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a note FROM THE

PUBLISHER

Happy Holidays!

It is truly my favorite time of year! And that probably doesn’t come as a surprise to those of you that know me. For I love to shop. This is not a new habit; my mom would say that it started around the age of five.

The good news is that I would rather give than receive, taking it as my personal challenge to find the perfect gift for everyone on my list. This mission becomes a bit easier when you consider that because of my magazines, I am lucky enough to know the best places to shop and eat from the Sandhills to the Triangle. If you can think of it, I can tell you where to find it.

I’ve always used the excuse that the main reason for my unwavering dedication to shopping was to support my local advertisers (although I’m not sure the IRS would agree) so the “Shop Local” campaign just flat out made sense to me. But I didn’t have any idea just how much “cents” it actually made. Did you know that the dollars we spend have a dramatic effect on our community? In “Your Gift Matters” Illyse Lane looks at that impact and you’ll be amazed at how much of every dollar you spend local stays local.

If you need inspiration for shopping locally, be sure to turn to page 50 for our annual holiday gift guide. This 16-page, pull-out shopping guide is filled with gifts ranging from $5 to $5000, with something for everyone on your list. And if you visit any of the businesses that advertise with us, or even better, shop local and buy a gift from them, please let them know you saw them in Midtown Magazine. This will help us continue to grow.

This issue is packed with everything you need to make this holiday season memorable. You’ll find great ideas for adding a little sparkle to your holiday decorating, the most stylish holiday party looks for men and women and back by popular demand, our friends of Midtown share their favorite holiday recipes, plus all of our regular features like Bain’s Beat and Healthy You!

There’s only one month left to cast your ballot in our 3rd Annual Midtown Diamond Awards which is located on the first page of our pull-out shopping guide. We want your opinion on everything from the best place to get your caffeine fix to the best place for a romantic dinner. Your vote matters! You can also visit our website www.midtownmag.com to vote online.

As always we want to hear from you, please continue to share your thoughts and story ideas with us.

Gina Pearce Stephens

Publisher/Partner Midtown, Cary Living, Pinehurst & Southern Weddings gstephens@midtownmag.com

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contents november/december

features 26 your gift matters:

shop local

It’s a buzz phrase we’ve gotten used to hearing But what does it really mean? And why is it even more important this holiday season?

30 holiday decorating

We asked local designers to share their secrets for creating a fun, festive look for almost every part of your home.

44 what’s the big deal

with blogging

I was a blogger. A mommy blogger, to be specific...

52 riches for your table

As another holiday season beckons, it’s time to track down those favorite family recipes.

60 diverse demand gives

rise to: specialty stores

It’s great to have variety, but sometimes a consumer wants something more specific.

2010

66 holiday fashion

Now is the time to shop for that holiday dress that will make you stand out and be remembered.

72 all i want for christmas is:

holiday beauty

It’s time to get the glow back! From easy ideas for little problems to big changes for longer-lasting results, there’s something for everyone.

80 second to none

With low interest rates and low prices, you might want to give a second thought to buying a second home.

86 holiday cheer across

the state

From the mountains to the coast, there’s a plethora of holiday festivities across the state this season.

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a joint partnership

Duke Raleigh’s Total Joint Replacement Program seeks to involve patients in their care, thus better predicting and improving their post-op results.

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holiday gift guide

From $5 to $5000, with something for everyone on your list.

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contents NOVEMBER / DECEMBER

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departments 50 apps 58 bain’s beat 90 dr. roberts 92 talk of the town 94 calendar 96 wine review Midtown meets Downtown 98 getting around downtown 102 yuletide fun 106 the full measure of a woman 108 heritage park shopping spree turns ten 110 beauty 116 healthy you 128 midtown mingles

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giftmatters:

YOUR

SHOP LOCAL

By Illyse Lane

It’s here. The most wonderful time of the year.

It begins with the leaf piles that slowly grow on the side of our Midtown streets. It’s football, turkey, pumpkin pie and a Christmas parade. It becomes a glow of lights under the night sky. It’s the smell of pine mixed with freshly baked cookies and the anxious anticipation for all sorts of holiday festivities. It’s officially the season of giving, as we do our best to come up with the perfect gifts.

But let’s be honest. All that giving equates to a whole lot of spending.

Before you pull out your wallet this holiday season, consider where your feet are planted. If you like what you see when you drive around your neighborhood – the independently owned book store, the long established jeweler, the fashionable boutiques, the sporting goods store and the welcoming restaurants where everyone really does get to know your name – shop there. Because now, more than ever, your gift matters.

All Doll ars Are Not Created Equal We live in a city where nearly every need can be met within a few mile radius. Our streets are peppered with a mix of big box retailers and locally owned shops, all of which can get you what you want. So how do you decide where to shop? And does it really matter?

“Consider that for every dollar you spend locally, $.68 of that dollar will circulate back into your local economy, where for every dollar you spend at a national chain, only $.43 of that dollar will come back into the local economy,” says Jennifer Bradshaw, Executive Director of Shop Local Raleigh, whose mission is to promote and support locally-owned, independent businesses.

So for those of us who aren’t smarter

than a fifth grader, this means for every $100 you spend at a locally owned business, $68 of it will stay right here in the local community.

If we stop to think about how much we’ll be spending this holiday season, it’s easy to see the tremendous impact we can each have. “One case study found that if each household simply redirected just $100 of planned holiday spending from chain stores to locally owned merchants, the local economic impact would reach approximately $10 million,” says Bradshaw.

This becomes especially important when taking a look at holiday forecasts for consumer spending, which range from flat to modest increases. These predictions, combined with the fact that we are living in a time where many local businesses have struggled to keep their doors open, make a strong case for why

every dollar will make a difference this holiday season. If we want our city and its neighborhoods to maintain their unique characteristics, distinctive storefronts and overall, inviting ambiance, the time is right to shop locally.

So What Does Shop Local Really Mean?

For many of us, the shop local message began with the call to buy produce and meat from local farmers. Over the years, our community has embraced the momentum behind various Community Supported Agriculture (CSAs) groups and neighborhood farmer’s markets, making it both easy and delicious to support this initiative.

But this is only the tip of the iceberg.

Shop local also means frequenting the restaurants that are owned by the families

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“Shop Local”. It’s a buzz phrase we’ve gotten used to hearing But what does it really mean? And why is it even more important this holiday season? in our neighborhoods, keeping in mind that most of these businesses are purchasing the ingredients for their menus from these local farmers. It’s taking a look at our shopping and buying habits when it comes to clothing, office and school supplies, sneakers, furniture, tablecloths, paint, toys, books, linens and seasonal décor. It’s recognizing that when you make a purchase or hire someone to perform a service (think landscaping, plumbing, haircuts and your medical prescription), you are helping the trickledown effect of the economy.

If it’s hard to believe that your dollars can make a difference, realize that when you shop local, your support reaches beyond the business located in the shop. It extends to the architect who designed the building, the developer who built it, the electrician that installed

the lighting, the interior designer who decorated the shop, the accountant who keeps the books, and so on. It encompasses individuals who may be your neighbors, go to your church or whose kids go to school with your kids. It’s realizing that simply by spending our money in certain shops, we can contribute to the overall well-being of where we live.

“Shop local means supporting independently owned businesses. It means that you have that favorite place on the corner where you go to buy your tools, the little boutique that’s owned by your friend and the bakery where you can go to pick up your favorite cupcakes, as well as everything else in-between,” says Bradshaw.

It also means taking a look at our on-line habits. Sure, it can be hard to resist the allure of

a national retailer that guarantees our purchase delivery by the next morning with an extraordinary low price. But before we hit the “confirm purchase” button, consider that many of our independently owned, local businesses offer online shopping and many times, these retailers will be able to match the prices we find on-line while providing a level of customer service that your computer can’t possibly offer.

Merchants Who Care “When you shop locally, you have the opportunity to create relationships that cannot be matched, giving the shopper a personalized, enjoyable experience,” says Charlotte Harris, owner of Charlotte’s. With three locations and a 20-year storefront history, Harris has firsthand experience with the way the retail midtownmag.com | 27

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scene has changed. Yet her business continues to thrive as she now serves the next generation of her original customers.

She attributes her success to being able to customize her buying to her customer’s needs, enabling her to meet any request.

“It is gratifying to both the shopper and the owner to be able to provide a more personalized shopping approach,” says Harris.

“It’s a feel-good experience and your customer leaves happy, which is exactly what you want to happen.”

In addition to valuing the relationships they establish with their customers, our local retailers also find significant value in supporting each other, recognizing that at some level, success is in all of their best interests. “It’s easy to support each other when we believe in each other’s products and services,” says Ziggy Johnson, Executive Director of Ten Thousand Villages in Cameron Village. While known for supporting fair trade for artists and workers from around the globe, Ten Thousand Villages also has established partnerships in the Raleigh area, with one example being its relationship with Larry’s Beans, a locally based coffee roaster committed to only buying coffee beans directly from fair trade co-ops.

“Like Ten Thousand Villages, Larry’s Beans is also a supporter of fair trade and they happen to have a wonderful, fresh product that our customer love.” Whether it’s a special event at Ten Thousand Villages or Larry’s Beans has a need for baskets, the two businesses have a developed a productive partnership which, based on their close proximity, works extremely smoothly. It’s a natural synergy, and one that many local businesses strive for.

If you’re still not convinced that shopping local is the way to go, think about the businesses you’re most likely to ask for a donation for the school gala or the big nonprofit fundraiser. And then think about those who are more willing to give. Studies have shown that locally owned businesses contribute more to local charities and fundraisers than do their national counterparts.

“Our local retailers appreciate your support and are known for outstanding service, a love for the city they live in, and a true desire to give back to their local community,” says Bradshaw.

The Season of Change In this season of giving, even small changes can make a big difference. “If each household shifted their buying habits just ten percent a year, we know that billions of dollars would be circulated back into the local economy which impacts sustainability, job creation, and much more,” says Bradshaw. What an easy way to fuel the local economy and help preserve the unique character of Raleigh.

So how do you get started? In this busy shopping season, challenge yourself to find just one new local business a week that you haven’t visited before, whether it’s for a quick dinner out, getting your morning coffee, or purchasing light bulbs. Commit to shopping locally for all your holiday needs, even when you’re on-line, by visiting your local shops’ websites first. And if you need some guidance, Shop Local Raleigh can help. It’s created a list of locally owned, independent businesses where you can find all of the items you need for your holiday shopping – just visit its website at www.shoplocalraleigh.com. This includes items ranging from tape, wrapping paper, cards, and ornaments to the season’s hottest toys, gadgets and apparel.

So make the local choice this holiday season. And your neighborhood will thank you. For your gift really does matter.

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Give A Gift That Makes A Difference There’s no denying that there are people in need all over our world. Sometimes, the best place to start making a difference is right at home. Right here in Midtown we have many wonderful organizations that focus on helping families in need every day.

This time of year can be especially challenging as the temperature drops and the holiday season rolls in. Whether it’s volunteer hours, a monetary donation or an item for their list of needs, your gift can make a substantial difference.

Many organizations will be adopting families over Christmas to help make the holidays as special as yours, providing food, meals and toys for children. Here’s just a partial listing of some of the organizations that you can help: • Helping Hand Mission: www.helpinghandmission.org • InterAct: www.interactofwake.org • Inter-Faith Food Shuttle: www.foodshuttle.org • North Raleigh Ministries: www.northraleighministries.com • Raleigh Rescue Mission: www.raleighrescue.org • Triangle Family Services: www.tfsnc.org • Urban Ministries of Wake County: www.urbanmin.org • The Women’s Center: www.wcwc.org If four-legged beneficiaries are more your speed, consider: • Best Friends Pet Adoptions: www.bfpa.org • Second Chance Pet Adoptions: www.secondchancenc.org • SPCA of Wake County: www.spcawake.org

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The Christmas tree is the centerpiece of holiday decorating in most homes – adding a “little” sparkle to your tree will make it unforgettable…

PHOTOGRAPHY BY APRIL MANESS PHOTOGRAPHY

The excitement over the Christmas season reaches fever pitch as the last piece of candy is eaten from Halloween. This is the time of year when one holiday slips right into the next and the next. We asked local designers to share their secrets for The festive final tree inlook all creating a fun, for its glory - ornaments, almost everyicicles, partching of your home. ching and snow. Watch it glow!

1. After you’ve hung your favorite ornaments add, about 100 glass icicles to the tips of branches; this will add the perfect sparkle to your tree. 2. Don’t be afraid to collect unusual or sentimental ornaments. These touches will make the tree more personal to your family. 3. Consider adding glittered curly ting ting throughout the tree for another element of sparkle. 4. To add sparkle to your tree topper, consider adding glittered holiday stems. 5. For the final touch, toss faux snow all over the tree – it will naturally land in all the right places, giving a fresh winter look. Tree prepared by Brooke & Birdie Interior Design.

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Many families like “themed” trees – this gives family members a chance to show off their personal collections or hobbies. This one is perfect for the garden lover in your home…

1. Adding a decorative tree skirt is the finishing touch. Try to coordinate the skirt with the theme of the tree. 2. The tree topper is always important, but with a themed tree its often the centerpiece of the entire tree. (For the garden lover themed tree consider, Mark Roberts garden fairies). 3. Mixing non-traditional items with traditional ornaments will enhance your theme (like watering cans, bird house ornaments or flowers). 4. Consider the look and colors that fit your “theme”. This dragonfly ornament helps to add whimsy. 5. Add flocked or frosted branches for additional texture and interest to tree greenery. Tree prepared by Atlantic Avenue Orchid & Garden.

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A family room decorated in warm accents of stone and copper gets a beautiful transformation for fall with a mix of pottery, candles and autumnal organic elements...

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1. Adding a touch of the unexpected makes any holiday memorable. Tulips in November? Tulips are usually associated with spring, but are now plentiful in fall as well, emerging on the flower scene again around mid-October. 2. The hearth of the matter! For your mantle consider layering, it will create interest and dimension. Mix unique pumpkins and gourds paired with seasonal foliage. (Magnolia and Nandina foliages will survive for days without a water source and naturally dry with a lovely patina). 3. A simple grouping of “baby” hydrangea in serene green is the perfect counterpoint to the rich earthiness of the pottery. 4. Candles in a mélange of autumn fragrances add warm glow and fragrance to this grouping. 5. You can also add books and pottery to create the overall look. Mantle prepared by The English Garden.

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decorating Like any first impression, your home’s entry is your first chance to wow guests and to offer hints at what can be expected inside. This entry evokes the spirit of Colonial Williamsburg’s Della Robbia-inspired holiday arrangements...

1. To create this look, consider featuring a pineapple – it’s the symbol for welcome and hospitality in Colonial Williamsburg. 2. This type of wreath looks great on any front door; incorporating fresh or artificial fruit and greenery enhances the Williamsburg-inspired look. 3. This style wreath is versatile and can be used beyond Thanksgiving. For a more festive look going into the Christmas season, consider adding a swag. 4. Echoing details is a great trick, regardless of the theme of your wreath. Pomegranate and leaf details in the ribbon echo the fruits and leaves in the Williamsburg look. 5. Fresh or artificial fruit and greenery can be used in the arrangement. Doorway prepared by Homewood Nursery & Garden Center

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Don’t wait for a large dinner party to celebrate with a beautiful holiday table. Make the holidays special with a romantic dinner for two, never leaving home...

1. Alter the look and feel of your china by simply changing the table linens. For a subtle look use solid linens, or for a bolder look try linens like the ones seen here.

2. For your centerpiece, think outside the box and use something other than flowers!

Items varying in height add dimension, and these details set the stage for an exceptional dining experience. 3. Don’t miss out on one of the greatest joys of collecting. Mix your older crystal patterns with new pieces to create a unique look. This table uses a classic Waterford pattern and ruby colored William Yeoward. 4. Create a less formal table by using pewter. Matching pewter, is a great option to create a more relaxed, traditional table or add a modern feel to any setting. 5. Personalize your table with your favorite antique pieces like this silver rose bowl filled with white and red “snowballs” of carnations. Table prepared by Quintessentials.

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If you are weary from the same traditional holiday table, consider this pleasing combination of natural textures, soothing neutral colors and glistening silver hints.

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1. Consider adding a decorative touch to each chair, like these beautiful toneon-tone crème stockings that add a rich and modern touch. 2. Consider organic decorative spheres for a centerpiece – the combination of interesting textures and colors from nature provides a twist on the traditional holiday orb. 3. Adding decorative touches to each place setting (hand-crafted polar bear and metal pine cone ornaments) enhances the festive look of the table. 4. Which is more captivating, this fabulous Twist Flute or the bubbling beverage inside? The smooth metal contours will charm your fingers as the delicate crystal rim channels bubbles to tickle your fancy. 5. To add a touch more beauty to your centerpiece, try this chrome candelabra, either individually or with several looped together to create a cluster! Simply beautiful! Table prepared by BeyondBlue Interiors.

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chef mario

recipes chef mario copy darcy brennan-huante Photography april maness photography

Get Ready for the Showdown Hyped-Up Holiday Hors d’oevres that Will Leave them Begging for More!

The season is here and the pressure is on! For a lot of us, this may be the one time of the year we really roll up our sleeves and spend extra time in the kitchen cooking our little hearts out to make an impression we hope will last until next year! Some of us have our flour-crusted cookbooks bookmarked to family favorites and some of us venture onto new turf, but it’s safe to say that our kitchens see a lot more of us in the last 45 days of the calendar year than probably at any other time.

We also seem to be required to bring food to more events this time of year-between the parties, school events, clubs and work socials, that’s a lot of face time for our crazed culinary creations. The key to making your creations memorable and enviable is simplicity, it’s adding that unique touch that creates your “wow factor”. It can be your plating, garnishing

or just a fantastic flavor balance, but presentation of any item is absolutely key. People eat with their eyes first – so even if that warm brown chunky custard dish is divine, but looks like something else, it will probably be packed up and returned to you as “leftovers” at the end of the night. Garnish appropriately by adding unexpected pops of color and texture. Just like any outfit, your garnish type and colors should complement your dish. If red and green are your colors this season, think green bushy kale (washing kale in lukewarm water, Dawn dish soap and rinsed thoroughly will make it stay vibrant green) and a few grape tomatoes or red pepper shreds. For a winter wonderland scene, Daikon radish, blueberries and silver dragees (those little edible silver balls you see on cakes) are great accents.

Happy Holidays!

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ham, cheese and apple toasters With marmalade mustard Makes about 24 pieces

the filling from above. slice scallions thinly and on a bias. place 2 scallion slices on each cucumber cup and then top with diced peppers.

Marmalade Mustard 1 cup orange marmalade 1/4 cup Dijon mustard 1/4 cup whole grain mustard

cous cous & feta caKes With mango chutney Makes 24 small cakes or 12 large cakes

Mix marmalade, Dijon and whole grain mustard together, then set aside. toasters 1 baguette (check the bakery section of your grocery store) 1/2 stick of butter, melted salt and pepper 1 pound of ham, sliced 1-2 granny smith or Fuji apples, sliced 10 oz chunk sharp cheddar, sliced slice baguette into 1/2 inch thick slices and place in a large bowl. Drizzle melted butter over baguette slices and toss so that the slices are coated with butter. season with salt and pepper. Lay out slices on a foil-lined sheet pan in a single layer. toast in a 350 degree oven for about 10 minutes or until toast is golden.

Drizzle each baguette slice with some of the Marmalade Mustard. Divide up ham, cheese and apples according to how many toaster slices you have and top each accordingly. Bake in oven for 8-10 minutes or until cheese is melted. serve with more Marmalade Mustard on the side. shrimp stuffed cucumber cups Makes 24-36 cups 2-3 english cucumbers (*seedless english cucumbers are the best for cups because of the uniform size) 1 lb cooked shrimp, diced small 1/2 cup sour cream 2 tbsp mayonnaise 2 tbsp prepared horseradish (a little more or a little less according to your liking) 1 tbsp lemon juice 1 tsp Worcestershire sauce Dash of hot sauce salt and pepper to taste red peppers, diced scallions peel cucumbers lengthwise to create stripes. trim the ends and then slice cucumbers into 3/4 inch pieces. Use a melon baller to scoop out the center to make cups (a small spoon works if you don’t have a melon baller). in a bowl, mix together shrimp, sour cream, mayonnaise, horseradish, lemon juice, Worcestershire sauce, hot sauce, salt and pepper.

