East Bay Scene Magazine Spring 2011

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Scene THE EAST BAY’S GUIDE TO STYLE

ALL THINGS BRIDAL

NEW WAYS TO CONCEIVE

COPING WITH LIFE’S SECOND ACTS

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features spring fashion

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Vow wows: Gems, hairpieces to complete your look. By Janet Kim Paik

56 Bold & Bright Vivid hues and soft, clean lines. By Donna Kato Photos by Christina Hernandez

the guide for brides 80 The Perfect Dress From the spellbinding to the sublime. By Hasti KashďŹ a Photos by Delbarr Moradi

99 Singular Sensations Unique spots to tie the knot. By Erika Kittler Brown

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Beauty Report Be your best on your big day. By Melinda Sacks

106 Haute Stuff Fun and festive wedding favors. By Crystal Chow

114 In the Garden Succulent bouquets and boutonnieres. By Joan Jackson


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body & soul special report

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Pamela Freund-Striplen brings together the right artists with the right music, and sparks fly. By Georgia Rowe Photos by José Carlos Fajardo

75 Second Acts Big changes in your life or career? Embrace them – or at least learn how to make them work for you. By Donna Lynn Rhodes

New Ways to Conceive Medical advances in fertility mean women have more choices than before. By Melinda Sacks

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Lynette’s Story Chemo treatments could save her life but leave her unable to bear children. How one woman was able to preserve her fertility.

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140 137 At the Table Fig’s Ray Garcia. By Katharine Fong

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The Insider Summer trends, good stuff from local beauty companies. By Stephanie Simons

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Shop Talk The Pickled Hutch in Pacifica, and The Red Box in Walnut Creek

129 Getaways Southern California resorts lure visitors with sun, sand – and recycling. By Katharine Fong

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140 Home & Design Designing with soul: doing the right thing with décor and materials. By Donna Kato

144 End Matters Sonia Arrison says science and tech will soon let us live till we’re 150, so we might as well prepare for it. By Julia Prodis Sulek

152 Seen Big fun around town. Plus: Maddie’s Adoptathon!


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Scene Rebecca Hall-Lucero Art Director Donna Kato Contributing Fashion & Beauty Editor Crystal Chow Melinda Sacks Stephanie Simons Julia Prodis Sulek Contributing Writers Joanne Ho-Young Lee Patrick Tehan Contributing Photographers Rebecca Parr Copy Editor Jasmine Duarte Intern Scene Magazine Vol. 3, No. 1, Copyright 2011 by the Bay Area News Group All rights reserved. Material herein may not be reprinted without expressed written consent of the publisher. Make sure you receive every issue of Scene Magazine. Email scene@bayareanewsgroup. com, or write to Scene Magazine, 2640 Shadelands Drive, Walnut Creek, CA 94598 Get social with Scene: SceneBayArea.com Facebook.com/SceneBayArea Twitter: SceneBayArea

Join us! Our Fall 2011 issue publishes August 12, full of fashion, design, health and wellness, and locals you’ll want to know.

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Katharine Fong Editor & Publisher

Of babies, weddings and fresh starts It’s an unthinkable situation: Lynette Leighton was 37, divorced and childless when she was diagnosed with invasive breast cancer. The treatment that could save her life – chemotherapy – would also leave her infertile. She had to act quickly. Under the guidance of Dr. Mitchell Rosen, head of UC San Francisco’s Fertility Preservation Center, she chose a sperm donor, fertilized her eggs, harvested and froze her embryos, then began chemo – all the while not knowing if she’d live long enough to be a mother. “Lynette’s Story” (Page 45) ends on an upbeat note, as Leighton has been cancer-free for two years. It underscores the lengths to which many will go to bear a child. “Everybody takes it for granted that if they want to, they will be able to have children, and they spend much of their lives trying to not get pregnant,” Rosen says. “Then when they want a child and can’t have one, it is heartbreaking.” Our larger story on cutting-edge fertility treatments (Page 39), by Melinda Sacks, broadened my understanding of how science and technology, and professionals like Rosen, are making it easier to conceive, and to ensure that babies will be healthy and normal. These innovations allow women and men to get past common infertility issues, such as endometriosis, low sperm count and age – and also more complicated problems such as Leighton’s. It’s a provocative read. The rest of this issue? We have weddings on the brain, what with William and Kate’s spectacle coming later this month, and the annual nuptial season gearing up. I invite you to join in: Check out our spellbinding bridal fashions layout on Page 80, styled by Hasti Kashfia, then debate Erika Kittler Brown’s picks of the best local spots to tie the knot (Page 99), and peek at some creative wedding favors and florals (Pages 106 and 114, respectively). And don’t miss Donna Lynn Rhodes’ look at “Second Acts” (Page 75), where a few locals well acquainted with life’s curveballs talk about turning unwanted changes in career and life into inspiring, positive transitions. Getting married, being able to choose from more fertility options, moving on to a new chapter – they are but a few paths of many. In the spirit of weddings and babies and fresh starts, I wish you rich and joyous life-affirming experiences, whatever path you are on.

Katharine Fong Editor & Publisher

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Scene

contributors

Mac Tully President & Publisher Bay Area News Group

Michael Turpin Vice President, Advertising & Marketing Bay Area News Group John Stoeser Director, Community Information & Targeted Delivery Bay Area News Group Jenny Kohler Director, Retail Advertising Bay Area News Group/East Bay Steve Weimer Targeted Publications Director

Erika Kittler Brown (“Singular Sensations”) has planned events for years, ranging from parties for the ESPN Classic at Super Bowl XXXVII in San Diego to gala fundraisers in Silicon Valley. As well as handling events for the Bay Area News Group, she currently is planning her sister’s wedding – and blogging about it on SceneBayArea.com.

Monica Balistreri Product Manager Cissi Holmgren-Kates Advertising Production Manager Timothy Tsun & Ad Services Advertising Design For advertising information, call 925.943.8259. Copyright 2011 Bay Area News Group

scene advisory board Heidi Ashworth Author Kelly McKenzie Hansen Marketing Manager, Wente Family Estates Collette Navarrette West Coast Marketing Manager Federal Realty — Santana Row Marcie Hochhauser Vice President, Walnut Creek Chamber of Commerce Lisa Nevares

Monica Balistreri Product Manager Scene Magazine Deborah Nordstrom Marketing/Promotional Manager Bay Area News Group

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Donna Lynn Rhodes Marketing Maven & Owner, donnalynn Creative Ashleigh Tharp Blackhawk Plaza Marketing Director, CenterCal Properties

Oakland-based Christina Hernandez (“Bold & Bright”) admits to getting emotionally invested in her work, as it allows her “to become totally immersed in the moment.” A photojournalist at the San Francisco Chronicle for 13 years, she learned to embrace changing environments and conditions, and the unexpected. She shoots portraits, weddings and more.

Nicole Tucker Tucker Associates Real Estate Services Carrie Williams Director of Marketing & Business Development, Stoneridge Shopping Center

Karen Peterson Retail Advertising Sales Manager, Bay Area News Group

Donna Lynn Rhodes (“Second Acts”), a Chicago native and self-proclaimed Anglophile, has a passion for words and a keen sense of humor. She left a successful 21-year career with Diablo Magazine to launch her own business, donnalynn Creative. Knowing first-hand what it takes to star in your own second act, she takes us behind the scene in this issue.


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Ladylike blazers The (itty-bitty) fitted blazers of the moment have a distinctly Chanel-inspired feel.

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runway to east bay The top trends to take you through summer By Stephanie Simons

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the insider Light-based skincare With advances borrowed from the medical world, TRIA Beauty has “miniaturized” the skincare technologies doctors trust, making them foolproof and safe for use at home. The Laser Hair Removal System delivers permanent results equal to professional treatments (Kim Kardashian is a fan); the Skin Clarifying System uses dermatologistrecommended blue light to heal breakouts while improving the health and radiance of the skin. Product testing takes place at the company’s Dublin headquarters. triabeauty.com

some beauty to love Local companies are mixing business and beauty acumen to create the next big things in hair care, skincare and cosmetics By Stephanie Simons

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Pure – and good for you

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In Oakland, 100% Pure is giving makers of mineral makeup a run for their money with their “fruit pigment cosmetics” packed with antioxidants and vitamins. Its brightening and age-protecting skin treatments are made from all-natural ingredients: There are cleansers, serums, scrubs and masks from which to choose, plus a caffeine-rich coffee bean eye cream adored by beauty editors. Also on tap: honey coconut milk hair conditioner and strawberry lemonade hand cream. 100percentpure.com

A stellar “makeup palette” kickstarted Japonesque’s success, allowing intrepid artists to create their own shades from multiple colors, or pour melted lipstick bullets into its ice tray-type spaces. Today, the collection (inspired by the makeup tools used in Kabuki theater) includes Baby Japonesque, an adorable line of brushes, nail scissors and hair shears, right, for baby; and the same kind of lighted studio makeup cases you’d find behind the scenes of a Victoria’s Secret fashion show. San Ramonbased Japonesque tweezers look like works of art, its ergo-grip eyelash curlers won’t pinch your lashes and all brushes are crafted by hand. japonesque.com

Chemistry lesson A treat for your tresses Walnut Creek-based Innersense takes an entirely holistic approach to hair care with its all-natural product assortment. Favorites range from a newly reformulated Sweet Spirit Leave-In Conditioner to a whipped crème texturizer called “I Create Inner Peace.” The line is carried by more than 500 premium salons and spas and 400 specialty stores (including Whole Foods). innersensebeauty.com

Founded by a former chemistry teacher, Marie Veronique Organics uses organic, fair trade and locally sourced ingredients to protect the skin and fend off the signs of aging. The products are completely free from parabens, petroleum products, waxes, silicones and fillers — and made in small batches in the company’s lab off Berkeley’s Fourth Street. Bonus: They’re packaged in 100 percent recyclable materials. mvorganics.com

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Colored stones remain trés chic in wedding rings and other nuptial jewelry – not that traditional diamond sparklers have taken a back seat. We asked purveyors of pavé to show us what’s new and most in demand. You’ll be a luminous star, bride or not, adorned with one of these gems. By Janet Kim Paik

Round diamonds encircle oval-cut 2 carat sapphire center stone, with 0.35 carats in the diamond setting stones along the shoulders and band. Tacori, platinum $4,250 (not including center stone), Lustre Precious Gems.

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Triple strand of cultured South Sea white pearls with spessarite, pink sapphire and diamond orchid clasp set in platinum, $159,500, Tiffany & Co.

Fancy colored diamond rings in platinum, from left: $2 million, $410,000, $390,000, Tiffany & Co.

Handcrafted platinum ring with 9.38 carat cushion-cut paraiba tourmaline and 2.68 kite and round diamonds by JB Star, starting at $350,000, CH Premier Jewelers.

Engagement ring is 0.55 carat diamond, surrounded by 38 round, brilliant diamonds equaling 0.77 carats. Matching 11 diamond, 0.5 carat, 18-karat white gold wedding band. $8,890, Heller Jewelers.

Handcrafted platinum ring with 5.20 carat fancy yellow radiant diamond with 2.07 carat kite and round diamonds by JB Star, starting at $110,000, CH Premier Jewelers.

