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contents vol. 23 | issue 6

NOV/DEC 2023

features

ALL THAT GLITTERS An unforgettable performance of The Nutcracker by NMYB by georgette yacoub

Honoring our local givers who bring kindness and compassion to all. by jill johnson mann

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8 EDITOR’S LETTER 11 STATUS REPORT

BUZZ At home in New Canaan with Silvia Baldini

SHOP Holiday gifts for all; J.McLaughlin’s new look GO Let’s go to Paris DO A new drug for depression; Hot new workout in Darien HOME Calla Cane opens in Rowayton 38 MONEY MATTERS 41 PEOPLE & PLACES 79 INDEX OF ADVERTISERS 80 POSTSCRIPT on the cover: adam holms with dancers emma tatum, aaron bailey, mio nomoto, theodore adamson, issac bailey & martina spremulli cover photograph by andrea carson

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NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2023 / JULEE KAPLAN

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just some of the few amazing people in our community. Silvia Baldini (page 11) has become a friend over the years. She is a stellar chef, of course, but she is an even better, caring, funny human. I adore her. In our Light A Fire feature (page 58) we highlight a slew of people in our communities who bring us joy year-round whether it’s though preserving the town of Greenwich or simply arranging and delivering flowers to people who need it most (I’m looking at you, Jill Robey). And then there’s Mr. Adam and Mr. Max from Norwalk Metropolitan Youth Ballet (page 46). Sure, they produce an amazing number of performances—one being The Nutcracker— with their aspiring ballerinas, but they also instill life-long values into our kids through their little dance studio. They teach these kids proper form at the barre, but they’re actually learning so much more than that. Mr. Adam is an amazing educator and I have been lucky to have them in my own circle. Here, I’m psyched to show you a piece of the beauty they bring to our lives, our community. With that, I turn the reigns over to a new editor and new vision. I thank you all for reading. I hope this magazine has brought you as much joy as it has given me. Hug your loved ones tight this holiday season. Life is too short not to. Happy Holidays,

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ommunity. When I came to Moffly as editor of this magazine five years ago I couldn’t wait to highlight everything that our towns offer. We are so lucky to live here, work here, raise our children here. Sure, we have outstanding schools, beautiful homes, growing and evolving businesses. But that is not why we are lucky to live here. We are lucky because of the people who live here. We are surrounded by people who care deeply about others and I have been so lucky to be able to highlight them all for you over the years. On September 23, 2022, my world was shattered when my husband Brad, the father of my two children, passed away suddenly while at work in Manhattan. He was young, vibrant, smart, loving, our provider in so many ways. His death was—and still is—shocking. What happened that day was completely unimaginable. That’s the day I gained a title I never chose. I was a widow. I was a single mom. The grief was (and still is) horrific. I was terrified. Through the darkness, though, there has been lots of light in this community. We all felt the love and support of this community. People showed up for us, lifted us up and have been there for us in ways I could have never imagined. Friends new and old brought meals, ran errands, distracted my kids with their kids. I was in a fog and couldn’t see it then, but it was beautiful. And I am forever thankful and grateful. I end my time at Moffly now with one of my favorite issues of the year—holiday. In this issue I wanted to make sure we highlighted newcanaandarienmag.com

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et me make you lunch… I can make omelets, it will be the best you’ve ever had.” When you’re invited over to Silvia Baldini’s home, you better arrive hungry. The Italian-born New Canaan mom and professional chef had seemingly effortlessly prepped for our photo shoot and interview on a recent rainy fall morning. There were freshly baked croissants and beautiful holiday cookies, fresh from the oven, ready to be sprinkled with confectioner’s sugar. Yum.

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YELLOW POLENTA COOKIES SILVIA BALDINI

INGREDIENTS 1¾ cups fine Italian polenta 1 cup all-purpose flour ¾ cup potato starch, preferably Italian fecola (see note) 1 cup ground almonds ½ teaspoon baking powder 1 pinch fine sea salt 1 stick unsalted butter 1 cup sugar 2 large eggs Zest of ½ medium lemon ½ teaspoon natural vanilla extract Powdered sugar for dusting

METHOD 1 . In a bowl, mix the polenta, flour, fecola or potato starch, almonds, baking powder and salt.

I bake these buttery, crunchy yellow polenta cookies in large batches a couple of weeks ahead of the holidays, with anyone in the family who is willing to help. I shape them with my 2-inch cookie cutters, and once baked, I keep them fresh in a metal tin lined with parchment paper. Stars and circles are always popular, but I also cut a few in the shape of our initials and hang them on the Christmas tree. I mix yellow polenta and fecola (potato starch) for a melt-in-your-mouth texture. Once cooled, I like to dust them with a light coating of powdered sugar, and I personally enjoy them as a treat with a cup of tea or hot chocolate.

Makes 30 cookies, 2 inches in diameter PREP TIME 30 minutes COOK TIME 45 minutes PA S S I V E T I M E 2 hours WINE: Muscat du Cap Corse / de Beaumesde-Venise, France NOTES: Choose good quality Italian yellow polenta. The polenta should be a fine grind and never instant. My original recipe calls for fecola, which is the Italian equivalent of potato starch (not flour). You might be able to find the impalpable fecola online or in an old-fashioned Italian deli.

2 . In a mixer, cream together the butter and sugar. Add the eggs one at a time, then add the lemon zest and the vanilla. Add the dry ingredients and mix until a firm dough forms 3 . Divide the dough in half; place each piece onto a piece of parchment or wax paper. Cover with another piece of parchment and roll out both pieces with a rolling pin into 2 rectangles, ¼ inch thick. Refrigerate at least 1 hour. 4. Preheat the oven to 350°F and line 2 cookie sheets with parchment paper or silicone baking mats. 5 . Cut the cookies with small-shaped cookie cutters. I like to cut them so that they are about 2 inches in diameter. Place them on the prepared cookie sheets about 2 inches apart. 6 . Bake in batches, rotating the cookie sheets halfway through, until cookies are just blond in the middle and slightly brown on the edges, about 10–12 minutes. These cookies are small and thin. They cook fast. I usually adjust my timing after the first batch. 7. Transfer to a rack to cool completely, about 20 minutes. Dust with powdered sugar. 8 . Polenta cookies can be stored in an airtight container for up to 3 weeks.

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Baldini’s home is a charming warm and cozy European-style 1922 cottage, eclectically decorated in her signature collected vintage style. Family photos and loved artwork can be found throughout the home, with Baldini’s own humor on display as with the framed “Closed For Lunch” sign hanging in the casual dining nook. The kitchen is small but perfectly equipped for her to whip up her handmade pastas, desserts, or whatever else she is cooking up for her family of four. “We fell in love with this house right away,” she explains. “It just felt like home.” When Baldini isn’t sitting on the sidelines as a dance or soccer mom, the award-winning chef, (most often known for her win on The Food Network’s Chopped in 2015) is planning her next move in the food world. Coming from a background in marketing and advertising in New York, Baldini jumped into the culinary world and now holds prestigious degrees from Cornell and Cordon Bleu in London. She’s worked in Michelin-starred kitchens, collaborated with LG appliances and worked locally with Grace Farms Foods, amongst so many other ventures. Now she’s busy promoting her new cookbook, Stirring The Pot…Les Dames d’Escoffier New York Cookbook, a collection of 76 family recipes and wine pairings from 61 of some of the most respected women in the food industry. Each of these women are hand selected members of Les Dames d’Escoffier in New York, a prestigious non-profit organization that vets forward-thinking and successful female leaders in food, beverage and hospitality. The mission of Les Dames d’Escoffier (LDNY) is to advance and support aspiring culinary professionals. All proceeds from the sales of the book, whom Baldini partnered with fellow Dame Sharon Franke, will go to LDNY’s scholarship fund. The book, on sale locally at Elm Street Books in New Canaan and Barrett Bookstore in Darien, is available at stores nationwide as well as online. It’s a beautifully curated collection of recipes from the home kitchens of many influential chefs like Lidia NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2023 NEW CANAAN•DARIEN

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“We wanted these recipes to showcase who each of these women are, but also make them easy to understand,” Baldini says. “THIS IS A BOOK ABOUT COOKING WITH A PURPOSE AND EMPOWERING WOMEN.”

