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While 2020 may have thrown a wrench into some

wedding plans, not even a pandemic can stop us from providing you with the very best information about wedding trends and vendors in the High Country. The 2021 edition of All About Weddings — an award-winning special publication of the All About Women magazine — features striking photo spreads of High Country nuptials and expert advice to help plan your dream wedding. Whether it’s ideas on tasks to perform to prepare for your big day, health tips to feel wedding-ready or ways to break away from wedding traditions, our contributing writers and wedding professionals bring you their best tips. Our local photographers have captured stunning weddings in the area that are sure to inspire ideas. I particularly enjoy the teal and orange touches that brighten a room featured in some of our weddings, as well as the dark and romantic undertones in others. All About Weddings is based in Boone, and we’re proud to feature the

work of local businesses that have a hand in creating beautiful and unforgettable moments for couples on their big day. From florists and bakers to wedding planners and bridal shops, High Country vendors go above and beyond to bring a couple’s desired wedding to fruition. We share our gratitude to all of our advertisers, contributors and photographers who poured their work into bringing together another publication full of inspiration, and — most importantly — love. The only thing that matters at the end of the wedding day — after all of the planning, the many hours spent preparing and after the guests have finally left the venue — are the vows made between two people. So here’s to the couples who have found love, and to the weddings that celebrate them!

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CONTENTS

tips and trends

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Breaking Away from Wedding Traditions Living Well: 10 Tips for Feeling Wedding Ready Young at Heart: Be True to You Love is Love Mom’s World: Emotional Prenuptial Groom’s Looks Tips from the Photographers Choosing Your Wedding Officiant Wedding Planning Checklist

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Breaking Away

from Wedding Traditions Wedding Planners See More Couples Incorporating Personalized Experiences “‘Whatever you want’ is the name of the game; it's your wedding, so go for it.” It's easy to be pulled into making everyone but yourself happy on your wedding day, but these words of Megan Drake — owner of The Elegant Event — exemplify how brides and grooms have recently changed their approach to the planning of their big day. Wedding traditions were broken in 2020, by choice and necessity, and this trend of personalization is predicated to continue well into 2021 and beyond. Traditions are shifting or are being completely thrown out as couples feel more comfortable straying from the norm and customizing their wedding day to include only what they truly want. May it be less societal pressure to stick to tradition, or couples not feeling they have to please those funding the wedding as they are paying for the wedding themselves, brides and grooms are creating wedding days that are perfect to them.

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has steadily decreased in popularity in recent years is the classic bouquet and garter toss. Kelly Jones, the founder and lead planner at Roan Wedding and Events, says when she got married in 2016, she felt a requirement to take part in the bouquet toss. But now when she helps couples plan their reception, brides will often tell Kelly that they would rather not have the spotlight on them during a bouquet toss, or that logistically there aren’t enough single people in the crowd for the toss. This causes many brides to decide to ditch the bouquet toss completely. The average age of brides and grooms continues to steadily rise across the United States, adding to the lack of single people at the reception. This has played a role in the bouquet and garter toss becoming more and more infrequent. Meris Gantt, owner and principal planner at The Whole Shebang, said she sees less than half of brides she works with choose to take part in the bouquet

toss. The ones passing on this tradition typically don’t replace it with anything else.

Family is Everything A popular yet traditional wedding reception activity that is still seen frequently is the designated formal dances: the mother-son and father-daughter dances. As a special time to honor family members who’ve had an influence on the couples, brides and grooms are now customizing these formal dances to honor more family members. Megan says at a wedding just a few months ago, a bride with two older brothers chose to have a special time to publicly dance with both of them as a way to honor their role in her life. Kelly explains that she’s seen more and more brides at the weddings she plans honoring their mothers with a formal mother-daughter dance while still having a traditional father-daughter dance. aawmag.com

I think that brides and grooms should do whatever in the world makes them happy. - Megan Drake, Owner of The Elegant Event

Brides are even honoring their grandparents with special dances. Megan shares the story of one bride who had a special connection with her grandfather and chose to honor him with a formal dance. “We had a bride whose grandfather had to have heart surgery, and then she also ended up having the same medical condition and had to have heart surgery as well,” Megan says. “He promised her that he would dance with her at her wedding. So she ended up playing a special song for him and they danced together, and it was just really precious because with both of them having the same heart condition. It was just uncertain if they would able to be there and to have that dance.” With COVID-19 regulations decreasing wedding numbers in 2020 and into 2021, Megan says more couples are including their parents in their wedding party. For the first time in recent months, Megan began seeing brides have their mothers as their matrons of honor. She also had seen a trend of fathers being the best man rise in popularity in 2020 compared to previous years. COVID-19 has been a reminder to hold those you love a little bit closer, and couples are doing that on their wedding day by publicly honoring their closest family.

Here Comes the Bride Brides and grooms are even taking the liberty to customize their ceremony

music, with fewer couples choosing traditional songs for the service. DJ Karl Mohr of Mohr Fun Events, includes ceremony audio assistance in his typical wedding packages, so he has watched hundreds of brides walk down the aisle in his more than a decade in the line of work. Karl hasn’t played a traditional wedding ceremony with music like the classic “Bridal Chorus” for at least the past five years, he says. He often plays a different, more eloquent version of well-known songs that connect with the bride and groom. “Sometimes these are popular songs, and sometimes these are special to the couple and they just want to have the sweet sentimental version,” Karl says. “So you're seeing a lot of violin or string quartet versions of songs being used for things like that. It's really neat.” Megan has witnessed couples choose an Elvis Presley song or a song from the “Harry Potter” movies to customize their big day. An increasing number of couples are moving away from the traditional even in terms of ceremony music.

Time to Join the Livestream It would be impossible to discuss wedding trends over the past year without acknowledging the rise of livestreaming. The trend toward smaller wedding numbers with a livestream option has transformed the wedding industry. If a high quality livestream is important to a couple, Meris suggests hiring a professional or using a technologically-savvy wedding attendee to ensure everything runs smoothly during the day. A wedding Megan helped plan last year had guests who were divided up

into different rooms in order to maintain social distancing and follow COVID-19 guidelines. Livestreaming was crucial in allowing all guests to feel like they were a part of the special reception events. Streaming reception activities beyond the ceremony has been a popular trend in recent months, Kelly says. This allows family members and friends unable to attend the wedding to be able to see more than just the ceremony — they’re able to partake in the party afterward.

Whatever Makes You Happy Recently, brides and grooms have been feeling more freedom to customize their special day to make themselves happy. From late night snacks with an ice cream cart to a cigar rolling station, to an open mic time or even a gourmet s’mores bar, there are ways to leave tradition behind and make your wedding a day for all to remember. "I think that brides and grooms should do whatever in the world makes them happy,” Megan says. "I think that for so long we tried to fit into a mold of this is what you're supposed to do at your wedding ceremony or at your wedding reception. That idea has kind of gone by the wayside. If you want to do traditional bouquet and garter tosses, then go for it, and if you don't, then don't. If you don't want to do a ceremonial cake cutting and you just want to have Little Debbies as your dessert bar, then do it.” Sarah Rodriguez By day, Sarah works in social media marketing. But after hours, she enjoys hiking, finding the best tacos, and watching football.

What to consider when choosing between a DJ or a live band The following tips were gathered from local wedding planners. • Budget: If you want a live band, does it fit in your budget comfortably? • Variety of music: Would a live band play enough of a variety of music for your taste? • Logistics: If a DJ or a band is at your

wedding, is there enough electrical power at the location for them to set up equipment? • Quality of sound: Would you prefer a live sound or a recorded sound for your day? • Reception announcements: If you want a live band, who will be assigned announcements during the reception? All About Weddings 2021 | 11

LIVING WELL

10 TIPS for

Feeling Wedding-Ready The big day is finally here.

The dress, the venue, the food — all perfectly appointed. Even the font on the invitations was carefully considered. Do not let belly bloat or an energy crash sabotage this well-planned, long-awaited celebration.

Here are 10 tips for keeping them at bay.

1 Sleep affects your energy level and It starts with a good night’s sleep.

your mood. Ideally, you should be getting a good night’s sleep every night the week leading up to your wedding. At the very least get seven to eight hours of sleep on the eve of your wedding. your day with a cup of warm 2 Start water infused with the juice of one

lemon. Add a pinch of ginger, if you like. This has been shown to improve digestion and stoke your energy. Make sure the water is warm, not cold or hot.

of exercise will energize you and give you a healthy glow.

