Alabama Brides magazine

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BRIDES A Wedding planning guide

2010 • vol. 5 no. 1 • Complimentary

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The Dress What It’s All About

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BRIDES Contents 6 10 12 14 16 17 18 29 30 31 32 34 35 37 38 40 42 44 46 48 49 50 52 53

The Dress - What It’s All About First Things First, The Budget Our Wedding, Our Way Sounds Of Love Show Them You Mean It With The Right Gift Transportation - Everybody In! The Featured Alabama Brides DIY At Home Weddings Colors - The Perfect Match 5 Questions With Preston Bailey Declarations Of Love, The Invitations Getting Into A Workout Routine Budget Cakes, Luxe Flavor The Right Way To Do Wine Get A Grip - Sanity Check!

Choosing The Perfect Date & Location Divine Dining Fantastic Flower Arrangements Simply Stunning Beauty Tips Photos & Video - Every Picture Tells A Story Stress Free Honeymoons Countdown To Your Special Day Mad Man - The Groom Resources

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The Dress

This is What It’s All About...

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Maybe it’s a runway gown you fell in love with right away, or perhaps it’s your grandmother’s gown that you want to craft into a modern design for your strut down the aisle. Either way – old, new, borrowed or blue, the dress is the iconic wedding piece brides love most. And there’s no reason the hunt for the perfect gown should be anything but painless.

During your search you may hear the old adage that the more dresses you try on, the more you look the same. So instead of tackling the gown project for months and months, you may be best served by attacking a small window of time.

Like everything else wedding, your budget is vital to crossing the dress off of your planning list. If you have a budget of $1,000 for your gown, there’s no sense in spending your time trying on a $3,000 gowns when you’re not going to purchasing one and, more importantly, you could be trying on a dress that fits your budget and style. Stay focused till you find that perfect one.

Some dress shops may require appointments, so be sure to schedule your shopping extravaganza if needed. FYI, “closed shops” keep the dresses in a storage area off-limits to shoppers; a sales associate brings the gowns to you in a private fitting area. “Open shops” display the dresses on the sales floor.

Chic Styles

It’s easy to get misguided by the models you see in magazines. But remember: What looks good on another woman might not be the best look for you. This is the time to play up your strengths! Here’s a look at some of the modern styles and fabrics brides are going for:

Strapless gowns

Paired with a swooping neckline, these perennial favorites give any bride a slimming silhouette. These dresses work well for brides with sloping shoulders, which may cause spaghetti straps to fall.

A-line gowns

Taking the place of the princess ball gown, these modern gowns hug the body through the bodice then flare out below the hip, accentuating the waist.

Sheaths and Columns

With narrower silhouettes in vogue, brides are embracing these looks that drape the female form in sophistication. This style begs for vintage-inspired lace overlays, such as corded or Chantilly lace.

Short Gowns

Designers are rolling out higher hemlines for a fun, fresh look, which work great on their own or as a second, “reception” dress. Designer Amsale even has a whole collection of “little white dresses.”

[Images courtesy J. Crew] A dress for less than $500? No problem. J. Crew’s Gracie gown and Cecelia dress (both $395) are two chic silk styles that can fit any bride’s budget.

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Gowns by the Numbers • The wedding dress is the No. 1 most researched item among brides-to-be • The average wedding dress cost is $1,075 • 86% of brides make sure to wear something old, new, borrowed and blue • The average bridesmaid dress costs $126 Source: Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study

Price is dependent upon intricacy. The more lace, beading and embroidery a dress has, the pricier it will be. Today’s trends are gearing toward clean lines and minimal but dramatically placed details; ornaments, mainly crystal and embroidery, are concentrated on bodices and hems. Consider these fabrics: Organza: A thin, sheer plain-weave fabric made from silk, its lighter feel makes it ideal for summer-style weddings.

Taffeta: A crisp, smooth woven fabric made from silk or synthetics that is known for its slight sheen and light weight.

Thin enough for ruching, taffeta can add texture without bulk.

Tulle: A lightweight, fine netting that can be made from silk, nylon and rayon, which gives gowns stunning, flowing skirts.

Charmeuse: A lightweight fabric usually made from silk or polyester. It’s smooth, soft and drapes beautifully.

Chiffon: A plain, sheer woven fabric with a soft drape. It can be made from silk, polyester or rayon.

Dupioni: A plain weave using yarns to create a fabric with surface slubs. In silk, it has a distinctive rustic and sleek luster.

Georgette: A lightweight fabric usually made from silk or polyester that’s heavier and less transparent than chiffon. The fabric’s fibers are twisted, which gives it a springy quality.

Peau de Soie: Made from silk or polyester, this fabric is medium to heavy. Its dull luster is more flattering to curvier women than high-luster satins. Polyester peau de soie also doesn’t water-spot as easily as silk.

And don’t think you have to default to white, either. Shades of ivory and champagne are popular among brides looking for a nonwhite option, and they flatter most skin tones. White sometimes draws attentions to veins or makes certain skin tones appear jaundiced, which is why a bride might opt for one of the neutral tones, or even light pastels like pale yellow and pink. Colorful sashes and embroidery are another way for brides to add a splash of brightness to the big day. ❤ - © CTW Features

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“Shades of ivory and champagne are popular among brides looking for a nonwhite option, and they flatter

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most skin tones.

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Got Money?

First Things First, The Budget

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Of course, you’re thrilled to be getting married, but you may be thinking: Do I have to do it now?

It’s not cold feet; it’s the cold reality that in this economy even super-slashed $5,000 or $10,000 “budget” weddings can seem extravagant, let alone what might be perceived as a “normal” wedding (The Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study puts the average wedding cost at $28,082; industry tracker The Wedding Report puts the 2009 average at $20,398).

Sure, money is a scary topic right now, but the budget rules that have always applied to weddings remain the same: Establish a budget; stick to it; and throw a fabulous wedding.

Crunching the Numbers

Before you go looking for a fantastic venue or that perfect dress, you have to know what you’re working with. Nearly 20 percent of brides’ parents pay for the wedding outright, but 8 percent of brides foot the bill themselves, according to the Brides.com study. Talk with both of your parents to see what they may be contributing, and then look at your own finances and see what’s doable on your end. There’s no right or wrong number here; whatever dollar amount you come up with will

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be able to give you an amazing wedding. The key is prioritizing your spending. Most of the bridal magazines you’ll be dog-earing over the next few months have budget guides in them; check them out and see how those breakdowns work out for you. As you’ll find out, there are plenty of areas where you could spend a ton of money on. Pinpoint the top three or four areas you want to focus on, be it all-star food and drinks, a great DJ or a special dress. Then create a wish list for wants beyond that. As your guest list firms up (and costs go down), grant yourself wishes.

More than half of brides expect to use their credit card to help pay for their wedding, according to the Brides.com study, which isn’t necessarily bad. Credit cards are a valuable tool, as long you use them wisely, says financial expert Jean Chatzky, author of “The Difference: How Anyone Can Prosper In Even the Toughest Times” (Crown, 2009). What’s wise? “Not carrying debt on the card,” Chatzky says. If you plan to use your card to cover wedding expenses, charge only things that you can pay for that month. And pay the bill on time and in full. You want to remember your wedding because it’s the greatest day of your life, not because it sent you into debt. ❤

Starting Off Right Your wedding marks the first day of your married life – and your new financial life. And just like your relationship, communication is key to success.

“When you meet somebody and get married, one thing you hopefully do together is share some dreams of what you want in the future,” says financial expert Jean Chatzky, author of “The Difference: How Anyone Can Prosper In Even the Toughest Times” (Crown, 2009), such as buying a home. Setting those benchmarks is the basics of financial planning: What do you want to do, and how do you get there? Then, make saving every month a part of what you do to reach those goals.

“I like to do that with a Yours, Mine and Ours system of accounts,” Chatzky says. The gist: Determine what you need to both run your household and save for your goals, and each person contributes – from their own account into a shared account – the same percentage of income to get that number. This gives you the ability to pay bills out of a joint account and leaves some autonomy for personal expenses.

To get a handle on your money, Chatzky suggests tracking your money – every dollar – for a couple of months. You’ll develop a roadmap of where your money is going and where you want it to go. Hopefully that leads to more saving. But don’t think you have to go from saving nothing to saving 10 percent of your income; start small, says Chatzky. What detracts some folks from saving is thinking they have to do so much, and if they can’t do that they do nothing. And that’s not where you want to be.

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Money By The Numbers • The average wedding cost is $28,082 • 82% of couples set a budget prior to planning the wedding • 51% of brides have spent time researching financing for their wedding • 58% of brides expect to use a credit card to help pay for wedding expenses • 19% of brides’ parents pay for the wedding • 8% of brides foot the bill themselves Source: Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study 2010 Alabama Brides 11

Our Wedding, Our Way Wedding or Bust!

Young, broke and ready to tie the knot!

How engaged college couples are getting married today

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The story of two kids tying the knot fresh out of college is hardly new. But in the midst of a rough economy, the story is becoming more complicated. For two doe-eyed couples, planning a 2010 wedding has meant sacrifice, persistence and a healthy dose of DIY.

THE COUPLES

Hillary Sowatsky, 21, and Jeff Hentschel, 23: Hillary and Jeff met as students at Northwestern University. Jeff graduated in June 2009 and started working for Ford Motor Co. in Detroit; Hillary will graduate a quarter early in March 2010. The future Mr. and Mrs. Hentschel will tie the knot April 10, 2010 at Hillary’s home church in suburban St. Louis.

