family of Alyssa Alhadeff who was killed at the Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida, donated $10,000 to purchase safety kits.
The safety kits can be thrown across a hallway if needed.
The district has purchased 40 kits so far, which are placed throughout the buildings.
The schools only had to provide transportation. The rest was free thanks to the John Ben Snow Memorial Trust and Eloise & John Pound in memory of Anne Inman Webster, as well as Island Beach State Park.
CarneyRay-Yoder said she wants to have these kits in every classroom as well as high traffic areas such as gymnasiums and auditoriums.
The district is asking the community to raise the remaining $38,000 for the rest of the kits through this secure site: centralreg. k12.nj.us/article/1559322
For more information, visit survivalplusforschools.org/.
By Alyssa Riccardi
JACKSON – Kingda Ka, the highest, fastest coaster in the world, has officially been shut down at Six Flags Great Adventure.
Kingda Ka debuted in 2005, sending riders 456 feet on the air at 128 mph. It’s delivered more than 12 million rides since its opening.
Rumors spread that the famous coaster was set to be closed, with park-goers lining up to snag one last ride over the fi nal weekend. Six Flags Entertainment Corporation confi rmed the closing of the Kingda Ka roller
coaster. The company also announced the retiring of other rides, such as Green Lantern, the Twister, and the Parachutes. The Sky Way, a chair ride that brings guests from one are of the park to another, will also be removed.
“We understand that saying goodbye to beloved rides can be difficult, and we appreciate our guests’ passion. These changes are an important part of our growth and dedication to delivering exceptional new experiences. We look forward to sharing
more details next summer,” said Brian Bacica, park president.
Despite the sad news of these closures, the company announced more than $1 billion in investments its theme parks over the next two years, including two new roller coasters.
Coming in 2025 will be The Flash: Vertical Velocity, North America’s first super boomerang coaster.
The second new ride is a “multi-worldrecord-breaking launch roller coaster” that
is set to debut at the Jackson theme park in 2026. According to park officials, this new coaster will be constructed in the space currently occupied by Kingda Ka and the Green Lantern.
“With our dedication to creating unforgettable experiences, the park’s multi-year expansion plans will bring major investments, including record-breaking thrill rides, revitalized family experiences, elevated dining, expanded events, and continuous enhancements across the property,” said Bacica.
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treated her brother forced her to grow into the protective big sister role from an early age. She found that she was particularly affected by how Michael was bullied.
“When I was 13 or 14, I sat down with the woman who’d been my fourth-grade teacher,” shared Alyssa. “We created a lesson plan program called ‘Friends Who Are Different.’ It was all about respecting students.”
After fine-tuning the program, Alyssa courageously pitched the concept to the Toms River School District. “Friends Who Are Different” caught fire, with Alyssa touring kindergarten classes to deliver the message of understanding and acceptance.
“I did that for about a year,” Alyssa said. “For the next seven years, I was heavily involved with a lot of fundraising work to support autism communities in New Jersey.”
Alyssa left home to go away to college, still determined to keep advocating for autism awareness – though she wasn’t yet sure how. After brainstorming with her mother, Dawn Lego, she devised the idea for the You Me Neurodiversity series.
The goal was to create engaging stories for young children that introduce concepts of acceptance and understanding in a fun, relatable way.
The first book, “Max and the Tower of
Acceptance,” came out in spring 2023. The story introduces Max and his journey to explain to his classmates what it is to be autistic.
“His classmates have this new appreciation for him,” shared Alyssa. “And he develops this really close relationship with his teacher, Miss Jones.”
Through Max’s story, Alyssa brings readers along as his friends build a “tower of acceptance” and discover what it means to appreciate each other’s differences. One of the most touching parts of the book is the dedication – to Michael, who Alyssa refers to as her beautiful brother.
“You are a constant source of inspiration, and your unique way of experiencing the world has forever shaped my perspective,” Alyssa wrote. “In your gentle presence, I have learned the true meaning of acceptance, empathy, and the beauty of neurodiversity.”
Following “Max and the Tower of Acceptance,” Alyssa published “Lily Finds Her Voice” in the summer of 2023. This book tells the story of Lily, a nonverbal young girl who uses an AAC (augmentative and alternative communication) device to communicate.
Lily’s story is close to Alyssa’s heart, as Michael also uses an AAC device. While he can say words occasionally, the device allows Michael to express more complex thoughts and emotions. Through Lily’s journey, Alyssa hopes to show readers that communication goes beyond spoken
words - it’s about understanding each other’s needs and creating connections.
“Henry and the Birthday Invitation,” the third book in the series, was released in early 2024. It follows Henry, a boy with autism, who is finally invited to a friend’s birthday party. Henry’s friends make sure he feels comfortable at the party by creating a “quiet corner” with calming items, showing how small changes can make a big difference.
“I don’t think my brother was ever invited to a birthday party,” Alyssa said. “Henry’s story is what inclusion can look like.”
The latest addition, “Julie Visits the Statue of Liberty,” debuted in August 2024. The book was inspired by Michael’s interest in visiting the iconic statue. After seeing him mention the Statue of Liberty on his AAC device, the family planned a sensory-friendly trip that allowed Michael to experience the landmark comfortably. Julie’s story celebrates the adventure of exploring new places while keeping the needs of neurodiverse individuals in mind.
To make the books even more impactful, the two new titles include “self-advocate pages” spotlighting individuals with intellectual disabilities. A coloring book entitled “Colorful Minds; Colorful Worlds” encourages children of all abilities to express their emotions through art.
“It’s a neurodiversity affi rming coloring book,” explained Alyssa. “It’s a way to express emotions and share the joy of
coloring with a neurotypical and a neurodiverse person.”
Alyssa and her mom worked together on the graphic designs of the books, which are self-published and available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble. A portion of all proceeds goes to autism-focused charities. Alongside her writing, Alyssa is active in promoting autism awareness on social media and attends conferences to speak about neurodiversity and inclusive education. Most recently, she spoke at the Summit for Transformative Learning in St. Louis, Missouri. After college graduation, Alyssa plans to work in healthcare public relations, bringing her advocacy skills to a new field.
No matter what she does professionally, Alyssa will always be there for her younger brother in every way. She’s honored that her parents have named her as one of Michael’s legal guardians along with them. And she gives both her mom and dad credit for raising her to be accepting and tolerant.
“It’s the way they would tell me things about my brother, and how we would reconcile them,” Alyssa shared. “They would tell me this is how Michael communicates, how he behaves, and how we help him and support him.”
“I almost didn’t know there was anything abnormal or different until we would enter the community,” she continued. “Then, we would get the backlash, the bullying and the questions. I thought finding creative solutions was normal, as was being resilient and not afraid to fail.”
Correspondence & Commentary From Your Local, County, State & Federal Officials
Senator Cory Booker
WASHINGTON D.C. – U.S. Senator Cory Booker (D-NJ) joined all Senate Judiciary Democrats in a letter to the House Ethics Committee urging the House Ethics Committee to preserve and transmit to the Senate Judiciary Committee all relevant documentation on former Congressman Matt Gaetz, including the report that the House Ethics Committee was reportedly prepared to vote to release. The letter follows Mr. Gaetz’s resignation from Congress after President-elect Donald Trump announced his intention to nominate Mr. Gaetz to serve as Attorney General.
In April 2021, the bipartisan House Ethics Committee announced that the Committee was “aware of public allegations that Representative Matt Gaetz may have engaged in sexual misconduct and/or illicit drug use, shared inappropriate images or videos
on the House floor, misused state identification records, converted campaign funds to personal use, and/or accepted a bribe, improper gratuity, or impermissible gift, in violation of House Rules, laws, or other standards of conduct,” and as a result, the Committee had “begun an investigation and will gather additional information regarding the allegations.”
