5 West magazine – November/December 2023

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67 FESTIVE EVENTS THE LEGACY OF JAZZ IN CARY HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE

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THE 5 WEST CREATIVE AND EDITORIAL TEAM WITH IRA DAVID WOOD III AND HIS SONS, IRA DAVID WOOD IV AND THOMAS WOOD. PHOTO BY BRIAN MULLINS.

Rarely does a live performance endure more than two generations of sell-out crowds, making such an impact that fans return to see it year after year. Perhaps even more extraordinary is that for all five decades Theatre in the Park has presented “A Christmas Carol,” audience members have watched the same beloved protagonist—who also happens to be the antagonist—journey through humility, enlightenment and forgiveness. From the moment Ira David Wood III sets foot on stage as the cantankerous Ebenezer Scrooge, to his illuminating realization of the true meaning of Christmas, we hang on every “bah humbug” and pop culture caricature he tosses out. We watch him transition from an ill-mannered miser to a generous protector who experiences heartache, healing and love. Wood’s portrayal of this transformation has become as poignant as the journey itself.

As the Triangle’s theatrical crown jewel enters its 50th season, we are honoring it for another notable reason: 2023’s “A Christmas Carol” marks Wood’s final appearance as Scrooge before he officially hands over his iconic teddy bear—and prosthetic nose—to son Ira David Wood IV. In “Scrooge Takes a Final Bow” on page 18, Wood and both sons, Ira and Thomas, share favorite memories and dreams of what the future holds. Don’t miss this exclusive written by Melissa Wistehuff.

“A Christmas Carol” is just one of 67 festive events featured in our “Holiday Celebrations” roundup on page 22. And check out our detachable holiday gift guide on page 17A.

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Apex musician Christian Tamburr and his Christian Tamburr Quintet are delighting audiences at The Cary Theater and Fuquay-Varina Arts Center, where Tamburr has established the Legacy of Jazz Series.

Learn more about the series and his connections to legendary jazz performers on page 26. Speaking of The Cary Theater, it's just one of Cary's many unique historic buildings that help create a sense of place for residents and visitors alike. Find out where they are on page 38.

The Rusty Bucket, an iconic shop that got its start in Apex, has packed up and moved to Pittsboro. On page 40, meet owners Mack and Pam Thorpe and find out how they feel about their shop’s new home.

Holly Springs is where you’ll find writer, musician, restauranteur and former actor Rollin Jewett. Discover what he’s up to now and why he loves living in Western Wake on page 42. Meet inspiring local women in our Influential Women of Wake special section on page 31, and be sure to check out our Beauty Experts special section on page 45. ’Tis a very busy season, but we hope you’ll use it to see a holiday show, drive through a festive light display or cut down your own Christmas tree. This year more than any other, we realize that some traditions—like Ira David Wood III’s portrayal of Scrooge—can pass by in the blink of an eye. Take the time to savor and enjoy each fleeting moment every chance you get!

Beth Shugg, Editor

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CONTENTS

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FEATURES 17 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE Browse our detachable booklet for local

gifting resources

18 S CROOGE TAKES A FINAL BOW

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Ira David Wood III prepares to hang up his top hat after 50 remarkable years

22 H OLIDAY CELEBRATIONS

Discover 67 ways to find

holiday joy in the Triangle

26 GOOD VIBES

Christian Tamburr is

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legacy in the Triangle ON THE COVER Ira David Wood III—pictured here with his son, Ira David Wood IV—enters his 50th and final season of playing the role of Ebenezer Scrooge in Theatre in the Park’s “A Christmas Carol.” Photo by Brian Mullins.

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DEPARTMENTS

38 HISTORY

Look into Cary's rearview mirror to discover its historic homes and buildings

40 LOCAL BUSINESS

The Rusty Bucket leaves

Apex to begin a new era in Pittsboro

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42 C ANDID CONVERSATION

Rollin Jewett—a jack of arts and restaurateur—settles in Holly Springs

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31 INFLUENTIAL WOMEN OF WAKE

Talk of the Triangle Sightings

New Around Town

45 BEAUTY EXPERTS

48 OUT + ABOUT Dine + Draft

Tastes of the Town The Foodie 5 Events

Sister Cities

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TEXT AND PHOTOS BY MELISSA WISTEHUFF (unless otherwise noted)

Ira David Wood III (at left) and his sons, Thomas (at center) and Ira (at right), take a break from our cover photo shoot to check out the September/October issues of Midtown, 5 West and Triangle Family magazines.

Fenton’s beloved Italian restaurant, Colletta, now serves lunch Thursdays–Sundays. Diners can feast on an assortment of sandwiches, antipasti and everyone’s favorite: wood-fired pizzas.

Joy Caracciolo joined Melissa Wistehuff and Adam Cave for a podcast recording of Talk of the Triangle’s September episode to discuss her adventures as a local food influencer and Division 1 college basketball player.

The Jolly Rancher Monster Margarita at Mezcalito’s Apex location is Instagram-worthy, delicious, and certainly lives up to its name.

Its size and strength do not require a refill.

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PHOTO BY SEAN BYRNE

Also at Fenton, photographer Jenny Midgley captures model Katie Murray donning an ensemble styled by Sofia Lujan for our Talk of the Triangle fashion trends page.

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FESTIVE FASHION SEASONAL IDEAS FOR HOLIDAY OUTINGS ST Y LE D BY SOF I A LU J A N | MO DEL I N G BY K ATI E MUR RAY | P HOTO GRAPH Y BY JE NNY M ID GLE Y

Is your wardrobe ready for upcoming seasonal festivities? Whether you’re heading to a glamorous holiday party, crisp fall wedding or annual family gathering, these ensembles created by stylist Sofia Lujan will help you celebrate in style.

Clothing provided by The Gatorbug | Jewelry provided by Bailey’s Fine Jewelry | Some items provided by Sofia Lujan Styling

Fall Wedding The Collins Dress in Marfa paired with 14 karat yellow gold Club Collection diamond tennis necklace; 18 karat yellow gold rigid cuff bracelet and crossover bangle; 14 karat yellow gold diamond ring and Elizabeth Locke Black Onyx Queen Bee Intaglio ring; and 18 karat yellow gold Miseno Marea oval hoops.

Holiday Party Emily McCarthy Python Chloe dress paired with 36-inch 18 karat white gold diamond link and 18 karat white gold diamond necklaces; 14 karat white gold beaded bangle with diamond cluster stations, diamond flex bangles, Club Collection diamond link bracelet and thick round diamond bangle; platinum six-across emerald cut diamond band; and 14 karat white gold inside-outside diamond hoops.

Family Gathering Abstract print sweater in cream and ginger brown paired with Spanx faux suede leggings in rich caramel and Wardell boots in biscuit. Accompanying jewelry includes an 18 karat yellow gold Lagos pendant; 14 karat gold twisted flex bracelet with six round diamond stations, diamond flex bangle and diamond pavé disc endcap bangle bracelet; 14 karat yellow gold four flush set diamond hoop earrings; and 14 karat two-toned yellow gold open oval ring with diamonds, Club Collection Embrace ring, and Heritage Collection World’s Most Perfect signet mini ring.

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BY KURT DUSTERBERG | PHOTOS PROVIDED BY VENDORS

SEASONAL SENTIMENTS

Holiday decorations draw from different eras, but there’s nothing quite like trimmings that take us back to yesteryear. Whether it’s a Victorian ambience or reminders of how we experienced the holidays as children, there are plenty of throwbacks to make the season special.

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1. Raz Imports 24-inch sleigh with gilded runners, $119 | The Pink Magnolia 2. Raz Imports 15.25-inch pink glass tree set, $89 | The Pink Magnolia 3. Bell door hanger (fits over doorknob): one bell $29, three bells $45, five bells $79 | Designed for Joy 4. Stacked presents tree ornament, $15.95 | NOFO @ the Pig 5. Metal and wood crosses (two sizes), $39–$49 | Inspirations

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ON MAIN | SIGHTINGS

BY JANICE LEWINE

DESIGNED FOR JOY CELEBRATES SIX YEARS OF HELPING WOMEN IN CRISIS Designed For Joy, a nonprofit that provides living wage work for vulnerable women, celebrated its sixth anniversary August 24 with tourism website VisitRaleigh.com co-hosting festivities at Designed for Joy’s headquarters in downtown Raleigh. The event included a champagne toast, charcuterie

by Graze Craze and remarks by special guests. Since 2017, the nonprofit has provided $400,000 in living wages to more than 120 women who create artisanal collections for its online shop at designedforjoy.com. Its recent relocation to a 5,000-square-foot warehouse on 517 Cabarrus Street provides the capacity to help even more women.

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VALUED PARTNERS OF 5 WEST CELEBRATE AT COLLETTA SPRITZER 5 West magazine partners enjoyed the 5 West September Spritzer at upscale Italian eatery Colletta in Cary’s Fenton development on September 27. Guests mixed and mingled with representatives of local businesses and organizations, as well as members of the 5 West staff, while enjoying the restaurant’s delicious antipasta, wood-fired pizzas and spritzers.

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INTERIOR DESIGN TRENDS UNVEILED AT FALL INTO DESIGN EVENT

PARTY IN THE PEAK DRAWS CROWDS TO APEX The Town of Apex transformed its Town Hall Campus into an interactive museum September 23 in honor of its 150th anniversary of incorporation. Party in the Peak featured exhibits from Apex’s storied past and present, local bands and dance teams, food trucks, giveaways and opportunities to engage with town representatives. Revelers also learned about the town’s plans to further enhance Apex, affectionately known as The Peak of Good Living.