Alyssa Derose, 21, and Zach Gaidar, 22: Alyssa and Zach began dating in high school and attended Western Illinois University together. The future Mr. and Mrs. Gaidar will exchange vows Oct. 1, 2010, at Prairie Crossing in Grayslake, Ill., an outdoor venue with a barn and a gazebo.

SETTING THE DATE

Alyssa and Zach initially planned to get married in April 2011. “It just seemed so far away,” Alyssa said. “We didn’t know what would be going on in our lives so far away from now.”

To save money, the couple decided to hold their wedding on a Friday. “It cuts the cost in half,” Alyssa said. “It’s the same with photographers, going to DJs, anything like that.”

But that decision poses its own challenges. Some guests have offered to take the day to help the couple set up. Others have said they can’t attend because they can’t take the day off of work. Alyssa’s main concern is that her rehearsal dinner is on a Thursday.

“We’re probably going to use the rehearsal dinner, instead

of having more family, as just the wedding party,” Alyssa said.

Hillary and Jeff decided to get married in April to catch the end of the wedding off-season. But Hillary said she’s already noticed venues booking up more quickly than usual.

FINALIZING THE GUEST LIST

The easiest way to cut money is to cut the guest list, Hillary said. “If you cut one table, that’s 10 meals, linens, the centerpiece, invitations for everyone and various other stationery and favors,” she said.

For Alyssa and Zach, cutting down the list quickly turned to cutting down on invited family members. Alyssa’s dad is one of 10 children; Zach’s mom is one of six. “We definitely had to cut people out,” Alyssa said. “We cut out the younger cousins. We just invited our age.”

A huge priority for Hillary and Jeff has been to create an environment that can include more people even if the theme is less extravagant.

“When I got engaged, I knew it was more important to me to have everyone there that I want to have there,” Hillary said.

But even encouraging people to attend the wedding proved to be a challenge. “I have relatives who are out of a job that might not be able to come to the wedding,” Hillary said. “It’s an added pressure. You think: Will people feel obligated to come? Is there anything we can do to make it more feasible to come?”

One idea was to market the wedding as family weekend.

Hillary’s family has a reunion every two years, but this year the family was unsure who would be able to make it.

“My mom turned [the wedding] into a reunion weekend,” said Hillary, who included pamphlets for St. Louis attractions with the save-the-dates.

Photo - Alyssa Derose, 21, and Zach Gaidar, 22 began dating in high school and attended Western Illinois University together

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What are you doing to save money?

Here’s what the young brides had to say: Get Married in the Off-Season: • “[April is] a much more popular month this year,” Hillary said. “The main advice for brides looking to save money is getting married in an off-season month.”

Have the Wedding on a Friday: • “It cuts the cost in half,” Alyssa said.

Keep the Guest List Trim: • “We’re probably going to use the rehearsal dinner, instead of having more family, as just the wedding party,” Alyssa said.

• “If you cut one table, that’s 10 meals, linens, the centerpiece, invitations for everyone and various other stationary and favors,” Hillary said.

FINISHING TOUCHES

Fitting all the wedding essentials has forced the couples to get creative.

Alyssa’s wedding favors double as place cards. A friend who is a graphic designer will create all the stationery for their wedding. Alyssa and Zach just have to provide the paper.

Hillary and Jeff are going for signature cocktails rather than a full bar. “We’re trying out different drinks that are local to the cities that have been important to us,” Hillary said. They’re working on a drink for St. Louis and for Chicago, and Hillary said she hopes to have a purple drink for Northwestern.

THE SECRET LIFE OF A COLLEGE FIANCÉ

Both Hillary and Alyssa like to keep their wedding planning and student life separate. Hillary knocked off most of the planning over the summer. Alyssa found her dress before school started and will look for a caterer and photographer at home over the holidays.

Alyssa said fitting her wedding into a tight budget has been stressful.

“We have to step back and look at the situation we’re in,” she said. “He’ll be 23 when we get married and I’ll be 22 ... we still have college loans.”

But getting married now, even within her budget, just feels right.

“Every girl has a dream wedding with an image of having a

wedding planner and a beautiful, huge wedding,” Alyssa said.

“We could be over the top, and I’m just not that person.”

Hillary said it’s both easier and more difficult being engaged and trying to find a job. “Because Jeff graduated first and accepted a job first,” Hillary said, “he’s made the decision of where we’re going to live.

“It does make it more difficult because I have to look in such a concentrated area. But come April, I do have someplace to live ... it takes the pressure off.”

But being away from Jeff has made wedding planning more complicated, too. Jeff wants to stay involved, but since he can’t make it to meetings with Hillary, she just takes good notes.

“It’s hard being apart,” Hillary said. “But the next time we’re together we’re going to be together for the rest of our lives.” ❤ - By Melissa Tussing / © CTW Features

Photo - Hillary Sowatsky, 21, and Jeff Hentschel, 23, met as students at Northwestern University

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The Music The Sounds of Love

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Creating the right mood for your wedding has everything to do with the kind of sound you choose. Whether its what you walk down the aisle to, or the music you guests groove to, choosing the right tunes will help create the ideal atmosphere for your big day.

Finding the Right Sound

When it comes to choosing the right vendor, experts recommend looking for music samples and recommendations.

“When you’ve found a vendor that seems like a good fit, ask to hear examples of each of these ensemble types, or listen to some recordings on your own,” says Michael Reavey, owner of Michael Reavey Music in Boston. “Even check out a live performance of a local group to get a sense of the sound that might work for you.”

Experts also recommend following up with past clients or references. “If you can talk to other people about their experiences with different bands and DJs, their descriptions can really help paint a clear picture,” Reavey says. “It’s sometimes hard to see past glossy marketing, but if a DJ or group comes with good word of mouth and can deliver in person, it’s likely you’ll feel confident with your decision.”

If you’re on a budget, many music vendors usually are willing to work around them. Some vendors will charge less for a Friday or Sunday event or for one in the off-season. Couples also can consider on cutting down on the ensemble they choose, such as booking a duo or soloist instead of a larger group.

The Ceremony

For any couple choosing ceremony music, each should consider sound and song selection. While the organ is the easy choice for church weddings, string quartets can offer a very elegant and classic feel, Reavey says. To add a little dramatic flair, consider including a trumpet. Flutes also can be paired with a harp or guitar.

“Vocals can usually be added to any combination of musicians,” Reavey says. “There are even chances for atypical ensembles, I’ve even performed ceremonies where the formal

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music is performed by a jazz quartet.”

According to Reavey, the most popular song for ceremonies is Pachelbel’s Canon in D. Other popular tunes include: •“Jesu” • “Joy of Man’s Desiring” •“Ode to Joy” •“Here Comes the Bride” •“Trumpet Voluntary” But brides can always get creative, and the options are endless. However, some religious traditions do have musical restrictions, so arrange an appointment with the music director at your place of worship to help you select tunes.

The Cocktail Hour

Reavey recommends these three options for cocktail music: 1. Have the ceremony musicians, for instance a string trio, perform classical or jazz selections during the cocktail hour.

2. Hire a different set of musicians to perform for cocktail.

Jazz piano is usually a good bet.

3. Have musicians from the reception band or the DJ play lighter selections before the party gets going.

The Reception

As one of the most prominent elements of your wedding that most guests will remember, music choice should reflect every couple’s personal preferences. The selection available to couples includes everything from Salsa bands to ’80s cover music.

Couples can even include a combination of both band and DJ. “Sometimes, a couple hires a jazz trio to perform during dinner, then switches to a DJ for dancing midway through the event,” Reavey says.

Whatever your preference, find the music that’s best for you. It’s out there. ❤ –Mirielle Cailles / © CTW Features

Pre-Event Checklist Don’t forget something along the way.

Follow this pre-event checklist from Gigmasters.com: Contracts – Make sure you and your performer/band/DJ have copies of the signed contract.

Directions – Provide your performer with the directions and phone numbers for the venue location.

Venue Specifics – Discuss in detail the venue specifics such as outlet locations, stage setup, etc.

Weather – Rain/weather contingencies should be discussed and agreed upon if applicable.

Song List – The song list, if applicable, should be discussed in advance.

Attire – Performer attire should be discussed and agreed upon in advance.

Food/Drink – Food and drink for the performer should be discussed and arranged in advance.

Overtimes – Overtime rates should be discussed and agreed upon in advance.

Final Payment – Final payment arrangements including method of payment (cash, cashier’s check, etc) should be discussed and agreed upon in advance.

Contact Info – Exchange cell phone numbers in advance of the event just in case.

91% of weddings incorporate a first dance Source: Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study

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The Gifts

Show Them You Mean It Wedding Parties by the Numbers • 92% of wedding have a maid/ matron of honor • 11% of weddings have a “man of honor” • 84% of wedding parties have a best man • 6% of weddings have a “best woman” • In addition to a maid/matron of honor, the typical wedding parties features 5 bridesmaids and 4 groomsmen/ushers • 65% of weddings have a flower girl • 58% of weddings features a ring bearer Source: Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study

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Parents, brothers, sisters, friends and new in-laws – the your wedding cast list is no small group of people. And they’ve all done something to help you get to this point, whether it be financially supporting the wedding or psychologically supporting you as you prepped for the biggest day of your life. So you’ll want to say thanks in a meaningful way.

For your parents, the wedding probably exhausted them both physically and financially. A great way to say thanks might be something that would help them recharge their batteries, such as a stay at a nice hotel where they can relax and escape the everyday.

