Argyle Living Magazine September 2016

SEPTEMBER 2016

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COMPANY that CARES Argyle - Canyon Falls - Harvest - Robson Ranch

RAISING

by Susan Neuhalfen

COURAGEOUS

CHILDREN IN A COWARDLY CULTURE

“We are too busy judging ourselves as parents against others,” said Capra. “We

need to stop helicopter parenting and start preparing our kids for a world that is

I

severely lacking in moral and ethical principles.”

t’s not every day you meet a guy like Jim Capra, and that’s a shame.

Jim grew up a son of a NYPD officer and one of seven kids in Queens. He went

Capra will be the first to tell you that he is no parenting expert. Every child is

different and there’s no perfect formula. He will, however, tell you that as parents we are called to pour into our children a moral and ethical foundation so that they may withstand anything that comes into their path.

According to her husband, Shelly Capra is the brains of the family. In the

into the Navy as a medic for four years and wanted to go to college so in a twist

foreward for the book, she discusses the question of right and wrong.

consequently met the love of his life.

woman who graduated with honors in math and computer science. ”And if one

immediately we were meant to be together,” he said. “I can remember talking to her

or building?”

we have six kids.”

didn’t believe in putting them in a “religious bubble” or coddling them. Eventually

Administration. His wife was a computer science and math major heavily pursued

believe. You have to prepare them for it and help them to develop the faith and

of fate, he attended school in Albany, NY, to get his degree in criminal justice and “We were both sort of seeing other people when we met, but we knew almost

one night about our goals and what we wanted and we both wanted six kids. Now His goal after college was to become an agent for the US Drug Enforcement

by IBM so they both went to work both on their careers and their family while they waited for the call from the DEA.

“If there is no real right or wrong then one plus one can equal three,” says the

plus one can equal three, how then are we able to build a stable house, bridge Capra said that he and his wife kept their kids in public schools because they

they will have to face a fallen world and be challenged and mocked for what they courage to step out.

When each of his girls reached high school, he wrote them letters. The letters

gave them guidance and encouragement, explaining to

It finally came in December of 1986 and with one

baby in tow and another on the way, they picked up and moved to California where he worked his way across the country and finally to Washington, D.C. to become

“...if you find yourself in quicksand, home is your refuge,”

“I got to pursue my calling in life,” he said. “I was very

When asked how he balanced such a large family and such a large career, Capra

said the principles of leadership remain the same whether you’re dealing with a work unit or a family unit.

“You have to have a genuine concern for the development of those you are

entrusted to lead,” said Capra. “It’s about people, purpose and passion, in that order.

with whom she spends time. He also told them that even if they do fall, God will forgive them.

“Don’t think your kids won’t be tempted,” he said.

the Chief of Operations for the DEA. fortunate to have a supportive family.”

each that God has a purpose for her and to be selective

“Everyone’s walk is different.”

All of his children also had to put themselves through college. With six kids

and a government job, it was unrealistic to take on the debt. They all did, with three attending different military academies.

Something he never let his family forget, however, is that there is no place

like home.

“I always told my kids, if you find yourself in quicksand, home is your refuge,”

Once the children were born, our lives revolved around their upbringing.”

said Capra. “But we never solved their problems for them. It was up to them to get

leadership training and development firm in Argyle. He has gone on to write books

side as they faced adversity and their own distinct challenges.”

and Legacy from a Warrior and Public Servant as well as a children’s book entitled

new book Raising Courageous Children in a Cowardly Culture is scheduled to be

Capra is currently the CEO and Founder of The Front Line Leadership Group, a

such as Leadership at the Front Line, Lessons Learned about Loving, Leading

themselves out of whatever mess they were in. However, we always stood by their His books may be ordered at http://www.frontlineleadershipgroup.com. The

The Eagle and the Seagulls: A Wisdom Story for Children and Adults. He also

released before the end of 2016.

and others.

videos of previous speeches.

Courageous Children in a Cowardly Culture is the book that Capra has written

twitter: @loveleadlegacy

speaks to a number of groups and presents leadership training for the Dallas PD His current passion and newest book, however, focus on the family. Raising

along with his wife, Shelly. After raising six successful children, Capra wants to send a message of hope to parents who are concerned about our current society and the influence it has on children.

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Jim’s contact information for speaking engagements is on the website as well as You can also follow Jim via: blog: loveleadlegacy.wordpress.com or

Proverbs 22:6 Start children off on the way they should go, and even when they are old they will not turn from it.

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Argyle Community Events Homecoming Parade and Pep Rally

Contents Table of

Featured Stories and News 04

Raising Courageous Children

September 21st from 6 - 11:59pm at the

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Inside Education

Argyle High School

09

Leading Edge Dental Care

AMS Carnival & Community Event

10

Argyle Wind Ensemble

12

Assets in Divorce

13

State Recruiting List

18

Argyle H.S. Band Goes to Europe

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Inside Community

September 30th from 6 - 9pm located at the new Middle School

Save the Date: Robson Ranch Women’s Club Holiday Market at the Ranch

October 8th from 9 - 3pm at the Robson Ranch Clubhouse

Argyle Holiday Shopping Extravaganza

November 5th at AHS 10am - 4pm

Liberty Christian

October 17th - October 21st Homecoming week

Liberty Christian Homecoming Game October 21st at 7:30pm

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Pg 20 On the Cover CW Floors and Lighting Owners David and Beverly Britt

Photos from Argyle

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Back 2 School: Argyle Eagles

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A Company That Cares

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Makeover of the Month

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Your Child’s Strengths

34

Enjoying the WyldLife

35

It’s Not About Me or You

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Helmet Recall

Ask the Experts 07 11 15 16 24 25 26 38

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As we enter the harvest season, I look back voluntarily teaching skills to others or sponsoring wondering where summer went! Between an event, participating in acts of “giving back” has working on the publications, shuffling the boys, tremendous benefits for a business well beyond planning fun little getaways and too much fun the obvious reward of helping the community. in the sun, I’m s-l-o-w-l-y adjusting and falling I believe whole-heartedly that a communityback into a manageable routine. Recently I minded business will reap benefits from its have found myself reflecting on ‘what I do’ charitable mindset, including positive PR, high and ‘why it matters’. I am honored to be your employee morale and improved connections — community relations editor and proud to offer all areas that can aid in long-term profits. When you important information and light-hearted, I get opportunities to speak with local business, entertaining community stories in your mailbox I love consulting “beyond the walls” as part of each month. Each week as the long-term business plan, I’m out and about in our such as asking clients to community, attending various consider adding outreach to events and assisting with the their monthly planning and distribution and production budgeting agendas. It is not of this publication, I am often surprising that most of the asked how we’re able to offer businesses I consult with are this magazine each month already doing that and on a on a complimentary basis massive scale. This truly is and where we get all the new an amazingly generous place information. My response to live!