On September 13, local interior designers immersed themselves in the newest design trends at Fall into Design, an event co-hosted

by Arhaus; ICID World; and 5 West, Midtown and Triangle Family magazines. Held at the Arhaus showroom at Fenton in Cary, local designers explored Arhaus’ fall collection, gained insights into the newest design trends and learned about the innovative community that ICID World, an interior design organization, is creating. The event was highlighted by a signature cocktail, “Fall into Fizz,” crafted in collaboration with bourbon makers Brother’s Bond, as well as the work of interior design photographer Abigail Jackson.

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ON MAIN | NEW AROUND TOWN

SASSOOL OPENS FIGMINT FARMS Sassool, which has locations in Cary and Raleigh, unveiled its outdoor venue, FigMint Farms, on August 2. FigMint Farms’ serene setting features a renovated shelter that accommodates 75 guests, two walkable pine forests, a fishing pond and dock, picnic tables and a mint garden.

FigMint Farms is suitable for parties, yoga classes, family reunions, corporate enrichment, photoshoots and more. Upon request, Sassool will cater its renowned Mediterranean cuisine for events held there.

1501 Two Pond Lane, Apex 919.300.5586 sassool.com/figmintfarms PHOTOS COURTESY OF SASSOOL

LANGWORTHY FAMILY DENTISTRY BRIGHTENS SMILES IN FUQUAY-VARINA Langworthy Family Dentistry held a ribbon-cutting ceremony August 21 for its new location in Fuquay-Varina. Dr. Kristen LaBianca Langworthy, DDS, and her team offer comprehensive dental services for the whole family, including checkups and cleanings, dental sealants, night guards and periodontal therapy.

947 S. Judd Parkway SE, Fuquay-Varina 919.552.5113 langworthyfamilydentistry.com PHOTO COURTESY OF PAIGE GUNTER

HOME FOR ENTERTAINING BRINGS UNIQUE PRODUCTS AND WORKSHOPS TO CARY Home for Entertaining, the new sister company of Southern Studio Interior Design, opened its doors August 24 at 119 West Park Street in Cary. The retail market features unique, heirloom serving pieces, artisan textiles and tabletop goods for Western Wake shoppers. It also offers a variety of workshops, from cooking and mixology to flower arranging and holiday decorating, to inspire a love of entertaining and hospitality.

119 W. Park Street, Cary 919.363.0055 homeforentertaining.com PHOTO COURTESY OF HOME FOR ENTERTAINING

TRENLEND REVOLUTIONIZES CLOTHING RENTAL Launched by two students at North Carolina State University, TrenLend offers access to a diverse and ever-evolving wardrobe, including casual and formal wear, without the burden of ownership. By providing convenient clothing rental services in store and online, TrenLend is transforming the way local women approach fashion. Customers can try on and pick up clothing in the store, or have items shipped to them.

8420 Chapel Hill Road #111, Cary. trenlend.com PHOTO COURTESY OF TRENLEND

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HOLLY SPRINGS WELCOMES BRIGHTWATER WELLNESS Specializing in mental health services for adults, Brightwater Wellness held a ribbon-cutting ceremony on September 22 for its new location in Holly Springs.

Brightwater Wellness offers navigation of major life transitions, ways to manage anxiety, guidance for improving relationships and more.

342 Raleigh Street, Holly Springs 919.295.6485 brightwaterwellness.com PHOTO COURTESY OF PAIGE GUNTER

EXPERIENCE RUSH HOUR KARTING IN MORRISVILLE Take a spin on a European-designed kart that races almost 40 mph at Rush Hour Karting, which opened August 28 at 1021 WCC Lane in Morrisville. The indoor track spans one-third of a mile and features hairpin curves, high-speed straights and winding turns. Rush Hour Karting also operates a track in Garner.

1021 WCC Lane, Morrisville 919.439.5222 rushhourkarting.com PHOTO COURTESY OF PAIGE GUNTER

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2023 HOLIDAY GIFT GUIDE COMPILED BY CRYSTAL WATTS | COVER PHOTO TAKEN BY JENNY MIDGLEY AND STYLED BY CRYSTAL WATTS PRODUCT PHOTOS COURTESY OF STORES AND MANUFACTURERS, UNLESS OTHERWISE NOTED

It’s time to make your list and check it twice!

Our 2023 Holiday Gift Guide connects you to local shops and boutiques offering unique options that will inspire you to share a taste of the Triangle with friends and family this holiday season.

Note: While all of these businesses are local, some items are available for online purchase only.

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“You’re Doing Great, Babe” Candle, $18 Rose & Lee Collective roseandleeco.com

Lavender Lemon Candle (21 ounces), $29.97 Diamond Candles diamondcandles.com Enter 5West10 for a 10% discount

T-Safe Flannel Fire Extinguisher, $135 Decree Company | decreecompany.com

Penn Coasters (set of four), $88 Max Hugo Interior Design maxhugointeriors.com

Charcuterie Board (three sizes), $115–$185 Designed for Joy | designedforjoy.com

Holland Tray, $500 Max Hugo Interior Design | maxhugointeriors.com

Vinglacé Champagne Gift Set, $139.95 Skin Sense, a Day Spa | skinsense.com

Maria Bosetti “Here Comes the Sun” Ceramic Tile, from $400 Bosetti Art Tile & Pottery | bosettiarttile.com

Grief Box, $159 Laurel Leaves | laurelleavesgriefbox.com Santa Oil Paintings by Susie Fleming, from $140 Southern Secrets at Mears | southernsecrets.com

Chinoiserie Sleigh Ride Ornament, $19 The Pink Magnolia | thepinkmagnolia.com

Layered Succulent Planter, $70 City Garden Design | citygardendesign.com

“Unwind: A Devotional Cookbook for the Harried and Hungry”

by Aarti Sequeira, $24.99 DaySpring | dayspring.com PHOTO BY BRUCE DeBOER

FOOD + DRINK

Big Spoon Roasters Holiday Trio Set, $39.95 Big Spoon Roasters | bigspoonroasters.com

Ornament Candy Apples, $8 Kandy Apples by K | kandyapplesbyk.com

Taste Carolina Friday Afternoon Tasting Tour, $79 Taste Carolina | tastecarolina.net/raleigh

Aunt Ruby’s Fabulous Five, $67.95 Aunt Ruby’s Peanuts | auntrubyspeanuts.com Angus Barn Steaks, Burgers, Sauces and Seasonings; prices vary Angus Barn | angusbarn.com

Deco Custom Gift Box Price of contents added to $8/box, plus shipping decoraleigh.com

Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory Merry and Bright Box, $19.95 Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory waverlycary.com/directory/ rocky-mountainchocolate-factory

Olde Raleigh Coffee Cask Finished Bourbon, $124.95 Olde Raleigh Distillery olderaleighdistillery.com PHOTO BY BRUCE DeBOER

Stone Drink Dispenser, $145 Blake Interiors | blakeinteriors.co

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Bustin’ Out of the Eighties Escape Room Experience, $29/player Whole Brain Escape wholebrainescape.com

Take-Home Paint Kits, $25–$55 Wine & Design | wineanddesign.com

Return of the Roaring Twenties Card Game, $20 Whole Brain Escape | wholebrainescape.com

J E W E L RY

Inez Resin Handled Wristlet, $64 Designed for Joy | designedforjoy.com

Heritage Collection World’s Most Perfect Signet Mini Ring, $795 Bailey’s Fine Jewelry | baileybox.com

Sabel Everyday Collection 14K Yellow Gold Sideways Cross Necklace, $375 Fink’s Jewelers | finks.com

David Yurman Albion Ring in Sterling Silver with Prasiolite and Pavé Diamonds, $1,050 Fink’s Jewelers | finks.com

BuDha Girl All-Weather Gold Bangles, $125 The Gatorbug | thegatorbug.com

Lab-Grown Diamond Crossover Ring, $919 Charles & Colvard | charlesandcolvard.com Personalized Lab-Grown Diamond Initial Necklace, $489 Charles & Colvard charlesandcolvard.com

Betty Carré Isabela Bracelet, $335 Swagger | shopswaggernow.com

Diamond by the Yard Bracelet, from $125 Johnson’s Jewelers | johnsonsjewelers.com Betty Carré Brisa Hoop Earrings, $95 Swagger | shopswaggernow.com

WOMEN

Patagonia Women’s Radalie Jacket, $199 Great Outdoor Provision Co. greatoutdoorprovision.com

The Pippa Dress, $226 Zuna Apparel | zunaapparel.com

DryBar Barfly Double, $90/month Drybar Barfly Single, $45/month drybar | drybarshops.com

Nerina Boots by Valentina Rangoni, $340 Rangoni Firenze Shoes | rangonistore.com

Abigail Pleated Clutch, $105 Rose & Lee Collective | roseandleeco.com

Woodhouse Spa Robe, $125 Woodhouse Spa locations.woodhousespas.com/dir/ nc/raleigh/4204-six-forks-road

Lavender Lemon Bath Bombs, $15.97 Diamond Candles diamondcandles.com Enter Midtown10 for a 10% discount

Bebe Ellis Nutriplenish Products Styling Treatment Foam, $38 Daily Moisturizing Treatment, $46 Multi-use Hair Oil, $52 Botanical Repair Intensive Strengthening Masque (rich), $74 Botanical Repair Intensive Strengthening Masque (light), $55 Botanical Repair Strengthening Overnight Serum, $56 Bebe Ellis Salon | bebeellissalon.com PHOTO BY JENNY MIDGLEY

Bright Black Charcoal Hand + Body Wash, $28 Bright Black | brightblackcandles.com

