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I am so glad to be writing this. Our lovely magazine has been sitting on the back burner simmering for the past year and a half. We had just released our 5th issue of the publication and then Covid hit. We had to make some de cisions and get creative. One of them was to let Mountain Women Magazine relax for a bit so the ladies running this company could keep revenue flowing through a few new hyper-local titles like our new title, Mountain Town Breckenridge. So many of you have asked when will we see Mountain Women Magazine again and I finally have an answer, right now!

A little bit of history as we stoke the flame and get things going again. Back in 2014, I was flipping through our kin publication, Mountain Town Magazine, and I noticed that almost every article we published was about a man. Hon estly, it was a bit unsettling. Not that we do not love men, we most certainly do, but women do not get enough rec ognition in mountain town/ski and ride media. I looked around and saw so many badass women. Women athletes, entrepreneurs, artists, philanthropists, chefs, educators, musicians, mothers, and even those rocking the world with their skills in the grandma arts (you know, knit ting, crocheting, needlepoint…). We decided right then to change that and introduced Mountain Town Magazine’s first issue of Women Who Rock the Rockies in 2015. We asked friends and friends of friends to nominate women they thought deserved that accolade and the responses were fantastic!

That edition and subsequent issues each year continued to celebrate women in our mountain towns who are sig nificant in their contributions to their communities, have achieved personal successes in their field, and are recog nized with stories that featured their talents. As we were preparing our 5th Annual Women Who Rock the Rock ies edition I had an epiphany. Why not resurrect Moun tain Women Magazine? It was a title I had created in 2003 but shelved so we could focus on making Mountain Town Magazine successful while in its infancy.

The desire to launch Mountain Women was so strong and felt so good that I went for it and now after a lot of hard work you are reading it! We are really excited and cannot wait to continue sharing the hard hours and good work women are putting in to help others and better themselves.

Mountain Women Magazine and our website mountain womenmagazine.com have been live the whole time dis cussing favorite things, bits of news, food, the outdoors,

our homes, travel, life, kids, growing up, and growing old. Being a mountain woman does not necessarily mean that you have to live in the mountains to belong, it is more of having the spirit of the mountain in you. As John Muir said, “you are not in the mountains, the mountains are in you.”

A quick but very sincere shout-out to the people who helped make this magazine a reality. Kristen Lummis, aka The Brave Ski Mom. We met when we were both starting our blogs. She has been a continued source of inspiration and great editorial content for many years now. She has always been my cheerleader. Colin Bane, for his incredible writing skills and as a side note, is one of the best dads I know. Anna Sitton, a great writer, mom, and believer in

this magazine and our stories. She’s a Buena Viking who can make a mean burger and shred the gnar like a gnarly girl! W....and you, we Thank You for reading this! Please be sure to share with your friends and family. Let people know about us, and we will keep inspiring you with our incredible stories about wonderful women.

We are Girls, Mothers, Ladies, Lassies, Lovers, Babes, and Bad Asses! We are a magazine for women filled with a pas sion for living life in the mountains in the Colorado Rock ies and beyond.

With Gratitude, Holly Battista-Resignolo

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Eunika Rogers stands above Mount Sneffels after a day of adventure. She is Mountain Women Maga zine’s Art Director and a woman who fell deeply & abruptly in love with ultra running, hiking, camping, and wild spaces. Eunika is also a world renowned artist residing in Telluride and is known for her paint ings crafted with hand foraged clays from around the world. See her work at eunikarogers.com or follow her on social at @RedDirtGirl.

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FAVORITE THINGS Things we love and think you will too.
GIRLS GETAWAY Two Women take time to esape on a motorcycle adventure.
TRAIL BLAZERS Women leading the way for the younger generation.
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DESIGNING WOMEN Focusing in on design work with local entrepreneurs.
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Lacey Von Riedel picked up her first pair of knit ting needles in 2018. After lessons from her lifelong knitting mother and a year of trial and error, Nitto Mountain Knits was born. Driven by her newfound love and inspired by nature’s brilliant hues and patterns, Von Riedel, 36, creates warm cozy winter beanies known for their incredibly detailed stitching. Nitto (the Japanese noun for “knit”) hats are composed of 100% merino wool and acrylic yarns and faux fur poms, all ethically sourced and hand dyed. Look for her popular custom matching hats for the whole family and a new line of mittens and handsewn home goods launching in 2022.

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FAVORITE THINGS

CONVERSATION CARDS

The questions in this edition will have you celebrating your friendships. You’ll appreciate your connection to each other and you’ll be reminded of all the things that made you “bes ties” in the first place.

You’ll also enjoy the tips and quotes we’ve included. They’re all about friendships—how to make them, how to keep them, and how to strengthen them. www.tabletopics.com

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a girls getaway

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ADVENTUROUS

AN EXCUSE FOR ADVENTURE

Long time locals Rori Miller and Jillian Turner have embraced the Colorado mountain lifestyle with humble exu berance.

The high country of Breckenridge is where Rori and Jillian have called home for over 30 years. It’s where they make snow board play-dates on Winter and Spring powder days and tour Colorado’s most intriguing highways and byways on their Triumph motorcycles throughout the tem perate Summers and into the colorful and crisp Colorado Autumns.

The love of Colorado is where it all be gan for these bad-ass motorcycle babes. As their real estate businesses grew, their clients were intrigued with properties in other Colorado mountain towns and that’s where the idea of combining motorcycle touring and business building started gain ing traction. “Our clients get to join us on our journeys, living vicariously through us as we show them the gorgeous Colorado landscapes and incredible real estate op portunities.” says Rori. “I agree, motorcycle trips aren’t just for sightseeing, we are on the hunt to find the most unique properties for our clients and interacting with them along the way makes it so much fun!” says Jillian. Going the literal extra mile for their clients has been an important part of what has led to their successes. These two dedi cated real estate professionals love scout ing for the perfect homes and land for their clients while hugging mountain curves on two wheels. Summiting over 30 Colorado

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mountain passes and closing deals at sunset on hotel balconies, and even pulling over on the side of the road to discuss an opportunity that can’t wait has become a summertime tradition. “Touring Colorado’s finest mountain communities on 2 wheels is refresh ingly authentic to both of us and our clients love it just as much,” says Jil lian.

Of course these ladies can’t just make it all work and no play, ev ery moto trip is packed with adven ture! Each trip is carefully planned to incorporate some the best of what Colorado has to offer including hik ing incredible waterfalls in Ouray and Alamosa, relaxing hot spring pit stops in Buena Vista, Pagosa Springs,

Steamboat and Glenwood Springs, strolling the farmers markets in Vail , Aspen and Crested Butte, Vineyard tours in Palisade, the added exhila ration of skydiving in Delta, climb ing terrifying Via Ferratas in both Telluride and Ouray, dirt biking in Grand Junction, ziplining at Cop per Mountain, running ultra races from Ouray to Telluride, wakeboard ing and jet skiing in Turquoise Lake in Leadville, sandboarding the Sand Dunes National Park, 4-wheeling in Silverton, hitching rides to the iconic trail head of Zapata Falls (when they didn’t dare take their motorcycles up the boulder filled roads), winding and weaving their bikes down the famous Million Dollar Highway into Silver ton and Trail Ridge Road through

Rocky Mountain National Park, all while experiencing Colorado’s rich history, flavor and personalities with each and every town they visit. With headsets and mics in their helmets, Rori and Jillian get to talk, sing and joke with each other the whole time they are on the road, swapping stories about everything from their struggles to life’s victories. “It is better than any therapy! Two wheels, the wind in your face and a never ending conversation with your best friend,” says Rori.

These ladies come from a long line of strong wom en and celebrate their gift of courage and independence by FaceTime-ing with both of their mothers every where from lazy river beds to windy

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mountain tops. This lineage of strong women inspired both Rori and Jillian to embrace the uncomfortable, crossing boundaries and getting reacquainted with that inner ‘Tom-Boy’. “That feeling you had when you were a little girl before being blanketed with restrictions.

“That is the feeling we chase. As women, we slowly lose it, fading so slowly, a natural progression and before we know it, it’s gone, a distant memory, a distant sensa tion that at some point later in life becomes an obsession to reconnect with” says Jillian.

As mothers of independent adult daughters, it is im perative that we show them how to harness and bottle that feeling and never let it go. “I wish this for everyone! Too bad you can’t bottle and sell a feeling. We would be billionaires.” Jillian laughed.

“When you live in the most perfect state, find the perfect friend, the perfect motorcycle and the perfect job you’ve got yourself a recipe that feeds the soul. At a time when I didn’t have money to spend on anything extra, I knew that these kinds of experiences needed to become part of my new reality. I knew they would change my life for ever. It has finally happened and now I can’t imagine my life without it. Riding motorcycles is as addictive as any drug. I am totally hooked and have Rori to thank for that” says Jillian.

Building professional and personal relationships, raising strong, independent children and staking claim as long-time locals in the high country can be challeng ing, but these mountain town ladies make it look like a full time adventure!

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“Dream Threads II”

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VNTR BIRDS

aka ‘venture as in Adventure!

VNTRbirds (ven-ture birds) en courage women through outdoor ed ucation and adventure. Women-run and based in the heart of the Rocky Mountains, VNTRbirds brings women to the outdoors through mountain biking, backcountry ski ing and splitboarding and commu nity meet ups. Their main mission is to bring women together to grow the community and get them exploring with confidence, proper knowledge and self-reliance. Founded and owned by the Wren sisters, Leanne and Kelley have watched this com pany grow from small clinics in Breckenridge to large courses and workshops throughout the state of Colorado and beyond.

When Kelley first started VNTR birds in 2011, she highlighted wom en in the outdoors by blogging about their experiences to show that there were women to look up to. Then, in 2020, Leanne joined the team and together they changed direc tion to not just show women in the outdoors, but to create a safer envi

ronment for more women to gain ex perience in the outdoors themselves. Knowing that some of these activities are a financial burden, VNTRbirds wants to make their courses more af fordable and therefore more inclusive by building a scholarship fund. For every VNTRbirds course you sign up for, you receive an automatic $30 off, plus VNTRbirds keep their ride days and workshops free so all women can learn with them.

Other scholarship opportunities in clude one of three aid grants that are chosen twice a year:

1. Intro to Outdoor Education: Re ceive a free VNTRbirds backcountry or mountain bike course

2. Mentorship to Guiding: Come shadow a VNTRbirds backcountry or mountain bike course, then receive a stipend to further your outdoor education for a Wilderness First Re sponder course, AIARE level 1 or 2 or BICP certification. This will encour age more women into guiding and coaching roles.

3. BIPOC Intro to Outdoor Educa tion: Receive a free VNTRbirds back country or mountain bike course. Reserved for Black, Indigenous, and Women of Color to have more repre sentation in the outdoors. Everyone belongs out here.

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VNTR BIRDS Co Founder Kelly thinks, “it is amazing what a community of women can accomplish together and how en couraging it can be to learn with and from one another. Espe cially now with our nation so divided I want women to know they can be self-powered and help find their voice through the influence of the outdoors”.

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OUTDOORSY

TROUT UNLIMITED

LET’S FISH Community | Conservation | Fishing

A Group of women gathered in the forests of northern New Mexico to fish and explore conservation issues while thoroughly enjoying each other’s company. With abundant water and afternoon thunderstorms, the waters of the Rio de los Piños ran a bit turbid, but that didn’t stop these determined anglers.

