How to Prevent a Stagnant Marriage
I think that a stagnant marriage is something to be avoided at all costs as it will make for a miserable existence between you. When a marriage or a relationship stops flowing forward it generally means that you have lost touch with each other, a situation that can confuse you and give you fears for your relationships future. It can be a dangerous time for a marriage, because if one of you is bored and wants excitement, if they don't get it in the marriage, they could look outside. The theory behind how to save a stagnant marriage is easy, spend time together and communicate it's what you did when you first met. The longer your marriage is stuck in rut the more difficult it can be to take action, so if you are noticing problems with your marriage, then don't delay in dealing with them.
We all lead very busy lives and it can be easy to let things slip in the marriage. If that happens once in a long while then it's not as bad, but if it happens on a regular basis then you will have problems. Once you do something once it becomes easier to do it again. Let's say if you have a lousy job or are coming home tired from work, sometimes the last thing that you want to do is talk, so you switch the T.V on, and it becomes habit. Work, home, eat, T.V, not the recipe for an exciting marriage.
There is something between you or you wouldn't have met, gone dating, got engaged, or got married. What did you do when you first met? Did you talk for hours on something and nothing? Do you have memories of great dates and time that you shared together? Did you let each other know how much you loved and cared for each other? Life wasn't boring then, it was exciting and new. And then you got used to each other and it was no longer exciting, no longer new, maybe you go complacent, and then maybe you got bored.
A loving, happy, healthy marriage, does not happen just because you got married, it is something that you both have to want, and that you both have to work for. Having married the person that you love most in the world, you have to find a way of coming together and sharing each others lives. You need to know how to make each other happy, when to offer help and support, how to fulfill your partners wants and needs. This isn't just for the honeymoon period, this is for the whole of your life together. If you want to prevent a stagnant marriage then you have enjoy your time together and not live together as strangers.
You are going to have your problems, every relationship does every marriage does, but you need to face them and deal with them together. Did you know that it can be healthy to argue, it just depends how your argue. If you don't behave like a couple of kids, shouting and screaming at each other, blaming