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How to... The utilitarian white button-down shirt takes a new avatar this summer. Turn them from boring to chic to stylish. Check out how you can wear it in four different ways.
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Fashion Report
They have made their mark in history amongst the fashionistas and the working men as the comfortable outfit for physical work. Now they are back as the ultimate trend staple in a grandeur manner. Know more about the Jumpsuits.
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Style 101
We asked and you answered with your pictures. Check out these daily people whose style is worth a page in our style section.
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Runway the Navyaata Way Channelling Chanel Iman’s uber-glam runway look from Nicole Miller’s show.
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7 days wardrobe fix Make your weekdays exciting by mixing and matching what you’ve got in your closet. Like we’ve said it mix and match is an art more than it is making the best of what you’ve got. So showcase your creativity at your work too.
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Fashion Feature pg 42 - 53
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Navyaata People
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Discovering yet another place, Nepalthok takes your breathe away with its rural-ness and it’s stories about caves and mysterious stones at the Sunkosi Riverbank.
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My story
A new column where you can send us your stories and experiences. 5 people share their experiences on relationships
– how they fought, suffered, argued and stood up for themselves. pg 82 - 83
Events
An event full of glamorous and beautiful people, the launch of the first issue of Navyaata.
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Behind the scenes See the unedited, uncensored pictures of what goes behind Navyaata’s photo shoot.
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Stylescope
What should you be doing this month? Read it now and be prepared. pg 90 - 91 In between the merrymaking and carousing. pg 92 - 93
Uh-Oh!
Look what we have here.
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EDITOR’S LETTER April 13 was an evening of glitz and glamour. The launch of Navyaata was an exciting day which all of us had been eagerly waiting for. But surprisingly, more than us, it was our well-wishers and enthusiastic future-readers who were more excited. Some had already thought about what they’d wear to the launch weeks ahead (it was really sweet of them). We were nervous about how people would react, excited about revealing the cover and seeing the expressions of the audiences when they’d finally get hold of the magazine. The people came, walked the red carpet, clicked pictures and when the cover was revealed and the magazine was distributed, it was one of the most satisfying feeling ever. It was a hit! We took feedbacks - whether they were good or bad (the former overshadowing the latter) - all to know what more we could do. Once again, we want to thank all of you who’ve helped us in making Navyaata what it is so far with your faith in us.
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What I love about summer is the great outdoors- the liveliness and the revelry that surrounds the season (although I also agree that the heat’s getting unbearable each day). This May issue, we’ve doubled the cele bration with a double cover and a double fashion feature. We thought, why wait for a celebration? Why wait for an anniversary issue? For Navyaata, every issue is a celebration and with every issue we want to take your breathe away. And that’s how we came up with the whole idea – celebrating each issue and celebrating summer. This month, Navyaata also delves on the lives and thoughts of four artistes who have manifested their talents all through these years with their sheer perseverance. Here’s to all the artistes in the country who’ve done the same. We also have a new column that adds excitement and hype starting this issue. It’s the “my story” section, where you get to read real-life incidences and experiences from those who have been through each and every moment of it. And they are all anonymous writers. More excitingly, you could be one of them. Send us your stories – funny, weird or heart-breaking, happy or romantic – anything. Just send it to us at editorial@ navyaata.com. Nobody needs to know who and what you are, that’s the best part. We’re not done yet. We also have a survey for all our readers to fill out. What turns you on and off in a man/woman? The entire Navyaata team sat down for a meeting to talk about fresh ideas, innovative styles… whatever struck their mind and that’s when the subject came about. Some said they had a problem with men who spit while some mentioned the same about women. So what is yours? Fill in the survey and let us know and see the results on our next issue. We are waiting.
Tenzing Choetso Lama Editor-in-chief
President CEO Editor-in-chief Creative Head Director
Dolly Gurung Himal Karmacharya Tenzing Choetso Lama Hem Kumar Limbu Sharmila
Reporters Ujwol Shrestha Dolkar Lhamo Tsering Dolkar Gurung Surakhsha Basnet Marketing Manager Dikila Ruit Reeti Rani Rai Marketing Associates Sudeep Ghimirey Richa Bajracharya Sangita Sapkota Photographers Phurpu Tsering Gurung Shailendra Shrestha Fashion Coordinator Pragati Gurung Receptionist Junu Adhikari Consultant Sudan Bista
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Kathmandu CDO Reg. No. 104/066/067 Published by: Navyaata Media Tel/Fax: 4001036, info@navyaata.com Printing: Jagdamba Press Pvt. Ltd., Tel: 5250017-9 Color Seperation: CTP Nepal Pvt. Ltd., Tel: 5250468 Mail us at: Navyaata Magazine, North Gate, Lainchaur, P.O. Box 10053, Kathmandu, Nepal For editorial queries, write to us at editorial@navyaata.com For marketing queries, write to us at marketing@navyaata.com Go to our fan page (Navyaata Magazine) at facebook for exclusive pictures, updates and events of the magazine.
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NAVYAATA MAGAZINE
THE REAL EXPERIENCE
MAY-JUNE 2010
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Tenzin Dawa Shakya, 21, is a new face to the modelling world. Our May cover girl is beautiful, playful and extremely grounded. Although it was her first time shooting for a magazine cover she exhibited confidence, a sense of professionalism and most importantly a breath of fresh air. With each click of the camera, she turned from a normal ordinary girl to a cover girl giving us the expressions of a professional model. Even our fashion photographer, Kishore Kayastha couldn’t get enough of her. She looks breath taking in all the pictures. Navyaata is proud to have featured her for the first time. We believe with a face like that Dawa will go places.
Navya Girl Top from DS Collections,
Sherpa Mall
Hydralight Cream Gloss style 60 Blond Beige Price 14 Bon Bon Pink Price
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UWTC
Perfect Powder Rouge 43
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Inliner 51 Indian Black Shorts from Temptation,
Velvet touch Compact
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Eye Shadow Palette 58 Creamy Nude
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Live music by the ‘Strings’ at G ‘s Terrace Restaurant n Bar, Thamel
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DJ Night featuring DJ Saakar and DJ Prince at Bourbon Room
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Lord Shiva statue being unveiled at Sanga, Bhaktapur
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June Readers club, New Baneshor organizing ‘best reader of the year’ competition, starting from Baishak 2067, ends at Chaitra 2067
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Poem reciting at Gurukul (Tel: 4466956)
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Baja Gaja playing live at Moksh at 7:30 pm
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Opening ceremony of World Cup 2010 at South Africa
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Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Center, Tripureshwor
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
RS 1870, Fuel, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Me& Me, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
THE NAUTICAL NAVIGATING
STRIPES
Contradicting all other patterns this summer the nautical stripes are all set to amplify your looks and sought out your wardrobe. With shirts, dresses, leggings and shoes you certainly have an array of choices to choose from. So embrace the sailor style with these hyper-cool stripes
RS 1290, Blue Berry, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Price on request, DS Collection Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Me& Me Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Blue Berry, Woodland Complex Building, Durbar Marg
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POWER Go girly this summer with the season’s most symbolic print. In various forms, sizes and colour, the flower prints are the head-turners.
Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
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Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
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Paying Homage
Audrey Hepburn to
She is the epitome of timeless glamour and femininity. Hollywood’s most trendsetting diva, Audrey Hepburn still manages to inspire us with her movies like Breakfast in Tiffany’s
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
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Price on request, Bajra & Blay, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
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Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
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Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
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studs Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
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ME METAL
Tempting and mighty, these studs are your best buddies this summer. Perfect for every occasion and every look these studs will help you craft a fashion statement of your own kind. With stud shoes, bags and belts, studs are definitely ruling the trend.
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Price on request, Candy Wear, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Wardrobe, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
RS 1390, RD Chaahat, Price on request, Attitude, Durbar Marg Kathmandu Mall
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Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
This summer dominating all other colours, blue has hit the rocks. This season, the eye knows no name of the shades. Whether they’re faded or metallic or dark or bright, all hues of blue are in.
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor RS 1390, Fuel, Durbar Marg
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
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Price on request, DS Collectio Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, DS Collection Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
RIPPING THEM
LEGGINGS From jeans to leggings to jeggings, distressed is not a new name in the trend scene. Whatever is torn or ripped, it works this season
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
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Honestly speaking, jeans nowadays are able to empty your wallet just by a pair and we’re not even talking distressed jeans. Understanding everyone’s budget, here we teach you how to make your very own distressed jeans without raking the bank.
THINGS YOU WILL NEED An old pair of jeans, a washable marker and a razor blade or knife
INSTRUCTIONS Step 1: you might want to start up with an old jeans in case you mess up. Wear the jeans and mark the areas where you want the rips with a washable marker to avoid any mistakes. Step 2: Be sure to take the jeans off. This is a step in itself. If you start to rip your jeans before wearing them, there is a great chance that you will cut yourself. We have made the marks so that we don’t have to try to rip the jeans while wearing them.
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Step 3: Taking the razor blade, simply make the incisions where you have created the lines. This will create a simple rip in the jeans. If you are looking for a larger rip, make the initial incision, and then take the blade of the razor and rub it along the edges of the rip you just made. This will help make the rip larger without turning it into a huge, round hole. Step 4: once you have made your rips, take the jeans and put them in the washer and dryer. This will give you the final product. A perfect custom-designed distressed pair of jeans for you and people might think that you bought them at a designer store.