In June 2024, the House Ethics Committee issued a statement noting that the Committee had “determined that certain of the allegations merit continued review” and that “the Committee has also identified additional allegations that merit review,” including allegations pursuant to Committee Rules 14(a)(3) and 18(a) that Representative Gaetz may have: engaged in sexual misconduct and illicit drug use, accepted improper gifts, dispensed special privileges and favors to individuals with whom he had a personal relationship, and sought to obstruct government investigations of his conduct.”
The Senators wrote, “The sequence and timing of Mr. Gaetz’s resignation from the
House raises serious questions about the contents of the House Ethics Committee report and findings. We cannot allow this critical information from a bipartisan investigation into longstanding public allegations to be hidden from the American people, given that it is directly relevant to the question of whether Mr. Gaetz is qualified and fit to be the next Attorney General of the United States.”
The Senators continued, “The Senate has a constitutional duty to provide advice and consent on presidential nominees, and it is crucial that we review all of the information necessary to fulfill this duty as we consider Mr. Gaetz’s nomination. We thus request that you immediately provide to the Senate Judiciary Committee your Committee’s report and all documentation related to your investigation into Mr. Gaetz’s alleged misconduct. The Senate Judiciary Committee will accept this information in any format that accords with your Committee’s rules, but please include all underlying source materials on which you relied, including interviews and contact information for any of these sources.”
There is substantial precedent for the release of such materials in both chambers of
Congress. In 1987, the House Ethics Committee released a preliminary report about former Rep. Bill Boner after he left Congress, stating: “In the Committee’s view, the general policy against issuing reports in cases such as here involved is outweighed by the responsibility of the Committee to fully inform the public regarding the status and results of its efforts up to the date of Representative Boner’s departure from Congress.” Similarly, in 2011, the Senate Select Committee on Ethics released its preliminary report on former Senator John Ensign after he resigned from Congress. The House Ethics Committee has also continued investigations after Members have left Congress, such as in 2010 when it twice reauthorized its investigation into former Rep. Eric Massa after his departure. The letter was led by Majority Whip Dick Durbin (D-IL), Chair of the Senate Judiciary Committee, and signed by U.S. Senators Cory Booker (D-NJ), Sheldon Whitehouse (D-RI), Amy Klobuchar (D-MN), Chris Coons (D-DE), Richard Blumenthal (D-CT), Mazie Hirono (D-HI), Alex Padilla (D-CA), Jon Ossoff (D-GA), Peter Welch (D-VT), and Laphonza Butler (D-CA).
From The Desk Of The Governor
Phil Murphy
TRENTON – As New Jersey continues to experience historically low precipitation, above-average temperatures, and deteriorating water-supply conditions, Governor Phil Murphy and DEP Commissioner Shawn M. LaTourette announced on November 13 the State is declaring a Drought Warning and gave an update on the significant increase in wildfires over last year. As New Jersey enters the next stage in severity of water-storage conditions, officials strongly encouraged the public to reduce water use during a virtual press conference.
Firefighters across New Jersey are battling a number of wildfires during a record-breaking dry spell that is affecting the entire northeast. Since early October, the New Jersey Forest Fire Service has responded to 537 wildfires, a more than 1,300% increase in wildfires over the same period last year. The New Jersey Office of Emergency Management has deployed the State’s All-Hazards Incident Management Team to supplement operations.
The Jennings Creek wildfire, burning along New Jersey’s border with New York, claimed the life of New York State parks system employee Dariel Vasquez as he fought the fire.
Since the start of the year, nearly 1,300 wildfires have burned over 11,000 acres. The average number of fires per year since the year 2000 is 1,071 wildfires and 4,000 acres burned. As a result of the extremely dry conditions, mandatory statewide Stage 3 fire restrictions remain in effect. These restrictions prohibit all fires unless they are contained in an elevated stove using only propane, natural gas, or electricity. No wood or charcoal fires are allowed, and the use of kerosene or gas torches of any kind is prohibited while this level of restriction is in place.
Commissioner LaTourette signed an Administrative Order authorizing the Drought Warning designation, which is the next stage of drought after a Water Supply Drought Watch. DEP announced Drought Watch status in mid-October, following a period of prolonged dry conditions. A Drought Warning enables the DEP to more closely manage water systems by directing water transfers among systems, controlling releases from
reservoirs, and modifying the rate of flow in streams and rivers in order to balance ecological protection and needs of water suppliers.
“New Jersey is experiencing unprecedented weather conditions - as a result of climate change - that require us to take these precautionary measures now,” Governor Murphy said. “It can be challenging to adjust our daily habits, but it is imperative that we all work together, heed the guidance to conserve water, and use the utmost caution outdoors to reduce the risk of wildfire as dry conditions continue statewide.”
“Climate change is driving our record low precipitation and above-average temperature recorded statewide in September and October,” Commissioner LaTourette said.
“This combination of events has resulted in decreased streamflow and groundwater levels, which harms our available water supplies. Taking these measures now and encouraging reduced water use will help provide some measure of protection from the weather uncertainty we face entering winter.”
Major reservoir systems are below their normal water levels for this time of year and may need transfers of water through interconnected infrastructure to balance storage.
The Coastal North region’s storage is predominantly created from the combined storage in reservoirs operated by New Jersey
American Water and the New Jersey Water Supply Authority serving portions of Monmouth and Ocean counties are 62 percent capacity, compared to their normal level of 86 percent for this time of year.
Water Conservation Guidance
The public is strongly encouraged to follow these tips to reduce water use:
• At this time of year, it is appropriate to let lawns go dormant for the season.
• Winterize, and shut off irrigation systems as soon as possible.
• Only use a watering can to water flowers and shrubs or allow them to go dormant for the season.
• Use a broom to sweep the sidewalk, rather than a hose.
• Use a commercial car wash that recycles water, as washing your car at home typically results in more water use.
• To save water at home, fix leaky faucets and pipes. Consider replacing your toilet with a low-flow version; this can save around 11,000 gallons per year.
• Upgrade your showerhead to low-flow versions, which can save some 7,700 gallons per year.
• Upgrade your faucets or install faucet aerators; this can save some 16,000 gallons per year.
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The campaign is over. Let the campaign begin!
I know we just had an election, and everyone could certainly use a breather. But for those few of you thinking of running for office, now is the time to take that next step.
Start attending meetings of whatever board you want to join. Watch the proceedings. Learn how they do things and why. If you win, you’ll be spending your evenings at these meetings anyway; you might as well get used to it.
More importantly, become active in your community. Whether it’s youth sports, church groups, or some other volunteer activity, they’d be happy to have you. Hopefully, the reason you want to get into politics is to help someone other than yourself. This is why you should start volunteering. Why wait until you’re in office to help people? Get going now!
Do you care about the environment? There are organizations for that. 2 nd Amendment? There are organizations for that. Education?
There are organizations for that. Reach out and find them.
Every time I interview candidates for office, I ask them if they are involved in any community groups. It really paints a picture. It tells voters how you spend your free time. It will also give you a taste of interacting with the public. Many people live very structured lives where you will never meet someone who you don’t already know. Getting yourself out there will introduce you to new ideas and points of view. They might not be intelligent ideas or valid points of view, but you’ll be able to understand what people in your community are thinking. Otherwise, you’re just talking to just your own friends and family. And, even if you don’t wind up running, or you run for election and lose, the hours you spend doing public service will be time well spent. Who knows, you might even decide that this is a better way to help people.
Chris Lundy News Editor
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I am very humbled to have received over 92,000 votes for the position of Ocean County Commissioner. Thank you to all those that voted for me!! I really appreciate it.
However, majority rules and those that got 215,000 votes won.