Bastianich and Ellie Krieger. Whether it’s a weeknight dinner or a holiday specialty, the recipes you will find in this book are for every skill level from breakfast to main dishes, sides and desserts. “We wanted these recipes to showcase who each of these women are, but also make them easy to understand,” Baldini says. “This is a book about cooking with a purpose and empowering women.” Each recipe is more than a step-by-step instruction guide, they also showcase stories from the Dames themselves as to how the particular dish came to be. There are Kat Craddock’s Rhode Island Clam Stuffies, for example, which Croddock gives insight into her home state’s fisheries and her connection to this particular family recipe calling it “just about as classic as they come.” There are so many dishes to choose from Francine Kowalsky’s Mom’s Lasagna, Rita Jammet’s Lemon Saffron Chicken Titine and Stefanie Sacks’ Vegan Chocolate Mousse made with avocado as the base. As Baldini states in the preface of the book, “the kitchen is where I feel alive,” and it’s her hope that readers will feel the same as they cook their way through this expertly curated collection of recipes. Mangia!

Baldini prepares her favorite holiday cookie from the book.

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ounded in 1977 by two brothers, Kevin and Jay McLaughlin, timeless lifestyle brand just went through a creative upgrade in partnership with campaign legend Trey Laird that ushers in a new wave for the brand while still remaining true to its core goal of imbuing old-school style with fresh relevance. “It has been a pleasure to work with the wonderful team at J.McLaughlin to help create a new identity and refreshed image for this great American classic.” “I was inspired how their team has managed to quite successfully evolve their design vocabulary over the past several years while maintaining their classic and spirited DNA. We tried to bring that same philosophy to the task of updating their imagery, graphic identity, brand code system, and tone of voice. It is a family brand that has always had a strong relationship with its clients, often in quite local settings…understanding their lifestyles, needs, love of color, and appreciation of effortless style. The results, created in partnership with photographer Dan Martensen and stylist Clare Richardson, capture this easy relaxed attitude yet elevated sophistication that are the hallmarks of American style at its best,” explained Trey Laird, Founder Team Laird. With a legacy of style and spirit, and the goal to make customers feel great with an unrelenting focus on quality, merchandise, and high-touch customer service, J.McLuaughlin went through a brand reimagination for the first time in forty six years. “We looked to the best when hiring Trey Laird. We’ve always admired Trey’s work, approach, and strong understanding of great American brands. Trey thoughtfully studied J.McLaughlin, extracted what makes us unique, and brought some of the best parts of the brand that already existed to the surface. A reworked logo, a sophisticated update to our signature blue, and refreshed styling, casting, and imagery. We’re incredibly excited about the freshness that he has brought to our branding and fall campaign,” says Kevin McLaughlin, CoFounder and Chief Creative Officer. ND

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his story is for the women—and the men who love them. Paris has been many things through the centuries: the birthplace of human liberty, the erudite clubhouse of beloved twentieth-century artists and the enduring center of the fashion world. Every little girl is raised on the Champagne-soaked fantasy of Paris, from Madeleine and her two straight lines to Emily and her awkwardly on-the-nose American-in-Paris life. Many go to Paris; few truly experience it. Here’s my best advice on becoming the French girl of your dreams, if only for a weekend. It all starts, as everything should, with the shoes. Paris is a walking city. If you are speeding from monument to monument via taxi or Uber, you’ll see it all and yet, experience none. Whether you have a month, a week or only a weekend, start in the Marais, the oldest section of Paris but also the most avant-garde. Wear your walking shoes, because the streets are all cobblestone. Or plan to shop at one of the tiny boutiques along

Begin with a visit to Maison Victor Hugo in the Place de Vosges. Hugo penned the French classics Les Miserables and the Hunchback of Notre Dame. He was notoriously exiled for a period due to his vocal dissidence regarding Napoleon III’s anti-democratic power play. No need for a reservation or ticket. The museum is open every day except Monday and is free to enter. Hugo was an early adopter of the standing

the Rue de Rennes, offering you the chance to tell everyone, “Oh, these? I got them at this little shop in Paris.” The Place de Vosges, in the Marais, was the first square in Paris, the first park to open to the public and the blueprint for every European court to come after. Do a quick lap around the Louvre and skip the over-touristed cafés like Le Deux Magots, and grab a babka and coffee from Babka Zana at 8 rue du Pas de la Mule.

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Insider shopping tip Take your passport with you. You’ll need it to get a store to provide you with a VAT refund form. In most European countries, they add a tax that tourists don’t technically have to pay. In France, it’s 20 percent. You’re entitled to a refund, but the process can be challenging. Research it and plan to arrive at the airport early when you depart to process your documents.

desk, and the museum also includes over 500 love letters he wrote to his mistress Juliette and pieces of furniture from her home, where he spent time in exile. What’s more French than including the mistress in the historical record? Nearby, you can visit the massive Centre Pompidou and its contemporary art collection or the Musee Picasso. Reservations and tickets are recommended for both. Other treasures in the Marais include Breizh Café for a proper non-street cart crepe and La Belle Hortense for a glass of wine and a good book. If you left your reading at home to save space for shoes, don’t worry— you can borrow one from the wellstocked wooden shelves while enjoying an excellent selection from the sommelier. If you have a choice of timing, allow us to suggest a visit during “Les Soldes,” the government-mandated retail sales season. Summer sales begin on the last Wednesday of June, while the winter sales start on the second Wednesday in January. If wandering from shop to shop sounds overwhelming, head to the newest old department store in the city, La Samaritaine. The grand dame of department stores facing the River Seine and the Pont Neuf initially opened in 1870. It recently re-opened after a glow-up thanks to its new owner, the LVMH group. Fans of Emily in Paris will recognize the spot as the scene where her lawless friend absconds with a luxury handbag. There are over 600 brands, a Cinq Mondes spa, personal shopping services in a swanky space called L’Appartement and more.

he ultimate pied-àterre for the aspiring Francophile is a hidden gem tucked behind a leafy passageway in the St Germainde-Prés: Relais Christine. Book a Garden Suite with a private terrace where you can sip your morning tea sweetened with honey collected from bees that frequent the hotel garden. Borrow a bicycle or the hotel’s convertible Fiat for an afternoon excursion (you’ll never be mistaken for a mere tourist). There’s no fullservice restaurant, but there is an honor bar, and isn’t that all we need? And at under 500 euros per night in low season, you’ll have extra cash for the aforementioned shopping. »

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c hat eau des fl ors he newest hotel in the city is Relais Christine’s sister property, Chateau des Fleurs. Never heard of it? That’s by design; all press was embargoed until recently. This thirty-seven-room boutique hotel is a nod to the Belle Epoque era and conveniently located on a small street off the Champs Elysees. If Adriana from Midnight in Paris were to choose a modern hotel, this would be it. Built to feel like you’re at your own home, guests are encouraged to leave their old-fashioned key on a leather ring at the reception desk every time they step out. Velvet banquettes, slipper chairs with fringe and Murano glass lighting fill the shared living spaces. The vibe is modern art nouveau and—with starting rates under 500 euros—affordable. To feel like a true Parisian, skip

the obligatory café and create a DIY picnic with a view instead. Head to the Rue Cler market near the Ecole Militaire Metro stop. Bring a blanket and a bag, and start at Davoli-La Maison du Jambon, then stop at cheese heaven Fromagerie and finish by snagging a bottle of wine at

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NYSA-Vins et Spiritueux. (If you ask, they’ll cube the cheese and cork the wine for you.) Find a grassy spot in the Champs de Mars park with a view of the Eiffel Tower for an afternoon of joie de vivre. As Audrey Hepburn famously said, “Paris is always a good idea.”

