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There are many milestones in a woman’s life – her 16th birthday, high school graduation, the first day at college, turning 21. Yet none are as elaborately thought out as the day she marries the man of her dreams. It’s as if we’re programmed to begin planning from the minute we begin playing dress up with princess dresses. From the setting to the bridesmaids, the playlist to the dress, planning a wedding, with her besties by her side, can be one of the most exciting times for any girl. With so many details that need to be decided, it can also be one of the most involved. Dresses, color schemes and themes are certainly part of the fun. But anyone planning a major event can easily get bogged down by choosing the support staff – the photographer, caterer, planner, baker, hairdresser. Whether you are planning a small wedding with 20 guests on a shoestring budget or you have an unlimited checkbook and 300 invitations to send, there is a lot to take in to consideration when it comes to planning the day long dreamt of. Putting all the pieces into place can be challenging for even the most dedicated organizer. Our goal at Bride & Groom is to make that task just a little bit easier for you. We’ve packed inside information on many of the elements that come together seamlessly to create your special day. Learn all right the questions to ask when you interview potential photographers, take a look at what designers brought down the runway for spring 2014 weddings and peruse the many wonderful venue options the Crystal Coast offers. Not sure where to start? Our planning check list will give you a guide for how far in advance you should begin the process. For those who aren’t lucky enough to live along the coast year-round, Eastern North Carolina has a lot to offer as a wedding destination for those looking for the ideal coastal site. If you’re coming to the coast for the wedding of your dreams, we have everything you need to make it a successful event. From a calendar of popular annual events to tips and tricks for planning an outdoor affair, we’ve compiled all the pieces you’ll need to make connections on the Crystal Coast and feel like you’re part of the family. Grab a binder, fill it with plenty of blank sheets of paper and let’s get started. Keep notes as you go; save colors, fabrics, pictures of that perfect dress. Keep us with you, too, so you can refer back when you have a question.We feel certain that together we can bring all your childhood dreams of a perfect wedding to reality. All it takes is a little planning!

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issue Planning 10

The Wedding Planner

Bride’s Checklist

On Location – Sites & Venues

Regional Events

Bridal Briefs

20 The Great Outdoors

Style & Beauty 34

Dollars & Scents

Now Hair This

Celebrating 40

Photo Finish

To the Beat

Resources 46

Making it Legal

Directories

Advertiser’s Index

Learn the ins and outs of preparing for an outside wedding, whether at the beach or in the backyard.

26 Aisle Style

Get a glimpse at what the designers have brought to the runway for the 2014 wedding season.

30 Say Yes

The Learning Channel favorite Randy Fenoli shares his insight into finding the perfect gown.

38 A Taste of the South

Southern brides are bringing a taste of home to their special days with country favorites.

44 I Do, I Do

A local bride shares her wedding story and photos.

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The day of your wedding will consist of taking turns in hair and makeup chairs, drinking champagne, taking photos with the bridal party and putting on the dress. The last thing that should be on your mind is meeting vendors early, making sure everyone gets paid or decorating a venue. Leave the stress and headaches up to a professional wedding planner and enjoy the best day of your life worry-free. From helping a bride a year before the wedding, to being brought on board as a day-of director, a wedding planner can make a noticeable difference in even the smallest of ceremonies. The involvement of a planner is up to you; they can help make decisions about the design of your wedding from the onset or they can be minimally involved and only participate on the day of the wedding, directing traffic and making sure everything comes together. If your wedding includes more than just a small group of friends and family, a planner is well worth the consideration. Guests at the wedding should not be responsible for making sure everything runs smoothly. Guests and family can’t enjoy the ceremony and reception if they have to worry about setting up or staying after to clean up. Money may be saved by having friends help out, but generosity can’t replace years of knowledge and work in the industry. “You cannot be a guest and work. How many friends know how to do a French bustle with safety pins and rubber bands?” said Rachel Deere, owner

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checklists, assigning responsibilities and full schedules for the rehearsal dinner and wedding. Consultants do it all, even setting up and cleaning after. Hours before a ceremony, the planner can be found at the venue setting up centerpieces and meeting the vendors.The planner will make sure everyone who needs flowers or boutonnieres gets them, and if the weather is a problem, they’re the ones that come up with a plan B on the fly. If a vendor is short handed, don’t be surprised if the planner jumps in to get the job done. “Why would you leave your most important day to chance?” said DuVal.

When looking for a planner, Deere said to choose someone who does it as a full-time job. If you want a consultant for the entire planning process, you need to hire one as soon as possible, anywhere from 9-14 months before the wedding date. “I had a bride and groom come, really like a band, and the band was booked even five months in advance,” said Otis. If the wedding has already been planned and the vendors have been selected but you still want someone to be at the venue early to meet the vendors, set up decorations and have a schedule for the day, a day-of director is what you should be looking for. With a day-of director, couples will usually have an initial consultation and prior to the wedding day the consultant will finalize details with the vendors, make schedules for the day of the wedding and help with the wedding rehearsal. On the day of the wedding, the consultant will be on hand for the whole day and will meet the vendors, hand out vendor payments, conduct general set up of the wedding and reception, coordinate a flow for the day and assist in general clean up. You don’t get a second chance at planning your dream wedding. With some professional help, it should go off without a hitch.

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Everything comes together better with a little planning, forethought and organization. And your wedding day is definitely one of those times worthy of a little organization. Once your plans are in motion, gather pictures, notes and samples every step of the way. An old binder with tabs is great for keeping (and organizing) your thoughts. If a flower arrangement in a magazine catches your fancy, snip it out, slip it in your notebook and you’ll always know where to find it when it comes time to visit the florist. Pictures of your favorite bridesmaids dresses, fabric samples, invitation ideas, vendor contracts and receipts can be kept neat and orderly, and more importantly, all in one place. Now – just follow along with the list below, gathering information as you go, and we feel certain things will come together smoothly.