Another clean sweep for George Gilmore.
We all know who pulls the strings behind the Ocean County Commissioners.
I will continue my watch and I urge more citizens to attend the untelevised and non- video recorded County Commissioner meetings at 4 p.m. on Wednesday afternoons in the Ocean County Administration Building on the corner of Hooper Ave and Washington Street in Toms River.
The Commissioners have a TON of your tax moneycome watch them spend it for you!
See you there!
Regina Discenza Forked River
Shortly after graduating from West Point, I found myself stationed in West Germany as a 2nd Lieutenant. Being fascinated with history and living in Germany, I started reading “The Rise and Fall of the Third Reich.” As I remember, my company commander, a Captain, asked me, “Why are you reading that?” My answer, “Because I want to see how he [Hitler of course] did it!” When I finished the book, I couldn’t help think how gullible the German people were to follow a crazed man into a nightmare as they had. Over the years my wife and I often spoke of how, if the Roman Empire could fall, why not the United States of America? We thought this would happen one day, given the history of the world and the outcome of various regimes. We never
dreamed it would happen in our lifetime.
Fast forward ahead to the present. It is said that those ignorant of history are bound to let it repeat itself. I feel like I am watching the movie of the book I read so many years ago. How can people be so gullible as to follow a man that has no interest in them, nor any interest in making things better for them? And those in power who follow this man and let the power transfer to him will certainly become powerless in the end. If I knew they would read a book, I could recommend a good one for them.
As for me, it is quite possible that, if these gullible folks do not wake up, I could easily become an author by just following the chapters in the above mentioned book, changing only the names, dates, and locations.
James Dulong Mantoloking
I am writing to announce my candidacy for the office of Governor of New Jersey in the upcoming election. Throughout my life, I have been deeply committed to serving our communities, advocating for positive change, and fighting for the values that make New Jersey a great place to live, work, and raise a family.
As a longtime resident of New Jersey (since 1958), I have witnessed both the challenges we face and the incredible potential we hold. New Jersey is a diverse and vibrant state, rich in history and culture, but we cannot overlook the pressing issues confronting families, workers, and taxpayers today. I believe that together, we can create a brighter future for all residents through transparency, collaboration, and innovative solutions. I want to hear what New Jerseyans have to say. I believe my experience
as a teacher, principal, and Superintendent of Schools in New Jersey, and as an elected official for 30 years, including Mayor of the City of Burlington for eight years, has equipped me with the skills necessary to lead our state effectively. I earned Master’s and Doctorate degrees in Leadership. As an Associate Professor for Central Michigan University, I taught members of the Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, and Coast Guard on the graduate level at Camp Pendleton and Joint Base MDL. I also participated in the U.S. Army War College as a citizen leader while serving as mayor.
I am passionate about listening to the voices of our citizens and ensuring that those concerns guide my initiatives, policies, and decisions. I believe in fostering an inclusive environment where every New Jerseyan feels heard, valued, and part of the decision making process.
I am excited to embark on this journey to connect with the people of New Jersey. I invite everyone to join me in this campaign for a better tomorrow, where we prioritize education, enhance opportunities in the trades, provide quality healthcare, and generate economic growth which benefits all New Jerseyans. Together, we can build a New Jersey that reflects our shared values and aspirations.
When asked if I am a New York Football Giants or Philadelphia Eagles fan I answer by saying that I was invited, as a free agent, to closed tryouts for both teams after playing NCAA College Football. Thank you for your time and consideration. I look forward to earning your support as we work towards a brighter future for our great state of New Jersey.
James A. Fazzone
Jersey Jim Fazzone for Governor
Don’t Allow “Homeschool Pod” At Church
This letter was sent to the Brick Board of Adjustment and Planning Board.
I am a resident of Brick. I am writing to express concern regarding the pending approval of the use of the Fellowship Chapel of the Jersey Shore as a school run by Rebeka Snegon and the Liberty School Association. I am a former NJ educator. I hold a Doctorate in Education from Rutgers University and served in many capacities during my long career. I have written extensively on a variety of topics, have consulted internationally, and have a deep understanding of education in New Jersey.
My concern is that under New Jersey code, the described project is not a school. New Jersey recognizes public and nonpublic schools and this project does not fit the defi nition of either, therefore it cannot operate as a school. Here is the code:
Defi nition of a Nonpublic School in New Jersey
A nonpublic school means an elementary or secondary school within the State, other than a public school, offering education for grades kindergarten through 12, or any combination of them, wherein any child may legally fulfill compulsory school attendance requirements and which complies with the requirements of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 [N.J.S.A. 18A:46A-2(b)].
A nonpublic school is a place where children attend and receive instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments (N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25). As such, a nonpublic school requires in-person attendance by children.
Nonpublic schools are eligible to receive services for their students through several State and federal
BERKELEY – Central Regional Golden Eagle Battalion JROTC cadets participated in the 17th Annual New Jersey Run For The Fallen to honor and remember all those who have paid for our nation’s freedom with the ultimate sacrifice.
Cadets lined the Central Regional High School walkway near the campus flagpole and memorial, saluting the runners when they arrived with the American Flag. They
a small ceremony for their fallen.
After the ceremony, the cadets listened to a story from a family of CRHS alumni who had fallen in war and were thanked by other attendees. It was an unforgettable moment, as the cadets recognized the sacrifice made by our military and their families.
BERKELEY – The Berkeley Township Police Department wishes to acknowledge all veterans, past and present, who have served with honor in the Armed Forces of the United States of America.
The Berkeley Township Police Department would like to also recognize our officers who have served:
• Captain Peter La Rocca - US Air Force
• Sergeant Clark Baranyay - US Army
• Sergeant Michael Tanis - US Army
• Sergeant Christopher Walters - US Navy
• Detective Joseph Santoro - US Army
• Detective Michael Tier - US Army
• Detective D.J. Williams - US Coast Guard
• Patrolman Alex Houle - US Marine Corps
• Detective Derek Mayer - US Air Force
• Patrolman Ryan Drivanos - US Marine Corps
• Patrolman Michael Zilavetz - US Navy
• Patrolman Devin Tasso - US Army
• Patrolman Kyle Huhn - US Army
• Patrolman Robert Zilavetz - US Army
• Patrolman Thomas Micklos - US Navy
Clothing Drive will be on November 25 in the courtyard (front of building under eaves).
Drop off times: 5 to 8 a.m. and 1 to 8 p.m. (p.m. hours during parent/teacher conferences) No drop offs during arrival or dismissal.
Drop off your gently used clothing and help make room for the holidays! No need to come in the school. Pull up to the front lot and the drop off is located under the overhang in the courtyard.
Donate gently used or new items to those in need. Items accepted include: clothing for men, women, and children; shoes (shoes in
separate bags); clothing accessories such as belts, hats, scarves, handbags, gloves, etc.; small toys (two ft. or less); stuffed animals, towels, sheets and pillowcases; bikes, scooters, and strollers. Items not accepted: quilts, comforters, pillows, blankets; sport equipment; board games, books, puzzles, pots, car seats; electrical devices or glass; large toys, highchairs or baby cribs; VCR tapes, furniture, outdoor play sets; picture frames, school supplies, phone cases, candles, cosmetics, greeting cards, plastic cups, food containers, baking accessories; home and holiday decorations, pet accessories.
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BERKELEY – Students in Marine Science teacher Jen Haines’ class are learning about the problem of plastic in the ocean.
They recently visited Seaside Heights to collect plastic debris on the beach. This picture shows them analyzing the rubbish by size and color. Afterward, they added their data to a shared spreadsheet and discussed the trends they observed.