Pasotti Pink Flowered Double Umbrella, $225 Decree Company decreecompany.com

MEN

919 Cotton Dad Hat, $36 Rose & Lee Collective roseandleeco.com

Secrid Miniwallet in Basket Brown, $109 Alexander Eton | alexander-eton.com

Franklin-Christoph Model 19 Dark Room Emulsion Fountain Pen, $225 Franklin Christoph franklin-christoph.com

Emanuel Berg Modern 4Flex Stretch Knit Shirt, $278 Alexander Eton | alexander-eton.com

Franklin-Christoph Leather Playing Card Case, $49.50 Franklin Christoph franklin-christoph.com

Gucci G-Timeless Iconic White Feline Steel and Yellow Gold PVD Watch, $1,400 Bailey’s Fine Jewelry baileybox.com

Lorenzoni Johnny Collar Plain Tricot in Pure Crépe Cotton, $395 Alexander Eton | alexander-eton.com

TAG Heuer Formula 1 Men’s Automatic Movement Grey Dial Watch, $2,250 Fink’s Jewelers | finks.com

PETS

2024 Dog of the Year Calendar, $27 Five Freedoms Photography fivefreedomsphotography.com/blog

Boredom Buster & Wag Butter Lick Pack, $16.95 Big Spoon Roasters bigspoonroasters.com

Personalized Pet Ornaments, $28 Moon and Lola moonandlola.com

Wag Butter Bandana Drip Kit, $29.95 Big Spoon Roasters bigspoonroasters.com

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Ira David Wood III plays the role of Ebenezer Scrooge in Theatre in the Park’s annual presentation of “A Christmas Carol” for his 50th—and final—season this year.

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BY MELISSA WISTEHUFF | PHOTOS BY BRIAN MULLINS

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ew landmarks, fixtures and traditions have withstood the countless changes Raleigh has experienced in recent decades. Natives wax nostalgic when asked about their fond recollections of yesteryear, with stories about Jesse Broyles—also known as the Peanut Man—who sold peanuts alongside his pigeon companions. They recall memories of pay phones lining Fayetteville Street and WRAL’s “Time for Uncle Paul” TV show. Popular restaurants and businesses have closed, and the skyline has drastically changed. But one local icon has remained a beloved piece of our city’s ghosts of Christmases past, present and future.

Ira David Wood III—David, as he likes to be called— has been delighting Raleigh audiences as the lovable curmudgeon Ebenezer Scrooge in Theatre in the Park’s “A Christmas Carol” since 1974. This cherished holiday tradition has endured the evolution of downtown Raleigh’s landscape over the last half century, and soon we will bid farewell to the man who arguably and singlehandedly revitalized North Carolina theater over the last five decades.

Wood’s musical comedy adaption of the Charles Dickens classic has become as synonymous with holiday traditions as the lighting of the Capitol Christmas tree. Triangle natives and newcomers alike flock each year to see performances at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium and Durham Performing Arts Center

(for which “A Christmas Carol” was the first theatrical show to debut in 2008) in what is lauded as one of the most successful shows in North Carolina theater history.

Wood’s oldest son, Ira David Wood IV—who goes

by Ira—took over for his dad in 2010 when David had heart surgery and, in recent years, has been donning Scrooge’s prosthetic nose and carrying his signature teddy bear every other night as his proud father looks on. “I love being able to sit in the audience and see the show from the other side of the curtain,” David says.

Eleven-year-old Thomas, Wood’s youngest son, will return for the fifth year as the baker’s son. Daughter Evan Rachel Wood—of “Westworld” and “Frozen II” fame—played the role of the Ghost of Christmas Past for the production in past years, making “A Christmas Carol” a true family affair. With more than two million tickets sold during David’s tenure as Scrooge, it’s fair to say “A Christmas Carol” has been a family affair for Triangle families as well.

Although his character brings the “bah humbug,” David adds a twinkle in his eye—his love of the story evident in each performance. “For me, Scrooge is like seeing an old friend each year,” he says, wistfully. “It’s been a good ride.”

We sat down with David and his sons to reminisce about their time together on stage and off, chat about what is to come, and find out how Ira and Thomas feel about carrying on their father’s legacy.

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Can you describe how it feels to know that your final curtain call as Scrooge is drawing nearer?

DAVID: I don’t think it has set in yet. We’re now in the throes of putting together the show, so I haven’t had time to wallow in my emotions. I have a feeling that it won’t hit me until the final curtain call. How much can one prepare for such a huge transition? It’s also David Moore’s last year [as Bob Cratchit] after 25 years, and he’s been a wreck.

How does it feel to be taking over your dad’s iconic role?

IRA: I’ve literally grown up with this play, and many of the cast members have been around so long that they are family to us. It’s bittersweet because this has been a dream for so long, and a goal that I’ve worked toward for most of my life. And now that the time has come, it doesn’t feel real.

DAVID: It helps that he’s taken over half the performances for the last few years, so we’ve been easing ourselves, as well as the audiences, into the transition.

IRA: Stepping into the role that first year was intimidating, because I didn’t want to let down the audiences. I started having more fun about halfway through the season, but I don’t take the responsibility lightly.

When did you know Ira was the right person to take over as Scrooge?

DAVID: Theater has always been Ira and Evan’s playhouse. They grew up on or behind the stage. I can’t think of a better place or group of people to grow up with. Every time a baby is born to someone in the “A Christmas Carol” family, I bring their baby on stage with me to sing the Christmas lullaby. Ira made his first appearance in the play when he was just weeks old. So as far as I’m concerned, Ira has been the only choice to take over the role.

IRA: It’s always been a discussion with Dad. It’s such a humbling experience to have this opportunity.

“A Christmas Carol” is an amazing tradition, and it’s an honor to be invited to spend Christmas with local audiences. I’ve lived and worked in Hollywood, and I can easily say that I’ve never experienced anything as special and magical as “A Christmas Carol.”

You’re both deeply involved in the day-to-day work at Theatre in the Park. What is it like working so closely with family?

DAVID: I wouldn’t have it any other way.

IRA: I don’t know anything different! I’ve lived my life surrounded by theater, and so many people at Theatre in the Park and in “A Christmas Carol” feel like family.

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mentor, especially with developing and learning things that are fundamental but aren’t necessarily things that can be taught, like how to listen to an audience.

What is your favorite moment of the show?

DAVID: The Christmas lullaby at the end of the show is so special to me. That’s when I take a moment to look out into the audience and see how people have taken the emotional ride with Scrooge.

IRA: It’s hard to pick a favorite moment, but the rapport I have with some of the castmates who have been around for so long is really special to me. It’s like being on stage with playmates that I get to have fun with. Each year, I look back and have a new favorite moment.

THOMAS: I like the part when I come in and say “that’s not how the song goes” and start flossing behind Scrooge’s back.

You work hard to keep each season of “A Christmas Carol” fresh by incorporating topical jokes. What current events have given you ideas for this year’s show?

DAVID: This show isn’t a matter of “adding water and stir,” in the sense that we work hard to keep it relevant each year—particularly for those who have been coming for decades. I start taking notes for the next year as soon as the curtain closes for the season, and we tweak what we find funny and most newsworthy when rehearsals start each fall.

IRA: 2023 is all about Barbie-mania! There’s also plenty of political fodder. I like being spontaneous because it helps keep the show fresh and fun night after night, but you have to know what is too much in the realm of play, because we don’t want to take the train off the tracks.

DAVID: There are times that we find something funny, but we have to realize that there’s a fine line between funny and offensive. It can be a tricky balance, especially with politics. There’s always someone who will find something offensive, but we do try to be funny and pertinent without ticking people off, and certainly without hurting feelings. I like to warn audience members to untighten their corsets before they come to the show (laughs). Everyone is so uptight these days, and this show is best experienced with a light heart.

Thomas, what do your friends think of you being a part of such a big show?

THOMAS: I guess they think it’s cool. Some have come to watch me, which is nice.

When you’re not on stage, where is your favorite place to spend time?

DAVID: Ashley (David’s wife), Thomas and I love to spend time at the Outer Banks. I love being a dad again.

I can look at it with a unique appreciation, having the opportunity to experience it all over again. When my older children were young, I was working so hard

to build the theater, and now I can savor parenthood more. Learning how to be a better, more present dad is a dream come true.

IRA: Camping in Uwharrie National Forest is my favorite getaway. I set up a tent, read a book by the campfire and enjoy being in nature.

THOMAS: I like to hang out with my friends and cousins. My parents and I went on a trip to New York City this summer. I’m a big “Back to the Future” fan, and we went to see the new Broadway play. It was awesome! The DeLorean flies out and hovers over the audience. It was so cool.

Thomas, do you dream of taking over the role of Scrooge one day?

THOMAS: Yes! Where can we find you next December, David?

DAVID: I’ll be watching “A Christmas Carol” as a proud dad. Plus, I’ll be sticking around as the show’s director.

They can’t get rid of me that easily!

Ira (page 18), who has performed in Hollywood, says nothing compares to being in “A Christmas Carol.”

Thomas (below) plays the role of Baker’s Boy for the fifth year—and has set his sights on keeping the role of Scrooge in the family.

HOLIDAY CELEBRATIONS 67 Ways to Find Holiday Joy in the Triangle

BY JANICE LEWINE

From Carrboro to Zebulon, the Triangle is gearing up to celebrate the holiday season in grand style. From extravagant light shows and parades to dazzling live performances, there are countless ways to get into the holiday spirit. Here’s our hearty selection of seasonal offerings that even the Grinch would enjoy!

Skate the Square 201 Fenton Gateway Drive, Cary fentonnc.com November 15–February 5.

