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Are you ready to welcome fall with its crisp, cool mornings and fun family activities? I am a huge college football fan, and I can’t wait for the first cozy sweater day, so fall is definitely my favorite time of year. Celebrate the season by checking out a few of Cary’s fun events on page 44. Have your kids settled into their school routine? On page 47 we visit the area’s premier independent schools to see what they offer Cary area families. We’re so lucky to have so many great choices. Speaking of choices, you shared yours by voting in the annual Cary Living Diamond Awards. On page 18, we reveal our readers’ favorite restaurants, businesses and attractions. Beginning on page 26, we turn to the furry family members that make our lives so rich and full of joy – our pets. I understand the obsession! My 155-pound, six-year-old Newfoundland, Bigley, is – quite literally – a big part of our family! If you were a fan of the Six String Café, you’ve probably missed its unique musical offerings since its closing in 2005. Well, you’re in luck! Owner David Sardinha has teamed with the Town of Cary to bring the flavor of Six String to The Cary, with a number of performances scheduled through the end of the year. Turn to page 66 for the scoop. Thank you for making Cary Living part of your festive, fabulous fall, and please continue to share your comments and suggestions. We love hearing from you!

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18 Who’s Shining? The Cary Living Diamond Awards are here. And the 2014 list reveals the best of what the Cary area has to offer. 26 Love for our pets Back by popular demand, we once again talk pets! Why we love them and how we can keep them lovable.

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44 out and about Cary activities and events to enjoy this fall. 47 2014 EDUCATION guide Here’s a guide to help you find the best fit for your family when it comes to searching for the right school.

60 In Praise of Pumpkin Cary Living writer Kurt Dursterberg talks about his love of all things pumpkin.

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66 making room for music David Sardinha’s Six String Cafe may be a memory, but the music is enjoying an encore at The Cary.

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Special thanks to Jessica Yakamna for shooting our cover winner Fiona. She is a boxer/mastiff mix and was adopted in September 2013 from Blue Ridge Boxer Rescue. She will be two in November!

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Pets Go GoPro Eyenimal® Puts You Behind Your Pet’s Eyes Ever wish you could see the world as your pet does? French company Eyenimal® – designer of various high-tech accessories for cats and dogs – makes it possible. “Our products are meant to be daring and visionary,” the company boasts on its website, and its flagship Petcam makes good on that claim. Billed as “the world’s first video cam for pets,” Petcam is the animal equivalent of GoPro – a wearable video camera that shows the viewer everything the wearer sees. Lightweight and easy to use, Petcam clocks in at little more than 1.2 ounces, attaches easily to a dog’s or cat’s collar, records up to 4GB of video and audio at a time, and has a battery life of two and a half hours. That’s plenty of time to capture a pet’s adventure as it roams, before downloading the 680x480 video and recharging the battery via USB. As if that weren’t enough, Eyenimal has developed species-specific models. The Dog Videocam is the sport version, sturdier and waterproof. It can record continuously, when the dog is moving, or when it is pointing, and includes a protective lens cap. It’s slightly heavier than the original, at 2.2 ounces, and shoots at 736x480 pixels. The Cat Videocam is slightly smaller and lighter (1.1 ounces), and also shoots at 736x480 pixels. It’s built for the feline lifestyle, with a movement detector that prevents recording when the cat is asleep, or most of the day. And because cats are nocturnal, it includes night vision, so you won’t miss a thing your cat is up to, day or night. The cameras start at $99, and are available online at dogtek.com and from Amazon. More information is available at eyenimal.com/en, but really, what other questions might you have? These are videocams for pets; you know you want one…

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By Dan Bain

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Spiking Participation in Beach Volleyball Taking off Across Triangle I wondered which category I might fall into when Blue Sky Volleyball director Steve Scanga began describing two types of adult players who are flooding beach volleyball courts across the Triangle area. “We have people who have been playing since the indoor leagues were a big hit here in the 1980s,” he said. “They have the volleyball skills, but they don’t have the volleyball body any more. Then there are the young guys who have all the athletic ability but don’t have the volleyball skills yet. Hopefully they get together with the guy who doesn’t have the body anymore and learn the game.” Unfortunately and shamelessly, after I stopped chuckling, I recognized fairly quickly which group fit me to a tee. “The recreational players are coming out playing in the six-man or four-man leagues, and they start to gravitate to the two-man game because they see the better players training for it and say, ‘Hey, I want to do that,’” Scanga said. And the area’s surge in beach volleyball participation isn’t limited to adults, or high 12 | caryliving.com

level competitors. The massive success of the indoor game among girls in middle school and high school has begun to spill over into the sugar white sands of courts across Apex, Cary and Raleigh. “There is now a scholarship for girls in college to play beach volleyball,” Scanga said. “And these girls like to play volleyball, but the indoor game is very specific in its training; you are pigeon-holed into specific positions. In the beach game you have to do everything – you have to hit, you have to pass, you serve – and they are their own coaches. They get tired of being with a team and being coached. On the beach they are just out there having fun and playing ball.” The outdoor beach game for juniors are involving girls as young as 12 years old, with as many as 120 teams vying for tournament trophies on a weekly basis in places such as Raleigh, Charlotte or Wilmington. The most recent Triangle additions are a pair of sand volleyball courts at Apex Nature Park, which opened in March. The courts are, for the time being, somewhat hidden gems. But likely not for

long, said Matt Arkans, who likes to stop by after work at least once a week with his three other 30-something friends to play eight to ten games, or until it gets dark. “It’s an anaerobic sport, so it’s not like running a bunch of miles,” he said. “It’s a little bit like soccer. Playing in the sand; it is short bursts.” Karl Lyon with Apex Parks, Recreation and Cultural Resources says the town has been organizing adult beach volleyball leagues for a decade, and the popularity of the sport means a second league will be added in Spring 2015 at the new park. “Beach volleyball courts were targeted, it was added to the master plan when it was updated,” Lyon said. “That was one of the things residents were asking for.” “Why is it getting so popular?” added Ted Jeffcoate, Lyon’s counterpart in Cary. “It is getting together with like-minded people with similar interests, which at times can be a relatively rare opportunity after you get out of college. And don’t forget that the weather around here is pretty terrific most of the year, too.”

WINEreview Shotfire Ridge Shiraz

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Smuttynose Pumpkin Ale is a homage to the craft and heritage of America’s brewers. Recipes calling for the use of pumpkins in beer date back to early colonial times. This ale is brewed with the addition of pumpkin to the mash, along with traditional spices. Seasonal, Malty, Spicy, Smooth, Medium-bodied

Ayinger Oktober Fest Märzen has a deep golden color tinted with amber. It is lightly sweet with a malty nose balanced with floral hops. Its medium to big body and alcohol are not overpowering. The soft dryness comes from long maturation. Seasonal

This beer gives off hints of pumpkin pie and spice aromas on the nose. Huge flavors of genuine pumpkin pie, nutmeg and cinnamon come through. The mouthfeel is rich and creamy, yet crisp. It’s like eating a whole pumpkin pie! Seasonal

This is a full, richbodied, hoppy, seasonal lager that is especially brewed for the Festbier season. This beer truly represents the Bavarian way of celebrating. Deep gold color, great mouthfeel and lots of flavor. Prost! Seasonal

Light amber color. Pumpkin, caramel malts, tea and spices in the aroma with a hint of hops. Bready flavors deliver mildly sweet pumpkin, caramel and spices. Balancing malt and hops, with a bready after taste. Smooth. Seasonal, Malty, Spicy, Smooth, Mediumbodied

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BEST PET-FRIENDLY RESTAURANT

Gotta love a burger joint where you can get fries, onion rings or “Cry & Fries,” an order of fries and onion rings. Diners love the ample outdoor seating, which encourages man’s best friend to tag along for lunch or dinner.

Academy Street Bistro

This bistro sits in the heart of downtown Cary, so the charm factor’s there. What makes this your favorite spot for date night? Main courses such as Strozzapreti Pasta and desserts like the warm, Granny Smith Apple Tart. Two spoons, please!

BEST PLACE FOR A NIGHTCAP

Chef’s Palette Restaurant & Bar

When no one is ready to turn in for the night, you turn to your favorite spot for a nightcap: Chef’s Palette Restaurant & Bar. Chef’s Crème Brulee and a cocktail with friends, anyone?

Gigi’s Cupcakes

What’s better than a bakery case loaded with cupcakes? Not much. A daily menu of cupcake flavors such as Chocolate-Covered Strawberry, Peanut Butter Cup and Pink Lemonade make this your fave.

Café Caturra

This Stone Creek Village café is your favorite for outdoor dining. And why not? Nearby fountains and special events such as live music on the patio make it an enchanting spot for a glass of wine and one of their signature Breads & Spreads appetizers.

Ruckus

Evidently, customer service is what the Ruckus is all about. With Cary and Morrisville locations, this pizza eatery is your favorite for wait staff. Friendly service and food like the Ruckus made-to-order Ultimate pizza make this a winner.

Peak City Grill & Bar

Apex residents know Peak City Grill & Bar is an institution known for its elegant – yet comfortable – ambiance. Before you go, you can take a gander online at the wine list, or wait till you arrive to survey the Chardonnay, Rose, Pinot Noir and more.

Fortnight Brewing Company

English-inspired ales make this your favorite place to grab a beer. Talk to the team about brewing and choose from yearround offerings (such as Porter or Blonde Ale), seasonals and special releases.

BEST PLACE TO GRAB A BEER

BEST OUTDOOR DINING

Your favorite breakfast morsels are found in Morrisville. Who isn’t in love with six selections of Eggs Benedict, handmade biscuit beignets and gourmet omelets?

BEST WINE LIST

BEST PLACE TO SATISFY A SWEET TOOTH

Another Broken Egg café

Bonefish Grill

Starters are made for sharing, and Bonefish is your favorite place to enjoy them. Their signature Bang Bang Shrimp®, Maryland Crab Cakes and Wagyu Beef & Ginger Potstickers are just a few of the appetizers you love before a meal.

BEST WAIT STAFF

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They don’t just prepare the food; they make it beautiful. Readers love the fresh, flavorful salads – from their Strawberry and Feta, topped with raspberry vinaigrette, to the Mediterranean with its mixed greens, cucumbers, grape tomatoes, olives, red onions and feta cheese.

City Barbeque

When you’re on the go, you love to treat family, coworkers and friends to City Barbeque. Online ordering makes it easy to get your beef brisket, pulled pork, turkey breast and sides. And an order of fried pickle chips? Yummo.

BEST APPETIZERS

BEST BREAKFAST

BEST SALAD

Fresca Café & Gelato

Firewürst

According to you, the wurst is the best. With two Cary locations, Firewürst is the best place for a power lunch. Think sausages (such as cheddar brats and spicy chicken) with grilled peppers, onions and mustard on a hoagie roll.

BEST TAKE-OUT

BEST PLACE FOR DATE NIGHT

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Your favorite spot to treasure hunt has furniture, consignment and home décor. With a selection from shabby chic to contemporary and 20 boutiques, you just keep finding your perfect piece.

Readers love Glenaire for its active-living lifestyle complete with yoga, choir and volunteer opportunities. And SearStone is known for its dining out, indoor pool & spa and cultural events. You say there are friends and connections to be made at both.

