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ON THE COVER INDIA HICKS SHOT IN HARBOUR ISLAND PHOTOGRAPHY BY NORMAN NELSON MAKEUP BY GINA SIMONE
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CONTRIBUTORS NORMAN NELSON began taking photographs to document the people and places he saw while traveling the world in his early twenties. Capturing these images slowly became more of the end than the means, and after five years on the road, he settled in LA to learn the business of celebrity and fashion photography with Brian Bowen-Smith. Now based in New York City, Nelson is lucky enough to have assignments that once again have him traveling all over the world. He is particularly fond of Harbour Island, Bahamas, a place he once called home, and returned to shoot M&V’s cover story with India Hicks.
NILA DO SIMON is an award-winning magazine journalist who has interviewed a range of subjects from fashion designer Tommy Hilfiger to international soccer star Jozy Altidore, Olympian Dara Torres and ambassador Nancy Brinker. Her work has appeared in Venice, Gold Coast and Jupiter Magazine. She has won a Florida Magazine Association award for Best Feature Writing and has won Best Feature Headline Writing award three times. A by-product of the University of Florida’s journalism college, she’s a native Floridian. When she’s not writing, Simon has been known to throw a few elbows on the basketball court, hit a few forehand winners and toss a semi-perfect spiral.
CHRISTINA OXENBERG was born, and briefly raised, in New York City. This was followed by prolonged stays in London, Madrid, then back to New York before returning to London, and so on, until after 14 schools and a multitudinous array of stepparents and their tribes of offspring, a precedent for adventure was set. Oxenberg’s single true love is writing, and she published her first book, TAXI, a collection of anecdotes, in 1986. Despite the lousy pay, Oxenberg published articles in Allure, The London Sunday Times Magazine, Tattler, Salon.com, Penthouse and for anyone else who would have her. Oxenberg was seduced by the offer of a regular paycheck in 2000 and fell down the rabbit-hole of fine fibers. In the blink of an eye a decade vanished into an unwieldy wool business. With relief she returns to the relative calm of writing fiction. Between excursions, she lives in Key West, Fla.
ANNETTE JOSEPH is a food and prop stylist and a producer for numerous national magazines. Her work has been featured in Better Homes & Gardens, Elle Decor, Traditional Home, Redbook and People, and she is a food and entertaining contributor on The Today Show. Joseph credits her grandmother for teaching her insight into the European way of living, from eating, cooking and entertaining. She started her career in NYC as a window dresser. With professional training from the Culinary Institute of America and countless cooking courses in Italy, she is known for transforming an ordinary event into an extraordinary event without sacrificing style or breaking the bank. Joseph is the author of entertaining cookbook Picture Perfect Parties (Rizzoli), which teaches how to produce memorable parties and gorgeous events with ease. She and her husband live in Atlanta and on the Italian Riviera in the summer where they have a second home.
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Adventure, relaxation, romance or personal bucket list: Whatever your reasons for going, the journey always changes your life.
in my TRAVEL bag...
In this issue, M&V looked to all points on the globe for style and substance. A self-described gypsy, this month’s cover girl India Hicks (The Isle of India, page 48) takes us from London to India and the Bahamas through her incredible family history and new collection of bedding and décor inspired by her life in Harbour Island. Then discover why Tulum (page 38) should be on your must-visit list this year. It has been touted as the new St. Barts, only more hippie-ish and amid Mayan ruins. The entire beach strip is wind, sun and water powered, nicknamed the “playa” by locals. It’s something to admire. We also travel to Rome, Goa, São Paulo, Istanbul and Copenhagen in City Guide (page 98), an insider guide to these vibrant cities, as told through the eyes of five international women.
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Books The Book of Unknown Americans, a novel by Cristina Henríquez, reveals a Mexican family’s immigrant experience set amid a Spanish-speaking enclave in Delaware. After their daughter Maribel is involved in a near fatal accident, the Riveras leave Mexico with optimism for a better future north of the border. Maribel falls in love with Mayor, a young Panamanian boy living in her apartment complex. As their relationship deepens, their American dreams for their community are imperiled by violence. The Book of Unknown Americans tells of hope, heartbreak and belonging from the points of view of several characters joined by circumstance. (Knopf, June 3, 2014)
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In his latest novel, The Snow Queen, Pulitzer Prize-winning author Michael Cunningham once again depicts with elegant prose the complexities and conflicts of the human mind through main characters and brothers Barrett and Tyler Meek. For Barrett, a mysterious light in the sky is taken as a sign to find religion. Struggling musician and bartender Tyler struggles to write a song for his gravely ill wife and turns to drugs in hopes of generating creativity. Laced with both humor and woe, Cunningham follows the siblings as they each search for enlightenment in the face of everyday realities. (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, May 6, 2014)
To Rise Again at a Decent Hour by Joshua Ferris is a comedic novel with moments of absurd humor and deeply moving reflections on life past and present. Paul O’Rourke, a dentist with a nicotine habit, is laden with contradictions and self-absorption. Paul becomes wrapped up in a personal thriller when someone steals his identity, taking to the Internet and social media espousing religious beliefs very near to anti-Semitism. While trying to uncover the counterfeit “Paul,” the actual Paul is compelled to confront past familial damages and a life fractured into the real and the virtual. (Little, Brown and Company, May 13, 2014)
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he Seattle Art Museum, a major repository and supporter of works by acclaimed artistic group Northwest Moderns, exhibits 125 works as part of Modernism in the Pacific Northwest: The Mythic and the Mystical (page 26). Featured artists Mark Tobey, Morris Graves and Kenneth Callahan came together in Seattle in the 1930s to share their notions about creating art and became known as the founders of the “Northwest School” of artists. The collection, which is on view from June 19 to September 7, 2014, reflects the unique environment of the Pacific Northwest.
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giving a voice to those on the edge of society. One of the series, “Beyond Borders: Personal Stories from a Small Planet,” won the Peabody Award in 2007. Beck is fierce as she describes the impact this 10-year labor of love had on her. “These intense personal stories gave me so much respect for people on the margins. I have no desire to ever move away from serving this population. This is where true change can happen.” Beck moved to Miami in 2008 and went on to serve as South Florida’s executive director for Strong Women, Strong Girls, an organization that works to empower young women through pairing them with college mentors and professional women within the Miami-Dade community. Today, she is the senior director for strategic partnerships and communications of Catalyst Miami, a nonprofit organization helping low and middle income individuals gain more economic self-sufficiency and participate more fully in civic life, including assuming leadership roles where they can bring positive change to their communities. Beck’s responsibilities range from pulling in businesses and corporate sponsors to support Catalyst programs, to working on the
front line by developing and implementing programs in local Miami communities. Where does she get the energy to tackle issues of social and economic justice at work, while also being committed to her role as a wife and the mother of a very active six-yearold daughter? “Being a woman rocks, but sometimes it can feel like all thorns and no roses.” It’s the women in her life who inspire her to keep going, women like her mother and six aunts. “The women who inspire me are irreverent, willing to take things right to the edge, like ‘I am not going to compromise here, even if it is dangerous, even if I don’t know what to do. I know you can do better. I know I can do better.’” This brings us back to her hair—wild unruly curls that seem to symbolize her non-conformist spirit and reminds Beck of the strong women whom she resembles in her family. “Believe it or not, my hair helps me get a handle on people; it’s like a thermometer. One of the most important mentors in my life is a woman who walked right up to me and grabbed a handful of my hair! I knew right away we were going to be friends.” ■
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n 2009 a defining moment occurred for Boca Raton High School teacher Stefanie Gross: While teaching a rigorous English course, she was struck by the incredible academic stress her students were under and how that stress was affecting their ability to focus and be productive. On a deeper level, she recognized herself in her anxious students, remembering her own struggles dealing with stress as a high-achieving student. “I’ve walked in their shoes. I know it’s this kind of anxiety that, in extreme cases, can lead to bullying, even teen suicide.” Gross had a hunch that involving the body as well as the mind might offer relief and a path to greater creativity and more constructive behavior on the part of her students. Gross began adding a few minutes of breathing and meditation to her English classes, and before long, students were clamoring for more. Gross developed a two-week yoga program, which launched the spring semester of 2010. Following the success of the twoweek program, she received the green light to implement her curriculum as a for-credit, physical education elective for the 2010-
2011 school year. Today more than 200 students participate in Move Through Yoga, a daily, during-school meeting for 50 minutes to practice yoga, learn about anatomy, gain insight into healthy eating and lifestyle choices, and more. “Move Through Yoga is a vehicle for change,” said Gross. “At times I am shocked at how well received this has been. It has changed the whole school climate. It is incredible to me to see how the whole aura of the school has been changed for the better.” What has made the difference? “Our classes are a safe space in which students from all different backgrounds, including high achievers, members of the football team, students with emotional or developmental issues, and students in the armed forces, can be a family, a yoga family. We understand each other on a completely different level. We work out, work in, and work through.” Is there life outside of yoga for Gross? “When people ask if I have a personal life, I say: Are you kidding me? I have 200 kids! That’s a lot of kids!” When she does venture off the yoga
mat, she trades in her yoga garb for bohemian chic with sandals or simple clean lines and a pair of heels. Her favorite pastimes include attending lectures or just spending time with her parents, as well as a brother and sister-inlaw who all live close by. “It’s so important to have a good support system of friends and family.” What’s next? Recently Gross was invited to be a guest at the Aspen Institute, along with Montita Sowapark, a Boca High student. The two participated in leadership training and were tasked with joining forces to design a program to affect change in the community. The result was C3Connects SPARKS, an initiative to spark curiosity in students for future career paths and put them in contact with the community to help facilitate passion and action. Reflecting on her passion for her work and for her students, Gross said, “Every day when I walk out of work, I am so excited to come back the next day. I am living change, personifying change. I am changing lives— one chaturanga at a time.” ■ M A Y / J U N E 2 0 1 4 M&V