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HOW TO... wear a basic button-down shirt
If you don’t know how to wear them, they are that boring plain white shirt only worn in a single way. But if you can play with it and create different ways to wear them, they are one of the most utilitarian pieces of wardrobe you could own. From boardroom to cafeteria, they work quite well actually.
Button-down Shirt, Bossini, Durbar Marg
Shirt Shorts, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Nude Shorts, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
Slip in a stretchable dress on the shirt that can take you from office ready to cool and trendy. With flip flops, a huge bag, shorts and the shirt you’re ready to stroll everywhere, anywhere.
Tank, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
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HOW TO... Puff-sleeved Top, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Gladiator Heels, DS Collections , Sherpa Mall
High-waisted quarters, Temptation, UWTC
High-waisted Jeans, DS Collections , Sherpa Mall
Flip Flops, Temptation, UWTC
This fine shirt along with the skinny jeans give a perfect outfit to any official tag.
A simple shirt, a knee length jeans and a strapped heel is shown to add great spice in the model's look. Wedges, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
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Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
PICKS of the MONTH
Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg.
PICK OF
THE MONTH Wanna look updated? Here are the picks that will upgrade you from okie-dokie to in-themoment beauty
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg.
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
Price on request, DS Collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg.
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NAVYAA|CHOICE
{Editor’s pick} Sunglasses “This shape complements my face like no other.”
T-Shirt “I love simple, printed shirts right now.”
Ring “One funky accessory on your hand or your finger can add glamour in you.”
Belt “I love how these belts upgrade a look.”
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{Director’s pick}
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Skirt “I love this skirt for its comfort and stylish-ness.”
Bag “This bag fits in all the essentials for the day.”
Coach Watch “My watch always keeps me on time and it is classy for the brand.”
Converse Shoes “The brand has always been my fetish. I can wear my converse everyday, everywhere, any day, anywhere.”
Samsung “I always use phones from Samsung.”
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Price on request, DS collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, DS collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
POTRAIT TOPS When you try your best but you can’t succeed, when you get what you want and not what you need….don’t pester because in situation like this portrait tops are always there to rescue you. These super cool and super smart tops will spare you the fashion blunder and will help you look temperate, smart and stylish.
Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
Price on request, Me n Me, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
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Price on request, DS collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Accessories
UMBRELLA
When the rain comes down or the sun goes up, these simple but sleek umbrellas are always going to be there to spare you the sun and veil you from the rain. Price on request, DS Collection,
Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
AVIATOR To stand out the horde, these over-smacking aviators are the must buy this summer. You have a range to prefer from depending on your budget.
Rs 10000, Karuna, Durbar Marg.
HATS These stunning burlesque Victorian hats will make you look high-end earning you compliments. Let your senses feel the power of carrying out such an urbane trend.
Rs 1640, RD Chaahat, Durbar Marg
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Price on request, Temptation, World Trade Centre, Tripureshwor
FLIP flops
RS 890, Wardrobe, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
Simple yet stylish, these colourful flip lops will lead you to wonderlands. Travelling or bag packing or casual, flip flops are every where this summer.
Price on request, DS collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
Price on request, DS collection, Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg
RS 890, Wardrobe, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
Price on request, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
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RS 500, Wardrobe, Woodland Complex, Durbar Marg
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the Jumpsuits A piece designed for comfort and convenience turned into a trend that even celebrities couldn’t resist. Dolkar Lhamo reports.
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It’s surprising to know that the jumpsuits were first designed for the skydivers during their practices to insulate heat into the body at high altitudes and minimize the risk of covering important handles and grips.
hink of Jumpsuits today and the first thing that probably comes to mind is glamorous outfits in hues of various color and shapes or less probably Lady Gaga donning one of the pieces with her signature bow headband: up-front sexiness and sassy yet classy . From Elvis Presley in his legendary white rhinestone jumpsuit to Britney Spears in her figurehugging red leather suit in Oops I did it again, to Aerosmith during his live concerts, everybody found the liking of these easy and comfortable wear. The jumpsuit has remained as one of the most versatile fashion silhouette. And this season they are in vogue in a big way.
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umpsuits don’t always have a specific design. They are worn loosely for a classier and more sophisticated feel or worn as a second skin for some attention. The celebs are the ones who have tried the highs and the lows, the best or the worst of the style. We have Vanessa Minillo and Michelle Trachtenberg with the jumpsuit on the red carpet and we even have Jennifer Lopez who wore this outfit during one of her album cover event. And after that, jumpsuit has been on the news in the fashion world.
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t’s surprising to know that the jumpsuits were first designed for the skydivers during their practices to insulate heat into the body at high altitudes and minimize the risk of covering important handles and grips. Soon later, jumpsuits were seen worn by the prisoners and the mechanics and then fashion soon followed suit. Who would’ve known that a piece designed for comfort and convenience would turn into such a fetish for many women and men alike from generation to generation. For ladies who want to try a different style there is an array of choices for you. Since the season of scorching sun is already here, ladies can adopt the strapless jumpsuit which is gaudy but cool. Not only this, there are other styles of jumpsuits like cargo-style jumpsuit, crop jumpsuits, slinky jumpsuits or for those who are not sure of their own body figures can go for the stretchable ones. Kunchhang Moktan, Miss Nepal 2009, 2nd runner-up, takes jumpsuits as a dress code which is the right option for a party. She further shares that the jumpsuits make her look really
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eminine but is a little uncomfortable hanging out in Kathmandu with these super-stylish pieces where there is a lot of eavesdropping from the people when something bright and extraordinary pops up. “Jumpsuits will never lose their way out into fashion because of its cool, trendy, stylish aura and it can give you a glam chic look when you team it with ankle boots, high heels or peep-toes,” says Kuncchang.
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We asked and you replied in your own style. These fashionistas from around the world, have what it takes to be on Navyaata’s style section – some have a girly outlook while some have a whole cool meets glam doll going on.
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The design by Nicole Miller, fashion’s elite designer whose designs are “engineered to flatter women’s body and forgive flaws”, is a perfect definition of layering and putting your most basic ensembles together and creating that funky look. Worn by Chanel Iman, this runway look is an attainable and a practical style for your everyday life.
Runway
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It is the most commonly and casually asked question. Each has their own answer. Many have an endless list. Such personal choices can start a discussion or laughter, arouse curiosity and interrogations too. So let’s talk about your choices. What is it that turns you on and off in the opposite sex? Fill in the survey and send it to us and see the result on the next issue.
For Him
For Her
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Hair • Black • Long • Short • Coloured • Others ___________ • Personality • Romantic • Not trying too hard • Musician • Graceful, elegant • Wearing Kurta • Quiet and shy • Smart and confident • Naïve • Others _______________ • Body • Skinny • Athletic • Plump • Huge • Over-size • Others ___________
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Girly Dingo Body odour No table etiquette Wearing gold accessories Long nails (with nail polish) Bad English (I didn’t went) Pot belly Digging nose Scratching groin Straight perm Others ___________
Tattoo Body piercing Talkative Spitting Pretentious Over-confident Stupid/dumb Too skinny Too heavy makeup Materialistic Hairy Others ___________
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Gujun Pyo hairdo Spiky Long Short Army short Dreadlocks Others __________
Personality • Good English • Husky voice • Red Mazda • Homebody • Family guy • Animal lover • Others _________
Tear this survey and drop it either at our office at North Gate, Lainchour. Tel: 4001036, 4001039 or at DS Collections (Sherpa Mall) Tel: 4228917
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dayswardrobe fix
One of the secrets to getting that job or making an impression is by how you present yourself. What you wear, how you wear it and how you carry yourself with what you wear speaks oodles about your personality even from a distance. But to dress to impress, you don’t have to really rake the bank and shop an entire store. With just the basic necessities, you can work your way throughout the week and look different every day.