Lay out cucumber cups and fill each with

1 tbsp olive oil 1 cup finely diced colored peppers (yellow, red and green) 1/2 cup red onion, finely diced 2 tsp garlic, minced 1 cup cous cous 1 1/4 cup hot chicken broth or water 1 cup feta cheese, crumbled 3 eggs, beaten 1/2 cup all-purpose flour salt and pepper to taste oil (for searing cakes) in a small sauce pan heat water or chicken broth. add olive oil in a medium-sized hot pan over medium heat. When hot, add peppers, onions and garlic. sauté for about 2 minutes until vegetable start to soften. add the cous cous and mix, then add the hot liquid (again, chicken broth or water) to the cous cous and veggies and cover for 5 minutes. Fluff with a fork and fold in the feta cheese and beaten eggs. Mix well and fold in the flour as well.

Let cool.

Form mixture into desired sized balls and then flatten into cakes. heat a couple tablespoons of oil in a sauté pan and sear the cous cous cakes (in batches) on both sides until golden. serve with Mango chutney.

mini muffulatta sandWiches Makes about 24 mini sandwiches 1 cup spicy olives (or a mixture of your favorite olives) – get olives from an olive bar from your local supermarket (one that has vegetables as well as peppers and olives) 1/4 cup capers 2 cloves garlic, minced 2 tbsp fresh thyme, chopped 2-3 tbsp olive oil 1 large crusty baguette 3/4 lb italian cold cuts: we suggest a mix of genoa salami, sopressata, capicola and/or ham 3-4 slices provolone cheese 1-2 tomatoes, sliced (depends on size) Leafy green lettuce green olives with pimento for picks (you’ll need toothpicks) place olives, capers, garlic, thyme and oil in a food processor and mix until the mixture is thoroughly chopped and spreadable. Use more oil if necessary to get things flowing in the processor. cut baguette in half lengthwise. spoon olive mixture on both sides. on one side, pile cold cuts, then add the cheese, tomato and lettuce. place toothpicks along center of baguette top (about 24) and then slice baguette into sandwiches. top each pick with an olive and garnish the platter with green kale for a beautiful, eye popping presentation!

Mango chutney Makes about 3 cups 2 tbsp olive oil 2 tbsp fresh ginger, minced 1 tbsp garlic, minced 1 tsp chili flakes 1 1/2 tbsp curry powder 2 diced bell peppers (one red, one yellow) 1 medium onion, diced 1 large, ripe mango, diced 1/4 cup brown sugar 1/4 cup honey 1/2 cup cider vinegar add olive oil in a sauce pan over medium heat. When hot, add ginger, garlic and chili flakes. cook for about 1 minute and then add the curry powder. cook for another minute while stirring, then add peppers and onions and cook for another 3 or 4 minutes until the vegetables start to soften and let out their flavors. add the mango, brown sugar, honey and vinegar. simmer until liquid becomes thick, about 10-20 minutes. Let cool. can be store in the fridge for up to a month!

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By Illyse Lane

I was a blogger. A mommy blogger, to be specific...

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Before you roll your eyes and assume I wrote pages and pages about what my kids ate for dinner; before you roll your eyes yet again and wonder who other than doting grandparents would even care; you need to understand. I blogged because there were thoughts, stories and opinions I felt compelled to share. And apparently, I’m not the only one.

Blog search engine Technorati has indexed over 133 million blogs since 2002. Which made us wonder. With an abundance of ongoing, on-line narratives being posted daily, what makes one blog more successful than another? How do some gain faithful followers while others fall by the wayside?

To get answers, we asked two personal bloggers – two young women with less than a decade between them and their college diplomas – to share how their blogs developed and ultimately served as springboards into new, expanded career opportunities.

We learned while there’s no magic equation, many core principals of traditional business such as commitment, networking, marketing, and the ability to evolve also apply in this non-traditional setting.

Yes, I jumped on the bandwagon and poured my heart and soul into a weekly blog. In return for my disclosures, my blog paid me back by connecting me to a whole community. Mostly women. But also a few good men. People that read to laugh, cry, debate, relate and yes, sometimes, roll their eyes. But herein lies the beauty of the blog. I wrote, people out in the blogosphere actually read what I had to say. Even cared enough to occasionally comment.

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Blogger Caitlin Boyle of HealthyTippingPoint.com and OperationalBeautiful.com is one of the many bloggers who have found success both in and beyond the blogosphere.

Commitment to Community But to be successful at blogging – I’m not talking about making a living off of your blog, but simply gaining and holding onto an audience of readers – takes a lot of hard work and passion. “You need to be diligent about your postings, have a set schedule for updates, and more importantly, be a strong voice, commenter and supporter of the blogging community,” says Boyle. It’s a community that Boyle and many other bloggers have flourished in.

If you’ve been skeptical about the potential reach a popular blog can have not only in the blogosphere but also in traditional media, consider that HealthyTippingPoint.com has an estimated 800,000 visits per month. OperationBeautiful.com has led to appearances on The Today Show, an upcoming segment on the soon to be launched Oprah Winfrey Network and a recently released book. And just this month, Boyle and five of her healthy living blogger friends took center stage in a Marie Claire magazine feature that pondered whether or not these highly followed bloggers were adding fuel to the fire in the average women’s battle with body image and eating disorders – an interesting claim when you consider that Boyle defines herself as a blogger who shares her own personal passion for healthy eating and exercise, never claiming to have credentials, hold degrees or intend on making recommendations to her readers. If anything, this type of publicity in such a well-known women’s magazine speaks to the influence that blogs can have and validates that the voices behind the blogs are being heard.

Finding Your Voice While I initially felt that blogging passion Boyle refers to, after two years I threw in the towel, thinking it was time to take a break. Looking back, I may not have completely understood that a blogger doesn’t have to stop writing once her topic loses its spark.

Instead, she should be able to evolve.

For bloggers that allow their blog voice to mature as life changes, blogging holds an almost addictive allure and a sense of obligation to your readers. “It doesn’t matter if it’s two or 200,000 people reading your blog. If you feel compelled to share, just knowing that one person is reading is motivation,” says Boyle, who began blogging in June 2008 as a way to take a mental break from a job she didn’t love.

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fitness routines, vegetarian recipes and race experiences (she’s an avid runner), accented with a nice dose of photography. It was a formula that worked, and Boyle gained an almost instantaneous following from the many bloggers she had connected with. “What people may not understand is that real relationships are made through on-line communities and they are not any less valuable than other types of relationships,” says Boyle.

Easier Said than Done Nearly two and half years after that first post, Boyle has achieved some enviable, blog success. In addition to the popularity of HealthyTippingPoint.com, one post about her trying to do something positive when struggling with a poor self image day – she stuck a “you are beautiful” note on the mirror of her local community college bathroom to brighten another woman’s day, photographed it, posted it to her blog and then, challenged her readers to do the same – resulted in the nearly overnight viral sensation of what she named Operation Beautiful. Within months, a media storm ensued, including a book deal. She quit her full-time job last year.

Boyle acknowledges how the fast-paced, connected world of social media has been instrumental in the explosion of both of her blogs, making success look easy, a notion she quickly dispels when asked by fellow bloggers if there is a get-noticed-quick formula out there.

“Operation Beautiful gets a lot of media attention and it’s a concept that has transferred very well to traditional media. But it’s also a natural extension of Healthy Tipping Point, which is the site I’ve worked diligently on, updating it two, sometimes three times a day,” she says.

She also attributes her popularity to a series of good coincidences and dedicated readers and stresses that there are many high-quality

Walking into design blogger Jamie Meare’s downtown Raleigh shop, Furbish Studio, is like walking into her ISuwannee.com blog, and faithful readers will not be surprised to find her standard schnauzer Rowdy hanging out for the day.

content blogs that have led to tremendous opportunities for the bloggers behind them. Take local blogger and businesswoman Jamie Meares.

In this time when so many businesses have closed their doors, Meares is celebrating the one-year anniversary of Furbish Studio, a home furnishing and interior decorating shop in downtown Raleigh.

She also is three months into the launch of the on-line Furbish shop, with people from all around the country taking advantage of her stylish finds. The secret of her success? “I attribute all my busi-

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ness to my blog,” says Meares.

That blog is ISuwannee.com, a blog she started in January 2007 as a way to journal and share ideas that inspired her. And never has a blog been more aptly named. “I Suwannee” is an old Southern saying meaning ‘I swear, you won’t believe what happened’ and it’s an expression Meares finds herself saying quite often these days as she blogs away, while managing her brick and mortar store and her growing design business.

But like Boyle, a lot of effort was required to get to this point.

“Your first year, no one will know you are out there unless you put yourself out there. So you constantly update your blog, read and comment on other blogs and become an active part of the community,” says Meares.

Her Ah-Ha Moment As ISuwannee.com evolved, the now defunct magazine, Domino, whose demise was heartbreaking for many of its readers, inspired much of Meares’s musings. “Domino was groundbreaking, showcasing attainable, trendy décor. I’d get heart palpitations when it arrived in my mailbox,” says Meares. She found her niche with short, sweet posts and lots of photography in an uncluttered format. Meares’s followers responded and before she knew it, they were interested in buying some of the furnishing finds that she’d post on her blog.

“I had this captive audience that had already decided they liked me, making it easy to sell products,” says Meares. Her blog caught the attention of a NY Times writer and on February 4th, 2009, Meares took center stage in a feature story profiling devotees of

Domino. ‘I had about 10,000 visits a month, but that day, the numbers were out of control,” Meares says. It was around that time that her readers requested her decorating help, and her e-decorating business was born. Meares realized that she was onto something.

As fate would have it, she would have the chance to figure out just what that something was. A few months after the NY Times story, Meares lost her job. “I knew I needed to be looking for a job, yet my readers kept asking for help,” remembers Meares. Instead, she blogged and did design work full-time, landing her first inperson client. With that experience came the confidence to have a physical location. Furbish was born, which, upon walking through her door, feels exactly as if you were walking into her blog.

True to Your Core Now, a year later, even with mentions in House Beautiful and Elle Décor, ISuwannee.com is still a fundamental part of Meares’ business, getting about 125,000 unique visitors a month. “Because of my blog, I had an audience that was willing to support me before I even had the business ideas,” says Meares.

Boyle feels a similar sense of commitment to HealthyTipping Points.com. While she’s proud and dedicated to OperationBeautiful.com, she also realizes that the media attention to that site could easily be a distraction to the original blog that made her successful.

“With any blog, establish your core purpose as a blogger and stay true to it, no matter what comes your way,” she says.

And most importantly, just like with any business, stay true to yourself.

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While personal blogs are all the rage, both established and growing businesses use blogs to connect with customers, giving a more personal feel to the products and services they offer.

Take Gena Chandler. The successful clothing boutique added a blog (www.genachandler. blogspot.com) in 2009 as a way to “talk” with its customers, many who aren’t located in the area. “Customers were asking about new arrivals and seasonal trends,” says co-owner Gena Faigenbaum Combs. “They were curious about our new favorite restaurants or hotspots we found on buying trips to New York or Los Angeles.”

With that, the blog was born. It’s updated weekly and gives readers a taste of what Combs and co-owner Chandler Woodall are thinking about. The latest concept is the “GC Weekly Obsession” where they feature a designer’s story along with one of their new products.

“We’ve found that many of our readers love hearing the background story of their favorite designers,” says Woodall.

Often times, photos of new arrivals posted on the blog result in immediate customer calls or on-line orders, showing the true power of the blog. And Combs and Woodall couldn’t be happier. “The blog is a great way to connect to our customers near and far and helps us give them the complete Gena Chandler experience. Even if you can’t come and physically see for yourself, you still feel connected to us,” they say.

The new owner of Quintessentials, Kristen Anderson also sees the value of the blog. Anderson is reaching out to showcase Quintessentials’ collection of china and other essentials for bridal and gift registries and explain how they can be used to keep up with today’s trend of entertaining at home.

The store’s new website (www.shopquintessentials.com), has a blog link where readers can have the complete tabletop experience, while sharing recipes and entertaining tips. “My family and I have always been passionate about entertaining. The blog is a way for us to encourage people to get out their old china and not be afraid to use it,” says Anderson.

She hopes to show followers how to use tabletop necessities and accessories, such as flatware, linens, placecard holders and candles at all price points, making it easy for them to feel confident in pulling their tables together. “While we carry great books from Carolyn Roehme and Barefoot Contessa, they don’t provide you with any interaction and they’re not specific to our local area. Our blog will hopefully make you feel as though you’ve opened a tabletop book that connects you to your own home,” says Anderson.

Blogging For Business

Do You Fit Into The...

Blogosphere?

Take a look at these recent statistics from The State of the Blogosphere by Techorati via the Search Engine Journal:

• Believe it or not, 2/3 of bloggers are male and 60% between the ages of 18-44… but is it just a coincidence that Caitlin Boyle, Jamie Meares, Gena Faigenbaum Combs, Chandler Woodall and Kristen Anderson are 30 and under?

• 75% have college degrees • More than half are married

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It’s the App, Appiest Time of the Year This holiday season, your smartphone may be worth its weight in gold, frankincense or myrrh when you use it to access these fun, helpful apps.

By jenni hart

ShopSavvy For the low, low price of free, you can download the ShopSavvy app and use it to photograph barcodes and compare prices on items in your area. I can see this saving time as well as money, both precious commodities around holiday time.

compareme For $1.99, this app enables the user to perform true apples-to-apples comparisons. It is, after all, for iPhones, so apples would be the appropriate comparison to make. Ever wonder if you’re paying too much for the six-tube pack of toothpaste sold at the big members-only shopping club? CompareMe lets you enter the data and figure out a per-unit price to see if you’re really getting a good buy.

Match & Learn – Holiday and Christmas Edition Keep little hands busy during long road trips or lines to see Santa this Christmas with two apps that are sure to charm and entertain. Match & Learn – Holiday and Christmas Edition, is a $.99 babysitter and tutor all rolled into one! The matching games are great memory builders, and language options let you toggle between English and Spanish answers. When you play the animal matching game, a right answer prompts a corresponding animal sound. Parents rate this one off the charts.

eternal fire Well, it’s free, and if you’re too young to play with matches, this may be the best way to enjoy a roaring fire this holiday season. This app displays a beautiful fire, complete with the soothing crackles and pops of the real thing, but this has to be sad news for chestnuts everywhere.

cardstar Liberate your handbag or keychain by loading all your discount loyalty and rewards cards onto the $.99 CardStar.

Once loaded, simply pull up the barcode and the retailer can scan it right from your smartphone.

Christmas Countdown w/Music Described as a feel-good app by one user, this free download plays Christmas music, either pre-loaded or your own, and counts down the days until Christmas. Displaying a colorful tree or Santa, this app allows you to shake or tap the device to see the tree light up or hear Santa say, “Ho, ho, ho”. Cute!

Santa’s Village At $1.99, Santa’s Village includes classic games like Tic-Tac-Toe, Checkers, Hangman and Minesweeper – all with a holiday twist. To make learning fun, little ones can play Snowman Math, and on the Night Before Christmas, Santa will need help putting the continents in order to make sure all the children receive their presents.

shopper Consistently rated one of the most useful, feature-rich apps, and the best of all shopping apps, Shopper does everything from tracking multiple lists, coupons and promotions to recording aisle layouts and pricing for all the stores you visit. Priced at $.99, Shopper also offers RedLaser barcode scanning for comparison shopping and can calculate tax rates to give you the true cost of what you’re about to buy. christmas lifecards Select a template from dozens of colorful choices, upload your own photos and customize holiday cards that can be shared through e-mail, Facebook, Flickr and Twitter. Photos can be scaled and rotated within the application, and font options, size and color can be fully customized. Another $.99 bargain.

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the number of iPhone users in the United States (millions).

AS OF SEPTEMBER 1, 2010 There are 250,000+ available apps.

There has been 6,500,000,000+ downloads of apps.

did you know?

There are currently over 50 million iPhones and iPod Touch units in use today.

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BY JENNI HART

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Don’t Get Shot at the Mall Vinegar Pie (like pecan pie, only better) 1 1 1 4 2 2 1

stick butter cup sugar cup pecans, finely chopped tsp white vinegar tsp vanilla eggs pie crust

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Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Stir melted butter, sugar, eggs, vinegar and vanilla together. Pour into unbaked pie crust.

Sprinkle pecans on top. Bake for 45 minutes. Let cool. ~ Contributed by Peyton Hatfield

As another holiday season beckons, it’s time to track down those favorite family recipes. If you’re like a lot of people, some of those recipes only see the light of day during the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays. To me, that’s what makes them special.

Raleigh mom Peyton Hatfield was lucky enough to grow up with a mother who performed nothing less than magic when it came to Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. “My mother was a middle school teacher, and with three kids, she still made dinner almost every night,” Peyton remembers. “And for holidays, she made everything from scratch – and all by herself.”

Peyton recalls being asked by her mother to whip the cream as the extended family of 16 neared the end of one Thanksgiving feast. “I think I was about 35 at the time,” she says, “and as far back as I can remember, these wonderful, elaborate meals had just miraculously

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Holiday Sweet Potatoes 2 eggs, beaten 2 30 oz cans sweet potatoes, drained 3-4 tsp cinnamon, to taste 1/3 cup sugar 2 Tbsp melted butter 1/2 cup milk 1-2 tsp nutmeg, to taste Topping: 1/2 cup butter, melted 4 Tbsp all purpose flour 1 cup brown sugar 1 cup pecans, chopped Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Combine first 7 ingredients; beat (or stir) until well mixed. Place in 9x13 inch pan. For topping: mix together all of the topping ingredients and spread evenly on top of sweet potato mixture. Bake 50 minutes.

Serve hot. Serves 12. ~ Contributed by Peyton Hatfield

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Jezebel Sauce Contributed by Lori Kutner, An appetizer favorite from Grandma English 15 oz. pineapple preserves 15 oz. apple jelly 5 oz. horseradish 1 Tbsp dry mustard Mix thoroughly and pour over an 8 oz. block of cream cheese.

Serve with Ritz crackers.

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appeared on the table. Well, as I went into the kitchen to whip the cream, I looked around and there were pots and pans everywhere, flour on the floor, gravy spilled on the floor. It honestly looked like a bomb had gone off in there. I think that was when it finally hit me what a tremendous effort had gone into preparing these big family meals.”

There’s only one thing better than a great family recipe, and that’s one that comes with a story. “Don’t Get Shot at the Mall Vinegar Pie” is just such a recipe.

Years ago, right before Christmas, Peyton’s family was in Tuscaloosa, Alabama, for their traditional family gathering. Her sister and brother-in-law had gone to the local mall for some last-minute shopping, leaving the rest of the family behind to watch football. “All of a sudden there was breaking news on TV that there had been a shooting at the mall,” she says. “We all panicked, knowing that Paige and Greg were there, but not long after that they came running in the door and they told us all about the evacuation and everything they had been through,” she says. Thankfully, no one was hurt, but Peyton’s sister and her husband

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Stuffed Acorn Squash comforted themselves after their ordeal by gobbling up big pieces of what had previously been called just vinegar pie. “From that point on, of course we called it ‘Don’t Get Shot at the Mall Vinegar Pie’. Doesn’t it sound so much more appetizing?” she laughs.

Our other recipe contributor, Raleigh resident Lori Kutner, attended culinary school and loves to try new recipes. But she often relies on tried-and-true family favorites from a spiral-bound cookbook put together years ago by her grandmother and given as a Christmas gift to her children and grandchildren. As I thumbed through this charming, homespun collection of recipes, I realized that with two different recipes for pralines, three variations of coconut pie, and ten recipes for various icings, this was a cookbook like no other. Lori says the book is used by all the cousins and aunts and the dishes are taste-tested and discussed at family gatherings.

So get out your apron and dust off those cookbooks to make sure your family’s favorite dishes make it to the table this holiday season. And don’t be afraid to incorporate some new offerings into the menu - we have a few for you to try.

Contributed by Lori Kutner, from Grandma English 2 acorn squash 2 Tbsp butter 1 onion, chopped 2 or 3 apples, diced 1 carrot, shredded 1 Tbsp honey 1/2 tsp cinnamon 2 Tbsp toasted almonds, chopped Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Halve and seed squash. Bake upside-down in 1/2 inch of water until tender, a half hour or more.

Melt butter in large skillet and sauté onion, apple and carrot with honey and cinnamon.

Fill center of squash. Bake at 400 degrees for 15 minutes. Top with toasted almonds.