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y the time I finish a photo session, the women I photograph always end up taking their clothes off,” said Karen Dunn Roth with an easy laugh. “I guess I have that effect on people.” Petite and impishly beautiful, Roth was an international fashion model in the 1980s and later began experimenting behind the lens, shooting weddings. “I created [a photography package] called the Black Box for the bride—a series of intimate photographs in which the bride could reveal herself in a very personal way. The Black Box of photos was something she’d give her husband on their wedding night.” A true renaissance woman, Roth returned to school to earn her Ph.D. in educational psychology with a minor in neuroscience at the age of 39. By the time she graduated, the economy had tanked, and no jobs in her field were available. “My life was really in flux at that point. I had just divorced, moved to Miami, and found myself unemployed. I had about six months’ worth of savings and wasn’t sure what to do next.” Her degree in psychology had given her a deeper understanding of women and their body issues. With her skill behind the camera and her own challenging period of change, Roth set out to create a business around shooting photographs of women in the process of significant life transitions in Miami. She called it Transformational Women. “I wanted to show a woman aspects of herself that she doesn’t normally see, her beauty radiating from the inside out. I wanted a woman to be able to see herself—to think of herself—in
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a new way, so that new possibilities might be discovered in terms of what she is capable of achieving.” Her clients are “ordinary women,” not models. All are at some stage of leaving behind the known for the unknown: ending a marriage, taking a left turn down a new career path, embarking on motherhood, starting a life in a new country. The results of her shoots are downright gorgeous: Her subjects radiate courage and beauty. Roth asserts that she does no re-touching of the images. “How would that make sense? These photos are all about authenticity and allowing women to feel beautiful and authentic.” Roth recently remarried and relocated to Sarasota. “Another transformation for me, and something I like other women to know about, is that at any stage in life, it is always possible to reinvent yourself and find happiness. At 51 I feel strong and empowered.” Nurtured by family—parents, as well as her son and daughter from a previous marriage, who have all migrated to Florida and live close by—Roth also relies on a deep sense of spirituality for sustenance. “I am a very open-minded Christian. It’s all about grace and love. I also have a regular practice of yoga and meditation.” It is this spirituality that Roth sees as continuing to inform her path forward. “What inspires me is being part of today’s movement toward positive transformation. Each of us in our own way can make a positive impact. We have so many social issues, and any way I can be a part of positive change is very inspiring.” ■
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hilaquiles, yogis, ancient sacred sites and beach bums. This is the world of Tulum, Mexico, where all four harmoniously coincide with one another. Originally a lazy hippie outpost, the town, located 75 miles on the southern edge of Mexico’s Riviera Maya, is decidedly much more trendy than its earlier days, thanks to an enclave of ex-pats who have merged their skills—cuisine, yoga, hotel management and more—with the native craftsmen to create an eco-conscious hub powered by wind, water and sun. The bustling social it spot is still an offthe-grid beach strip only now with stylish haute-bohemian huts, and therein lies the real beauty of Tulum. PAPAYA PLAYA
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here is certainly an equal share of bohemian huts sprinkled just steps from the snow-like coast, but it’s not quite as hippie as expected. This is an environmentally conscious town that recycles everything, including broken vehicles for their seats, yet the properties mix simple comforts and luxurious details with ease. It’s no surprise Tulum slowly is replacing St. Barts as the destination to be seen. If sleeping under mosquito nets sounds ideal, then visit Papaya Playa Project, whose sprawling property of 80 cabanas is situated on a ledge with Caribbean Sea views. The cabanas at Ahau Tulum, named after the sun god who devotes his song to the universe, range from palapas (a thatchedroofed dwelling with one open side), villas or Bali huts, styled with locally-made furniture. Go for a late-night dip in the private pools at the boutique Be Tulum, where spacious suites all boast private terraces. La Zebra is your more jungle chic, family-friendly option; its cabanas are nestled into the property’s gardens and the nearby jungles. During the day, grab a centralized lounge chair protected by a beachside palapa. Staying for awhile? Check into an apartment at Villa Soliman. Opt for the Santorini apartment, which boasts an almost 180-degree view of the water from every room. It should also be noted that power outlets in Tulum use the U.S.-style plug design.
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exico’s chilaquiles and rancheros are the breakfast items of choice, but for the rest of the day, there are other worldly feasts in which to indulge. There’s an eclectic taste thanks to the city’s residents: Italian, French, Thai, German. Many celebrity chefs have laid down restaurant roots in Tulum, away from the big-city restaurant stresses. Casa Banana, located within Hotel Nueva Vida de Ramiro, serves Argentinian-style steaks. At Mezzanine, you’ll find Thai Chef Dim Geefay (left) preparing the most flavorful Thai curries and tangy salads. Near the jungle side of Tulum, Casa Jaguar offers Asian and Mexican fusion cuisine with a candlelit ambience. Save an evening for ex-pat Eric Werner’s Hartwood (right). The New Yorker operates a rustic cocina and creates farmto-table offerings based on his daily finds at the Mayan farmers’ market. Adding to the rustic charm is the open kitchen.
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exico is peppered with ancient sites built by tribal cultures, and Tulum— which means wall in the Yucatec language—was named after the large ancient barricade that surrounds it. The largest of the Tulum Ruins, built by the Mayans—who did extensive trading in the city with both maritime and land routes—includes El Castillo, a tall building near the bluff, the Temple of the Descending God, and many facades and stucco sculptures. Not far away from these archaeological sites are the Cenotes, a natural wonder of underwater sinkholes. This underworld, named after the Mayan word dzonot, was developed over millions of years and stretches for miles. It is the only resource for fresh water in the Yucatán jungle. The Sian Ka’an Biosphere Reserve, a UNESCO World Heritage site, is a 1.3 million acre tropical ecosystem that boasts lowland forests, flooded savannas and mangroves. It is also home to the world’s second largest coastal barrier reef, the Mesoamerican Barrier Reef, and more than 20 archaeological sites of pre-Columbian culture including the Muyil, which is worth a boat trip through its lagoon. Another draw, which is not so ancient, is the epicenter of conscious awakening. Retiro Maya Retreat Center founded in 2003 is known for its workshops in yoga, meditation, shamanism and holistic energy healing. It also has a temazcal, a Mayan traditional sweat lodge that for thousands of years helped indigenous people connect with spirit and heal the body. If adventure is more your style, don’t miss Xplor, a natural park north of Tulum where you can zip-line over the wild terrain, ride amphibious all-terrain vehicles through the jungle and cave trails, and swim in the underground river surrounded by stalagmites and stalactites formed millions of years ago. ■
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very so often, India Hicks does what many mothers aspire to do. She scrapbooks. Inside her idyllic, five-bedroom plantation-style villa on Harbour Island in the Bahamas stand upright tomes of scrapbooks, albums that hold tiny memories of a magnificent life that Hicks leads with her family across several countries.
Hicks has a scrapbook for each of her children. Some are on their second volume, like her eldest, 17-year-old Felix, while the anthology of sixyear-old Domino’s life is just beginning. With the touch only a mother can have, Hicks carefully affixes memories onto the pages: travel mementos, photos from holidays abroad, a child’s first drawings and letters, important invitations and newspaper clippings. It’s her way of being able to touch moments in life that are no longer touchable. “Not only do I do this for myself, I do this for my children as well,” Hicks said. “I look through the books all the time. Scrapbooking is an effort, but I cherish these memories.” Besides being the Bahamas’ most prolific scrapbooker, Hicks is one of its most recognized faces. Hicks herself— leggy, beautiful with long blond hair that the Caribbean wind loves to catch ahold of—has lived a life fit for a library of worldly memories. An author of two books, Island Life: Inspirational Interiors and Island Beauty, the former fashion model turned jeweler and bedding designer has made a name for herself away from her native England and is living the ultimate escape fantasy. Memories and experiences fill the Bahamian home Hicks shares with her life partner, David Flint Wood, their four children and one foster child: memories like being a 13-year-old bridesmaid in Princess Diana and Prince Charles’ wedding, climbing into the Grand
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Canyon, and backpacking through India, the country after which she was named (her grandfather was Lord Mountbatten, the last viceroy to India who gave passage to its independence). For India the individual, it’s only fitting that the country itself holds a special place in her heart. She has traveled to India extensively, including in 2007 to attend Elizabeth Hurley’s wedding in Jodhpur. She loves the city of Jaipur “for all the obvious reasons, like the color, romance, the people and history.” The northern city of Kashmir has what Hicks calls “a remarkable way of life.” In her youth, her family would visit and stay on a houseboat on a lake. “The whole way of life was by water,” Hicks said. “Selling food, washing clothes by the water...It was extraordinarily beautiful. You are truly one with nature.” Hicks has had a love affair with the Bahamas even before moving there with Wood in 1996. Her earliest memories include traveling to the Bahamas from London, where she and her older brother and sister lived with their famed interior designer father, David Hicks, and mother, Lady Pamela Mountbatten. In her youth, Hicks and her family primarily stayed on the small and exclusive Windermere Island, which Hicks recalled having a “Robinson Crusoe-like feel. There was no infrastructure, and you could walk on the pink island for miles and never see anyone.” Designed by her father to resemble an Egyptian temple, the family’s Bahamian home forever remains a trigger point of countless holiday memories for Hicks. “I still remember the smell of the wet sand after the rain, the tropic sights and sounds,” she said. Hicks and her family now live in the renovated Hibiscus Hill, on Harbour Island, a few miles away.
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Feature INDIA HICKS But not all of her young travel memories are as indulgent, Hicks is sure to mention. “I remember not being taken to Istanbul as a young girl. My older brother and sister were able to go, but my parents insisted I stay behind. So there I was, waving goodbye to them as I stayed in London.”
Bahamas with him, and she said yes, not realizing that “yes” would turn into 18 years and counting of island life. “Some people are told to have five-year plans, and I don’t even have a five-minute plan,” she said laughing. She paused, reflecting before admitting, “We do live an unusual life.”
It should be noted that if 677 royals ahead of her fall, India Hicks would succeed to the British throne. Her second cousin and godfather, Prince Charles, no doubt hasn’t put much thought into it. Neither has Hicks. Instead, she is more likely to be running barefoot on the beach, adding another adopted pet into her menagerie, or going on that family trip to Malibu that her youngest son, Conrad, has been pushing. Hicks has bucked much of her aristocratic traditions, instead trading that life in for one filled with sandy beaches, barefoot children and green palm fronds. Island life suits this noble just fine.