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214.734.5783 eat and have fun — all of it I witness first-hand the makes our community home. empathy and internal energy Our one-of-a-kind, local businesses are an when the employer is committed to giving back integral part of the character of this place I live to the community. Let’s face it, people love and love. I’ve found so many local businesses feel-good stories! are owned by people who live in this community By now, most of you already know my often and therefore are less likely to leave and are more over-the-top passion for serving and supporting invested in the community’s youth and future. this community. As we enter the final quarter Businesses everywhere have the resources and of the year, please make a conscious effort reach to provide a major positive impact in to continue to support local businesses that their communities. contribute to the successes of so many. Give Whether it’s them an opportunity to earn your business and supporting get your family or business to start giving back, a local and see what positive impacts you can make — it charity, truly does “fill your bucket”!

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Argyle ISD Looking For Subs Argyle ISD is looking for substitute teachers and

several other positions to fill for the school year.

Apply online at www.teacherjobnet.org.

AMS’s First Community Carnival September 30 The Argyle Middle School PTO is excited to

announce the first Argyle School Carnival and

Community Event on Friday, Sept. 30th from 6pm

– 9pm at the new middle school located in Canyon Falls. It’s a great opportunity to support this new

premier facility and grounds, while spending a good old-fashioned night out with family and friends.

There will be activities for all ages including cake

walks, midway games, funnel cakes, face painting, obstacle courses, and bubble soccer. They are also

promising to get Principal Gibson in a big hat in the dunking booth for Argyle’s own version of

Big Tex.

This is a varsity football bye so you won’t be

missing the game.

All proceeds will benefit Argyle Middle School

and will be directed toward school programs, facility needs and field trip expenses.

Insights Is Now A Magazine Argyle ISD is excited to announce the roll out of

This is going to open a new door of

advertising opportunities available. If you are

Strive To Drive Gives Away A Car To Lucky Argyle High School Student

to advertise and support AISD, please e-mail

students at Argyle High School, Argyle ISD Strive

communication and district will bear no expense for the publication. There are marketing and

interested in being a part of this exciting opportunity info@argyleinsights.com.

Focus On Student Learning And Achievement At Faculty In-Service Liberty teachers began August with an in-service

Strive to Drive is a proven initiative to reward

students who have perfect attendance for each grading period.

According to John King, Assistant Principal at

Attendance rose from 95.3% to 97.2% for the

lesson plans in terms of what students will learn versus what students will do.

has ever been in the history of Argyle High School.

2015-2016 school year.

Students who had perfect attendance had

“Formative assessment is an active and intentional

their names placed in a random drawing and

to continuously and systematically gather evidence

it was Freshman Matthew Darnell whose key

student achievement,” said Dr. Brookhart.

Waxahachie Autoplex.

learning process that partners teachers and students

10 were given keys to start the Jeep. In the end,

of learning with the express goal of improving

turned the engine and he won the Jeep from the

It was once thought that teachers could just

provide information and students would learn, much like one would fill a glass of water. Now it’s

known students have to think about information and interact with it to truly learn.

For instance, if students are struggling with

a concept, the solution is not more of the same

work but getting to the bottom of the issue, the

about simply following directions well,” she said.

with its first issue set to roll out in October. This

teacher in-services for continuing education and

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perfect attendance.

She challenged teachers to think about their

Assessment and Higher-Order Thinking.”

now be a free magazine available both in print and

magazine will be published by Murray Media Group.

away a car to one lucky student who exhibited

Argyle High School, attendance is higher than it

root cause.

online form. Insights will be a published quarterly

to Drive Texas and Waxahachie Autoplex gave

led by Dr. Susan Brookhart on “Formative

our its district magazine, Insights.

Formerly an electronic newsletter, Insights will

In an effort to achieve perfect attendance by

“Success criteria has to be about learning and not The first Friday of each month, Liberty will host

have an early release day for students on those days.

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Argyle Wind Ensemble

Crowned Second in State Competition

by Susan Neuhalfen

T

he Argyle High School Wind Ensemble earned first runner up

Music

in the state as selected by the Texas

Educators

Association

(TMEA)

at the Texas Honor Band competition over the summer.

“It’s a sign of how your band program is

doing,” said Argyle High School Band Director

the knowledge it does them no good. She said that it is obvious from the scoring that they are doing a great job of applying the knowledge taught to them and that it shows their ability to make critical musical judgments on the fly.

“Trophies are just a by-product of that we do,” said Johnson. “The kids really did an

Kathy Johnson. “The competition is pretty stiff.”

amazing job.”

official performance of three pieces in front of

occurs every other year with the 5A/3A/1A

concert included at submission. The music must

the 2A/4A/6A High Schools on even years. The

Every band entered is required to record an

The TMEA Honor Band Competition

a live audience, with the time and date of the

High Schools competing in odd years and

also be played as it was intended. It is first sent to

first place band performs at the 2017 TMEA

a panel of judges on a regional level. Argyle placed

first regionally and then went on to compete at an area level, again taking first place. The band

competed with all other 4A wind ensembles and were adjudicated at each level by a different panel, each consisting of five judges. All judges are renowned and respected music educators in

the state of Texas. There are no identifying names included so all scoring is done anonymously.

“The kids really did an amazing job.”

“Second place is a huge honor,” said Johnson

of the performance. “It’s a real team effort as

everyone has to be aware of everyone else at all times. They make it look easy, but it really isn’t.”

The selections from the Argyle Wind

Ensemble were Commando March by Samuel Barber, Bach’s Fugue à la Gigue and Arturo Márquez’s Danzón No.2.

Johnson pointed out the band doesn’t teach to

a test so this performance acts as their assessment.

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Assets in Divorce:

PROTECT WHAT’S YOURS

by Charla Bradshaw, KoonsFuller Family Law

D

ivorcing spouses or those contemplating divorce often have concerns about how to protect their assets.

“What will happen to my house? What about my business? My investments? My retirement? Benefits?”

All are extremely valid questions and all go to the crux of marital property law and the protection of your assets.

The first and most important step to protecting an asset in divorce is to determine which “estate” owns that asset.

SEPARATE AND COMMUNITY ESTATES When two people marry, they each have a

separate estate. Upon marriage, they create a community estate, which is owned by both

spouses. Texas is what we call a “community property state.” This means that all property is owned by the community estate unless a spouse can prove that property is owned by

their separate estate. Separate property and community property are even set out in the Texas Constitution.