For the siblings and friends that make up your bridal party,

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thing about what meaningful to them. Drink connoisseurs might enjoy a specialty beverage, such as a fancy bottle wine or a rare high-end spirit. Theatre or sports fans might enjoy tickets to their favorite performances. Hobbies, too, be it golf or fashion, leave the door open for a variety of specially tailored gifts.

But think, too, about the wedding. Jewelry (earrings and necklaces) for the gals and finishing touches (tie bars and cuff links) gives the group some cohesion on the big day and a happy reminder beyond.

You know your family and friends best. Show them something they love, and they’ll know how much you love them. ❤ - © CTW Features

The Transportation Everybody In!

Limo Checklist Never rented a limo before? Follow these tips for a painless transaction.

• Sketch out the day’s itinerary so you know how many hours you will need transportation for. Most companies require a three-hour minimum.

• You can start looking around a year in advance, but some companies may not book that far out.

• Some limos can fit more than a dozen people, some cap out at around 10. Make sure your potential ride is right for your group.

• Check out the company’s fleet first-hand.

Don’t rely on pictures or words to represent what you’ll be riding around in on the big day.

• Get a signed contract. You’ll want all your potential services in writing, as to avoid any problems down the road.

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No matter how big your wedding party and no matter what your wedding style, there is a ride that will accommodate.

Many rental companies tend to get booked quickly during the peak periods in spring and summer, so if your nuptials occur during prime-time, don’t let your date get too near before booking your transportation.

Compare prices among firms for similar vehicles, but don’t make a decision on price alone. Look for a well-established company that maintains a large fleet of newer vehicles – the firm usually will be more reliable and be able to provide a ready replacement if your limo gets sidelined before the big day. Ask whether the company carries liability and medical insurance for their vehicles’ passengers, and always seek references from recent customers.

Make sure you know exactly what you’ll be getting for the quoted price. Most companies charge by the hour, with a threehour minimum. This can range anywhere from $250 to $500

for a full-sized luxury car to $1,000 or more for a stretchedout specialty model. Is the driver’s gratuity – usually 10 to 20 percent – included?

Be sure to inspect the vehicle you’ll be renting to ensure that it’s in good shape and includes the amenities you’re promised. And be sure there’s enough room for all riders to fit comfortably.

Don’t ignore the details. Can you consume alcoholic beverages in the limo? Can you hang a “Just Married” sign or other decorations on the vehicle?

Finally, be sure to read the rental contract thoroughly before signing. It should denote the make, model and year of the vehicle, the date of service, pick-up times and locations, and all costs involved, including deposit and cancellation policies.

Do your homework now and when your big day comes you’ll be able to just sit back and enjoy the ride. ❤ - © CTW Features

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The Featured

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Cochran &Murphy

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Ruby Karoline Cochran and Christopher William Murphy were married on May 16, 2009 at the Oaks Plantation in Pike Road. Karoline is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Kerry Cochran of Montgomery. She is the granddaughter of Mr. and Mrs. Farris Farmer of Titus and Mr. and Mrs. Larry Cochran of Tallassee. Chris is the son of Dr. and Mrs. Richard Murphy of Pike Road.

He is the grandson of Mrs. Virginia Murphy and the late Mr. J.C. Murphy of Tallassee and of the late Mr. and Mrs. Richard Neal of Montgomery.

Lindsey Buchanan served as Maid of Honor. Bridesmaids were Sarah Bradford, Joshlyn Bush, and Jessica Slaughter, and junior bridesmaid was Anna Grace Murphy. Abbie Murphy served as flower girl and Chase and Emily Anne Beckett served as host and hostess. Shawn Murphy, brother of the groom, served as Best Man. Groomsmen included David Bess, Thomas Cook, and Ben Krauss. Jon Davis and Ross Allen served as ushers.

An ensemble from the Montgomery Symphony entertained friends and family prior to the processional. The ceremony was conducted by Reverend Ken Jackson who has known the Bride and Groom since they were children.

Following the ceremony, the guests were treated to a delicious southern buffet prepared by Incredible Edibles and danced the night away to music provided by DJ at Large. Julie Lowery of Chanterelle Photography captured the memories as only she can.

After a honeymoon to the Caribbean, the couple now resides in Pike Road. â?¤ Photographyby:ChanterellePhotography

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Borntrager &Kudulis

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A beautiful Fall day at The Waters in Pike Road, Alabama was the setting for the October 10, 2009 wedding of Jenifer Rae Borntrager to Kenneth James Kudulis, Jr. The couple met while attending college at The University of South Alabama in Mobile. Afterwards, they moved to New York City (NYC) to pursue careers in acting and visual art. After dating for six years, Kenny proposed to Jenifer while vacationing in Paris.

The following year would be filled with lavish engagement parties, bridal showers and numerous flights to Montgomery from NYC as wedding plans were in full force. Jenifer knew the moment she and Kenny walked into the Chapel at The Waters that this is where they would be married. It was exactly what they wanted; charming, eclectic and beautiful.

The Bride is the daughter of Avery and Cindy Borntrager of Montgomery. She is the granddaughter of Judy Jordan and Mr. Bill Jordan of Montgomery and Ms. Barbara Borntrager and the late Ray Borntrager of Sylacauga. The Groom is the son of Kenneth and Stephanie Kudulis of Mobile. He is the grandson of Ms. Helen Clark, the late Robert Clark and Ms. Luona Hobart of Mobile.

The Bride, given in marriage by her father, walked down the aisle to a stringed version of Do You Realize? by The Flaming Lips. The bride wore an ivory silk taffeta gown by designer Jenny Lee. A blush lining warmed the ivory dress complimenting the bride’s complexion. The strapless bodice was embellished with re-embroidered French Alencon lace at the bust line. The lace glistened with tiny pearls and crystals.

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The taffeta bodice had soft ruching to the dropped waist.

The skirt was fitted then flared toward the hemline. A separate, box pleated train was attached. The very full train swept to chapel length and was trimmed at the hemline with a full band of Alencon lace.

The bride wore an ivory silk organza flower with tiny Swarovski crystal centers in her hair. The flowers were a gift from her maternal grandmother. Completing her ensemble was a custom made, two tier veil of ivory illusion, edged with a tiny ivory ribbon and fell to elbow and chapel lengths.

The bride’s best friend of twelve years, Jean Parker of NYC was her Maid of Honor. She wore a Watters & Watters gown in cinnamon silk shantung. Bridesmaids were Jennifer Browne of NYC, Jamie Englehart of Little Rock, Arkansas and Courtney Luster of Atlanta, Georgia.

They wore gowns from Watters & Watters in spice silk dupioni.

Kenny Kudulis, Sr. served as Best Man. Groomsmen were brother of the bride, Christopher Borntrager of Hoover, Adam Rowe of Los Angeles, California and Eric Swanson of NYC. Ushers were Greg Anderson of Roanoke Rapid Lakes, North Carolina, and Evan Schweitzer of NYC. Flower girls were the bride’s cousin Chayse Jordan and Olivia Lawrence. Ring bearers were Myles and Layne Jordan, cousins of the bride.

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The ceremony was far from ordinary. The wedding party was comprised of artists, actors and musicians who brought unique performances to the ceremony. There were readings from “The Velveteen Rabbit” and Dr. Seuss’ “Oh, the Places You’ll Go!”. Evan Schweitzer sang I’m Yours by Jason Mraz, while accompanied by Eric Swanson on the ukulele.

The reception was held lake side at The Waters. One of the many highlights of the reception was the couple’s decadent food selections. In homage of the couple’s engagement, the French station showcased various cheeses, stone fruits and artisanal breads. There was also a wine sommelier to guide guests in wine pairing. Marking the couples Southern roots, favorites such as Mac and cheese, fried green tomatoes and shrimp and grits were enjoyed. The New York station featured plates of petite sirloin and miniature Lamb racks accompanied by wasabi mashed potatoes and grilled asparagus. For dessert

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guests had a choice of a four tier wedding cake designed by Peggy McKinney, and several other delights that were flown in from Paris and New York City.

After a two week honeymoon trip to San Francisco and Hawaii, the couple returned to New York City where Jenifer is an actor and Kenny is a visual artist.

We would like to extend special thanks to Josh Moates of Kim Box Photography and Garrett Merchant, wedding cinematographer, for capturing memories that are timeless..

A special thanks goes to Jill Sampson of Weddings By Jill, who brought all of Jenifer and Kenny’s ideas and visions to life.

Without you we would have gone mad . ❤ Photography by: Kim Box Photography

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Brittany Michelle Adair and Matthew Daniel Arledge were united in marriage on November 7, 2009 at Eastmont Baptist Church at 2 p.m. The Reverend Mike Northcutt officiated.

Brittany is the daughter of Donald and Lisa Adair and the granddaughter of Dale and Claudene Howard and the late Joe and Hazel Adair.

Matt is the son of Danny and Iris Arledge, the grandson of Ms. Dean Mann and the late Anderson Ray Mann as well as the late Mr. / Mrs. Arnold Arledge.

Given in marriage by her father, Brittany wore a Maggie Sottero gown with a sweetheart neckline, accented with Swarovski crystals and a chapel train. She carried a bouquet of mini cala lilies, Virginia roses and cymbidium orchids.

Maggie Stough served as Maid of Honor. Bridesmaids were Stacey Webb, Ali Windham, Allison Smith, and Kristen Durrance. Beth Stephenson was a Junior Bridesmaid. Their bouquets were fall colored roses. The Program Attendant was Elizabeth Boatfield.