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Select wedding date and time. Begin a wedding planner notebook to compile your ideas. Discuss the style and size of your wedding – whether formal or casual. Set a budget and determine which side of the family is paying for what so there is no squabbling down the road. Choose and reserve the venues for the ceremony and reception. Select someone to officiate at the ceremony and book them. Start compiling names and addresses of your guests in a first-pass list that includes all possible guests on both sides. Then whittle down the numbers you plan to invite with a second-pass guest list. Choose your bridesmaids and groomsmen, including the best man and maid of honor, and ask them to commit. Choose and hire a wedding planner if you intend to do so. Choose wedding colors. Begin shopping for a wedding dress, gathering photos as you go. Keep in mind that you will also need undergarments, shoes and a veil. Put an engagement announcement in local papers if you plan to do so and start a wedding website to keep your wedding party up to date with arrangements.

equipment rental company if applicable. Begin discussing favors, decorations and flowers. Choose and order save the date cards. Choose bridesmaid dresses. Start discussing honeymoon options. Begin trying on wedding dresses.

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information for out-of-town guests. Choose and order your wedding gown. Register for gifts. Finalize contracts with all vendors. Purchase gifts for your wedding party. Begin planning the ceremony. Arrange for day-off transportation. Order invitations and thank you cards. Book your honeymoon.

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attendants or guests. Order wedding cake. Finalize menu with your caterer. Choose music for ceremony and special moments. Order tuxedos.

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goblets, ring pillow, garter, candles, etc. Begin writing vows, if applicable. Make plans for bridesmaids’ luncheon. Design and order wedding program.

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service providers. Inform them of any last minute changes and confirm their arrival time. Arrange for someone to assist with last minute errands and to help you dress. Review details and final guest count with caterer. Make sure vows are written, and practiced (if you are writing your own). Hold rehearsal dinner with all participants. Give photographer/videographer a list of photos/shots desired. Pack suitcase for honeymoon. Check all wedding attire has been rented or bought and fits correctly. Compile an emergency kit with band aids,

bobby pins and other random items that could be in demand on the day of the wedding.  Put tips for vendors in envelopes.

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done at least three to four hours before the ceremony. Remember to wear a button down shirt. Start dressing 1 to 1 ½ hours before the ceremony or earlier if pictures are being taken before ceremony.

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Choosing a Venue for the Big Day

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bride, across the country – location really is everything.With its beautiful ocean views, waterways, forests and hidden gems, Eastern North Carolina has a lot to offer when it comes to choosing a venue for your big day. From rustic country barns to royal, beachfront elegance, there’s a venue to suit every taste and style. For brides looking at outdoor venues, professionals suggest having a back-up plan with a secondary inside location just in case the weather doesn’t cooperate. Some of the area’s venues already have a contingency plan in place, with room to move the festivities indoors in a pinch, while others do not. So make sure this important query is on your list of questions to ask while visiting sites in the area. Of course tents work great, too, especially if the weather is questionable. Today’s tents are customizable, allowing renters to create the setting they desire, including parquet dance floors, stages, heating or air conditioning units, custom fabric liners or ceiling fans. Any color scheme imaginable will look elegant against a wonderful white background. Some spots, like Fort Macon State Park, have permit requirements and stipulations on the number of chairs allowed.While planning, families will also want to ask what ABC licenses a site has in place and which may need to be obtained for the event at an additional cost. There are many places, however, that take care of the all the planning for you. Many resorts, attractions and rental agencies have event planners on staff that can walk you through the process both before and on the day of the wedding. Whether you plan on getting married in the middle of tourist season, or during the quieter offseason months, most of the area’s favorite attractions are open and ready to greet your family. Here are some of the area’s most popular sites:

Beaufort Historic Site

Located on Turner Street, the grounds of the Beaufort Historical Association provide a picturesque setting for special events. Say your vows on the site’s expanse of lawn and have your portraits taken on the porches of the beautifully restored buildings.Visit www.beauforthisotircsite.org or call 800-575-SITE.

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Butterfly Kisses Pavilion

This rustic barn-like setting located in Newport can easily be dressed up or down depending on the feel of the wedding. A small outdoor trellis provides a great location for the nuptials.To learn more, call 252223-2766.

Front Street Village

On the site of the former Beaufort Fisheries along Taylors Creek, Front Street Village is a planned community under development at the end of Lennoxville Road.The beautiful waterfront boathouse and its top deck event space are complete and ready to host the perfect event. On-site planning and catering available. Call 252-838-1524 or visit www.frontstreetvillage.com.

Camp Albemarle

Located on Hwy 24 between Morehead City and Cape Carteret, this summer camp site offers wide water views and has all the amenities for a great wedding, including a full kitchen, seating of up to 144 people, adjacent bath houses and a beautifully-maintained stretch of lawn. For more information, visit www. campalbemarle.org.

Cape Lookout National Seashore

For a true beach-front wedding, Cape Lookout National Seashore is a perfect blend of privacy and history. The 56-mile stretch of North Carolina’s Outer Banks features a lighthouse and endless stretches of private beach. The site is available only by boat, however, passenger ferries on Harkers Island and Beaufort are happy to accommodate. Call 252-728-2250 or visit www.nps.gov/calo.

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Carteret County Home Bed & Breakfast

Located on Hwy 101 in Beaufort, this historic site comes complete with garden space and an outside pavilion with room for 75 seated guests that can be easily dressed up or down for any occasion. A full kitchen, chairs and other necessities are included. Call 252-728-4611 or visit www.countyhomeb-b.com.

Core Sound Waterfowl Museum & Heritage Center

Located at the end of Island Road, next to the National Park Service, this newly-completed facility has a large meeting space and plenty of picturesque settings for those all-important photos. Call 252728-1500 or visit www.coresound.com.

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Morehead City Train Depot

The town’s historic train depot, located at 1001 Arendell St., features a catering kitchen and tables and chairs for about 75 people, making it ideal for a small intimate wedding or reception. Call 252-808-0440.