In a divorce case, a court cannot divide separate

property, only community property. The origins

PRENUPTIAL AND POSTNUPTIAL AGREEMENTS Those planning to marry can avoid creating a community property estate by signing a premarital agreement (often called a “prenuptial agreement” or “prenup”). These types of agreements, for example, can address alimony, spousal support, separate property, community property, and the division of community property in case of a divorce. During marriage, spouses can turn community property into separate property by signing a postmarital agreement (often called a “postnuptial agreement” or “postnup”).

THE COMPLEXITIES OF COMINGLING

community property in a manner that the court

Certain income from separate property is community property. When community property and separate property are mixed together (comingled), it may be difficult or impossible to prove which property is separate property. In some cases, it may be necessary to hire experts to identify the separate property. If a spouse cannot prove their separate property, then the property is community property and a court can divide it.

This usually occurs when separate property and community property are hopelessly comingled.

Take for example, a spouse that has a retirement investment, such as a 401k, on the date of his marriage (separate property). He makes contributions to the 401k during the marriage (community property), and both his separate, and now the community property, earn interest together (community property).

has been consistent for the courts to divide the

deems “just and right,” not necessarily. Marital

property rules can be complex because each type of asset has its own set of rules.

The most common types of separate property

are: property owned by a spouse before marriage; property that was a gift; or property that was inherited. There is a high standard (called clear

and convincing evidence) to prove that property is separate property. A spouse can protect their separate property by keeping financial records

during the marriage, and if possible, keeping separate property separate from community property. The

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of

this

record

keeping involves knowing which property is separate property and which property is community property.

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This is an example of separate and community property being comingled. Things can get pretty complicated, but with good records, the separate and community property can be identified.

Another common example of determining separate and community property occurs when a marital residence (along with its mortgage) is owned by one spouse prior to the marriage.

During the marriage, the spouses pay the mortgage with community property and/or make improvements to the property with community property. The reduction in the mortgage debt and/or improvements can create claims between the community estate and the separate estate(s).

Yet another example occurs when spouses create or join entities such as LLCs, partnerships, corporations, or were involved in such entities prior to marriage. Such entities, regardless of their size, create complex marital property issues.

It would be wise for anyone contemplating divorce to seek advice from a family law attorney before an entity is formed or before there are any changes made to existing entities. As a matter of fact, in all the examples given above, the complexities that arise from marital property law and the risks to your assets are just too great. To protect what’s yours, it’s always best to consult with an experienced family law attorney.

by Steve Gamel

T

exas again leads the nation in recruiting, though the gap was much smaller in comparison to last year.

According to Dave Campbell’s Texas Football

magazine, Texas leads all states in the number of

high school players who signed Football Bowl

Subdivision letters of intent and total players

signed, including junior college recruits and post-graduate prep school players.

Texas came in at 372 to edge Florida’s 364

players. California was third at 286. A year ago, Texas landed 412 signees and Florida had 380. Texas’ 2015 numbers

players who signed with FBS schools in 2016.

A total of 45 schools had two FBS recruits each.

Manvel had the most with 11 recruits.

Not surprisingly, the annual magazine also

pointed out that Dallas-Fort Worth again led

the state in FBS high school recruits with 134,

a decrease of 12 recruits from last year. Houston came in second at 122.

DCTF is regarded as the Bible of Texas high school football and its release essentially kicks off the countdown to the regular season. This year’s magazine was filled to the brim with all sorts of predictions and recruiting information for both college and high school teams.

Below is the Subway Super Team and Texas’ Top 300 recruits, also provided by DCTF. It has been condensed to only include local athletes.

were up from 392 in 2014.

Of Texas’ 372 recruits in 2016, 343

came from the high school ranks. A total of

29 high schools provided 120 of the 343 Texas

Subway Super Team 2nd team Defense: Kobe Boyce (Lake Dallas) 3rd team Offense: Tyrell Shavers (Lewisville), Grant Polley (Denton) Texas’ Top 300 Recruits Christian Moore (Guyer) Tyrell Shavers (Lewisville) Eric Jones (Lewisville) Laviska Shenault (Lewisville) Gage Mallory (Argyle) Grant Polley (Denton) Casey Harper (Argyle) Kobe Boyce (Lake Dallas) Matt Hankins (Marcus) Bryce Jackson (Guyer) Earnest Brown IV (Ryan) Josh Grant (Flower Mound) Spencer Sanders (Ryan) Gabriel Douglas (Ryan) Noah Cain (Guyer) Deondre Dansby (Guyer) Will Kuehne (Liberty Christian)

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Back 2 School 2016: Argyle Eagles

photos courtesy of Argyle Independent School District

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A Word of Caution T

his is a great time to get the ball rolling on that outdoor space or landscaping project.

There is a difference in having someone that’s

studied design and space management with years of

“patio specific” construction experience just as there is a difference in having a degreed landscape designer put

a plan together for you. Ensuring you’re dealing with professionals makes a huge difference in the overall product and process.

It’s always a good idea to have a prepared checklist

ready. Also, make the candidates provide references and take you to some completed and in-progress jobs.

Don’t put yourself in a situation where you’ve paid

less and are left hoping for more.....

THINGS TO REMEMBER What is your pay schedule on this project Most professionals will have a draw type payment

Gardening

dealing with a legitimate company but able to rest easy knowing that you’re protected and following city codes when taking on your project.

schedule (depending on total) or a 50-50 split upon completion. IF you’re asked for a majority of all funds

upfront without a binding contract and before the materials have even been dropped, that should be a red flag.

How many years have you been in business here locally?

A contractor who’s been around for 5 to 10 years has

established a solid network of suppliers, subcontractors and has earned a local reputation. This will make them a safer bet than a contractor who’s either new

to the business, the area or commuting in from an outside location.

Can you provide me with at least five local referrals?

All contractors should be prepared to provide at

least five references for you to gauge their quality of work and overall experience.

Are you insured and registered here with our city?

Any company that is worth doing business with will

carry both insurance and local registrations wherever they are working. You should expect to pay more for

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Learning

Balancing Risk and Reward: Developing Appropriate Technology Use Strategies O

by Brieanna Casey, Head Instructor, The Tutoring Center — Bartonville

ur last article extolled the virtues of educational technologies, with one important caveat: that it be used appropriately.

This article will dovetail on this aspect by providing some suggestions about how to get the most out of this tool, and leave as little room as possible for potential problems.