The flower girls were McKenzie Claire Mann and Alexis Davis.

Danny Arledge, the groom’s father, served as Best Man. Groomsmen were Dave Arledge, Darren Till, Daniel Spears, Robby Bates and Donald Adair.

The ring bearer was Alex Arledge.

The reception was held at Jasmine Hills. Guests were entertained with music by DJ at Large. Carron Morrow with Personal Touch Events catered the event.

Josh Moates, with Kim Box Photography, captured the events that will be cherished for a lifetime.

The bride and groom departed under a shower of sparklers. After a honeymoon in Aruba, the couple now resides in Millbrook, Alabama. ❤ Photography by: Kim Box Photography

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After a little over two years of dating, Neil proposed to Sarah in front of historic Samford Hall at Auburn University, their alma mater. After much deliberation, the couple settled on January 24, 2009 as their wedding date and, with the help of wedding planner Jill Sampson, began to make preparations for their special day.

Sarah and Neil had always wanted a unique, but elegant wedding. Sarah drew much of her inspiration from the timeless, classic figures of old Hollywood such as Audrey Hepburn and Grace Kelly. After deciding upon Tiffany blue and white as their colors, the couple found several ways to intertwine their colors and theme. A signature motif, used in almost every aspect of their wedding, was one way they incorporated some uniqueness into their day. Sarah and Neil created their wedding logo by using their initials and interlocking them in the shape of a snowflake. The flowers for the ceremony and reception were all white and featured mostly calla lilies, white hydrangea, and vendella roses. Along with the flowers, they added bare twigs and branches in some of the arrangements to create a wintry feel.

Sarah’s search for the perfect dress ended when she finally found “the one” at the Anne Barge Atelier in Atlanta, Georgia.

Her dress was made of white silk organza with a hand-laced bodice and diamond encrusted belt. Sarah’s bridesmaids wore strapless, silk dresses in Tiffany by Mori Lee, and her flower girl wore a simple white dress with a Tiffany blue sash.

Neil and his groomsmen wore classic black tuxedos with the

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groomsmen wearing Tiffany blue ties and black vests and Neil wearing a white tie and white vest.

The ceremony was held at half past two in the afternoon at Landmark Church in Montgomery. The bride was attended by her cousin and maid of honor, Jennifer Cherry. College friends of the bride Katie Higginbotham, Kellie Holcomb, Courtney Labosky, and Sabrina Lawley also attended Sarah as bridesmaids. Phoebe and Maggie Hall, friends of the bride, served as junior bridesmaid and flower girl respectively. The groom was attended by his father and brother, Curtis and Todd Gilliland, who served as his best men. Glen Gunter, cousin of the groom, Rob Williams, longtime friend of the groom, and Ben Young, III, brother of the bride, were also in attendance as groomsmen. Dylan and Cody Gunter, both cousins of the groom, served as junior groomsman and ring bearer. Sarah was given away by her father and mother, Colonel (Ret.) and Mrs. Ben Young of Montgomery.

The Oaks Plantation served as Sarah and Neil’s reception site, and fun was had by all. Whether conversing with friends over shrimp and grits, enjoying the decadent cakes by Peggy McKinney or dancing the night away, their guests enjoyed an evening they wouldn’t soon forget. After the reception, the couple was driven to Atlanta by A Touch of Class limousine where they flew to Maui, Hawaii for the rest of their honeymoon.

Sarah and Neil currently reside in Montgomery. ❤ Photography by: Kim Box Photography

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Heather Maria Byrd and Kirk Newman were united in marriage, Saturday June 27, 2009 at The Old House at Meriwether in Lapine.Channel’s Reverend Danny Duncan officiated the The Travel Samantha Brown six o’clock ceremony.

Heather is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Max Byrd of Hope Hull and Kirk is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Perry Newman of Crown City, Ohio.

Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore a stunning ivory couture formal gown by En Vogue Bride. The bride carried a bouquet of white hydrangea and ivory peonies.

The bride was attended by Matron of Honor, Chelsie Cornelius of Fayetteville, NC. Bridesmaids were Gretchen and Haley Byrd, sister-in-law and niece of the bride, of Montgomery; Shellee Robbins, friend of the bride, of Wetumpka; and Kristen Newman, sister of the groom, of Harrison, New Jersey. Flower

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girls were Madeline Spagnuolo, niece of the groom, and Kilee Robbins.

The her groomtips was for attired a Taupepost-wedding colored tuxedo with a offers a in perfect trip boutonniere of green hydrangea and white gerber daisies.

Scott Eveler of Fayetteville, NC served as Best Man. Groomsmen were Brett Newman, brother of the groom, of Crown City, Ohio; Clint Byrd, brother of the bride, of Montgomery; Andy Cornelius of Fayetteville, NC; and Jeff Leahy of Spring Lake, NC. Master Hayden Byrd, nephew of the bride, served as ring bearer. Hayden carried the rings on a satin pillow monogrammed with the bride and groom’s initials. They all dressed identical to the groom.

Firewater of Luverne provided music for the entire celebration. ❤ Photography by: Lisette Price Photography

Beers &Jenkins K Kasey and Matt met the first day of their freshman year at Auburn University and quickly became best friends. Over the next few years their friendship grew into something much more. Matt secretly planned a proposal in Destin, Florida, a place that held many memories for the couple.

Both families gathered to celebrate the special occasion.

The wedding was on June 13th, 2009 at Reid Chapel on the campus of Samford University. Kasey is the daughter of Mike and Debbie Beers of Montgomery and Matt is the son of Bill and Von Jenkins of Birmingham. The wedding festivities began on Thursday evening with a dinner hosted by Kasey’s brother Baird and sister-in-law Mary Colleen. The Jenkins entertained on Friday evening at the restaurant Ocean and was a crowd favorite with delicious food, sentimental toasts and a memorable video of the couple. The wedding reception was held at the Birmingham Museum of Art where the guests mingled throughout the tent draped ballroom and candlelit garden area. The guests dined on a wonderful array of food prepared by Kathy G. and Company.

Everyone especially enjoyed the soft serve ice cream machine, candy station and the beautiful cakes prepared by Sweet Magnolias. The guests danced the night away to the music of the Sensational Sounds of Motown Band. Kasey and Matt left their reception in a cloud of bubbles and departed in a vintage Rolls Royce. They spent their honeymoon in Lanai and Maui, Hawaii and reside in Birmingham. ❤ Photographyby:RandallVeaseyPhotography

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The DIY Route

@home

Doing It Yourself

For couples who prize individuality above all else, an at-home wedding is the easiest way to achieve automatic, affordable character. Here’s everything else you need to make it work.

The Perks of Staying Put

The past year has seen a trend toward more at-home weddings, perhaps in part to the struggling economy, says Christina Friedrichsen, author of “Intimate Weddings” (North Light Books, 2004). In addition, you get to dispense with all the hassles of a traditional venue, says Rachel Hardage, deputy editor for Real Simple Weddings.

Space It Out

Perhaps you or your relatives happen to possess a massive family compound (lucky you!); then, by all means, feel free to invite the entire town and throw a big ol’ bash in the backyard.

Just expect to pay a pretty penny for the extras, warns Hardage.

In general, however, getting hitched at home tends to work better for smaller weddings. How small? Typically about 50 people, but it really depends on your property and the style of your wedding, says Friedrichsen. Your tent company should be able to tell you how many square feet you need per person.

Nail Down the Nuts & Bolts

chairs for your 15 nearest-and-dearest, your at-home wedding is going to require a plethora of rentals. Tables, chairs, linens, place settings, glassware, serving dishes and utensils, coffee makers, a fire extinguisher, generators, lighting, speakers, a dance floor, the all-important tent – you name it. You also will need one portable toilet for every 50 guests; consider springing for the larger, higher-end models that have mirrors, sinks and hand sanitizer. To find suppliers for everything you need, visit ISES.com, home of the International Special Events Society, and check the Yellow Pages and ask family and friends for referrals.

Be Sure You’re Committed

If your wedding is on the larger side, the cost incurred by all the extras – as well as the personal time involved – can constitute a major investment. Rentals alone may add up to $5,000 or more, says Hardage, and that’s in addition to the biggies like the food, alcohol and entertainment. You’ll probably also have to pay extra if you expect vendors to handle cleanup.

But don’t let these possible obstacles dissuade you. Smart couples who opt for at-home weddings outsource jobs to family and friends; it can help keep costs down and save your sanity.

Plus, having your loved ones play a role in your big day is part of what an at-home wedding is all about. ❤ – Anna Sachse / © CTW Features

Unless your plan is to fire up the barbeque and put out lawn

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Perfect Match Dessy and Pantone join forces to get colors under control

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It’s not easy getting your wedding colors to match. Your bridesmaid dresses’ fuchsia may not be your florist’s fuchsia, which probably isn’t your venue’s fuchsia or your cake designer’s fuchsia, either. A new collaboration between Pantone and The Dessy Group hopes to change that.

The result, Pantone Wedding, incorporates Pantone’s color tools with Dessy’s collection of fashions and accessories with the goal of establishing a perfectly color-coordinated wedding.

Swatch Cards

Swatch cards ($10) are available in approximately 200 Pantone colors. The 8.5-by-11 sheets can be divided into 14 individual swatch cards – one side features full-color saturation, the other lists the color name and Pantone reference number. The goal: to be able to hand off perfect-match colors to your vendors.