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Seeing The Light HOW KETAMINE CAN BE EFFECTIVE IN THE FIGHT AGAINST DEPRESSION AND ANXIETY DISORDERS b y l i z ba rron

ith a mental health crisis raging on, doctors are consistently hunting for effective treatment options that work better—and fast— for their patients who suffer the most. One local psychiatrist, Dr. Mark D’Agostino of Bluestone Psychiatry in New Canaan, has found that using Ketamine as a way to treat medicineresistant depression and anxiety can be a game changer. “Ketamine treatment is very exciting for the field of psychiatry,” he explains. “Historically patients have come in knowing they might not feel

better for weeks and this is providing us the opportunity to treat people in rapid and novel ways.” While Ketamine has seen a drastic rise for use in mental health centers recently, it has been on the market as a FDA approved form of treatment since 1970. Originally used as a form of dissociative anesthesia when delivered at high doses, the medication delivered at much lower doses has proven to be effective at treating severe depression, anxiety and suicidal thoughts. “Medications like classic SSRIs [selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors] are still valuable and critically important but they don’t work immediately the way that Ketamine often does,” says D’Agostino. “They are very effective medications but they can take weeks to start working and Ketamine can

potentially help someone feel better within hours.” Ketamine also works differently than other medications because it moves though different receptor systems. “It is approaching the same problem but from a different and often complementary angle,”

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he explains. D’Agostino and his team, including Dr. Jordana Hollen and Dr. Mia Handler, prescribe tablets that dissolve under the tongue and can be used in conjunction with oral antidepressants. Prior to treatment a comprehensive medical evaluation is completed to make sure that the patient is a good candidate and doesn’t have any pre-existing conditions that might lead to complications. Blood pressure is monitored throughout treatment as some people see a rise from Ketamine. An individual in office or at home protocol is developed for each patient, based on individual needs. Some receive treatment once a week and others may take Ketamine more frequently— especially if the goal is to help bring them out of a suicidal state. After med school, D’Agostino served as an Army physician and quickly realized that his true passion was helping those struggling with their mental health. His time as an active-duty brigade surgeon in the Army gave him a full scope view of those that he treated. Living on base meant that D’Agostino had a 360-degree picture of his patients lives. He saw where they worked, where they lived, who their friends were and what their day-to-day lives entailed. He also saw the depth of the impact that conditions like anxiety and PTSD had on his patients and the ways in which these conditions could seep into every aspect of their lives. While also working at Walter Reed Army Medical Center in Washington, D.C. at a time when the U.S. was active in the Middle East, D’Agostino saw numerous patients who had been horribly injured and countless cases of traumatic amputations. There was so much focus on these patient’s physical injuries and recoveries but D’Agostino saw equally horrific suffering from their emotional injuries. Upon leaving active duty he went on to pursue residency training in psychiatry from New York Presbtyerian/Weill Cornell Medical Center, where he continues to remain on faculty. As a psychiatrist who specializes in addiction, D’Agostino and his staff also monitor patients closely as Ketamine can have a euphoric effect for some. “Ketamine, despite having a lower addiction liability than other FDA approved medications like opioids or benzodiazepines, can be misused,” he explains. “We have a responsibility to make sure that the medication is used carefully and in the right clinical setting.”

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THE HOTSPOT A new fitness studio brings infrared heat workouts to Darien b y e l iz a b et h hol e the core, since it’s the center of all movement,” Crous says. “If you have control of your core, you have control of your limbs will move more safely and efficiently. You will also burn more calories.” Crous points out some added emotional benefits you can experience from the workouts, in addition to improving physical health and fitness. “The classes are mood enhancing,” she says. “It gives you a euphoria when you’re done working out.” A former Bikram Yoga teacher, Crous opened a yoga studio in 2013 in Manhattan’s TriBeCa neighborhood. In between teaching, she started working out on her own with the heat on and developed the HOT HIIT concept in 2015. “My idea came from the natural craving of someone who spends a lot of time in the heat,” she says. When her HOT HIIT group fitness classes “blew up” in New York, she expanded with the dedicated Bronxville studio in 2019, before following up with the Darien location four years later. Crous applies some of the same yoga sensibilities at HOT PHIIT, with “an emphasis on mindful movement and low-impact modifications” anyone can do. “HOT PHIIT is for all fitness levels, and most people do a mix of our classes,” Crous explains. “You can have a little fun while you do it, and we try not to take anything too seriously. Everything is set to music—it’s a killer workout.” Crous has trained more than 100 instructors in HOT PHIIT

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onique Crous helps people “get phiit fast” in a fun and safe way, and her signature workouts are now in Darien. Using infrared heat, her HOT HIIT classes help the body ease into movements and recover more quickly. After taking her concept from a yoga center in Manhattan to a dedicated HOT PHIIT studio in Bronxville, NY, Crous and her partners expanded to Darien over the summer with a location at Goodwives Shopping Center. Described as a “beat-based training system that combines High Intensity Interval Training (HIIT), muscle toning and cardio with the healing properties of infrared heat,” the workouts aim to strengthen the core while burning fat, increasing flexibility and aiding circulation. All HOT PHIIT classes are taught using far-infrared heat that “warms your body like the sun” with a technology similar to saunas. “The studio heats up to 98 degrees in a natural way and gets that amazing sweat out of your body,” she explains. “It’s good for your joints and stiffness, helping you ease into exercise more safely.” While the class that started it all is HOT HIIT, Crous and fellow trainer Jessie Lambiase—who runs the Bronxville location— added core flow, barre and shadow boxing to the mix. Classes are taught on a yoga mat with a focus on core strength. They last anywhere from 40 to 55 minutes. “We put a huge emphasis on