Athletic fields, trails, picnic shelters and a lake are just part of this 310-acre park. You love it for its recreational opportunities and how the park brings the calm of nature to a location that’s close to the bustle of the city.

Woof Gang Bakery

The Purple Polka Dot

The Purple Polka Dot is fancy, fabulous and our readers’ first pick for finishing touches. It’s got the necklaces, bangles and earrings you love to personalize and wear around town.

BEST PLACE FOR A FINISHING TOUCH TO AN OUTFIT

This neighborhood store is your pick for the very best pet care. Yes, they have gourmet dog treats for your pet. But they also have grooming, adoption events, pet supplies and yappy hour special events.

The Rusty Bucket

This is your pick for one-of-a-kind antiques. The Rusty Bucket in Apex is beloved for its cozy country comforts, such as furniture and accessories. For those who love the Americana of an old country store, this is tops.

BEST ANTIQUE SHOPPING

BEST GYM BEST PET SERVICES

BEST PARK

Fred G. Bond Metro Park

Chocolate Smiles

Readers love to show their appreciation for others with smiles…chocolate ones. This Cary chocolatier is known for its clusters, toffee and snappers. Other beloved delicacies include fudge and truffles.

BEST WAY TO SAY “THANK YOU”

BEST ADULT COMMUNITY

(TIE) Glenaire & SearStone

The Umstead Hotel and Spa

Just say the words “The Umstead Hotel and Spa” and people will sigh. It’s the place to be pampered. From its breathtaking views, flower arrangements and original art to the picturesque outdoor areas, it is a Cary gem.

BEST PLACE TO GET PAMPERED

BEAT PLACE TO SPRUCE UP YOUR HOME

The Perfect Piece

the Flower Cupboard

Nothing brightens a day like fresh flowers. And, for you, The Flower Cupboard is the best place to get ‘em. Since 1973 these floral designers have used fresh, seasonal flowers and a garden-style approach.

BEST PLACE TO BUY FLOWERS

Your favorite fitness club has it all: sports like tennis, cycling and basketball, services for families and group classes. Add a spa, café, rock-climbing wall and outdoor pool with waterslide, and it’s no wonder you love it.

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Studio 180 salon

A color and cut is so much more than just a color and a cut. A new “do” is a powerful thing, right? Your favorite place to seek out a new look is Cary’s Studio 180 Salon, a salon complete with an online appointment request system.

SHOPPING

You picked Dorcas because you can volunteer locally with a direct impact on the Cary area. Volunteers may volunteer alone or in a group, and they assist with the thrift shop, outreach programs and special events.

Raine nail Boutique

You know where to indulge – Raine Nail Boutique. From pedicures and manicures to foot soaks and massage treatments, this boutique is your favorite place to splurge.

BEST PLACE FOR A NEW “DO”

Dorcas Ministries

A splash pad, farmer’s market and more than 20 retail stores and eateries make Waverly Place the best place to watch people at work and play.

BEST PLACE FOR A SPLURGE

Waverly Place

BEST PLACE TO DONATE YOUR TIME

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FRIENDLIEST CUSTOMER SERVICE BEST PLACE TO GET THAT GREATLOOKING SMILE BEST PLACE FOR UNIQUE SPA TREATMENTS

Preston Dental center

Readers are smiling about where they get a great-looking smile – Preston Dental Center. For family and cosmetic dentistry, Dr. Lisa Mayes and her husband, Dr. Gregory Mayes, are the go-to dentists in Cary.

(TIE) Cary Massage & Miller-Motte College

Tried-and-true is wonderful. But so is unique, right? You voted Cary Massage and Miller-Motte College as the best places for unique treatments such as myofacial therapy and a trigger-point massage.

Swagger gifts & style

The Cary Theater

Is there a more iconic Cary event than Lazy Daze Arts and Crafts Festival? Not according to our readers. This arts-and-crafts event, which takes place in late summer, attracts 50,000 people to historic downtown Cary.

Koka Booth amphitheatre

The amphitheater set among shade trees and next to Symphony Lake is your favorite spot for live music. And it attracts the likes of artists such as the North Carolina Symphony, Josh Groban, Third Day and Steven Curtis Chapman and Darius Rucker.

Triangle Rock Club

It’s raining, it’s pouring and there’s no chance your kids are snoring. That’s why readers named Triangle Rock Club as the best way to entertain youth when the weather isn’t cooperating. Hanging out has a whole new meaning.

Asheville

Restaurants, art galleries, breweries and attractions such as the Biltmore Estate are hallmarks of Asheville, your favorite weekend getaway. But Mother Nature steals the show with mountain air, scenic Blue Ridge Parkway drives and grand waterfalls.

BEST PLACE FOR A WEEKEND GETAWAY

This downtown theater is a hub for films, comedy, improv and musical productions. And it’s readers’ pick for families. Who doesn’t love a Saturday morning movie with the kiddos?

Lazy Daze Arts and Crafts Festival

BEST WAY TO ENTERTAIN THE KIDS ON A RAINY DAY

Readers told us Swagger Gifts & Style is the spot for gifts. Monogrammed items? Yes. Game day clothing? For sure. And a large jewelry selection? Indeed. Just show up with your gift list.

Waverly Place

You loved it for people watching, and you love it for winding down, too. It’s the spot where residents can cap off a long day with frozen yogurt or sit back for story time at Green Pea Baby & Child.

BEST PLACE FOR LIVE MUSIC

BEST PLACE TO BUY HIM OR HER A GIFT

This is where readers love to find their cooking inspiration, user-friendly kitchen gadgets and even tabletop accessories. Why, yes, who doesn’t need a fabulous Himalayan salt block? At Whisk, it’s all about the details and the friendly service.

BEST LOCAL FESTIVAL

BEST FAMILY OUTING

Whisk

Carolina Ale House

There’s no shortage of big games for Triangle residents. With NHL hockey and college basketball and football – just to name a few – there are plenty of matches worth watching on a big screen. For sports fans, the Carolina Ale House is a winner.

ENTERTAINMENT

Because you don’t want to show up in the same outfit as the gal next to you, there’s ADORE Designer Resale – your pick for unique clothing brands. This designer retail shop carries apparel and handbags from well-known designers such as Chanel, Coach and Trina Turk.

BEST PLACE TO WIND DOWN

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Adore Designer resale

BEST PLACE TO WATCH THE BIG GAME

BEST PLACE TO FIND UNIQUE BRANDS OF CLOTHING

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How serious is boating while impaired compared to driving while impaired? Scott, Garner, NC

Although a serious charge, boating while impaired (BWI) is nowhere near as serious as driving while impaired (DWI). BWI is a class 2 misdemeanor, which will usually result in court costs and a fine of at least $250. The punishment can be more severe if you have a prior record. Unlike DWI, a BWI conviction does not result in the loss of your driver’s license and generally does not include probation. ~ Steven Saad, Co-Chair of CSH Law Criminal Defense Practice Group I am an avid Facebook user. I don’t have a lawyer, but I’m thinking about suing a company for personal injuries. If I do sue the company, will I have to give them my Facebook posts? Anonymous Most likely you will have to turn over all of your posts to the company in the “discovery” phase of the lawsuit. It’s also clear that you shouldn’t delete or destroy any social media when you are in litigation or are contemplating litigation. And if you do, then you could face severe sanctions from the judge for destroying potential evidence. If you hire a lawyer, you should certainly discuss this issue. ~ Chip Campbell, Vice-Chair of CSH Law Trucking & Commercial Transportation Practice Group I rear-ended someone and received a ticket. I know my insurance will increase for the accident. Will it increase again after I go to court? Kristin, Cary, NC In most accidents that do not involve injuries, the ticket will be dismissed

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if you can show that your insurance company is handling the damage done in the accident. Insurance companies generally can produce a letter that you can take to court stating that any damage claims are or will be paid. This is enough to have the case dismissed and to avoid another increase in insurance.

~ Steven Saad My neighbor’s son’s car stereo can be heard from two blocks away. It’s constant thumping and rattling. Do we have any legal remedies? Terry, Raleigh, NC

In situations involving neighbors, it is always best to try non-legal avenues first. A friendly chat with his parents about lowering the volume may solve the problem. If it does not, there are legal solutions. Each town in Wake County has an ordinance against loud noise. Generally, music must be contained to a distance of no more than 50 feet from the vehicle. A violation of these ordinances is a misdemeanor. ~ Steven Saad

My son is a freshman in college. He was walking through campus at 3am and an officer stopped him and demanded to see what was in his bookbag. Is this allowed? Douglas, Wake Forest NC No. Unless your son was engaging in what could be described as suspicious or criminal activity, there is no lawful reason for him to be stopped or searched by an officer. Without this suspicion, an officer can ask for consent to search the bookbag. No one is under any obligation to give that consent. ~ Steven Saad

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Samuel Fenton Cary The man who gave Cary its name was born 200 years ago By Kurt Dusterberg You may not have given it any thought: Where did the Town of Cary get its name? Most long-standing communities owe their identity to some figure of prominence, perhaps an early settler or someone whose contributions shaped its early days. Cary is no different. In fact, the city is celebrating the 200th birthday of the man who gave the town its name, Samuel Fenton Cary. But if you’re hoping for an uplifting story about how he helped put the town on the map, try not to be disappointed. Samuel was a lawyer from Cincinnati who likely never set foot in this part of the county. I know, it’s not much of a cocktail-party conversation starter, but Samuel would

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frown on your being at the party in the first place. Back in the mid-1860s, he was a leading figure in the temperance movement, promoting abstinence from alcohol. Frank Page, the town’s first mayor, was a like-minded man when it came to booze consumption. Page came to admire Cary, whose speeches decrying the use of alcohol gained attention around the world. So who was Samuel Fenton Cary? An accomplished man, according to his biography on genealogybug.net. The biography is reprinted from “Representative Citizens of Ohio,” published in 1917. The text reads, in part, “Samuel Fenton Cary was distinctively one of the notable men of his day and generation, and as such his life

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record is entitled to a conspicuous place in the annals of the State of Ohio.” Cary attended Miami University and graduated the Cincinnati Law School in 1837. In those early days of higher education, he soon established himself as a prominent figure. The state legislature elected him to the Supreme Court of Ohio, but he declined, preferring to practice law in Cincinnati. At age 22, Cary was a supporter of General William Henry Harrison’s bid for the presidency, and he served as the chief of staff for three Ohio governors. By the start of the Civil War, he was an influential member of the Republican Party, a critic of slavery and an adviser to Abraham Lincoln.