Dry eyes and dry eye syndrome are caused by lack of moisture and lubrication on the eye’s surface. Normally, a film of tears is present to keep the eyes moist and free from debris. A healthy tear film comprises three important elements: oil, water, and mucus. The oily element is produced by meibomian glands in the eyelids. The watery element is produced by lacrimal glands behind the upper eyelids. The mucus-like element is produced by the cells in the white part of the eye (sclera). Dry eye occurs when one or more of these essential elements aren’t sufficiently produced. Dry eyes can cause side effects ranging from mild irritation to constant inflammation; the condition may even scar the eye’s surface.
Dry eyes can increase your risk of a corneal abrasion, particularly if you routinely wake up with dry eyes. If your eyes dry out while you are sleeping, your eyelids may stick to your cornea. When you wake up and open your eyes, your eyelids can tear part of the corneal epithelium, causing a painful abrasion. To schedule an appointment with SIGHTMD NEW JERSEY SUSSKIND & ALMALLAH EYE ASSOCIATES, please give our office a call at 732-349-5622. We offer evening hours most nights of the week. P.S. Dry eye syndrome is chronic and may not be curable, but available treatments can result in fewer symptoms, greater comfort, and better vision.
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PINE BEACH – The Kindness Club at Pine Beach Elementary, under the leadership of teachers Mrs. Royle and Ms. Grasso, has been a beacon of compassion and support within the school community this year. With a focus on fostering kindness, the club has undertaken several initiatives that have significantly contributed to a positive atmosphere at the school.
When asked about her experience facilitating the Kindness Club at Pine Beach, Mrs. Royle shared, “I thought I was teaching the kids about positivity and kindness, but after watching them over the last six weeks, I’ve learned even more from them.”
One of the standout accomplishments of the Kindness Club was the creation of kindness bookmarks. These bookmarks were distributed to all students during library time, serving as a reminder to embrace kindness while enjoying their reading adventures. This initiative not only encouraged a culture of kindness but also enhanced the love of reading among students.
In response to the devastation caused by Hurricane Helene, the Kindness Club organized a school-wide relief drive. The effort successfully collected essential items such as flashlights, water, food, and gloves, all aimed at supporting recovery efforts. This initiative demonstrated the power of community and the importance of helping those in need during difficult times.
Another innovative project introduced by the Kindness Club was the Kindness Jar. This initiative allowed students to nominate their peers for demonstrating kind acts. By recognizing and appreciating each other’s efforts, students were encouraged to develop a supportive environment that values kindness and friendship.
The club also established a kindness themed morning meeting that engaged all classes, from kindergarten to fifth grade, in discussions and activities focused on kindness. This inclusive approach helped to instill the values of empathy and compassion in students of all ages.
In addition to these initiatives, club members from grades 3 to 5 have concentrated on understanding and practicing positive affi rmations. Through various art projects, they have created personalized affi rmations that reinforce self-esteem and encourage positive thinking. Furthermore, students designed relaxing water bottles aimed at calming their minds during overwhelming moments, providing them with tools to manage stress effectively.
Overall, the Kindness Club at Pine Beach Elementary has made remarkable strides in promoting kindness and support within the school community. Through their various initiatives, the club has not only made a positive impact this year at school but has also inspired students to carry forward the values of kindness and compassion beyond the classroom.
Rose Garden is one of the few “mom and pop” skilled nursing and rehabilitation centers left ... in the state of New Jersey. The world has turned “corporate;” we have not.
It has been our core belief that the delivery of healthcare is quite personal. That “intimacy” is in danger when 5 to 100 facilities are operated in multiple states by large corporations.
We have always strived for a close “family” atmosphere and believe we have succeeded. The environment is warm and inviting and exceedingly clean and spotless. Our homemade food and soups are outstanding, and the care is thoughtful, kind and productive.
We have been called the “Hotel of Healthcare.” Please ask your friends, neighbors and, most importantly, other healthcare professionals. We are here, in your neighborhood, to serve you!
Visit the Ocean County Historical Society for Our 4th Annual Victorian Style Holiday Open House!
Saturday, Nov. 30th from 10:00 AM to 3:00 PM
Located at 26 Hadley Ave. in Downtown Toms River ADMISSION IS FREE!
• Free Pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus from 11am-2pm
• Take a Tour of Our Holiday Decorated Victorian Style Home
• Enjoy Holiday Refreshments and Gifts for the Children
Bring your children and grandchildren to this fun lled event!
Contact Je at 609.339.9134 or je schenker@myyahoo.com for additional information.
BERKELEY – Just in time for the “Ides of March.” Join the Berkeley Township Historical Society as we travel around the United States with T.J. Fallon and his son, in search of “Dead History.”
T.J. Fallon and his son have visited historic gravesites, historic locations/ sites, locations/sites of infamous events, birthplaces, places of death. Why stop there? They have also visited Hall of
Famers gravesites, birthplaces, childhood homes. As well as the locations/sites of where former ballparks used to stand! His channel is dedicated to remembering “Dead History.”
Program will be on March 13 at the Berkeley Recreation Center. General meeting begins at 6 p.m. Light refreshments will be served. All BTHS presentations are open to the public and free of charge.
BERKELEY – Mayor John Bacchione and Berkeley Township Recreation are happy to announce that they have partnered with Santa Claus to have letters from Santa sent to all the good children of Berkeley Township!
Please fill out the form at berkeley-
township.org/departments/recreation/ letters_to_santa.php to register your child. If there are multiple children, please fill out the form separately for each one. Please be advised that Santa must receive your request by December 6 to ensure your child receives this very important correspondence.
BERKELEY – Central Regional High School Class of 2027 presents Basketball Game For Charity on December 13 at Central Regional High School Gym at 6 p.m.
Featuring staff members from the Central High & Middle, Berkeley Schools, Ocean Gate, and Island Heights.
Admission is $5 or a new, unwrapped toy. All toys will be donated to Toys for Tots. Any questions, email Lsmith@centralreg.k12.nj.us.
BEACHWOOD – Come join at Borough Hall for the annual holiday tree lighting on December 1 from 4 to 8 p.m.
Lighting starts at 7 p.m. Enjoy food trucks, inflatables and activities for the kids, a live nativity and the main man Santa.
BAYVILLE – The Faith Community United Methodist Church will be hosting a breakfast with Santa on December 14 at 9 a.m.
Enjoy pancakes, juice, bacon, and of course time with Santa! Cost is $5; children ages 12 and under are free.
Faith Community UMC is located at 526 Atlantic City Boulevard.
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Continued From Page 8 programs. The programs are administered through the public school district in which the nonpublic school is located. To be eligible for services, a nonpublic school must be registered with the New Jersey Department of Education (NJDOE) and must complete the Nonpublic Enrollment Report annually, located in the NJDOE Homeroom.
The following New Jersey statutes apply to compulsory education:
N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25 requires that “every parent, guardian or other person having custody and control of a child between six and 16 to ensure that such child regularly attends the public schools of the district or a day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments or to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school.”
Note: The provision, “to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school” in N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/ guardian to educate the child at home.
N.J.S.A. 18A:38-31 states that “a parent or guardian or other person having charge and control of a child between the ages of 6 and 16 years, who shall fail to comply with any of the provisions of the article (N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25) relating to his/her duties, shall be deemed to be a disorderly person and shall be subject to a fi ne of not more than $25 for the fi rst offense and not more than $100 for each subsequent offense, in the discretion of the court.”
While the code allows for non-compliance in the case of homeschooling, it clearly states “N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/guardian to educate the child at home.”
This project is not an “at home” situation and therefore, is not a school. If the Liberty School Association wishes to comply with the code, it needs to demonstrate that it is a “day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools for children of similar grades and attainments or to receive equivalent instruction elsewhere than at school.” It also needs to comply with the defi nition of a non-public school including … “legally fulfi ll compulsory school attendance requirements and which complies with the
requirements of Title VI of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 [N.J.S.A. 18A:46A-2(b)].”