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he giving can seem endless at this time of year. You donate food to your local soup kitchen in the spirit of Thanksgiving. Your mate tosses a bigger bill into the basket at your place of worship. Your alma mater asks for help funding the new science complex. The nature center membership needs to be renewed. The dog rescuers could use your help. The PTA, the rainforest, the

homeless coalition, another cancer walk. A check here. A pledge there. They’re all worthy causes. But are they the most meaningful to you and your family here in Fairfield County? If haphazard giving is leading you to ask yourself that question, you’re not alone. “There’s an interest in engaging your family and in creating a mission statement as a family—that is a trend we’re seeing more and more of,” says Sara DeRose, a director and philanthropic adviser at Fairfield County’s Community Foundation, in Norwalk. “Donors are looking to be more educated. They’re thinking through issue areas they’re most passionate about and looking at how they can make the most impact over time with their charitable giving.” Increasingly, families, individuals and companies are turning to donor-advised funds to make their philanthropy as strategic and informed as their investing. DAFs

are essentially charitable checking accounts, managed by a sponsor organization such as a community foundation or the charitable arm of financial service com like Vanguard or Fidelity. Contributions to a donor-advised fund are taxdeductible. Money invested inside a DAF grows tax-free and donations are made at the donor’s direction. “Donor-advised funds have risen in popularity over the last 10 years or so as deep wealth in this country has increased,” DeRose says. “They simplify your giving and you get a philanthropic adviser as your personal guide.” Advisers can help families come up with a mission statement, and handle all administrative tasks and records. At Fairfield County’s Community Foundation, advisers suggest vetted organizations that align with a family’s mission and can best use the family’s gifts. With the foundation’s “brokered grants” program, DAF-contributors can partner with other donors to

fund specific issues that local organizations address. While a desire to help others is the main reason to establish a DAF, these funds can help lighten your tax load, especially when appreciated assets are involved. For example, if you bought $10,000 worth of Amazon stock 10 years ago, and you’re now sitting on a pile worth more than $75,000, instead of selling the stock, paying taxes on the capital gains, then donating the leftovers, you can donate the appreciated stock, get a much bigger tax deduction, and send a much bigger gift to charity. “You give and get immediate benefits, and make grants at your leisure,” DeRose says. “More and more families are interested in this. They know they want their children to get involved as soon as they’re old enough to understand that you spend some, you save some, you give a portion away. And that is foundational to how they raise their family.”

For years, the heads of generous families in Fairfield County and beyond have established private, family foundations to carry on the giving long after the founders pass on. But what happens when subsequent generations don’t share the founders’ mission or the time, money or energy to manage the foundation? Squabbling can lead to a long, legal, expensive dissolution. Conversions from a private foundation to one or more donor-advised funds can be an attractive, less expensive alternative. “We work with a number of families that had a family foundation, and now family members can’t agree on funding priorities,” says DeRose. “This is happening increasingly as you see transfers of wealth and ideological differences. Donor-advised funds can be a really good solution.”

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arien Library’s rich history, and promising future, was celebrated at the inaugural meeting of The Heron Society. Members include past and present leadership, Trustees, and the visionaries who made the new Darien Library possible when constructed in 2009. More than 75 guests gathered for cocktails, hors d’oeuvres, live music and to discuss the library’s ongoing innovations. The event featured former Director Louise Parker Berry in conversation with Honorary Trustee George Wyper and current Director Kiera Parrot. darienlibrary.org. » 1 Tyler and Paige Kyle, Sarah Woodberry, Melissa Noonan, Ward Glassmeyer 2 David Genovese, Kate Ramsden 3 Margit Bluestein, Jessica Levey, Diana Nehro, Alex Eising, Angela Riley, Elena Whidden, Melissa Noonan 4 Kevin Gasvoda, Hutch Pegler, George Wyper 5 Alan Gray, Louise Parker Berry, Sue McGraw, Kiera Parrott 6 Mark Filanowski, Monica McNally, Jon and Sara Zagrodzky 7 George Wyper 8 Ann Mandel NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2023 NEW CANAAN•DARIEN

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Thirty two young ballerinas are lined up in three rows for auditions of Norwalk Metropolitan’s Youth Ballet’s production of The Nutcracker— each one prettier than the next. Not just in looks. They carry a focus, a talent and a determination that rivals an Olympian on the world stage. Adam Holms, the owner and artistic director of NMYB, is weaving through the rows handing out directives at a speed unintelligible to an untrained ear. Open-plié-cross-open-plié-side bend-right arm over-tourne en dedans pirouette-jump to fourthjump to second-jump to fourth-pirouette. Holms doesn’t have the strict and authoritarian nature of a stereotypical artistic director. His nails are painted a glittering shade of forest green and he’s wearing Nutcracker socks and a Nutcracker blazer that sparkles as he walks—a stark contrast to the muted leotards that line the rows. “Want to see how much I love the Nutcracker?” he asks. He lifts the sleeve of the blazer to reveal a tattoo of a nutcracker—the holiday figurine drawn permanently on his forearm. newcanaandarienmag.com

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“This is a NURTURING SPACE and everyone who works here is FUNDAMENTALLY INTERESTESTED in the GROWTH of THESE KIDS.” - M A X R I E S E N “If I need kids to buy into my program, I need to sell it to them,” says Holms. “The whole reason these kids love The Nutcracker is because I love The Nutcracker. That᾽s why I have a sparkly blazer and a tattoo.” Holms recognizes there are no shortcuts to ballet—it requires consistent, hard work but “if I can make it more accessible with pop music and the way I dress, I’m going to do it,” he says. The traditional ballet class music begins and, without hesitation, the girls execute the long list of directives Holms just gave them. The execution was surprising. There was steadiness where there should have been shaking, and stoicism where there should be grimacing. The only visible indications of their effort was the damp hairs curling along the napes of their necks.

Once the girls leave the room, they become completely different—animated, giggling and dancing with girls who seemingly have become their closest friends. Holms’ husband and NMYB’s administrator, Max Riesen, settles them down when the noise level gets out of hand. Riesen is tall and instantly likable. He’s wearing green and white Nikes, a backwards cap, and has an edge that almost looks out of place outside of the City. Riesen plays a major role in the front-of-house culture of the studio. “This is a nurturing space and everyone who works here is fundamentally interested in the growth of these kids,” he says. Riesen and Holms know each and every kid that walks into the studio. Riesen is adamant about having no option for online registration. Each kid sits down with Holms and Riesen in

person and talks through their goals—whether that’s to go en pointe, step up training for college applications or learn a new discipline for fun. Once they are registered, each student gets a green folder with a custom protocol of the classes Holms recommends for them, and invitations to programs and even scholarships if they need them. While NMYB is not a nonprofit, it does have a nonprofit umbrella that accepts donations to help underserved students cover tuition. “My students do not just learn steps and movements but are introduced to history, culture, art, music and language while inadvertently learning self-reliance, appreciation for tradition, time management, self esteem, self expression and personal responsibility,” says Holms. What’s different about Holms, though, is that while he respects the history of ballet itself, he

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“THIS IS AN ART FOR EVERYONE—every color and shape and size. That means RESPECTING THE CANONS but CHANGING THE CULTURE.” - A D A M H O L M S recreates each production from scratch to celebrate the students he has. “This is an art for everyone—every color and shape and size. That means respecting the canons but changing the culture. It’s why I dress kind of funny and have them dance ballet to hip hop or Dolly Parton… to disarm them.” This sentiment came alive towards the end of the group’s audition. After a few segments of what you’d expect a traditional ballet audition to look and sound like, Holms threw out another spew of directives, but once the music came on, it was a clean version of hip hop track, Edamame. The students lit up when they recognized the beat, smiling as they performed to the new track. “When I see the kids are focused and concentrate too much on being perfect, I change up

the energy in the room. I want them to feel comfortable in that moment,”Holms says. NMYB has sister schools both in Ecuador and Costa Rica, and in the spirit of inclusion, the school sends down three girls for their production of Coppélia, while three come up to Connecticut for their production of The Nutcracker. The students refer to Holms only as Mr. Adam. “It’s a thing of respect,” he says. “My delivery may come off cavalier but it hooks children so I can make them attentive and teach them the rigors.” Riesen adds “for us to be committed to you, you need to be committed to us.” “Yes, and there’s no discussing casting or costume choice,” says Holms. “This is my world and you’re part of it because you want to learn.”