Hand-fabricated platinum ring with cushion-cut 2.21 carat diamond accented by French pavé set halo with French pavé set band. $26,500, Joe Escobar Diamonds. Diamond drop earrings with pear-shape pink tourmalines set in platinum, $14,500, Tiffany & Co.

Engagement ring for the new “Millenia,” 18-karat white gold “micro pavé” design set with 1.62 carat round brilliant diamond, $16,500, Derby Jewelers.

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Crescent blossoms interlace in special, gossamer-woven diamond-shaped earrings for the Afleuress collection by Tacori. 18-karat gold $3,290, Lustre Precious Gems.

Drop earrings with round diamonds in luxurious cushionshapes on a compass-like orientation; from the Dantela collection by Tacori. 18-karat gold $1,890, Lustre Precious Gems.

Matching bracelet with diamonds at the center of petite crescent blossoms; 18-karat gold $16,390, Lustre Precious Gems.

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Don’t miss this concert version of Kurt Weill’s extraordinary and rarely performed musical theater piece, Street Scene. Winner of the first Tony Award for Best Original Score, with lyrics by Harlem Renaissance poet Langston Hughes. With Oakland Symphony Chorus (Lynne Morrow, Music Director); members of Piedmont East Bay Children’s Choir (Robert Geary, Artistic Director) & soloists.

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inspired by nature From feathers to handmade flowers, these hairpieces are guaranteed to make heads turn

Let this dragonfly 18-karat gold plique-á-jour brooch with pink sapphires alight on your tresses, $40,000, Tiffany & Co.

Playful eyelash feathers set off a goose nagoire and silk flower base, highlighted with a sparkly center. $50, Oooh La La Headpieces.

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A blooming ivory dahlia made of feathers and silk, with velvet leaf accents. $135, Twigs & Honey.

Hand-formed 5-inch peacock feather flower on a metal hairpin. $165, Sara Gabriel.

Bridal mini hat made from rooster, stripped coque and bleached peacock feathers; fabric flower; and vintage velvet leaves. $185, Lo Boheme.

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On her days off, Lisa Wilson scours estate sales, flea markets and antique shops, hunting for one-of-a-kind items for her eclectic shop. Since moving the Pickled Hutch from San Francisco to Pacifica in 2008, she has added gift items such as cards and candles to her lineup of vintage and vintage-inspired jewelry and decorative items for home and garden. It’s the vintage lighting, usually in the form of chandeliers, that customers adore the most, Wilson says, and she understands why: “I always find myself gravitating toward crystal chandeliers for their added glamour and sparkle.” Chandeliers run anywhere from $375 to $3,200, depending on size, materials, condition and value. Most of the lighting at the Pickled Hutch is from the Art Deco period, the 1920s to 1940s. Wilson says her other bestsellers are mirrors, also from the Art Deco period, running $275 to $300. Much of the jewelry carried at the shop is designed by Wilson herself and Debby Anderson, whose line is called “Romancing the Bling.” (Both artists’ work is also on Etsy.com.) Other jewelry pieces are vintage or items found at estate sales. Furniture is also on display. A classic, repainted vanity from the 1930s runs $295. “When you have a store this big, you have so many different things you can offer,” Wilson says. “It’s like a big puzzle where the pieces change all the time.” —Jasmine Duarte


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oh, baby! New options for conceiving – now, or later By Melinda Sacks

Age, of course, is not the only reason women – and men – may be infertile; sexually transmitted diseases, endometriosis, hormone imbalance, anorexia or a partner’s low sperm count all can contribute. Statistics from the Centers for Disease Control show infertility rates for women ages 15 to 44 (considered childbearing years) have remained about the same over the past few years, at 11.8 percent. What has changed is that infertility treatment has improved significantly, with decreased risks and increased safety, and options have expanded as clinics and specialists have grown more skilled. Preg-

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When it comes to infertility and fertility, myths – and startling facts – abound. Among the myths: After age 40, you can kiss your chances of conceiving goodbye. If you’re fertile at 20, you’ll be fertile till you hit menopause, at least. Among the facts: At 70, Omkari Panwar gave birth to twins in India in 2008, the same year Rajo Devi Lohan, 70, delivered a son, all the result of in vitro fertilization (IVF). Hollywood stars such as Celine Dion, Marcia Cross and Halle Berry have made giving birth after 40 look doable and downright glamorous.

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body & soul nancy success rates nearly doubled at fertility clinics in the past decade, according to UCLA’s School of Medicine. Better early evaluation and treatment increase chances of success, as do a combination of traditional and cutting-edge approaches. Worries of becoming the next Octomom through assisted reproductive technology (artiďŹ cial or partially artiďŹ cial methods used to achieve pregnancy) are lessening every year, experts say. At the same time, options for older women are expanding, but still with a few caveats. “There are so many misperceptions,â€? says Dr. Mary Abusief, reproductive endocrinologist and infertility specialist at Fertility Physicians of Northern California, which has ofďŹ ces in Palo Alto and San Jose. “The Hollywood fantasy we see is movie stars who had a baby at 59 or say they got pregnant at 60, and that can cause a lot of disappointment. If more of these people would say what they really went through, that would help.â€? “No one is going to get pregnant on their own at age 60,â€? agrees Dr. Mitchell P. Rosen, director of the UC San Francisco Reproductive Laboratories and Fertility Preservation Program. “Every physicians group has its own cut-off age at which they will treat infertility based

Escalating treatments The ďŹ rst step when a woman is having trouble conceiving should always be evaluation, experts say. Most insurance companies cover this step, which runs about $350 for those paying out of pocket. From there arise a series of escalating treatments and associated costs, which are customized depending on the situation: s Clomid (generic is clomiphene), a prescribed medication that stimulates egg production. Can be combined with timed intercourse or insemination to increase the chances of conception. Side effects: mood swings, bloating, weight gain, headaches. Risks: increased chance of twins (6.9 percent) or triplets (0.5 percent). Success rate: about 10 percent per month (vs. 20 percent of couples with no fertility issues who get pregnant every month). Cost: about $1,000 per cycle.

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accurate, but it is the biggest breakthrough.” The procedure is new enough, however, that there is only limited information on whether it actually improves success rates of a healthy pregnancy, and not every genetic abnormality can be found. The costs for preimplantation genetics screening are around $5,000 in addition to IVF, which runs anywhere from $7,000 to almost $20,000, depending on the clinic and number of cycles. In addition, this new ability to screen chromosomes raises ethical questions, such as whether it will lead to pressure on doctors to create “designer” babies. Explains Hinckley: “A large cause of infertility is bad eggs. Bad eggs make unhealthy babies – they won’t implant, or you’ll miscarry, or there will be a genetic disorder. Sometimes we will biopsy an embryo to try to understand whether a patient can make a good embryo and identify the best one. You might make 10 embryos, but only one is healthy, so you could just put that one back [into the uterus].” Elective single embryo transfer involves “finding the very best embryo and only putting one back,” Hinckley says. “That will increase pregnancy rates and decrease problems, and that is ultimately what people wanted all along, We just didn’t know how to get there. Now we are able to choose one embryo.” No matter how great the technology is, though, finding the right physician and “making sure they know how to use the technology,” as Hinckley puts it, is paramount.

The mind-body connection Even in the highly specialized and technology-intensive world of reproductive medicine, treating the whole patient is now recognized as a means to better results. A growing understanding of the mind-body connection and its possible role in fertility has resulted in an increasing number of clinics with a psychologist on staff to help patients deal with emotional issues, as well as programs that offer acupuncture, yoga and Chinese alternative medicine. “We use hormones (in treatments for infertility), and they alter the way people feel,” says Abusief of Fertility Physicians of Northern California, who figures that 40 percent of her patients already are suffering from anxiety and depression when they walk in the door. “The medications can make you tired, irritable, bloated. They contribute to making women feel as if they are on an emotional roller coaster. We offer group counseling, stress reduction classes, meditation. I cannot tell you how many patients have said this is very helpful.”

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resources The American Society for Reproductive Medicine offers the latest research developments and a network of reproductive specialists by geographic region. asrm.org Society for Assisted Reproductive Technology helps patients find infertility clinics where they live and review success rates. sart.org RESOLVE: The National Infertility Association provides an overview of issues, resource directories to help find doctors, online support groups and a newsletter. resolve.org “Taking Charge of Your Fertility,” the popular book by Toni Weschler, now in its 10th edition, has its own practical website with everything from charts that help you track your own fertility to FAQs and online support resources. tcoyf.com Fertility Physicians of Northern California has offices in San Jose and Palo Alto. Their website offers information on treatment options, donor programs, articles and events for those dealing with fertility issues. fpnc.com Reproductive Science Center is a 25-yearold full-service fertility clinic with offices in San Ramon, San Jose, Orinda and Modesto. RSC’s site includes information on treatments and services, along with podcasts and videos. rscbayarea.com UC San Francisco’s Center for Reproductive Health offers a multidisciplinary approach to fertility issues at a world-class teaching hospital, with a specialized Fertility Preservation program for those recently diagnosed with cancer or other conditions that will impact fertility. http://coe.ucsf. edu/ivf

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Lynette’s story At 37, I was diagnosed with cancer. What could I do to preserve my fertility? By Melinda Sacks

Lynette Leighton was taking her morning shower when she discovered a hard, immovable lump that she immediately knew was cause for concern. As a Bay Area doctor in residency who had spent time in a breast clinic, she suspected what she might be facing, as she writes in a letter about her experience: “I waited through my next period, just as I had instructed others to do, hoping the lump would declare itself as a cyst, or magically resolve, but it continued to grow. The lump was ‘worrisome’ by mammogram and more so on biopsy. I was 37 years old, and I had invasive breast cancer. “Ironically, I had spent the previous month working with cancer patients in a breast care clinic, so I was familiar with my options. My surgeon discussed local surgery, mastectomy, chemotherapy and hormone therapy. “When she suggested I meet with a fertility specialist, though, I was caught off-guard. Most of my patients at the breast care clinic had been in their fifties, sixties or seventies. Most had already had children, so the subject of their fertility never came up. But it made sense: Chemotherapy drugs target fast-growing cells, whether they be cancer cells, hair follicles or ovaries. Even if my ovaries survived, I would be on Tamoxifen, a drug that can cause birth defects, for several years. “I had not yet had children. My husband had children from a previous marriage, and by the time I was sure I wanted one of my own, he resisted. After several years of discussion, he agreed to have children. [But] he changed his mind in the end, and decided he no longer wanted to be in a committed relationship. I was diagnosed with cancer one month after my divorce was finalized. No partner.