For Hicks, living in the Bahamas has sparked much of who she is today, and it has allowed her to move out of her father’s prolific design
Her life in the Bahamas has been inspiring. She has partnered with HSN to produce island inspired home accent linens and bedding, with a new line debuting this season. The collection named India Hicks Island Living features memorable pieces, including a six-piece dotted jacquard towel set (the first in the young collaboration), a quilt set patterned with birds and botanicals, and a striped comforter set as well as decorative pillows and wall decor. “Our family sleeps on the sheets and dreams on them,” Hicks said. Her lifestyle website IndiaHicks.com is home to her fine jewelry collections and eccentric finds from her travels around the world.
Splitting time between England, the Bahamas, and the United States (where she does much of her business), 46-year-old Hicks admits she has never wanted to feel anchored to one location. She has referred to her pre-motherhood days as being as “gypsy-like” as they come, leaving London for Boston to pursue a photography degree as a teenager, then living in New York and Paris, and traveling the globe as a model for Ralph Lauren, Pucci and Tods. She is not one to move toward convention. By her own admission, Hicks has not wanted to get married for her own “very weird” reasons. “But I knew I wanted David to be the father of my children,” she added. The two met as youths, Wood being a friend of Hicks’ sister, and reunited as adults. As Hicks puts it, both share an ironic, self-deprecating sense of humor (“dark, British humor,” she clarified). After a short courtship, Wood asked Hicks if she wanted to move to the
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Having lived in the Bahamas for nearly two decades, Hicks knows the ins and outs as well as any resident. Her favorite shop on Harbour Island is Bay Street’s The Sugar Mill, which is “an Aladdin’s cave, where you can find everything for virtually everyone. You can go in and have a good gossip with Linda [Griffin], the owner,” Hicks said. For dining options, Hicks recommends The Landings and the Rock House, though she admits a lesser-known venue called the Sweet Spot, which offers fresh produce, has been a go-to option. In Nassau, Hicks loves stopping into the Island Shop at the Old Fort Bay Town Centre for home goods.
India Hicks' entire HSN collection includes the English Garden quilt set in plum and red (on Hicks' bed) and the RunAway Ticking Stripe comforter set (below).
shadow and shine on her own as a designer. The self-proclaimed free spirit has become a successful businesswoman and entrepreneur. Her fine jewelry line is an ode to her island home with fish-shaped pendants and charms. “I was able to stretch and find myself here,” she said. “When I came to the Bahamas, I was able to find a world of my own.”
“I strongly believe that part of my children’s education is to see the world.”
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“When I came to the Bahamas, I was able to find a world of my own.”
Hicks’ conscious and overt departure from the noble life she grew up in is not lost on her. She once lived in a world that was literally and figuratively thousands of miles apart from her current life. The pressures of acting like a royal do not apply in Hibiscus Hill. Having her home base in the Bahamas was a decision Hicks and Wood made for their family, which unexpectedly grew four years ago when Hicks became the legal guardian to then-15-year-old Wesley, a Bahamian boy whose mother died of cancer. “I feel blessed and honored that Wesley has chosen us,” Hicks said, and proudly notes that Wesley’s name appears on every holiday card the family has sent out since taking him into their home. “We are living amongst a nation where one sees such a different way of life,” she said. “Hopefully my children will recognize how very lucky we are with what we have. I worry if one lives in a big city, one tends to lose sight of how lucky one is. It’s a very good foundation to a lifelong appreciation of how life is diverse and how we can remain grounded and grateful.” Hicks and Wood have shared their love of travel with their children and take them along as much as possible. Some of their first experiences included accompanying Hicks as she traveled the globe on modeling assignments. “I strongly believe that part of their education is to see the world,” Hicks said. “It’s as important as learning their ABCs.” Mementos of their journeys dot every corner of their home and leap out from their scrapbooks. As a professionally-trained photographer, Hicks has countless travel photos on tables, walls and anywhere else that can hold an 8-by-10-inch frame. Even their furniture has been hand selected during trips abroad, including a dining room table and chairs from a New Orleans vacation. A larger-than-life shark jaw that the family found at a market in Africa ten years ago remains one of their most precious souvenirs. “It was so freshly caught that our bags stank of rotting flesh all the way home,” Hicks said. “I think my children have grown up very wild in the fact that it’s this extraordinary balance of seeing this big world and growing up on this tiny island,” she said. Still an image of refinement and elegance in her mid-forties, Hicks’ well-mannered, well-spoken nature makes one forget that it was her free-spirited, wild-child soul that caused her to leave the comforts of London years ago. She still hasn’t made it to Istanbul, but vows she will. No doubt that memory will be displayed prominently in her scrapbooks. ■
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rom Bosnia to Sierra Leone and Sudan, the systematic infliction of rape and sexual assault during civil conflicts has become one of the most egregious human rights violations of our time. Earlier this year, Secretary of State John Kerry announced a ban on U.S. visas for any individuals implicated in the use of sexual violence in times of armed conflict. This was an important step in a larger global effort to eliminate sexual violence as a weapon of war. In recognition of these injustices, the United Nations put forth a Declaration of Commitment to End Sexual Violence in Conflict in September 2013 with more than two-thirds of all members of the U.N. as signatories. The declaration pledges “to do more to raise awareness of these crimes, to challenge the impunity that exists and to hold perpetrators to account, to provide better support to victims, and to support both national and international efforts to build the capacity to prevent and respond to sexual violence in conflict.” In an effort to create “irreversible movement” toward the eradication of sexual violence during conflict, British Foreign Secretary William Hague and Angelina Jolie, special envoy for the Office of the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees, will co-chair a global summit June 10-13 in London. The goal of the summit is to identify actions that can be taken by the international community in five areas: investigation and documentation, support and assistance for survivors, integration of sexual- and gender-based violence responses, promotion of gender equality in all peace and security efforts, and the improvement of international strategic coordination.
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MEDICAL NEWS Research from the University
of Southern California suggests that high-protein diets during middle age are linked to increased risk of cancer, diabetes and death. The study, published in Cell Metabolism, indicates that these negative effects were greatly reduced when the high protein consumption was from plant sources.
The FDA recently allowed marketing of Cefaly, the first
device to prevent migraine headaches. Cefaly is a small, battery-powered device worn like a headband across the forehead. It applies an electric current to the skin and underlying tissue to stimulate a specific nerve associated with migraines. According to the National Institutes of Health, migraine headaches affect approximately 10 percent of people worldwide and are three times more common in women than men. Researchers from the University of Toronto warn that infant sleep devices—machines that emit soothing noises to induce sleep—could put infants at risk of hearing loss. Reported in Pediatrics, the study evaluated 14 devices available for purchase in the United States. Researchers found that three of them were emitting noise frequencies that exceeded 85 decibels, the workplace safety limit for adults.
Girls born underweight are twice as likely to experience
fertility issues in adulthood, said a research team from Sweden’s Linköping University in the medical journal BMJ Open. The conclusion suggests that growth restriction in the womb could affect how reproductive organs develop. The study is relatively small and the first of its kind; therefore, more studies are needed to confirm these findings.
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✈ Zolaykha Sherzad revives Afghan artistic culture
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very three to four months, Zolaykha Sherzad leaves New York to travel to Kabul, Afghanistan, where her company Zarif Design’s workshop and production is based. Born in Afghanistan and raised in Switzerland, Sherzad is a trained architect and founder of School of Hope, a not-for-profit organization launched in 2000 to support education in Afghanistan. The school merged with School of Leadership, Afghanistan in 2010, and today Sherzad serves on its board of directors. Her involvement with education inspired her to seek a way to work directly with the Afghan people. Her answer was Zarif Design, a company employing tailors that use Afghan silk and cotton textile and traditional skills to produce jackets and coats of modern design. zarifnyc.com
M&V: Zarif Design is more than a fashion company, correct? SHERZAD: I launched Zarif officially in 2005 but it started a year earlier with the idea of reviving traditional skills when I encountered a group of women developing marketable crafts. I believe arts and crafts can be a great foundation in the rebuilding of a society and a country that has lost its cultural and physical identity due to a decade of war. The tailoring initially was a pilot project to test the textile industry, and later on I was hoping to extend to other crafts. Our main customers are the international communities working in Afghanistan. What do you hope to achieve with Zarif based in Kabul? Our goal is to empower the people to develop their skills, honor their creativity and cultural heritage, and encourage them to embrace new techniques that enable them to be more efficient and powerful. Zarif works closely with local weavers and traditional fabrics, which are in danger of disappearing due to cheaper material from neighboring countries. Zarif is a way for me to bring men and women together in a professional and creative environment. What are your successes and setbacks? The success of the brand is creating a company from nothing but the will of the people and what remained of their skills and culture. I started with one master tailor and trained another eight women who had sewing but no tailoring skills. Currently, we have 32 full-time employees and are training an additional 27 women in sewing, tailoring and embroidery. We work with sub-contractors, so the impact of the work is much larger than the 32 staff in Kabul. The biggest challenge is lack of security. Achieving peace is the number one condition to secure production and long-term stability. Our company grew in response to local market demand, mainly from the international community that works in Afghanistan. With the latest events, this market is reducing. We need to reach an international market outside of Afghanistan. What does the future hold? The plan is to build the brand in the U.S. and Europe, finding boutiques to sell Zarif that support artisans, their culture and slow production. We want people to value that our clothing is Afghan-made, reviving ancient techniques while building new ones.
Zarif Design employs Afghan tailors to produce handmade dresses, jackets and coats.
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he most basic money lesson that most of us remember is save. Save for retirement. Build your accounts. Don’t live outside your means. But there is certainly room for some fun spending as long as it’s done in a sound manner. “Just like any diet, if you cut out all the fun today and only save for the future, you will find it very difficult to stay motivated for the long term,” said Brittney Castro, certified financial planner®, entrepreneur and personal finance expert. Castro is the founder & CEO of Financially Wise Women, a Los Angeles-based financial planning firm for women. “Instead focus on good financial health, which is about living a healthy financial lifestyle.” Her site financiallywise women.com is packed with tools and resources to help women create the life of their dreams, free from anxiety about money.