Gather at Fenton’s ice skating rink for winter holiday cheer. Purchase tickets for a 75-minute session online in advance, or on-site, on a firstcome, first-served basis.

The Dessertery 2 E. South Street, Raleigh martinmariettacenter.com/dessertery November 17–December 23; hours vary.

Indulge in a family-friendly holidaythemed dessert cafe at Kennedy Theatre. Tickets range $15–$28.

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North Carolina Chinese Lantern Festival 8003 Regency Parkway, Cary boothamphitheatre.com November 17–January 14. LED lights transform Koka Booth Amphitheatre.

Cultural performances are featured nightly at 6:30, 7:30 and 8:30 p.m.

THE RINK 500 S. McDowell Street, Raleigh redhatamphitheater.com/the-rink November 18–January 15. Enjoy the thrill of ice skating at Red Hat Amphitheater. Tickets are $15 for skaters ages 2 and older (includes skate rental), and $6 for nonskaters.

Straight No Chaser: Sleighin’ It Tour 123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com November 19, 3 p.m. The renowned a cappella group performs beloved holiday songs at the Durham Performing Arts Center.

“A Magical Cirque Christmas” 2 E. South Street, Raleigh martinmariettacenter.com November 22, 7 p.m. See world-class acrobats, contortionists and aerialists perform to Christmas songs at Martin Marietta Center for the Performing Arts.

Wool E. Bull’s Winter Wonderland 409 Blackwell Street, Durham woolebull.com Showings presented on select nights November 22–December 31.

The Durham Bulls Athletic Park transforms into a winter wonderland.

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Lights on the Neuse 1620 Loop Road, Clayton lightsontheneuse.com Weekends and select days beginning November 24. Take a hayride through a holiday light spectacular featuring s’mores and photos with Santa.

Martina McBride: “The Joy of Christmas Tour” 2 E. South Street, Raleigh martinmariettacenter.com November 24, 7:30 p.m. Country music icon Martina McBride performs holiday favorites at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium.

The Christmas Carousel 1025 Blue Ridge Road, Raleigh christmascarousel.com November 24–26; visit the website for hours and ticket information. Over 250 exhibitors showcase holiday giftgiving merchandise.

Pullen Park Holiday Express 520 Ashe Avenue, Raleigh raleighnc.gov November 29–December 15. Enjoy a winter wonderland of holiday happenings throughout Pullen Park.

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1025 Blue Ridge Road, Raleigh jlraleigh.org/fundraising/a-shopping-spree November 30–December 3; visit the website for hours and ticket information. Shop and raise funds for nonprofits programs and community service initiatives.

Infinity Ballet Presents “Dances of the Nutcracker” 237 N. Salem Street, Apex etix.com December 1–3; see website for times.

See this holiday ballet at Halle Cultural Arts Center. Tickets are $10–$12.

Santa Paws 212 Foster Street, Durham dprplaymore.org/324/santa-paws December 1, 5–8:30 p.m. Take your canine friend to meet Santa at the Durham Armory.

16th Annual Apex Christmas Tree & Wreath Exhibit and Auction 237 N. Salem Street, Apex apexnc.org

December 1–18. Drift into a whimsical wonderland and bid on displays during a silent auction at the Halle Cultural Arts Center.

Festival of Lights 703 Tarboro Road, Youngsville hillridgefarms.com November 23–26 and December 1–30, 5:30–9 p.m. Immerse yourself in magical lights from the comfort of your vehicle. Tickets are $20 cash or $23 credit/debit per vehicle.

Apex Farmers Market Holiday Festival 1517 Beaver Creek Commons, Apex apexfarmersmarket.com December 2, 9 a.m.–noon. Enjoy live music and yuletide activities.

Gingerbread House Competition Downtown Cary carync.gov December 2–9. Downtown businesses display gingerbread houses created by local participants. Winners will be displayed throughout December at the Cary Arts Center.

Town of Apex Pancake Breakfast 210 N. Salem Street, Apex apexnc.org December 2, 7:30–11 a.m. The Apex Rotary Club hosts this annual breakfast, with proceeds going toward scholarships for local students.

Let It Snow 220 N. Salem Street, Apex apexrotary.org December 2, 3–5 p.m. Enjoy the fun of interactive booths, a selfie station and guest appearances by Santa and Mrs. Claus in The Depot parking lot prior to the Apex Christmas Parade at 5 p.m.

Cary Ballet Company: “The Nutcracker” AJ Fletcher Opera Theater, 2 E. South Street, Raleigh caryballetcompany.org/the-nutcracker December 2, 11 a.m., 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.

Cary Arts Center, 101 Dry Avenue, Cary December 15, 11 a.m. and 7 p.m.; December 16, 11 a.m., 2 p.m. and 7 p.m.; December 17, 1:30 and 5:30 p.m.

Cary Players Present “A Gift to Remember” 101 Dry Avenue, Cary caryplayers.org December 1, 7:30 p.m.; December 2, 3 and 7:30 p.m.; December 3, 3 p.m., and December 4, 7:30 p.m. Shows take place at the Cary Arts Center.

A Gift to Cary Celebration 327 S. Academy Street, Cary carync.gov December 2. Celebrate the opening of Downtown Cary Park with a full day of live performances, a skating rink, Santa’s workshop, the town’s tree-lighting ceremony and more.

Victorian Christmas at the Page-Walker 119 Ambassador Loop Road, Cary carync.gov December 2, 2–5 p.m. Enjoy old‑fashioned holiday fun as the Page‑Walker Arts & History Center welcomes guests with cider, cookies, carolers, storytelling and carriage rides.

Santa’s Reindeer Roundup Express 3900 Bonsal Road, Apex triangletrain.com December 2–3, 9–10 and 16; departure times are 9:30 and 11 a.m.; and 12:30, 2:15 and 3:45 p.m. Travel on the New Hope Valley Railway to search for Santa’s missing reindeer.

Apex Holiday Tour of Lights Throughout Apex apexnc.org December 2–31, 6–9 p.m. See holiday light displays of 32 homes and businesses across Apex. The Tour of Lights provides two route maps.

“Dr. Seuss’ How The Grinch Stole Christmas” 123 Vivian Street, Durham dpcacnc.com December 5–10; see website for times. The Grinch discovers the true meaning of Christmas at the Durham Performing Arts Center.

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“A Christmas Carol” 2 E. South Street, Raleigh 123 Vivian Street, Durham theatreinthepark.com December 8–10 and 13–17; see the website for times. Ira David Wood III’s “A Christmas Carol,” a musical comedy adaptation of the Charles Dickens classic, celebrates 50 years of holiday magic, and is also Wood’s final performance as Scrooge before turning the role over to his son, Ira David Wood IV. Performances take place December 8–10 at the Martin Marietta Center for the Performing Arts in Raleigh and December 13–17 at the Durham Performing Arts Center.

Disney on Ice Presents “Magic in the Stars” 1400 Edwards Mill Road, Raleigh pncarena.com December 6–10; see website for times.

Experience the magic of ”Frozen 2” and celebrate the power of love with Elsa, Anna, Olaf and Kristoff.

Grinch Candy Cane Hunt 801 High House Road, Cary carync.gov December 9, 10–11 a.m. Find all of Santa’s candy canes hidden in Bond Park before the Grinch swipes them. $9/resident, $12/nonresident.

Reserve a spot at mycary.org by using course code 031177.

Deck the Hall-Z Downtown Zebulon zebulonchamber.org December 8, 5:30–9 p.m. Zebulon turns on the holiday charm with live music, holiday displays, an outdoor movie showing and more.

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Holiday Pops 101 Dry Avenue, Cary etix.com December 9, 7:30 p.m. The Concert Singers of Cary symphonic choir and guest musicians present holiday tunes.

Raleigh Youth Choir’s “Carols of Christmas” 228 W. Edenton Street, Raleigh raleighyouthchoir.org December 8, 7 p.m. The Raleigh Youth Choir performs yuletide favorites. Tickets are $10–$20.

Historic Oakwood Candlelight Tour Downtown Raleigh historicoakwood.org December 9 and 10, 1–5 p.m. The 52nd annual self-guided tour features 11 properties dating from the mid-1800s to the early 1900s.

Tickets are $30–$35.

Apex Chanukah Festival Downtown Apex apexnc.org December 10, 3-6:30 p.m. Enjoy a Chanukah Wonderland organized

by Chabad of Cary featuring crafts and games, a menorah lighting, a fire show, a kosher food truck and a gelt drop at 5:15 p.m. at The Depot.

Durham Craft Craft Market Holiday Show 501 Foster Street, Durham durhamcraftmarket.com December 10, 10 a.m.–4 p.m. More than 50 local artisans showcase holiday-themed foods and gifts.

North Carolina Master Chorale Presents “Joy of the Season” 2 E. South Street, Raleigh ncmasterchorale.org December 12, 7:30 p.m. Enjoy familiar carols and contemporary settings.

Trans-Siberian Orchestra: “The Ghosts of Christmas Eve” 1400 Edwards Mill Road, Raleigh pncarena.com December 13, 7 p.m. Celebrate

Christmas with Trans-Siberian Orchestra’s allegorical rock opera.

Cary Hanukkah Menorah Lighting 101 Dry Avenue, Cary carync.gov December 13, 5:30–6:30 p.m. Join Chabad of Cary for treats, activities and holiday music as a menorah is lit on the seventh night of Hanukkah.

Morrisville Menorah Lighting Indian Creek Trailhead; 101 Town Hall Drive, Morrisville morrisvillenc.gov December 14, 5:30 p.m. Enjoy a live flame lighting of the town’s menorah with Rabbi Cotler on the final night of Hanukkah.