Hosted by women’s conservation group Artemis and community group Braided, eight women set out on an adventure – camping along the banks of the river, testing their angling skills (some of which were newly acquired) trekking to the not-so-close bathrooms, sleeping under the stars, eating tacos made from last fall’s elk, and gathering around a cozy campfire. This gathering was not only about camaraderie and fly fish ing but also about protecting important places and advocating for them.

National Forests in Colorado and New Mexico are undergoing the plan revision process, so educating these ladies on how best to engage in that process and let their voices be heard was top priority. Protecting the functionality of watersheds is imperative to support aquatic and terres trial life, and these women took that message away armed with knowl edge and power to protect these wild places and the species who call them home.

National Forests in Colorado and New Mexico are undergoing the plan revision process, so educating these ladies on how best to engage in that process and let their voices be heard was top priority. Protecting the functionality of watersheds is imperative to support aquatic and terres trial life, and these women took that message away armed with knowl edge and power to protect these wild places and the species who call them home. www.tu.org

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READS WE NEED

All The Flowers of The Mountain

I’ve known Christina Holbrook for well over 40 years, but really just for the last three. Chris and I are high school classmates who barely knew each other in school and then bonded at our class reunion (a union, in this case, more than a re-union) over our mutual ac tivity of writing. Only unlike me, she’s the real deal. After a corporate career in publishing, Chris wrote an intrigu ing, often very personal, long-running column, “Lark Ascending,” in the Summit Daily in Frisco, Colorado; explored winemakers and vineyards growing grapes at the highest elevation in the northern hemisphere in “Wine lands of Colorado”; and has had her short fiction, essays, and travel reviews appear in numerous publications, lit erary journals, and anthologies. And this month, with the publication of “All the Flowers of the Mountain,” Chris checks off the biggest writing hurdle yet: novelist. Early reviews are already heaping praise – “A haunting, evoca tive exploration of the enduring power of love, replete with the poignancy of Nicholas Sparks and the gritty authen ticity of Delia Owens,” reads one by Emily Colin, author of the NYT best seller The Memory Thief. And I’m not the least bit surprised. Chris is a deep thinker who has the unusual ability to translate those reflections into compel ling writing and relatable, engrossing stories. I can’t wait to read it.

So where do I come in on this? Chris, now familiar with this blog site as well as my frequent presentations of themed playlists, particularly those centered in and around the music of the 1970’s, was nice enough to ask me to collabo rate with her on what she hoped could serve as companion listening to her book. A short collection of songs that might connect some of the through lines of “All the Flowers of the Moun tain” – what Chris described to me for

guidance as “a sort of romantic, melancholy vibe” – as well as evoking a sense of nostalgia for the music of the times, the ‘70’s, in which her story is set. “Many scenes in the novel were inspired by folk music,” said Chris, “and in particular how that music was interpreted by artists in the 1970’s.” We each picked some songs, we tossed a couple and added some others, Chris put together the final sequencing, and here it is: 24 memorable songs of love and longing from the 1970’s, by artists including Bob Dylan, Jackson Browne, Marshall Tucker Band, Loggins & Messina, Joan Baez, Si mon & Garfunkel, Pure Prairie League, Seals & Crofts, and more.¹ One tune, “Wild Mountain Thyme,” has particular resonance within the plot of the story, and so ap pears here – not by accident – three times; an opening instrumental by Mark Knop fler, a gorgeous interpretation by James Taylor in the middle, and a traditional Irish version by The Chieftains to close the list out.

I’m quite touched and extremely honored that Chris chose to have me help out with this little project, and to play even a minuscule part in her book launch through the creation of our collaborative companion playlist. I hope you’ll enjoy some remi niscing through a little musical melancholia, and most importantly, I hope you’ll grab Chris’s book “All the Flowers of the Mountain,” which is available now in hard cover, paperback, and ebook, in bookstores, or through ever-popular on-line book sellers such as Amazon and Barnes and Noble:

Happy listening and reading. And I recommend going to your school reunions; you never know what friendships you might rekindle, or just plain kindle.

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EYE CANDY

Half Baked Harvest

Te ighan Gerard’s recipes in her latest cook book are inspired by the people and places she loves the most. Her hope is to inspire a love for food in others, as well as the courage to try something new. Gerard started a blog in 2012 and has since been featured on The Cooking Channel, Food Network, HGTV, Crate & Barrel, Shape Magazine, Self Magazine, the Huffington Post, and PopSugar, among others. Half Baked Harvest was named Readers’ Choice Favorite Food Blog by Better Homes and Gardens in both 2014 and 2016. She was also the recipient of Saveur Magazine’s 2016 Award for Most Inspired Weeknight Dinners as well as the 2016 Bloglovin’ Best Food Blog Award. www.halfbakedharvest.com

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Spiritual connections that reach beyond life's boundaries

MEDIUM READER BECKY HESSELTINE HELPS THE BEREAVED FIND A

BETTER MINDSET

The notion that a person’s spirit can connect with another’s beyond death is not one that I wholeheartedly believe in.

But I am also not a whole-hearted non-believer.

An open heart is key when beginning a session with Becky Hesseltine, a medium and intuitive healer who connects individuals all over the world with their deceased loved ones.

A dear friend purchased the session for me after I’d lost two close friends in rapid succession. Following the sudden loss of her father years earlier, my friend had recently found comfort in speaking with Becky and hoped my ses sion would also deliver some solace.

Becky conducts most of her sessions over Zoom, but I opted for an inperson meeting. When we sat down in her living room in Eagle, Colorado, Becky knew nothing about me other than that I was there for a medium reading.

Although I was slightly skeptical about what was about to unfold, I real ized I was also feeling vulnerable and emotional, even tearful while thinking about the friends I’d recently lost. My friend Pati had died less than a year earlier when a neighborhood gas leak caused her house to explode. Dan, a “brother from another mother” had died in his sleep a few months later after an accidental mix of medications.

Becky advised that as she connected with the spirit realm and comment ed on the information she was receiving, I should say yes or no, indicating whether or not the input resonated.

After walking me through a few deep breaths, she began by saying a male spirit wanted to connect. She felt strongly it was a family member.

Still thinking of Dan, I smiled, remembering to myself all the times over the years in which strangers had mistaken us for siblings, on a couple of oc casions, they’d even asked if we were twins.

Responding to Becky, I said “family member” was not accurate, at least not in the biological sense. She continued, asking if this person died unex pectedly and if the death had something to do with his chest. I affirmed that the death was unexpected, but the chest detail confused me. She said again that she believed it was a family member. She asked if it made sense that the person regretted not being a stronger, more positive presence in my life, that he should have been more involved and supportive.

It then hit me that this was not Dan she was talking about, but my fa ther, who had died 12 years prior of a sudden cardiac episode. His passing came just as we had begun building a positive relationship following a long estrangement.

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SPIRITUAL

Becky’s input struck home profoundly.

As I uttered little more than a “yes” or “no” during our session, she also connected with Dan, Pati, another friend, and my grandmother, with whom I had been very close. As with my father, certain details Becky conveyed about each were strikingly accurate. She knew that Dan talked wildly with his hands, that Pati had left two children be hind, that my grandmother had spent long days working in her garden.

I left feeling soothed, knowing that the spirits of my loved ones could still be with me, not only just in thought, possibly as something more. After what Becky had con veyed with zero background or information about me, it certainly felt like some valid –albeit not wholly compre hensible – force was involved.

“I look at it as a power, a greater intelligence, that holds the space for this communication,” Becky says.

HONING HER SIXTH SENSE

Describing herself as a “super sensitive child,” from a young age, Becky often sensed “there were more eyes in the room than you could see.”

“I felt it, but I just wanted to close it off,” she says. “I didn’t want to feel or understand what I was sensing. Throughout my life, waves of it would come back.”

This awareness freaked her out as a child and well into adulthood. She was afraid to turn the lights off at night, afraid to walk into a new house or building.

Then her father, with whom she had always had a strained relationship, passed away in 2016. The onslaught of emotions that ensued sent her into a downward spiral. After a lot of soul searching, she realized that this ultrasensitivity she’d possessed since childhood was a unique

spiritual awareness that she could harness and use to help herself and others heal, especially after a great loss.

She quit her corporate job as a life and health coach and began pursuing mediumship as a profession, tapping into her sixth sense and using it to gather emotional data from people both in the physical world and the spiritual realm.

Becky articulates the emotions she gleans between loved ones as clearly as she can during a session, although sometimes not every single detail resonates or strikes a fa miliar chord with her clients.

“There’s no such thing as a 100-percent-accurate medi um,” she says. “You have to understand what you’re sens ing. You could get it wrong. That’s why I have you say yes or no and allow for the next bit of information to reveal meaning. Your spirit person knows what you need to hear for you to believe. It’s important to be an open-hearted skeptic so you know it’s real, so you know that this is your loved one.”

Becky names one common denominator that allows for this spiritual communication to take place, one factor that allowed her to transform what were once profound fears into a talent for connecting beloved spirits to the be reaved. That factor is love.

“The only way to connect with spirit people is through the power of love,” she says. “All the things you see on TV, in movies, in ghost stories, you don’t need to believe all of that. Doing this work, I now know for a fact that there’s nothing to be afraid of. It’s all rooted in love.”

In addition to conducting medium readings and spiri tual guidance, Becky teaches a course on discovering one’s own inner wisdom and spiritual connection.

Find out more at www.beckyhesseltine.com

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KATES REAL FOOD

Meet Kate Schade, founding owner of Kate’s Real Food. Her passion for organic food and simplicity developed at a really young age. My Mom grew up on a family farm in NY that was passed on through generations spanning over 200 years. As an adult, I worked for a farm in Vic tor, ID called Cosmic Apple Gardens that really helped shape my perspective on food, caring for animals, the land, and the importance of soil health and organic agriculture.

In search of adventure, Kate moved to Jackson Hole, WY where she spent her day’s backcountry skiing, hiking, and biking. To sustain Kate’s busy lifestyle fueled by the great outdoors, she began to make great-tasting, whole-food, en ergy bars that conveniently fit in my pocket. Using the same food values she was taught during her time on the farm she incorporated them into her recipes.

After sharing her creations with friends area locals and fan-base insisted she sell her bars. There began a vision for ‘the good life’ - to enhance experiences, live a life of texture, and let delicious, organic foods be an integral part of life’s journey. After a few years of continued encouragement, Kate finally decided to take on her greatest adventure: Kate’s Real Food.

Today, her company is using a 20,000 square foot production facility located in Bedford, PA. Their USDA-certified organic snacks can now be found in 4,000+ retail locations across the country, including Whole Foods, REI, H-E-B, Ama zon.com, and more.There’s a flavor for every palette, and you’ll find something you love!

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BOLDNESS
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TELLURIDE FIRE FESTIVAL

Erin Ries and her partner Chris Myers have been avid participants of Burning Man since 2011. Mesmerized by the ethos of the event and the incredible, mind-blowing art, festival participants are able to experience, Erin was inspired to help Burning Man’s artists flourish by bringing their creativity from the Nevada desert sands to the snowy peaks and streets of Telluride. With a remarkable amount of hard work and coordination, the pair launched the Tel luride Fire Festival in 2015.

As a former Festival Director for Telluride Wine dur ing its most successful years, Erin has first-hand experi ence with all aspects of producing festivals, from fundrais ing, acquiring sponsorships, promoting and marketing events, obtaining staff, enticing volunteers to be part of a fun festival, and more.