In 1867, Cary was appointed collector of internal revenue by President Andrew Johnson. Two years later, he was elected to the US House of Representatives and served one term as an independent Republican. Cary was the vice presidential nominee of the Greenback Party in the election of 1876, but his ticket won just one percent of the vote as Rutherford B. Hayes – also a former Cincinnati attorney – was elected president. For most of his later years, Cary became a renown orator. In 1870, he spent most of the year delivering temperance speeches in England. Genealogybug.net suggests one speech in London drew an audience of more than 34,000, as all were able to hear Mr. Cary because of his powerful and wonderful voice – the voice of the born orator, such as Cicero and Demosthenes.” So, did Samuel Fenton Cary ever visit the community that came to bear his name? That’s unclear. According to carycitizen.com, a newspaper account in The Raleigh Telegram suggests that he came to Raleigh for a series of “grand temperance lectures” in 1871, the same year the town was incorporated. Perhaps that visit influenced Page to choose Cary for his then-unnamed community. Today, many Cary citizens might sneer at old Samuel’s stance on indulging in spirits, but there is no denying he was an accomplished figure. His online biography boasts a summary of his character that’s hard to challenge: “Cary was a man of robust constitution, possessing enormous strength. His large size, commanding presence and classical features attracted attention in whatever crowd he mingled. The observer could readily see that he was born to leadership, that he was a man among men.” That’s a pretty solid persona, one that should make Cary folks feel proud. So 200 years after his birth, it seems appropriate to raise a glass – perhaps sparkling grape juice – in Samuel Fenton Cary’s honor.

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For many families, the decision to bring home a pet is a big one, and it certainly should not be taken lightly. The average lifespan for dogs is 10-12 years, and for cats, 10-14. Some avian and exotic pets will be with you even longer. So itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s important to educate yourself and go into pet ownership fully prepared for what this lifelong commitment requires. I have known a lot of families who were hesitant about getting a dog because of the time and care involved, especially with puppies.

One family started with fish, then graduated to hamsters, and then added a cat, all in the hopes that their children would eventually stop asking for a dog. A couple years later, they succumbed to the puppy pleas, and now they have a house full of scaled and furry critters! For this family, it all worked out and everyone seems happy and well adjusted in their miniature zoo. It can be hard to choose the right pet for your family and your living situation, however, so take your time and do your research!

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Dogs can be the most demanding of pets due to their need for human interaction and a conECHO siderable amount of care and exercise. But as any dog lover will tell you, it’s worth the effort. Before you bring a puppy or dog home, however, make sure you’re ready to take on the time and expense of preventive veterinary care, including vaccinations, boosters, and regular check-ups and screenings. Also take your lifestyle into consideration. If you work long days or travel frequently, a dog may not be the ideal pet, or you might consider adopting an older dog that can tolerate longer periods without you. Factor occasional boarding or pet-sitting into your budget, along with high-quality, nutritional food and the occasional treat or toy, and you’ll get an idea of the lifelong commitment you’re about to make. Choose wisely!

cats

Known for their dominance on YouTube and Facebook, cats (grumpy and otherwise) are found in nearly a third of US homes. They require preventive veterinary care just as dogs do, but most are quite independent and don’t require the same time commitment as dogs. Because they can be trained to use an indoor litter box, cats can be left at home for those long days you spend in the office. In fact, they may not even miss you, unless you’re late for a feeding! Cats can be irresistibly funny and playful, even into their senior years, and many are equally content lounging in a sunny window or curling up in your lap.

aquatic, avian, exotic and pocket pets

You may decide your family is ready for a pet, but you’d like to just dip your toes in the water. How hard can a tank full of fish be? Or a cage full of gerbils? Actually, these pets can be more challenging than you think. Fish can be finicky when it comes to water quality and temperature, so do some research and talk to an aquarium specialist at the pet store about the easiest varieties to care for. Hamsters, gerbils, guinea pigs and rats can make fun family pets, but they can also contract parasites and diseases, as well as eye and respiratory infections. As someone who lovingly and patiently administered eye drops to our pet rat twice a day for a week, I can attest to the diligence it requires to properly care for these pets. Birds, reptiles and amphibians round out the list of the most common household pets, and most require a real passion for the particular species, as well as an understanding of their projected lifespan. Pet snakes can live 20 years or longer, budgies and cockatiels about 20 years, and Macaws can live for a century in ideal conditions. When you’re forced to include provisions in your will for the ongoing care of your Macaw, now that’s commitment! Pets bring so much joy and unconditional love into our homes, and they all deserve the healthiest and happiest lives we can give them. Not every pet will be perfect for your unique family and home environment, so do your homework before you take the plunge.

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Woof GangBakery a special place for pets By Jenni Hart

Do you consider yourself a “dog” person or a “cat” person? If you’re head-over-heels in love with either (or both), you know there’s nothing you won’t do to keep your pet healthy, happy, active and even pampered. Michael and Elise Morales know that head-overheels feeling, and when they made the decision to operate two local Woof Gang Bakery franchises, it was their love for a special pup named Maverick that inspired them. “I knew the minute we walked into the store that Woof Gang Bakery was something I could see myself being really passionate about,” Michael says. He and Elise were the second customers to walk through the door when the North Hills location first opened in 2011. They came in searching for something that could 28 | caryliving.com

help Maverick overcome his allergies. The holistic feeding approach they found at Woof Gang was the ticket. Today, the Moraleses operate the Woof Gang Bakery Cary location, which they opened in 2012 at Stone Creek Village, and they took over the North Hills location in 2013. Michael says their family has since expanded, with the addition of another dog and two foster dogs joining Maverick. “As recent college graduates, we both had other options for careers or furthering our education, but we love our dogs and knew this business was something we could be very excited about,” he says. According to a report released earlier this year, Americans spend a staggering $60 billion on their pets.

With all the options for purchasing food, toys and other accessories, what sets Woof Gang Bakery apart? The Moraleses say it’s more than a business for them; it’s a passion for animals and for being part of the communities they serve. “From our own experience, I know how important it is to have complete trust and confidence in the food you give your dog,” Michael says. He adds that he and Elise get to know the products inside and out – they know where they’re made, where the ingredients are sourced, and how the formulas are blended to meet a pet’s specific nutritional needs. In addition to food for dogs and cats, Woof Gang Bakery carries treats, toys, collars, leads and other accessories. Michael describes an especially fun and trendy line, Sniffany & Co., whose products come packaged in that iconic robin’s egg blue known for eliciting a Pavlovian response even in some of us humans. A number of Woof Gang’s products are sourced locally, including a line of collars that come hand delivered. In addition, both Woof Gang Bakery locations offer fullservice grooming seven days a week by appointment. The Moraleses’ love for dogs extends beyond their storefronts, as they host adoption events at both locations nearly every weekend. “We really love the idea that a family can come out for lunch and an afternoon of shopping, and end up meeting a potential new family member,” Michael says. If you have a furry, four-legged friend, he or she is always welcome at Woof Gang, so the next time you’re at Stone Creek Village in Cary or The Lassiter at North Hills, be sure to stop in. caryliving.com | 29

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FOUR LEGGED

SUPERSTARS By CHRISTA GALA

Animals have a unique way of helping humans to heal, whether they’re certif ied therapy dogs or not. Does your dog have what it takes? Plus, meet some special animals that make a difference. What is a therapy dog? Although the idea of animals helping people seems relatively new, it’s actually been happening for centuries. “As early as the ninth century in Gheel, Belgium, animals were used in the therapy of people with disabilities,” says Mary Burch, PhD, director of the American Kennel Club’s Canine Good Citizen program. “And in the 1700s, the York Retreat in Yorkshire, England found that when mental patients learned to care for animals, physical restraint and harsh drugs could be avoided.” If you think your dog has the temperament to be a therapy dog, he or she must first achieve the Canine Good Citizen Award. Here, Burch and Doug Ljungren, an AKC vice president who oversees the organization’s therapy dog certifications, answer a few questions. 34 | caryliving.com

What do therapy dogs do?

A “While the original purpose of therapy dogs was to comfort seniors or people with illnesses or disabilities, the therapeutic use of therapy dogs has expanded,” says Ljungren. “In addition to hospitals, assisted living and settings for people with disabilities, therapy dogs now go to schools and work with children on their reading, help veterans who have PTSD, and are used in courtroom settings to help children who are afraid to testify.”

What kind of training is involved?

“All therapy dogs should have basic good manners. That’s why we encourage passing the AKC’s Canine Good Citizen test as a first step for therapy dogs,” says Burch. “After CGC, dogs should be registered with a therapy dog organization that has a testing procedure and provides liability insurance to the owner and dog for therapy dog activities.” (See www.akc.org/akctherapydog under ORGANIZATIONS for a list of registering organizations.)

Can any dog be a therapy dog?

“All dogs aren’t suited for therapy work,” says Burch. “In addition to the basic training and skills required, dogs should have the right temperament. They should want to interact with people and enjoy the interaction. When a therapy dog visits someone, the person should be thinking, ‘This dog loves me,’ not ‘This dog tolerates me.’”

What traits won’t work well?

“Certainly any dog with behavior problems, especially aggression, is not a good candidate for therapy work,” says Burch. “Dogs who are aloof and don’t care for meeting new people aren’t the best therapy dogs.”

If my dog isn’t suited for dog therapy, does that mean I did something wrong?

“A dog owner shouldn’t feel bad if his or her dog isn’t right for therapy work,” says Burch. “If you love your dog and your dog loves you, that’s good enough. If your dog is not cut out for animal-assisted therapy but you’re driven to get involved in therapy work, you can volunteer with a local program and help handle other dogs.”

Is there anything else to consider?

“It’s important to make sure that you really have a desire to help people before starting animal-assisted therapy work,” says Burch. “While this is a dog activity, the main focus should be the people – from babies to seniors – you and your dog will be visiting. Making their lives better is what this is all about.”

How can I learn more about classes?

A “AKC doesn’t train or certify therapy dogs,” says Ljungren, “but many of our AKC training clubs have therapy dog classes or basic training classes that teach the skills needed for therapy work. You can find an AKC club or Canine Good Citizen class near you at www.akc.org.” caryliving.com | 35

Home Away From

Home Boarding And Day Care For Your Four-Legged Friend By jenni Hart

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Whether you’re traveling out of town or you need a reliable day care option for your dog, you need to know there is a big difference among boarding providers. Furry Feet Retreat of Cary is owned by Teresa Whitley, who understands the nature of dogs and how important it is to give them lots of human and dog interaction. “Dogs are pack animals, and they crave the company of other dogs,” she says.