TIME RESTRICTIONS

AGE-APPROPRIATE The first way to regulate technology use is to ensure the hardware and software platforms are both age-appropriate. While many of us have probably seen children as young as toddlers learning to side-swipe, such devices can easily become lost, broken, a walking or throwing hazard, or enable access to inappropriate online content. It’s recommended that children no younger than kindergarten learn to use mobile devices, and at such time, parents/guardians begin using the child-lock features built-in to most mobile devices today, such as those which restrict which apps can be opened without an adult passcode.

At which time the child begins to use mobile devices for educational purposes, it’s important that he or she is engaging in activities that will stimulate learning, and aren’t too easy or too difficult to play. Consider what the child’s learning goals are that year, and install apps that will support and reinforce those concepts, and can be practiced independently and without a great time investment. For instance, time spent driving is perfect for using flashcard apps to practice math facts or review vocabulary.

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ONLINE SAFETY

Another concern for children of all ages, is the

amount of time spent using technology. Since television, we’ve learned that technology can

easily become a poor substitute for supervision and human interaction. Overuse can also lead to lack of sleep, outdoor physical exercise, and healthy social interaction with peers. It’s critical

that time restrictions be implemented at an early age, not only to avoid argument, but also

to help children learn to become aware of, and

able to self-regulate their own electronics use as they mature.

Many

parents/guardians

decide

on

a

prerequisite for technology use such as limiting

Of course, the most crucial component of child

internet use, is its potential for safety concerns such as online predators and cyberbullying, and the viewing of age-inappropriate content. The best way, and eventually the only way, to protect

children against these concerns are to discuss internet hazards openly.

We can install as many website blockers, and

firewall settings as we like, but it’s impossible to

[restrict] a curious child from every potentially

disturbing or concerning message in any form

of media today. Instead, when it’s determined

that the child is developmentally ready to begin

computer or internet use to particular hours of

unsupervised internet use, it’ll be far more

of the week, to ensure that other priorities are

or her, to periodically check-in, and to reiterate

use doesn’t interfere with sleep.

their natural curiosity.

the day, such as 6-8pm, or only particular days

effective to have a candid conversation with him

completed first, and that late-night electronics

cautions frequently, but without shaming them

Today, there are easier ways to monitor and

regulate television, computer, and internet use, such as adjusting parental controls on your home

cable box or router to deactivate at scheduled times or after a given number of hours.

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ARGYLE BAND MEMBERS ENTERTAIN IN

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by Susan Neuhalfen members of the Argyle High School Band and their parents spent 3 weeks

this summer touring with the Lone Star

Ambassadors of Music throughout Europe.

They played with approximately 100 other

high school band members from north Texas, touring and playing concerts for the locals.

Four incoming high school seniors Sierra

“They appreciated everything we played,” said

Becca. “They were really attentive.”

The kids laughed about how many of the

locals would want to dance with their parent chaperones but during one song, Tico Tico, some

of the band members didn’t have a playing part,

so they would dance with the audience members.

The Lone Star Ambassadors of Music are

Albanesi, Becca Luttrell, Brayden Ratcliff and

made up of students from Argyle, East Texas,

Johnson talked about their trip to England,

Dallas. After a three-day pre-camp hosted by

Haley Emerson along with band director Kathy France, Austria, Italy, Germany, Liechtenstein and Switzerland.

The students played four concerts in four

countries

–

Switzerland.

Germany,

The

Austria,

concerts

were

England, mostly

performed in parks and are well attended by the residents there.

photos courtesy of Kathy Johnson, Sierra Albanesi, Brayden Ratcliff and Becca Luttrell

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Paris, Canton, Waxahachie, Frisco and Lake

Argyle High School, the students traveled first to London. This is part of an annual trip planned by

Voyageurs International, who recruits students every year for this concert tour. North and East Texas students get to play on even years, while students from the Austin and Houston areas play on odd years. Argyle will be eligible to play again in 2018.

Start That Shopping Early At Robson Ranch Grab all your best girlfriends and get to ready to

shop ’til you drop! Robson Ranch Women’s Club

presents its annual Holiday Market at the Ranch on Saturday, October 8 at the Robson Ranch Clubhouse from 9am until 3pm. There will be lots of vendors, crafts and gift ideas for everyone on your “nice” list.

Dentistry From The Heart Is Saturday, September 24 Dental Depot in Highland Village is giving back

to the community by providing complimentary

dentistry to those in need. The 3rd Annual Dentistry from the Heart is happening on

Saturday, September 24 at 8am first come first

served, over 18 only and limit one procedure per

patient. They will be offering basic cleanings,

extractions, fillings and limited exams. Contact Lindsey for more information or to volunteer at dentaldepot@live.com.

Troop 771 Celebrates Two New Eagle Scouts Argyle Boy Scout Troop 771 is celebrating its

two newest Eagle Scouts, Hayeden Leenhouts and Will Palmer.

Hayeden is a senior at Sanger High School.

For his Eagle project, he installed a flag pole and

surrounding landscaping at the First Baptist Church in Sanger.

Will is a junior at Argyle High School and his

project consisted of replacing picnic tables for the

Lewisville Lake Environmental Learning Area (LLELA).

The tables were washed away and

destroyed by flooding last year.

Troop 771 is was formed in 2004 at Cross

Timbers Church in Argyle. They are now charted

by Scouting Ministry 771, a nonprofit corporation.

New Eagle Scouts Will Palmer (left) and Hayeden Leenhouts (right) photo courtesy of Scoutmaster Bryan Leenhouts

AMS’s First Community Carnival September 30 The Argyle Middle School PTO is excited to

announce the first Argyle School Carnival and

Community Event on Friday, Sept. 30th from 6pm – 9pm at the new middle school located in Canyon Falls. It’s a great opportunity to support this new

premier facility and grounds, while spending a good old-fashioned night out with family and friends.

There will be activities for all ages including cake

walks, midway games, funnel cakes, face painting, obstacle courses, and bubble soccer. They are also promising to get Principal Gibson in a big hat in

the dunking booth for Argyle’s own version of Big Tex.

This is a varsity football bye so you won’t be

missing the game.

All proceeds will benefit Argyle Middle School

and will be directed toward school programs, facility needs and field trip expenses.

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p o h S

Floor to Top Floor

N

o doubt we’ve all heard the old saying, good business practice goes from the shop floor to the top floor. That’s almost literally how the owner of CW Floors & Lighting in Denton got his start.

37 years ago, CW Floors & Lighting owner David Britt was installing floors and learning the business from the ground up. He went on to become a manufacturer’s rep and sold flooring to retail flooring stores across the country. Today, he owns a regional chain of flooring stores across Louisiana and Texas but he’s never forgotten the most important part of what he learned: caring customer service.

