United to End Violence

Domestic Violence Awareness Month 2020

By Patricia Chapin, NAS Sigonella Fleet and Family Support Center

Preventing domestic abuse is a shared community responsibility that starts with education and providing critical support to victims. This October, which is Domestic Violence Awareness Month, we would like to share some simple, safe and effective ways for family, friends and concerned community members to help individuals who are at risk for domestic abuse during a time of heightened isolation.

Getting help for an abusive relationship is difficult, especially during a global crisis. The public health measures designed to slow the spread of the novel coronavirus have created conditions that may contribute to domestic abuse. For example, stay-athome orders may increase risk factors for victims by keeping them in quarantine with their abuser and cutting them off from friends, relatives and safe havens.

-When it comes to domestic abuse, everyone’s situation is different – it can happen to anyone and is not their fault. Whatever the circumstances, a call to your installation’s Family Advocacy Program (FAP) or Military OneSource can link you to resources and support.

-FAP is committed to supporting service members and their families impacted by domestic abuse through victim advocacy and crisis intervention. If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, and you are not sure what to do, make a call to one of the Family Advocacy Counselors here on NAS Sigonella (624-4291/095 56-4291)

-If you are concerned about your safety and need immediate support, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or a live chat with an advocate at thehotline.org.

What should you do if you are worried that a friend or family member is experiencing domestic abuse? First of all, do not pressure them to leave. Instead, tell them you are there for them and that you can help them plan for their safety or seek outside support when they are ready. Ask them how they prefer to stay in touch. Support them. Believe them.

In these times of increased isolation, you can also make yourself available for scheduled check-ins with loved ones who may feel unsafe at home, whether it be by phone, text or social media, so you will know if they’re OK or if you need to call for help.

Your Family Advocacy Program, Command, and all agencies of NAS Sigonella are here to support you. If you, or someone you know is at risk, reach out to your local Family Advocacy Program (624-4291/095 56-4291), the National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-342-9647), or the National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (1-800-799-7233).

Learn more at https://www.militaryonesource.mil/family-relationships/relationships/domestic-abuse-help , https://ncadv.org/ and https://www.thehotline.org/