Watching Children Grow, One Milestone at a Time

Watching our Children Grow, One Milestone at a Time

WRITTEN BY SARAH PETERSON

One of the joys of being a parent is watching our children grow and change before our eyes. We all eagerly wait for the big milestones: first smile, first words, first steps. Sometimes, these joys can turn to worry as we wonder if our children are reaching these steps on time. As parents, we know our children best, but it can be challenging to know what to look for when it comes to their development. How can we know what normal development looks like? Luckily, there are some great resources available for parents and caregivers to engage in early development and spot if your child may be falling behind.

How can parents engage with their child’s development? A child’s brain develops most rapidly during the first five years of their life, and it’s during this time that a foundation for lifelong learning will form. Each child is different, but experts have a general idea of normal development and have identified milestones that give an idea of what changes to expect as a child grows. One of the best tools you can use to track your child’s progress and development is the CDC’s Milestone Tracker. This tool offers interactive milestone checklists, milestone photos and videos so you can better identify them in your own child; tips and activities to support your child’s development at every age and information on how to support your child if you see any delays.

Monitoring how your little one plays, learns, speaks and moves can help you celebrate their healthy growth and identify potential concerns for your child’s developmental health. The positive interactions that you share with them are crucial for their brain building and wellbeing. Vroom is another great resource that offers tools and tips parents can use to nurture their child’s growing mind during everyday moments. Concerned your child is falling behind? Worried that your child isn’t meeting milestones on time? Every child develops and grows in their own way, but signs of delays should be addressed early.

If your child isn’t meeting milestones or you have concerns about the way your child plays, speaks, acts, moves or learns, acting early can make all the difference. Sharing your concerns with your child’s doctor is the first step toward getting help for your child. » Before you meet with the doctor, complete a milestone checklist and write down your questions or concerns to share with your doctor. » You can ask your doctor for a Developmental Screening. This takes a closer look at how your child is developing and may identify areas of concern. » Ask the doctor if your child needs further developmental evaluation to identify potential delays.

If you or the doctor are still concerned, you can ask for a referral to an early intervention specialist. This can help you identify if your child qualifies for services and support for children with developmental delays or disabilities. Early intervention can have a significant impact on a child’s ability to overcome challenges and can increase success in school and life. You can learn more about Early Intervention resources in Montana by visiting the Montana Milestones- Early Intervention Program. Keep an eye out for free screenings in your area to access resources for your child at little or no cost.

Sarah Peterson is the Family Engagement Coordinator at Child Care Connections, where their work is all about quality child care. Visit cccmontana.org or call 406-587-7786 for information on services for families and child care providers.