NC Aquarium at PKS

Widely acclaimed across the state and around the country, the aquarium lets guests get up close and personal with shipwrecks without getting wet, stare down a 350pound sand tiger shark, watch river otters play and touch a stingray. Popular for weddings and special events, the site has accommodations for groups of 130 up to 1,500. Call 252-247-4003 or visit www.ncaquariums.com.

The Ocean Club

With accommodations, a spa, indoor and outdoor space, event planners and technical staff, the Ocean Club and OC Spa & Wellness Center can provide for just about everything a bridal party may need. With sound and ocean access, a pier and pavilion, the site also has a variety of photo options. For details, visit www.theoceanclub.com.

Licensed for 150 passengers, the Crystal Coast Lady has all ABC permits in place and is available for private parties of all types. The 75-foot vessel has covered decks and plenty of outdoor space.Visit www.crytalcoastlady.com for more information.

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With three unique locations, these wedding specialists have a site to match just about everyone’s taste. Say your vows at the historic Octagon House, the restored Palo Alto Plantation or the private soundside Watson House. To learn more, visit www.thewatsonhousenc.com.

Emerald Isle Beach & Pool Club

On Coast Guard Road in Emerald Isle, this private club offers beach or garden weddings with ocean views as well as indoor space and private changing areas.Visit www.emeraldislebeachclub.com.

Fort Macon State Park

The park encompasses 385 acres of beach, dunes and maritime forest with the fort serving as the centerpiece. A beach access site offers a bath house and plenty of parking. For more information, call 252-726-3775.

The History Place

In downtown Morehead City, this museum by the Carteret County Historical and Genealogy Society includes auditorium space for 165 people, seated. The staff assists with set up and clean up, taking the stress off the wedding party. To learn more, call 252-247-7533 or visit www.thehistoryplace.org.

Isaac Taylor Garden

The historic, intimate setting of the 1792 Isaac Taylor home offers a wide expanse of lawn, brick patios and walkways and beautiful wrought iron work. Tables and chairs available for up to 100 guests. To learn more, visit www.itaylorgarden.com.

On the National Register of Historic Places, one of North Carolina’s oldest peanut plantations provides a beautiful backdrop for a wedding or other special event. To learn more, visit www.poplargrove.org.

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Eastern North Carolina is home to a variety of resorts, bed & breakfast inns and restaurants that have extra space to accommodate a wedding, reception or both. Special rental space can be found at: Beaufort Inn – 101 Ann St., Beaufort, 252-728-5347 Beaufort Grocery Co. – 117 Queen St., Beaufort, 252-728-3899 Bistro-by-the-Sea – 4031 Arendell St., Morehead City, 252-247-2777 Capt. Bill’s – 701 Evans St., Morehead City, 252-726-2166 Channel Marker Restaurant – Atlantic Beach Causeway, Atlantic Beach, 252-247-2344 Chefs 105 – 105 S. 7th St., Morehead City, 252-240-1105 Country Club of the Crystal Coast – 152 Oakleaf Drive, Pine Knoll Shores, 252-726-1034 Crystal Coast Civic Center – 3505 Arendell St., Morehead City, 888-899-6088 Doubletree by Hilton – Hwy 58, Atlantic Beach, 252-240-1155 Elks Lodge – 400 Miller Farm Road, Morehead City, 252-726-4472 Harborlight Guest House – Live Oak Drive, Cape Carteret, 252-393-6868 Havelock Tourist & Event Center – 201 Tourist Center Drive, Havelock, 252-876-2881 Islander Suites – 102 Islander Drive, Emerald Isle, 866-627-9340 Leon Mann Jr. Enrichment Center – 3820 Galantis Dr., Morehead City, 252-247-2626 Morehead City Country Club – 2900 Country Club Road, Morehead City, 252-726-6666 NC Maritime Museum – 315 S. Front St., Beaufort, 252-728-7317 Neuse Breeze – 2391 Temples Point Road, Havelock, 252-447-2937 Old Train Depot – 614 Broad St., Beaufort, 252-728-2141 The Sanitary Restaurant – 501 Evans St., Morehead City, 252-247-3111 Trinity Center – 618 Salter Path Road, Salter Path, 252-247-5600

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FEBRUARY

Carolina Chocolate Festival. Chocolatiers from across the nation converge on the Crystal Coast Civic Center, Morehead City, offering samples and sales of their tasty treats. Details: www.carolinachocolatefestival.com. Gloucester Mardi Gras. Get a feel for the Mississippi Delta with gumbo, dance and music in Down East Carteret County. Held at the Gloucester Community Center. Details: www.unknowntongues.com.

MARCH

Emerald Isle St. Patrick’s Festival. More than 75 arts and crafts and food vendors join clowns, live music, static displays and amusement rides, to form this seaside town’s largest annual event. Details: www.emeraldislestpatricksfestival.com.

APRIL

Beaufort Wine and Food Weekend. Tantalizing food and wine combine to make this annual fundraiser a favorite with locals and visitors alike. Details: www.beaufortwineandfood.com. New Bern Historic Homes & Gardens Tour. Some of the town’s privately owned historic homes open their doors and welcome guests to help raise funds for the Historical Society. Details: www.newbernhistorical.org. Newport Pig Cookin’ Contest. Celebrate North Carolina barbecue at the nation’s largest whole hog barbecue in the Town of Old Fashioned Courtesy. Details: www.newportpigcooking.com.

MAY

Beaufort Music Festival. Historic Beaufort celebrates all genres of music over two days on two outdoor stages. Details: www.beaufortmusicfestival.com. Wooden Boat Show. More than 50 wooden boats are on exhibit each year in Beaufort, along with demonstrations and hands-on workshops for professional boat builders. Details: www.ncmaritimemuseums.com.