Top, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Checkered Tube dress, DS Collections. Sherpa Mall
SUNDAY: "Lunch with the CEO"
Skirt, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
Black Top, Temptation, UWTC
Liquid leggings, DS Collections
Flared Trousers, Temptation, UWTC
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Trench, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
Skinny belt, Attitude, Kathmandu Mall
Shirt dress DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
MONDAY: "Meeting with clients"
Boyfriend Shoes, Temptation, UWTC
THURSDAY: "Signing the final deal"
TUESDAY: "Sightseeing"
WEDNESDAY: "Presentation of the new product"
Zip Heels, DS Collections, Sherpa Mall
FRIDAY: "Organising the schedule for the subordinates"
SATURDAY: "A day off. Chilling at Coffee Express"
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Em br acin g art and su m m er S i m p l i ci t y m e et s u t i l i t y m e et s c r e a t i v i t y - r o m a n ce w i t h co l o u r s , f l o r a ls a n d l a ye r s u n d e r t h e s u n t h is s u m m e r. W i t h a r t s y p a i n t i n g s a s a n i n s p i r a t i o n , l et t h e a r t is t s ’ p a i n t s s p l a s h o n yo u r wa r d r o b e. P h o to g r a p h e r K is h o r e Ka ya s t h a
Layered Top from Attitude, Kathmandu Mall Layered Top from Attitude, Kathmandu Mall Shorts and Headband from DSDS Collections, Sherpa Mall Shorts and Headband from Collections, Sherpa Mall Oxfords from Temptation, UWTC Oxfords from Temptation, UWTC Makeup byby IsaDora Makeup IsaDora Hair byby Marsyangdi Parlour Hair Marsyangdi Parlour
Jumpsuit and Studded Sandals from DS Collections, Sherpa Mall Bag and hair band from Temptation, UWTC Makeup by IsaDora Hair by Marsyangdi Parlour
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Dress from Temptation, UWTC Belt from DS Collections, Sherpa Mall Wedges from Attitude, Kathmandu Mall Makeup by IsaDora Hair by Marsyangdi Parlour 46 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
Tube dress from DS Collections, Sherpa Mall Heels from Attitude, Kathmandu Mall Makeup by IsaDora Hair by Marsyangdi Parlour
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Goin g of f you r r ocker with th e season’s tr en d Ca l l i t P u n k , ca l l i t B i ke r C h i c o r R o c ke r C h i c ; t h ey ’r e t h e s e a s o n ’s m os t t r e n ds et t i n g l o o k . R ewo r k yo u r co l o u r co d e with the black and the purple and the r e d , a d d i n g e d g e to yo u r s t y l e q u o t i e n t . P h o to g r a p h e r K is h o r e Ka ya s t h a
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Cap and wrist accessories from RB Complex, Shop no. 420 Bangles and Key chain from RB Complex, Shop no. 420 Portrait top from DS Collections, Sherpa Mall Bag from Temptation, UWTC Makeup by IsaDora Hair by Marsyangdi Parlour
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Chain and hand accessories from RB Complex, Shop no. 420 Dress from Temptation, UWTC Gladiator heels from DS Collections, Sherpa Mall Makeup by IsaDora Hair by Marsyangdi Parlour 50 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
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The Four Masterpieces Self-expressions of NAFA artists
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n the heart of Kathmandu, exists an old Rana era neo-classical mansion, better known as Bal Mandir. It also incorporates National Institute of Fine Arts, home to some of Nepal’s most pioneering and promising artisans. In their cosy art studios nestled on top of the mansion, these artists are in perfect unison with the realm of imagination - searching for truth, striving for beauty, living for art. Here are their self-expressions as revealed to Navyaata
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orn in the highlands of Mustang, Pushpanjali discovered her artistic inclinations when she was a student at All Saints School, Nainital (India). After returning back to Nepal, she joined Ratna Rajya College where she met Pramila Giri, the first lady sculptor of Nepal. Taking inspiration from her, she realised that sculpting is far more challenging than it seems. As a person who doesn’t shy away from challenges, she made a decision to join Lalit Kala Campus to refine her skills as an artist. Ever since, Pushpanjali has been organising workshops and exhibitions showcasing her talent. “Once I teamed up with Sarita Dongol and Japanese artist Mamoru Hosoi in a group exhibition entitled Voice of Nature,” recalls Pushpanjali. “For me, art is a creation which gives satisfaction and positive inspiration. With art I can create a world of my own and forget the reality of life, bringing happiness and liveliness in me. It is a journey of developing an understanding of something, and expressing your understanding through art. I think art is both a reflection of social reality and an escape from it. However, an observer deserves the right to interpret art according to his/ her own level of thinking, not necessarily in par with the artist’s interpretation,” says Pushpanjali.” “Compared to a decade ago, numerous galleries, studios and art classes have emerged now. Much curiosity and interest has arisen in art among the youth as well. Nevertheless, wealthy Nepalese still hesitate to purchase art.”
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he swears by the principle ‘studying art doesn’t make one an artist, just like studying science doesn’t make one a scientist’. “Art is a creation and creating one’s unique identity, something new and original is what an artist should do,” says Shova Wagle. Not one to condone copycats, she takes her inspiration from nature and society and is working on her series ‘The Human Mind’ ever since she passed from Sir J.J School of Arts in 1993. “Art shows the society a direction of thought and my paintings deal with the human mind which is a reflection of the society,” says Shova.
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hova works as a teacher to support her art life. Her struggle to earn a living through art is testimony to the failure of Nepali people to perceive the value of art. “A painting and a wall poster has no difference for most of the people in Nepal. Art is taken as just another decorative piece. Nevertheless, I am optimistic that someday Nepali art will see better days. Contemporary art is well established in India evident by the success of Laxman Shrestha whose paintings sell in millions of rupees. The trend is catching on here as well.” 54 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
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“the only difference is that a true artist puts hard work and devotion to the gift”
is childhood interest in art took him to Juddha Kala Pathsala (now renamed Lalit Kala Campus) where he is a proud teacher today. He received a scholarship in the prestigious Sir J.J School of Arts (Mumbai). Krishna Manandhar still remembers the evening many years ago of Sri Sri Ravi Shankar’s concert and how his mesmerising Sitar music had inspired him to translate the music into his paintings. He won the first prize in NAFA’s National Art Exhibition in 1971. Manandhar believes that art is a man’s emotional experience and a gift that everybody is bestowed with – the only difference is that a true artist puts hard work and devotion to the gift to sharpen the skills. “Anyone can see a tree, but what do you perceive in a tree? It’s easy to appreciate what’s obviously beautiful, that is why people love landscape paintings. But, my long experience has led me to believe that people who limit themselves to landscape paintings without appreciation of abstract paintings can never enjoy art.” With many experimental paintings done through the years, Manandhar has another one named ‘tree’ coming very soon.
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frequently remind my students that if they work on their art diligently from 10 to 5 every day, the return will be ten times more. But only a few of them make it..
“ Art is a medium to find truth of life and existence “
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rt is a medium to find the truth of life and existence, says Puran Khadka. Born in Achham, he completed his diploma from Sir J.J School of Art in 1980. Puran has dedicated his life towards painting for the last fifteen years to illustrate what human beings are. “It is my search for the truth. If we (artists) find truth, we present it via art. Our objective is to connect with that eternal nature of man which transcends life and death. Life is part of an eternal whole. An artist strives to experience and present that eternal whole. When a person begins to develop a deep thought about life and existence, spontaneously he turns to art. As the saying goes ‘Every child is an artist’. What writers express through words, I express through abstract paintings,” states Puran.
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or the young generation of aspiring artists, I have a message: you must understand what life is and what you want in life. Do not enter the art field expecting immediate profits and popularity since appreciation comes late in Nepal,’ advises Puran.
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Getting 5 minutes ready!
fter a hectic day’s work, you need to head to that party where your friends are eagerly waiting for your arrival. You look tired and oily after all the ‘running errands’ and you don’t have much time to run to the nearest parlour. What do you do? Foreseeing such crisis, here is how to transform from droopy-looking to up-for-anything look in just f.i.v.e minutes.
The bouffant is an impeccably stylish and easy to create hairdo that could be your best friend when time is running short.
For the hairstyle: a thin partial comb, a hairspray. 1. Take the front layer of your hair and back comb. 2. Create a puff in front before you secure it with bobby pins.
Depending on the thickness of your hair, determine the size and amount of bobby pins you have to use.
3. Comb the remaining of your hair letting it loose and free. 4. At last, spray some hairspray to secure the puff.
Make up procedures:
1. Apply 61 Classic Beige Hydralight Foundation (water-based) as a base. (It is best if you even out your skin with the foundation that complements your complexion.) Instead of a sponge, a foundation brush gives a better coverage. Then layer your skin with Sheer transparent Velvet Touch Compact Powder.
2. Apply a light amount of Creamy Nudes Palette and then, Cupcake Light and Shade eye shadow on your eyes. 3. Apply 20 Black Colormatic eye pen according to your eye shape. As you are working on limited time, concentrate on the outer corners.
4. To reshape your eyes, use 55 Satin Magnolia Perfect Contour Kajal. Draw it into the crease of your eyes and smudge which adds tone and contour. This effect creates a haze of shadow around the eyes, not harsh at all.
5. Apply Vibralash Mascara 3 speed Automatic brush on your lashes. 6. Don’t ignore your eye-brows. Lift it up with Eyebrow Lift and Define after you finish with the eye make-up. 7. Apply 71 Rosewood Pump & Plump Lip Control. Finally, lightly dab Pump & Plump Lip gloss for a finishing touch
Model: Sunita Gurung Makeup Artist: Sumitra Maharjan, IsaDora Showroom, Durbar Marg, Tel: 01243475 Hair Stylist: Kavita Ojha, Marshyangdi Beauty and Hair Care Spa, Thamel, Tel: 4415768
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(The above mentioned products are available at IsaDora showroom, Durbar Marg and Bluebird Mall) Your 5 minutes makeup is perfect to take along on holidays. It’s fast, easy and won’t occupy much space.
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DON'T Before
DON'T Before Do what keeps the attention away from what you want to hide. The tiny polka dots and the loose silk upper half camouflages the bosom and the stretchable skirt yoked at the bottom fits perfectly flaunting a natural curve. (Tips: always juggle loose and tights together)
For this body type don’t try dresses that have drapes (like the one on the picture), frills and a lot to patchwork.
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Go for figure hugging dresses. This blue dress does justice to your body. After all you got to flaunt what you got right.
DO After
For a great body like this, hiding is not what you should be doing. The washed away jeans and the full sleeved shirt hides everything you should be celebrating.