Carolina Ballet Presents “The Nutcracker” 2 E. South Street, Raleigh carolinaballet.com December 14–24. Carolina Ballet honors past productions of “The Nutcracker” with refreshed choreography in Raleigh Memorial Auditorium.

The Raleigh Ringers’ Holiday Concerts 2 E. South Street, Raleigh rr.org December 16–17, 4 p.m. Hear The Raleigh Ringers present interpretations of sacred, secular and popular music arranged for handbells.

Gingerbread Jamboree 201 E. Hargett Street, Raleigh marbleskidsmuseum.org December 16–17; 9:30 a.m., 2:30 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. Decorate a gingerbread house at Marbles Kids Museum.

Wreaths Across America wreathsacrossamerica.org December 16, noon. Honor service members by placing wreaths on the graves of all veterans in both Hillcrest Cemetery and First Christian Church Cemetery in Cary.

“Nutcracker! Magical Christmas Ballet” 123 Vivian Street, Durham dpacnc.com December 20, 4 and 8 p.m.

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December 8, 6–8:30 p.m. Celebrate the season at Marbles Kids Museum with s’mores, arctic museum play and a visit from the Snowflake Fairy.

Wear pajamas.

ballet dazzles with larger-than-life puppets, breathtaking acrobatics and dazzling costumes.

Cary Kwanzaa Celebration 101 Dry Avenue, Cary carync.gov December 29; time TBA. This cultural celebration at the Cary Arts Center honors African American people and their heritage.

First Night Raleigh Downtown Raleigh firstnightraleigh.com December 31; 2 p.m.–midnight.

Ring in the new year with live entertainment, roving street performers, arts and crafts, and the Acorn Drop at midnight. Visit the website for ticket information.

Kwanzaa Fest 5291 Capital Boulevard, Raleigh January 1 (Imani), noon 212 Foster Street, Durham aadekwanzaafest.com December 28 (Ujima), 4 p.m. The African American Dance Ensemble hosts the 38th annual Kwanzaa Fest for two days of festivities.

TRIANGLE TREE LIGHTINGS Waverly Place Tree Lighting (Cary) waverlycary.com November 17, 5:30–8:30 p.m.

Lafayette Village Lighting of the Trees (Raleigh) lafayettevillageraleigh.com November 18, 3–6 p.m.

North Hills Tree Lighting ­(Raleigh) visitnorthhills.com November 18, 4–7 p.m.

Fuquay-Varina Tree Lighting, Sleigh Rides and Santa fuquay-varina.org November 30, 6–8 p.m.

Apex Tree Lighting Ceremony apexnc.org December 1, 4–6 p.m.

Town of Morrisville Tree Lighting morrisvillenc.gov December 1, 6 p.m.

HOLIDAY PARADES 79th Annual Raleigh Christmas Parade (Downtown Raleigh) shoplocalraleigh.org November 18, 9:30 a.m.–noon

Apex Christmas Parade (Downtown Apex) December 2, 5 p.m.

Hillsborough Holiday Parade (Downtown Hillsborough) hillsboroughchamber.com December 3, 4 p.m.

Rolesville Christmas Parade (Downtown Rolesville) business.rolesvillechamber.org December 3, 2 p.m.

Chapel Hill–Carrboro Community Holiday Parade (Downtown Chapel Hill and Carrboro) chapelhillarts.org December 9, noon

Lighting of Wake Forest wakeforestnc.gov December 1, 5–8 p.m.

Cary Jaycees Christmas Parade (Downtown Cary) caryjaycees.org December 9, 2–4 p.m.

Garner Christmas Parade and Tree Lighting garnerchristmasparade.com December 2, 4:30 p.m.

Durham Holiday Parade (Main Street, Durham) dprplaymore.org December 9, 10 a.m.

Holly Springs Tree Lighting hollyspringsnc.us December 7, 5–8 p.m.

Happy Holly Days Parade (Downtown Holly Springs) hollyspringsnc.gov December 9, 10 a.m.

Visit midtownmag.com/merry-moments for holiday events outside of the Triangle and additional details about the events listed in this article.

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“Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs: Christmas Ballet Show” 309 W. Morgan Street, Durham carolinatheatre.org December 20, 7 p.m. Classical Arts Entertainment presents the Brothers Grimm fairy tale as a ballet with staging by The State Ballet Theater of Ukraine.

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Christian Tamburr is building a new music legacy in the Triangle

BY KURT DUSTERBERG | PHOTOS COURTESY OF CHRISTIAN TAMBURR

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hristian Tamburr’s sense of humor comes in handy in his professional life. The Apex resident and accomplished musician has played in more than 60 countries alongside legendary performers and with his namesake quintet. It makes a great conversation starter until he reveals that he’s a vibraphonist, leaving some people to wonder if he plays in a symphony or, perhaps, with “Weird Al” Yankovic.

As Tamburr relaxes in his home production studio, he notes the makeup of the Christian Tamburr Quintet, pointing out that “there’s a drum, there’s a bass”— then he tilts his head toward his instrument—“and there’s whatever people think that thing is.”

The vibraphone is the more sophisticated cousin of the xylophone. Rather than short, staccato sounds, the vibraphone produces longer notes and melodies that lend the percussion instrument not only to jazz, but also classical music. It takes just seconds to understand Tamburr’s virtuosity when he picks up the mallets, sometimes four at once, and makes them dance across the metal bars.

Tamburr, who has recorded six jazz albums, grew up in Merritt Island, Florida, playing a guitar given to him by his father and a baby grand piano he inherited from a great aunt. By the time he discovered the vibraphone in the eighth grade jazz band, there was no turning back. At 14, he was playing

jam sessions with accomplished musicians, eventually joining a band called Swingerhead that recorded a hit pop song, “Pick Up The Phone,” in 1998. “We were just in the right time and right place,” Tamburr says.

“Now I was traveling every other weekend to play [clubs], all while in high school and trying to get math homework done.”

Never content to be just a niche musician, Tamburr cultivated his broader musical interests to become an accomplished piano player, composer and arranger. He has gone on to serve as musical director and pianist for Las Vegas magicians Penn & Teller and renowned Spanish singer-songwriter Julio Iglesias. Along the way, he has provided musical memories in the lives of basketball legend Michael Jordan and actress Julia Roberts.

After seven years in Las Vegas, Tamburr and his family moved to the Triangle in 2019 when his wife, Shaina, accepted a position with Cisco Systems. They have a 7-year-old daughter and an almost-2-year-old son. When not traveling with his quintet, Tamburr composes music for other artists, films and projects. Now, with roots in the Triangle, he has established the Legacy of Jazz Series, bringing some of the country’s top musicians to perform alongside his group at The Cary Theater and Fuquay-Varina Arts Center. Not bad for a guy who says with a smile, “Nobody needs a vibraphonist.”

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What was your first big break?

I was 20 going to the University of North Florida, and I got a call saying we need a special guest soloist to feature with a jazz band five nights a week at the Bellagio. I called my parents. I packed up my stuff and drove with my dad in the minivan out to Las Vegas, and was playing at the Bellagio at 20 years old.

At some point, you went from being a sought-after vibraphonist to being a band leader.

I was always the special guest.

I never really felt like I was part of the band. So when I was 22 or 23, I started to play my own material. I wanted to have my own band. I could be a sideman and get called for gigs, or I could go be the one who makes the calls. That [became] the Christian Tamburr Quartet, and I had to be there.

I was 24 and I released my first record, called “Move.” A guy reached out to me from Starbucks.

They were doing these coffee and jazz gift sets—a CD, a cup, a bag of coffee. I think there were over 150,000 records that went out with the gift sets. My music was everywhere, apparently. That was a huge first step into jazz radio. That was an incredible launching board going into my next record.

How did you wind up working with Penn & Teller?

The second or third night I was playing in Vegas, Penn was hanging out. He was a fan. I didn’t even know I could have a fan like that.

We actually became friends. I went to see his show and Penn asked me what I thought. I told him it would be better if Teller played vibraphone in the act. So I taught Teller to play and I started writing music to support their act.

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You toured as the pianist with Julio Iglesias, one of the top-selling vocalists in history. How did you get the job?

They called me No. 9 because I was the ninth guy to try to get the gig.

The gig is to play the parts exactly the way he wants them, without added embellishments. I realized that very quickly, and I think a lot of guys maybe didn’t want to conform to that.

We went to Lake Charles, Louisiana for the first set of shows. I played the rehearsal and the sound check. But he brings the old musical director (Rafael Ferro) back, and he sits down and plays the show. The next day I played the sound check, and Julio wasn’t liking what I was doing.

He goes, “You need to go out and watch my show, and watch Rafa and understand how he plays behind me.”

I flew home after two nights of not playing a single show. I remember thinking, I guess they’re on to No. 10. The next thing I know, I got an email about two months of touring. So I showed up for the first show in Tampa.

And over the course of that tour, I learned to adapt and play and understand through mentoring under the music director.

I’ll just throw out two names and you can explain your connections: Julia Roberts and Michael Jordan.

I was 21 years old, playing the Bellagio, and Julia Roberts was filming the movie “Oceans 11” there. Julia Roberts and Danny Moder had their first date listening to our band and danced to our version of “At Last.”

For her 40th birthday party, Danny wanted to recreate the moment that they first kindled

their relationship and danced to “At Last.” So we flew to New York.

The audience was insane. It was Bruce Willis, Kirsten Dunst, James Gandolfini. Julia was hugging us.

It was so surreal.