JUNE

Beaufort Old Homes and Gardens Tour. Explore beautifully-restored historic homes, gardens, churches, artist studios and public buildings throughout Beaufort thanks to the Beaufort Historical Association.The program’s Antique Show & Sale runs concurrently at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, Morehead City. Details: www.beauforthistoricsite.org. Big Rock Blue Marlin Tournament. The popular tournament brings fun and excitement to the Morehead City waterfront for one of the largest sport-fishing events in the country and a purse that tops $1 million. Details: www.thebigrock.com.

JULY

Barta Boys and Girls Club Billfish Tournament. This

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Classy Chassis Car Show. More than 175 vintage vehicles and antique tractors converge on Popular Grove Plantation in Hampstead for this annual show. Details: www.poplargrove.org.

AUGUST

Outer Banks Wildlife Shelter’s Sand Sculpting Contest. Held at The Atlantis Lodge in Pine Knoll Shores, participants are invited to spend a day on the beach playing in the sand to raise money for wildlife rescue. Details: 252-240-1200. Beaufort Pirate Invasion. Marauding pirates recreate the historical invasion of Beaufort, complete with parades, costume contests, live music, demonstrations, food, grog and the trial that brought them to justice. Details: www.beauforthistoricsite.org.

SEPTEMBER

Cycling for the Coast. Celebrate National Estuaries Day with a ride along beautiful Bogue Banks to raise funds for the NC Coastal Federation. Funds raised will benefit the federation’s restoration and protection projects. Details: www.nccoast.org.

OCTOBER

Carolina Kite Fest. Colorful kites take over the Circle in Atlantic Beach with activities for the whole family. Details: www.kites-birdstuff.com. Mum Fest. New Bern blossoms with this chrysanthemumbased festival – a weekend celebration of flowers, entertainment, great food, amusement rides, vendors, and of course, good old-fashioned Southern hospitality. Details: www.mumfest.com. NC Seafood Festival. The second largest festival in the state draws visitors to Morehead City to celebrate its bountiful seafood. Enjoy vendors selling seafood specialties of every kind imaginable, arts and crafts, souvenirs, amusement rides and live entertainment. Details: www.ncseafoodfestival.org.

NOVEMBER

Civil War Weekend. Step into the Civil War as Tryon Palace remembers the birth of James City and the participation of the US Colored Troops stationed in New Bern. Details: www.tryonpalace.org.

DECEMBER

Core Sound Decoy Festival. More than 90 exhibitors display and sell decoys and waterfowl artifacts at Harkers Island Elementary School on Harkers Island. Details: www. decoyguild.com. Waterfowl Weekend. The Core Sound Waterfowl Museum and Heritage Center opens its doors with a full slate of traditional, down-home fun. Expect decoy carvers with their wares, educational exhibits, competitions, arts and crafts and plenty of food. Details: 252-728-1500. Holiday Flotillas. Each Christmas, the residents along the Crystal Coast celebrate the season with their own personal style. Boats decked out in Christmas finery participate in these floating parades in Swansboro and cruise past the Morehead City and Beaufort waterfronts at sunset.

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provide access to the beach and a hub for planning, but it provides lodging for the wedding party, access to restroom facilities, plenty of room to get ready and an ideal site to hold the reception that follows. Many rental agencies offer wedding and event planning services on-site, making it easier than ever for the bride to enjoy a stress-free wedding. Most agencies maintain a list of event-friendly home rentals.

Tryon Palace

Located in New Bern, this centerpiece of the colonies was recreated in the 1950s and opened as a museum. Various locations on the grounds are available for special events. To learn more, visit www.tryonpalace.org.

Whitford Plantation

This grand waterfront plantation in New Bern provides an elegant setting for any special affair. Packages are available to help take the guess work out of planning the big day as well as on-site coordination.Visit www.whitfordplantation.com.

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If you’re creating your perfect event, you’re going to need a little help – whether it’s rental linens or a fully-equipped tent. The following are area event suppliers ready to help you bring together a day you’ll never forget. Chair & Equipment Rentals www.chairandequipmentrentals.com Country-Aire Rentals, Inc. www.countryairerental.com Crystal Coast Tent & Event Rentals www.crystalcoasteventrentals.com Island Essentials www.islandessentials.com

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While this area certainly lends itself easily to a picture perfect beach wedding, outdoor events aren’t exclusive to the sand. Whether under the trees in the woods or dipping your toes in the sand, outdoor weddings require some extra thought and insight. There’s quite a bit more involved in an outdoor wedding and it can be more expensive. A bride must have realistic expectations and be thoughtful of her guests when planning to make it official outside. The weather is arguably the most important consideration for an outdoor wedding. Flexibility is a must, as is a back-up plan. Whether it be transitioning indoors to the reception area or ordering a tent just in case, be prepared for inclement weather situations. Aside from the threat of rain, the temperature outside should be taken into consideration. For a summer wedding, make programs in the shape of fans or provide umbrellas for older guests while they sit in the sun. Have bottled water on hand and have an area in the shade where guests can wait before the ceremony begins. If seated too early, guests can get hot and uncomfortable. For the colder months, rent portable heaters to keep guests warm. Stock up on blankets and wraps to hand out and ask the caterer about setting up a hot chocolate and coffee stand before the ceremony. Accessibility is important for elderly and guests with children. Getting down to a beach can be difficult, especially if there isn’t a handicap accessible access.This can prove difficult for those with walkers, wheelchairs or strollers. The same applies to weddings in wooded areas. Uneven trails can trip up guests and prove to be a problem for anything with wheels. For a ceremony away from the beach and in the woods, be aware of snakes, ticks, spiders and mosquitoes. Have bug spray available for guests and comb the area beforehand for any spider webs or reptiles. Food has to remain covered to keep insects and the elements out. Check wooded areas for holes, roots and hills. It can also be tricky setting up tables and chairs on uneven ground. While seclusion makes for a romantic setting, there are some things that you can’t go without. Access to electricity may be problematic if the outdoor wedding isn’t near an existing structure. Electricity is needed for music equipment, lights and chafing dishes for food. If the wedding takes place away from an indoor location, you’re going to need to rent portable bathrooms along with the tables, chairs, tents, utensils and linens rather than having a venue that provides them. Brides will also have to decide where to walk in from and how guests will enter. Beach houses have made this decision easier, but an entrance or walkway may have to be created. Wind noise can be a factor in being able to hear the officiant and music. While sunset pictures are nice, it can be difficult to capture that moment. Schedule the ceremony to begin an hour or two before sunset so you can get the photos you want. Let the photographer know that the wedding will be outside so he or she can be prepared. Make sure to let guests know that it’s an outdoor wedding. Include it in the invitations so they can dress appropriately. When having a beach wedding, if shoes are optional, include that as well. But be careful – in the summer months, sand can get quite toasty. With some careful planning, an outdoor wedding can be worth the extra time. At least money can be saved on decorations since the setting is enough.