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BRITTNEY CASTRO Whether it’s a sun-kissed beach or frosty white mountains that you desire, there’s a right way to plan a vacation. A financially-wise traveler will...
✴ PLAN AHEAD AND OPEN UP A TRAVEL SAVINGS ACCOUNT. Open up a high-yield savings account at an online bank such as Ally Bank or Capital One 360 and label this account “travel.” Arrange for a monthly deposit into this account. When it comes time to book your annual trip, you already have allocated money to use for the airfare and hotel stay, making your travel goals less stressful.
✴ USE YOUR CREDIT CARD REWARD POINTS. Many people have credit cards that offer reward points for travel and yet don’t use the points. Get clear about the reward points you currently have and learn how you can maximize them for travel. Some of the best credit cards for airfare points are Chase Sapphire Preferred and Citi Platinum Select/AAdvantage World MasterCard. Both offer bonus miles if you spend a certain amount on the credit card in the first three months. Bankrate.com allows you to research credit cards and their rates, fees and rewards.
✴ BOOK AIRFARE STRATEGICALLY. Tuesdays and Wednesdays are generally the best days to book domestic flights. Avoid booking on the weekends; these are usually the most expensive days to book.
✴ TRAVEL TUESDAY TO TUESDAY OR WEDNESDAY TO WEDNESDAY. Traveling from a Tuesday to Tuesday or Wednesday to Wednesday can save you money on airfare as well. Aim to book your airfare three weeks to four months in advance to get the best rates.
✴ USE TRAVEL SITES TO FIND BEST TRAVEL PACKAGES. Research sites like Jetsetter, Groupon Getaways, Living Social Escapes and Airbnb for affordable hotel and room stay. Often they offer great last-minute getaways. If you’re the spontaneous type, this is a great way to book a vacation.
✴ CREDIT A BUDGET WHILE TRAVELING AND STICK TO IT WHILE ON VACATION. Come up with a budget for your travel that includes transportation, food and activities. Book as many things as possible beforehand so you can shop for the best deals. Once you are on vacation, keep a running total of expenses to help you stay within your budget.
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TECHNIQUE MEETS TECHNOLOGY T H E H Y B R I D O P E R A T I N G R O O M . It’s the most advanced surgical environment in medicine. And Boca Raton Regional Hospital was the first in Palm Beach County to have it. The Hybrid OR opens vistas for endovascular and cardiac surgeries that were unimaginable in conventional operating rooms. We can now treat even the most complex aneurysms and valve repairs with minimally invasive techniques. It also provides our surgeons unparalleled imaging capabilities in the operating room itself, before, during or after the procedure. For patients that means a shorter procedure, less post-operative recovery time and less risk for complications. Yet, having these capabilities is only part of the equation. At Boca Regional they’re placed in the hands of some of the most accomplished specialists in the nation. Ones whose skills have earned the Hospital the number one ranking in the state of Florida for cardiac surgery – two years in a row by Healthgrades®. Boca Raton Regional Hospital – where technique meets technology to provide our patients with the best in endovascular and cardiac care.
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Business UNUSUAL
The Rise of Online Education Traditional education is finding a home in the history books. Online learning is a cheaper, more immediate delivery mechanism for instruction and helps keep individuals competitive in an ever-changing global business environment. By Robin Bradley Hansel
DEFINITION:
Virtual learning platforms offer self-paced curriculum in the form of professionally produced videos that meet learning needs from general education to industry-specific skills.
BACKGROUND:
University of Phoenix’s Web-based program for adult students was created in 1989 and was one of the first to specialize in online learning. Since then, the online education capacity has changed dramatically. Even four-year universities are in the game, posting massive open online courses (MOOCs) for students. Another pioneer was Lynda Weinman, who began posting Web design video content online back in 1995 and later co-founded lynda.com.
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Lynda.com’s basic membership fee is $25 per month, which allows access to the entire library of more than 16,000 hours of online content. Skillshare offers subscriptions for $9.95 a month to include access to some member classes and a 20 percent savings on their courses, which typically cost $20 to $30. Udacity pricing varies per course with most students paying $150-$200/month to work at their own pace.
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An Android app for lynda.com is now available, offering a more seamless viewing experience for members and non-members. Follow Skillshare on social media for special deals and class coupons. For the first time ever, Udacity is offering a fully accredited online master’s in computer science from Georgia Institute of Technology in cooperation with AT&T. Lynda.com provides course completion forms sharable on LinkedIn to anyone who watches a course in its entirety. Although Skillshare teachers are screened, some courses have significantly better instructors and video quality than others. Certification options on Skillshare and Udacity vary among individual courses and may include additional fees.
RECOMMENDATIONS: Founded on the principle that “everyone can teach,” Skillshare.com is a global learning community for classes in just about everything: business, crafts, design, fashion, film and video, food and beverage, lifestyle, music, photography, technology, writing and publishing. “This will be the year that online learning breaks into the mainstream,” said Michael Karnjanaprakorn, CEO and co-founder of Skillshare. “If the Web is a virtual town being built, the school is being built for the masses right now. It’s an incredible opportunity to rethink the future of education.”
Udacity.com students engage in highly challenging STEM (science, technology, engineering and math) curriculums, take quizzes, turn in class projects and earn verified industry credentials. Courses are taught by instructors and industry experts. “The jobs skills gap is getting wider and growing every day around the globe,” said CEO Sebastian Thrun.
Lynda.com offers a library of video lessons on the latest software, technology, creative and business skills taught by industry leaders. Users have access to full courses, which range from one to several hours. “I think in the next several years, we’ll see online learning become more accepted as a fundamental way to learn in the classroom, boardroom and living room. The ‘show me, don’t tell me’ model of teaching will be more commonplace. I think online learning will begin to close the job-skills gap and better prepare the workforce for fast-changing technology,” said Lynda Weinman, executive chair of lynda.com. ■
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ELEVEN WEEKS OF SUMMER WEEK 1: JUNE 11-15, 2014
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In the Life OF
Leilani Maaja Münter Career: Race car driver for 13 years and environmental activist Age: 39 Education: BS in biology from University of California, San Diego Home/office: Cornelius, NC Three personality traits: Loyalty, compassion, fearlessness Fastest speed: 205 mph entry speed into corners Number of miles in a race: 200 Environmental activist job requirements: You can’t be afraid to confront things that are more powerful
than you, like oil companies, corporations and politicians.
Race car driving job requirements: You cannot be afraid to go 200 mph next to a wall. Exercise of choice: Hot yoga, snowboarding, scuba diving and tennis Food: Anything vegan Rainforest acres adopted: 14 Favorite movie: The Cove Twitter followers (@LeilaniMunter): 13,377 Accomplishments: Holding my own with the boys by racing in the top levels of both open wheel and stock car racing and setting a few records along the way; being named the #1 Eco Athlete in the World by Discovery’s Planet Green; working with the Academy Award-winning team from The Cove on their new eco thriller movie Favorite quote: “Here’s to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in
the square holes—the ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can’t do is ignore them because they change things. They push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.” —Apple 1997 ad campaign
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I am asked over and over again, ‘How can you bring environmental awareness with a race car that burns gasoline?’ I think at Daytona I burned less than 25 gallons of gasoline, so the impact is very small. But as an environmental activist, the race car gives me a voice. There are 75 million race fans in the United States, and the only reason those people hear what I am saying is because I drive a race car. If you want to win new people over to a movement, you need to speak to the people who don’t agree with you yet.
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“Race car driving was on my bucket list. I saved up some money and went to a racing school. I was the fastest driver on the track that day. I was also the only female. At the racing school I had a conversation with a race team owner, and he encouraged me to pursue racing. It took me nine months to find my first sponsor. As soon as I ran my first couple of races, I was hooked. I moved to North Carolina because that’s the epicenter of racing.”
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IN HER WORDS “Race car driving is a smaller part of my life. I only race when I find sponsorships, and I’m fairly picky about who I work with because of my environmental work. Sponsorships have taken me out of the race car on a regular basis because a lot of the green companies don’t have large budgets.”
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“There is an incredible amount of focus that takes place when you are at speed in a race car. All the other things in life fade away and it’s just you, the race car and the track. Add in 40 other cars trying to take every inch from you, and it gets pretty exciting. There is nothing in the car but a metal racing seat, a steering wheel, three pedals, a stick shift, and a few gauges. It’s bare bones. Race cars are not about comfort.”
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Meet the locals on Kangaroo Island. Kangaroo Island’s spectacular landscapes of rugged cliffs dropping into vivid blue oceans, white sandy beaches, eucalypt gums as far as the eye can see and hidden caves will make for amazing photos. But it’s the encounters with the iconic wildlife that will make a lasting memory. Discover the Australia you’ve always imagined in South Australia.
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Room for DEBATE
Developing nations of Africa, Asia and Latin America often are characterized by depressed economies, weak social structures, high crime rates, and a dependence on international aid but they are also home to natural wonders and architectural landmarks.
Considering potential risk factors, is the decision to travel with your children to third-world countries selfless or selfish?
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aking a child to a developing country is one of the best educational gifts parents can provide. There is no substitute for real life exposure and experiences in a destination that enables parents and children to digest and process information in a memorable and impactful way.
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We just got back from a trip to the Amazon Basin in Peru with conservation-minded Aqua Expeditions. Our daily itinerary involved exploring different aspects of this remote wilderness that produces about 20 percent of the earth’s oxygen.
On our trip we visited a river village accessible only by water and inhabited by families living in thatched huts who lead radically different lives than we do in our San Francisco suburb. Despite the language barrier, we shared smiles and laughter. The value of this connection for each and every one of us? Priceless. Sharing this basic human connection and learning that people are people—irrespective of what they look like or where they live in the world—is magic and the foundation for lifelong compassion. Add in the conservation lessons where we witnessed firsthand how precious the rain forest is for our planet and what happens when it’s chopped down, and you have a trip of a lifetime.