When I lived in Charlotte, we played at Sullivan’s Steakhouse.

Michael Jordan would come in frequently. One night he comes up to me and he says, “Do you know the song, “How Do You Keep the Music Playing?” I said, “Yeah, I think I can fake it.” He said, “Can I sing it with you?” So he sat next to me at the piano bench, and Michael Jordan and I played “How Do You Keep the Music Playing?”

And how was his performance?

(Tamburr laughs.) He should keep his day job! But it was a moment. The next thing we know, we got called multiple times to do private events for him at his home, at the arena.

There was a familiarity and trust built up. It lasted probably two or three years.

Away from your professional work, you have a unique way of promoting music in the local schools, too.

I work with Shana Tucker. She’s a vocalist. We’re both involved in the United Arts Council. We usually do two performances a month in local schools. The age group we work with is primarily K–6. We talk about the instruments, we talk about what it’s like to play together and how to improvise.

Before YouTube and smartphones, to be entertained, you had to go out and do stuff.

Our society has shifted to using some of these devices for not only education, but also for what we do when we’re not in school. So how do you get kids to even know what

a cello is? The idea here is that we want to expose as many young kids to what live music really is—what it looks like and feels like and sounds like. It’s joyful and interactive, and it doesn’t involve a tablet or a game. It isn’t an app. To me, that is how you cultivate an audience, even at that young age.

It sounds like the Legacy of Jazz Series is something unique in the Triangle.

The concept of Legacy of Jazz is strongly-themed concept performances based upon the legacy of artists that have come before us. I’m using the theme for our market reach. The music of Nat King Cole or the music of Cole Porter. Hopefully that sells tickets. We’ve sold out all the shows in Cary. I’m trying to be pretty creative with the types of shows we present.

You’ve settled into Apex as your new home. You have a beautiful property.

It looks like there’s a lot of yard work.

Yes, a lot of yard work, and I’m the lawn service! We’re able to have a little bit of land; we have 16 chickens. We have seven bee hives on the property. We really love being outside in our yard, or just going out. Like last night, we went to a brewery in Pittsboro to hear some live music. And we like to get ice cream in Apex.

I don’t think we would leave Apex. We may look for a slightly smaller home and a little bit more land. We love it here. We love going out to the beach to Oak Island. I just took my daughter up to Asheville for a long weekend for a father-daughter hang in the mountains hiking. This area has really been a blessing for us as a family because it really can be so many things.

LEGACY OF JAZZ CONCERT DATES The Legacy of Jazz Series continues on the following dates at The Cary Theater.

Visit thecarytheater.com to learn more.

La Vida Es Musica Friday, December 8 at 7:30 p.m.

Latin Jazz from Argentina, Brazil and Beyond featuring Triad: Tamburr (marimba), Dominick Farinacci (trumpet) and Michael Ward-Bergeman (accordion).

Some Enchanted Evening Friday, February 9 at 7:30 p.m.

The Rodgers & Hammerstein Song Book featuring Jane Monheit with the Christian Tamburr Trio.

The Great American Crooners Saturday, March 23 at 7:30 p.m.

The Music of Nat King Cole, Sammy Davis, Sinatra and beyond, featuring Clint Holmes with the Christian Tamburr Trio.

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There are so many ways to volunteer in Wake County. The number of nonprofits in this area has shown me how much this community wants to help others in need. Through volunteer efforts, I’ve met several people who have truly impacted my life.

My role as a Business Banking Area Manager allows me to help small businesses follow their entrepreneurship dreams. This helps create a more selfsustainable community with meaningful connections and opportunities for people to work closer to home, improving their overall quality of life.

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WHAT ARE YOUR HOPES AND DREAMS FOR YOUR COMMUNITY IN THE NEXT 10 YEARS? I hope we continue to show enthusiasm for finding ways to look out for family, friends and neighbors; advocate for children; make community safety a top priority; grow the economy through small business ownership; and last, but certainly not least, radiate kindness!

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From my Wolfpack college days until now, as a financial advisor, I’ve developed an appreciation for our area’s increasingly diverse culinary scene. The foodie in me is either trying new restaurants for client appreciation events or recreating recipes at home.

Despite endless dining options, many people still experience hunger daily.

I recognized this disparity and organized our annual food drive and volunteer day with the Food Bank of Central & Eastern North Carolina in 2005. It remains a top-attended event.

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HISTORIC CARY

Look into the rearview mirror of this booming Western Wake town

BY DAVID DROSCHAK

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f you’ve driven through Cary within the last 12 months, you’ve likely encountered a series of zigzag detours as the trendy downtown transforms right before our very eyes.

And while all of the “new” is visually stimulating and draws out-of-towners to one of the fastest growing areas in the nation, it’s easy to overlook the fact that Cary was once a small farming community with a population of 300 where the city’s founder, Frank Page, built a hotel in 1868 that still stands today—in the shadow of all the recent development—as the Page-Walker Arts & History Center.

The restored hotel, which features French Second Empire architectural style and was thought to be a rather ambitious project back in its day, spans three centuries and now serves a museum filled with old photos and memorabilia of Cary’s past. It’s just one of the town’s numerous historic gems.

“People may have moved here from Pennsylvania or Indiana or Colorado and they want to know what’s distinctive about their new community, their new home,” says Kris Carmichael,

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operations and program supervisor of historical resources for the Town of Cary. “A sense of community is something that people look for. Even though they may live in a brand-new development or a new condo, they still want to know about the roots of their community. So I would say that history gives community its distinctiveness, its connection.”

Carmichael likes that new and old development coexists in Cary. “I just find it interesting that a number of the new developments actually reflect historic names,” she says, noting that the Fenton development was named in honor of former U.S. Rep. Samuel Fenton Cary of Ohio, who Page named the town after because he admired the congressman’s temperance speeches. “I’ve been approached in the past to do research on certain areas when they’re looking at naming a park or a new road, or something like that, to see if there isn’t some sort of historic precedent to that area or connection for a particular area. How do you think Kildaire Farm Road got its name?”

PRIORITIZING PRESERVATION While Carmichael has been in her position for 15 years, Gillian White was hired about five years ago to a new post as the town’s historic preservation program manager. One of White’s jobs is to review every single demolition permit that comes into the town for historic significance. “Even though it could be private property and we have no say over it, we can at least go out and document and take pictures,” White says. “So we’re doing what we can to preserve even the archives that we have of properties, even if we can’t save the property.” White points out that sometimes developers or property owners have no idea of the history behind what is about to be leveled or destroyed—a list that can even include farms or old tobacco sheds.

The town’s Historic Preservation Commission provides White with a yearly list of “priority landmark properties” that often reaches several hundred. “We’ll go through that list and we’ll routinely send out inquiry letters to property owners that we think have historic significance, and it talks about our landmark program and how they can be a part of it—which would offer a protection of their property.”

Properties are deemed historic after 50 years. “So it is always being updated, and every year you’re getting more properties added to the list,” White says. At times, there have been tremendous public-private historic preservation success stories in Cary. The gothic style Ivey-Ellington House was built around 1870 and located at the site of the town’s farmers market, which was moved to a secure location this past winter.

“We owned the house for quite a while, and the inside was never really used for more than storage,” White says.

“We just never thought about how we would reuse it. And then, in comes a developer and they want to partner with us and say, ‘Hey, we really want to develop here but we know that

this property is really important to you, so we’d like to work with you to have the best outcome possible.’ That’s when we decided to relocate the house just down the street, and now we’re doing a full rehab on it, which will allow the house to actually be utilized instead of it just sitting vacant. So the developer actually got our wheels turning as to how we could use the historic house.”

Recent downtown Cary reuse projects with new businesses that incorporated historic landmarks into their trendy design include Bull City Ciderworks and Cotton House Brewery.

“That’s exciting, because it shows that even our developers in the community value historic preservation,” White says.

“These developers don’t need to do this, but they want to because they feel like that’s important for the community.”

CREATING COMMUNITY CONNECTIONS Carmichael is encouraged to see how many new residents visit places like the Page-Walker Arts & History Center and are enthralled with all the history surrounding Cary. “I think there are times when people do think that Cary is all new, and they’re surprised that we have buildings that go back into, well, the 19th century,” Carmichael says. “For example, we were recently donated a rather substantial collection of arrowheads and projectile points that were all discovered in the process when Cary Parkway and Maynard Road were being extended.”

“People want to know what’s special about Cary. Most people want to feel a connection to the place they live in,” White adds. If you don’t have any uniqueness in your city or town or community. then what’s connecting you to it? It could just be any other city in the world, so having that sense of place is important.”

CHRISTMAS IN CARY

BY DAVID DROSCHAK

The Town of Cary will host some must-experience events this winter, including a holiday open house the first weekend of December at the Page-Walker Arts & History Center.

The 1868 former hotel comes to life in grand Victorian splendor as two dozen volunteers decorate the building with candles and garland for the celebration. The event features carolers dressed in Victorian historical attire, carriage rides, cider and cookies—even a long white bearded Saint Nicholas who hands out candy canes to those who partake in the festivities.

“We really go for that Victorian look and embrace the history and heritage of the Page‑Walker, and people just seem to love it,” says Kristina Carmichael, operations and program supervisor of historical resources for the Town of Cary.

Less than a minute away, the historic Cary Theater will show holiday movies in December, a tradition Carmichael says people “go nuts over” as they relive childhood classics.

After taking in a movie, enjoy a short walk to Academy Street, which is lined with lighted trees. “It’s so beautiful,” says Gillian White, historic preservation manager for the Town of Cary. “When I first came to visit a few years ago, it was during the holidays and I was like ‘I want to live here’ because it was this cute little holiday town.”