Inspiration Boards

Inspiration Boards help brides create the “look” of their wedding by mashing together photos of fashions and accessories in their wedding colors along with notes and other wedding-related images. Once saved, the style boards can be shared via e-mail and posted on Web sites and blogs. Each Dessy image also directly links to the product-detail page for finding and purchasing items. See them at www.dessy.com/pantone. ❤ - Timothy R. Schulte

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5 Questions with Preston Bailey The world-renowned event planner and author of the new book ‘Celebrations’ shares his latest wedding style secrets

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Preston Bailey travels the world planning and executing lavish events, the most recent of which being the October 2009 wedding of Ivanka Trump. Fresh off creating a wedding and with the release of a new book, “Preston Bailey Celebrations” (Rizzoli, 2009), the party maestro gives brides a few style pointers for their big day.

Q: How can brides adapt your “Why Not?” mentality for planning and decorating without coming off like a Bridezilla?

A: The “Why Not” mentality is what makes a wedding exciting.

However, in order not to become a Bridezilla, she needs to choose what is most important to her and invest all of the design and planning in that area. At times, the “Why Not” mentality could also be costly.

Q: You’re big on “dramatic statements.” What’s a simple, easy way to create a dramatic statement for a wedding?

A: The escort card table is a great place to create a dramatic statement – it’s the first thing the guest sees, and it is the moment they are most likely to remember. A simple way is to assign a flower for each guest at the card table, just as I did for Ivanka Trump’s wedding, in which each guest had a gardenia in floating water next to their names.

Q: What types of colors and flowers do you like for 2010?

A: I tend to pay a lot of attention to the fashion shows in Paris and New York; they usually work six months ahead of time, so it’s great inspiration. For 2010, I noticed a lot of deep purple, which is the cover “Celebrations.”

Q: Do you have any do’s & don’ts for centerpieces?

A: I treat my centerpieces as dramatic statements full of layers and surprises. I love to create a piece that not only has great flowers but shows tons of intricate details. I tend to keep

away from anything that looks too forced. Besides that, the sky is the limit. One can have a great deal of fun constructing centerpieces.

Q: You say “beauty is in the details.” Any suggestions for keeping details top of mind when brides have so many things to plan and keep track of?

A: I think that the bride should keep in mind that the beauty of all details are what her team and staff and various folks will execute for her. She simply needs to share her vision and let us worry about all those wonderful details. Of course, if she is working alone, a trusted friend or freelance wedding organizer for the day could be a great tool. ❤ –Timothy R. Schulte / credit: John Labbe / © CTW Features

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The Invitations Declarations of Love Keep it simple: Don’t try to squeeze too many items into your invite envelope.

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As the first element of your wedding guests see, stationary should truly represent the theme of your big day. Invitation expert Lea Armstrong of Wedding Paper Divas, shares some of her do’s and don’t for announcements and invitations.

Is a save-the-date card necessary?

The save-the-date card is often your first announcement to the world that you are getting married and to make sure that your friends and family can join you on this momentous occasion.

This is the perfect opportunity to provide your guests with important information about the special event. So, while savethe-date cards are not a necessity, they are very important when you are planning a wedding that falls on a holiday weekend or is considered a “destination” for most of your guests.

What’s essential to include in an invitation?

and contemporary colors.

When should you send a save-the-date card?

We recommend that engaged couples send save-the-date cards as soon as they set the date and decide upon a guest list.

Tradition requires at least six months’ advanced notice for all guests to ensure the day is reserved.

Invitations?

Four months before the wedding the couple should order their wedding invitations with the goal to mail out the invitations to guests six to eight weeks before the big day. However, we recommend that they don’t send them out less than eight weeks in advance for out-of-town guests. Couples should also make sure to include response cards requesting that guests respond no later than three to four weeks before the event.

Wedding “essentials” would include the reception card and the response card. Other enclosure cards should be based on a specific couple’s needs or special circumstances that may need to be expressed along with the invitation. We recommend that couples do not try to squeeze too many elements into your invitation or suite items like itineraries, registry information and special requests. Instead we recommend they create a wedding newsletter or wedding Web site that will allow them to include all the extra details of their event.

How can couples personalize their own invitations?

What are couples doing today?

Couples love to personalize all aspects of the wedding.

However, we caution that couples avoid too much personalization.

Keep it simple by adding a monogram or meaningful quote.

Don’t try to fit so many elements onto your invitations that it takes away from the beauty of the design itself. ❤

Every year, we watch the monogram trend continue and wonder if they will ever cease to be popular. And while monograms still remain as popular as ever, this year we are seeing couples add a touch of boldness by extending their monograms from initials to full names.

We are also noticing a movement away from traditional and very simple cream-colored wedding invitations towards bold

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Many couples love to feature monograms, quotes and photos, as well as unique colors and fonts on their invitations.

Considering this, the most important piece of advice that we can give is that when it comes to personalizing stationery do not overdo it. Pick just one or two elements that reflect one’s personal style, and keep it simple.

What should couples avoid when designing an invite?

–Mirielle Cailles / © CTW Features

Colin’s Chic Tips

To be budget-savvy, purchase elegant stationery, such as styles from Kate’s Paperie or Crane’s, but do the printing yourself. And look for different ways in which you can embellish your invites.

Invitations by the Numbers • The average number of guests for a typical wedding is 155; 90 for destination weddings. Source: 2009 Brides.com American Wedding Study

Image courtesy Wedding Paper Divas

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The Workout

Getting in the Routine @home: workout For workouts without leaving your living room, get Wii Fit for your Nintendo Wii. From yoga to hula-hooping, you can burn calories and have fun with your fiancé all in one. And with at $89.99, it’ll save you money over the course of your engagement versus a fitness-club membership.

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No matter how excited you are to wed the love of your life, running down the aisle in heels and a pricey gown might not be the smartest decision. Running before your big day, however, just might be – especially for those brides looking to slim down.

“Cardio is the most important step. You can’t start to tone your problem areas until you lose the fat that’s on top of them first,” says Katie Brumley, N.S.C.A., a fitness coordinator at the Baylor Tom Landry Fitness Center in Dallas. “Doing cardio for 30 minutes a day usually just maintains your current level. To lose the extra weight, increase it to 45 minutes to an hour and you will start to see results.”

In addition, Brumley encourages every bride-to-be do some heavy lifting beyond coordinating the flowers, food and finances.

“Women don’t have the level of testosterone that men do, so they won’t ‘bulk up,’” she says. “This is an excellent way to tone those problem areas and it will increase the amount of calories you burn as well.” Brumley also says to be sure and lift enough weight to fatigue the muscle.

“If you are not feeling any fatigue then you aren’t lifting enough weight,” she says.

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to be where most women go to dangerous extremes.

“Starving yourself or starting a crash diet to shed as much weight as possible just to fit into your gown is a really dangerous decision,” says Angeline Widmer, a certified health counselor in Milwaukee. “Consuming fewer than 1,200 to 1,400 calories a day, for most women, causes the body to go into crisis mode and store everything as fat. Which is the absolute last thing you want to do going into your wedding day.”

Widmer recommends keeping a food diary to make sure you don’t go above or below 1,400 calories a day. Stress eating is common during the wedding lead-up, and all of those unhealthy splurges consumed during moments of weakness really add up – and can sabotage your ultimate goal. Widmer suggests swapping high-calorie snacks, such as candy, potato chips and ice cream with fresh fruit, pre-cut vegetables and low-fat dairy.

“Weight loss and body toning don’t happen overnight so start early and don’t get discouraged if your progress seems slow,” Widmer says. “Developing these good eating and exercise habits will serve you well throughout your marriage. Being healthy for your entire life is even more important that being a size 4 on your wedding day.” ❤ – Matthew M.F. Miller / © CTW Features

Budget Cake, Luxe Flavor Here’s how to get the most cake for your money

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If you don’t watch it, the wedding cake can quickly become a huge expense. Splurging on five tiers with multiple flavors and sugar flowers in every bite isn’t worth the high cost for everyone, so here are some inexpensive ideas for a cake that’s right on target.

Price Tiers

The first and most important thing to remember is to be honest and clear about the budget you have in mind. If you’re having a bakery prepare the cake, be sure to tell them about your budget concerns up front at the tasting. Some bakeries also have price minimums, so it’s a good idea to get the cost issue squared away first.

“When I ask my [clients] about their budget, I’m not asking this to see how much I can get out of them,” says Keli Fayard,

the co-owner and chef at Vanille Patisserie in Chicago. “I’m asking this so I can design a cake that they will love and they’ve budgeted for. I like to come up with a design that includes a splash of color and a little wow-factor yet still falls within their preferred price range.”

When planning the cake of your dreams, the general rule is that the more time-intensive it will be to make, the more it will cost. This means adding flavors, tiers, or even changing the shape from round to square will increase the cost. Heavy use of fondant icing or sugar flowers also can bump up the price, as can custom colors if the decorator chargers for hand coloring.

“To keep costs down, choose simple, round and white,” says Fayard. She recommends adding your own decorations just before the reception, going with fresh flowers, lace or ribbon.

They’re not hard to work with and make a big impact.

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“One thing that you should not skimp on, however, is the taste. No one should ever sacrifice on flavor.”

Flavor Doesn’t Have to Be Frugal

One thing that you should not skimp on, however, is the taste. “No one should ever sacrifice on flavor,” says Cheryl Kleinman of Cheryl Kleinman Cakes in New York. “The cake should always taste really, really good. The couple and the guests should be very satisfied.”