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Eastern North Carolina brides have a variety of options for gathering the information needed to begin planning their big day. Bridal shows can play a big role in that planning. At a limited cost, brides can gather information on vendors, venues, caterers, photographers and more, all under one roof. It can be overwhelming – but it can also be a lot of fun and a great way to get started. If the dates for the shows below have already lapsed, you can be sure that these recurring shows will be held again next year at around the same time, and usually in the same place. Here is a list of bridal shows in our area in 2014: • Jan. 11: Crystal Coast Bridal Fair. In its 21st year, this event sponsored by Pam’s Specialized Catering at the Crystal Coast Civic Center, Morehead City, features more than 50 vendors as well as a fashion show. For more information, visit crystalcoastbridalfair.com. • Jan. 11: Stella York Trunk Show. From 10am-5pm, the Wedding Elf Boutique in Morehead City offers this perfect opportunity to check out the latest in bridal fashions. Call 252-648-8889 for more information. • Jan. 17-18: Crystal Coast Wedding Salon. Organized by Crystal Coast Brides magazine, this annual event puts a new twist on bridal shows by escorting guests to various venue locations around Carteret County. Vendors set up at the Coral Bay Club, while the after party is held that evening at the NC Aquarium. To learn more visit crystalcoastweddingsalon. com. • Feb. 2: New Bern Bridal Expo. Held at the New Bern Riverfront Convention Center, this annual undertaking offers the perfect opportunity to get to know the area’s vendors. To learn more, call 252-637-1551. • March 1-2: Onslow Bridal Gala. Held at the Jacksonville Commons Recreation Center, this popular annual show features a variety of vendors and a bridal shop. To learn more, call 910-3473141. (continued on page 24)

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What Goes Around, Comes Around

They say everything old is new again and that certainly rings true when it comes to wedding planning, where just about everything old is ridiculously cool these days. Vintage is hot – from fashion to décor – and it’s an easy trend to incorporate into weddings or any special occasion. Our favorite thing about vintage is that it’s not about having things that match as much as it is about having things that are old. Mix-matched wooden chairs in the same shade can easily replace the standard rental folder. In the right setting, even mix-matched china and glassware can look elegant, it’s all in how it’s presented. Old doors on saw horses make a wide, functional table, easily softened with a burlap and lace runner. Milk crates can hold champagne bottles and old frames can present the menu. The only rule is that it’s old. And we have plenty of that in Eastern North Carolina. With the region’s history, a lot of the items brides are looking for may be Worried about how you’re going to afford your portion of the wedding AND the found easiest in their grandmother’s honeymoon? Nothing can make the wallet feel thinner than planning a wedding. Never attic. Old trunks, baskets, crates, jars, fear – honeyfund.com is on task, taking the guesswork out of wedding gift buying for crystal and serving trays are not only your guests and ensuring that some of the burden is removed from that well-deserved decorative, they’re available, which honeymoon. is even better in our book. We’ve The free honeymoon registry allows couples to plan out where they want to go even seen a table runner made out and exactly what they want to do during their adventure, with a cost breakdown for of computer printed antique photos. each activity. Gift givers then log on to the site, choose where they want to contribute, Very cool – and very affordable pull off. and with the wave of a magic mouse, the honeymoon decreases bit by bit. For example Happy decorating! if a couple is planning a trip to the mountains and wants to experience a zip line course while they’re there. They research the cost, put it on the site, and wait for a taker. Guests can pay directly through the site via paypal, they can write the couple a check or they can purchase gift certificates for the item they want to contribute.

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Déjà vu often feels appropriate when it comes to viewing bridal fashions coming down the runway show after show. Don’t let all of that blur of tulle and lace fool you. On closer view, favored designers wowed us with distinctively refreshing styles infused with exciting interpretations that rarely disappointed. The lure of lace was in the forefront as an element experiencing a continued resurgence. In fact, it almost felt like a love affair. Heidi Elnora went “mod” this season with a collection filled with intricate lacy patterns, flirty organza ruffles, floral detailing and hand-screened Italian jacquard. Adored features included the Lala Phillips lace box top that slipped easily over several offered silhouettes as a layered feature. Layering Chantilly and guipure, silk and vintage laces with flowers and delicate beaded details, Clair Pettibone threw it all into the mix, creating stunning textures for her heirloom collection. Using “decoupage” (meaning “to cut” in French) as an old art reference for assembling and laying paper cutouts, she deftly created a visual feast of unique treatments that charmed us from entrance to exit. For spring 2014, Anne Barge was inspired by the couture and architectural romance of the past, including Parisian Couturier Pierre Balmain. Her silhouettes combined his sophisticated elegance with the soft pastels and sense of lightness of Impressionist painter Claude Monet, offering a classic, timeless collection. “I’m trying to reinvent the use of lace,” said designer Kelly Faetanini at her spring 2014 presentation. Referring to the “old world charm” of silver guipure, she embraced a modern take by re-embroidering it with silk satin ribbon to freshen things up. “I don’t want my ‘vintage look’ to appear dated.” Event the soft effect of her Chantilly lace silhouettes, in keeping with her “Midnight in Paris” inspiration, felt oh so chic and feminine. Unique textures and timeless style appeared in Romona Keveza’s “Passage through Time” Collection. Elegance and refinement blended easily, fusing the history of yesteryear – Victoriana to Hollywood glamour – with the mystery of the millennium and the future. An adoring audience gave her high praise as offering one of the best shows during New York Fashion Week.