Looking stylish and cool is not only for those who have the perfect body. Knowing your own body and understanding what looks best on you (and not trying what looks good on others) is the greatest wisdom you could learn. So take a look in the mirror, notice each and every bone, curve and structure and recognize what you should flaunt and what you should camouflage.
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DON'T Before This black button down skirt works wonders for this body type. The thin white belt clenched around the waist highlights her thin waist and holds the dress perfectly.
A misconception that many girls have: teaming up a long top with leggings makes u look slimmer. It does but when paired with a loose top not a tight one like this.
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Here is what you can do. Team up a quarter sleeved shirt and with a skirt. Tuck it in and add a thick belt around the waistline . This helps in giving an imaginary waist making you look leaner and taller.
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For those who have bulkier arms wearing sleeveless is a complete nono. It makes you look muscular and so not feminine. The black leggings isn’t working either.
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Shedding those extra pounds Shilpa Shetty does Yoga, Bipasha Basu sweats it out in the Gym and we ladies stare at their body in awe with insecurities rising within. All of a sudden we feel an urgent need to follow their work out and shed those extra pounds. Most of us give up after few days, unsuccessful in our goal of slimming down. The reason? We set up unrealistic goals in the beginning without any proper planning. What many of us fail to realise is what we eat and how we eat is equally important and taking note of small things like consumption of the amount of calories every day can make a difference on the long run.
Here is a comparison between what people normally like to eat and what they should be eating.
Picking (What we are eating) TABLE ONE
Breakfast (8 am) White bread- 87 calories per slice Butter-160 calories per table spoon Milk – 160 calories per cup Aloo Paratha- 120 calories per piece Total- 527 calories Lunch (12-1 pm) Rice-242 calories per serving Dal-175 calories (50g) Chicken Curry- 293 calories per cup Potato and Cauliflower curry- 290 calories per serving Total-1000 calories Snacks (3-4 pm) French Fries-320 calories (Medium) Instant noodles-320 calories Total-640 calories Dinner (9 pm) Pasta with chicken and vegetables-683 calories Total: 2850 calories
PLANNING (WHAT WE SHOULD BE EATING) Breakfast ( 8 am) Oatmeal-75 calories Lemon Tea with honey- 45 calories Apple- 65 calories Total-185 calories 10 am ½ cup of Yoghurt- 140 calories Lunch (12 pm) 2 pieces of Roti- 160 calories Veg Curry- 180 calories Orange juice- 100 calories Total- 440 calories
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Snacks (3 pm) Lemon Tea- 30 calories Dried fruits - 185 calories Total- 215 calories Dinner: (7:00 p.m) Vegetable Soup- 67 calories Brown bread tuna sandwich-320 calories Total-387 calories Total-1152 calories CALORIE SAVINGS: 1500 calories (approx)
TABLE TWO Brunch (11 am) Chicken Fried Rice-470 calories Potato Chilly-368 calories Chocolate Milkshake- 340 calories Total- 1178 calories Snacks (3 pm) Potato Chips- 155 calories Aerated Soft drinks-97 calories Total- 252 calories Supper (6 pm) Buff Chowmein- 367 calories Vanilla Ice cream-145 calories Total- 512 calories Dinner( 9 pm) Buff Momo- 440 calories Chicken Mushroom Cream Soup- 120 calories Total-560 calories Total- 2502 calories
FOODS CONTAINING HIGH AMOUNT OF CALORIES Margherita Pizza-800 calories Fried Chicken- 720 calories (2 pieces) Chocolate cake-527 calories Ham burger with cheese- 460 calories
Meet the coolest women in town - Miss Grains Whole Grains may not be the best-looking meals like fruits or vegetables but they are modest who like to woo you not by their appearance but by their personalities. They have had the reputation of being a bit boring, only eaten by the old and the worn out... until now. Grains are the coolest and hip women around with a whole lot of things to offer. Well here, we have put away the white rice and profiled the grains to introduce you to the ladies who are starting to become the talk of the town. So get ready to toss that stereotype away and meet ‘the’ Miss Grains in town.
MISS BROWN RICE
Miss Brown Rice:
She is the healthier, heartier first cousin of white rice. She packs three times more fibre than white. Her circles of friends are magnesium, zinc and minerals which make her the strong, mild, nutty and the natural choice any guy could desire.
MISS WHEAT
Miss Wheat (Gahu): She is commonly eaten but in different forms. Whole wheat kernels can be eaten on their own. She has a stronger quantity of fibre than protein. Even the pasta and the bread are her derivals.
MISS MAIZE
MISS MILLET
Miss Maize (Makai): She has been Miss Millet (Kodo): sadly mistaken as a vegetable by many. She is one of the easiest to cook and eat and not to forget the coolest too. Miss Maize easily transforms into a variety of forms. Toast them and she is the hottest thing you try, cook them and she is the most delicious and juicy meal you could chew. She has many forms and people are surprised to learn that popcorn is a whole grain too. You can eat it whole or ground into cornmeal. She can be made into foods such as bread or tortillas.
MISS BUCKWHEAT
Okay, she’s not the sexiest among the other grains but this small, yellow and bead-like grain has a sweet appearance. She is silent but she is strong, you don’t always notice her because she is always busy enhancing the great flavours that she’s cooked with. Her nutty and mild flavour can be eaten in salads or complemented with pasta.
MISS BARLEY
Miss Buckwheat (Faphar): She Miss Barley (Jahu): She is tan with may sound dorky but look past the name and you’ll find an easy-going, flexible damsel who could make you go for hours. Easy to cook, she has a soft and hearty texture that naturally thickens soups and works really well in stuffing. If you toast her before cooking, she will release her alter ego, kasha, for an earthy smokiness.
a strong figure embodied by vitamins, minerals and fibres. She prepares you the most delicious - and mind you, the healthiest - soup and hot cereals. She has a very chewy texture when cooked which can be used in rice pudding or in muffins.
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WELLNESS
Returning to Earth’s true sense of well being Wild Earth – Himalayan Herbals
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ith clients ranging from Shangri-la Hotels & Resorts, Trump Hotels to The Body Shop, it is no wonder why Wild Earth has garnered so much attention from those who seek beyond the artificial preservatives, synthetic colours and petrochemicals in their body products. Our Ujwol Shrestha visits the production house of the much talked-about Wild Earth.
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way from the noise and the pollution of Kathmandu, located in the northern suburb of the valley, there exists an oasis of natural goodness called Wild Earth. An ideal place for those who yearn for the finest herbal care products and spa treatment,
Wild Earth products are based on indigenous Himalayan healing traditions gathered from ancient Ayurvedic, Tibetan and traditional healing practices. Founded in 1999 by Carroll Dunham, Wild Earth has been a great success story of Nepal’s herbal industry. As I arrived at their premises (in a rainy afternoon), I was immediately overtaken by the peace and the serenity of the place. A delicious aroma of hot essence oils infused with herbs and fresh flowers wafted through the hallways. I climbed the stairs to the first floor where I was to meet Caroll Dunham, the graceful, blue-eyed American anthropologist who has been living in Nepal for the last 25 years and Anne Waterman, the creative director of Wild Earth. The rain had stopped and Caroll suggested that we settle outside amidst the soft wet green grass.
CAROLL DUNHAM
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ild Earth has been inspired by Anita Roddick (the founder of the world
renowned cosmetic chain, The Body Shop) with whom Caroll had worked closely in the past. “While travelling around the world with
Anita, we discovered varieties of healing herbs and practices unknown to the West. Nepal’s Himalayas are exceptionally rich in medicinal herbs and remedies renowned since the ancient times.” As an anthropologist, Carroll highlighted the deep significance of plants and herbs in human evolution. “Our nature-worshipping ancestors possessed intuitive understanding of the plants; “language of plants” (as she calls it) is based on traditional knowledge.”
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Nepal is rich in so many gifts like charismatic and enlightened individuals, immense wealth of powerful plants, and I am not saying this to please anyone,
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Carroll. And just like The Body Shop, Caroll promotes natural beauty care products,
supports fair trade by emphasising direct trade with the farmers for herbs and supports ban on animal testing by approaching volunteers for Wild Earth’s products. The core principle of Wild Earth is upholding the traditional healing practices, preserving the wild herbs through sustainable farming, and developing the rural living conditions through women’s employment in farming co-operatives and packaging. Carroll believes enhancing women’s economic condition directly improves their children’s access to health and education.
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nne educates me about Wild Earth’s Jampeche treatment centre which offers Tibetan massages like ‘Yab-Yam’(ying-yang), T-sampa and full body massages. “The spa relaxes tired bodies, soothes tensions, detoxifies the body
and unblocks the flow of energy ‘chi’ throughout the body leaving you with a harmonious balance of mind, body and spirit,” says Anne. “Every herb has an interesting story behind it. For instance, Amalaki, the nurse, is believed to be the first tree of the universe which represents all five elements and is also the richest source of vitamin C, perfect for skin and hair,” informs Anne. The production rooms of Wild Earth are very unlike any industry you’d visit. There are no tanks of chemicals or masked workers. Rather homely and humble,
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the quaint charm of the place and the pleasant smell of spices can take you back in time. ody care products like soaps, massage oils, zodiac pillows, incense and amulets are also available. The most popular items are Yogi-Yogini and Yak milk soaps, along with Himalayan natural and Tibetan hot spring
soaps. Research and Development head Reena Shrestha says, “Many new items like creams, lip balms, cleansers, baby soaps, trekking range and Newari range are coming soon. We are also planning to start door-to-door home delivery to provide fresh products.”