“If you don’t care about your customers and their needs I don’t want you working here,” said David, matter-of-factly. “We give as much attention to the small jobs as the big jobs.”

David refers to this as the “care factor” which is at the core of every job they do. In fact, it’s the very culture of the company at CW Floors

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by Susan Neuhalfen

& Lighting. For example, David cares enough to know every employee by name. He cares enough to provide training for his installers on a regular basis. He cares enough to know as much about the products as any member of his staff. He cares enough to hold weekly training meetings for his sales staff, so they not only stay on top of the latest styles and trends, but can offer an educated recommendation on the best flooring for their customers. This is a huge part of their customer service initiative according to salesperson Billie Brandenburg.

“Our process is not so much selling the customer as it is educating the customer,” said Billie. “Flooring can be a big decision so we need to take the time to understand the customer’s long-term plan.”

Other factors that Billie mentioned are the presence of kids, pets, location of the home (are they on the water?) and other details that need to be addressed before they can even begin to make recommendations.

With a 10,000 square foot show room in Denton, the ideas for flooring and lighting are never-ending. Many customers come in with their phones on HOUZZ or Pinterest to show exactly what they are looking for. David says most customers come in with at least an idea of what they want. It’s even helpful when they bring pictures. Though the staff is ready to travel to a house for a consult, David prefers that the customers start the process by visiting their showroom located conveniently on 288 in Denton.

“It’s doesn’t do justice to bring 5 carpet samples when I have 5,000 at the showroom,” said David who recently moved from Lantana to Argyle. “When it comes to flooring and lighting you need to touch and feel it to understand it.”

David believes his staff should focus on what they do best and be the best at it. So flooring and lighting are all they do and they do it better than anyone. As one of the largest flooring retailers in the US, they have more buying power than most

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They even use the warehouse to test carpet samples. Right now, they have three similar grey carpets side by side across the threshold where the forklift runs to see how each responds to the wear and tear.

Talk about a tough customer.

“We like to do our own tests, too,” he said as he pointed to the carpets. “This way we can recommend the product in good conscience.”

Another thing that sets CW Floors & Lighting apart is that every piece of real wood

flooring installed is scraped, sanded and stained by hand for the perfect look and fit for the home.

David said their customers range from contractors to homeowners to rental owners and more.

“Our job is to find them the right products at the right price point,” said David.

They carry everything from marble, stone and solid hardwood, to more affordable products for rental properties. They even have a floor made of reclaimed bricks from 100 year old buildings as well as one that looks like wood but is, in fact, waterproof. As for lighting, they offer indoor and outdoor lighting and hundreds upon hundreds of samples across the walls and ceiling of the showroom.

Manager Shelley Cannon said the showroom is where the customers can get an up close look at the flooring and lighting and with the incredible inventory, they’ll find exactly what they want instead of “that’ll work”.

“If you don’t care about your customers and their needs I don’t want you working here...”

When asked about the “care factor” at CW

Floors & Lighting, she said that is what brought her to work there.

“You don’t shop for flooring and lighting

everyday so it’s pretty foreign to most of our customers,” said Shelley who started answering

phones at her father’s flooring store 23 years ago.

“Our job is to get to know our customers well so we are better equipped to make recommendations and assist them throughout the process. “

Shelly went on to say that it’s not just one sales

person, but an entire sales force that works as a team to make sure that all of the customers are

well taken care of. In other places, a sales person

may be on his or her own to complete the deal, but at CW Floors & Lighting, it’s a team effort

and David sees to it that they work together as a team.

“David has a huge heart and he’s very

passionate about where he’s going with the company,” said Shelley. “It’s a pleasure to work for someone who expresses his loyalty as openly as David does… to vendors, employees and, most importantly, our customers.”

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Real Estate

HOMEBUYING 101:

What to Do While Your Home is Under Contract

T

he home buying process is full of joys and woes. With the closing table in sight, there are still some things to keep in mind while playing the waiting game. Knowing the triggers that may impact the loan process may help you tread cautiously on your path to homeownership. Here are some red flags to avoid.

BE ACCURATE It goes without saying that when you begin the loan process, you’ll be submitting a boatload of paperwork. When filling out paperwork, it’s simply not worth it to be less than forthcoming about your income or your debts. The truth will be discovered throughout the process thanks to background and/or credit checks.

CEASE THE JOB HUNT Be very careful about switching jobs and/ or losing your current job. If you’ve become unemployed and accept a job offer, some lenders require you to be at your current place of employment for at least two months, in addition to being in the same industry for two years.

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DON’T INCUR NEW DEBT Opening new credit cards will increase

inquiries into your credit and ultimately could

affect your credit score. Also, running up your card balance is a quick way to lower your credit

score. Follow your normal spending pattern for existing credit cards, and make any changes after the loan closes.

PAY BILLS ON TIME

ACCOUNT FOR EVERY PENNY During the loan process, your lender will require you to provide bank statements for a designated period of time. Unusually large deposits, transfers, or withdrawals will raise questions and require explanation—so keep appropriate documentation. Depending on the type of loan, funds for down payment can be gifted from mom or dad, but be sure to ask in advance.

Late payments or excessive credit card use may

cause your accountability to come into question.

During the approval process, lenders want to validate your level of responsibility and the likelihood of default.

Remember to save money for additional expenses, such as closing costs, and consult with your lender in advance if someone else is paying for charges associated with closing.

Sidelines

by Steve Gamel

S

Bringing Back Memories

o I was sitting in my office the other day pecking

That game all those years ago was played at the

couple of members of the coaching staff. Even when

I covered games in stadiums all over the state, from

going to be an exciting game just by the way players

away at the keyboard when suddenly I found

Houston Astrodome, if you can believe that. That year

fast approaching and it was definitely not the best time

the Cotton Bowl to Shotwell Stadium in Abilene. But

myself daydreaming. Granted, our deadline was

to let my mind wander. But the moment was too good

the Astrodome was clearly the kicker. Marcus won that

I got back up into the press box, you could tell it was from both teams carried themselves.

I remember racing down to the field with a flood

game, 59-20.

of other sports writers when the game was over –

and the very first high school state title game I covered

football season as a journalist. Marcus started the

players were huddled around, holding up the trophy

football final between Marcus and Alief Hastings. I

then-head coach Que Brittain and his staff – did I

to pass up.

I began thinking back on my life as a sports writer,

nearly 20 years ago – the 1997 Class 5A Division II

don’t know, maybe it was a conversation I had with coworkers only a few minutes earlier about how lucky

we have been to cover such an amazing area that set off those memories.