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Mindful of his mission to “Educate, Elevate and Empower” a bride to choose the perfect dress for her wedding day and to realize her own personal beauty, fashion and beauty guru Randy Fenoli continues to touch lives. After teaching himself to sew at the age of 9, winning prestigious awards for his achievements in bridal design at the Fashion Institute of Technology and consulting thousands of brides a year, Fenoli has earned the title of ultimate and all-knowing source in the bridal industry. He took time out of his busy schedule of motivating brides around the country and starring in TLC’s “Say Yes to the Dress” and “Randy to the Rescue” to chat with Kim Wadsworth, editor of Vow Bride, our sister publication in Norfolk,Va., about Randy Rules, purchasing the perfect gown and how every bride can look and feel beautiful on her big day.

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bridal gown industry intimately from the inside out after working in it for more than 20 years. What is one of the most important pieces of advice about selecting a wedding gown that you share with brides? Randy Fenoli: The most important thing to consider when deciding on your wedding gown is to ask yourself which gown makes you feel the most beautiful. When you look in the mirror, you should not be thinking “this dress is beautiful.” You should be thinking “I am beautiful.” KW: What gave you a kick start in the bridal gown business? RF: When I was a student at the Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT) I won a bridal design contest where one of the judges was Vivian Dessy-Diamond. Weeks before graduation, she phoned my dorm and offered me a job designing for The Diamond Collection with my name on the label. Just a few months after graduation, my first collection was shown down the runway. That was the beginning of my 20-year career in bridal.

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most important, day in a woman’s life is her wedding day. To be able to share in this event and help a woman feel confident of her selection of

KW: How do you recommend brides approach purchasing a gown?

What are some hard and fast rules about where to start? RF: A bride should define her story and establish a plan. A bride needs to determine ‘what type of bride do you want to be and what type of couple are you and your fiancé?’ After you know your story, establish a budget, decide on your venue, determine the season for your wedding, etc. The answers to these questions help establish your plan for choosing the perfect gown. Most importantly, keep an open mind. The perfect gown is out there for every woman, but limiting your options may keep you from finding it.

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KW: Brides are frustrated by budgets and sticking with them.

When tempted by more expensive gowns, how do you suggest they stay on track? RF: A bride should craft her budget carefully and spend money on the things that are important to her.You should be flexible within your budget, but not with your budget. For example, if you have allotted a certain amount for a gown but find the gown of your dreams that is slightly over that budget, maybe you could cut

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some of the budget from the flowers, decorations or something else. There are a lot of ways to save money on weddings today. However, be careful or the only thing you will love in the end will be the price. KW: I’m sure you have many cautionary tales about how things can go

bad when choosing a wedding gown. What is one of your Randy Rules for indecisive or picky brides? RF: I don’t believe brides can really be too picky unless they are asking for something that is unrealistic. For example, a bride looking for a real French lace gown for under $1,000 is being unrealistic. Real lace is fairly expensive. When I have a bride who is having trouble choosing between two gowns, I simply ask her which gown makes her feel the most beautiful. She will carry herself with confidence and will radiate beauty from within. A wedding gown is probably the most important garment that a woman will ever wear and probably the most money she will ever spend on a dress, so I feel a bride has the right to be a little fussy when choosing her gown. KW: What are the hottest trends in wedding gowns for 2013? RF: The trends I noticed the most were gowns with gorgeous, dramatic backs, straps and sleeves.There was a huge influence from “The Great Gatsby” movie. I saw gowns that looked like they stepped out of the 20s, 30s, 40s and 50s. Gowns with dimension, texture, ruffles and movement were everywhere! Bottom line, there is something for every bride out there. KW: Is there a bridal gown style that is universally flattering? RF: No. Every dress is cut differently and every person is shaped dif-

ferently. I would not want to generalize and say that a certain style or silhouette looks flattering on everyone. It’s true that more people can wear an A-line silhouette and that a mermaid gown is more difficult to pull off. However, you also need to consider the neckline, waistline and details of the dress. You never know how a certain dress or silhouette will look on you until you’ve tried it on.

KW: Tell us about the inspiration behind your show “Randy to the Res-

cue” and what you hope brides will take away from it. RF: So many brides contact me wishing they could come to New York for me to help them find the perfect gown. So I thought, if they can’t come to me, I will go to them. To accomplish this, I would bring the dresses to them via a semi-truck! I also wanted to show brides the “full picture” of how they could complete their bridal day look with hair, makeup and accessories. I call this their “Head to Hem” makeover. My mission with anything that I do is to elevate, educate and empower. I truly believe that every bride is beautiful and my hope is that these brides will walk away from this experience with the knowledge that they are beautiful. KW: We know you are all about brides, so tell us what they can learn

from the book “It’s All About the Dress.” RF: The very reason I wrote this book was to help guide a bride through the sometimes daunting process of finding a gown. “It’s All About the Dress” educates the bride by giving her all the essential information she needs to be empowered to make the perfect gown choice without overwhelming her with too much information like so many books out there seem to do. I’m proud that the “models” I used in the book are real brides. The brides range in age from their 20s to 60s and in size from size 2 to size 22. I wanted brides to realize you don’t have to be a runway model or in your 20s to look beautiful on your wedding day. KW: Why women? Why wedding dress? What makes you so passionate

about what you do? RF: One of the most important, if not the most important, day in a woman’s life is her wedding day. To be able to share in this event and help a woman feel confident of her selection of gown and to help her feel beautiful is such a special thing. I am the luckiest man alive.