And there’s a reason for this: Holms says, “It’s not normal for a child to be devastated over casting levels. It’s okay to be disappointed—disappointment is a moment. But devastation isn’t. Not every kid is going to have the same path.” He adds “I taught for the American Ballet Theatre but I never danced for them. I wasn’t devastated. I was thankful and honored to be in that orbit.” “I think it’s important for parents to realize that no child has feelings that are 100 percent original,” he continues. “You need to trust the mentors you put into children’s lives. Adults make difficult choices for them. Our job is to say this is why we made that choice. I often remind parents, this is their first experience dealing with an 8 year old child of their own.

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This is my 22nd year of working with 8 year olds. It’s a difficult thing but parents need to de-center themselves from emotions and think about the larger picture.” He brings the discussion back to this year’s production of The Nutcracker and the costumes for this year’s production. “I know how much joy it brings to get a new costume, so they are an investment we make not only because they tell the story so differently, but because it elevates a kid’s experience.” And the costumes are elaborate, designed to make each kid feel like a star. Speaking of stars, unlike many other ballet productions, Holms and Riesen do not bring principal dancers for the performances. “You have very few opportunities to wear a tiara,” Holms says. “I’m not going to waste that on a ballerina who always has that spotlight. Plus, it’s vital to know that I believe in their talent and their ability to play the Sugar Plum.” The NMYB’s version of The Nutcracker is truly unique to the studio and its student class. The way Holms tells the story is 100 percent original, and he is quite deliberate in his use of masks and costumes to tell the story in a way that is unique even to someone who has seen The Nutcracker a hundred times. “Plus, there’s something really joyous about seeing a production done all by

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children, and no adults,” he says. At each end of each production, Holms gives each child a thank you card, “from a lefty with bad handwriting.” It’s partially to tell them how proud he is of them, but it’s also to teach those kids the value of a handwritten thank you card. To Holms, it’s a lesson more important than learning ballet steps. In their ten years since opening the studio, maybe five kids become professional dancers, “... but every one of them keeps in contact,” Holms says. “We don’t have robust personal families of our own so these families have become our adopted families,” he finishes as his eyes well up. While NMYB operates as a for-profit entity, it maintains a partnership with the non-profit umbrella corporation, Fractured Atlas. Under this partnership, Fractured Atlas accepts taxdeductible donations on behalf of NMYB, playing a pivotal role in supporting the studio's initiatives, including their robust need-based scholarship program, covering expenses associated with bringing in world-class choreographers and master teachers, and ultimately enhancing NMYB's ability to present Fairfield County's most esteemed all-child dance productions. To contribute, contact info@nmyb.org.

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OUR HONOREES HAVE ALL SPARKED MOVEMENTS THAT SPREAD

Every year we ask our readers to nominate their Fairfield County neighbors who selflessly and tirelessly devote themselves to giving back. Three years ago, we honored the brave residents who refused to cower to Covid and went out and made a difference—however they could, whatever the risks. At that time, Liz Salguero, founder of Circle of Care, feared funds would run dry and she would not be able to support parents coping with pediatric cancer, just when they needed reassurance most. But then something unexpected happened. The general public, new to a life of wearing masks and fearing germs, gained a better understanding of what it must be like all the time for parents of immunocompromised children. Donations increased. Circle of Care grew—by 400 percent. This story is a reminder of how kindness flourishes; it’s not picky about the soil that feeds it. Even the most parched or rockiest foundation serves kindness just fine. It burrows down into any little crevice of compassion it finds, plants roots and spreads like ox-eye daisies. This year we are recognizing kindness in 1,920 Genevieve Lau Loved necklaces, 5,000 Flower Again arrangements, 500,000 Undies Project undergarments, twenty-plus Flinn Gallery exhibits, $25 million raised by Bank of America, a dozen historic buildings preserved, 13,000 immigrants served, fortyseven kids sent to camp, seven wishes granted … and the list goes on, reassuring us that the flow of nomination letters will never ebb. Keep ’em coming.

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“Twenty years ago Chris and Rachel Franco were walking through Central Park with their toddler when inspiration struck. “We were both stunned by how beautiful the park was,” says Chris. “It had gone through a metamorphosis over the previous twenty years through the Central Park Conservancy. We stopped and bought a book about it. We said to each other, it would be amazing to do something like this at Greenwich Point. Central Park is the crown jewel of the New York City park system; Greenwich Point is the crown jewel of the Greenwich park system.” Chris, who is in real estate development, and Rachel, formerly on Wall Street (now a realtor at Sotheby’s) and raising their family at that time, dove in with gusto. They talked to the Friends at Greenwich Point about the idea. “It was too ambitious for them,” says Chris, “so a handful of us carved off and created the Greenwich Point Conservancy in 2004.”

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“We want to continue to do the preservation work, but we are also thinking about working with children who are at risk,” says Chris. Rachel has worked as a life coach in the past, and she volunteered at Liberation Programs’ Families in Recovery Program, which serves homeless and drug-addicted mothers. “Once a week I would go and teach them positive psychology and how to use it in their recovery,” explains Rachel. “Chris and I have been really moved by all the press about human trafficking and what these young men and women are going through. We are interested in helping them rebuild their lives.”

The team began restoring the historic buildings at Tod’s Point. “What we hear all the time is that we have enhanced Greenwich Point—not changed the things that people love about it, but brought back these historic buildings and also made them useful,” says Chris. “That has been enormously rewarding for us. It’s really the anchor of the nonprofit work Rachel and I have done.” The projects they have completed include the preservation of the historic buildings at Tod’s Point: Innis Arden Cottage, the Old Barn, Gateway and the Sue H. Baker Pavilion. Next to be restored is the Chimes building. The pair have also restored The Feake-Ferris House, The Boat House on Ollie’s Creek, 44 Sound Beach Avenue and The Nathaniel Peck Jr. House, among others. “We do it because we love giving back to the community by saving these old treasures,” says Chris.

Words of Praise “Chris and Rachel Franco are passionate visionaries who have spent their energies preserving the Town of Greenwich. They respect the historical importance of buildings and properties from days gone by. They find resources and inspiration to preserve and repurpose these structures to save them from demise. Their unique ability to identify and navigate the often complicated paths needed is one that our entire town has and will continue to benefit from.” — A L I SO N FA R N L E I G H

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“Nine years ago my husband, Steve, was undergoing chemo at Yale Treatment Center in Fairfield,” recounts Westporter Jennifer Lau. “I saw what people were going through. I thought, what can I do to make this process easier? I rushed out and got meals for everyone, so they could serve their families dinner. It struck me that these people needed to feel loved.” Jennifer had a new jewelry business, Genevieve Lau, and she decided that for each 14-carat-gold “Loved” necklace sold, she would donate one to a woman battling cancer. “I gave one to each of the staff at Yale helping Steve,” she says. “A year later, we were at Sloan Kettering, where Steve [who survived] was getting a stem cell transplant. I gave everyone there one, to give them the hope and strength to fight.” Lau spoke to Andrew Mitchell and linked up to Pink Aid, an organization the retailer cofounded to help underserved women throughout their breast cancer treatment journeys. Soon word of mouth and social media began fueling a nonstop flow of Loved. Lau has since pivoted to donating to “whoever is really in need of feeling loved.” She continues to be inspired by the stories that illustrate how the Loved necklace is much more than a piece of jewelry.