Many boarding businesses have limited facilities or accommodate so many dogs that it’s difficult for them to let the pets spend ample time outdoors. Furry Feet Retreat provides a full six to seven hours each day of outdoor playtime, and that makes for a happier pet. As for day care, Whitley offers both half-day and full-day options, and she says the flexibility is a lifesaver for many of her clients. Some have young puppies that can’t spend full days at home yet. Others have pets that become anxious when left alone for too long. Still others have experienced medical setbacks that leave them temporarily unable to walk or exercise their dogs. “A client might have to have surgery or have some kind of physical limitation that they need to recover from,” she says. “When they leave here, they’ve been given lots of attention from us, and their playtime with other dogs really makes them happier and less anxious. They go home well cared for.” In addition to overnight boarding and doggie day care, Furry Feet Retreat offers a self-serve washing service, with a stainless steel tub on legs so clients don’t have to bend over. Shampoo and towels are provided. Employees offer to trim nails for clients who might be nervous about cutting too close. Furry Feet Retreat enjoys glowing reviews from clients, and many have been loyal customers since Whitley opened the business in 2005. She says getting to know the clients and their pets is the highlight of her job. For more information, visit www.carydogboarding.com. caryliving.com | 37

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Jenn Eachus DVM, owner of the Cary Cat Clinic, is a big softie for animals with special needs. She first started doing pet therapy visits six years ago with her cat, Willie, who she found in a dumpster as a kitten. “Willie was born with a spinal condition that prevents him from being able to urinate without my help,” says Eachus. “He was also born with a Herpes viral infection in one of his eyes, which had to be surgically removed. Willie is the coolest cat ever and is never not by my side. He goes to work with me daily, shops with me, travels with me, goes boating and camping, and acclimates to whatever else we throw his way.” As a veterinarian, Eachus is dedicated to taking care of special needs animals whenever she can. She had always wanted a French Bulldog and a few years ago began to search for one with special needs that was still good with dogs, cats and kids. In January 2013, she adopted Quasi, also known as Q-Daddy. “Once we met him, we knew he was meant to be with us, and we fell so head-over-heels in love with him,” says Eachus. “He was born with a spinal problem that adversely affects his ability to be able to walk correctly with his back legs. I also have to manually express his bladder in order for him to urinate every four hours. As a result, he travels to and from work with me daily and goes anyplace else that could potentially place us away from him for any longer than that.” 38 | caryliving.com

Q- daddy By CHRISTA GALA

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Defying the odds Eachus had just adjusted to Q-Daddy’s challenges when she got devastating news. “Three months after this little dude stole our heart, he came down with a very aggressive form of cancer that almost took his life in a 24-hour period of time,” she says. “We worked closely with our local veterinary oncologist who has worked with so many of our special needs cancer pets.” Quasi’s prognosis was poor, but Eachus was extremely aggressive with his treatment and, amazingly, he survived. “He is now a 17-month cancer survivor who takes regular oral chemotherapy three days a week,” says Eachus. “We also supplement him with lots of stuffy toy therapy playtime in order to keep his spirits up.” A great team Eachus decided that Q-Daddy might benefit from working as a therapy animal. “I decided that the healing touches from these visits would be very beneficial not only to the people we visited, but to Quasi as well,” says Eachus. “And I have to tell you, I was right. He absolutely loves his visits with both the children and the seniors. “Willie, Quasi and I now travel as a pet therapy team, as some people like dogs and some like cats,” continues Eachus. “It has worked out so well as we are able to cover everyone’s interests wwith our visits.” Eachus takes Willie and Q-Daddy to Glenaire, SearStone, Cary Rehabilitation Center, Camp Musart and Cary Academy. caryliving.com | 39

a “match made in”

heaven By CHRISTA GALA

Ronnie Sadoski loves animals, and he loves veterans. In June 2012, he and a woman named Terri Stober launched the non-profit Wags4Tags, Inc. which matches shelter dogs with veterans suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and Traumatic Brain Injury related to combat. “We noticed that there was a need,” says Sadoski, CEO of the non-profit. “North Carolina has the highest kill rate in the nation, and we’re ranked number three in the nation of having the highest military population with active and inactive military.” So why not connect the two groups to facilitate healing and unconditional trust? Stober and Sadoski met while both were working as district managers for a similar organization based in California, but the group decided to close its North Carolina chapter. “Terri and I sat down and said, ‘We’ve made a lot of progress; do we want to just let it go or do we keep all our volunteers and keep on going?’” says Sadoski. “That’s how Wags4Tags was born.” For Sadoski, it’s personal. He knows first-hand how a dog can save a veteran’s life. “I do it because my Sadie, my German Shepherd, saved my life when I was in a dark place, and I was deciding to take my life,” says Sadoski. To date, Wags4Tags has made 22 matches. Once a qualified veteran fills out an application, Sadoski conducts a phone interview followed by a home visit. 40 | caryliving.com

“The reason for the home visit is that I want to meet them and their family,” he says. “I want their spouse to be there and their children. I want to be able to observe if they have any other pets and how well-groomed or well-kept these other pets are, how well-behaved the children are. Are these going to be children that are going to be pulling ears and tails, or are they going to be nice to the animals?” Dogs aren’t selected by breed, but by temperament and sometimes by size if there are physical disabilities to consider. Sadoski and Stober work with high-kill shelters across the state to identify good matches.

Upcoming Wags4Tags events

“If I have a good feeling that this dog is the part of the veteran that’s missing then I do a meet-and-greet September 13th with the veteran and the dog. If it’s a Second Annual good meeting, then I bring in the Music Festival from family. If that goes well, it’s a match 4pm-2am at Doherty’s made in heaven.” Irish Pub, Cary. Most veterans train their dogs once a week with assistance from professional October 2nd trainers, provided they live within 100 Saving a Pet ‘n’ Vet 5k; 8:30am at 4704 miles of Lap it Up, the Wags4Tags training Fayetteville Road in facility in Durham. If veterans live farther Durham; Fun run at than that, there are other options, 11am. Early bird including rescue groups close to their registration is $35. homes and training programs at correcVisit www.petsfortional institutions. The latter, a program vets5k.com for called New Leash on Life, uses inmates more information. from minimum- and moderate-security prisons to train animals under the close October 31st supervision of professional trainers. Golf tourney The regular instruction between (details TBD) veteran and dog yields amazing results. “Within a couple of weeks, you start seeing this veteran open up,” says Sadoski. “They’re smiling; they’re talking more when they come to training. They’re meeting other veterans. They’re coming out of their shell and leaving the home. I have one veteran who, before he got his dog, couldn’t even walk his children to the bus stop, which was right down the road from his front door. Once he got his K-9, he was able to take the children to the bus stop and wait for them after school.” For more information, visit www.wags4tags.org. caryliving.com | 41

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SAFE Haven for Cats, the oldest no-kill cat shelter in the Triangle, is a flourishing non-profit dedicated to finding loving homes for every cat rescued. With a passion for individuality, no two cats have shared a name in the more than 6,500 adoptions the shelter has provided. What’s more, in 2001, the organization opened an affordable spay/neuter clinic resulting in the sterilization of more than 17,000 cats and small dogs to date. Executive Director Pam Miller was moved to start the shelter as an animal lover, and advocate of the no-kill movement. “The beauty of the no-kill model of sheltering is it gives us the opportunity to save every adoptable, orphaned, injured, treatable, shy or not quite ‘perfect’ cat and kitten,” says Miller. In July of 1994, SAFE Haven for Cats was officially formed with the rescue of 17 cats from a Raleigh church. Since then the shelter has grown as a leading North Carolina shelter, helping lower the national statistics of euthanized animals. “It is mind-blowing to think that when I started SAFE Haven, nearly 17 million cats and dogs were being euthanized each year,” says Miller. “Now, that statistic has dropped to just over 4 million. Although there is definitely work to be done, it’s encouraging to know that progress has been made.” The shelter showcases creative programs to address the needs of every cat. From the Happy Cats Crew to the Mature Companion’s Program, each cat has the resources to help their needs, whether it is cat-to-cat testing, body language interpretation, or even medical treatment programs and hospice for elderly cats. So, what’s on the horizon for SAFE Haven? Short term – the annual Run for Their Lives 5k on October 4th. Long term – SAFE Haven is looking to build a better equipped facility where the adoption program and clinic can be under one roof. For more information about SAFE Haven for Cats, visit SAFEHavenforcats.org. 42 | caryliving.com

FASHION

Maroon Fashion

Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time for fall colors, and maroon tops the list this year. Maroon comes in different shades, but whatever shade your wear, the color represents sacrifice and bravery. So be brave and wear some maroon this fall! 1.

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Out And About

September 13th 5th Annual Cary Scavenger Hunt Longtime Cary residents and newcomers alike will be tested on their knowledge of the town’s history, food, shopping, sports and other hyperlocal fun facts. The scavenger hunt begins and ends at the Page-Walker Center, with teams vying for trophy swag as well as cold, hard cash. >> caryscavengerhunt.com

Cary Activities and Events By Jenni Hart photo © brooke meyer photography

October 3rd

October 11th Paragon Ragtime Orchestra

Come to Ashworth Village in Downtown Cary at the corner of Academy and Chatham Streets for a free concert featuring the Gregg Gelb Swing Band. The event is free and open to the public. Be there at 7pm to enjoy a group dance lesson; the concert starts at 7:30pm. >> townofcary.org

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October 4th The 9th Annual HopeSpring Village Charity Golf Tournament The tournament will be held at The Preserve at Jordan Lake. Proceeds will support the mission of HopeSpring Village, an organization dedicated to providing housing options in the Triangle area for adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. For sponsorship information or to register for the tournament please visit their website. >> hopespringvillage.com

Early American musical theatre and silent films were performed against a backdrop of irresistible, iconic ragtime tunes. Conductor and emcee Rick Benjamin and the Paragon Ragtime Orchestra will offer musical accompaniment for silent film greats Charlie Chaplin, Buster Keaton and Harold Lloyd, while the audience is treated to the short, classic comedies on screen. The show begins at 7:30pm at the Cary Arts Center. >> townofcary.org

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Swing Night Concert

September 20th

September 27th Dragon Boat Festival

Patriot Challenge 5K This family-friendly event is open for serious competitors and casual walkers, with proceeds benefitting veteran organizations including Operation Military Embrace, Children of Fallen Patriots, and Warrior Hike and will be held at Koka Booth Amphitheatre. Be sure to wear red, white and blue in support of veterans, and stop by the All American Color Booth for additional stars and stripes embellishments for an extra festive touch.

Come out to the Koka Booth Amphitheatre from 9am-4pm to witness the Triangle area’s inaugural Dragon Boat Festival, featuring races on Symphony Lake, artistic performances, and food. Produced with the support of Asian Focus, Pan Am Dragon Boat, and the Triangle Area Chinese American Society, the festival is free and open to the public. >> boothamphitheatre.com

>> veteranlowtohighchallenge.com

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october 18th Downtown Harvest Day Festival

Diwali is the most widely celebrated Hindu holiday. It represents the victory of good over evil and marks the beginning of the New Year. The theme for this year’s Diwali Festival of Lights is “Aapo Deepo Bhava,” which translates to “Be a light unto yourself.” The festival is free and open to the public and will feature Indian cultural dance performances, music, art, theatre and food. Koka Booth Amphitheatre gates open 11am and the event concludes at 9pm.

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Diwali Festival

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October 25th

Haunted Twilight Tour of Downtown Cary

Cary’s Great Pumpkin Carve

The 100 block of West Chatham Street will be blocked off to welcome families for an afternoon of fall fun and delicious food. Carnival games, inflatable bounce houses, corn hole and entertainment will be on hand from 2-6pm, and costumes are welcome. Admission wristbands are $2 for children age two and up, and adults are free.

Multiple tours will depart from the Page-Walker Arts and History Center throughout the hour from 6-7pm. Fun, but a little frightful, the tour is for ages 13 and over. Tickets are $15 and typically sell out, so get yours early.

From 2-8pm, come to Cary’s Downtown Performance Green and purchase a pumpkin and enjoy other activities for free, including showings of popular Halloween television specials, pumpkin carving instruction and competitions.

>> heartofcary.org

>> townofcary.org

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DIY

By christa gala & stacy cathey

One for the Big Dog Our little furry friends get cute outfits that make large breed dogs look, well, ridiculous. This food bowl holder is a tribute to them. The project costs $15 and took about 2 hours (which included drying time)!