These foods are common gas-producers, and we do not want that. Right?

not start the day with starchy ba4 Do gels or sugary donuts for breakfast.

some essential oils. Sniff from 9 Sniff the bottle or put a drop on your

They will spike your blood sugar and lead to an inevitable energy crash. A decent breakfast will include lean, clean protein and veggies [i.e., a veggie omelet] and a little bit of fruit.

Sip water throughout the day. Not only will it help sustain your energy, but it will prevent that first glass of champagne from hitting a little too hard.

Eat throughout the day. Low blood sugar levels can damage your mood and deplete your energy. Three nutritious meals and a couple of healthy snacks will keep your blood sugar steady. your food thoroughly. Your 7 Chew saliva produces digestive enzymes to

break down your meal, helping to prevent bloat.

a sweat before you put on your Keep digestive enzymes handy. En3 Break makeup and hair. Go for a brisk walk 8 zymes help you metabolize hard-toor complete a yoga flow. Just 20 minutes

digest foods like beans, gluten and dairy.

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wrists. Peppermint oil can energize. Lavender oil can relax. a break as needed. If you 10 Take are feeling overwhelmed, it is OK

to take a break. Escape to a quiet place where you can sit for a few minutes and do some deep breathing. This will restore your energy and your confidence. Remember: you can ask for help. After all, that is what bridesmaids are for. Appoint someone to remind you to eat a snack or take a sip of water. Give another permission to lead you to a quiet place away from the crowd, to recompose if they notice you are overwhelmed. This is your day! Rock it, energized and confident. bonnie church

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Be True to You When Planning Your Day In the late 1990s, during my college years in Boston, Mass., I worked at a historic, city club that was a popular wedding venue. These weddings were fancy and beautiful, and in my opinion, boring — similar room set-ups, similar plated dinners, similar cakes. They were devoid of any personality. A little more than ten years later in 2010, my husband, Roger, and I planned our wedding. I remembered those Boston weddings and knew that I wanted some14 | All About Weddings 2021

thing more interesting, more memorable. Luckily, personalization was becoming a popular wedding trend. Couples were moving away from some wedding traditions like plated dinners and wedding cakes, instead choosing to incorporate unique and meaningful details into their special days. Roger and I married at a casual, relaxed event. We selected a Yadkin Valley winery, Sanders Ridge, for our ceremony and reception venue. I wore a simple, tea

length dress and fabulous, colorful shoes. The winery’s tasting room was set cocktail style with smaller tables and couches to encourage mingling and dancing, and we chose tapas-style food stations and a dessert station in lieu of a cake. We ignored tradition when it didn’t mesh with our vision and focused our time and money on things that mattered to us, like the food and beverage. In the past decade, couples have continued to push wedding personalization aawmag.com

limits. Cupcakes had a moment, rustic was chic and décor was designed with social media in mind. Recently, anything goes when it comes to venues; dresses aren’t always white or even always dresses; puppies sometimes replace flower bouquets; colors are bold; and food trucks are commonplace at receptions. Then 2020 happened, disrupting wedding plans and forcing couples to either postpone their special days or adapt to ever-changing conditions. However, it was also an opportunity for couples to scale down and consider what really mattered to them. As we enter 2021, it’s hard to say if or how weddings will continue to look different. And, yet, I believe personalization is here to stay! Read on for my take on some recent wedding trends and suggestions for how to incorporate these into your wedding. My advice: be true to you.

Interesting Venues In 2020, shrinking guest lists allowed couples to consider all sorts of spaces — parks, breweries and distilleries, favorite restaurants, bowling alleys and others. Are you both big readers? How about a library wedding? Did you first connect over coffee? Rent out a coffee shop. Are you outdoorsy and fond of hiking? How about a destination wedding to your favorite trail? Why restrict yourself to traditional wedding venues; find a location that’s memorable and meaningful. Just remember to check the fire code and/or capacity restrictions before planning your guest list.

Dressing Up Queen Victoria popularized the white wedding dress in 1840, and brides have followed suit for over a century. If you want a white wedding dress, go for it. If you want to wear pink, green, leopard print or — gasp — pants, go for it. I also love the idea of reworking a vintage dress — maybe your mother’s or grandmother’s dress — into something new and one-of-akind. The main thing is to find something special that you also feel comfortable wearing (and that passes the sit test). Speaking of comfort, I hope matchymatchy bridesmaids’ dresses are a thing

of the past. Consider coordinating, not matching attire for your wedding party. Additionally, if you truly want your attendants to wear the outfit again, let them choose something that suits their individual styles. This is especially key as more couples have best friends of both genders serve as attendants.

I love the idea of a signature cocktail — it’s the perfect representation of how marriage is a blending of two individuals to create something new and special. Mismatched Everything Don’t limit mismatching to attire. Consider mismatched but coordinated seating, tableware, linens and more for a fresh, unique look. Choose a color or style and work from there — such as different chairs and/or couches in a similar color palette for ceremony seating, mismatched china in a variety of floral patterns, or table cloths in different shades of blue. This will also make it considerably easier to source items for your wedding and/or reception.

Food for Thought Chicken, beef or fish? Those were the de rigueur wedding menu selections for many years — all accompanied by the same vegetable and starch. Yawn! Today’s wedding menus, however, often combine food traditions from the couple’s backgrounds. For example, at my wedding, there was an Asian-themed food station,

because I grew up working in a Chinese restaurant and Chinese is my comfort food, and one featuring southern-inspired bites to honor Roger’s food traditions. We were lucky to work with a chef who created a diverse menu, and the variety let our guests customize their plates. A signature cocktail and unique desserts are two other ways to personalize your menu. I love the idea of a signature cocktail — it’s the perfect representation of how marriage is a blending of two individuals to create something new and special. As for desserts, while I find it fascinating that wedding cakes, in one form or another, have been around since the ancient world, I didn’t want a wedding cake because: 1. At those previously mentioned Boston weddings, the pastry chef made the cakes weeks in advance. Gross! 2. Wedding cakes are already expensive, and then, sometimes you have to pay to have it cut and served. No thanks! Instead, we had a dessert station with seasonal fresh fruit, gourmet chocolates, mini bread puddings and crème brûlées. Cupcakes are an alternative to a traditional wedding cake, but I think they’ve had their day. Instead, consider petits fours, macarons or other bite-sized sweets.

Do Me a Favor Skip the wedding favors. Unless it’s consumable, like locally sourced honey, or really useful, like hand sanitizer (hello 2020), chances are good that your guests will “forget” to take them home. Roger and I created CDs with featured songs from our wedding. We thought this was creative and fun. Spoiler alert, we were left with a bunch of CDs. I suggest rerouting those funds elsewhere; however, if you feel that you must have a favor, as mentioned above, consumables are a good choice as well as small succulents, charitable donations and carbon offsets.

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Love is Love LGBTQ+ Weddings in the High Country