Erin has lived (and worked) in the Telluride region for 31 years and is well-versed in the nuances of nonprofit event production. For fun she makes the sexiest costumes for the TAB (Fashion Show), is co-creator of Telluride’s first art car at Burning Man (The Shack-To-Hell-U-Ride), is an advocate for San Miguel Resource Center and gives her all to whatever she does. And, as a former volunteer firefighter, she understands how to approach fire art safely.

Her partner in crime and love, Chris Myers, is an entre preneur steeped in the world of lighting design for the past two decades (and owner of his own lighting design firm – enLIGHTen), Chris understands the power of light: fire being the first source of nighttime illumination for man.

At the very beginning, the duo was able to obtain non profit status and have been building upon each year’s suc cesses. Covid brought some crazy days for Erin, Chris, and the many planners and artists involved in the event. Last year, as Covid’s numbers rose the events venue owner can celed the Saturday event; but with quick thinking and help from the entire community, a new, safer, and even cooler location was transformed into an incredible backdrop for the event’s exciting fire, art, music and dance. This unique and mesmerizing festival in Telluride gives a positive spin on the word pyromaniac and delights everyone who at tends this unique happening.

Make plans to attend this year. With the restrictions of Covid tamped down, this year promises to be ablaze with a full schedule of events and activities that you can partici pate in, learn from and be WOW’ed!

www.telluridefirefestival.org.

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WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM?? WIND SLABS STORM SLABS LOOSE DRY LOOSE WET WET SLABS PERSISENT SLABS DEEP PERSISTENT SLABS CORNICE GLIDE CHECK THE CURRENT AVALANCHE CONDITIONS BEFORE HEADING INTO THE BACKCOUNTRY

WOMEN OF WINTERWONDERGRASS

WinterWonderWomen de buted during the Steam boat stop of WinterWon derGrass 2019. But why is it a part of WinterWonderGrass and how did it come about?

I’ve been in the bluegrass scene since I was 19 years old and it’s a pre dominantly male genre, as is most of music, and over the course of 17 years, I’ve watched badass women trickling into this scene, and an op portunity presented itself for these women to collaborate and support one another during the festival,” shares fiddler Bridget Law, one of the concept’s founders.

The idea was birthed when Law and keyboardist Megan Letts were working on the WinterWonderGrass

mentalist Lindsay Lou on all three bills during the 2018/2019 season, and WinterWonderWomen was born. Their debut at Steamboat 2019 would mark the first time a com pletely female lineup was presented on stage at the festival.

During the 2019 Tahoe and Ver mont stops, and Campout For The Cause event, WinterWonderWomen incorporated performances from their male counterparts, and while men supporting women is awesome, Law is dedicated to presenting a full female stage presence for Winter WonderWomen performances again during the 2023 season in Steamboat.

“Most of us play with the boys in our regular band, WinterWonder Women allows for a new type of col

throughout the tunes, however; All songs are vocal-heavy, which is ener gizing and empowering for the wom en to sing together.

It’s no small feat to put together a full band of women musicians from the festival’s lineup, ensuring all parts are covered, including bass which is not typically an instrument with many female players. To curb this during the 2021 season, Law enlisted the help of bassist Shelby Means to create a “house” bass player for the set. From there, Law built out a set of songs for each stop, compil ing songs submitted by the musicians themselves, ensuring the tunes fit to gether, have collaborative parts, and are not too difficult to learn.

Up until the WinterWonder Women take the stage, believe it or not, rehearsal time has been slim to none. Most of what comes together at the festival has been prepared re motely to accommodate busy lives, tour schedules, and the various loca tions each musician calls home. This all adds to the fresh, spontaneous, in-the-moment collaborations that come to life on stage during their performance, and as Law remarks, “it adds fun to the set!”

The sensation of WinterWonder Women has continued to grow and has expanded outside of the WWG festival with Arise Music Festival in the past, and this January 2023, at ‘Denver Comes Alive’ at the Mission Ballroom.

production crew. Law explains, “we’d get together at these WinterWonder Grass-type events, staff meetings, and luncheons, and we just thought, ‘we should really do this.’ In 2018, I was also producing a women’s fes tival and that ultimately led Scotty [Stoughton] and me to the concept of WinterWonderWomen.”

The all-female performance grew more probable with multi-instru

laboration that’s truly empowering for the musicians and fans alike,” says Law.

WinterWonderWomen allows the musicians to perform songs that haven’t been introduced to their own bands just yet or play covers—like Beyonce’s “Daddy’s Lessons” featur ing The Dixie Chicks—they don’t usually get to perform.

There is a common thread

This year Lindsay Lou, Bridget Law, Mimi Naja, Megan Letts, Emma Rose, Michelle Pietrafittac, and Kim ber Ludiker will come together for an all-female performance to continue the tradition that celebrates Women musicians collaborating together on stage to craft brilliant performances.

See WinterWonderWomen in Steamboat Springs at WinterWon derGrass this 2023 season!

www.winterwondergrass.com

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TOWN HALL OUTDOOR CO

GETTING KIDS OUTDOORS

Steamboat Springs winters are not always beautiful bluebird skies, sun and sparkling, pow dery, champagne snow. This town knows winter and the kids who live here are a hardy bunch who understand what works best to enjoy a day out skiing, snowboarding or just building a snowman. That is the genius behind Robin Hall’s company, her “KID-sumer” consultants, aka the kids who advise her on the best way to craft Town Hall Outdoor CO gear for them.

As a mother she wanted to create a product that met the needs of her children and other young sters. Both she, her company founders and the kids she meets up with agreed that in addition to product performance, sus tainability is a top goal. From the use of recycled fabrics, and grow with me seams that expand the size of the garment as your young one gets older Town Hall Outdoor CO is making sure they leave this planet a better place for the next generation.

This year’s product line of outerwear includes the Down Town puffy, Around Town cold weather jacket and the Mountain Town winter jacket. These jack

ets come in a variety of sizes and color combinations. The Moun tain Town Winter Pants match up with the jacket colors and all offer sizes from youth XS to XL. Enhancing the outerwear’s warmth and protection from the elements are useful magnetic closures, zipper pulls for lit tle hands, easy access pocket placement, pocket size and more. Check out their T-Shirts, Hats and the cutest Young Artist Collection Neck Gaiter too. You adults reading this might find something you like as well in their adult section.

Growing up also equals Hand Me Ups. We love the tag inside each jacket and pant that lets each kid “Hand Up” their jacket and pants to someone else once they have outgrown their out door gear. The company is also working on a trade up deal as well.

www.townhallco.com

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PUSSYPEDIA

Only You Know Your Body! But the question is do you really know your body? Especially all the lady bits?

Pussypedia is a comprehensive guide and necessary atlas with accurate information on everything pussy...the authors would rather see us using this gender-and-organinclusive term as it is so much easier to say and encompasses all the parts that make up the female body.

383 pages are devoted to pussy parts, hormones and the menstrual cycle, sex and masturbation, abortion and contracep tion, infections, reproduction, and the shit the patriarchy tries to sell you.

The author-illustrator team is based in Mexico. Maria Conejo, the Illustrator, has collaborated with many feminist and human rights organizations. We love her lighthearted, accurate, and fun images of the female body.

Author Zoe Mendelson is a writer, re searcher, and content strategist who felt it was time to help women around the world embrace their bodies, down to the lit tlest detail, without shame or humiliation. They also have a fantastic website www. pussypedia.net and Social Media outlets on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter @ PwordPedia

Find their book on Amazon, Barnes & No ble, and their website. www.pussypedia.net

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A couple decades ago, Telluride, like many mountain towns, was known primarily for its hedonistic aspects: powder skiing, rowdy music festivals and lively late-night bar scenes.

But that’s changing as these towns grow up, says Joshua Geetter, who’s been practicing acupuncture and Chinese medicine in Telluride for 16 years. These days, he says, mountain towns are also emerging as vanguards of health and wellness.

“Now people come from all around the world for inte grated medicine, health, beauty and wellness,” Geetter says.

Geetter is living proof. He and his partner, essential oil expert Judy Godec, opened their integrated medicine business, Medicine Ranch, two and a half years ago in Telluride. And, they say, they launched the shop just in time to coincide with a wave of consumer interest in selfcare, wellness and natural health.

“We just jumped into a stream that was already starting to flow,” Geetter says. “What we’re doing is resounding with what people are looking for, and it’s just developing a life of its own from there.”

The brick and mortar shop is split into two parts. The front of the store is an aromatic and softly-lit retail space filled with tinctures, essential oils, crystals, gemstones, elixirs, soaps and herbs, along with Godec’s organic skincare line, Venus and Vetiver. You can find tinctures for respiratory rescue, salves for muscle recovery and gemstones known for particular healing properties.

The back of the store, meanwhile, is home to a treatment room, where Geetter practices acupuncture, herbology, bodywork and oriental medicine, as well as a produc tion space where he prepares his medicine using organic ingredients, including plants, like arnica harvested in the San Juan Mountains. As a general practitioner, Geetter provides the gamut of care.

“What I try to bring to the table is the lineage-based wis dom that can work for anything from the common cold to cancer, and from anxiety to zygote health,” he says.

The pair met seven years ago as professionals and found they had much in common; both worked to provide effec tive medical care based on ancient healing traditions.

“It grew very naturally into us collaborating,” Geetter says.

While Godec ran her business through an e-commerce site, Geetter was selling his tinctures and herbs from a small treatment space. Neither was particularly interested in retail, but felt they had the momentum to launch a joint venture.

“It was kind of a leap of faith,” Godec says. “But it’s been so rewarding. It doesn’t really feel like retail, it feels like a living room. People come in all day and we chat about health and natural medicine.”

While they’ve been steeped in the world of integrated medicine for many years, both are delighted to find that the mainstream culture is developing a growing apprecia tion of self-care and natural medicine. Ultimately, Geetter and Godec say their goal is to reach an even larger audience.

“We like to be low footprint, high contribution and right livelihood, and we want to spread that to the world,” Geetter said.

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RANCH TELLURIDE’S MEDICINE RANCH A VANGUARD OF INTEGRATED MEDICINE
615 W Pacific Ave, Telluride, CO 81435 www.medranch.com MEDICINE

WHO ARE THEY?

These are the women who have gone before many of you or they may be associates you have gone forward with. They are Wom en leading the way, breaking paths and blazing a trail for the younger generation to follow.

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Ellen Miller

As Ellen Miller knows so well, climbing a mountain isn’t just about standing on the peak, but all the ascending and descending steps it takes to fulfill the journey

Ellen Miller, one of the Vail Val ley’s most accomplished moun taineers, keeps inspiring those around her to continue the climb as she heals from injuries sustained dur ing her lifetime of adventure and ath leticism.

As Ellen Miller knows so well, climbing a mountain isn’t just about standing on the peak, but all the ascending and descending steps it takes to fulfill the journey.

As an incredibly accomplished mountaineer and coach, Miller says the past few years have been a time of intentional exploration of her physical, emotional and mental well-being. In the spring of 2017, Miller had a hip reconstruction on one of her two artificial hips. The metal in one hip was not inter acting favorably with her bones. Along with a new artificial hip, her surgeon put in a metal plate and three screws, and Miller is the first to admit the recovery has been an uphill challenge.

“I’m a mountain climber, so I’ve been very fortunate that a lot of my rehab is to climb mountains,” Miller shared in early January 2018. “So I went up on Quandary last week, and I went up there again today. I’m just coming to terms, emotionally and mentally, with what it’s like to be in this body — it’s been through a lot in the last year; that I’m not the same anymore, and what will it take to get back to a place that I’m happy with?”