WORDS OF PRAISE “Jennifer gives to those who are suffering or struggling, signaling to them that they are seen, cared for and loved in their most trying times. She has made close to two million dollars in donations quietly and selflessly.” — J O L I N E M CG O L D R I C K , J E N N I F E R ' S S I ST E R

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Lau has donated 1,920 necklaces, including 150 to frontline workers during the pandemic. She donated twenty-nine necklaces to those affected by the tragic death of hockey player Teddy Balkind at St. Luke’s (karma struck and, coincidentally, an order for exactly twenty-nine Loved necklaces came into Mitchells the following week). She also donates Clover necklaces to children battling cancer through St. Baldrick’s Foundation and word-of-mouth. She donates “Imperfect yet perfect heart” necklaces to Boston Children’s Hospital, inspired by a Westport boy born with an “imperfect” heart. Her “Joy” necklaces are donated to those wrestling with mental health issues. Hopeful necklaces go to victims of domestic abuse, via the Center for Family Justice. “Always” necklaces are for those with a loved one suffering from Alzheimer’s. Collectively, Lau has donated 250 of these other pieces, with a one-sold-one-donated ratio. If someone is in need, she gives a necklace whether that ratio is met or not. “I love seeing women wearing my designs and feeling beautiful. These pieces make them feel even more beautiful, because someone else is wearing one because of them,” says Lau.

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“I hope for all of these movements to continue to grow, particularly the Loved Movement,” says Lau. “I hope to make the world a lighter, brighter place, one Loved necklace at a time.”

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CATHOLIC CHARITIES • NEW COVENANT CENTER • THE CENTER FOR FAMILY JUSTICE • FAIRFIELD MUSEUM AND HISTORY CENTER • FTC • FAIRFIELD COUNTY’S COMMUNITY FOUNDATION INSPIRATION

“As a banker, early in my career I learned the importance of giving back to the community where you live and work,” says William “Bill” Tommins, president of Bank of America in Southern Connecticut. Tommins has served on various nonprofit boards through the years. His commitment to giving back deepened as a result of two events: the 9/11 attacks and the 2008 financial crisis. “I realized how quickly life can change for people for reasons outside of one’s control, and the critical role nonprofits play in delivering services at a time of real need,” he explains. “Many lives were turned upside down after these events: losing a loved one, losing a job and even losing a home. These events focused me on supporting organizations that are there for people at the time they need it most.”

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Tommins. “I’ve been privileged to lead Bank of America in Southern Connecticut for the past sixteen years. During this time, our team at Bank of America helped create and sustain Fairfield County Giving Day as lead sponsor, and by so doing, raised $14 million for area nonprofits.” Bank of America has also served for ten years as Presenting Sponsor of the Closer to Free Ride, supporting Smilow Cancer Center, helping to raise over $10 million for cancer research and patient care. This past year, Bank of America awarded a $1 million grant to Fairfield Bellarmine, a new two-year associate-degree program targeted at preparing underserved youth for the transition to a bachelor’s degree at a university or to find meaningful employment.

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“My hope is that the clients of these organizations can move toward self-sufficiency and lead fulfilling lives with purpose,” says Tommins.

WORDS OF PRAISE “Bank of America is a dedicated supporter of Fairfield County's Community Foundation, as well as a number of other local organizations and causes. Bill Tommins exemplifies true commitment to his community through his personal efforts and those of Bank of America. Bill is a champion of its corporate mission to support initiatives and programs that address the root causes of inequality through a company-wide commitment to advancing racial equality and economic opportunity. He has empowered his team to bring Bank of America’s local support mission to life here in Fairfield County. In addition to the work with FCCF, Bill and his team are consistently seeking new ways to invest in innovative ideas and partnerships to address issues like affordable housing, income and wealth building, health and more—issues that are at the core of a thriving community.”

“I’m fond of the proverb, ‘If you want to go fast, go alone; if you want to go far, go together,’” says

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BUILDING ONE COMMUNITY (B1C)

Kathleen Walsh INSPIRATION

“I am the child and grandchild of immigrants myself, so I can remember hearing stories of the challenges my grandparents and mom faced when they first came to the United States,” says Kathleen Walsh, who is trained as a sociologist and city planner. “In the course of my work with the Stamford Partnership, I was seeing an increasing number and diversity of immigrants coming to Stamford. My responsibility was to identify emerging issues and trends and bring the community together to address them. I was inspired by the Partnership’s mission to have a positive impact on the community. That’s how the germ of the idea for Building One Community (B1C) developed.”

COURAGE INTO ACTION

As its founder, Walsh played a key role in forging B1C’s partnerships with Family Centers, Community Health Centers, Stamford Health, River House Adult Day Care Center, DOMUS, Person-toPerson, Stamford Public Schools and others. B1C opened its doors in 2011 with two employees and a budget of $455,000. The organization now has forty employees and a budget of

WORDS OF PRAISE “In a quiet and steadfast way, Kathie Walsh has been an extraordinary contributor to the Lower Fairfield County community, professionally as CEO of the Stamford Partnership and in a volunteer leadership capacity with many local nonprofits. Her work with Building One Community, an organization she helped found and led as board chair for five years, stands out for the positive impact that organization has had on the lives of thousands of immigrants and on the entire community.” — A N K A BA D U R I N A , B 1 C E X ECU T I V E D I R ECTO R

over $3.5 million. B1C has served immigrants from 117 different countries. Walsh highlights two accomplishments that fill her with pride: her contribution to developing affordable housing in New York earlier in her career and her work at B1C. “Those couple hundred units of affordable housing in New York were life-changing for those families,” she says. “I’m equally proud of the 13,000 people who have come through B1C’s doors and received language training, legal services, help with registering their kids at school and finding housing. I believe our obligation is to make the world a better place.” In 2016, Walsh spearheaded the effort seeking authorization for B1C to provide low-cost immigration legal services and then completed the rigorous training to become an accredited Department of Justice representative, allowing her to represent clients before government agencies, including U.S. Citizen and Immigration Services. B1C’s ILS department has managed over 2,100 consultations; 500 were handled by Walsh.

HOPES & DREAMS

“I hope that B1C will continue to be sustainable over the very long term,” says Walsh. “I’m so pleased that we have a group of people willing to serve as board members, staff and volunteers, delivering services that newcomers to the community really need. I hope over time the kinds of services people need will diminish, because they won’t have to work so hard to access them. But as long as they are needed, I hope B1C will be there for them.”

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WORDS OF PRAISE “Jill has always had a love for flowers and initially channeled her skills through her church flower ministry. In 2022, Jill decided to take her passion for florals and her love of spreading joy to another level by founding Flower Again. Flower Again is now in its second season and has expanded like crazy! It just goes to show that a tiny little idea can make a big impact in the lives of many. Jill is one of the most compassionate, organized and dedicated women I know, and I’m privileged to work alongside her on the board of Flower Again.” — L E S L E Y CO U S L E Y, B OA R D M E M B E R

INSPIRATION

“The beauty of flowers and how they evoke a smile in most everyone was my greatest inspiration,” says Jill Robey, founder of Flower Again, which receives floral donations from weddings and other events and repurposes them into bedside bouquets to be delivered to low-income seniors. “I love choosing flowers, arranging them and sharing them with others,” explains the New Canaan resident. “I had participated in flower arranging and delivery on a small scale at my church. When I learned about organizations in other parts of the country that were doing this on a much larger scale, I thought, I can do that.”