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Wanting to provide an inclusive space for all couples getting married, Juniper James Bridal has a strong foundation built upon size inclusivity, LGBTQ+ celebration and cultural diversity. Juniper James Bridal states that it provides a truly distinctive experience by offering exquisite service to all (gay, bisexual, gender fluid, straight, male, non-binary, female and all racial backgrounds) who walk through their door. The bridal shop is located at 275 E. King St., Suite D, in Boone, and Owner Lauren Gioscio said the store strives to set itself apart from other stores in the bridal business. Growing up in the Blue Ridge Mountains of North Carolina, Lauren started her journey in the wedding industry working as a salesperson at South’s Specialty Clothiers when she was 15 years old. She was later employed at Did Someone Say Party? while studying interior architecture at Appalachian State University. When Donna Cook, owner of Did Someone Say Party?, made the decision to close the shop, Lauren approached her with a desire to purchase the business. Donna ultimately decided to permanently close the location, but gave Lauren her blessing to embark on her own endeavor. She said there were several areas she wanted to improve upon and add to her expertise. Juniper James Bridal now partners with OUT in the High Country (a local grassroots effort) and Pride Information Services (a North Carolina-based LGBTQ+ consulting firm) in order to gain a better understanding of how to best serve the LGBTQ+ community. It is important to the business to celebrate every kind of love with respect and understanding, she says. “I have friends who are in the LGBTQ+ community who are not traditional brides, they are not traditional grooms, and I wanted them to have a place where they could come and feel like they could try on anything without judgement,” Lauren says. “We’ve had people who identify as male or present as male come in to try on gowns; we’ve had photoshoots with males wearing gowns with makeup...and it is beautiful. We have had a really amazing response to that.” Lauren further explains there is a stark difference between being LGBTQ+ tolerant and LGBTQ+ celebratory. People can tolerate several things but that does not necessarily mean that they love and celebrate them, she says. “There is a huge difference, there is a difference between being nice and being kind,” Lauren says. “These are people who deserve to be celebrated not just tolerated.” A new initiative between Lauren and other wedding vendors in the High Country is set to come to fruition in 2021. The project will be a LGBTQ+ celebratory-only vendor organization that will serve the LGBTQ+ wedding community. According to Lauren, the organization will feature wedding trade shows to showcase vendors and their products. Any vendors who would be included in this initiative would need to go through a strict vetting process. Vendors that Lauren identified as LGBTQ+ friendly are Fur and Lace Photography, Sarah Deshields of Enowen Photography, stylist Renee Chantel of Haus of Chantel, Orion School and Chapel and wedding planner Hosea House Collective. All of these businesses have Facebook and Instagram accounts. In addition to celebrating all types of love, Juniper James Bridal also celebrates and provides services to people of all sizes aawmag.com

These are people who deserve to be celebrated not just tolerated. - Lauren Gioscio, Owner of Juniper James Bridal and body types. Lauren says her goal by the end of 2021 is to carry high-end gowns in up to a Size 40. Currently, she has up to a Size 26 available at her shop. “I do not feel I am doing anything revolutionary, but I do feel like I am filling a void that needs to be filled,” Lauren says. Lauren adds that when she is recruiting models for styled shoots with gowns and accessories, she strives to be inclusive and photograph people of all sizes and ethnicities. As the High Country has a predominately white population, when

planning or hosting photoshoots Lauren ensures that people of color are featured. She said this is important because the wedding industry can be whitewashed. When describing a typical Southern wedding, Lauren says those who grow up in the South have an idea of what their wedding should look like, either based on culture or religion. “Most of the people that I see who are same-sex and are in gay relationships and have gay weddings, they want that semblance of what people see as normal,” Lauren says. “There is the desire for a white wedding gown, there is the desire for the beautiful flowers. But there’s differences in that there are not just (women) on one side and just (men) on the other. It is a mix.” She added that couples celebrating a LGBTQ+ wedding may have fewer rules they feel the need to follow in ceremonies. LGBTQ+ ceremonies are primarily about who is there to support them, not about how many people are standing on each side of the couple. When asked about other traditional wedding practices, such as exchanging vows in relation to LGBTQ+ weddings,

Lauren says at all weddings in general, more people prepare written vows. Overall, she said she sees the same type of love at heterosexual wedding ceremonies and during the exchanging of vows as she does at same-sex weddings. “I do not see much of a difference, I just see the same love that I see anywhere else,” Lauren says about couples exchanging vows at same-sex wedding ceremonies. “Possibly with more outward-like earnest, simply because they have really had to fight for this.” For more information about Juniper James Bridal visit www.juniperjamesbridal.com, email hello@juniperjamesbridal. com or call (828) 719-6441. More information about Pride Information Services can be found at www.prideeducationservices. com. Visit outinthehighcountry.wordpress. com for Information about OUT in the High Country.

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MOM’S WORLD

Emotional Prenuptial Conversations to Have Before Saying “I Do” As many started 2021 digging out from a half of a foot of January snow, somehow the thought of summer weddings felt like the farthest thing from reality. In the same way that we have all shuffled through the COVID-19 pandemic like trudging through the snow, waiting for the journey to get easier, many couples are looking to this year to make their marriage happen. I have known several people that postponed their nuptials because of the pandemic, hoping that by doing so, they will have the capability of a more “normal” wedding. Obviously, this time spent in limbo has given people the chance to draw out the planning process. For some, that might mean re-thinking the color scheme, size, food and guest list over and over again. For others, it may have resulted in greater anticipation or even just going to the Justice of the Peace. There may be some folks that have had a little too much togetherness with virtual schooling, virtual work and minimal social time for whom the delay has resulted in questions as to the solidity of their relationship. But if couples are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel that was 2020 and are moving forward with marital plans, there are some pertinent prenuptial considerations. Scanning the web, you can quickly find checklists of things to do before the

wedding. Certainly, the obvious include what you and everyone else will wear, the décor and feel of the wedding, the food, the invitations, the size and location. However, somehow that work (which is the specialty of wedding planners) is not the most important precursor to the big day that joins two people and their families. Rather, I think there are emotional prenuptial tasks that are just as important to work out prior to the big day with your partner. Many couples do pursue spiritual counseling with a minister or someone else within their faith community. Depending on the person providing premarital counseling, this preparation can help identify differences in how each individual views the institution of marriage and within which religious and/or spiritual context they see themselves. In addition, it can help two people explore and hopefully articulate life views on social values,

gender roles, expectations and the role of spirituality in their personal and joint life with one another. Another important conversation is that of family. For most couples pursuing a long-term relationship and ultimately marriage, the subject of whether or not they will have children and when is a critical deal breaker if views are sharply different. Occasionally, one person may be swayed to re-consider their thoughts but no one should enter a marriage hoping for the other person to change their mind on pursuing a family or not. Doing so is a recipe for regret, resentment and potentially missed opportunities. Determining how finances will be approached and managed is another critical, albeit potentially heated, conversation. Certainly formal prenuptial agreements can be relevant if the two people have substantial assets or the desire to do so, but on a much more basic level, it is important to talk through exactly what the bank accounts, daily bill-paying and financial philosophy will look like. I have learned over the years how varied couples’ financial arrangements can be from the concept of “it all goes into one big pot” to splitting out specific bills, to one person having complete financial control. In my opinion, inequity in access to finances should have no role in today’s society. Such an

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approach can become abusive and give undue control to one partner over the other. Whatever your perspective, figure it out beforehand, and ensure that it is fair and reasonable in both partners’ eyes. Lastly, I think an important emotional precursor is that of conflict resolution. Inevitably, there will be challenges when you combine households or make a relationship formally permanent through marriage (with acknowledgment that, according to census data, 39 percent of marriages end in divorce). Eventually, the honeymoon period ends, life becomes routine, jobs can get better and worse, physical and mental health can fluctuate and you have to learn to ride out these waves in life with your life partner in ways that are healthy for them and for you. You can love someone but still not understand how best to work through their idiosyncrasies, trauma and biases. We all have some coping skills but also some dysfunction. The challenge is to recognize your partners’ strengths and weaknesses as they try to help you when you are struggling and what your strengths and weaknesses are when they are struggling. Embracing this reality and committing to figuring out how each of you needs to navigate tough times is critical in any long-term relationship. Thankfully, we don’t have to be our partner’s “everything” all the time. It is healthy to have strong friendships so that when our person doesn’t “get” us, we have an ear from a good friend. Ultimately, we all hope for that type of love and connection that allows for honesty, vulnerability and each person helping the other person to be the best version of themselves. So if you are planning a wedding as the world tries to bring this pandemic to a close, figure out all those usual logistics but make an intentional effort and take adequate time to set the stage for an emotionally healthy, equal and supportive relationship that stands the test of time, trials and tribulations. Making it through a pandemic together certainly should count for something.