I remember it so vividly because it was my first

year slow and hardly looked like a title contender, but mention Argyle coach Todd Rodgers was on that staff ?

year. Maybe it sounds a bit dorky, but I love covering

so hard to remain impartial because I was excited for

There’s more on the way, too, starting with this

football season. But nothing will ever beat the first one.

It was a magical feeling to be in that environment,

Yes, I just name dropped John Madden. After that,

prior to the first district game.

since 2010. That doesn’t even account for title games in at least one of us has been fortunate to cover.

congratulate them.

and I have the luxury of having those memories play

everything took off – both for the team and myself. By

basketball, baseball, volleyball, soccer and softball that

with pride as friends and family rushed the field to

– brought in John Madden for an inspirational speech

After all, between Argyle and Guyer alone, I’ve

personally covered seven football state title games

not sure of what my first question would be. The

the time I showed up to cover the title game, it was those kids. You could tell the players enjoyed it.

There was an extra hop in their step as they did

their pre-game warm ups and got used to the dome’s Astroturf. They were joking around, as was I with a

out over and over again with different teams every

high school sports and it never gets old. I can vividly recall all those great moments, from the coaches I built

relationships with to the players I watched move on to the next level.

It all seems like it happened yesterday – even that

very first one.

Until next time, I’ll see you on the sidelines.

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Business Coach

The Personal Touch(es) Have you ever…

• Called a company for a quote and never got a return phone call?

• Described your future needs to a business, got an enthusiastic response, and then nothing happened?

• Met someone at a networking event, agreed to take a call, and never heard from them again?

T

hese head-scratching scenarios happen all too often in businesses both large and small. Obvious opportunities to sell, provide service or nurture a relationship go unexploited. Hours of time and thousands of dollars spent marketing, networking and advertising are wasted. Legitimate leads are never converted to sales due to perceived disinterest.

The way people buy is changing, and one of the big changes is that in our content-centric, options-filled world, buyers require more touches with businesses before they decide to buy. Those numerous touches — as many as 7, 10, 13 or even more depending on who you read and how they count – require a strategy for developing a personal relationship that complements a customer’s interest in specific features and benefits. Chances are they can find features, benefits and prices similar to yours with a few clicks. But why should prospects consider your company at the moment they’re ready to actually buy?

They will consider you if they know you and you know them, not just as buyer and seller, but as people who are comfortable with each other, respect each other and recognize their mutual interests.

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Wait. What if YOU own the business that does the poor job of follow-up as I described earlier? As a business coach I meet hundreds of entrepreneurs each year. I believe strongly that all the business I could ever need is linked to the few hundred people I already know – not the 10,000 on some email list I could buy. Here’s the sad truth: less than 5% of small business owners are effective at following up with their contacts (even when there are obvious sales opportunities, as I described above). All the excuses get trotted out: I’m too busy; they know how to reach me; it takes too much time; I don’t want to bug them; and on and on.

If you’re building sales nothing substitutes for deliberately nurturing relationships with a big pool of qualified prospects (set a goal to have at least 500). For example, within 24 hours of meeting someone new, send them a personal note letting them know how much you enjoyed meeting them (handwritten will instantly distinguish you). Or thank them in email and attach something informative that you know, from talking with them, they’ll read and appreciate. Ask to connect with them on Facebook and/or LinkedIn. If they acknowledge receipt of your note, then within 7 days touch

them again and suggest a cup of coffee. Your

goal isn’t to sell: it is to deepen the relationship.

If they don’t acknowledge your note, push out the next touch to 30 days, but don’t stop trying

to connect. Keep your name in front of them and continue to share ways in which you can

help them with their business. Newsletters are

one way, but my preferred way is to write short, personal “thinking of you” notes with articles, “how-to” tips or recommended links.

Commit to be a master of relationship

development. Use

every

opportunity

you

can to provide value for your prospects. Not

only will you easily distinguish yourself from

your competitors, but you’ll also build a good relationship that will allow them to refer you with confidence to all of their contacts.

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Leveraging Your Child’s

for the Future

by Susan Neuhalfen

What if there was a way to help students recognize their strengths ahead of time in order to improve a student’s overall college or, for that matter, any school or work experience?

Former Denton County Clerk Cindy Mitchell is the CEO of Strategic Solutions HQ as well as a certified StrengthsFinder coach. The Clifton StrengthsFinder tool is powered by the Gallup Organization and helps individuals, groups and leaders recognize and leverage their strengths to help them focus on what they do best.

“It’s better for everyone to focus their time, money, energy and effort on what we call their superpowers,” said Mitchell. “People are generally happier when they are doing what they love to do.

Instead of mounting frustration over how to overcome weaknesses, why not focus on what they do well?”

StrengthsFinder is a 45 minute test that is unlike any other. Through a series of questions, each of which has to be answered within 20 seconds, test takers find out their strengths which, in turn, helps them to find out where to focus their talents.

Armed with this knowledge there are a number of advantages a student may have going into college such as what classes to choose, what majors to consider, how best to study and even how to better understand friendships and relationships.

Mitchell has plenty of experience not only with business clients but students as well. One of her students is a talented equestrian rider.

StrengthsFinder found that she was already competitive but instead of focusing on just winning and losing, they helped her focus on

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measurable goals when it came to competition so that she was as much in competition with herself as anyone. This helped her equestrian coach in guiding her at competitions and it helped her

photo by Scott Young Photography

W

ith the continually rising cost of college, parents have to be weary of the impending investment. Is my child going to the right type of school? Is her major right for her? Will his current study habits work in college?

What will help my student prepare for success both inside and outside of the classroom?

to stay less stressed once she understood where her focus needed to be. She placed second in the AQHA World Championship last year as well as the top 10 for the last three years.

After getting an equestrian scholarship to college, she worked with Mitchell on how to make the transition to higher education. Mitchell also worked with her on how her strengths

affected her friendships and how she struggled with relationships. Once she understood the “basements” and “balconies” of her strength, she was better able to understand how to leverage her strengths for the best outcome.

Basements and balconies are another way to state the good and bad side of something.

For example, if a person’s strength is being analytical, he or she is comfortable with numbers and very logical, however that same person may be considered rude, short and never satisfied which doesn’t sit well with some. Every strength has basements and balconies attached to it.

Another student that Mitchell worked with had a top strength of Input. A person with this strength has an excellent memory and mind for detail. Mitchell already knew him to be a history buff and an avid reader so most of his analysis came as no surprise.