No children. “One of the loneliest times during my cancer treatments was sitting in the fertility doctor’s waiting room the first day. I had a lot in common with the other women there, but there was one noticeable difference: Each of the other women had a partner, someone to hold her hand in the waiting room, reassure her at night and help parent her children. I wondered if I would dare to have a child on my own. I also wondered if I would be alive long enough to be a mother. “My doctor recommended I have embryos made and frozen for future uterine transfer, a process with greater chance of resulting in live births than freezing my eggs alone. I charged ahead, not wanting to one day regret having missed my chance to become a mother. We agreed we would try to stimulate two cycles of eggs and harvest them before I began chemotherapy, so we needed to hurry.” Leighton was guided by Dr. Mitchell Rosen, a reproductive endocrinologist at UC San Francisco. After choosing a sperm donor, she had breast surgery, underwent her fertility treatments and the harvest of her own eggs, and then six months of chemo followed by two months of radiation. Today at 40, Leighton has been cancer-free for two years. If her doctor gives her the go-ahead, she can soon stop taking Tamoxifen and get pregnant, she says happily. “I think one of the most liberating decisions I made, especially after my divorce and cancer, was that I wanted children, and I would do it alone, without a partner. It took so much pressure off me. It gave me hope.” What lies ahead is not entirely clear for Leighton, who has been dating, and completing a yearlong women’s

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when illnesses strike If you contract a disease that requires systemic chemotherapy, such as cancer, hemachromatosis, sickle cell disease or lupus, you are at risk of losing your fertility. And often you have only hours or days after diagnosis to figure out what to do. “A patient gets slammed with facing death, and then all of a sudden is told they may also be infertile after the treatment that saves their life,” says reproductive endocrinologist Mitchell Rosen, director of UC San Francisco’s Fertility Preservation Program. “It is overwhelming for women to also have to think about their future and having a child at the moment of diagnosis.” Rosen acts fast to give patients the most options, which include: Harvesting and freezing eggs or embryos (success rate for the latter is higher and involves fertilization from sperm). When it is time to implant the embryo in the recovered patient, preimplantation genetic screening can help reduce the chances that the embryo is carrying a disease-related gene. The test isn’t perfect, but Rosen notes that most cancers are not inheritable and that the process can be helpful for patients. Ovarian tissue cryopreservation allows the patient to preserve her ovarian tissue for transplant back into the body after the cancer treatment has been completed. The risk is that cancer could have already infected the tissue and transplant could reintroduce diseased cells into the patient. Growing ovarian tissue in vitro to create an egg capable of being fertilized. This procedure is in development; it may eventually allow a woman the ability to use her own ovary and eggs to preserve her fertility without the risks of transplanting possibly diseased tissue back into the body.

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$100-$1,000, depending on series. The silk peel at Morphosis Rejuvenation Studio in Santana Row is a newer generation of microdermabrasion, which exfoliates the outer layer of the skin without harsh chemicals or abrasive scrubs. And, says founder and owner Linda Levenson, “While we are doing the exfoliation to allow new skin cells to come to the surface, we can infuse into the skin at the same time serums like hyaluronic acid to give the skin more moisture, salicylic acid for acne, kojac acid for skin brightening and for pigmentation, [and] vitamin C – an antioxidant against sun damage.â€? Cost: $240 for a single treatment; $720 for a recommended series of ďŹ ve (two weeks apart). Targeted solutions With little or no downtime and low risk, Fraxel laser

caveat: choose with care Before you consider any cosmetic procedure: sÂŹ"EÂŹSUREÂŹTHEÂŹPLASTICÂŹSURGEON ÂŹDERMATOLOGIST ÂŹ personal trainer, etc., has the experience and credentials to give you the safest and best results. Be sure your doctor is board certiďŹ ed. As always, one of the best ways to ďŹ nd a practitioner is by personal reference. sÂŹ&INDÂŹOUTÂŹINÂŹADVANCEÂŹWHATÂŹRECOVERYÂŹISÂŹINVOLVED sÂŹ$ON TÂŹBELIEVEÂŹEVERYTHINGÂŹYOUÂŹREADÂŹORÂŹHEAR ÂŹ)FÂŹ SOMETHINGÂŹISN TÂŹAPPROVEDÂŹBYÂŹTHEÂŹ&OODÂŹANDÂŹ$RUGÂŹ Administration and there isn’t scientiďŹ c research showing its efďŹ cacy, you probably don’t want it. sÂŹ'OÂŹINÂŹWITHÂŹREALISTICÂŹEXPECTATIONS ÂŹ"EFOREÂŹANDÂŹ after photos in the doctor’s ofďŹ ce provide a good reality check. Some physicians also will ďŹ nd a former patient you can speak with.

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treatments are a safe way to address freckles, brown age spots, sun-damaged or acne-scarred skin. The precision Fraxel laser targets microscopic volumes of skin with each pulse, leaving the surrounding area intact and reducing healing time. Most doctors apply a numbing gel to the skin before the in-ofďŹ ce treatment. Risks: Skin can turn pink; individuals with darker complexions may be at increased risk of hyperpigmentation. Cost: $500$1,000 for a single treatment; up to $5,000 for multiple treatments. Brighter, straighter teeth “Accelerated orthodonticsâ€? takes about six months to straighten teeth – a quarter of the time it would normally take. One of the newer options is Invisalign, a series of plastic, transparent removable “alignersâ€? that squeeze the teeth into place. Cost: varies; Invisalign can be $5,000. In-ofďŹ ce teeth whitening is quick and lasts longer than home treatment, but it is more expensive ($100 to $300 per visit). Either way, whitening is not permanent. Porcelain veneers offer a longer-term solution, masking discoloration with a thin ceramic shell that is bonded to the front of each tooth. In the case of misshapen teeth, contouring and reshaping using veneers can give instant results. Cost: depends on materials. Porcelain lasts 1015 years and runs $950-$3,000 per tooth; veneers made of composite last ďŹ ve to seven years and cost $250$1,500 per tooth.

Body Beautiful ‘Lunchtime lipo’ At Better Bodies, a weight-loss clinic in San Ramon, Zerona laser treatments are a popular fat-melting procedure. Three times a week over a two-week period, patients undergo 40-minute cold laser treatments to the problem area – stomach, hips, arms and derriere are the most common. While everyone responds differently, clinic director Jenna Harris says most patients lose four


beauty report to seven inches. With no scarring, redness or pain, the treatment has gained the nickname “lunchtime lipo.” Zerona is not recommended for those with diabetes, thyroid conditions or other metabolic disorders. Cost: Series of six treatments at Better Bodies runs about $2,000. Waxing wonders The 15-minute Brazilian Bikini Wax is San Jose-based European Wax Center’s most popular new service. A non-strip, bath-temperature wax formula reduces application time, and the process is less painful and produces less irritation than the typical individual-strip method. For $39 (only $19.50 if you are a first-time guest), you can be bikini- and honeymoon-ready in hours, including time it takes for any redness to fade. Newbies should allow a little more time between treatment and wedding in case redness remains longer. Don’t sweat it Botox injected in tiny amounts into the underarm area can be used to temporarily control sweating, says Dr. Dean Vistnes of SkinSpirit. “A lot of brides who get married in the summer and wear a sleeveless dress choose it.” The procedure is ideally done at least 10 days before the wedding, since Botox is at its maximum strength after a week has passed. Cost: $750-$1,000.

Lose the back fat If you exercise, eat well and are in good shape, but that roll of fat above or below your bra line just won’t budge, the new bra-line back lift might work for you. While lipo is still the main approach to removing pockets of fat, including back fat, the lift addresses sagging skin caused by aging, weight loss and excessive sun exposure. The incision is hidden under the bra line. For two weeks after surgery you’ll need to avoid heavy lifting, raising your arms above the head or vigorous exercise. Recovery takes about three weeks; the complication rate is low. Risks: infection, bleeding, scarring; risks from general anesthesia. Cost: $7,500-$10,000. Banish spider veins Spider veins can appear on the surface of the skin on your face, legs or torso as a result of weight loss or gain, hormonal shifts, genetics or an underlying medical condition. It is important to be screened for deeper venous abnormalities before any treatment, advises Vein Specialists of Northern California’s Dr. Mark Isaacs. Leg and ankle treatment: sclerotherapy, in which a sclerosing solution is injected into each affected vein, causing it to collapse and fade. Usually one injection needed for every inch of vein treated. Done in-office in

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Lift your arms Sagging, fatty upper arms have you avoiding a sleeveless or strapless bridal gown? An arm lift, known as brachioplasty, can solve the problem. The operation involves significant recovery time, so it should be done several months ahead of your wedding. If sagging skin is minimal, you may just need a small incision in the armpit. Otherwise, the usually-discreet incision can ex-

tend from the armpit down the arm. Liposuction alone can eliminate the fat, or can be used in conjunction with surgery. Risks: bleeding, infection and scarring are unlikely, but should be considered; usually performed under general anesthesia, which carries its own risks. After the operation, you may have to wear a compression garment, and you may need to keep your arms elevated above your heart, for a few days. You will want to discuss pain control and scarring with your doctor before the procedure. Cost: $5,000-$6,500 for both arms.

Spider veins may require more than one treatment. The procedure can cause bruising, and the veins can take time to fade.

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anywhere from a few minutes to an hour. Leg and face treatment: laser, which emits intense light and “obliterates� the vein through the skin. Quick (10 to 15 minutes), with immediate results. However, new spider veins can appear afterward, so multiple treatments may be required. If veins are deeper under the skin, intense pulsed light (IPL) uses light energy to destroy the vein without damaging surrounding tissue. Sometimes a combination of laser and sclerotherapy is most effective. Schedule treatment well in advance of your wedding, since bruising and the veins themselves take time to fade. Risks: redness at injection site; discoloration and skin sensitivity. Cost: about $225 per syringe; many patients require two syringes per treatment. Laser treatments $350-$450 per session.

Drop pounds The 28-day weight loss makeover Better Bodies offers monthlong, weekly classes in Danville, Walnut Creek, San Ramon, Livermore and Los Gatos on healthy eating and de-toxing your diet, using supplemental shakes and other nutrition-rich foods to give you more energy while you lose weight. The program includes weigh-ins, body fat measurements, recipes and shopping guides. Its motto, “Learn how to eat food with no calorie counting,â€? has helped participants drop up to 12 pounds in a month, Harris says. Participants are encouraged to eat “real foodâ€? that is dairy-, soy- and gluten-free, “returning you to Paleolithic times,â€? as Harris puts it. Cost: For classes and handbook, $145; with shakes and cleanses, $300-$500. betterbodies.me/28days The hard way It’s not a quick ďŹ x, but intense workouts with a personal trainer can reshape your body in a few months, and if you keep it up, results are longer lasting and better for your overall health than most cosmetic treatments. “Start getting in shape way before the six-week mark,â€? says Brent Lake, personal training manager for Equinox in Palo Alto. “As soon as your man puts that ring on your ďŹ nger, get yourself a personal trainer!â€? Here’s why: Dress-ďŹ tting usually happens eight weeks before the wedding, with the last ďŹ tting three weeks before. If you lose inches after that, your dress won’t ďŹ t. Also, the last few weeks before your big day you’ll be busy with parties, showers, eating and drinking. It will be hard to cut back and up your workout time. Cost: $75$100 per session. S


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bold& bright The season’s hot colors, cool neutrals and mix-and-match sensibilities mean big fun What defines chic this spring? Color, bold and with few rules. Lace, playful rather than proper. A ’70s sensibility, modernized with no hint of vintage. What also works: paring down with architectural shapes and sleekness attained within a palette of cool neutrals and faded pastels that seem to disappear on the skin. In embracing color, we take a cue from preschoolers who, left to their own devices, would madly mix hues and patterns and think nothing of pairing sherbet orange with peony pink. Then adding yellow, turquoise and purple. Throw cheery florals into the fray and stripes of all

widths going this way and that, and you’ve captured spring’s essence, post-recession and ready for fun. Lace, once consigned to nighttime and dress-up affairs, looks fresh paired with flats and toned down to appear less romantic and frilly. High-waisted, widelegged pants, body-conscious draping, vivid tribal prints and color-blocking are inspired by the 1970s but decidedly contemporary in their fabrication and crossgenerational appeal. “I don’t believe there’s such a thing as good taste or bad taste,” said Marc Jacobs in a Harper’s Bazaar article about spring 2011. “I’d rather be fun and decadent, camp and glamorous. Go out. Shine. Be loud.”