COURAGE INTO ACTION

“I’ve created an organization that reimagines donated flowers

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from events and CT Flower Collective by creating bedside arrangements for those who could use a lift of spirit,” says Robey, who is especially grateful to the twenty-five women at CT Flower Collective in Meriden, who make a weekly donation of flowers. Since its inception in April 2022, Flower Again has created and hand-delivered over 5,000 arrangements to over 1,800 individuals at twenty-eight different facilities in Fairfield County. “I have met so many individuals who I wouldn’t otherwise have had the opportunity to know and have a group of over seventy volunteers who enjoy the community this has created,” she says. “I also care deeply about our environment. By reusing flowers from weddings, funerals, florists or corporate events, we are ensuring less floral material is added to our landfills. Flower Again is trying to do our part to keep our planet healthy and beautiful.” She adds, “But really our greatest accomplishment is spreading joy, which is hard to quantify, but you know it when you see it.”

HOPES & DREAMS

“I hope to inspire others to remember those who could benefit from more human connection,” says Robey. “We all have gifts and talents and should be using our natural abilities to support each other—finding ways to work together, rather than against each other. I hope that Flower Again will continue to grow and maybe inspire others to join the movement. There are a lot of beautiful flowers out there and many, many people who would be thrilled to receive them.”

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“When I first arrived in Greenwich and happened upon the Hurlbutt Gallery [now called the Flinn Gallery], one of the gallery members asked if I would be interested in joining the art committee,” recounts Barbara Richards. “Once I started, I never looked back. Every day was a learning experience for me, and my law background was very helpful in contributing in many ways to the gallery.” Richards has been involved with the gallery for thirty years, taking on the challenge of keeping up with technology and upholding a level of sophistication that has made the gallery desirable to artists and art lovers alike. Through closures for construction and Covid, Richards remained determined to keep a committee of forty members motivated. She also has been involved with the Friends of the Greenwich Library—another preeminent institution in Greenwich that brings her great pride.

COURAGE INTO ACTION

Richards has served as board chair of the Flinn Gallery and on the board of the Greenwich Library. “I took on many different roles at the Flinn and the library,” she says. “I have curated twenty to thirty exhibits. Each one was exciting. It’s difficult to pick the most interesting, but I’m very proud of the Robert Motherwell show, The Tony Walton set design show, The Cambodian show with a pop-up diner and The Great American Landscape.” She has served on numerous

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committees over the years and says, “The gallery and the library are my second career. The Flinn Gallery is a unique volunteer institution. It is open ten months a year, seven days a week. Every moment it is open, it needs to be staffed primarily by our volunteers. We need to have curators take on each exhibit of the season, which entails months of work.” “The website needs to be kept constantly current. The selections committee needs to find artists to put shows together for the calendar for the following year— five or six shows that are exciting and salable. “Marketing needs to promote our shows. We have to design and print our invitations, posters and banners. We need to constantly remember that our volunteers are our most valuable treasure. They need to always know that.”

HOPES & DREAMS

Richards’ goal is to continue to keep members motivated and committee members engaged for years to come. “I don’t have an art background,” she says. “I’m a policy wonk. My goal is to keep the committees working and make members feel happy and valuable.”

WORDS OF PRAISE “Barbara Richards has provided exceptional leadership to the Flinn Gallery and has made a permanent impact on the availability and visibility of the visual arts and arts education in the Greenwich community.” — H I L A RY M A RT I N L E A

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WORDS OF PRAISE “Robyn Whittingham and her family have a longstanding record of exceptional philanthropy in their local community and beyond. She is a dedicated advocate for both physical and emotional wellness and is passionate about making a difference in people’s lives. Her extensive philanthropic endeavors are guided by that focus, and Robyn’s generous spirit and caring nature shine through in everything she does. A dedicated supporter of Make-A-Wish Connecticut since 2019, Robyn is a valued and active member of the Board of Directors. Through her involvement on the board coupled with her generosity, she has helped grant seven wishes and bring to life The Wishing Place, MakeA-Wish Connecticut’s home for hope and healing. From advancing healthcare, bringing people together and enriching communities to creating hope and making wishes come true, Robyn Whittingham is the epitome of a philanthropic leader.” — K R I S M O RA N , M A K E-A-W I S H CO N N ECT I CU T, D I R ECTO R O F M A R K E T I N G CO M M U N I CAT I O N S

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“I lucked into a family that believed in giving back,” says Robyn Whittingham. “My in-laws, Jean and Tony Whittingham, were a true rags-to-riches story—first generation immigrants from Jamaica, who came to the U.S. in the early 1950s with nothing except hopes and dreams, when discrimination was rampant. Through constant hard work and perseverance, they built a great life here and shared the benefits of their strong work ethic with their communities. My husband and his brother continued the tradition, and now I, along with my son Adam and his wife Catalina, have the privilege of supporting

choose to be active and show their support, regardless of financial status or time constraints.”

causes that resonate with us. Make-A-Wish CT [which changes the lives of critically ill children and their families], The Ferguson Library, Mill River Park, the Palace and Avon theaters, and Stamford and Norwalk hospitals remain at the top of our list.”

HOPES & DREAMS

“My fervent wish is that my favorite nonprofits expand their outreach in our communities to help everyone find a small or big way to give back—adults, seniors and kids alike. We have such worthy organizations in Fairfield County that deserve our support,” says Whittingham. She hopes the long list of children waiting for wishes will have them granted through MakeA-Wish, and she emphasizes that it is community involvement that’s vital to making that happen.

COURAGE INTO ACTION

“I love my role on Make-A-Wish’s board, because there are literally dozens of ways I can contribute to their mission,” says Whittingham. “I volunteer at Ferguson Library’s bookshop and plan to help them build more community awareness of the importance of libraries in our lives. Anyone can

She adds, “Our libraries offer an incredible array of programs that many don’t know about. Mill River is a superlative city park. Stamford and Norwalk hospitals offer wellness programs for all ages and stages of life.”

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Lucy Langley & Laura Delaflor O R G A N I Z AT I O N

INSPIRATION

THE UNDIES PROJECT

“Initially the inspiration came from me volunteering at Neighbor to Neighbor on the clothing distribution side,” says Lucy Langley, cofounder of The Undies Project. “I had a light-bulb moment when I was purchasing a bra for myself. I realized we didn’t get undergarment donations.” Langley’s friend Laura Delaflor, another active community volunteer in Greenwich, agreed they should be able to fill this gap in the donation market. “We both volunteered in the school system and with our kids,” says Delaflor. “When we became empty nesters, we thought, What are we going to do? We didn’t see ourselves going to coffee and lunches.” They pitched their Undies Project idea to various organizations and received resoundingly positive feedback. “When we saw how big the need was, we just wanted to help more people,” says Delaflor, who hails from Mexico and has a background in public relations; Langley, from England, brought a marketing background. The duo was unstoppable.