If The Liberty School Association is proposing a school, it has failed to present appropriate documentation that would allow it to be considered a non-public school. If it is homeschooling, then the state only recognizes homeschooling if it occurs at home. Any other option will place the parents of the children in violation of N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25 which requires that “every parent, guardian or other person having custody and control of a child between six and 16 to ensure that such child regularly attends the public schools of the district or a day school in which there is given instruction equivalent to that provided in the public schools…”
At the August, 2024 meeting Ms. Snegon stated she intends to run the “school” based on New Jersey requirements for homeschooling. Unfortunately, New Jersey is one of one five states which has no regulations. The only “regulation” in code is a suggestion:
“N.J.S.A. 18A:38-25, permits a parent/ guardian to educate the child at home.”
The NJ Department of Education Frequently Asked Questions Homeschooling page states “The New Jersey Department of Education encourages parents to notify the local board of education of the intent to educate the child elsewhere than at school so that questions do not arise with respect to the parent’s compliance with the compulsory education law.”
There is no mandate to comply. Notification is “encouraged.” There are currently NO guidelines or requirements that homeschooling parents must follow.
I fi rmly believe that the evidence provided so far by the Liberty School Association prohibits the use of Fellowship Chapel of the Jersey Shore for the unclear purpose The Liberty School Association has presented. If approved, aside from the traffic and concerns other have expressed, there is a real danger that the parents, the Chapel, and the town can be held accountable for failure to meet NJ code which is clear in describing three options: public school, non-public school, and homeschooling.
I urge the Board to deny approval for the project.
Tina Gordon, Ed.D. Brick
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Are you someone who has experienced the care our practice provides? Have you acknowledged your hearing issues, fought back, and won? If so, you now have the opportunity to assist someone else on their journey to better hearing and whole-body health. Want to be a hero? Here’s how you can shepherd someone into the process and support them along the way:
Start the Conversation - The stigma is real. Begin by having an open and compassionate discussion about hearing health issues. Share your own experiences and the benefits you’ve experienced from addressing your own hearing issues. This can help reduce the stigma and fear often associated with getting treatment (like wearing hearing aids).
Encourage Professional Help - Suggest they schedule an appointment with us. Assure them you know a great hearing care professional and offer to accompany them on their first visit. Your support makes the process less intimidating.
Be Patient and Understanding - Understand that acknowledging one’s own hearing issues, and seeking help for them, can be a gradual process. Provide contin-
uous encouragement, emphasizing the positive changes they can expect.
Provide Educational Resources - Share articles, brochures, or online resources about hearing loss and its impact. Helping them learn the importance of hearing health can motivate them to take action. Keep It Up - Continue to check in on their progress and offer assistance. Celebrate their milestones, no matter how small, and remind them of the benefits they’ll enjoy with improved hearing health.
By guiding someone through this process, you give the gift of a better life. Your empathy, encouragement, and practical support can make all the difference in helping them take the first steps toward better hearing health.
Your journey can inspire someone else to take control of their hearing health. Let’s work together to improve lives. Help a friend schedule an appointment to address their hearing health today.
Dr. Izzy and his Staff are always available to provide you with honest answers about your hearing health care. Please feel free to contact our office at 732-451-3962 or visit our website at gardenstatehearing.com
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By Suzy Cohen, R. Ph.
I recently made a Bourbon Pumpkin Pie (recipe’s up on my website for all you brave souls drooling to taste it!) and decided to grate some whole nutmeg right into it. Wow, what a difference! Freshly grated nutmeg brings a richer, deeper flavor compared to the powdered spice I usually use. Seriously, it’s like comparing a string quartet to a kazoo. Nutmeg is already a holiday superstar, but did you know this humble spice has some pretty quirky effects on the brain?
Nutmeg can cause a bit of a natural high. It has compounds that can make you feel, well, a little “off” if you use too much. Ever notice that one relative who gets mysteriously weird after dessert on Thanksgiving? You thought it was the carb load, but it could be the nutmeg in that pumpkin pie!
Nutmeg contains myristicin, a psychoactive compound that, in larger amounts, has been known to trigger a trippy experience.
Nutmeg’s “trippy” compound, myristicin, also shows up in other familiar spices like parsley, cinnamon, anise, clove, and fennel but only tiny trace amounts. Nutmeg is the true heavyweight of the bunch.
Dosage matters: A little goes a long way. Recipes usually call for about half a teaspoon which is considered a small pinch in the grand scheme of your soup or pie. But some people, and especially teens who did that TikTok challenge, were downing teaspoonfuls (cringe!) and at those amounts, nutmeg becomes dangerous.
Ingesting too much nutmeg activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering fight-or-flight responses. A “nutmeg trip”
can come with a cocktail of nasty symptoms: Dry mouth, blurred vision, nausea, dizziness, hallucinations and even heart arrhythmias. For anyone with heart issues, too much is dangerous. And the sneaky part? The negative effects don’t kick in right away. People may feel fine at first and then BOOM!
Beyond the “nutmeg buzz,” this spice is loaded with health perks. It’s a fantastic anti-inflammatory, a natural remedy for pain and digestive issues, and even has sleep-promoting properties. Used correctly, nutmeg is a culinary and health powerhouse, adding a warm, earthy depth to dishes while also offering a range of benefits. I much prefer nutmeg to clove! It’s been linked to better memory, reduced blood pressure, and even anti-cancer properties. A 2023 study published in Current Molecular Pharmacology, found that myristicin could block a critical cancer pathway showing that it might have real potential as a new, natural approach to stomach cancer treatment!
In short, nutmeg is a superfood, just in a pinch, not a scoop!
The takeaway is that nutmeg is a delightful, healthful spice when used properly, it’s one I highly recommend especially if you grate the fresh seed. It can elevate your cooking in so many ways. Just keep an eye on those measurements and, while you’re at it, maybe keep an eye on your kids’ social media trends, too. Nutmeg deserves a spot in your spice cabinet, but like many awesome natural things, it deserves respect.
(This information is not intended to treat, cure or diagnose your condition. Suzy Cohen is the author of “The 24-Hour Pharmacist” and “Real Solutions.” For more information, visit www.SuzyCohen.com) ©2024 SUZY COHEN, RPH. DISTRIBUTED BY DEAR PHARMACIST, INC.
By: Michael J. Deem, Esq. of R.C. Shea & Associates
Before you purchase travel insurance, especially in this post COVID era, read the policy to make sure you are covered. As with any insurance policy, you are only insured for certain enumerated conditions or events and there are always a ton of exclusions which will leave you uninsured. These days, a lot of people are purchasing Travel Insurance in the event they cannot take a planned trip due to COVID restrictions, such as testing positive a few days before leaving for a Cruise. Many cruise lines will not permit you to board their ship if you recently tested positive for COVID, even if you have very minor symptoms or no symptoms at all. So, if you have tested positive for COVID can you file a successful insurance claim for your lost vacation?
who must then diagnose you with a condition that is “so disabling in the written opinion of a Physician as to prevent you from taking your Trip.” So, does the mere fact that you have tested positive for COVID necessarily mean that your condition is “so disabling in the written opinion of a Physician as to prevent you from taking your Trip? If not, your claim will be denied.
Additionally, don’t become blind-sided by the “Optional Cancel For Any Reason” coverage. Yes, you can purchase this optional coverage for an additional premium, but does this mean you can cancel for any reasons whatsoever? The answer is “NO”. Again, you must read the policy. For example, one policy that I read stated that, “We will reimburse You… when You cancel your trip prior to departure for any reason not otherwise covered by this policy, provided [certain] conditions are met…” This sentence does not mean that you can ignore the many, many enumerated Exclusions in the policy. Finally, make sure you are purchasing enough insurance benefits to cover your trip. Like any insurance policy, you choose the limits of your coverage and even if your claim is covered you will be limited by the amount of insurance coverage you purchased.