After studying pre-law, he chose an engineering and computer science major. Mitchell worked with him on his study habits and gave him permission to use history and context to study. This made the simple act of studying more meaningful to him which gave him a deeper understanding of the subject.

When it comes to learning, some learn better by actually teaching so for those who do, Mitchell says to seek out opportunities to present to others. For others, quiet reflection is the only way to comprehend information. For this student, Mitchell recommended finding a quiet place and making time to study that way.

Using this strength-based development tool, students may use StrengthsFinder to

choose classes that they are more aligned with

and, ultimately, careers that make sense for their superpowers.

“With the exception of those suffering an

extreme life change at some point, the test

doesn’t change much after the age of 15,” explains Mitchell. “Many parents have told me that they wish they had had access to a tool like this when they were younger.”

An extreme life change is a life-altering

change such as a death of a parent or spouse or, in some cases, a divorce situation for a child.

StrengthsFinder even offers something called

StrengthsExplorer for kids 10-14 years with

fewer questions and fewer strengths analyzed.

This will help parents with encouraging

their children in a positive manner as well as understanding their strengths and how to relate to them. It actually gives the child his or her top

3 strengths and it gives action items to the adults

working with them as well as action items for the youngsters.

Students may use StrengthsFinder to choose classes that they are more aligned with and, ultimately, careers that make sense for their superpowers.

“When my son was younger I learned not to

ASK him to clean his room,” said Mitchell. “I had to TELL him to clean his room, but in a way that related to him. Because of his personality

and how his strengths play out asking him to do anything he didn’t want to do wouldn’t work. It helped me to stop getting frustrated and speak his language.”

Cindy Mitchell is available as a StrengthsFinder Coach for students, parents, leaders and employees. She travels to homes and businesses, unlocking superpowers for people of all ages.

For more information email cmitchell@strategicsolutionshq.com or call 469-426-7009.

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TRUST ME

You’re Children’s Future May Depend on It!

by Adam Burrows

O

ne of the most important roles in life is that of a parent. All parents have a duty to love, protect and help their children grow into adulthood. This is a duty that entails that we as parents have to keep our children’s best interests in mind before our own. A parent has to make tough decisions and sacrifices on a daily basis. One of the most important decisions that a parent can make is to invest in their children’s future.

As an Estate Planning Attorney, my role

is to help my clients understand that the decisions we make in life for our children may

not be what we intended after we pass away.

As I explain to my clients, leaving a great sum

of money for your children may be a great

idea but without parameters, this blessing

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What is that age? Every child is different, but that is why we plan ahead. As I tell my clients, if a sizeable inheritance was given to me at the age of 18 or 19 the first place I would have found myself would have been at a new car dealership buying a Porsche!

I face these same decisions that all parents are faced with because I too am a parent.

As I help you plan for your children’s future, I also take into careful consideration the steps I have taken and would take to protect my own child’s future. It boils down to this… Is it going to be a trip to the Porsche dealership or a financially secure future for your children?

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Enjoying the WyldLife

by Susan Neuhalfen

These are just the regular meetings for WyldLife,

but according to Witler, there’s much, much more.

Last year in the fall, the kids pulled an all-nighter

at the Dallas Cowboys AT&T Stadium. About 800 YoungLife members from around the Metroplex got

together and they pretty much had free run of the place. They played on the field, had a scavenger hunt in

the locker rooms and got to see the stadium in a way that few ever have or will.

“Nothing was off limits,” said Witler. “Let’s face it,

there are no better memories made than on a Cowboys football field.”

This year the kids will take an all-night bus tour

I

t’s Friday night at Argyle High School and the football game starts 7pm. The players are getting ready, the band it warming up and the tailgaters are starting to arrive.

Across campus there’s another group of kids getting

“We are not connected with a particular church,”

ready. They’re part of the WyldLife Club. They meet

explained Mary Beth Witler, Argyle WyldLife

gym. It’s a kind of fun Bible study where they play

many churches in the area as they help us with

twice a month at 5pm before the game at the auxiliary games, do skits and talk as a group about the gospel

without any walls. Then, together, they walk to the

Coordinator. “We do have great relationships with various activities.”

YoungLife is divided into groups by grade. WyldLife

through Dallas starting with a Mavericks game and ending up at Main Event, a modern day arcade with bowling, laser tag, black light golf and more. Witler

said the tour will take them to five different places, some of which are a surprise to the kids and then the parents pick them up at 7am the next day.

“We usually have about 600 kids for the event so it’s

a lot of fun,” said Witler. “The kids have a great time.

This year’s bus tour will take place on December 3.

They also have summer camps for grade specific

game to have even more fun.

specifically targets middle schoolers grades 6-8. In

groups. The 6th graders have more of a staycation

worldwide outreach ministry targeting kids who

they hold a weekly Bible study at school. The Middle

Falls. The 7th graders camp in Burnett in the hill

The WyldLifeClub is part of YoungLife, a

generally don’t attend a church but want to know more about Christianity.

addition to meeting twice a month before the games, School students meet before school and are divided by age and sex.

summer camp as they attend local places like Hawaiian country area. This year the 8th graders will be traveling to Arkansas for a camping trip.

Everything with YoungLife and WyldLife is free

except for field trips. They will also work with families who need help with funding.

When asked her favorite event, Witler said she

loved playing on the Cowboys’ field but she also loved

the family barbeque that they have every year where they meet new families and students who are interested in joining WyldLife. Many of them were part of YoungLife where they used to live while some are completely new to the program. They play volleyball and other games and talk about what they do so that parents and students feel comfortable joining them.

“Everything we do is really fun and that’s because of

the kiddos,” said Witler. “They are just so much fun.”

To learn more about WyldLife, check out their

Facebook updates at Argyle WyldLife or email Mary Beth Witler at mbwitler@gmail.com.

Photos Courtesy of Argyle WyldLife

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It Is Not About

ME OR YOU

It Is About Those

WITHOUT A CHOICE light of childhood cancer awareness month, I will relinquish my usual Incaution with regard to writing columns that may “stir the pot.”

You have probably already been inundated with statistics this month regarding childhood cancer rates and deaths. I can only hope that you have also been exposed to many amazing success stories and survival rates, and heard testimonies directly from children and families who have and are currently battling cancer.

The patients I care for will continue to grow and change, but my mission will always remain the same. As a pediatrician, I strive to maximize health and minimize illness. To be true to my mission, I must take advantage of this opportunity to educate and emphasize the importance of routine vaccinations in maintaining the health and safety of the aforementioned children as well as others in our community.