She suggests getting a small, tastefully decorated two- or three-tiered cake for cutting in the ceremony, then sheet cakes to serve the guests. This way, you won’t have to skimp on ingredients. “The money should go into having a great-tasting cake,” Kleinman advises. “Lower-end bakers aren’t using the best ingredients, but the high-end ones are, even ingredients on an organic level.”

Your guests will remember the taste of world-class chocolate more than they will the intricate details of the sugar flowers. Plus, it’s not going to last forever – you’re going to end up eating it anyway. ❤ - By Christopher Adamson

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The Right Way to do Wine Wine expert and Web sensation Gary Vaynerchuk dishes on the best wines for your big day – and your budget

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Wine with dinner – where to begin? There seems to be an infinite number of wine choices and pairings out there, and almost as many ways to ruin either your guests’ meal or your budget with the wrong selection.

Enter Gary Vaynerchuk, a video-blogging wine guru (www. winelibrary.tv). He’s here to make sure the wines at your wedding not only satisfy your budget but also deliciously reflect your personality, as well.

Get Personal

His first suggestion is to make friends with the person who sells and stocks the wine when you’re shopping. “The best strategy is to form a relationship with your wine retailer and try new things,” he says. “As they learn your palate and what you like, they’ll be able to suggest new and interesting wines that you may never have heard of and would never have tried on your own.”

Pairing Versatility

As for finding the perfect wine pairing with your reception entrées, the general rule is to match flavor intensity – a lighter menu with a lighter wine, a richer menu with a richer wine.

For the best for your budget, however, Vaynerchuk recommends going with a versatile wine, like some from the

Dao, Douro and Alentejo regions of Portugal. That way, guests can have a meal choice and you don’t have to worry about buying a large variety of wines.

“Portuguese wines are without question the single best value in the marketplace right now, making them great for weddings where a lot of wine gets wasted,” says Vaynerchuk. “You will find many $6 to $10 wines that knock your socks off, both red and white!” He adds that wines from Argentina and Southwest France also are deliciously affordable right now.

Toast Faux-Pas

We know it can be tempting to splurge for this important moment, but Vaynerchuk advises to keep it cheaper. “People buy the $40 house brand Champagne [for the toast] when they can just as easily spend $10 to $12 on a prosecco or Spanish Cava,” he says.

Let Them Drink Syrah

It’s one thing many couples forget – you don’t have to serve Cabernet or Chardonnay just to please guests, especially if you don’t want to. Vaynerchuk says to taste and explore many options. He adds, “It’s your day, drink wine you like!” ❤ – Christopher Adamson / © CTW Features

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Get A Grip

Sanity Check!

Wedding planning means a lot of tasks and a lot of stress. But it doesn’t mean you’re going to go crazy. Here’s some advice to help you stay grounded during the premarital process

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It is an insane time. You’re planning for one of the biggest days of your life, probably trying to DIY on lots of the weddingday details to keep expenses down. Plus, you’re putting in demanding hours at work, or, in some cases, conducting a fullblown job search, not to mention dealing with all of your friends’ and family members’ various nuptial demands.

Yes, the months leading up to a wedding are always going to be among the most stressful in a woman’s life. That’s why we have pulled together these 10 stress-busters specially made for brides. Read on and relax.

1. Set a Budget and Stick To It

It may seem like obvious advice, but experts say it also is one of the pieces that might have the most impact on your stress level. Don’t try on a $4,000 dress if your budget is $1,500, warns Barbara Coolidge Tibbetts, author of “I Want My Mother’s

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Dress to Match the Napkins: Funny Stories and Serious Advice For Looking Your Best At Your Child’s Wedding” (CreateSpace, 2009). If you fall in love with that $4,000 dress you’ll either go over budget to get it, or feel like what you “settle for” in your price range is inferior. There are good, solid options for everything, from invitations to venues, in every budget.

2. Consider Counseling

It is not just for problem couples. In fact, many states offer discounts on marriage licenses for couples who have gone through certified premarital counseling. Wedding-planning stress often illuminates stressors that might crop up in later in a marriage, says Alisha C. Walker, one of “The Married Coaches” (www.themarriagecoaches.net) who offers couples counseling in Atlanta. For example, working through your expectations for saving and spending on your wedding now will reduce your

are looking for that special dress to go it alone, at least the first time out. “The more people you bring into the mix of decisionmaking, the more confusion there is,” she says. Narrowing it down on your own helps assure that you get the dress that portrays the image you want.

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Many brides-to-be try to plan their big day to match a picture that has been in their heads since they were in grammar school.

While it is fine to have a fairy tale aspect to your wedding, says Eisner, you need to adjust your fantasy to the person you are now. You may now want something different that you didn’t know about when you were a child. “There needs to be a transition from the little girl fantasy,” Eisner says.

8. Trust the Pros immediate stress level, as well as help solidify your relationship for other big potential stressors down the road, such as buying your first house.

3. Cut Out the Diet Talk

There’s no surer path to stress-induced misery than buying a dress that is too small, hoping you’ll fit into it by the big day.

Author Tibbetts, who also owns the T. Carolyn dress shop for mothers of the bride in Dallas, says it takes a loss of 15 pounds to drop one dress size. This doesn’t mean you should abandon efforts to eat right and exercise. Both of those things can help reduce stress during the planning process. And, if you lose a few pounds in the process, great.

4. Start Slowly

Eisner thinks the “wedding distress disorder” many bridesto-be experience is because “people move too quickly into action mode.” You don’t have to buy a newsstand’s worth of bridal magazines the day of your engagement and start the planning immediately. Enjoy your engagement time and think about the marriage and life you are building, not just the party.

5. Brainstorm

Too many brides torment themselves – and possibly those around them – by looking at magazines and then trying to become a specialist in every aspect of the wedding in an effort to replicate what they see. If you give the florist, caterer, baker and other pros the creativity they need, you may find that they have ideas that fit your budget and goals – and are different than what you’ve seen before. A corollary to that is that you should listen to the pros when they point out potential pitfalls. They’ve been there; they’ve done that. They know of which they speak.

9. Allow People to Participate

Not taking friends and family dress shopping doesn’t mean you are eliminating them from all the pre-party prep. If you have a friend who owns a restaurant and wants to pitch in, perhaps you can ask her to come up with a signature drink for your reception, Eisner suggests.

10. Have Fun, But Don’t Buy Into the Fairy Tale

That’s the last piece of advice from Walker: “Because, the next day, reality hits.” The more you make your wedding fit with your everyday life, the less stress you’ll experience when it is over. ❤ - By Margaret Littman © CTW Features

Christine Eisner, author of the “Comfort Living – A Back-toBasics Guide to a More Balanced Lifestyle” (Lifestyle Design, 2009), suggests newly engaged couples try the following exercise.

Sit down, close your eyes and visualize your wedding. Instead of thinking about how you want your wedding to look, think about how you want it to feel. (Eisner’s book and coordinating journal include a grid of 30 words – such as “calm,” “cozy” and “sleek” – to help you find the right words, but you also can brainstorm your own.) Once you have that word in mind, make that your mantra. If you want a wedding where people are “comfortable,” you’ll make different decisions about your venue and flowers than if your key word is “opulent.” Having that word in mind makes it easier to make decisions, Eisner says, because you’ll automatically drop options that don’t fit.

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The Date.

The Location Place Settings

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Congratulations on your engagement! Of course, you’re ecstatic about planning your perfect wedding and spending the rest of your life with that perfect someone. And while taking care of things like floral arrangements and invitation fonts can wait, it’s not unwise to set your date and book your venue as soon as possible.

Why? Places get booked well in advance. And whether your engagement is 6 months or 18 (the average is 14 months, according to a Brides.com study), the sooner you start checking out venues, the better chance you have of landing the one you want. If you have your heart set on a specific location, let that dictate your date. If you’re more open on your venues, keep time in mind when deciding on a date; busy periods at work, high-traffic events in your area and nearby holidays are just a few things to consider when thinking if a date is doable, especially if you have a large number of guests that you’ll need to reserve hotel rooms for.

If you’re getting married in a house of worship, get a list of dates that are available and mash it together with a list of available dates at your desired venue to figure out which works best.

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“Spend money on the guest experience. “My best words of advice: It’s not about impressing your guest, but they’ll feel naturally impressed if you make them feel welcome and comfortable.” - Colin Cowie

Style & Simplicity

Throughout all the venue-picking, keep your weddings theme and style in mind. You don’t want a huge space if you’re having an intimate wedding with only a few guests, and vice versa.

If you’re going to have a lot of out-of-town guests who aren’t familiar with your area, it may be wise to go with a hotel location or a venue with one nearby, so that the overall logistics of the weekend remain simple.

One thing you might not think to ask about is privacy/ intimacy: Will there be other weddings/events taking place on the same day?

The Total Package

Obviously, budget is a big thing when picking out your reception venue. Your venue may a “wedding package,” which includes obvious things like food and drinks but also some other items that may be less obvious. To get a handle on costs, keep these points in mind: Costs Most places will require that you spend a certain amount of money. Obviously, you’d like to be committed to the lowest possible tab, especially if your guest list isn’t super large. A gratuity or service charge often is built in. When you’re spending thousands of dollars, a 1- to 2-percent difference between venues will make a big difference. And if you’re looking at spots in different townships, again, the slight difference in local tax will make a difference on your total bill.