While Miller is incredibly humble about her achievements, she has ac complished so much in her 63 years of life. Miller is the only American woman to climb Mount Everest from both sides (one of five women in the world), among countless other mountaineering feats all over the world. In 2002, she was voted Colorado Sportswoman of the Year for longevity and achievement in athletics. She is currently a certified endurance and athletic coach and has worked as an outdoor fitness coach and caretaker in the Vail Val ley. Miller is also coach and man ager for the U.S. Women’s Mountain Running Team.

Miller says that she believes moun taineering trained her for all of the intense hip surgeries and the recoveries.

“I’ve learned tenacity; I’ve learned about attitude; I’ve learned about patience,” she shares. “I’m so glad that I was an athlete in my younger years because so much of those natural lessons that we learn are re ally applicable when you’re trying to get through these things — whether it’s a surgery or an illness or general aging.”

Coaching Balance

Miller’s focus hasn’t shifted away from climbing mountains and set ting life goals, but she has certainly become more in tune with honoring the aging process, and also encour aging younger athletes to start car ing for their bodies early.

“I think in the old days, we thought

more was better and higher mile age was better, and just more more more,” she explains, “and now we have a lot more science available; a lot more scientific evidence about training, and different modalities to recovery.”

Miller encourages athletes of all ages to create balance in their training, which includes high-intensity work, as well as ample recovery.

“Whether someone is in their thir ties or forties, we can be smarter about the way we age,” Miller ex plained. “To understand the impor tance of high-quality rest, and the importance of high-quality nutri tion, because I do believe all that stuff adds up, and it tends to really show itself as you’re aging.”

Connie Mazza met Miller after liv ing in Vail for five years. Mazza says that although she was having fun, she wasn’t pushing herself out of her comfort zones. It was Miller, shares Mazza, who pushed her toward a path of purpose and self-discovery.

“Ellen, always with the utmost respect and support, taught me how to live intentionally and with clear goals,” says Mazza. “She showed me how to build up my self-esteem, self-care and self-love. She taught me how to tune in to my needs, my surroundings, and my greatest aspi rations by taking conscious steps to live each day with strength, courage and gratitude.”

Among the myriad of lessons Miller shares with her “tribe” on a daily basis, Mazza said perhaps the most

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paramount to her journey is the commit ment to shaping one’s thought patterns, an exercise in neuroplasticity that happens in the prefrontal cortex of the human brain.

“Ultimately, success is achieved through mental toughness, a thing Ellen describes as grit,” shares Mazza. “And I take this les son with me always.”

“Whether it’s strength training, or yoga, or meditation — there are so many great things that we can all tap into so that we can age a little more gracefully,” Miller says.

Every year, Miller adds, a couple of her friends drop out of sports or activities they once loved because of pains or injuries.

“And that’s very sad to me,” she shares. “They have aches and pains so they shy away from doing these activities that they once loved, and sometimes they are even simple activities like hiking. So my para mount message to young athletes is to take care of your body so that when you’re my age, you can do whatever you want to do.”

Wendy Clinch

You’re the Founder of TheSkiDi va.com, the largest online ski community for women.

What inspired you to start TheSkiDiva.com and what makes you proudest?

The idea for the site came to me back in 2006. I remember waiting for the gondola at Steamboat, the only woman in a long line of men, feeling very much alone and thinking, ‘I can’t be the only woman who likes to ski.’

At the time I didn’t have any women friends who skied. And when I looked at ski magazines or went to one of the online ski communities, I didn’t see many women there, either. Women were perceived either as be ginners or as being interested only in ski fashions or hanging out in the lodge. Women’s equipment or needs were barely discussed. And there was a lot of sexual objectification, too. I found it all pretty dismaying.

So I decided to put together a place where women skiers could come to gether to talk about skiing in a way that made them feel comfortable. To day, TheSkiDiva.com is the leading online community for women skiers. It’s fun, informative, and a great place to hang out. I’ve learned so much from the women on the site, and I’ve made tons of ski friends, too.

You’ve been a trailblazer for wom en’s skiing. I’ve always admired how

you promote women within the ski industry, from competitors to moun tain managers.

Who are some of the most inter esting women you’ve met through your website?

Wow, there are so many! The women who join TheSkiDiva come from such diverse backgrounds and have such varied life experiences. I’m completely inspired by their accom plishments, as well as their ability to juggle work and family and still make skiing a part of their lives. There’s ev eryone from doctors to attorneys to police investigators on the site. This makes for some interesting conver sations. I’ve also had the pleasure of interviewing such champion skiers as Suzy Chaffee and Donna Weinbrecht and trailblazers like Jeannie Thoren. There’ve been women who’ve climbed mountains and started ski companies, held high positions in resort manage ment, worked as patrollers, founded non-profits, and fought the good fight against climate change.

Where I really find community on your site is the forum. It’s an in credible community. Please share some more about it.

The forum is really the heart and soul of the website. Right now we have over 7,200 registered members from all over the world. And we get thou

sands of visitors each week.

There’s everyone from beginners to the highest levels of experts; from women who know very little about equipment and technique to those with vast stores of expertise. We talk about anything and everything skirelated — gear, technique, resorts, and more. There are loads of firsthand gear reviews and discussions about vari ous ski destinations. And there’s a lot of great advice, like what to do when you think your skiing has plateaued or how to handle fear or even why more women aren’t skiing.

I am by the women in TheSkiDi va community. They are supportive, friendly, good-natured, and respect ful. It makes participating on the site an absolute pleasure.

The annual Ski Diva ski gath erings sound so fun. Tell us more please!

I started having SkiDiva get-to gethers to get to know the people behind the user names. Plus there’s something freeing about skiing with a group of girlfriends. You laugh a lot. You have great conversations on the lifts. You’re free of the label of girl friend, mother, wife, caregiver. It’s just you, the mountains, the snow, and TheSkiDivas. What could be better?

We generally have two events a year: one in the west and one in the east. The trips are open to members of

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Creating Community For Skiing Women, One Goddess at a Time

the forum and their families. Women come from all over. And even if we’ve never met in person, it’s like getting together with old friends. The whole thing is a testament to the feeling of community that pervades the site.

When did you begin skiing?

I grew up on the Jersey Shore and didn’t start skiing til I was 13 and we went on a family trip to the Catskills in New York. At first I absolutely hated it — I fell a lot, and the rope tow up the beginners’ slope was a nightmare. But I kept at it, mainly to get better at it than my sister.

I actually didn’t ski all that much — maybe 10 times a year — and stopped entirely in my early twenties. Life just got in the way. Fifteen years went by, and one morning my husband asked me if I wanted to go skiing. To put it in his words, it was like handing a crack pipe to an addict.

Now I live in Vermont and ski about 90 days a year. Most of my ski ing is at Okemo, though I also manage to hit a lot of places throughout New England and go out west once or twice a year. Amazingly enough, my daugh ter didn’t ski when she was a kid. I’m a firm believer that you can’t force your passions on your children. It just cre ates problems. Now that my daughter is an adult, she’s begun skiing.

Looking at skiing as a whole, where do you see the sport headed?

I’m concerned about the consoli dations that have taken place in recent years. I know ski areas are expensive to run, but I think the mergers make getting into skiing extremely difficult.. Sure, season pass prices are cheap. But day ticket prices are through the roof, so it’s really hard for people who might want to ski just a few days a year or try out a new resort. And since the larger companies can set ticket prices to whatever they want, I think they’re pricing out the smaller places where many people learn to ski and that act as feeder hills for the larger resorts. All this makes the pathway into skiing re ally anemic.

Do you have any advice for the younger generation of women rip ping it up on the mountain?

Just keep at it. Find other girls who like to ski, too. That makes it a lot more fun. And don’t let guys talk down to you or treat you like you’re less of a skier than they are. Skiing like a girl is not an insult.

Finally, what puts the Diva in a Ski Diva?

That’s a good question. Diva has come to have a negative connotation: it can mean someone who’s tempera mental and kind of a pain in the butt. But the original Latin meaning of Diva is Goddess, and I like to think that all women who love to ski are ski goddesses in their own right.

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Kelli Hepler

Plowing Paths for Agriculture through Rural Tourism

Kelli Hepler barely recognized that she was receiving an award at this year’s Colorado Governor’s Tourism Conference. She was busy uploading a photo she’d snapped of the last award winner when Hepler was named the winner of the prestigious Chairman’s Award and called to the stage. It started when Helper was in the fourth grade. That was the first time she received payment for her work, being awarded $50 for designing the winning Crime Prevention Poster Contest at her school.

“Who says art doesn’t pay?” she likes to say.

Hepler has always been able to draw. Friends used to follow her around in her school years because she could draw Snoopy. “Please draw me a Snoopy,” fellow students would plead, and she would oblige them. Years later, Hepler is still drawing, although after 35-years in business, she’s progressed well past the Snoopy phase.

Having attended Colorado Moun tain College, Helpler started her own company, Graphox Design & Advertising a few years out of school. Doing her own thing was something that seemed reasonable to the no-nonsense Hepler. After all, her dad had a tool & die machine shop, and self-employment was in her blood.

Being around strong, independent women throughout her life, includ ing her grandmother and mother, also influenced Hepler’s entrepre neurial path.

While growing a business, Helper also raised a family. Through the

birth of her two children, she never stopped working, even when motherhood was seen by some as a roadblock to a successful career.

Having married into the ranching business, Hepler became interested in agritourism, the place where agriculture and tourism connect in the form of farm visits, for instance. At first, she faced opposition from farmers and ranchers who thought tourists would “leave gates open” and couldn’t be trusted.

Ironically, trust was the eventual key to Hepler’s success in agritour ism. Her practical, can-do attitude resulted in a contract with Delta County, the region west of McClure Pass and south of Grand Junction. Soon, Hepler re-introduced the idea of agritourism.

Knowledgeable about farming and ranching, Hepler gained the confi dence of growers in Delta County, evolving an agritourism program that would open up the area to au thentic experiences for visitors.

“I didn’t want the farmers to clean up their farms and make them look like Disneyland. If a visitor got poop on their shoes, they got poop on their shoes—that’s farming!” says Hepler.

Her passion runs deep and is based on solid evidence that agritourism can keep a farm afloat for multiple generations. The average farm generates an extra $60,000 from ag ritourism. While not a fortune, it is often enough to keep future genera tions on a farm.

Hepler has personal reasons for wanting to keep this lifestyle alive. Residing in the small town of Delta,

she commutes through picturesque rolling hills and over dramatic mountain passes, and she’d like to keep it that way.

Today, there is little doubt of He pler’s impact on Colorado’s agri tourism industry. Not only does she know nearly every farmer and winemaker on the Western Slope, Delta County has the highest con centration of natural and organic farms in the state, and thanks to Helper, nearly all of them have an agritourism component.

In addition to her business, Hep ler has owned Prism Interpretive Services with her husband, Bob Marshall, since 1997. They provide roadside pull-out signage, museum signage, and other interpretive sup port and consulting services.

Hepler loves seeing how people respond to the brochures, logos, ads and interpretive panels she creates. For example, when driving over the Grand Mesa, Hepler is happy when she sees cars stopped and people reading the interpretive sign she designed.

This autumn, on Color Sunday, a celebration of fall foliage on Grand Mesa, Hepler saw a person wear ing a t-shirt she designed for Color Sunday more than a decade ago.