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MEMORIES BY THE BUCKETLOAD The Rusty Bucket begins a new era in Pittsboro

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ack and Pam Thorpe sat in matching rocking chairs at the back of The Rusty Bucket, calling up 19 years of memories. In the days before moving their downtown Apex country store to Pittsboro, some of the melancholy had given way to excitement.

“I have looked at it as a blessing in disguise because Pittsboro is kind of where Apex was 20 years ago,” Pam says. “I think we’re going into this with a great location. I’m excited about it now. I’ve put the sadness of looking back behind me.”

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The Thorpes cited rising rent as the reason for the move. The new location at 630 East Street off of Business US-64 will solve some of the issues they faced in Apex, including limited downtown parking. “If you need a candle or something small, you don’t want to park two blocks away,” Pam says. “I wanted to be somewhere that’s highly visible, and easy to get in and out of with plenty of parking.”

Opening the Rusty Bucket in 2004 was a leap of faith for the Thorpes, who

had each spent more than 20 years at Nortel Networks. With layoffs looming, they decided to follow Pam’s dream of owning a country store. Like most momand-pop ventures, the commitment came with its own worries. “It’s stressful,” Pam says. “There would be times when I would be crying and saying, ‘I don’t think I can do this anymore.’ I’m stubborn, so I decided I would make it work one way or the other. So that means reaching into your own savings account sometimes because you believe in it.”

ICONIC CHARM For a generation, The Rusty Bucket was the signature shop in downtown Apex—but not just for its country home furnishings. The scents of the candles and the squeak of floorboards made the place feel like a momentary getaway from the day-to-day. “We got a phone call years ago from a woman, and she asked if we would stay open a few minutes late,” Mack recalls. “She was a schoolteacher and had had a rough week. She said she wanted to come in and smell the smells and walk through a place that’s warm and comfortable.

After about 45 minutes, she didn’t buy anything. She was a little apologetic. I told her, ‘Don’t you worry about that.’”

There have been good years and hard years for The Rusty Bucket, but the tough breaks often came with a silver lining. In response to the 2008 recession, the Thorpes turned to more local crafters to cut down on shipping costs. “Plus, it gives customers the chance to find something unique that you’re not going to find anywhere else,” Pam says.

The patrons were loyal, but their tastes and needs changed over two decades. The Thorpes naturally adjusted right along with them.

The large pieces of furniture that were popular in the early days gave way to candles and small toys as their clientele aged. But some of The Rusty Bucket’s charm comes from the items that have stood the test of time. The candy—taffy, jaw breakers, candy sticks—goes back to another era.

When children spot the vintage gumball machine, the owners are quick to hand out pennies. So it’s no surprise what Pam will miss most.

“The kids,” she says without hesitation. “There are kids who come in from Apex Middle School 10 at a time. After school they come in with their money and they buy candy. And you get to know them. A couple of them will come in and sit down and talk to me. You create this bond.”

In a retail store, however, it’s not easy to watch one-of-a-kind items come and go. Mack once bought a

ABOVE: Apex customers fondly recall The Rusty Bucket’s squeaky floorboards and country store feel.

OPPOSITE PAGE: Mack and Pam Thorpe, owners of The Rusty Bucket, have packed up their Apex store’s rustic home furnishings and accessories, and moved them to Pittsboro.

mechanical horse from an amusement park in Canada. He brought it home and fixed the electronics before placing it outside, where it stood for years as the shop’s unofficial mascot. One day, a woman asked Mack if he would sell it, and he did. “Man, I thought I had a rebellion on my hands,” he says. “Kids and customers were saying, ‘Where’s Bucket the Horse?’ You live and learn.”

What the Thorpes have mostly learned is that their customers love them, both for their store and their roles in the community. Mack was known as much for playing Santa Claus as being a shopkeeper, and his

restored, red Ford Model A was a staple of the Apex High School homecoming parade. They both served on economic development boards, trying to create something special. “I love knowing that I was a part of making downtown what it is,” Pam says.

So when the choice came down to moving The Rusty Bucket or settling into retirement, it was an easy call.

“What else would I do?” Pam says.

“I sit for hours at night looking at products, thinking about how I would use them. You just kind of go with your gut, and over the years you get to know your customers and what they like.”

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A JACK OF ARTS AND RESTAURATEUR SETTLES IN HOLLY SPRINGS

BY MARIO BOUCHER

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recent trip to the Grand Ole Opry in Nashville for the annual International SingerSongwriters Association earned Holly Springs resident and Charlotte native Rollin Jewett a 2023 ISSA Award for his song “Meteor.” When he’s not busy writing songs—or a novel based partly on his entertainment industry adventures— the multitalented artist manages Bocci Trattoria & Pizzeria in Cary with his brother, Bob. From writing a movie starring Carmen Electra and standing in for John Travolta, to writing songs and winning musical awards, Jewett has experienced a wide range of facets of the entertainment industry.

In 2009 he moved to Cary with his wife, Debbie, to raise their young son, Ronan, back in his home state.

At age 2, Jewett moved with his mother and two older brothers to Miami. He later moved to Fort Lauderdale, where he discovered his passion for art while in high school.

Rollin credits drama and creative writing classes with changing his life, and two teachers for serving as mentors and creating a welcoming and supportive environment where students were judged on their creative merit.

Rollin attended Florida State University as a theater major and acted in a few plays in college before moving back to South Florida, where he auditioned and worked in commercials, print, film and TV, including a role on an episode of the hit 1980s series “Miami Vice.” We talked with Jewett about these adventures, as well as why he enjoys raising a family in the Triangle.

What made you decide to move to Los Angeles?

In Miami, I worked as an actor and print model doing many commercial and print jobs—and popular TV shows such as “Miami Vice” and “Unsolved Mysteries”—some low-budget films and a minor role in “The Bodyguard.” I felt like the proverbial “big fish in a little pond,” so I decided to move to LA. But things were vastly different out there— much more competitive and geared to a

younger set. I did manage to land a few acting gigs here and there. Through a friend, I finally met a young producer and got him interested in a low-budget vampire comedy I had written called “American Vampire,” which starred Adam West and Carmen Electra.

How did you get involved in the entertainment industry?

It was something I just fell into. Being an actor appealed to me because it meant I could travel to exotic locations, work with creative people, constantly be challenged with new roles and characters I could bring to life and, through that, live many lives. My life has been one of many twists and phases, each gratifying in its own way.

What was the highlight of your experience in California?

I would say the fact that I was able to sell a few scripts in Hollywood and get them produced with name stars and released internationally would be a big one. When that happened, I felt a great sense of accomplishment because it proved to me that I was not only a professional actor, but a professional screenwriter as well. I also met my wife, Debbie, in California, which was another highlight!

What was it like to be a writer in Hollywood?

I loved it! It was an exciting time living in LA and being young in Hollywood in the 1990s and early 2000s. I was surrounded by creatives like me who were just as obsessed with making films as I was. But it was also a struggle because, when you’re not working, you’re constantly trying to get to work. I labored as a bartender between jobs, but even that was interesting because celebrities and artists would come to my bar all the time.

As a stand-in on film sets, who was your favorite: Travolta or DeNiro?

I would have to say Travolta! I was in awe of him, but he was just as nice as could be. I got the stand-in gig in Miami on his film “Chains of Gold” because we are the same height and coloring, and I had a little experience as a stand-in on a few other sets. At the wrap party, which took place at a hip Miami nightclub, Travolta

took lots of pictures with the cast and crew, and even got out on the dance floor with us and danced some of his famous moves from “Saturday Night Fever” and “Grease.” He was such a good sport.

Tell us about your experience as a singer.

I have been singing my entire life. I got my first guitar when I was 14 and made up my songs in my teens and in college.

About 10 years ago, I went into the studio and recorded a few of my best songs.

And now, I’m becoming a well-known, multi-award-winning singer-songwriter in multiple genres, ranging from rock to pop to alternative, blues, country and Americana. I have won several awards, including the International SingerSongwriter Association (ISSA) award, Rampage Music Awards and Indie Songwriting Awards, among others. I just recently completed an album with a great friend and vocalist named Bo Hoss entitled “Croonin’ and Swoonin’.”

The CD was so well received that we are teaming up to do another one.

What is more fun to create: plays or novels?

They offer different challenges.

I’m currently in the process of writing a novel, which will be semiautobiographical—containing some unusual personal stories, mostly true, interwoven with some exaggerated sequences. I hope to have it finished by the end of 2024. I prefer writing plays.

What do you do now?

When I am not writing or creating music, my day job is managing Bocci Trattoria & Pizzeria in Cary, owned by my brother Bob. I moved to Cary from Arizona with my wife Debbie, a professional dancer, in 2009 to raise our son Ronan, who is now 16 and an honors student at Apex Friendship High School. Several of my plays have been produced in local venues such as The Cary Theater and The ArtsCenter in Carrboro, as well as Mac’s Tavern and the Sonorous Road Theatre & Film Studio in Raleigh. At present, Rollin Jewett, who now lives in Holly Springs, I’m looking into producing a few nights has acted in TV shows, plays and commercials. of my one-act comedy plays at the Holly He has also enjoyed writing plays and music.