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Flowers and arrangements are a focus point of weddings, literally. From centerpieces, to bouquets, to boutonnieres and down the aisle, flowers are there to be seen. Pick wisely, and keep your budget in mind. While it has become increasingly easier for florists to obtain just about any flower year round, ignoring what is in season can be the quickest route to running up a large florist bill. Try to choose flowers that are readily available year round and in North Carolina like roses, lilies, snap dragons and carnations. Some of the popular flowers that can be restricted by seasons are peonies and irises. If you want any of these in your bouquet or centerpieces, make sure they’re in season and your budget will thank you later. Traditional and vintage themes are in this year. Use burlap, lace and mason jars in centerpieces and decorations for a casual feel at the reception. Continue the theme by wrapping bouquets with burlap and using cotton for boutonnieres. For the flowers, use something more traditional like Baby’s Breath, gypsophila, sunflowers and hydrangeas. These choices will make your event a little old-fashioned, but surely timeless. There are other options to flowers that can add a personal touch to your wedding, while also saving some money. Pages from a favorite book folded into flowers are perfect for the avid reader or writer, while a bouquet made of antique brooches or small lockets with pictures of family members is great for a bride who wants a personal touch. Boutonnieres can also be personalized, and it’s an easy way to get some of the groom’s personality in the accents.Take inspiration from his hobbies and come up with something unique to pin on his lapel on the big day. Just remember you never pin a boutonniere on a military uniform. Alternate centerpieces can include tall glass vases filled with sand and shells, or water and floating candles. Citrus is an easy way to add color without using flowers, with the added bonus that it smells fresh.

Keep it Fresh To keep from straining the budget, try to find flowers that are in season for your wedding. Seasonal southern favorites include:

Spring

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Summer

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Fall

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Going Alternative There are some crafty alternatives to flowers that can still keep you wedding on trend this season. Buttons – Buttons come in a variety of different colors and shapes and can be pinned or sewn into a bouquet or boutonnieres Brooches – For some sparkle make a bouquet out of antique brooches either collected or passed down through the generations Paper – Take old love letters or book pages and fold them to make a unique bouquet or boutonnieres Shells – This is the coast, after all. Use seashells as boutonnieres or part of centerpieces for a beachy feel Citrus – For some added color at the reception without breaking the bank, add lemons, limes or oranges to clear vases for centerpieces

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Don’t leave out a loved one when picking up flowers for the big day. Bouquets – Bride, bridesmaids, maid of honor, bride’s toss bouquet. Boutonniere – Groom, best man, ushers, bride’s father, groom’s father, grandfathers, ring bearer Corsages – Mother of the bride, mother of the groom, grandmothers. Extras – Petals for the flower girl, a corsage for anyone participating in the ceremony.

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The slicked back up-do is no longer the norm in weddings. Trade in the gel and curling iron for volumizing spray and hot rollers to get on board with the newest trend of soft, romantic locks for the big day. Get a trim about a month away from the wedding date. This allows enough time for hair to grow back into its natural shape. If you’re dead set on a long hair look for the wedding, commit to growing out your hair early on. If a shorter length is more your style, it is simple enough to adapt some of the latest trends for your wedding look. As one would suspect, curls continue to be a goto style for weddings. But the curly prom style up-dos aren’t the way to go anymore. Stick with looser curls and waves instead of tight spirals. Long hair opens the door for a variety of different styles. For a romantic look, stick with loose curls. Make curls look sexier by opting for a sleek, side swept style instead. Update the traditional up-do by incorporating braids. While a bun is a staple for a glamorous wedding, trade it in for either a low ponytail or a loose French braid. Another option is to braid the hair, then pin it into a bun for a new take on the classic look. With medium hair, you can easily fake shorter hair styles. Go with a faux bob or a simple low up-do to go with any wedding dress. Use a headband to add some sparkle and keep flyaway strands in place all night long. For short hair, it’s all about the accessories. Style short hair as you would any other normal day, and add a studded barrette or decorated hair pins that match your dress. Hairpieces are versatile and easy to use. Get a hairstylist to add extensions for some added length, or use a braided hairpiece or fake bun to complete your style. If a veil is being used, that can dictate hairstyle options. The style should be able to hide the comb of the veil. Make sure accessories don’t clash with the look of the veil. For those with short hair, a birdcage veil adds an air of old Hollywood glamour to any look. If a veil isn’t being used, take advantage of fresh flowers as accessories. Use a single large flower to accent a simple side ponytail or add several smaller flow-

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ers to the up-do for a splash of color. Added bonus – fresh flowers smell nice. When deciding on a hair style for your wedding, ask for a test run. Keep the style in place for several hours to make sure it will hold up throughout the ceremony and reception. You don’t want to wait until the day-of to decide the style you wanted doesn’t look right with the dress or accessories. Find a stylist who’s willing to help you decide on a look. Be prepared with a few styles you like, and keep an open mind.

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Taste

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While Southern style is evident in recent wedding trends like burlap and mason jars, it’s Southern food that is really making a mark. From rehearsal dinners to the main course during the reception, Southern staples are being utilized and upgraded. There’s no denying that Southern food is reminiscent of comfort and family, which makes it perfect for a celebration that brings people together. “I think especially when people are from out of town and they come here, they come here expecting Southern food. Some people just want a touch of Southern,” said Kerri Sommer, caterer with Floyd’s 1921, which specializes in Southern food with flair. Southern food has been transformed to fit a variety of reception formats, from plated dinners to buffets to heavy hors d’oeuvres.The type of format you choose depends on how much Southern food you want, whether it takes up the entire menu or just a sampling mixed with other favorites. Stations at the reception are a great way to include a few Southern dishes without alienating guests that don’t share your love for it. Stations make the reception more like a big, long cocktail hour where the stations are spread out across the room, allowing for more mingling. Include just one Southern station, and give varying options in the other dishes. If Southern food doesn’t fit with the theme or tone of the wedding, consider including it in the rehearsal dinner. If you want to include some Eastern North Carolina favorites on your wedding menu, talk to your caterer about options. Sommer said she’s made shrimp and grits, fried green tomatoes, and coastal favorites like seafood, oysters, gumbo and jambalaya. For a more community feel to a reception, try a clam bake or low country boil. Seafood lovers have many menu choices and using local seafood may actually help save money. Area restaurants and caterers often specialize in fresh seafood dishes, so ask for seasonal menu options. It’s common for a couple to want to include some family or hometown tradition in the food. Talk to your caterer and come up with the best menu to suit you and your guests. When looking for the right caterer, start the search early. Book around a year in advance, especially if the wedding falls during the busy summer months. Make plans for the bridal luncheon or bridal shower early if you plan on having a caterer or a private event at a restaurant. Sommer said that brides should know what she wants from a caterer