In order to make a successful claim, your trip must have been cancelled due to a “Covered Event”. Your policy will list what is considered a “Covered Event” and it will also list the many, many Exclusions. Read the “Covered Event” and “Exclusions” sections of the policy carefully. Many Trip (Travel) Protection Insurance Policies do not provide coverage for “travel restrictions imposed for a certain area by a governmental authority”, “a Pandemic or an Endemic”. So, if just prior to your trip to Mexico the Mexican government closes its border to vacationers and you are denied entry into the Country then your insurance claim may be denied.
In addition, if you or a family member are ill or injured then your policy will require that you demonstrate that the sickness or injury commenced while your coverage is in effect under the Policy and you may be required to attend in-person treatment with a physician
The attorneys at R.C. Shea & Associates are experienced litigators ready to serve our community and we hope you enjoy your vacation.
TOMS RIVER – Celebrate this Holiday Season At the Ocean County Historical Society’s 4th Annual Victorian Style Open House on November 30 from 10 a.m. to 3 p.m.
For many members of the Ocean County Historical Society one of the first signs of the Holiday Season is the OCHS Holiday Open House. The event offers something for the whole family. Make sure to have your picture taken with Santa and Mrs. Claus at no charge. They will be arriving from the North Pole at 11 a.m. and staying until 2 p.m. You are also going to want to tour the 1860s house and museum, decorated for the holidays. When you get hungry enjoy the holiday snacks and drinks. And, of course, Santa will have special gifts for the children.
Make sure to bring your children and grandchildren to this fun filled event. And keep in mind, the day is meant to be enjoyed by people of all ages.
According to OCHS Board member Frank Parks, “my wife and I look so forward to the Open House each year. We love dressing up in holiday themed clothes and have our picture taken with Santa and Mrs. Claus each year. A lot of fun, and great memories.”
The Ocean County Historical Society is located in Downtown Toms River at 26 Hadley Avenue. In keeping with the holiday spirit, there is no fee for admission to the museum or for pictures with Santa and Mrs. Claus. For additional information, contact Jeff at 609-339-9134 or jeffschenker@myyahoo.com.
Photo by Stephanie Faughnan
Tiffany M. deSousa expressed her excitement about opening a shelter for local runaway and homeless youth under the age of 18.
By Stephanie Faughnan
OCEAN COUNTY - For Tiffany M. deSousa, now 40, securing a federal grant to open a youth shelter for runaway and homeless youth couldn’t be more personal. More than two decades ago, Tiffany ran away from home and credits a trusted teacher and the safe haven she found at Ocean’s Harbor
House with saving her life.
Now, as the founder of “Choose Love. Celebrate Life.” (CLCL) Foundation, Tiffany plans to bring that same vital resource back to Ocean and Monmouth Counties. Earlier this month, CLCL announced that it has been awarded a federal Basic Center Program (BCP) grant to provide emergency
housing for local runaway and homeless youth under the age of 18. The shelter, scheduled to open in January 2025, will offer twelve beds with four funded by the federal grant.
“I believe having a place to go saves lives,” said Tiffany. “I believe if I did not go there (to Harbor House) that night, I would be dead.”
A little more than a year ago, Ocean’s Harbor House announced its intentions to transform one of its properties that housed youth temporarily on an emergency basis to a family shelter. Their second location continues to serve as a supervised transitional living program for abandoned and vulnerable youths, aged 16-21.
The law giving safe haven to youth that run away has had some changes since it was fi rst enacted as the Runaway and Homeless Youth Act in 1974. One big difference is the length of time a runaway or homeless youth can stay in the shelter. When Tiffany left her adopted mother’s home and sought refuge, the law allowed her to stay for 14 days. Time limitations have now expanded to 21 days.
Basic Center Programs grants that are in effect next year only cover locations in Bridgewater, Camden, Hackensack, Jersey City and Trenton. Tiffany believes distance could create a tremendous problem for runaways and place them in dangerous situations, including the threat of human trafficking.
Not every runaway who presents at a BCP
does so because of abuse in their home, meaning that not all cases warrant notification to New Jersey Division of Child Protection and Permanency. However, centers are required to let family members know when a minor comes to them for safe haven. On occasion, centers act as a place to calm down after a heated argument in the household.
Tiffany M. deSousa shared her personal story, detailing her early life marked by tragedy and abuse. Her birth mother died when she was just three weeks old, and her birth father took Tiffany and her older brothers across the country.
“He was an evil man who engaged in every kind of abuse you can imagine,” said Tiffany. “He did things like killing animals so that you would know he had no problem killing you.”
The young woman said that after a bad night of drinking in 1990, he began to hurt her. Tiffany was just six years old and rescued by her stepmother. The woman left in the middle of the night with her own children as she feared for her own life and felt she had no other options.
Tiffany’s father was reported to Child Protective Services in New Mexico, where they lived at the time. Reports that he had sexually abused his daughter only added to the claims of physical and psychological (New Home - See Page 20)
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Ultimately, Tiffany was adopted by her maternal aunt and uncle, who lived in Northern New Jersey. She described “Pappy” as a man who showed her great love for the fi rst time in her life. Jose deSousa died in 1995, when Tiffany was just 11 years old.
After Jose’s death, the family relocated a few more times. Desperate, Tiffany sought out counseling services on her own while she was in boarding school in Virginia. The idea of seeking help for emotional problems was something unheard-of and frowned upon. Yet, Tiffany was a child with severe PTSD who absolutely needed professional intervention.
The family came back to New Jersey, spending a summer in Woodbridge and eventually moving to Toms River. Tiffany met the late Andrea C. Viggiano, her journalism teacher, when she was a sophomore at Toms River South.
“I was restricted most of my life and not allowed to even ride bikes outside,” said Tiffany. “There was always concern that my biological father would try to kidnap me.”
As Tiffany spent more time with her trusted teacher, she began to open up to her about her struggles. Viggiano was a good listener and helped Tiffany find professional help at an outreach program Harbor House facilitated.
“I ran away on December 3, 2001, after a very bad night,” Tiffany shared. “It was the day after Pappy’s death anniversary.”
The argument between Tiffany and her adoptive mother escalated to the point that Tiffany lashed out in defiance. When she was told to turn the music down in her room, she turned it to full volume. Tiffany’s adoptive mother inadvertently cut her foot as she tried to pull out an extension cord. She left to get checked out at the hospital with Tiffany sobbing beyond control.
“I called Andrea, and she said that she had never heard me like that,” said Tiffany, “Something in my voice made her feel like she had to come get me.”
The caring teacher made sure that Tiffany left a note with her phone number in the house. When the call came in accusing Viggiano of harboring a runaway, the two decided to go to the place that allowed runaways a safe space without any legal issues.
In the end, Viggiano continued to advocate for Tiffany and took over her guardianship. It was a wonderful experience and one that brought back fond memories.
Harbor House helped Tiffany during those painful days in 2001. They later helped provide Tiffany with rental assistance when she and her then-boyfriend moved in together. Tiffany worked for Harbor House as a residential counselor on three subsequent occasions. There’s something to be said for experience being the best teacher.
It took several years for Tiffany to graduate with three separate degrees, all with high honors. Her educational pursuits were interrupted by physical illness. An Ocean County College and Stockton University graduate, Tiffany earned a master’s degree this year
from Montclair State University in Child Advocacy and Policy.