YOU’LL NEED: • An old chair • Spray paint • Dog bowl with a lip • Pencil • Electric drill • Electric jig saw

This is a great way to get food or water off the kitchen floor, putting it at face-level for bigger dogs, which helps eliminate the choking hazard of eating from the floor. You could use a bench to fit both food and water, but we used a single chair we had on hand. First, purchase a dog bowl if you don’t already have one, and make sure it has a lip. The lip will help hide any imperfections in your circle. Bowls typically cost between $5 and $10 at any pet store. We started with our chair. Flip it over and unscrew the seat from the base. The fabric and batting from our seat came off quite easily. Attach the seat back to the base and return the chair right side up. Place your dog bowl in the center of the seat and trace around the bottom, drawing a full circle. Now, take your drill and place it at any point just on the inside of the circle, near your pencil line. Drill a hole that will basically get you into your circle; it will be your starting point for the jig saw. Insert the jig saw into the hole and follow the line to cut your circle, cutting just inside the pencil line. Remember: it’s better to err on the side of cutting a tad smaller. When you test the fit of the bowl, you can always cut a bit larger if you need to. When you have a good snug fit, give your new pet bowl stand two or three coats of paint and let dry. Now fill’er up for dinnertime.

>>Email us at jennifer@caryliving.com with your DIY suggestion.

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EDUCATION

GUIDE By Illyse Lane

Let’s face it. We are fortunate to live in an area where, when it comes to choosing a school for your children, choices abound. You could choose your base school or become a part of the magnet program. Maybe a charter school is a better fit? Or perhaps you’re searching for a small independent or private school, with a low student-teacher ratio or faith-based curriculum?

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At Cary Academy it’s all about community, as it has been since the school opened in 1997 as a college preparatory program for grades 6-12. Students come from all over the Triangle to attend CA, helping us develop a diverse and inclusive community. Students of color make up 29% of the student body. Annually we award need-based financial aid to approximately 15% percent of our students. Our academic program includes mathematics, science, world languages, history, English, art, music, theater and dance. Our world language program offers Spanish, German, French and Mandarin Chinese; all sophomores have the opportunity to participate in an international exchange program as part of their world language studies. Robust extracurricular activities include award-winning robotics clubs, and Science Olympiad and debate teams. A diverse faculty consists of 90 members, with 83% holding advanced degrees. Faculty promote community by acting as mentors/facilitators who stress independent learning, critical thinking skills and problem-solving techniques. There also is a strong parent-teacher association that brings visiting artists to campus and hosts events such as tailgates and Meet the Teacher nights. At Cary Academy, technology is heavily woven into every student activity. Since 2006, all teachers and students have been issued tablet PCs, and this year, they will receive brand-new Lenovo Yoga tablets. Sports and the fine arts are important to the CA community. In the Middle School, students may begin trying out for sports in the seventh grade, and there is a no-cut policy. In the Upper School, students may participate in 14 varsity sports. In 2013-14 the boys’ tennis team won the 3A North Carolina Independent School Athletic Association title, and girls’ soccer, boys’ cross country and boys’ swimming were state runners-up. The Fine Arts program offers a strong performing arts schedule with musicals, plays, recitals and technical theater.

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C ary Christian School

1330 Old Apex Road, Cary, NC 27513 919-303-2560 mainoffice@carychristianschool.org www.carychristianschool.org Since opening our doors in 1996, Cary Christian School has been committed to providing an excellent classical education founded upon a biblical worldview. Our vision is to graduate young men and women who think clearly and listen carefully with discernment and understanding; who reason persuasively and articulate precisely; who are capable of evaluating their entire range of experience in the light of Scripture; and who do so with eagerness, in joyful submission to God. In keeping with our mission, we have created a culture of community on our 21-acre campus where students of all ages can flourish...becoming everything that God has created them to be. It is our desire that each of them know Jesus Christ as Lord; love others as themselves; and grow in knowledge and skill, in order that they may understand their callings from God and be able to carry out those callings well for the good of others. In short, we seek to educate our students in matters of the mind, the body, and the heart so that they may pursue and produce the True, the Good, and the Beautiful. On May 15th, 48 young men and women received diplomas, which represent years of diligent work and the stretching of mind and character. These graduates, whose average SAT score was over 300 points above the national average, are venturing off to colleges and universities all across the United States with scholarship offerings totaling more than $3.5 million. They will begin study in a variety of fields from biochemical engineering to business administration, from pre-law to education and the fine arts. To find out more about Cary Christian School or to schedule a campus tour, please call 919-303-2560. You may also visit our website at www.carychristianschool.org.

The Raleigh School

1141 Raleigh School Drive, Raleigh, NC 27607 919-546-0788 NAEYC, SAIS & SACS Accredited www.raleighschool.org Dear Parent, If you have a young child and are exploring preschool and/or elementary school options, we encourage you to continue reading about The Raleigh School. Our intentional focus on preschool and elementary education stems from our belief that a child’s early learning experiences are essential in establishing positive habits of mind and solid critical thinking skills upon which all future learning can flourish. Founded in 1952, The Raleigh School serves 136 preschoolers (ages 2-5 years old) and 264 elementary students (kindergarten-5th grade). At our core, we believe that children are born eager to learn, and when provided a safe, respectful and engaging environment that emphasizes creativity, collaboration and inquiry, a child can fully invest him- or herself in the learning process. As a cooperative community of children, parents and teachers, we consider parent involvement to be an essential contributor to the educational success of children and ask our school parents to actively participate as partners in their child’s school experience. As a non-sectarian school, we welcome families of all faiths and religious beliefs. We value diversity and seek to create a school community which encompasses all aspects of humanity including racial and cultural identity, sexual orientation, age, gender and socioeconomic status. Choosing a school which aligns with your family’s values is important. We invite you to explore The Raleigh School by scheduling a visit where you will learn more about our rigorous academic program and, most importantly, see our students and teachers in their learning environment. Our campus is nestled on 14 beautiful wooded acres in West Raleigh near the PNC Arena, convenient to Raleigh and Cary. We hope to meet you soon!

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Ravenscroft

7409 Falls of Neuse Road, Raleigh, NC 27615 919-847-0900 admissions@ravenscroft.org www.ravenscroft.org/admissions

We provide morning and afternoon transportation to/from Cary. Lead From Here “I wish I had it earlier.” Business leaders who have worked with the Center for Creative Leadership (CCL), one of the top five providers of executive education worldwide, consistently speak to the fact that they wish they had experienced the training earlier. Clients, including more than 80 of the Fortune 100, realize the benefit of working with a recognized authority in the field of leadership education and research, and they want their own children to experience it as they did. Now, it is possible. Lead From Here, a first-of-its-kind curriculum developed by Ravenscroft and CCL, provides children from prekindergarten through grade 12 with comprehensive leadership development training. This transformative education of model builds on Ravenscroft’s foundation of academic excellence and grounds students in 15 competencies that empower them to become better citizens and leaders with the power to change their world. “CCL is greatly privileged to partner with Ravenscroft on a truly pioneering initiative that will contribute to a better world – our first Research and Innovation Incubator with a Pre-K through 12 school,” said John Ryan, CEO of CCL, after the organization formalized a 10-year agreement with Ravenscroft. “Together, we will create a transformative educational model that will serve Ravenscroft for generations and influence the broader field of education.” Using a framework based on rigorous research, Ravenscroft and CCL nurture students from the inside out to help them become effective and enlightened leaders. These future citizen leaders will enjoy deeply fulfilled lives, become positive contributors to society, and chart a positive course for themselves in increasingly complex times. The future of the world is uncertain. Your child’s path in that world doesn’t have to be.

Saint M ary ’s School

900 Hillsborough Street, Raleigh, NC 27603 919-424-4100 admission@sms.edu www.sms.edu

Saint Mary’s School is an independent, Episcopal, college preparatory, boarding and day school for girls in grades 9-12. Dedicated to academic excellence and personal achievement since 1842, Saint Mary’s School looks at life academically, socially and spiritually. The integrated, hands-on academic program is demanding. Saint Mary’s School works with students to build a strong academic and personal foundation, guided by the habits of a lifelong learner, including critical thinking, communication and character. The leadership curriculum builds responsible citizens and community ambassadors. Outside the classroom, dozens of sports, clubs, music studies and volunteer opportunities are available. The school’s Episcopal tradition inspires students to grow as young woman of integrity and honor. Saint Mary’s School wants each girl to find her courage – to be herself, to expand her horizons and to open her heart and mind to new ideas and experiences. “At Saint Mary’s, we’ll help you find the courage to believe in yourself – and do more than you ever thought possible.” Day Student Shadow Days September 22nd October 13th Admission Overnight and Visitation Days November 10th-11th January 11th-12th Please call the Admission Office at 919-424-4100 to register for these events or arrange for a campus visit.

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St. David’s School

3400 White Oak Road, Raleigh, NC 27609 919-782-3331 twilson@sdsw.org www.sdsw.org St. David’s School’s prestigious academic reputation is enhanced by the way it answers the question that Aristotle posed so many centuries ago: “Ought education to be directed more towards the intellect or towards the character of the soul?” Chairman of the Board Joe Knott answers that question by explaining that “St. David’s School is not an ‘either-or’ choice; it is a ‘both-and’ proposition.” St. David’s is a rigorous college preparatory school with a commitment to biblical integration and development of virtue. St. David’s students are accepted to and succeed in the most prestigious colleges in the country, and they do so as people of character who have been challenged in their faith, ready to engage the world in a significant way in the areas of faith, virtue and knowledge. Headmaster Kevin Lockerbie explains that St. David’s is a unique place that “combines a rigorous college preparatory program taught by Christian faculty members who intentionally integrate biblical truth in and out of the classroom.” St. David’s students leave as critical thinkers who embrace who they are as whole people. Students and their families do not have to check their faith at the door to engage academically, and conversely, they do not have to leave behind academic excellence to engage spiritually. Students are encouraged to think for themselves, to reason through difficult problems of all types, and to develop intellectually through wrestling with difficult challenges. The school’s world-class faculty members engage their students at the very highest level, and they do so as Christians. This preparation of the whole person equips students to succeed in college and life. St. David’s is an independent Episcopal school that prepares young men and women for college and life by providing challenging opportunities to excel in the vital areas of faith, virtue and knowledge.

St. Timothy ’s School

4523 Six Forks Road, Raleigh, NC 27609 919-781-0531 cclement@sttimothy.org www.sttimothys.org Located in the heart of Raleigh’s Midtown, St. Timothy’s School is an independent Episcopal school serving students in Pre-K through 8th grade. Small class sizes, dedicated teachers and a warm, nurturing school community are hallmarks of the school. St. Timothy’s enjoys a rich history of tradition while embracing innovations that keep it on the forefront of academic excellence. Recent student accomplishments include placements at the Raleigh Regional Science Olympiad, North Carolina State Science and Engineering Fair, North Carolina Middle School Battle of the Books and NC State Geographic Bee. Outstanding performing and fine arts programs include band, chorus, drama and an award-winning visual arts program that claimed multiple gold key winners in the regional competition of the prestigious Scholastic Arts Competition. In addition to cheerleading, the Titan athletic program fields 13 competitive teams in the Capital Area Middle School Conference: soccer, volleyball, tennis, cross country, track and field, basketball, golf and baseball. St. Timothy’s student-athletes consistently advance to championship level conference play. After-school care and after-school enrichment classes are available to students. A varied summer camp program is available to students as well as the public. Weekly chapel services, character education and a school-wide emphasis on community service combine to affirm the mission of St. Timothy’s: a commitment to educational excellence and the emotional, physical and spiritual growth of children in an environment where traditional Christian values are emphasized.