and a price point to go on when meeting vendors. Feel free to bring your bridal or planning book that you have used throughout the process. Helpful information to have on hand is a headcount, colors and any other little detail that could contribute to food or presentation at the reception. While interviewing caterers, gather information about the company’s service, quality of the food and ask if the caterer has experience cooking without a kitchen, which is often the case with weddings. Ask for pictures of previous events on a similar scale and be sure to ask about their prices. Private tastings are a great way to judge the food quality and presentation. Make sure you know when a final head count is required, how much of a deposit is needed and when it must be paid. Be clear on when the final bill needs to be settled. When the caterer does give you a quote, ask what’s included. Most caterers have vendor to vendor relationships that can pay off for you in the long run.The quote may include linens and utensils from a separate vendor, but they work together to get you what you need on your wedding day.

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It happens in a flash – quite literally. Before you know it, the vows have been said, the bouquet has been tossed and the father/daughter dance is but a memory as you begin your new life with your partner.The one tangible thread that keeps those memories close to the heart for years to come is the photos and video captured on your special day. Never has it been more important to choose the right photographer for an event. Graduation photos can be retaken if the shoot is a bust. Wedding photos cannot. That means they have to be done right the first time around. And as the bride, it’s a task that often falls upon your shoulders. Keep it professional. Just about everyone has a friend or a family member who is good with a camera, but this is one of those days when a trained professional should be behind the lens. It’s also one of those times when the bride and groom shouldn’t be afraid to ask questions – even the hard ones, like do you have a backup available if you’re out of commission that day and are there any hidden costs. While questions are important, many brides find that have to trust their gut when it comes to choosing wedding vendors. While searching for the right photographer, don’t be embarrassed to let personality play a role. From getting ready for the ceremony through the end of the reception, the photographer will be an integral part of your wedding day – and it will be so much more pleasant for everyone if it’s someone whose personality gels with your own. No one wants to feel like they’re being stalked during one of the most important days of their lives. A good wedding photographer should be able to sneak in and out of the crowd throughout the event without affecting the activity about them.

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Questions to Ask • Always ask to view a portfolio of event photographs, including an entire wedding. • Do you have references I can contact? • How long have you been in business? • How long has the photographer worked in the area? Experience brings added insight into the area’s best photo locations and times. • How would you describe your photography style? • Ask about rates – and get them in writing. • What time frame does your rate cover? • Ask about set photo packages and if they include a CD or DVD. Also ask for the rights to the images for reproduction – some photographers hand them over, and others may charge for this. • Ask to see the photographer’s shot list and compare it to the images you want to capture. • Can you provide a list of specific shots? Is there an additional fee for this? • Are you familiar with the venue? • Do you have a contingency plan if something happens to your gear or a back up photographer if you are sick? • Do you come alone, or do you have an assistant on the day of the event? • How soon after the wedding will my proofs and/or prints be available?

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Music for the ceremony and reception is not usually the first thing couples decide on when planning a wedding. Although the kind of music the guests hear can determine the ambiance and feel of the entire wedding. From the sounds that play while people are being seated down to the background music during the best man’s speech at the reception, music matters and should not be a last minute decision. For the ceremony, the venue can dictate what kind of music is accessible. This really isn’t an issue with indoor weddings. However, outdoor weddings can get complicated.The lack of electricity may require more planning and logistics. Decide early on what source of music you want, be it a string quartet or a DJ, and make sure it’s feasible for the venue. As for the actual songs, choices are abundant. For a traditional feel, go with the classic wedding march or any of its slightly different variations. Don’t be afraid to try something a little different, if it fits. There are some great instrumental tracks out there that still have the feel of a traditional wedding, but aren’t exactly the same old song everyone has heard before. Choose your favorite, with or without the words. Regardless of how traditional or different

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Songs need to be chosen for a variety of special moments during the ceremony. When making your list, don’t forget songs for: • When the guests arrive and leave the ceremony • The bride’s walk down the aisle • When the wedding party leaves the ceremony • The first dance • Father/daughter dance • Mother/son dance • Cutting of the cake • Bouquet and garter tosses • Background music for speeches

the ceremony is, pick a song to walk down the aisle to that reflects the tone of the wedding. The reception is an entirely different story. The main choice to make is whether to hire a band or a DJ. “Make sure you listen to them ahead of time and talk to other people that have had them for weddings,” warns wedding planner Amy Otis. While a band can be personal and special, they also come with artistic license. A band my not play your favorite song like you hear it on the radio. A band is typically more costly and you’ll need a little more room for them to spread out and set up. If using a band, book them early and give them plenty of time to learn any songs that must be played at the reception, like the first dance song. While DJ’s are easily customizable to individual tastes, it’s important to get the right person for the job. If the DJ is supposed to emcee the reception as well as play the music, that person needs the personality to fit the bill. When looking for a DJ, be sure to give details on exactly what you want. If you want to make your own playlist, ask when you need to have the list finished. You will also need to make a decision about requests.With a DJ, guests will inevitably make requests for songs that you may not want played. Come to an agreement with the vendor about any songs or artists that shouldn’t be considered, and give the DJ a timeline for events like the first dance and the bouquet toss.

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