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the matchmaker Pamela Freund-Striplen brings together the right artists with the right music, and sparks fly By Georgia Rowe

For many classical musicians, chamber music is a sideline. For Pamela FreundStriplen, it’s a full-time passion. The East Bay violist and founder of the Gold Coast Chamber Players has turned her commitment to this compact musical form into a thriving performing arts organization. “I’ve always loved chamber music. The intimacy, the social aspects of it appeal to me. I really never wanted to play in an orchestra,” says the vivacious, fifty-something Freund-Striplen, from her home in Lafayette. She launched Gold Coast in 1987 and has been guiding it on a wide-ranging exploration ever since. With a consummate knowledge of the repertoire and an impressive ability to multitask – she serves as the group’s music director, chief fundraiser, talent recruiter, researcher and publicist – Freund-Striplen operates on the assumption that audiences love chamber music, and musicians love to play it, as much as she does. Her approach is a bit unconventional. Freund-Striplen believes that chamber concerts should offer new experiences for musicians and audiences alike: Her programs pay homage to the masters, but living composers are a presence as well. A program presented for Black History Month paired Dvorak with works by AfricanAmerican composer William Grant Still. “People crave variety,” she says.“They love to hear different instruments and sounds. I try to show that new music can be not just accessible, but fun to listen to.” Unsurprisingly for a woman who has a quote from Shakespeare hanging over the door – “The readiness is all” – excellence, not trend, is paramount. “Audiences want quality, and they always recognize it,” she says. “That’s my goal, to create a quality experience every time.” Unlike many string quartets who maintain a constant roster and a limited playlist, Freund-Striplen keeps the Gold Coast personnel fluid, drawing on a network of top musicians for each program.

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For Gold Coast Chamber performances earlier this year, Pamela Freund-Striplen (at right, rear) brought together, from left, pianist Alvin McLean, vocalist Lawrence Beamen, cellist Robert Howard, violinists Hrafnhildur Atladottir and Laura Albers.

“The group has a flexible core, and that’s part of the appeal,” she says. “We’re always in the honeymoon phase. I’m like a matchmaker – I put people together with each other, and with the program, in very specific ways.” Soloists often come from leading orchestras; past concerts have featured starry guests such as violinist Kay Stern, concertmaster of the San Francisco Opera orchestra, and the late Lawrence Granger, cellist with the San Francisco Symphony. Rehearsals take place in Freund-Striplen’s cozy home, and musicians say that Freund-Striplen, a fabulous cook, makes them feel like family. “I’ve known Pamela for almost 10 years now, and she’s one of the most generous, compassionate people I’ve ever met,” says violinist Laura Albers, a member of the San Francisco Opera orchestra who makes frequent appearances with Gold Coast. “She’s very open and warm, and she makes everyone feel comfortable. Musicians love eating and drinking together, and she makes it a social occasion. It just feels very welcoming.” Albers says she’s just as impressed with Freund-Striplen’s work ethic. “She’s a problem-solver,” she says. “She comes up with really creative ideas, and she always knows how to make them work. She knows how to talk to people. I’ve never seen her get upset or raise her voice. She just quietly gets her point across. That’s a rare thing in the music world.” Freund-Striplen agrees that the social aspects of musicmaking are just as important as the musical ones. “I’m a people person,” she says. “I like the process, bringing people together, working things out.” A New York native, Freund-Striplen began studying psy-

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chology at Pomona College in Southern California, but says her love of music won out. “I found I had very little practice time, and I realized how much I longed to play more viola,” she recalls. One day, after she performed Paul Hindemith in recital, one of her professors told her he’d heard the composer play the same piece. “He was very complimentary about my performance,” she says, “and I’d really enjoyed the rehearsal process.” Music, she realized, was her life’s work, and she headed east to Oberlin College to study with Max Aronoff, acclaimed violist of the Curtis Quartet. “He was the granddaddy of viola teaching at that time,” she says. “The way he taught was all about chamber music.” On the West Coast, she continued her studies with Heiichiro Ohyama of the Los Angeles Philharmonic and served as principal violist with San Diego Opera, eventually coming to the Bay Area to join Western Opera Theater, the touring arm of the San Francisco Opera. That’s where she met her husband, clarinetist Tony Striplen; it was, she says, love at first sight. “We were on the bus, and he said, ‘Is this seat taken?’” she recalls. “That was it.” They were married in 1987 – the same year she started Gold Coast – and have a son, Matthew, 20, a trombone player. Tony is a member of the San Francisco Opera Orchestra, but often joins her on Gold Coast programs. Gold Coast’s early years were itinerant ones; the group started with salon concerts in private homes, then used various venues, including St. Mary’s College and Lafayette’s Town Hall Theatre and Veterans Memorial Building. Then, in 2009, Lafayette built a new library, with a 190-seat theater. When it opened, the group finally had a permanent


icons venue. Freund-Striplen credits her late mother, painter Louise Striplen, with her abiding love for art, music, family and creativity (her mother’s watercolors are prominently displayed throughout her home). That creativity finds numerous outlets, some whimsical; among her hobbies is a knack for baking children’s cakes. It started with a group of five musician friends. “We were all pregnant with our first child at the same time,” she says. “I started making birthday cakes for Matthew. Each of the new mothers developed sort of a ‘specialty,’ and we began to share our kids’ birthdays together. I was the cake maker. I started with a train on a Popsicle stick track.” Over the years, she’s made cakes in the shapes of carousels, volcanoes, bumble bees and baby carriages. Today, Freund-Striplen, who teaches violin and viola in her home studio and at St. Mary’s in Moraga, is proud of her accomplishments. “Topics in Tempo,” the educational program she started with her husband, has been well-received in area elementary schools (see details at right); plus, Gold Coast concerts are drawing full houses and rave reviews. And she’s built a loyal group of musician friends who keep coming back for more. “Some of my best times are during rehearsals here,” she says. “We play, we go out in the garden and have lunch. The musicians feel acknowledged and cared for. When you treat people well, they can do their best work. That’s why, at concerts, people say, ‘You guys looked like you were having so much fun.’ That’s what makes me happy.” S

Pamela Freund-Striplen Her instrument: an 1883 Bela Szepessy viola, made in London Desert island music: Brahms, Dvorak, Alison Krauss, Melody Gardot What she’s reading: “Cleopatra: A Life,” by Stacy Schiff Favorite local shop: Clocks, Etc. in Lafayette Her motto: “Follow your passion” Next Gold Coast Chamber Players concert: “Amati Gold, featuring the European chamber group Amati Ensemble, in works by Brahms and George Enescu, 2 p.m. May 1, Lafayette Library, 3491 Mount Diablo Blvd., Lafayette; for details, see gcplayers.org

Topics in Tempo Topics in Tempo is a five-day, five-hour program that brings students, teachers and professional musicians together in the classroom. Using a single movement from a classical composition, the program engages students in language arts, math, science and social studies, and culminates in a live performance. topicsintempo.org.

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Big changes in your life or career? Join the crowd. Here’s how to be better prepared By Donna Lynn Rhodes

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Second acts – and third and fourth – in life and in careers are normal in today’s world. For each act, we can be fortunate enough to choose what we want to do and be, or have it foisted on us. The question is, how do we make these transitions work, and ultimately positive? We check in with a few intimately acquainted with life’s curveballs.

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Life coach Dory Willer says most people are not prepared for change, yet change is inevitable.

The coach Dory Willer is owner of Beacon Quest Coaching in the Bay Area, which helps people design and live purposeful lives. She is an internationally recognized expert in business and life coaching, working with individuals as well as powerhouse companies such as Yahoo, Cisco, Kaiser Permanente and Wells Fargo. A prominent speaker, Willer is co-author of four books, including “Living an Extraordinary Life” and “Best Year Yet for Teens.” Are most people prepared for dramatic changes in their life and their career? No. Only 10 percent of the population are known to be “change agents,” which means they thrive on change. That leaves the other 90 percent resisting even minor changes, let alone a dramatic shift. Change brings risk, and risk takes someone outside their comfort zone – two things most people resist. What can people do to prepare themselves? Embrace the possibility that things are probably going to change, and adjust your emotional response to it. Instead of looking at change as a bad thing, welcome this new phase and the limitless possibilities it now brings. My client “Joan” was out of work for 18 months and getting more frustrated as time went by. Losing her job and missing her family back East was bad enough, but then she found out her house was going into foreclosure. When I first met with her, she was very resistant to the silver lining I tried to get her to see: Without a house or a job, she was free to move back East, and a world of new possibilities was hers to explore. We worked on exercises, and her resistance turned to acceptance and excitement. Now

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Dory Willer: 5 things . . . ...to get back on track, whether you’re changing jobs or changing husbands: 1. Hold a pity party for yourself. You earned it. But every party has a start time and stop time, and this is no different. Make sure the party ends. 2. When you’re ready to move on, make sure your “what ifs” are what-if-ups and not what-if-downs. Instead of saying, “There’s too much competition out there for me to get a job,” ask yourself, “Now that I have no restrictions and nothing tying me down, what do I really want to do, and where would I really like to work?” 3. Identify what truly makes you happy. When you combine your passions with your skills, especially midcareer, you are renewing your true self. 4. Be open to the possibility that change forces us to be creative and gives us permission to take risks. 5. Create the person you were meant to be. Recognize that what you once thought was the best you could be or most you could have is not necessarily true. Embrace the newness and welcome all the possibilities that are now open.

when Joan looks back, she sees that her future was just waiting for her, surrounded by her family. She not only has a wonderful a job, but also met the love of her life. Do people’s “dream job” or “dream career” change over time? Absolutely. From our cars to our clothes to the food we


transitions like, what we wanted at 21 is not the same as what we want at 41 or 61. It’s called life. Life is full of experiences, and these experiences lead to more decisions and more experiences. We are constantly changing our focus of what is important to us. How do you help people identify what they want, what they’re good at – especially those in midcareer or at their peak and looking to make a change? First thing we do is work on busting negative paradigms and beliefs. Most of us love to hang our hats on beliefs that don’t serve us well simply because they are not true, such as: You’re too old to get a new job, or no one is hiring. I work with businesses every single day, and they are hiring people every single day. If you don’t believe you’re worth hiring, no one else will. Seventy-five percent of my current clients are in midcareer changes and are excited about going to the next level. For most, the next level comes from identifying their passion and combining that with their skill set. For example, after 28 years with a company, 54-year-old “Bill” was laid off. Too young to retire and still supporting two kids in college, he was in quite a state when I met with him. I asked him what his passion was. He said, “If I could golf every day, I would.” The coaching we did took him into the land of possibilities, combining his profession,

his passion and his interests. At first he dismissed it, but then I opened the door in his mind with one simple question: “Do you think there might be companies in the golfing industry that are significant in size and revenue and would have room for a controller with your skills?” Today Bill is the CFO (a title he didn’t hold before) of one of the largest golf club manufacturers in the country. You talk about the theory of attraction and the science of deliberate creation. How does this translate into skills that people can use to cope with, say, getting downsized, or getting a divorce? It’s all about managing your energy – which is something you control through your thoughts. If your beliefs are negative, like, “I am never going to get a new job,” or “How can I possibly take care of myself and my kids with this divorce,” then those thoughts become actions and those actions limit you. In all that’s been written about positive energy and the laws of attraction, perhaps no one said it better than Henry Ford: “Whether you think you can or can’t, you’re right.” I recognize that it’s hard for someone to change overnight, and that’s where I come in. All someone has to do is be open to the possibility that a different way exists, and that new beliefs and truths will bring different results, and they are well on their way to their next phase in life.