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C ardinal Gibbons High School As a co-educational, college preparatory school, Cardinal Gibbons High School is committed to providing a thriving academic environment that involves outstanding academic, spiritual, fine arts, athletic and extracurricular programs, as well as incredible community outreach endeavors. Students annually capture state sports championships as well as art and academic awards. Newly expanded learning spaces, updated technology, and a one-to-one computing initiative promote innovative experiences and expose students to modes of expression, collaboration, and problem solving they will encounter in college and beyond. One hundred percent of our students are accepted to a college of their choice, and are inspired to lead, serve =and achieve.

1401 Edwards Mill Road Raleigh, NC 27607 919-834-1625 jcurtis@cghsnc.org www.cghsnc.org Jason D. Curtis, Principal

Luc y Daniels School Imagine a place where children who struggle with social and emotional challenges are understood, reassured and supported; a place where their parents feel understood too. The Lucy Daniels School is now serving students Pre-K through 3rd grade (4th and 5th grade will be added in 2015-16) in an academic environment that is sensitive to their social and emotional needs. We provide a variety of support for children who are struggling emotionally, socially or behaviorally, at the point in their development when these interventions can have the greatest impact. The Schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s highly trained staff offers personalized care for each student and their families.

9003 Weston Parkway, Cary, NC 27513 919-677-1400 dmugno@lucydanielscenter.org www.lucydanielscenter.org

M ariposa School 203 Gregson Drive, Cary, NC 27511 919-461-0600 info@mariposaschool.org www.mariposaschool.org NOW ACCEPTING APPLICATIONS The Mariposa School is a non-profit organization created specifically to offer children with Autism Spectrum Disorder and other developmental disabilities year-round, intensive one-on-one instruction, using innovative techniques. Each program is tailored to fit individual needs so that the student may realize his/her maximum potential. We specialize in Applied Behavior Analysis to provide intensive instruction using evidenced-based methodology in a supportive environment designed to improve communication skills and therefore quality of life for children with Autism or other intellectual/developmental disabilities and their families. • Beginning in January 2015, ABA Services will be covered under the State Employees Healthcare Plan • Enrollment is open year round with admissions screenings reviewed weekly • Please call or visit our website for more specific programmatic information and to schedule a tour

St. Michael C atholic School Looking for high-quality academics, service, and values that celebrate Catholicism? Explore St. Michael Catholic School at our upcoming Open House events: Thursday, November 20th, 9-10:30am Tuesday, December 9th, 9-10:30am Thursday, January 8th, 9-10:30am Thursday, January 15th, 6-7:30pm

810 High House Road Cary, NC 27513 919-468-6150 admissions@stmcary.org www.stmcary.org

Highlights of our school include: • Blue Ribbon School of Excellence • Pre-K through Grade 8 • Competitive Athletics • Performing & Visual Arts • Challenging Math tracks • Accelerated Spanish classes • Hands-on Science labs • Teacher Assistants in Pre-K – Grade 5 • Weekly Mass & integrated Faith Formation • Integrated Technology Program • Laptops & iPad Carts • Promethean Boards in all classrooms

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1 Advanced Placement Academy

6406 McCrimmon Parkway

Morrisville

advancedplacementacademy.org 919-234-1503

2 Cary Academy

1500 N Harrison Avenue

Cary

caryacademy.com

919-228-4550

3 Cary Christian School

1330 Old Apex Road

Cary

carychristianschool.org

919-303-2560

4 The Raleigh School

1141 Raleigh School Drive

Raleigh

raleighschool.org

919-546-0788

5 Ravenscroft

7409 Falls of Neuse Road

Raleigh

ravenscroft.com/admissions

919-847-0900

6 Saint Mary’s School

900 Hillsborough Street

Raleigh

sms.edu

919-424-4100

7 St. David’s School

3400 White Oak Road

Raleigh

sdsw.org

919-782-3331

8 St. Timothy’s School

4523 Six Forks Road

Raleigh

sttimothys.org

919-781-0531

9 Cardinal Gibbons High School

1401 Edwards Mill Road

Raleigh

cghsnc.org

919-834-1625

10 Lucy Daniels School

9003 Weston Parkway

Cary

lucydanielscenter.org

919-677-1400

11 Mariposa School

203 Gregson Drive

Cary

mariposaschool.org

919-461-0600

12 St. Michael Catholic School

810 High House Road

Cary

stmcary.org

919-468-6150

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For several years now, I’ve been trying to figure out how I developed such a pumpkin problem. As a kid, my mother made pumpkin pie at Thanksgiving, and I disliked it so much that I would eat mincemeat pie instead. But sometime well into adulthood, everything changed. If it’s pumpkin flavored, I’m all over it. I’ve always had a sweet tooth, but that doesn’t explain the pumpkin cravings. The taste snuck up on me sometime back around my Key Lime Pie Era (circa 1998), and it is still going strong today. I seek out anything that tastes like pumpkin. In my defense, it seems like the pumpkin lobby has made a big push in recent years. In the grocery aisles in the fall, pumpkin items are everywhere - cake mixes, chewy bars, toaster pastries. I’ll try most anything. There are even some problematic options, like pumpkin pie vodka, but so far I’ve confined this issue to the dessert sector. I’m not looking for more trouble. My standards for pumpkininfused foods are fairly lenient. I seem to like most of what’s out there, but I have a few go-to items this time of year. The pumpkin muffin at Panera Bread is top-notch. So are the pumpkin pancakes at Brigs restaurants, available in November. At the same time, I don’t exactly challenge my palate with pumpkin Pop-Tarts. They’re pumpkin-ish, but that moves the meter for me. I don’t want to come across as entirely undiscriminating. I’ve walked away from a bag of pumpkin M&Ms. Pumpkin Hershey’s Kisses made me want to write a strongly worded letter. Think melted candle wax. This little addiction goes beyond satisfying my taste for that delicate blend of cinnamon, nutmeg, ginger and allspice. Sometimes all I need is the aroma, which is why I always have a pumpkin pie-scented Yankee Candle in the house. Please don’t confuse it with the company’s spiced pumpkin candle. Trust me, you want the pie scent. My wife once made the mistake of buying the spiced pumpkin one for me. I let her off with a warning.

It’s hard to be sure when common sense finally gave way to compulsion. I think it was three years ago when I purchased a quart of Coffee-Mate pumpkin spice coffee creamer. It didn’t seem like an issue at the time, but then the euphoria wore off and I

remembered that I don’t drink coffee. Without a practical use for it, I would take it out of the refridgerator a couple times a day, open the lid and sort of waft the bouquet up to my nose. I’ve since learned that it’s delicious in hot chocolate, which gives me an excuse to buy it each year. I still take whiffs as needed.

I keep waiting for this little fixation to fade away, but I see no end in sight. Not as long as Trader Joe’s keeps stocking pumpkin muffin mix. I have three boxes still in the pantry from last year - just in case. I have made a few treats from scratch, but the only one my family enjoys is pumpkin bars, with cream cheese frosting. I make them every year, just to have someone participate with me. Sadly, my wife and kids are indifferent to most things pumpkin. So whenever I find the next must-have item, I pretty much own it. The pumpkin cheesecake from The Cheesecake Factory? Mine, all eight pieces. I think I ate three before I ran out of enthusiasm. Maybe that’s a good sign, that I still have some sense of self-control. After all, this is pretty much only an October-November ordeal for me. But for these two months, I’m powerless over pumpkin. This fall, there will be new items on the store shelves, and I will make some decisions I won’t be proud of. Now if you’ll excuse me, I heard a rumor about pumpkin Cheerios. I bet that would be delicious with the coffee creamer.

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OF EVENTS

SEPTEMBER | OCTOBER 2014

Harvest Nights in The District Music Series September 4, 11, 18, 25 & October 2, 9 | 6-8:30pm In front of Stone Theatre – Park West 14 www.Facebook.com/ParkWestVillage

4TH ANNUAL WINE AND CHEESE TASTING to benefit alzheimers north carolina September 10 | 4-6pm Woodland Terrace Senior Living 300 Kildaire Woods Drive | Cary RSVP: info@outreachnc.com or 919-535-8713

Rock & Blues Night with Peak City Blues Project September 5 | 7pm Downtown Cary www.reverbnation.com/peakcitybluesproject

The Pickin’ In The Pines Bluegrass Series September 10, 17, 24 & October 1 Koka Booth Amphitheatre www.boothamphitheatre.com

The Fuquay-Varina Garden Club Second ANNUAL Garden Party September 6 | 1-4pm fuquayvarinagardenclub.weebly.com

Grateful Living Fundraiser Sale – Preview Party September 11 | 6-9pm The Green Chair Project | 1853 Capital Blvd. Raleigh | www.thegreenchair.org

Premiere of a Bob Krantz Film “Christmas with the Karountzoses” September 6 | 3:30-6pm Needham B. Broughton High School Auditorium 723 Saint Mary’s Street | Raleigh www.holytrinityraleigh.org

Cary Downtown Performers Series – Tea Cup Gin September 12 | 7-9pm www.teacupgin.com

The Cary and Six String Presents concerts September 6, 26 & October 10, 24 www.townofcary.org

Cary Town Band presents Raining Cats and Dogs September 12 | 7:30pm www.carytownband.org Sertoma Amphitheatre | Bond Park

73rd Annual North Carolina Gourd Arts and Crafts Festival And American Gourd Society 2nd National Show September 6-7 9am-5pm Saturday; 10am-4pm Sunday Holshouser Building | State Fairgrounds Raleigh | www.ncgourdsociety.org/festival

33rd Annual Greek Festival September 12, 5-10pm September 13, 11am-10pm September 14, 11am-6pm The Jim Graham Building | State Fairgrounds Raleigh | www.greekfestivalraleigh.com

BRIDAL OPEN HOUSE September 7 | 12:30-4:30pm The Write Image | 1251 Kildaire Farm Road Cary | 919-468-0468 National Grandparents Day at the Museum September 7 NC Museum of History | Raleigh www.ncmuseumofhistory.org