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ith a total of about 500 different body care products to choose from—including over forty varieties of soaps and oil blends—Wild Earth is both about quantity and quality. Their focus on sustainable farming of herbs and traditional practices is exemplary. None of the products use any chemical preservatives. Wild Earth uses natural preservatives like
Lye, Rosemary, Grape seed and Citrus seed extracts for preparing herbal soaps and massage oils. The amiable staff members carefully prepare the products concentrating on the right quantity in order to avoid damage or expiration and slipping them into cute, handy packages or bottles. None of the 23 staff members at Wild Earth are formally trained, but they have perfected the skills through a series of trial and error. Today, their hands produce some of the finest herbal products that are seen in the luxury hotels. Wild Earth has managed to create a niche of its own and is a truly special place where one experiences the good things Mother Nature has to offer.
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Ayurvedic Skin Care for Summer Some summer tips (diet, lifestyle and skin care ritual) for protecting the skin
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yurveda literally means the knowledge of life - Ayu meaning life and Veda meaning knowledge. Ayurveda believes that the human being is a part of Universe and whatever the Universe is composed of, the human being and all other living things are composed of the same elements. There are five elements in Universe namely Prith vi (Earth), Tej (Fire), Jala (Water), Vayu (Air) and Akash (Space or Ether). The same elements live within us in the form of three doshas namely Vaata (Air and Space), Pitta (Fire and Water) and Kapha (Water and Earth). We are all born dominated with either one or two doshas. Some people are tridoshic also. This is called our Prakriti (the doshas we are born with) but with erratic lifestyle, diet, etc. Our doshas get vitiated and goes to the state of Vikriti (misbalance). By balancing the doshas, we can balance our health. So it is important to know one’s Prakriti and Vikriti (the doshas that are vitiated) in us.
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ummer is Pitta-increasing season due to very hot weather, so cooling things are recommended. But ‘Iced’ drinks and refrigerated food are never recommended in Ayurveda since they dull the digestive fire, and slow the digestion process which later shows in the skin in the form of pimple, etc. Diet herb and lifestyle has to match ones individual type (has to be according to one’s dosha). Summer is the time to protect the skin and winter is the time to nourish the skin. So hydrating skin is very important during summer. In summer, skin gets burnt by extreme heat and turns sticky due to humidity and the dust and other particles get stuck in the skin so daily cleansing is very important in summer.
Stay away from too spicy and oily food in summer, eat warm healthy food cooked with cooling spices like fennel, cardamom etc.
Cooling tea for summer: Boil water and add fennel seed, mint leaves and cardamom powder, add honey (do not boil honey. Add it in a glass after the water cools down after boiling). Drink it hot or let it cool down to room temperature and sip all day. 1 tablespoon of Aloe Vera taken internally helps to protect skin burn and also maintains the temperature of the body
Cooling buttermilk:
Mix 1 cup of yoghurt with 4 cups of water, add mint leaves, salt and cumin seeds to it. Blend it really well until it turns foamy. Cooling buttermilk is ready. (Buttermilk is regarded very highly in Ayurveda as it increases digestive fire. It is also used in the treatment of various diseases.)
Water infused with cucumber, lemon, rose or mint is really good for summer time than just plain water. Infuse water (boiled and then cooled) with either of the above and drink the water whenever you are thirsty. Summer is the time to eat light meals. Avoid eating too much meat. If you have to eat meat, make light soup of chicken or goat with less oil. Green Mung soup, cooked vegetables with cooling spices like coriander, fennel seed and cardamom is very good for summer. Ripe fruits and cooling tea is good for afternoon snack.
Have light dinner: Boil milk with 2-3 strands of saffron and drink before bed. It will enhance the glow of your skin and also ensures a good night sleep. Refrain from drinking alcohol in summer because alcohol can be every heating for the body.
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Sandalwood Cleanser
Triphala Eyewash
Words of Wisdom
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navyaa // people
Turning
dreams into reality Zenisha Moktan By Dolkar Lhamo
had to catch-up with Zenisha Moktan at the Magic Beans, where she was with her chums playing Hannah Montana cards. With her alluring smile, she says, “even during the low phases in my life, I have always been happy and positive. I think this is what has helped me achieve a lot of good things. And for everything life has given me, I am always very grateful. I have everything that a 20 year old wants from life but I still feel the nicer things in my life are yet to come. “It’s going to be fun
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program where she was attending as the ambassador. We get in her black Rio and Zenisha makes me listen to Sabin Rai and she hums along. While we have our conversation, Zenisha gets confused about the directions. She calls her mother and like a normal Nepali daughter she asks with a childish rhythm in her tone, “Ama, baato kata ho?” Still confused, she calmly asks passersby for directions. Duri ng the journey, we see a bus full of passengers who notice Zenisha and start clicking pictures of her from their mobile phones but Zenisha kept her eyes on the road. While we talk and laugh, she slowly stops in the middle of nowhere and turns off the ignition. She takes a black and white dress from the backseat for a quick change. Sliding the dress from her zenith on top of the white tube dress she had worn, she artfully pulls the dress underneath the new dress. Very worriedly and frequently, she asks me if I see anybody coming. Then smiles that smile and confesses, “During tight schedules, this is how the recess
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I handle things.” And I stand there bedazzled. What a clever move. We reach the event right on time and after that, we head to the next event at Hotel Radisson. Living the Miss Nepal life doesn’t seem easy but she surprises me with what she has to say. “It’s lovely to live such a life. I love every single moment of it.” Excerpts of our conversation in her car: How does it feel to be Miss Nepal? To win the most prestigious crown of the country? I have been asked this question in every interview but I have yet to find the words to explain how it exactly feels. But I feel responsible. I feel a certain amount of pressure because of the expectations from me but all in all, it feels lovely. It feels wonderful to be bestowed with so much appreciation, so much love, respect and honour. You did serials like gharbeti baa, numerous music videos, movies, won the title Miss Tamang. You were well-known in the television circuit and amongst the people. So why the urge to participate in Miss Nepal? Miss Nepal is a brand that I have always wanted to achieve. I can remember I was very young when I first watched the Miss World beauty pageant. That was when I knew I had to get there. That was my dream. So I signed up for Miss Nepal. But when I signed in, people started asking me, “What if you lose?” I was going to be such a loser if I did but honestly, there weren’t any apprehension of any sort in my mind. First of all, I had always wanted to do this and second of all, I thought if so many of my dreams are turning into reality, then Miss Nepal might be yet another dream to shape into reality. And it undoubtedly did. What is the difference people spot between Zenisha before the title and Zenisha after the title? Exposure wise, Miss Nepal was not an overnight change because I was exposed to the media, to the audience, to all the adulations already. There wasn’t a drastic change but Zenisha after the title is definitely more responsible and can no longer do as she pleases. I just feel I have to be more liberal. I am still a big time dreamer and I continue to dream because it has led to where I am so far.
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If not miss Nepal then? If not Miss Nepal, then I can’t think of anything else. I would probably be leading the normal life. But Miss Nepal was bound to happen and I would have participated without a doubt. But had I participated and not won then I guess I wouldn’t be here in Nepal. I’d be studying abroad trying to heal my wounds (laughs). Is there any pretention when you are a celebrity? How difficult is it to be handle all the attention everywhere you go? For me, I think there isn’t a heavy scrutiny in Nepal. So far, I haven’t had any pretention. My mum says I am way bit too honest and that I should sometimes try to sound good in front of the mass but this is who I am. And to be recognized is what I wanted to be in life. I don’t know if it is a good thing or a bad thing but I have always liked attention. Being a celebrity, I get all of this which is lovely for me. But when you are a celebrity, you have a lot of expectations from people and these expectations bring the best out of me. Otherwise I would just be a lazy girl not wanting to do anything. Because of this celebdom, I am being 70 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
Beside the actress, model and Miss Nepal, who is the ‘real’ Zenisha Moktan? I know Zenisha Moktan is a really good daughter, an understanding and a supportive sister, a loving friend because I really value relationships in my life. And I get happy with materialistic things which I don’t know if it’s good or bad but that’s just me. I am honest and I am open minded - open to learning, open to criticisms. I am satisfied and I am not over-ambitious. I am a dreamer and I somehow lead my dreams into reality. How do you view life from a 20 year old perspective? Without sounding too pompous, I think I have a matured mind. I once took this quiz on facebook, ‘How old are you?’, and the result said I am 54. So I don’t know but my view of life is definitely a journey.
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You have been involved with a lot of things lately, now what are the other things that you want to do and see yourself doing 5 years down the line? Ummm..after 5 years…I would have opened a designer store for sure…I would have a lot of brands in Nepal for sure..and I would still be studying. And I am sure I will be more beautiful then…. (smiles) but I will definitely put my fingers on working with health posts and bringing my own NGO. How did you take the controversy about the sex tape on which many accused you as the woman? First thing, I have the biggest support from my family. Second thing, I know myself really well and the third thing, I really don’t let people’s opinion matter much in my life. So when the controversies came out, it was definitely shocking and obviously a rough patch but I soon realized that if I am right and if there’s no truth then I had nothing to worry about. I used to think life was a fairytale and I got a reality check then.