But, in truth, no country is Third World— it’s an antiquated term. We are part of a global community, reliant in ways we never quite understand, and are either thriving or struggling. But we depend on each other.
Third World is some derogatory, judgmental notion from the dark ages of Colonial rule. And just as I don’t want my children to form absolute opinions of their fellows, I don’t want them to form judgments about entire countries. The “ThirdWorld countries” of yesterday—Burma, Cuba, the East Block, even Brazil —are emerging as major cultural and economic powers today. Such countries aren’t inanimate objects; they are composed of millions of individuals. So here is what we must tell our children: You must travel the world to understand it. A passport is the new diploma. Don’t accept the dogma of today; instead, understand that the world is changing and labeling countries is fruitless. We are entering a new age of exploration, imagination, and transformation. Different perspectives, cultures, and landscapes, and are all part of that—and critical to how our kids develop and experience the world. As adults who have children in our lives, it is critical that we teach them to accept the world as it is. Not judge and certainly not presume to change how others think and act.
We were on an exceptionally appointed and managed riverboat, which dramatically reduced the risk factor. Are there safety guarantees? No. But we felt as secure in the hands of our qualified guides as we would on a journey into the backcountry of the United States.
So let’s take one place I love: India. Twenty years ago, Americans regarded it as backward, alien and inaccessible. Today, it is one of the most exciting and enriching places on the planet. I liken it to the magazine I edit. Once upon a time it was in black and white. Now it is an explosion of color and sensory riches.
Images and lessons from the Amazon will be seared in our son’s mind forever. A textbook cannot replicate hearing, feeling, smelling, touching, and seeing such a destination. Is it worth the risk? No question whatsoever.
The world is changing. Our kids intuit and accept that. Their friends in school are Iranian and Turkish and Haitian. It’s our task to put any prejudices aside and let our kids embrace the new world of understanding. Forget the idea of Third World. There is only One World.
Amie O’Shaughnessy is the managing editor of CiaoBambino.com, an award-winning global travel planning resource for families featuring hotel reviews and a comprehensive travel blog filled with tips, news, and narratives related to traveling with kids of all ages.
Keith Bellows was named editor in chief of National Geographic Traveler magazine in 1998 and made a vice president of the National Geographic Society in 2000. He co-authored The Canuck Book and is now writing 100 Places That Will Change Your Child’s Life, part of a program he is developing to encourage parents, corporations and schools to view travel as a critical learning tool.
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The Thrill of Palio: Horse Race of Siena By Annette Joseph Photography by Deborah Whitlaw Llewellyn
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or centuries in Siena, Italy, citizens of that city have held a horse race, now run every summer on July 2 and August 16, in the Piazza del Campo, an oval piazza in the center of town. Each neighborhood of the city sponsors their own horse and has their own colorful banner. It is widely popular, and participants sing neighborhood fight songs, and curse competing neighborhoods, as well as wave the banners of their own neighborhood. Eventually they will end up being worn as scarves around the reveler’s neck during the race and at neighborhood celebrations. When a rival approaches someone from another neighborhood, they squirt each other with squirt guns and may insult each other’s mother—all very Italian and all to great laughter and fun. The race is Siena’s Super Bowl; it is taken very seriously. Rules are strange: The horse can win even if the jockey falls off, and the winning horse will attend his neighborhood’s celebratory dinner, decked
out in flowers, and corralled in the middle of the party. The party revelers feed him, sing to him, and cheer him late into the night. It is a colorful, beautiful party with songs, laughter and pageantry. Clothes are made specially to reflect the look of medieval Italy, when the race first began. Over the years, I’ve gathered many banners from the race that I use to decorate my party. You can buy banners online, or just cut squares from brightly colored fabric or vintage silk scarves. This party décor is easy to repurpose for a Kentucky Derby party. If you choose to do this, you can use the silk colors that are worn by the jockeys as your banners. Even if you’re not watching this colorful, exciting spectacle in person, it’s great fun to fly the banners, drink wine and sing by candlelight, just as the Sienese do on these summer nights. This story was originally published in Picture Perfect Parties (Rizzoli).
SALMON GRILLED WITH LEMON, TOMATOES & ZUCCHINI Grilling salmon for a crowd is an event. I love to serve this salmon on a large board, on top of a picnic basket. Using the basket to elevate the fish along with grilled vegetables is a visual treat. This technique can be used for any large-scale entrée or assorted appetizer plate.
Serves 6-8
½ cup olive oil 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar 1 teaspoon coarse salt 1 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper 2 tablespoons chopped fresh thyme leaves 1 4-pound whole salmon filet 6 medium size tomatoes, halved 6 lemons, halved 4 medium zucchinis, halved 1 cup green olives ¼ cup capers 3 tablespoons lemon oil (I prefer O&CO brand or use olive oil and squeeze grilled lemons over the salmon as a substitute.)
Heat the grill to medium. In a large bowl prepare the marinade; add olive oil, salt, pepper, balsamic vinegar and thyme. Toss the lemon and zucchini in the marinade; set aside. Dip the tomato halves in the marinade and add to the platter with the lemon and zucchini. Place the salmon skin side down on lightly greased heavy-duty aluminum foil. Brush with four tablespoons of marinade. Place salmon on grill, cover and cook for about 10 to 15 minutes or until desired degree of doneness. Grill zucchini and lemons five to eight minutes turning once. Grill tomatoes two to three minutes. Pull off the grill and place everything including the salmon on a large platter. Cut the grilled zucchini into bite-sized pieces, then sprinkle capers and olives over the platter. Finish the dish with O&CO lemon olive oil. *This dish can be served warm or at room temperature.
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CAPRESE CRISPS The first time we made the trip to the Palio in Siena, Italy, many summers ago, I was so impressed by the spectacle, I wanted to bring the experience home. I like to show the horse race on YouTube to guests to get the party going. Caprese Crisps are a lovely little pick-me-up morsel. They are savory and salty with a little crunch. Serve them with a lemony chilled prosecco.
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TOMATO JAM
Makes about 32 crisps
Makes about 2 cups
1 8-oz. ball fresh mozzarella in water ¼ cup thinly sliced basil leaves 4 cups Parmesan cheese
4 large heirloom tomatoes, chopped 3 tablespoons sugar 1 teaspoon salt 1 clove garlic, chopped 3 tablespoons olive oil ½ teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
Preheat oven to 375 degrees. Shred cheese with the small holes of a box grater. Working in batches, spread tablespoons of cheese into 2 to 2 ½ inch circles on a parchment lined baking sheet. Place in the oven for six to eight minutes until lightly browned. Remove from the oven and let cool on parchment for three minutes. Carefully remove crisps to a wires rack and repeat with remaining cheese. *These can be made a day ahead and stored in an airtight container.
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In a sauté pan place oil, garlic and salt and sauté until translucent. Add chopped tomatoes and sugar. Cook on medium heat until liquid is gone, stirring often, until mixture is thickened, about 40 minutes. Take off the heat and season with pepper to taste; cool completely. *This can be made ahead and stored for up to one week in the refrigerator.
To assemble Chop the fresh mozzarella into ½ inches cubes and toss with slivered basil leaves in a bowl. Place one teaspoon of tomato jam onto each cheese crisp. Repeat with two teaspoons of the cheese and basil mixture. Serve immediately. *This should be assembled when your guests arrive, so the shell remains crisp. You could also let guests assemble their own if you prefer. Place all the elements of the dish in bowls and place on a pretty tray.
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TIRAMISU Serves 6
2 large eggs, separated ½ cup sugar ¼ teaspoon sea salt ¼ cup whipping cream 1 (8 oz.) container mascarpone cheese 1 cup brewed espresso 3 tablespoons marsala wine 12 crisp ladyfingers, cut in half 1 cup sliced strawberries ¾ cup whipping cream 6 jars with lids (see photo) cocoa powder for garnish Place egg whites and salt in the bowl of a stand mixer with whisk attachment. Beat on high until soft peaks form. Transfer to a bowl. Beat egg yolks and sugar until pale yellow, about two minutes. Add ¼ whipping cream and beat one minute. Add the cheese with motor running on low until combined and smooth. Fold egg whites into custard mixture. Combine espresso and marsala wine. Spoon about ¼ cup of the custard mixture into the bottom of each jar. Place four pieces of the ladyfingers on top of the custard. Drizzle espresso mixture on top of the ladyfingers. Spoon remaining custard on top of ladyfingers. Place in the refrigerator until ready to serve. Place sliced strawberries on top of custard. Whip ¾ cup whipping cream and pipe on the lid of the open jar. Dust with cocoa powder if desired. *This dessert can be assembled right before guests arrive, and stored in the refrigerator until ready. ■
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Moms to the Rescue
When faced with challenges, these moms took matters into their own hands. They turned their solutions into successful businesses with products that make parenting a little bit easier. By Sasha Jozefczyk
Aqueduck® Created by Susanna Lee Faucet and handle extender for easy reach $9.99, $16.99 peachyco.com “As my three young boys grew bigger and heavier, it became harder to pick them up to wash their hands. I could not find anything to help them reach the water faucet. On a family trip to a theme park when germs and frequent hand washing were on my mind, the idea was born. After six months of experimenting with prototypes, the faucet extender Aqueduck® was launched. Later we added the two handle extender, and we are currently developing other bath-related products to help bring the water to the kids easily.” Fun fact: The company Peachy was named after Lee’s oldest son’s favorite stuffed animal.
BubbleBum® Created by Grainne Kelly Portable, foldable, inflatable car seat for children ages 4-11 $29.99 bubblebum.us “I was frequently traveling between our home in Ireland and England with my two young children and was left transporting heavy and bulky booster seats back and forth. Often the car rental companies did not have the seats I had pre-booked when we arrived. Concerned for the safety of my own children while traveling, I decided to come up with an inflatable solution, BubbleBum®. I took my idea and design from concept to shelf in nine months. The name came from kids who said it was a bubble for your bum and recommended it be bubble gum colors.” Fun fact: BubbleBum® has a free travel app with kids' games. IceHuggy™ Created by Vickie Weber Insulated sleeve for freeze pops, yogurt sticks, electrolyte pops and sore throat coolers $6.99 for a pack of two icehuggy.com “Blessed with six children ranging 18 years from oldest to youngest, freeze pops have been around our house for a long time. On a family camping trip in 2005, our sixth child, who was two at the time, had a temper tantrum because his fingers were cold and the freeze pop was melting before he could eat it. I grabbed a koozie and stitched it up as a temporary fix. After that, I spent countless hours perfecting the pattern, choosing materials and working with manufacturers, and after much patience we have the IceHuggy™. The flip-fold-fasten feature transforms to fit a variety of sizes.” Fun fact: Enter MV20 at checkout to receive 20% off of your order from icehuggy.com.