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OUT + ABOUT | DINE + DRAFT

ABBEY ROAD TAVERN

1700 Center Street, Apex 919.372.5338 1195 W. Chatham Street, Cary 919.481.5383 abbeyroadnc.com

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CAPRIOTTI’S SANDWICH SHOP

302 Colonades Way, Suite D209, Cary 919.932.8882 order.capriottis.com/store/6386

COLLETTA

204 Village Walk Drive, Holly Springs 919.552.8800 2101 Grace Park Drive, Morrisville 919.650.2902 acmepizzaco.com

1 Fenton Main Street, Suite 170, Cary 919.766.0062 collettarestaurant.com

THE AGENCY BAR & SOCIAL

111 E. Chatham Street, Cary 919.678.5300 difarapizzatavern.com

Inside Paragon Theaters at Fenton 21 Fenton Main Street, Suite 110, Cary 919.473.9676 paragontheaters.com/agency-bar-and-social

BRECOTEA

1144 Kildaire Farm Road, Cary 919.234.1555 brecotea.com

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DI FARA PIZZA TAVERN

KWENCH JUICE CAFE

772 W. Williams Street, Apex 984.214.1763 kwenchapex.com

COLLETTA PHOTO BY ANDREW CEBULKA

This list represents the Western Wake restaurants that have advertised with us since the start of 2023. Looking for our comprehensive Dine & Draft directory?

Check out 5westmag.com/dine-draft for a detailed foodie guide to Western Wake. Here’s a snapshot of what you’ll find.

PEAK OF THE VINE

301 N. Salem Street, Apex 919.267.9828 peakofthevine.com

PEAK OLIVE OIL COMPANY

200 S. Academy Street #110, Cary 919.377.0587 peakoliveoil.com

REY’S

1130 Buck Jones Road, Raleigh 919.380.0122 reysrestaurant.com

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O U T + A B O U T | TA S T E S O F T H E TO W N

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The Sassool Hummus Mix Off winner: Soul-Full Sisters’ Garden Tomato Hummus.

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An acai bowl with coconut milk, strawberries, banana slices, granola and JuiceVibe’s famous homemade peanut butter.

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The crispy chicken taquitos at a’Verde Cocina + Tequila Library, topped with sour cream and tomatillo sauce.

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A heavenly selection of finger foods from Annie Bell’s Catering, presented at a Fenton event.

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News for Western Wake foodies compiled by the 5 West staff, with contributions from Triangle Food Guy Sean Leonard, who blogs at trianglefoodblog.com.

A new Italian restaurant called Spazio Vino and Cucina is moving into the recently 1 closed Harvest Moon at 128 Bass Lake Road in Holly Springs.

Dave’s Hot Chicken recently announced that its first Triangle franchise will be located 2 at 114 Grand Hill Place in Holly Springs Towne Center along Highway 55 in the former home of The Mason Jar Tavern, which closed in June. The Los Angeles–based brand has more than 120 locations across North America, including three in North Carolina.

Asia’s Cakes will soon open a storefront at 113 N. Main Street near downtown 3 Holly Springs. The business currently operates by taking orders and delivering, so this will be its first retail operation.

A shuttered Subway will soon be home to the area’s only Rita’s Italian Ice store.

4 The franchise previously operated shops in Apex, Cary and Raleigh. The new location will be at 921 N. Harrison Avenue in Cary’s Northwoods Shopping Center. An opening date has not yet been announced.

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Sera Cuni, local celebrity chef and owner 5 of The Cafe Root Cellar in Pittsboro and Root Cellar Cafe & Catering in Chapel Hill, launched Feed-Well Fridges in September.

This “community fridge” program places refrigerators in areas where residents in need lack access to fresh and affordable food options. Teams of volunteers work daily with restaurants to collect and deliver food to each Feed-Well Fridge.

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Be sure to check out our holiday fun roundup on page 20 for a list of seasonal events taking place in the area.

OLD NORTH STATE STORYTELLING FESTIVAL November 3–4 The Cary Theater 122 E. Chatham Street, Cary

Acclaimed national and regional storytellers—including Donna Washington, Kim Weitkamp, Lipbone Redding and Larry Pearlman—present hours of entertaining stories. The festival is presented by the North Carolina Storytelling Guild. Purchase tickets online. oldnorthstatestorytellingfestival.com MOUNTAIN BIKE CLINIC

November 5, 10 a.m.–2 p.m.

Harris Lake County Park 2112 County Park Drive, New Hill

Celebrate mountain biking as Harris Lake County Park and TORC NC offer expertise for enthusiasts of all experience levels. hollyspringsnc.us PUBLIC LANDFILL TOURS

November 15 and December 9, 9:30–11 a.m.

South Wake Landfill 6300 Old Smithfield Road, Apex

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JURASSIC QUEST

November 17–19 Raleigh Convention Center 500 S. Salisbury Street, Raleigh

See animated, life-sized dinosaurs and enjoy dinosaur-themed activities.

Tickets cost $19–$36. jurassicquest.com EMPIRE TRIO: “FROM BROADWAY TO HOLLYWOOD” November 18, 7:30 p.m.

Cary Arts Center 101 Dry Avenue, Cary

Join the Empire Trio for a unique celebration of music from the Great White Way to the Big Screen at the Cary Arts Center. etix.com DOWNTOWN CARY PARK RIBBON-CUTTING CEREMONY AND A GIFT TO CARY CELEBRATION November 19 Downtown Cary Park 319 S. Academy Street, Cary

Celebrate the opening of Cary’s newest park with two special events.

Enjoy a ribbon-cutting ceremony, live performances, a Bandit Flight Team flyover, synchronized light shows, creative activities, food trucks and more. See the park transformed

into a winter wonderland at A Gift to Cary Celebration December 2, featuring a tree-lighting ceremony, skating rink, Santa’s workshop, special performances and more.

Visit the website for event hours. downtowncarypark.com JINGLE BELL RUN

WakeMed Soccer Park December 2, 9 a.m.

101 Soccer Park Drive, Cary

Wear your favorite holiday attire and jingle all the way to a cure for the Arthritis Foundation.

Register online as an individual or family to run, walk or stroll and spread the good cheer. events.arthritis.org ART-N-SOUL HOLIDAY MARKET: “HANDMADE FOR THE HOLIDAYS” December 16, noon–4 p.m.

Waverly Place 302 Colonades Way, Cary

Enjoy last-minute holiday shopping with a variety of local vendors and live music by Two Bloom. artnsoulnc.com

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OUT + ABOUT | SISTER CITIES

BY JANICE LEWINE

PHOTOS COURTESY OF DOWNTOWN MOREHEAD CITY, INC. AND NED LEARY

Top: The Crystal Coast Christmas Flotilla Bottom: The North Carolina Holiday Flotilla in Wrightsville Beach

A NAUTICAL NOEL Festive flotillas light up Wrightsville Beach and Morehead City WRIGHTSVILLE BEACH

MOREHEAD CITY

Celebrate the season coastal-style November 25 at the North Carolina Holiday Flotilla in Wrightsville Beach, which celebrates its 40th anniversary this year. Watch as powerboats, skiffs and sailboats, decorated in their holiday finest, make their way down Mott’s and Banks channels beginning at 6 p.m.

Many are adorned with neon lights and beloved characters from Christmas movies and songs, so expect to see a captain dressed as the Grinch or an inflatable Santa commanding the helm.

Judges will determine the best in show, best costumes and crew spirit champions, and attendees can send votes in for the People’s Choice Award via text. Fireworks in the harbor create a breathtaking backdrop for the boats gathered en masse at the procession’s end.

A local tradition for 31 years, the Crystal Coast Christmas Flotilla on December 2 entices visitors and locals alike to enjoy a lighted holiday display on the glimmering waters of Carteret County. View yachts, skiffs, kayaks and commercial vessels dressed from bow to stern at 5:30 p.m. on the Morehead City waterfront and at 6:15 p.m. on the Beaufort waterfront. Both towns offer multiple vantage points to view the procession and for onlookers to cheer for their favorite boats, which sport inflatable elves, smiling sea serpents and twinkling Christmas trees. Each watercraft takes on a holiday theme in an attempt to capture the first, second and third place awards, as well as best in class in the sailboat, powerboat and commercial categories.

Enjoy pre-flotilla festivities at Day in the Park, 10 a.m.–4 p.m., at the Wrightsville Beach Municipal Complex, which features more than 100 arts and crafts vendors, an antique car show, live music, carnival-style food and a large play area for children.

While in Morehead City, dine at Parrot’s on Eleventh to enjoy Carolina comfort food in a historic home with a storied past, or at Circa 81, which supports local fishermen and farmers by serving fresh seafood and produce. In Beaufort, Moonrakers is famous for its rooftop dining overlooking Carrot Island. Try the baked shrimp, crab cakes or grilled mahi.

Learn more at ncholidayflotilla.org.

Learn more at ncmaritimemuseumbeaufort.com/events.

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OUT + ABOUT | KALEIDOSCOPE

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TA N G VAS E , 2 0 2 3 LILY PA D C RY STAL L I N E P O R C E L AI N AN D CO P P E R G L AZ E S 9” X 9” X 18”

“I make simple vessels with clean lines. I pay attention to texture and design on the surface. Carving into the surface and with the application of glazes, I build layers of color, almost like building depth of field on a canvas.”

— Ben Owen III

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BY CHARLOTTE RUSSELL

I N S PI R ED B Y TR ADI TI ON Seagrove is home to the largest concentration of working potters in the U.S. There, you will find Ben Owen III in his studio and retail shop, where he continues his rich family history of pottery. He takes inspiration from his grandfather, master potter Ben Owen Sr., with whom he apprenticed as a child. Following in his grandfather’s footsteps, his work is rooted in a foundation in early American designs with influences from Asia, Europe and Persia.

View Ben Owen III’s pottery online at benowenpottery.com, on Instagram at @benowenpottery and at his retail shop at 105 Ben’s Place in Seagrove.

Visit the holiday open house on December 16.