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A group of youngsters were featured in Navyaata’s first issue last month. They shared their opinions and personal experiences regarding ‘privacy’. To show our appreciation, Navyaata decided to give them a treat at Coffee Express located at Sherpa Mall, Durbar Marg. Sipping Iced coffee as they flipped through our maiden issue, everyone had a great time. Each one of them was glad to have been a part of Navyaata. Here are some moments captured on camera.
Sudeshana and Nividha loves the concept of Navyaata memoirs
The ‘it’ place for a Cuppa
Deeply engrossed with the magazine All smiles with Navyaata in hands
A band of boys from Boudha vying to create the next big musical wave mustn’t be underestimated.
ot so long ago they were just an ordinary bunch of boys hanging around with guitars. Then came their defining moment: performing in the Sprite band challenge of Kantipur Television. Young rockers across the country raved about Deadbone’s unique chemistry of music, and they got ravishing reviews from the media. In fact, the band members surprised many by their raw talent at such an early age. Deadbone may not have won the top spot, but they have captured the hearts and minds of thousands of youth everywhere. And the eight members of Deadbone have become local celebrity icons in their neighbourhood, where some jokingly call them ‘mareko haddi’.
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How the band came to be known as ‘Deadbone’ is an interesting case of confusion. Vocalist Tsering Ngodup explains, “Originally we had a different name. Then one day at a concert enthralled by young audiences, cheered and chanted ‘Deadbone’. We took that as a sign for success. Hence the name Deadbone has remained ever since.” In the last two years since the band was formed, Deadbone has hit the stage of many events held in places like The Bakery Café, United World Trade Centre, Gujeshwori, Jorpati and Tinchuli. To the delight of their local fans, Deadbone never miss to perform a gig during Lhosar and Dashain festivals at Fulbari school of Boudha. Not surprisingly, the boys still consider Sprite band challenge as their most memorable performance so far. Indeed the euphoria of playing in front of senior musicians on primetime television is something special. However the moment has slowly evaporated, and the band members resent being left out from coveted events like Durbar Marg street festival. “To give a gig at the Durbar Marg has been our lifelong ambition”, says lead guitarist Hom Lama. At first impression, the name Deadbone feels like an underground heavy metal band. But, as they say: Never judge a book by its cover. Here we can add: Don’t judge Deadbone by their name. All types of music, for all types of people, for all types of moods - from soft melody to heavy metal, romantic rhythm to hip-hop beats. Deadbone’s trademark style has been its versatility. In concerts, the band charms revellers with highs and lows of sounds, oc-
casional screaming and occasional silence. Needless to say such a concert will be anything but monotonous. And youngsters love it. Inspired by bands like Robin and the New Revolution, 1974 A.D. and Linkin Park, someday the band is likely to be an inspiration themselves. They exude great potentials and commitment towards Nepali music which is worth admiring. Equally admirable is their wide selection of musical instruments: keyboard, three different kinds of guitars (lead, bass, and rhythm), drum, and a disc jockey coming soon. The band was trained at kaleidoscope, Putalisadak where they regularly hangout and practice. When asked what music means to them, rhythm guitarist Tsering opines,” Youths and music are inseparable. Music not only entertains, it becomes a companion in loneliness and pacifies the soul of a listener.” Deadbone says they are well aware of Nepali youth’s tendency to imitate rock stars. So, the boys are against use of dugs during concerts and avoid antisocial behaviours. Deadbone’s social consciousness at this early age is also reflected in their motto for future: organising fundraising concerts for orphan welfare in Nepal. Deadbone is overflowing with youthful energy and creativity. A pleasant contrast to the negative energy that has engulfed today’s youth. Their exceptional talent awaits one more golden opportunity. If it weren’t for new bands like Deadbone Nepali music would have already reached a dead-end. Kudos to Deadbone!
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“Dining with Deadbone” n a bright sunny day, we encountered the group of eight at Boudhanath stupa gate. Looking cool and confident, the boys lead us to a nearby restaurant creatively named ‘3DDD’.We stepped down through a narrow staircase that reached a wide inner courtyard. Surrounded by indoor plants and birds chirping from the Buddhist prayer flags dangling overhead, it was a lovely place to dine. Deadbone ordered American Chopsuey, along with French fries and coke.
The receipt
American Chopsuey : Rs 120 French fries : Rs 80 Coke : Rs 30
The ingredients 1. Chicken 2. Plain noodles 3. Carrot 4. Tomato sauce 5. Vinegar 6. Eggs 7. Sunflower oil. Recipe 1. Heat oil on a pan and put plain noodles on it for frying. 2. Take another pan and make gravy with blend of grated carrots and tomato sauce. 3. Add vinegar and boneless chicken into the gravy, and boil. 4. Put the fried noodles on a plate and pour the gravy on the noodles. 5. Garnish with sun phased egg toppings and serve. Preparation time Approximately 30 minutes. Chef Phurba Sherpa Location 3DDD Restaurant, Boudha, Kathmandu (Ph.01-4476801)
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Nepalthok
A sleepy little town at the end of B.P. highway is waiting for discovery By ujwol shrestha II Photograph – Shailendra Shrestha
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of the bus service along the newly constructed highway. We set out on our journey on an autumn day, not sure what to expect from a place never much talked about. All we knew was that it is a sleepy little town at the dead end of the highway making us feel like pioneering explorers heading towards the unknown. Located 80 kilometres from Kathmandu, it takes approximately six hours via public bus to reach Nepalthok. We reached the lovely hill spot of Dhulikhel by noon. After a long wait under mid-day sun, a bus to Nepalthok finally arrived. Local transportation to Nepalthok are notoriously over packed and unreliable, so be prepared for some delays and inconveniences. The long and winding highway from Dhulikhel to Nepalthok offer visual treat to anyone who loves the panorama of steep mountains, terraced rice fields and fast flowing streams. We finally arrived at Nepalthok utterly exhausted. Despite being connected with the new highway and its regional importance as the major junction between three districts (Kavre, Ramechap,
Sindhuli), the small town is relatively untouched by modern facilities. It is still a hinterland – without any electricity, running water, mobile network and well furnished lodgings. “The dark spot under the lamp” was what one local shopkeeper defined Nepalthok. With only a couple of lodges to choose from, we spent the night in a lodge inaptly named ‘Hotel Prince’ which is quite an ironical name for a mosquito infested place occupied by drunk drivers. No separate rooms were available, so we adjusted in a common room among
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other passengers. A traveller looking for luxury and recreation will be utterly disappointed but Nepalthok is certainly not about luxury or recreations. Nearby the banks of Sunkosi, lies a mysterious temple hidden behind a dense canopy of peepal trees. Kuseshor Mahadev temple is home to Vishnu Naral, a priest who seems to be the embodiment of Lord Shiva, complete with braided locks and rudraksha garland. According to Vishnu, the temple was created during satya yuga when Brahma meditated on this spot. The energy which was released by Brahma’s meditation formed Lord Shiva’s lingam. The huge lingam stayed buried underneath for eons until one day some cow herders discovered it and a temple was erected on the spot. That lingam still presides inside the temple. Hematkhanda Puran of Hinduism mentions this temple as the sacred point where universe was formed. During the festivals of Shivaratri and Teej, the temple’s serene ambience gives way to devotees to perform ‘puja’ all night long. It is very intriguing that despite having such ancient lineage 80 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
behind it, Kuseshor Mahadev temple is generally unknown to outsiders. Later we arrived on the banks of Sunkosi River. Numerous cranes and egrets were perched along the numerous rocks on the river posing to catch fish. To our amazement, many of these rocks resembled figures of deities like Vishnu, Shiva, Parvati and Ganesh. While some had patterns that resembled the scripture ‘om’, the priest of the temple believes these rocks are not ordinary. “These rocks are called shaligrams. They give impressions of the divine if you analyze them with concentration and faith,” Baral says. A strange looking cave formation was staring at us from the other side of the river. It was the legendary Viswamitra cave where the oldest shivalingam is known to exist. Legend has it that Viswamitra meditated inside the cave
in satya yuga, so it is considered as sacred as Kashi (Benaras). Two years ago a landslide blocked the entrance to the cave. Locals believe holy serpents ‘nagas’ dwell inside Viswamitra cave and they caused the landslide to guard the entrance from intruders. All these eerie myths and stories were interesting indeed. Nepalthok bestows a quiet charm over visitors. Where else can you find a place accessible by national highway yet retaining its rural ambience? Nepalthok is a classic example of a small village waking up to modernity. The last phase of B.P highway begins here. When the highway is completed, it will emerge as the quickest alternative route from Kathmandu to eastern Terai, cutting short the long 200 km detour to the west. Given the strategic location of Nepalthok, it is destined to be a major highway town, bustling with buses and crowd soon, unlike Mugling on Tribhuvan highway. So, let’s savour the beauty of Nepalthok before it changes for good, changes for bad, before it changes forever.
