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During the Pandemic, Grief is Amplified by Isolation
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t is never a good time for a family member to leave this life, but the strife of isolation makes grieving an even more impossible process right now. Sol Levinson & Bros., Inc. continues to stay open and adapt to serve its closed community through their tragedies. Staff, primarily from home, answer phones and arrange funerals virtually. “We’re very proud of our dedicated staff working in difficult situations right now,” said Matt Levinson, president of the funeral home. “They’re passionate about helping the community, so I am very proud and able to honor them.” Following the state’s limit of 10 people at gatherings, Sol Levinson & Bros. only hosts graveside services with 10 or fewer people. Some funerals 14
fill all 10 spaces, whereas others must cope with a lonely service of only one or two if family members live out of town. The limitations on gatherings also impact shiva. “That is the most difficult part for families, to not have
used to shoveling dirt over their loved one’s grave, Levinson has families wear gloves to toss dirt, rather than share a tool. Where families are used to being held by others, Levinson uses Zoom to bring some solace, with the eulogy
“That is the most difficult part for families, to not have the community support them.” — Matt Levinson the community support them,” Levinson said. Levinson has adapted by holding dignified Jewish burials that balance safety and support. Where families are
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recorded. Where families are used to seeing everyone who knew their loved one, Levinson will offer memorial services at a later time in their chapel. Fram Monument is also
adapting. Though temporarily closed, it is available online. It just started doing virtual appointments, which allow families to see the showroom and the design of their memorial, as well as color drawings. “We are now working with some families to expedite their memorial and combining the unveiling with a delayed shiva opportunity when things are safe again,” owner Steve Venick said. “This can give families a sense of comfort and closure by seeing their monument for the first time and by giving friends and family an opportunity to visit with them afterwards and offer their sincerest condolences,” Venick said. Rabbis around the community are similarly evolving by going out of their way to help people through the grieving process.
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By Carolyn Conte