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Cheese Biscuits Contributed by Lori Kutner, from Grandma English 1 lb. sharp cheddar cheese, grated 1 lb. margarine, softened 1 1/2 tsp paprika 3/4 tsp cayenne pepper 4 cups unsifted self-rising flour Pecan halves Grease 2 baking sheets. Combine cheese, margarine, paprika and cayenne. Beat at medium speed.

Gradually add flour, beating until well-mixed. If dough seems too soft, chill for half an hour. Turn out on lightly floured surface, roll to 1/4 inch thickness. Cut with biscuit cutter and place on baking sheet 1 inch apart. Press pecan half in the top of each biscuit. Bake at 325 degrees for 10 to 12 minutes.

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bain’s beat

Stop-Emotion Animation

BY DAN BAIN

I

’m writing this at the end of September, which means most stores just removed half of their Halloween supplies in order to make room for their Christmas displays.

These include the usual line-up of Christmas DVDs, with the old Rankin-Bass specials at the top of the rack. Remember those? They specialized in 3D stop-motion animation – the CGI of its day. They’re rudimentary by today’s standards, but that doesn’t bother me nearly as much as the ugly themes they portray: cruelty, hatred, abuse – even murder, wrapped up in pretty Christmas packaging.

Consider “Nestor the Long-Eared Christmas Donkey,” which is basically a mash-up of Dumbo, Bambi and the New Testament. Nestor, who would eventually carry Mary and Joseph to Bethlehem, is tormented as a foal. Not only does he have to listen to Roger Miller sing his theme song, he’s also abused by his keeper – first starved, then literally thrown out into a blizzard. His mother keeps him warm that night

by lying down on top of him, but freezes to death in the process. Then there’s “The Little Drummer Boy,” whose titular hero becomes a wandering, orphaned misanthrope after bandits stab his father and burn down his homestead with his mother inside – while he watches. Merry Christmas, kiddies!

Then there are the no-hold-barred, secular tales. In these, the problems start at the top, with Santa’s worst behavior evident in “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer.” He’s cranky, rude and downright hateful. During elf practice, he checks his watch and says, “Well, let’s get this over with” before fidgeting and refusing to make eye contact throughout the elves’ heartfelt song. His only comment afterward is, “Hmmm. Well, it needs work. I have to go.”

Is this really the behavior of a right jolly old elf? No wonder Mrs. Claus – who, for unknown reasons, talks like Mama Corleone – nags him incessantly.

Santa and his Head Elf condone bullying, creating the first recorded example of

a hostile workplace. Because Hermey wants to be a dentist, the Head Elf mocks him in front of the others, then denies him his rightful 10-minute break – something required by most labor laws. He lets the other elves leave but tells Hermey, “Finish the job or you’re fired.” After witnessing this egregious exchange, Sam the Narrator can only say, “Ah, well – such is the life of an elf.” Pretty cold attitude, even for a snowman.

Most of the bullying, however, is directed at Rudolph – to the point of hazing. If this story took place today, all of the other reindeer would doubtless be texting embarrassing pictures of his nose. His father actually tries to hide said beak, chiding him: “There are more important things than comfort – self-respect!” (Because knowing his parents are ashamed of his looks must do wonders for his self-respect.)

Inspecting his mask, Donner gloats, “Santa can’t object to you now” and we think, surely Santa wouldn’t object – he’s supposed to be nice, plus he doesn’t exactly

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conform to physical standards himself. And yet, as soon as the disguise fails, Santa starts in on Donner: “You should be ashamed of yourself! What a pity – he had a nice takeoff, too.” (Again, hostile workplace – Rudolph’s talent is secondary to his appearance, as if he were a stewardess or news anchor.)

So Rudolph runs away, traveling with Hermey and Yukon Cornelius until the Bumble chases them. (Apparently, even monsters hate his glowing schnoz.) After discovering the Island of Misfit Toys, Rudolph leaves alone to protect his friends from his snout’s dangerous influence, eventually returning to Christmas Town to find his parents missing. And what does Santa do? He lays on the guilt: “They’ve been gone for months, out looking for you.” Ouch!

Santa’s callousness is never more evident than when he continues, “I’m very worried…without your father, I’ll never be able to get my sleigh off the ground.” He’s not the least bit worried about Donner! All that matters to Santa is Santa – he doesn’t even warm up to Rudolph until he realizes he has something Santa needs. The poor deer is merely the means to an end.

Even during the final scene, apathy abounds. Santa can’t be bothered with stopping to deliver toys; instead, an elf tosses them overboard, using umbrellas to break their fall. All save one; the toy bird is dropped without an umbrella. You’d think a bird would be okay with going airborn, but remember – it’s a misfit toy. This bird could only swim, so Santa has just doomed him to plummet to his death. With that, misfit bird sleeps with the fishes…

Santa is a far cry from Kris, the sweet child raised by Kringles in “Santa Claus Is Comin’ to Town.” But the adult Kris is questionable. During his first trip into Sombertown to deliver toys, he woos the town’s children in song: “If you sit on my lap today, a kiss a toy is the price you’ll pay.” Is it just me, or are those lyrics off-the-scale creepy?

But his intentions are noble, to the point of going fugitive to deliver toys outlawed by Burgermeister Meisterburger, the local meanie.

As rebels, Kris and his betrothed, Jessica, aren’t allowed the luxury of a church wedding. Instead, they hold an outdoor ceremony on Christmas Eve in a wonderful gesture that he manages to screw up later in his career. Once toy demand becomes too great to manage, Kris is forced to schedule a single annual delivery run. He chooses Christmas Eve as “the holiest night of the year,” but that’s pretty transparent. The dude has to work only once a year and has the luxury of picking which night, so he goes with his anniversary. He’s effectively ensured he’ll never have to buy flowers or take Jessica to dinner! (Of course, he’s also ensured that he won’t be getting any cookies or touching any stockings at his last stop of the night.)

The selfish pattern continues in “The Year Without a Santa Claus,” when the old guy feels ill and decides to cancel Christmas.

A slight cold and he can’t tough it out for one stinkin’ night? Instead, millions of children will suffer. Man up, Santa – you have 364 days of leisurely management duties to blow off in the name of sleeping in; you can work through the fever on the only night that counts.

But I should stop with the smear campaign. I know they’re only cartoons. Still, if they’re true, I don’t want to end up on Santa’s bad side. I might wake up Christmas morning to find a bloody reindeer head in my bed....

Editor’s Note: Give the gift of laughter this year; order Dan’s book, A Nay for Effort, at www.danbain.net and have a happy holiday!

Dan Bain, Christmas critic mail@danbain.net

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Diverse Demand Gives Rise to...

By dan bain

Would you rather shop in a big store that sells numerous products or a smaller store that specializes in one product or category? There’s no right answer. In fact, chances are good your answer will change based on your needs at the time. It’s great to have variety, but sometimes a consumer wants something more specific.

That’s when it might be better to look for a specialty store – typically a smaller store offering a narrow category of merchandise, augmented by knowledgeable staff and deep supply. Four nearby merchants exemplify such specificity and depth.

The Cupcake Shoppe, on Glenwood Avenue

downtown, serves 14 daily flavors of gourmet, scratch-made cupcakes and several other baked goods. Midtown Olive Press, in The Lassiter at North Hills, carries more than 30 different types of olive oil from around the globe and more than 25 varieties of balsamic vinegars. Tin Roof Teas (formerly TeaGschwendner), in Cameron Village,

sells more than 250 varieties of high-quality tea. And Savory Spice Shop in Lafayette Village offers more than 400 fresh-ground herbs and spices and 140 hand-blended seasonings.

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Tin Roof Teas (formerly TeaGschwendner) offers more than 250 high-quality teas, such as those shown in loose leaf form to the left.

Those numbers illustrate product depth, but in each case, the products align under one or two categories. With the onslaught of such specialty stores comes a natural curiosity – is niche retail a sustainable business? The owners of the four aforementioned businesses believe so, and they’re not alone. Specialty Retail Expert Patricia Norins, author of Ultimate Guide to Specialty Retail, wrote in 2007, “…it’s a trend that’s growing. The reason is based on what successful cart and kiosk retailers have already discovered. In order to compete in today’s retail marketplace you have to sell something that can’t be found at the mass merchandise stores. In many ways the more unique the product, the more successful you will be.”

Finding a unique product The first question, then, is how to find such a product. One way is to consider one’s own hobbies; such was the case with Sara Coleman before she opened The Cupcake Shoppe. “I always baked on the side; I had an aunt who was a seasoned baker and I learned from her, but initially it was just a hobby,” she remembers. “After seven years of growing in the corporate world, I decided I wanted to do something more creative. I was visiting New York City and wandered into a cake shop – I thought, ‘This is something I can do!’”

Another way to discover a niche product is to observe other people’s activities. Richard Hinson, co-owner of Tin Roof Teas, took his inspiration from his family. “My brother and my mother had really gotten into drinking premium tea and were buying lots of specialty teas that you can’t find at grocery stores,” he explains. “I was getting out of an MBA program and looking for something interesting and fun; I wanted a new product in a growing industry. I started looking at tea industry growth and the industry was growing rapidly; tea is the second most consumed beverage in the world behind coffee, and the US market is doubling each year.”

Sometimes a niche product can be discovered as a result of one’s own passions. Having visited a Savory Spice Shop due to their love of fine cooking and dining, Bob and Cindy Jones decided to open a franchise in Raleigh. “We felt that the experience in the shop was as soul-satisfying as the flavor it brought to our palates and plates,” says Bob. Adds Cindy, “We wish to bring our passion for all things food-related.”

Other times, the discovery is sheer serendipity, as it was for Midtown Olive Press co-owner Bethany Perkins. While on vacation in Utah, she and her husband visited a relative for dinner, where the hostess seared chicken in a mixture of olive oil and white balsamic coconut-flavored vinegar. She also served bread with several dips, prompting Perkins to look for the product. “I saw the label on a bottle and found the store, then bought several bottles for me – because I like to cook and try to stay health-conscious – plus several as gifts. After I got back to the hotel, I told my husband, ‘There’s nothing like this in Raleigh and I think it would be a fit for an area that’s highly educated and has lots of people who like to experiment with gourmet cooking and lots of good restaurants.’ It seemed like a good fit.” midtownmag.com midtownmag.com| | xx 33

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(top) Savory Spice Shop offers more than 400 fresh ground herbs and spices and 140 hand-blended seasonings; (bottom) Sara Coleman makes some final touches on the day’s batch of cupcakes at The Cupcake Shoppe.

Selling the idea The next question after finding a niche product is how to sell it – not in the sense of retail sales, but in the sense of selling people on the idea of the product. The merchant believes the product is unique, but success depends on customers believing the same. What will bring customers out of the comfort and convenience of “big box” stores and send them into a specialty store? It should be not only a superior product, but superior customer service and knowledge of that product. “You’ll get more personal attention at a specialty store,” explains Hinson. “Our tea consultants know the product because they only have a few instead of hundreds where they can’t know them all well.”

Jones says she and her husband chose Savory Spice Shop as a way of capturing the experience of an old world shop – one where customer service is as much a specialty as the product. Sometimes good customer service means offering the portion size that the customer wants, says Jones. “At our shop you’ll have the ability to buy just a half ounce, which allows our customers to try recipes and then buy larger quantities after they experience success and want to make the recipe again,” she says.

“The Savory Spice Shop experience is relational with the opportunity to share, educate and develop sincere, long-standing customer service and a sense of family, bringing people together….”

Education is a key factor in customer service, Hinson agrees: “We’d rather spend time with our customers so that they get the right products for them and understand how to prepare each, than have them go home, do it wrong and think it’s the product.” To that end, Tin Roof Teas offers semi-monthly tea classes, teaching 12-15 customers about a category of tea and allowing them to enjoy and discuss six to seven varieties – sometimes paired with delectables from local bakeries. That education continues during normal operating hours at the shop’s “ritual wall”, where more than 200 tin bins sit waiting to be offered up to inquisitive customers to smell and inspect visually before they buy, and where each purchase is accompanied by precise instructions for optimal preparation.

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Product quality The most obvious differentiator should be the quality of the product itself. Hinson went to great effort to ensure the store would carry only the best teas available, relying on a premier supplier. “We researched the market and found TeaGschwendner, a tea merchant that had won World Tea Expo awards in multiple categories each year and their teas had placed in the top five in 25 categories,” he says. “They purchase all their teas directly from growers and are the only tea company to test all their products for pesticides and other residuals. We knew their tea quality was consistently high; now we just had to focus on truly running and marketing a business – not the product.” That has paid off, as the store sells as much as two to three kilos of certain teas each week.

Midtown Olive Press will also rely on the quality of its products, says Perkins, with taste and freshness being the key differentiators. With only two olive crushes conducted per year in the world – fall for the northern hemisphere, spring for the southern, Perkins says it’s easy for grocery stores to wind up with out-of-date oils on their shelves. “All of our olives are crushed or pressed within two hours of being picked,” she says, and they’re not stocked past the time of the next crush. “If they’re infused with something like blood oranges, the fruits will be pressed at the same time and act as preservative. All of them will be cold-pressed, which improves the quality and the healthy content.”

The staff offers suggested pairings and uses for each oil and vinegar in the store, and customers are welcome to try before they buy. Perkins says it’s an “experience type store” in that there’s an art to tasting olive oils, much like with wines. She tries to educate consumers on the health benefits of cooking with and serving high-quality olive oils, such as the polyphenol and oleic acid content. The taste, she believes, speaks for itself. “If they come in and taste these, they won’t want to go back to grocery-bought oils,” she promises. “The mills we buy from have high standards of production and you really can taste the difference.”

Benefits and challenges Taste is especially important to Coleman, and it makes all the difference in the world of confections. It’s also where specializing creates an advantage. “Because we’re not so diversified with coffees and sandwiches, we get to focus on a premium product,” she extols. “I’d put our confections up against anyone else’s.”

To get to such a point, she and the staff tend to experiment – tweaking family and new recipes and combining different cakes and toppings, then asking for feedback from willing tasters. This has led to seasonal gourmet creations such as pumpkin cake with maple buttercream, gingerbread with cream cheese icing, eggnog cake with rum buttercream and sweet potato cake with marshmallow icing. Regular menu items include equally unique combinations, such as moist chocolate cake with peanut butter buttercream, carrot cake with cinnamon cream cheese icing, dark chocolate cake with espresso buttercream and vanilla cake with lemon curd injection and lemon buttercream, just to name a few. “It goes back to doing one thing and doing it well,” Coleman says.

By the same token, focusing on fewer products can also present challenges to a retailer. “It’s a niche market,” Perkins says of her olive oils. “Some people won’t care and will always go to the grocery store to buy Crisco.”

Adds Coleman, “The biggest challenge we face is continuing to keep things new and fresh. We like to do one or two things and do them well, but it can be challenging at times to keep it exciting and new. The tendency sometimes when you do something different is for people to pass it off as a trend, but we want them to know it’s here to stay.” midtownmag.com| 63

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fore going for the gold

By hal burrows

Kelley Burrows’ excellent adventure began on a Friday afternoon this past July with a Governor’s Mansion reception for the 50 athletes headed for Lincloln, Nebraska the next day to represent North Carolina at the Special Olympics National Games. With more than 38,000 Special Olympians in the state, it is quite an honor to represent them and our state at the National Games. Kelley was one of four golfers in the group – two competed in 18-hole play while two (including Kelley) participated in the ‘skills’ competition comprised of putting, chipping, pitching, and shots with irons and drivers.

Soon after sunrise the next morning, Kelley and her friends became part of the largest peacetime airlift in the world as hundreds of Cessna Citation jet owners flew the athletes and their coaches to Lincoln from airports coast-to-coast.

The trip was a great thrill for the athletes, many of whom had never flown before, but many of the aircraft crew members

maintained (some with misty eyes) that it was an even greater thrill for them. The grand marshall for the airlift this year was Harrison Ford who ferried several athletes to and from the games in his Citation. The trip ended quite fittingly as the NC delegation’s bus was escorted into the city by several motorcycles driven by local residents.

Special Olympics National Games (and World Games next year in Athens, Greece) are very much like the Olympics we see on TV every four years in that there are thousands of athletes (3,000 this year in Lincoln), wonderful opening ceremonies, spirited competition in most of the same sports, great camaraderie with new and old friends, and inspiring closing ceremonies. One of the highlights of the opening ceremonies this year was Tim Shriver’s moving tribute to the memory of his mother, Eunice Kennedy Shriver, the founder of Special Olympics, who died last year.

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With the help of 1,500 coaches and 8,000 enthusiastic volunteers from the Lincoln area, and attended by two or three times that many parents, friends and fans, the games lasted from Monday morning through Friday afternoon. During that time, the athletes got to know each other not only as they competed but also as they lived together, socialized, shopped and traveled together, traded souvenirs, and the like. Kelley, competing with female golfers from all over the country, made her way to the top flight where she took second place and had a gorgeous silver medal hanging around her neck as she boarded the Cessna Citation for her trip home on Saturday. Her view of that result: “I was going for the gold, but maybe next time!�

Kelley also serves as one of Special Olympics Global Messengers; in that role, she makes presentations to groups such as civic clubs, scouts, churches, etc. to tell what Special Olympics means to her and her fellow athletes and to inform listeners about the many ways they can become involved as volunteers, fans and donors. To learn more, contact Special Olympics at 919.719.7662 or www.sonc.net. midtownmag.com midtownmag.com| | xx 33

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Holiday

FASHION photography By april maness photography

We all want to look fabulous at holiday parties, office events or family gatherings. Now is the time to shop for that holiday dress that will make you stand out and be remembered. When it comes to colors for the holiday dress, the range of possibilities are endless. Red, green, or just about any dark hue will work as well as the shiny metallics. You can also get away with some bright colors as well. The style of dress is also wide open. Here’s a look at our favorites from local boutiques.

Diamonds Direct Crabtree

Garcia – Fedora

Charlotte’s

Bigio Collection – Tyler House

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The Elaine Miller Collection

Beverly Feldman – Kristen’s Shoe Boutique

haute hippie – gena chandler

Charlotte’s

Alexander Wang – Vermillion

Oliva Rose Tal – Kristen’s Shoe Boutique

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Charlotte’s

Halston Heritage – Anna & Alice

Diamonds Direct Crabtree

Pure & Simple – CoolSweats

Bailey’s Fine Jewelers

Jack Rogers – Charlotte’s

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Jack Victor Collection – Varsity Men’s Wear

Bailey’s Fine Jewelers

Allen Edmonds – Varsity Men’s Wear

Alice and Trixie – Monkee’s of Raleigh

The Elaine Miller Collection

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Jolly’s Jewelers

Dress – Michael Stars Turtleneck – Andria Lieu Pants – Woman Certain Things

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Kate Spade – Kristen’s Shoe Boutique Charlotte’s Didier Parakian – C.T. Weekends

Jolly’s Jewelers

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ALL I WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS…

holiday beauty

BY KATE TURGEON

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Maybe you’re the type of person who cruises through the holidays as cool and sweet as a peppermint. If so, don’t let us distract you from hanging another ornament on the tree. If not, this article is for you.

It’s forgivable to feel tense even in the middle of all that’s wonderful about the holidays. Who wouldn’t when most of us are carrying around to-do lists longer than the average ten-year-old child’s wish list? If that’s not stirring up enough stress, the colder temperatures outdoors and heating indoors can wreak havoc on skin and hair. Add a quickly approaching new year, and we can find ourselves feeling and looking about as merry as a burnt-out holiday candle.

Well, it’s time to get the glow back! Join Midtown for a look at holiday beauty. From easy ideas for little problems to big changes for longer-lasting results, there’s something for everyone. Read on and shine on!

Problem: DrY, Dull skin When Midtown asked local spa owners and skin care experts for their take on the biggest problems people face this time of year, the answer was resounding: dry, dull skin. Yes, the summer glow is gone.

And we’re stuck with what’s left behind. For some people, it’s brown spots, rough patches, leather-like texture and other sun damage. “We typically spend the winter trying to undo the damage done in summer,” says Anna Porrazzo, owner of Synergy Spa. “This is a good time of year to do more aggressive skin procedures, like chemical peels, because of less sun exposure.”

In addition to procedures, it’s just as important to hydrate, she says.

Aesthetician Gina Racca of Dr. Audrey Echt Dermatology recommends the Obagi system to restore healthy function. “It improves the signs of aging at the cellular level…it is a prescription strength system that exfoliates old skin, leaving healthy new skin,” says Racca. “Obagi can be used on anyone with age spots, fine lines, wrinkles, rough skin and discoloration.” midtownmag.com midtownmag.com| | xx 33

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And beware of circumstances causing dry skin. According to Racca, the following habits will improve dry skin: • Bathe or shower only once daily. Anything more can cause skin to lose water.