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October 12, 2019 Sky Retreat | Purlear, NC Simona combined her Bulgarian culture with that of Corbinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s American traditions for a perfect blend of them both for their wedding. Bright greens, reds, oranges and yellows completed the look for their fall fairytale in the mountains. As the two had moved several times with friends made in each location, the couple appreciated having their loved ones from all backgrounds and walks of life in one space. P h oto s by N at u r a l C r a f t P h oto g r a p h y

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two hearts Colors of deep burgundy, honey gold and burnt orange only complemented the mountain fall fairytale wedding at the Sky Retreat in Purlear for Simona and Corbin. Wearing a dress she discovered in a fashion house in Bulgaria, Simona walked with her father down the aisle while “La Vie en Rose” enveloped them. There she met her soon-to-be husband, Corbin, and the two were wed. The story, however, began five years earlier on the campus of Appalachian State University. During the spring of 2014, Corbin and Simona were randomly assigned matching office hours for students interested in the health field. That time provided an opportunity to build rapport and trust while sharing their passions about everything from travel and dance to medicine and wine. A mishap in ordering Ed Sheeran tickets was ultimately how Corbin won Simona’s heart. As she describes, “Corbin bought two tickets (one an extra) to an artist he didn’t know just so he could spend a few hours with me.” The concert became their first official date. Long-distance dating, becoming roommates and beginning graduate school together were some of the highlights of the next few years. In July 2017, atop the peak of the Seven Rila Lakes in Bulgaria, Corbin proposed and Simona accepted. From there, wedding plans were underway. A native of Bulgaria, Simona moved with her family to the United States in 2004. Corbin grew up in Wilkesboro where his family has lived for generations. The couple wanted to represent both cultures in their ceremony. “We wanted to bring our backgrounds together so we had a Bulgarian-American wedding. The cuisine was American as was the music, with a few Bulgarian songs mixed in. Most of the traditions were Bulgarian and have been a part of Bulgarian wedding culture for hundreds of years,” Simona says. Simona’s dress was from her home country. She describes, “When I finally found the one I was so emotional that I could barely breathe. I only thought that happened in the movies. When I came out in the dress everyone at the fashion house was speechless. It was meant to be!” Goat cheese biscuits, herbed garlic butter yeast rolls, stuffed chicken, garlic smashed potatoes and green beans with sesame seeds were some of the foods served before the pumpkin spice cake with chai ginger frosting — the couple’s choice in wedding cakes. Continued on next page All About Weddings 2021 | 25

The music was also carefully selected. “We picked fun, classic songs that everyone could dance to! We also threw in a few traditional Bulgarian horo dances and even the Penguin Dance!” Seven bridesmaids and seven groomsmen were in the ceremony and certainly shared space with Simona and Corbin on the dance floor. Simona says, “The whole wedding was my favorite moment. It truly was a perfect mountain fall fairytale. The Sky Retreat in Purlear was breathtaking! It was the perfect combination of our love for the Blue Ridge Mountains and my passion for ballroom dance. It’s practically a ballroom dance studio on top of a mountain. Our day captured the diversity in our lives … our backgrounds, cultures and friends from all over the world. Our day reflected our love for life, dance, good food and the mountains.” Simona’s family helped incorporate many Bulgarian traditions. Her mother had the couple dip homemade bread in honey and salt to represent both the sweet and salty moments in a marriage. The same piece of bread was held over them as they stood back to back. They both reached over their heads and pulled the bread apart. The one with the largest piece is assumed to represent the “boss” of the partnership. Simona still relishes sharing that hers was the heftier half. A moment Simona will always remember is the way Corbin looked at her during the ceremony, a look she describes as conveying “you are everything that I looked for in this life and now you are here.” She will also cherish the moments she shared with her dad whom she lauds as her hero. Simona will treasure the memory of dancing with her friends and family in celebration of the love she and Corbin have found. She was certain to prepare for the dancing portion of their day. She had two pairs of shoes ready for the festivities. Sparkly flats for the ceremony and ballroom dance shoes for the reception. “The best part — I still get to use both pairs in my everyday life,” she shares. A school psychologist and ballroom dance teacher, Simona encourages Corbin as he makes his way through medical school. They continue to share their passions and create more memories to add to their story. From office hours to Bulgarian hikes and back, two tickets to a concert led to two pairs of shoes and a ceremony of commitment that forever united Simona and Corbin’s hearts. Hollie Eudy Hollie Eden Eudy is a high school English teacher whose passions include reading, writing, and running. She lives with her husband, daughter, and Pekapoo, Presley, in Dahlonega, Ga.

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their story Bride Simona, school psychologist and ballroom dance instructor Groom Corbin, medical school student studying to be a radiologist How They Met â&#x20AC;&#x153;Corbin and I met while studying at Appalachian State University, where we were both pre-med students working in an advising office for students interested in the health field. We fell in love through the art of conversation. From long chats in the advising office, love letters that traveled across the world, to long walks in the mountains, we never stopped chatting and falling even more in love.â&#x20AC;?

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Mountain Weddings

allison & jackson

April 6, 2019 The Sky Retreat | Purlear, NC As the mountains have always been special to Allison and Jackson, they wanted their wedding backdrop to speak for itself with the beautiful scenery. Decor around the space adorned with light blue, white and touches of soft green made for a light and airy atmosphere. The two felt loved and special as they were surrounded by friends and family who traveled near and far to be a part of their big day. P h oto s by M i c h e l l e H r i n P h oto g r a p h y

their story Bride Allison, IT help desk technician Groom Jackson, construction inspector/ manager How They Met “Jackson was best friends with my cousin, and played baseball against a lot of my friends so I had seen him around a lot. After a few weeks of talking to my friends about how cute he was I gained the courage to chat him on AIM, and the rest is history. We dated throughout high school and actually went to college together at UNC-Charlotte.”

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Mountain Weddings

zoe & een

March 28, 2020 The Hemlock Barn | West Jefferson, NC Planning to get married in April, Zoe and Een turned their plans around on a dime to wed within 24 hours due to incoming restrictions resulting from the COVID-19 pandemic. Even with the last minute changes, the couple had the wedding of their dreams with an intimate ceremony complete with rose gold accents among the stone and wood textures of The Hemlock Barn. P h oto s by Way fa r i n g Wa n d e r e r

their story Bride Zoe, health care receptionist Groom Een, correctional sergeant How They Met “Een and I grew up in the same town, so we always kind of knew of each other but we didn't connect until years later on social media. We started talking, went on a date and have been together ever since. We were just meant for each other.”

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doug & morgan

October 12, 2019 Westglow Resort and Spa | Blowing Rock, NC Looking to have a traditional and formal wedding with a masculine flair, Doug and Morgan exchanged vows on the lawn of the Westglow Resort and Spa. The couple enjoyed an elegant affair with a ceremony processional to â&#x20AC;&#x153;Trumpet Voluntaryâ&#x20AC;? by Jeremiah Clarke, bridesmaids adorned in deep purple and tables covered in beautiful floral arrangements and fine dinnerware. P h oto s by Way fa r i n g Wa n d e r e r

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mariara & josh

October 10, 2020 Family home | Blue Ridge Parkway, NC Acting as their own wedding planners, Mariara and Josh had a hand in choosing each detail for their day with the help of friends and family. The intimate weekend-long celebration incorporated Brazilian traditions â&#x20AC;&#x201D; such as Bem-Casados cookies â&#x20AC;&#x201D; along with American touches such as barbecue and a family breakfast the morning following the ceremony. P h oto s by N i c o l e H u f f m a n P h oto g r a p h y

their story Bride Mariara, field/office engineer Groom Josh, space center logistics engineer How They Met “We met on the first day of chemical engineering class our freshman year at West Virginia University Institute of Technology. We started dating in November of the same year, and got engaged March 10, 2019, at the same location that we got married at.”

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Nestled in the Blue Ridge Mountains on the historic New River, Jefferson Landing is a gated mountain resort community offering an award winning golf course, exceptional dining and beautiful accommodations. Jefferson Landing is the premier wedding venue of the High Country. We would love to help you plan your special day and create the perfect wedding memories you will cherish for a lifetime.

From ceremonies to receptions, rehearsal dinners to luncheons, we have everything covered. Whether you prefer grand or intimate, country chic or traditional elegance, we're your venue. You have the option of an outdoor wedding, rehearsal or reception dinner down by the stunning New River at Riverside Park, or you may desire a more elegant reception at the recently renovated Club House with seating for 200 plus. The centerpiece of the luxury rustic Club House is the Main Dining Room with its 33-foot-high vaulted ceiling, a ďŹ&#x201A;oor-to-ceiling stone ďŹ replace and breathtaking views of the mountains, perfectly landscaped scenery and beautiful golf course. To get you even closer to nature, the Club House doors open to a 6,000-square-foot patio with spectacular panoramic views for your special event.