“That’s just a cool feeling,” she says of the sight.

Her work has put her in close col laboration with the Colorado Scenic & Historic Byways, a program she was excited to shed light on during her acceptance speech in Novem ber.

“It was totally unexpected,” says Helper of the Chairman’s Award.

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This was not Hepler’s first award from the tourism office. She had received two prior in 2006 and in 2011.

As a “card carrying rabbit lover,” Hepler often talks to her pet rabbit Bixby during her workday. After all, she works, for the most part, as a lone wolf. Knowing the rab bit can’t talk back, she has learned that sometimes ideas need to be bounced off of real people.

“I am thankful for those angels in my life,” says Hepler.

It seems that the tourism indus try is thankful for Hepler, who is already focused on her next project. She wants to teach farmers how to educate tourists about regenerative agriculture, a farming method that improves soil and has a positive ef fect on climate change. Regenerative agriculture is already being imple

mented at farms across Colorado.

“If we could just get people to un derstand it, they will only want food from those farms,” says Hepler.

Helper’s excitement is palpable, and so it goes on.

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Kerri Karcz

Don’t Limit Your Challenges, Challenge Your LimitsKerri Karcz Breaks Trail on the River Corridors

In 1993 Kerri Karcz had just gradu ated from college and like many of us was drawn to the mountains. She wondered what she was going to do now that she had accomplished obtaining her degree. She allowed the pull to manifest and landed in Summit County Colorado where she found a position at Keystone Resort.

What she didn’t realize was the job would introduce her to a lifelong pas sion. Growing up she had always wa ter skied. She figured she would meet fellow water skiers but the frigid water of Lake Dillon did not host that type of community.

Kerri’s first river experience was on a rafting trip. Keystone Resort at that time had its own White Water Rafting outfit. While her mom was visiting they took advantage of a trip down the Arkansas River. The hook was set. She discovered the local raft ing community and would try to get out on the river as often as possible.

One day after enjoying a concert at Rancho del Rio, a quirky resort located on the shore of the Colorado River, she was floating the river and witnessed someone standing and paddling a craft along the current. She was mesmerized and could think of only one thing, I need to do that!

This was the early 2010’s and the sport of SUP was really beginning to take off. Peter Hall of Hala Gear had set up shop in Steamboat Springs, Mike Harvey and friends were craft

ing River Boards in Salida and Johnny Lambino was launching SOL Paddle Boards down in Telluride.

Paddle-specific events started popping up and Standup Paddle Board Colorado opened for teaching and tours on the Colorado River. Ker ri wanted to learn more and took les sons with Javier Placer & Joey Suputo to learn some more of the technical aspects of the sport.

She recalls, “I did not know how to read the river. I didn’t know any thing about it. How do I Eddy out, which side of the board to stand on so you don’t flip over? Which side of the river should I go down when it splits?

How do I get back on the board if I fall off.”

All of this was new and she was a literal river sponge soaking up the flow as she improved her skills.

CKS in Buena Vista had begun holding its annual PaddleFest back then and it was a mecca for those who discovered SUP Boarding. People were now racing their boards down river. One of these events was in Vail, the Go Pro Games, and they were looking for participants for their pad dle events. She signed up and then felt a bit jittery. Looking for more time on the river before the race she headed up to Steamboat to spend some time

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on the Yampa River. She rolled into town not knowing about the Yampa River Festival. They too were having races, she entered the downriver race and came in 2nd. Her best finish in the GoPro games in Vail was in 2021 when she came in 3rd.

Kerris says, “It wasn’t just the sport itself that made it so enjoyable, it was the camaraderie. More and more women were embracing SUP. It wasn’t just young women, it was women of every age. The ages of all paddlers are so diverse. Age doesn’t seem to mat ter when it comes to the sport, they all want to participate and be a part of it. The energy is about the friend ships and I have wanted to be there to encourage them in the sport too.”

She received certification from Charlie McArthur’s Aspen Kayak & SUP Academy and began teaching camps and giving private lessons for Alpine Kayak. She did some all-girl classes but ultimately discovered her love of bringing enthusiasm for SUP to all kids and adults alike. She loves to give back to children of all ages and get them out on the water. She says, “If I could be out on the river every day with teenagers I would. They love to play and bring that fun energy. Camping and getting together with these kids is a blast.”

Today, Kerri is a competitive downriver and SUP cross paddler who enjoys how it challenges her mind and body! She truly feels there is no better way to be in the moment.

In the winter Kerri can often be found on snow in the backcountry or skiing with her son. She believes that life is a journey and part of that jour ney is to help bring others joy.

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Kayce Anderson

2022 For the Good founder Kayce Anderson works for a more equitable world where every girl can realize her dreams and potential.

In October, Glenwood Spring’s resident Kayce Anderson, PhD, was honored with the University of Colorado’s prestigious George Norlin Award, which recognizes alumni dedicated to professional excel lence and service to humanity. Among the small group to receive it since its inception in 1930 are a Mercury Seven Astronaut, a 10-time Grammy win ning jazz musician, a former Supreme Court Justice and a beloved, pioneering physician and Everest mountaineer. Anderson was selected to be part of this rarified group for her work directing For the Good, a non-profit NGO she founded that works with disadvantaged communities in Kenya to keep girls in school.

Anderson is deeply honored by the award –– and conflicted about being singled out. She believes it’s only thanks to a vast village of support and privilege that she’s in the position to receive the honor at all. And because it was, in fact, her very awareness of the ways that access and privilege create the oppor tunities that often lead to such recognition for some while creating nearly insurmountable barriers for others that motivated her to start For the Good back in 2014. The organization’s entire raison d’être is working to reduce those barriers so that other girls around the world might have similar opportunities to realize their own agency, dreams, and potential –– no matter where they are born or the circum stances of their childhoods.

“Many of us in the Global North are incredibly fortunate to have opportunities given to us by the circumstances we are born into and our upbring ings,” says Anderson. “I am not exceptional in my desire to do good in this world; there are so many people with equal passion to have a career in which they can be of service to others. I feel lucky to be able to do this work. And in large part I’m able to because thanks to a lifetime of privilege and support from others, I’ve been given a chance to pursue my dreams.”

If Anderson’s name sounds familiar, it may be be cause she was featured in MTN Town’s 2017 Women Who Rock the Rockies issue for her work founding For the Good. Back then, the organization focused

on the barrier that lack of access to sanitary pads creates to school attendance for millions of girls around the world. Nine years in, For the Good has evolved to address different, larger challenges in a more remote and underserved region of Kenya called the Loita Hills, partnering with Maasai com munities there to find solutions to the biggest barri ers to girls’ education locally. Since 2019, their core programs have focused on activating local leaders to advocate for girls’ education, training young Maasai women interns to identify and enroll out-of-school children, and opening secondary schools in a rural 650-square-mile region that previously had just a single affordable high school.

The work has had an impact: increasingly, local parents are embracing education for their daugh ters; over 900 local children have been enrolled into primary schools since they reopened after Covid; and four new secondary schools have been launched since 2021, with another two in planning stages. In 2020, during Kenya’s Covid-school closures, the organization was able to quickly pivot their pro gramming to research and adapt a low-cost offline digital learning platform called Kolibri to the Loita Hills, where few households have access to inter net or electricity. The program helped nearly 400 students from 17 different schools stay connected to learning. For the Good is now working with local educators to permanently integrate similar digital technology into classrooms, expanding resources for teachers who often have only a handful of tat tered textbooks to work with. The technology will ultimately offer students new access to a vast library of engaging content including interactive math and science lessons, literature featuring girl protagonists and stories written in Kimaa- the native language of the Maasai.

What is more telling than numbers are the dramatic impacts these programs have had on the lives of individual girls. Take Najma, a bright and animated 14-year-old from one of the few local Muslim fami lies. When she was 12, Najma used Kolibri during the school closures to study for the KCPE, Kenya’s secondary-school entrance exam that determines if and where a child can go to high school. She passed

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the exam with high marks and was invited to attend a girls’ boarding school, becoming the first girl in her family of 12 to go to high school and avoid the likely fate of being married off later that year, as her older sisters had been.

Another superstar that was almost buried by cir cumstance is the incredibly bright and sweet Na shipae. Orphaned at a young age, a grandmother stepped in to support Nashipae and help her contin ue in primary school, where, in 2021, she ultimately earned the highest KCPE score of all girls across the entire Loita Hills region. Her effort earned her an invitation to a national school, which only accepts Kenya’s brightest. But then, in short order, Nashipae got pregnant, and her grandmother died, making attendance at a boarding school impossible. Thanks to a new day secondary school For the Good opened with the community of Morijo in 2020, Nashipae, one of the region’s brightest talents, was able to return to school this year, because she can now walk to a high school in the morning for classes and return each afternoon to take care of her toddler. If she continues to excel, she will likely score high enough to get her university education paid for. These new secondary schools are only beginning to create their legacy of educated children that will change their communities.

“Every one of the parents from my community that I have talked to have now promised to take their children to school,” enthused For the Good intern Evelyn Sanau earlier this year, describing what she loved about her work. “Watching this change take place is important because our villages can gain needed doctors, teach ers, and even pilots. I feel happy and excited when

I see girls going to school because it will help end early marriage and FGM (Female Genital Mutila tion). It gives girls a voice in the community and helps end gender bias. The communities also benefit when they become the leaders of tomorrow.”

Sanau herself, along with the organization’s ten other interns and five program staff, constitute an other of For the Good’s positive impacts in the Loita Hills. The organization prioritizes hiring and ad vancing local Maasai women. In return, these staff and interns provide critical insights that inform For the Good’s programs and a trusted bridge to the elders and families of local villages. For the Good’s Maasai Programs Manager, Josephat Mashati, is a respected local Maasai pastor and former long time head teacher who earned university degrees in education and administration. Rebeccah Ledidi, the organization’s liaison to local schools, and Chris tine Mpoe, manager of their intern program, are both young Maasai women from local villages who possess university degrees and lived experience of the same struggles experienced by the young girls they work on behalf of. Importantly, as professional Maasai women in highly visible community roles, they also provide a tangible vision to local parents of the kinds of alternative futures that can be avail able for their daughters when they are allowed to stay in school –– and offer important role models to the local girls themselves.

Reinforcing this role modeling are For the Good’s 11 interns: Every one of the current cohort is a young Maasai woman from a local village who has graduated from high school in a region where historically, only about 16% of girls has done so. In return for volunteering with the organization three

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days a week, these young women gain opportuni ties to develop professional skills and pursue higher education –– with tuition paid by the organization. Nearly all the staff and interns are fiercely proud of their Maasai culture and heritage while being equal ly impassioned to see several harmful aspects of it, like patriarchy, early marriage, and FGM –– evolve towards new customs that are healthier, kinder, and more equitable for women and girls. In an indigenous culture that experienced a long history of harm from Western colonialism and hegemony, their presence models the possibility of embracing Western ideas and knowledge that can help Maasai adapt to rapidly changing realities while also main taining the many positive aspects of their centuries old culture.

“It’s very difficult for people to change,” said Mpoe during an interview early in 2022 in which she re flected on the painful community exile she expe rienced after running away from the marriage her father had arranged for her to pursue her university degree instead. “It’s like trying to build without the right materials. For a time, I couldn’t greet any one in the village; because I had gone against the culture, many people said I was cursed. But these challenges are just stepping stones to a different, brighter future. To have vision and an education is the key to change.”