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NURTURE Buzzy® Created by Dr. Amy Baxter Palm-sized natural pain blocker that uses a combination of vibration and cold temperature to dull or eliminating sharp sensations Starts at $39.95 buzzy4shots.com “As a pediatric emergency doctor, I observed that needle procedures were creating unnecessary and long-lasting needle phobia in kids. As a mother of three, I couldn’t stand watching children suffer needlessly. One night when I was driving home, I noticed the slight shaking of my steering wheel and I thought, what about vibration? Buzzy® is faster, easier, less expensive. It creates less waste and better efficacy than any other needle pain blocker in existence. The cold and vibration are also good for itching, aches and other sharp pains.” Fun fact: DistrACTION® cards help draw kids' attention away from sharp pains.
Want to take your idea to the next level? Tamara Monosoff, founder and CEO of Mom Invented®, knows how to turn a product into a financial success. She is the author of The Mom Inventors Handbook: How To Turn Your Great Idea Into the Next Big Thing (McGraw-Hill).
1. Treat Your Product Idea as a Business from the Start. There is no true
shortcut. With an open mind, analyze and understand the design and production costs, market size, selling price, profit potential, and competition before you spend money bringing your product to market.
2. Bring Your Product to Life with a Prototype. Start with something basic that will be refined over time. It does not need to be expensive or fancy.
3. To Patent or Not to Patent? A patent can be a useful tool but it is not a
requirement and sometimes a waste of precious resources. Consider taking advantage of a Provisional Patent Application (PPA) first. It is a placeholder that will buy you 12 months of time before you have to officially file a utility patent.
4. Make it Simple. Many new product ideas include flashy features from elec-
tronics to excessive bells and whistles that drive up production costs and the retail price. Creating high-quality products with fewer features—but priced right—can mean more sales and money in your pocket.
5. Raise Smart Money. Use crowdfunding, microloans, credit lines, and new online options that fit your business.
6. Use Creative Sales Channels to Sell Your Product. Sell to thousands of people through the abundance of new BOGO (buy one get one) and “deal” websites such as Zulily.com and KidSteals.com, catalogs, and local retail purchase programs offered by major retailers like Sam’s Club.
7. Get on Camera. Use video to promote your product. YouTube is the second
largest search engine in the world and a key platform for online video marketing. With the help of video and social media platforms, you can generate immense traffic, brand awareness and sales.
8. Be Cautious of “Opportunities.” Be careful to scrutinize companies that
offer to market or license your product with sweet deals that sound too good to be true.
9. Use Powerful and Inexpensive Technology to Build an Efficient Business.
There are many new options available today, from website platforms such as Shopify.com and Weebly.com that include e-commerce capabilities and communities that integrate with inventory systems such as StitchLabs.com, to bookkeeping tools such as QuickBooksOnline.com, Yendo.com, Freshbooks.com, Xero.com, to customer relationship systems such as ZohoCRM. com and FreeCRM.com.
10. Celebrate Your Successes…Large and Small. Recognize setbacks for what they are unavoidable and sometimes the most valuable part of the journey.
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have been in my current position for two years. While I receive a small annual bonus, there is never talk about a raise and my responsibilities have grown. I am frustrated but I’m not the most confident person. I think my boss has figured that out. How do I tell her I want a raise?
Asking for a raise, or being assertive and asking for what we want in general, can be difficult. Simply knowing that you deserve a raise shows confidence. Doing adequate research to support your request will help build that confidence even further. Do you know the salaries of others in your position? How often does the company give raises? What is the cost of living in your state? Next, request an appointment with your boss, preferably after you have successfully completed a big project or taken on new responsibilities. Rehearse your request in the mirror or with a friend or family member. This will build your confidence. At the meeting, bring your research as well as a list of your accomplishments from the past six to 12 months. Be clear on what type of raise you are looking for (e.g. a 3-percent increase or an actual number). Dress professionally. Be polite, respectful, positive and persistent. Above all, know your worth and value and be confident! If your raise is refused, ask for an explanation. If you continue to be passed up for the compensation you deserve and don’t feel appreciated for the extra responsibilities you have taken on, then perhaps you should begin looking for another position. If you do receive a raise, ask your boss for an annual performance review where together you can discuss your professional growth and compensation.
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y little brother has it all: great marriage, well-adjusted children and financial success. I’m divorced, my own child is in therapy and I’m pretty much living paycheck to paycheck. My parents are always telling me to ask my brother for advice. I think he just got lucky but I feel like a loser. How do I handle my jealous and inferior feelings?
It sounds like you don’t feel very good about yourself at the moment. While there might naturally be some jealousy or envy in regards to your brother’s situation, this may not be about your brother at all. You may be projecting your feelings about yourself onto your brother. The most important thing for you to do is work on processing how you feel about the events—divorce, difficulty with your child and financial stress—that have transpired in your own life. It might be helpful to do this with a therapist. The therapist can work with you on identifying your negative thought patterns and replacing them with more positive ones. The second step to work on is self-acceptance. You are where you are right now, and where you are is OK. The world might feel heavy, but if you can put your judgments toward yourself away and focus on being mindful, it will lighten your load. Work on being happy for your brother, regardless of whether he got lucky or is responsible for the life that he has. Once you are able to gain some self-acceptance and empathy (not to be confused with sympathy) for yourself, I am certain that some of this jealousy will go away.
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First, falling in love with your best friend is not uncommon. This happens for a number of reasons. Similarity breeds attraction. The more time you spend with someone, the more likely you are to be attracted to him. In addition, given that he is your best friend, it is likely that you enjoy each other’s company and have a lot in common. Before you act on your feelings, spend time dissecting the ones that you “don’t understand.” They may not truly be feelings of love. Pay attention to signs. Has he reciprocated your feelings in any way? Does he flirt with you? Is there more physical contact between you? This situation may be tricky. While I am a big fan of open communication and authenticity, don’t jump the gun. If you tell him and the feeling is mutual, then hooray. Let the fun and romance begin. On the other hand, if he does not reciprocate your feelings, then your relationship could change. Think about whether your friendship is mature enough to survive such an experience.
Couples in successful relationships develop and implement rules together that are respected by both parties. If you have never communicated about this issue and do not have rules and boundaries regarding cell phones, then this is the time to set them. You have two options: You can accept that your husband will check your phone regularly and surrender to that, or you can openly and kindly communicate with him how you feel about his checking your phone. Work toward understanding what it is that compels him to do this. It may have very little or nothing to do with you, and more to do with his history or personal issues. An honest conversation will be an entry point to establish the terms for your cell phone agreement going forward.
have a close male friend who has been in my life since college. We have always been “just friends.” Lately though, I have had feelings toward him that I don’t understand. I think I might be falling in love with him. Should I tell him or keep it to myself?
y husband has always looked through my cell phone. I have nothing to hide so I haven’t said anything about it. Does this mean he doesn’t trust me or is he just nosy? Should I accept this quirk, or politely ask him to stop, and how do I go about it without him feeling attacked?
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ow do I handle 40-year-old mean girls who are gossiping about me? What’s the healthiest reaction? Do I take it on or ignore it?
The ignoring card always wins because eventually the gossip will be replaced by another juicy detail. People will forget and move on. But if the whispering is too intense for you to look the other way, then confront it in a forceful but courteous manner. What hurts you about the gossip? What is the trigger point? Your healthiest reaction will depend on that. By confronting the gossipers, you are calling attention to their negative behavior. Some people will react positively and see their wrongdoings. Unfortunately, some will continue. Either way, express your feelings rather than placing blame. This makes it harder for them to become defensive. Make a mental note about these people, no longer confide in them and keep your distance. Dr. Rachel Needle is a licensed psychologist in private practice at the Center for Marital and Sexual Health of South Florida and is the founder and executive director of the Whole Health Psychological Center. She received her Psy.D. in clinical psychology from Nova Southeastern University. M A Y / J U N E 2 0 1 4 M&V
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Growing pains
Coping with Tragedy It’s difficult enough for adults to comprehend traumatic events and even more challenging for children. Parents are integral in helping their kids cope through these unpredictable times. By Chrissie Ferguson
In the wake of the 2012 Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting in Conn., parents across the nation were shocked and heartbroken. Questions of concern ran through the minds of many, leaving parents wondering if discussing the tragedy with their children was appropriate. “It’s important to wait for windows in terms of responding to a child,” said Dr. Russell Jones, a licensed clinical psychologist and professor of psychology at Virginia Tech University who advised parents on The Dr. Oz Show, shortly after the Newtown, Conn., shootings. “Many times I wait until a child brings it up.” A child may give verbal cues and questions after watching the television or learning about a current event from a friend. Jones suggests turning off newscasts of traumatic events at home. “You don’t want to overly expose children to negative events, especially young children as it can create fear and anxiety,” said Jones, who is also a child and adult trauma expert. Find out how much a child knows about an event and take into account developmental differences when responding. Irritability, bed-wetting, acting out, crying or sleeplessness are signs that a child may be confused and scared.
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“Only tell them what they need to know, and what they need to know is not the entire story,” said Danielle Benvenuto, student services counselor at The Benjamin School in North Palm Beach, Fla. Older children, however, may learn more detailed information through the Internet, television or peers. When Palm Beach County mother of three boys Kimberly Duncan heard about a murder-suicide involving a mother and her two children, who attended the same school as her two older sons, she decided to pick up her children from school rather than have them ride the bus home that day. “If they had questions, I wanted to make sure that I was the one answering them, not someone on the bus,” said Duncan. “I had to explain that the mom was sick and I wanted them to know I would never do that to them.” Jones recommends having these serious discussions in a warm, nurturing, protective environment. According to Palm Beach Atlantic University student Daniel Cadorette, whose parents separated and mother passed away when he was 12 years old, that nurturing environment was crucial to him throughout his adolescent years.