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The newly renovated Manor House at Jefferson Landing is perfect for bridal party accommodations and also provides another option for an outdoor ceremony location. The luxurious house sits under the majestic Mount Jefferson with unparalleled views and creates the perfect backdrop for an incredible sunset ceremony over the mountains. For the ultimate dream wedding opportunity, you can have your ceremony in the gorgeous and rustic Orion Chapel. Opening its doors in 1900, with an interior of American Chestnut wood, the original pews still accommodate 100 people creating the atmosphere for a truly one-of-a-kind wedding experience. From the original artwork and church bell, to the fully restored original pump organ, words cannot describe how truly beautiful this Chapel is. It is truly a magical place to have your fairy tale wedding ceremony. Jefferson Landing Country Club and Resort is a full service banquet and catering facility. A full catering menu is available offering everything you will need, from buffets to plated luncheons or dinners, as well as your own custom requests for our Executive Chef. Our expert events and catering staff will assist you with planning every detail to insure that your event conveys a sense of excellence and make your beautiful day stress free. Luxurious rustic lodging options for your wedding party and guests are abundant and varied at Jefferson Landing. All lodging has just ďŹ nished extensive renovations and your guests can choose anything from our Lodge rooms, Town Homes or luxurious Manor House. We are designed to accommodate large groups, families and couples. In addition to our spectacular course, you and your guests can enjoy swimming, tennis, ďŹ tness or just relaxing and taking in the scenery. Dining options in the Clubhouse include our 19th Hole Grille for lunch with evening dining available on scheduled days throughout the week.

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virginia & evan

October 11, 2020 Appalachian Mountain Lodge | Boone, NC Vintage furniture and decor, deep colors and a little sparkle encapsulated the dramatic and glamorous feel that Virginia and Evan pictured for their wedding day. The couple incorporated elements and items into their wedding that belonged to their family as well as pieces like classic vases and knick knacks for a sense of nostalgia. The dayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s rain and fog added to the vibe as the two exchanged vows, danced the night away and enjoyed a food truck at the reception. P h oto s by B l u e b e r ry R o c k e t St u d i o s

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Heaven A hug, several thousand (or more) pizzas and a hurricane — those are just some of the special, intricate details that made Virginia’s and Evan’s wedding day special. This story begins in 2011 in Spanish II class at West Oak High School in Westminster, S.C. It was there that Virginia, a junior, and Evan, a sophomore, would “meet” for the first time. Meet is an interesting way to describe it, as Virginia mostly sat at the front of the class, whereas Evan happily opted for the very back. Originally from the Atlanta area, Virginia moved to Fair Play, S.C.,in 2008 to join her mom who also moved to the area to open the first location of Carolina Pizza Co. She helped her mom throughout high school before graduating in 2012 and moving back to Atlanta for cosmetology school. The following year, her mom would relocate the pizza store down the road in nearby Walhalla. Evan, who had now graduated high school and began taking college courses, started working at the Walhalla store location, gradually adding hours until he turned full-time. “The college thing really wasn’t for me,” he says. “So I started working more and taking on more responsibility.” Carolina Pizza Co. was a tight-knit ship led by Virginia’s mom and run by a close group of friends. Virginia would often return home from working, now in Greenville, to help at the store on weekends and hang out with her friends — Evan of course included. “We knew of each other,” Virginia says of her and Evans’ relationship at the time, “and we would all hang out together, but I was actually with someone else at the time.” Evan says he was attracted to Virginia from day one, but kept his distance, choosing to “swoop in” as he described it, should the right moment present itself. Recovering from a breakup from her then boyfriend, Virginia sought the comfort of her friends one night. As she was leaving to go home, Evan decided to walk her out and before hopping in her car the two hugged. “It was the type of hug where everything just melted away,” Virginia says. Evan agreed, in fact, the two would separately write about that fateful hug years later in their wedding vows to one another. The two officially began dating in June 2017 with Virginia now temporarily living with her grandparents back in her South Carolina hometown and Evan nearby. However, all would change in July when Virginia’s mom approached her about opening a second pizza location in Boone. “I instantly said ‘yes’” she says. “I was so ready to do something else, and this was a great opportunity.” Unfortunately, this would mean the two were now in a long-distance relationship — but they made it work. Whenever he could, Evan happily made the drive up the mountain to help Virginia with the restaurant and spend time together. After a year and a half in June 2019, the two closed the gap and moved in together —Evan now running the Boone store with Continued on next page All About Weddings 2021 | 43

Virginia. With a ring made with a diamond previously owned by Virginia’s namesake and great-grandmother, Evan made another big step and proposed on Nov. 11, 2019, at the Sierra Nevada Brewing Co. back gardens. “I remember just being so nervous” Evan says, but Virginia responded with an overwhelming ‘yes.’ From there, the planning was in full force. The two knew they wanted something on the smaller side, and this worked in their favor as early 2020 crept along and limitations on group gatherings began taking hold. For vendors, they selected businesses like Stick Boy Bread Co., The Cardinal and Booneshine Brewing Company. Virginia found her photographer from looking through local High Country wedding magazines including this one, All About Women and others. “Boone has been the biggest blessing,” Virginia says, “I came into my own here and I wanted to show that to our guests, what is quintessential Boone.” Their entire family, and especially Virginia’s mother, were essential in the planning and roll-out of their wedding Virginia says. The mother-daughter duo share a love for antiquing, so when it came down to décor, the two set off to more than “25 different thrift stores looking for what I needed,” Virginia says laughing. “But I love the hunt, so it was a lot of fun.” “I love things like depression glass and beautiful ornate florals,” she says, and when it came to her color palette, she looked no further than country singer-songwriter Kasey Musgraves with rich gemstone accents and never shying away from something sparkly. “She’s a woman that knows exactly what she wants and goes out and gets it,” Evan says teasingly. In fact, much of their planning and preparation went smoothly, Virginia says. With their wedding slated for October 11 at the Appalachian Mountain Lodge in Boone, and summer in full swing, much of the planning and decision making was complete. It seemed not even a pandemic could stop Virginia and Evan from making it to the altar, but of course, mother nature had one last surprise in store. Cue, Hurricane Delta. 44 | All About Weddings 2021

Wedding attendees were set to arrive on Friday, the rehearsal dinner was to be on Saturday and the big day on Sunday. Unfortunately, heavy rains resulting from the hurricane led to delays in delivery of the outdoor tent among other items, and left the couple with little down time. However, if there’s one thing that the couple knows, it’s about teamwork. Amidst the torrential rain, everything was set in place right on time. “If it wasn’t for our families being willing to help us and stay up until 3 a.m. getting everything ready, I really don’t think we would have had a wedding at all,” Virginia says. With the ceremony outside, and the lawn soaked from the days of nonstop rain, a barefoot Virginia made her way down the aisle. Realizing suddenly she had never seen Evan in a suit, Virginia froze in her tracks. So astonished in fact that as Virginia stood mid-aisle taking in the usual sight, she exclaimed, “you look so (expletive) good!” Once the couple made it to the front, they both recall the following moments dissolved into a happy blur — not forgetting of course to give each other a long hug before saying their ‘I do’s.’ “She looked so beautiful,” Evans says thinking back to that moment. True to their form, once the ceremony was done, it was time to party. Virginia now in bedazzled, white wedding crocs and a black leather jacket with ‘Just Married’ painted on the back, and Evan in his show-stopping suit, the couple and their guests celebrated well into the early hours of the following day. The couple originally planned to spend their honeymoon in Nashville, but have since now decided to spend the money gifted to them as a down payment on their first home together. “It’s definitely a fixer-upper,” Virginia says, “but we are just so excited to build and make our little slice of heaven here in the mountains.” Nina Mastandrea Nina has 10 years of experience as a freelance writer, graphic designer, content creator and award-winning journalist in the healthcare, outdoors, and endurance sports industries. When she’s not creating, she’s riding her bike, teaching spin and exploring North Carolina.

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their story Bride Virginia, manager of family-owned restaurant Groom Evan, manager of family-owned restaurant How They Met â&#x20AC;&#x153;We met in high school in Spanish II. We sat in opposite corners of the classroom, and never really became friends until we both graduated. That was when Evan came to work at the same restaurant we run together now, just the original location in Fair Play, S.C. We had several years of friendship before we decided to give dating a try!â&#x20AC;?