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In the spring of 2007, Jessica Aguirre, KGO/ABC7 evening news anchor and Emmy award winner, was told that her contract would not be renewed at the end of the year. She was stunned – her newscasts were rated No. 1 in the Bay Area, and she had been with the station for much of her career. (A daughter of immigrants, Aguirre previously reported and anchored newscasts in Miami and Los Angeles.) It became public when ABC7 fired her after she accepted a job at NBC11. “People were coming up to me saying, ‘I’m so, so sorry,’ ” she says. “My youngest daughter asked, ‘Were you fired?’ ” Aguirre, her husband Jay Huyler and their two girls moved from Walnut Creek to Pleasanton to be closer to her new job in San Jose. She is now lead anchor of NBC11’s 6 and 11 p.m. newscasts. In addition, she hosts “Class Action,” a weekly show about public education in California.

When newswoman Jessica Aguirre learned her contract was not going to be renewed, she took charge of the situation.

Describe how you felt when you found out that your contract at ABC7 wasn’t going to be renewed. I was shocked – but mostly, I just felt betrayed. I had dedicated my life to the station and put their needs before anyone else’s – including my own family. But then I realized that their decision was a reflection on them, not me, and I

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transitions was not going to let their decision determine my value. My standards are higher than anyone else’s, and I know that I am an outstanding journalist and hard worker. You can’t let any outside sources determine the direction of your internal compass – jobs come and go, and you have to feel good about yourself. And I did. Did you consider changing careers or moving out of the area to look for another job? I never thought of changing careers – not even for a second. I love what I do. I wanted to live and work in the Bay Area, and my focus was to stay here and make it happen. What did this experience teach you about yourself? That leaving one position for another always forces you to grow. When you leave a job, whether by choice or not, you have the opportunity to re-create yourself and take your game up a notch. Sometimes being too comfortable in a job just makes you too comfortable, and you stop reassessing who you are and what you want to do. New experiences bring new energy, and new energy means you’re learning new things.

So what have you learned? The transition allowed me to take the lead at KNTV. This opportunity has given me a sense of confidence as a woman and as a broadcaster that I didn’t have before. And looking back, I wish that when I wasn’t working, I had taken more time to just be in the moment and enjoy the moment – especially with my children. Maybe taken a bit more time to rejuvenate myself. How would you advise a friend, or your daughters, to be prepared for unexpected career turns? Easy: Expect that change is coming, because it always does. Anticipate that changes are just around the corner so when they do happen, you won’t be rattled. One of my best qualities is resilience, and I try to instill that in my girls. Whether it’s in the schoolyard or in the workplace, you shouldn’t let other people judge you. You are always going to get knocked down by someone or something, and it’s OK to nurse your wound, but you only fail if you don’t get back up and keep going. You have to believe in yourself.

Danville resident Shiera Brady Henderson is no stranger to adversity. But in response to life’s difficulties, she developed an inner strength and invincible spirit that powered her ascent to the top of the mountain – literally. She is author of “Survival Through Laughter: Shiera vs. Breast Cancer” (Digital 1 Presentations, 2004). “My ‘second act’ hit me when I entered my 40s with a bald head and no eyelashes. I had to rethink and redefine beauty and my self-image. “Being diagnosed with cancer reshaped not only my breast but also my self-image for the next decade. My new sense of self was shattered again in 2007 when my husband of nearly 20 years announced he was no longer attracted to me and replaced me with the more traditional version of beauty. “Some would say my journey has been anything but beautiful. But the battlefield of surgeries and devastating rejection has been the very reason I’ve discovered the beauty of inner strength. Strength that helped me snowshoe across Antarctica and climb to the top of 14,000-foot peaks. The beauty of our natural world and a newfound sense of adventure fill my soul with what perhaps has been missing all along — feeling fabulous from within.” To celebrate her 10-year milestone of being cancer-free, Henderson is raising money for the Breast Cancer Fund through a climbing expedition on Mount Shasta in June.

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The survivor

Shiera Brady Henderson is celebrating 10 years of being cancer-free by taking part in a mountain-climbing expedition this summer.

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high drama Captivate the crowd with a stunning strapless gown by Vera Wang, featuring layers of tulle beneath a keyhole bodice. The dramatic black bow is matched by black diamond jewels. Dress $5,500, Maria Elena hairpiece $525, both from Priscilla of Boston. Spark bands (each 1.30 carat black diamonds, 18-karat white gold with black rhodium) $925 each; Angelina ring (3.20 carat black diamonds, 0.33 carat white diamonds; 18-karat white gold) $1,800; Yael Designs earrings (2.80 carat black diamonds, 0.35 carat white diamonds; 18-karat white gold) $3,025 and pendant (3.62 carat black diamonds, 0.16 carat white diamonds; 18-karat white gold) $2,970 (includes 18-karat chain), all from Smythe & Cross Fine Jewelry. Rockstud by Valentino shoes $795, Footcandy.

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Both flattering and demure, and definitely not the kind of lace your grandmother wore. Romona Keveza mermaid gown $3,500, from Gabrielle’s Bridal Atelier. Milena by Brian Atwood shoes $795, Footcandy. Ralph Lauren boys’ shirts $35, shorts $30, jacket $68, pants $45; Twirl Company girls tank $35, skirt $85; headband $38. All from Neiman Marcus. Links of London children’s friendship bracelets $155 each.

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vintage dreams Beautifully nostalgic, authentic vintage pieces are heavily sought-after, as are “vintageinspired” new dresses with intricate beading and detailing. Jenny Packham empire gown $2,950, from Gabrielle’s Bridal Atelier. Maria Elena hairpiece $585, from Priscilla of Boston.

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Color is a hot trend this year, and can be had in the bouquet as well as on your nails, in colored feathers in your hair, in your footwear or in your diamonds. Bold brides might even try a dress in a vibrant hue – totally memorable, and why not? Credits and resources on Page 149.

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Looking for someplace a little different for your wedding, yet still relatively close to home? Look no further. These one-of-a-kind venues run the gamut from fun to fabulous, and are guaranteed to make your celebration unforgettable.

Fly me to the moon! Chabot Space & Science Center Planetarium, Oakland If you and your honey are looking for somewhere heavenly to recite your vows, check out this planetarium. Ceremonies under its stars won’t leave you at the mercy of Bay Area weather (think summer’s late sunsets and winter’s cold temperatures). Receptions can be held in any number of locations, including the rooftop terrace among the telescopes, with gorgeous views of the Bay Area below. Easy driving and parking access, ample local hotels. Cost: Planetarium rental starts at $2,000, not including add-ons or catering. 10000 Skyline Blvd., 510.336.7421, chabotspace.org

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Shaded villa Hacienda de las Flores, Moraga Hidden among a mix of blue spruce, weeping willows and palms is this beautiful Spanish estate. True to its name, Hacienda de las Flores’ circular flowerbed, patio fountain and tranquil garden offer a sweet and romantic locale for a summer reception. The separate, semicircular Pavilion features Corinthian columns that add a touch of Old World elegance to the ceremony. Cost: Starts at $4,150 for weekend rental of both the Hacienda and the Pavilion (discounts for Moraga residents); does not include catering. 2100 Donald Dr., 925.888.7045, moragahacienda.com

Natural and classy Brazilian Room, Tilden Park, Berkeley This is a historic and charming venue for a reception, with the large lawn area facing the hills a perfect spot for the ceremony. One look at the Brazilian dismisses any idea that a park might be best suited for informal nuptials. The room’s elegant design and views and verdant natural landscaping make it an excellent choice for couples looking for upscale, but who still want a few dollars in their pockets when the wedding is over. Driving, however, is a chore; rent shuttles. Cost: Friday evenings and weekends start at $1,900, less expensive rates on weekdays; does not include catering. In Tilden Park, Wildcat Canyon at Shasta Road, 510.544.3164, ebparks.org/activities Eric Sahlin

Going to the chapel and we’re… Old St. Hilary’s, Tiburon Any woman who has dreamed of getting married in a white chapel will love Old St. Hilary’s, which offers two other showstoppers: As a 19th-century landmark in an architectural design called “Carpenter Gothic,” it is exactly what you imagine when thinking of the words: vintage, classic, intimate (maximum capacity 125). And, the view of Tiburon and the bay is breathtaking. The church is nondenominational. Driving access is simple, but parking is difficult, and shuttles are recommended. Receptions can be held in a local restaurant or hotel. Cost: $1,500 for three hours, $300 per hour after that; reception cost is separate. 201 Esperanza St., 415.435.1853, landmarks-society. org/rentals/st_hilarys.php John Blythe

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wedding venues The long weekend Ralston White Retreat, Mill Valley A private estate, built by renowned architect Willis Polk in the early 1900s, surrounded by a thick forest of towering trees. Ceremonies are held on the heart-shaped front lawn, and receptions inside the mansion. The 14,000-square-foot home and its décor reflect a bygone era, with maze-like additions and quirky design. Up to 48 guests can stay for minimal overnight costs, and the reception space also is available for overnight rental (an option for couples who want to throw a late-night party, or a weekend-long celebration). Shuttles are a necessity; guests can park in downtown Mill Valley and hop on there. Cost: Day use starts at $1,750; overnights start at $5,775. Does not include catering. 2 El Capitan Ave., 415.388.0858, ralstonwhiteretreat.org

City skyline Casa de la Vista, Treasure Island If you’re hankering for unparalleled views of San Francisco and the Golden Gate Bridge in your wedding photos, consider Casa de la Vista. The views only improve as the sky darkens. Ceremonies are held outside on the lawn area, cocktail receptions on the patio – which could be adorned with lanterns or string lights to enhance the festive look. Inside the banquet room, the wall facing San Francisco is all windows, so no matter where you sit or dance during the reception, the view is outstanding. Cost: $3,950 (banquet capacity: 180). 191 Avenue of Palms, San Francisco, (from the Bay Bridge, take the “Treasure Island/Yerba Buena Island” exit at the halfway point of the span) 415.274.2013, sftreasureisland.org