• Use lukewarm, not hot, water.

• Limit baths and showers to 15 minutes or less.

• Avoid harsh deodorant soaps; switch to a non-soap cleanser such as Dove or Cetaphil.

• Pat, don’t rub, skin dry after bathing.

• Apply moisturizer immediately after bathing, and use it throughout the day as needed.

Dry skin is a common winter complaint for Fiquet Bailey, owner of Luxe.

Her advice? “Exfoliate two to three times weekly and up the moisturizer.

Sometimes moisturizer isn’t enough – in this case…invest in a hydrating serum…Darphin Hydraskin serum is a lifesaver.”

For many people, a facial is just the right pampering. Speak to your skin care professional or dermatologist to determine your skin type, which can help you decide on treatments. Facials, which come in a wide array of types, can be wonderful for cleansing skin, and they often come with a shoulder and chest (“décolleté”) massage, too.

Enzyme facials are a serious fix that will help coax crud out of pores and jump-start a pore-minimizing home skincare regimen, says Beth Brissette, Manager of Glo de Vie Med Spa. “For first timers, I would recommend a Vibra-Dermabrasion facial…the next generation of microdermabrasion,” she says. “[It] will exfoliate the epidermis and includes an enzyme peel customized to your skin type.”

And here’s a simple tip from Brissette: Relax! Taking a deep breath instead of frowning or scowling can slow down the aging process, as expression lines are those creases that remain even after you’ve relaxed your face.

While you’re relaxing in the fight against lines, why not pump up the feminine factor on your face? Nothing does it quite like full, flirty eyelashes that are longer, thicker and darker. The pros at Blue Water Spa recommend their Latisse® eyelash treatment, a topical treatment of bimatoprost for eyelash growth. And with a special promotion and discount, Blue Water makes the holidays an affordable time to get Latisse.

One last easy hint: drink water. “This not only keeps you looking less tired, but will also help with too much ‘holiday cheer,’” says Angela Padgett, president of Skin Sense, a day spa. Another trick for looking less tired: a Skin Sense Peppermint Patty massage. Using warm chocolate oil, heated basalt stones, fresh eucalyptus leaves and a finishing cool mint lotion, this massage will get your body’s circulation going – and that looks fantastic on every face. (Peppermint Patty also includes a scalp massage and a lymphatic drainage facial massage.)

Problem: L ackluster hair You wear it every day: your hair. It’s not like a least-favorite sweater you can hide away in your closet. Making beautiful, healthy hair a priority is easier than ever, even during the hustle and bustle of the holidays.

“Typically during these months, people turn the heat on in their homes which, as we know, can cause hair and skin to become more dry,” says Shawn Kekel, owner of Von Kekel Salon Spa. Static, flyaway hairs and diminished shine are other problems caused by missing humidity, he adds. Kekel’s solution? Hydrate! “A couple of Aveda products that would be beneficial – Dry Remedy shampoo and conditioner…

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Looking for a day-of treatment? Try a light enzyme peel and collagen mask, suggests Gina Racca of Dr. Audrey Echt Dermatology.

For mistletoe-ready lips, Skin Sense’s Angela Padgett suggests Jane Iredale’s Lip Drink, More Lip lip plumper and lip balms without harsh petroleum.

Get glossy with glossing shine enhancer. “This will bring out the color of the hair…follow up with a blow-out and partial up-do,” says Shawn Kekel of Von Kekel Salon Spa. Consider a make-up application (think smoky eye!), or eyebrow arching to open up your eyes, says Salon Blu’s Jennifer Fincher. For a splurge, she suggests a hair up-style and eyelash extensions.

“Blow-outs are the best pick-me-up…let’s face it: no matter how hard we try, we can never make our hair look as good as when we leave the salon,” says Abby Erickson of Modern Enhancement Salon & Spa. For Blue Water Spa’s Kile Law, giving is best. “There’s only one universal secret that will make every person instantly look and feel better…giving,” she says. “Blue Water Spa offers special pricing on Botox®, Juvederm®, laser services and spa treatments to people who donate food or books to children in need.”

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Pick up a new product: For healthy winter hair, DS Parada’s Don Stacy suggests Moroccan oil to give moisture, shine and prevent static electricity. For color-treated hair, he recommends Goldwell’s Hair Masque. For beautiful skin, Luxe’s Fiquet Bailey loves Shimmering Skin Perfector by Becca. “When used under foundation it gives skin a radiant, luminous finish,” says Bailey.

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Taking Wednesday’s hairstyle to Friday’s party? Consider Bumble and Bumble’s Hair Powder, says David Wade of the David Wade Salon.

“Tinted to match a variety of hair colors, it can be applied through the root area to give lift and new life to your days-old ‘do,’” he says.

Monday spa appointment and Saturday soiree? Look awake and refreshed, even after a midnight wrap-a-thon. Synergy Spa’s Anna Porrazzo suggests a light fruit enzyme peel or light hydroxy peel, such as a hydrating lactic peel or microdermabrasion. Add LED for firming, oxygen infusion for glow and an eye treatment, she says.

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“Botox®, Dysport™ or filler agents such as Juvederm® or Restylane® are excellent, non-surgical procedures that can be performed in our office with immediate results or results seen in a day or two,” says Dawn Dunn of Raleigh Plastic Surgery Center.

Lux stylist Allison Brown recommends a 15-minute scalp massage. “[It] not only feels wonderful, but stimulates blood flow to the scalp, helping to liven hair follicles for a Lux blow-out,” she says.

Facial today; party tonight. Pros at Glo de Vie Med Spa recommend a facial customized to your skin type to de-puff eyes, bust-up breakouts, and hydrate and plump dry skin. Perhaps best of all, they say every facial includes a neck and head massage.

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and for dry scalp (often experienced by men)…Aveda’s Scalp Benefits shampoo and conditioner,” he says.

Remember that you may have to moisturize more than you’re used to. “A lot of women make the mistake of using the same level all year,” says Abby Erickson, manager of Modern Enhancement Salon & Spa (which is expanding to include a full spa). For hair, she recommends Kerastase products.

Given cooler temperatures and dryness, you may be worried about hair coloring this time of year. Fortunately, experts say you can do it; you just have to do it right. “Colorwashes and clear-coat glazes are the keys to long-lasting vibrant hair color in winter,” says Don Stacy, owner of DS Parada Color Salon. “These treatments help seal the outer layer of the hair shaft, protecting hair from the elements and giving brilliant shine, as well as that silky, finished look.”

Jennifer Fincher (and almost all the stylists Midtown talked to) recommends clear-gloss treatments, too. And during the holidays, she says women are seeking new, fresh hair color. “The trend… is warmer, deeper and richer tones such as mahogany, chocolate, auburn…or ‘grown out’ color a la Rachel Bilson and Drew Barrymore,” says Fincher, owner of Salon Blu. For flyaway, static-charged hair, David Wade suggests Brazilian and Coppola Keratin smoothing treatments. “It’s about restoring and restructuring hair by infusing a blend of keratin into the cuticle and encasing the cuticle in keratin,” says Wade, who owns the David Wade Salon. The result? Hair is better protected from humidity and environmental toxins. “Hair is smoother, silkier and shinier for easier and faster blow-drying,” he adds.

Conditioning treatments are popular and necessary this time of year, says Allison Brown, a stylist at Lux Salon and Spa. “Dry or flat hair would benefit from a mousse or thickening product,” she says. (Brown recommends Alterna’s Thickening Compound.) “The client could also come to Lux for a volumizing conditioning treatment to revive limp locks.

Another great solution is…opting for highlights that give the appearance of volume,” adds Brown.

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Looking good requires having and using a skincare regimen that is tailored to your skin type. Most importantly – rest, sleep, exercise and a healthy diet cannot be overemphasized.” ~Diane Lambeth, Lambeth Plastic Surgery & Aesthetics

Problem: hair loss If you have thinning hair and want to do something about it, you’re not alone. Millions of people have faced the same situation. Joseph Ellis, a member the American Hair Loss Council, says he knows how these individuals search for the security that helps them face other roadblocks in life.

Here’s how hair restoration works at his salon, Raleigh Hair Concepts: Ellis takes a mold of the client’s head to get its contour. He then produces a custom, thin graft made out of skin-like material. From that point, human hair is hand-tied one-by-one (unlike most wigs) into the graft. Finally, Ellis bonds the custom, hair-filled graft to the base of her hairline. Ellis adds that many of his clients use flexible medical spending accounts to pay for the process, and that November and December may be the best time to investigate this med-flex option with an employer.

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Problem: You want longerl asting results Fall and winter are busy times at Raleigh Plastic Surgery, says Dawn Dunn, patient care coordinator. “Our patients want to have surgery during the winter so they will be recovered for spring break and the upcoming summer,” says Dunn. (She adds that late spring/summer can be a popular time for teachers and patients with children in school.)

Dunn says that patients are looking for long-term results, and popular procedures include tummy tucks, breast augmentation, breast lifts, liposuction, face lifts and eyelid lifts. “Personally, I have had an eyelid lift…of course, this is a surgical procedure but the recovery period is relatively short,” she says. For maintenance, Dunn likes antiaging facials and eye treatments at Midtown Medi Spa, which is located inside Raleigh Plastic Surgery.

Another benefit of the holiday months is that they are prime time for scarves and turtlenecks, which are wonderful concealers during healing time. Gretta Handley, patient care coordinator at Davis Plastic Surgery, says submental liposuction can be a wonderful option for patients looking for a more defined jawline with less downtime than a traditional face lift.

“By removing fat at the jowls and beneath the chin in front of the neck, the neckline and jaw line are more streamlined,” says Handley. “The skin does also tighten to some extent, which makes patients look thinner and rejuvenated.”

Using holiday time off together with vacation time is yet another reason that November and December are popular months for plastic surgery procedures, says Diane Lambeth, co-owner of Lambeth Plastic Surgery & Aesthetics. “A new trend is the ‘mommy makeover,’” she says. “It consists of breast restoration and...rejuvenation and tummy tuck and/or liposuction to refine the waist and hips.” The goals, she says, are to have a natural result and return women’s bodies to how they may have looked before pregnancy.

Another trend is Sculptra® to address volume loss and structural changes in the face, says Lambeth. “It’s now being referred to in cosmetic circles as the ‘liquid facelift,’” she adds.

Maybe the holiday months are wreaking havoc on your skin, hair and body. Or maybe the coming of a new year has you thinking about cosmetic changes. Either way, there’s a solution out there. Taking time for you can mean looking and feeling better. And isn’t that better than feeling like that burned out candle? midtownmag.com| 77

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SECOND to NONE

By Christa Gala

With low interest rates and low prices, you might want to give a second thought to buying a second home.

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Pamlico Plantation, in Beaufort County NC, features a private lake in addition to its private marina.

Ready for some good news in the real estate industry?

Sales of second homes in the US increased by 7.9 percent last year, according to the National Association of Realtors.

Even better, half of the vacation homes purchased last year were in the South.

In many areas of our state, the home inventory is twice what it used to be. And consider this: many would-be buyers can’t get the loans that used to be available. So the pool of buyers is even smaller than usual. If you have good credit, or cash, and take into account lower prices with even lower interest rates, you can get a fantastic deal. Browse with us a bit and see what you think On the water Let’s start on the eastern coast of North Carolina and work our way back. Pat Philips has lived in Pamlico Plantation with her husband Stephen for the past ten years. The couple bought a lot in Washington, NC in 1987 and built their 2,600-square-foot, three-bedroom, two-and-a-half-bath home in 2000.

Prior to 1987, the couple didn’t even know where Washington, NC was. (For the record, it’s in Beaufort County, an easy two hours from Raleigh.) Living in New Jersey, they heard about Pamlico Plantation from friends who had purchased a property in the tiny coastal town.

“They came back with a brochure and said, ‘This place is fantastic. The water is incredible and you get a boat slip,’” remembers Pat Philips. “We thought the pictures were too beautiful. It couldn’t have been that gorgeous.”

Pat and Stephen Philips drove down to look for themselves. Pamlico Plantation was beautiful. A paradise – particularly if you liked to spend time boating and fishing on the water.

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Plantation had its own private marina and each property conveyed with a boat slip. We thought there would be hidden charges for the slip or the electric or the water or something, but there wasn’t. The cost of all the amenities was included in the yearly $975 homeowners association fee.

And it still is. The list of amenities is long, too: Clubhouse, pool, marina, gazebo, kids’ playground, lake and tennis courts.

The 283-slip marina at Pamlico Plantation was rebuilt three years ago at no additional cost to homeowners. Townhomes and single family homes range from $299,000 to $850,000; a bargain compared to a few years ago when waterfront homes sold for more than a million dollars.

The gated community is not age-restricted, which Pat and Stephen like. It makes for an interesting mix of people at the happy hour held every Tuesday at the neighborhood clubhouse.

And when the couple gets waterlogged, which isn’t often, they enjoy watching the wildlife.

“The water is great, but an added plus for us was the woods,” says Pat. “It’s the best of both worlds – woods and water. All our properties are wooded since this is a Weyerhaeuser community.

We have the peace and quiet of the wooded surroundings and the wildlife. It’s a mini-vacation wonderland.” in the sandhiLLs In August, Ann and Russell Dyer of Maryland took the plunge and bought a second home in Pinehurst. When the stock market took a dive, the couple thought real estate might be a better investment.

Bob Klug, general manager of Pinehurst Area Realty, loves to hear that. “We’ve got to get back to the mentality that buying a home

A view of the private marina in Pamlico Plantation.

is a good thing,” he says. “With CD rates below one percent, real estate is a good option.”

The Dyers looked in North Carolina for two years before settling in Pinehurst. “We found Pinehurst, and we both just fell in love with it instantaneously,” says Ann Dyer. “We saw the house and it’s exactly what we wanted.” What the Dyers wanted was a second home that was move-in ready. They did a host of renovations on their five-bedroom home in Maryland, and neither wanted to go through that again.

They bought the 2,000-square-foot, three-bedroom home for $190,000 and paid for it outright. It was an investment as well as a second home. Russell loves golf, and Ann was determined to learn to play. For now, they make the seven-hour trip from Maryland as often as they can, but they have long-term plans too.

“We’re definitely planning to retire there,” says Ann. “When we can retire is another issue.”

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Lin Hutaff of Pinehurst Area Realty recently listed this 2,300-square-foot golf course home in Pinehurst for $305,000.

Thinking outside the box Lin Hutaff, a Realtor with Pinehurst Area Realty worked with the Dyers to help them find and purchase their second home.

She knows people are hesitant because a second home is typically seen as a discretionary purchase, but the current real estate market has people thinking outside the box.

“Now is the time to buy,” says Hutaff. “Whether you’re looking for a home for your personal getaway or an investment in your future retirement, the Pinehurst area offers exceptional value. Pinehurst offers exceptional golf, a modest climate and a unique combination of Northern and Southern hospitality. With the upcoming 2014 US Open and the base realignment to Fort Bragg, continued growth seems inevitable.”

Hutaff recently listed a golf course home in Midland Country Club that sits on the 6th, 7th and 9th holes. Priced $305,000, the 2,300-square-foot home features a large great room and sprawling front porch for entertaining. It sits on a half-acre lot; amenities feature the clubhouse/restaurant, golf, pool and water views. The master bedroom features an exercise room with an indoor hot tub.

Sounds tempting, doesn’t it? But there are issues to consider if you’re in the market for a second home.

“Get something that’s reasonably priced, a good location, good resale value, the size you want, and that also has the potential for income,” says Klug “That’s what you want to look for.”

In fact, many of Pinehurst Area Realty’s buyers are opting to buy now for retirement and then rent the property until they actually retire. Others opt to spend some vacation time at their property, but rent it during the time they’re not there.

“You can rent it and use it as a second home,” says Klug.

“To me, that’s the perfect scenario. You pick the days and months you want to use it and then let us fill in the gaps. The rent covers 60-70 % of the cost of the home and you still get to use it.”

Pinehurst has a wealth of properties from which to choose – from the $150s for a condo or townhome to nearly a million bucks for a palatial palace. Klug says many buyers opt for the townhomes, which range from $150,000 to $300,000.

“Since November of 2007, there is more supply and there’s not the demand, so the prices have come down,” says Klug. “We probably have twice as many listings as we usually have.”

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An Evening of Illusions and Celebration Annual Scott-Free Event Benefits Local At-Risk Children

Recently the Scott-Free Scholarship Foundation and its supportive community gathered for their 3rd annual event to celebrate another successful year, in which it sent 57 at-risk children to summer camp programs. The illusion-themed event, held on October 16th at the Mirage Nightclub in downtown Raleigh, dazzled guests with acrobatic dancing, body painting, magic, a silent art auction, raffle prizes and exotic gourmet food. Mayor Charles Meeker even dropped by to voice his support.

Funds generated from the event will allow Scott-Free to continue pairing local at-risk children with summer camp programs. Since its inception in 2008, Scott-Free and its camp partners have successfully sent 125 kids to camp.

Along with over 20 camp partners from the North Carolina coast to the mountains, Scott-Free is providing kids with all kinds of unique experiences. The camps specialize in sports, theatre, science, music, cooking, computer animation, dance and more. Scott-Free works with both day camps and residential camps. Partner camps help out financially with either discounted or donated camp spots, but Scott-Free also pays the full fare for some camps in order to ensure that a child is paired with a camp that matches his unique interests and abilities.

The raffle drawing was a highlight of the evening. Prize packages included an Apple iPad, a 42" flat screen TV courtesy of Jack Hoile of Legacy Wealth Strategies, a weekend getaway at the Umstead Hotel & Spa, season tickets to local theatres, Carolina Hurricanes tickets, gift certificates and more.

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Johnson Lexus of Raleigh was a tremendous supporting sponsor. They provided valet parking, car wash gift vouchers and radio advertising leading up to the event.

The event’s entertainment lent an air of drama and theatre. Zahra of Airborne Aerials in Fayetteville thrilled with her acrobatic aerial dancing. Foxy Moxy Liquid Art Body Painting, from Winston-Salem, created an amazing display of artistic skill with their work on a model provided by Raleigh’s Models For Charity organization. Illusionist Enrico Leoni kept everyone entertained and amazed.

The diligent work of onsite photographers Bob McAllister and Amy Jarrett ensured that this will be an evening to remember. The food, catered by The Mirage, was both visually beautiful and delicious.

DJ 100dBs of Brooklyn provided his services for the second straight year. He also produced the 2010 Scott-Free Mix, a CD given to all who attended. Man Mur Shoe Repair of Hillsborough Street offered complimentary shoe shines throughout the evening.

Scott-Free’s success is realized thanks to the support of an enthusiastic and generous community. Together, it provides children with an opportunity to explore the possibilities of their own abilities, dreams and desires by exposing them to life outside their own surroundings. Many more children will get this opportunity next year thanks to the supporters of Scott-Free and the 2010 Scott-Free Event.

Scott Free

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In loving memory of Scott Gruder

A gift is most precious when given under no obligation and received without any expectation “Journeys Urging Mammoth Possibilities” dba “Scott-Free” is a 501(c)(3) tax exempt non-profit organization

P.O. Box 19681 Raleigh, NC 27619-9681

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Putting Yourself Back Together Thanks to one local woman’s decision to share her story, Myself: Together Again celebrates five years of guiding women through breast reconstruction after mastectomies.

The ladies of Lux Salon have been tremendous supporters of Debbie Horwitz, Myself: Together Again and so many local women battling breast cancer. Here, Deborah Richards, Christina Sopina, Karen Francis and Sharon Pope surrounded Horwitz (seated).

For women who choose to have reconstructive surgery after a mastectomy, the road is far from easy, taking both a physical and emotional toll. Even if the reconstruction process begins immediately – as in during the mastectomy, which is not always an option – it can take anywhere from four to eight months to complete. Coming off the heels of chemo and possibly radiation, this can be a daunting undertaking.

Enter Myself: Together Again (M: TA), a project designed to help women through the process. Founded by breast cancer survivor Debbie Horwitz in 2006, M: TA was born out of Horwitz’s effort to find not just before and after photos of breast reconstruction, but photos of what she could expect during the reconstruction process. “When I was diagnosed in 2004, I was a newly engaged 32-year old,” she recalls. “I wanted to know what I would look like at my engagement party and my wedding dress fittings. I wanted to know what it would be like for a young woman. I couldn’t find anything.”