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Mountain Weddings

brianna & scott

December 21, 2019 Twickenham House and Hall | Jefferson, NC Married just days before Christmas, Brianna and Scottâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s wedding created a cozy and inviting atmosphere among a background of mountains. Complete with a hot cocoa bar, furry hand muffs for the bridesmaids and holly decor, the couple spent their day amid a winter wonderland. P h oto s by N at u r a l C r a f t P h oto g r a p h y

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their story Bride Brianna, nurse technician Groom Scott, associate contract support specialist How They Met “Scott and I met in 2015 through Instagram. Shortly after my high school graduation I moved out of Florida to North Carolina. The following year I moved back to Florida to begin school. We found our way back to each other in September 2017 and later married in Jefferson, N.C., in December 2019.”

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March 4, 2020 Twickenham House and Hall | Jefferson, NC Featuring a darkened ambiance, Cassie and David established a romantic and luxe feel during their styled shoot. Tones of dark reds, purples and black created an alluring scene with the help of items like candles, an elegant table setting and a brick chimney. P h oto s by F l i g h t l e s s B i r d P h oto g r a p h y

their story Bride Cassie, staffing recruiter Groom David, works in sales How They Met â&#x20AC;&#x153;We were introduced by our mutual friends, and discovered we actually had a lot of people in common. For example, his uncle was childhood best friends with my father, and his cousin works with my mother. We fell in love quickly, and just got married in November 2020.â&#x20AC;?

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abby & hunter

July 12, 2020 The White Crow | Banner Elk, NC From boots and hats to the mountain scenery, Abby and Hunter were seeking a western feel mixed with some bohemian vibes during their styled shoot. Being from the southern region, the two love the imagery of a farm and field fantasy. Abby wore her original wedding gown to add a sense of nostalgia as the couple had wed a few years prior. P h oto s by L a z e L . Fa r m P h oto g r a p h y

their story Bride Abby, licensed hair and makeup artist Groom Hunter, equipment operator for a stream and river restoration company How They Met “Hunter and I met at 11 years old in a church in Yadkinville. Throughout the years we crossed paths occasionally. At age 17, we met once again and decided to start dating. We’ve been together almost nine years now, with two of those years being married. We are now expecting our first child in the spring of 2021!”

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Cool Cat Chuck, Corn Pudding and a Zoom Wedding The Rev. Chuck West, a 95-year-old grandpa and great-grandpa, is one cool cat with quite a resume. It includes Old Testament scholar, professor of religion and philosophy at Lincoln Memorial University in Tennessee, onetime dean of students and acting president at the university. He’s recently added Zoom wedding officiant to the list as virtual weddings have taken off in the last year. Chuck’s claim to fame is having been chosen to introduce presidential candidate Barack Obama at the 2008 Iowa caucus. He was selected because he was old, retired and a member, like Obama, of the United Church of Christ denomination. Active in environmental issues, Chuck enthusiastically espoused Obama’s message of hope and change. “My dad is so intelligent, but he never acts superior to anyone,” daughter

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Becky Bibler says. “He has always been a lifelong learner, learning something new from everyone.” A computer whiz, family history buff and exercise bicycler, Chuck is a lover of hymns, marching bands and piano music. All of these titles, honors and interests notwithstanding, Chuck is perhaps best-known for his mouthwatering Betty Crocker corn pudding recipe, which he has served for many get-togethers of family and friends. Recently Chuck celebrated his crowning role as officiant by Zoom at the wedding of his grandson Andy and fiancé Alex in Colorado. Chuck checked in by Zoom from Good Samaritan Care Center in Algona, Iowa, where he resides, and has recently recovered from the COVID-19 virus. “Andy and Alex,” he intoned as the ceremony began, “repeat after me: I promise to love you in sickness and in health,

in plenty and in want, in joy and in sorrow.” Next, to the couple’s four-year-old daughter Raelyn, Chuck asked that Andy and Alex repeat after him: “We promise to love, guide and support you.” And finally, Chuck asked, “Are you ready for the benediction? “May the mysteries of the heavens, the wonders and growth of wisdom, and I, as an ordained minister of the United Church of Christ, bless this marriage and this family. So be it!” As the ceremony ended, Chuck asked, “Do you feel you have been blessed?” Everyone attending in person, and by Zoom in Colorado and Iowa, responded with an enthusiastic “Yes!” We’d not be surprised to learn that Chuck’s corn pudding was served at the reception. sue spirit Writes poetry and essays about nature, spirituality, writing, and travel. She has a little cabin in the mountains. degreesoffreedom@frontier.com

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“HAVE ALL OF YOUR ITEMS THAT YOU WANT DETAIL SHOTS OF (wedding dress, accessories, shoes, etc.) together

time for the bride dressing, as well as a great shot list submitted to me beforehand of each family grouping, and then letting those people involved know at the rehearsal to stay close after the ceremony.” — Michelle Hrin

“PLAN THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE FOR YOU, NOT TO PLEASE ANYONE ELSE. If you want to do yoga with your

“HIRE A WEDDING PLANNER! Don't put the stress on mom or family on the wedding day! If you are investing in your wedding, make room for the planning budget so it all comes together and you remember the fun parts, not just the memory of if the table linens were ironed or who sat where. Those details are well-thought details for the professionals and not meant to take away from the marriage itself, which you should allow yourself to take full responsibility for being present for! Also, pack an emergency kit! (Bandages), pins and (stain removal) sticks are things everyone needs on the wedding day! — Nicole Huffman

for the photographer so when they arrive they don’t have to spend time going to look for all of the items.” — Sarah Loudermilk

best friends on the morning of your wedding, do it! If you want to throw tradition out the window and elope on a mountaintop, go for it! If you want to have an hour-long church ceremony followed by pizza at the reception, do what will make you happy. Also, build cushion room into your timeline. Unexpected things will arise on the morning of your wedding, so it’s best to budget extra time. It sure feels good to be early rather than run late.” — Chelsea Zimmerman

“REMEMBER TO ACTUALLY ENJOY YOUR WEDDING DAY. Let go of the ex-

pectations you’ve set for yourself, your wedding, all of it. Wake up on the morning of your wedding day with an open mind, excitement and overwhelming happiness. The rest is just details.” — Alexa Cavas

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"Big, fancy, beautiful and highly curated events are lovely. However, my advice to couples when getting married is to FOLLOW

THE HEART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND MAKE YOUR BIG DAY JUST THAT — YOURS! It's easy to get

caught up in the excitement of getting married and the details of wedding planning, and at times we find ourselves taking everyone's needs and suggestions into consideration. The truth of the matter is that your wedding day is about celebrating you and your new partner. Don't get caught up in the distraction from that simple truth.” — Ashley Warren

“RELAX AND HAVE FUN. DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF. You have a team of vendors on your side that are working to handle everything to make your day beautiful. Specifically for photography, I work closely with my couples to develop a timeline that will allow us to capture everything without stress. Two of the most crucial points during the day to help things go smoothly are for bridesmaids to be ready and in their dresses on

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“THE TWO BEST THINGS YOU CAN HAVE ON YOUR WEDDING DAY IS AN AMAZING TEAM OF VENDORS, AND A TIMELINE WITH WIGGLE ROOM!