“In a time where I felt alone and abandoned, what I needed most was not advice, but more to see that there was someone there for me, and that I was not alone,” Cadorette said. Promoting a “sense of safety, calmness and efficacy” is an important part of the healing process, said Jones. For instance, help a child write letters to grieving families, or if you are a religious family, pray for those in need. These acts of coping help a child feel that he or she is in control and can help them understand “there are things that they can do to make themselves feel better and things they can do to help others feel better,” Jones said. Depending on the severity and intensity of the event in a child’s life, he or she may need to seek counseling. Cadorette knows firsthand that there is hope for recovery. “After every dark night the sun rises, and after every thunderstorm there is a rainbow,” he said. For more information on children and how to help them cope with tragedy and death, visit firetraumas.com, The National Child Traumatic Stress Network at nctsnet.org or e-mail Dr. Russell Jones at rtjones@vt.edu. ■
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SOPHIE stærk Tromborg "These Danish products are some of the cleanest in the world. Gentle for your skin and the environment."
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o matter where she resides, Copenhagen will always be close to Sophie Stærk’s heart. Her Danish hometown is a tranquil city and its nature and design play a strong part in her artwork (sophietaerk. com). In 2004 she adopted New York City as her home base when she was accepted into The International Studio & Curatorial Program (ISCP), the premier residency-based contemporary art center in the United States for artists and curators. Commissioned by companies to create grand-scale murals, Stærk is working on a mural for a new building in Tokyo, Japan, to be unveiled in 2015.
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Ivan Grundahl "Ivan has been around for a long time, but continues his unusual and cool style with top quality. His bags are perfect for trendy travel."
Storm "A catch-all design, art and fashion store that carries so much more than clothing including beauty products, music, magazines and more."
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IRENEbertucci Gattinoni "This design house produces some of my favorite handbags and accessories."
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very year for the past ten years, Irene Bertucci lives six months in Rome and six months elsewhere, anywhere. She is the girl with the suitcase, a modern nomad, “but I always come back to this chaotic and complex city and its breathtaking Italian beauty.” The statuesque blonde is president and co-owner of Eidos, a school of journalism. The school, eidos.co.it, offers post-graduate masters in radio, TV and fashion journalism, communications and media relations. She also serves as vice president for MST, a company that promotes “Made in Italy” events.
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"If you want to feel like a star from La Dolce Vita, you will love shopping the boutiques of Via del Babuino and Via Borgognona."
Santa Maria Novella "Many of the signature products at this 400 year-old opulent pharmacy are made from ancient formulas."
Canova Tadolini Alberta Ferretti "I look for this designer's eponymous label along with other haute couture in the Piazza di Spagna."
"I like to enjoy an espresso at this unique restaurant that doubles as a sculpture museum."
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1. Babette Bar and Ristorante is one of my favorite places for a meal. It is on Via Margutta, near many art galleries and close to Piazza del Popolo. 2. When I am walking in the area of Piazza Navona, I like to have a drink at Caffè della Pace or the Bar del Fico. 2.
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3. Italians eat gelato all year long. My favorites are Gelateria del Teatro and Tartufo at Tre Scalini. 4. Hotel Locarno is old-world elegance and serves excellent breakfast and Sunday brunch. 5. The Boscolo Palace Hotel is a chic spot to enjoy an apertivo before dinner. 6. I adore the casual atmosphere of Angelina and their desserts are divine. 7. The Hotel de Russie is in the heart of the city and has a lush and relaxing outdoor terrace and patio.
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LEILA t. kallop Granado "Founded in 1870, Granado is known for their special formulas made from herbs and plants that grow only in Brazil."
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orn and raised in Taubate, a small town an hour from São Paulo, Leila T. Kallop moved to Brazil’s largest city while in high school. In late 2012 she launched LTBrazil.com, an e-commerce boutique specializing in Brazilian designers. “I immediately felt that Brazilian fashion was going to be loved by Americans.” Her permanent residency is in South Florida, but Kallop travels to São Paulo throughout the year to meet designers and to discover new collections for the site.
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"This is my favorite footwear for a stroll through Ibirapuera Park."
Proposital "Proposital, my mother's boutique, is where I found my love for fashion."
"The MC Belt is the perfect accessory for shopping along the famous Rue Oscar Freire."
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1. The cozy yet sophisticated Emiliano is a classic hotel in the Jardins neighborhood. 2. The best of both Brazilian and international designers are found on Rue Oscar Freire. 3. This dress, by designer Linda de Morrer, is sexy, chic and fun, just like S達o Paulo. 4. For the best cocktails, try SubAstor.
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5. I love to dine under the stars at The Hotel Fasano. 6. The rooftop terrace at the Hotel Unique, with its maritime architecture and modern design, has one of the best views of S達o Paulo. 3.
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MALINI ramani Malini Ramani Kama Ayurveda "I love these fantastic beauty products and never travel without my Kama pure rosewater spray."
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alini Ramani’s life is a magical blend of east and west. Born in New York and raised in India, the designer pushes creative boundaries in multiple ways. Most recently, she founded Dreamscape, a lifestyle store in Goa that showcases paintings, elephant statues, mirrors and other knickknacks and artifacts selected from Ramani’s worldly travels. Her eponymous clothing boutique, maliniramani.com, is a staple in Goa as is Congo, her upscale lounge bar located in the heart of Calangute-Candolim, Goa. Last year, Ramani teamed up with footwear company Bata India, a first-of-its-kind collaboration for Ramani and the company.
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"One of my designs from the 2014 collection."
Anamika Khanna Malini Ramani "You will often catch me and my friends in my wedged heel, Kolapuri, which is perfect for everyday wear."
"Indian designer Anamika Khanna is feminine and magical."
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7 & 9. I love taking time off to enjoy the peaceful Purple Valley Yoga Retreat, in Assagao, North Goa. 8. The luxury tents at the intimate beachside resort Amarya Shamiyana are playful chic meets Indian design. 10. Beautiful beaches of Goa. 5.
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IPEK irgit Mehry Mu "One of my favorite handbag designers, Mehry Mu was inspired by the ikat fabrics of the Grand Bazaar in Istanbul."
Dhoku
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"Directly translated to "textile" in Turkish, Dhoku rugs beautifully blend an antique feel with ethnic Turkish kilims to create one-of-akind contemporary rugs."
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riginally from Ankara, Turkey, Ipek Irgit practically grew up in Istanbul, where her parents are from. “Even when I was young I was fascinated by the rhythm, diversity, history and mysticism of the city. I wanted to stay in Istanbul as much as I could and dreaded going back to Ankara.� Now a New Yorker, Irgit is the owner and designer of KIINI, a line of swimwear and beach accessories that is sold at boutiques like The Webster in Miami and kiini.com. The entrepreneur is quick to tell you that although she has New York roots now, she always makes time for her Turkish friends back in Istanbul.
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Umit Benan "Turkish-born designer, Umit Benan, has recently joined the international menswear scene and is my pick for men's fashion."
Zeynep Tosun "I can't leave Istanbul without popping into Zeynep Tosun's store at Akmerkez to purchase a new bold piece."
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3. Karakoy Lokantasi is known for its traditional Turkish lunch and dinner, impressive service, and tasteful decor. 4 & 9. The Grand Bazaar is one of the oldest and largest covered markets in the world. With 60 streets and 5,000 shops, it is an irreplaceable Istanbul experience.
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The Southernmost City Only 7.5 square miles wide, Key West still packs a punch. Local resident and humorous author Christina Oxenberg takes us beyond Duval Street and Margaritaville and into the nooks and crannies that make Key West one of the country’s most sought-after vacation spots. And it turns out the island’s most famous residents aren’t Ernest Hemingway and Jimmy Buffett, they’re geckos and palolo worms. The following shorts stories are excerpts from Oxenberg’s new book When in Doubt… Double the Dosage (Amazon).
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for the palolo worms. Tarpon travel from all over to engage in this wilding with the worms. They feast on them, they gorge. They roll around and whisk the ocean into a heavy churn, they fling themselves about, frolicking like dolphins. The tarpon devour the tiny worms swimming for their precarious lives. The worms are so small and the fish so big some question the relationship. Some believe the worms are hallucinogenic. Keen to see these worms and the crazed tarpon I begged a ride from Caloosa, my friend who keeps a boat. It was 10 p.m. Caloosa is always up for an adventure and soon we were trickling through the harbor half lit from town, chugging around the edge of the piers. Guiding lights in green and red reflect in wobbly ribbons. The air was whitish, dense with moisture, tasting like soda bubbles, making for a mist with which to enshroud the anchored sailboats with their tall masts and wrapped sails, and all of them rocking mildly, a scene stolen from pirate days. Under a moon like a wafer of beaten gold we gathered speed toward the Atlantic Ocean, port-side passing a forested promontory and the shadows of a civil war Fort. Discouragingly there were a mere handful of crafts on the horizon, spaced sporadically, like fairy lights. “Not enough boats,” Caloosa said, shaking his head. “Where are the worms?” I implored. “You missed them,” he explained. “Better luck next year.” ■
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THE DELIVERY BY CHRISTINE CORDONE
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t was a windy afternoon and I was securing the house when I saw the mutant lizard. The skies were gray and treetops were swishing, and there was the baby gecko, spying on me from the shadow of my monitor. I had seen him before. He was yellow and rubbery looking, like a section of ginger, except with expressive bulbous eyes. I’ve watched him scooting across the ceiling and across walls and squeezing beneath window sashes and door jams. It seemed he was looking to get out of the house. I wanted to liberate him, but how? He moved so fast, he evaded my every effort to capture him. I threw towels which landed empty on the floor.
they began to apply themselves to the sliding doors and the windows. Pressing their bodies and bounding away, like fireworks. I watched one frog try to press his vivid green self through a crack in a window, so I sprung over to smack at the glass, and thank heavens he hopped off. Rattled, my eye caught something speeding across the kitchen floor.