WORDS OF PRAISE “Running a nonprofit has meant countless hours building a stable of reliable volunteers, managing fiscal and fundraising operations, securing office and storage space, and working w ith manufacturers, all of which has led to an enormous expansion in the number of items The Undies Project is able to prov ide. Their impact on our community is utterly unrivaled for an organization that is only eight years old.” —JENNETTE LEAL

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COURAGE INTO ACTION

“We now donate to over fiftythree organizations in the tristate area,” says Langley. “We’ve just hit over half a million donations of undergarments.” The pair constantly hears stories from the nonprofits they serve of tremendous gratitude from those in need. “A gentleman in Stamford had been homeless for four months. He had been in the same clothes with no shower for four months,” recounts Delaflor. “He walked into New Covenant, an organization we work with, and he couldn’t believe he was being handed a pack of clean underwear.” Langley adds, “It’s amazing how something as simple as that can put such a smile on someone’s face and make them feel human again. It gives them dignity.” By helping to fill a need for their clients, The Undies Project enables organizations to allocate more of their budgets to other areas, like food insecurity. “We’ve discovered clothing insecurity is a huge thing,” notes Langley. While some charities floundered during the pandemic, Langley and Delaflor decided to forge ahead. “It was great to be able to help during that time,” says Delaflor. Soon after, their organization took another big leap, renting space in the Diamond Hill Methodist Church.

HOPES & DREAMS

“We want to help as many people as we can,” says Delaflor. “We’d love for The Undies Project to be in every state.” Langley adds, “In the short-term, we are looking to expand our programs and our volunteer base. We would love to get more sponsorship. The more funds we can raise, the more underwear we can donate.”

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CURTIS SUMMER CAMP FUND WORDS OF PRAISE “Rob does a lot of work with local nonprofits. He really loves his community. Whether it’s serving as vice president of the Bridgeport Fire Commission or president of the board of trustees of Fairfield Country Day School, Rob is always happy to be involved. Through his own nonprofit, Curtis Summer Camp Fund, he sends deserving kids from Bridgeport to summer camp in Maine. Very few people know what he’s up to, and two weeks at this camp have a really big effect on these kids’ lives.”

Robert Russo

and teammates’ best interests as well as my own.” Russo also attended the summer camp that Curtis’s family ran in Maine, Camp Pinehurst, for ten years. There he enjoyed a classic summer camp in the great outdoors with a strong sense of community.

COURAGE INTO ACTION

“I was thrilled when my twin boys decided to go to Pinehurst when they were nine,” says Russo, “and it occurred to me that the Pinehurst experience was something I wanted to give to more children than just my own.” Russo put his altruistic idea into action and founded Curtis Summer Camp Fund three years ago. “We sent fourteen kids the first year and fifteen last year,” he says. “This past year we sent eighteen kids from St. Augustine’s school in the Hollow neighborhood of Bridgeport to Camp Pinehurst, each for a two-week session. They all had the exact same camp experience my boys had [and a few were in the same cabin]. They had an amazing time and brought as much to the camp as they got out of it.” Russo’s grandfather, Robert D. Russo, Sr., grew up across the street from St. Augustine’s and attended church there. “He taught us all the importance of generosity and supporting others,” recalls Russo. “It feels good to be doing a good thing in his old neighborhood.”

HOPES & DREAMS

“One of the things I love about the Curtis Summer Camp Fund is that it’s relatively simple,” says Russo. “I can raise $50,000 a year and send eighteen kids away to summer camp for a two-week session. How cool is that?” The school principals advise which kids are ready to go away to camp. “I hope to be able to grow and send even more kids, but I want to keep the process simple,” he notes. “I think it’s important for small nonprofits to maximize what they do with their donors’ money.”

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“I was inspired by John Curtis, who taught me for ten years at Fairfield Country Day,” says Rob Russo, founder of Curtis Summer Camp Fund. “He was such a large part of my life and had a profound impact on the man I turned out to be. He taught me how to lead and to prioritize my fellow students’ newcanaandarienmag.com

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WORDS OF PRAISE “Circle of Care has provided over five million dollars in program services, giving patients and families the support they need from diagnosis, during treatment and throughout survivorship. Liz, since its inception, has never taken a salary, as she is devoted to providing these much-needed programs and services to this vulnerable population.” — L I SA W I L L I A M S, CIRCLE OF CARE

INSPIRATION

“The impetus for Circle of Care, which is now a thriving 501c3, was my two-and-a-half-year-old son’s cancer diagnosis in 2001,” says Liz Salguero. “We went to the hospital and didn’t go home for two weeks.” The Salgueros were far away from friends and family, in an unfamiliar urban setting, without even an overnight bag. Then they learned their little boy would face two and a half years of treatment. (Today he is a healthy, thriving twenty-four year old.) “That was the second sucker punch to the gut,” says Salguero. Two years later, she joined a support group and met another mom from Wilton going through the same ordeal. “We’d never met,” she says. “That was a glaring example of how incredibly isolating a pediatric cancer diagnosis is.” Circle of Care is Salguero’s way of ensuring no family going through this feels as alone as she did. “I get out of bed every day grateful for the ability to help one more family,” she says.

COURAGE INTO ACTION

In 2003, Salguero pitched her idea to the American Academy of Pediatrics of giving day-ofdiagnosis care packages and creating a parent-to-parent support group for families coping with pediatric cancer. “Our story is typical,” she says. “You go to the hospital and don’t go home. The care package includes essential items, like a toothbrush and toothpaste, and comfort items like a handmade, bright fleece blanket and our Purple Pages, edited by other parents, that includes resources for all stages of treatment, like wigs, alternative therapies, summer camps. So, on the first horrible day, someone who

has been through this reaches out to say, ‘We are here for you.’ ” Circle of Care delivered its first bags in 2004. It now has six full-time staff members and provides: Bags of Love care packages; a Lifeline Emergency Fund that provides non-medical needs assistance; Lifeline Parent Community support network; Art from the Heart, an in-home room makeover program; a volunteer program at Yale to support families in crisis; and an Adolescent and Young Adult program, connecting peers for emotional support and social outings—from beach volleyball games to a smash room event to “smash the heck out of” medical equipment. Circle of Care has reached over 3,000 families in Connecticut.

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“We have grown 400 percent in the last three years and just went through a rigorous strategic planning process to expand our services and regionalize to Westchester and southwestern Massachusetts,” says Salguero. “My hope is to ensure the sustainability of Circle of Care, so that it’s here long after I’m not.” ND

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A-list Contest ......................................................................................................................72

Orthopaedic Foundation................................................................................................... 73

Bob CapazzoPhotography ............................................................................................... 35

Ridgefield Playhouse .........................................................................................................75 TMK Sports & Entertainment, LLC ...................................................................................74

Darien Nature Center........................................................................................................ 79

Westport Country Playhouse ............................................................................................16

Darien Chamber.................................................................................................................37 Drew Koltz Sculpture ........................................................................................................ 33

FASHION, BEAUTY & JEWELRY

Elephant Sanctuary ...........................................................................................................37

Bluemercury...................................................................................................................... 25

Flowcode ............................................................................................................................76

Lux Bond & Green ............................................................................................................2, 3

New Canaan Chamber ..................................................................................................... 78

Manfredi Jewelers .................................................................................................... Cover 4

Westy Self Storage ............................................................................................................ 39

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Talmadge Hill Community Church, Darien

ocal photographer Jane Beiles is showcasing her talents in a new way with the launch of her undated planner, 52 Weeks: A Pictureful Planner For Organization and Inspiration, available this month. The pages of this stunning book highlight gorgeous photos of Beiles’ travels from Copenhagen to Nantucket as well as images captured closer to home, here in Fairfield County. Beiles teamed with her daughter, Hadley Beiles, who photographed three of the 52 weeks in the book. At press time, books were available on janebeiles.com for pre-order but will be on sale for holiday shopping at local shops like Elm Street Books in New Canaan.

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