As luck would have it, Horwitz connected with local photographer Missy McLamb while taking a few pre-surgery and pre-chemo photos. “I had been growing my hair out, getting ready for the wedding, which was now postponed, and I was facing a lot of unknowns,” says Horwitz. “These photos were a way to capture the present, before everything changed.” The photo session also ended up being the spark behind Horwitz’s decision to document her reconstruction process, as conversations with McLamb led to her generous offer to photograph Horwitz’s journey.

“The intent was to eventually put my photos in a scrapbook to leave at my plastic surgeon’s office, helping the women who’d come after me,” says Horwitz. However, it was only after the surgeries when looking back on the photos that they realized the power of what they had documented. “We decided that it needed to be available for every woman, not just those in Raleigh.”

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Within a year, Myself: Together Again was born, initially existing through a grant funded by Susan G. Komen and then transitioning to its own public charity. Now funded by a handful of generous corporate sponsors, the booklet that shares Horwitz’s story is available on Amazon.com and through hospitals and doctor’s offices. “Every cancer, every woman and every woman’s skin is different, so results will be different.

But M: TA is your guidebook as to what you can expect during reconstruction,” says Horwitz.

M: TA also gets significant support from local businesses.

Take, for example, the four sisters behind Lux Salon, who are very committed to Horwitz, M: TA and the many local women battling breast cancer. “These women stay open late into the evening to help clients who want to shave heads. They are there to style wigs. They collaborated on the first M: TA project fashion show back in 2009. They care and they give back,” says Horwitz. Plans are already in the works for “Take a Walk on the Luxurious Side” fashion show benefiting M: TA, set for November 2011.

For the Lux the support feels natural. “We all know someone who has had breast cancer. These amazing women allow us into their lives during such an emotional and personal time; it’s truly humbling,” says Abby Seats of Lux Salon.

As M: TA moves forward, one of Horwitz’s priorities is connecting with a local woman interested in sharing her story, quite the same way she did years ago “We’re six years out from my surgeries and the process has changed. It’s necessary for M: TA to reflect this,” says Horwitz. “Most importantly, women need to know that they can get put back together again.”

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holiday cheer across the state By illyse lane

Historic Beaufort Candlelight Tour of Homes

From the mountains to the coast, there’s a plethora of holiday festivities across the state this season. Whether it’s a crafts show to welcome the fall, a town parade or a celebration of holiday traditions from the past, if you’re hitting the road, it will be easy to find something fun to do at your destination. Here’s just a sampling of what’s going on...

Wilson Whirligig Festival November 6th-November 7th, Downtown Wilson www.wilsonwhirligigfestival.com Come join the thousands who have discovered this fun, family-oriented fall festival. In addition to checking out all the whimsical, wind-driven whirligig works of art around downtown Wilson, you’ll find a fabulous selection of arts and crafts, food and family entertainment. A guaranteed good time.

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Sandhills Children’s Center Festival of Trees November 10th-14th, Carolina Hotel, Pinehurst www.sandhillschildrenscenter.org If you’re heading to Pinehurst this holiday season, stop by the Festival of Trees, benefiting the Sandhills Children’s Center. You’ll find over 200 decorated holiday trees, wreaths and gift baskets available for silent auction with proceeds benefiting children with disabilities. An enjoyable way to get in the Christmas spirit.

Asheville Legendary Inns Gingerbread Tour Saturdays, November 13th-December 18th, Asheville www.ashevillegingerbread.com There’s no denying the appeal of a quaint, historic inn, especially this time of year. If you’re going west, you’ll want to check out the Asheville Legendary Inns Gingerbread Tour. You’ll see professionally decorated gingerbread house scenes, as each inn takes part in telling the story of ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas. So cozy you’ll want to check in for the night.

Tanglewood Festival of Lights November 20th-January 2nd, Tanglewood Park, Clemmons www.forsyth.cc/parks/tanglewood/festival_of_lights.aspx Located near Winston-Salem, this is one of the largest holiday light shows in the Southeast, with nearly a million lights. There’s also a barn packed with arts and crafts, including paintings and handmade scarves, where you’re sure to find many perfect gifts for all the folks on your list.

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29th Annual Seagrove Pottery Festival November 20th-21st, Seagrove, NC www.seagrovepotteryheritage.com If you’re a fan of pottery, don’t miss this festival. This is the only time of the year that most of the Seagrove area potters get together to sell their pottery in one location. You’ll also find a selection of handmade crafts. A great opportunity to experience the beauty of North Carolina pottery in its recognized birthplace.

Piedmont Craftsmen Fair November 20th-November 21st, Benton Convention Center, Winston-Salem www.piedmontcraftsmen.org/crafts-fair.htm Whether your style is traditional or contemporary, you’ll find numerous treasures at the Piedmont Craftsmen Fair. This is the 47th year of this event, which showcases the handiwork of more than 150 artists. Expect to find unique works of art made with clay, wood, glass, fibers, leather, metal, photography, printmaking and mixed media.

North Carolina Holiday Flotill a at Wrightsville Beach November 26th-November 27th, Wrightsville Beach www.ncholidayflotilla.org If you’re heading to the beach, plan on attending the North Carolina Holiday Flotilla, recognized as one of the top 20 “must see” events in the Southeast. The weekend kicks off with the town tree lighting and festive launch party, complete with entertainment and follows the next day with the Festival in the Park. Come night, the spectacular lighted boat parade and fireworks will brighten the sky.

Entering its 27th year, this event is well worth the short drive.

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Christmas in the Park and Lighting of the Town November 26th-November 27th, Blowing Rock www.blowingrock.com The charm of Blowing Rock is in full swing for the holidays. Gather in Memorial Park, where you’ll have the chance to sing Christmas carols, drink hot chocolate and cider, and of course, get a visit from Santa before the official lighting of the town Christmas lights. Stay the night and enjoy the Christmas parade the following morning. An absolutely joyful, relaxing way to get your holiday season started.

Historic Latta Plantation Plantation Christmas: November 26th-27th; Candlelight Christmas: December 4th Huntersville, NC (Located 12 miles northwest of Charlotte) www.lattaplantation.org Go back in time by visiting historic Latta Plantation this holiday season.

Experience history as you take in an 1860s Plantation Christmas, with old traditions and open hearth cooking while learning about how a slave would have celebrated Christmas. Or, experience an 1820s Christmas with a candlelight Christmas tour of the plantation. A wonderful yet educational trip for the whole family.

Daytime Holiday Tours: Three Centuries of Christmas Cheer November 26th-December 31st, New Bern www.tryonpalace.org This month, experience 300 years of Christmas customs found in New Bern. Whether you visit an early settlement camp, tour historic homes, make old-fashioned ornaments, tour Tryon Palace or the North Carolina History Center, there’s something for everyone. A terrific way to explore this historic city.

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Christmas By The Sea Festival December 3rd-December 18th, Oak Island and Southport www.southport-oakisland.com Join in the festivities as the towns of Southport and Oak Island celebrate Christmas at the coast. The Christmas by the Sea Festival is a collection of events spanning three weekends, including a hometown parade, a tour of historic homes in both Southport and Oak Island, concerts and a lighted boat flotilla. Come celebrate the unique, charming character of these coastal communities.

Historic Beaufort Candlelight Tour of Homes December 11th, Beaufort www.beauforthistoricsite.org Come and see what this seaport town has this holiday season by visiting the beautiful private homes located in historic downtown Beaufort. Take a candlelight walking tour or a double-decker bus tour complete with Christmas caroling as you take in the rich history of this seaport town.

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Creating Holy Days during the Holidays

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s we approach the holidays of Thanksgiving and Christmas, I am reminded of how much this season is a part of most people’s experience. In fact, just the mention of the words Thanksgiving and Christmas create vivid memories of our childhood filled with sights, sounds and smells. The word Thanksgiving leads us to remember days filled with family and friends. We can hear the sound of football on the TV and smell the turkey and stuffing coming from the oven. The day of Thanksgiving has a way of melting the most cynical heart. If only for one day we are reminded of the blessing of living in America with its opportunities and freedom.

The word Christmas is filled with even more images. There is the bustle of the stores as people hurry to and fro shopping. There are the sound of Christmas songs and carols filling the air. There are Christmas parties to plan and attend. We look forward to spending time with our children, parents, siblings or friends. Christmas, although a religious celebration, is still considered a national holiday because it is such an important part of the American experience.

These are just some of the images, experiences and memories of Thanksgiving and Christmas. We all long for the holiday season. However, I have been wondering what we might do this year to make the holiday season a holy season. From a spiritual perspective, Thanksgiving and Christmas present us with an opportunity to explore faith and discover deeper purpose for our lives. Thanksgiving is a national holiday, but thanksgiving is a part of the spiritual journey. The person who lives a life of thanksgiving not only near the holiday but every day is the person who has discovered several secrets to a fulfilling life. When we live with thankful hearts we tend to be more content with what we own. When we live thankful lives we tend to be more generous toward others and are aware of the needs of others. When we are thankful people we become humble people who realize that God has granted to us, through grace, what we do not deserve but freely receive through God’s love.

Christmas is also a time to grow spiritually.

Christmas as a religious holy day is the celebration of the birth of Jesus. The Biblical story proclaims that God

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loves the world so much that God is personally active in redeeming and recreating the world. The birth of Jesus reminds us that God is a God who fulfills promises and is present in our lives. We give gifts at Christmas because Jesus was God’s gift to us. Christmas reminds us to love others and to put others before self. Christmas reminds us that there is more to life than what our earthbound experiences might reveal. Life can be lived in the light of eternal thoughts.

This holiday season we have the opportunity to turn the holidays into “Holy Days.” Here are some ideas for you and your family: • Count your blessings by making your time count for another.

Volunteer at a community helping organization. Take your children along with you to let them experience what it means to give time and energy for others. North Raleigh Ministries is just one of the many organizations that could use your family’s involvement. There are many places to serve. Ask your pastor or a local minister for ideas.

• Spend time giving thanks each day. Practice daily the discipline of journaling the moments and blessings of the day.

• During the Advent season spend time reading a devotional book. Consider using an Advent wreath in your home for decoration and for educating your children about God’s gifts of hope, peace, joy and love.

• Make time for worship. You may attend worship regularly or may have not attended worship in a long time-either way, the holiday season creates moments for worship. Our churches offer many opportunities for worship. There are regular weekly services, Blue Christmas services for those grieving during the holidays and as Christmas concerts at our churches. All the churches in North Hills offer various Christmas Eve services for individuals and families with children of all ages. In particular, everyone is invited to join the North Hills churches for a Community Thanksgiving service at Trinity Baptist Church on November 23rd at 7pm. This service features a community choir, instrumental ensemble and this year’s speaker is Rev. Father Jay James of St. Timothy’s Episcopal Church.

• As a family take time to talk about your faith. Our faith is one of the most important ways we define our lives and what gives life true purpose. Make sure just as you educate your children intellectually you also make time to educate them spiritually.

Share with your faith, let children ask questions and make time for prayer.

Finally, have a Happy Thanksgiving and Merry Christmas and make this holiday season a season of Holy Days.

By Dr. Jeff Roberts, TRInity Baptist Church

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To Peru With Love

February 18th at Trinity Baptist Church Live & Silent Auction supporting a high school mission trip to Peru!

For more information contact Anne Doman 673-1628.

Ira David Wood III’s A Christmas Carol Celebrates Its 36th Anniversary Theatre In The Park’s original musical comedy adaptation of A Christmas Carol, based on the book by Charles Dickens and adapted for the stage by Ira David Wood III, first premiered in 1974. It has been performed each year since, and has become the theatre’s major fundraiser. Playing in two Triangle venues: Durham Performing Arts Center December 3rd-5th and Raleigh Progress Energy Center – Memorial Auditorium December 8th-15th.

Local couple opens new shop Bob and Cindy Jones opened their Savory Spice Shop Friday, October 15th. Savory Spice Shop offers more than 400 fresh ground herbs and spices, 140 hand-blended seasonings, organic selections and gift sets. The product is ground and blended to order weekly to ensure superior freshness. Be sure to stop by and say hello!

Quintessentials Redefined!

Under new ownership, Quintessentials is bringing a lot of change for the holidays! The shop will be moving to a new and much larger retail space in North Hills and will also be carrying exciting new products! Well known for their fine china, new owner Kristen Anderson has now added tabletop linens in order to create a complete table top experience, all in one store. They will also be carrying gift items at an array of price points.

North Hills 5k is a ROCing Success!

The 1-mile fun run and 5k at Trinity Baptist Church has raised over $23,000 for North Raleigh Ministries! Mark your calendar for next year’s event September 10, 2011.

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And The Winner Is…

The ballots have been counted and the winners are chosen! We unveil the winners of the 2011 Midtown Diamond Awards, from the best patio to the best wine list or the best place to get your caffeine fix. We asked and you responded.

Refresh Your Home

The holiday decorations will soon be gone and your home will be back to normal. This is a perfect time to spice things up! It’s not expensive, it’s not hard.

It’s all about accessories! Local designers share their secrets rotating accessories.

Retirement

It’s a 10-letter word that either describes the best years of your life or panic! We introduce you to the best of the best in retirement communities and offer you tips on making retirement the best years of your life.

Plus lots more…

Wine Review | Chef Mario Bain’s Beat | Calendar of Events Talk of the Town | Healthy You Midtown Mingles | and much more!

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from Brahms to Bach aND Back aGaiN November 5-6 | 8pm | 919.733.2750 | www.ncsymphony.org steP lively: a Walk for hosPice November 6 | 9am-2pm | 919.828.0890 | www.steplivelyforhospice.com

WomeN aGaiNst ms luNcheoN chocolate tastiNG & GolD Gals November 3 | 11am-1:30pm | 919.792.1002 | at afforDaBle chic shoPs www.nationalmssociety.org/womenagainstMS November 6 | 10am-2pm | 919.846.0676 | www.affordablechicshops.com Guy faWkes NiGht: BaNDs & BoNfires at the oxforD 16th aNNual craft & Bake sale at southNovember 5 | 8pm-until | 919.832.6622 | easterN BaPtist theoloGical semiNary www.oxfordraleigh.com November 6 | 9am-3pm| 919.761.2340 | www.sebts.edu/conectingpoint raleiGh DaNce theatre PreseNts: “storyBook tales” raleiGh rocks the NiGht for November 6-7 | 11am & 3pm | 919.834.1058 | GuiDiNG liGhts www.raleighdance.org November 6 | 7pm-12am | $35 | 919.803.8025 | www.guidinglightsnc.org visioNs of suGarPlums holiDay art & Gift shoW triaNGle soNs of ital PreseNt “aN November 4-6 | 9am-8pm | eveNiNG With aNthoNy fraGola” www.visionsofsugarplumsraleigh.com November 8 | 6:30-9:30pm | www.trianglesonsofitaly.org

“WeiGht loss – WheN is surGery the Best oPtioN” lecture November 9 | 6-8pm | 919.350.7827 | www.wakemed.org freNch cookiNG class November 10 | 4:30-6:30pm | 919.862.2770 | www.saintjacquesfrenchcuisine.com veteraNs Day November 11 fall/WiNter truNk shoW featuriNG tiBi November 11 | 10am-7pm | gena chandler at North Hills | 919-881-9480. aDvocates for health iN actioN PreseNt “luNch liNe” November 11 | 6-9pm | www.ticketleap.com festival of trees of raleiGh 2010 November 11 | 6:30-10:30pm | 919.623.7734 | www.raleigh.assistanceleague.org “hiDiNG iN PlaiN siGht: the Water mills of Wake couNty” lecture November 11 | 7pm | 919.833.3431 | joellane@bellsouth.net “WomeN emPoWereD aND eNliGhteNeD: BuilDiNG PoWerful WomeN” November 12-14 | 8am-3pm | http://bit.ly/driJSq moDerN eNhaNcemeNt GraND oPeNiNG November 13 | 6:30-9:30pm | 919.875.8668 | www.modernenhancement.com holiDay siP & stroll November 18 | 6-8pm | NorthHillsEvents.com

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Beaujolais Nouveau Annual Wine Dinner November 18 | 6:30pm | 919.862.2770 | www.saintjacquesfrenchcuisine.com 18th Annual Holiday Showcase of Gallery Artists at Art Source November 19 | 7-9pm | 919.787.9533 | www.artsource-raleigh.com

The New Universe Music Festival November 20-21 | www.abstractlogix.com/festival2010 Habitat’s 10th Annual Holiday Home Tour & Party November 21 | 5-9pm | www.HapitatWake.org

Antique Show & Sale Presented by Woman’s Club of Raleigh November 19-21 | 10am-5pm | $7 admission | 919.685.4825 | www.womansclubofraleigh.org Thanksgiving Day November 25 Orchestra Showcase: Beethoven’s “Eroica” November 19-20 | 8pm | 919.733.2750 | www.ncsymphony.org

Santa Claus Comes to Midtown November 27 thru December 19 | Sat & Sun only, 12-3pm | NorthHillsEvents.com

Tree Lighting Celebration November 20 | 3-8pm | NorthHillsEvents.com

Holiday Hospitality November 27 thru December 19 | Sat & Sun only,12-5pm | NorthHillsEvents.com

Raleigh on Ice November 20 thru January 2 | Mon-Sat 1-8pm, Sun 1-6pm | NorthHillsEvents.com Christmas Open House at Affordable Chic Shops November 20 | 10am-6pm | 919.846.0676 | www.affordablechicshops.com $20 on the 20th November 20 | www.shoplocalraleigh.org Bella Voce Gala November 20 | 919.604.7213 | www.galabellavoce.org

Society of 1961 Appreciation Gala November 29 | 919.350.7656 | www.wakemed.org Holiday Café sponsored by the Ladies Philoptochos Society December 2-4 | times vary | 919.781.4548 | www.holytrinityraleigh.org 2nd Annual International Christmas Market December 4 | 10am-4pm | 919.828.2276 | www.raleighsistercities.org

Joel Lane Museum House presents “A Colonial Christmas” Open House December 4-5 | 1-4pm | 728 W. Hargett St., Raleigh, NC | 919.833.3431 | www.joellane.org A Christmas Story December 7-24 | A.J. Fletcher Theatre | 800.745.3000 | ProgressEnergyCenter.com A Christmas Carol December 8-15 | Progress Energy Center | 919.831.6936 | www.theatreinthepark.com The City Ballet presents 17th annual performance of The Nutcracker December 10-11 | times vary | 919.844.9799 | www.city-ballet.com The Raleigh Ringers Holiday Concert December 11-12 | 3pm & 7:30pm | www.rr.org $20 on the 20th December 20 | www.shoplocalraleigh.org Christmas Eve Prix Fixe Dinner December 24 | 5-7:30pm | 919.862.2770 | www.saintjacquesfrenchcuisine.com Christmas Day December 25 New Year’s Eve Prix Fixe Dinner December 31 | 919.862.2770 | www.saintjacquesfrenchcuisine.com First Night Raleigh 2011 December 31 | 2pm-Midnight | www.firstnightraleigh.com Have an important event? We would love to hear about it. Please send the details of your calendar events to: sarah@midtownmag.com.

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red

GIVE A LITTLE

FOR THE HOLIDAYS

By Patrick Fitzgerald, store manager, Total wine – north hills PHOTOGRAPHY BY APRIL MANESS PHOTOGRAPHY

With all the rich food of the holiday season comes the time to try some rich and powerful red wines. A Bordeaux from one of the classic appellations such as St Julien, a Chateauneuf du Pape from the Rhone Valley or a Brunello from the hills of Tuscany. A Pinot Noir also pairs perfectly with many turkey dishes or with grilled salmon. This is also the time of year to try that special bottle of bubbly. The wines of Champagne are without equal and a Grand Cru Champagne is the best of the best. Go ahead, treat yourself or the special person in your life. All of the wines shown are available at Total Wine at North Hills. Stop by and ask a wine associate to help you pick out some special wines for this special time of year.

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A. chateau de cruzeau 2005 | $29.99 Pessac-Leognan, Bordeaux, France – This shows crushed berry on the nose, with hints of sweet tobacco and cedar. Full – to medium-bodied with soft tannins and a coffee, toasty oak and ripe fruit aftertaste.

Subte and interesting. 55% Cabernet Sauvignon, 43% Merlot and 2% Cabernet Franc.