Along with continual research and program evalu ation by Anderson, the input of staff like Mpoe and the local communities themselves plays a vital role in For the Good’s programming. “Listening hard to communities is one of the most critical ingredients to ensuring our work is responsive and compassion ate –– and creating interventions that are effective and lasting” says Anderson. On a visit to Kenya last April, half the trip was spent training a new cohort of interns and the other half traveling along rug ged, mud mired 4WD roads to meet with six dif ferent villages whom For the Good is in different stages of partnering with to build new secondary schools. The meetings were, first and foremost, op portunities for deep listening to the concerns and interests of community members as they stood up one-by-one to share their thoughts about the po tential benefits and challenges of opening a high school in their village. Though most speakers are male and representatives of local leadership, women are increasingly invited to speak to share their own unique perceptions. The sometimes lengthy process offers an important forum through which For the Good can transparently share their vision to the entire village and the community can, in turn, air nuanced and hyperlocal community concerns about that vision that might otherwise have been invisible

to For the Good staff. The organization believes this intensive community input is key to ensuring their programs are addressing the most critical issues. It also helps develop consensus and buy-in to the community’s ultimate decision, which increases the chance that programs will be sustainable.

Anderson has found profound gratification from her work at the helm of For the Good. She sees the spark of extraordinary things in the girls the organization works on behalf of despite the extremely challeng ing circumstances they are often born into and treasures the opportunity to make a positive differ ence in their lives. “I deeply enjoy seeing the new trajectory of the girls’ lives and imagining where they will go and what they will do with their power, knowing even more than them that their futures look very different with education,” she explains. “Whether they choose to pursue a career or lead a traditional life, their lives will be fundamentally different from those girls that had no choice because they had no schooling. Being a part of that sliding door that shifts the trajectory of lives is incredibly humbling and rewarding. Someday I would love to see a future where every girl around the world can receive the support, education and opportunities that will allow her to make a powerful impact in this world –– and then be recognized for her effort with the kind of honor which CU has just bestowed on me. Ultimately, that is the future For the Good is working to create.” www.forthegood.org

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Fall in the mountains offers four seasons of temperatures and weather. we can ski, hike, bike, fish and enjoy all of our favorite sports if you watch the weather. Here are some women tested and approved products to keep you outside - wind, sleet, rain, snow and sun.

We are XTRATUF fans! This boot company is for more than just fishermen and women. All of their boots are perfect for mountain town romps and stomps, sun shine, rain, or snow. Just pair them up with the right sock thickness for the weather and you’re set to go. They look great with a skirt too.

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XTRATUF TECHNICA

Tecnica Footwear’s – Tecnica Magma Mid S GTX hik ing boots are love at first wear but the relationship gets better as you get them out. These boots are the ultimate trekking shoe great on slippery talus, cobble stone streets, or jungle: concrete or tropical. Read the full review on our website or buy them here:

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CEP COMPRESSION SOCKS

Compression socks help keep the pressure on whether you’re an athlete or someone needing everyday com pression. CEP has a fantastic array of socks to meet your body’s needs and make a difference in your training, performance, and recovery.

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These are the greatest glasses for fishing and bright light out ings. The filtering of reflective glare while casting for a fish is essential and these polarized sunglasses make you feel a little sexy too.

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OSPREY PACKS

Packing for an adventure can be stressful, creating checklists and preparing what gear will best fit your journey can heavily impact your experience. My latest travel was a postgrad, two-month study and backpacking trip through Europe and Iceland. After returning there are two products that I would recommend, The Osprey Fairview 55 Travel Pack and the Technica Boots, on page 68.

The Osprey Fairview 55 Travel Pack is more than just a backpack, it’s two packs in one. The backpack is designed to provide a 15 L removable day pack that zips on and off the larger pack. The day pack easily connects with a thick zipper and can be sinched down to downsize in a snap. The smaller 15 Liter pack has one large section with a laptop nook and a small pocket where I stored sunglasses, power banks, snacks, and anything I needed easy access to. The smaller pack was slim enough for walking around cities, hikes, and running. The straps of the pack sat comfortably on my hips and had a second ary strap across the chest for traditional weight distribution.

I often wore the day pack on the front of my chest to carry per sonal items and stored my 40 Liter pack in the overhead cabin while in transit on planes and trains. Anyone who has traveled with a backpack as a carry-on knows the struggle of shoving loose straps into the compartment only for a strand to fall loose and get shut in the door. Osprey sought a solution, the backpack can transform into a duffle bag by unrolling a flap that is tucked into a small slot at the base of the pack and zipping it. No more loose straps. The 40 Liter pack has one large compartment that I filled with Osprey Packing Cubes which made organization effort less. I separated my gear in these cubes by clothing type. I was extremely grateful to have these cubes and this pack as they made my travels so much easier.

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DOPE SNOW

Here is a brand that has classic mountain looks, keeps you warm, and stands up to both the elements and time. We have been wearing Dope Snow’s Adept W Snowboard Jacket and Pants for the past two years. This is an all-mountain product with plenty of pockets, a spacious hood for your helmet, a snow skirt, wrist gaiters, a snuggly fleece chin guard, and cinch draw string waist to adjust for layers. This Swedish company is doing it right. We love the soft, silent fabric they are using along with a superb fit. The prices are right too. Check them out www.dopesnow.com

MONTEC

Montec has been rapidly growing in popularity on moun tains around the United States.  We thoroughly tested some of their Women’s Doom Ski Jacket, Fawk Ski Pants, and Scope Ski Goggles. You can read the whole review on this fabulous brand on our website. If you are looking for high-performance and stylish gear at an affordable price point, Montec has what you’re looking for. www.montecwear.com

BLACK CROWS

We found one of the most versatile pieces of outwear you could own. Who knew a jacket so simple could bring such joy to the owner and wearer. This Black Crows Freebird Polartec Jacket is made of a Polartec/ Pertex blend that combines warmth, thermo-regula tion, and lightness. We have worn this jacket on its own on cool summer days, fall hikes and under our ski and snowboard wear as a layer. Lightweight and thin it packs up easily. It’s great for camping too. The trims detailing makes it feel fashionable too.

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Her mission is to help women connect to their true authentic sacred & sensual power, their passions & purpose and rise together stronger through Somatic Experience modali ties of healing & International TravelAdventures that bring 2 wheel change to the com munities they adventure to and through.

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ENVISIONING A GROWTH MINDSET

Have you ever been on a ride or hiking with a group of friends and found your self at the back of the pack suffering, struggling, and beating yourself up the whole time because your mind was telling you how much you suck?! Or maybe you don’t even go on group rides or hikes because you are afraid you won’t be able to keep up. Do you ever feel like your mind is against you sometimes?

I humbly admit, this sums up my early years of mountain biking when I first learned to ride in Crested Butte 20+ years ago and how I went through life off my bike from time to time as well; as though my mind was my worst enemy.

I’ll never forget the first time I rode clipless pedals with a former boyfriend who took me to Horse Thief Bench outside of Grand Junction, to learn. I’m not sure why he chose to take me to the most technical trail to torture me on, but nonetheless, my mind was pretty harsh with me that day as I struggled to keep up with him and stay on my bike! Many times, I found myself stuck in my pedals, tipped over on a pile of rocks with a trail of blood, sweat and mind full of defeat.

To try and salvage my pride, I tried to laugh it off and crack jokes through the sufferfest. I battled my mind all day long, justifying, arguing, and cursing myself. All the while trying to psych myself up after each fall and keep my attitude positive as I hum bly slung my leg back over the saddle each time picking myself back up. I felt psychotic trying to maintain the happy face and claim how fun it was to my boyfriend while battling the gremlins of my mind. Mentally and physically exhausted, I survived. But sadly, I didn’t truly enjoy it because I let my mind negatively control my ex perience.

I spent the next ten years moun tain biking the Gunnison Valley throughout my 20’s, battling my mind to some degree or another. Not only

on the bike, but off my bike too. I was a perfectionist and overly critical of myself in any endeavor I pursued.

Until I moved to South America….

THE UNEXPECTED SHIFT

After years of living in the land of extreme sports and enduro athletes, I picked up and moved myself to the Caribbean Coast of Colombia to teach internationally for two years. I went from a land of certain to the absolute unknown and uncertain. I moved from a small mountain town where I felt aligned, proud and falsely identi fied to the masculine energy side of my being. Upon moving, I found my self thousands of miles away from that masculine energy to the exact polar opposite vibe of the Caribbean em bodied with feminine energy, the sea, and a subtle sense of ‘softness’ where I was able to tap into a more gentle way of ‘being’ by mixing up my recreation with mountain biking, surfing, yoga, and Latin dancing!

There weren’t many female riders and in the beginning, I rode alone a lot. What shifted the most for me was re-discovering why I loved mountain biking once I was out of the environ ment where I felt an invisible ‘pres sure’ to perform. I was able to just enjoy the ride and stop fighting with the gremlins of my mind. I fell in love with mountain biking for the pure joy of it again. I let go of the feeling that I had to prove something on my bike, and also in life. I let myself simply be, in the flow state, happily experiencing joy!

It was like going back to being a kid in a way and learning again. Ev erything around me was new and I was beginning again: learning a new language, culture, country, single track and school system. Not even conscious of it at the time, I see that I had shifted from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset and was open to the process of learning, discovery, and the pure joy and bliss of the experiences! From that time in my life on, I really

embarked on a path of self re-discov ery, healing, and embraced living life with a growth mindset; excited to learn, develop, and evolve into my full potential both on and off the bike.

THE DIFFERENCE

Carol Dweck helps explain the dif ference between a fixed mindset and growth mindset: “IN A FIXED MINDSET, PEOPLE BELIEVE THEIR BASIC QUALI TIES, LIKE THEIR INTELLIGENCE OR TALENT, ARE SIMPLY FIXED TRAITS… THEY BELIEVE THAT TALENT ALONE CREATES SUC CESS–WITHOUT EFFORT. IN A GROWTH MINDSET, PEOPLE BE LIEVE THAT THEIR MOST BASIC ABILITIES CAN BE DEVELOPED THROUGH DEDICATION AND HARD WORK.”

For so many years, I beat myself up feeling like I was never ‘good enough’ and didn’t have the talent on the bike, and in life, to succeed and reach my goals. Once I shifted to a growth mindset, I was able to accept where I was and recognize what I needed to do to continue to develop myself. I fo cused more on my inner qualities and the way I perceived my experiences, my focus, values, beliefs, and thoughts about what I set out to do. I allowed myself to develop my skills (on the mountain bike and in life) rather than hold myself to an unrealistic expecta tion to be perfect and attain my goals without effort and struggle.

In all honesty, I went through some serious rock bottoms in my per sonal life that really brought me to the realization that I needed to shift my mindset, because it turns out, I was my own worst enemy and the biggest barrier in my way. I’ll admit, heart break was the catalyst that dropped me to my knees where I hit one of my first rock bottoms and the story isn’t pretty how I initially dealt with it. But the silver lining was discovering how to deeply love my own self, heal, forgive and then set out years later to inspire and empower other women

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seeking to do the same through ad venture travel, yoga, and mountain biking!

It kind of felt like a global ‘rock bottom’ in some ways from the ef fects of COVID-19, eh? But again, it depends on how you look at it! I think one of the greatest silver linings of this pandemic was taking advantage of the time we have had to connect, turn inward, and reflect on how we are showing up at life. Do you see through a lens half full or half empty? Rose or brown shaded? Here are a few tips to start to explore your mindset and move towards one of growth!