Organic beauty Pema Osel Ling, Watsonville A ceremony in the Amphitheatre of the Redwoods at this 104-acre retreat in the Santa Cruz Mountains will remind you and your guests of the immense beauty and grace in nature. It’s easy to imagine an enchanted “Midsummer Night’s Dream” theme here, set amid groves of towering redwoods. Pema Osel Ling is a nonprofit Tibetan Buddhist center and also offers overnight accommodations and a chef who uses mainly organic, locally grown ingredients. It’s perfect for the environmentally conscious couple of any denomination, and is one of the most affordable venues in the area. Cost: Rental pricing begins at $5,000; does not include catering or overnight stays. 2013 Eureka Canyon Road, 831.761.6270, polmountainretreat.com

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Grand extravagance Dolce Hayes Mansion, San Jose This Spanish Colonial mansion will appeal to brides who want a bit of Southern California or Florida flair, as the architectural style is common to those regions. The manicured lawns, palm trees, white walls and red roof of this historic showplace make for a colorful backdrop to ceremonies, and fantastic photos. Out-of-towners can stay at the onsite hotel. Cost: Starts at $15,000 for the Hayes ballroom; does not include catering. 200 Edenvale Ave, 408.226.3200 dolce-hayes-mansion-hotel.com

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Your cup runneth over Murrieta’s Well, Livermore A winery in the Wente family, Murrieta’s Well has gorgeous views, well-received wines and fabulous food. Ceremonies take place outdoors next to the vineyards, while receptions are most often held in the barrel room. Meals catered by Wente Vineyards (the exclusive caterer for Murrieta’s Well) are fabulous. Cost: Space rental is $2,000 for a Saturday in peak season; price does not include catering. 3005 Mines Road, 925.456.2390, murrietaswell.com

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do me a favor Wedding keepsakes your guests will love The custom of bestowing wedding favors has been around at least five centuries, a delightful way to thank guests for sharing a couple’s most cherished day. Like every aspect of the modern nuptials, the keepsake choice is limited only by budget and imagination. The real standouts are those with personality, charm and an element of the unexpected. We were definitely engaged by the ones shown here. By Crystal Chow

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Guests will happily pick this “Daisy Delight,” charming silk gerbera daisies—you just need to figure out what to hide within the 2-inch-square pop-up box. 4 or more sets of 24 are $20.40 per set at Favoraffair.com.

The removable white card has “For You’’ on one side and space for personalization on the other. How appetizing is that? Called “East Meets West,” 12 or more sets of 12 are $13.20 per set at Favoraffair.com.

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Tiptoe through the meadow with “Whimsical Fields,” a set of pretty glass coasters that can perform double duty as candle holders. 72 or more are $1.90 per set at MyWeddingFavors.com.

candle is that each one features a perfectly detailed bee. Let there be light! 72 or more are $1.40 each at www.beau-coup.com.

Make waves at your wedding with this “Seaside” chrome and glass stopper, filled with sand and shells. 96 or more are $4 each at Favoraffair.com.

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Blow bubbles If you and your intended are kids at heart, this functioning plastic gumball machine will make sure your guests know it. 72 or more are $2.59 each at Favorsbyserendipity.com.

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Clockwise from top left: A bride’s bouquet with succulents, a place setting, a detail of a table centerpiece and boutonnieres.

Most brides dream of a bouquet of stephanotis, roses or lilies. But the bride who doesn’t want to march to Mendelssohn should consider kalanchoe, crassula and echeveria. If those aren’t exactly familiar it is because they are succulents, more often found in desert gardens than inside cathedrals. Recently, brides looking for something a little different have been choosing succulents for their wedding flowers. Succulents require some sun and very little water, and can live a long time. In that sense, they are the ultimate wedding floral, a symbol of sustainability and growth. In marvelous colors, shapes and sizes, they are widely available at garden centers and nurseries for do-it-yourselfers, or florists can create unique bouquets and arrangements. In most of these bouquets, succulents with tight, colorful, fleshy leaves are combined with sweetheart roses

and similar romantic flowers, making it a combination of traditional and extraordinary. Succulents can show up at weddings in other delightful ways: s )N INDIVIDUAL POTS AND TIED WITH WHITE RIBBON LITTLE green succulent favors travel home with guests as living keepsakes. s "OUTONNIERES OF THE SUCCULENT HEN AND CHICKENS are more memorable than the usual boring carnation. s 2OOTED SUCCULENTS SUCH AS THOSE WITH BLUE ROSETTES touched with red highlights, make for striking table centerpieces, and can go home with guests to become favorite houseplants. We predict a big trend, particularly here in the Bay Area. Who knows, perhaps succulents will turn up at Prince William and Kate’s wedding... S

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PATTI CAMRAS Patti Camras is a consummate professional, who has been serving her Buyers and Sellers’ Real Estate needs in Lamorinda and Walnut Creek since 1993. She is a highly respected veteran Realtor in our marketplace, bringing poise, leadership, enthusiasm and market knowledge to every transaction. 925.899.9282 www.PattiCamras.com

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BONNE WERSEL Today’s real estate market is complex and ever-changing. Bonne’s clients have learned the valuable benefits of her knowledge and skill at marketing condos to castles. Bonne is also in the top 5% of the company and serves as Assistant Manager. “Selling Homes is My Profession and Service is My Tradition� 925.791.2550 bwersel@apr.com BonneWersel.com

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MAUREEN WILBUR Maureen has established herself as a top producer in Real Estate for over the past 10 years due to her extraordinary care she gives each and everyone of her clients. In 2009 Maureen was the Top Producing Individual Realtor in her office. 925.253.6311 Maureen@MaureenWilbur.com www.maureenwilbur.com

YVONNE BISHOP, CRP, ASP, GMS For 27 years, Yvonne, a broker, has represented the needs of Buyer and Sellers within the East Bay Area. She is also a certified Corporate Relocation Specialists (CRP) assisting transferring employees of major corporations. Dir of Relocation & Client Services CENTURY 21 Mission-Bishop 39180 Liberty St, Suite 101 Fremont Dir: 510.494.2112 Cell: 510.364.1725 FAX: 510.505.1986 Nat’l: 800.332.3008

MICHAEL TESSARO Selling Bay Area real estate since 1984, Michael Tessaro has developed a reputation for continuing successes with sellers and buyers in a changing and complicated market. Michael has a passion for helping people and a drive for staying ahead of the real estate market. Intero Real Estate Services Serving San Francisco Bay Area c: 925.519.9099 tf: 800.888.6116 myeastbayhouses@gmail.com www.interorealestate.com/mtessaro

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They arrive twice a day by golf cart like mini Hannibal Lecters, leather hoods covering their heads. But the captivebred falcons are hardly menacing – the hoods keep them calm enroute to their launching spot at one of Terranea Resort’s dramatic bluffs overlooking the Pacific Ocean. Once in the air, the birds soar up high, banishing pesky seagulls and the odd pigeon with their mere presence. It’s environmentally sensitive pest control, Terranea style. Rising from the water’s edge on the Palos Verdes Peninsula, 20 miles from both the Los Angeles and Long Beach airports, Terranea bills itself as a luxury eco-resort. The 102-acre property, opened in June 2009, has 75 acres of green space, and is committed to protecting its coastal resources and restoring and preserving the natural habitat. (Happily, 1,000 acres of green space directly adjacent are part of the Palos Verdes Nature Preserve, and 1,200 acres of the larger peninsula is protected by the Palos Verdes Land Conservancy.) In addition to now-standard luxe hotel efforts to reduce, reuse, recycle, Terranea offers teachable eco-moments throughout the grounds: telescopes for whale- and dolphinwatching and zooming in on Catalina Island in the distance, informative handouts on the tide pools along the beach below and an on-site naturalist to point out native flora and fauna. Also, Terranea-implemented wet ponds, bioswales (“created wetlands”) and storm filters enhance local water quality and provide avian habitat. Greening aside, Terranea’s history makes for good stories: It sits where the old Marineland of the Pacific theme park once operated. The 1960s TV series “Sea Hunt” was shot here, and Nelson’s pub is named for the character Mike Nelson, played by Lloyd Bridges. Recent movies such as “Pirates of the Caribbean” and “Pearl Harbor” have shot scenes on the property. But visitors will mostly exult in the sheer physical beauty of the place. Not so much for the sprawling hotel complex and bungalows, casitas and villas (some for sale) – but for Terranea’s majestic perch above and below the endless blue. There are three saltwater pools, plus a 140-foot waterslide that delights the kids; all command spectacular ocean views. Morning spin classes at the spa’s fitness center are outdoors on a cliff above the beach. Sunsets at Nelson’s pub often affords close-ups of dancing dolphins. Terranea Resort

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100 Terranea Way, Rancho Palos Verdes, CA, 866.802.8000, terranea.com Onsite: 360 rooms, with 20 bungalows and 32 suites, plus 50 casitas and 32 villas. Nine-par golf course. three pools, spa and fitness facility, three restaurants. Hiking, biking, kayaking, beach access. Dog-friendly. Rates from $300. 130 s SCENE s WINTER 2010


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The first thing visitors notice after turning into the Fairmont Miramar’s porte-cochere entrance is the humongous, multi-limbed and magnificent fig tree in front of the lobby doors. The 123-year-old Moreton Bay tree, brought over as a sapling from Australia, is also pressed into service for the Miramar’s green initiatives: Its branches are recycled and reused in the form of banquet trays, check presenters and drink coasters. The Fairmont chain, in fact, has been on the eco-wagon since launching its Green Partnership program in 1990. The program focuses on conservation, waste management and community outreach. This means that at the Miramar, the watering of flowers and landscaping is done by hand instead of by automated sprinklers, and kitchen grease from Fig, the critically acclaimed “seasonal bistro” inside the Miramar, is turned into hand soap for the restrooms. Under chef Ray Garcia, Fig also filters water, recycles and composts, and is the first restaurant in Santa Monica to offer a valet for cyclists, so locals can pedal rather than drive. (See more on Garcia and Fig on Page 137.) The chain urges guests to help in broader eco-efforts (from its brochure: “Seek out local food and crafts” and “never buy [souvenirs] made from endangered plants or animals.”). Conference organizers can purchase carbon offsets so their hotel event will be “carbon-responsible.” Most guests at the Miramar, however, will pay more attention to the lush grounds and storied past. The two-acre property is an urban retreat across the street from the Santa Monica bluffs, which drop down to the beach. The Miramar’s history extends back to the late 1800s and is tied to the founding and development of the city. Famous extended-stay residents and frequent guests have included a young Greta Garbo, then-Sen. John F. Kennedy and Jacqueline Kennedy, Mel Gibson and more recently actress Denise Richards. Movies and TV shows such as “Dallas” and “Starsky and Hutch” have been shot at the Miramar. Standard amenities, meanwhile, make the little ones feel at home: Children receive a small stuffed animal upon arrival, and if you tell the hotel ahead of time, their names are spelled out in sponge letters in the bath. They’ll also like their plush, pint-sized robes. Fairmont Miramar Hotel & Bungalows 101 Wilshire Blvd., Santa Monica, 310.575.7777, fairmont.com/santamonica Onsite: 302 guestrooms, including 32 bungalows. Fig restaurant. Pool, spa and fitness center. Beach access, with chairside service from Memorial Day to Labor Day. Rates from $349. SPRING 2011 s SCENE s 131


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the ambrose Those who prefer a more understated eco-luxury lodging experience, yet one still close to the beach, will like the Ambrose. Tucked on a quiet street in Santa Monica, a few blocks from the hubbub of the Third Street Promenade, the Ambrose was green before it became fashionable. In summer 2008, it was the first hotel in the U.S. to receive silver-level LEED (Leadership in Energy and Environmental Design) certification for an existing building. LEED recognition for existing buildings focuses on maintenance and systems rather than construction materials. The 77-room Craftsman-style Ambrose purchases renewable energy, composts, uses premium recycling methods and natural cleaning products, and offers guests a London taxi (that runs on biofuel) and classic cruisers to get around town. Comfort and quality are still evident: The rooms are outfitted with Frette towels and robes, and Matteo sheets. Owner Deirdre Wallace envisioned the Ambrose, which opened in 2003, as a “healthful” hotel, and the greening was a natural extension. She even incorporated feng shui principles into the property: The waterfall in the courtyard’s koi pond, as well as guestroom accent colors in gold and red, create positive energy. Indeed, with its dark wood interiors, doublepaned and stained glass windows, the place exudes Zen-like tranquility. The Ambrose is a limited service-hotel, meaning guests park their own cars, handle their own luggage and serve their own (organic) breakfast. There is 24hour room service, but no restaurant. The pared-down approach, along with compact rooms, fits well with the green theme and works best for visitors who want high-caliber basics without a lot of excess.