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Facts on Nepalthok District: Sindhuli. Altitude: 539 metres. Ethnicities: Tamang, Chhetri, Magar. Interesting spots: Rosi river suspension bridge, Kuseshor Mahadev temple, Viswamitra cave, Sunkosi riverside, ancestral home of Koirala family. Estimated population: 10,000. Trekking routes: Panauti- Nepalthok, Indigneous People’s trail along Rosi river. Best season to visit: November to March, September to January. Items to carry: water bottle, flashlight, dry food, sunscreen lotion, hiking shoes, extra clothing Budget for 2 days: Rs.1500. How to get there: Koteshor to Dhulikhel (90 minutes), Dhulikhel to Nepalthok (4 hours, 30 minutes) in public transport. Transportation expense: Bus from Koteshor to Dulikhel, Rs 25 per head, bus from Dhulikhel to Nepalthok, Rs 90 per head. Food: A set of rice, curry, chicken, lentils and a pinch of pickle for Rs.50 at Hotel Prince. Highlights: 360 feet long suspension bridge over Rosi River, Kuseshor Mahadev temple, Sunkosi riverside picnic spot, Koirala dynasty’s ancestral home, Viswamitra cave, etc.
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STOR Y Happily ever after? Meeting your knight in shining armour, getting married, starting a family and living happily ever after is almost every woman’s dream. But what dreams don’t predict or unveil is the bitter reality that life shows it to you first-hand. For some, their knight doesn’t possess any shine at all. For some, happily ever after comes with a price to pay. While for some, committing to the one and only comes across as the biggest mistake of their lives. Read on, as these real women share their harsh encounter with reality.
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e married when I was 16. I thought my husband was ‘the one’ for me and nobody would make me happier than he would. My parents did not agree with my decis a very conservative family and there were a lot of restrictions on me. I wasn’t allowed to go out for the movies or for shopping. All day, I had to take care of his parents and prepare dishes for the flock of guests who visited our home almost every day. My freedom was so limited that my spirit was suffocating, screaming for some air. I started cursing myself for falling so blindly in love that I couldn’t see all the difficulties I would face. And one day... my husband left for the United Kingdom for a job and after a month, my in-laws had to return to their native village to look after some properties. I felt like a free bird! I went crazy and fulfilled all my desires that were buried underneath for the last 8 years. I met a guy and started dating him. Now I’m dating another man who is younger than me. The life I’m leading right now and the life I was forced to live by my husband and his family are the complete opposite. Somehow, my so-called husband came to know about my boyfriends and asked me over the phone about it. I said, “If you have proof then, alright, let’s separate. I know my rights very well. Just give me Rs 12 lakhs and take your children. I’m not going to nurture them any longer.” And he didn’t speak a word. I know this is quite irrational and unfair of me and I’m not proud of it but put yourself in my shoes and you will know how much I have suffered. The soul in me was trampled to such an extent that the liveliness I once had has died along with the love I had for my husband which has turned into hatred. I no longer love him and continue to live the life I’m leading. If I had the power to turn back the time, I would’ve listened to my parents and waited and analysed everything.
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y husband and I were introduced by a common friend. Everything clicked between the two of us and we fell in love. My parents were against our marriage so we had no other option but to elope. My mother-in-law was the most caring woman and everybody in his family treated me like a daughter without any discrimination. I felt like the luckiest bride in the world – a loving husband whom I loved back and such caring in-laws who were like my own family. But when my husband left for Canada for better work opportunities, I realised I wasn’t so lucky after all. My mother-in-law turned into this typical ‘sasoo’and I couldn’t see the mother in her that I used to see when my husband was with me. Everybody started to treat me like an outsider, like how they treated our housekeeper. I was shocked, I was shattered and I was alone. Moreover, they didn’t worry about how their son was doing, whether he was eating on time, whether he was happy. All they cared about was the money he was sending back home. After few months, I decided to go to America and start earning a livelihood as I had nothing to do besides stay at home and be a helping hand to the housekeeper. Since income would double if I started to do so, my in-laws gave me the permission. Once I got there, my husband also decided to settle in America. Now my mother-in-law keeps calling us and worries about us for no reason when earlier, she rarely used to call her son when he was all alone in Canada. She should be more relieved that we are together and I will take care of him being a woman. She makes stories that I didn’t answer phone or I rejected her calls - all to create a misunderstanding between us. The most saddening part is that they are wishing for us to be apart. I am really glad that I made that decision not to stay with them otherwise I would have suffered psychologically.
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Renuka y parents arranged my marriage to an older man who had everything from money to buy whatever I desired for, to a mansion-like house where I could live all the luxury I ever imagined. I didn’t want to marry him but my parent’s constant nagging I was helpless without any options. I finally accepted the marriage to make my family happy and to avoid the daily pestering at home. I hoped that the marriage would turn into love but it never did. Not we were married, not after knowing each other and also not after I was pregnant with his child. I had all the materialist satisfaction but I was still not happy because I realised my happiness wasn’t inside all the wealth but in a man who had nothing to lose but everything to live for. I fell in love with my neighbour who lived with his old mother in a hut with only one room. There was so much simplicity and innocence in his face. He went to work in the morning, took care of his mother and helped her with the household chores. I started talking to him, went to his small hut. Each time I visited the hut, it seemed bigger and bigger. It was like my eyes had learnt to adjust itself with the place. Or was it my heart? After falling intensely for him, we eloped. I left all the luxury - my husband and my 5 year old son - for a man who could give me what money and power couldn’t – love and care. In the beginning, people called me insane, selfish, moron but when they saw me live in the hut, clean the house, wash their clothes, cook meals for them and take care of my mother-in-law like my own mother, they started realising the meaning of soul-mate. He may not be able to buy me Prada bags or take me to 5 star hotels for dinner, but what he can give me is what the material world can never buy me. I am 26 years old, I love my husband and I’m the most happiest I have ever been throughout my life in the small hut which is my home now.
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am in my forties and my husband and I have two beautiful sons. When my husband was living in Biratnagar, I had come to Kathmandu with my best friend to earn some money. We were living as roommates and we were really close to each other. Everything we had, we shared. We started from zero, struggled to earn a penny to make profits through the small business that we had started. Later I asked my husband to come to Kathmandu where he could also start a small business of his own and make more money than he did back at Biratangar looking after the wholesale shop his family had. Leaving our two children at hostel, he shifted to Kathmandu with us. We rented an apartment with two bedrooms and a kitchen. I was very happy - money was good, his business was taking shape - until I heard people talk about my husband and my friend. I tried to convince myself that people were just making fake stories but when both of them started to make excuses to go somewhere at the same time, I started to doubt if the stories were true. One day, I was out to get some goods sent by some wholesalers. The go down was an hour far from our apartment, which meant I would be away for at least three hours. But on my way, the wholesalers rang to tell me to come on the next day. Furious, I returned home. I saw that the main door was locked from the inside and both my husband and my friend were in the house. Slowly, I sneaked my ear to the door and listened carefully. I heard the bed creak and my friend was moaning. I locked the door from the outside and screamed so loud that all our neighbours came running to ask what happened. I yelled, “my husband and my best friend are having sex on my bed.” We banged the door. They didn’t open for a long time. I yelled again and when they finally did, they denied the fact and said that I was losing my mind. Nobody had to see it to believe it. Everybody knew the truth but both of them shamelessly denied it. After the incident, I forced my husband that we move back to Biratnagar with our children. I trusted both of them but I was betrayed.
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hen I was young, everyone told me that when you choose your man for marriage, you should also take his family into consideration. I thought it was so lame of them – if my husband loves and cares for me, why would his family be such a big problem? But I was completely wrong and I realised this only after I was married into a family with the most dramatic in-laws. I went against all odds and had a love and an intercaste marriage. We’re in our late 30s and we share a really healthy relationship but when it comes to family issues, there is always a problem. They are five brothers and my husband is the youngest, but his entire family members have always and still depend upon him. My husband and I have spend all our savings since the last 10 years on securing their future and helping them build a sustainable business so that they would not have to depend on us but even after all the effort we put for their benefit, they still expect even the slightest of expense to come from our pocket. We even built a house for them and the worst part is, when we built a house for ourselves, they weren’t happy at all. My mother-in-law uses buttery words whenever they want us to repay their loans or expense, and my husband cannot refuse to her motherly talks and reluctantly has to say yes. I used to ask myself - how could he only think of him and his family? Even I have my wants and needs, even I want to start a family and have a secure future for my children. So many thoughts, anger, unanswered questions used to be buried within me that when it was way too much for me to handle, everything would burst out like a volcano and we would have this big quarrel over his family’s greedy needs. I realised through time that men don’t have the capability to understand without you having to say it, they just can’t. Ever since then, I have always become vocal whenever there is something I think is not right and just for me, for us. This way, even he realises that he needs to think practically and not emotionally. And after all he has done for his brothers and his parents; this much is all he and I, or anybody can do.