5th Annual Cornhole, Cocktails and Couture VS. Cancer September 13th In front of Stone Theatre – Park West 14 www.Facebook.com/ParkWestVillage 5th Annual Cary Scavenger Hunt September 13 Page-Walker Center www.caryscavengerhunt.com Pay It Forward Fundraiser Party September 13 | 7pm Renaissance Raleigh Hotel at North Hills www.caringcommunityfoundation.org Beth Shalom Synagogue Prospective Member Open House September 14 | 11am-1pm 5713 Yates Mill Pond Road | Raleigh www.bethshalomnc.org Devils Ridge Charity Golf Classic September 17 | 9am 5107 Linksland Drive | Holly Springs www.devilsridgecharityclassic.com Literacy Council of Wake County’s 4th Annual Read to Succeed BBQ Feed September 20 | 4-7pm Lake Wheeler Waterfront Conference Center | Raleigh | www.wakeliteracy.org Patriot Challenge 5K Run/Walk September 20 | 8am Koka Booth Amphitheatre veteranlowtohighchallenge.com Plant Walk & Talk September 20 | 10am The Garden Hut | Fuquay-Varina www.NelsasGardenHut.com Fairy Garden class September 20 | 11am The Garden Hut | Fuquay-Varina www.NelsasGardenHut.com Clay Aiken performing at National Inclusion Projects Magic of a Smile Champions Gala September 20 | 6:30pm Raleigh Marriott City Center | 500 Fayetteville Street | Raleigh | www.inclusionproject.org Kim Wempe September 20 Sertoma Amphitheatre – 2pm Downtown Cary Performance Green – 7pm www.kimwempe.com

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Rosh Hashanah Services September 24-26 Beth Shalom Synagogue | 5713 Yates Mill Pond Road | Raleigh | www.bethshalomnc.org

Swing Night Concert October 3 | 7pm Ashworth Village | Downtown Cary www.townofcary.org

Second Chance Pet Adoptions Furry 5k October 11 WakeMed Soccer Park | Cary www.TheFurry5k.com

Art Open Reception September 26 | 6-9pm Waverly Artists Group & Gallery 302 Colonades Way | Suite 209 | Cary www.WaverlyArtistsGroup.com

Yom Kippur Services October 3-4 Beth Shalom Synagogue | 5713 Yates Mill Pond Road | Raleigh | www.bethshalomnc.org

Brass at Bond October 12 | 1pm Sertoma Amphitheatre | Bond Park

Southern Ideal Home Show September 26-28 North Carolina State Fairgrounds 1025 Blue Ridge Road | Raleigh www.SouthernIdealHomeShow.com/HFR Downtown Bounty September 27 | 3-7pm Broad Street | Varina retail district www.fuquay-varinadowntown.com Dragon Boat Festival September 27 | 9am-4pm Koka Booth Amphitheatre www.boothamphitheatre.com Rotary District 7710’s 3rd Annual GlobalRun4Water September 28 | 3pm WakeMed Soccer Park | Cary www.runnc.com Triangle Independent School Consortium Admissions Fair September 28 | 1-4pm Hampton Inn | Crabtree Valley Mall www.tiscnc.org lecture on “Was I Born for This? North Carolina Slave Voices” October 2 | 7pm 160 South Saint Mary’s St. | Raleigh www.joellane.org

Carol Stein’s Gardeners Forum October 4 | 11am The Garden Hut | Fuquay-Varina www.NelsasGardenHut.com Genealogy Fair with keynote speaker, Diane Richard on “Joel Lane’s Ancestors, Digging Deeper” October 4 | 10:30am 160 South Saint Mary’s St. | Raleigh www.joellane.org St. Paul’s Lobster Fest October 4 St. Paul’s Episcopal Church | Cary Live and cooked, pick up 11am-4pm Meals and Rolls, 11:30am-3pm www.lobsterfestcary.com 9th annual HopeSpring Village Charity Golf Tournament October 4 The Preserve at Jordan Lake | Chapel Hill www.HopeSpringVillage.com Triangle Independent School Consortium Admissions Fair October 5 | 1-4pm Hilton Garden Inn | Southpoint Mall www.tiscnc.org Triangle Brass Band October 5 | 3pm Sertoma Amphitheatre | Bond Park www.trianglebrass.org The Red Vibes October 10 | 7pm www.reverbnation.com/amanda williamsanddavidpeach Paragon Ragtime Orchestra October 11 | 7:30pm Cary Arts Center www.townofcary.org Fairy Garden class October 11 | 11am The Garden Hut Fuquay-Varina www.NelsasGardenHut.com

Children in the Arts 2014 October 18 | 2:30-5:30pm 3791 NW Cary Parkway | suzmurley@gmail.com Downtown Harvest Day Festival October 18 | 2-6pm 100 block of West Chatham Street www.heartofcary.org Diwali Festival October 19 | 11am-9pm Koka Booth Amphitheatre www.humsub.net Health & Wellness Fair October 25 Western Wake Farmers Market www.westernwakefarmersmarket.org 5th annual Pedal for Peds Bike Ride and Silent Auction fundraiser October 25 | 7:30am-5pm UNC’s Wellness Center | 350 Stonecroft Lane Cary | www.pedalforpeds.kintera.org Haunted Twilight Tour of Downtown Cary October 25 | 6-7pm Page-Walker Arts and History Center www.townofcary.org Cary’s Great Pumpkin Carve October 25 | 2-8pm Cary’s Downtown Performance Green www.townofcary.org Fall Festival October 30 In front of Stone Theatre – Park West 14 www.Facebook.com/ParkWestVillage Trick-OR-Treating October 31 | 2-5 pm Main and Broad Street | Fuquay-Varina www.fuquay-varinadowntown.com

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CHEFMARIO

Comfort in a Bowl Keep you and your family warm on chilly nights with these hearty and heartwarming soups and stews

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Baked Potato Soup Makes approximately 3 quarts Ingredients 8 baked russet potatoes 4 cups white onion, diced 2 Tbsp olive oil (to sauté the onions) 8 cups milk 2 Tbsp Dijon mustard 1 Tbsp chicken base (we recommend BTB – Better than Bullion) salt and pepper 2 cups heavy cream chicken stock (to adjust the consistency as needed) For Garnish • crispy potato skins • bacon bits • cheddar cheese • sliced scallions Directions Wash and dry your potatoes. Place on a foil-lined sheet pan and drizzle olive oil; season with salt and pepper. Bake in a 350 degree oven for about an hour or so, until potatoes are cooked. Cool them enough so you can handle them (this step can be done the day before if desired). Cut potatoes in quarters. Using a paring knife, cut out the inside of the potatoes (save the skins – these will be our crispies for garnish). Slice half of the skins into strips and spread on a foil-lined sheet pan. Coat with cooking spray, drizzle with olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Place in a 350 degree oven for 20 minutes or so, or until golden and crispy. Set aside for garnish. In a large pot, heat 2 Tbsp olive oil, then add onions. Cook over medium heat until onions are translucent. Add the milk and potato insides. Add the Dijon, chicken base, salt and pepper and cream, and bring to a simmer. Using an emulsion blender (stick blender), puree the soup, still leaving some chunks of potato. Do not over-blend, as it will thicken into a paste-like consistency. Adjust your seasoning with salt and pepper; add the chicken stock to adjust consistency.

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To serve, ladle the soup into bowls and garnish with crispy potato skins, cheese, bacon bits and scallions.

Bottomless Veggie Soup Makes approximately 12 servings. We call it bottomless as you can eat as much as you want and remain guilt-free! Ingredients 2 medium garlic cloves, minced 1 medium onion, diced 2 medium carrots, diced 1 medium sweet red pepper, diced 1 medium celery stalk, diced 2 small zucchini, diced 2 cups green cabbage, shredded 2 cups cauliflower, small florets 2 cups broccoli, small florets 6 cups water, or enough to cover the veggies 1 Tbsp hot sauce 2 Tbsp soy sauce ½ tsp salt, or to taste ¼ tsp black pepper, or to taste 2 Tbsp fresh lemon juice, optional

Directions Put garlic, vegetables, and water into a large soup pot. Cover and bring to a boil over high heat; reduce heat to low and simmer 10 minutes. Season to taste with hot sauce, soy sauce, salt, pepper and lemon juice.

Beef Stew

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David Sardinha used to be a corporate guy. For years, he carved out a career in the computer software industry in Cary and Research Triangle Park, but his real satisfaction came on his excursions to the mountains, where he could “take a long weekend and chill out up there.” Specifically, Sardinha was fascinated with The Grey Eagle, a small music venue that left him feeling like he had found his own cozy corner of the music industry. “I’d hear these amazing singer-songwriters that I’d never heard of before that I thought were great talents,” Sardinha remembers. “I was puzzled why an area as big as the Triangle didn’t have a listening room with quality musicians coming through.” So Sardinha took matters into his own hands. “I was at a crossroads in my career, so I decided to see if others would enjoy it as much as I do.” He opened the Six String Cafe in Cary in 2001, and before long, local and regional performers began to seek him out. It didn’t take long for audiences to follow. Soon they were enjoying gigs by artists like Richard Leigh, who penned the classic “Don’t It Make My Brown Eyes Blue” for Crystal Gayle. None of the performers were household names, but all of them were accomplished in their own right. One day Sardinha took a flyer on a musician who stopped by the Six String to introduce himself. He didn’t recognize the singer’s name, but he needed an opening act that night, and the man graciously accepted. During the show, Danny Flowers shared a few words about one of his songs, saying “I really enjoy it, and my buddy Eric likes it too.” Recognizing the tune, Sardinha hurried to his office and checked the Flowers’ CD. “His buddy was Eric Clapton,” Sardinha says with a laugh. “The song was ‘Tulsa Time.’ “ Both Clapton and country star Don Williams recorded the song, and for at least one night, the man who wrote the classic hit was sharing it with a small audience in Cary. That was the charm of the Six String Cafe. Sardinha could squeeze close to 100 music lovers into his ‘music room.’ And while you could enjoy a meal at the show, there was no mistaking that the audience came for the performance. Sardinha closed the Six String in 2005, but the audience never really went away. “There was a loyal group of supporters of the Six String who would never let me go,” he says. “They would email me, and talk to me when they would see me. I was always surprised at how special the place was to so many people. They hung in there through all these years.” Sardinha never let go either. Instead, he produced similar shows at other local venues. He sometimes worked in conjuction with Cary’s cultural resources department to book side-stage shows for performances at Cary’s Koka Booth Amphitheater. So when the town recently renovated the The Cary Theater, the 175-seat theater provided an ideal location for Sardinha to pursue his passion. Top left: Pierce Pettis performs at a Six String Presents concert. Top right: David Sardinha takes the stage to make an introduction. Middle: the original Six String Cafe in Cary. Bottom: Jon Shain and Claire Holley perform.

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The Cary will host musical performances

through the remainder of 2014.

“My hope is we are creating experiences,” says Lyman Collins, Cary’s cultural arts manager. “It has that sense of place because of its history and its intimacy, and it can create a bond between the performer and the audience. It is something that is important. It creates that sense of uniqueness and community that is important for Cary to have.”

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Together, Sardinha and the Town of Cary have launched a 12-show schedule at The Cary that will run through the end of 2014. The first show in August, featuring Chuck Brodsky and Pierce Pettis, was a sellout. If the series is successful, it might return for 2015. “I’m pleasantly surprised by how many of [the musicians] remember me and are willing to take a chance on a new series,” Sardinha says. “It is very different for me, working with the town as a partner,” Sardinha says. “They have been very supportive and it’s been a very good relationship. When you look at the quality of the venue – the lighting, the sound, the comfortable seating, cafe tables in front of the stage – it has a little of the Six String Cafe feel to it.” Sardinha still enjoys the music. Like so many music lovers, he takes pride in knowing he saw performers at his music room before they made it big, like Raleigh’s Grammy-nominated Tift Merritt. But it’s more than that. “It’s not the same as going to a concert,” he says. “There is an intimacy. There is a moment that touches people at these shows.” >> For more information and tickets for shows at The Cary, visit sixstringpresents.com or the Cary Arts Center box office.