Making sure you have a team of vendors that you connect with, share your vision and are reliable to make all your wedding day dreams come true. Along with this, I always tell brides to add at least 45 minutes of time between when they think they will be done getting ready and when they actually need to be. Things go wrong on wedding days and when your timeline gets messed up it can leave you frazzled, stressed and trying to make up for lost time — which is not how you want to be spending your wedding day!” — Brianna Messer “While a wedding day timeline helps me keep track of where I should be and when, BE SURE TO ALERT THE PHOTOG-

RAPHER SO THAT THEY ARE READY TO CAPTURE THE MOST CRITICAL MOMENTS such as cake cutting, first dances, toasts, etc (during the reception). LIGHTING FOR RECEPTIONS IS SOMETHING TO KEEP IN MIND if you’re

having an indoor or outdoor reception. Professional photographers will most certainly have flash units to add some extra light, but including some twinkle lights, chandeliers or lanterns will add even more dimension to the images.” — Jessica Maceda aawmag.com

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Taking part in a couple’s ceremony while they commit to one another in one of the most important vows or devotions they can make is an honor as an officiant. It is a privilege to do so as we help couples navigate a venture some of them have never done, which is have a wedding ceremony. There may be confusion as to what their ceremony should and can include, and we are there to help. We are in charge of creating the ceremony for them depending on what personal aspects they would like. In most ceremonies, there are five parts that are pretty standard. The ceremony starts with the welcoming of the couple and the guests. Then there’s typically a greeting, which could include religious scripture if they so choose. Next the officiant will typically ask the couple if it’s their intention to marry each other, then the two exchange vows — either provided by an officiant or they can write their own. The couple would exchange rings, and the couple are pronounced as wed. A massive variety of extracurricular rituals can be added to a wedding ceremony to enhance the experience. This could include a love letter box, a unity candle, handfasting, God’s knot and a rose ceremony to name a few. Experienced officiants are familiar with many of these and know how to administer them. No matter the way in which you choose to have your ceremony, deciding who shall officiate is an important choice. When choosing an officiant for a wedding, there are several factors couples should take into consideration: 1. Would a civil ceremony (magistrate/ justice of the peace) suffice? 2. Can you and your fiancé/partner agree on a male or female officiant, or either? 3. Do you want an experienced officiant who specializes in weddings, or are you willing to allow your friend/relative/acquaintance or wedding coordinator to officiate your ceremony? 4. If you are both of the same faith, do you prefer an officiant of that faith, or is a non-denominational/interfaith minister your first choice? If you are from differing

religious backgrounds and you would like both traditions represented, you may want to consider an interfaith minister as they can also add elements from both traditions. 5. If having a destination wedding and you have a minister or officiant at home, are you willing to bear the travel expense of bringing your minister or do you prefer to find a local officiant that may take pressure off the budget? Times have changed, as almost anyone can become ordained online and perform wedding ceremonies. Unexpected circumstances may be professionally dealt with by an experienced officiant, whereas a friend or relative may not know how to deal with the unexpected. In some states, ministers must be ordained by another human being rather than an online source, and in other locations a minister who presides over a “brick and mortar” church is necessary for the ceremony. An experienced officiant should be aware of local laws in your area whereas the newly ordained often are not. One may run the risk of thinking their marriage is legal when in truth, it isn’t. Experienced officiants will also know the marriage licensing process and can advise you intelligently of that process. Another factor to consider is that pastors, ministers, and priests of local churches sometimes refuse to marry anyone from outside their congregation. The nature of couples marrying today has changed. Blended families with children on both sides, adults waiting until older ages to wed, same-sex marriages and seniors marrying later in life are perfect examples. If any of these matches your circumstances, there are appropriate additions or adaptations that can be made to your ceremony by an experienced officiant. I urge couples to think carefully about the sanctity and sacred nature of the ceremony they may only engage in once in their life — a ceremony that will be performed in front of your relatives, loved ones and friends. It is my belief, that it should be guided and directed by someone with experience, wisdom and an open heart.

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kimberly & will their story Kimberly, physician assistant Will, mining engineer How They Met “Will originally is from Pittsburgh, Pa., and I am from Philadelphia, Pa. Our paths first crossed August 26, 2013, at Penn State University — the first day of our freshman year. It took us some time to date other people and get to know each other more until we realized we were perfect counterparts. Junior year came around and our love story began, and will now forever continue with our recent engagement.” The Proposal “Will had this adventure planned for us to go hiking at Grandfather Mountain where I’ve been begging to make a trip. Typically this guy is smooth, super athletic and on top of the ball. This day he was clumsy, panting with slight incline, needing frequent breaks and his heart was racing. We hiked up the beautiful trails until we hit the ladder that ascends to MacRae Peak. The top revealed breathtaking views, scenery and luckily shared only with one other hiker. The other hiker was actually this awesome “landscape” photographer who was kind enough to offer her talents with a photo of us with her nice camera over our cellphones. I was taken back and caught off guard when I turned to realize will popped down onto one knee, and this time he wasn’t pretending to tie his shoe!” Proposal Shoot Location MacRae Peak, Grandfather Mountain Photography Cynthia Viola Photography 60 | All About Weddings 2021

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jenny & garrett their story Jenny, apparel and textile production high school teacher Garrett, operator of an independent tree service How they met “We met at a mutual friend’s Christmas dinner party. We didn’t start dating until two years after the party when Garrett looked me up to patch his work pants.” The proposal “One day … Garrett asked if I would like to hike up to Pores Knob. While we were driving down the road I looked at Garrett and saw that he was wearing jeans without any rips — he does tree work and I didn’t think I’d ever seen him wear a pair of jeans that didn’t either have rips or patches — and a white linen button up short sleeve shirt. We found an offshoot road that looked rarely traversed and decided we’d walk from there. When we walked down the old roadbed we met the rock face on top of Pores Knob and a bench overlooking a green gradient of hills below. I knew that short sleeved white linen shirt was a poor choice for our venture, and soon Garrett went to the car to get a “blanket,” which was actually a vibrant red tablecloth. He came back wrapped in the tablecloth with a tiny bouquet of flowers. He dropped to one knee and asked if I would like to spend forever with him. I was so surprised. Hindsight, the white button up shirt should’ve given it away, but it hadn’t, and the answer was yes!” Engagement Shoot Location Private home, Moravian Falls Photography Nicole Huffman Photography All About Weddings 2021 | 61

THE MARRIAGE & FAMILY CORNER

Grow Your Relational Care With Your Spouse Excited. Nervous. Hopeful. Worried. Happy. Scared.

Across the millennia, these feelings have been common during wedding planning. These experiences do not end when the officiant pronounces the union to be legal; instead, they ebb, flow and evolve throughout married life. Part of my work is to help betrothed folks consider both what they want for their ceremony and life, as well as how they can navigate these emotions well across the planning and afterwards. I encourage engagement in the wedding and marriage preparation process though focus on individual and relational wellness. Relational wellness and care includes a person’s capacity to support another person in their growth and well-being. This focus can lay a foundation that cultivates and sustains growth for the individuals and the relationship. Grinding. Exhausting. Terrifying. Frustrating. Sad. These words can sometimes describe experiences in the thick of wedding and marriage planning, as well as in navi-

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gating the inevitable conflicts in lasting relationships. The protracted adversities of a pandemic, racial and civil unrest, and intense social division have caused these experiences to be common and ongoing. Planning for the joy of a wedding and marriage in the midst of these problems can compound the distress. How these problems are handled during the planning process could either create more damage or strengthen the relationship. All struggles are stressful, and everyone experiences this pressure. Some struggles are traumatic, which means the individual’s ability to cope with single or chronic events, or to integrate the ideas and emotions involved in the experience(s), are completely overwhelmed. According to the National Council for Behavioral Health, 70 percent of adults in the U.S. have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives. Perhaps that percentage has risen during the pandemic and unrest in which we have been living. It seems probable that when the impact of what we are experiencing is

retrospectively analyzed, lasting negative consequences will be identified for our society and the individuals within, including on relationships. We already know that divorce rates have risen sharply during the COVID-19 pandemic. Despite the bleak realities of the layers of hardships, opportunities to refine and strengthen the foundation for growth in individuals and relationships still exist. I will confess that I tend to bristle internally and forcefully at the idea of struggles bringing opportunity for growth. Kind and caring people have described me as a “survivor” many times when they know some of my life story. Each time, I have been simultaneously grateful for their kindness and support — as well as for the literal fact that I have survived — and quite irritated that there has been so much to survive. I suspect that most of us are impatient now, longing for a time without so much to survive. Still, from my training and experiences as a psychotherapist, I recognize the incredible potential for growth during struggle. Of course, outcome is impossiaawmag.com