The Ambrose 255 20th St., Santa Monica, 310.315.1555, ambrosehotel.com Courtesy The Ambrose

Onsite: Sustainable, boutique hotel with 77 rooms, small meeting room and fitness room. One block from the Wilshire business district. Rates from $235.

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Above the beach Tie the knot at Terranea’s breathtaking Catalina Point, where the blufftop above the Pacific has a paved square and trelllis above. If the cliff’s edge is not for you, use the manicured lawns below the lobby and near the ballroom and meeting rooms. Wedding parties – or bridal shower parties – find the bungalows and casitas a great way to keep that friends-and-family feeling intact and be near the action at the same time. Cost: Varies; average price per person is $200, which goes toward meeting the food and beverage minimums ($20,000 to $30,000plus in the Catalina Ballroom); does not include ceremony site fee. Fun fact: Last February (2010), TV’s “The Bachelor” star Jason Mesnick married Molly Malaney at Catalina Point, in front of some 300 friends. (Mesnick had become notorious for dumping his first choice in favor of Malaney.) The festivities were taped and aired a few days later, natch.

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The base of the great fig tree at the Miramar is a popular spot to be married; the hotel turns the entire courtyard into a magical setting with lights, elegant tables under canopies and near the semi-tropical foliage, etc. Weddings in the Miramar’s gardens are also picturesque. Cost: $4,000, with a maximum of 400 guests (smaller garden ceremonies are $750-$1,500), including a room for the happy couple but not including per person food and beverage. Fun fact: Two pug owners – both dogs named Gus! – met on Match.com, and celebrated their union at the Miramar. The dogs walked down the aisle in little tuxes and at the reception sat at the head table, decorated with gold and silver fire hydrants, no less. The pug theme carried through to the table cards with their photos, and a live pug-adoption setup in the corner of the room. On the sand True beach weddings are generally casual affairs, and consequently much less costly and require hardier guests (flip-flops, anyone?). L.A. County offers miles of sparkling sand, as does Orange County. Check out theknot.com, herecomestheguide.com and projectwedding. com for general info and ideas, then yelp.com and other review sites to see what people really think.


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Beetroot purée: 2 red beets ½ medium onion 16 ounces vegetable stock Garnish: 5 each: yellow and red baby carrots, white and green asparagus 10 pieces goldenroot beetroot 5 tablespoons butter Salt and pepper

Boil beets and onion in vegetable stock until soft, peel beets, then transfer both to blender or food processor and purée. Set aside. In a new pot, heat oil and sauté onion until fragrant. Add rice and bay leaf, and cook for 2 minutes. Pour wine into pot and allow to reduce by ¾. Add stock, one ladle at a time, and stir frequently until risotto achieves desired texture. Add beet purée and stir to incorporate. Finish with butter, Parmesan cheese, crème fraiche, herbs, salt and pepper.

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Blanch vegetables for garnish in salted water. Sauté with butter and season to taste with salt and pepper. Serve risotto in medium-sized bowl, topped with sautéed vegetables.

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In an era where we care deeply about our vegetables being locally grown, investigate the mining conditions of our diamond engagement ring and seek out organic cotton onesies for baby, we often aren’t as diligent about the source of our home design choices. Buying tiles, flooring, bedding or carpets with the Earth and ethics in mind has not been as intuitive as walking into a store to choose hormone-free milk. But once we decide to create a home that is ecological and socially responsible, there are a growing number of sources that provide products and materials that can help us attain living environments that are beautiful, comfortable and healthy. “I’ve seen this trend coming for quite a while, and it’s especially big in California,” says Carol Spence Carr, president of the Peninsula chapter of the American Society of Interior Designers. With more than 40 members who specialize in

After a cancer scare six years ago, designer Lisa Staprans sought spiritual solace in India, including at a girls school, above. She was inspired to work “with ethical intention and compassion.” Left, Staprans’ fireplace beam from reclaimed fir, along with a custom long bowl by a local artisan and an 18th-century olive jar.

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People who design their homes with sustainability in mind tend to choose elements that don’t rely on styles or colors that go in and out of fashion, says Carol Woodward, a Saratoga interior designer. So for those who aim for a timeless look to their décor, she says, sustainability is good because it “ will maintain its look and design longer.”

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futuristic philosophy, which maintains that with the help of science, people can transcend the human limitations of aging and illness. A Fountain of Youth, of sorts, with a technology twist. “I realized it might be possible to change ourselves internally rather than just outwardly,” she says. As she focused in on bio- and nanotechnologies and became part of Silicon Valley’s inner sanctum of thought leaders, “a brand-new world opened.” Arrison is 38 years old. She wants to live to be 150 — at least— and believes breakthroughs in science and technology can make it happen. Call it “radical longevity.” Living well past the century mark is not only possible, she says, if the right people make it a priority, it’s practically inevitable. In 1850, life expectancy was 43. It’s almost 80 now. With exponential advancements in medicine and genetics, is it so hard to imagine that 150 is that far off? We might as well prepare for it, Arrison says, culturally, politically and economically. She has just written a book intended to help move the conversation out of science-fiction novels and into the mainstream. It’s called “100 Plus: How the coming age of longevity will change everything from careers and relationships to family and faith” (due out from Basic Books Patrick Tehan

Sonia Arrison landed one of her first jobs at a Canadian foundation by properly answering a question to name her favorite magazines: The Economist. Foreign Affairs. Atlantic Monthly. Her same cerebral interests would land her a job at the Pacific Research Institute in San Francisco, where she wrote scholarly essays about Internet taxes, intellectual property and e-waste. But it was a brain-candy TV show – “Extreme Makeover,” about tummy tucks, dental veneers and butt lifts – that set her on a new course. She was watching one episode in particular, she remembers, when a man and a woman each had radical head-to-toe surgeries that changed their appearances dramatically. “There was a moment when they were recovering in a room after surgery, and the guy just starts crying. She says, ‘I can actually change my life,’ ” Arrison recalls. “I became fascinated with how people can change the way they look and the way they feel through using science and technology.” But this is not a story about a woman who becomes a plastic surgeon or a nip-and-tuck patient. No. No. Arrison became something else entirely. A transhumanist. Like many in the movement taking hold in Silicon Valley and elsewhere, she believes in the


Arrison serves on an advisory board of the transhumanist organization Humanity Plus with Patri Friedman, who is the grandson of Nobel Prize-winning economist Milton Friedman and director of a Thiel-funded project to build and inhabit floating sea colonies. And she’s an early investor and trustee at Singularity University in Mountain View, an incubator of ideas intended to solve the planet’s “grand challenges,” according to its mission statement. Mountain View-based Singularity is led by futurist Ray Kurzweil, author of the bestselling “The Singularity Is Near,” about extending life and transcending biology. “Sonia is sort of like this general who is helping us marshal the forces of humanity to defeat its greatest enemy — her name is death,” Thiel says. He means it. As he puts it, “I’d much rather live to 150 and not be a billionaire than be a billionaire and die at 80.” Arrison was an easy fit into this industrious group. Even in her late 20s, she knew how to make an impression. The first time she met Thiel, she was running the technology program at the Pacific Research Institute, a freemarket think tank, writing about consumer technology issues. She approached him after he delivered a speech in 2001 about “the ungovernability of America and the crisis of our constitutional system.” Theil considered himself libertarian-leaning, but Arrison didn’t think his solution made

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Sonia Arrison at a recent event at Singularity University in Mountain View. She is an early investor and trustee at Singularity, which brings together leaders in advancing technologies to consider some of the planet’s most pressing challenges.

sense from that perspective. “I think you’re completely wrong,” she told him. “If you want to know why, here’s my card.” Startled, he took her card. She walked away, and the next day, he sent her an e-mail. “I want to know why I’m wrong,” he wrote. “Meet me for dinner.” They’ve been close friends ever since. His foundation has funded programs at Singularity University. He wrote the forward to her new book. The longevity movement, however, is certainly not without its skeptics. Critics forecast a more stratified society of the wealthy who can afford life-lengthening technology and the poor who can’t. And won’t “messing with nature” cause all sorts of problems? But as Thiel says, “We don’t want to become aliens or computers or something not human. Sonia is a voice of reason, a clarion call arguing that we should become more human, more like ourselves.” S. Jay Olshanksy, professor of public health at the University of Illinois-Chicago who is an expert in aging and longevity issues, says he’s thrilled Silicon Valley entrepreneurs are turning their attention to the possibilities of slowing down the aging process. But living to 150? While longevity nearly doubled over the past century-and-a-half, he says, most gains came in saving the young. Advances have slowed tremendously in recent decades for lack of cures and therapies for aging adults. “We’re coming up against a barrier of aging itself,” he says. “In the absence of modifying that barrier, we’re not going to get 150-year lifespans. We’re not even going to get

130-year lifespans. Even with 122 as the record, the vast majority of us aren’t going to make it to 100.” But Arrison is optimistic the barrier will be broken. Research is under way to explore whether the kind of genes that have proven to double the lifespan of tiny worms can have a similar effect on humans. Tissue technology, or growing human organs to replace defectives ones, also will lead to longer lives, she says. Using a person’s own stem cells, new bladders and windpipes already have been grown and implanted. “Think about vintage cars that still survive today in mint condition,” she says. “It’s not because the car itself was made to last. Vintage cars survive because every time a part fails, it is replaced. With a large enough parts list, a human could be maintained in tip-top condition for a much longer period of time, because parts will be replaced as they wear out.” Arrison might have a personal advantage when it comes to longevity. She comes from good stock. When her grandfather visited from Canada over Christmas, he pulled off this oneliner while gingerly walking down the staircase: “I think I’m starting to get old!” He’s 98. She was born in a small town in Alberta, Canada, the daughter of scientists and granddaughter of political mavericks. Her mother is a pharmacist, her father a chemical engineer who works on clean coal and cold fusion. Her grandparents helped start the populist Reform Party, which gave rise to Canada’s current prime minister. Arrison co-authored her first book, about Canadian poliSPRING 2011 s SCENE s 147


end matters tics, at 22. While a grad student studying political science at the University of British Columbia in the mid-1990s, she gravitated to the World Wide Web: “I was the only political science student hanging out with the computer science geeks.” It’s a combination that has served her well, from her jobs at foundations and think tanks and writing columns for TechNewsWorld, to a volunteer position with the conservative Silicon Valley group called “Lead21,” which introduced tech entrepreneurs to the powers in Washington, D.C. That’s where she met her husband, who had recently retired from Google. Lead21 founder Auren Hoffman introduced them during a function in the nation’s capital. Arrison and Senkut were standing outside when U.S. Sen. Hillary Clinton walked by, but unlike the rest of the crowd, neither of them paid attention. “We were having this focused conversation,” she says. “Even Hillary Clinton couldn’t pull us away from each other.”