B. Coldisole 2001 | $59.99 Brunello di Montalcino, Tuscany, Italy – Fantastic aromas of black cherry, toasted oak and minerals. Full-bodied, with lots of fruit and a long finish…outstanding. A beautiful, powerful wine.

C. Mailly Les Échansons 1999 | $79.99 Champagne, France – Apple, ginger, graphite and whole-grain taost flavors mark this firm bubbly. Dissipates a little midpalate through the finish, leaving an echo of berry and mineral.

D. truett hurst 2006 | $29.99 Dry Creek Valley, Sonoma, CA – A blend of small old vine, hillside, dry farmed Zinfandel vineyards from Dry Creek Valley. Fresh cracked black pepper spice marries perfectly with rich, roboust flavors of crushed red raspberries and blackberries. Deep, rich and concentrated.

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E. chateau langoa barton 2004 | $59.99 St. Julien, Bordeaux, France – Very pretty and perfumed, with plum, vanilla and chocolate aromas. Full-bodied, with silky tannins and a long, caressing finish. This small neighbor to Leoville Barton is well worth seeking out for its excellent value.

F. robert moncuit 2004 | $49.99 Le Mesnil-Sur-Oger, Champagne, France – Outstanding Grand Cru from one of the most famous villages in all of Champagne. Handcrafted by the Moncuit family, this fabulous value features a fragrant bouquet and flavors of hazelnut, citrus and toast. Fantastic long, creamy finish.

G. ChÂteau de chamirey 2007 | $34.99 Mercury, Burgundy, France – Excellent for the vintage and appellation, this red is sauve and intense, with cherry, currant and vanilla flavors that build on the palate. Firmly structured and powerful, staying graceful on the finish.

H. clos saint michel 2005 | $54.99 Chateauneuf, Rhone, France – Impressively endowed, broad, very concentrated, in a muscular style with a dense ruby/purple color. It has a sweet nose of camphor intermixed with black cherry liqueur, underbrush, spice and a touch of smoke and incense.

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Getting Around Downtown

This holiday season, enjoy the many different rides offered in downtown Raleigh.

By illyse lane

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f you live in downtown Raleigh, you’re already sold on the ease and excitement of urban dwelling. If you’re living in the ‘burbs, chances are you venture in to take advantage of the delicious dining, entertainment, shopping and family activities that fill the downtown scene. And if you’re a daily commuter, you’ve probably figured out your favorite place to get coffee or pick up flowers for your lovely wife before you head for home.

Regardless of where you rest your head, this holiday season you’ll find it easier than ever to get around downtown. The old reliables continue to make navigating the city a breeze and a new addition makes heading out of town as simple as swiping a card. And an added benefit?

All the transportation options we’ve highlighted are green, helping to make downtown Raleigh a

more environmentally friendly city. Here’s what you need to know: We Car We Car, a division of Enterprise, is the newest method of transportation to hit downtown. This not-your-traditional-rental-car service provides downtown Raleigh residents with access to fuel-efficient rental cars that are available for a minimum of one hour or a maximum of 24 hours for a low hourly rate. This car-sharing community is especially enticing to those who need a car to scoot around town for some holiday errands or take an afternoon outing to visit friends.

By Christa Gala

Getting your car couldn’t be simpler. Just visit the We Car website and request to join the downtown Raleigh car-sharing community. After

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your request is processed, stop by the local Enterprise office, where they’ll take a peek at your valid driver’s license and in exchange, give you your membership card. You’re ready to rent.

When the need for the car arises, log on and reserve your vehicle. You’ll be directed to the location of your car, currently either West at North Condos on Harrington Street (conveniently, an R-Line stop) or at the Enterprise office on McDowell, where the swipe of your card will grant access to your vehicle. Once your rental period is over, return the car to its original spot.

“We Car is ideally structured for city living, offering accessibility without commitment. This in turn helps the city, by reducing the amount of cars on the road, fuel consumption, air quality and the number of parking spaces required,” says Adam Schneider, Regional Vice President for Enterprise.

Triangle Segway Experience Raleigh from a slightly different angle by taking advantage of a tour offered by Triangle Segway.

Whether it’s your holiday houseguests, an event for your business, or you and your family wanting to get out and explore Raleigh, a Triangle Segway tour is the ideal way to spend a couple of hours. After a brief

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training session, where you’ll be provided with helmets and a wireless audio pack so you can hear your guide’s narration, you’ll be ready to glide across the city. Tour options include an Experience Tour, with sights such as the NC State Capital, Governor’s Mansion and City Market, a Raleigh’s Great Romance Tour, including Oakwood Cemetery, and NC State.

Raleigh Rickshaw Since 2007, Raleigh Rickshaw has provided a unique and eco friendly form of free transportation for diners, bar hoppers, newlyweds, families and tourists across downtown Raleigh through the use of pedal cabs. “As a matter of fact, last year Raleigh Rickshaw had over 80,500 riders and drivers peddled over 15,000 hours,” says owner Donald Mertrud.

An amazing achievement, but one that will be bypassed by the time you’ve read this sentence.

With over 20 Raleigh Rickshaws traveling between the five downtown districts, getting from point A to point B is both fast and smooth. While you always have the option of flagging down an empty rickshaw to take you from the restaurant to the show or from the museum to the art gallery, Raleigh Rickshaw does have a dispatch service available by telephone or easily accessible on-line, so it’s easy to make a reservation. And who doesn’t love the invigorating, fresh air of a cool night under city lights as you take in the downtown

landscape? It’s the ideal mode for getting around when it’s too close to hop in the car and just little too far for a walk.

If Mertrud has his way, soon, Raleigh Rickshaw drivers won’t be the only ones pedaling around downtown Raleigh.

Raleigh Rickshaw is working in conjunction with the City of Raleigh to launch a public use bicycle program. Stayed tune for more information.

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R- Line Yet another environmentally friendly approach to urban transportation, the R-Line is about to celebrate its second anniversary. This free circulator service, which means that it “circulates” around a defined community instead of traveling far distances, features hybrid electric buses that will connect you to restaurants, retail, entertainment venues, museums, hotels and parking facilities in downtown Raleigh.

Two green and blue buses run every 10-15 minutes, with a route that circles from the Convention Center to Seaboard Station and Glenwood South during the day, then expands to include the Warehouse District and City Market in the evening, making the R-Line an uncomplicated, convenient and enjoyable way to run errands during lunch, be transported to your favorite shop, connect with friends for drinks or just get a ride home. You’ll know you’ve found an R-Line stop, for the signs sport the big “R” logo.

J&L Carriage For over ten years, J&L Carriage has been offering rides to downtown residents and visitors. You’ll find the carriages in the mall between the museums the first Friday, Saturday and Sunday of the month, where you can just walk up and hop on, enjoying a family ride or a narrated tour of the city. Rides are also available for your more romantic occasions, weddings, festivals, parties and even funerals by appointment. And for those of you with younger children, be sure and ask about Marbles, J&L’s miniature horse, who pulls a miniature carriage. midtownmag.com| 101

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YULETIDE FUN Y Seasonal Events for the Whole Family.

By kristy stevenson

our house is clean, your decorations are up, and your baking is done – it’s time to start enjoying some holiday merriment. If you’re looking for something fun to do this season, Raleigh offers a fine assortment of familyfriendly ventures for everyone from the young to the young-at-heart. Classics like The Nutcracker, the Raleigh Christmas Parade and Historic Oakwood are always crowd pleasers. Winterfest is also back this year, as well as some festive new productions and events. Whether you have family in town, are searching for a night out with friends, want to revisit local favorites or try something completely new – we’ve got some suggestions to keep your entire party happy.

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© Stephen J. Larson Scrooge (Ira David Wood III) and Tiny Tim (Grace Goetz) in A Christmas Carol.

Put A Little Christmas In Your Heart Theatre in the Park’s (www.theatreinthepark. com) original musical comedy adaptation of A Christmas Carol, now in its 36th season, has been cited by the News & Observer as “one of the most successful shows in North Carolina theater history.” Ira David Wood III, Theatre in the Park’s founder and executive director, portrays Ebenezer Scrooge. “I like to tell people that it’s like ‘Charles Dickens meets Archie Bunker,’ as our Scrooge actually delights in wrecking Christmas – he has fun with it,” says Wood.

Performed with period costumes and scenery, the show is flavored with topical humor that makes each season unique. Last year’s production, for example, featured bits about Tiger Woods and the White House gate crashers. “I think it really helps the audience understand that the message and moral of the show is still relevant today,” says Wood. “The way we present Scrooge makes him more audience accessible so that everyone can identify with that little bit of Scrooge in each of us at the holidays.” The essence of the show is going midtownmag.com| 103

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through the transformation with dear old Ebenezer, putting things in perspective, and feeling good. Christmas is a bittersweet time, and this show carries you through a range of emotions, laughter being key among them.

As the theatre’s major fundraiser, Wood is honored that the show has become a tradition, and he believes it’s a generosity of spirit that brings it together each year. With a cast of 80, Theatre in the Park’s community strives to better each performance. “We make every effort to deliver a show that entire families can share with colors, costumes, scenery, music and magic. From slapstick and visual humor to original musical productions, there’s something for all ages,” says Wood. And as always, you can look forward to a few surprises and special guests mixed in (which in the past have ranged from WTVD’s Steve Daniels to Paul Montgomery from the Raleigh classic Time For Uncle Paul).

You’ll Shoot Your Eye Out And for more theater nostalgia, this year Broadway Series South (www. broadwayseriessouth.com) in association with Hot Summer Nights (www.hotsummernightatthekennedy.org) brings the beloved holiday classic, A Christmas Story, to the stage. With general management by the North Carolina Theatre (www.nctheatre.com), this is a brand new adaptation produced by all three companies. One-hundred percent of the cast and design team are local, and each of the costumes and sets is being specially created for the launch of what they hope will become a theatrical holiday perennial here in the Triangle.

“As the tale of a boy recounting the story of fond memories from Christmases past, there’s a lot of familiarity when coming to see this piece,” says show director Alan Coats. The story follows 9-year-old Ralphie Parker in his quest to get a genuine Red Ryder BB gun under his Christmas tree. He pleads his case to his mother, his teacher and even Santa, himself. Hilarity ensues. “You’re going to immediately recognize many of the familiar scenes as we ideally stay true to the feel of the original,” says Coats. All of the most memorable motion picture elements are included – from the family’s temperamental exploding furnace, to the Little Orphan Annie decoder pin, the wet tongue on a cold lamppost experiment, and of course Ralphie’s father winning the famed leg lamp.

The biggest difference in this incarnation is that the adult Ralphie (referred to as Ralph) is more than just the narrator – he’s part of the show. “He’s with you the entire evening,” says Coats, “sharing asides with the audience, and even stepping in to become the tree salesman, or the delivery man who brings the leg lamp to the home.” Some scenes even come from deleted bits that never made it into the finished film. Working closely with the composer to underscore scenes, Coats aims to heighten the show’s energy so you can be a part of it rather than just observing.

Langdon Ogburn portrays Ralphie in A Christmas Story.

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and if you’ve got time to spare If your crowd’s getting antsy from sitting through all the parades and holiday movie offerings, get them out for a little exercise.

Although you may not associate bowling with holiday time, Sparians Bowling Boutique & Bistro (www.sparians.com) is unlike anything the Triangle has seen. Conceived by local entrepreneurs, they have set their sights on providing a specialty entertainment venue for families, corporations and Raleigh’s nightlife.

Debuting a 30,000 square foot location in early December, they are part of the North Hills expansion and seek to revive the classic bowling pastime by injecting energy, light and sound, while also providing great food and outstanding service. “Gone are the plastic benches, frozen pizzas and bright lights of the alley,” says marketing director Adam Ting. “We feature 12 bowling lanes illuminated by black lights and surrounded by leather couches, with plush appointments and wait staff. We’ve also got two private suites with six additional lanes to accommodate group functions.” The suites are available for parties, corporate events and nightlife, while the main area is open to everyone from casual bowlers to closet pros and offers ‘never leave the lane’ food service. Giant HD projection screens that stretch two bowling lanes wide broadcast sports, music videos and movies – making it a multifaceted gathering place regardless of your occasion.

“Our bistro offers upscale American menu favorites for all ages and is intentionally designed with a sharable flair,” says Ting. With indoor, outdoor and lounge seating, Wii and Xbox stations will be on hand while you await your lane or table.

Touch tables will also be available in some of the booths.

In Old English, Sparians means ‘to spare.’ Their focus is on the casual or corporate visitor rather than traditional

Artist rendering of the Sparians Bowling Boutique atmosphere.

leagues as they brand themselves a place to meet, eat, and compete. Anyone ages two through senior citizen is welcome: “If they can stand, they can push a ball,” Ting smiles.

With a growing list of available attractions in and around the Triangle area, Raleigh’s 2010 holiday season is shaping up to be better than ever. As you ready yourself for the hustle and bustle – making your list and checking it twice – take time to enjoy family, friends and neighbors and all that the city has to offer. To follow Sparians’ updates, check out their blog for Feedback Fridays and the Find the Golden Pin contest. And if you’re going to the theater, remember to reserve tickets early. A Christmas Carol runs December 3rd-5th at the Durham Performing Arts Center and December 8th-15th at PECPA’s Memorial Auditorium, and A Christmas Story runs December 7th-24th at PECPA’s A.J. Fletcher Theater. Happy holidays!

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The Full Measure of a Woman

Pam Saulsby has been the face of our local news for 19 years. But what you may not know about this award-winning television journalist and WRAL anchor is that she can sing.

By illyse lane

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e’re not talking about singing in the shower. Or singing along with the radio. We’re talking about the kind of singing that produces a joyful, soulful sound.

A sound that is too good to be kept all to herself.

Fortunately for us, Saulsby has decided to share. With a few years of formal training and performance gigs under her belt to fine-tune the gifted voice she’s had since childhood, Saulsby recently released her first CD, The Full Measure of a Woman.

Containing a mix of classic songs that she carefully handpicked, Saulsby is thrilled to have a CD that reflects how she feels at this point in her life and is hoping that all of her listeners, especially women, pick up on the inspirational

message held in both the CD title and song selections. “The Full Measure of a Woman is a reflection of the maturity that I have, that many women have, at this stage of the game when it comes to matters of the heart and love,” says Saulsby. “We know what we want, we know how to ask for it. We understand the value of expressing ourselves fully, with honesty and a little bit of sassiness.”

So how did this extremely busy, highly dedicated news anchor end up pursuing a second career as a vocalist? Interestingly enough, Saulsby never intended on being a singer. However, she couldn’t help but notice that whenever she would sing – even if it was just a happy birthday message on a friend’s voicemail, she’d get lots

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of positive comments about her voice. “I figured maybe it was time to give it a try and see what happened,” says Saulsby.

Saulsby credits the right combination of good timing – as her daughter went off to college a few years ago, allowing her to have a little free time – and the fact that the painfully shy young girl she had been for so many years had long disappeared and in its place was a confident, dynamic woman who was ready to have her voice be heard. She began working with a voice coach and as a result, opportunities to perform started coming her way.

She quickly discovered that performing gave her a tremendous sense of joy. “It’s amazing, for even today, when I speak in front of people, I can get nervous. But when I sing, I feel so happy and never afraid. It’s my passion,” says Saulsby.

As her music career takes off, the bits of free time that Saulsby had has dwindled, as juggling singing with her schedule of anchoring daily newscasts has made her calendar quite full.

While she could feel overwhelmed, she instead chooses to be positive, feeling so fortunate that she is able to pursue something that brings her such happiness and feels so right. “It really gets back to the title of my CD, it’s all about finding balance,” says Saulsby. “And I hope that through my music, I am contributing to someone else’s feelings of happiness.”

Can’t wait to hear Pam Saulsby sing? Visit her website www.pamsaulsby.com. You’ll be able to hear song samples and purchase either individual songs or the actual CD. And circle your calendars. Pam will be singing at the North Hills Tree Lighting, set for Saturday, November 20th at 6pm. midtownmag.com| xx

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At the Heritage Park (HP) Learning Center, students earn fictitious money throughout the school year for good behavior, attendance and outstanding grades. At the HP holiday shopping spree students are able to use the “money” to shop for their teachers, family members and friends.

Heritage Park Shopping Spree Turns Ten How effort in school leads to the gift of giving.

By kate turgeon

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or many holiday shoppers, the only thing they can’t find is a decent parking space.

But that wasn’t the case for some schoolage children in Raleigh’s Heritage Park (HP), a public housing community located downtown.

They wanted to give holiday gifts but didn’t know where to earn the means that would allow them to give.

The problem caught the attention of Pamela Davis, a former teacher’s assistant at an HP base school. Each Christmas she noticed that students from more affluent backgrounds were bringing gifts for their teachers, while HP students were disappointed because they could not afford to give presents.

When Davis became director of the center at HP, an after-school learning center run by Communities in Schools of Wake County, she launched a holiday shopping event. Davis

asked friends and co-workers to donate items to a “store” for HP students who participated in the after-school program. And she asked students to earn fictitious money throughout the year.

The better the grades, attendance and behavior, the more money for shopping.

Initially, students could purchase one or two gifts. But that changed two years later when HP partnered with the Junior League of Raleigh (JLR).

With a larger donor base and more volunteers, the event grew. Suddenly students were shopping for their teachers, friends and family members.

“We were also able to expand the learning experience by having students learn about writing checks and prioritizing their purchases,” says Melodie Braswell, lead program coordinator at HP. “Students were able to really enjoy the experience of giving…it was a perfect learning activity.”

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Communities in Schools of Wake County (which operates the HP Learning Center) was founded 20 years ago to meet the needs of students struggling to achieve academically. It was founded on the belief that students should have opportunity to connect with a caring adult, learn, graduate and give back to their community.

While it has grown over the past ten years, the event kept its roots of earning and giving. And it’s not only meaningful to the students; it’s a holiday tradition to many volunteers as well.

For four years Jen Dunn, a JLR volunteer, has gathered donations, helped set up the store, wrapped gifts and enjoyed the party-like atmosphere of the spree, where students are treated to lunch, an arts and crafts activity and a visit from Santa Claus.

“It gets me into the Christmas spirit…and when I watch them shop and wrap gifts, it definitely reminds me of what it was like to be a kid,” says Dunn. “When they leave there, their faces beam. They feel good about it… that they can give gifts, too. It’s about confidence.”

It’s also about learning to demonstrate gratitude, as students typically write thank-you cards to those who help, says Braswell. “It also allows them to see examples of selflessness through giving,” she adds. “The shopping spree provides our students with hands-on experiences handling money…it is never too early for our students to learn.”

Ho Ho Ho,

in case you’d like to know

What’s the goal of Communities in Schools of Wake County?

“To surround students with a community of support, empowering them to stay in school and achieve in life…to see students thriving in school, which in turn creates more opportunities for future success.” ~ Melodie Braswell, lead program coordinator at Heritage Park.

How can I help with the annual Heritage Park shopping spree?

To donate new gift items to the Heritage Park shopping spree, please call the Junior League of Raleigh at (919) 787-7480.

What types of gifts are accepted?

Generally, donated gifts are new household items, perfume, lotions, jewelry, books, toys and more.

Donations of wrapping paper, tape, gift tags, gift bags and tissue paper are also accepted.

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6 WAYS TO FIGHT THOSE

WINTER BLUES Beauty tips courtesy of Fiquet Bailey, Luxe Check out Fiquet’s blog at: thebeautyofitall.net

At-home spa treatments: It seems that we are all cutting back these days. Never fear, cutting back doesn’t have to mean going without. Skip pricey spa treatments & turn to these at-home favorites.

Katira Hair Mask Skip the expensive blow-out & turn to this at home hair miracle. Leaves hair ultra silky and adds volume in all of the right places. Prepare for your best hair day ever. $40 – liveloveluxe.com Cake Milk Made Smoothing Hand & Cuticle Buffer Give yourself an at-home manicure. This treatment exfoliates and hydrates, leaving hands with the look and feel of a professional manicure in just minutes. $16 – sephora.com Volcano Foot Mask Lush Rough, tired feet are no match for this wonder mask.

Cleanses deeply, deodorizes and exfoliates. $20.95 – lushusa.com

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Glyco Extreme Peel Can’t justify a facial?