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Start your Saturday morning shaking hands with our farmers and vendors who bring you local, healthy, fresh products each week, rain or shine.

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Little River Ranch We are a fifth generation farm family that produces high-quality meats and ornamentals. Our production philosophy is to meld the best methods from traditional small family farming with the best offerings of modern agricultural science. We have a personal relationship with everything we produce. We provide pasture-raised lamb, pasture-raised heritage turkeys, traditional pork, pasture-raised rabbit, pond-raised duck, and fall chrysanthemums.

Great Harvest Bread Co. We are a whole grain, all-natural bakery. We mill our wheat on site to produce the freshest flour to put into our bread. The breads are made from scratch each day with the finest ingredients. Producer of handcrafted breads and baked goods made from our freshly milled wheat flour, sourced from family-owned farms. Our honey is locally produced by Heidi's honey in Winston-Salem. Our loaves are hand kneaded and prepared each day. All day-old bread is given to ministries or interfaith food shuttle. Our menu includes breads, muffins, cookies, cinnamon rolls and scones. We also make a whole line of made-from-scratch mixes such as cookie mix, brownie mix and pancake mix.

Smith Angus Farm We are a family owned and operated cattle and poultry farm located in Snow Camp. We take great pride in being the fourth generation to farm the land. Our black angus cattle are pasture raised and fed an all-natural grain supplement without any added hormones or unnecessary antibiotics. This ensures a well-marbled, tender cut of beef that makes for exceptional dining from our pasture to your plate.

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Avoid Expensive Errors When Paying for College by Bonnie Fischer, aams financial advisor edward jones

• Stopping your savings once your children

It’s just about back-to-school time again. If you have young children, you might be hustling them to the store for backpacks and binders.

are in college – Unless your children plan to take an

But if you fast-forward a few years, you can envision driving your kids a

awful lot of credits, they’re not going to finish college in just

little farther – to their college dorms. And when that day comes, you’ll

one year. Consequently, you’ll want to keep investing in your

want to be financially prepared. So you’ll want to avoid making costly

plan or other college savings vehicle while your children

mistakes when preparing for, and paying, those big bills. Here are some

are in school.

of the most common of these errors: • Taking out 401(k) loans – Your employer may allow • Not saving enough – Only half of all families with

you to take out a loan against your 401(k) to help pay for

children under 18 save any money for college, according

college. But this may not be a good idea for two reasons:

to a recent study by Sallie Mae, the country’s largest

First, when you remove money from your 401(k) – even if you

originator of federally insured student loans. You might

plan on eventually paying it back – you will slow the potential

find it easier to save for college if you automatically move a

accumulation in your account, thereby depriving yourself of

set amount each month from your checking or savings

resources you will eventually need for retirement. Second,

account to a college savings vehicle.

should you leave the company, you might have to repay the

loan within a limited number of days.

• Not considering vehicles with growth

• Not using available tax credits – Depending on your

potential – The same Sallie Mae study found that more parents use a general savings account than any other

income, you might qualify for the American Opportunity

method of saving for college. But since most savings

tax credit, which is worth up to $2,500, provided you spend

accounts these days pay only a minimal rate of return, you

at least $4,000 on college expenses. Check with your tax

will have trouble getting the growth potential you need to

professional to see if you qualify for this credit and how to

achieve your college savings goals. Consider working

most effectively incorporate it. And be careful you don’t

toward your college savings goals by investing in a vehicle

waste the credit, because you may not be able to use it and

specifically designed for college, such as a 529 plan or a

your plan distributions at the same time.

Coverdell plan. There are differences between these plans,

such as contribution limits and tax treatments, but both

allow you to invest for growth potential. As with any

making the above mistakes, you’ve got a better chance of getting

investment account, there are risks involved, including

your kids through school without derailing the progress you’d

market risk.

like to make toward your other financial goals.

Paying for college can be challenging – but if you can avoid

This article was written by Edward Jones for use by your local Edward Jones Financial Advisor.

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Six Tips to Help Students Cope witH

School Stress by Ann Marie Sochia, LPCA, CHT, NLP, MS Waves of Change

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Are your kids stressed? Have you noticed that today’s children always seem to be “on the go” and busy with school-related activities? Activities like homework, football, basketball, soccer, swim team, music, band, chess club, gymnastics…more activities than you were involved in as a child. Some schools are even year round. I feel stressed just writing this! Here are six tips to help relieve the stress related to school, homework and extracurricular activities. 1. Talk to your children and have an open-door policy when it comes to stress and ways to deal with it. If your kids are stressed, they may not be eating or sleeping normally, express despair, a general attitude of hopelessness, and isolation, to name a few. Pay attention to see if you notice any of the symptoms. 2. Make sure you model stress-free behaviors. Stress-f ree behaviors include taking time to relax, taking a vacation, not bringing the negatives of work home with you, and not working 65 hours a week. 3. Make sure to take time to relax and de-stress. Many scholarly studies show that something as simple as meditating for at least 10 minutes a day can help reduce stress. This is also a great way to de-stress as a parent and can be done together with your child. Spending time meditating with your kids is a great way to check in and see how they are doing. 4. Teach your kids time management skills. Some great ways to help teach this are to supply your children with a calendar or planner and help them organize their school schedule, homework due dates, and other events. Being prepared and organized makes it easier to be ready and less stressed. When assignments or activities are completed, check marking them off as “done” leads to a positive feeling of accomplishment. 5. Give your children a place to study that is quiet and has very few distractions. Distractions that should be removed include the television, music, video games and cell phones. Children study better, retain more, and learn more when they can focus. 6. Pay attention to when your child is struggling, and offer to help. Help can come in the form of you helping them with homework, hiring a tutor, or having them join a homework club. If you feel your child needs more help than the above tips, please consider taking them to a counselor to talk and help resolve stress. Taking to a counselor can be very beneficial and rewarding to your child as he learns to handle stress and may also help with more serious issues. Good luck reducing school stress for your kids in the upcoming school year! caryliving.com | 73

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Exercise, Eat Well and Live Long! Glenaire’s enCompass Program Offers Proven Wellness Strategies by Laura Lowe | Director of Sales and Marketing, Glenaire

Did you know that nearly 10,000 people turn 65 every day? Today, it’s very likely that 20 to 25 percent of your life will be spent in active retirement. Statistics such as this are part of the reason that today’s older Americans have a very different outlook on retirement than their parents or grandparents. Many seniors view retirement as a new chapter in life, rather than a winding down. Making exercise and good nutrition more important than ever becomes a priority. Research shows that seniors age 75 and older who are active physically, mentally and socially, are most likely to live past age 90. In fact, regular exercise can: 74 | caryliving.com

• Prevent many chronic diseases (coronary heart disease, diabetes, obesity), disabling conditions (osteoporosis, arthritis) and chronic disease risk factors (high blood pressure, high cholesterol). •

Delay the onset of functional limitations and the loss of mobility and independence.

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Lessen cognitive decline and memory loss.

• Improve balance and reduce the risk of falling. • Reduce symptoms of depression. • Improve quality of sleep. • Prevent dementia, including Alzheimer’s.

Good health isn’t something that just happens, it’s something you have to cultivate. This is why programs like enCompass, a state-of-the-art wellness strategy offered at Glenaire retirement community, are so important. The program emphasizes not only physical wellness, but also balance in one’s social, intellectual, spiritual, safety, nutritional, environmental and outreach dimensions. It’s more than a fitness program – it motivates residents of the community to improve their lives. While only 22 percent of people age 65 or older engage in regular physical activity, 67 percent of people living in CCRCs, like Glenaire, use the fitness facilities. Studies show that even a little bit of exercise can make a big difference. Each additional hour of physical activity leads to a  three percent decrease in the rate of mobility decline. Women and men in their 80s who start resistance training gain strength as rapidly as younger adults doing the same exercises! Regular exercise is not the only challenge for seniors. One in three older adults who live independently are at risk of malnutrition. Seniors who do not get proper nutrition make more visits to physicians, hospitals and emergency rooms. Their hospital stays are nearly twice as long as those of well-nourished patients. A healthy diet, one with high levels of vitamins and omega-3 fatty acids, increases cognitive performance and reduces the risk of Alzheimer’s. However, many seniors are not capable of making nutritious meals every day, because they do not know how or they find shopping and cooking too difficult. Other benefits of choosing a CCRC such as Glenaire are nutritional meals and on-site nutritionists. Glenaire’s cuisine is well-known in the Cary community and residents have commented that the Creekside Café, which offers casual dining onsite, serves the best breakfast in Cary. One resident commented, “Before I moved to Glenaire, my freezer and microwave were the only kitchen appliances I used. I can’t imagine how unhealthy my diet was!” caryliving.com | 75

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Make Art, Not Waste Bohemian Bash

Cypress Manor was the location of this year’s Make Art, Not Waste Bohemian Bash on July 17th. The bash is a fundraising benefit for the Cary Creative Reuse Center. Partygoers were able to participate in a silent auction and juried art show.

Groundbreaking Ceremony

On August 13th, Mayor Weinbrecht was in attendance to help celebrate the groudbreaking of The Mayton Inn and the future of Cary! Set to open its doors in Summer 2015, The Mayton Inn will be a 45-room boutique inn in the heart of downtown Cary.

sculpture dedication Celebrating 50 Years in cary

On August 1st, Rotary Club leaders, Rotarians and local business leaders gathered outside the Cary Chamber of Commerce to dedicate a new sculpture commemorating the 50th anniversary of Rotary in Cary. The artwork is a five-sided granite structure representing the five Rotary Clubs in Cary.

cary gallery of artists reception

The gallery’s featured artists for August had their opening reception on July 25th. Pastel Expressions by Diana Coidan and From Here to There by Diane Starbling will be on display until August 26th. The Cary Gallery of Artists is a cooperative operated by local artists.

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playground dedication

On August 9th, the Tammy Lynn Center for Developmental Disabilities remembered and honored Betty and Durham Moore, co-founders of Tammy Lynn Center. The center celebrated their life’s work and dedicated the Center’s playground as The Betty & Durham Moore Memorial Playground. The Tammy Lynn Center was born out of a mother’s love for her child.

14th Annual Auction for the Animals Prestonwood Country Club was host to the Second Chance Pet Adoptions 14th Annual Auction for the Animals on July 18th. Silent and live auctions were held, with over 250 items to bid on. Funds raised at this special event will be used to rescue, rehabilitate and adopt more than 300 cats and dogs in Wake and the surrounding counties.

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Surprise Wish Reveal at dave and buster’s

Jaylen’s one true wish to have an arcade “claw” machine became a reality courtesy of Dave & Buster’s on August 18th. The eight-year-old Johnston County resident, who has Batten Disease, received his wish during a surprise wish reveal celebration with his family and friends at the Dave & Buster’s Cary location at Cary Towne Center.

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