I phoned my friend Caloosa. “Emergency!” I spoke to his voice mail, “A baby gecko is stuck indoors.” Caloosa was at home on his houseboat, sage smudging the rooms, spinning the pungent smoke around himself like a ribbon. After a day hosting guests he liked to restore the mojo of his sanctuary. He was swaying to Jazz and sage smudging when the phone rang. He checked the ID. It was that writer chick. He let the call go to voice mail.
Suddenly, on automatic, I picked up one foot and planted it directly on whatever was moving, landed squarely on it. I had stomped hard on something pliable and humped. I felt a squishing, and I heard a popping sound. I recoiled, withdrawing my foot, only to see the baby gecko trampled and gooey. His spine was smashed and his tail was split, his legs splayed. But he was still alive. Looking at him I felt sick. He twisted his upper body and turned his head to me, his mouth open, his eyes moist, as if imploring, “Why?” He stared at me, pale eyes beseeching. I was appalled. I knew what I had to do. I raised one foot and crushed him. I felt the torso collapse; felt it give way and flatten, emptying of all hope and aspiration.
The rain descended noisily, bullets strafing dry leaves, rattling heavy palm tree fronds. I dashed about securing wobbly windows, sopping up pools of rainwater that easily entered. The lusty squelching growl of sexed up frogs broke out, groaning in their throaty way, sounding like giants in waterlogged galoshes. I wouldn’t have cared except
After the storm Caloosa sat in his wicker chair on the front deck, watching the rising moon as it glowed through clouds, trapping silver light. He sipped his wine, and returned messages. To the writer chick he said: “That little guy is a House Gecko. They live behind picture frames, and they eat bugs. The House Gecko is your friend.” ■
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1. Safari nation 2. Trip display (2 words) 3. Kings Peak locale 4. Place to see the Ducks 5. Yale student 6. Home of the van Eyck brothers' "Adoration of the Lamb" altarpiece 7. Spanish for day 8. Classic art subject 13. State where you can see the Craters of the Moon monument 14. Old Faithful emission 16. Calendar abbr. 17. Leave 19. Something to hold up on a fishing trip 21. Sedona state 22. "Game of Kings" played in Palm Beach 23. Lettuce 24. Meditative practice 27. Tour de France mountains 28. Pizzazz 29. Lake Geneva site famous for its jazz festivals 31. Restaurant head honcho 32. Like the waters of the Caribbean 33. Dieting concern, abbr. 34. ____ Brassus, site of luxury watch making in Switzerland 35. Bondi Beach city 37. He gets a holiday in June 38. Actors' union 40. Kings or queens 41. Bikini top 42. Keats wrote on a Grecian one 43. Love message, when repeated 44. Indefinite article 46. Animated film with many balloons
ACROSS 1. Island off the Dalmation Coast where Marco Polo lived 5. Valley where St Moritz is located 9. Zilch 10. Famous Falls 11. Cold nation with many geysers 12. Goals 15. Luxury boutique hotel in Beverly Hills 18. Romantic meeting 19. Fear or Horn 20. Brit. island
22. Desktop 25. Expression of delight 26. Sumatra sight 28. Adjusted a camera 30. Classic rock opera 32. Legendary multi-media artist, Robert 33. The plain in Spain 36. "Philosophers' Walk" city in Germany 38. Spend the night 39. Bronze 40. Happy hour hangout 41. French wine 44. Sea surrounding Mykonos
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THINK Tank By Lola Thélin
New York. I thought people who would entice me were only in New York,” said Coudert. “I walked through the front door of this house and I got hit with a feeling so powerful that I knew I would never leave. There is a soul here. This is a healing place.”
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Villa dei Fiori is where intellectual magic happens. From inside the house, she runs the Coudert Institute, an organization that welcomes open dialogue and diverse opinions from its membership during seminars led by industry experts and game changers from around the country. The series, which touches upon important international and national subjects, runs from approximately November to April. This is Coudert’s version of the Aspen Institute, which she attends every summer. The quality of speakers is a testimony to Coudert’s personality and her goal to make a meaningful change in the world. This season the institute hosted Dr. Mordechai Kedar, an Islam expert, and Juliana Gilheany, Ph.D., professor at Fordham University. Issue areas range from critical topics of the day to philosophy and the arts. Coudert is an outspoken supporter of equal rights for women. After divorcing her first husband, she began a career as a commercial real estate broker with Cross & Brown in New York City. One of her clients introduced her to a group of people who were opening a bank geared toward women and encouraged her to become involved. “I didn’t know anything. I wrote checks but I couldn’t stand to see my balance because I knew I was spending too much money. I knew I wanted to help women,” said Coudert. “After I divorced in 1973, I realized I owned nothing. I always had a credit card but through my father and later my hus-
band. I couldn’t get a card because I didn’t have a credit rating. Women could get no equity, only alimony and child support.” Coudert created her own role at the bank. She was primarily responsible for overseeing business development and speaking on contemporary banking and entrepreneurship in China, Russia (then the Soviet Union) and other parts of the world. At the helm of the bank were Rita Hauser and Muriel Siebert, and the bank played a major role in trying to pass the Equal Rights Amendment. “My main goal at that time was to help women who went to law and medical schools get loans to open their own practices.” “Someone once told me I was meant to be a bridge,” said Coudert. When friend Robert A. G. Monks, a pioneering shareholder activist and a U.S. Department of Labor appointee under President Reagan, asked her to make Palm Beach more interesting, the Coudert Institute was born, thus championing intellectual curiosity. ■
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R.S.V.P. ROCK THE CASBAH The Society of the Four Arts' Contemporaries Gala Rocks the Casbah brought a Moroccan -themed event to life February 22, hosted in The Four Arts Philip Hulitar Sculpture Garden, Palm Beach.
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1. SUSAN MILLER, TALBOTT MAXEY 2. KENN KARAKUL, MAURA ZISKA 3. DONNA LONG, WENDY FRITZ 4. JESSICA KOCH, JOANNA MYERS 5. FELICE STEINBECK, AFSY POTTACH, HELENE LORENTZEN 6. AMY LAGAE, MOLLY GREENE 7. ROBERT HAMON AND DARLENE JORDAN 8. RENA BLADES, JERRY CRANK 9. LORE MORAN DODGE, KATHY WELLER 10. JACK ELKINS, GAIL MCMILLAN, LOY ANDERSON 11. CHERYL GOWDY, PAMELA O'CONNOR 12. PAMELA MILLER, MARY GILBANE
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R.S.V.P. A CELEBRATION OF WOMEN IN STYLE Neiman Marcus Palm Beach, with Allegra Fanjul of VeryAllegra.com, and M&V Magazine Editor in Chief Amy Lagae celebrated inspirational women who rock the fashion, media and cyber scenes, at the luxury department store on Worth Avenue on March 21.
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IMPACT RED CROSS DESIGNERS’ SHOW HOUSE AND PREVIEW PARTY In celebration of the 38th Designers’ Show House benefiting the American Red Cross, a preview party was held February 19 in West Palm Beach.
1. JENNIFER GARRIGUES, DAIANA EL-DAHER 2. MIMI MASRI, KATHERINE SHENAMAN 3. STEPHEN MOONEY, SCOTT VELEZO 4. MELODY SMITH 5. JENNIFER PERREAULT, PIPER GONZALEZ 6. WENDY FRITZ, SCOTT ROBERTSON, DONNA LONG 7. JOSEPH PUBILLONES, LOLA THELIN, TERRANCE HARRIS, SASHA JOZEFCZYK 8. SUZANNA FRANK, WALLY &
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AMELIA ROSE EARHART, 31, STANDING NEAR A PIL ATUS PC-12NG
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emember those Choose Your Own Adventure books we read as kids? The concept was simple: We, the readers, decided the fate of the main character by choosing the adventures. Did we want the protagonist to slay the dragon and save the city, or did we want her to take the throne and graciously rule for years to come? The choice was our own, and all we had to do was turn the page. If we didn’t like the outcome, we had the choice to go back and decide again, crafting our experience to our liking. I am Amelia Rose Earhart, and yes, this is my real name. I have decided to live my life as a Choose Your Own Adventure book, and the process has been incredibly rewarding. While I am not related to the first AE, I was named after the world’s most famed aviatrix. In the 1930s, she flew everything she could get her hands on, becoming the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic Ocean. She disappeared while attempting a circumnavigation of the globe in 1937.
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My name, without a doubt, led me into the sky. Being named Amelia Earhart sparks daily questions from strangers about whether or not I would ever fly around the world. At first, I laughed off the idea, but after 10 years of flight, I am excited to say that it is time to make that far-off dream my reality.
of pursuit is open to everyone. There is, however, a catch. You’ve got to want your goal like a drowning man wants one more clean breath. You’ve got to go to bed an hour later, get up an hour earlier, forfeit the “this is how it’s supposed to be done” and experience the joy of writing your own rule book.
This June I will fly an equatorial route around the globe in a Pilatus PC-12NG. This singleengine, turboprop airplane will be configured with extra fuel to complete the ocean crossings: 27,000 miles, 17 days, 14 stops. Planning this flight has been the most engaging, grueling, inspiring and challenging task I’ve ever worked on. It began with wild enthusiasm that has grown into calculated training, concentrated self-discovery and the vision to choose my own adventure. I hope to be the youngest woman to fly around the world in a plane with one engine.
I want to inspire adventure, encouraging young women to pursue aviation as a hobby or career. To help promote this vision, I created the Fly with Amelia Foundation to fund the flight training of young women and to create free STEM-based (science, technology, engineering and math) lesson plans for the classroom.
My upcoming global flight has allowed me to see my potential as truly limitless. Based in hard work, laser focus and repetition, this type
Our deepest passions follow us through our days. Most choose to stuff them away, letting daily routine ride shotgun in our lives. When you finally learn to let those passions lead, a little at first, then eventually as your own True North, you’ll see that you always have the option of deciding how your story goes. My next chapter will take me all the way around the world. ■
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