4 WAYS TO FOSTER A GROWTH MINDSET

Understand the connection between thoughts and feelings – they create the reality of your experiences!

Start to build awareness around your thoughts and feelings. Pay atten tion to what you are telling yourself! Pay attention to how you feel! If you are beating yourself up STOP AL READY! Take five deep breaths. Fo cus on your breath, change the story you are telling yourself to something softer and more loving! “You’ve got this! It’s not about the destination, it’s about enjoying the journey.”

Notice the beauty around you; the flowers, the trees, the beautiful sky, people you love. Then pay attention to how you feel after you shift your thoughts. It’s a really simple practice,

but it takes your awareness and prac tice.

YOU are in control of your mind; YOU are a powerful conscious cre ator!

Everyday, start your day by plant ing the seeds you want to watch grow in your life. You choose: will you grow flowers or weeds? Intentionally cre ate affirmations to tell yourself every morning. Choose a mantra or word or whatever it is you will tell yourself every morning before your feet hit the floor that you can bring with you into your day for when challenges arise in life or on your bike. You have to take control of your mind rather than be at the mercy of your subconscious mind!

If you learn from the experience, you are a WINNER every time!

Even if you come in dead last, miss a deadline or you don’t finish what you started, you are winning as long as you learn from your experience. Every mistake you make is progress

IF you take a valuable lesson away and apply it.

Choose Progress & Growth over Perfection!

Perfection is driven by the ego. Let it go! Remember that life (and mountain biking!) is about enjoying the journey – it’s not about the des tination. Strive for progress, growth, and developing yourself along the way rather than doing everything perfect ly. You will have lots more fun along the way!

THE TAKEAWAY: TURN PASSION INTO PURPOSE

My international experience living, working, and mountain biking abroad changed me on many levels, but the biggest shift was that it sparked and ignited my calling towards a bigger purpose and passion in my life. Two years after returning to the United States, I started my company Wom ens Radical Pursuits in order to help other women tired of the daily grind, seeking to break free from their com fort zones in order to discover ridicu lous fun, connection, and adventure through transformational interna tional mountain bike and yoga trips.

I built Womens Radical Pursuits with the intention to help build deep, meaningful and lasting connections; to oneself, to other like-minded wom en, and to cultures and people beyond borders and into the world. As human beings, we are wired for connection.

Many other woman have discov ered their passions are their biggest turn on and have crafted something new from their discovery and turned them into something bigger than the initial pursuit.

Amy Schweim is the owner of Womens Radical Pursuits. She is a Breathwork Practitioner, Integration Coach, Goddess Yoga Teacher & Ignite Your Passions & Purpose Facilitator for Sedona Soul Adven tures ~Transforming Lives One Soul At A Time. Learn morewww.womensradicalpursuits.com

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RUMOR HAS IT...

Restaurateur Bettina Neset cares nothing for the limelight. She is happy to be the hidden half in a husband-and-wife team, who have built up Rex’s Family of Restaurants in Steamboat Springs over the last two decades. However, if there is one thing that reflects her true colors, it is the in terior design within each of their seven restaurants.

Despite being a self-confessed magazine junkie with a passion for Pinterest, Bettina chose to partner with Lindsey Jamison and her team at Rumor Design + ReDesign, a Steamboat-based interiors firm for a series of remodels. Their latest collaboration is a testament to the duo’s playful appetite for color and texture.

“In the restaurant business you want to be bold, and Lindsey is bolder than I,” Bettina shares, laughing. It’s clear the pair align. At the outset of the design plan for expanding Salt & Lime, the group’s Mexican-inspired eatery, Bettina presented a brightly hued, multiloop chandelier made of recycled soda pop bottles and basket covers as inspiration. The fixture serves as a talking point in the glass-walled private dining room, where a strip of Spanish tile packs a fun punch on the inside darkened walls.

Playful wallpaper wraps the site’s elongated walls, where booths mingle with oversized scal loped chairs and quirky covered seating nooks. Mixed media artwork by Denver-based Dolan Geiman provides a talking point, no more so than Rita, the recently named Burro sculpture who takes center stage at the bar.

Despite Steamboat’s rural locale, Salt & Lime, like its sister venue, The Laundry Kitchen & Cocktails emanates an ur ban vibe, which was met with trepidation initially by long

time locals. “Steamboat is changing, and we have definitely seen an influx of people moving here who want what we offer with the cocktail bar experience, small plates and great food in fun settings.”

Lindsey echoes the sentiment which provided the impe tus for her and business partner Valerie Stafford to open a larger homeware boutique, cafe and design studio down town in 2021. “COVID had us all holding our breath, but people wanted to renovate, and our business just keeps growing,” Lindsey says. The business won a Designer of the Year Award from HGTV in 2021 and were finalists in two categories for 2022.

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Bettina Neset & Lindsay Jamison, left Salt & Lime, top Mazzola’s, right

Playful wallpaper in their restau rants, far right

“I like being able to be the eyes and ears, and nothing makes me smile more than seeing our customers enjoying the spaces we worked so hard to create.

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Steamboat maintains its ranching heritage and so far, the cosmopolitan injection over recent years has only added to the town’s allure. “We’ve definitely kept some of our restaurants more traditional such as Mazzola’s Italian, which has a large family following,” Bettina says. At The Laundry, Lindsey and Bettina opted to celebrate the rich history of the historic building, which once served as a laundromat. Fun imagery and the rust brick walls hint at the location’s past, which was paramount to Lindsey, a Midwestern transplant with a penchant for historic buildings.

Lindsey relishes the diversity of working on residential and commercial projects. “Commercial definitely allows more playfulness with color, funky lighting and taking risks,” she says. Both women believe customer service is the driving force behind their successful relationship, and their individual businesses. “If something isn’t right, I can call Lindsey and she will fix it, you can’t get that online,” Bettina says.

Customers want to experience a personal connection. “Many of our diners don’t know who I am when I walk into any of our restaurants,” Bettina continues. She is the behind-the-scenes visionary who found her style match in Rumor. “I like being able to be the eyes and ears, and nothing makes me smile more than seeing our customers enjoying the spaces we worked so hard to create.”

Salt & Lime, top left and lower right

Laundry, top right

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Tina Leix of Grand County, Colo rado, has always had a love for wreaths. To her, they’re not just for the holidays but she always had trouble finding a beautiful wreath that is well-made, with high end special touches. After the loss of her mother and having two small children Tina was inspired to begin designing her own products and leave the corporate life behind.

Tina’s Wreath and Home Co. pro duces everyday & seasonal wreaths

from her home workspace. Step into her colorful production studio and you will find a jungle of colorful silks, faux and dried flowers, along with other natural products that she crafts with care to last many seasons adorning your home. Choose from 38 different designs or work directly with her to bring your vision to life.

In addition to her remarkable wreaths, Tina is also designing stun ning faux bouquets, boutonnieres, cen

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SKI TOWN BRUNCH

It’s a chilly Sunday morning. Out side, snow falls lightly. Fire glows in the fireplace; the family is stirring. Soon they will want to feed their emp ty stomachs. Jennie Iverson has got you covered.

Pull out Ski Town Brunch cook book, the third installment of her Ski Town Kitchen set that includes Ski Town Soups and Ski Town Apres Ski.

The brunch book features more than 140 sweet and savory breakfast recipes, sips and sides from more than 65 ski resorts and mountain towns in North America. Iverson has been to “nearly all of them” and collected recipes from greasy spoon cafes to fine-dining establishments, as well as hotel restaurants, B&Bs and ski resort lodges. She’s assembled them into a beautiful 226-page hardcover book chock-full of photographs.

The idea to compile ski town reci pes came to her when she and her hus band, Ross, took a 21-day road trip to ski resorts in western states when her boys were just two-and-a-half and 14 months old. They were living in Min nesota at the time.

“I thought, wouldn’t it be fantastic to feature all these restaurants in some sort of travel-style cookbook,” Iver son said. “I wanted to do something that was so sensational that Gorsuch would love to carry this book!”

Gorsuch, of course, is the high-end retailer in Vail, Beaver Creek/Avon, Aspen and Park City. Today, they are

one of Iverson’s most successful retail locations.

The first of the trilogy, Ski Town Soups, came out in 2012, about the same time the family relocated to Vail where they enjoy a gather, feast and adventure lifestyle. “I blended my love of skiing, traveling and eating into a unique passion project. As we travel, I ask chefs to share their recipes. Most are extremely willing because it’s dif ficult for them to do their own cook books.”

Ski Town Apres Ski launched soon after in 2014, the same year her third son was born. This is one busy mom! In this cookbook, Iverson pairs small plates and tapas with handcrafted cocktails.

For the brunch book, Iverson rec reated “most” of the 140 recipes in her Vail kitchen. They came from resorts like Jackson Hole, Whistler Black comb, Lake Placid, Heavenly and Stowe, to name a few. A color photo and a blurb about the resort accom pany each recipe.

Since the release of the Ski Town Kitchen books, Iverson is enjoying her growing celebrity as an expert on ski town cuisine. She found a business partner in Jen Baker, who also lives in Vail.

Ski Town Brunch costs $35; you can buy it at select retail stores and bookshops in mountain towns, as well as at online retailers like Amazon.

Sugarbush Resort Morning Glory Muffins

The Warren Store, Warren, Ver mont

A ‘glorious’ way to start the day, Morning Glory Muffins combine the sweet taste and chewy texture of carrots with the pleasing flavors of apple, raisins, coconut, walnuts, and cinnamon.

Ingredients:

2 cups all purpose flour 1 ¼ cups sugar 2 tsp. baking soda 2 tsp. cinnamon ½ tsp. salt 3 eggs 1 cup vegetable oil 2 tsp. vanilla 1 apple, peeled and grated 2 cups carrots, grated ½ cup raisins ½ cup shredded coconut ½ cup walnuts Serves 12

Combine dry ingredients and set aside. Grate carrots and com bine with raisins, coconut and walnuts. Grate apple and reserve. In a standing mixer with whisk attachment, whip eggs for one minute. Gradually drizzle in oil in a slow, steady stream, then add vanilla. Squeeze any mois ture from apples and add to egg mixture. Switch to paddle attach ment and mix in dry ingredients. Mix in carrot mixture.

Add to a greased muffin tin. Bake at 375 degrees for 25 – 30 minutes, until set and an insert ed toothpick comes out clean. No need to adjust for high altitude.

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CHEF PERSE VORDOKAS

Meet Chef Perse Vordokas. Chef Vordokas recently ar rived in Telluride to take on the role of the Executive Chef at The View Restaurant, a sixty-seat, full-service restau rant in beautiful Mountain Lodge Telluride. She is proudly serving a new menu influenced by her Latin American and Mediterranean influenced upbringing. I met with Perse this past summer and had a talk about the path she has walked in the Food & Beverage Industry prior to her ar rival in Telluride, Colorado.

Business Degree to Culinarian

Born and raised in Miami, Perse is of Greek descent and was fortunate to have each of her summers in Greece with cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents. The Latin culture she grew up with in Miami along with the Mediter ranean influence of her family’s cooking resulted in a nice marriage of the cultures that has contributed to her rise as a Chef.