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* All the names above are not real for personal reasons. Send us your stories at editorial@navyaata.com
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Events
Zenisha Moktan
Karma flanked by friends
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launch of Navyaata's first issue was held on April 13 at Malla Hotel. Red carpet and curious photographers saw the likes of Zenisha Moktan, Ayusha Karki (our cover girl), Sahana Bajracharya, Lisa Mukhia, Tenzing Dawa Shakya (our present cover girl), Rock Sitar and many beautiful people posing for the lenses. What was an innocent drizzle turned into a potential storm with quiet rain but that couldn’t stop the event from carrying on. Adjusting from the drape tents at the outdoors to the sheltered balcony, the proceedings began with an introduction by emcee, Shweta, followed by a presentation from Navyaata about the magazine. The cover and the magazine were finally unveiled after a much eagerly awaited evening. The excitement was doubled with the preview of the cover for the May issue as well. Sahana Bajracharya
Sarda Bhakta Ranjit, Bibhuti Ranjit, Mohini Ranjit
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Sharmila Gurung with her friend
Rock Sitar
Pravina, Kunsang, Dawa, Nooriya
The audience watching the presentation
Subel Bhandari, Lisa Mukhia of Foot Fetish, Kashish Das Shrestha
Tsering, Sheetal, Arshia
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Prakash, Neeraj and Gunj from Jasmine Fitness Club and Spa
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BOOKREVIEW “The process of educating oneself is like an endless ocean. And if you aspire to be a writer, the quality you must possess is openness to everything,” advises the 35 year old author, writer and columnist. Describing herself as a public intellect, Sushma Joshi interprets social inequalities and injustice through her work. A graduate from Brown University, USA, Sushma is one of the most promising English writers of today with novels like Art Matters, The girl who died, New Nepal, New Voices. But it was ‘The End of the World’ that brought her much recognition when the book was nominated for the prestigious Frank O’Conner International Short Story award. Her books are a combination of philosophy and spiritualism, humour and irony, nature and society. Also a consultant for UNDP, Sushma takes inspiration from her mother’s garden, Buddhism and her prolific academic life and despises publishers who duplicate a writer’s creation. This month, Sushma Joshi recommends three of her personal favourites that you should read.
( Sushma Joshi )
Eat , Pray, Love (Elizabeth Gilbert) This New York Times bestseller has sold over five million copies and it is still selling like hot cakes. This is a novel about a 35 year old divorced lady who suffers from mid-life crisis. She begins a soul searching journey of self-discovery that takes her to three countries: Italy, India and Indonesia. First she savours Italy’s buffet of delights, then she seeks the spiritualism of India, and lastly she finds true love in Bali, Indonesia. Full of wit and colloquial excellence, this book encompasses all the ingredients of a classical journey with mystical charm and intriguing coincidences. Reading ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ feels more like reading someone’s personal memoirs.
(Price: 560)
The Joy of Living (Mingyur Rinpoche) The author of this book is a few years younger than me, but he is a highly revered teacher and master of Karma Kagyu stream of the Tibetan Buddhism. I once met him at his workshop and he taught me practical application to combat suffering and sadness. Rinpoche has an uncanny ability to decipher ancient wisdom using modern methodology. The compelling revelation of principles behind ancient Tibetan Buddhist meditation is done with crystal clarity by interplaying Tibetan Buddhism, neuroscience and quantum physics. Subtitled ‘Unlocking the secret and science of happiness’, the basic notion of ‘The Joy of Living’ is happiness and compassion.
(Price: Rs 632)
The Tibetan Book of Healing (Lopsang Rapqay) Being isolated from the world’s great civilizations for eons, Tibetan people have evolved with unique ancient knowledge only now coming into light. The unique medicines and healing therapies based on their ancient knowledge is well documented in this book. It reveals herbal healing practices beyond the realm of contemporary doctors. ‘The Tibetan Book of Healing’ is a rare book, albeit a bit too expensive for general readers.
(Price: 195) *The above books can be purchased at: Vajra Publications (Jyatha, Thamel. Tel: 4220562)
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XOXO SHOP TILL YOU DROP?
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hopping! You couldn’t get enough of it. And when you get those calls from the stores telling you about the new arrivals or when your friends talk about what they saw and how it would be so perfect for you. Although you have zero money in your wallet, you still want and neeeed to go and check out the new collections. “I’m not going to buy anything. What’s the harm in just taking a look?” And then the next thing you know, you’re there with your friends, trying out one thing after the other. But one secret only you keep - you’re not in a situation to buy them right then (Sshhh...). Talking of no money, has it ever occurred to you that whenever you’re broke, you find things that’ll best suit you and nobody else, and when you’re fully loaded, you simply can’t get what you’re looking for? It has to me, a lot of times. But most of the time, I’ve been very fortunate to find the perfect material that I look for. And then I think I must be the luckiest person on earth. Once when I was out and about, looking for something that I could wear to work and also wear casually when out with friends - something that made me look professional (not that I’m not) and that said I’m not boring at the same time. I scanned through the market where I usually shop. Nothing found. Then I go to Naachghar Plaza. I don’t know what got into me that I entered the small mall where I usually don’t shop. I guess it was sheer intuition (and I must say that my instincts never deceive me. They’ve always been very accurate in alarming me at times and guiding me many times). And at the very corner of the first floor, there was this small store where you could find the funkiest, the most stylish outfit. Then there I see this red and black chequered button-down shirt with buttontab sleeves. Well-fitted, it was as if it had been tailor-made just for me. Ah! (Again) How lucky could I get? Since then I’ve worn the shirt at work, when hanging out with friends, during family gathering to meetings with important people (ahem). The shirt sits beautifully in my closet waiting for me to pull it out again to make my day once again, gaining compliments about our duo and smiling with me, revelling the luckiness we share.
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stylescope navyaata’s
Each person has a different style quotient. Tired of reading the same old boring horoscope? You don’t need to be anymore. Navyaata brings you Stylescope: a monthly insight of your style based on your signs. Enjoy!!!
Leo (July 23-August 22) Birth Color- Yellow
Good news Leo! Cash flows and you enjoy money from unexpected sources. So, go splurge on that pair of platforms you had been eyeing for months. It’s raining money for you.
Taurus (April 20-May 20) Birth Color-Red/Orange
Velvety sensual style suits you the best. Being ruled by beauty goddess Venus you care more about feminine appeal and that is what works best for you. At new moon you may face gravity of many situations but get your style right and you will be in no trouble. Go for totally comfortable yet gorgeous wear.
Virgo (August 23-September 22) Birth Color – Yellow/ Green
Chic is written all over you. You have a good eye for all things fashionable. This month is a good time to revamp the jewellery collection of yours. Jasper and peridot are your cosmically assigned rocks. Ditch that overtly flashy bling and sport a more subtle one.
Gemini (May 21-June 21) Birth Color-Orange
Gemini is the zodiac fashionista. They have the ability to think outside the box. 2010 is your career year so go get a sleeker wardrobe and be ready to work that board room. It is the perfect time to zap yourself into a whole new look. Complicated fashion is out and a more user friendly look is in.
Libra (September23- October 22) Birth Color – Green
Happy Solar Return, Libra! You are bound to be busy this month. Romance seems better than anticipated so pay extra attention to your image and grooming. Now, more than ever, you need to put
Cancer (June 22-July 22)
Birth Color- Orange/ Yellow Romance is in the air Cancerians. So rock that classic, romantic look of yours. Trust us, it won’t go wrong. Fresh fashion with vintage styling will do wonders.
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your unique stamp on everything, especially your looks.
styl stylescope navyaata’s
Scorpio (October 23- November 21) Birth Color –Turquoise It is time to show your dramatic side Scorpions. Think in terms of your cosmic colors blue and purple with extreme design that only you could carry off.
Aquarius (January 20- February 18) Birth Color – Violet Trend forward Aquarians organize your wardrobe and make it auto chick. You will be meeting new people and your popularity will rise. Be careful of what you wear as it is going to leave an impression. Funky is not your thing. Opt for semi-formal, chic wear.
Sagittarius (November 22- December 21) Birth Color – Blue Your signature style is ragingly assorted. You have a thing for combining haute and low and making any style your own. Power dress on the professional front, but after hours go for a romantic, creative or playful look.
Pisces (February 19- March 20) Birth Color – Magenta
Jupiter affords you far more options for lavish living than you have had in a while. So take advantage of these celestial blessings to better define your look. Think fresh make-up strategies and the symbolic new beginning of an extreme lingerie makeover.
Capricorn (December 22- January 19) Birth Color – Indigo Capricorn is cosmically blessed with beautiful bone structure and good taste. Your wardrobe is filled with gorgeous, unused clothes. Now is the time to un-clutter and get rid of stuff you no longer need. Dressing down and going casual is your style quotient.
Aries (March 21- April 19) Birth Color- Red Let your look lead the way via a makeover. Be true to yourself and don’t go for styles that you are not comfortable in. Drop those old school looks. Adopt a fresher and younger style.
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Navyaata Uh-Oh is a fun page where we show you the best of the worst on the street. You can learn from it and not commit the same mistake like these people have. So be careful, you never know when and where our fashion police might be observing your attire. If comfort is what you seek for, there are ones in the market that can look more appealing and give you comfort at the same time. And I bet darker and soft jeans would complement your legs way too better
Avoid wearing too tight attire. One size bigger will make you look smaller
You have great height and I think what you’re wearing not doing justice to your body at all. Rather than teaming a shirt-dress with skinny jeans and converse, why don’t you try leggings and flip flops. You will surely grab the attention of many that way
Many women face the same problem – a bra that is too tight for their size. This could add marks on your skin and may not be healthy too. You should never hesitate to ask for a trial while shopping for your lingerie 94 NAVYAATA May-June 2010
If these two ensemble were worn separately, I’m sure they would look a lot better
Both of you have a great body of different shape and size. Wouldn’t you feel much better wearing something of your own taste rather than going matchy-matchy?
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