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Saturday, July 3, 2010
Vol. 4 No. 26
LOUNGE THE WEEKEND MAGAZINE
MAKE CRISP WINE TALK >Page 9
SINGLE, AND READY TO BE A PARENT It’s legally viable, but arduous for singles to adopt children in India. The story of Nilufer Mistry is testimony to this >Page 6
ON THE BALL
Every four years, a corner of northern Kerala joins the world stage. Savour the flavour >Page 13
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POP CULTURE
Delhi’s ‘banta’ lemon soda has a history as effervescent as the drink—with a curious contribution to the freedom struggle >Page 18
LUXURY CULT
THE GOOD LIFE
RADHA CHADHA
ARE YOU IN THE JAM SORORITY?
I
am sitting at the Delhi airport lounge and the group of 50-somethings next to me is discussing strategies to manage their daughters-in-law. The image that emerges is very different from the hapless toli of overdressed bahuranis that inhabit the soaps on TV, who are constantly being tossed around by antique social norms, tyrannical mothers-in-law, and just plain lousy kismet (fate). These about-to-board-a-plane bunch of in-laws talk instead of self-willed daughters-in-law who have to be handled with care, who have jobs... >Page 4
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THE MANLY ART OF DEWEAPONIZING NONAPOLOGY OUR VANITY
R
ecently, a number of men I know have mastered a nifty manoeuvre: the art of saying “sorry” without actually saying the words. Typically, the culprit in question does something like this: come up from behind and hug the offended party. Sometimes, he sweet-talks. “You look cute when you are mad,” he’ll say. Naturally, she (or he, if they are a gay couple) will smile, if grudgingly. Women are suckers for the word “cute” when it is applied to any part of their anatomy. >Page 4
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ho is our atom bomb aimed at? We have only two enemies: China and Pakistan. Our bomb is aimed at them. India’s nuclear doctrine specifies no first use. This means we will not use the bomb unless our enemy first uses it on us. This reveals two things: 1) We have no offensive intention; 2) But we are concerned that China and Pakistan might. How valid is that concern? Let us look at what these states want from us. We were defeated by China in a short border war... >Page 5
PHOTO ESSAY
OFF COURT TAKES CENTRE STAGE