This chemical exfoliant delivers professional results at home. Fights clogged pores, reduces pore size and enhances penetration of skincare products. $235 – liveloveluxe.com

Aveda Soothing Aqua Therapy Can’t justify a massage? Wash away stress and tension with this combination of Dead Sea salts and aromatic oils. $28.50 – Von Kekel

Clarisonic Clarisonic is quickly becoming a household name for a reason, and in my mind is worth the investment. Deeply cleansing yet gentle, this magical brush will leave you radiant. No matter what your skincare concerns may be, everyone can benefit from a Clarisonic. $149-$250 – clarisonic.com

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A Joint

Duke Raleigh Hospital’s Total Joint Replacement Program is comprised of a multidisciplinary team.

Partnership Duke Raleigh’s Total Joint Replacement Program seeks to involve patients in their care, thus better predicting and improving their post-op results By page leggett

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Two of Duke Raleigh Hospital’s rehabilitation services team members.

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“I wish I had done this sooner.”

That’s the typical reaction the staff at Duke Raleigh Hospital’s Total Joint Replacement Program hears after a patient has had a total joint replacement, according to Liz Jackson, director of orthopaedic services at Duke Raleigh.

Since total joint replacement is considered elective surgery, people often postpone it until their pain becomes limiting or even debilitating.

And then, they wonder why they waited so long.

“By the time patients come to us, they have usually been told that surgery was recommended,” Jackson said. “When joint function is limited or the pain limits their activities – that’s what usually prompts them to come see us.” toPS in tHe triangLe And, when patients make the decision to have this life-altering surgery at Duke Raleigh, they are being cared for at one of the state’s top joint replacement centers. The Joint Commission awarded the program the Gold Seal of Approval™ in September in recognition of the program’s excellence in hip and knee joint replacements. Duke Raleigh is just the sixth hospital in North Carolina to earn this designation and the first in the Triangle.

The official name of the designation is “disease-specific care certification.” What that mouthful boils down to for patients is that, as Jackson said, “We foster the best outcomes.” The Joint Commission reviews programs against its own stringent guidelines and looks to see if programs comply with national standards, effectively use evidence-based clinical practice guidelines and have an organized approach to measuring performance.

To the patient, though, the performance that matters most is his or her own.

So, when a joint becomes so painful that exercise, playing with grandchildren and any other regular activities are limited or eliminated, it’s time to intervene.

The typical patient at Duke Raleigh is 64 years old and has seen a steady progression of pain in the joint. That pain could have been going on for six months, or it could’ve worsened over a period of years. The joint in need of replacing is most commonly a knee or hip, but shoulder, finger and toe joints can also be replaced. Osteoarthritis is the most commidtownmag.com| xx

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Duke Raleigh team members work with a patient in the hospital’s Homeward Bound Gym.

mon diagnosis that brings someone in to the Total Joint Replacement Program.

The pain that results from a joint wearing down comes from bone rubbing against bone. During a total joint replacement, surgeons remove some of that bone and replace it with metal or plastic components. Then, bone and metal or plastic are interacting with one another. A patient will typically spend two to three nights in the hospital and will need to follow a course of physical and perhaps occupational therapy for a few weeks up to a few months after surgery.

“You will need follow-up care to regain mobility,” Jackson advises.

The relief is almost immediate, said Jackson. “Patients can feel a difference in their pain level very soon after surgery,” she said. “After the post-surgical pain wears off – which is within days – patients will typically feel relief.”

And, patients typically make a full return to the lifestyle they had before the joint pain started. “We caution against high-impact activities like jogging,” she said. “But golf, interacting with grandkids, walking, using the treadmill or the elliptical – all these things are possible.”

And, the art and science of what’s possible is what Duke Raleigh is all about.

Dr. David Fajgenbaum performs a large number of joint replacements at Duke Raleigh and says, “I choose to practice at Duke Raleigh because of the incredible team effort that involves the patient, the physician and the hospital staff. I’m proud that this certification differentiates the care that is provided at Duke Raleigh and the continual pursuit of excellence.”

Patients may not be familiar with the Joint Commission or its Gold Seal of Approval™, but they do know when their physicians and caregivers are offering them the highest standard of care.

At Duke Raleigh, the staff treats the whole person – not just the condition. The staff has created some innovative programs to help patients make a smooth post-op transition.

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Hitting a home run One of those programs involves a very visual element. “We’ve created a poster based on a baseball diamond that hangs in each patient’s room,” said Jackson. “It visually depicts what the patient needs to be doing each day as part of post-op care.

From home plate to first base represents the day of surgery.

So, it might read, ‘Surgery. Ankle exercises.’ Post-op day one is represented in the space from first to second base and instructs patients, ‘Walk 50 feet with assistance.’ As patients complete each goal, a staff member signs off on it.”

“It’s such a fun, non-medical way to chart progress,” Jackson said. “The patient is engaged. And, when grandkids come to visit, they always get excited about seeing how their grandmom or granddad is doing in the baseball game.”

While the Duke Raleigh Total Joint Replacement Program offers very personalized care, it is also a high-volume operation.

“We do this a lot,” said Jackson. “We performed over 700 hip and knee replacements last year. So, we know what to expect and can help patients anticipate what’s going to happen each day during their post-op care.”

Duke Raleigh further distinguishes its program by inviting all patients who have had a joint replaced to come back four to ten weeks after surgery to attend a free wellness class. “We want our patients to maximize the use of their new total joint. We hear a lot of people say, ‘I couldn’t exercise before the surgery because it hurt too much.’ Now that they can exercise, we want to help them do it safely.”

It’s all part of the Duke Raleigh Total Joint Replacement Program’s approach to a healthy post-op lifestyle. Patients are getting more than just a new joint when they come to Duke Raleigh; they’re getting their lives back. And that’s something worth doing sooner rather than later. midtownmag.com| 115

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“UPLIFTING” NEws For MEN

BY Carter & LaUra daLton, GNC AT NORTH HILLS

I can always tell when a man walks into our store looking for help with “intimacy” – he wanders around for a while, trying to nonchalantly glance at our selection (which is locked up), just hoping that a male sales associate will come out from the back. It can be a difficult subject for men to discuss – and a very common one. ok, so we’re grownups here. It’s no surprise that low sex drive or the inability to sustain an erection can be caused by a variety of things: medications, surgeries, hormone levels, smoking, alcohol/drug use or psychological factors, such as stress and depression. It affects all ages of men, sometimes for an unknown time period. While there are a variety of ways to deal with low libido or erectile dysfunction (known as ED), we are going to primarily focus on a few select supplements that have been shown to help with blood flow.

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Horny goat weed (I know – very apropos) is an herb that has been a traditional remedy in China for centuries.

It’s used for low libido, erectile dysfunction and fatigue.

Some men take horny goat weed in the belief that it’s a natural alternative to drugs for ED. Although still preliminary, a 2008 lab study found new evidence to support the idea. Epimedium, the active component of horny goat weed, appears to act in a similar manner to the “big three” drugs used for ED. Yohimbe is the name of an evergreen tree, whose bark contains a chemical called yohimbine, used to make medicine. Yohimbine can increase blood flow and nerve impulses to the penis and is used for erectile dysfunction, to arouse sexual excitement and to counteract side effects of certain medications (i.e. SSRIs used for depression). Note: Yohimbe may elevate blood pressure in certain individuals.

L-arginine is converted in the body into a chemical called nitric oxide. Nitric oxide causes blood vessels to open wider for improved blood flow. L-arginine also stimulates the release of growth hormone, insulin and other substances in the body. It is used to help maintain erections, as well as for working out and lowering blood pressure.

DHEA is a hormone that is naturally made by the human body, and can decrease as we age. It can be made in the laboratory from chemicals found in wild yam and soy. (Your body can’t make DHEA from these chemicals, so simply eating wild yam or soy will not increase DHEA levels.) DHEA is used by men for ED and to maintain well-being and sexuality. A simple blood test can determine if your DHEA level is low.

Ginkgo, an herb also used for memory, may help erectile dysfunction by increasing blood flow to the penis as well as possibly easing sexual side effects caused by antidepressants. Panax ginseng also seems to improve sexual function in some men with ED. To help offset premature ejaculation (reaching orgasm too early), some men use creams containing ginseng, applied directly to the skin of the penis.

Additional nutritional supplements: bioflavonoids, zinc, vitamin C, vitamin E, maca, and flaxseed meal have all been used to improve erectile function and vitality. Vitamin E in particular is sometimes recommended to accompany Viagra to enhance effectiveness.

Not sure which one to choose? While you can buy each individually, there are also a variety of blends containing these supplements available at health stores. Some you take daily; others (usually containing yohimbe and horny goat weed) you take an hour or so “before activity”. *As always, we recommend consulting your physician before beginning any supplementation program.

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Winter can be horrendous on the hair, from dry, frizzy hair to dull-looking hair color. There are many ways to combat these unwanted, untimely issues. With just a few tips you can transform your hair in absolute beauty.

Winter is the moisture season, and hair masks are the way to go. Putting a hair mask on your hair once a week will make all of the difference in the look and feel of your hair. A hair mask is a treatment in-between your shampoo and regular conditioner. So shampoo, hair mask, rinse, then condition. It helps flood the hair with nutrients while protecting the hair from the elements at the same time. And always use a leave-in conditioner after showering.

This helps put the final seal on the hairshaft.

Color vibrancy is another issue we all face in the colder months. Because of dry air, hair tends to look dull and lifeless.

Getting a semi-permanent color wash to add shine and luster is a great fix-it takes 20 minutes and will have your color in tip-top shape before your holiday get-together.

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CoMBATING wINTEr hAIr woEs BY don staCy, DS PARADA

Great ways to combat static electricity are pomades, and products with glycerin or mineral oil. These help tame the hair, but as a general rule fine hair should use a water-based pomade and course hair should use an oil-based pomade. Another way to tame those frizzies is to use shine spray or hairspray; spraying these products on a comb and then combing through the hair will put a sure end to those unwanted flyaways.

Hair trimming is essential to great winter hair. Because hair can get dry and brittle when the temperature dips down, the ends of your hair tend to break off more easily. Getting regular trims will help keep your hair healthy and actually help it grow out nicely. So scheduled end trims every four to six weeks is a must.

Also this is the time of year when “go out blow outs� become very popular. You can definitely enhance your look and be the life of the party with smooth, fabulous, professionally styled hair.

So there is no need for dull hair this winter, there are plenty of remedies for any condition of hair. Happy Holidays!

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why so dry?

by Andrew Ghassemian, MD, Dr. Audrey F. Echt Dermatology Center

Dry skin, also known as xerosis, is one of the most common skin conditions I see in my practice. When the skin gets too dry, it can lead to rough, scaly areas of skin. This can lead to itch, and occasionally, small cracks in the skin can form.

Common causes of dry skin include cold weather, frequent bathing and medical conditions such as atopic dermatitis (“eczema�). Dry skin can be seen in people of all ages, races, and genders. However, dry skin is more common in older age; nearly all individuals over the age of 60 have some degree of dry skin.

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Several environmental factors can lead to dry skin.

These include low humidity (which, in North Carolina, occurs during cooler months), frequent bathing, using harsh or drying soaps, and bathing with hot water. In addition to these environmental factors, certain medical conditions may lead to dry skin. These medical conditions include atopic dermatitis or eczema, icthyosis, diabetes, hypothyroidism, liver or kidney disease, malnutrition, HIV/AIDS and lymphoma.

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Healthy bathing habits are at the core of this regimen. The following bathing habits will improve dry skin: • Take a bath or shower only once daily. More frequent bathing can make the skin lose water (dehydrate).

• Use lukewarm (not hot) water.

• Limit showers and baths to 15 minutes or less.

• Avoid harsh deodorant soaps (or limit their use to armpits, groin, and feet).

• Switch to a non-soap cleanser, such as Dove or Cetaphil.

• Pat (don’t rub) the skin dry after bathing.

Patients with dry skin will notice dull, rough areas of skin with fine scales or flaking. Some patients will also develop small cracks within these dry areas of skin. Inflammation of these areas can lead to pink or red patches. If severe enough, the inflammation can cause the skin to feel itchy. The most common areas for dry skin to develop include the legs (especially the shins), arms, flanks and hands.

Any patient who develops dry skin will benefit from following a set of skin care guidelines that aim to rehydrate the skin and control symptoms of inflammation or itchiness.

The next step is to moisturize the skin. I recommend applying moisturizer immediately after bathing, while the skin is still holding some water from the shower or bath. I also recommend using moisturizer throughout the day as needed. In particular, patients with dry skin on their hands may need to re-apply their moisturizer after washing their hands. Cream- and ointment-based moisturizers will be more effective than lotions, which are water based. Some patients may need to use moisturizers containing glycolic acid, lactic acid or urea.

Patients with inflammation or itchiness related to their dry skin may also need to use corticosteroid creams. Hydrocortisone cream is one such corticosteroid cream, and is available over the counter. Occasionally, patients may require prescription-strength corticosteroid creams to control these symptoms. See your doctor for an evaluation if the above self-care measures do not cure your dry skin.

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Charlotte’s held a Girls Night Out featuring Mollybeads Jewelry trunk show on Thursday, September 16th. Guests enjoyed appetizers as they shopped!

Trunk show at kristen’s

Kristen’s Shoe Boutique held a trunk Show on October 1st and 2nd featuring Lucchese boots. Guests were able to meet with the representative and learn about designing and customizing their own boots.

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On Thursday, October 7th a grand opening event was held to celebrate Priscilla of Boston’s newest salon here in Raleigh’s Cameron Village. Guests mingled with Raleigh’s top wedding vendors and enjoyed cocktails and hors d’oeuvres while browsing the fabulous wedding gowns and accessories.

saks holds fashion’s night out

On Friday, September 10th from 6-9pm Saks Fifth Avenue participated in Fashion’s Night Out. The theme this year was rock ‘n’ roll.

Guests enjoyed live entertianment, free dance lessons, makeovers in cosmetics, complimentary hair consultations and more.

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champagne reception

Rodolfo Gonzales Interior Design held a champagne reception to celebrate their appointment as Baker Furniture’s exclusive retail dealer in the Triangle. For seven days following the event, a portion of all sales was donated to Wake County’s Habitat for Humanity.

tea tasting

Tin Roof Teas (formerly TeaGschwendner) held an encore tea tasting on September 18th featuring Chinese Black Teas.

Guests enjoyed learning about and sampling the various teas paired with a sweet treat.

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Vermillion held their 2010 Fall Fashion show on Thursday, September 16th at 1pm and 6pm. Guests enjoyed champagne and appetizers as they viewed the latest trends in fashion and accessories.

dinner on stage

NC Theatre’s 6th annual Dinner on Stage was held on September 20th at Raleigh Memorial Auditorium.

Guests enjoyed walking among the props and set of Little Shop of Horrors as they enjoyed cocktails and dinner.

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This holiday season is all about statement accessories.

Look for stand-out necklaces and bangles, and handbags with fringe and flower details to dress up your favorite LBDs! Available at Fedora.

“Each day comes bearing its own gifts. Untie the ribbons.” ~ Ruth Ann Schabacker While this wonderful quote refers to intangible gifts, there’s simply no denying the very real pleasure of unwrapping a package and lifting the lid to see what’s inside.

This holiday, engage in thoughtful giving. Whether you spend a little or a lot, it doesn’t matter. A carefully chosen gift shows that you thought about that person sincerely. You know their favorite color or style. Or remembered the one item that made them laugh in delight. On these pages, we’ve featured unique gifts from local businesses that are bound to catch your eye and perhaps even win the hearts of the special people in your life. At the very least, it’ll give you ideas and lead you in the right direction.

Let the wheels start turning…

Give the gift of radiant skin with iS Clinical’s White Lightening™. Clinically proven to safely lighten and brighten your skin. $125 – Cream Complex $115 – Serum. Available at Audrey Echt Dermatology & Cosmetic Surgery.

(above) Hand-blown glass birds from Finnish artist Oira Toikka are the signature gift from The Umstead Hotel Gift Shop.

An especially natural and artful gift! (below) A gift basket from the Umstead Spa is a thoughtful gift of well-being. Tuck in a gift card for spa treatments for the ultimate healthful present.

Available at The Umstead Hotel and Spa.

Wrap up in style this winter with this reversible merino wool ruana.

Additional colors available in store and by special order. One size. $298, Available at Tyler House.

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Unique and unexpected, Ippolita has designed a gorgeous collection of 18k gold statement pieces. Shown here are 18k Gold Rock Candy® cascade earrings and octagon bangle. Available at Bailey’s Fine Jewelers.

Latisse® for longer, thicker eyelashes. Full size Latisse, plus full size Vivite anti-aging product free with rebate from the Triangle’s top provider of Latisse®, Botox® and Juvederm®. Available at Bluewater Spa.

Halston Heritage patent clutch is here for the holidays in stunning sapphire! $185, Available at Anna & Alice.

(right) We believe that good wine deserves a beautiful outfit, a nice glass and a stylish, fun way to find your wine in the crowd. Available at Stuf’n Such at Shops of Baileywick.

Mark Robert’s Fairies are a wonderful addition to any holiday tree, mantel or centerpiece. Each fairy is highly collectible, with its own personality for fun throughout the year. Available at Atlantic Avenue Orchid & Garden.

(below) John Wind Bracelet. Modern vintage designer jewelry. We have a large selection, including the signature initial bracelet in gold and silver.

Available at I’elegance du maison at Affordable Chic Shops.

45rpm vinyl record mirror by Vitreluxe.

These 45rpm record mirrors are a blast from the past! Records are selected for color and graphic interest. Or, personalize by using your own singles! $100, Available at Beyond Blue Interiors.

Estate diamond bangle bracelet with approximately 4.39ct total weight. Oxidized sterling backed with 14k gold. $2,249, Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

ToSh Handcrafted Jewelry. Dragonflies are reminders that we are light and can reflect the light in powerful ways if we choose to do so. Available at Shops of Baileywick.

(bottom) Winter Installation Special!

All contracts signed by December 31st, 2010 will receive a 5% discount – up to $5,000 off! Available at Pool Professionals.

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Replace that coat with this hand-knitted three-button wrap, available in many colors – the answer to cool weather, travel and that special gift. Available at The Rouse House at Shops of Baileywick.

The accessory worn by the stars. Tolani scarves add the final touches to your wardrobe. Variety of colors and patterns. $78, Available at Certain Things.

(left) English stationery box with double action opening mechanism, fitted with silver quartering, shields and handles circa 1880. $285, Available at Boone’s Antiques at Shops of Baileywick.

Great holiday gifts and decorations are available through the Assistance League of Raleigh. Trees, wreaths, gift items and more.

A wonderful, fun permanent lighted gingerbread house.

Use new and pass on to the next generation.

Works as a great centerpiece for your table or to give a special effect to a dark area.

Available at Gecko’s Corner at Affordable Chic Shops.

(right) Art in light. To give both light and catch the eye. Inspired by driftwood – Jamie Young lamps.

Available at Awesome Abode at Shops of Baileywick.

Dog Collars and Leashes. Handcrafted in USA. Practical yet whimsical cotton fabrics for comfort, high-tensile webbing inner liner for strength. Great gift for your pet.

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This limited edition home fragrance diffuser, No. 11,

by Antica Farmacista is reminiscent of holiday luxury with notes of mandarin, verbena, blood orange, cinnamon and nutmeg. $65, Available at Lavender and Lace.

X Diamond Earrings make the perfect diamond earring for ladies of all ages. 14k white or yellow gold. $245, Available at Charlotte’s.

Get a whiter smile for the holidays with bleaching systems for $149 and the Sonicare flexcare toothbrushes from $99-$119. Available at Baker Cosmetic Dentistry of Raleigh.

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William Henry Limited Edition Knife (44/50) features a diamond like carbon (DLC) coated tungsten blade mounted in a carbon fiber scaled case made of Superconductor copper/ niobium coils. $1100.00, available at Jolly’s Jewelers.

Goldwell’s Big Finish hairspray, Kerasilk shampoo and conditioner for moisture, S Factor silky smooth to smooth away those fly aways.

Goldwell’s hair mask for extra moisture to help keep the hair in tip-top shape and completely hydrated. Available at ds Parada Color Salon.

Arrive in style and accessorized with high fashion jewelry wearing a sweater from Pure. Available at Cathy’s at Shops of Baileywick.

Macadamia Nut Intro Kit will make her hair shimmer like snowflakes! Macadamia is perfect for all hair types, especially dry hair. $100, Available at Lux Salon of North Raleigh.

A pair of 14k yellow gold earrings containing citrine weighing 2.85ct accented by a double halo of white diamonds and cognac brown diamonds.

Available at Diamonds Direct Crabtree.

The holidays are sweeter with cupcakes!

Now taking orders for gifts & holiday parties!