Food Your per-entrée price is going to cover a lot pretty much everything that’s included in your package. So, yes, you don’t want to pay $10 or $20 more for the same filet you could get at a different location, but you need to keep in mind what else you’re getting in your package. Also: Are you paying a per-item price or at the rate of the highest menu item? Are appetizers included in your per-plate price or are they a separate, per-guest expense? Is there a dessert course in addition to cake?

Drinks How many hours of open bar are included in your package? How many bartenders will you have? How many beer selections do you get? How much is a package upgrade or additional hours of service? Is there wine service during dinner (when the bar is typically closed)? Is it unlimited or is there a limited per-table quantity? Is there a champagne toast and afterdinner coffee service?

Cake & Flowers Some venues may partner with local vendors to include your cake and centerpieces as part of your package.

You pick out/design your creation, and they make sure it’s set to go for your big day. Does your venue do this? ❤ - © CTW Features

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The Food & Drinks Divine Dining

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When it comes to catering, the food you serve at your wedding may be one of the most memorable parts of your big day. To find the flavor that fits your taste buds, choose a menu and serving set-up that matches your budget and your style.

Couples usually have three choices for dinner design: a formal sit-down dinner, a buffet or a multi-themed station style dinner.

“The most popular [set-up] is the buffet style as it offers the best price and more food options for your guests,” says Mike Orlando, general manager of Orlando’s Catering and Event Design in St. Louis. Sit-down dinners most often require establishing a set menu and require additional staffing needs

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to serve and clear all the courses. So check your budget to see what’s feasible.

Christina Cerri, a wedding designer at Taste Catering in San Francisco, says individual stations offer a great mix of meal choices for your guests. “Stations can have different themes, like Moroccan or Asian. They offer some really fun options with décor to match,” she says. While buffets typically are one style of food, stations allow couples to include a variety of food themes for their reception. Stations especially are great if some of your guests are picky eaters. You can do really bold choices like Indian, then do a more traditional station for guests with a milder palette, she says.

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Colin Cowie’s Chic Tips “We have some great interactive stations that include a smashed martini bar where the guests create their own style and flavor of mashed potatoes with several ingredient choices,” Orlando says. “We also have our Gourmet Grilled Cheese bar that offers a wide array of breads and cheeses.”

For a party of 200, Cerri will usually do two to three different types of themes; for a smaller party of 100, two themes with fewer items at each station.

To add personal flavor to your party, consider creating a specialty drink to be served during cocktail hour. “We’ll create a fresh-fruit margarita if a couple likes tequila,” Cerri says. To save some dough on drinks, choose a smaller bar with only beer, wine and champagne. If you have a family member or friend with ties to a vineyard, some caterers may allow you to serve that wine without a corkage fee.

While a classic Italian-inspired dinner may be the standard for most couples, other popular choices include Asian and Mediterranean. “Because couples are trying to please everyone they should try to pick foods that people get when they eat out,” Cerri says. Couple also should consider their out-of-town guests, as palates change from region to region. Taste Catering has done Southern-themed food for wedding receptions with lots of guests from the South.

At bride-to-be Cerri’s wedding in June 2009, a chef will be making individual pizzas for her Italian-themed reception.

The meal also will include specially made pesto and meat sauces, created by her father, over rigatoni.

For the sweetest part of the meal, Cerri recommends considering your entrée in your decision. If you have a heavier dinner, like steak, choose a lighter dessert sans the heavy chocolate, she says. Taste Catering offers an Americano list of desserts from cheesecake mini-tarts to banana crème and pecan pies. “Look for different textures – something cakey, crunchy and smooth,” Cerri says. And with your cake, don’t be afraid to do something nontraditional. Cerri will be cutting her cake at the rehearsal dinner and doing dessert only on the big day. ❤ – Mirielle Cailles / © CTW Features

• Fax your menu to your favorite wine store and have them suggest pairings to create a good wine experience.

• Make food colorful and make food sexy. Serve it as modern, clean and contemporary as possible; have the ingredients speak for themselves.

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The Flowers Fantastic Arrangements

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From bouquets to boutonnieres, flowers add those finishing details that can really make a guest say “wow.” But as amateur florists, brides-to-be are left to wonder everything from color schemes to pinpointing placement. When it comes to planning the floral elements of your big day, experts say to keep key photographs in mind and let your inspiration guide you.

Florists’ Guide to Style

For Rebecca Henry, owner of Petal’s Edge Floral Design in Alexandria, Va., her inspiration comes from the colors and styles of each wedding. She recommends that brides flip through magazines to find actual arrangements so florists understand their preferred style. “Even if they don’t know anything about flowers, they can still communicate the “look” they are trying to achieve through design pictures and colors they find, and through communicating their own personal tastes,” she says.

Leanne Kesler, owner of the Floral Design Institute in Portland, Ore., advises brides to take their cues from Mother Nature. Gardens provide us with what works color-wise, Kesler says, adding that paint and hardware stores also offer an opportunity to mix and match colors with paint chips or swatches.

Your color choices also should depend upon your actual location. “It’s more advantageous to use lighter colors in a larger setting because dark colors will just recede and disappear,” Kesler says. “You can use bolder, darker colors in more intimate spaces.”

Experts recommend that brides choose one to three colors for floral designs. “They should also consider sticking with colors that are in the same spectrum, as in staying with only cool colors, purples and blues, or warm colors, reds and yellows,” Henry says. “Combining colors that are completely opposite from each other in the spectrum, such as purple and

orange, can result in a really strong statement.”

To avoid a color clash with your gals’ gowns, avoid trying to match the color of the bouquets to the dress. You’ll never find a perfect fit and the flowers won’t show up as well in photos, Kesler says. Try blending colors, choosing a vivid contrast or a direct complement to the dress’s color.

According to experts, green floral has become a very hot color trend this season. Teal also has become a popular choice, a mix of green and blue together.

You may want to choose colors depending on the season of your wedding. “In the fall, shades of red, orange and yellow are popular, as well as darker colors, like eggplant or chocolate brown with green. In the winter, blue and white or silvers and reds are nice,” Henry says.

Petal Details

Each member of the wedding party, as well as close relatives should have flowers. “Basically, the rule of thumb is that the members of your wedding party should have flowers. For the bride and her bridesmaids, bouquets; the groom and groomsmen should have boutonnieres,” Henry says. “Generally, parents and grandparents should get either corsages for the women or boutonnieres for the men.”

Create a focal point for your ceremony with a larger display and keep sight lines in mind for your reception. Each guest table should also have some kind of centerpiece. “If there is room in your budget, it’s nice to include an arrangement for the place card table and the buffet table, if there is one,” Henry says. “Other possible places to decorate include the cake, the aisle chairs/pews during ceremony, or something for the guest book table.” ❤ –Mirielle Cailles / © CTW Features

Top: Image courtesy Schnack Studios, San Diego; Below: Image courtesy Mark Hopkins Photography, San Diego; Designs by Belle Fleur Co., San Diego

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@home: flowers Experts warn that creating your own centerpieces can end up being more work than they’re worth, but here are a few tips to craft your own arrangements: • Grow pots of wheatgrass or plant your own herbs, which can be used as both centerpieces and keepsakes.

• Potted orchids in cache pots are simple to do and easy to transport.

• Use short narrow-necked vases and place bunches of flowers inside, but remember to by the highest quality flowers you can.

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Flowers by the Numbers • Flowers – bouquets, ceremony and reception arrangements – cost an average of $1,819 • 74% of brides throw the bridal bouquet Source: Brides.com 2009 American Wedding Study

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The Beauty Regimen Simply Stunning M

Momentous and magical occasions, weddings rarely come cheap. But in these tough times, many couples are finding sensible ways to trim extra expenses. Sure, maybe you’d forgo the favors or your favorite band, but no brideto-be wants to sacrifice a premium personal beauty plan.

Not to worry. Here’s how to achieve seriously upscale style without a colossal time commitment or cashing in your 401(k).

Simple, Classic Coiffure

A good rule of thumb for both ease and affordability is to avoid any style in which the hair is entirely up, like buns or pincurls, as they typically involve a lot of work, says Elizabeth Martinez, a stylist at Salon Pop, a Bumble and Bumble and Wella salon in Long Beach, Calif. “These styles require a really strong foundation to last the entire duration of a wedding.” Instead, opt for eternally elegant, vintage-inspired down-dos like loose Lana Turner waves or the half up/half down ’do quickly becoming a modern classic on the red carpet. These looks cost less at the salon but also are simple enough to be done at home.

“But sometimes all a bride needs is a good blow-out and a carefully placed flower, decorative clip or comb to give it a timeless touch,” Martinez says.

Even if you’ve got the hairdo handled, visit your regular stylist as soon as you set a wedding date, as you may need to adjust your current cut or color to ensure your “raw material” is at its best on your big day. And to avoid any last minute laments, make sure you do a trial run well beforehand.

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The best bridal faces are time-honored looks that emphasize a single color theme and either the eyes or mouth. New York-based Lancôme Celebrity Makeup

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@home: beauty The secret to both a naturally luminous complexion and makeup that lasts for fiveplus hours of festivities is a combination of gentle exfoliation to revitalize dull skin and deep hydration to minimize pores. Zicu shares her favorite all-in-one at-home treatment: Layer 1: Separate one egg and set the white aside. Add two to three drops of olive oil to yolk and beat into a mayonnaise consistency. Massage on to face, neck and dĂŠcolletage with upsweeping movements. Allow it to dry.

Layer 2: Add two drops of fresh lemon juice to the egg white and beat until foamy.