‘We will never be immortal, but we can certainly live longer than we expect, and we should fight for that.’ They were inseparable after that. He proposed six months later. She was 32. He was 37. “They’re a great match,” Hoffman says. “They both have very different backgrounds, yet are very sympatico. She’s got an incredible laugh. She puts people at ease. While she has strong opinions, she’s

one who will assess information and often change her mind about things. That makes a person a very exciting person to talk to.” Take this excerpt from a 2004 column she wrote in TechNewsWorld: With some 15,000 people dying globally every day, she wrote, “It does seem rather odd that we aren’t demanding a solution now. Perhaps one reason is that we live in a culture of death – a culture that has convinced us that death is natural, good, and impossible to fight against, so we shouldn’t even try.” But Arrison is trying. “We will never be immortal,” she says, “but we can certainly live longer than we expect, and we should fight for that.’’ Anything less, she said, would be “tragic.” So what if she does live to be 150? How might she spend even the last 20 years of it? “Learning, exploring and working to contribute something positive to society. Perhaps by then,” she says, “I can take my great-great-grandchildren to a resort in space.” S

Sonia says... Book on your nightstand? This changes on a weekly basis. Right now it is “The Social Animal” by David Brooks. Greatest indulgence? Dark chocolate. What do you admire most in a person? The combination of intelligence and kindness. Who is your role model and why? My grandmother. She was always engaged in society in productive ways. She was a schoolteacher for special needs children, a mother of four and a volunteer to too many causes to list. When she “retired,” she didn’t stop working; she just did it for less income. She was an extremely positive female role model – the whole family leaned on her for wisdom and advice. What if you didn’t make it to 150 and died at say, 85 or 90? It would be the same disappointment when you find out your friend who is 42 has cancer and dies. It’s tragic when anyone dies regardless of their age. But it would be terribly disappointing. 148 s SCENE s SPRING 2011


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shedding light on our shoots We were lucky to have sunshine and blue skies on a January day when we shot our bridal fashions at the Montalvo Arts Center in the Saratoga hills (see Page 80). Hasti Kashfia of ModeBayArea.com picked out the luscious dresses and accessories, and also assembled a primo team: Photographer: Delbarr Moradi, StudioMoradi.com Hair: Amanda Silva, VE Salon, Campbell, vesalon.webs.com Makeup: Asal, AsalBeauty.com Styling assistance: Jasmine Duarte, Franci Gire Models: Breanne, Melissa, Tasha and Justin from HMM/ Halvorson Model Management

resources Bella Rosa Boutique 145 N. Santa Cruz Ave. Los Gatos bellarosaboutique.com

Neiman Marcus Stanford Shopping Center Palo Alto neimanmarcus.com

Clarissa Bridal Salon 1424 S. Main St. Walnut Creek clarissabridal.com

Priscilla of Boston 356 Santana Row San Jose priscillaofboston.com

Gabrielle’s Bridal Atelier 422 E. Campbell Ave. Campbell gabriellesbridal.com

She She Shoes 130 N. Santa Cruz Ave. #D Los Gatos shesheshoestore.com

Footcandy 1365 N. Main St. Walnut Creek footcandyshoes.com

Smythe & Cross Fine Jewelry 350 Main St. Los Altos smytheandcross.com

Links of London, Bloomingdale’s, Stanford Shopping Center Palo Alto linksoflondon.com

Tuxedo Warehouse (all men’s attire) San Jose and Milpitas TuxedoWearhouse.com

Bay Area stylist Hasti Kashfia has produced high-energy fashion shows and styled red-carpet looks with a keen eye for trends and up-andcoming designers. Currently styling for the second season of “The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills,” she specializes in making each woman she works with feel unique, beautiful and comfortable in her own skin. See modebayarea.com for more; follow her at facebook.com/MODEbayarea. Montalvo Arts Center, which fosters community engagement through the creation and presentation of multidisciplinary art, occupies a Mediterranean-style villa on 175 green acres. Montalvo was built in 1912 by Sen. James Phelan, and hosts three performing arts venues, a 10-studio artist residency complex and a formal Italianate garden. With such photogenic spots as the Great Lawn, Spanish Courtyard, Love Temple and the villa itself, Montalvo has been the locale for numerous nuptials, and was one of The Knot’s 2010 picks for “Best of Weddings.” For information, see montalvoarts.org.

Our spring fashion story (Page 56) was shot on location at the Oshman Family Jewish Community Center in Palo Alto. The new campus, opened in 2009 at the site of the former Sun Microsystems headquarters, offers civic, educational, recreational, wellness and cultural programming for the community and individuals from all backgrounds. From performing and visual arts to classes, workshops and special events, the JCC creates rich connections in the neighborhood and all of Silicon Valley. For information, see paloaltojcc.org.

Tim Griffith

Oshman Family Jewish Community Center

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A special thank you Rob Barker Erika Brown Matt Coffee Pat Danna Ed Eke

Rudy Knight Gail Petty Robin Siegfried June Stephens Mark Yamamoto

Calendar: Skincare 101 SkinSpirit, a skin care clinic and spa with locations in Palo Alto, Walnut Creek and Mill Valley, holds complimentary info sessions and happy hours. They focus on topics such as correcting sun damage, signs of aging, acne, etc. Next up, a look at Skinceuticals, with products and peels, Thursday, May 5, 6-7 p.m., at all locations. RSVP: 866.323.0039 or SkinSpirit.com.

Kimberly White

WEDDING VENUES Continued from Page 103

Classic elegance Ralston Hall Mansion, Belmont This exquisite 19th-century mansion is a private estate run by Notre Dame de Namur University. With its Italianate Villa exterior and ornate interior, Ralston Hall is for the couple who want glamour and tradition. Summer ceremonies are held on the front lawn with the bamboo forest as a backdrop; winter ceremonies take place in the intricately designed ballroom with its gilded mirrors and French crystal chandeliers. Easy driving and parking access, local lodging nearby. Cost: Weekend rental packages start at $6,000; weekdays also available. 1500 Ralston Ave., 650.508.3501, ralstonhall.com SPRING 2011 s SCENE s 151


Lyn Shapiro, Scene Advisory Board members Marcie Hochhauser and Deb Nordstrom

Salon Epiffani’s Danny Chan, Petra Martinez, Margie Mentz, Massimo Orlando

Rachelle Cooper, Isis Yee, Cristiana Andersson, from Changes Salon

out and about I y Scene: At our bash at 1515 Restaurant & Lounge in Walnut Creek, guests noshed and enjoyed makeup, hair and manicure services from fab Changes

Advanced Cosmetic Surgery Clinic’s Julie Quinn, Brian Quinn

Kathleen Mozena with speaker and adventure racer/firefighter Robyn Benincasa

Glamora’s Tashanta Ford and Tiara Scruggs

EBWC co-chair Francene Anderson and speaker and author Lori Nader Gray

CompoClay’s Alex Khan and Andy Choi

Angela De La Housaye (Chamber chairman elect), and author and speaker Kristine Carlson

Rebecca Ladensack, Vijai Manilal of Gina Khan Salon, Scene Editor Katharine Fong, Monica Balistreri

Cantor Jennie B. Chabon and Harvey Hochhauser from Premiere Properties

The theme of the sixth annual East Bay Women’s Conference was “Embrace strength, imagine success,” and attendees certainly did. Presented by the Walnut Creek Chamber of Commerce & Visitors Bureau and Chevron Corp., the program 152 s SCENE s SPRING 2011


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Matt Mahlke, We Olive’s Scene Advisory Board Lauren Wisniewski member Kelly Hansen with Lindsey Meinbress

Tiffany’s Jennifer George with raffle winner Val Rodgers

Monique Hollis-Patrick with Donna Read of A Dress Change

Ashley Day gets finishing touches from Changes’ Caron Weeks

in the east bay Salon & Day Spa, and fantastic raffle prizes from Tiffany’s, Footcandy, Kate Spade, SkinSpirit, Wente Vineyards, Club Sport Renaissance and others.

Kate Spade’s Paula Cole with Changes Salon’s Bonnie Waters

Broadway Plaza’s Tracy Dietlein and Jackie Hochhauser

American Express Travel Services’ Matt Kohls with Kevin Hawksworth

Canterbury Trails Photography

Bay Area News Group’s John Stoeser with Patti Anderson

Walnut Creek Chamber President Jay Hoyer and Mareen Magrath

Christy Kaplan, director of women’s and children’s services, John Muir Health

Keynote speaker Eve Ensler and EBWC founder Marcie Hochhauser

EBWC co-chairs Mary Brooks and Francene Anderson

Ken Mintz, AT&T and Chairman, Walnut Creek Chamber of Commerce

featured amazing women like playwright and activist Eve Ensler, adventure racer Robyn Benincasa and author Kristine Carlson. The takeaways: Be authentic, live in the moment, make meaningful connections, support each other, get and stay healthy! SPRING 2011 s SCENE s 153


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Meet our bloggers Fresh Style - Donna Kato works the local style scene and weighs in on the latest trends, from pajama jeans to lash-growing products. What shops are hot? How do you dress for a special date, or gala dinner? Who’s making news? She can tell you.

Coming in Scene’s Fall 2011 issue, publishing in August: The best of fall fashion and arts and culture, plus beauty, health and wellness, women and cars, and local icons you’ll want to know. Join us!

Maddie’s Matchmaker Adoptathon The great pet adoptathon is back on June 4 and 5, once again hoping to empty East Bay animal shelters and provide loving homes to hundreds – if not thousands – of dogs and cats. Command central will be Stoneridge Shopping Center in Pleasanton, but more than 70 locations throughout the region will present animals from more than 40 shelters and rescue organizations. Adoptions are free, subsidized by Maddie’s Fund. Go ahead, get a pet! See maddiesadoptathon.org.

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The Wedding Planner Follow Erika Kittler Brown as she plans her sister’s big day later this year. From plotting the beauty and style transformations of both bride and bridesmaids (long or short hair? best diet and exercise?) to bachelorette party ideas, the pressure is on!



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