Relational wellness and care includes a person’s capacity to support another person in their growth and well-being. ble to guarantee regarding growth and health of individuals and relationships. The odds can be improved significantly through intentional and repetitive use of healthy skills and habits, and specific focus on the values and goals that can motivate and guide them — both individually and relationally. One of the most frequent conversations I have is about identifying needed skills and resources, and then engaging them at times of both lower and higher stress. Individual coping and resilience skills — such as controlled breathing, grounding techniques and movement — boost self-regulation, thus increasing the person’s ability to work through problems and mitigate the negative impacts on them. These self-care or wellness practices are critical to well-being. Additionally, relational care is also vital to well-being. Relational care includes co-regulation, which is the interactions between one person’s calm autonomic nervous system (ANS) that help another person’s ANS to settle. Settled nervous systems help settle the nervous systems around them. Healthy-enough individuals in healthy-enough relationships often instinctively co-regulate through actions like speaking in warm tones, offering a soft gaze, holding hands or a sharing a hug. Perhaps the most important component of relational care and co-regulation is presence. Genuine, caring presence is more impactful than the best skills or words. Skill and word choice matter, but they are ineffective without presence that gives what Virginia Satir calls the “greatest gift,” wherein a person can “be seen, heard, understood and touched.” When stress or trauma overwhelm an individual’s self-care, relational care

and co-regulation can help reduce damage from the experience and return an individual to self-regulation sooner. From a regulated (or settled, calm) state, new and better ways to solve problems and understand one another are possible. From a neuroscience perspective, a dysregulated person is likely experiencing a stress response that has activated their amygdala — part of the brain — thereby making the executive brain functions that are necessary for learning new things and solving problems temporarily inaccessible. Relational cues of being seen by and safe with a partner help the brain settle and again access skills and resources. Practice healthy self-care and relational care during your planning process, both when your love fills you with joy and when you hit bumps that fill you with fear, dread or hurt. The investment of this practice, even — or especially — during the most difficult times pays off as bedrock to build the life together that you want and the ability to sustain and grow it. Before the current times of pandemic and unrest, I enthusiastically recommended in-depth premarital counseling. This recommendation is even more important in these difficult times. Through help from a professional, and through other intentional efforts to lay a strong foundation of relational coping and resilience, you can grow and protect your relationship. In return, your relationship will better grow and protect you.

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VENUES Say “I Do” on top of a mountain. “For Better or For Worse” in the valley of an ancient river. “I Thee Wed” on the grounds of a sprawling estate. Party in an elegant dining room, inside a rustic barn or al fresco. There’s a reason the North Carolina High Country is a top wedding destination, and there are many venues for weddings, receptions, rehearsal dinners, luncheons, brunches and other special occasions. Following are a few of our recommendations.

A new wedding and event venue offering spectacular views of the Blue Ridge Mountains from the 4200-foot southern crest of Sugar Mountain near Linville, NC. A 3600 sq ft heated and air-conditioned reception building with both indoor and outdoor ceremony sites has bride Photo by David Uttley and groom suites, caterer's kitchen, bar with inside and patio access, and an outside fire pit with a sunset view patio. There is ample onsite parking; facilities are wheelchair accessible. Complimentary WiFi is available. This is the perfect place for all couples who love each other to make their commitment official in a beautiful mountain setting. www.appalachianview.com

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The Blowing Rock offers a property and experience like no other in the North Carolina High Country. The Blowing Rock provides a magical setting for any event and one that you and your guests will remember for a lifetime. We offer beautiful long range mountain views for your special day with the feeling of being suspended thousands of feet over the Johns River Gorge, with the splendor of Grandfather Mountain, Hawksbill, and Table Rock.You may utilize our venues to accommodate your special day in our beautiful garden or above the clouds on the observation tower. Our mountains, in all their glory, promise to make it a breathtaking event for your special day. 432 THE ROCK ROAD BLOWING ROCK, NC 28605 828.295.7111 WWW.THEBLOWINGROCK.COM

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“Say “I DO” on the New” Our elegant and timeless post-and-beam style barn will amaze you with its soaring ceilings, stately chandeliers, and modern amenities. This 100 acre private venue is known as one of the most beautiful farms in the High Country, and is surrounded by the beloved Blue Ridge Mountains and bordered by the South Fork New River. The venue has a rustic elegance Brides are in search of.

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Developers with RCPBD Investments LLC are in the midst of completing construction in phase I of Townhomes At Brookshire. This is a housing project with 206 townhomes proposed, located 4/10ths of a mile on the left past the Appalachian State soccer fields off Brookshire Road. The master plan for the subdivision request for the project was approved by the Watauga County Planning Board in May 2020 under the name of Townhomes At Brookshire. According to the project’s master plan, they will consist of both free standing townhomes and attached townhomes. Developers Rick Miller (Owner of Miller Properties Inc.), Patrick Morgan (with Keller Williams High Country), Chris Hodges (Owner of Chris Hodges Construction, LLC), Dan Nguyen and Bryan Pitts partnered to purchase the 95.12 acre property in January 2020 for the project. Miller said the project's

overall cost is approximately $60 million. Miller said he and his partners had recognized for years that there was a need in Watauga County for this type of housing. “The project is designed and marketed to serve individuals and families who seek moderately priced housing that is convenient to town, parks and amenities," according to the project's proposal. Morgan said the project was created to assist individuals at all stages of life. Those looking to buy their first home, those retiring and anyone who would like a home where outside maintenance is provided for. “It's our attempt although it's hard because of pricing in our area ··· at trying to make a more affordable housing project," Morgan said. One-bedroom with garage prices start at $230,000, two-bedroom prices start at $250,000 and the three bedroom prices

start at $339,000. "We are now accepting Reservations for phase II in Townhomes At Brookshire," Miller said. Roughly 12 percent of the 95.12 acre property will be developed, which Miller said will leave room for amenities like hiking trails and a dog park. All homes in phase I are currently being constructed with the hopes of finishing them by April or May 2021, Miller said. Homes in phase I have already been sold. The developers are taking reservations for homes in phase II. The best way to learn more about this project and availability is to call Patrick Morgan at: (828)-773-2960. You may also visit their website at www.brookshiretownhomes.com.

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Following is a list of suggestions similar to those provided Foll by wedding planners for their clients:

10 - 6 Months Before Choose your wedding colors Shop for your wedding dress and accessories Shop for and order bridesmaid dresses

15 - 9 Months Before

Work with the groom to choose what he and his groomsmen will wear; decide on purchasing, renting and who assumes responsibility for same

Start a wedding binder or folder

Hire a caterer

Set your priorities and budget and decide who pays

Book the entertainment

Select your wedding party and start the guest list Hire a planner and/or director, if desired Reserve a date and ceremony and reception venues Select a pastor or other officiant to preside over the ceremony Research ďŹ&#x201A;orists, caterers, cake decorators, photographers and musicians to discuss your needs and budget Research big-ticket rentals, such as a tent Consider celebrating at an engagement party Book an engagement photo session

Hire a photographer and/or videographer Decide on ďŹ&#x201A;oral arrangements Reserve any rental equipment you'll need, including dishes, tables, chairs, linens, tents, etc. Reserve a block of hotel rooms for wedding guests and book your own wedding night accommodations Examine your beauty and ďŹ tness regimen and decide if you want to make changes in your routine or try anything new Start a wedding website Order save-the-date cards, invitations, etc. Register for gifts Purchase wedding rings Plan your honeymoon

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7 - 5 Months Before Mail save-the-date cards (do this earlier for weddings around holidays, or destination weddings) Buy gifts for your wedding party, parents and each other Plan the rehearsal, rehearsal dinner and guest list and book venues Arrange wedding transportation Select and order the cake(s) Book hairstylist and/or makeup artist; meet with each of them to experiment with styles and colors

Month of the Wedding Send a timeline to the wedding party and delegate day-of tasks Apply for marriage license

3 - 2 Months Before

Submit a newspaper wedding announcement

Begin shopping for or making your own wedding favors

Final gown ﬁtting: take a bridesmaid with you to learn how to bustle your train, fasten tricky buttons, use the restroom, etc.

Make a list of music you want played and photos you want taken

Conﬁrm arrival and delivery times with vendors

Conﬁrm menus with your caterer

Write and print wedding programs

Plan the wedding ceremony and vows with the officiant

Get a haircut and color

Bridal showers Mail invitations Check on requirements for marriage license and blood tests; make necessary appointments

Write thank-you cards as you receive wedding gifts Ask your mother or maid of honor to contact any guests who have not RSVP'd Book appointment(s) for spa treatments and manicures/pedicures

If changing your name, complete required documents

Week of the Wedding Send the ﬁnal guest list to the caterer and other vendors and reconﬁrm their arrival times Give a list of photos you want taken to the photographer Break in your shoes Pack for the honeymoon

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