“I was raised in a home where my mother cooked ev erything. There was never a need to go into the kitchen for anything. I was close to finishing my business degree when one day while eating dinner with my family I announced that I was going to finish my degree and start a Catering business. My mom almost choked. She asked me, “What

are you going to cook? I announced I am going to cook Greek food and cook in people’s homes for dinner parties. Fast Forward a month later, a friend asked me to Cater a Greek Easter Brunch. My mom kept asking me how many people I was cooking for. I was studying the recipes and told her I was good. I needed to make food for 20 people but I think I made enough for 100 people. I continued with that business. I was inspired to craft something that was missing from the local restaurant scene because I traveled so often to Europe, I noticed there weren’t many places to get delicious small bites to eat or grab a delicious coffee.”

You don’t have to go to Culinary School to be an excel lent Chef

“During that time with my catering business, I was also working in the retail industry but decided to become a server. I found that I was always in the kitchen watching what the staff was doing. If they were short in the kitchen I would drop in and help. I would plate salad and drop food in the fryer. I wanted to help get food out and be sure our guests were getting the best service possible. I was always hanging out in the kitchen taking mental notes and learn ing. I then took on a Prep cook position after learning how the front of the house operated. Soon after, I became a Sa

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CHEF PERSE VORDOKAS, LEFT, WITH HER STAFF

vory Chef in a Bakery that could do breakfast and lunch. I enjoyed the work but realized I was still so green in the Culinary industry. I needed to get out and work in another kitchen. Learned an appreciation for food restaurants to learn more from their chefs in order to excel.”

Welcomed in the Kitchen

“As a woman, I always felt welcome in the kitchen. I have worked for some incredible Chefs, some had temper aments, and some didn’t. You can have a nice knife and apron but it always boils down to your skills. My mind was open and I was always willing to learn. I would always take the apron off and do the dirty work and wasn’t afraid to admit failure and ask for someone to show me how to do a task but if I was drowning to ask someone to help me. People welcomed me in the back of the house as well as the front. Everyone has to prove their stripes but I have always felt welcome in the restaurant community.”

Crafting Food and A Philosophy

“There are always better ways of doing things than what I know. My philosophy in the kitchen is “if you can do it better, then do it. If you have a recipe from your grand mother that you think is fantastic, do it. If you know of something you have learned at home in your kitchen and can bring it to the restaurant, then do it. We can all learn

from each other; if it doesn’t work, it’s not failure but a learning lesson with an opportunity to do it a new way. I learned if you start a position being very humble, starting from scratch and being a sponge, you will excel anywhere.”

Simplicity

“There is very little room for error in simplicity. It’s much harder to get something really good that is straight forward and simple than something that is covered in a sauce where your mistakes can be hidden. I always get the question: What is your favorite thing to cook? I love pre paring fresh salads and vegetables. Freshly prepared veg etables and salads don’t get the attention that they need. Do you remember the taste of a good tomato, strawberry, or fresh peach? It is so satisfying. When you experience that at a restaurant, it’s memorable.”

Synchronicity

Since her arrival, everything has fallen into place, from the selection of her Sous Chef, Isaiah Davis-Toledo, to her line staff, and the opportunities to craft new menus and community events, Chef Vordokas continues to be her best and raise everyone up with her successes by doing better and being better. Enjoy a great meal by making a reserva tion at The View Restaurant to experience her delightful culinary creations.

www.mountainlodgetelluride.com

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THE VIEW RESTAURANT AND SUPERBLY CRAFTED MENU ITEMS

LAURA THE BUTCHER

We always ask other women in the Food & Bever age industry to tell us about their favorite female-owned and led companies as well as notable women who work in the food service industry both in the kitchen and front of the house. Time and again Chef Laura PosiakTrider, aka Laura the Butcher, was mentioned. Hannah Hopkins who we featured in our last issue was especial ly enthusiastic about this rising star. Then Covid hit and time has since skewed how long-ago things have taken place. By the time I was preparing to meet Laura, she went ahead and opened up her own establishment in Steamboat Springs, Colorado.

Our Italian family has always coveted exceptional meats and cheeses. I also earned a Culinary degree that included a full class in butchering. I found the class fas cinating. I was absolutely delighted to discover Laura and experience her lovely new restaurant, MEATBAR, offering exceptional charcuterie selections in her Euro pean-inspired eatery.

Laura is reviving a lost art here in Colorado, Butch ery, and she is promoting the ethical side of animal husbandry along the way. In addition to MEATBAR, she also runs Laura the Butcher, a charcuterie cater ing company and private butchery, as well as MEAT SKOOL, offering hands-on classes and workshops for kids and teens.

Food inside and outside of the kitchen, Chef PosiakTrider has always been attracted to the F&B Industry. After attending culinary school and working in San Francisco restaurants, she traveled the world to work on various organic vegetable farms.

In Italy, at a bed and breakfast she worked at, the owners had raised two pigs. A local butcher came and stayed at the house to process the pig’s meat, crafting beautiful charcuterie. Every part of the animal was used, something she had not experienced before. That was an eye-opening and philosophychanging moment.

Upon her return to the states, she started curing meats at home and took a job at a whole-animal butcher shop and a deli to learn as much as she could about locally farmed meats. In addition, she discovered a passion for education while teaching butchery at a culinary school in Maine, Laura and her husband, Dustin, began searching for a new place to call home. They’d heard about Steamboat Springs, threw caution to the wind, and moved to the Colorado moun tain town. Here she began creating custom, upscale meat, cheese, and fruit boards for home delivery.

In 2020 she launched her new restaurant, MEATBAR, a women-owned and led eatery, which became an overnight hit. Laura’s establishment is not a butchery but rather a place where she showcases salted and preserved meats. She still pro vides learning experiences that feature whole animal break downs and these events are open to the public. MEATBAR is now offering classes in pasta making, chocolate crafts, and more.

This wonderful new addition to Steamboat Springs can be experienced by reservation or as take-out. You must try the Spanish Cured Jamon along with her small plates and dessert selections.

1009 Lincoln Avenue, Steamboat Springs www. steamboatmeatbar.com

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AIARE’S WOMEN’S MENTORSHIP PROGRAM

The American Institute for Avalanche Research and Education (AIARE) along with supporting partners Rab, Mammut, and the GORE-TEX brand, has launched the second season AIARE’s Women’s Mentorship Pro gram. The program aims to welcome women across all levels of experience in the industry, build networks, and provide a mentorship framework for participants to replicate in future peer and mentor relationships. Women make up a disproportionately small number of avalanche educa tors in the U.S. and many women in the field find it difficult to grow and sustain their careers. The financial, sociological, and other barriers faced by everyone in the industry are often exacerbated for women. And those barriers can be even further ampli

fied for women who are racialized, disabled, trans, mothers, poor/work ing class, and women who hold other historically marginalized identities. This season, AIARE aims to connect 40 mentees with 8 mentors who have deep experience in the avalanche in dustry. AIARE and its partners strive to create a program flexible enough to accommodate a wide variety of women—and lay a strong foundation for a robust mentorship lifecycle for women avalanche educators, from those embarking on their careers to those with decades of experience. Mentor applications are open now through August 15; mentee applica tions will be open from August 1 through September 1. In addition to running the Women’s Mentor ship Program and offering women’s

affinity courses to train instructors and aspiring avalanche professionals this season, AIARE and its support ing partners will host four public networking events across the country this fall. These events will be fa cilitated by women in the avalanche industry and are open to anyone interested in learning more, building their network, or taking the next step in their career.

These events will be hosted in Denver, Seattle, San Francisco, and Jackson Hole. For additional informa tion about the Women’s Mentorship Program or opportunities that AIARE offers to support women’s advance ment, visit:

www.avtraining.org/womens-mentor ship/.

68 Issue 6 2022 | mountainwomenmagazine.com GET ACTIVE

ALPHA MEN DON’T CRY

An indescribable peace is shattered. Lovely silence re placed by that familiar, intrusive voice: It’s fucking cold.

I know the insanity of complaining about the weather, so I laugh at the scene: one hundred or so layered up locals; yoga mats unfurled.

And me, on this wet field in Breckenridge, Colorado… covered head to toe in socks, thermals, sweatpants, a tank top, sweatshirt, and hat. Summer in the Rockies.

Within moments we will begin moving and the sun will fiercely warm this August day. Class begins. I take a few deep breaths. Silence. And then, just for a moment… I lose myself. Whoa.

Lost in the scintillating sounds of the harp and the warm words of our cheerful yogi: “This time is yours”. As if floodgates surrounding my heart burst open, a raptur ous wave beats throughout my body with undulating rip ples, blasts through my lips as a joyous smile, and begins to emerge through my eyes…But I stop it.

Why the hell are you getting so emotional right now?

I choke back tears but cannot suppress this grin. “Alpha Mike” could never feel something this beautiful.

That side knows that emotions, vulnerability, and, Godforbid, shedding a tear in public, are signs of weakness and must be avoided at all costs.

But, this man no longer flies with that flock… At least, not always.

A stranger catches my eye; golden-haired and graceful. Who is she?

Who cares!? Watch that body bend…twist…arch.

Oh, you primitive, reactive mind. I consciously return to the flow. But not without another glance in her direction. Perhaps I’ll introduce myself later.

Still a man. But not Alpha; the typically aggressive, often superficial, dick-measuring ‘macho man’. Nor am I a Beta; the scared suck-up.

Flowing now. I feel joy, peace, and…something crawling on my arm?

A formidable, fat-headed Daddy Long Legs appears. Squash the pest…the insignificant insect! No remorse! Kill it!

Today, thankfully, saner heads prevail. Calmly, I look at the culprit of my lightly-petted appendage; a beautiful being stopping by and saying hi with its own, quirky form of yoga.

I gently lower my forearm towards the grass, allowing the visitor to peacefully walk away. I smile as my new friend, and those eight, long legs, disappear into the dewy blades. A life is spared.

Shit. There it is again. The feeling that “real” men are not supposed to feel, or share. I choke it back. Could there be another choice? Could I be an Omega Man?

But the Omega, as many claim, is the Anti-Alpha; a tes tosterone-depleted outcast. Others, however, believe the Omega is Alpha 2.0; a man who leads without recognition, prefers cooperation over competition, and does not care what others think.

Perhaps, the Omega Man simply represents choice. Imagine.

A world filled with men who can slow down; Who stop to smell the flowers. Men who enjoy time alone, Perhaps writing poetry for hours. Men who don’t pride themselves, On pounds of pork ingested. Would rather travel a quiet path, Without the herd; noisy and congested. Men who don’t rely, On others’ good opinions. Warriors leading by example, Instead of following the minions. Present men, connected; Inspirational, free, untamed. Men guided by their emotions; And who can shed a tear, unashamed. Back in class, an affirmation is offered: “I Am Worthy”. Too late…no going back. A tear falls. A salty symptom of sentiment escapes and splashes onto the mat below. Here stands this teary-eyed tower of a man…unashamed. Class ends. Amidst a sea of hugs, I remember…the blonde!

Just like my new spider friend; gone. No worries. If it’s meant to be, our paths will cross again. I roll up my mat and it becomes clear: I don’t need to choose.

The Omega Man isn’t about right or wrong, or even choice. The Omega Man represents the ability NOT to choose; to not conform to this label or that.

To me, that feels like progress and, in a word…freedom. But that’s just my perspective, and whether you agree or not, I don’t care...Too much.

Mike Messeroff is a Personal Freedom Coach, Writer, Speak er, World-Traveler, and Polyamorous Poet, sharing stories that inspire others to slow down, enjoy life, and follow their own intuition. Enjoy more of Mike’s writing on Instagram (@mikemesseroff) and learn about working with Mike at MikeMesseroff.com

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