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More and more parents have made a choice to not provide routine vaccinations to their healthy children. Increasing numbers of healthy eligible children in our communities, our schools, and traveling around our country are unvaccinated.

Unvaccinated children (and adults) are at an increased risk of contracting and transmitting infectious diseases that threaten the lives of immunocompromised individuals, not limited to children with cancer, but also pregnant women, infants, those with chronic illnesses, and the elderly.

Always, and especially this month, let us think of the children with cancer and how they just want to be children, they simply want to play with their friends, live life completely, and experience the unique aspects of childhood. Their parents can only hope that they fight hard and beat cancer with minimal complications and pain.

I understand that when routine vaccinations for healthy eligible children are declined it is out of genuine love and the fear of causing more harm than good to your most precious

treasure. The internet is flooded with frightening stories and headlines. Some are true and valid and many are not. Most are very emotionally driven and no doubt impactful, but talk with a healthcare professional, or many, before making big healthcare decisions regarding yourself and your children. Let us all pledge to do our part to minimize complications in those battling illnesses or conditions that make them more susceptible.

The good news...Since the majority of parents, around 90%, still vaccinate their children, we are able to provide adequate protection for those who cannot be vaccinated. Herd immunity is a major factor in ensuring that these children, along with the at-risk members described above, do not encounter vaccine-preventable disease.

The bad news… more and more children are being exempted from vaccines on a daily basis in this country. When less than 90% of children in a community are immunized, infectious disease can take hold and spread rapidly.

Making the choice to immunize your child gives them the freedom to visit a newborn, learn in a classroom, socialize on the playground, and spend time with grandparents with less fear of contracting or spreading a life-threatening illness.

Many prayers and blessings for those struggling in this time.

by Dr. Rebecca Butler, who is Board Certified in Pediatrics by the American Board of Pediatrics and is a Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. She is proud to be a resident of Lantana and the owner of Lantana Pediatrics. For more information on Dr. Butler or to schedule an appointment, call 940.455.7200.

74 McMakin Road, Ste. 100 • Bartonville, TX 76226 940.455.7200 www.LantanaPediatrics.com Mon-Thurs: 7:30am-6:30pm • Friday: 7:30am - 5pm • Saturdays: 9am - 12pm Call to schedule appointment with Dr.Butler or our NEW Nurse Practitioner, Melanie Bitzer.

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You Need To Know About W

ith the football season officially in full swing, the threat of concussions is an ever-present issue. While there is currently no full-proof way to entirely prevent head injuries in football, one major equipment manufacturer is staying on top of its own product safety standards.

As reported by the Dallas Morning News, Xenith and the Consumer Product Safety Commission issued a voluntary recall in August for Xenith’s recently manufactured helmets.

The recall involved Xenith EPIC Varsity, X2 Varsity, X2E varsity and youth football helmets with a gloss or metallic-painted polycarbonate shell sold or factory-reconditioned between May 1, 2015 and March 18, 2016. Xenith explained on its website that a “flex” chemical additive compound was not added to the paint

by Steve Gamel

HELMET RECALL

mixture, which caused the other components of the helmet to become brittle. There were no injuries, though the CPSC received reports of 29 shells cracking.

Per that same Dallas Morning News article, the EPIC Varsity, X2 Varsity and X2E Varsity all rank as five stars in the widely-used Virginia Tech helmet rating system. The EPIC Varsity was also the No. 1 helmet in the NFL’s 2015 health and safety report. The X2E ranked No. 4.

Helmet safety standards at area schools have come a long way in recent years. School officials consistently purchase new helmets while reconditioning older ones in an effort to put the best and safest equipment on players.

The Dallas Morning News said there were at

least 11 high schools in the area that had Xenith

helmets in their inventory, but that particular

manufacturer was not their primary provider.

None of those 11 schools appear to be in the immediate area.

When contacted earlier this month, Guyer

football coach John Walsh said his program

has an exclusive relationship with Riddell and

has at no point used Xenith helmets. Argyle and Lake Dallas also use Riddell. Lake Dallas

uses an estimated 60/40 split with Schutt.

Liberty Christian head coach Barton Hundley confirmed his program is exclusively Riddell.

Xenith and the Consumer Product Safety Commission issued a voluntary recall in August for Xenith’s recently manufactured helmets.

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Nutrition

THE CLEAN 15

Annette, Dear

These foods that tend to have less pesticides and herbicides buying organic is not as important.

I keep seeing “EAT CLEAN” in magazines. What does that really mean?

Dear Reader:

E

ating clean is becoming a buzz phrase. Eating clean means eating as close to nature as possible with a lot of respect for nature. In other words, if it has a bar code it might not be close to nature. If it comes in a box, it may not be close to nature. If it is made in a plant, it may not be natural. If it has been fried, it is not clean.

Chances are if you receive it through your car window, it certainly is not clean. Really, can you believe people want to eat dirty? Those are obvious ways to know if a food is clean or not. But some things are a little more deceiving.

Is your chicken full of hormones and chemicals? Is your milk full of growth hormone? Is your beef full of dyes, chemicals, and are the cows forced fed? Are your fruits and vegetables clean from chemicals and pesticides?

The Environmental Worker Group (www.EWG. org) is an organization that works hard to help ensure that our food and products are safe. They also keep a count of the thousands of new chemicals and pesticides that enter our food supply every year.

They are a wealth of trusted information.

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I know it is more expensive to eat organic,

but your health is really worth it. There are some things that are better than others if you do not buy

organic. The EWG has created a list of the dirty

dozen and the clean fifteen. I want to share it with you. The clean fifteen are foods that tend to have

• Avocados • Pineapple • Onions • Mangos • Kiwi • Honey Dew Melon • Cantaloupe • Cauliflower

• Sweet Corn • Cabbage • Asparagus • Papayas • Eggplant • Grapefruit • Sweet Peas

less pesticides and herbicides and therefore buying organic is not as important as the dirty dozen. The

THE DIRTY DOZEN

dirty dozen are foods that are truly worth the extra to buy organic.

These are foods that are truly worth the extra to buy organic.

Another great source for clean product is www.

thrivemarket.com This is a market place of healthy

items at great prices delivered to your door. I find a few organic things at Costco, like organic coconut oil,

but www.thrivemarket.com has great choices and is so convenient.

EAT WELL TO LIVE WELL.

Sincerely yours, Annette Doody, Savory Bistro Owner & Wellness Coach

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Strawberries Nectarines Celery Cherries Tomato Cherry tomato

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Apples Peaches Grapes Spinach Sweet bell peppers Cucumber

Keep this list in your shopping bag to shop wisely in order to eat clean.

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