When Tiffany decided to pursue her goal to make a difference in children’s lives, she could think of no better name than the mantra repeated by her most trusted confidant. Andrea Viggiano said it best to her – Choose Love. Celebrate Life.
About CLCL
DeSousa’s founding team at CLCL Foundation includes individuals with deep experience in youth services. Lisa Scala, the organization’s Board Treasurer, worked at Harbor House for 23 years and was the counselor who completed deSousa’s intake paperwork the night she ran away. Other key team members include Leslie Brower, an art teacher and former residential counselor, and Kelsy Wetmore, a Licensed Professional Counselor dedicated to supporting at-risk youth.
Kathleen DeLorme, Community Liaison, also has 23 years of experience at Harbor House, and Jennifer Santa Maria, an artist and Master of Arts Teacher in Art Education and specializing with students with disabilities, have also joined the organization. Two advisory board members will also serve as tremendous assets.
Together, the team brings over 57 years of experience working with vulnerable youth populations, ensuring the new shelter, named The Tree House Program, will provide trauma-informed care, case management, and family support.
The organization has partnered with Hearts Wide Open Homes, LLC to locate and main-
tain the property that will be used to shelter vulnerable youth. Company representative Daniel Delice said his group is looking to invest in property in the northern part of Ocean County to make the shelter accessible for Monmouth County residents.
“We’re looking to purchase a five-bedroom home,” said Delice. “I am personally doing everything in my power to work with other partners and allocate all possible resources to make this come to fruition.”
CLCL Foundation’s comprehensive approach also includes a “Warm Line” for crisis support, Community Groups, and Home Share Solutions aimed at preventing homelessness among young adults aged 18 to 24. These programs are designed to empower youth and families in crisis, bridging the gap to vital resources and fostering long-term stability.
“Problems have solutions,” deSousa explained. “Research and best practices show that Basic Center Programs protect runaway youth from danger on the streets, from the need to sleep on sofas, and from trafficking risks that occur within 48 hours of running away from home.”
“Our mission is to provide a safe, nurturing environment for youth in crisis,” deSousa said. “But community-driven change does not happen without community involvement. We’re inviting everyone to join us in building this safe space where our youth can grow, heal, and thrive.”
For more information about CLCL Foundation and its programs, visit their website at CLCLFoundation.org
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CPA FIRM SEEKS PART TIME RECEPTIONIST FOR THE TAX SEASON - (1/25-4/25) Monday-Friday And Some Saturdays (WILL TRAIN). Call 732-270-3966. For call back please speak slowly and clearly your name & phone number. (51)
R.C. Shea and Associates is seeking to hire a paralegal with civil/commercial litigation experience as well as an administrative assistant. Pay and benefits commensurate with experience. Please call Pam Williams, office manager at (732) 505-1212 or email at pwilliams@rcshea.com (t/n)
Bus Driver NEEDED! - Flexible Scheduling. Perfect for Retiree in Retirement Community. CDL w/ Passenger endorsement required. Call SilverWoods Clubhouse for more information at 732-341-4825. (t/n)
Laundromat Attendant - For FT/ PT Good communication skills, math and min computer knowledge. Transportation needed. Long term commitment only. 732-286-1863. (t/n)
Magnolia Gardens Assisted Living is hiring a full/part time CNA. Must be licensed, and available to work weekends. If interested, please email resume to HR@magnoliaal. com or call us at 732-557-6500. You can also visit us in person at 1935 Route 9 Toms river 08755. (52)
Magnolia Gardens Assisted Living is hiring a full and part time Dietary Aides If interested, please email resume to HR@magnoliaal. com or call us at 732-557-6500. You can also visit us in person at 1935 Route 9 Toms river 08755. (52)
Certified Home Health Aides - Needed for Ocean County area. Hourly and live-in positions avail. P/T and F/T. Call CCC at 732-206-1047. (t/n)
Italian/American Couple - looking to clean, laundry or drive. Please call Christopher or Mary Ann at 732-475-7770 or 732-948-2025. (49)
APlus Home Improvements - Over 30 years experience. Everything from small handyman tasks to large renovations, decks, finished basements and much more. Lic #13VH11453600. No job too small give us a call. 908-278-1322. (52)
THE RIDE GUY - Takes you anywhere! No limits. Comfy mini-van. References. Call Charlie 732-216-3176 or Email: cr@exit109.com. Let's Go! (t/n)
Housecleaning - We offer services: House cleaning, laundy, window cleaning, painting, office cleaning, carpet cleaning, shopping, take clothes dry cleaning, typing, office work, demonstration, merchandise in store. Very good prices. Call 732330-4189 or 848-287-3944. (t/n)
Car Service - 24/7. Doctors, shopping, airports, hospitals, cruise, shops, Atlantic City, family functions, NYC accomodations for large groups. Call for reasonable rates. Kerry 732-606-2725. (42)
Anyone Interested In Having Their - Office, home or apartment cleaned, contact Diane. Honest and reliable. Free estimates. 845-762-9952. (49)
Garden State Property Maintenance - All yard work. Tree-trimming and removal, stump grinding, pavers, decks, flower beds, weeding. 609-661-5470. (t/n)
Adult Care Provider - Filipino Woman seeking live-in job as home healthcare provider for elderly with 10 years experience, with excellent reference. Please call 973-454-6818. (46)
MY HANDY CREW - Home repairs, carpentry, painting, roofing and siding, decks, powerwashing, yardwork, all your home maintenance needs. $ave. Call Clark 732-850-5060. Insured and NJ License #13VH11804800. (44)
When You Need A Caregiver Call Lucy - European Registered Nurse, 25 years. US Eldercare experience, 19 years. Live in/out, hourly, negotiable. 732-657-1409 (H), 732-833-3273 (C). (47)
A1 HANDYMAN SERVICESOver 30 years experience in all phases of home improvements. Free estimates and referrals. Call John 267475-7962 or 732-477-0379. (43)
DIRECTV - All your entertainment. Nothing on your roof! Sign up for Directv and get your first three months of Max, Paramount+, Showtime, Starz, MGM+ and Cinemax included. Choice package $84.99/ mo. Some restrictions apply. Call DIRECTV 1-877-557-1213 (t/n)
CHEAP PAINTING Done RITEFree est. Senior discounts interior exterior. Call 732-506-7787, cell 646-643-7678. (t/n)
Affordable Landscaping - Fall & spring clean ups. Shrubs & tree pruning, sod & seed lawns, retaining & stone walls, topsoil & mulch planting, & much more. 640-999-0072. (47)
HOUSE CLEANING - 848-3261907 KEVIN over 30 years professional cleaning experience Cleaned pediatric cardiology office over 15 years REFERENCES available $30.00 hour 848-326-1907. (46)
Prepare for power outages today with a Generac Home Standby Generator. Act now to receive a FREE 5-Year warranty with qualifying purchase. Call 1-833-901-0309 today to schedule a free quote. It’s not just a generator. It’s a power move. (t/n)
Senior Campanion CaregiverRetired RN. Meal prep, transport to appointments, shopping, showering, light housekeeping. Contact Chris 845-430-1853. (48)
Nor’easter Painting and Staining, LLC - Interior and exterior. Decks, powerwashing. Affordable. Senior discounts. References. No job too small. Fully insured. 732-6910123. Lic #13VH09460600. (t/n)
Don’t let the stairs limit your mobility! Discover the ideal solution for anyone who struggles on the stairs, is concerned about a fall or wants to regain access to their entire home. Call AmeriGlide today! 1-844-897-8361. (t/n)
PQ Painting & Home Improvement Services - Over 5 decades of service in NJ. Visit us online at pqpaintingservice. com . Winner of Angie’s List Super Service Award. Free estimates, reasonable rates, fully licensed and insured NJ Lic #13VH06752800. Call 732-5003063 or 609-356-2444. (t/n)
Since 1979, Kitchen Magic, a family-owned business offering cabinet refacing, new cabinetry, and luxury countertop throughout the Northeast. We transform kitchens in less time, with less stress, at an amazing value. Call today for a free estimate 1-844-367-2477. (t/n)
Reliable, Experienced, Private duty - (No agency fees.) Caregiver/ Home Health aide Available. Live-in, or hourly in Southern Jersey area. Call 732-867-6686. (48)
Learn To Play The - Flute, clarinet, saxophone, trumpet, trombone, or drums, from a NJ State Certified Teacher of Instrumental Music, in your home! Call 732-3504427 for more information. (8)
Painting - Special Fall Pricing. Interior/Exterior. Meticulous work. All materials and jobs guaranteed. Fully licensed and insured. $ave. Call 732-850-5060. (47)
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Local Experienced Senior Care Giver available for work mornings til 12:00 and evenings after 4:30 pm. Please call Kathy 908-246-7896. (48)
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It may have been years or even decades since you thought about how much you earned at your first job. Did you know that you can find out how much you made that first year? Or any year you worked and paid Social Security taxes? Your earnings history is a record of your progress toward your future Social Security
benefits. We track your earnings so we can pay you the benefits you’ve earned over your lifetime. That is why it’s so important for you to review your earnings record. Even though it’s your employer’s responsibility to provide accurate earnings information, you should review your earnings history and let us know if there are any errors or omissions.