Apply on top of the yoke mixture and allow to dry (approximately 10 to 15 minutes), then splash your face with warm water to soften the treatment and begin sweeping it away with your hands. The masque will melt off, leaving you with a gorgeous glow.

Artist Daniel Martin has four favorites: ’40s Glam with a crimson lip and subtle eyes; Bronze Bombshell with a luminous complexion, shimmery eyes and neutral lip; Pretty in Pink with rosy cheek and lip and lots of lashes; and Subtle Smokey Eye using tones of amber, gold and copper, paired with a glossy, neutral lip and sculpted cheeks.

Beauty Bargains

Before you blow your entire budget on one item at a highpriced makeup counter, pay a visit to your local drugstore. “Waterproof mascara is a must for brides, and Maybelline Define-A-Lash is amazing!� says Martin. He’s also a fan of Aveeno’s skin-care products, RoC Lifting and Firming Eye cream, Revlon Beyond Natural Smoothing Primer, Physician Formula: Organic Wear 100% Natural Origin Blush and CoverGirl Outlast Lipstains.

For silky, manageable hair, Ion Color Defense Intense Moisture Hydrating Treatment, available at beauty supply stores and online, is affordable and great, says Martinez. Keep in mind that many high-end products often come in convenient – cheaper – travel sizes.

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Consider these services a two-for-one deal: silky, radiant skin plus serious stress relief.

Six months prior, commence beautification with deep scrubs to cleanse and polish the entire body and algae wraps or purifying mud masques to detox and firm skin, advises Cornelia Zicu, chief creative officer of Red Door Spas. As you get closer to your wedding, start limiting the extraction included in your facials to reduce risk of irritation, and switch to lighter massage to avoid lingering soreness. A week before, treat yourself to a soothing herbal soak or milk bath, eliminate extraction completely, don’t use new products and slather on an extra-hydrating lotion. This also is the time to apply your favorite, tried-and-true self-tanner – just be sure to thoroughly exfoliate beforehand so that the color goes on evenly. Fans of waxing can go up to the day before. “It shouldn’t sting for more than an hour and you’ll feel smooth and sexy for your honeymoon,� says Zicu. � – Anna Sachse / Š CTW Features

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The Photos & Video Every Picture Tells a Story

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Karry Castillo, an event specialist and owner of Uniquely Yours in Merritt Island, Fla., says couples have three options for wedding photography: traditional, photojournalistic and editorial. While traditional includes mostly posed shots, photojournalistic aims to tell a story using one to three angles and more candid photos. Often times, this style will cover the entirety of the big day, from the bride getting ready to the bride’s goodnight, using anywhere from two to three separate photographers. Editorial photos offer an edgier style with a more fashion-oriented approach.

“Most brides today want to see a story from beginning to end,” Castillo says. “They’re looking to capture the emotions of the day.” If you’re a couple looking to communicate your personal preference, Castillo recommends sharing your own pictures that serve as inspiration or as a guide for what you want.

Beyond personal preference, couples need to match up personalities with products and services. “Some brides may not want someone in their face all day, someone with a very intrusive personality,” Castillo says. Sit down with possible candidates and get to know their style. “It’s absolutely essential for the bride to select a photographer who is professional, well-versed in weddings and working with families.” Castillo recommends meeting with at least two to three pros per category. Depending on your choice of style, either traditional, photojournalistic or editorial, look at pros that are similar to each other but offer different options.

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In evaluating potential artists, make sure to ask the right questions. Inquiries should focus on package details, contractual agreements and final products, whether that is an actual album or digital prints. Castillo recommends asking the following questions: • What packages do you offer?

• How much time is allotted for the day of the wedding?

• Are photographers available all day?

• Will you bring an assistant or second shooter?

• Is an album included in the package? If so, who designs the album? How much input do we get in the album’s design?

• What quality of paper, color and inks do you use?

• Is a DVD with digital negatives provided to order our own prints in the future?

• Will we have rights to our photos?

If you’re looking to save a few bucks on photographic services, Castillo recommends asking for an associate to hire. Often times, an associate’s fee is cheaper than the main photographer’s. You also can pinpoint your coverage and only have a professional for certain parts of the day.

Videography

As technology has evolved, the video options available to couples offer modern packages to fit any tech-savvy couples’ needs. “Cameras are much smaller now and videographers can be so un-intrusive,” Castillo says. Some packages include two to three videographers and can cover more than just the big day.

Professionals can document everything from cake testing to a rehearsal dinner, shooting in high definition.

If you’re looking to capture your wedding in a more cinematic way, find a videographer with quality editing capabilities. Some packages offer a two- to three-minute video of the wedding while others include an entire wedding story edited in a half- to one-hour movie clip, Castillo says. In addition to the movies, make sure these packages still include the raw footage. Other high-tech options include automatic downloads to an iPod or even streaming video so it can be viewed across the globe, Castillo says. ❤ –Mirielle Cailles / © CTW Features

Simple, Stress-Free Honeymoon Secrets

Weekend Warrior: Smart Travel is Brown’s Specialty

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Sometimes you just gotta get away. And as host of the Travel Channel’s “Great Weekends,” Samantha Brown knows how to do just that. Here are her suggestions for leaving the wedding all behind and having a blast on your ’moon.

3. Look beautiful in your pictures. It’s a gorgeous sunset picture of the two of you, but your face is so shiny it’s almost reflective. Always bring powder, waterproof mascara and a little lip gloss – now post those pics on Facebook!

1. You’ve just spent a year deciding on things like the perfect dress to the napkin fold – give yourself a break and don’t overplan your honeymoon. Wait to book excursions like snorkeling or a helicopter ride for when you get there.

4. Stay away from organized tours – there’s nothing romantic about being with 30 people on a bus. Splurge on a personal guide or driver to take you around and get a local’s perspective of where the best beaches and spots (hint: no tourists) are.

2. Factor in “door-to-door” travel time. It may be a five-hour flight, but total travel time could be almost double that amount.

If you only have a week, choose a closer location so you’re not spending a chunk of your honeymoon in transit.

5. Find out the peak times of the places you want to go to – beach, Machu Picchu, museum – and avoid at all costs. General rule is if you go first thing in the morning or after 4 p.m. you’ll have the place to yourself. ❤ © CTW Features / credit: The Travel Channel

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Countdown To A Fascinating Wedding

Getting Started

• Discuss finances with everyone contributing to the event and set a budget.

• Set the date and ceremony/reception locations.

• Establish a guest list.

• Start thinking about the style and theme of your wedding.

• Start shopping for a gown.

6-9 months in advance

• Mail out Save-the-Dates • Interview and book your vendors; don’t forget to get a signed contract.

• Choose your attendants; shop for their dresses.

• Order your stationery.

• Start looking into honeymoon locales.

• Register for gifts.

4-6 months in advance

• Book your hair/makeup help for the big day.

• Plan the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

• Shop for wedding bands.

• Reserve a block of hotel rooms for your guests.

• Finalize your honeymoon plans.

• Do a hair/makeup run-through.

• Discuss insurance/bank account changes you’ll need to make.

• Send ceremony programs and reception menu and place cards to be printed.

2-4 weeks in advance

• Submit a shot list to your photographer and setlist to your DJ. • Finalize the seating chart and prepare escort/place cards.

• Confirm details with your vendors.

• Get your final dress fitting.

1 week in advance

• Give your caterer the final headcount.

• Pick up your dress; break in your shoes.

• Pack for your honeymoon.

• Organize your payments and decide who will distribute them.

1 day in advance

• Get a mani-pedi.

• Enjoy the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

• Get plenty of sleep. ❤

2-4 months in advance

• Buy attendants’ gifts.

• Get the men’s fashions in order.

• Choose readings/music for the ceremony.

• Check marriage-license requirements.

• Meet with your caterer to discuss menu and drinks.

• Order the cake.

• Pick out favors.

• Plan and shop for welcome bags.

• Arrange party rentals, if necessary.

• Book your wedding-night room.

4-8 weeks in advance • Mail out your invites.

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Keep dreaming. Today’s (much wiser) groom has a lot more to do than that. Check that: Knows he has a lot more to do than that.

Whether it’s a 6-month engagement or 12-, there will be plenty of things to do, like deciding on the venue and addressing the invitations, to name a few. Sure, there are a few areas of planning – the DJ, the limo – that the groom traditionally takes care of, but with all the tools out there tailored for grooms (the Grooms 101 section of Brides. com; countless books) there’s no reason for not getting more involved with, well, everything. Being involved in the planning process will keep her smiling and the stress level low. Plus, you’ll have fun; who’s ever complained about sampling food and cake?

Her dress, however, is one area where the groom doesn’t get to voice an opinion. Luckily, he has complete control over his big-day look.

If you want to keep it simple and go with a tux, get measured about three months out of your wedding. Also be sure to get measurement cards sent out to your groomsmen and ushers.

If you’re thinking more along the lines of a suit, keep a few things in mind: • Dark ties always work (if you decide to not match the color of the bridesmaid dresses) • Tie bars and cuff links are a great way to add a bit of personal flash • If you feel informal by not wearing a tux, go for the three-piece look with a vest. It adds a bit of panache to your look.

Lastly, if you need a bit help in the fashion department, pick up a GQ or look to some of your favorite on-screen guys to be your guide. Don Draper (Jon Hamm) from “Mad Men” and 007 himself (Daniel Craig) both know how to clean up. Channel them and you’ll be good to go.

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