Pumpkin, eggnog, peppermint, & gingerbread with adorable custom embellishments. $3 & up, available at The Cupcake Shoppe Bakery.

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One-of-a-kind, vintage crystal and rhinestone necklace with earrings.

Available at Roman Antiques and Gifts at Shops of Baileywick.

You’ll both look great when you give the gift of beauty in a stylish box or basket. We can customize them for the perfect gift. $25-$350, Available at David Wade Salon.

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Give the gift of dance. Tickets are available for Raleigh Dance Theatre’s Storybook Tales November 6th & 7th as well at The Spring Repertoire May 7th.

Available at The Raleigh School of Ballet.

Alegria means happiness and it is our belief that shoes should make you happy. Alegria shoes. Available at Pixie Stix at Shops of Baileywick The perfect holiday gift! Create your own sampler pack with over 50 different kinds of oils and balsamics. $29.99 for three bottles, Available at Midtown Olive Press.

(top) Handmade work of art. Wreath with vintage antique ornaments of memorable times gone by. Along with the wreath you will see furniture, accessories, etc. to update your home. Available at The Shabby Rose at Affordable Chic Shops.

Customized gift baskets for any tea lover include a teapot, their favorite teas, Savannah Bee Honey and gourmet chocolates or tea cookies. Prices start at $25, Available at Tin Roof Teas.

(right) Gift Baskets! Bellagio chocolates, Moravian cookies, cordials, assorted gifts.

Gift baskets done to specifications. You choose price, products or pre-made. Individual, corporate baskets, boxes available.

Available at Affordable Chic Shops.

Indulge loved ones or yourself this season with one of Aveda’s gift sets. Available at Von Kekel Salon Spa.

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Beauty starts within...a handbag insert and accessory line that will change the way you live. The ultimate handbag organizer which can easily be moved from one handbag to another. Priced from $20-$65, Available at Kristen’s Shoe Boutique.

Each Mustardseed and Moonshine serving piece is handmade and painted in brilliant colors to celebrate the botanticals of South Africa. Add vitality to any party with these unique pieces. Available at Quintessentials.

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Wear them alone or stack them up.

Italian designed handmade bracelets with rose-cut amethyst, citrine, blue topaz and prehnite. 14k yellow gold.

Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

Keep the taste and lose the fat this holiday season with great tasting Max Protein.

22g protein, 118 cal., 1g sugar and fortified with vitamins. A quick and easy, low-fat, low-carb meal replacement or snack. Come sample a flavor today! Available at GNC – North Hills.

Anya Hindmarch Gold “lipstick money” coin purse. All Dressed Up tribal lariat. Loeffler Randall black ankle bootie. Available at Vermillion.

(right) Create a fresh holiday look for yourself with a private makeup lesson from one of Synergy Spa’s professional makeup artists. A great gift for teens, moms and girlfriends!

Available at Synergy Spa.

(top) Stunning assortment of lacquer finished giclee-art printed trays! Both whimsical and serene, these 15" x 15" trays are great for gifts and for your home. $60, Available at Zest Cafe & Home Art.

V-Neck cashmere sweaters in 18 colors.

Available at Varsity Men’s Wear.

Champagne at its best. Feuillatte Palmes D’Or Brut – for that special person.

Coastline Cabernet gift basket – crackers, cheese and wine… a great holiday gift.

Available at Total Wine – North Hills.

Catering to the missy customer, Suzio’s offers unique styles with jewelry to match your selections. With sizes from S-3X, Suzio’s offers something for everyone.

Available at Suzio’s at Shops of Baileywick.

The hottest fashion item: Bezel set rose-cut amethyst, citrine, blow topaz & prehnite necklace in 14k yellow gold. $395, Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

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Hand beaded evening purse in elegant flame stitch pattern.

Black bulge beads and gold and pewter tone beads. Evening bags starting at under $100. Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

Unique, handcrafted jewelry, elegant hand-painted silk scarves and artistic greeting cards. Crafts are handmade by local artist.

Available at Sivana Studio at Shops of Baileywick.

Sothy’s Skincare and Signature Rituals.

Indulge the ones you love with the most luxurious skincare in the world.

Sothy’s, the signature of excellence is the perfect complement to any skin or body treatment! Available at Modern Enhancement Salon & Spa.

Just Be-Claus! Whether you are dressing your table or surprising a friend, flowers make the perfect holiday treat. Bespoke bouquets from Santa’s favorite florist Available at The English Garden beginning at $25.

Make your mark with the Noteworthy Snap Stamp from InvitationBox.com. This stamp base allows you to customize stationery with multiple interchangeable face designs. Priced from $38.99-$47.99, Available at InvitationBox.com.

New to UGG® this Fall, the Finnegan is sleek, sophisticated and fashionable. This boot is sure to become a basic in your wardrobe this fall. $180, Available at Mobley’s Shoes.

Missoni Scarves!

A multitude of colors and patterns such as stripes, geometrics, abstract florals and their ever famous zigzags. Available at gena chandler.

The award-winning UGLYDOLL plush characters inspire creativity while reminding us that we are all unique in our own special way.

Available at Bautista Interiors at Shops of Baileywick.

Give the gift of entertainment with tickets to see A Christmas Carol in Raleigh at Memorial Auditorium December 8th-15th. Available at theatreinthepark.com.

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Make your holidays savory. All of these seasonings are easy to use and can change an ordinary meal into one that is filled with flavor and keep your kitchen cooking! $22, Available at Savory Spice Shop.

Pamper your loved one (or yourself – we won’t tell) with luxurious gift sets from Redken and Pureology, $7-$19. Get perfectly styled hair for all of your holiday photos with the I-PRO tourmaline ionic thermal round brush; comes in a convenient carrying case for $26.99, Available at Salon Blu.

(below) Estate Cartier Tank Watch with original deployment buckle and black lizzard band. 18k yellow gold. This watch feautres a curved crystal and cabachon sapphire crown. $2,395, Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

Tory Burch travel, cosmetic, and jewelry bags. So many different sizes, fabrics and patterns to choose from.

Lightweight and easy to pack.

Pick just one or choose a set.

Starting at $55, Available at Monkee’s of Raleigh.

Ruby red Italian blood oranges infused with soft summer floral notes of jasmine, rose and lilly present a fresh, delicious fragrance available in soaps, candles and body butters. Available at Luxe. (left) Folk art and primitive decorative accessories, such as the rusty coffee pot arrangement and popular Warm Glow candles are Available at Spice Cupboard at the Shops of Baileywick.

Need a hostess gift? Come by and get a dozen of Raleigh’s favorite treats. At $14 a dozen, ham rolls are the perfect gift. Available at Ladyfingers Caterers.

(right) Embroidery services are a great holiday gift, whether you purchase ours or bring in your own. Available at Fun and Fabulous at the Shops of Baileywick.

A smile is your first impression.

Why not put your best face forward!

In-office laser bleaching with Sonicare Professional Toothbrush. $299, Available at Renaissance Dental.

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Complete Hart and Wells Orthodontics Gift Package! An orthodontic gift certificate and a sonicare toothbrush are gifts that will last a lifetime! Call for details. Available at Hart & Wells Orthodontics.

(left) These vintage olive forks come individually or accompanied with martini olives. Visit us for interesting gifts and home décor – our name says it all! Available at Simply Must Have at Shops of Baileywick. (right) Items like this bright and colorful curio along with many other unique finds are great gifts for the season. Available at Purple Petunia Gifts at Shops of Baileywick.

Eat, Pray, Love Jewelry and Gemstone Bookmarks. Make this season bright for everyone on your gift-giving list with a heartwarming gift from the spa boutique. Elegant, complimentary gift wrap available!

Available at Skin Sense, A Day Spa.

Exquisite Manuel Canovas candles! They come in a variety of scents and are beautifully packaged. A great gift for any occasion, and perfect for the holidays! Starting at only $18!

Available at Eatman’s Carepts & Interiors.

This navy leather Chloe handbag and black suede L.A.M.B booties are just a taste of the fabulous designers Revolver has to offer you! $420/$150, Available at Revolver.

Tic Toc is the name of this hand-painted and uniquely crafted Luna Bella table clock. Let us be your “Ultimate Shopping Experience.”

Available at Shops of Baileywick.

Beautiful Accent Table with petrified wood top and iron for that unique gift for that someone special. $999 (20% off) during the holiday season.

Available at Rodolfo Gonzales.

Colorful Hermes silk scarves and cashmere/silk shawls are beautiful works of art by famous artists.

They make prized gifts that are treasured for a lifetime. $225, Available at Villa Consegna.

Betty Dunham’s “Nelson”, Black Lab, 8” x 10” acrylic on canvas.

Pet portraits starting at $125, unframed. Also offered: original landscapes, seascapes and still life. Available for commissioned work. Available at Design Studio at Affordable Chic Shops.

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Pave Diamond Huggie Earrings with approximately .95ct total diamond weight set in 14k white gold. Just right to wear all the time! $749, Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

Flow Blue Collection, antique china, fabulous vintage crystal (including Waterford), select art and pieces of fine antique furniture. Lee also offers Howard’s, hangers, etc.

Priced from $33 and up.

Available at Lee’s Collections at Affordable Chic Shops.

(left) Grey “Pearl” Necklace with gem studded gold stations. (bottom) Alexis Bittar Warm Grey “Deco” Hinged Bracelet. Both of these fabulous pieces are by Alexis Bittar, winner of the 2010 Accessory Designer of the year award. A great accompaniment to your fall wardrobe. Alexis Bittar Collection starting at $39, Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

Sumptuous fabric and fit make this cami and lounge pant from FAUVE a luxurious gift for that special someone. Pair this with the matching bra and panty for the ultimate holiday gift. Available at The Bra Patch.

Ocean blue Capiz shell earrings made in the Phillipines – $12. Vietnamese nativity shaped from recycled newsprint – $28. Recycled, copper-colored jewelry tree from India – $44. Available at Ten Thousand Villages. mm tip in gift guide.indd 13

Bright and Festive holiday serving set from Mandy Bagwell’s Simply Christmas collection. New pieces debut each year in this highly collectable series. Bowl $69.99, Servers $34.99.

Available at Homewood Nursery & Garden Center.

Knobstoppers make a unique stopper for any bottle, from olive oil to wine. Each is handcrafted from an actual vintage doorknob, creating a one-of-a-kind gift. Available at Revival Antiques.

The hardgoods, travel bags, leases and of courses boards for that much needed winter trip. Right here, right within your grasp. Available at Whalebone Urban Surf.

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Gift the gift of comfort and home.

Interior and Landscape design consultations

by Defining Design start at $75 – inside or out. Let’s create your definition! Available at Defining Design.

(left) Gecko’s Corner offers the Holiday Collection of Greenleaf fragrances in all your favorite products… the perfect gift for that special person.

Available at Gecko’s Corner at Shops of Baileywick.

Beautifully designed handmade, hand-selected leather handbags from Greece. Using leather with alternative materials, “FRNC Francesco” creates a uniquely personal style. Available only at C.T. Weekends.

(top right) Designer rose-cut warm smokey topaz earrings. Bezel set in 14k yellow gold with Euro wires. $295.

Holiday arrangements for your enjoyment.

Let us decorate your table, door or that special mantel. Available at Genene’s Floral Design at Shops of Baileywick.

(bottom right) Real South Sea pearl and diamond earrings. 10 x 9.5mm detachable pearls on diamond hoops. 14k white gold.

Two earrings for one price! $749.

Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

(left) Back by popular demand. 100% cotton 1/2 zip funnel is made exclusively for CoolSweats and is available in over 10 colors! $75, Available at CoolSweats. (bottom) Celebrate holiday entertaining in style.

Come see our playful party dishes, stunning tree trimmings, fabulous holiday décor and more. Available at Noble Interiors at Shops of Baileywick.

Give a gift that’s sure to please – an updated kitchen or bathroom!

Visit out store at North Hills for details. Available at Kitchen and Bath Galleries.

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Special stocking stuffers.

Elegantly wrapped Izabella soaps, candles, bath salts and lotions great for your holiday gifts! Izabella gifts range from $15-$42. Available at Hayley’s Boutique!

Clarisonic is sonic skin care for noticeably softer, smoother and firmer skin on the face and body.

Used by leading dermatologists and fine spas. Available at Glo de Vie Med Spa.

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(left) Sleep tight in these soft rayon jersey PJ’s by Arianne. The baby doll tunic and leggings are sure to compliment any figure.

Available in black and beaujolais. Available at J. Alane’s.

(right) Make “Holiday Magic” with A&E Designs, a preferred Mark Roberts retailer, for his latest offerings as well as a variety of other sparkling delights.

Available at A&E Designs at Shops of Baileywick.

Get that jump start on the new year and give someone you care about a gift card from Metabolic Research Center. Our physiciandesigned weight loss programs work where others have failed!

Available at Metabolic Research Center...

Weight Loss Specialists.

(top) This Italian designed diamond link bracelet has approximately 3.20ct. total diamond weight. Set in 18k white gold. The perfect “go to” bracelet. $1,995. (right) Ladies fashion watch with mother-ofpearl dial and faceted crystal. Cubic zirconia bezel and end caps and leather seude strap make the perfect timepiece for all your special occasions. $95.

Available at The Elaine Miller Collection.

giftcertificates Sparians Bowling Boutique & Bistro

Whether it’s to meet, greet, eat or compete; spare your friends and family from your typical outing. Treat them to a Sparian’s gift card.

Chef Mario’s Personal Chef Services

Give the gift that keeps on giving! Chef Mario’s Personal Chef Meal Delivery Packages start at just $185 for dinner for two to five days.

Midtown Grille

An experience that will be sure to exceed your expectations.

Raleigh Hair Concepts

Do you know of someone or maybe yourself that suffers from hair loss and/or thinning? You can give the gift of a lifetime.

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Raleigh Plastic Surgery Center

Raleigh Plastic Surgery Center has been a leader in providing aesthetic and reconstructive excellence for over 35 years. Your loved one will truly appreciate our warm and friendly atmosphere.

Saint-Jacques French Cuisine

The south of France is only minutes away. Share a gift certificate with a loved one and experience it for yourselves!

Second Empire

Give a gift for the Ultimate Dining Experience at Second Empire.

Gift certificates available.

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shopping

DIRECTORY

Affordable Chic Shops 2315 Lynn Rd, Raleigh (919) 846-0676 Anna & Alice 8490 Honeycutt Rd. Ste. 108, Raleigh (919) 900-8954 Assistance League of Raleigh (919) 623-7734 Atlantic Avenue Orchid & Garden 5217 Atlantic Ave, Raleigh (919) 878-8877 Bailey’s Fine Jewelers 415 Daniels St, Raleigh (919) 829-7337* BeyondBlue Interiors 4151 Main at North Hills (919) 896-6630 Bluewater Spa 10941 Raven Ridge Rd, Raleigh (919) 870-6066 The Bra Patch 1603 N Market Dr, Raleigh (919) 876-8677 Brooke & Birdie Interior Design (919) 827-6261 (919) 215-7675 Café Tiramsu 6196 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh (919) 981-0305 Cameron Bar & Grill 2018 Clark Ave, Raleigh (919) 755-2231 Certain Things 4350 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 786-6104* Charlotte’s 4350 Lassiter at North Hills Mall, Raleigh (919) 787-7113* Chef Mario’s Personal Chef Services 2610 Wycliff Rd, Raleigh (919) 781-3073 CoolSweats 4421-110 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 782-0012* Cosmetic Dentistry of Raleigh: Dr. Baker 200 Sawmill Rd, Raleigh (919) 847-5283 C.T. Weekends 2603-141 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh (919) 787-9073* Cupcake Shoppe Bakery 104 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh (919) 821-4223 David Wade Salon 612 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh (919) 834-1101 Defining Designs (919) 270-4137 Diamonds Direct Crabtree 4401 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh (919) 571-2881* Dr. Echt 10931 Raven Ridge Rd Ste. 101, Raleigh (919) 870-6600 DS Parada Color Cafe 6520 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh (919) 790-1707 Eatman’s Carpets & Interiors 8101 Glenwood Ave, Raleigh (919) 782-6010 The Elaine Miller Collection 4421-109A Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 571-8888 The English Garden 6308 Angus Dr, Raleigh (919) 341-6650 Fedora Boutique 419 Daniels St, Raleigh (919) 828-2728 gena chandler 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 881-9480 Glo De Vie 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 510-5919 GNC at North Hills 4421 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 787-0462 Hart & Wells Orthodontics 3803 Computer Dr. # 100, Raleigh (919) 781-7330 Hayley’s Boutique 4350 North Hills Ave, Raleigh (919) 369-0083 Homewood Nursery & Garden Center 10809 Honeycutt Rd, Raleigh (919) 847-0117 InvitationBox.com www.invitationbox.com (866) 862-7382 J. Alanes 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 881-8058 Jolly’s Jewelers & Silversmith 4321 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 832-5571 Kitchen & Bath Galleries 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 600-6200 Kristen’s Shoe Boutique 2045 Renaissance Park Pl, Cary (919) 678-1234 Ladyfingers Caterers 627 E. Whitaker Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 828-2270 Lambeth Plastic Surgery 4201 Lake Bone Trail #103, Raleigh (919) 782-1818

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Lavender and Lace 2031 Cameron St, Raleigh (919) 828-6007 Lux Salon spa 910-109 Spring Forest Rd, Raleigh (919) 790-7011 Luxe 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 881-7828 Metabolic Research Center 224 High House Rd #104, Cary (919) 651-9120 Midtown grille 4421-115 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 782-9463 Midtown Olive Press 4421-105 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 510-5510 Mobley’s Shoes 7422 Creedmoor Rd, Raleigh (919) 518-1640 Modern Enhancement Salon and Spa 8320 Litchford Rd, Raleigh (919) 875-8668 Monkee’s of raleigh 4158 Main at North Hills St, Raleigh (919) 785-1400 North Ridge Pub 6196 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh (919) 981-6005 Pool Professionals 6201 Westgate Rd, Raleigh (919) 787-7878 Quintessentials 4421 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 785-0787 Raleigh Hair Concepts 128 Mine Lake Ct, Raleigh (919) 841-0336 Raleigh Plastic Surgery Center 1112 Dresser Ct, Raleigh (919) 872-2616 Renaissance Dental Center 8303-A Computer Dr #200, Raleigh (919) 786-6766 Revival Antiques 1505 Capital Blvd #14, Raleigh (919) 833-3444 Revolver Consignment Boutique 124 Glenwood Ave #2, Raleigh (919) 834-3053 Rodolfo Gonzales Interior Design 4381-105 Lassiter at North Hills Ave, Raleigh (919) 573-4010 Saint-Jacques French Cuisine 6112 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh (919) 862-2770 Salon Blu 141-108 Park at North Hills St, Raleigh (919) 900-8212 * Savory Spice Shop 8470 Honeycutt Rd Ste. 108, Raleigh (919) 900-8291 Second Empire 330 Hillsborough St, Raleigh (919) 829-3663 Shops of Baileywick 9650 Strickland Rd #167, Raleigh (919) 845-5520 Skin Sense, a day spa 6801 Falls of Neuse Rd, Raleigh (919) 870-0700* Sparians Bowling Boutique & Bistro 141 Park at North Hills St Ste. 120, Raleigh (919) 803-3718 Synergy Spa 2603 Glenwood Ave #121C, Raleigh (919) 510-5130 Tin Roof Teas 419 Daniels St, Raleigh (919) 834-9000 Ten Thousand Villages 435 Woodburn Rd, Raleigh (919) 821-1100 THE Raleigh School of Ballet 3921 Beryl Rd, Raleigh (919) 834-9261 THE Umstead Hotel and Spa 100 Woodland Pond Dr, Cary (919) 447-4000 Theatre in the Park 107 Pullen Rd, Raleigh (919) 831-6936 Total Wine & More 4216-115 The Circle at North Hills, Raleigh (919) 232-2580* Tyler House 4421 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 781-9210 Varsity Men’s Wear 4350 Lassiter at North Hills, Raleigh (919) 782-2570 Vermillion 4321-102 Lassiter at North Hills Ave, Raleigh (919) 787-9780 Villa Consegna 2003 Fairview Rd, Raleigh (919) 828-3737 Von Kekel Aveda Salon Spa 4209 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (919) 782-0808* Whalebone Urban Surf 4209-102 Lassiter Mill Rd, Raleigh (877) 855-1975 Zest Café & Home Art 8831 Six Forks Rd, Raleigh (919) 848-4792

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