Otherwise, your future Social Security benefits could be lower than you should receive. It’s important to identify and report errors as soon as possible. If too much time passes, it could be hard for you to get older tax documents. Also, some employers may no longer exist or be able to provide past payroll information. The best way to verify your earnings record
is to visit gov/myaccount and create or sign in to your personal my Social Security account. You should review your earnings carefully every year and confirm them using your own records, such as W-2 forms and tax returns. Keep in mind that earnings from this year and last year may not be listed yet. When you have a personal my Social Security account, we send you an email once a year, 3 months before your birthday, to remind you to check your earnings and to get future benefit estimates.
If your Social Security earnings record is incorrect and does not match your personal records, you may be able to submit a correction request online using your personal my Social Security at ssa.gov/myaccount. If that feature is available in your personal my Social Security account, you can use the online process to correct missing earnings, inaccurate earnings from a valid employer, or earnings from an employer you did not work for. You’ll need to provide:
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Start a conversation today. Ask a family member or friend about their first job and let them know they can find out what they earned that year!
SEASIDE HEIGHTS – Santa Claus beamed down to the Seaside Heights Community Center, 1000 Bay Boulevard, for the December meeting of the STARFLEET – USS Challenger, a Star Trek Science Fiction Fan Club that meets monthly.
Visit usschallenger.org or email BillSchmidt1000@aol.com or call at 732-5756904 for more information.
Come join for next Christmas Party. The December monthly meetings for this event will be December 21, Winter Solstice at 1 p.m. Please bring pot luck dish and drinks optional. The regular Monthly meetings are the first Sunday of the month.at 1 p.m. Come get a picture with Santa.
Mary & Steve Mulvey recently moved to Brick where they discovered the beauty of sunsets over Bayside Cove. While enjoying the view, a gentleman took this photo and came over to them to say that he just had to snap this shot. We agree – it’s awesome! Want to see your picture in this space? Email photos@jerseyshoreonline.com and we may just publish it.
BEACHWOOD – Heading out to drive through your neighborhood to look at holiday lights? Swing by Jakes Branch County Park for their neighborhood-style drive thru display “Lighting Up Nature.”
Gates will be open December 13 through 16 from 6 to 8 p.m. Free! Jakes Branch County Park is located at 1100 Double Trouble Road, Beachwood.
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Nagging newlywed? 42 Menzel who won a Tony for playing Elphaba in “Wicked”
Airport city east of Los Angeles
Lil Nas X song subtitled “Call Me by Your Name” 17 Film festival hype?
songbirds
Excel function
Himalayan ox
NYC airport on Flushing Bay
Frozen Four game
Dip in the Mediterranean?
Bucket list item for an aspiring astronaut?
Cookbook writer Garten
Iowa State city
Good Grips brand
Sausalito summer hrs.
Bygone Russian royal
H.S. class with a unit on heredity
Classic arcade game with pixelated aliens, and what three answers in this puzzle have
French houses
National park in
Fiddle (with)
Outwitted a Predator?
“Should I take that as __?”
Part of una semana
Business ltrs.
29 New Age singer from County Donegal
30 Silver Alerts, e.g. 33 Toddler’s perch, at times 34 “If I had to bet ... “ 35 Sweat the small stuff
36 Grove of palm trees, maybe 37 Muscat’s country 38 Chutzpah
39 Lose it completely? 40 Lived and breathed 41 Kanga’s kid 46 Hamilton bills 47 Use as an ingredient
48 Tubular pasta
50 Tennis great profiled in ESPN’s “30 for 30” special “Arthur and Johnnie”
51 Like Sarah Lawrence since 1968 52 Social insect 53 Furious 55 Triage ctrs.
ARIES (March 21-April 19) : Competitive games may be like mini dramas you can’t take your eyes away from. Whether it’s a board game or a friendly soccer match, they could bring people together. Laughter and a dash of healthy rivalry could brighten your day.
TAURUS (April 20-May 20): When you’ve been contemplating change, the universe may seem to conspire in your favor. It might be the people you meet or the places you visit that could fire up your imagination. You may feel motivated to try something new this week.
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): Perform the delicate dance of not stepping on anyone’s toes. Be considerate, but don’t tiptoe so much that you lose your rhythm. Add a sprinkle of kindness or a pinch of wit to the recipe when cooking up fun ideas for loved ones.
CANCER (June 21-July 22): Nobody wants to play the role of the hypocrite, it’s like casting yourself as the villain in your own story. If you advocate for kindness, be kind. If you preach patience, practice it. Walk your talk to create a happier life.
LEO (July 23-Aug. 22): Loyalty might be your middle name but sometimes you must take charge. Leading by example may feel like being the compass for others and allowing your light to guide the way. Let your actions be in sync with your dialogue this week.
VIRGO (Aug. 23-Sept. 22): You may handle juggling friendships and tightrope-walking between extra commitments. Gatherings and community events that you attend in the week ahead could help you put things back into perspective. Find a good balance.
FOR THE WEEK OF NOV 23 - NOV 29 BY JERALDINE
SAUNDERS
LIBRA (Sept. 23-Oct. 22): Ignore the urge the digital world and allow yourself to venture beyond four walls for an adventure. Consider gathering loved ones, or those who light up your life, for a social outing. The sound of laughter and cheer may be therapeutic for everyone.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23-Nov. 21): Think of loyalty as your trusty sidekick, like the Robin to your Batman. It may be there unwavering when you need it but consider letting it stretch its wings a bit. Be open to spontaneity, like a secret handshake with new experiences.
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22-Dec. 21): Imagine your life as a movie. Your words are the script, but your actions are the scenes. When you say one thing but do another, it creates a dissonance that may cause you to stop believing in yourself. Stay authentic and true.
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 19): A stroke of good luck doesn’t mean you need to rewrite the entire plot. Goals are the backbone of your narrative so be sure to evaluate them carefully before making changes. Luck may frequently change, but purpose remains the same.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Imagine your goal as the center of the target. You may find that each element including your thoughts, actions, and circumstances gradually aligns, like arrows pointing toward that bull’s eye. Trust that timing plays a part.
PISCES (Feb. 19-March 20): The best moments of life may happen when you step away from the screen and participate in the real world. Consider choosing a new path this week, whether it is a walking trail or a game board and be sure to include some friends.
By America’s Test Kitchen